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The Nice Guy ShowThe Truth About Incels: It’s Not About SexFrom Lonely to Angry: Understanding Incels (And How Good Men Lose Their Way)Some men don't start off angry. They start off lonely. Rejected. Invisible. Neglected in childhood.But when the pain festers long enough, it turns into something darker: the incel mindset.In this raw and unflinching episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive into one of the internet's most controversial subcultures — involuntary celibates (incels). These are men who want relationships but can't get them, and the frustration has curdled into isolation, shame, and sometimes rage.But here's what most people miss: Incels share many tr...
2025-11-0736 minThe Nice Guy ShowHow To Overcome Jealousy As A Nice-GuyWhy Jealousy Destroys Nice Guys (And How to Finally Stop It)You see her laugh at another guy's joke. Your stomach tightens. Your mind spirals. You start checking her phone, stalking her social media, asking the same questions over and over.And then comes the shame.Jealousy doesn't just ruin relationships — it hijacks your entire life. And for Nice Guys? It hits harder than most.In this raw and revealing episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari break down the real psychology behind jealousy — why it exists, why Nice Guys struggle with it more intensely, and...
2025-10-2235 minThe Nice Guy ShowIs It Bad To Be A Man? Criticizing MasculinityIs It Dangerous to Be a Man? Why Masculinity Gets Criticized Instead of CelebratedA coal miner shows up to his son's basketball game still covered in soot. He rushed straight from work to keep his promise. The photo goes viral — but not for the reason you'd think.Instead of celebrating his dedication, the internet tears him apart. "Performative masculinity." "Virtue signaling." "He could've washed his face."And that's when it hit us: No matter what a man does, someone will find a way to criticize it.In this powerful conversation, Chuck, Faisal, and Ari un...
2025-10-2246 minThe Nice Guy ShowIs AI Making Nice Guys Weaker?You're on a date. She says something unexpected. You freeze. Your brain goes blank. So you excuse yourself to the bathroom… and ask ChatGPT what to say next.Sound familiar?In this raw and thought-provoking episode, Ari, Faisal, and Chuck dive into the complicated relationship between AI and masculinity. From flirty texts written by algorithms to essays no one remembers writing, we explore a dangerous new trend: cognitive debt.In this episode, we tackle:Why ChatGPT might be killing your creativity (and your dating life)The hidden cost of letting AI do your...
2025-10-2251 minThe Nice Guy ShowWhat Do Women Bring To The Table?Ever caught yourself asking "What do women even bring to the table?" or heard women firing back with "What do men bring?" If you're asking either question, this episode is for you.Faisal, Ari, and Chuck dive deep into the mindset behind these toxic questions — and more importantly, how to shift from scarcity thinking to abundance in relationships. They get brutally honest about their own dark periods: failed marriages, emotional hostage situations, trauma bonding, and the wounds that kept them stuck in victim mode.Here's what we unpack:The psychology behind "what do you br...
2025-10-2251 minThe Nice Guy ShowAre Nice Guys Chronic Defenders?She gives you feedback. Your wife makes a simple request. Maybe she expresses disappointment. And before she even finishes her sentence, you're already building your defense case like a trial lawyer. Sound familiar?In this raw and revealing episode, Chuck, Ari, and Faisal dive deep into one of the most relationship-damaging patterns Nice Guys fall into: chronic defensiveness. We explore:Why your nervous system goes into overdrive the moment you hear criticismThe difference between legitimate complaints and character attacks — and why we hear them wrongHow defensiveness kills connection, intimacy, and attraction fas...
2025-09-221h 03The Nice Guy ShowShould I Date Single Mothers?Should you date single moms? It's the question that divides the manosphere — and maybe your dating life.In this raw and honest episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive into one of modern dating's most controversial topics. No sugar-coating. No political correctness. Just three divorced dads sharing hard-earned wisdom about navigating the single parent dating world.In this episode, we explore:The brutal truth about why single moms might be "easier" to date (and why that's a trap)How Nice Guys become unwilling ATMs and unpaid babysittersWhen to introduce your kids — and the red flag...
2025-09-1553 minThe Nice Guy ShowAm I Raising A Nice Guy?Every parent fears they're screwing up their kids. But as a Nice Guy coach with a 10-year-old son, Ari faces a chilling realization: What if he's accidentally raising the next generation of people-pleasers?In this raw and honest conversation, Ari, Faisal, and Chuck dig into the hardest parenting questions:How do you tell the difference between kindness and people-pleasing in kids?What are the early warning signs of Nice Guy syndrome showing up in your child?Are you accidentally modeling the very behaviors you're trying to prevent?When does "being...
