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I Saw Him FirstEP.81 My Deepest Relationship FearsAre you afraid of love? Scared to open your heart because it feels like true love might not last? In this deeply personal video, I share my fears about relationships and why I’ve been single for over two years. From the fear of waking up to a partner who no longer loves me to the anxiety of being stuck in an unhappy relationship with kids, I open up about the emotional struggles that have shaped my love life. But I’m trying to think positively—holding on to the hope that the universe will show me true, lasting love...2024-12-2422 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.80 Dating Advice 101: Red Flags, Green Flags & All You Need to Know (For Teens & Young Women)Let’s have a heart-to-heart, girls. Let's get into the girl chat! 💕 Whether you're a teenager navigating your first crush or a young woman figuring out modern dating, this video is packed with real, relatable, and empowering advice. From decoding lies from boys, to setting boundaries and figuring out who you are, I’m here to help you navigate the sometimes messy but exciting world of dating 🌸✨ Grab a cup of tea (and your favorite snack), get comfy, and join me as we chat about everything from red flags 🚩 to knowing your worth and not settling for boys you're not...2024-12-0241 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.79 The unexpected connection between Love Is Blind UK & Sabrina Carpenter's new albumNavigating Insecurities in Relationships | Love Is Blind UK & Sabrina Carpenter's New Album. In this episode of the podcast, we dive deep into the first and latest season of Love Is Blind UK, focusing on the emotional journey of two standout characters - Catherine & Freddie. We explore how insecurities can impact relationships, using the case of Catherine who loses her chance with a great guy due to self-doubt, lack of trust and past relationship trauma. We discuss how past experiences with toxic relationships can make it difficult to trust new, potentially healthy ones. Connecting these themes...2024-08-3129 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.78 Love Island 2024: Your ULTIMATE Cast Breakdown! 🎬 | First Looks & PredictionsLOVE ISLAND IS HEREEEE! In this podcast, we're diving deep into the latest Love Island season with a comprehensive cast breakdown. From the hottest new islanders to the juiciest fights and gossip, I've got all the deets you need to stay in the loop. Whether you're a die-hard fan or just tuning in, this breakdown will give you all the insights into this summer's Love Island UK cast members and predictions for this season's drama, romance, celebrity appearances and much more. 👥 Meet the Cast: - Get to know the islanders: names, backgrounds, accents, and first impressions. - Early favourites and...2024-06-151h 05

I Saw Him FirstEP.77 The Psychology of Mate Poaching - The Rizz, The Cheats & The ExtrovertsLet's get into the intriguing world of dating psychology as we explore why extroverts are more prone to mate poaching and infidelity. Are extroverted individuals really more likely to cheat? What makes them successful at "rizz" and attracting partners? Does that mean people dating introverts are safe? In this episode, we break down a fascinating psychology study that sheds light on these behaviors. I discuss: - The prevalence of mate poaching today. - How extroverts use their charisma and social skills to attract their friends' partners. - Whether or not all extroverts will cheat on you TIMESTAMP00:00 Dump your man...2024-06-0811 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.76 A message to the SINGLE and LONELY people...Feeling lonely and tired of being single? You CAN be single and happy! This video is a must-watch for anyone struggling with solitude, self doubt, sadness, and yearning for a deeper connection. What if I told you that there are several benefits to being single? What if I said that single people may actually be happier than people in relationships? Discover empowering insights and practical tips to transform your mindset and embrace this phase of your life with confidence. Don't let loneliness hold you back—watch now and start your journey towards a fulfilling, happy single life! I SAW HI...2024-05-1921 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.75 Married for 30+ Years - The Secrets to HAPPILY EVER AFTERUnlock the Secrets to a Lasting Relationship: 5 Tips from a Couple Together for 30+ Years. Looking for the key to long-lasting love? In this exclusive, I discuss my interaction with a a couple who've been together for over three decades, to uncover their secrets to relationship success. They shared their invaluable insights, packed with wisdom that can transform your love life. Don't miss out on this intimate conversation about love, commitment, and the secrets to lasting happiness. Subscribe for more relationship tips, share your thoughts in the comments below, and hit the like button if you found this video valuable! ...2024-04-2115 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.74 STORYTIME: Unbelievable Bumble Date Disaster!In this juicy storytime, I spill the tea on my disastrous Bumble rendezvous. From being 30 minutes late to tipsiness and corkiness.. this date took an unexpected turn! Get ready for laughs, cringes, and learn a lesson or two about online dating. Hit that play button now and let's get into the drama! #BumbleDate #DatingDisaster #storytime I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and...2024-04-1310 min

SIGNALAnjyy Olosunde’s Journey with 2nTwoWe’re really proud of the success Janno Media Award recipient, Anjyy Olosunde has had with her debut podcast 2nTwo.It’s been a real pleasure getting to know her and watch her thrive on this exciting podcast journey which has seen the release of eight brilliant episodes. Anjy has brought humour, authenticity and insightful questions to a range of impressive guests.Anjyy's journey began with her winning the Janno Media Award in 2023, impressing both Janno Media Founder, Matt Wallace, and John Collins, Senior Lecturer at Nottingham Trent University’s Centre for Broadcast Journalism, with her pi...2024-04-1127 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.73 Love is Blind Season 6 RECAP: The Good, The Bad & The Megan Fox Look Alike Let's get into the latest season of Love is Blind with this no-nonsense recap! The lies from Jimmy, the betrayal from Jeramey, the insecurities from Chelsea and AD, the toxic behaviour from Trevor, the cheating scare from Clay, the proclaimed Megan Fox look-alikeness from Chelsea, the cheeky epi pen comment from Jessica, the Sarah-Ann drama, the girl's girl comment from Laura, the Amy & Johnny love story, the reunion.. and much more :) I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire peo...2024-03-3140 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.72 Exposing our Unhinged Dating HabitsEVERYTHING WRONG WITH MODERN DATING. Unfiltered and absolutely unginged podcast today about the toxic realities of modern dating! From swiping patterns on dating apps to dating trends, dating psychology, hypergamy, looks maxxing, and all the other challenges of today's modern dating landscape. I also spoke about the impact of hookup culture on commitment. So whether you're navigating the dating scene yourself or simply curious about the trends shaping modern relationships, this podcast episode offers valuable insights and thought-provoking analysis. ENJOY :))))))) TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Everything wrong with modern dating 00:33 Intro 00:47 No. 1 - False Perception of our attractiveness 06:30 No. 2 - Delusion 11:14...2024-03-2120 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.71 Most Men Are UglyModern dating really is the survival of the fittest! Today's podcast is a thought-provoking discussion about our swiping patterns on dating apps as women, compared to men. This was inspired by a Reddit post about beauty standards and societal perception of the regular everyday man on the physical attractiveness scale. Has online dating really become so superficial and heavily skewed towards the higher percentile of attractive men - aka "High Value Men"? Are most men really ugly? #highvaluemen #hypergamy #askreddit #redditstories #onlinedating #mostmenareugly #datingapps #relationshippodcast #girlchat #highstandards #dating #datingup #moderndating #podcastondating #datingpodcast #DatingLife #SingleLife #DatingAdvice #genuineconnection #truelove #lovelife #superficiallove...2024-03-1710 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.70 When Did Love Become So UNCOOL? | Modern Dating & Hookup CultureLet's talk about the complexities of modern dating. In a world where casual relationships and hookup culture is quickly becoming the norm, it has become so uncool to admit that you want a genuine connection. When did wanting to be loved become so uncool? Perhaps this is perceived as being synonymous with desperately longing for love and affection? In this candid episode, I recap a recent encounter during a house party and share my thoughts on the state of modern dating in 2024. From dating apps to "Love is Blind" Season 6! No spoiler :) But it's not all doom and gloom...2024-03-0918 min

