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Sex and MindsetAny Advice?Y’all asked, we answered - truthfully! One the latest episode of Sex & Mindset, Aubreigh and Taylor answer a few of the received question submissions from listeners that they answer as truthful as possible. Has this ever happen to you? What about you, what would you do? Take a listen to see if your answers align with theirs. Enjoy!2023-03-161h 33Sex and MindsetFebruary UpdateIt's been a while hasn't it? We've missed talking to you all so much! Come hang with us for a bit while we update you on what our Black History Month of fun entailed, what we're up to, and what's to come. You all know S&M is all about the latest topics and great insight so listen in for some gems, some jokes, and some do's and don't when it comes to this crazy dating world. Oh, and did you hear about the Tinder swindler, LA edition? If not, we've got a story for you. We also have...2023-03-072h 35Sex and MindsetStay at Home Girlfriends. What's the Diff?We don't understand what the big deal is, and why there's such a stereotype against a group of women who stay at home all day. Why is one group glorified for doing "nothing" but the other group is ridiculed for doing what a stay at home wife/girlfriend is supposed to do? Can someone make it make sense? In this episode we give our insight on the topic, the differences, and the huge double standards being placed on the "stay at home" topic. Also, did you know African American women are the leading carriers of HIV contracted from men wh...2023-01-201h 27Sex and MindsetYou Should Have Left Me Where I Was"Why waste my time? I was better off alone than I am with you! It's like you put in all that effort to get me, to do absolutely nothing with me now that I'm yours. What was the point? I see you forgot who I was. You thought I was no longer the prize because you made me yours, wrong! Fumbling isn't always about the bag." Have you ever felt like this? Yes, then you'll enjoy this episode for sure. Dating can be either the highlight of your life or the lowest point of your day. Sometimes it's our o...2022-12-191h 20Sex and Mindset"Friends" are Foe ForsureWell that's weird! Have you ever felt like maybe a "friend" really isn't actually a friend after all? Well for three beautiful black women that turned out to be the case and it's heartbreaking. In this episode we talk about three cases from 2018, 2019, and most recently in 2022 where it seems there was some foul play from those who were supposed to be friends. Let's reevaluate who we call our friends because not everyone around us is genuinely for us. Normalizing who earns and holds the title of a "friend" is very important these days, and that's why this episode's takea...2022-12-041h 21Sex and MindsetWhy The Double Standard?We pick and choose what's okay versus what's not and that's the problem! If a man beds multiple women, he's a "king" yet when a woman beds many, she "lessens her value as a woman." If a woman hits a man she's "playing no games" with him yet when a man puts his hands on a woman, it's domestic violence. WTF! Why are we allowing the same double standards that we don't want put on us? Stop the double standards! While we're at it, what's going on with Amy and John? Is he really in the middle of a m...2022-11-1454 min
Sex and MindsetIt's Not What You ThinkThink of your favorite black movie or TV show. How were their love stories depicted? Have you noticed a pattern of how toxic or negative it is? How about we start getting to know the people we're judging or have skewed views about, I'm sure the reality is completely opposite of the thoughts you were taught or collected from TV. In this episode we talk about the sexual misconceptions we've incountered, the negative protrayals in film, and the other false connotations in black love. Misconceptions are damning, can you relate?2022-10-311h 37Sex and MindsetIt All Starts From WithinThe day you quit, might end up being the day you win, keep going! On this episode we are joined by guest speaker Jasmine Merritt, the Author of "Becoming It Your Divine Self" shares her journey of healing, the steps she took to get out of her own way, and how she ultimately found who she truly was as an individual. Jasmine also sheds light on healing while dating, and how it is possible to do it both single, and in a relationship. Most importantly her biggest lesson she wants to share with the listeners is how to connect and al...2022-10-211h 24Sex and MindsetGood Friends, Bad FriendsAt some point in life, some of us have experienced a bad friend, but I’m sure all of us have experience a good friend! What makes a good friend? What makes a bad friend? In this episode we answer those questions and give you tips to navigate a bad friendship, a one sided friendship, and tips to maintain a good friendship. Listen to the full episode to hear some personally asked and answered questions as well. Enjoy!2022-10-042h 03Sex and MindsetDating WoesDoes dating have to be so complicated, like all the time? Take a listen to the ladies take on the current state of dating, and the few reasons why you're attracting the wrong (or even the same) type of person.2022-09-091h 45Sex and MindsetHe Did What?Hot Girl Summer has come to a close, and nothing could compare to the sh*t that happened this night! Why does dating have to be so bad at times? Why is it always the ones we have hope for that let us all the way down? Take a listen to our story time, and how our Summers of fun went.2022-08-181h 24Sex and MindsetUnderstanding PolyamoryWe’re not commitment phobic, we’re just making multiple commitments. We’re taught that monogamy is the tradition, and it’s because of programming, but what if that’s not the program that works for you? What if wanting to date more than one person isn’t just a faze and you want to explore alternative relationships? Well Kevin Patterson of “Unf*ck Your Polyamory” gives S&M a deeper insight to being black and polyamorous.2022-07-2553 minSex and MindsetWhy Are We Rushing?Rushing to the bedroom. Rushing in romance. Rushing the moment - You brought me all this way for what! In this episode, rushing it is the topic of discussion. The entitlement, the selfishness, and the mere audacity that comes with it. Have you ever felt rushed? Have you ever rushed it? Then this episode is for you!2022-07-121h 31