2025-09-121h 22The Nice Guy ShowShould We Legalize & Regulate Prostitution?Should We Legalize Prostitution? The Sexual Frustration Crisis Men Are FacingThis episode tackles one of the most controversial questions of our time: Should prostitution be legal? But it's not just about policy — it's about the sexual shame, frustration, and isolation that's destroying men in silence.Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive deep into the reality that most people won't discuss: Men are sexually starving in sexless marriages, endless single streaks, and a culture that celebrates women's emotional needs while shaming men's physical ones.What we unpack:Why men have 20x more testosterone bu...
2025-09-0335 minThe Nice Guy ShowNice Guys Don’t Trust ThemselvesYou second-guess every decision. You overthink every conversation. You're constantly worried about doing the wrong thing, upsetting someone, or messing up. Sound familiar? That's what we're diving into in this episode: why nice guys don't trust themselves — and how that lack of self-trust is sabotaging every relationship in their lives.Chuck, Ari, and Faisal get real about their own struggles with self-doubt, people-pleasing, and that paralyzing fear of being wrong. Because here's the brutal truth: if you don't trust yourself, nobody else will either. Not your partner, not your kids, not your team.We break do...
2025-08-2531 minThe Nice Guy ShowNice-Guys Are Afraid To Decide. How Your Indecision Is Costing You EverythingYou think you're being careful and thoughtful. She thinks you're weak and can't lead.In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Ari, Chuck, and Faisal expose how indecisiveness is secretly destroying your relationships and keeping you trapped in mediocrity. From Ari's embarrassing wedding speech where he called himself "the Obama of the relationship" (the deliberator), to Chuck's printer research marathons, to Faisal walking his hangry date around for an hour looking for the "perfect" restaurant.Here's what you'll discover:Why nice guys mistake overthinking for wisdom (and how it backfires)The brutal...
2025-08-1835 minThe Nice Guy ShowWho Should Initiate Sex? She Doesn’t Initiate ItAri, Chuck, and Faisal dive deep into one of the biggest complaints they hear from men: "My wife never initiates sex anymore." Whether you're in a dead bedroom situation, feeling like you're always chasing, or wondering if you stopped initiating whether sex would happen at all… this conversation is going to open your eyes.We get into:Why "it's always the masculine's job to initiate" might actually be trueThe difference between initiation and seduction (and why women do it differently)How you've probably been approaching sex all wrong — like a "sexual came...
2025-08-1151 minThe Nice Guy ShowPaying for Dates Nice Guy Trap or Masculine Move. High-Value Men Do this.Ari went on three dates with an attractive, successful woman. He paid for the first two dates (including a $200 dinner), then asked her to pay for the third. She immediately went cold and ghosted him completely. Sound familiar? In this episode, we break down exactly what happened — what Ari did right, what went wrong, and the deeper dynamics at play when it comes to who pays for dates in 2025.Chuck, Faisal, and Ari get real about:The primal vs. conscious expectations around dating and moneyWhy "I like to be spoiled" in her profile was a...
2025-08-041h 05The Nice Guy ShowCan't Last? Can't Satisfy Her? Ex-Porn Star Breaks Down What You're Doing WrongMost guys never learned how to lead in the bedroom — or last long enough to even enjoy it.In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, we’re talking about what really satisfies her… and it’s probably not what you think.Former top adult film star Erik Everhard joins Ari, Chuck, and Faisal to break down the hidden causes of sexual performance anxiety — and why confidence in the bedroom starts in your mind, not in your pants.Whether you’re single, dating, or married… this conversation will blow up some myths and give you real, acti...
2025-07-291h 12The Nice Guy ShowThe Upside of Divorce - Is it the end — or could it be the beginning of something far better?In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari flip the script on one of the most dreaded life events a man can face: divorce.Is it the end — or could it be the beginning of something far better?All three of us have been through it. And in this honest, hilarious, and deeply reflective conversation, we explore:Why divorce might be the best gift your ex ever gave youHow breakup pain can wake you up — and grow you upThe upside of being alone (and...
2025-07-291h 10The Nice Guy ShowThe Keys To A Resilient Divorce - Shame and stigma that makes divorce feel like failureIn this raw and honest episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive deep into the messy reality of divorce for Nice Guys. If you're going through a divorce or recently divorced, this conversation will hit you right in the gut — and then lift you back up. We explore:What it means to "Nice Guy your divorce" (and why we all do it)The brutal truth about caretaking your ex while your world falls apartWhy you oscillate between "let me help you" and "screw you" during divorceHow fear of conflict keeps you tra...
