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Let’s Talk Memoir177. The Loss of a Lifetime featuring Alyson Shelton and Lynn ShattuckAlyson Shelton and Lynn Shattuck join Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about writing about sibling loss, creating an essay anthology as means to advocate for grief, taking care of ourselves while crafting work about loss, helping people tell their stories, laughter and making space for the rest of our lives, coping with rejection, creating a mosaic with essays, feeling empowered, self-acceptance building community, independently publishing as an act of defiance, and their new anthology The Loss of a Lifetime: Advice from Grieving Siblings.
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Just For ThisAnnie Sklaver Orenstein — Grief is LoveWelcome back to Just For This. Each week, host Rabbi Liz P.G. Hirsch (she/her) interviews women in leadership about women and leadership. Inspired by the story of Esther, we feature powerful stories of women who stand out in their fields, who have stepped up just for this moment. Our guest this week is Annie Sklaver Orenstein, cultural researcher and author of “Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner’s Guide to Grief.” Her book explores the deep and often diminished experience of sibling loss. We discuss the false correlation of closeness with grief, how grief is...2025-05-1228 min
Stepping In with KaraStepping Into the Silence: A Conversation about Sibling Loss with Annie Sklaver OrensteinIn this deeply moving episode, Kara welcomes Annie Sklaver Orenstein, author of Always a Sibling: A Guide for Grieving and Honoring Your Sibling, to discuss her experience of sibling loss and grief. Fifteen years after the tragic death of her brother Ben, who was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan, Annie shares her personal journey of navigating the complex emotions and challenges that accompany this unique type of loss. Drawing on her own experiences and interviews with other siblings who have lost loved ones, Annie offers invaluable and honest insights into the grieving process. This episode offers a...2025-04-061h 03
Grief, Gratitude & The Gray in Between193. Sibling Grief Unveiled: Stories, Struggles, and Strength with Annie Sklaver OrensteinANNIE SKLAVER ORENSTEIN is a qualitative researcher, oral historian, and storyteller who has spent over a decade collecting stories from people around the world. Her work has been featured on NBC Nightly News, Comedy Central, Huffington Post, Politico, TIME, and Mother.ly. In 2020, driven by a desire to share these stories beyond the walls of corporate America, Annie founded Dispatch from Daybreak, a collection of letters written by womxn to their earlier selves. She lives in Connecticut with her husband, children, dog, and chickens.After her brother was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan, Annie Sklaver...2025-03-1948 min
Sol RisingS3E13 Your Grief Matters with Annie Sklaver OrensteinSibling loss. Not much has been written about it, no one really talks about it, or asks about your grief. Because quite often when a sibling dies, your parents are considered the ones in real grief, not you. So not only do others minimize your pain, but you also might minimize it too. Have you lost a sibling? Can you relate? Join Amanda and guest Annie Sklaver Orenstein, qualitative researcher, oral historian, and storyteller for a candid look into what it means to mourn a sibling. Listen as they acknowledge and honor your story and v...2025-02-2843 min
Writing and Editing314. Busting the Social Media Myth with Annie Sklaver OrensteinSend us a textResearcher and author Annie Sklaver Orenstein talks about her publishing journey, the urban legend of social media followings, and why you can still get published without them.▬Visit Annie's website and get a copy of her book:https://www.annieorenstein.com/Follow her socials:https://www.instagram.com/anniesklaverorenstein/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/anniesorenstein/ https://www.threads.net/@anniesklaverorenstein2025-02-2724 min
