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We're Having Gay SexI Hooked Up With Alayna Joy (Basically) | WHGS Ep. 309This episode has been years in the making, listener! It’s a DUO episode today as we are joined by Alayna Joy, an incredible queer therapist, content creator, and co-host on Ashley’s other podcast, Chosen Family. However today she’s coming into the WHGS apartment, because Ashley banged her doppelganger?! In-between the details of this epic story, we discuss getting married after coming out 6 years ago, compulsory heterosexuality, discovering bisexuality on YouTube, and melatonin. Enjoy!
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2026-02-021h 08We're Having Gay SexVico Ortiz: Our FIRST Drag King! | WHGS Ep. 306This episode is breaking new ground, listener! Vico Ortiz (HBO Max, Adventure Time) is an enchanting Puerto Rican drag king, actor, and activist that is pushing boundaries in the media, but today they’re in the apartment to pop our drag king cherry! In addition, all of our usual co-hosts are tied up, away, or sick, so Ashley’s girlfriend Jen Davis fills in as our temporary co-host! We discuss polyamory, relationship anarchy, decolonizing your life, tricking straights into reading queer smut, and being in a queer relationship with Mother Gaia. Ashley gets hit on by a man. Jen ruin...
2026-01-121h 05We're Having Gay SexI Just Flirt with Catherine McCafferty (of Pretty Gay) | WHGS Ep. 302This episode is flirty, listener! Catherine McCafferty is an enchanting actor, stand-up, podcaster, and host of the hit internet series “Pretty Gay,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to make Ashley malfunction! In addition, beloved co-host Breanne Williamson joins us from the great North! We discuss crying because of a bad hookup, your friends stealing your bed, sexting, how to flirt with gorgeous gay women, and wanting nothing more than to be so good in bed that you ruin lives. Ashley tries sexting her GF. Breanne gets “whiskey strap.”
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2025-12-151h 05We're Having Gay SexPlanning My Marriage to My GF w/ Ali Kolbert | WHGS Ep. 300 SPECTACULARThis episode is a MILESTONE, listener! To celebrate the 300th episode of WHGS, we are joined by beloved co-host and dear friend Ali Kolbert to bring things full circle: this podcast started alongside Ashley’s relationship with Jen, so it’s only right that we have another life milestone alongside an episode milestone! We strategize how Ashley should propose to her girlfriend, and even manage to fit in discussions about relationship mementos, intimacy kink, shadow work, boob reductions, and the powerful will-they-won’t-they of lesbian relationships. Enjoy, and thanks for all of your support through 300 EPISODES OF WHGS!!!
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2025-12-011h 07We're Having Gay SexClaire Sundbye Sleeps With Women in a Dog Bed (Not a Joke) | WHGS Ep. 267This episode is GRIMY, listener! Claire Sundbye is an amazing Chicago-based standup comedian, opener for Ashley, and hamster mom, but today she’s in the apartment for some DOGGYSTYLE (bedding). We discuss preferring to sleep and bang in a literal dog-bed, leaving embarrassing surprises in your soulmate’s toilet, taking a penis sabbatical as a lesbian, and how NOT to eat a whole sleeve of Oreos as your only meal. Ashley rides a cowgirl. Maddie has straight panic.Follow Claire on IG & TikTok:https://www.instagram.com/lilshrimpsnack/ https://www.tikto...
2025-04-071h 09We're Having Gay SexHow to NOT Date a Trans Person w/ Sunny Laprade | WHGS Ep. 266This episode is REJECTED, listener! Sunny Laprade is a hilarious stand-up comedian and trans woman who has been doing comedy with Ashley since she was 14, but now she’s grown and in the apartment to become 69!!! We discuss absolutely DISASTROUS dates with other trans people, the long journey of coming out as a trans woman, going through it while baring all on stage, and how there is nothing funnier than getting dead-named by your soulmate. Ashley is on a cold-streak. Kylie is oversharing. Follow Sunny on IG, TikTok, and Twitter:https://www.insta...
2025-03-311h 06
We're Having Gay SexAkeem Woods Easily Attracts Porn StarsThis episode will touch you (literally), listener! Akeem Woods (The Late Late Show) is a sensational stand-up comedian, writer, and fan-favorite at Ashley’s weekly show, but today he’s in the apartment because he’s the favorite fan of most adult stars! We discuss hooking up with adult film stars on the regular, the nuances of strapping your partner, and how crazy it is that there are people who have probably and literally whacked off to this podcast. Ashley is the 5th wheel. Maddie starts GLP-1s.You can follow Akeem on IG, TikTok...
2025-02-031h 06
We're Having Gay SexTiffani Faison Cooks the Perfect Dish For Date NightThis episode is a tasty one, listener! Tiffani Faison is a superstar chef, restaurateur, judge on “Chopped,” and winner of “Tournament of Champions,” but today she’s in the apartment to win your heart, taste buds, and loins with a delicious dish! In addition, Ashley’s girlfriend and actor Jen Davis fills in as temporary co-host while the other co-hosts are away! We discuss the perfect ingredients for a successful date night meal, her path to becoming a chef, why there are so many lesbians in the restaurant industry, and how Boston is definitely not heaven on Earth. Ashley handles heat...
2024-11-181h 10
We're Having Gay SexLesley Hart Gets Stuck in Lesbian PurgatoryLesley Hart is an incredible Scottish actor and playwright who is best known for her great work on the long-running Scottish series “River City,” but today she is here to work on a way to get into your PANTS! On another installment of Ashley’s Fringe Fest podcasts, we discuss the long journey to fully coming out as queer, surviving closeted relationships, being an older queer, and how the hottest kind of woman is one who is HOSTILE! Ashley can’t crack Scotland (sexually). Lesley was in lesbian purgatory. You can follow Lesley on Twitter for updat...
2024-09-1658 min
We're Having Gay SexSamantha Ruddy Kinks So Hard, She Claims My ShowSamantha Ruddy (The Tonight Show, The Late Show) is a hilarious comedian, writer, and self-proclaimed kink expert, so much so that today she’s in the apartment to dethrone Ash as the SEX GOD! In addition, stand-up comedian and Ashley’s best friend Sam Morrison fills in as temporary co-host while he’s visiting town. We discuss the ins-and-outs of BDSM parties, the complexities of age gap relationships, and how improv classes will suffice when you need to bust a nut on some roleplay. Ashley is getting lied to. Sam is baby shopping. You can fol...
2024-07-291h 09
We're Having Gay SexBreanne Williamson Cleans My Messiest Story YetIt’s a family episode today as actor, podcaster, content creator, and WHGS co-host Breanne Williamson calls in for a catch up, but more importantly she calls in to clean up Ashley’s MESSIEST story yet! We recap their stand-up tour together in Canada before recounting Ashley’s epic, unprecedented, and multi-part gay sex story featuring devious wing moms, gay gossip, and enough twists and turns to put “Gone Girl” to shame.SUPPORT OUR PODCAST:Bonus Content: https://www.patreon.com/WHGSMerch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavinWatch on...
2024-06-241h 02
We're Having Gay SexRobin Tran Blows Out Your Bank, Not Your BackRobin Tran (Netflix, The Roast of Whitney Cummings) is a gut-busting transgender stand-up who was a breakout star in the 2023 Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but today she’ll blow out your back if it means a shot at breaking the bank! In addition, hilarious comedian and friend of the pod Irene Tu fills in as co-host to make sure Ashley STAYS canceled! We discuss staying positive during financial and emotional stress, curating award-winning queer adult content, combating addiction, and how wacking off is best when done to an unknowing friend. Ashley is a confirmed sapiosexual. Irene is a nun....
