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The Potential State PodcastRelational Aid - Practical Tools For Couples - with Mark O'Connell, LCSW-RJoin us for an honest talk with Mark O’Connell, author and therapist about how couples can hold and maintain personal and relational multiplicity in times of crisis? How do we stay connected to our full self and remain close in times of war?
Dr. Assael and Galit Romanelli run The Potential State and offer individual and relationship coaching with Galit, individual therapy for men with Assael, and couple therapy sessions with Assael or both of us. Yes, we’ve been working together in the clinic for over 3 years and we’ve found it to be re...
2023-12-2652 min
Breaking The Glass CeilingFrom Living a Night Club Lifestyle to Becoming an Elite Online Fitness Coach with Mark Cage | Ep. 14Elite online fitness coach shares his crazy story from living a club life to training 7 & 8 figure entrepreneurs and launching his online fitness business!
Mark Cage managed to land clients like Tai Lopez, The President of Disney, and Classic Physique Champ Danny Hester. He shares his experience on working alongside Assael and his team and growing his online fitness business to $8-$10k/month.
This episode was absolutely mind blowing!
If you’re stuck in life and want to start your own business you MUST listen to this episode!
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2022-04-0334 minBreaking The Glass CeilingThe New Business Leaders are Lifters with Paresh Shah | Ep. 11In addition to his role as Founder and Chief Expression Officer of Glimpulse, Mr. Shah is an Executive Coach to elite performers, leadership & innovation trainer, business strategist, speaker, and yoga/mindfulness instructor. He has consulted for some of the biggest companies in the world including EPSN and AOL.
Paresh blends rigorous analytical business approaches from his Harvard MBA training, with mindfulness and creativity expertise to drive tangible value creation and team transformation. Through a gifted ability to tap into the power of group mind, Paresh's is able to create a positive productive vie and facilitate team connection...
2022-02-1741 minBreaking The Glass CeilingThe Proven Blueprint to Build a Massive Personal Training Business with Chris Mooney | Ep. 10This episode is packed with golden nuggets on building a successful personal training business! Assael Leon chats with Chris Mooney aka the PT mentor. Chris Mooney coaches people who want to build successful personal training businesses. He coaches over 80 active personal trainers and also consults for a company that has 11 gyms and growing. Listen to his story on how he was able to achieve success in the personal training field and learn how you can do it to.
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The Unfiltered Sales Podcast is hosted by Assael Leon, a sales expert who helps coaches consistently...
2022-01-041h 04Breaking The Glass CeilingDr. Eugene K. Choi Shares How to Use Brain Science to Dramatically Improve Sales Performance and Life | Ep. 9In this episode, Assael Leon brings on Dr. Eugene K. Choi. Dr. Eugene uses neuroscience and technology to help leaders activate peak performance to boost their critical thinking, decision making, and revenue generation skills.
Dr. Eugene K. Choi is a certified transformational mindset coach and a board certified clinical pharmacist that is on a mission to help talented heart-driven leaders operate at their highest levels of performance, intelligence, and communication. He firmly believes that by activating the powerful executive brain, it maximizes results not just in business leaders, but in humanity as a whole. Please listen to t...
2021-11-2728 min
brisa adentroEp. 1 - MUCHA FE con Andy A. Assaël.Bienvenida alma mía a Mucha Fe, este nuevo Podcast renovado, que hoy, te entrego a ti con todo mi amor, devoción e intención de ser presente esperanza.
Andy A. Assaël | @andyassael
2021-11-1903 minBreaking The Glass CeilingCredit Repair Company Founder Tony Budri Talks About His Success in Sales and Entrepreneurship | Ep. 8In today’s episode, Assael brings on special guest Tony Budri who owns a credit repair company to talk about how sales & entrepreneurship helped him build a multiple 6 figure business. Discover how you can utilize Assael’s and Tony’s secret methods to scaling a business and becoming more profitable. What they talk about will legitimately BLOW YOUR MIND! The only way you won’t learn anything is if you don’t listen…. BUCKLE UP!
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The Unfiltered Sales Podcast is hosted by Assael Leon, a sales expert who helps coaches consistently close high-ticket deals. Assael has w...
2021-06-171h 17
Breaking The Glass CeilingDiscover How Assael Utilizes his 7-Figure Sales Roadmap to Overcome Objections Like a CHAMPION | Ep. 7If you want to discover how you can Follow a Sales Roadmap for all of your sales calls, LISTEN UP!
