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The Elegant EroticaEp.6 - The Fire of Desire: Why We Lose Ourselves in AttractionIn this episode, we step into the fire — the place where desire becomes so intense it pulls us out of our center and into something that feels bigger than logic. Why do we lose ourselves in certain attractions? Why does desire sometimes feel like obsession, magnetism, surrender, or fate?We explore the energetic and psychological undercurrents behind overwhelming desire, including the shadow aspects Harville Hendrix has written about so extensively: the hidden, rejected, or forgotten parts of ourselves that call for reunion through attraction. His work on the “imago” and the unconscious pull toward our shadow qualities lays t...
2025-12-0226 min
The Elegant EroticaEp.5-Self-Pleasure: Awkward, Holy, Real AFOlaaa! Thank you for being here. Here I dive into Self-Pleasure on my journey from being totally against it to my life being incredibly enriched and changed as a result of it. Vulnerable. Honest. Real.What to expect:my personal journey through resistancehow my life changed with self-pleasurethe golden loop of endless energyhow to self-pleasureEnjooooy! With love, AnfisaConnect on Instagram
2025-07-2331 min
The Elegant EroticaEp.4-The Dark Side of Motherhood and Beyond with Luci LampeIn this episode of Elegant Erotica, Anfisa is joined by the radiant Luci Lampe—mom of five, trauma-informed sex & relationship coach, artist, and author.Together, they explore what it means to live fully expressed: from integrating the dark and light feminine, to navigating motherhood, fear, and freedom.What to expect: The unspoken sides to MotherhoodEmbracing the dark of the human condition.Integration of dark and light feminine energies is essential for wholeness.and so much more...Guest: Luci LampeConnect on InstagramCheck out Luci’s website
2025-05-0759 min
The Elegant EroticaEp.3-Sacred, Sexy & Sovereign with Luci LampeIn this episode of Elegant Erotica, Anfisa Shimkevich is joined by Luci Lampe—multi-passionate mother of five, trauma-informed sex & relationship coach, and artist of many forms.They dive into emotional authenticity, sexual awakening, and feminine power, peeling back the layers of identity, motherhood, and self-liberation. From celibacy to sovereignty, Luci shares her powerful path to reclaiming her erotic truth.This conversation is an invitation to live unapologetically, love consciously, and embrace your full self—sacred, sensual, and sovereign.Here is what to expect:Balancing sensuality and motherhoodReclaiming your erotic truthLiving authentically in ever...
2025-05-0752 min
The Elegant EroticaEp. 1-Pleasure as Self-Love: Loving Yourself in All the Right WaysEpisode: The Link Between Self-Love & PleasureIn this episode of Elegant Erotica, host Anfisa Shimkevich explores the intimate connection between self-love and self-pleasure. She invites you to rethink what it means to truly embrace yourself—mind, body, and emotions.Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation on healing, empowerment, and the deeper layers of self-acceptance.In this episode learn about:Redefining self-loveEmbracing all parts of yourselfUnlocking personal empowermentHow pleasure shapes our well-beingRewiring the brain through pleasureHost: Anfisa ShimkevichConnect on Instagram
2025-04-0815 min
The Elegant EroticaEp.2-Sexual Liberation: Finding Myself Between Celibacy & DesireIn this episode of Elegant Erotica, host Anfisa Shimkevich opens up about her journey of self-discovery, navigating sexual identity, celibacy, and personal transformation. She explores the power of reclaiming desire, overcoming fear, and embracing authentic self-expression.Join the conversation on empowerment, healing, and the deeper meaning of sexual liberation.Here is what to expect:Breaking free from sexual conditioningNavigating fears and reclaiming pleasureHow sexuality and spirituality intertwineOvercoming shame to embrace desireEnjoooy!
2025-04-0827 min
The Elegant Erotica21: Aligning With The Guidance Of Astrological Transits: Finding Potential, Purpose & Pathways with Jen FountainWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast! Today, I’m joined by Jen Fountain. As a Poet & Artist, creativity runs through her veins. Jen transforms her visions into beautiful, original art and translates her emotions, experiences and dreams into poems. Using her Instagram ‘Luna Lingua’ and Substack as an expressive platform, Jen shares content on astrological transits, moon phases and cycles with the intention of helping others to move through life with more ease, grace and peace. In this episode: How to align with the guidance of the moonNavigating transitional phases and embracing the art of letting goFind...
