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The Nice Guy ShowAri's Struggles #93In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Ari Graff opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of change, the burden of expectations, and the need for connection and understanding among men.2025-03-2427 min

The Nice Guy ShowFaisal's Struggles #92In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Faisal Khokhar opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach, particularly focusing on the challenges of parenting and navigating a business transition. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of change, the burden of expectations, and the need for connection and understanding among men.2025-03-1722 min

The Nice Guy ShowChuck's Struggles #91In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Chuck Chapman opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach, particularly focusing on the challenges of parenting and navigating a business transition. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of change, the burden of expectations, and the need for connection and understanding among men.2025-03-1023 min

The Nice Guy ShowGrow the F*ck Up! The Nice Guy Syndrome is a Sign of an Immature Man #90Nice Guys aren’t being nice—they're being manipulative, using approval-seeking and people-pleasing as a way to control how women see them, all because they’re too afraid to be rejected for who they really are.When it comes to women and men, I’ve come to the realization that it’s insecurity that drives us to seek approval from women. It’s subtle, often invisible, but it’s there—this craving for validation, for someone to tell us we’re enough. But here’s the thing: no matter how much approval we chase, it’s never going to fill...2025-03-0320 min

The Nice Guy ShowCaught Between Mother and Wife: How the Nice Guy Can Handle Family Conflict #89Got a guy with a situation involving his mother and wife.He’s newly married, and they all live together—him, his wife, and his mother.It all started well. Everyone got along, and they were one happy family.But after a few months, fractures start to appear.The mother starts interfering, picking faults with his wife, and that’s when the tension starts building.Now, this guy’s caught in the middle.2025-02-2417 min

The Nice Guy ShowWhat Nice Guys Must Have In Their Morning Routine EP #88What is the first thing you do when you wake up? Do you hit the snooze bar? Do you hate the world, hate your life, hate your job? Do you feel like the day is another day to get through? Do you scroll through instagram? Do you rush to get ready? Do you struggle with what to prioritize that day? Well good news, today we are going to explain what you must have in your morning routine to change your life. 2025-02-1722 min

The Nice Guy ShowThe Dark Side Of Masculine & Feminine Energy That Enables Toxic Relationship Patterns EP #87If you’ve been into relationship development, you would have heard about Masculine & Feminine Energies and how important they are to relationships. Men are grounded, stable, like a lighthouse. The feminine is ever-changing emotions and she is the storm.Men need to weather the storm.Really? Now, I don’t know about you, but this statement or something like this keeps men in harmful relationshipsIn this episode, let’s lookThe Dark Sid...2025-02-1022 min

The Nice Guy ShowHow Much Can You Fix Your Woman? EP #86Have you ever wanted to get your partner to be nicer? To help out more around the house? To get in shape and lose weight? To like sex or even like sex with you? To like your parents? To earn some money? How much can you get your partner to change?2025-02-0319 min

The Nice Guy ShowLead, You Spineless Chicken. Lead! - EP #85If you want to create polarity, attraction, and connection in a relationship, it’s up to you to lead. I know, it’s not fair!A lot of the men I work with ask, "What about her? When is it her turn to lead?" And women often say, "I want to lead too."Why is this?Nice Guys tend to avoid leading in their relationships because they fear rejection or upsetting their partners. So they hand over the reins.But here’s the thing. When a man wo...2025-01-2719 min

The Nice Guy ShowWhat Happened When I Quit Women For 9 Months EP #84Have you ever felt so stuck on getting women to meet your needs that it occupied nearly every free moment? Well that was me a couple years ago. I was a few years out from my divorce. When I wasn’t working or parenting, I was thinking about dating or sex. I felt a chronic hunger for women that had been there since forever. So I decided it was time to get off that hamster wheel. I hit the ultimate reset button, the nuclear option, I quit women for 9 months!2025-01-2020 min

The Nice Guy ShowThe Time I Lied About Having My Car Stolen So I Could Hook Up With A Chick - EP #83Before I even knew what a Nice Guy was in terms of the Nice Guy syndrome, I thought of myself as just that—a Nice Guy. And I truly believed I was. When I first read *No More Mr. Nice Guy* about 15 years ago, it was like looking into a mirror. Every page felt like it was written about me. But there was one thing in that book that hit me hard, like a punch to the gut: as a Nice Guy, I was actually really manipulative.I had these covert contracts, these unspoken deals wh...2025-01-1321 min

