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Wife in BloomGod Designed YOU to Desire!*This episode is intended for married adults*What if the Bible doesn’t picture a passive wife at all?What if Scripture shows a woman who desires, pursues, initiates and does it without shame?In this episode, we open the book most Christians avoid talking about, Song of Solomon, and look at the woman who searched for her husband in the night, invited him into her garden, and boldly declared, “I am my beloved’s.”This is biblical femininity in full bloom.If you’ve ever felt hesitant to initiate…
2026-02-2022 min
We're Having Gay SexKate Sisk Has Become an OF Connoisseur | WHGS Ep. 310Go watch Kate’s NEW stand up special RIGHT NOW: http://Of.tv/lmaof130 or https://bio.site/KateSisk. Kate Sisk is a beloved comedian, writer, and the former co-host / “cancel coach” of WHGS! But today, he’s BACK in the apartment to make a movie…and it’s RATED X! We discuss watching queer adult content, bizarre videos, seeing your friends in said videos, & suckin’ self. Oh yeah, and the set may or may not completely fall apart. Ashley got too high. Lizzy’s queer vices get exposed.
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2026-02-0952 minWife in Bloom3 Simple Daily Rhythms that help you breathe again!Life feels heavy lately… and not in a dramatic, everything-is-falling-apart kind of way.More like the quiet kind of heavy.The mental tabs that never close.The constant feeling behind.The snapping over small things.The guilt when you finally sit down to rest.The kind of overwhelm you can’t really explain… but you feel it in your body all day long.This isn’t an episode about waking up earlier, doing more, or “getting your life together.”Because honestly?I don’t have the capac...
2026-01-3026 minWife in Bloom5 EASY Biblical Habits to Transform your 2026What if the year ahead doesn’t change because life gets easier… but because you do?In this episode, Ashley shares the biblical habits that reshaped her faith, mindset, health, and pace of life after a season of burnout and surrender. If you’re stepping into 2026 craving peace, clarity, and real transformation—not hustle or perfection—this conversation will help you realign your habits with God’s design and walk forward differently.
2026-01-2023 minWife in Bloom2025: The battle I didn't talk about.Difficult seasons were not in short supply the past year! Join me as I talk about the worst part of 2025 and why this year ended up being the best year of my life.
2026-01-0628 minWife in BloomBecoming Her: Partnering with God in the ProcessThere’s a version of you that God is already forming — not in the “next” season, but in this one.In this powerful episode of Wife in Bloom, Ashley talks about what it really means to partner with God in the process of becoming. So often we chase the big picture: what’s next for our marriage, our purpose, our calling. But God isn’t waiting for you to arrive somewhere new — He’s shaping you in the small, sacred moments of now.Ashley walks through how every thought, every act of obedience, and every unseen...
2025-11-1237 minWife in BloomCultivating Connection through ConversationIt’s our spicy episode of the month, and this time… we’re going there — together.In this episode, Carson joins me for the very first time on Wife in Bloom to talk about what it actually looks like to open the conversation about intimacy inside a Christian marriage. Because, girl, we can do all the mindset work in the world, learn about confidence, and pray for passion — but if we never talk about it with our spouse, how are we ever going to grow?This one’s raw, funny, faith-filled, and real. We’re sharin...
2025-11-0437 minWife in BloomThe weight I finally put downHave you ever realized you’re carrying things that aren’t yours to carry? The anger, the resentment, the unmet expectations — all the little hurts that take up space in your soul until you can barely breathe? In this episode of Wife in Bloom, Ashley shares the moment she realized she was living tight-chested and tired from holding on to everything she was meant to release — and how learning to forgive brought her back to peace, joy, and freedom.Together we’ll talk about what forgiveness really means, how to walk it out in your home and marriage...
2025-10-2832 minWife in BloomFlirting with ForeverMarriage isn’t supposed to be all business, chores, and tired goodnights.It’s supposed to stay alive, playful, connected, and full of little moments that whisper, “I still choose you.”In this episode of Wife in Bloom, we’re talking about what it looks like to flirt with forever — to bring laughter, touch, and intentional play back into your marriage.Not because something’s broken.Not because you’re in a “rough season.”But because you believe that good can become great when it’s watered with attention.Ashley shares how she realize...