2nTwoEP 8 - "THANK GOD FOR COMEDY BECAUSE MUSIC WASN’T WORKING FOR ME” ft BenzoThe1stWelcome to the eighth episode of the 2nTwo podcast with your host Anjy. This episode is with the young and successful TikToker known as BenzoThe1st. He has racked up over 200 thousand followers on TikTok with his funny and relatable skits and he recently featured in an online series made by the popular clothing brand PrettyLittleThing. It all started off when he was in university studying architecture and started making funny videos to cope with the stress of education. Listen to the full episode to hear about Benzo’s journey and what’s next in his career. ...2024-03-061h 08

I Saw Him FirstEP.69 Stop dating the "good guys" - you're SETTLINGSociety loves to tell women that as long as he's a "good guy," nothing else matters. But is that true, or are you really just settling for less than you deserve in a relationship? In this thought-provoking podcast, I delve deep into the pervasive myth of dating the so-called "good guys" and why it may not always lead to happy ending you may have pictured!Contrary to popular beliefs, being with a good guy does not mean that you're with the right guy, and caring about seemingly superficial things like height, physical attraction and social status (AKA high value men...2024-03-0113 min

SIGNALJournalism, Podcasting & The Janno Media Award: A Conversation with John CollinsIt was great to sit down with John Collins, Senior Lecturer at Nottingham Trent University’s (NTU) Centre for Broadcasting & Journalism (CBJ), at the end of last year.As well as Founder, Matt and Marketing Manager, Nicola getting the chance to tour their old stomping ground, we got to record a brilliant chat with John on all thing’s journalism and podcasting.John shared his insights into the ever-changing landscape of journalism and the growing significance of podcasting and audio content. We discussed the importance of vocational routes in journalism and the Janno Media Award for...2024-03-0146 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.68 Why I Stopped Dating at 25Curious about why someone would put the brakes on dating in their 20s? Should you stop dating too? Will I really never date again? Whether you're navigating your own dating journey or simply intrigued by the idea of taking a break from the dating scene, this video is for you! In this candid storytime, I delve into the personal journey that led me to make the decision to stop dating at 25. From the multiple failed relationship to unmet expectations, being told you have standards that are too high, self-discovery, self doubt, and then living the lonely single life.. I share...2024-02-2213 min

2nTwoEP 7 - BEHIND THE BEATS: MAKING IT IN AND OUT OF LOS ANGELES ft. Mo Samuels “The age I am now, my brother had just worked on his first big song. At 33 I’ve been able to be Grammy nominated and work with some of the biggest artists known to man” Welcome to the seventh episode of the 2nTwo podcast with your host Anjy. In this episode, Anjy speaks with Grammy nominated music producer, model and songwriter, Mo Samuels. They discuss everything about making music and his journey as a producer originally from London but living in Los Angeles in the USA for the past ten years. Mo says being Nigerian and bein...2024-02-211h 18

2nTwoEP 6 - I SPENT VALENTINE'S DAY TALKING TO RELATIONSHIP EXPERTS ft. Danielle and Hasani Pettiford “We can't be people who encourage relationship coaching and don't also have one... every leader needs a leader.”OR"The mindset is a little off right now in the dating world right now...if you're broke it's like that's an automatic disqualifier" Welcome to the sixth episode of the 2nTwo podcast with your host Anjy. This is a slightly different episode as it is the second one this week. It's only right to give you all a bonus episode for valentines day. Anjy speaks with Danielle and Hasani Pettiford, co-founders of the Co...2024-02-1554 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.67 When To End A Relationship | Valentine's Day Special (breakup advice)So it's VALENTINE'S DAY! 🎉 But for some people, it may be the end of their relationships 🥲 Well, I'm back with some actionable relationship advice for you! By the end of this video, you'll certainly get some clarity about whether or not to end your relationship. Are you at a crossroads in your relationship? Wondering if it’s time to say goodbye to the love of your life? Unsure about where it all went wrong? Should I stay or should I go? In this Valentine’s Day special, I give some tangible advice on how to know when it's time to break up w...2024-02-1510 min

2nTwoEP 5 - “THERE AREN’T MANY BLACK FEMALE DIRECTORS IN THE MEDIA INDUSTRY” ft. TRACEYDEE“I know how hard it was for me…so I am very intentional in that I always try and hire women.” Welcome to the fifth episode of the 2nTwo podcast with your host Anjy. In this episode, Anjy speaks with Tv and Film director TraceyDee. They discuss Tracey’s experience starting out as a videographer before emerging as a director and now setting up her own Production company, GREYSPACES. This episode shows her entire journey as a young black female creative but also how much family dynamics impact you in adulthood. Guest cont...2024-02-131h 34

I Saw Him FirstEP.66 Why You Should PITY the Rich | Hedonic Adaptation ExplainedHave you ever wondered why we DON'T feel bad for rich people? This is a very intriguing episode of my podcast where I delve into the paradoxical concept of empathy towards the rich and powerful people of the world. I explained the psychological phenomenon known as Hedonic Adaptation (Hedonic Happiness or the Hedonic Treadmill) and its profound implications on our perceptions of wealth and happiness. Contrary to conventional and popular beliefs, I explore the thought provoking reason why it's not valid to dismiss the feelings of those who seemingly have it all, but rather see them for what they really...2024-02-0813 min