Seeing Death ClearlyAlways a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner with Annie Sklaver OrensteinSend us a textIn this episode, Annie Sklaver Orenstein shares her personal journey of grief after losing her brother, Ben, in Afghanistan 15 years ago. After his death, Annie found little support for siblings, so she wrote Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief, a book addressing the unique pain of losing a sibling. She discusses how there were no resources that resonated with her—most grief books focus on parents, spouses, or children, not siblings. As she researched and interviewed other bereaved siblings, she discovered patterns in their experiences th...2025-02-2341 min
Grief Out LoudWere You Close? Always A Sibling With Annie Sklaver OrensteinIn this episode we talk with Annie Sklaver Orenstein, author of Always A Sibling: The Forgotten Mourners. Annie talks about her older brother, Ben, who died when he was deployed in Afghanistan, and how his sudden death reshaped her understanding of grief and loss. They discuss the unique challenges of sibling loss and how Annie ultimately decided to write the book she wished she had when Ben died. We Discuss: Annie’s relationship with her brother Ben and his role in her life The day Annie learned of Ben’s death and the immediate aftermath How grief...2025-01-2441 minGrief Out LoudWere You Close? Always A Sibling With Annie Sklaver OrensteinIn this episode we talk with Annie Sklaver Orenstein, author of Always A Sibling: The Forgotten Mourners. Annie talks about her older brother, Ben, who died when he was deployed in Afghanistan, and how his sudden death reshaped her understanding of grief and loss. They discuss the unique challenges of sibling loss and how Annie ultimately decided to write the book she wished she had when Ben died. We Discuss: Annie’s relationship with her brother Ben and his role in her life The day Annie learned of Ben’s death and the immediate aftermath How grief...2025-01-2441 min
Restorative Grief with Mandy Capehart171. Let's Honor Sibling Loss with Annie Sklaver Orenstein"This grief is so hard because we cannot control it."
We’ve all experienced something unique in our grief stories, but when it comes to sibling loss, there are some aspects even the experts don’t understand.
Sibling loss is a woefully underrepresented area of grief support, so when Annie Sklaver Orenstein lost her big brother, Ben, she realized her work as a qualitative researcher could be a great gift to the community of sibling loss survivors.
Her book, "Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner’s Guide to Grief" is a masterclass in self-a...2025-01-1950 min
EPIC Begins With 1 Step ForwardThe Healing Path: Conversations On Grief And Growth With Annie Sklaver OrensteinSibling loss is a unique grief journey, often hidden in the shadows, but finding healing and connection is possible. In this heartfelt episode, Zander Sprague sits down with Annie Sklaver Orenstein, researcher and author of Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief. Together, they dive into the unique and often overlooked experience of sibling loss, sharing personal stories and discussing the profound impact of unacknowledged grief. Annie reveals the research behind her book, which combines academic insights with personal interviews from over 350 bereaved siblings, uncovering universal truths about grief, guilt, and resilience. Zander reflects on his journey...2025-01-1331 min
I Don't Know How You Do ItMy Brother's Keeper: Sibling Loss and the Forgotten Mourners, with Annie Sklaver OrensteinAfter her brother was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan in 2009, Annie Sklaver Orenstein was heartbroken and unmoored. Standing in the grief section of her local bookstore, she searched for guides on how to work through her grief as a mourning sibling — and found nothing. Annie shares how alone she felt in her grief, driving her to write Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief. We explore why sibling grief often goes unacknowledged and how siblings navigate the complex journey of mourning while their grief is frequently overshadowed by parental loss.The co...2024-12-1039 min
Grief Observed PodcastEpisode 75 Grief Conversations with Annie Sklaver Orenstein (Author of Always a Sibling)My guest today is Annie Sklaver Orenstein. She is the author of Always a Sibling. Annie speaks about the loss of her brother Ben.