2025-07-2943 minThe Nice Guy ShowIs It Time for Men to Man Up?In this episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari tackle one of the most triggering phrases for modern men: “Man up.”You’ve heard it. Maybe you’ve been shamed by it. But what if — just maybe — it’s a wake-up call we actually need?In this deep and vulnerable conversation, we explore:- Why “man up” can feel like a slap — or a step forward- The difference between boy energy and masculine leadership- Why indecisiveness is killing connection in relationships- How to be more than just a provider — and step i...
2025-07-2950 minThe Nice Guy ShowShe Left Without Warning: Walkaway Wife Syndrome ExplainedMost guys don’t even see it coming. One day everything seems fine, and the next… she’s done. Moved out. Checked out. Gone.That’s what we’re talking about in this episode: Walkaway Wife Syndrome — the slow emotional exit a lot of women make while their husbands are completely asleep at the wheel.Ari, Chuck, and Faisal all share what happened in their own marriages — how the signs were there, but got missed or ignored, and what they’ve learned since. Whether you're still in a relationship, going through a separation, or already divorced… this conversation...
2025-06-301h 03The Nice Guy ShowWhy Every Man Needs a RetreatWhat happens when men unplug, step away from their routines, and connect deeply—with themselves and each other?In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Chuck Chapman, Faisal Khokhar, and Ari Gronich dive into the transformative power of men’s retreats. From adventures in the Mojave Desert to solo days in state parks, we explore why retreats are more than just time away—they're essential pit stops for growth, connection, and refueling the soul.🔹 Why men struggle to invest in themselves🔹 The surprising benefits of solitude and brotherhood🔹 Real stories of life-changing moments from re...
2025-06-2442 minThe Nice Guy ShowHow Charismatic Men Handle Women Who Make It Hard To Set A DateNGS 105 – How Charismatic Men Handle Women Who Make It Hard to Set a Date 🔥Ever found yourself trying to set up a simple date… and suddenly it turns into a negotiation or a rejection minefield? In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari break down how charismatic, high-value men navigate situations where women make it difficult to lock in plans.✅ Discover why some women resist setting a date✅ Learn how to lead with confidence—without being controlling✅ Hear real stories from our own lives and coaching sessions✅ Understand the difference be...
2025-06-2430 minThe Nice Guy ShowA Men's Coach Gets Friendzoned: How to Handle It & Avoid It Next TimeIt happened again! Ari got friend-zoned, and he's bringing his dating dilemma to the Nice Guy Show for a raw, real, and incredibly helpful discussion for all men. In this episode, we dive deep into the painful experience of being friend-zoned and, more importantly, how to avoid it and ignite genuine attraction.What you'll learn in this episode:💔 The Friend Zone Revealed: Understand why the friend zone happens, and why it's a common experience for many men. 📝 Post-Date Assessment: Faisal shares his exclusive post-date checklist to analyze what went wrong and how to improve...
2025-06-091h 05The Nice Guy ShowThe Secrets of Confident HusbandsIn this episode of The Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman, Faisal Khokhar, and Ari Graff dive deep into what it means to be a confident husband and how to achieve an integrated marriage. Chuck Chapman, the focus of this episode, shares insights into his "Confident Husband Solution" program, designed to help men navigate the complexities of marriage and overcome the Nice Guy Syndrome. Chuck discusses the evolution of his program, explaining how he identified a need to specifically support married men struggling with their relationships, often due to their "nice guy" tendencies. He introduces his unique co...
2025-06-061h 04The Nice Guy ShowNice Guys Unleashed: Real Talk from Cancun - What We Learned from Dr. Glover's NCON 25!SummaryIn this episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman, Faisal Coker, and Ari Graf reflect on their recent experiences at a men's conference in Cancun, Mexico. They discuss the importance of in-person connections, the courage displayed by participants, and the nuances of leadership. The conversation highlights the journey of personal growth, the significance of experiential learning, and the transformations that occur when men engage authentically with one another. They also touch on the importance of presentation and connection in relationships, and the value of being immersed in a supportive environment for growth.
2025-06-0533 minThe Nice Guy ShowAri's Struggles #93In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Ari Graff opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of change, the burden of expectations, and the need for connection and understanding among men.
2025-03-2427 minThe Nice Guy ShowChuck's Struggles #91In this episode of the Nice Guys Show, host Chuck Chapman opens up about his personal struggles as a life coach, particularly focusing on the challenges of parenting and navigating a business transition. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking support, highlighting that even coaches face difficulties and uncertainties. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of change, the burden of expectations, and the need for connection and understanding among men.
2025-03-1023 minThe Nice Guy ShowAre Nice Guys on the Autism Spectrum? EP #71Why do so many men struggle with social skills? Why do so many men struggle to understand women? Why are so many men isolated and lonely? Why are so many men hypersensitive? These questions come up regularly with nice guys I work with. Some then ask me, does this mean I’m on the autism spectrum? Am I just wired this way?