Stay until the very end to get access to his own 7-Figure Sales Roadmap…You don’t want to miss this one…
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The Unfiltered Sales Podcast is hosted by Assael Leon, a sales expert who helps coaches consistently close high-ticket deals. Assael has worked with top entrepreneurs who run multi-million dollar businesses. He is now sharing his experi...
2021-06-1605 minBreaking The Glass CeilingThe 2 Secret Pillars to Sky Rocket Your Sales and Double your Profits for Your Business | Ep. 6How Assael utilizes these two pillars to close more high ticket deals on demand. You won’t find these two pillars anywhere else….. Buckle Up!
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The Unfiltered Sales Podcast is hosted by Assael Leon, a sales expert who helps coaches consistently close high-ticket deals. Assael has worked with top entrepreneurs who run multi-million dollar businesses. He is now sharing his experience and insights to his audience! This podcast is presented by Vintkona, a company that helps small businesses adapt to modern marketing.
Assael Leon's Instagram: http://instagram.com/assaelleonofficial
2021-06-1605 minBreaking The Glass CeilingThe 3 Secret Pillars to Close More Deals On Demand | Ep. 5The 3 secret pillars that has helped Assael close 7-figures + over the phone for his 7 and 8 figure clients. If you want to discover how you can close more deals on demand…You won’t don’t want to miss it!
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The Unfiltered Sales Podcast is hosted by Assael Leon, a sales expert who helps coaches consistently close high-ticket deals. Assael has worked with top entrepreneurs who run multi-million dollar businesses. He is now sharing his experience and insights to his audience! This podcast is presented by Vintkona, a company that helps small businesses adapt to modern...
2021-06-1605 minBreaking The Glass CeilingHow to Manage Your Time Effectively to Build Million Dollar Success Habits | Ep. 4Becoming really good at habit building has to do with doing the small things. Assael teaches his private clients on how they should manage your time effectively and he shares that all on this epeisode!
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The Unfiltered Sales Podcast is hosted by Assael Leon, a sales expert who helps coaches consistently close high-ticket deals. Assael has worked with top entrepreneurs who run multi-million dollar businesses. He is now sharing his experience and insights to his audience! This podcast is presented by Vintkona, a company that helps small businesses adapt to modern marketing.
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2021-04-0804 minBreaking The Glass CeilingThe 3 Fundamentals of Becoming a Better Salesperson | Ep. 3These are 3 fundamentals every salesperson needs to think of!
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The Unfiltered Sales Podcast is hosted by Assael Leon, a sales expert who helps coaches consistently close high-ticket deals. Assael has worked with top entrepreneurs who run multi-million dollar businesses. He is now sharing his experience and insights to his audience! This podcast is presented by Vintkona, a company that helps small businesses adapt to modern marketing.
Assael Leon's Instagram: http://instagram.com/assaelleonofficial
2021-04-0804 minBreaking The Glass CeilingThe 7 Most Important Pillars for Sales | Ep. 2On this episode, Assael dives into the 7 pillars that will make anyone better at sales! Listen closely and try to apply these to your life. As Assael says, "these 7 pillars are life changing."
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The Unfiltered Sales Podcast is hosted by Assael Leon, a sales expert who helps coaches consistently close high-ticket deals. Assael has worked with top entrepreneurs who run multi-million dollar businesses. He is now sharing his experience and insights to his audience! This podcast is presented by Vintkona, a company that helps small businesses adapt to modern marketing.
Assael Leon's...
2021-03-1511 min
Breaking The Glass CeilingWelcome to The Unfiltered Sales Podcast with Assael Leon | Ep. 1The first episode of The Unfiltered Sales Podcast is here! The host is Assael Leon, a sales expert who helps coaches consistently close high-ticket deals. Assael has worked with top entrepreneurs who run multi-million dollar businesses. He is now sharing his experience and insights to his audience! If you want to become better at sales, you'll need to make sure you tune in. This podcast is produced and presented by Vintkona, a company that helps small businesses adapt to modern marketing.
Assael Leon's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/assaelleonofficial/
Vintkona Website: http...
2021-03-1507 min
The Potential State PodcastWhy do we believe criticism more than praise?Most of us believe criticism (or constructive feedback) more than praise.Why? Because some of us grew up in homes where criticism was a way to show care.Over time, this environment creates a core belief that "love = criticism".Such a tendency leads to relationships fraught with conflict, cynicism, and sarcasm.In this talk, Galit and Assael unpack this core belief and its effects through examples from their marriage and the clinic.Practical tips will help you soften this tendency and create a more positive, complimentary, generative relationship today.For...