2024-06-031h 09
We're Having Gay SexAlayna Joy Finds Your Forbidden FantasyAlayna Joy is a joyous content creator, therapist-in-training, and mommy on the “Chosen Family” Podcast, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to be Ashley’s SPIRIT GUIDE through one of her KINKIEST experiences to date!!! To provide extra support, we also called in the beloved and hilarious Kylie Vincent to co-host and soothe. We discuss intense religion-fueled sexual experiences, creative solutions to first time queer encounters, and we end up getting so honest and vulnerable that Ashley needs to use a safeword. Alayna is doing research, Kylie loves getting naked. You can follow Ala...
2024-05-271h 10
We're Having Gay SexGianmarco Soresi is Only Gay at Theater CampGianmarco Soresi (The Late Late Show, Comedy Central) is an amazing stand-up comedian, actor, and lovable host of “The Downside” podcast, but today he’s in the apartment to taste the UNDERSIDE of some DUDES! In addition, Ashley’s gay bestie and fellow stand-up comedian Sam Morrison steps in as co-host while Maddie is on tour. We discuss intense gay experiences as a teen, embracing non-traditional masculinity as a straight man, and we get to the bottom of WHO in the room would give the most bomb dome. Ashley gets in a snotty situation. Sam faces a poopy conundrum.
2024-05-061h 10
We're Having Gay SexMak Ingemi Apologizes for Trapping Your ThirstFan-favorite Mak Ingemi is an internet influencer, podcaster, and Ashley’s adopted teenage son, but today she’s in the apartment to provide a heartfelt apology to the world for getting you too wet! We discuss awkward first dates as a young queer, the challenges of identifying fellow queers after coming out, and best of all, we have a deep retrospective on Mak’s old thirst traps. Ashley almost loses her GF. Maddie is reviewing “Madame Web.”You can follow Mak on IG & Tik Tok:https://www.instagram.com/makingemi/ https://www...
2024-04-221h 06
We're Having Gay SexJosh Johnson Escapes the Gender MatrixJosh Johnson is an Emmy-nominated writer, comedian, and correspondent on “The Daily Show,” but today he’s in the apartment to report on which sex is bangin’ best! We discuss the prisons of gender in society, the ever-changing role of masculinity, and whether or not butter-sculpture can be considered high art. Ashley is a horn dog. Ali is saving incels. You can follow Josh on IG, Tik Tok, & Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/joshjohnsoncomedy/https://www.tiktok.com/@joshjohnsoncomedy https://twitter.com/joshjohnson And you can watch his s...
2024-04-081h 10
We're Having Gay SexWillow Shields Needs a Movie Mermaid MommyWillow Shields is an amazing actress most well known for playing “Prim” in the Hunger Games film trilogy, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to catch the attention of a mermaid mate! We discuss the difficulties of being an openly queer actor in Hollywood, gay awakenings from corny fantasy creature flicks, and all the JUICY behind-the-scenes horniess that happens when you go through puberty on a film set. Ashley finds a work wife. Bre is a world-class faker.You can follow Willow on IG & Twitter:https://www.instagram.com/willowshields/h...
2024-04-011h 10
We're Having Gay SexMari Taren Needs Post-Coital McDonald'sMari Taren is a lovely comedian & actor that’s most well known as the casting producer for Netflix’s “Ultimatum: Queer Love,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to put some ladies on the casting COUCH instead! We discuss car sex in fast-food drive throughs, challenges for queer actors in media, and the most dangerous symptom of COVID: becoming masc. Ashley is shopping for wedding rings. Maddie is ready to cast “The First Wiener Kiss Experience.”You can follow Mari on IG, Twitter, & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/mariel_taren/https://ww...
2024-03-251h 06
We're Having Gay SexNico Carney Was a Lesbian in a Past LifeGut-busting trans comedian Nico Carney (Boys Club, Late Night w/ Seth Meyers) has been rockin’ the comedy world lately, but today he’s in the apartment to rock your BED, listener! In addition, hilarious comedian and straight (beta) male Jaime Wolf steps in as co-host because we really couldn’t find anyone else. We discuss surviving and thriving as a young queer in a small town, facing transphobia during travels in the USA, and how the “+” in "LGBTQ+" is really just for James Corden. Ashley campaigns for a three-way. Jaime REALLY likes “The L-Word.” You can follow...
2024-03-181h 08
We're Having Gay SexCaitlin Peluffo Gets Jacked (and Jerked)Gut-busting comedian & podcast favorite Caitlin Peluffo (Late Show w/ Stephen Colbert, Just for Laughs) has just released a new standup album, “Dirty Bird,” but today she's in the apartment to release her new ARM CANONS to the thirsty public! We discuss weightlifting expanding your sex life, balancing your masc and femme tendencies, and how totally/probably/maybe 9/11 was done for insurance fraud. Ashley writes to her lover. Maddie is filibustering.You can follow Georgia on IG, Twitter, & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/caitlinpeluffohttps://www.tiktok.com/@caitlinpeluffohttps...
2024-03-111h 05
We're Having Gay SexGeorgia Bridgers’ Tears Get Ladies WetGeorgia Bridgers is an absolutely wonderful content creator, podcaster, and comedian that’s popping off on your Tik Tok feed, but today she’s in the apartment to pop some CHERRIES after harrowing distress! In addition, the hilarious Kylie Vincent joins us once again as temporary co-host while Maddie is out on tour! We discuss the long journey to finding love again after depression and breakups, the joys of sex after an emotional purge, and how you and your ex that blocked you on everything are totally on good terms. Ashley has an awkward date. Kylie’s ribbing the ladies...
2024-03-041h 04
We're Having Gay SexRuby Setnik’s Dangerous “Nut” AllergyRuby Setnik is a hilarious stand-up that opens for nationally touring acts like Duncan Trussell and JR De Guzman, but today she’s busting open a NUT, if you catch our drift! We discuss having allergic reactions to “baby sauce,” the intersections of gender and language, and the ever present threat that is the meat-to-man pipeline. Ashley selects a sperm donor. Maddie ponders womanhood. You can follow Ruby on IG & TikTok: @rubyksetnik, And you can see her live comedy special taping in Sacramento this March: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ruby-setnik-live-in-sacramento-tickets-844359410727?aff=oddtdtcre...
2024-02-261h 12
We're Having Gay SexAlex Kim Denies Jesus for WeenusAlex Kim is an incredible queer stand-up comedian that performs across NYC, but today he’s in the apartment to perform naughty acts that God would consider an abomination! In addition, the lovely Kylie Vincent fills in as temporary co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss the chaos of realizing your gayness as a devout Christian, drawing boundaries with your family, and which musical is the most effective at making your high school drama class feel really weird. Ashley ponders what is better than sex. Kylie has a gay crush. You can follow Ale...
2024-02-191h 09
We're Having Gay SexJonica Booth Eats Neapolitan-Flavored BaddiesJonica Booth is an actor/comedian who played Chastity in Issa Rae’s hit HBO Max series “Rap Sh!t,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to play with some model girlies! We discuss fumbling foursomes with absolute baddies, keeping receipts for when you come out to your family, and how to make your girlfriend so mad that she gives you dome alongside absolute strangers. Ashley has erectile dysfunction. Bre gets unclogged.You can follow Jonica on IG: @jonicabluebooth, TikTok: @jonicabooth, Twitter: @JonicaCBooth,And you can watch her on HBO Max’s “R...
2024-02-121h 06
We're Having Gay SexAli Kolbert Takes a Booty Call-inFan-favorite comedian and writer Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show, Variety, Forbes) returns to the pod to give you some advice, and if you’re lucky, give you some HEAD! We discuss toilet women and ideal partners, and then in a WHGS FIRST, we take some live call-ins from YOU, the listeners, and give advice on long distance relationships, the Barbie movie, and dealing with your partner’s homophobic family. Ashley has morning sex. Maddie has a sushi date. You can follow Ali on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: @alikolbert,And you can listen “Breaking...
