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The Neurodive PodcastInterview with Zac - my school experience and recoveryIn this episode I have the privilege of sitting down and recording a chat with a young Autistic man called Zac, who I have supported for a number of years through his transition between mainstream school and into alternative provision. He is wonderfully open and honest about his experiences and able to articulate things that I feel many other Neurodivergent young people have been through, are going through or may go through at points in their lives. I have learnt lots from working with him and am sure this episode will be a great learning resource for parents & professionals supporting...2023-11-1649 min
The Neurodive PodcastInterview with Alfie KohnIn this episode I get the opportunity to interview Alfie Kohn, author of one of my favorite books 'Unconditional parenting' as well as 'Punished by rewards' and several other works.
I must admit to being a little starstruck. His work is so important in not just outlining some of the key elements of my own approach to supporting Neurodivergent young people, but also in providing the research and evidence as to why it is so important that we move away from some of the traditional ideas that continue to dominate our education system and advice to parents. For the sake...2022-11-0428 minThe Neurodive PodcastPodcast update, big news and a huge guest coming soonIt's been a while and so in this short episode, I explain future plans for the podcast and have a big announcement to make!
Plus, I reveal the next guest I have lined up which for me is a huge one. Someone whose work and ideas follow a very similar perspective to my own and who since discovering, has also influenced it greatly. As a result, aside from the updates and news.....there's a fair bit of my thoughts on punitive and conditional approaches, their risks and why we need another way.2022-10-1123 min
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The Neurodive PodcastHitting the Mark with Eliza Fricker of 'Missing the Mark'In this episode I chat with Eliza Fricker, creator, illustrator, advocate, blogger and now, in a much more proper sense then me, podcaster. In all of these areas she uses her own lived experience of Neurodivergence and parenting.
Eliza's illustrations on her missing the mark facebook page and blog are widely recognised in the Neurodivergent advocacy community for there beautiful pathos and ability to really capture the challenges of both Neurodivergent young people and their parents. I was lucky enough to be introduced to her as part of the 'F that Narrative' lives I was invited to be a part...2022-06-0447 minThe Neurodive PodcastADHD and Me? - part 2In this 2nd part of my journey to discover if rumours about my Neurodivergence are true, I outline my plan to go about a possible unofficial but thorough self-identification.
I have chosen to enlist some help with the diagnostics from a friend who is a clinical psychologist and Dr of psychology, in order to combat my own potential bias if I looked at them myself. In this episode I also discuss some issues I have with these diagnostics and talk about the pre-screening forms I had back from my parents and wife. I share some thoughts on labels as a...2022-04-0625 minThe Neurodive PodcastMaddie Roberts and a petition to stop fines for non school attendanceIn this episode I am joined by Maddie Roberts, who contacted me regarding a petition to stop fines for school absences for parents of SEN children.
I am so behind anything that looks at making a positive impact and change for families of Neurodivergent young people, that I wanted to get her on the podcast to discuss the petition and her own personal journey. I am sure many can find connection, validation and hopefully some inspiration from it.2022-03-031h 08
The Neurodive PodcastADHD and..... me? - part 1After lots of comments, self-relisations and connections and advice and support from the fantastic Neurodivergent people I am now fortunate enough to work with, it is time for me to explore my own possible Neurodivergence. To be honest. I am just not sure either way.
In this episode [recorded at 4am in the gym with my mind whirring....not sure if this is a clue....] I outline what I intend to do and why. It won't be a traditional route. I'm not going for an official diagnosis. I intend to use the process as a learning opportunity and to document...2022-02-1444 min
The Neurodive PodcastMental health and a Piggyback Marathon with Pete & DomA bit of a shift from the usual content for this episode but one I am very proud to have on the podcast. Around this time last year I got chatting to a friend, Pete Howard. We talked and got onto the subject of mental health, of wanting to do something to raise awareness and money. Somehow, a year later we have just completed a marathon by alternatively piggy backing each other! So far we have raised of 3.5k for the charity mind.
In this episode I sit down with Pete and also Dom Alford, someone I had never met...2021-12-141h 06
The Neurodive PodcastKieran Rose discussing masking, stigma around differences how we move forwardAround a year ago I was made aware of a research paper and the work of a fantastic Autistic advocate, author and researcher by the name of Kieran Rose. Some of the connections his paper helped me make around the Autistic experience of masking where truly game changing for me. It helped me understand how stigma and prejudice around what is 'normal' and 'acceptable' in our culture plays a huge part in why Autistic people mask. It also made me question how I have approach teaching things like 'social skills' and giving support and advice to Autistic children and young...2021-11-171h 14The Neurodive PodcastTalking Autistic experience and attachment styles with Linara TylerI am joined in this episode by Linara Tyler, Autistic and PDA Self-Advocate, Relationship Consultant & Mentor. Linara is someone I have bene fortunate enough to run some webinars with and her area of focus is in Attachment styles and how understanding them can play a helpful part in improving your relationships.