2021-02-1411 min
The Potential State PodcastHow to reduce guilt in your parenting?And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoonLittle boy blue and the man in the moon"When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when"But we'll get together then, dadWe're gonna have a good time then...Mothers and fathers feel different kinds of guilt regarding their parenting. Kids grow up fast and we have so many things to do all the time. Times are even more challenging during COVID lock-down.Therefore, the guilt is almost inevitable, but there is hope.You can move from guilt...
2021-01-3108 min
The Potential State PodcastJoy is a VERB, not a noun.Do you secretly find it hard to feel and/or express joy in your personal life? Are you in a relationship with a joy killer?If you do, then you're not alone! In the past months, we have discovered that Assael has trouble expressing joy (can you say, a pessimist?), while for Galit joy is a natural and accessible resource (optimist, or as we call her a unicorn). This sent Assael to family therapy with his parents to understand the source of this difficulty - and he came back with some shocking discoveries. ...
2021-01-2407 min
The Potential State PodcastThe Implicit Power Struggles in Our (and every) Intimate RelationshipEvery couple has implicit power struggles in the different areas of their relationship (sex, money, parenting, looks, intelligence, and so on...).We call this the 95/70 rule.It has been our experience that this dynamic is inherently present and shapes the couples' mutual functioning.One of the ways we have been renegotiating our 95/70 contract in the past year, is by having Galit join Assael's podcast.Reflecting on our journey toward working together, we show how this power dynamic hurts relationships and how to soften this power dynamic in order to deepen intimacy, play, and partnership.
2021-01-1710 min
The Potential State PodcastHow to deal with "You're Too Much!" (Especially for Women)How many of you have heard and internalized the feedback that you're "too much"?If so, how has that impacted your life?Every day we work with women (and sometimes men) who have internalized this limiting belief and its negative impact on their lives.In this talk, Galit and I breakdown the gains and losses of this core belief, through examples from Galit's life and the clinic. Practical tips will help you soften this core belief and be your fullest self!Click here to join our mailing list and get free resources...
2020-11-2210 min
The Potential State PodcastThe Victim Competition - Where The Winner is the Biggest LoserSo often couples engage in an unconscious competition who is suffering more in the relationship.This dynamic results in more arguments, less vulnerability, and even a breakup.In this talk, Galit and I describe this dynamic, the reasons behind it, and the damage it creates.Examples are given from our marriage and the clinic.Practical tips will help you soften this dynamic in your own relationship.Click here to join our mailing list and get free resources on enriching relationships every week to your inbox!Click here for more information on o...
2020-11-1509 min
The Potential State PodcastWhy is it hard for us to believe change in our partners? The Natural/Fake EithorWhy is it that when our partner tries to change their behavior, we so often shoot it down, claiming its "fake"?Because often we have this dichotomous thinking (Eithor) that if our partner doesn't do it naturally then they're faking it.But every new behavior will feel somewhat fake because if it was natural for us, we would've done it already!What is the solution?To soften our Natural/Fake Eithor.In this talk, Galit and I explain how this Eithor is created and how it prevents couples from growing and evolving....
2020-11-0808 min
The Potential State PodcastHow to stop constantly interpreting your partner negatively?We all have tense periods where we tend to interpret anything and everything our partner says or does as negative, insulting, hurtful, or aggressive.The Gottman researchers call this dynamic N.S.O - negative sentiment override.This lethal dynamic has a snowball effect that is hard to stop, and can lead to deep resentment and breakup.In this talk, Galit and I explain the reasons and dynamic of NSO through examples from our marriage and the clinic. Practical (somewhat surprising) tips will help you minimize NSO in your relationship today. Click...
2020-11-0112 min
The Potential State PodcastThe Potential State's Top Ten Tips for DatingDating today is not easy.Singles are getting tired and confused as to how to date in the 21st century, COVID, apps-filled era.Yet we believe the dating scene should be approached from a completely different angle:instead of going on dates, choose to see them as PLAY DATES, where your goal is to be yourself and fun.In this talk, Galit and I offer our top ten (somewhat surprising) practical dating tips that will help you be more yourself and more vulnerable in your (play) dates.Click here to join our...