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Books: https://www.amazon.com/Always-Sibling-Forgotten-Mourners-Guide/dp/030683149X
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Life's UndertakingAlways a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to GriefAnnie Sklaver Orenstein, author of Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief, chats with Brad about the loss of her brother Ben and why she wrote this practical and compassionate guide to sibling loss.2024-12-0536 min
Grief in BriefEp 72: Sibling Loss and the Forgotten Grievers with Annie Sklaver OrensteinThe grief market may have a number of resources, guides and/or supports for the death of a spouse or parent. What about when your sibling dies? There are scant if any resources available. Annie discovered this after her brother was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan. In fact, much of what is available is how siblings can care for their grieving parent. Feedback, that can be minimizing, is what siblings need to do, not how they feel. The lack of understanding and attention to sibling loss inspired Annie to write her book; Always A Sibling; the Forgotten M...2024-12-0418 min
Where's The Grief?Author Annie Sklaver Orenstein - "Always A Siblling"In this episode, I talk to author Annie Sklaver Orenstein about her new book, "Always A Sibling: The Forgotten Mourners Guide To Grief." After years of struggling with her own grief after the death of her brother Ben to a suicide bomber in Afghanistan, Annie began writing what ultimately became the book that she wished had existed when her loss was fresh. As a skilled reasearcher, Annie surveyed and interviewed dozens of other bereaved siblings, weaving their stories together with her own, along with detailed references to so many of the resources and support that is out t...2024-11-271h 22
Going Thru ItAlways a Sibling With Annie Sklaver OrensteinA widower has lost a spouse, an orphan has lost their parents, but what do you call someone who has lost a sibling? Oh, right — there’s no word for that. This week, we have the pleasure of connecting with cultural researcher, writer and storyteller Annie Sklaver Orenstein, author of Always A Sibling. After Annie’s brother Ben was tragically killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan, she found herself in the grief section of her local bookstore, searching for guidance on how to navigate the pain of losing a sibling — but found nothing. In a quest for understanding, Annie sp...2024-11-2247 min
The Mourning Coffee PodcastEpisode 29: Sibling Grief with Annie Sklaver OrensteinAnnie lost her brother Ben to a suicide bomber in Afghanistan. Her new book ALWAYS A SIBLING supports mourners through the unique experience of sibling loss. You can find out more about Annie here: https://www.annieorenstein.com/To purchase my book, Grief Sucks (But Your Life Doesn't Have To), visit: https://a.co/d/bOWYcDh📝 FREE resources if you're struggling with grief: https://www.brookecarlock.org/resources💬 HelpTexts offers a full year of personalized grief support direct to your phone! Sign up using my link to save 10%! https://helptexts.com/brookecarlock🔔 Su...2024-11-1745 min
The Bold LoungeAnnie Orenstein: Bold Lessons in Love, Loss & HealingSend us a textContent Warning: death of a sibling, griefAbout This EpisodeJoin us as we welcome Annie Orenstein, an esteemed qualitative researcher, oral historian, storyteller, and the author of Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner’s Guide to Grief. Through Annie's insights, we explore the deeply personal nature of boldness and the courage it takes to keep moving forward, especially after hardship. As the youngest of three siblings, Annie shares the experience of losing her oldest brother during his deployment in Afghanistan, and we examine the shared and di...2024-10-2348 min
Best Life Best Death#161 What Are the Different Ways that Grief Shows Up? – Annie Sklaver Orenstein, AuthorResilient grief, complicated grief, anticipatory grief, disenfranchised grief. These are terms you may or may not be familiar with, but trust me, learning about them will help you and help you understand your friends and family in times of loss and grief. – Which, by the way, is pretty much going on all the time, hand-in-hand with joy and expansion. This human life is filled with grief. Let’s learn from an expert, steeped in her own experience plus backed by research, author of Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner’s Guide to Grief , Annie Sklaver Orenstein.
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Can You Just Sit With Me? with Natasha SmithAnnie Sklaver Orenstein on Sitting with Sibling LossIn this epiosde, Annie Sklaver Orenstein, a qualitative researcher, oral historian, and storyteller who has spent over adecade collecting stories from people around the world joins Natasha for a much needed conversation on Sibling Loss. They discuss Annie's latest book, Always A Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief, a practical, compassionate guide to sibling loss, with research, stories, and strategiesfrom someone who’s been there.Tune in and join the conversation. Let us know what resonates with you. Main points:Acknowledging the Unique Grief...2024-09-2638 min
Best Life Best Death#160 Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner’s Guide to Grief – Annie Sklaver Orenstein, AuthorWhen Annie Sklaver Orenstein’s brother died, she looked for books that would help her to understand her experience as a surviving sibling. While she encountered a fair number of books about grief, she found nothing that began to touch on her experience – so she set out to write the book she needed. Part personal story, part interviews and surveys with hundreds of siblings, and part a collection of important material on trauma, grief and families, this book rocked my world and my understanding of the importance of siblings and grief.