2nTwoEP 4 - FRESH OFF THE BOAT ft. IGA-MARIA“I never really tapped into any culture so when I came to England my identity was being built up from scratch….”Welcome to the fourth episode of the 2nTwo podcast with your host Anjy. In this episode, Anjy speaks with her long term friend Iga-Maria. They discuss both their experiences as immigrants coming to the UK at a young age. This episode shows their different hardships, lessons they’ve picked up along the way in life and in love, and some of their favourite high school memories.P.s A freshi...2024-02-071h 26

I Saw Him FirstEP.65 Are WEALTHY people *actually* HAPPY? | The Answer is SHOCKING! (Research-Backed)Does Money *truly* Make You Happy? Let's explore the fascinating world of the rich, where WEALTH is the goal, and HAPPINESS is supposedly an afterthought. What is the relationship between money and happiness? This eye-opening research by 3 psychologists reveals the surprising connections between Income and Wellbeing. It challenges common and popular beliefs that money does not make us happy, and hints at the secret to lasting happiness. So... Can money truly buy happiness? Let's get into out! Here's what you'll get from this video: 1) The 3 component of Happiness (using the knowledge of neuroscience & psychology). 2) I explored 3 research papers on positive...2024-01-3119 min

2nTwoEP 3 - WHY I QUIT BEING A TEACHER ft. JOHN WICK“There’s a lot of pressure as a man and I need that regular income but…” Welcome to the third episode of the 2nTwo podcast with your host Anjy. In this episode, Anjy speaks with TikTok personality and former teacher known as ‘John Wick’. They discuss his experience as a behaviour mentor teacher in London and his reasons for deciding to leave the profession to focus on being a full time content creator. Guest contact info:Instagram + TikTok@johnwick_nvb9 Follow us on socials:h...2024-01-311h 38

All Teens Everywhere (A.T.E.)Episode 13: The Importance of Inclusive Spaces and Cultural Appreciation Join the Dallas Youth Commission and special guest Anjy as we unravel the essence of Welcoming Week, its roots, and its pivotal role in creating environments where everyone feels valued. We'll navigate the landscape of inclusive spaces, sharing anecdotes that showcase their transformative power and discussing how they lay the foundation for authentic intercultural dialogue.As we navigate challenges and solutions, we confront the pervasive issue of racial discrimination and discuss ways to dismantle systemic biases. Success stories and strategies for overcoming these challenges provide a roadmap for listeners eager to contribute to the ongoing fight for...2024-01-3158 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.64 How to build *unshakeable* CONFIDENCE (Science-Backed)Using PSYCHOLOGY to understand how to be more confident, the science behind "fake it till you make it," and what exactly is the secret to building unshakeable self-confidence. I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Dating Tips, Relationship Advice & Self-Development For Young Women 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpKBoRS5q2LAhKOu0fveU2w Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, commen...2024-01-2515 min

2nTwoEP 2 - YOUNG & IN THE CREATIVE INDUSTRY ft. JOSHUA-ALEXANDER"Freelancing is, don’t just expect connections to get you into rooms… actually be good at what you do" Welcome to the second episode of the 2nTwo podcast with your host Anjy. In this episode, Anjy speaks with Joshua-Alexander, a young man from South east London who is an actor and an award winning spoken word artist. They discuss everything from navigating the creative industry at a young age to mental struggles with ADHD, and difficulties in dating. Joshua-Alexander has also set up an instagram page called ‘hellamutuals’ dedicated to helping young creatives like himself connect w...2024-01-241h 28

I Saw Him FirstEP.63 The EASY Mindset Shift That's TRANSFORMING Lives!Using PSYCHOLOGY: The Power of Your Mind, you will learn ACTIONABLE tips to Glow-Up, Change your Mindset, Behavior, Habits, and eventually.. your Life. So, if you struggle to get out of bed in the morning, struggle to find motivation to get anything done, or you just need a little boost of serotonin to get through your day, you're in the right place. ENJOY :))))))) I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Dating Tips, Relationship Advice & Self-Development For Young Women 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpK...2024-01-1618 min

