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Dr Justin Coulson\'s Happy FamiliesDr Justin Coulson's Happy Families#1238 - Punished by Rewards With Alfie KohnWe sit down with world-renowned author and speaker Alfie Kohn to explore why traditional discipline methods—punishments and rewards—don’t truly work. We unpack how control-based parenting backfires, what the research says about intrinsic motivation, and how parents can move from “doing things to children” to “working with children” to foster true moral development and connection. KEY POINTS: Punishment teaches power, not morality—it damages relationships and promotes self-interest over empathy. Rewards, including praise and star charts, undermine intrinsic motivation and long-term growth. Both punishments and rewards focus on short-term compliance at th...2025-05-0216 minThe Peaceful Parenting PodcastThe Peaceful Parenting PodcastRaising Reflective Rebels with Alfie Kohn: Episode 192This episode of The Peaceful Parenting Podcast is a conversation with Alfie Kohn, the author of 14 books including Unconditional Parenting and The Myth of the Spoiled Child. The work of Alfie Kohn has been one of the biggest influences on how I parent and why I have dedicated my career to being a Peaceful Parenting Coach. We discuss why people have always thought parents are too permissive, the nuance involved in “working with” our kids, and why we need to raise reflective rebels who question what they are told. We talk about: 7:00 Why people think we a...2025-04-3030 minThe Art of Raising HumansThe Art of Raising HumansBeyond Rewards and Punishment: A Conversation with Alfie Kohn (Episode 157)In this thought-provoking episode, Kyle and Sara Wester sit down with renowned author and speaker Alfie Kohn—a powerful voice challenging traditional ideas about parenting, discipline, education, and motivation. Alfie doesn’t hold back as he dives into the unintended consequences of using rewards, punishments, and even praise with children. His insights, grounded in decades of research, have radically reshaped how countless parents and educators approach behavior and discipline. This conversation is equal parts challenging and inspiring—and yes, it even moved Sara to tears. Why? Bec...2025-04-2834 minThe Ethical FrontierThe Ethical Frontier#63 - The Problem with Standardized Tests | Alfie KohnYou can support me on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/chenphilosophyAlfie Kohn writes and speaks widely on human behavior, education, and parenting. The author of fourteen books and hundreds of articles, he lectures at education conferences and universities as well as to parent groups and corporations.Website: https://www.alfiekohn.org/Summary:According to Kohn, standardized tests assess less meaningful outcomes of an education. He is anti-test but not anti-assessment, assuming the assessments truly measure how much students have learned meaningful lessons and skills. We also discuss why standardized testing is so...2025-04-2726 minMaster of Life Awareness 🧠Master of Life Awareness 🧠"No Contest" by Alfie Kohn - Book PReview - The Case Against CompetitionNo Contest by Alfie Kohn stands as the definitive critique of competition. Contrary to accepted wisdom, competition is not basic to human nature; it poisons our relationships and holds us back from doing our best. In this new edition, Alfie Kohn argues that the race to win turns all of us into losers.The Case Against Competition"No Contest" by Alfie Kohn Book PReviewBook of the Week - BOTW - Season 8 Book 10Buy the book on Amazon https://amzn.to/4kKwWKjGET...2025-03-1224 minTeach Me, TeacherTeach Me, TeacherGreatest Hits: Beyond Grades, Rewards, and Standardized Testing with Alfie KohnHello everyone! Today, I am releasing what I believe is the most important podcast in the history of the show. Not only is it filled with honest and real world talk, it is filled with research based advice and insight from one of the premier thinkers on education today. In this episode, I sit down with Alfie Kohn and discuss a range of topics, such as why grading hurts more than it helps, why rewards do more harm than good, and why the testing obsession leads to bad teaching. I consider these the three p...2025-03-1244 minEmotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie PintoEmotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto76: The Legendary Alfie Kohn on Time-Outs, Accidental Manipulation and 'Motivating' Kids.Ok - big moment you guys. I’m excited (and somewhat embarrassed!) to share this special conversation with you—one that originally aired back in 2022 in my Facebook community Let's Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids.Looking back, I can’t help but cringe! I was SO nervous and excited to be speaking with the universal expert on parenting, education, and human behaviour: Alfie Kohn.Let’s just say I wasn’t as polished or professional as I am now… but the insights and wisdom? They’re just as powerful today as they were then.Alfie...2025-02-2334 minThe Whole Parent PodcastThe Whole Parent PodcastHow to Not Raise a Nazi (with Alfie Kohn).... #39Key Links:📖 Get My Book: Punishment-Free Parenting: The Brain-Based Way to Raise Kids Without Raising Your Voice – Available Now📖 Get Alfie Kohn's Books: Unconditional Parenting and Punished By Rewards  📝 Join My Email List for exclusive insights, parenting tips, and updates – Sign Up HereEpisode Description:What if the very thing we’ve been striving for as parents—obedience—wasn’t actually a virtue? What if, instead of making our kids good, it made them vulnerable?In this episode, we tak...2025-02-2036 minLEARN PodcastsLEARN PodcastsShiftED Podcast #49 In Conversation with Alfie Kohn: Transforming Education Through Cooperation and EmpathySend us a textCan “traditional" education methods be doing more harm than good? Join us for a thought-provoking conversation with renowned author and lecturer Alfie Kohn, as he challenges the status quo of grading and memorization, advocating for a shift towards fostering cooperation, altruism, and empathy in our schools. Alfie reflects on his own unremarkable schooling experience to highlight how ingrained practices often overshadow the deeper educational objectives we should aim for. By questioning whether current methods align with our long-term goals for children, Alfie inspires us to consider the potential for reimagining education to cultivate cr...2025-02-1228 minEveryday AnarchismEveryday Anarchism131. The Case Against Competition -- Alfie KohnI'm joined by Alfie Kohn to discuss No Contest: The Case Against Competition, his 1986 book about how competition hurts rather than helps people do their best. We cover the problem with grades, the reason why excellence and competition are opposed, and whats wrong with rewards and what makes awards even worse.For more from Alfie, check out his website:https://www.alfiekohn.org/ 2024-08-2837 minBustED PencilsBustED PencilsOverloaded with Alfie KohnIn this enlightening episode, join Dr. Tim Slecker and Dr. Johnny Lupinacci as they engage with renowned progressive educator Alfie Kohn to dismantle the concept of cognitive load in education. Through a spirited dialogue, Kohn critiques traditional educational methods that prioritize direct instruction and memorization over inquiry-based, progressive learning. This discussion not only challenges conventional wisdom but also offers a fresh perspective on how cognitive load theory has been misapplied to diminish the