The Nice Guy ShowThe Cure For Your Small Thinking EP #82Do you think small? Do you poo poo any big idea you have as far fetched? Do you feel like big ideas and big things are for other people? Is it hopeless or is there a cure for thinking small?2025-01-0620 min

The Nice Guy ShowWhat's The Female Equivalent Of The Nice-Guy Syndrome? EP #81So you’ve heard of the nice-guy syndrome and why nice-guys finish last.So what’s the female equivalent nice-guy syndrome and is she as nasty and manipulating as nice-guys or is she a helpless damsel in distress?Let’s find out…2024-12-3018 min

The Nice Guy ShowFear Keeps Nice Guys From Getting The Life They Want - EP #80Fear. If there is one thing that holds Nice Guys back from getting the life they want it’s fear. Fear is the filter every decision is made or not made because Nice Guys anticipate and imagine failure, rationalize being comfortable and avoid pressure and tension. They are scared fo being exposed as frauds, not meeting expectations and losing control. It is the number one thing that every Nice Guy needs to learn to manage or they will always come in last place. 2024-12-2317 min

The Nice Guy ShowWhy Nice-Guys Are Not Respected By Women, Kids & Other Men - EP#79Do you find that women don’t respect you?Or maybe if you have kids, they fail to speak in a respectful way?Maybe your colleagues at work, your customers, or even your friends don’t treat you with the respect you deserve.In this podcast, we will explore why women, children, and even men don’t respect nice guys.2024-12-1614 min

The Nice Guy ShowDid Feminism Make Me A Nice Guy? EP #78In No More Mr. Nice Guy, Robert Glover talks about how some radical feminists claimed that men were the cause of all of the problems in the world. Or that men were merely an unnecessary nuisance. This contributed to a climate that convinced many men that it was not OK to be just who they were. 2024-12-0924 min

The Nice Guy ShowBody Count: Jealous over her past - EP #77Let’s say you’re dating someone or in a relationship, and the infamous topic of body count comes up. What’s the magic number that would make you question if you should stay with her? Does body count really matter when you're in a relationship? How do you get over your partner's past, especially if her count is higher than yours? Should you even bother talking about body count at all?These are some of the juicy questions I want to dive into today. Let's be real, folks. We're not living in a Disney fairyt...2024-12-0223 min

The Nice Guy ShowWhy Nice Guys Attract Borderline Women EP #76Have you ever fallen for a woman you knew was bad for you? You know something is off but the combination of hotness, excitement, and possibility of a love connection keep you hooked. 2024-11-2523 min

The Nice Guy ShowCommitment Crisis: Why Men Are Avoiding Relationships And Staying Single #75In this podcast, we’re going to look at the crisis behind why so many men are struggling to get into relationships?Are men the problem? Or maybe women are the reason why men are single or is it society or maybe dating apps? Who’s fault is it and can we rescue relationships? Should we rescue relationships and you are probably thinking, what’s wrong with being single? 2024-11-1820 min

The Nice Guy ShowAre Nice Guys Narcissists Too? #74Back in January, my son and I were testing for our next tae kwon do belt. I had just started tae kwon do 2 months earlier after quitting 30 years ago, so I was excited to do it with my son. Long story short, my ex, who had picked him up from school, texted me and said he didn’t want to go to my testing because he was tired and had a long day. I was incensed by this. I told her she wasn’t teaching him the right thing about how to support a family member, that we were making...2024-11-1121 min

The Nice Guy ShowAttract More Hot Women: Set Boundaries- EP #73If you’re anything like I was early in my Nice Guy recovery, you have a hard time setting boundaries. Especially with women. We tend to let a pretty woman walk all over us, afraid if we set boundaries she will walk away.Over the years, working with hundreds of Nice Guys, I’ve noticed they struggle with boundaries too. I used to think boundaries were negative, that they made you rigid, and that people with boundaries were just selfish. Then one day, I heard Dr. Glover say, “Boundaries are an...2024-11-0421 min