2025-10-2125 minWife in BloomThe 4 Secrets to Life in BloomWhat if I told you that the real secrets to life aren’t hidden in some self-help book or found in the next viral morning routine, but in a few simple truths you’ve probably heard your whole life?This week on Wife in Bloom, I’m sharing the four principles that have completely transformed the way I live, love, and lead in my home. They aren’t glamorous. They aren’t trendy. But when I started truly living them out, not just nodding along to them, everything changed.These trut...
2025-10-0729 minWife in BloomWhy God wants YOU to have great s*x!!Let’s be honest, sex is one of the most misunderstood and under-talked-about parts of Christian marriage. Too often, we’re told that intimacy is “for men,” that women are just along for the ride, or that pleasure is somehow shameful. But the Bible and even science tell us a completely different story: God created sex as a blessing for BOTH husband and wife, a place of unity, joy, and yes, worship.In this episode of Wife in Bloom, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing "Why God wants YOU to have great sex. Not just “good enough s...
2025-09-3020 minWife in BloomBoldness in the Storm, from Awaking to ObedienceThe world is shaking, and yet, if you pause and look closely, you’ll see something remarkable happening beneath the surface. A spiritual awakening is stirring across the globe. You can feel it in the conversations online, you can hear it in the rise of worship music, you can see it in people showing up to church for the first time in years. And then came the shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk. Suddenly, faith and prayer aren’t just quiet whispers among believers—they’re on every headline, flooding social media, and sparking conversations everywhere.In this episode...
2025-09-2017 minWife in Bloom4 Ways we THINK we are being a "Good Christian Wife" but are actually harming our marriage.What if I told you that some of the very things you’ve been taught make you a “good Christian wife” are actually the things quietly keeping your marriage from growing?In this episode of Wife in Bloom, I get real about four habits I lived for years—habits that looked holy on the outside but were damaging intimacy, growth, and connection in my marriage. And girl, I don’t want you to waste the years I did believing lies that sounded spiritual but left us stagnant.Here’s what we’re digging into today:🌸 Sile...
2025-09-1333 minWife in BloomFrom Shame to CallingIn Part 2 of Episode 3, I share how a Matthew West concert turned into one of the most pivotal moments in my Wife in Bloom journey. For years I tried to keep my faith small—just “sprinkling” Jesus in—but God had other plans.This podcast isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. It’s for YOU—the wife who doesn’t quite fit the mold, the woman with ADHD or anxiety who feels messy but is ready for more, and the wife who longs to bless her husband while shedding shame around intimacy.I’ll also give you a p...
2025-09-0620 minWife in BloomGratitude over GrumblingWhat if your next family trip didn’t have to feel like chaos, stress, and one long complaint reel? In this episode, I’m sharing how one camping trip + state fair adventure could have been a total meltdown—but instead turned into a memory I’ll cherish forever—all because of mindset.I’ll walk you through the very real moments that used to send me spiraling—forgetting things, traffic, bad weather, long lines, even a 30-minute Taco Bell run gone wrong—and how choosing excitement, gratitude, and presence over anxiety and negativity literally changed everything for me and my family...
2025-08-3022 minWife in Bloom"Godfidence: Shifting Your Self-Image to Align with God's Truth"🌸 Episode 2: Godfidence — Shifting Your Self-Image to Align With God’s Truth 🌸Do you ever look in the mirror and hear nothing but criticism? Do you catch yourself dismissing compliments, comparing yourself to others, or believing lies about your worth? Girl, you are not alone—but you also don’t have to stay there.In this episode of the Wife in Bloom podcast, I’m sharing how shifting my self-image to align with how God sees me completely transformed my life, my marriage, my motherhood, and my faith. We’ll talk about:✨ Why insecurity is actually disobedience when it contradicts...
2025-08-2319 min
Wife in BloomFrom Broken to BloomingI used to believe I was broken.At over 330 pounds, drowning in anxiety, ashamed of my body, and paralyzed by ADHD, I couldn’t even pick up the phone to make an appointment. My house was messy, my brain was messier, and I lived every day under the weight of negative self-talk and shame. I smiled for everyone else, but inside? I felt like a disaster.And that shame followed me everywhere — into my marriage, into intimacy, into my faith. I prayed the lights would stay off in the bedroom. I believed my husband’s compli...