effectiveness of progressive education approaches. Listeners will gain insights into the importance of active learning and how it fosters deeper understanding and long-term retention...2024-03-1245 minBustED PencilsBustED PencilsOverloaded with Alfie KohnIn this enlightening episode, join Dr. Tim Slecker and Dr. Johnny Lupinacci as they engage with renowned progressive educator Alfie Kohn to dismantle the concept of cognitive load in education. Through a spirited dialogue, Kohn critiques traditional educational methods that prioritize direct instruction and memorization over inquiry-based, progressive learning. This discussion not only challenges conventional wisdom but also offers a fresh perspective on how cognitive load theory has been misapplied to diminish the effectiveness of progressive education approaches. Listeners will gain insights into the importance of active learning and how it fosters deeper understanding and long-term retention...2024-03-1245 minKPFA - CounterSpinKPFA - CounterSpinAlfie Kohn, Diane Ravitch and Kevin Kumashiro on EducationThis week on CounterSpin: It is back to school week in the US. Schools—pre-K to college—have been on the front burner for at least a year now, but education has always been a contested field in this country: Who has access? What does it teach? What is its purpose? Do my kids have to go to school with those kids? So while what’s happening right now is new, it has roots. And it does no disservice to the battles of the current day to connect them to previous battles and conversations, and that’s what we’...2023-09-0329 minGetting2AlphaGetting2AlphaAlfie Kohn: Thriving Beyond CompetitionAlfie Kohn is an American author and lecturer in education, parenting, and human behavior. The author of fourteen books and hundreds of articles, he is a proponent of progressive education and a strong critic of competition and rewards. Kohn has been described by Time magazine as “perhaps the country’s most outspoken critic of education’s fixation on grades [and] test scores.”Check out the video here: https://youtu.be/Jqcw_0v8ooE2023-08-2429 minAnySchoolersAnySchoolersAn Interview with Alfie KohnVanessa Knight interviews Alfie Kohn. Show Notes: Resources by Alfie Kohn: https://www.alfiekohn.org/ Census Data on Homeschooling by State: https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2021/03/homeschooling-on-the-rise-during-covid-19-pandemic.html More information on AnySchoolers https://www.anyschoolers.com/i-m-new-here   2023-07-2532 minTeacher RockStar PodcastTeacher RockStar PodcastPunished by Rewards with Guest Speaker Alfie Kohn: #140Alfie Kohn writes and speaks widely on human behavior, education, and parenting. The most recent of his 14 books are SCHOOLING BEYOND MEASURE…And Other Unorthodox Essays About Education (2015) and THE MYTH OF THE SPOILED CHILD: Challenging the Conventional Wisdom About Children and Parenting (2014).  Of his earlier titles, the best known are PUNISHED BY REWARDS (1993), NO CONTEST: The Case Against Competition (1986), UNCONDITIONAL PARENTING (2005), and THE SCHOOLS OUR CHILDREN DESERVE (1999). In this episode Mr. Kohn talks about the theory and research as discussed in his book, Punished by Rewards.  To Contact Alfie Kohn visit: www.alfiekohn.org 2023-07-1933 minSimple WondersSimple Wonders14 | Punished By Rewards with Alfie KohnCharlotte Mason advised that we shouldn’t use external motivators  to make children learn. She said “[grades], prizes, places, rewards, punishments, praise, blame, or other inducements are not necessary to secure attention, which is voluntary, immediate and surprisingly perfect” without them. ( A Philosophy of Education, p. 7.) But is this true today? Are rewards really that bad? How will our kids behave and learn if we don’t give them a little incentive to motivate them? And what can we do instead? To help answer these questions I’ve asked Alfie Kohn to chat with me today. Alfie Ko...2023-04-1436 minThe Dad Mindset ShowThe Dad Mindset ShowAlfie Kohn on re-framing parentingIf you haven’t come across Alfie Kohn yet, stop reading this and check out his book Unconditional Parenting. Seriously, go right now, here’s the link.Unconditional Parenting is an absolute game changer when it comes to re-framing how to show up as a parent.I found re-listening to the conversation I had with Alfie back in 2021 super useful so thought I’d re-share it this week.Before Alfie became a parent he had done some initial research that led to a couple of earlier books, including one called Punished by Rewards that f...2023-01-2225 minRaising WildlingsRaising WildlingsUnconditional Parenting with Alfie KohnSend us a textHappy New Year and Welcome back to season 4 of the Raising Wildlings Podcast!In this episode, I get to chat with Alfie Kohn, the author of my all-time favourite parenting book, Unconditional Parenting.👉  Alfie sharesWhat he means by ‘unconditional parenting’What unconditional parenting looks likeWhy we need to ask ourselves hard questions about our motives for wanting our children to behave a certain wayThe downfalls of punishment and what to do instead The counter productive impacts of rewardsThe different harmful methods of control used on childrenT...2023-01-1734 minThe Parental CompassThe Parental Compass[Video] Rewards and Punishments DON’T Work?! (Guest: Alfie Kohn) Episode 115Alfie Kohn is the author of several books including Punished by Rewards and Unconditional Parenting. He joins The Compass to explain how the traditional “do this and you’ll get that” approach to parenting may get temporary compliance by does not help your child long-term. To learn more about Alfie Kohn’s work visit www.alfiekohn.org 2022-12-1421 minThe Parental CompassThe Parental CompassRewards and Punishments DON’T Work?! (Guest: Alfie Kohn) Episode 115Alfie Kohn is the author of several books, including Punished by Rewards and Unconditional Parenting. He joins The Compass to explain how the traditional “do this and you’ll get that” approach to parenting may get temporary compliance by does not help your child long-term. To learn more about Alfie Kohn’s work, visit www.alfiekohn.org 2022-12-1421 minThe Tomorrow List with Rusha ModiThe Tomorrow List with Rusha ModiEp. 31 - Are The Kids Okay? Parenting, Education, and the Flourishing of Children with Alfie KohnAlfie Kohn is an American author and lecturer in the areas of education, parenting, and human behavior. He is a proponent of progressive education and has offered critiques of many traditional aspects of parenting, managing, and American society more generally, drawing in each case from social science research. He lectures widely at universities and to school faculties, parent groups, and corporations. In addition to speaking at staff development seminars and keynoting national education conferences on a regular basis, he conducts workshops for teachers and administrators on various topics.In this interview, Alfie and I discuss how standardized...2022-09-1926 minThe Growth MindsetThe Growth MindsetAlfie Kohn on The Problems with Current Education System, How to Raise Your Kids to be a Leader and The Right Way of TeachingAlfie Kohn is an American author and lecturer in the areas of education, parenting, and human behavior. He is a proponent of progressive education and has offered critiques of many traditional aspects of parenting, managing, and American society more generally, drawing in each case from social science research. In this episode, we talk about "The Issues with Current Education System", "Difference between The Right way of Teaching vs The Wrong", "Right Classrooms vs Wrong", and "How to make Kids curious learners and make leaders for tomorrow", and many more. Interview Breakdown: 1.55 min...2022-08-2232 minAge of Awareness PodcastAge of Awareness PodcastEp. 