2024-12-191h 08The Elegant EroticaТворчество, Отношения и Поток Жизни с Дарьей Макуриной (часть 2)Во второй части мы продолжаем беседу с Дарьей Макуриной, художницей, фотографом и арт-директором.Здесь мы говорим о:Опыте хейта, ненависти от окружающих Свободе слова и ее тонкой граниВнутреннем критике и его власти над творческим процессомРазличных восприятиях текущей мировой ситуацииСпособах преодоления личных трудностей и инструменты которыми пользуется ДарьяВедущая: Анфиса ШимкевичРабота с АнфисойПодключайтесь в ИнстаграмГость: Дарья МакуринаПодключайтесь в Instagram
2024-12-1234 minThe Elegant EroticaТворчество, Отношения и Поток Жизни с Дарьей Макуриной (часть 1)Дарья МакуринаФотограф, художник и арт-директор.В этом выпуске мы говорим о трудностях творческой деятельности в современном миреО личной истории Дарьи и опыте быстрого взросленияО длительных отношениях и личностном росте, необходимом для их поддержанияО обнаженной сьемке, и о том каким вдохновляющим и исцеляющим опытом это может бытьО ее личном отношении к самой жизни и ее потокуВедущая: Анфиса ШимкевичРабота с АнфисойПодключайтесь в ИнстаграмГость: Дарья МакуринаПодключайтесь в Instagram
2024-12-121h 22The Elegant Erotica18: Beyond The Comfort Zone: Finding The Courage To Expand Your Limitations & Unlock Your True DesiresWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast! In this episode, I share a personal reflection on a topic that’s been on my heart lately: the journey towards pursuing what you want in life and expanding your limitations. The things you truly desire, and the dreams that light you up, are infinite. They never deplete, but they do require you to step into a whole new version of yourself: the way you act, think, and speak. The path to getting what you truly want often takes you through your biggest fears and insecurities, but it’s also the catalyst for deep...
2024-12-0425 minThe Elegant Erotica17: Cyclical Living, Womanhood & The Web Of Interconnection; The Path To Hormonal Harmony & Healthy Periods with Dr. Cassandra WilderWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast! Today, I’m overjoyed to welcome Naturopathic Doctor and Hormone Expert, Dr. Cassandra Wilder. Her mission is to demystify how our bodies work and empower women with the tools and education we all deserve; knowledge to understand what’s normal, what’s not and how to support our bodies naturally. Through her refreshing and holistic approach, Dr. Wilder has helped thousands of women restore harmony to their hormones and welcome healthy periods.In this episode: How women’s health thrives on the body’s innate intelligence, functioning in a cyclical harmony. E...
2024-11-2858 minThe Elegant Erotica16: Demystifying The Concept Of Consistency; The Gentle Art Of Progress Over PerfectionWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast! Today, we are demystifying the concept of consistency; why is it so difficult? Why do we fail a lot? And how do you truly succeed at it? I’ll be sharing a unique perspective on consistency which I hope will inspire you to move with greater compassion and ease.In this episode: We examine how consistency shows up in our daily lives, even as life itself is constantly changing. Clocks tick, light shifts, tides ebb and flow, temperatures rise and fall—nothing remains the same. With change all around us, how...
2024-11-2115 minThe Elegant Erotica15: A Modern Guide to Ancient Spirituality: Exploring Tantras Roots & The Journey To Higher Consciousness With SkandaWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast! Today, I’m thrilled to welcome Skanda- a yogi, traveller and teacher. I recently embarked on a solo journey to Stockholm, where I deepened my path of self-exploration, this time through Tantra. During this workshop, I had the privilege of meeting Skanda, whose profound self-connection, warmth, passion and professionalism truly inspired me.In this episode:Skanda shares his story: Originally from Warsaw, Poland, he let go of all his belongings at 29, bought a one-way ticket to Bangkok, and began a journey through Southeast Asia that lasted nine years. After a br...
2024-11-1459 minThe Elegant Erotica14: The Guide To Conflict Resolution & Commitment Without Exit Strategies With Nakis Shimkevich Welcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast. Today, I'm excited to be joined by Nakis Shimkevich; my life partner, husband, the father of my child and long time best friend. After 10 years of being together on this soul journey, first as friends, then as partners, we’ve learnt how to repair issues and navigate challenges within our relationship in order to continue in a healthy way with love, trust and respect. No relationship is perfect and it’s a continual journey, however throughout our decade of knowing each other we've almost cracked the art of conflict resolution. We are here to s...