2024-02-051h 09
We're Having Gay SexEmil Wakim Gets Got by Gay AdviceEmil Wakim (The Tonight Show, Just For Laughs) is an amazing standup comedian and writer that opens for the likes of Hasan Minhaj and Nikki Glaser, but today he’s in the apartment to open up his relationship! We discuss gay advice causing distress in straight relationships, how to purge your inner demons through jerkin’ it, and the phenomenon of rice/ass/boobs/noodles. Ashley gets an ultrasound. Maddie has suitors. You can follow Chris on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: @emilwakim,And you can see him perform LIVE near you! Get tickets at: h...
2024-01-291h 08
We're Having Gay SexChris Fleming Goes “Mommy Mode”Chris Fleming is an iconic comedian & actor most well known as the creator of the web series “Gayle,” but today he’s gender-bending in the apartment and we’re FREAKING OUT! We discuss playing around with gender from a young age, being owned by your pets, and how to handle your sex life like a conquistador. Ashley gives thanks. Maddie loses their nerves (romantically & medically).You can follow Chris on IG/TikTok: @chrisflemingfleming, Twitter: @chrisfluming,And you can watch his new special, “HELL,” on Peacock NOW: https://www.peacocktv.com/watch-online/movies/chris-flemin...
2024-01-221h 14
We're Having Gay SexThe Bachelor Disrespects the WHGS FamilyOn today’s very special episode, WHGS co-hosts Breanne Williamson and Maddie Wiener come together within the virtual realm to settle some feuds and spread some love! We discuss who will get Ashley’s frozen eggs if after she passes, Breanne’s new movie release, Maddie’s unwell YouTube history, and then the goodfellas go on the defensive after intense disrespect against the family: The Bachelor blocks Don Ashley. Maddie needs a haircut. Bre starts standup. Watch “Aging Out” on YouTube NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=slqOY3ywDBc Listen to “Phone Is In The B...
2024-01-151h 07
We're Having Gay SexGus Constantellis is a Suspicious Sneaky LinkGus Constantellis is an amazing Greek-American standup, writer, and soon-to-be cookbook author, but today he is in the apartment to cook some sizzling hot SEX STORIES! In addition, the wonderful SVU cop Kylie Vincent joins us once again as temporary co-host while Maddie is touring on the road. We discuss having suspicious sex while abroad, grieving the death of well-known loved ones, and we learn the true history of queer icon Marsha P. Jonestown. Ashley puts numbers on the boards. Kylie does sex work. You can follow Gus on Instagram & TikTok: @constantlygus https://linktr.ee...
2024-01-081h 14
We're Having Gay SexJaye McBride Shoots Her (Kill)ShotJaye McBride is a witty transgender standup who performs at institutions like the Comedy Cellar or Madison Square Garden, but today she’s in the apartment to fix her inability to “perform,” if you catch our drift! We discuss shooting your shot and managing rejection, dating as a transgender comedian, and how your favorite superhero comics could be a little less gay. Ashley meets the parents. Maddie is on Feeld.You can follow Jaye on IG: jaye.mcbride, Tik Tok and Twitter: @jayemcbride,And you can get her standup and merch over at her...
2024-01-0159 min
We're Having Gay SexKenyon Adamcik Gets Dommed Unto DeathKenyon Adamcik is a hilarious standup comedian and Maddie’s co-host on the “Phone Is In The Bag” podcast, but today he’s in the apartment to take a more submissive role in the relationship, if you catch our drift! We discuss hiring dominatrices, the joys of being a submissive man in the bedroom, and how cross-dressing squirrels may be the secret to solidifying American hegemony. Ashley likes rugby more than a hobby. Maddie is too confident. You can follow Kenyon on IG and Twitter: @kenyoncomedy, Tik Tok: @kenyon.comedy,And you can liste...
2023-12-251h 04
We're Having Gay SexSteph Tolev Speedruns Going SteadySteph Tolev (Netflix, Comedy Central) is an amazing writer, actress, and quick-witted stand up comedian, but today she’s in the apartment to quickly U-Haul with some sexy mofos! In addition, the fantastic Kylie Vincent fills in as the anti-cancel co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss jumping head first into new relationships, whether men or women kiss better, and we get to the bottom of who in the room actually has the biggest body count. Ashley is eyeing the muscle mommies. Kylie desperately tries to eat snatch.You can follow Steph on IG...
2023-12-181h 04
We're Having Gay SexKylie Vincent Gets Clam Jammed by GodKylie Vincent (Comedy Central) is a hilarious standup comedian whose critically-acclaimed solo show, “Bird,” has been gettin’ some serious attention, but today SHE needs attention from some BIRDS! We discuss sex being prevented by the lord almighty, overcoming relationship trauma from sexual assault, and we analyze the beautiful paintings of President George W. Bush. Ashley is topping America. Maddie is going to bang Kylie.You can follow Kylie on IG & Tik Tok: @kylievincentthefirstAnd you can watch her critically-acclaimed solo show, “Bird,” online: https://thecultch.com/event/bird-by-kylie-vincent/ Support W...
2023-12-111h 14
We're Having Gay SexEmma Willmann is Doping, in Sports & Dirty TalkStandup comedian, ADHD-haver, and podcast fan-favorite Emma Willmann (Netflix, Comedy Central) returns to the apartment to talk dirty, but this time it has been heavily altered by some performance enhancement! We discuss sex-drive getting changed by medication, getting fit and its relationship to gender perception, and the best techniques to get stains out of clothes with your new WASHBOARD ABS! Ashley revisits a ballerina. Maddie ponders weight and gender. You can follow Emma on IG: @emmawillmann, Tik Tok & Twitter: @iamemmawillmann,And you can listen to her amazing new podcast, “Ask Men Anything,” RIGHT...
2023-12-041h 06
We're Having Gay SexNicole Coenen Chops Wood, but Doesn’t Touch ItNicole Coenen is a vlogger, influencer, and wood-chopper who’s thirst traps brought you out of the closet, but today she’s phoning into the apartment to dish out some wood, if you catch our drift! We discuss losing your gay virginity in art-film fueled escapades, the wild journeys that precede coming out of the closet, and which kind of wood makes the best adult toys. Ashley has gone celibate. Bre is witnessing sleight-of-anus.You can follow Nicole on IG & Tik Tok: @nicole_coenen, Twitter: @NicoleCoenen,And you can watch her awesome vlog...
2023-11-271h 07
We're Having Gay SexChanel Ali Plays Truth or DiddleChanel Ali (MTV’s “Girl Code,” Food Network) is a hilarious stand-up, writer, and avid Harry Potter enthusiast, but today she’s in the apartment to unpack what that all means: she’s probably gay. We discuss having gay experiences during “Truth or Dare,” the importance of intimacy over strict sexuality, and which Harry Potter character is most lickable (the answer may surprise you). Ashley’s got a mommy thing, for real. Maddie reads the “Lesbian Masterdoc.” You can follow Chanel on IG & Tik Tok: @chanelali, Twitter: @chanel__ali,And you can listen to her amazing...
2023-11-201h 15
We're Having Gay SexBreanne Williamson is Back From the Red CarpetBreanne Williamson, beloved WHGS podcast co-host, is finally BACK in the apartment to get freaky, but she’s gone “Hollywood” because she made a freakin’ movie! On today’s family episode we have a catch up on each others’ lives, dive deep into Bre’s film”Aging Out” and its production, and get into a story from our most important team member: YOU, the LISTENER. Ashley lost her mojo. You are having threesomes abroad. You can follow Bre’s movie, “Aging Out,” on IG: https://www.instagram.com/agingoutthemovie/ Stay tuned for upcoming screenings, and y...