2025-08-1419 min
HOLY SHEEP - NeuseelandPride Month Spezial: Asexualität. Eine queere Perspektive aus NeuseelandEin ganz besonderes Interview über Asexualität, eine Perspektive, die in der öffentlichen Debatte bislang kaum vorkommt. Mein Interviewgast Mika hieß nicht immer Mika. Bei seiner Geburt wurde er als weiblich identifiziert – als Mädchen.Seine Eltern haben ihn als Mädchen aufgezogen. Mit fünf oder sechs Jahren denkt Mika das erste Mal über seine Identität nach. Als Teenager möchte er keine Brüste haben. Anfang 20 outet sich Mika als queere Person.Er ändert seinen Namen. Er entscheidet sich, seine Pronomen zu ändern: Im Englischen they/them. Im Deutschen gibt es keine etablierten neutralen Pronome...
2025-06-131h 23
We're Having Gay SexKate Sisk Reacts to YOUR Crazy Stories | WHGS Ep. 262This episode is EXCLUSIVE, listener! Ashley’s NEW podcast with Josh Johnson is dropping THIS THURSDAY, 3/6, so with all hands on deck for it’s preparation, we are releasing one of the funnier Patreon bonus episodes of “You’re Having Gay Sex” from our back catalog to the general public! Joined by the hilarious comedian and beloved former co-host Kate Sisk, we read and react to your LISTENER-SUBMITTED gay sex stories about trans-masc hookups and locking people out of a home to bang. In-between, we banter about embarrassing moments when taking T, fostering a girthy garden, and how Alex is just a...
2025-03-0349 min
We're Having Gay SexKate Sisk is BACK and Better Than EverKate is running an amazing hour of stand-up on Wednesday, 11/13, at the NYC UCB Theater! Support our Cancel Coach and get tickets at: https://ucbcomedy.com/show/kate-sisk-nycf/This episode is LONG-AWAITED, listener! Kate Sisk is a stand-up comedian, writer, and former co-host/beloved “Cancel Coach” of the WHGS Podcast, but today they’re back in the apartment to update us on their new, improved self. You’ve been asking for them back, and we’re finally providing! We discuss starting testosterone injections and their journey towards doing so, getting married, growing a neckbeard, and affirm...
2024-11-041h 12
Talking With Tech AAC PodcastFairfax County Public Schools AT Team: Celebrating the Life of AAC Specialist Jeff PowersThis week, we present Chris’s interview with some of the Fairfax County Public Schools AT Team: Jeff Sisk, Meaghan Tracy, Jennifer Carr, Ashley Kiley, and Colleen Kalamajka! They gather to share about the life of AAC/AT Specialist Jeff Powers, who passed away in 2023. They celebrate some of the many things he brought to his work with AAC, including helping people feel OK even if they don’t know everything, early support for the Specific Language System First Approach, his work sharing AAC on platforms like Youtube, and more!
Before the interview, Chris and Rache...
2024-05-231h 21
Allora Public RadioBlackwarren Reads: Samhain Secrets - "The Audition", by Sierra DeanBlackwarren Reads returns with the finale of the publisher's debut anthology, Samhain Secrets: World Premiere.
In the Argent City, where supernatural creatures like dragons, fae, and tricksters live alongside blissfully unaware humanity, Halloween Night remains the craziest night of the year. A dragon who would be king struggles to establish his identity and find his passion in hosting a popular radio show, while the wily Kitsune seek to unmask a conspiracy against the feuding Tricksters of the City, where anyone could be the culprit. Across the City, a pair of Fae entrepreneurs stake their future on cleansing...
2023-06-1059 minWe're Having Gay SexWHGS Livestream Tomorrow!We're live-streaming a variety show WHGS style, with games, guests, audience questions and stories, and more! Maddie Wiener & Kate Sisk join us this month, along with some other special guests. Exclusively live-streamed here: https://www.moment.co/whgsWatch live or up to 7 days later Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
2023-03-1402 min
We're Having Gay SexJake Cornell Breaks Teeth and Big NewsBeloved actor, comedian, and WHGS regular Jake Cornell (Going Out w/ Jake Cornell) has returned to the apartment to do the devil’s dance with the gang! We discuss getting injured during sex, the dangers of acapella, and the truth about who REALLY killed Princess Diana. Ashley finds herself a man. Kate has a fun announcement.You can find Jake on IG, Twitter, and Tiktok: @jakewcornell,You can listen to his podcast, “Going Out With Jake Cornell,” wherever you listen,And you can see his two-person show, “Man And Woman,” at the Edi...