The Nice Guy ShowTRUTH: Is Being Vulnerable Unattractive To Women? #72In this podcast, we’re going to explore Is Being Vulnerable Unattractive To Women? Now, there are a lot of messages fed to men that being vulnerable is key in relationships, but this is also confusing as some men as they report that when they are vulnerable, she pull away, look disgusted or become upset.So, should you be vulnerable in a relationship or not? If not, then why not? If yes, how can men be vulnerable without killing attraction?2024-10-2820 min

The Nice Guy ShowAre Nice Guys on the Autism Spectrum? EP #71Why do so many men struggle with social skills? Why do so many men struggle to understand women? Why are so many men isolated and lonely? Why are so many men hypersensitive? These questions come up regularly with nice guys I work with. Some then ask me, does this mean I’m on the autism spectrum? Am I just wired this way? 2024-10-2128 min

The Nice Guy ShowWill A Woman Date Me Because I Have Kids? Dads Starting Over #70In this podcast, you will learn how you can still date successfully even if you have kids. I will share my experience, mid 40s I date women in their early 30s and how they treated me and my kids.2024-10-1419 min

The Nice Guy ShowThe Nice Guys Mythology That Keeps You Stuck EP #69In today's episode, we'll explore the self-limiting beliefs that Nice Guys carry, beliefs that keep them stuck in life. We'll uncover the origins of these beliefs, how they take hold, and most importantly, how we can break free from them. We'll delve into the steps to transform these beliefs, empowering you to live with integrity, confidence, and passion.2024-10-0726 min

The Nice Guy ShowYou’re a bitch; Just kidding EP #68Ever found yourself saying, 'Of course I'll take care of the dishes,' to your spouse, only to conveniently 'forget' later? Or maybe you’ve caught yourself saying, 'Sure babe, I’d be happy to weed the entire yard while you go take a bath! Whatever you want,' then ruminating and secretly planning their demise in a revenge fantasy straight out of the Show Dexter? Welcome to the realm of passive aggression, where 'Nice Guys' have turned being incredibly agreeable into an art form—while seething like a pressure cooker on the inside. It's like being the wor...2024-09-3024 min

The Nice Guy ShowBeware the Zombie Relationship EP #67Have you ever seen two people in a relationship that you know is dead but somehow they didn’t get the memo? You probably know on a gut level what I’m talking about - you see two people who do nothing but argue, complain about each other, or completely ignore each other. I believe that a relationship is a living thing with its own life force that can die. The two partners may still be officially a couple and they may still be attached to each other but the love and care and energy have ev...2024-09-2322 min

The Nice Guy ShowHow To Be More Social & Create A Social Circle: Guide For Nice-Guys EP #66In this podcast, you will discover How To Be More Social & Create a Social Circle even if you are shy, an introvert or an nerd… andIf you find yourself spending too much time isolatedworking from home anddon’t have many guy friends to hang out withnothing to do over the weekend and feel LONELY a lotthis podcast is for you.And for the guys who get into a relationship and start neglecting their guy mates and their hobbies and know you want know how to make friends and where to go t...2024-09-1621 min

The Nice Guy ShowPlaying with Fire: Should Your Partner Really Have Friends of the Opposite Sex?" EP #65Today we’re going to delve into a polarizing topic. No, not which direction should the toilet paper hang. Not does pineapple belong on pizza. I’m talking about friends of the opposite sex if you’re in a committed relationship. Gasp! What do you do if you’re in a relationship and she has a lot of male friends? Are you okay with that? Or are you just insecure if you don’t want her to have these types of relationships? Is it okay that you have friendships with members of the opposite sex if you’re in a committed...2024-09-0925 min

The Nice Guy ShowIs The Nice Guy Syndrome Curable? EP #64A lot of men want to know, will I be a nice guy forever? The conventional wisdom in nice guy coaching is that you will always be recovering from vestiges of the syndrome, that you are always susceptible to falling back into nice guy patterns. But can some or all nice guy patterns be fully resolved or eliminated? Just how much can someone change?2024-09-0224 min

The Nice Guy ShowMen Don't Listen & Women Don't Hear EP #63Have you ever had a woman say to you:You are not listening to me.You are not empathic.You don’t get it or understand me.Wait a minute, what about you guys?Let’s hear it for the men.Do you find women listen to you?Do you feel understood and respected?Well, let’s find out if only men are bad listeners. In my book, that may not always be the case.2024-08-2621 min