11 - A Conversation with Author Alfie KohnWe are excited to kick off our second season of episodes with a conversation with author and lecturer Alfie Kohn.  This was a shorter conversation but we covered a lot of ground. Like many of our other conversations here, I think everyone from parents to students, teachers to administrators, and activists to policy makers can get something out of this conversation. We chatted about the topics such as the myth of learning loss, why we should be pushing back against standardized testing, and a quick reflection on his insights and experiences with education reform over t...2022-08-2027 minAware Parenting Stories with Joss GouldenAware Parenting Stories with Joss GouldenEpisode 7: Parenting Without Punishments and Rewards with Alfie KohnToday’s podcast is in 2 parts. In the first part, I was so fortunate to interview Alfie Kohn. Mr Kohn is a writer and speaker who specializes in human behaviour, education and parenting. He is the author of 14 books and hundreds of articles and lectures at education conferences and universities, as well as to parent groups and corporations. Mr Kohn talks today about moving away from an approach to parenting which is based on having power over our children, to one based on working with our children. He explains how research has challenged many of the assumptions about mainstream approaches to...2022-07-2055 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleAnalyzing Motivation: Interview with Alfie KohnFrom www.AlfieKohn.org: Alfie Kohn writes and speaks widely on human behavior, education, and parenting. The author of fourteen books and hundreds of articles, he lectures at education conferences and universities as well as to parent groups and corporations. Kohn’s criticisms of competition and rewards have been widely discussed and debated, and he has been described in Time magazine as “perhaps the country’s most outspoken critic of education’s fixation on grades [and] test scores.”   Listen as I ask Alfie about some of our previous episodes on motivation and my suggestions...2022-07-1827 minTeach Me, TeacherTeach Me, TeacherWhat it Takes to Teach Today with Alfie Kohn — Off Season Day 3 Hello everyone! Today, I am re-releasing what I believe is the one of the most important podcasts in the history of the show. Not only is it filled with honest and real world talk, it is filled with research based advice and insight from one of the premier thinkers on education today. In this episode, I sit down with Alfie Kohn and discuss a range of topics, such as why grading hurts more than it helps, why rewards do more harm than good, and why the testing o...2022-07-1842 minMind Body Parenting Podcast with Shelley ClarkeMind Body Parenting Podcast with Shelley ClarkeUnconditional Parenting with Alfie KohnIn this episode Shelley Clarke chats with Alfie Kohn, a forefather in challenging the conventional wisdom society tells us about children and parenting. Known for his outspoken critic of education’s fixation on grades, test scores along with the parenting paradigm of punishment and rewards, Kohn has helped to shape the thinking of educators — as well as parents the world over.   In this episode you'll learn about:- why punishment and rewards are two sides of the same coin and are damaging to your child's self-esteem- what unconditional love in parenting really looks and feels...2022-04-2037 minThe Dad Mindset ShowThe Dad Mindset ShowAlfie Kohn on how we can nurture happy, ethical, independent, curious problem solving kidsThis episode I chat with Alfie Kohn who is an American author and lecturer in the areas of education, parenting, and human behavior. He is a massive proponent of progressive education and has offered critiques of many traditional aspects of parenting, managing, and society more generally, drawing in each case from social science research.I can’t emphasise enough how helpful Alfie's ideas have been for me as a parent and I hope you thoroughly enjoy this conversation as much as I did. Get full access to The Dad Mindset at www.thedadmindset.com/subscribe2022-02-2625 minNeurodiversity PodcastNeurodiversity PodcastThe Rewards and Punishment Paradox with Alfie KohnThe data tells us rewarding kids for good behavior and punishing them for bad doesn’t work. In fact, it harms relationships. In the education setting and at home, Alfie Kohn says we need to rethink the way we talk to kids, and how we help them learn behavioral skills, because rewards and punishment are ineffective. Emily Kircher-Morris has a conversation with Alfie Kohn, author of Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishment to Love and Reason, on episode 115. ABOUT THE GUEST - Alfie Kohn is the author of 14 books on education, parenting, and human behavior, including Pu...2022-02-2529 minTILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent ChildrenTILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent ChildrenTPP 131a: Author and Lecturer Alfie Kohn On Practicing Unconditional ParentingI was thrilled to have the chance to talk with Alfie Kohn about parenting and differently wired kids and dig into the concepts that many consider highly provocative and controversial because in many ways they are a radical departure from more traditional approaches to parenting, praise, rewards, punishments, discipline, and motivation.If you haven’t been exposed to Alfie’s work before, I encourage you to listen with an open mind and curiosity. Some of the concepts he shares today may challenge your ideas about raising kids, but if you know me, I deeply believe there is valu...2022-02-2544 minTILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent ChildrenTILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent ChildrenTPP 131a: Author and Lecturer Alfie Kohn On Practicing Unconditional ParentingI was thrilled to have the chance to talk with Alfie Kohn about parenting and differently wired kids and dig into the concepts that many consider highly provocative and controversial because in many ways they are a radical departure from more traditional approaches to parenting, praise, rewards, punishments, discipline, and motivation.If you haven’t been exposed to Alfie’s work before, I encourage you to listen with an open mind and curiosity. Some of the concepts he shares today may challenge your ideas about raising kids, but if you know me, I deeply believe there is valu...2022-02-2544 minMama\'s Roots Are ShowingMama's Roots Are ShowingUnconditional Parenting: Moving Away from Rewards and Punishments-A Conversation with Alfie KohnAlfie Kohn has been challenging Standard American Parenting for decades. While using modern research, he dissects common parenting practices (timeouts, sticker charts, praise, etc.) and presents them in a new light…revealing the darker side to these common approaches.In this episode, Mr. Kohn and I discuss why these practices are deeply ingrained in our society and why we need to leave them behind. I encourage everyone to read his transformative book, Unconditional Parenting. It is eye-opening, insightful, and wise. It will help any reader become a better parent.If you are new to...2022-01-2200 minDilemma PodcastDilemma PodcastS03E03: Competing Against Everything - Alfie KohnWhat if much of what we do to our children works directly against what we profess we ultimately want for them? Alfie Kohn argues that things like homework, grades, systems of praise and punishment, reward and sanction, and generally the enforcement of an atmosphere of fierce competition in education all undermine our stated goals. So are the goals wrong? Are the goals false? Or is something much more fundamental to society in need of a major rethink? Alfie Kohn is an accomplished author, speaker, and psychologist who has been advocating for reform in...2022-01-0345 minRoasting MarshmallowsRoasting MarshmallowsPunished by Rewards with Alfie Kohn Is the nobel peace prize actually a bad thing?  