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The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC-OSC11: Paid The Cost, To Be The BossSeason 5 might be over, but Nic Nice, SNM Jones, and Just J aren’t done talking their talk. In this off-season conversation, the crew recaps a fiery Season 5 and dives into some of the most unfiltered takes yet — from Shannon Sharpe’s defamation case win and whether public figures should be held accountable for their off-duty behavior, to Paul Pierce’s claim that a side piece saved his marriage. The conversation gets even spicier with debates on men receiving spousal support, the rise of single and child-free women by 2030, and whether “side relationships” can actually help keep couples together. Along the wa...
2025-08-091h 07
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E15: Terms & Conditions May ApplyFrom being left behind in paradise to being left behind in marriage, the Season 5 Finale dives into what happens when the terms & conditions of relationships, race, and responsibility go unspoken — but not unnoticed. We break down Deandre Ayton’s “Stranded in Turks” fiasco, Dreka finally divorcing Kevin Gates, and the rise of anonymous exposé apps like Tea — while also tackling new white-only settlements popping up across the U.S. and whether marrying between 28–32 actually leads to long-term success. Whether it’s romantic expectations, social segregation, or digital gossip, we’re asking: what are the real rules — and who gets to write them? Tune...
2025-08-021h 36
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E14: A Hard Pill to SwallowIn this raw and fiery episode of The BLC Pod, the full crew is finally back—and they waste no time jumping into the drama. Tia Bee leads the discussion on Shannon Sharpe’s OnlyFans scandal and the $10M settlement that has people calling him a simp. Just J breaks down the CEO Coldplay cheating fiasco, asking whether there’s ever a “right way” to cheat—and why the HR mistress got off easy. From there, Nic Nice opens a tense conversation on “boss b*tch energy” and whether it’s repelling masculine men. Are some women becoming the man they say they...
2025-07-261h 47
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E13: Truth Be ToldIn Episode 513 of The BLC Pod, the crew goes all the way there with no punches pulled. First, we unpack Shaquille O’Neal threatening to put hands on RG3 for shading Angel Reese. Was it protection or performance? Then, Amber Rose sets the internet on fire claiming older women have that “snatchback power” and younger men can’t get enough. The main convos go deeper—Dr. Cheyenne Bryant says men raised by single mothers are too emotionally feminine, sparking debate on whether that’s truth… or reckless generalization. Then, Obama calls out the rise of the Manosphere, and we ask: is it hel...
2025-07-191h 58
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E12: Are Women Over 35 Cooked?In this spicy, culture-shifting episode of The BLC Pod, Nic Nice, Delvin the Expert, and SNM Jones take on four major hot-button topics with humor, honesty, and hella insight. First, the crew debates YouTube’s crackdown on AI-generated content—are they protecting originality or just gatekeeping the bag? Then, it’s all aboard the controversy cruise as Carnival’s new rule changes are dissected—is this policy reform or anti-Black performance? The team dives deep into the fallout from this year’s Essence Festival: Was it a misstep in cultural representation or a symptom of deeper fractures between African-American and pan-Afri...
2025-07-121h 31
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC-BREAKING NEWS: Diddy Found Guilty(ish): The Verdict, The Fallout, The TruthIn this Breaking News Edition of The BLC Pod, Nic Nice, S&M Jones, and Just J dive deep into the controversial verdict in the federal case against Sean “Diddy” Combs. From a guilty verdict under the Mann Act to being cleared of sex trafficking and RICO charges, the crew unpacks every layer — legal loopholes, cultural hypocrisy, internet reactions, and what this case says about power, celebrity, and gender dynamics in America. Was this accountability or a slap on the wrist? Did the system fail women — or did projection blur the facts? Can Diddy bounce back after all this? And why...
2025-07-0347 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E11: High Earners, Low ExpectationsIn Episode 511 of the BLC Pod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, and Just J deliver raw, unfiltered commentary on the Diddy RICO trial and what it reveals about unchecked power and lifestyle optics. From there, the crew dives deep into accusations that men are trapping women with babies—featuring KD, DDG, and Naomi Osaka—and whether emotional manipulation is gendered. Kiki Palmer’s take on high-earning women in love sparks a conversation about modern femininity, financial intimidation, and why emotional intelligence might be the new six figures. Kevin Durant’s admission that he prefers to “pay for peace” raises questions about vulner...