The Nice Guy ShowWhy You Won’t Be Successful Without A Men’s Group EP #62Why are men’s groups so critical for a man? When I started my journey of becoming a conscious man, I did it through books and 1 on 1 coaching. And I made a lot of progress. I learned more about how to lead in my relationships, set boundaries, and get out of my comfort zone. But I didn’t realize that I had actually hit a wall in my growth. If you want to understand what this wall is, then keep listening.2024-08-1929 min

The Nice Guy ShowWhy Women Nag & How To Stop It EP #61Have you ever had a woman who’s constantly nagged, complained about you all the time and criticized everything you did, and no matter what you did, it never resolved the complains. Then this podcast is for you and I we will share why women complain and what you can do to stop the complaining.2024-08-1219 min

The Nice Guy ShowNo More Mr. Nice Guy: Guide To Dealing With Cheating With Dr. Glover EP #60Welcome to the Nice Guy Show. With Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff and Chuck Chapman.The three of us are coaches dedicated to helping nice guys because we are recovering nice guys ourselves. Together, we have decades of experience helping men level up. Our mission is to help men develop the confidence and the skills to get the love, sex, and success they desire. Today's guest is Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, who discusses cheating.2024-08-051h 26

The Nice Guy ShowWhat It’s Like When She Leaves EP #59An anxiety I’ve often had in the past when it came to my relationships was that my partner might leave me. This only contributed to my Nice Guy Behavior in, well just about every area of the relationship. This fear that “she may leave you” is fuel to the Nice Guy Syndrome. I’ve seen this pattern over and over again with the men that I work with in my coaching Nice Guys who are trying to recover and become integrated men. It seems that this fear is so deeply entrenched that it’s almost wr...2024-07-2923 min

The Nice Guy ShowWhy Women Love Bad Boys & Hate Nice-Guys EP #58What is it about bad boys women can’t get enough of?Why do women keep going back to bad boys they know they are trouble?What type of men are they?What type of women bad boys?Why do nice-guys finish last?Do nice-guys need to become bad boys?2024-07-2225 min

The Nice Guy ShowAre Nice Guys Commitment Phobes? EP #57There is one stereotype about the nice guy that he is needy and clingy and stays in a bad relationship no matter what. And yes, I’ve been guilty of that. But what about the nice guy that can’t commit? Can’t commit to a woman or a job or a hobby or even meeting your friend for dinner?2024-07-1529 min

The Nice Guy ShowThe Time I Was Slapped In The Face With A Sacred Dick EP #56Recently I was complaining to my personal men’s group about being tired, about being disappointed in the ambivalence in some of the men I work with and men in general aren’t interested in self-development, and just uninterested in anything other than sex, sports and video games. I’ve been doing men’s work for almost 20 years both as a participant and a leader. Quite frankly, I was tired, burnt out, and not seeing the fruits of my labor, at least in my expectations. I was contemplating giving it all up and retiring to become an artist. 2024-07-0823 min

The Nice Guy ShowHow To Be More Optimistic and Less Pessimistic Nice Guy EP #55Are you hard on yourself and others?Do you tend to criticize and judge harshly?Do you always see life as half empty instead of half full?2024-07-0116 min

The Nice Guy ShowIs ADHD Part of My Nice Guy Syndrome? EP #54Are you a nice guy who has been diagnosed with ADHD? Or do you suspect you have ADHD? Why does it seem like every man with nice guy syndrome has ADHD too? In this episode we are going to break down just what is happening here and what are the differences between ADHD and nice guy syndrome. 2024-06-2428 min

The Nice Guy ShowWhere To Meet Attractive Women If You Are Shy And Without Coming Across Creepy EP #53Want to know the best and easiest places to meet attractive great women without dating apps or loitering around nights club? And especially if you are shy.Stick around for this episode Where To Meet Attractive Women If You Are Shy And Without Coming Across Creepy EP and I will reveal where you’ll find abundance of single women and hardly any competition, and you can do all of this wihtout breaking your bank or coming across creepy.2024-06-1717 min