2024-10-2128 minThe Nice Guy ShowWill A Woman Date Me Because I Have Kids? Dads Starting Over #70In this podcast, you will learn how you can still date successfully even if you have kids. I will share my experience, mid 40s I date women in their early 30s and how they treated me and my kids.
2024-10-1419 minThe Nice Guy ShowThe Nice Guys Mythology That Keeps You Stuck EP #69In today's episode, we'll explore the self-limiting beliefs that Nice Guys carry, beliefs that keep them stuck in life. We'll uncover the origins of these beliefs, how they take hold, and most importantly, how we can break free from them. We'll delve into the steps to transform these beliefs, empowering you to live with integrity, confidence, and passion.
2024-10-0726 minThe Nice Guy ShowYou’re a bitch; Just kidding EP #68Ever found yourself saying, 'Of course I'll take care of the dishes,' to your spouse, only to conveniently 'forget' later? Or maybe you’ve caught yourself saying, 'Sure babe, I’d be happy to weed the entire yard while you go take a bath! Whatever you want,' then ruminating and secretly planning their demise in a revenge fantasy straight out of the Show Dexter? Welcome to the realm of passive aggression, where 'Nice Guys' have turned being incredibly agreeable into an art form—while seething like a pressure cooker on the inside. It's like being the wor...
2024-09-3024 minThe Nice Guy ShowBeware the Zombie Relationship EP #67Have you ever seen two people in a relationship that you know is dead but somehow they didn’t get the memo? You probably know on a gut level what I’m talking about - you see two people who do nothing but argue, complain about each other, or completely ignore each other. I believe that a relationship is a living thing with its own life force that can die. The two partners may still be officially a couple and they may still be attached to each other but the love and care and energy have ev...
2024-09-2322 minThe Nice Guy ShowHow To Be More Social & Create A Social Circle: Guide For Nice-Guys EP #66In this podcast, you will discover How To Be More Social & Create a Social Circle even if you are shy, an introvert or an nerd… andIf you find yourself spending too much time isolatedworking from home anddon’t have many guy friends to hang out withnothing to do over the weekend and feel LONELY a lotthis podcast is for you.And for the guys who get into a relationship and start neglecting their guy mates and their hobbies and know you want know how to make friends and where to go t...
2024-09-1621 minThe Nice Guy ShowPlaying with Fire: Should Your Partner Really Have Friends of the Opposite Sex?" EP #65Today we’re going to delve into a polarizing topic. No, not which direction should the toilet paper hang. Not does pineapple belong on pizza. I’m talking about friends of the opposite sex if you’re in a committed relationship. Gasp! What do you do if you’re in a relationship and she has a lot of male friends? Are you okay with that? Or are you just insecure if you don’t want her to have these types of relationships? Is it okay that you have friendships with members of the opposite sex if you’re in a committed...
2024-09-0925 minThe Nice Guy ShowIs The Nice Guy Syndrome Curable? EP #64A lot of men want to know, will I be a nice guy forever? The conventional wisdom in nice guy coaching is that you will always be recovering from vestiges of the syndrome, that you are always susceptible to falling back into nice guy patterns. But can some or all nice guy patterns be fully resolved or eliminated? Just how much can someone change?
2024-09-0224 minThe Nice Guy ShowMen Don't Listen & Women Don't Hear EP #63Have you ever had a woman say to you:You are not listening to me.You are not empathic.You don’t get it or understand me.Wait a minute, what about you guys?Let’s hear it for the men.Do you find women listen to you?Do you feel understood and respected?Well, let’s find out if only men are bad listeners. In my book, that may not always be the case.
2024-08-2621 minThe Nice Guy ShowWhy You Won’t Be Successful Without A Men’s Group EP #62Why are men’s groups so critical for a man? When I started my journey of becoming a conscious man, I did it through books and 1 on 1 coaching. And I made a lot of progress. I learned more about how to lead in my relationships, set boundaries, and get out of my comfort zone. But I didn’t realize that I had actually hit a wall in my growth. If you want to understand what this wall is, then keep listening.
2024-08-1929 minThe Nice Guy ShowWhy Women Nag & How To Stop It EP #61Have you ever had a woman who’s constantly nagged, complained about you all the time and criticized everything you did, and no matter what you did, it never resolved the complains. Then this podcast is for you and I we will share why women complain and what you can do to stop the complaining.