2020-10-2515 min
The Potential State PodcastMediocre (Maintenance) Sex Is Wonderful!The media puts a lot of pressure on us to have wonderful, multi-orgasm, wall-socket sex.But in reality, in a committed long-term relationship, mediocre (maintenance) sex is inevitable. This causes many couples (especially men) to avoid sex and even doubt their relationship.In this talk, Galit and I unpack the truth about maintenance sex and share why it is crucial for happy relationships.Practical tips will help you enjoy mediocre sex (while still aiming for great sex).Click here to join our mailing list and get free resources every week!Click...
2020-10-1107 min
The Potential State PodcastThe Intimacy Queen/King and The disabled Handicapped dynamicDo you feel like you are more emotionally intelligent and somewhat superior in your intimacy skills than your partner?Do you feel like your partner is nagging you and never happy with the level of communication and feelings you express?If you answered yes, then you might be in the Intimacy Queen/King and Emotionally Disabled dynamic. This dynamic hides the fact that BOTH of you are essentially avoiding mature intimacy through your specific roles. In this talk, I explain how this dynamic evolves and how to change it through examples from the clinic.
2020-10-0408 min
The Potential State PodcastYelling and Being Passionate - What's the difference?For many of us yelling is a sensitive issue.We inherit from our families of origin certain beliefs and attitudes about yelling.Yet sometimes, yelling is a sublimatory expression of feelings, frustrations, or even excitement.What is the difference then? How can we distinguish and work with yelling?In this talk, Galit and I unpack this topic through examples from our marriage and the clinic.Practical tips will help you better work with yelling in your relationships. www.potentialstate.comhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-other-side-relationshipshttp://p...
2020-09-2712 min
The Potential State PodcastWhat Kind of Sorry is This?We say sorry all the time (or not enough) in our intimate relationships.But often we confuse between the different types of 'sorry' we use. This often leads to more conflict and stress than forgiveness and closeness.In this talk, Galit and I share the four types of Sorry we've distilled in our life together, using examples from our life.Practical tips will help you distinguish which sorry to use in different scenarios in your relationship.www.potentialstate.comhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-other-side-relationshipshttp://podcast.potentialstate.com/...
2020-08-3006 min
The Potential State PodcastDon't Miss the Point of Disappointment.People are different and so misunderstandings and ruptures are unavoidable. Therefore, disappointments are natural and unavoidable. Many of us avoid expressing and hearing of our partner's disappointment with us. This usually stems from a fear that disappointment leads to abandonment. Yet disappointment is actually a wonderful tool for individual and relational growth! In this talk, Galit and I unpack disappointment and why it's a crucial feeling in relationships, through examples from our marriage and the clinic. Practical tips will help you reclaim disappointment in your relationships for deeper intimacy and growth....
2020-08-2310 min
The Potential State PodcastSensory Preferences - Your Idiosyncratic Map of the WorldWe all react to our MAP of the world and not the objective world.In NLP we say: The map is not the territory. Our map of the world is shaped by our sensory preference (visual, auditory, kinesthetic, audio-digital). Conflicts and tensions in relationships stem from differences in sensory preferences. Learning to recognize your own and other's maps of the world can help you improve your relationships. In this talk, Galit and I explain the different sensory preferences and how they affect intimate relationships, through examples from our life and the clinic. Practical examples...
2020-08-1613 min
The Potential State PodcastAmbition - The Forbidden Feeling (especially for women)A lot of us were taught that "wanting is dangerous" therefore we develop a core belief that "ambition is dangerous" and we either avoid being ambitious or alternatively feel guilty for being ambitious.But Ambition is a healthy feeling that can help you live the life you've always wanted.In this talk, I break down ambition, and through examples from the clinic and my life, show how it can be reclaimed.Practical tips will help you reclaim ambition in your life today.www.potentialstate.comhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-other-side-relationships
2020-08-0206 min
The Potential State PodcastCuriosity - The Cure for Judgement and Boredom in Your Relationship and LifeWe all get bored and judgmental in our life and our relationship.This is a natural effect of growing older.Yet it is possible to prevent these feelings.How?Curiosity.In this talk, I explain how curiosity can prevent and minimize boredom and judgment, through examples from the clinic and my life.Practical tips will help you increase your curiosity today!www.potentialstate.comhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-other-side-relationshipshttp://podcast.potentialstate.com/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXwdZhwQFgUcRQgZoI_L2Uwhttps://www.facebook...