In this episode, Linara shared some of her own life experiences with me, as well as some really insightful thoughts on her experience as a mother. Then we delved into her area of particular interest, Attachment Styles. She helped me understand them and we even at one point used...2021-11-081h 07The Neurodive PodcastGrowing up Autistic, school and the Nurture programme with Jodie IsittI am joined by Author, Advocate, parent of 3 Autistic children and Autistic adult Jodie Isitt. Jodie is also the creator of the Nurture programme, an online programme for parents of Neurodivergent children and young people.
In this episode, Jodie talks to me about her own diagnosis and reflects on how it impacted her childhood and in school. She shares some real insight into her own experiences of social situations, greetings and eye contact. We also discussed some of the challenges in the current school system regarding neurodiverise and inclusive environments.....I had a bit of a rant about having to...2021-11-0254 min
The Neurodive PodcastTalking Autism and culture with Tigger PritchardThe BIS-pod is no more! Long live the Neurodive pod!
Another great episode where I [Sam Harris in case you didn't know that bit] get to speak to the awesome Tigger Pritchard. Ignore the first few minutes as this was recorded a few months back in my transition from BISnet the Neurodive and Running Deer, so had to hold it back until I knew I would be able to re-brand the podcast.
In this episode, we discuss how different cultures approach and understand Autism and Autistic experience. What we can gain from looking at these differences as well as the...2021-09-2859 minThe Neurodive PodcastInterview with Sam Harris of BISnet - Taken from 'a sit down with' on Access all Ariel'sWe had a few [well.....2] requests to hear more about my professional journey. I don't need much excuse to talk about myself and at the same time, Craig Bowden of CEDA and his brother Chris, a CEDA service user, wanted to interview me for their show on Access all Ariel's radio station.
Feel free to skip this one.....I am a little concerned I have over shared.....let's hope my Mum doesn't listen to it. Or my wife. Or my boss......
Anyway, we chatted about how BISnet started, my various roles at CEDA and even my not so successful educational...2021-02-0341 minThe Neurodive PodcastWhy is Tigger called Tigger and lots more with Tigger PritchardIn this episode Sam is joined by the awesome Tigger Pritchard, creator of The Autism Coffee shop and Tigger Training. He is someone with a wealth of experience supporting Autistic people and in particular Autistic people with a PDA profile.
During Lockdown, Tigger came to a realisation about his own Neuro-diversity. Something he talks really wonderfully, openly and honestly about in this episode. There is also discussion around some of the challenges of the medical model of Autism and the need for a rethink that involves Autistic people.
A long episode due to all the fantastic insights, tips and ideas...2021-01-201h 43
The Neurodive PodcastHarry Thompson, Mollie Sherwin and Chloe Farahar - part 2The group pick up the conversation around socialising and NT expectations as opposed to 'the right way to socialise,' the value of silence and being comfortable with awkwardness.
They then discuss value of the Autistic experience over Autism research and how this should shape all support and services for Autistic people, as well as the mistake people make in not asking Autistic people for their perspective first. We explore the double empathy problem and the myth of Autistic 'lack of empathy,' and look more at a difference in empathy. Sam even asks if someone such as himself, who...2020-11-2338 minThe Neurodive PodcastHarry Thompson, Mollie Sherwin & Chloe Farahar - part 1In part 1 of this 2 part episode, host Sam is joined by Harry Thompson, Mollie Sherwin and Chloe Farahar. Three Autistic adults with a huge depth of knowledge and experience, making this an absolute must listen for anyone supporting or working with Autistic people.
In part 1, they discuss terminology and Harry and Chloe educate Sam in the most current and acceptable terminology in the Autistic community. Then the group discuss special interests and Mollie gives some incredible insight into the unseen benefits of computer gaming, as well as some of the varied and unique games that exist and how they can...2020-11-1649 min
The Neurodive PodcastHarry Thompson is back with more PDA insightIn this episode, host Sam Harris talks with Harry on the ever shifting roles an Autistic person with a PDA profile might give themselves, the automatic nature of a demand avoidance response and how backing off can sometimes be enough to allow the demand avoidance to reduce, priming virtues rather then demanding help-fullness for the sake of it.