What about that cum laude degree?  Did your grades ruin you for the rest of your life?Do awards motivate people? Yes. They motivate people to get rewards. You can pretty much bribe anyone to make them do what you want them to.Consequently, the quality of the work or the learning suffers for it. This goes for children, students, but also in the work place, where reward structures might be in place that incentivize destructive behavior.The book "Punished by Rewards" details the trouble with go...2021-12-0730 minDr Justin Coulson\'s Happy FamiliesDr Justin Coulson's Happy Families#409 Report Cards - Do They Matter? An Interview With Alfie KohnJustin & Kylie speak with Alfie Kohn about report cardsIn this episode, they discuss: Alfie's opinion on report cards When children are being evaluated, it reduces their motivation Intrinsic vc extrinsic motivation Grades for effort What should parents do with the report cards? Learn more about Alfie Kohn#137 Punishment & Rewards with Alfie Kohn#150 Unconditional Parenting with Alfie Kohn#160 The Trouble With Time Out with Alfie Kohn#249 Best of - Discipline, Punishment & Rewards with Dr Alfie Kohn...2021-11-3018 minConnecting with Dr. Kim SwalesConnecting with Dr. Kim SwalesEpisode 51: Unconditional Parenting with Alfie KohnKim has a deep conversation about conditional versus unconditional parenting with esteemed author, Alfie Kohn.  They discuss praise, rewards and punishments, controlling children, time-outs, and pushing children to succeed. Mr. Kohn offers suggestions for moving from rewards and punishments to love and reason.  He also talks about teaching kids to make decisions and how to get parents on the same page about unconditional parenting.  Alfie Kohn's Website Books: Unconditional Parenting Beyond Discipline The Homework Myth Punished by Rewards2021-11-0437 minChalk TalkChalk TalkE21 - Getting to the WHY of Student Motivation with Alfie KohnAlfie Kohn talks with us about student motivation and the ways in which we can begin to instill intrinsic motivation back into our students.2021-10-2631 minDiscipline WinDiscipline Win23 - Beyond Discipline - From Compliance to Community: Featuring Alfie KohnEvery once in a while, it takes a radical approach to take down the most misguided educational traditions that we face in our work. Join Dr. Andy Jacks and education guru Alfie Kohn in an engaging discussion that breaks down some of ways to do just that in education as a whole and in school discipline. Topics include:  (1) The failure myth  (2) Analyzing task vs behavior  (3) Rethinking our goals in education and fighting the status quo (3) Using community of the whole to improve the individual Alfie Kohn is a highly reg...2021-10-2433 minAutismo incondicionalAutismo incondicionalCrianza incondicional de Alfie KohnEn este episodio hablo sobre un libro fundamental para cualquier mamá con hijes de cualquier edad: se trata de Crianza Incondicional de Alfie Kohn. No es un libro de crianza, es una nueva manera de entender a las infancias, nuestra propia crianza y la sociedad que construimos al criar a nuestras crías. Honra la labor de educativa y emocional de este proyecto donando 60 pesos mexicanos (3USD) en ko-fi.com/autismoincondicionalAmar es Aceptar 🌈∞💛2021-09-2840 minPaizinho, Vírgula! - Família e InfânciaPaizinho, Vírgula! - Família e Infância#311 Por que PALMADAS, PUNIÇÕES e RECOMPENSAS Fazem Mal? Conversa com Alfie KohnQuando utilizamos técnicas de controle de comportamento em nossos filhos, especialmente palmadas, punições e recompensas, isso pode ter efeitos negativos para a vida toda. Nessa conversa com Alfie Kohn, entenderemos mais por que isso acontece e qual é a alternativa.Conheça o trabalho de Alfie Kohn em alfiekohn.org!Quer apoiar meu trabalho e entrar no nosso chat de WhatsApp exclusivo para dúvidas e trocas de experiências? Ou mais, quer participar das nossas rodas de conversa virtuais exclusivas, todo mês? É só clicar no link e apoiar meu trabalho!https://apoia.se/p...2021-09-0924 minOff-Trail LearningOff-Trail LearningAlfie Kohn on Progressive EducationAlfie Kohn (alfiekohn.org) is the author of fourteen books and a well-known advocate of progressive education. Mr. Kohn discusses the purpose behind his 30+ years of advocacy, his critique of “grit” and “growth mindset”, and his take on the classic progressive school models (Montessori/Waldorf/Reggio) as well as homeschooling, unschooling, and highly self-directed schools & centers. He expresses concern over the extreme varieties of self-directed education and argues for the vital role of teachers (and other actively-involved adults) in education. We end by identifying common ground between the self-directed and progressive education movements. The following articles are referenced in this intervie...2021-08-2339 minEvery Coach Needs A CoachEvery Coach Needs A Coach106- Alfie Kohn -confusing excellence with winning - See one, do one, teach one"When we set children against one another in contests from spelling bees to awards assemblies to science fairs, that are really contests, from dodgeball to honor rolls to prizes for the best painting or the most books read - we teach them to confuse excellence with winning, as if the only way to do something well is to outdo others. We encourage them to measure their own value in terms of how many people they've been which is not exactly a path to mental health. We invite them to see their peers not as potential friends or collaborators but...2021-08-0404 minElisabeth Sechser will Arbeit DeluxeElisabeth Sechser will Arbeit Deluxe#37 "Wenn du Innovation verhindern willst, belohne sie!" Alfie KohnBestraft durch Prämien Geistern in euren Organisationen Belohnungsmythen durch die Gänge? Gibt es bei euch noch die Annahme, dass man Menschen für Arbeit motivieren, belohnen, anreizen kann, soll oder sogar muss? Belohnt, bestraft, gegängelt: Wie Alfie Kohn versucht, uns Prämien, Anreize und Tests auszutreiben und warum jede Belohnung, Bestrafung oder Prüfung die Welt etwas schlechter macht. Der Meister der humanistischen Erziehung und Bildung veranschaulicht in umfassenden Arbeiten, welche großen Schäden traditionelle Erziehungsmethoden, behavioristisches Vorgehen, verbreitete Anreizmythen vom Kleinkindalter hinein bis in die Unternehmen bei uns Menschen verursachen. Kohn veranschaulicht umfassend, dass Belohnun...2021-07-0937 minThat Early Childhood NerdThat Early Childhood NerdNERD_0165 ECE Influencers–Alfie KohnLisa Murphy, Emma Tempest, Richard Cohen, Lizz Nolasco and I do a little fangirling about Alfie Kohn. Thanks for listening! Like the show? Consider supporting our work by becoming a Patron, shopping our Amazon Link, or sharing it with someone who might enjoy it. You can leave a comment or ask a