2024-08-1219 minThe Nice Guy ShowNo More Mr. Nice Guy: Guide To Dealing With Cheating With Dr. Glover EP #60Welcome to the Nice Guy Show. With Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff and Chuck Chapman.The three of us are coaches dedicated to helping nice guys because we are recovering nice guys ourselves. Together, we have decades of experience helping men level up. Our mission is to help men develop the confidence and the skills to get the love, sex, and success they desire. Today's guest is Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, who discusses cheating.
2024-08-051h 26The Nice Guy ShowWhat It’s Like When She Leaves EP #59An anxiety I’ve often had in the past when it came to my relationships was that my partner might leave me. This only contributed to my Nice Guy Behavior in, well just about every area of the relationship. This fear that “she may leave you” is fuel to the Nice Guy Syndrome. I’ve seen this pattern over and over again with the men that I work with in my coaching Nice Guys who are trying to recover and become integrated men. It seems that this fear is so deeply entrenched that it’s almost wr...
2024-07-2923 minThe Nice Guy ShowWhy Women Love Bad Boys & Hate Nice-Guys EP #58What is it about bad boys women can’t get enough of?Why do women keep going back to bad boys they know they are trouble?What type of men are they?What type of women bad boys?Why do nice-guys finish last?Do nice-guys need to become bad boys?
2024-07-2225 minThe Nice Guy ShowAre Nice Guys Commitment Phobes? EP #57There is one stereotype about the nice guy that he is needy and clingy and stays in a bad relationship no matter what. And yes, I’ve been guilty of that. But what about the nice guy that can’t commit? Can’t commit to a woman or a job or a hobby or even meeting your friend for dinner?
2024-07-1529 minThe Nice Guy ShowThe Time I Was Slapped In The Face With A Sacred Dick EP #56Recently I was complaining to my personal men’s group about being tired, about being disappointed in the ambivalence in some of the men I work with and men in general aren’t interested in self-development, and just uninterested in anything other than sex, sports and video games. I’ve been doing men’s work for almost 20 years both as a participant and a leader. Quite frankly, I was tired, burnt out, and not seeing the fruits of my labor, at least in my expectations. I was contemplating giving it all up and retiring to become an artist.
2024-07-0823 minThe Nice Guy ShowHow To Be More Optimistic and Less Pessimistic Nice Guy EP #55Are you hard on yourself and others?Do you tend to criticize and judge harshly?Do you always see life as half empty instead of half full?
2024-07-0116 minThe Nice Guy ShowIs ADHD Part of My Nice Guy Syndrome? EP #54Are you a nice guy who has been diagnosed with ADHD? Or do you suspect you have ADHD? Why does it seem like every man with nice guy syndrome has ADHD too? In this episode we are going to break down just what is happening here and what are the differences between ADHD and nice guy syndrome.
2024-06-2428 minThe Nice Guy ShowWhere To Meet Attractive Women If You Are Shy And Without Coming Across Creepy EP #53Want to know the best and easiest places to meet attractive great women without dating apps or loitering around nights club? And especially if you are shy.Stick around for this episode Where To Meet Attractive Women If You Are Shy And Without Coming Across Creepy EP and I will reveal where you’ll find abundance of single women and hardly any competition, and you can do all of this wihtout breaking your bank or coming across creepy.
2024-06-1717 minThe Nice Guy ShowThe Feminine Freakout! How To Bring Calm To Your Partner EP #52Can you relate to this; you’re going along in your relationship, everything is fine and then you say something, something pretty innocent and maybe even a little funny. To you at least. And then suddenly like a dormant volcano erupting she explodes. Expletives are flying, accusations are being hurled and you find yourself like a deer caught in headlights doing D.E.E.R
2024-06-1024 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 51 -How To Be Dumped Without Falling ApartChuck, Faisal, and Ari share their insights on handling breakups like a man. They discuss practical tips and strategies for navigating the end of a relationship with resilience and self-respect, helping Nice Guys keep their cool even when faced with heartbreak.
2024-06-0319 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 50 - Why Raising Your Standards Makes Nice Guys Attractive To Women and MoneyChuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the concept of raising your standards and how it can make Nice Guys more appealing to women and boost their financial success. They discuss the transformative power of self-respect and setting higher expectations in various aspects of life
2024-05-2725 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 49 - She's Pissed! Defending Against Her AmbushChuck, Faisal, and Ari dish out advice on how the Nice Guy can navigate those moments when his woman is feeling ticked off. They share tips and insights for handling conflict in relationships.
2024-05-2017 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 48 - How To Deal With Her Flakiness Chuck, Faisal, and Ari tackle the issue of dealing with a woman's flakiness, offering insights and strategies for Nice Guys navigating unpredictable behavior in their relationships.