2nTwoEP 1 - LIFE BEFORE AND AFTER PRISON ft. AMANG"I've now got to watch my back because of this area when…I'm from Gambia"Welcome to the first episode of the 2nTwo podcast with your host Anjy. In this episode, Anjy speaks with Amang, a young man from Nottingham who has turned his life around since coming out of prison. Born and bred in Gambia before moving to the UK, Amang speaks on his experience being in prison from age 17 till 19. They discuss everything from relationship straints and mental health during his 18 month sentence, to the new path he is on now making his friends and fa...2024-01-1147 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.62 The Pursuit of HIGH-VALUE MEN: Hypergamy or Gold-Digging? (Research-Based)Uncover the truth behind hypergamy through insightful research and nuanced perspectives, as I delve into the dynamics of dating up and the concept of "high-value men." Is the Pursuit of High-Value Men Gold-Digging? Is it wrong for women to seek successful partners to date or marry? This podcast will give you a deeper understanding of the motivations behind the desire for successful men in the complex landscape of modern relationships, assortative mating, and evidence-based information about the pschology of hypergamy. ENJOY :))))))) TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Hook00:53 Intro01:31 What social media is saying about the dating scene 02:10 What is Hypergamy & Assortative Mating03:16 The Mating...2024-01-0928 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.61 Three POWERFUL Skills To MASTER For A Healthy Relationship In 2024Explore 3 Key Relationship Building Skills to Prepare for a Healthy and Fulfilling Connection in 2024. This episode will give you actionable tips on how to approach dating and romantic relationships with a fresh perspective in the new year. If you feel like you've done all the self work, the healing and the loving yourself.. then this video is this next step. ENJOY :))))))) TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Hook 00:32 - Intro 01:12 - 1st Relationship Skill 06:23 - 2nd Relationship Skill 09:52 - 3rd Relationship Skill 15:30 - Summary A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Dating, Relationships & Personal Development For Young Women 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd...2023-12-2717 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.60 The DARK Side of Hookup Culture: FEMINISM & Casual SEX (Research Based Insights)Navigating Hookup Culture and Feminism with Research-Backed Insights on Casual Sex. I explored eye-opening studies that delve into the complexities of casual relationships, and it's negative impact on women in particular. This is thought-provoking content that challenges modern dating norms and brings more clarity to the truth about hookup culture. #HookupCulture #Feminism #CasualSexInsights TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Hook 00:53 Intro 01:37 Reddit Reading 04:30 What even is Feminism all about? 05:35 Feminism and Choice 06:31 The Positive Impact of Feminism 07:21 The Failures of Modern Feminism 07:45 Sexual Liberation 09:52 Science backed Insights 16:56 The TRUTH 21:32 The SOLUTION 22:20 Women are BEAUTIFUL I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST - WHERE REDDIT STORIES MEET...2023-12-1925 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.59 How To NOT Die ALONE (5 Reasons You're Single & EXACTLY What To Do About It)We're social beings who thrive on connection and belonging. Relationships, whether romantic, platonic, or familial, provide us with love, support, and a sense of purpose. BUT, not EVERYONE finds SOMEONE. That's the reality of the world we live in. But don't lose hope. Here's 5 reasons why you're single and EXACTLY what you can do about it TODAY! #datingadvice101 TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Hook 00:56 Intro 01:46 Reddit Reading 03:11 Reason you're single NO.1 06:41 Reason you're single NO.2 08:07 Reason you're single NO.3 11:25 Reason you're single NO.4 15:21 Reason you're single NO.5 17:15 Real Talk I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST - WHERE REDDIT STORIES MEET DATING PODCAST.. WITH UNPOPULAR OPINIONS🥰 Bec...2023-12-1320 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.58 I Looked Through My BF's Phone.. Now My Life Will Change FOREVER | Aita Reddit StoriesFind out why this gamer dad won't let his fiance and baby sleep. Next, a clash of cultures causes drama between this couple, as a husband refuses to eat street food during a vacation in his wife's hometown in South East Asia. Finally, a curious girlfriend saw a little more than she bargained for when she looked through her boyfriend's phone.. ENJOY :) TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Hook 01:05 Intro 02:18 First AITA Reddit Story 14:28 Second AITA Reddit Story 22:07 TIFU Reddit Story 32:33 Chit-chat I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST - WHERE REDDIT STORIES MEET DATING PODCAST.. WITH UNPOPULAR OPINIONS🥰 Because Who Doesn't Like a Bit of Drama? 😉 SUBSCR...2023-12-0733 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.57 AITA FOR BRINGING UP MY AUNT'S EX AFTER THE CRAZY MARRIAGE PRESSURE | AITA REDDIT STORIESIn this episode, the reddit reading starts off with a very relatable story on marriage pressure, cuz who doesn't love a bit of family drama? Also, uncover the intriguing mystery surrounding a man who seemingly 'accidentally' poisoned his housemate. It's a rollercoaster of awkward moments and unexpected twists. Join me for a captivating journey through these engaging stories and subscribe for more thought-provoking content! 😊 I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available biweekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I S...2023-11-2936 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.56 FIANCÉ MEET AND GREET GONE TERRIBLY WRONG | AITA REDDIT STORIES On this episode, we're diving into the unpredictable whirlwind of love with THREE engagement stories, but a not so happy ending. The nerve-wracking adventure of introducing a fiancé to the family, chaos from a bridezilla around the bridesmaid dress colors, and all the emotions surrounding the return of an engagement gift post-breakup. ENJOY :)))) #PodcastAdventure #WeddingDrama #LoveStories #SubscribeNow #PodcastJourney #WildStories #EngagementTales I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available biweekly so please subscribe if you e...2023-11-2351 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.55 AM I THE A$$HOLE FOR NOT TELLING MY BOYFRIEND I'M THE LANDLORD? | AITA REDDIT STORIESReal talk.. is it ever okay to withhold the fact that you're the landlord of the house you and your partner live in? Is it lying by omission, or do the circumstances make it justifiable? On this episode, we've got three 'AM I THE A$$HOLE' Reddit Stories with a twist at the end... ENJOY :)))))) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available biweekly, so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor...2023-11-1433 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.54 AM I THE A$$HOLE FOR TELLING MY HUSBAND HE CAN'T TAKE A SHOWER? r/AITA REDDIT STORIESJoin me for some laughs with this couple fighting over showers. Is it okay to tell your husband when he can and can't take a shower? What is the big deal with this particular shower, and why is wifey making such a splash about it? 🚿💦😄 ENJOY :))))))) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available biweekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, and almost everywhere you get your podcasts...2023-11-0520 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.53 RISK, ROMANCE & REFLECTIONS: TIPS TO INCREASE YOUR DATING SUCCESSJoin me in this episode of I Saw Him First Podcast to reveal the interesting parallels between Work and Dating. This is not about time management or critical thinking, it's 5 relatable and eye-opening love and life lessons that I've learnt from my job. ENJOY :))))))) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available biweekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, and almost everywhere you get your podcasts. Anchor...2023-10-2337 min