The Nice Guy ShowThe Feminine Freakout! How To Bring Calm To Your Partner EP #52Can you relate to this; you’re going along in your relationship, everything is fine and then you say something, something pretty innocent and maybe even a little funny. To you at least. And then suddenly like a dormant volcano erupting she explodes. Expletives are flying, accusations are being hurled and you find yourself like a deer caught in headlights doing D.E.E.R 2024-06-1024 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 51 -How To Be Dumped Without Falling ApartChuck, Faisal, and Ari share their insights on handling breakups like a man. They discuss practical tips and strategies for navigating the end of a relationship with resilience and self-respect, helping Nice Guys keep their cool even when faced with heartbreak.2024-06-0319 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 50 - Why Raising Your Standards Makes Nice Guys Attractive To Women and MoneyChuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the concept of raising your standards and how it can make Nice Guys more appealing to women and boost their financial success. They discuss the transformative power of self-respect and setting higher expectations in various aspects of life 2024-05-2725 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 49 - She's Pissed! Defending Against Her AmbushChuck, Faisal, and Ari dish out advice on how the Nice Guy can navigate those moments when his woman is feeling ticked off. They share tips and insights for handling conflict in relationships.2024-05-2017 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 48 - How To Deal With Her Flakiness Chuck, Faisal, and Ari tackle the issue of dealing with a woman's flakiness, offering insights and strategies for Nice Guys navigating unpredictable behavior in their relationships.2024-05-1329 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 47 - How To Attract Women Like A GentlemanChuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss why the Nice Guy often finds it challenging to attract women 2024-05-0620 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 46 - WTF Is Your Why?Chuck, Faisal, and Ari get real about the importance of discovering and owning your 'why'. They explore how understanding your purpose can fuel personal growth and lead to a more fulfilling life.2024-04-2923 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 45 - Does Penis Size Matter?Chuck, Faisal, and Ari break it down: they discuss how penis size truly isn't that big of a deal when it comes to women.2024-04-2225 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 44 - 3 Things Men Get Horribly Wrong When Seducing WomenChuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss how Nice Guys often struggle when it comes to the art of seduction, exploring the reasons behind their lame performance in this area.2024-04-1523 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 43 - It's True. You Are Lazy.Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss how Nice Guys often fall short due to their tendency to slack off and play it easy, holding themselves back from reaching their full potential.2024-04-0822 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 42 - Men Who Send Dick Pics Don't Understand WomenChuck, Faisal, and Ari talk about dudes who fire off dick pics, why it doesn't turn women on (and how they truly DON'T understand women!)2024-04-0124 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 41 - Nice Guys Lack IntegrityChuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss why the Nice Guy often lacks integrity, defining what integrity truly means. They also provide insights from Chuck's latest book, "Find Your Way Without Losing Yourself: The Path To Integrity 2024-03-2527 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 40 - Why You Must Get Rid of PornPorn addiction is a reflection of Nice Guy shame. Chuck, Faisal, and Ari show how porn is doing more damage than you might think.2024-03-1922 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 39 - Why Your Woman Is Not Your Best FriendThe Nice Guy's world revolves around his woman. Chuck, Faisal and Ari show why it is essential to have good male friends and how making your partner your best friend kills attraction.2024-03-1220 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 38 - Stop Playing The VictimIn this conversation, Ari, Faisal, and Chuck discuss the concept of victim mode and its impact on personal growth and relationships. They share personal experiences and explore the reasons why people fall into victim mode. The conversation highlights the role of self-awareness and language in recognizing and overcoming victim mode. The speakers also emphasize the importance of balancing challenge and self-compassion in the process. They conclude by differentiating between addressing trauma and engaging in victim mode.2024-03-0425 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 37 - The Opposite of The Nice GuyThe conversation explores the concept of the integrated man as the opposite of a nice guy. It delves into the tendency of nice guys to overcorrect and swing from passivity to anger and aggression. The importance of tempering rage and finding balance is discussed, along with the role of shame and the need to integrate the shadow side. The conversation also highlights the significance of resetting the nervous system and developing emotional skills. The attributes of an integrated man are outlined as a guide for personal growth and self-acceptance.2024-02-2624 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 36 - Why A Relationship Won’t Make You HappyChuck, Faisal, and Ari dissect why the Nice Guy needs more than just a relationship for fulfillment in life.2024-02-1934 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 35 - It’s Your Fault That Your Relationship SucksChuck, Faisal, and Ari lay it out plain and simple: when it comes to the Nice Guy's relationships, if it's bad, it's on him. They drive home the message that it's time to stop blaming others and start taking responsibility for the kind of relationship you want.Learn more at niceguyshow.com 2024-02-1235 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 34 - Dress Like A Man, Not Like A ChildChuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss the significance of dressing well for the Nice Guy. They discuss how personal appearance can be pivotal in garnering attention and commanding attraction.2024-02-0531 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 33 - Self Help JunkiesChuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss the Nice Guy's inclination towards self-help consumption, emphasizing the crucial step of translating knowledge into action. 2024-01-2929 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 32 - The Spoiled-Brat Reflex (SBR) in Relationships: Are You Guilty? Chuck, Faisal, and Ari delve into the Nice Guy's tendency to get easily hurt and introduce the concept of the Spoiled Brat Reflex (SBR). They explore how this reflex affects relationships and offer insights on managing emotional reactions more effectively.2024-01-2244 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 31 - Get Your Balls Back: Cultivating CourageHave you ever had a woman tell you to grow some balls?Maybe your boss takes advantage of you.Maybe you let your kids run the house.Maybe you still go to your mommy for approval of your decisions.Maybe you let your woman step all over you. These are some of the most cutting, painful things you can say to a man. You’re weak. You’re a coward. You need to man up.2024-01-1540 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 30 - Are Nice Guys Cheap A/F?Chuck, Faisal, and Ari address the common trait of frugality or being 'cheap AF' in Nice Guys, and they explore the underlying reasons behind this behavior.2024-01-0839 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 29 - Evolving Beyond The Nice-Guy: The High-Value ManChuck, Faisal, and Ari delve into the transformation of the Nice Guy into a high-value man. They discuss the essential steps and mindset shifts required to evolve beyond Nice-Guy tendencies and cultivate a more confident and fulfilling life.2024-01-0133 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 28 - She's Mad At Me Again: How to Get Yourself Out of the DoghouseChuck, Faisal, and Ari tackle the Nice Guy's tendency to walk on eggshells in relationships. They share practical strategies and advice on how to break free from this pattern 2023-12-1834 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 27 - Too Bad To Stay, Too Good To GoChuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a thought-provoking conversation about the Nice Guy's predicament, often caught in the 'too good to leave, too bad to stay' dilemma in their relationships.2023-12-1530 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 26 - Taking Women Off The Pedestal - The Real Truth Abut Female WorshipChuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the concept of Nice Guys and the transformative process of taking women off the pedestal, shedding light on how this shift in perspective can lead to more balanced and authentic relationships.2023-12-0432 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 25 - Does Therapy Fail Nice Guys?Chuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a candid conversation about their own journey with therapy, delving into both the advantages and potential challenges that arise along the path to personal growth and self-discoveryLearn more at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-11-2938 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 24 - The Unattractive Truth About Men With Mommy IssuesChuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the intricate connection between the Nice Guy, their relationships with their mothers, and how this pops up in dating and relationships in some unattractive ways .Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-11-2238 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 23 - The Truth About Nice Guys And Their Daddy IssuesChuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a deep discussion about the Nice Guy's relationship with their fathers; exploring how early experiences can impact their approach to relationships and personal development.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-11-1537 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 22 - 6 Reasons Nice Guys Suck At Dating - Part TwoJoin Chuck, Faisal, and Ari as they dive into part two of their discussion on why Nice Guys often struggle in the dating world, uncovering the root causes and offering valuable insights for personal growth.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-11-0845 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 21 - 6 Reasons Nice Guys Suck At Dating - Part OneJoin Chuck, Faisal, and Ari as they kick off part one of their discussion on why Nice Guys often struggle in the dating world, uncovering the root causes and offering valuable insights for personal growth.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-11-0139 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 20 - Why Nice Guys Are Addicted To ComfortChuck, Faisal, and Ari dissect the Nice Guy's yearning for comfort and a trouble-free life, shedding light on how this desire can hinder men's personal growth and fulfillment in relationships.Learn More at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-10-2530 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 19 - Kill The Nice Guy NeedinessChuck and Ari delve into the topic of Nice Guy neediness and share effective strategies to overcome it, helping men break free from this common relationship challenge.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-10-1834 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 18 -The Three Wise Nice GuysJoin us as Chuck and Faisal extend a warm Recovering Nice Guy welcome to official Co-Host and Psychologist Ari Graff to the Nice Guy Show. In this episode, they dive into their backgrounds and much more, setting the stage for insightful discussions to come.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-10-0329 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 17- No More Mr. Nice Dad - Part 2Join Chuck and Faisal as they rejoin guest Ari Graff for part two of their podcast on Nice Dads, where they provide valuable insights and advice to help nice guys who are fathers navigate the complexities of parenthood and relationships.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-09-2836 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 16 - No More Mr. Nice Dad - Part OneJoin Chuck and Faisal as they welcome guest Ari Graff to their podcast, where they provide valuable insights and advice to help nice guys who are fathers navigate the complexities of parenthood and relationships.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-09-1930 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 15 - How To Deal With A Difficult Ex When You Have Kids TogetherChuck and Faisal explore the challenging terrain of managing relationships with your ex-partner when you share children.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com 2023-09-0636 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 14 - She's Put On Weight. I'm No Longer Attracted To Her. What Do I Do?Chuck and Faisal fearlessly tackle the complex issue of shifting attraction when a partner gains weight and how to handle it.Learn more about the Nice Guy Show at NiceGuyShow.com 2023-08-3025 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 13 - Two Words To Make You Love FitnessJoin Chuck and Faisal as they reveal the two powerful words that can ignite a nice guy's love (need!) for fitness. Through insightful discussions and personal experiences, they'll delve into the core of motivation and inspiration, guiding listeners toward a newfound passion for embracing a healthy lifestyle.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com 2023-08-0328 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 12 - Boost Your Libido Now: 4 Proven Strategies Every Nice Guy NeedsJoin hosts Chuck and Faisal as they delve deep into the topic of libido and uncover the four proven strategies every nice guy needs to bring their best and enhance their intimate relationships.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com 2023-07-2438 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 11 - 10 Ways To Fix The Dead BedroomJoin hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar on the latest episode of the Nice Guy Show as they each share their top fie ways to avoid the dreaded DEAD BEDROOM.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com 2023-07-1753 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 10 - 5 Things Nice Guys Can Do To Get More Money And SexUnravel the mysteries of money, sex, and personal energy in the enlightening journey with Faisal and Chuck.Through their raw and riveting exploration, they reveal surprising connections between money and women, viewing both as energy forms.This podcast shares lessons from their upbringing and personal experiences, with unique perspectives on money and sex, culminating in five transformative ways to enhance your attractiveness to both.The duo's candid chat is a mix of intriguing insights, humor, and relatable narratives - one that will leave you enlightened, inspired, and entertained.Don't miss this...2023-07-1140 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 9 - Woman Are Not Always Innocent. Why They Cheat On Good Men.Join hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar on the latest episode of the Nice Guy Show as they tackle the often overlooked topic of women who cheat and discuss the telltale signs to watch for in relationships.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com 2023-06-2128 min