2023-11-131h 15
We're Having Gay SexAshley Reveals the Truth (w/ Sam Morrison & Lucas Zelnick)This week we are joined by two of Ashley’s best standup comedian friends: Sam Morrison, the world’s funniest gay diabetic jew, and Lucas Zelnick, everybody’s favorite LGBTQ+ ally from the 1%! On a long-awaited episode, we finally discuss Ashley’s cancellation in Indianapolis from a comedian's perspective, complete with all the juicy details! Sam is giving underwater blowjobs. Lucas has his first gay experience. You can follow Sam on IG, Twitter, & Tik Tok: @samuelhmorrison, And you can see him perform live near you and in the UK! Get tickets now at:▶...
2023-11-061h 18
We're Having Gay SexJade Catta-Preta Shines a Light on SnatchJade Catta-Preta is a Brazilian-born actress, comic, and podcaster that you’ll fall in love with, but today she’s in that apartment because SHE has fallen in love! We discuss the variety of shapes and sizes that vaginas come in, fully committing to the lesbian lifestyle, and the crazy business that is showbiz. Ashley has an ex update, and then she finally gives everybody what they’ve always wanted: a VAG REVEAL.You can follow Jade on IG, Twitter, & Tik Tok: @jadecattapreta, And you can see her perform live near you! Get tic...
2023-10-301h 13
We're Having Gay SexParis Sashay Keeps Her Pee Clean For YouParis Sashay is an absolutely lovable comedienne, writer, and actor that’s on the rise to stardom, but today she’s in the apartment to get hydrated for the dirty deed! We discuss piss play in the bedroom, the ins-and-outs of strapping, and how to keep your titties healthy. Ashley gets loud in the bedroom. Maddie finds strap-ons and stereotypes.You can follow Paris on IG, Twitter, & Tik Tok: @parissashay, And you can see her perform live near you! Get tickets at her website:▶ https://www.officialparissashay.com/tour
2023-10-231h 05
We're Having Gay SexMonét X Change has Sloppy-Toppy TenacityMonét x Change is a hilarious drag queen, podcaster, and the first double crown winner from “RuPaul’s Drag Race,” but today she’s in the apartment to put those crowns on some DOME if you catch our drift! We discuss giving marathon-length fellatio, the freedom offered by gender performance, and banging straight dudes in full drag (which makes it totally not gay). Ashley shops lingerie. Maddie learns some anatomy. You can follow Monét on IG & Twitter: @monetxchange, Tik Tok: @themonetxchange, And you can see her perform live near you! Get tickets at...
2023-10-161h 04
We're Having Gay SexThe Dropouts Attempt Gay Cultural ExchangeZach Justice and Jared Bailey (Dropouts Podcast) are a musician/comedian duo that hosts one of the funniest podcasts on the internet, but today they are in the apartment to host a dialogue for gay-straight relations! In addition, dear friend and comedian Ali Kolbert enters the fray YET AGAIN as our temporary co-host and lesbian lieutenant in the sexuality war! In lieu of standard stories, we lock arms and share cultures, discussing lesbian concerns surrounding straight men, straight fears surrounding queerness, and the great middle ground that is eating ass. You can follow Zach on IG...
2023-10-091h 30
We're Having Gay SexIrene Tu Has Attained No-Nut NirvanaIrene Tu is a top-charting LA-based comedian that’s on everybody’s radar, and today in the apartment she’s decided to never GET OFF! In addition, dear friend of the podcast Ali Kolbert steps in as co-host during some LA sex tourism. We discuss being unable to orgasm, letting go of the expectations of sex, and then we get into a playground fight about who has achieved the most cums in one sesh. Ashley can no longer trib. Ali has heartache. You can follow Irene on IG & Twitter: @irene_tu, Tik Tok: @irenetucomedy,An...
2023-10-021h 22
We're Having Gay SexYou Glimpse Keara Graves’s Cosmic Black HoleKeara Graves is an actor, YouTuber, and singer that’s guiding us through life, but today they’re in the apartment to guide us through their rear end! We discuss sharing hemorrhoids with your partner, having a libido that’s always in flux, and the radical act of showing your tummy to the internet. Ashley is dating her exes. Maddie is dressing like crap. You can follow Keara on IG & Twitter: @kearagraves, Tik Tok: @keara.graves,And you can check out their awesome podcast, “Safe Space,” below:▶ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q...
2023-09-251h 10
We're Having Gay SexJake Cornell is a SAG-Eligible Orgasm FakerJake Cornell is an unfathomably powerful actor, comedian, and writer that will charm you, but today he’s in the apartment to charm some lovers! We discuss the rare “fake male orgasm,” dating after getting out of a long-term relationship, and the dystopian group-think dynamics that make Cillian Murphy hot. Ashley has a celebrity crush. Maddie is going masc-for-masc.You can follow Jake on IG, Twitter, & Tik Tok: @jakewcornell, And you can check out his amazing new podcast, “Basic Training,” below:▶ https://linktr.ee/basictrainingpod Support WHGS f...
2023-09-181h 09
We're Having Gay SexIsa Medina Can’t Handle How Hot You AreIsa Medina (Sounds Like a Cult) is a side-splitting stand-up comedian, podcaster, and actor that’s dominating the podcast game, but today she’s in the apartment to GET dominated by some tops out there! We discuss the dynamics of being a bottom, techniques to separate sex from emotions, and your Columbian father training you to appreciate all things ass. Ashley is advising the men. Maddie is puking on weenie.You can follow Isa on IG & Tik Tok: @isaamedinaa, And you can check out her tour dates and hit podcast, “Sounds Like a Cult...
2023-09-111h 20
We're Having Gay SexNeil Rubenstein Isn’t Gay-for-Pay, He’s Gay-for-GirlsNeil Rubenstein is one of Ashley’s oldest friends and a stand up comedian with a new comedy special (Have Some Dignity) OUT NOW, but today he’s in the apartment for a special TIME under the sheets! We discuss being pansexual before it had a definition, the sexual antics of performers, and the secrets to running a successful mom-and-pop brothel. Ashley is working the nipple. Maddie is getting coffee. You can follow Neil on IG & Twitter: @neilrubenstein, Tik Tok: @itsneilrubenstein, And you can watch his full debut stand up special, “Have Some Dig...
2023-09-041h 01
We're Having Gay SexJaime Wolf is Stirred Awake by SlurpingJaime Wolf is an NYC-based stand up comedian, podcaster, and the funniest man in the world, but today he’s in the apartment witness gay sex in the most respectful way possible. We discuss being stuck in the middle of secret relationships, mindsets for being a good ally, and falling in love after some really intense questioning. Ashley has a peculiar roommate. Maddie is breakin’ beds.You can follow Jaime on IG, Tik Tok, and Twitter: @jaimewolfcomedy,and you can listen to his podcast, “Can I Go Home Now?,” today:▶ https://op...
2023-08-281h 14
We're Having Gay SexSheria Mattis is Done Playing Chess With YouSheria Mattis is a hilarious stand-up comedian, writer, and as of today our number one returning guest, but today she’s done setting records and ready to take a load off with the gang! We discuss starting queer sex as a baby gay, the lack of communication in dating apps, and the importance of the metronome in sex. Also, the competition is set: Ashley has two months to not bang, and Maddie two months to make it happen. Who will go crazy first?!You can follow Sheria on IG: sheriamattiscomedy, Twitter: @sheriadidthat, and Tik To...