2024-05-1329 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 47 - How To Attract Women Like A GentlemanChuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss why the Nice Guy often finds it challenging to attract women
2024-05-0620 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 46 - WTF Is Your Why?Chuck, Faisal, and Ari get real about the importance of discovering and owning your 'why'. They explore how understanding your purpose can fuel personal growth and lead to a more fulfilling life.
2024-04-2923 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 45 - Does Penis Size Matter?Chuck, Faisal, and Ari break it down: they discuss how penis size truly isn't that big of a deal when it comes to women.
2024-04-2225 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 44 - 3 Things Men Get Horribly Wrong When Seducing WomenChuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss how Nice Guys often struggle when it comes to the art of seduction, exploring the reasons behind their lame performance in this area.
2024-04-1523 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 43 - It's True. You Are Lazy.Chuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss how Nice Guys often fall short due to their tendency to slack off and play it easy, holding themselves back from reaching their full potential.
2024-04-0822 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 42 - Men Who Send Dick Pics Don't Understand WomenChuck, Faisal, and Ari talk about dudes who fire off dick pics, why it doesn't turn women on (and how they truly DON'T understand women!)
2024-04-0124 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 41 - Nice Guys Lack IntegrityChuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss why the Nice Guy often lacks integrity, defining what integrity truly means. They also provide insights from Chuck's latest book, "Find Your Way Without Losing Yourself: The Path To Integrity
2024-03-2527 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 40 - Why You Must Get Rid of PornPorn addiction is a reflection of Nice Guy shame. Chuck, Faisal, and Ari show how porn is doing more damage than you might think.
2024-03-1922 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 39 - Why Your Woman Is Not Your Best FriendThe Nice Guy's world revolves around his woman. Chuck, Faisal and Ari show why it is essential to have good male friends and how making your partner your best friend kills attraction.
2024-03-1220 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 38 - Stop Playing The VictimIn this conversation, Ari, Faisal, and Chuck discuss the concept of victim mode and its impact on personal growth and relationships. They share personal experiences and explore the reasons why people fall into victim mode. The conversation highlights the role of self-awareness and language in recognizing and overcoming victim mode. The speakers also emphasize the importance of balancing challenge and self-compassion in the process. They conclude by differentiating between addressing trauma and engaging in victim mode.
2024-03-0425 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 37 - The Opposite of The Nice GuyThe conversation explores the concept of the integrated man as the opposite of a nice guy. It delves into the tendency of nice guys to overcorrect and swing from passivity to anger and aggression. The importance of tempering rage and finding balance is discussed, along with the role of shame and the need to integrate the shadow side. The conversation also highlights the significance of resetting the nervous system and developing emotional skills. The attributes of an integrated man are outlined as a guide for personal growth and self-acceptance.
2024-02-2624 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 36 - Why A Relationship Won’t Make You HappyChuck, Faisal, and Ari dissect why the Nice Guy needs more than just a relationship for fulfillment in life.
2024-02-1934 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 35 - It’s Your Fault That Your Relationship SucksChuck, Faisal, and Ari lay it out plain and simple: when it comes to the Nice Guy's relationships, if it's bad, it's on him. They drive home the message that it's time to stop blaming others and start taking responsibility for the kind of relationship you want.Learn more at niceguyshow.com
2024-02-1235 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 34 - Dress Like A Man, Not Like A ChildChuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss the significance of dressing well for the Nice Guy. They discuss how personal appearance can be pivotal in garnering attention and commanding attraction.
2024-02-0531 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 33 - Self Help JunkiesChuck, Faisal, and Ari discuss the Nice Guy's inclination towards self-help consumption, emphasizing the crucial step of translating knowledge into action.
2024-01-2929 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 32 - The Spoiled-Brat Reflex (SBR) in Relationships: Are You Guilty? Chuck, Faisal, and Ari delve into the Nice Guy's tendency to get easily hurt and introduce the concept of the Spoiled Brat Reflex (SBR). They explore how this reflex affects relationships and offer insights on managing emotional reactions more effectively.
2024-01-2244 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 31 - Get Your Balls Back: Cultivating CourageHave you ever had a woman tell you to grow some balls?Maybe your boss takes advantage of you.Maybe you let your kids run the house.Maybe you still go to your mommy for approval of your decisions.Maybe you let your woman step all over you. These are some of the most cutting, painful things you can say to a man. You’re weak. You’re a coward. You need to man up.
2024-01-1540 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 30 - Are Nice Guys Cheap A/F?Chuck, Faisal, and Ari address the common trait of frugality or being 'cheap AF' in Nice Guys, and they explore the underlying reasons behind this behavior.