The need for a more in-depth understanding of some general ideas around PDA such as 'doesn't respond well to praise' and perhaps different terminology for certain approaches such as 'disguising demands.' Harry discusses Neuro-typicals that 'get-it' and those that don't.
Freddie...2020-08-1749 min
The Neurodive PodcastTalking labels, terminology and PDA with Harry ThompsonIn this episode of the podcast, host Sam Harris is joined once again by PDA Extraordinaire Harry Thompson, author of 'The PDA Paradox.' They discuss current ideas, opinions and diagnostic influences on terminology surrounding PDA. Harry also helps Sam understand the difference between demand avoidance in general and for an Autistic person with a PDA profile, as well as several other fascinating and useful insights along the way.
Plus.... Harry jedi mind tricks Sam into dropping the C Bomb.....sort of....
To book tickets for BISnet's webinar featuring Harry on the 26th June 2020, 8pm GMT, click the link below
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The Neurodive PodcastNeurodiversity, challenging behaviour and the education system - with Fintan O ReganIn this episode, host Sam Harris is joined again by Special educational needs specialist Fintan O Regan, author of Can’t learn, won’t learn, don’t care and creator of the SF3R model.
They discuss the current state of support for young people with additional needs in the current education system as well some ideas and advice for parents and professionals working to support these young people.2020-06-0942 minThe Neurodive PodcastInterview with Harry Thompson - author of the PDA ParadoxHarry Thompson is a public speaker, PDA Emissary and Consultant, and the author of The PDA Paradox. He was diagnosed with Pathological Demand Avoidance as a teenager and in this episode of the podcast, he gives host Sam Harris some insights into how he experiences the world, demands and anxiety. They also discuss supportive approaches that are used and how feel to a person with PDA, plus Sam gets to check Harry thoughts on some of the approaches BISnet teach in our training courses and work with parents.
A fascinating episode with some great insights and tips for parents, professionals...2020-04-1947 min
The Neurodive PodcastInterview with Heidi Slatter - Autism speaker & advocateHeidi Slatter received an Autism diagnosis later on in her life. She has since gone on to become a public speaker and advocate for Autism. Using her own experiences to give others insight, understanding and acceptance. In this episode, Heidi talks to host Sam about the work she does now, her own experiences of diagnosis and is very open and honest about her challenging time at school.
To find out more follow Heidi on Twitter @hmslatter or check out hope to inspire on Facebook.2020-04-1527 minThe Neurodive PodcastInterview with Edie - 'Autism & Me' bloggerIn this episode host Sam speaks to Edie, a young Autistic lady he has worked with for a number of years and who writes her own blog 'Autism & Me.'
In this episode, Edie talks about her experiences as an Autistic young person. How she remembers getting diagnosed, how Autism effects her and her experience of anxiety. Edie also tells us about her blog and her and Sam talk about the work they do together.
To read Edie's blog [and we really recommend you do], head to:
https://autismandme.home.blog
A really insightful episode with an extremely intelligent, open...2020-04-0820 minThe Neurodive PodcastFintan O Regan - ADHD, conduct disorder and tips for supportHost Sam Harris is joined by Fintan O Regan, an expert in the field of challenging behaviour, ADHD, oppositional behaviour and conduct disorder. Fintan is an SEN and behaviour consultant for the schools network and someone with a wealth of experience working with young people as well as support others to work effectively with them.
He has written several important and extremely useful books including ‘Can’t learn, won’t learn, don’t care.’ These publications and his SF3R model were very formative in Sam and BISnets approach. It was seeing Fintan present around 2009 that inspired Sam to want to become...2020-04-0256 min
The Neurodive PodcastInterview with JakeBISpod host and BISnet manager Sam Harris sits down to catch up with Jake, a young person he worked with over 5 years. Jake has a diagnosis of Autism with Demand Avoidance and is someone Sam often refers to as the person who challenged him most to adapt and find new ways to support him. Whilst also being someone who taught him an awful lot about the importance of a flexible and self reflective approach, with an awareness of how important our own interaction style can be.
Jake's journey, along with his Mum who joins for the episode, has been challenging...2019-08-2232 min
The Neurodive PodcastAutism and Demand Avoidance [PDA] Q&A - with Sam and AndyBISnet host Sam Harris sits down with colleague and fellow trainer Andy Southwell following their 2 day course 'Understanding and Supporting Autistic individuals with Demand Avoidance [PDA] and Strategies to support them.'