2023-08-211h 08
We're Having Gay SexJen Davis (My GF) Takes a Warm Golden ShowerJen Davis is an actor, Tik Toker, and Ashley’s beloved girlfriend, but today she’s in the apartment to start a throuple with the gang! We discuss getting peed on during the dirty deed, the logistics of open relationships, and we cry a lot trying to answer basic inquiries. Ashley has a gender crisis. Maddie is asking the questions. You can follow Jen on IG and Tik Tok: @jenparkerdavis▶ https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/ ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podca...
2023-08-141h 02
We're Having Gay SexLexi (of Ultimatum: Queer Love) Drops Dough on DildosLexi Cayla is an iconic cast member of Netflix’s “Ultimatum: Queer Love” and a rising Onlyfans model, but today she’s in the apartment to share her sex toy haul with the crew! We discuss keeping things fresh in the bedroom, becoming an OF model, and whether or not she still has feelings for her Ultimatum co-stars. Ashley has lesbos in Paris. Maddie is gettin’ buff. You can follow Lexi on IG, Tik Tok, and X: @lexicgoldberg; OF: lexicgoldberg; And you can watch the “Ultimatum: Queer Love” now on Netflix:▶ https://www...
2023-08-071h 16
We're Having Gay SexEric Williams Starts a Gay RenaissanceEric Williams is an actor, comedian, and podcaster (That’s a Gay Ass Podcast) that literally breathes funny, but today he’s in the apartment to BLOW instead in his newfound gay renaissance! We discuss opening up your long-term relationship, the chaos of showbiz, and the all-knowing zodiac of Ben and Jerry’s. Ashley has a gay glo-up. Maddie is reading. You can follow Eric on IG: @ericwillz, Tik Tok: @ericwillztt, And you can listen to his podcast, “That’s a Gay Ass Podcast,” wherever you listen:▶ https://www.ericwilliamscomedy.com/gayasspodcast...
2023-07-311h 08
We're Having Gay SexCaitlin Peluffo’s Crab Rangoon CopulationCaitlin Peluffo is an amazing stand-up comedian that opens for superstars (Fortune Feimster, Matteo Lane) and performs on super-shows (Late Night w/ Steven Colbert), but today she’s in the apartment to perform acts of a SEXUAL nature on the gang! We discuss gay experiences in threesomes, growing and learning from awful relationships, and the deluge of sexual confusion that comes from your crab rangoons. Ashley seeks motherhood. Maddie goes on a date… with a GIRL. You can follow Caitlin on IG, Tik Tok, and Twitter: @caitlinpeluffo, And you can see her live nea...
2023-07-241h 13
We're Having Gay SexJamie Raines: Fighting Transphobia, Forfeiting FellatioJamie Raines, known online as Jammidodger, is a genius YouTuber, writer, and transgender advocate that’s debunking transphobia across the internet, but today he’s in the apartment to de-SPUNK with the gang! We discuss Jamie’s journey with transitioning, the ongoing battle for trans rights, sexuality’s interplay with gender, and how Jamie is an undercover throat-goat. Maddie and Ashley take a break from sex stories to consult a literal PH.D. You can follow Jamie on IG & Tik Tok: @jammi.dodger, Twitter: jammi_dodger94, And you can purchase his wonderful new book, “Th...
2023-07-1759 min
We're Having Gay SexMal (of Ultimatum: Queer Love) Steals Your HeartMal Wright is America’s gay sweetheart and a beloved cast member of Netflix’s “Ultimatum: Queer Love,” but today she’s in the apartment to get into all the gay sex she’s been having POST SHOW. We discuss the highlights (and low-lights) of being on the Ultimatum, the importance of communication, being a POC on television, and Mal sheds some light on just how much she’s been DROWNING in it. Ash, Maddie, and Bre all hop on board to get to the bottom of all the juicy details!You can follow Mal on IG: @ig...
2023-07-101h 20
We're Having Gay SexJared Freid Fixes You and Fumbles Girls in FranceJared Freid is a gut-busting stand up comedian, podcaster, and love guru, but today he’s in the apartment to help gay sex come closer to YOU, the listener! We discuss how to approach women, methods for handling rejection, how to start a casual relationship, and how to absolutely fumble women when traveling abroad. In lieu of stories, Ashley and Maddie consult lovemaster Jared on all things love and intimacy.You can follow Jared on IG: @jaredfreid, TikTok: @wizardofha, Twitter: @jtrain56,And you can see him live near you! Listen to his po...
2023-07-031h 12
We're Having Gay SexRae (of Ultimatum: Queer Love) Gets High and Spills TeaRae Cheung-Sutton is one of the most controversial cast members of Netflix’s “Ultimatum: Queer Love,” but today she’s in the apartment to take edibles and tell all about it! We discuss being on the Ultimatum, queer media and reality television in general, and we finally get to the bottom of “FingerGate.” Ash and Bre duel over who will be the future host of queer reality television for all time and eternity. You can follow Rae on IG and TikTok: @raelyn_cs;And you can watch the Ultimatum: Queer Love now on Netflix:
2023-06-261h 10
We're Having Gay SexCammie Scott & Taryn Arnold are Quickly Lickin’ ToesCammie and Taryn Arnold-Scott are a newlywed lesbian power couple that's dominating both the worlds of content creation and copy writing, but today they’re in the apartment to dominate each other with some toe-lickin’ fun! We discuss the importance of quickies, planning queer weddings, and we finally expose Cammie for what she really is: a Disney Adult. Ashley is goin’ to Disney World. Bre was a virtual playboy. You can follow Camme on IG and Twitter: @cammiescott, and TikTok: @cammie.scott;You can follow Taryn on IG: tarynarnoldscott, TikTok and Twitter: @thetarynarnol...
2023-06-191h 17
We're Having Gay SexKC Shornima’s Belt Binding BrouhahaKC Shornima is a side splitting comedian and staff writer for Saturday Night Live, but today she’s on strike in the apartment and having some kinky bi-sexual panic instead! We discuss BDSM and the use of belts in bed, gay experiences despite identifying as straight, and the sweetest presents to get from your stalker in the mail. Ashley does some sexual networking. Maddie does a thot experiment. You can follow KC on IG: @kcshornima,And you can see her standup LIVE near you! Get tickets at her website: https://www.kcshornima.com...
2023-06-121h 06
We're Having Gay SexZach Zimmerman Likes Women (as Objects)Zach Zimmerman is a delightful comedian and writer who will make you think and laugh at the same time, but today he’s in the apartment to make us think and BANG at the same time. We discuss attraction to women despite generally identifying as a gay man, exploring sexuality through sex workers, and how boobs are probably the best objects on Earth. Ashley has a smokin’ hot fling. Maddie is all theory. You can follow Zach on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: @zzdoublezz,And you can get his new book, “Is It Hot in He...
2023-06-051h 08
We're Having Gay SexAlissa Butt’s Gayness Blooms on the B-Ball CourtAlissa Butt is a queer YouTuber, vlogger, and model who’s stuntin’ all over the internet, but today they’re in the apartment to slow it down and get into some sadboi vibes with the crew. We discuss managing cycles of depression, coming out under threatening conditions, and how all things queer stem from the basketball court. Ashley shaves her girl. Breanne subverts the “girls trip.” You can follow Alissa on IG: @alissa_butt, TikTok: @itsalissabutt, Twitter: @alissabutt,And you can watch their vlogs over on YouTube:▶ https://www.youtube.com/@alissabut...
2023-05-291h 08
We're Having Gay SexTien Tran Sustains Sex-Related InjuriesASHLEY’S SPECIAL IS OUT NOW! Watch “Ashley Gavin: Live in Chicago” here: https://youtu.be/Ay6jUYPH644 Tien Tran is an amazing comedian, writer, actor, and the goddess of riffing, but today she’s in the apartment to cure her wounds with some sexual healing! We discuss injuries preventing sex (again), women’s basketball, and new policies to watermark these nepo-babies. Ashley spends quality time with the missus. Maddie bros down a bit too hard. You can follow Tien on IG: @hanktina,And you can watch her hilariou...