All Teens Everywhere (A.T.E.)Episode 5: The Importance of Teens in Civics & Public Policy ft. DJ YearwoodJoin DJ Yearwood, Andrea, Chloe, Lucas, Anjy, and Leroy as we explore the world of youth engagement in our latest episode. We'll discuss the various aspects of civic engagement, dig into why it's vital for young voices to shape policy, and spotlight inspiring youth-led movements. Discover grassroots organizations and community initiatives, gain advice on advocacy, and dive into opportunities within local government! Tune in for a dynamic conversation on youth in civic engagement and public policy.2023-10-0442 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.52 THIS IS WHAT MAKES A MAN COMMIT TO YOU: 5 MEN REVEAL "THE SECRET"Do You Know the Plain Truth About What Makes a Man Commit? Is it Good Communication? Right Person, Wrong Timing? Finding your Soulmate? Good Looks? Watch this video to find out as I share 11 Key Takeaway From Their Stories. ENJOYYYYYY :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available biweekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, and almost everywhere you get your podcasts. Anchor - https://anchor.fm...2023-09-0429 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.51 WHAT AM I DOING WRONG WITH MEN? (A GHOSTING STORY)Cracking a GHOSTING case on the very relatable Reddit Dilemma titled "WHAT AM I DOING WRONG WITH MEN?" On this episode, I dissect the intricacies of these SITUATIONSHIPS that end in Ghosting. From decoding the red flags and sharing my perspectives on the post, to giving advice on how to deal with ghosters and some mindset shifts that might just give you the aha moment we all need when it comes to unraveling the mysteries of modern dating. Hopefully this inspires you to not give up on love. ENJOYYYYYY :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show...2023-08-2127 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.50 IF YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW? 5 Tips To Help You Decide If They Are "THE ONE"In this episode, I dive into the psychology behind these elusive moments of connection and discuss how to actually know that you know. Here's 5 tips to help you decide if they are "the one"? I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, and almost everywhere you get your podcasts. Anchor - https://anchor...2023-08-0429 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.49 HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOUWelcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! I'm joining the IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD gang with this one. Mixed signals, ambiguous texts, canceled plans, hot and cold behaviour, being left on read, the dreaded I'm not ready for a relationship conversation... these are all signs that someone may not be as interested in you as you have hoped for, but that's OKAYYYY. Lots of storytelling in today's podcast. This really was a fun one to record, I hope you enjoy it too :)))))) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where...2023-06-0925 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.48 WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Today's podcast is all about being confident in what you're looking for and not being afraid to communicate it. I discussed the fear of admitting that you want a committed relationship, how to be confident and intentional with your response to the "so why are you on the apps question", and being prepared to walk away if the other person isn't on the same page as you! I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would...2023-05-1423 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.47 WHY DATING IS SO DIFFICULT AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT ITWelcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! This episode is all about why dating is so hard these days and what you can do to make it easier to navigate. I talked about how technology, vanity, and cultural diversity have made it tough to find love. If you're struggling with dating or just can't understand what's going on in this ghetto dating world, you're not alone :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would...2023-03-2724 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.46 I CAN BUY MYSELF FLOWERS | VALENTINE'S DAY SPECIALWelcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! In this episode, I shared my revised approach to dating in 2023 and what it feels like spending Valentine's Day as a single pringle. I recap how my first date of the year went, what I'm doing differently this time around, treating myself to a bouquet of flowers and plans to sit pretty with a nice tall sparkling glass of wine, SOLO at a boujee bar this Valentine's Day :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and chee...2023-02-1425 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.45 IS CHATGPT THE NEW DATING EXPERT?Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! This episode was brought to you by the one and only ChatGPT :) OMG, I honestly had so much fun recording this! I explored how the new AI technology can act as a wingman and help us navigate the CRAZYYY world of dating out there. ENJOY :))))) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him...2023-01-2923 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.44 SHOULD YOU GET BACK WITH YOUR EX? 5 THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE YOU DOWelcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! An ex is an ex for a reason? OR Are they the one that got away? This is a very fun one if I do say so myself. Here are 5 things you want to think deeply about before you slide into your ex's DM. I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is...2023-01-1422 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.43 DATING STRATEGY FOR 2023 | SPILLING THE TEAWelcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! & HAPPY NEW YEAR :) New Year New Me, New Year New Dating Strategy! Enjoy this bitesized episode where I discuss how I'm approaching dating in 2023 and look out for a very hot tea spilt at the end :)))) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, and almost everywhere you get your podcasts. Anchor - ...2023-01-0218 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.42 HOW TO FIX YOUR ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT STYLE | PART 2Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Do you get worried when they take hours to respond to you, replay moments in your head and wonder if you've said something to push them away, or are you constantly needing reassurance that they still feel the same way about you...? If you answered yes to any of these, you could have an anxious attachment style. Here are 10 tips that will help you release that anxiety, and create a more secure attachment, especially in your dating life. I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship tal...2022-12-0930 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.41 HOW TO FIX YOUR ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT STYLE | PART 1Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Do you get worried when they take hours to respond to you, replay moments in your head and wonder if you've said something to push them away, or are you constantly needing reassurance that they still feel the same way about you...? If you answered yes to any of these, you could have an anxious attachment style. Here are 10 tips that will help you release that anxiety, and create a more secure attachment, especially in your dating life. I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat a...2022-11-0733 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.40 EXCLUSIVE vs OFFICIAL RELATIONSHIPSWelcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Dating exclusively versus being in an official relationship, what's the difference? Should you agree to this? Are you being played? I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, and almost everywhere you get your podcasts. Anchor - https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4RQ6PbXPtplJl9S00EeMlK A...2022-10-3030 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.39 HOW TO DEAL WITH A BREAKUP - 15 TIPSWelcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Let's get straight to the point in this week's episode! 5 DONT's and 10 DOs to help you cope with your breakup. Everyone goes through heartbreak, but getting over it faster is a skill only a few have mastered. I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast...2022-10-1946 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.38 WHY CAN'T MEN PAY FOR EVERYTHING?Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Age Old Question of who should pay on the first date but with a twist! On this epsiode, we have a man who's offended that he's expected to pay for everything and another man who's happy to pay for everything.. even goes as far as calling his girlfriend "An Investement". ENJOY :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available weekly so please subscribe if y...2022-10-0436 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.37 IS BEING LONELY ANTIFEMINIST?Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! What do you say when your date confesses they've been lonely before they met you? Is it a red flag if they said this on your first date? Is self love enough? Is loneliness antifeminist? ENJOY :))))) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor, Spotify, App...2022-09-0626 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.36 FIVE REASONS TO DUMP SOMEONE TODAY | RELATIONSHIP ADVICEWelcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! I talked about the main reasons couples tend to stay together even though they are unhappy and why it's so hard to get out of these unfulfiling relationships. I sharerd a personal story to encourage you to DUMP SOMEONE RIGHT NOW and 5 reasons why you shouldn't wait a second longer! ENJOYYYYY :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is...2022-08-2727 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.35 IS IT CHEMISTRY OR LOVE BOMBING?Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! This episode is about Love Bombing, an extreme or overwhelming display of attention and affection. It tends to happen during the early stages of dating and may be a sign of NARCISSISM by the Love Bomber. Chemistry on the other hand, is more genuine and does not feel overwhelming. I think half the people on LOVE ISLAND are love bombers, but that's a conversation for another day. I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy l...2022-07-2325 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.34 BOYFRIEND WANTS SPACE & DINNER?!Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! For this week's podcast, I went on REDDIT to fish out two really juicy relationship dilemmas. One boyfriend asked for space from his girlfriend, but still wants to text her EVRERDAY and hang out with her? Plus a wife who refused to make dinner for her husband after he ruined her makeup.. LOL I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him Fir...2022-07-1525 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.33 FIRST DATE TIPS (DOs & DON'Ts)Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Enjoy a bit of storytelling and some advice on how to ace your first date and be confident about getting a second one! On this episode, I broke down FIRST DATES into 4 categories: 1) Pre-date Preparation 2) Safety 3) Date Tips & Conversations 4) After-date Etiquette I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this p...2022-07-0824 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.32 WHEN IS FLIRTING TOO MUCH? | Relationship Dilemmas PT2Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Following up from last week's episode, today I answered 10 of the hardest relationship questions from BUZZFEED. Someone's partner is too flirty, one cheated and blamed it on alcohol, another watched the season Finale of a Netflix show without the S/O. Lots more fun scenarios to think about. Enjoyyyyyyy!!!! :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) 2022-06-2726 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.31 ONCE A CHEATER... | Relationship Dilemmas PT1Welcome Back to I SAW HIM FIRST podcast!!! Today I answered 5 of the hardest relationship questions from BUZZFEED. From a partner forgeting your birthday, to requesting a threesome and finding out that you have been cheated on the day OF YOUR WEDDDING. Enjoyyyyyyy!!!! :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please subscribe if you enjoy this podcast :) I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, and almost everywhere you get your podcasts. Anchor - ht...2022-06-2027 min