2024-01-0839 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 29 - Evolving Beyond The Nice-Guy: The High-Value ManChuck, Faisal, and Ari delve into the transformation of the Nice Guy into a high-value man. They discuss the essential steps and mindset shifts required to evolve beyond Nice-Guy tendencies and cultivate a more confident and fulfilling life.
2024-01-0133 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 28 - She's Mad At Me Again: How to Get Yourself Out of the DoghouseChuck, Faisal, and Ari tackle the Nice Guy's tendency to walk on eggshells in relationships. They share practical strategies and advice on how to break free from this pattern
2023-12-1834 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 27 - Too Bad To Stay, Too Good To GoChuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a thought-provoking conversation about the Nice Guy's predicament, often caught in the 'too good to leave, too bad to stay' dilemma in their relationships.
2023-12-1530 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 26 - Taking Women Off The Pedestal - The Real Truth Abut Female WorshipChuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the concept of Nice Guys and the transformative process of taking women off the pedestal, shedding light on how this shift in perspective can lead to more balanced and authentic relationships.
2023-12-0432 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 25 - Does Therapy Fail Nice Guys?Chuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a candid conversation about their own journey with therapy, delving into both the advantages and potential challenges that arise along the path to personal growth and self-discoveryLearn more at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-11-2938 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 24 - The Unattractive Truth About Men With Mommy IssuesChuck, Faisal, and Ari explore the intricate connection between the Nice Guy, their relationships with their mothers, and how this pops up in dating and relationships in some unattractive ways .Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-11-2238 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 23 - The Truth About Nice Guys And Their Daddy IssuesChuck, Faisal, and Ari engage in a deep discussion about the Nice Guy's relationship with their fathers; exploring how early experiences can impact their approach to relationships and personal development.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-11-1537 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 22 - 6 Reasons Nice Guys Suck At Dating - Part TwoJoin Chuck, Faisal, and Ari as they dive into part two of their discussion on why Nice Guys often struggle in the dating world, uncovering the root causes and offering valuable insights for personal growth.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-11-0845 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 21 - 6 Reasons Nice Guys Suck At Dating - Part OneJoin Chuck, Faisal, and Ari as they kick off part one of their discussion on why Nice Guys often struggle in the dating world, uncovering the root causes and offering valuable insights for personal growth.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-11-0139 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 20 - Why Nice Guys Are Addicted To ComfortChuck, Faisal, and Ari dissect the Nice Guy's yearning for comfort and a trouble-free life, shedding light on how this desire can hinder men's personal growth and fulfillment in relationships.Learn More at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-10-2530 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 19 - Kill The Nice Guy NeedinessChuck and Ari delve into the topic of Nice Guy neediness and share effective strategies to overcome it, helping men break free from this common relationship challenge.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-10-1834 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 18 -The Three Wise Nice GuysJoin us as Chuck and Faisal extend a warm Recovering Nice Guy welcome to official Co-Host and Psychologist Ari Graff to the Nice Guy Show. In this episode, they dive into their backgrounds and much more, setting the stage for insightful discussions to come.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-10-0329 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 17- No More Mr. Nice Dad - Part 2Join Chuck and Faisal as they rejoin guest Ari Graff for part two of their podcast on Nice Dads, where they provide valuable insights and advice to help nice guys who are fathers navigate the complexities of parenthood and relationships.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-09-2836 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 16 - No More Mr. Nice Dad - Part OneJoin Chuck and Faisal as they welcome guest Ari Graff to their podcast, where they provide valuable insights and advice to help nice guys who are fathers navigate the complexities of parenthood and relationships.Learn more at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-09-1930 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 15 - How To Deal With A Difficult Ex When You Have Kids TogetherChuck and Faisal explore the challenging terrain of managing relationships with your ex-partner when you share children.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
2023-09-0636 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 14 - She's Put On Weight. I'm No Longer Attracted To Her. What Do I Do?Chuck and Faisal fearlessly tackle the complex issue of shifting attraction when a partner gains weight and how to handle it.Learn more about the Nice Guy Show at NiceGuyShow.com
2023-08-3025 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 13 - Two Words To Make You Love FitnessJoin Chuck and Faisal as they reveal the two powerful words that can ignite a nice guy's love (need!) for fitness. Through insightful discussions and personal experiences, they'll delve into the core of motivation and inspiration, guiding listeners toward a newfound passion for embracing a healthy lifestyle.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
2023-08-0328 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 12 - Boost Your Libido Now: 4 Proven Strategies Every Nice Guy NeedsJoin hosts Chuck and Faisal as they delve deep into the topic of libido and uncover the four proven strategies every nice guy needs to bring their best and enhance their intimate relationships.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
2023-07-2438 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 11 - 10 Ways To Fix The Dead BedroomJoin hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar on the latest episode of the Nice Guy Show as they each share their top fie ways to avoid the dreaded DEAD BEDROOM.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
2023-07-1753 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 10 - 5 Things Nice Guys Can Do To Get More Money And SexUnravel the mysteries of money, sex, and personal energy in the enlightening journey with Faisal and Chuck.Through their raw and riveting exploration, they reveal surprising connections between money and women, viewing both as energy forms.This podcast shares lessons from their upbringing and personal experiences, with unique perspectives on money and sex, culminating in five transformative ways to enhance your attractiveness to both.The duo's candid chat is a mix of intriguing insights, humor, and relatable narratives - one that will leave you enlightened, inspired, and entertained.Don't miss this...