question here. Click here for more Heather. For a small fee we can issue self-study certificates for listening to podcasts.2021-07-0652 minSmart Family PodcastSmart Family PodcastSFP 041 | Alfie Kohn Explains Why Punishments And Rewards Are Really the Same Thing; The Impacts of Parenting Approach on Moral Character; And the Consequences of Conditional ParentingWhen you tell your child, "Don't let me catch you doing that again!", will they stop? Or will they just try harder the next time to make sure they don't get caught! That's one of the issues our parenting expert Alfie Kohn uncovers as problematic in the conditional parenting approach. He advocates for an approach to parenting that values children for who they are and not simply how they behave. Kohn argues that the conditional approach sends a message to the child that they are loveable when they do the right things and not loveable when they don't. Although...2021-06-2344 minABA on TapABA on TapIs Alfie Kohn's Assessment of ABA Accurate?Send us a textReady to learn more and engage in philosophic doubt, Mike and Dan take on a recent opinion published by the well-known education writer, Alfie Kohn. Kohn lends an eloquent criticism of ABA, pointing to recent meta-analyses that aim to question, if not eliminate, any socially significant effects and benefits of ABA-based interventions, as used with individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorder, for example. Kohn's arguments are carefully examined, credited where deserving, and aptly corrected in an effort to preserve their value, while rectifying errors in terms. That said, ABA has a wealth of empirical...2021-04-0153 minThink InclusiveThink InclusiveAlfie Kohn | Does Behaviorism Belong in the Classroom?Today on the podcast, we have a very special SUPERSIZED conversation with Alfie Kohn, prolific speaker and author, on human behavior, education, and parenting. We discuss whether bribes or positive reinforcement are really the same things and answer the question…should educators abandon behaviorist ideas altogether?Mr. Kohn is the author of several books, including:Punished by Rewards: Twenty-fifth Anniversary Edition: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other BribesThe Schools Our Children Deserve: Moving Beyond Traditional Classrooms and "Tougher Standards"We also reference Autism and...2021-03-1852 minChew The Chat Podcast With Sam SoulsChew The Chat Podcast With Sam SoulsEp54 Alfie Kohn - Unconditional Parenting From Rewards & Punishment To Love & ReasonAlfie Kohn has published 14 books. This includes eight on issues in education (e.g., homework, standardized testing, grades, teaching styles), two on parenting, and four on general topics (e.g. human nature, competition, motivation). Alfie has appeared on @oprah on two occasions as well as the @todayshow and many more TV and radio shows globally. NO CENSORSHIP HERE FOLKS! It's a motivational podcast - a funny podcast to listen to.   If you are fans of the Joe Rogan Podcast or The James English Podcast or the Joey Diaz Podcast then you might well enjoy this NE...2021-03-081h 08Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & MoreMindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & MoreUnconditional Parenting - Alfie KohnWhat do children need most? Unconditional love. Most of us can agree on that, yet we often don’t even realize the ways in which we are conditional with our parenting, which is not only bad for kids, it’s deeply counterproductive! Author and peaceful parenting leader, Alfie Kohn gives insights into our own assumptions and intentions for our kids.If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagr...2021-01-1242 minVoices of Your VillageVoices of Your Village148 - REBROADCAST - Reward, punishment, and behavior charts with Alfie KohnWelcome back to Voices of Your Village! On this episode of Voices of Your Village, I sit down with Alfie Kohn, an author and speaker who is widely known for his work on unconditional love and moving away from punishment-reward systems. This is an episode unlike any we’ve ever released before. Frustrated with and silenced by her guest, for the first time in podcast history, Alyssa Blask Campbell provides commentary on her interview to express what she was unable to during her conversation. We hope you enjoy this rebroadcast of a very special episode.  Love...2020-11-2658 minReCREO: re-planteamos la educación y alentamos a la re-apropiación del aprendizaje.ReCREO: re-planteamos la educación y alentamos a la re-apropiación del aprendizaje.El riesgo de las recompensas - Alfie KohnUna familia me preguntó que pienso sobre las recompensas e hice este podcast porque veo la popularidad que tiene el usar tablas de recompensas con estrellas, stickers, premios, como lo quieran llamar.Se piensa que como se trata de una recompensa y se le da al niño un premio, no hay nada malo porque se entiende como opuesto al castigo. Pero en realidad estamos hablando de lo mismo porque en ambas situaciones es una forma de modificar la conducta o de influir en el niño y de alguna manera es una forma de manipularlo....2020-11-1819 minIt\'s Never Just A GameIt's Never Just A GameAuthor Alfie Kohn, Punished By Rewards & Why Incentives Don’t WorkNJ and Greg talk with author Alfie Kohn about punishment and rewards, and their paternalistic power in business and life.  Later, the Brothers give their take on the playoffs and performance reviews.2020-10-1956 minWords from the Earth PlaygroundWords from the Earth Playground"Unconditional Parenting" by Alfie Kohn"Unconditional Parenting" by Alfie Kohn is a groundbreaking approach to parenting that gives parents powerful alternatives to help children become their most caring, responsible selves. Even if you don’t have children or if they are grown, this book connects dots and explains what leads some of our current behaviors and choices. Alfie has written prolifically on the subject of shifting from punishment/reward (doing to), to more of a 'working with' relationship with our children. He is humorous and unapologetic in this! Enjoy!2020-06-2927 minTeach Me, TeacherTeach Me, Teacher#165 Beyond Grades, Rewards, and Standardized Testing with Alfie KohnHello everyone! Today, I am releasing what I believe is the most important podcast in the history of the show. Not only is it filled with honest and real world talk, it is filled with research based advice and insight from one of the premier thinkers on education today. In this episode, I sit down with Alfie Kohn and discuss a range of topics, such as why grading hurts more than it helps, why rewards do more harm than good, and why the testing obsession leads to bad teaching. I consider these the three pillars of what holds up an...2020-05-2544 minHabits of LeadershipHabits of Leadership032: Punished by Rewards - Chatting with Alfie KohnIn this episode, Tim Perkins sits down with Alfie Kohn and chats about the dangers of praise and rewards. Alfie expresses some strident opinions that are sure to stoke some thoughts for you, whether you're an educator, corporate leader or parent.  