IPSERIESWITHESMERALDOESQLegal Protection for fashion Designer in the Recreation of Style Era:LafalaiseDon v House of LumineeTo end the 2 part series of how to resolve cross border #intellectualproperty disputes in the digital era, this episode of #IPSERIES focuses on the implication of recreating a dress design inspired by another fashion designer without acknowledging where the inspiration was gotten. The case between #LafalaiseDion and Abiodun Folashade Tokunbo CEO of Anjy Luminee Couture, also known as House of Luminee, over the famous #cowriedress which broke the internet last year during the #MissWorld contest won again at the premiere of #KingofThieves on 3rd April 2022. Lafalaise Don an Ivorian fashion designer in a publication accused the Nigerian fashion designer Abiodun...2022-05-121h 00

The Counter Culture PodcastAre private parts still private?On this episode we discuss nudity and what parts of the body are private or not. Featuring Delight, Manny, JFK, Anjy and Peace. Enjoy! Like, share and rate us please!2022-04-0224 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.30 OWNING YOUR STANDARDS AND BEING OPEN-MINDED w/Certified Matchmaker - BusolaAre your goals and values in alignment? Here are a few things that professional matchmaker - Busola considers when predicting compatibility between two people. Knowing who you are and what you want in a relationship is the first step in finding the right partner for you! We discussed opposites attracting, communication styles to resolve conflicts, being open minded, knowing your non-negotiables, and building a good foundation for your relationship. I Saw Him First Podcast is available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, and almost everywhere you get your podcasts. Ancho...2022-03-2847 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.29 MATCHMAKING AND FINDING THE RIGHT PARTNER ft Certified Matchmaker - ChiFrom the mouth of a certified matchmaker and dating coach Chi, to your ears.. Here's a few things you should know about matchmaking and what it takes to find a long-term partner. On this week's podcast, we discussed the concept of having multiple soulmates, we talked about dating patterns and compatibility, red flags and deal breakers, the flawed statement "you have to love yourself before you can love someone else", managing expectations in dating, and of course.. MATCHMAKING. Enjoy :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I ch...2022-03-2142 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.28 WHO COMES FIRST.. FRIENDS OR LOVER?If you've seen the timeless series FRIENDS, then you know this story too well. The one where Ross says Rachel at the altar, instead of Emily. That chaotic incident inspired this podcast. Who comes first.. your lover or your friends? This is not a straightforward question at all, and in this episode, I discussed several reasons why either side would take priority over the other. Also, I dropped a very very very exclusive content about my personal experience with this dilemma. ENJOY :) I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about...2022-03-1523 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.27 THE CAST OF LOVE IS BLIND IS NOT BLINDThey say that Love is Blind but I'm not buying that! I don't think it's smart or reasonable to rely sorely on an emotional connection for the success or longevity of a romantic relationship. On this episode, I discussed the highlights of the second season of Netflix's hit series LOVE IS BLIND. Is two days really enought time to fall in love with someone? Does physical attraction really not matter when choosing a lifelong partner? In the end, will love truly be enough? I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I c...2022-03-0819 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.26 WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE TABLE? (No, you're not the table)"What do you bring to the table? I am the table". Uhmmm... no you're not. I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please follow if you enjoy this podcast :) This week's episode is about what makes us a great catch and what qualities we bring to a relationship! What do you bring to the table? I'm sure most of us have had this conversation with someone at some point and personally.. I don...2022-03-0113 min