In this informative and in depth episode, Andy and Sam try to answer in detail some of the key questions that the most recent group of parents and professionals on the BISnet course put to them. Both have over a decade of experience supporting Autistic individuals with Demand Avoidance in both Educational and Health & Social care settings.
Sam has spent time working with families to personalise strategies in...2019-07-2537 min
The Neurodive PodcastInterview with a parent - Julia [part 2]In this episode of BISpod, host Sam sits down with a parent he has been working with for over 4 years. Julia has a son who is 16 with a diagnosis or High Functioning Autism or Aspergers.
In part 2, Julia picks up her story with her son starting mainstream secondary school. This is around the time that BISpod host and family consultant Sam started working with her and in this episode they discuss the techniques and approaches that have been effective in that time. With lots of details and ideas around supporting a young person with high functioning Autism, this is a...2019-06-1746 min
The Neurodive PodcastInterview with a parent [Julia - part 1]In this episode of BISpod, host Sam sits down with a parent he has been working with for over 4 years. Julia has a son who is 16 with a diagnosis or High Functioning Autism or Aspergers.
In part 1, Julia tells of her and her sons journey through main stream education, what has helped and the challenges along the way. She has a fantastic way of explaining things and incredible empathy for her son, as well as bags of resilience and perspective.
We hope you enjoy it and we'll be getting her back to finish off her story soon so please share...2019-05-1949 min
The Neurodive Podcast'You first' - ideas for parents & professionals seriesIn this series of episodes our manager and trainer Sam Harris gives us some short 15 minutes discussions around particular ideas and concepts that have shaped the way BISnet supports individuals and families. This are ideas that could be applied to anyone with behaviour support needs or who is at risk of displaying challenging, aggressive or socially isolating behaviours.
In this episode, he covers the idea of putting yourself first, to remain in the best place to support the person with challenging or socially isolating behaviours. As well as the importance of paying attention to what you do during a de-escalation...2019-05-1311 min
The Neurodive Podcast'Silvia & Sam's top 3 ideas for supporting Individuals with Autism' - Ideas seriesWhilst I had Silvia here we each put together our top 3 ideas for parents or professionals supporting an individual with Autism.
We managed to keep it to a half hour and hopefully this episode can provide some helpful ideas for anyone supporting someone on the Autism spectrum.2017-11-0230 minThe Neurodive PodcastInterview with Silvia Haywood Panella on her research into social looks and AutismSo pleased to have a mentor, friend and total expert in the podcast.
Silvia is currently researching her PhD in Autism and the area of social looking (including social referencing) in infants.
In this episode I ask her about her research and what led her into this area, get some exclusive info on her latest findings and how it can inform practice, as well as just generally mine her for her expertise in the area of social referencing and Autism.2017-11-021h 17
The Neurodive Podcast'No magic wand; no one way approach' - Ideas for parents & professionals seriesIn this series of episodes our manager and trainer Sam Harris gives us some short 15 minutes discussions around particular ideas and concepts that have shaped the way BISnet supports individuals and families. This are ideas that could be applied to anyone with behaviour support needs or who is at risk of displaying challenging, aggressive or socially isolating behaviours.2017-10-2622 minThe Neurodive Podcastunderstanding emotions part 1 - with Adam WilliamsAdam and Sam discuss how emotions are formed in the brain, the difference between a bodily experience or feeling of emotion to a cognitive appraisal or thinking of emotion....all with fair to short a time limit and dealing with Sam's hot coffee spillage. A topic to be re-visited and continued in the future for sure!2017-10-2524 min
The Neurodive PodcastInterview with Adam Williams [Clinical HypnotherapistAdam Williams is a clinical hypnotherapist who I met through my work with the National Citizen Service programme run by Exeter City football club.
Adam specializes in anxiety management through 1-1 sessions, or delivering his Anxiety Regulation Workshops in Schools and Workplaces. If you are in the South West of England and want to check out what he does, head to:
ajwilliamshypnotherapy.com or find him on twitter and facebook @ajwilliamshypno
In this episode we talk about Adam's background, what hypnotherapy is and how it can help people, as well as a fair amount of tangents into areas such as...2017-10-181h 06
The Neurodive PodcastIntroduction to BISpodAn introduction from me, Sam Harris BISnet Manager, about the BISnet project and the BISpod podcast.
I try to explain a little about the organisation I work for, the project I run and what it does as well as a little about my background and role. It's an informal podcast and also my first time so I will be going back over some of these areas in more detail in the future, for now I just wanted to keep it sweet so we could get on with the interviews!2017-10-1811 min