Chuck Shute PodcastAri Nagel (The Sperminator)Ari Nagel is an American mathematics professor and a sperm donor who has fathered more than 140 children. He has been nicknamed the Sperminator or the Target Donor, after the American retail corporation in whose stores some of his artificial-insemination donations were performed. In this episode we discuss Ari’s backstory and how he became a sperm donor, the complications of having 140 kids, legal issues and more. 0:00:00 - Intro 0:01:07 - Background & Growing Up 0:04:03 - Motorcycle Accident, Money & Travel 0:07:36 - Craiglist Ad & First Donations 0:11:13 - Ari Compared to a Cli...2023-06-161h 01

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 8 - Why Nice Guys Can't Help CheatingChuck and Faisal explore the underlying psychological and emotional factors of the Nice Guy Syndrome, discussing the patterns of behavior and mindset that can lead to dissatisfaction and frustration in relationships and result in men cheating.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com 2023-06-1431 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 7 - Monogamous Or Open Relationships?Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar dive deep into the age-old debate of open relationships versus monogamous relationships. In this captivating episode, Chuck and Faisal bring their unique perspectives and expertise to the forefront as they explore the pros and cons of both relationship styles.2023-06-0527 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 6 - Avoid The Death Penalty - 4 Signs To Look For Before Entering A RelationshipFaisal and Chuck discuss the "4 Signs When To Enter A Relationship & Avoid The Death Penalty," they delve into the factors the nice-guys make when entering a relationship. Faisal kicks off the discussion by sharing his personal experiences, highlighting the pitfalls of impulsive relationships and hasty decision-making. He reflects on the journey of meeting a girl, having a great time together, moving in, and ultimately becoming parents, emphasizing the importance of taking a more measured approach.Chuck chimes in, pointing out a common issue many people face in relationships—seeking external validation. He emp...2023-05-2331 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 5 - Should I Stay Or Should I Go?In this episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar tackle one of the toughest decisions individuals face: whether to stay or go in a difficult relationship. 2023-05-1640 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 4 - Why Do Nice-Guys Rescue Broken Women? And How To StopWelcome to Episode 4 of our series on the Nice-Guy Syndrome! In this video, Faisal and Chuck delve into the question of why nice-guys tend to be attracted to broken women and what can be done to overcome this pattern.They discuss the five reasons why this might be the case, including a sense of familiarity with emotional support, replicating the dynamic with their own mother, seeking validation, struggling with low self-esteem, and a savior complex.Furthermore, they highlight the role of control in this dynamic, and how it can give nice-guys a sense of security...2023-05-0935 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 3 - Things Nice Guys Hide To Get Sex and LoveOn this episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar delve into covert contracts and the things that nice guys hide to get sex and love. 2023-05-0221 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 2 - Five Reasons Nice Guys Settle for Bad Sex - or NO SEX!On the latest episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar delve into a topic that many men can relate to: why nice guys settle for bad sex or even no sex. 2023-04-2543 min