2025-06-281h 42
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E10: It's The Audacity for Us!On this explosive Juneteenth episode of The BLC Pod, Nic Nice, Just J, Delvin the Expert, and SNM Jones dive into a heated lineup of culture-shifting conversations. From Angela Simmons breaking up with Yo Gotti to K. Michelle publicly swearing off Black men, the crew debates love, loss, and loyalty. Funky Dineva’s viral claim that heterosexual Black men bring “nothing but audacity” sparks major backlash, Tyler Perry faces a shocking $260M sexual assault accusation, and the crew unpacks the contradictions of women who claim independence yet still want sponsors. If you’re ready for spicy takes, blunt truths, and unap...
2025-06-211h 46
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E9: Doing Too MuchIn this explosive episode of The BLC Pod, Nic Nice, Tia Bee, Just J, and Delvin The Expert tackle everything from ICE raids and Gavin Newsom’s battle with the feds to Ray J’s viral troll about Sexy Red. The panel dives deep into political polarization in modern dating, Ciara’s controversial marriage plea to Jim Jones, and whether Keith Sweat has a point about modern relationships. It’s hilarious, sharp, controversial—and unapologetically real. Don’t miss the best moments, hardest laughs, and the realest takes you’ll hear all week.
2025-06-141h 16
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E8: Thinking Outside the BoxIn this explosive episode of The BLC Pod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Tia B, Just J, and Delvin the Expert tackle a whirlwind of real talk and wild moments. They debate Tinder’s new height filter and the call for a “weight” filter, then dive into the Cardi B-Stefon Diggs relationship rollout and Offset’s social spiral. Things heat up when Cam’ron’s NSFW Diddy interview raises serious questions about podcast ethics and victim dignity. Then, the crew gets hilariously philosophical over Van Hunt’s proposal to Halle Berry — does age, alimony, and “bad box” change the marriage equation? Finally, E...
2025-06-071h 32
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E7: Hustlin' BackwardsIn this raw and unfiltered episode of The BLC Pod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, and Just J dive into the cultural firestorm of the week. From new audio that could flip the Tory Lanez case, to Travis Hunter’s surprise wedding without a prenup, to Cardi B’s divorce mess with Offset and Stefan Diggs — no topic is off-limits. The crew debates if Papoose and Remy Ma were ever real, asks if Black Love is officially dead, and tackles the Jess Hilarious controversy on womanhood, identity, and trans backlash. Uncomfortable truths, savage takes, and sharp humor — this is the BLC Pod...
2025-05-311h 24
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E6: Law & DisorderFrom restraining orders to racketeering charges, Episode 506 of The BLC Pod dives headfirst into the messiest headlines and hardest truths. The crew breaks down the viral “Youth Damages” lawsuit where a woman sues her ex for wasting her prime years, then unpacks the DDG & Halle Bailey drama through the lens of parasocial loyalty and gender bias. Things get heated as they discuss Tory Lanez’s prison stabbing and the resurfacing of “he was telling the truth” narratives. Then it’s onto Diddy’s explosive federal charges and the eerie silence from Hollywood elites. And just when you think it can’t get wild...
2025-05-171h 49
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E5: Standing on Business?This week on The BLC Pod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Just J, Delvin the Expert, and Tia Bee dive into five explosive conversations: Why women should never be a man’s everything (Dr. Bryant & Trina clip), Joy Taylor’s viral claim that religious men are red flags, and Ace Metaphor’s bold statement that some men don’t even like women beyond sex. The crew also debates Paul Pierce’s controversial take that marriage is for poor people and old folks, and ends with a powerful, emotional discussion on Rodney Hinton Jr., the Ohio father who killed a deputy after his...