2020-07-1908 min
The Potential State PodcastKeeping Score - No One Ever Wins.It's natural to keep score in our intimate relationship. Yet if it's too rigid it can limit your personal and relational growth. In this talk, I explain why this happens and how to change it through examples from the clinic and my personal life. Practical tips will help you soften the scorekeeping in your life, so both partners can start winning. www.potentialstate.comhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-other-side-relationshipshttp://podcast.potentialstate.com/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXwdZhwQFgUcRQgZoI_L2Uwhttps://www.facebook.com/ThePotentialStatehttps://twitter.co...
2020-07-1308 min
The Potential State PodcastResponsible or Playful? Yes!In each Eithor episode, we tackle a different core dichotomy that limits people's growth. Most of us have a core belief that we can either be playful or responsible. We inherit this core belief from our families of origin and enact it in our lives. This either/or dichotomy (What we call an EITHOR - an internal golem that limits you) hurts your ability to grow and hurts your intimate relationships. In this talk Galit (my wife) and I explore how this EITHOR manifests and how to change it. Examples are given from the clinic and...
2020-06-2906 min
The Potential State PodcastSecrets - The Quicksand That Keeps You SmallWe all have secrets. That's natural.But what limits our growth and relationships is the shame and guilt they cause.But what can we do about it? In this talk, I share the ways in which secrets can hurt your development and prevent your intimate relationships from deepening.Examples are given from the clinic and my life.Practical tips are given how to safely diffuse secrets from the toxic effect in your life.www.potentialstate.comhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-other-side-relationshipshttp://podcast.potentialstate.com/https://www...
2020-06-2808 min
The Potential State PodcastWhat is Your Love Language?We all have a love tank. When it's empty we feel unloved, angry, lonely, and become passive-aggressive. In short, empty love tank=bad relationships.The secret to a good relationship is filling up each other's love tank.How do you do it?Firstly, you must recognize what you and your partner's love language is. Then you must learn how to speak in their love language.In this talk, Galit (my wife) and I discuss the theory of The Five Love language by Dr. Gary Chapman, using examples from the clinic and our marriage....
2020-06-2111 min
The Potential State PodcastThe key to your joy is in your pain.Most of us try to avoid deep feelings of pain, anguish, and despair. Yet by blocking those dark feelings (which I call the 1-3 feelings) you are also blocking your ability to feel deep ecstasy, joy, and elation.In this talk, I explain why the key to your deep joy is in your pain, through examples from the clinic and my personal life.Practical tips will help you gently explore your pain to re-connect to profound joy.www.potentialstate.comhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-other-side-relationshipshttp://podcast.potentialstate.com/
2020-06-1406 min
The Potential State Podcast"Give me more!" - Make a 'more' space in your life."There's no comfort in the growth zone and no growth in the comfort zone."Do people in your life want more from you?Are they excited and invested in your development and growth?Most of us don't have a 'more' space in our lives where we are challenged to evolve and mature by the people around us.In this talk I explain why having a 'more' space in your life will help you develop beyond your comfort zone.Examples are given from the clinic and my personal life. Practical tips are given how...
2020-06-0706 min
The Potential State PodcastYour faults are welcome here.We don't want to show our faults and shadows. We fear that people will hurt, reject, or leave us if they see how "pathetic" we are.Therefore we create environments where you have to bring your "best self", which lead to self-presentation and shallowness. The result is atmospheres lack vitality, play, or growth.In this talk I explain why creating spaces where faults are welcome can enhance and deepen your relationship.Examples are given from the clinic and my personal life. Practical tips will help you create such open spaces in your relationships.
2020-05-3106 min
The Potential State PodcastSeparate Judgement from Distinction.You're a good person. You try not to judge people by their race, religion, sexual orientation, or other criteria.But oftentimes trying to avoid judgment also means avoiding distinction. Distinction is crucial for your ability to understand and be empathetic to the other.Avoiding distinction actually hurts your intimate relationships and lowers your ability to be empathetic to others. In this talk I explain why morphing judgment and distinction hurts your relationship and how you can change that. Examples are given from the clinic and my personal life.Practical tips are given how to reclaim...
2020-05-2507 min
The Potential State PodcastYour wish is NOT my commandMany of us have a core belief that "your pain=my fault or responsibility". Over time this creates another core beilef that "my partner's wishes are my obligation." Soon after, both partners avoid sharing their wishes and start egg-shelling around their partner.This dynamic leads to a loss of play, potential state and a "playground" for you to hear yourself process out loud your dreams and fantasies.In this talk, I explain how this dynamic develops and how to change it, through examples from the clinic and my personal life.Practical examples will help you...