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All the GriefChat with the Author: Annie Sklaver Orenstein, Always a SiblingAndrea and Rebecca interview author, Annie Sklaver Orenstein about her recently released her book Always a Sibling, published by Hachette Go. After her brother was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan, Annie was heartbroken. Standing in the grief section of her local bookstore, she searched for guides on how to work through her grief as a mourning sibling—and found nothing. More than 4 million American adults each year will lose a sibling, yet there isn't a modern resource guide available that speaks directly to this type of grief that at times can be overshadowed by grieving parents and sp...2024-09-201h 00
Grief'd UpThe Unseen Pain of Sibling Loss with Annie Sklaver Orenstein“I've still never seen Avatar."
In this powerful episode of Grief'd Up, host Rebecca Feinglos sits down with Annie Sklaver Orenstein, author of Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourners Guide to Grief. Annie shares her deeply personal journey through the unexpected loss of her brother, Ben, who was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan in 2009.
Rebecca and Annie discuss how sibling grief is often the least recognized form of familial grief. They highlight the concept of "forgotten mourners" and discuss why sibling loss is rarely given the same attention as the loss of a parent or...2024-09-1249 min
Grieving VoicesAnnie Sklaver Orenstein | Sibling Loss: Forever Ben's SisterWith over a decade of experience collecting stories globally, this week's guest and author, Annie Sklaver Orenstein, has been featured on platforms such as NPR and Time. Her book, Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourners Guide to Grief, is an empathetic resource for surviving siblings—a group often overlooked in mourning.Annie shares her insights about sibling relationships being some of the longest-lasting bonds in life. This perspective offers new dimensions to understanding grief, especially for those who haven't experienced sibling loss themselves. She emphasizes that siblings spend more time together during childhood than with th...2024-09-101h 21
Grief Circle with SammyThe Forgotten Mourner ft. Annie Sklaver OrensteinOn this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking to Annie Orenstein who is a full-time tech employee, but on the side has taken up the trade of writing about grief. She has recently published the book Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief, about her brother who died in Afghanistan. We got to speaking about how oftentimes kids are the forgotten mourners when it comes to losing a parent or sibling. The two of us got to exchange some of our metaphors for grief and talk about our experiences being the forgotten mourners. 2024-08-2831 min
GRIEF AND LIGHTAlways a Sibling: Navigating Sibling Loss | Annie Sklaver OrensteinIn this deeply resonant episode, Annie Sklaver Orenstein, the insightful author of 'Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourners Guide to Grief,' dives into the often-overlooked experience of sibling grief—a complex journey that’s rarely given the attention it deserves. Annie bravely shares her personal story of losing her brother Ben, a heart-wrenching loss that ignited her passion to create a much-needed resource for bereaved siblings.***Click here to watch on YouTube***Nina and Annie explore the profound impact of sibling relationships on identity and how it s...2024-08-201h 04
The Grief Informed PodcastAnnie Sklaver Orenstein: On Why Siblings Are Forgotten Mourners. Annie, the youngest of three siblings, has channeled her expertise as a cultural researcher into a profound and unexpected project: her book, "Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief."When Annie’s brother Ben was killed in Afghanistan, she searched for a book that would acknowledge and validate her own experience of losing a sibling. Although she found many resources for grieving parents, children, and spouses, there was a noticeable gap when it came to books for those mourning a brother or sister. Grieving the loss of a sibling is often overshadowed by th...2024-08-191h 00
Angels and AwakeningSibling Grief and Loss: What They Don't Tell You (An Angel Story)Hello beautiful souls! After her brother was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan, Annie Sklaver Orenstein was heartbroken and unmoored. Standing in the grief section of her local bookstore, she searched for guides on how to work through her grief as a mourning sibling—and found nothing. More than 4 million American adults each year will lose a sibling, yet there isn't a modern resource guide available that speaks directly to this type of grief that at times can be overshadowed by grieving parents and spouses and made even more difficult by the complexities of sibling dynamics. Annie joins us...2024-08-1539 min