2025-05-101h 55
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E4: None of the aboveIn this fire-packed episode of The BLC Pod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Just J, and Delvin the Expert dive headfirst into the culture’s hottest debates — starting with Terrence Howard turning down a Marvin Gaye role over sexuality concerns. Then it gets wild: a woman borrows $3,800 from her ex (and tells her husband!), Jayden Daniels’ mom is being called a “son-husband,” Mary J. Blige celebrates her child-free life (is it selfish?), and Quinta Brunson’s divorce sparks the ultimate swirl convo: is interracial love still Black love? Tap in for the jokes, the heat, and the real talk.
2025-05-031h 31
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E3: From Man Up to Man Down!In this spicy episode of The BLC Pod, Nic Nice and the crew dive headfirst into some of the wildest viral relationship debates dominating Black culture. From Omarion’s brother claiming he couldn’t be a good dad and partner, to a viral video asking if Black men are even husband material, things get deep. The crew tackles Kelley Steele’s “graced by God” confession about helping her husband cheat, Shannon Sharpe’s $50M OnlyFans scandal, and a controversial convo with Dr. Cheyenne Bryant and Joy Taylor about whether a high libido woman means a man won’t cheat. It’s bold, it’...
2025-04-261h 37
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E2: Why It's NOT Giving...In this explosive episode of The BLC Pod, we unpack the chaos and contradictions of modern Black life — from Wallo’s controversial take on Black businesses, to Tracee Ellis Ross opening up about regret, to a homeless woman dating while living at Planet Fitness. We also break down a viral story about a stay-at-home wife who gave it all up, and close out with a heavy conversation about the Texas teen stabbing case where race, media bias, and justice collide.
Get ready for fiery takes, emotional unpacking, and brutally honest opinions from your favorite panel: Nic Nice, SNM Jone...
2025-04-191h 51
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5E1: High Value Men?Welcome to the Season 5 premiere of The BLC Pod — and we’re kicking it off with some heat! This episode dives into the viral list titled “Men Who Shouldn’t Be Dating” and pulls no punches.
🎙️ The crew debates whether broke men deserve love, if living with your mom should disqualify you from dating, and what society gets wrong about “value” in relationships.
But we don’t stop there — we also roast LeBron James for his new Barbie doll, unpack messy baby mama drama with rapper 600 Breezy, and tackle the wild rumors about Barack and Michelle Obama.
💬 As always, the BL...
2025-04-122h 00
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCPRELUDE: Oops!...We Did It AgainIn this explosive prelude to Season 5 of The BLC Pod, the crew dives deep into everything shaking the culture—starting with celebrity breakups like Teyana Taylor & Iman Shumpert, all the way to baby momma drama with NBA star Anthony Edwards. We cover the viral McDonald’s father, Chris Louis, and take a hard look at classism in the Black community after Lil Duval’s controversial post. And finally, we examine the rising apathy in Black America toward Trump and the political system. This episode doesn’t just entertain—it challenges. Get ready for Season 5. Buckle up.
2025-04-051h 41
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyShe Took WHAT? The Truth About Teyana & Iman’s Divorce That Men Don’t Wanna HearFellas, let’s have a real conversation. Y’all love to scream “she took half” every time a high-profile divorce hits the timeline—but what happens when the woman actually leaves with her own bag? Teyana Taylor didn’t just walk away from Iman Shumpert—she walked away with her own money, assets, and peace of mind. Meanwhile, the streets are buzzing about her possible new romance with Aaron Pierre. So why are some men still mad? In this episode, we break down the hypocrisy, the real issue at hand, and why Teyana is unbothered while y’all are still pressed.
2025-03-3011 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCOSC10: Baby Mommas, Ballers, Bills, and BlacknessIn this episode of Off-Season Conversation, the crew tackles controversial conversations about relationships, money, and identity.
We kick things off with a Quick Take on Sherri Shepherd, who had strong words about how women were dressed at the Oscars. Is she policing women’s bodies or simply calling out a lack of class? Should celebrities set a standard, or is modesty outdated?
Then, we dive into Anthony Edwards’ messy situation—he got a woman pregnant and now says he wants nothing to do with the child. But wait—she’s also the baby mama of another ce...