Sex and MindsetMindset MattersOften times when we face mental health battles, we feel like we’re alone and don’t have the support we need. Well we want you to know that you are never alone. In this episode we are joined by a SRV1VR who has overcome and sheds light on her journey and the compassion she wants to spread. Always remember, you matter2022-06-271h 40Sex and MindsetMichael B. CryinSo This Happened. Lori said no! Kevin left Dreka? Did they really break up? Yes they did! Would you like to know how we feel about the latest celebrity break ups? Take a listen.2022-06-1143 minSex and MindsetWhat Happens Next?Are we dating? Are we just talking? Or are we exclusive? What are the levels of the dating game these days? What comes next is always the question. This episode we got some great insight & a level breakdown from a high caliber man himself! Take a listen to the gems he shared, his hard no’s, some first date do’s & dont’s, & the advice he has to give on the topic of dating itself.2022-06-031h 34Sex and MindsetHot AF Girl SummerSummer is right up the street, and this years Hot Girl Summer needs to look a lot different than it has in the past. You’ve got our stamp of approval but hear us out on the Do’s & Don’ts to make sure you’re getting the best of the Hottie experience - Carefully!2022-05-221h 16Sex and MindsetYou Asked, We AnsweredWe’re sure you’ve listened to Season One by now so why not check out the recap! We received many questions throughout the season and decided to answer them on this episode for you all. Trust us when we say, this was an interesting Q&A. Enjoy & be sure to stick around for Season Two because we’re just getting started!2022-05-1151 min
Sex and MindsetWhat Happened to SoulSwipe?You’ve swiped your way to the final episode of Season one. I’m sure you’ve swiped plenty before. Online dating can help you find a love for a lifetime or a love for the night. Take your pick. The good, the bad, and the bottom line of dating platforms is the talk of this episode. I’m sure we’re your match so let’s vibe.2022-04-1455 minSex and MindsetNo Intercourse, No ProblemTo abstain or to be celibate? Do you know which works best for you, or even the difference? It’s mind over sex, and let us tell you why. There’s nothing wrong with not having sex. Hear us out on the benefits of the decision, the thoughts behind the decision, and what society deems as the downfall of the decision.2022-03-251h 49Sex and MindsetBabes in ToylandToys aren’t just for kids, yet they’re all just created to enhance the fun. In this episode we’re going to share the different ways to explore self pleasure and learning more about yourself in the process. Welcome to babes in toyland.2022-03-2545 minSex and MindsetColorism SucksEnjoy your interracial relationship and leave us out of it! One thing we don’t care about is who you choose to love or date, so why you bash others in the process? The melanated women are glorified, yet are disrespected in our culture today and a lot of the hate starts from our own men and we don’t like that!2022-03-042h 12Sex and MindsetYou Can't Cum and That's Not OkayYou’re not cumming and that’s not okay! Orgasms don’t cum in just one form. There’s actually more where that cums from. Did you know there are actually five different types of orgasms? Have you experienced them all? Find out what they are and ways to reach them.2022-02-261h 18Sex and MindsetYou Got Ghosted and It's OkayIf you’ve ever been ghosted, know that it’s okay. If you’ve ever been the one to ghost, this one’s for you! Rejection is one of the worst feelings in the world, but sometimes rejection can be protecting you from someone you’re better off without. Let’s talk reason why people ghost and what you should do instead of ghosting.2022-02-1857 minSex and MindsetIt's Called ForeplayIt’s called foreplay. Have you heard of it? It’s more than just sex, it’s initiation. In this sexpisode we’re going to share with you the five initiation styles and why foreplay is a vital part to the act of pleasure.2022-02-111h 06Sex and MindsetPolyamory and Alternative RelationshipsMonogamy comes natural to some but for those who want to try something more non traditional, there's polyamory. We talk about what polyamory is, it's stereotypes and the different alternative relationships has life to offer.2022-01-301h 07Sex and MindsetRebuilding After ConflictRebuilding after seemingly being torn down is one of the toughest things to come back from. But some of the most beautiful things are build during reconstruction. In this episode we talk about rebuilding, rejuvenating ourselves, and how to get back to our truest nature after conflict or breakup2022-01-301h 36
Sex and MindsetFaking ItFaking it isn't cool for anyone. Have you ever faked it before? Faked relationships? Faked your own happiness or even faked an orgasm? In this episode we talk about reasons people fake it and the reason why you shouldn't. We even give tips about faking it.2022-01-301h 31