2023-05-221h 07
We're Having Gay SexChris Distefano Only Cries From PeggingASHLEY’S SPECIAL IS OUT NOW! Watch “Ashley Gavin: Live in Chicago” here: https://youtu.be/Ay6jUYPH644 Chris Distefano is one of America’s biggest stand-up comedians, featured on Netflix, Vice, MTV, and every other piece of media you’ve heard of, but today he’s in the apartment to be America’s biggest QUEER and dip his toes into the wild side! We discuss getting emotional during sex, feelings being perceived as gay, and whether or not you have a broken heart or just a broken batch of steroids. Ashley’s gettin’ tugged around. Madd...
2023-05-1558 min
We're Having Gay SexRobin Tran Feels Shame (aka, Horniness)ASHLEY’S SPECIAL IS OUT NOW! Watch “Ashley Gavin: Live in Chicago” here: https://youtu.be/Ay6jUYPH644 Robin Tran is a side-splitting transgender stand-up that will make you howl with laughter at some of the darkest thoughts imaginable, but today she’s in the apartment to get you OFF to the darkest thoughts imaginable! In addition, fan-favorite Ali Kolbert steps in as our temporary co-host while the show takes a pit stop in LA! We discuss shame surrounding sex, the importance of comedy in queer spaces, and the logistics required to plan your 9/11-themed w...
2023-05-081h 09
We're Having Gay SexShannon Beveridge Sees Exes EverywhereASHLEY’S SPECIAL IS OUT NOW! Watch “Ashley Gavin: Live in Chicago” here: https://youtu.be/Ay6jUYPH644 Shannon Beveridge is a legendary YouTuber, content creator, and the patron deity of internet lesbianism, and today she’s in the apartment to put the gang on their knees to “pray.” We discuss the difficulty of forgetting exes in the age of social media, period sex, and how filing your taxes is the closest thing you can do to lesbian lovemaking. Ashley stalks a former lover. Bre has a new kink (according to the stars)....
2023-05-011h 07
We're Having Gay SexJojo Siwa’s Cellular Phone CatastropheASHLEY’S SPECIAL IS OUT NOW! Watch “Ashley Gavin: Live in Chicago” here: https://youtu.be/Ay6jUYPH644 Jojo Siwa is a global superstar who dominates everything, from dancing to singing to acting, but today she’s in the apartment to dominate the gang into submission (if you catch my drift). We discuss getting walked in on by your parents during the intimate deed, the challenges of dating and young adulthood as a media sensation, gettin’ wet & wild on cruise ships, and everything else gay that’s under the sun! Ashley enters a sleepy sex trance. M...
2023-04-241h 12
We're Having Gay SexSarah Schauer Gets You Rich and Gets You OffAshley’s special premieres Sunday, April 23rd at 7PM EST, with a live watch party at 6PM! Add it to your calendar: https://www.addevent.com/event/Op16496206. Subscribe and turn on notifications: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TA3ex_HIb6I Sarah Schauer is an iconic YouTuber, content creator, and soon-to-be-stand up comedian that’ll have you laughing out loud, but today she’s in the apartment to make us SCREAM out loud in pure ecstasy! We discuss ADD’s crazy effects on sex, getting kinky with inflatable pools, and the ins-and-outs of the hig...
2023-04-171h 03
We're Having Gay SexJes Tom Has Pure Gay DNAAshley’s special premieres Sunday, April 23rd at 7PM EST, with a live watch party at 6PM! Add it to your calendar: https://www.addevent.com/event/Op16496206. Subscribe and turn on notifications: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TA3ex_HIb6I Jes Tom is a trans non-binary comedian, actor, writer, and perhaps the 1st ENBY to ever discuss the topic in stand-up, but today they’re in the apartment to blow our minds and our genitals! We discuss sexual preferences changing after hormone therapy, perception affecting sexual desire, and bangin’ cis dudes at a rap...
2023-04-101h 09
We're Having Gay SexKendall Farrell is a Gay VigilanteAshley’s special premieres Sunday, April 23rd at 7PM EST, with a live watch party at 6PM! Join her text list for info: https://www.ashleygavin.com/specialtext Kendall Farrell is a hysterical NYC-based comedian that opens for some of the biggest names in comedy (including ol’ Ashley), but today he’s in the apartment to catch some feelings, and potentially catch some cases! We discuss communicating with your conservative family, the logistics of threesomes, and unintentionally getting involved in some good ol’ Texan vigilante justice. Ashley manifests a threesome. Maddie loves their family....
2023-04-031h 10
We're Having Gay SexAshley's Girlfriend RevealCo-hosts Breanne Williamson and Maddie Wiener come together for a SPECIAL episode full of grand revelations and incestuous flirtations in the grand old apartment! We discuss love, identity, and finally squash the Ash-Bre beef over some bangin’. Ashley reveals main-main. Breanne peeps behind the Matrix. Maddie finds the missing gender puzzle-piece. ASHLEY IS DROPPING A SPECIAL ON APRIL 23RD! Join her text list for watch party updates:▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441Support WHGS for bonus content, uncut podcasts, live streams, and more:...
2023-03-271h 09
We're Having Gay SexSasha Velour Does Drag at TGI FridaysSasha Velour is a gender-fluid drag queen, visual artist, author, and the winner on season nine of “RuPaul’s Drag Race,” but today she’s in the apartment to sashay on Ash-lay and crew! We discuss gender fluidity, discovering drag from a young age, and coming out to your parents over a plate of bacon potato skins. Ashley staffs a gay law firm. Maddie is pumpin’ iron. You can follow Sasha on IG and Tiktok: @sashavelour, Twitter: @sasha_velour,And you can preorder her book, “The Big Reveal,” NOW over on her website:▶...
2023-03-201h 11
We're Having Gay SexYoungmi Mayer is in Polyamorous PerilASHLEY IS DROPPING A SPECIAL SOON! Join her text list to be the first to know:▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441Youngmi Mayer is a rockstar comedian, podcaster, and writer with an exciting book on the horizon, but today she’s not hustling; she’s in the apartment to get freak-nasty with the polygamous trio! We discuss cheating in non-monogamous relationships, intent vs. impact when using pronouns, and we get to the bottom of whatever a “hairy butthole” is. Ashley worries for a former lover. Maddie seduces the straights...
2023-03-131h 07
We're Having Gay SexMak Ingemi Doesn’t Want it Parasocial, PardnerASHLEY IS DROPPING A SPECIAL SOON! Join her text list to be the first to know:▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441Mak Ingemi is a superstar content creator, social media influencer, and Ashley’s hardworking and loyal gay son, but today we’re on the road in HER midwestern hometown to go full “Brokeback Mountain”, pardner. We discuss parasocial relationships in our modern era, the difficulties of long distance relationships, and if this gay lil’ town is big enough for the three of us, you cowpoke. Ashley has...
2023-03-061h 09
We're Having Gay SexJess Henderson Curses You (With Gratitude)ASHLEY IS DROPPING A SPECIAL SOON! Join her text list to be the first to know:▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441Jess Henderson is a awe-inspiring comedian, actor, and writer who is manifesting stardom into reality, but today they’re manifesting some HOT BABES into the apartment! We discuss self-healing after a breakup, realizing when a relationship has run its course, and how the band Paramore is truly for the black community, by the black community. Ashley loves a bi-girl. Maddie binges Tom Holland. ...