You can find out more about Alfie Kohn, his books and thinking at: https://www.alfiekohn.org Don't forget you can find out more about our work and submit questions and suggestions for topics and guests for upcoming shows at: https://habitsofleadership.com/podcast/ And please don't forget to like, comment, share & subs...2020-05-2437 minInside Education - a podcast for educators interested in teachingInside Education - a podcast for educators interested in teachingProgramme 397, Alfie Kohn on Homework, Testing, Rewards and More (15-4-20)Presented and produced by Seán Delaney On this week's podcast I bring you my interview with Alfie Kohn, who writes and speaks about education, especially in areas such as homework, standardised testing and punishments and rewards. Among the items we discuss on the podcast are the following: Fostering students’ curiosity and encouraging them to think deeply Teachers participating with children in an exploration of ideas to move beyond factual knowledge How teachers can teach to promote students’ thinking The inverse relationship between teacher control and student learning Why learning starts with a question John Dewey, Jean...2020-04-1537 minNoncompliant - the podcastNoncompliant - the podcast“Punishments and rewards can get one thing, under certain conditions – temporary compliance” Interview with Alfie Kohn This is a fascinating interview with Alfie Kohn, who has been researching and writing about education, parenting, authority and co-operative learning for years, driving home a simple fact: rewards and punishment are two sides of the same coin –and they’re not helping us to raise the kind of children we say we want to raise. “The problem with ABA,” says Kohn, “is not just with the method, but with the goal. It shouldn’t surprise anyone that when these kids grow up they are struggling to try to figure out how to make decisions, be assertive and advocate...2020-01-2028 minDepth and LightDepth and Light#12: Alfie KohnThis episode features author and educator Alfie Kohn. Alfie has written and lectured extensively in the areas of education, parenting, and human behavior. His work has challenged the status quo in education for over four decades.  In our conversation, Alfie details his thoughts on popular education topics like Grit, Growth Mindset, and EdTech. • Articles referenced in this episode can be found on Alfie's website alfiekohn.org. • Follow Alfie on Twitter twitter.com/alfiekohn.2019-12-2342 minTeacher StoriesTeacher StoriesWhat Makes a Good Teacher? A Conversation with Alfie KohnAlfie Kohn (alfiekohn.org) has written extensively about teaching, parenting, education, and schooling. In this thought-provoking podcast, Alfie says we must be clear about our shared, long-term goals for children before we can describe what good teachers do in the classroom. If we want thoughtful, life-long learners, then we would want teachers who encourage their students to be questioners and challengers and in control of their learning -- not passive receptacles of facts.2019-12-1835 minVoices of Your VillageVoices of Your Village99 - Reward, punishment, and behavior charts with Alfie KohnOn this episode of Voices of Your Village, I sit down with Alfie Kohn, an author and speaker who is widely known for his work on unconditional love and moving away from punishment-reward systems. This is an episode unlike any we’ve ever released before. Frustrated with and silenced by her guest, for the first time in podcast history, Alyssa Blask Campbell provides commentary on her interview to express what she was unable to during her conversation. You’re going to have to listen to the episode to believe it!Love this podcast? Scroll down...2019-12-1254 minSteve Hargadon InterviewsSteve Hargadon InterviewsAlfie Kohn: Live Thursday Dec. 16th | Steve Hargadon | Dec 16 2010Alfie Kohn: Live Thursday Dec. 16th | Steve Hargadon | Dec 16 2010 by Steve Hargadon2019-08-171h 00Run Your Life Show With Andy VasilyRun Your Life Show With Andy VasilyEmpowered Learning With Alfie Kohn | Run Your Life #99In today’s episode, I had a chance to speak with renowned lecturer and author, Alfie Kohn. Alfie writes and speaks widely on human behavior, education, and parenting. He has published 14 different books since the late 1980’s and has been described by Time magazine as being America’s most outspoken critic of education’s fixation on grades [and] test scores.”As well, Kohn has been featured on hundreds of TV and radio programs, including the “Today” show and two appearances on “Oprah”; he has been profiled in the Washington Post and the Los Angeles Times, while his work has been described...2019-06-2038 min21 CL Radio Shows21 CL Radio ShowsEmpowered Learning With Alfie Kohn | Run Your Life #99In today’s episode, I had a chance to speak with renowned lecturer and author, Alfie Kohn. Alfie writes and speaks widely on human behavior, education, and parenting. He has published 14 different books since the late 1980’s and has been described by Time magazine as being America’s most outspoken critic of education’s fixation on grades [and] test scores.” As well, Kohn has been featured on hundreds of TV and radio programs, including the “Today” show and two appearances on “Oprah”; he has been profiled in the Washington Post and the Los Angeles Times, while his work has been described and debated i...2019-06-2038 min21CL Radio21CL RadioEmpowered Learning With Alfie Kohn | Run Your Life #99In today’s episode, I had a chance to speak with renowned lecturer and author, Alfie Kohn. Alfie writes and speaks widely on human behavior, education, and parenting. He has published 14 different books since the...The post Empowered Learning With Alfie Kohn | Run Your Life #99 appeared first on 21CL Radio.2019-06-2038 minRun Your Life Show With Andy VasilyRun Your Life Show With Andy Vasily# 119 - Empowered Learning With Alfie KohnSend us a textIn today’s episode, I had a chance to speak with renowned lecturer and author, Alfie Kohn. Alfie writes and speaks widely on human behavior, education, and parenting. He has published 14 different books since the late 1980’s and has been described by Time magazine as being America’s most outspoken critic of education’s fixation on grades [and] test scores.”As well, Kohn has been featured on hundreds of TV and radio programs, including the “Today” show and two appearances on “Oprah”; he has been profiled in the Washington Post and the Los Angeles Times, whi...2019-06-2038 minHow To Talk To Kids About AnythingHow To Talk To Kids About AnythingHow to Practice Unconditional Parenting Using Love and Reason with Alfie KohnSpecial guest: Alfie Kohn. Many parenting books offer countless tips for dealing with kids when they misbehave in the eyes of their parents—refusing to go to bed, rejecting the vegetables they’ve been told to eat, talking back, yelling in the restaurant, badgering their sibling or resisting doing the tasks it takes to get to school on time. But the way parents cope with these challenging behaviors might be backfiring even if they work in the short term. My next guest asks many thought-provoking questions in his book, Unconditional Parenting- but two seem to be at the...2019-06-1132 minHow to Talk to Kids About AnythingHow to Talk to Kids About AnythingHow to Practice Unconditional Parenting Using Love and Reason with Alfie KohnSpecial guest: Alfie Kohn. Many parenting books offer countless tips for dealing with kids when they misbehave in the eyes of their parents—refusing to go to bed, rejecting the vegetables they’ve been told to eat, talking back, yelling in the restaurant, badgering their sibling or resisting doing the tasks it takes to get to school on time. But the way parents cope with these challenging behaviors might be backfiring even if they work in the short term. My next guest asks many thought-provoking questions in his book, Unconditional Parenting- but two seem