A Place of Yes | A Grief PodcastThe Forgotten Grief of Sibling LossIn this episode of A Place of Yes, host Heather interviews Annie Sklaver Orenstein, a cultural researcher, writer, and storyteller whose work has touched lives around the globe.Annie shares the deeply personal story of losing her older brother, Ben, and sheds light on how sibling grief is often overlooked in society. As Heather reflects on her own family's journey after the loss of her son, Jake, she gains invaluable insights on how to support her surviving son, Ethan, better.Together, they explore the complexities of grief, the power o...2024-08-1535 min
Making MeaningUnconditional and Unrequited Love: Grief and Sibling-Hood with Annie Sklaver OrensteinJoin host Reese Brown as she sits down with Grief Expert Annie Sklaver Orenstein to discuss her personal experience with losing her eldest brother, the way sibling relationships change our personhood, and how grief impacts the way we make meaning. A huge thank you to Annie Sklaver Orenstein for her time, energy, and vulnerability during this episode. To read Always a Sibling, or to explore more of her work, check out the links below. Website: https://www.annieorenstein.com/ Always a Sibling: https://www.rjjulia.com/book/9780306831492 ...2024-07-161h 12
Grief & HappinessAlways a Sibling: An Insightful Perspective on Sibling Loss with Annie Sklaver OrensteinWhen an adult son dies, it is usually expected that the other siblings take on heavy duties like identifying a body, planning funerals, or even getting the terrible news first and being responsible for breaking it to the parents. This is done to alleviate the monumental pain of losing a child, but only few consider the extreme pain a sibling endures.In this episode, I'm joined by Cultural Researcher, Author, and brilliant Storyteller Annie Sklaver Orenstein. After Annie's brother was killed in Afghanistan, she went to every bookstore looking for something that could help her deal...2024-07-1634 min
Femme OnFemme on Creatives: Annie Sklaver OrensteinAlyson sits down with Annie Sklaver Orenstein author of the forthcoming non-fiction book, Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner’s Guide to Grief (coming out May 28th) and talks about their shared experiences of sibling loss, the lack of sibling loss resources and the how her book will fill a much needed void. Annie also talks about her publishing journey, how the shape of her book changed over time and how writing this book helped her forge a continuing bond with her brother, Ben. What a powerful conversation about living with grief, the joys and the challenges.2024-06-2048 min
Turn Downtime Into Storytime With Full AudiobookAlways a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief Audiobook by Annie Sklaver OrensteinListen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 716228
Title: Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief
Author: Annie Sklaver Orenstein
Narrator: Annie Sklaver Orenstein
Format: Unabridged
Length: 08:10:22
Language: English
Release date: 05-28-24
Publisher: Hachette Book Group USA
Genres: Health & Wellness, Death & Bereavement, Mental Health
Summary:
A practical, compassionate guide to sibling loss, with research, stories, and strategies for “forgotten mourners” as they move through the stages of grief towards finding meaning.
After her brother was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan, Annie Sklaver Orenstein was heartbroken and unmoored. Standing in the grief sectio...2024-05-298h 10
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A practical, compassionate guide to sibling loss, with research, stories, and strategies for “forgotten mourners” as they move through the stages of grief towards finding meaning. After her brother was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan, Annie Sklaver Orenstein was heartbroken and unmoored. Standing in the grief section of her local bookstore, she searched for guides on how...2024-05-288h 10Download Best Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Mental Health & PsychologyAlways a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief by Annie Sklaver OrensteinPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/716228to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief
Author: Annie Sklaver Orenstein
Narrator: Annie Sklaver Orenstein
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 8 hours 10 minutes
Release date: May 28, 2024
Genres: Mental Health & Psychology
Publisher's Summary:
A practical, compassionate guide to sibling loss, with research, stories, and strategies for “forgotten mourners” as they move through the stages of grief towards finding meaning. After her brother was killed by a suicide bomber in Afghanistan, Annie Sklaver Orenstein was heartbroken and unmoored. Standing in the grief section of her local bookstore, she searched for guides on how...2024-05-288h 10