2023-02-271h 07
We're Having Gay SexYou and Lucas Zelnick TOTALLY Won’t BangASHLEY IS DROPPING A SPECIAL SOON! Join her text list to be the first to know:▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441Lucas Zelnick is an amazing NY-based comedian, Ashley’s dear pal, and *ahem*... a normal straight dude, but today he’s making history by being the 3rd of his kind to have gay sex with the gang! We discuss hooking up with crazy conservatives, how to be a good ally, and finally split ourselves amongst the great ass-tit divide. Ashley trauma bonds. Maddie saves baubles and bu...
2023-01-161h 10
We're Having Gay SexDon’t Crush Sheria Mattis’s CrushASHLEY IS DROPPING A SPECIAL SOON! Join her text list to be the first to know:▶ https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates, or text “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441Sheria Mattis is a Brooklyn-born & bred comedian, writer, and actress that will crack you up, but today she’s in the apartment to ATTEMPT to crack into some poon! We discuss having trouble getting laid, deconstructing unhealthy relationship pursuits, and how crazies exist in just about every race, not just whitey. Ashley is in luuuvveee. Maddie gets their head straight. You can find...
2023-01-091h 07
We're Having Gay SexAngel Flores Joins the Seattle Poly CommuneListen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms:▶ https://www.chosenfamilypodcast.com/ ▶ https://www.youtube.com/@chosenfamilypod ▶ https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/?hl=en ▶ https://www.patreon.com/chosenfamilypodcast Angel Flores is a content creator, powerlifter, and transgender activist, but today she is in the apartment to form a polyamorous trio with the crew! Also, due to an emergency gay drought in the NY metropolitan area, our straight correspondent Hannah Berner joins us as our temporary co-host and angry ally. We discuss ethical non-monogamy, the complex effe...
2023-01-021h 08
We're Having Gay SexConor Janda Helms the “Side” CrusadeListen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms:▶ https://www.chosenfamilypodcast.com/ ▶ https://www.youtube.com/@chosenfamilypod ▶ https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/?hl=en ▶ https://www.patreon.com/chosenfamilypodcast Conor Janda is a gut-busting stand up comedian, a devout “side,” and NY’s best Pilates instructor, but today he’s in the apartment to give the gang a little “workout.” We discuss often forgotten "side" in the gay male community, managing anxieties surrounding sex and relationships, and whether or not that drinker you know is an alcoholic, or just sup...
2022-12-261h 09
We're Having Gay SexJulia Shiplett Wants to Quell her Animal InstinctsListen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms:▶ https://www.chosenfamilypodcast.com/ ▶ https://www.youtube.com/@chosenfamilypod ▶ https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/?hl=en ▶ https://www.patreon.com/chosenfamilypodcast Julia Shiplett is a stand-up comedian, actor, and writer who you have seen all over Comedy Central and HBO Max, but today you can see her getting FRISKY with the gang! We discuss exploring your sexuality while in a long-term relationship, communication differences between men and women, and we finally get to the bottom of what Kony 2012 w...
2022-12-191h 08
We're Having Gay SexAlayna Joy has Tongue Ring Trib-ulationsListen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms:▶ https://www.chosenfamilypodcast.com/ ▶ https://www.youtube.com/@chosenfamilypod ▶ https://www.instagram.com/chosenfamilypod/?hl=en ▶ https://www.patreon.com/chosenfamilypodcast Fan-favorite Alayna Joy is a content creator, climbing enthusiast, and the queer mommy on our new podcast “Chosen Family,” but today she’s in the apartment to re-kindle that love life with daddy Ashley! We discuss the effectiveness of tongue rings in oral sex, the ability to orgasm multiple times, and training strategies to make your arm so shredded i...
2022-12-121h 13
We're Having Gay SexRachel Ballinger is a Barrel-Aged GayListen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms:▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww▶ https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/chosen-family/id1652942569 ▶ https://open.spotify.com/show/0yc257UifuN47iTWAmqAZn Rachel Ballinger is a huge YouTuber, content creator, and recently-out lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to get some sex tips from the weathered professionals! Even more, we have hilarious stand-up and friend Ali Kolbert stepping in as temporary co-host to make it a hang with tha boyz. We discuss coming out later in l...
2022-12-051h 03We're Having Gay SexEmma Willmann Talks Dirty on CraigslistListen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms:▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww▶ https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/chosen-family/id1652942569 ▶ https://open.spotify.com/show/0yc257UifuN47iTWAmqAZn Emma Willmann is an actor/writer, one of NY’s best stand-up comedians, and one of Ashley’s dear friends, but today she is in the apartment to talk some smack to the gang! We discuss learning dirty talk via Craigslist, how to improve your poops, and the best ways to tell your ex that the gove...
2022-11-281h 01
We're Having Gay SexRemy Kassimir is All Out of NutsListen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms:▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww▶ https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/chosen-family/id1652942569 ▶ https://open.spotify.com/show/0yc257UifuN47iTWAmqAZn Remy Kassimir is a stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Ashley’s fairy “podmother” who helped start this entire show, but today she is in the apartment to get her nut back! We discuss having trouble orgasming, the hottest new sex toys, and how this may be our last podcast taping ever now that Remy has plunged us int...
2022-11-2158 min
We're Having Gay SexMak Ingemi is Fiscally Straight, Sexually LiberalListen to “Chosen Family” now, on all platforms:▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww▶ https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/chosen-family/id1652942569 ▶ https://open.spotify.com/show/0yc257UifuN47iTWAmqAZn Mak Ingemi is an internet content creator, videographer, and perhaps every woman’s wet dream, but today she’s in the apartment to do some pining for the one woman that’s HER wet dream! We discuss being in a long-distance relationship, “U-Hauling” vs. waiting to move in with your partner, and how being a lesbian is really not...
2022-11-141h 06
We're Having Gay SexCalvin Cato Gets a Mobile Home HandyCalvin Cato is a wonderful stand-up comedian who was named one of Time Out NY’s “Queer Comics of Color to Watch Out For,” but today he’s in the apartment to be named the gay sex king! We discuss having sex with van-lifers, banging in international waters, and the best methods to pitch your screenplay to celebrities that don’t want to hear it. Ashley double-dips her dates. Maddie has a break through with daddy. You can find Calvin on IG and Tiktok: @calvinscato, Twitter: @catocalvin,And you can see him live near yo...
2022-11-071h 08
We're Having Gay SexHannah Berner Needs a “Full-Service” Hair RemovalWe will be LIVE-STREAMING a LIVE performance of the podcast on November 12th at 2pm EST, complete with unique segments and special guests! Visit https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates for virtual and in-person tickets, and join the mailing list for future show dates!Hannah Berner is an outrageous stand-up comedian and dear friend of the podcast, but today she is in the apartment to shatter her straightness in one of our most chaotic episodes yet! In addition, we are double-friended up this week as the rib-tickling comedian Ali Kolbert steps in as our visiting...
2022-10-311h 05
We're Having Gay SexSebene Selassie Repairs Your Erotic EnergySebene Selassie is a meditation teacher and spiritual guide who spreads healing across the globe, but today she is in the apartment for some SEXUAL healing! We discuss being in a sexless relationship, reconnecting with your sexuality, and totally figure out the secret to the universe (spoiler alert; it's just getting finger-blasted). Ashley finds inner peace. Maddie unleashes their inner slut. You can find Sebene on IG and Twitter: @sebeneselassie,And you can follow her work, teachings, and workshops on her website:▶ https://www.sebeneselassie.com/ Sup...