to be at the...2019-06-1132 minHow to Talk to Kids About AnythingHow to Talk to Kids About AnythingHow to Practice Unconditional Parenting Using Love and Reason with Alfie KohnSpecial guest: Alfie Kohn. Many parenting books offer countless tips for dealing with kids when they misbehave in the eyes of their parents—refusing to go to bed, rejecting the vegetables they’ve been told to eat, talking back, yelling in the restaurant, badgering their sibling or resisting doing the tasks it takes to get to school on time. But the way parents cope with these challenging behaviors might be backfiring even if they work in the short term. My next guest asks many thought-provoking questions in his book, Unconditional Parenting- but two seem to be at the...2019-06-1132 minHow To Talk To Kids About AnythingHow To Talk To Kids About AnythingHow to Practice Unconditional Parenting Using Love and Reason with Alfie KohnSpecial guest: Alfie Kohn. Many parenting books offer countless tips for dealing with kids when they misbehave in the eyes of their parents—refusing to go to bed, rejecting the vegetables they’ve been told to eat, talking back, yelling in the restaurant, badgering their sibling or resisting doing the tasks it takes to get to school on time. But the way parents cope with these challenging behaviors might be backfiring even if they work in the short term. My next guest asks many thought-provoking questions in his book, Unconditional Parenting- but two seem to be at the...2019-06-1132 minzetatesterszetatestersEB 49 Comentamos el libro “Crianza incondicional” de Alfie KohnCarles Caño conversa sobre el libro "Crianza incondicional" con Moisès Gómez, profesor de FP de informática, ex-compañero de trabajo de Carles y padre de dos niños. FE DE ERRATAS: Carles habla de estimulación precoz y en realidad el término que se esa es estimulación TEMPRANA. Algunos temas que hemos hablado en esta conversación: La diferencia entre crianza condicional e incondicional. ¿Qué es lo que nos retiene a la hora de adoptar la crianza incondicional? L@s niñ@s también son personas. ¿Cuál es tu objetivo r...2018-12-2500 minThe Shape of Education to ComeThe Shape of Education to ComeTeachers in Canada Leaping to Their Feet with Alfie KohnI talk with titan of education theory Alfie Kohn about rewards and punishments, resistance to being changed, change in high schools, what we mean by "choice," the roots of the problem of rewards, John Hattie's meta-analysis of education research, "effective" research and "effective" practice, the peril of test scores going up, being a parent and more!2018-11-2929 minSage FamilySage FamilyUnconditional Parenting with Alfie KohnToday I’m here with Alfie Kohn talking about unconditional parenting.Alfie is the author of 14 books on education, parenting, and human behavior. He’s been on Oprah twice, the today show, and many other programs in addition to speaking regularly at conferences across the country. We go over goals, rewards and punishments, praise, choices, and childism.   Get the full show notes here: www.sageparenting.com/podcast21   Support the Sage Family Podcast here: www.patreon.com/sagefamily2018-11-2046 minReimagine SchoolsReimagine SchoolsProgressive Education with Alfie KohnIn this episode, best-selling author Alfie Kohn shares his research on education, human behavior and parenting and why we must challenge "traditionalism" with a more "progressive" model of education that eliminates letter grades, home work, standardized testing and an unhealthy focus on competition between students. Instead, Kohn advocates for a more "student-centered" approach in which cooperative learning allows schools to move away from data-driven instructional methods to a more authentic assessment of student learning. Twitter: @alfiekohn. Website: www.alfiekohn.org Become A Supporter You can now help keep the conversation going by supporting the Reimagine Schools Podcast with a small...2018-11-0632 minTILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent ChildrenTILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent ChildrenTPP 131: Author and Lecturer Alfie Kohn On Practicing Unconditional ParentingI was thrilled to have the chance to talk with Alfie Kohn about parenting and differently wired kids and dig into the concepts that many consider highly provocative and controversial because in many ways they are a radical departure from more traditional approaches to parenting, praise, rewards, punishments, discipline, and motivation.If you haven’t been exposed to Alfie’s work before, I encourage you to listen with an open mind and curiosity. Some of the concepts he shares today may challenge your ideas about raising kids, but if you know me, I deeply believe there is valu...2018-10-2343 minTILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent ChildrenTILT Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent ChildrenTPP 131: Author and Lecturer Alfie Kohn On Practicing Unconditional ParentingI was thrilled to have the chance to talk with Alfie Kohn about parenting and differently wired kids and dig into the concepts that many consider highly provocative and controversial because in many ways they are a radical departure from more traditional approaches to parenting, praise, rewards, punishments, discipline, and motivation.If you haven’t been exposed to Alfie’s work before, I encourage you to listen with an open mind and curiosity. Some of the concepts he shares today may challenge your ideas about raising kids, but if you know me, I deeply believe there is valu...2018-10-2343 minHuman Restoration ProjectHuman Restoration Project16: Adopting Progressive Ed. w/ Alfie KohnWe're excited and honored to speak with renowned educator Alfie Kohn surrounding his views on progressive education and what steps educators can take to implement his ideas. We spoke about the ideology surrounding Kohn's views on grading and standardized testing, among others: its relevance to today's world and why it's needed.Kohn has authored an extensive amount of articles on the importance of progressive practice, including his collection of works The Myth of the Spoiled Child, Feel-Bad Education, Schooling Beyond Measure, Punished by Rewards, The Homework Myth, and more. Kohn is well known for his views on...2018-05-0600 minZenlarge ShowZenlarge ShowHow You're Crushing Your Child's Desire to Learn with Alfie KohnWhat if rewarding your child psychologically damaged them? Best Selling author, Alfie Kohn, joins Stephen Patterson and I for a discussion about parenting and education. For some people, it's a hard sell that punishment is bad for children. Don't they need discipline? Plus, the whole spare the rod spoil the child thing. Others are on board with not punishing, but surely praise and gold stars are a good thing, right? Isn't positive reinforcement good? Alfie presents the case, using study-based scientific evidence, that rewards are not the opposite of punishments, they are two...2018-02-2329 minTG2Chat LIVE!TG2Chat LIVE!Episode 6 - Motivation with Alfie KohnThis episode features an interview with Alfie Kohn, author of the books Punished by Rewards, The Schools Our Children Deserve, The Homework Myth, and his latest, Schooling Beyond Measure. Topics include: The difference between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation How teachers can leverage extrinsic motivation Rethinking reluctant learners "Doing with" rather than "doing to" 2018-01-2826 minImmerse Yourself in the Realm of Words With