TransmissionMordre dans un citronEst-ce que je suis seul.e à ressentir tout ça ? César me dit : « Anjy, il faut que tu mordes dans un citron ». Décharge de sensations pour se raccrocher à soi pendant une crise d’angoisse. Des ponts joyeux entre les malaises, des solitudes qui se rejoignent dans la grande teuf des monstres en archipel. Un documentaire proposé dans le cadre de la troisième saison de Transmission, l'école libre de narration sonore. Mordre dans un citron est signé Anjely Raïs Crédits mu...2022-01-3124 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.25 A MATCH IS JUST AS USELESS AS YOUR APPENDIX (What Dating Apps Are Doing Wrong)I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please follow and review if you enjoy this podcast :) This week's episode is about dating apps failing cuz let's be honest, they're not giving what they're supposed to give! Do you get loads and loads of likes and matches but somehow end up with ZERO DATES? Yep, that probably sounds familiar to you cuz that's what most of these apps have got to offer...2022-01-1715 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.24 DATING HABITS TO LEAVE IN 2021I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is a Dating & Relationship talk show where I chat about all the fun and cheesy lovey-dovey stuff. New episodes would be available Mondays weekly so please follow and review if you enjoy this podcast :) This week's episode is about the dating habits we're not bringing into 2022 because I'm done with all that nonsense, lol. I spoke about the new notion that feeling butterflies in your tummy is somehow a red flag, how being loyal is hurting us and the concept of emotional masturbation. I S...2022-01-1012 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.23 LET'S GROW AS WE GO"You don't ever have to leave, if to change is what you need.. you can change right next to me. Let's grow as we go" - Ben Platt I'M BACK Y'ALLLLLL :) Feels good! This week's podcast is about dealing with changes in your personal life, changes in your friendships and changes in your romantic relationships. When is the change considered growth and when is it considered outgrowing someone? How do you deal with these changes? Are you expected to continue to be with someone if they have now become someone completely different from the person y...2021-06-2023 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.22 I LOVE YOU BUT KEISHA TOOWould you still believe someone loves you if they cheated on you? Physical vs emotional cheating, which would make you less likely to take back your partner? A one-time slip up, or a year long sexless emotional affair with another woman? I know... It's a conundrum! We also talked about the rapper Quavo, taking back the Bentley he got his now ex for her birthday.. how pathetic 😂 Men are not looking very good this week ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share ❣️ Thanks for listening 😊 Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR Send a dm on Inst...2021-03-2736 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.21 DATING IN A PANDEMIC - DATING APPS EDITIONSPOILER ALERT!!!! I was a little mean on this episode :))))) This week's podcast is sort of me reviewing all the dating apps I've used and what dating has been like in this pandemic. So pretty much what the title says haha. I also talked about the ridiculous reason why I stopped replying a guy's messages and ranked the apps on a 1-10 scale. Long story short... dating in a pandemic is shamblesssss ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share ❣️ Thanks for listening 😊 Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https...2021-03-1222 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.20 HE LOVES ME, HE LOVES ME NOTHave you ever heard the phrase "If a man likes you, you'll know".... well how true is that? On this episode I reacted to Influencer & Youtuber Breeny Lee's podcast about how to tell if a guy wants you. She seems to think if you have to ask then he doesnt, but my friend (who's a man) said that's bullshit LMAO. He says there are lots of men who will fancy you and will not say a damn thing.... and they say women are confusing huh? ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share ❣️ Thanks for l...2021-02-2630 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.19 I GOT A RING - EXCLUSIVITY & LABELS (Valentine's Day Special)Valentine's Day Special!!!!! On this episode, we shared our favourite valentine's day memories and tried to understand what the hype is all about. We also discussed the different phases of a relationship, exclusivity and labels.. how important are they? Finally, we tackled the common dating question "What Are You Looking For" ??? Thanks for listening 😊 ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share ❣️ Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast Email - isawhimfirstpodcast@gmail.com 2021-02-1240 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.18 DO YOU REALLY KNOW WHAT GIRLS LIKE? ft THREE EXPOSE PROS PODCASTWe know what girls like, we know what they want!!!! My first ever podcast collaboration.. and it was hilarious from beginning to the end. 4 girls discuss the things guys do that get us head over heels in love with them. From smelling like Lynx deodorants, to driving you home after a date. From being 6'5, to having big noses, paying on dates, men in suits and men in power. We also talked about shopping for men, the hicks and dealbreakers in a relationship, your man hating the music you love, mansplaining, not getting along with your friends.. all of that...2021-01-2950 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.17 IS A SEXLESS RELATIONSHIP A DEALBREAKER?Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and me... This week's podcast is about the value of sex in a romantic relationship. Can a relationship feel intimate without sex? How much compromise should you make for your partner and how would you approach the conversation around sexual compatitbility? Could you be in a sexless relationship? Thanks for listening 😊 ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share ❣️ Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.instagram.co...2021-01-1541 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.16 SEX EDUCATION IN AN AFRICAN HOUSEHOLDWho knew the Bible was so savage, lol. Sex vs Religion... Is there an even ground? Sex in an African household has been a tabooooo topic for the longest time and we deffo broke the silence on this. We discussed the type of sex education we got as teenagers, men being allowed the liberty and grace to be "promiscuous", but women not given the same leeway, and being held to such unreal standards of holiness. Lastly, we also touched on being a modern 21st century liberal woman and still being religious. Let the debate begin! 🤪 Thanks for listening 😊 ENJOYYYY and don't f...2021-01-0143 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.15 SUCK ME IN WITH YOUR EYEBALLS - FT AUDREY (The Receipts Podcast)This week's podcast will have you rolling on the floor LAUGHING for realllllll. I had so much fun playing "this or that" with Audrey, and telling her how much I love her cheesy jokes. We talked about Love vs Security, Shooting your Shot and Getting the Hint when a guy gives you some intense EYE CONTACT. We also talked about making your intentions clear at the start of a relationship and not being scared to move on if your man or girl is incompatible with you. Thanks for listening :) ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet a...2020-12-1837 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.14 MEN IN THEIR 30s ARE JUST AS SLOPPY - FT AUDREY (The Receipts Podcast)Yes!!!! It's AUDREY, formely known as Ghana's Finest herself on this podcast with me. I also have my twin sister, Kenny with me and I'm so gassed for this week's episode. We talked about what it's like dating in our 20s vs dating in our 30s. Are grown men really more mature? Do you get flown out on an all expense paid trip to Dubai? Date nights in Italy? Or are men in their 30s really just as sloppy as men in their 20s? Do they flake on dates just like this small university boys? Audrey gives us the...2020-12-0442 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.13 WHATCHU KNOW BOUT LOVE?I had sooo much fun recording this! This podcast is a reaction to a couple of Dating & Relationship advice I found on YouTube. It includes advice on Communicating your standards, Giving 100% in a relationship, and the concept of Independent vs Co-dependence. I rated each statement on a scale of 1-10 and gave my own little input about whether or not I agree with these dating experts. ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR Send a dm on Instagram...2020-11-2032 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.12 DATING AS A BLACK GIRL - Part 2On this episode, my two guests and I debated whether or not it is racist to say I DON'T DATE *INSERT RACE*, or if only specific groups of people can get away with always sticking to their race *coughs Asians* :) We also discussed how white men perceive different types of black women and if there is a preference for specific looks or traits. Lastly, we touched on the "pretty for a black girl" phrase and how degrading that is. ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twi...2020-11-0625 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.11 MOVING ON FROM AN UNSUCCESFUL AND UNFULFILLING RELATIONSHIPThis podcast isn't just about how to get over a breakup, it's about how to prepare and get yourself ready for a more suitable match for you! Who exactly qualifies as an ex? How soon should you move on after a relationship has ended? Is the heartbreaker always the one to move on the quickest? Should you try and wean yourself off of your ex or should you straight up go cold turkey? Professional Relationship Coach - Alison Wellington from the U.S talks about the struggles we all go through during a breakup, as well as how to actually mo...2020-10-2346 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.10 DATING AS A BLACK GIRL - Part 13 beautiful black girls having a candid and honest discussion about what it's like to date as black women in the UK. We talked about dating outside our races and the misconceptions of interracial relationships especially when a black woman is involved. Whether or not black men have it easier in the dating world. Flirting with boys or waiting for them to make the first move. Being raised in an African household only to take care of our future black husbands... It's all in there somewhere. I hope you ENJOYYYY it :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https...2020-10-0939 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.9 DATING UP DATING DOWN OR DATING EQUAL?NO ONE WORKS EXTRA HARD TO KEEP SOMETHING THEY CAN EASILY REPLACE!!!! When you have something that doesn't seem of great value to you, you treat it differently to something that feels like a prize or a luxury to have. The same mentality can be applied to DATING OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE. If you date down, you run the risk of not ever being content, whilst also making your partner feel inadequate. If you date up, you find yourself constantly trying to be worthy of your partner and trying extra hard to level up and please them. So should you...2020-09-2629 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.8 GIRLS MAKING THE FIRST MOVEGood things come to those who wait.. but this definitely doesn't apply to men cuz if you wait too long, there just wouldn't be anyone left :) It is seen as the norm for men to do the chasing and asking out. But is this dating culture outdated? Do guys like it when girls ask them out, or does it make them uncomfortable? What are the pros and cons of girls MAKING THE FIRST MOVE? ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR Send a dm on Instagram @ https://www...2020-09-1134 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.7 LOVE IS FAKE - Part 1Another girllll chat 😁 (Part 2 is coming soon for the boys don't worry) On this episode, my guest and I had an in-depth discussion about what it's like DATING IN OUR 20s compared to dating in our teens. We talked about the pressure placed on women especially, to be married at 30, whereas a man is free to be a Bachelor for Life! 😅 Is the fairy-tale narrative of love fake? I don't know.. You tell me 🙂 We also touched on the concept of living your best life single, as opposed to being married and having kids. Lastly we described how our taste in men has...2020-08-2852 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.6 YOU PICKED ME"How to bag the second date with the man or the girl of your dreams"... I know that just sounded like a TedTalk haha. But nahh, It's just banter y'all 🥰 On this episode, I talked about 8 things you could do that'd definitely get you past the first date hurdles and into the arms of your hot stud 😜 I hope you enjoy listening to this as much as I did recording it. If you love my podcast, don't forget to share :) Use the hashtag #HaveSeveralSeats & tweet at me on twitter @ https://twitter.com/ISawHimFirstPod OR send a dm on Instagram @ https://www.in...2020-08-1423 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.5 BREAKS, BREAKUPS, OPEN RELATIONSHIPS & ENTANGLEMENTSThe Ultimate Girl Chat!!! This episode pretty much sums up the conversations us girls have when we get together. So think of this an an Exclusive content for the non-female listeners haha :) My guests and I discussed the Iconic Catchphrase "WE WERE ON A BREAKKKKKKK" from the sitcom "FRIENDS", and went ahead to clarify the difference between a "Break" and a "Breakup". In light of the Jada Smith situationship, we can no longer talk about Open Relationships without mentioning "Entanglements" LOL! ENJOYYYY and don't forget to share with your friends :) Have a say by using the hashtag...2020-07-3155 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.4 WHY WON'T YOU DATE ME?Him: What's wrong? You: Nothing.. Sound familiar? On this episode of I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST, I brought myself to the "Red Table" where I discussed my incompetence as a lover.. LOOOOL! I talked about 5 common mistakes that people tend to make in relationships, and how i think we can avoid them. I hope y'all enjoy this one :) LISTEN TO ME EVERYWHERE - https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast Thanks for listening, and don't forget to share :) 2020-07-1727 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.3 WHAT'S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE?From a seductive touch, to getting a Ferrari for Christmas.. we all have our picks when it comes to how we express or receive love. Knowing that you are loved, and to actually feel loved are two separate things, the latter being the most important! If you are showing love in a way that your partner or friends or family don't receive love, its almost equivalent to not showing love at all. On this podcast, I take my two besties Alex & Sabri on 5 imaginary dates to help them understand their LOVE LANGUAGE. You are soooo gonna love these scenarios...2020-07-041h 03