The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 1 - Welcome To The Nice Guy Show: What is a Nice Guy?Welcome to the Nice Guy Show, where hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar tackle the tough issues that face men today in relationships, sex, and life. With a focus on empowerment and self-improvement, the Nice Guy Show explores the challenges and rewards of being a man who knows what he wants and goes after it, and why being a Nice Guy is keeping that from happening.Join Chuck and Faisal as they share their personal experiences and insights, drawing on their combined expertise in psychology, counseling, coaching, and relationship advice. From navigating the complexities of modern...2023-04-2032 min $Ari Shaffir\'s Skeptic Tank$ Ari Shaffir's Skeptic TankTuesdays with Ari's with Mark Normand and Joe ListMark Normand, Joe List, Chuck, Schiavone, and I all piled in a questionable SUV (It wasn't an SUV) to drive to the new Soul Jole's to do a show. As you know Mark Normand and Joe List have a popular podcast called Tuesdays with Stories! I wanted to insert myself in their podcast so I made them talk to me all the way to Soul Joel's about sexual terms, bad smells and slang. It's a fun one. For more Ari: Subscribe on YouTube Instagram - @arishaffir Patreon Cool merch & mor...2022-08-231h 34

Jews You Should KnowThe Voting Rights Activist and "Sword of David" Author: A Conversation with Chuck LichtmanABOUT THIS EPISODE Chuck Lichtman grew up on the hard-scrabble streets of Gary, Indiana, where he faced pronounced anti-Semitism that helped shaped his life path. He became a fierce advocate for civil rights - notably as the "Hanging Chads" attorney in the 2000 election, and eventually authored several books. His latest, due out in September 2021, is a thriller called "The Sword of David," and synthesizes his love of action with his passion for the Holy Land and yearning for peace in a difficult region. -------------------- ABOUT THIS PODCAST Jews You Should Know...2021-07-1459 min

Crews Control43: Traveling Lizards with Fire Marshal Chuck Chocolatebar (Sam Goldberg)Grant leads his first tour and looks for a friend, Dorsch refuses to share and ingests 50,000% of the daily dose of cracked black pepper, and Leo is away this week living his best life delivering the keynote speech at ScarfCon2021 in Ithaca New York. Things at JAMP are starting to look up now that Grant took that 91% pay-cut. That is until Fire Marshal Chuck Chocolatebar (Sam Goldberg) gets a scarf-laden anonymous tip that the building "has got to go." Aside from some bone-dry baked goods, an extremely isolated water supply, and the group of seemingly fireproof Moosekrainian cult members t...2021-05-2050 min