2024-11-071h 00The Elegant Erotica13: Beyond the Myths: Tantra As A Path To Personal Development & Spiritual Healing With Mattias FranzénWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.Today, I'm excited to be joined by Mattias Franzén. Recently I travelled solo to Sweden where I continued my journey of self-exploration, this time broadening my understanding of Tantra. On this retreat, I had the joy of meeting the inspiring human being, Mattias. I was mesmerised by his multi diverse nature, as a father of two children, pianist and singer, published author, public speaker, and business growth strategist. Mattias has spent years studying and working on personal development and in this enlightening conversation he shares all of his knowledge and e...
2024-10-311h 21The Elegant Erotica12: From Mundane to Magic: The Journey to Fulfilment & Freedom, Adventures & Awakening Through Travelling The World With Irina PovetkinaWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.Today, I'm excited to be joined by Irina Povetkina.Creative Director, Projector Manager, Videomaker, Model, Editor, Content Creator, Social Media Marketing, Visual Storyteller, Digital Creator, Stories of nature, growth and meaning, inspiring deeper connections with life, bali based but the adventure is withinThe camera has always been Irina’s personal affair, combined with her love of art, nature and storytelling. Irina draws on her inspiration from the world to create visuals that showcase the beauty of products, locations and experiences. She took a gap year to ex...
2024-10-241h 14The Elegant Erotica11: A Wanderer’s Spirit & Guide To Finding Your Identity & Re-Enchanting The World With Jasmine VirdiWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.Today, I'm excited to be joined by Jasmine Virdi. Jazz is a writer and educator based in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. We crossed paths in Cyprus during our early school days and it’s been wonderful seeing Jazz grow through years in parallel life and reconnect today. Jazz has flourished to be a truly multi-passionate, diverse and beautiful being with a love of travel and a fascination with psychedelics. As an integration practitioner and writer, Jazz currently spends her time creating content for her Substack community sharing her embodied wisdom, an...
2024-10-171h 32The Elegant Erotica10: Discovering Your Inner Guru & Propelling Forward In Life; Transforming Unhealthy Habits Into High Performance Living With Antonia NewloveWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.Today, I'm excited to be joined by Antonio Newlove, the visionary founder of Urban Guru Coach. Antonio is a Fitness and Mindset Coach who empowers people to discover their "inner guru" by transforming unhealthy habits into high-performance living. She's a truly inspiring and motivational force, and my journey with her has been nothing short of life-changing. Over the past 8 months of consistent training together, Antonio has helped me embrace my post-baby body with self-love and strength. Thanks to her guidance, I've experienced a complete transformation in my body, mindset, and mental...
2024-10-101h 46The Elegant Erotica9. Breaking The Pattern & Awakening Intimacy: A Journey with Manuele ParadisoWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.Today I am joined by Manuele Paradiso; conscious intimacy + manhood coach, and core organiser of the Ecstatic Dance Festival. It’s an absolute joy and honour to welcome my dear friend onto the podcast today; Manuele is an immensely deep and unique being and I can’t wait to share this conversation with you as we dive into all things love, relationships, life, intimacy, keeping faith and breaking the pattern.In this episode:How to break the pattern and welcome new experiences. Money comes and goes, but love come...
2024-10-031h 37The Elegant Erotica8. Identity, Purpose, Authenticity & Pursuing Dreams As A DJ, Producer & Percussionist With AlejjosWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.Today I am joined by Alejjos, an out-of-the-ordinary producer and percussionist. We recently met at his gig in Cyprus and I was hugely inspired by his raw and moving self expression that is so thoughtfully translated through music. Alejjos is truly one of a kind and certainly not your everyday DJ; his music is filled with Cypriot influences and sound bites, and his ambition and authenticity is evident in everything he creates and shares with the world.In this episode:Alejjos’ journey becoming a musician, from busking on th...
2024-09-261h 09The Elegant Erotica7. Conscious Motherhood: A Journey Through Creating The Sacred Bond, Redefining Relationships, Reclaiming Sexality & Awakening The Wise Mother Within With Stefanie NicolaouWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.Today I am joined by a dear friend who I greatly admire, Stefanie Nicolaou; a feminine embodiment coach, birth keeper and doula, tantric practitioner and mother. Stefanie has played a huge part in how I’ve consciously connected with my internal wisdom as a woman throughout my motherhood journey, and today she is here to share her unique perspective and authentic experiences with you. We share an honest, rich and connecting conversation exploring motherhood, relationships, rediscovering yourself and existing outside of being solely a mother.In this episode:Lo...