2022-10-241h 13
We're Having Gay SexKeara Graves Was Late for This ‘Cuz They Were Bangin’Keara Graves is a marvelous queer actor, singer, and content creator, but you know they’re ALREADY bangin’, so they’re in the apartment to tell us all about it! Also, “canceler chancellor” Breanne Williamson returns to the fold as a virtual co-host to keep our gears greased. We discuss getting in quickies when you’re on the clock, using multiple different pronouns, and what to rank Ashley’s ABYSMAL performance. Ashley deals with a nut allergy. Bre breaks her partner’s ribs. You can find Keara on IG and Twitter: @kearagraves, TikTok: @keara.graves,And you c...
2022-10-171h 07
We're Having Gay SexBailey Pope Will Stage-Manage Your OrgyBailey Pope is an absolutely killer comedian and trans woman who performs across the US, but today she’s in the apartment to perform some oral on the crew! In addition, gay virgin Maddie Wiener joins us once again, this time as our PERMANANT co-host. We discuss coming out as trans mid-marriage, attending sex parties in your free time, and the complexities of hunting gay ghosts. Ashley has an apartment retrospective. Maddie might be demi-sexual. You can find Bailey on IG and Tiktok: @theactualbaileypope, Twitter: @theactualbailey,And join her mailing list to see...
2022-10-101h 04
We're Having Gay SexJade Fox Needs Drama When Doin' itJade Fox is a hilarious content creator who covers everything from fashion to queer issues and black culture, but today she’s in the apartment to cover the gang with her titties! In addition, “canceler chancellor” Breanne Williamson joins as co-host once again to roast Ash to a fine crisp. We discuss awkward sexual experiences in high school, coming out with as much drama as possible, and maintaining a tranquil boobie aura. Ashley loses her virginity. Breanne corrects the record. You can find Jade on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: @iamjadefox,And you can watc...
2022-10-031h 05
We're Having Gay SexNico Carney Flakes on Your FootsyNico Carney is an amazing trans stand-up who was recently showcased on Netflix’s “Introducing…” lineup, but today he is showcasing his HOT BOD to the gang! In addition, gay virgin Maddie Wiener returns to the couch to co-host and monitor Ashley’s halls- Will they ever get laid?! Tune in to find out! We discuss being hit on by your friend’s partner, performing comedy as a trans man, and pimping out your all-American body to maximize views. Ashley bangs a finance femme. Maddie quits porn. You can find Nico on IG & Twitter: @nicocarney_, Ti...
2022-09-261h 12We're Having Gay SexCammie Scott is Leading You OnCammie Scott is a vlogger, content creator, and professional gay who’s killin’ the game, but today she is phoning into the apartment to kill some puss! In addition, Breanne Williamson returns to the fray as “Canceller Chancellor” to co-host with Ash. We discuss being a serial monogamist, attempting to slut around in spite, and going to therapy to repair your broken friendship and podcast. Ashley saunters down memory lane. Breanne ain’t so kinky after all. You can find Cammie on IG & Twitter: @cammiescott, TikTok: @cammie.scottAnd you can check out her ama...
2022-09-191h 05
We're Having Gay SexDash Turner Molts in Your BedDash Turner is a wonderful stand-up comedian and staff writer for Peacock’s “Rutherford Falls,” but today he is a low-libido sex machine in the apartment to get his mojo back! In addition, gay virgin hall monitor Maddie Wiener joins us yet again as temporary co-host to monitor Ashley and dream of gayer pastures. We discuss coming to terms with a low sex drive, the misadventures that follow forcing yourself to bang, and the radical act of playing Xbox online as a gay man. Ashley crashes her U-Haul. Maddie tries to score a rebound. You can f...
2022-09-121h 09
We're Having Gay SexJessica Kirson is Building a Gay DynastyJessica Kirson is a living stand-up legend and an absolute powerhouse on stage, but today she is in the apartment to powerBANG the gang! Even more, our little gay virgin and comedian Maddie Wiener steps in yet again to co-host and monitor Ash. We discuss rearing kids from different baby mommas, staying sane while loved ones are sick, and the joys of Judaism and muff (not expressly related). Ashley closes the Brazilian MILF arc. Maddie gets and I.U.D.You can find Jessica on IG: @jessykirson, TikTok and Twitter: @jessicakirson,You...
2022-09-051h 03
We're Having Gay SexSheria Mattis's Traveling Strap-on TroupeSheria Mattis is a Brooklyn-based comedian who is already DESTROYING the comedy scene despite being in it for only a few years, but today she is in the apartment to destroy some puss with the gang. Even more, NEW temporary co-host and “gay virgin hall monitor” Maddie Wiener steps up to monitor Ash. We discuss love and life with fibroids, putting on a strap-on performance, and how anything goes as long as you got a fat ass. Ashley gets sneaky in camp. Maddie goes to the ER. You can find Sheria on IG: @sheriamattiscomedy, TikTok and Twitter...
2022-08-291h 10
We're Having Gay SexErica Sullivan is an Olympic Piss-leblowerErica Sullivan is a queer swimmer and Olympic silver medalist for Team USA, but today she is in the apartment to swim inside the gang! Even more, the Bre-son winds down as “canceler chancellor” Breanne Williamson has her final run as temporary co-host (for now). We discuss how athletic injury affects on your sex-life, queerness in athletics, and Erica blows the lid off all the Olympic pee secrets. Ashley bangs at the workplace. Bre receives a message from the gay cosmos. You can find Erica on IG and Tiktok: @erica.sully, and Twitter: @erica_sully▶ https...
2022-08-221h 08
We're Having Gay SexRita Brent Needs Punani-Eating Power NapsRita Brent is an astounding comedian/musician who tours with comedy moguls like Cedric the Entertainer, but today she’s in the apartment for sleepy sex with the crew! Even more, “canceller chancellor” Breanne Williamson jumps in yet again as our temporary co-host. We discuss falling asleep during sex, finding time for intimacy in a busy life, and the most efficient way to tell your dentist that you need to piss like a race horse. Ashley gets cucked by a surfer. Breanne confirms her gay suspicions. You can find Rita on IG and Twitter: @ritabrentcomedy, Tik...
2022-08-151h 03
We're Having Gay SexEmma Willmann Dumps You at the Anal ExhibitEmma Willmann is one of New York’s best comedians who you have seen multiple times over on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert and Netflix’s “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend,” but today you can see her gettin’ nasty in the apartment! We discuss exploring kink in the bedroom, porn’s influence on your sexual habits, and the best place to ditch your poop. Ashley shoots her shot. Kate wants ads to target HARDER.You can find Emma on IG: @emmawillmann, TikTok and Twitter: @iamemmawillmann,And you can see her LIVE at theater near you: ...
2022-07-041h 10
We're Having Gay SexIan Aber Bangs You for Peace and QuietIan Aber (Str8 Ppl) is a hilarious comedian, podcaster, and literal bear who was a national finalist in NBC’s “Stand Up for Diversity,” but today he’s joining us for some sneaky gay sex in an Indiana hotel. We discuss married life as an older gay, generational differences in the queer community, and how Ashley’s dead dad was definitely a DILF. Ashley meets an executive lesbian. Kate educates the youth. You can find Ian on IG, Twitter, and TikTok: @abearcomedian,And you can listen to his hilarious podcast, “Str8 Ppl,” wherever you listen:...
2022-06-201h 09
We're Having Gay SexRae Williams Doesn’t Play Ball(s) GamesRae Williams is a riveting cast member on Netflix’s hit reality TV series, “The Ultimatum,” who came out as bisexual to the whole world on the show, and now she’s in the apartment to enjoy it some! We discuss her experiences on the show, the pitfalls of femme-for-femme dating, and keeping your sex toys ball-free. Ashley sets her eyes on a bartender. Kate unearths lesbian history. You can find Rae on TikTok: @raewill_, Twitter: @raewil_, and IG: @rae.williams,And you can watch “The Ultimatum” now on Netflix:▶ https://ww...
2022-06-0655 min