Full AudiobookImmerse Yourself in the Realm of Words With Full AudiobookPunished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, As, Praise, and Other Bribes Audiobook by Alfie KohnListen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 316321 Title: Punished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, As, Praise, and Other Bribes Author: Alfie Kohn Narrator: Alfie Kohn Format: Unabridged Length: 13:11:36 Language: English Release date: 07-20-17 Publisher: Tantor Media Genres: Non-Fiction, Psychology Summary: Our basic strategy for raising children, teaching students, and managing workers can be summed up in six words: Do this, and you'll get that. We dangle goodies (from candy bars to sales commissions) in front of people in the same way that we train the family pet. Unfortunately, attempts to...2017-07-201h 11Get Popular Titles Full Audiobooks in Science & Technology, Psychology & The MindGet Popular Titles Full Audiobooks in Science & Technology, Psychology & The MindPunished by Rewards Audiobook by Alfie KohnVisit https://hotaudiobook.cοm to download full audiobooks of your choice for free. Title: Punished by Rewards Subtitle: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes Author: Alfie Kohn Narrator: Alfie Kohn Format: Unabridged Length: 13 hrs and 9 mins Language: English Release date: 07-20-17 Publisher: Tantor Audio Ratings: 4.5 of 5 out of 29 votes Genres: Science & Technology, Psychology & The Mind Publisher's Summary: The basic strategy we use for raising children, teaching students, and managing workers can be summarized in six words: Do this and you'll get that. We dangle goodies (from candy bars to sales commissions) in f...2017-07-201h 092 Cent Dad Podcast2 Cent Dad PodcastAlfie KohnBest selling author Alfie Kohn joins the podcast http://www.2centdad.com/alfie-kohn Alfie's personal site http://www.alfiekohn.org/ Wikipedia page https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alfie_Kohn2017-06-0828 minListen to the Best Full trial Audiobooks in Self-Improvement, Parenting TipsListen to the Best Full trial Audiobooks in Self-Improvement, Parenting TipsUnconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason by Alfie KohnPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/316320 to listen full audiobooks. Title: Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason Author: Alfie Kohn Narrator: Alfie Kohn Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 8 hours 42 minutes Release date: July 26, 2016 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.71 of Total 14 Ratings of Narrator: 4 of Total 3 Genres: Parenting Tips Publisher's Summary: One basic need all children have, educator Alfie Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including 'time-outs'), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other...2016-07-2630 minLet Your Ears Embark on a Adventure with Free AudiobookLet Your Ears Embark on a Adventure with Free AudiobookUnconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason Audiobook by Alfie KohnListen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 316320 Title: Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason Author: Alfie Kohn Narrator: Alfie Kohn Format: Unabridged Length: 08:42:25 Language: English Release date: 07-26-16 Publisher: Tantor Media Genres: Health & Wellness, Marriage & Family, Parenting Summary: One basic need all children have, educator Alfie Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including 'time-outs'), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children...2016-07-268h 42Relationship Alive!Relationship Alive!Happy Kids, Better Relationship: Unconditional Parenting with Alfie KohnMany of you have written in wanting me to address the impact of children and parenting on relationships, and as you might expect - the impact is considerable! How do you take some of the ideas we’ve been talking about here on the podcast and apply them to how you interact with kids? How do you get away from fear-based tactics of command and control, rewards and punishment - and instead switch to a form of parenting that’s trust-based? Since we focus so much on conscious relationships on the show, I wanted to tackle the topi...2016-04-1933 minEducation BookcastEducation Bookcast5b. Punished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes (Parts 2&3) by Alfie KohnWell well, the grand finale. We've seen in the previous episode how laboratory studies have shown that extrinsic rewards lead to reduced motivation and lower-quality work, as well as a priori arguments for why it's a bad idea to incentivise behaviours with rewards. For those of you who are still unconvinced, I'm losing hope a bit since I've spent a total of about 3 hours so far over two episodes (last episode and episode 2) talking about why rewards are a really bad idea. Here goes my last chance at convincing you, and your last chance to see the light. 2016-02-081h 47Education BookcastEducation Bookcast5a. Punished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes (Part 1) by Alfie KohnYou'll remember from Daniel Pink's Drive (episode 2) that common assumptions about how rewards affect motivation and behaviour have it all wrong. Common sense tells us that to motivate somebody to do a better job, we should offer them a material reward, but scientific experiments show us that this is one of the best ways to demotivate people. Perhaps you weren't so easily convinced. Well, good news! Alfie Kohn has written a book which argues in the finest detail and with the most colossal empirical support that rewards are bad for you and for everyone else. Starting off...2016-02-011h 23In Their Own WordsIn Their Own WordsAlfie Kohn, National Speaker and Author on Education - "Students as the Center of Gravity"This week's Podcast feature Alfie Kohn, national speaker and author of 14 books, and scores of articles, on human behavior, management, and education.  Alfie discusses the inspiration for his books including, No Contest and Punished by Rewards, the divergent thoughts surrounding the history of education in the 20th century, and his views on standardized testing and homework.  Alfie explains how, as a contrarian with a practice of finding issues where logic and research points in one direction and practices move in a different direction, he started thinking and writing about competition. He began debunking the common no...2015-09-0230 minIn Their Own WordsIn Their Own WordsAlfie Kohn, National Speaker and Author on Education - "Students as the Center of Gravity"This week's Podcast feature Alfie Kohn, national speaker and author of 14 books, and scores of articles, on human behavior, management, and education.  Alfie discusses the inspiration for his books including, No Contest and Punished by Rewards, the divergent thoughts surrounding the history of education in the 20th century, and his views on standardized testing and homework.  Alfie explains how, as a contrarian with a practice of finding issues where logic and research points in one direction and practices move in a different direction, he started thinking and writing about competition. He began debunking the common no...2015-09-0230 minDean Bokhari\'s Meaningful ShowDean Bokhari's Meaningful Show048: Alfie Kohn - The Case Against Competitionhttp://www.MeaningfulHQ.com // 048: Alfie Kohn - The Case Against Competition //  Get your Self-Improvement questions answered on the podcast! Send em' over to: questions [at] deanbokhari.com2015-02-0434 min