I Saw Him FirstEP.2 WHY YOU SHOULD DEFINITELY MULTIDATE IN YOUR TWENTIESMy favourite episode yet! I had so much fun with my guest, dissecting the "act of multidating", and all the benefits of exploring your options while you're young. I explained that I'm Sapiosexual, meaning that I'm first turned on mentally by a man's intellectuals, before I find him physically attractive. There's so much you can learn about yourself while multidating, and I'm definitely an advocate for all the free food you get in the process 🤪 ENJOY!!! 😃 Anchor - https://anchor.fm/isawhimfirst Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4RQ6PbXPtplJl9S00EeMlK?si=Iy--KoRbSkqoUbaTlDNAJw SoundCloud - https://m.soundcloud.com/i...2020-06-2040 min

I Saw Him FirstEP.1 MY MAN IS YOUR MAN TOOYou know that your man that's not really your man, but is your man cos everyone kinda knows him as your man? Well what happens when your girlfriend is lipsing your man, clearly you've called dibs on this man? Does girl code even exist anymore? Podcast is also available on SoundCloud. Send in your messages & dilemmas to - isawhimfirstpodcast@gmail.com My socials: Instagram - @isawhimfirstpodcast Twitter - @isawhimfirstpod Facebook page - I Saw Him First Podcast THANKS FOR LISTENING!2020-06-0522 min

I Saw Him FirstTRAILER - I SAW HIM FIRSTOFFICIAL TRAILER is finally here!!! I Saw Him First ~ Have Severallll Seats This is a new Dating & Relationship Show by a 20-something year old living in London. Grab some popcorn and a glass of your favorite wine.. it's story timeeeeee :) I Saw Him First Podcast LAUNCHES on FRIDAY 5th JUNE. SEE YOU SOON! Keep Up With Me: https://linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast 2020-06-0301 min

Alternative Stories and Fake RealitiesWayfaring StrangerSend us a textWayfaring Stranger by Caroline Mincks contemplates the end of everything through a simple folk tune passed down through the generations of one family. Part reminiscence, part warning, this is a story brilliantly written and told. Wayfaring Stranger is Number 5 in our series of Farewell Monologues Written and performed by Caroline Mincks Original music score and soundscapes by Chris GregoryThe presenter is Kelli Winkler The singer of the first version of Wayfaring Stranger is Anjy HallSound effects are from freesound.org We a...2020-01-2410 min

Alternative Stories and Fake RealitiesThe Out-of-Towners ClubSend us a textIt's not all fun and parties when you have to spend Christmas away from your friends and family. For our Christmas edition we meet some of the members of the Out of Towners Club as they plan for Christmas in New York City. Dan - Miguel AntonioJack - Charlie RichardsJessica - Tiffany Clare Allison - Mary McDonaldJenny - Jackie JorgensonAdam - Josh Winkler Kylie - Caroline MincksKelli - Kelli Winkler The Out Of Towners Club was written by Ja...2019-12-1837 min

Alternative Stories and Fake RealitiesFarewell Monologue 3: MojaveSend us a textIn this latest edition of our Farewell Monologues series of short episodes Chelsie Buckner, the poet known as Poems and Peonies, performs her verse story, Mojave. We also provide details on how writers, poets and dramatists can contribute to the podcast. Mojave : Written and performed by Chelsie BucknerMusic : Written by Chris Gregory and performed by Chris Gregory, Anjy Hall, Cherish Burk and Al JordanPresenter : Kelli Winkler Find out more about Chelsie and her work here https://www.instagram.com/poemsandpeonies/For more information a...2019-10-1814 min