2020-05-1904 min
The Potential State PodcastYour brain is you BODY-guard. Fire it in order to grow!Your brain is built to protect you from pain and danger, which is wonderful.But personal and relational growth demand you let new information "in".Since "there is no comfort in the growth zone", you must learn how to open your mind and let new information in.In this talk, I describe how to fire the brain from being the body guard so you can discover new blindspots and grow.Examples are given from the clinic and my personal life. Pratical tips will help you fire your body-guard and grow.www.potentialstate...
2020-05-1705 min
The Potential State PodcastWhat is Ownursh!t© and how will it change your life.The time has come to finally dedicate an episode to the concept of OWNURSH!T© (Yes, the term is copyrighted). If you really want to change your life, you must begin with owning up to all the unwanted, denied or dissociated parts of yourself (your shadow or sh!t). Ownursh!t© is the complete ownership of your shadow parts to yourself and your partner. In this episode I describe why the act of Ownursh!t© is crucial for individual and relational change, through examples from the clinic and my personal life. Practical tips will help you own...
2020-04-2507 min
The Potential State PodcastRelational Amnesia - Don't forgive yourself for forgetting in relationships.Do you have a dynamic in your relationship where one partner always forgets (for different reasons) and the other always remembers and has to remind their partner what happened? If so, this dynamic prevents the couple from becoming more intimate and equal. In this episode I share why some partners cleave to the "forgetting" business card and the price both partner pay in this rigid, dichotomous dynamic. This is shown through examples from the clinic with real couples. Practical tips will help you soften this forgetting/remembering split in your intimate relationship. www.potentialstate...
2020-04-1905 min
The Potential State PodcastLove is Positive Freedom, so keep coming out!What is love? This is my current definition of love: "Love it the positive freedom to bring my different self-states, within the creative limitations of an intimated, committed, long-term relationship." In this talk, I explain this definition of love and how it can help you create relationships where you are free to be yourself, while growing and being open to your partner. Examples are given from the couple therapy clinic and from my personal life. Practical tips will help you shape your relationship to be full of positive freedom.www.potentialstate...
2020-04-1208 min
The Potential State Podcast"You HELP me feel" - Feelings are what make us human.We all have some relationship to our feelings. We might be dissociated from them, fear them, be controlled by them and more. Yet feelings are what make us human and if we can learn to not act on them but rather to surrender to them, we'll be able to feel fully alive. In this talk I explain how surrendering to your feelings can help enrich your life. Examples are given from the couple therapy clinic and my personal life. Practical tips will aid you in better connecting to your feelings.www.potentialstate.com
2020-04-0509 min
The Potential State PodcastBlock Your Exits in order to GrowWe all want to be free to be ourselves in the world and in our relationships. Yet without blocking our exists, we will ultimately repeat the same behaviors and facades (relational business cards) that we usually use. This "negative" freedom actually prevents us from maturing and expanding our relational repertoire. In this talk, I explain the concepts of positive and negative freedoms and why blocking our exists can help us grow. Examples are given from the clinic and my personal life. Practical tips will help you consciously block your own exists within your relationships.www.po...
2020-03-2907 min
The Potential State PodcastThe Spiral of Wanting - How to get your partner to fulfill your needs?In these isolated, lockdown times, it becomes really hard for us to hear and fulfil our partner's wants from us.One listner asked us what can she do if her partner refuses to cooperate with her want?In this episode Galit Romanelli and I share the theory of The Wanting Spiral, through an example from our marriage.This model helps you distinguish between your external behaviroal want of your partner to your deeper internal need. The model will also help your partner hear this need in a more open way.Practical tips are given on...
2020-03-2606 min
The Potential State PodcastMastery and Non-Mastery in the Time of Corona - Corona Special 2All of us need pockets of Mastery, or what we call "rock star" moments, in order to give us energy, vitality and strength for the rest of the week. In the lockdown of Corona feeling such mastery is more challenging. In this video Galit and I explain the importance of finding mastery for yourself, celebrating mastery for your partner, normalizing non-mastery and leveraging the Corona reality in order to develop new masteries. Examples are given from our marriage and practical tips will help you cherish and realize mastery in your relationship. Link to the original Roc...
2020-03-2307 min