2024-09-191h 36The Elegant Erotica6. The Magnetism of a Woman: Unleashing Your Inner PowerWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.Over the past month, I've explored how a woman's magnetic charge (the inner power that attracts love, opportunities, and experiences) lies within our grasp. Here’s a breakdown of my journey and lessons on how you can tap into your own magnetic potential...In this episode:Personal journey: from self-doubt to embracing magnetismBeyond the cycle: feeling magnetic all month, not just one weekMagnetic mindset: How to feel magnetic when you don’t feel sexy, worthy, or desiredStep into power: a three-step journey to embrace your magnetic selfIdentify blocks: reco...
2024-09-0518 minThe Elegant Erotica5. The Journey Of Restoring Harmony After Emotional Turmoil With Katja BaumbachWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.Today I am joined by the bright and illuminating Katja Baumbach; a consciousness, love and energy coach who helps men and women balance their Yin & Yang energy through the THK method, meditation and goal oriented coaching.In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional aftermath of divorce, particularly how it can create a lack of love in your childhood. We explore how the imbalance of male energy, both externally through the men in your life and internally through your yang energy, can leave you feeling lost, unloved, and...
2024-09-051h 01The Elegant Erotica4. The Journey To Self-Mastery: Emotional Wellbeing & Embracing DualityWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich PodcastIn this episode, we explore:Navigating life changes: When friendships, relationships, or careers shift unexpectedly, how can we remain true to ourselves?The importance of self-honesty: Why asking about your own well-being is crucial during intense times.Processing past hurts: Understanding how experiences are stored in our nervous system and finding release through tears and journaling.Creating space for healing: Learn the process of releasing negative emotions to make space for different life choices.Restructuring your life: Tips on how to navigate changes when it feels like the ground is...
2024-08-2921 min
Human Design With LivySelf-Mastery, Cacao Ceremonies, Relationships & Motherhood With Anfisa ShimkevichI’m thrilled to be joined by 5/1 Manifesting Generator, Anfisa Shimkevich. Anfisa is a mother and entrepreneur, living in Cyprus. Anfisa has a deeply embodied understanding of the holistic integration of physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health. Her journey began with facilitating cacao ceremonies and has led to self mastery mentorship.Highlights include:3 defining moments in building her personal brandHow to use cacao to navigate challenges as an entrepreneur and mumWhat it’s like to attend a cacao ceremony for the first timeHow a sacred cacao ceremony can transform your lifeHow to avoid misuse of cacao, part...
2024-08-291h 02The Elegant Erotica3. The Transformative Journey Of Motherhood: Emotional Bonding & Regulation, Parenting By Design, Self Care & Pleasure With Louise LastrinaWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.Today I am joined by my dear friend, Louise Lastrina; a yoga teacher, movement enthusiast, reiki practitioner, a wife and a mother to three. Louise played a pivotal role in my transition into this new chapter of life, and today we have an open and honest conversation about the challenges and joys of being a mother. This episode is filled with valuable advice for mothers at every stage of their journey.In this episode:Emotional bonding: keeping a close bond with your childrenDiscipline differently: breaking away from societal...
2024-08-221h 18The Elegant Erotica2. Shifting Your Perception: From Problems To Mastering Life’s ChallengesWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.In this enlightening episode, I delve into how a shift in perception can transform the way you view your ‘problems’ as ‘challenges to master’. I often hear people frame their problems as dense issues, but, the reality is, everyone is challenged by life, it’s what we came here to experience! If we didn’t have hurdles, how would we grow, evolve or think about creating something different for our life? It’s a crucial part to our evolution and soul's journey. Tune in to today’s episode to discover how to shift your mi...
2024-08-1518 minThe Elegant Erotica1. From Spirit To Self: Trusting The Soul Journey & Embracing Our Human ExperiencesWelcome to the Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast.In this intimate monologue, I share my personal journey of understanding the soul's voyage from the invisible realm to our 3D bodies. Through my experience as a mother, I explore the profound moment of hearing my child's heartbeat for the first time and how this moment shaped my perception of how a soul lands from the invisible realm into the 3D body. This episode delves into the concept that seeing ourselves and others as souls will shape how we experience life, choices and relationships.In this episode:The...
2024-08-0827 minThe Elegant EroticaWelcome To The Anfisa Shimkevich PodcastWelcome to The Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast. I’m your host Anfisa and I’m so happy you're here. I am a self-mastery mentor and ceremonial cacao facilitator living in Cyprus, a beautiful island in the Mediterranean. If you’re ready to step into your personal authenticity and find true connection, you're in the right place. Here, you will find juicy, captivating and moving stories from our guests, who share authentically about their human experiences and what excites their soul.I have a burning passion for healing and self-exploration and these are the types of jui...
2024-08-0201 min