2022-07-111h 07
We're Having Gay SexEmma Willmann Dumps You at the Anal ExhibitEmma Willmann is one of New York’s best comedians who you have seen multiple times over on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert and Netflix’s “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend,” but today you can see her gettin’ nasty in the apartment! We discuss exploring kink in the bedroom, porn’s influence on your sexual habits, and the best place to ditch your poop. Ashley shoots her shot. Kate wants ads to target HARDER.You can find Emma on IG: @emmawillmann, TikTok and Twitter: @iamemmawillmann,And you can see her LIVE at theater near you: ...
2022-07-041h 10
We're Having Gay SexTeresa Lee Bangs Men by Imagining They're WomenTeresa Lee (You Can Tell Me Anything) is an amazing writer and stand-up who has made mounds of content for comedy staples like Cracked, College Humor, and Reductress, but today she’s making love with the gang in another Indiana “road trib.” We discuss flipping the sexual script with your straight partner, questioning your gender, and big fake titties. Ashley does gay time travel. Kate ruins a bunch of dates. You can find Teresa on IG and TikTok: @teresaleebot, Twitter: @leresatee,And you can listen to her podcast, “You Can Tell Me Anything,”...
2022-06-271h 07
We're Having Gay SexIan Aber Bangs You for Peace and QuietIan Aber (Str8 Ppl) is a hilarious comedian, podcaster, and literal bear who was a national finalist in NBC’s “Stand Up for Diversity,” but today he’s joining us for some sneaky gay sex in an Indiana hotel. We discuss married life as an older gay, generational differences in the queer community, and how Ashley’s dead dad was definitely a DILF. Ashley meets an executive lesbian. Kate educates the youth. You can find Ian on IG, Twitter, and TikTok: @abearcomedian,And you can listen to his hilarious podcast, “Str8 Ppl,” wherever you listen:...
2022-06-201h 09
We're Having Gay SexMercury Stardust Has a FemmeDom DegreeMercury Stardust is a professional Home Maintenance Technician, burlesque performer, and award-winning activist widely known as the “Trans Handy Ma’am,” and today she's in the apartment to give us a fixer-upper. We discuss rediscovering your sexuality after transitioning, the complex effects of hormones, and brick vs. drywall. Ashley is gettin’ ballpark pics. Kate hires the Trans Handy Ma’am.You can find Mercury on TikTok: @mercurystardust, IG: @mercurystartdusttopz,And you can get tickets to her weekly burlesque show now! (Online shows available)▶ https://www.mercurystardust.com/gigs
2022-06-131h 12
We're Having Gay SexRae Williams Doesn’t Play Ball(s) GamesRae Williams is a riveting cast member on Netflix’s hit reality TV series, “The Ultimatum,” who came out as bisexual to the whole world on the show, and now she’s in the apartment to enjoy it some! We discuss her experiences on the show, the pitfalls of femme-for-femme dating, and keeping your sex toys ball-free. Ashley sets her eyes on a bartender. Kate unearths lesbian history. You can find Rae on TikTok: @raewill_, Twitter: @raewil_, and IG: @rae.williams,And you can watch “The Ultimatum” now on Netflix:▶ https://ww...
2022-06-0655 min
We're Having Gay SexIrene Tu is in a Sahara-Sized Dry SpellIrene Tu is a killer stand-up/actor/writer whose recent debut comedy album, “We’re Done Now,” hit #1 on iTunes comedy charts upon release, but today she is in the apartment to break her dry spell. We discuss life without sex in many years, things to look for in a long-term partner, and the best place to put your doomsday bunker when the sun explodes us. Ashley unpacks her drama. Kate has a wet dream.You can find Irene on IG and Twitter: @irene_tu, TikTok: @irenetucomedy,And you can listen to her to...
2022-05-301h 09
Coffee Talk…a Venue Managers GuideEspresso Shot 10 with Steven SiskTake 2! Today, Sarah & TJ chat with the PCC's very own Event Manager, Steven Sisk! They will get the run down of past & current work, future goals, and of course how much he enjoys his coworkers!
SARAH, TJ, & STEVEN CHAT ABOUT
• Steven's main draw to the Bush School
• Major projects, papers, etc. that Steven is working on
• What direction he hopes to see the APCC go in the future
• Advice for anyone considering the Bush School; faculty, staff, or student
• Bonus… who is your favorite, the Dean or Dr. Ashley?
RESOURCES AN...
2022-05-2338 min
The Horseman's MindsetDr. Sisk on Maintaining your HorseWhether you have a performance horse or a hobby horse, making sure that your horse is pain-free and comfortable is critical to your long-term success. We want our horses to be able to do their jobs and my goal as a trainer is to take the path of least resistance in my program. If I notice a horse is really struggling with a lead, or maneuver or gets unsettled or frantic when I ask for something I'm going to investigate those things with my vet! Not everything is a behavior or training problem! Dr. Sisk talks about how we are...