2023-07-1140 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 9 - Woman Are Not Always Innocent. Why They Cheat On Good Men.Join hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar on the latest episode of the Nice Guy Show as they tackle the often overlooked topic of women who cheat and discuss the telltale signs to watch for in relationships.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
2023-06-2128 min
Chuck Shute PodcastAri Nagel (The Sperminator)Ari Nagel is an American mathematics professor and a sperm donor who has fathered more than 140 children. He has been nicknamed the Sperminator or the Target Donor, after the American retail corporation in whose stores some of his artificial-insemination donations were performed. In this episode we discuss Ari’s backstory and how he became a sperm donor, the complications of having 140 kids, legal issues and more. 0:00:00 - Intro 0:01:07 - Background & Growing Up 0:04:03 - Motorcycle Accident, Money & Travel 0:07:36 - Craiglist Ad & First Donations 0:11:13 - Ari Compared to a Cli...
2023-06-161h 01The Nice Guy ShowEpisode 8 - Why Nice Guys Can't Help CheatingChuck and Faisal explore the underlying psychological and emotional factors of the Nice Guy Syndrome, discussing the patterns of behavior and mindset that can lead to dissatisfaction and frustration in relationships and result in men cheating.Learn more at TheNiceGuyShow.com
2023-06-1431 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 7 - Monogamous Or Open Relationships?Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar dive deep into the age-old debate of open relationships versus monogamous relationships. In this captivating episode, Chuck and Faisal bring their unique perspectives and expertise to the forefront as they explore the pros and cons of both relationship styles.
2023-06-0527 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 6 - Avoid The Death Penalty - 4 Signs To Look For Before Entering A RelationshipFaisal and Chuck discuss the "4 Signs When To Enter A Relationship & Avoid The Death Penalty," they delve into the factors the nice-guys make when entering a relationship. Faisal kicks off the discussion by sharing his personal experiences, highlighting the pitfalls of impulsive relationships and hasty decision-making. He reflects on the journey of meeting a girl, having a great time together, moving in, and ultimately becoming parents, emphasizing the importance of taking a more measured approach.Chuck chimes in, pointing out a common issue many people face in relationships—seeking external validation. He emp...
2023-05-2331 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 5 - Should I Stay Or Should I Go?In this episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar tackle one of the toughest decisions individuals face: whether to stay or go in a difficult relationship.
2023-05-1640 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 4 - Why Do Nice-Guys Rescue Broken Women? And How To StopWelcome to Episode 4 of our series on the Nice-Guy Syndrome! In this video, Faisal and Chuck delve into the question of why nice-guys tend to be attracted to broken women and what can be done to overcome this pattern.They discuss the five reasons why this might be the case, including a sense of familiarity with emotional support, replicating the dynamic with their own mother, seeking validation, struggling with low self-esteem, and a savior complex.Furthermore, they highlight the role of control in this dynamic, and how it can give nice-guys a sense of security...
2023-05-0935 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 3 - Things Nice Guys Hide To Get Sex and LoveOn this episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar delve into covert contracts and the things that nice guys hide to get sex and love.
2023-05-0221 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 2 - Five Reasons Nice Guys Settle for Bad Sex - or NO SEX!On the latest episode of the Nice Guy Show, hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar delve into a topic that many men can relate to: why nice guys settle for bad sex or even no sex.
2023-04-2543 minThe Nice Guy ShowEpisode 1 - Welcome To The Nice Guy Show: What is a Nice Guy?Welcome to the Nice Guy Show, where hosts Chuck Chapman and Faisal Khokhar tackle the tough issues that face men today in relationships, sex, and life. With a focus on empowerment and self-improvement, the Nice Guy Show explores the challenges and rewards of being a man who knows what he wants and goes after it, and why being a Nice Guy is keeping that from happening.Join Chuck and Faisal as they share their personal experiences and insights, drawing on their combined expertise in psychology, counseling, coaching, and relationship advice. From navigating the complexities of modern...
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