2022-05-2354 min
We're Having Gay SexDaryn Carp was Cradle-Snatched & Loves itDaryn Carp (Reality Check) is a hilarious TV personality, podcaster, and gay royalty as Andy Cohen’s right hand woman, but today she’s in the apartment for some cougar-hunting. We discuss dating older women, maternity as an older lesbian, and scientific advancements in growing demon babies. Ashley needs a makeover. Kate has a sibling rivalry. You can find Daryn on IG and Twitter: @carpedaryn,And you can tune in to her show, “Reality Check,” on PeopleTV:▶ https://peopletv.com/all-shows/reality-check/ Support WHGS for bonus content...
2022-05-231h 05We're Having Gay SexMaddie Wiener Needs a Peg-Leg Up for Gay DatingMaddie Wiener is an amazing queer stand-up comedian that’s hot on the rise, with showcases on Comedy Central, SiriusXM, and Just for Laughs' “New Faces,” but today she’s in the apartment for some gay sex-ed. We discuss discovering your queer identity later in life, the insecurities of baby-gay dating, and we put out a plea to the Bottom Nation: get Maddie some of that “good-good.” Ashley sees the return of “Main-Main.” Kate is dissected by algorithms. You can find Maddie on IG and Twitter: @maddietwiener,And you can watch her stand-up on YouTube...
2022-05-161h 07
AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)322 AITA for having gay sex? (ft. We're Having Gay Sex)I'm joined by the hilarious and wonderful hosts, Ashley Gavin and Kate Sisk of We're Having Gay Sex to discuss just that. It's a very fun ep., and I'm just happy they put up with me. Follow and listen to WHGS!!! https://werehavinggaysex.com/(30:49) WIBTA if i call vaginas gross in front of someone who calls gay sex gross?(39:20) AITA for asking about my sister's pronouns after she came out to me?(56:49) AITA for how I respond to strangers' questions about gay sex?---Join the newsletter • Follow us on Twitch • Please join us on Pa...
2022-05-111h 04
The Burning Castle PodcastThomm Jutz- Grammy Nominated Singer, Songwriter, Producer and GuitaristThomm Jutz is a German-born American singer, songwriter, producer and guitarist based in Nashville, Tennessee.He has worked with folk singer Nanci Griffith (as a member of her Blue Moon Orchestra), Eric Brace & Peter Cooper, Mary Gauthier, Mac Wiseman, Bobby Bare, Connie Smith, Marty Stuart, David Olney, Otis Gibbs, Kim Richey, Bill Anderson, Amy Speace,[1] Milan Miller and Marc Marshall.[2]His songs have been recorded by Nanci Griffith, John Prine, Kim Richey, Junior Sisk, Kenny and Amanda Smith, Balsam Range, Buddy Melton, Milan Miller and Terry Baucom.[3]Jutz co-wrote the top two singles of 2016 listed on the...
2022-04-0542 min
Inside the ClosetDefending Columbus OhioHello Closeteers, and welcome to another episode on Inside the Closet. This week we have Kate Sisk and Ashley Gavin (We’re Having Gay Sex Podcast) back to talk about fitness and exercise, Emma's interracial relationship, thoughts on group sex and a message Matteo received from someone who lives in of Ohio. Be sure to find us on Instagram and come see us live! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2021-09-2347 minInside the ClosetThe Lesbian Wind DownHello Closeteers! Inside the Closet welcomes Kate Sisk and Ashley Gavin (We’re Having Gay Sex Podcast) to talk about Kate’s recent camping engagement, JonBenét theories and encounters with Lance Bass. Remember to follow our Instagram, rate and review on Apple Podcasts, and join our Patreon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2021-09-161h 00We're Having Gay SexHannah Berner Has Fear of Missing P*ssy (FOMP)Hannah Berner (Bravo's Summer House, Berning in Hell, Giggly Squad) is back and get into pegging, why lesbians are the most superior form of woman, and her fear of missing out on p*ssy. Ashley makes a hinge profile. We introduce the incredible Kate Sisk, our cancel coach, to the podcast, and discuss the time they lost their strap on.Hannah can be found @hannahberner everywhere, listen to her podcasts Berning in Hell and Giggle SquadNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@thekatesisk...
2021-06-281h 11