2025-03-081h 56
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCOSC07: Medium UglyIn this episode of Off-Season Conversations, we dive into some of the most heated discussions in culture right now. From Trump’s $5M ‘Golden Pass’ for citizenship to Joy Reid’s shocking MSNBC cancellation during Black History Month, we break down the real implications. We also take on the suspicious death of Telvin Osborne, a Black man who openly denigrated Black women but was later found dead in a case that now has his white girlfriend charged. Do people really lack sympathy, or is this an issue of internalized racism?
Then, we get into Neo’s so-called ‘polygamy’ li...
2025-03-011h 59
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCOSC08: Boys Will Be Boys!In this week’s off-season conversation, the fellas dive into some of the hottest trending topics, sparking debates and calling out the culture’s biggest contradictions. 50 Cent vs. Big Meech—is 50 just petty, or does he have a point? The crew weighs in on whether holding grudges for decades is a sign of power or emotional immaturity. Kofi Siriboe reveals he’s into ethical non-monogamy, and women are suddenly turned off—do ladies really want honesty, or do they just want the fantasy? Meanwhile, Devon Franklin gets engaged after just a year—is that enough time to truly know someone? And...
2025-02-211h 25
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyRNUL2: Why Women Struggle with Accountability—A Therapist ExplainsIn this episode of Ridiculous, we’re bringing back a heated conversation from “#saidNICEly” about accountability—or lack thereof. But this time, we’ve got a licensed therapist breaking down why women struggle to take responsibility, why criticism feels like an attack, and how their egos protect them from self-reflection.
Men—this is a must-watch. If you’ve ever tried to communicate with your woman, only to be met with deflection, excuses, or gaslighting, this episode explains WHY. But it’s not just about women—men have a role in this too. How do we break the cycle? How do we c...
2025-02-1810 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyThe Real Problem Ain’t Serena— It’s Y’allWelcome to POV with SNM, where we cut through the noise and get straight to the real. In this episode, we break down the Serena Williams Super Bowl Crip Walk backlash—was it really about Drake, or is this just another example of society’s obsession with policing Black women’s joy? From cultural norms and gender roles to media narratives and misplaced outrage, we unpack why Serena’s moves always seem to rattle the internet. Plus, what does this say about the way we view Black women who move on, thrive, and refuse to shrink themselves? Tap in.
2025-02-1705 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyA Dance, A Diss, and A Lot of NonsenseSerena Williams did a Crip Walk at the Super Bowl, and suddenly the internet lost its mind—again. In this episode of POV with SNM, we break down the backlash, the double standards, and the media’s obsession with policing Black women’s joy. Why did people assume her dance had anything to do with Drake? Why is a 2012 celebration still sparking debates about "appropriateness"? And most importantly, why does society keep making Black women the punchline? Let’s get into it.
2025-02-1706 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyThis Ain't About You, AubreyIn this episode of POV with SNM, bestselling author SNM Jones breaks down the cultural moment of Serena Williams’ Crip Walk at the Super Bowl halftime show. From the backlash in 2012 to its revival in 2024, we explore the deeper layers of the conversation—was this about Drake? Was it really "for the culture"? And why do black women's expressions of joy always spark debates? Tune in as we unpack the intersection of sports, race, gender roles, and internet hypocrisy.
2025-02-1711 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS8: Not Like Us? The REAL Divide in Blackness No One Talks AboutIn this episode of #saidNICEly, we take a deep dive into Kendrick Lamar’s Not Like Us and the bigger conversation it sparked. Beyond the rap beef, what does “Not Like Us” really mean? Is it about music? The culture? Race? Class? Identity?
Nic Nice explores the layers of black identity, colorism, and cultural division, breaking down how the us vs. them mentality extends beyond rap. Is the real divide between Kendrick and Drake? Or is it among us?
Let’s talk about who really defines “us” and “they” in our culture. Sound off in the comments! Do...
2025-02-1506 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS7: Kendrick’s Halftime Show Was a Commercial—And Y’all Fell for ItKendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl Halftime Show sparked major debates, but let’s be real—this wasn’t about art, culture, or storytelling. It was about business. Kendrick made a calculated move to push his album and maximize his financial return, and I respect that. But y’all? Y’all act like this was some deep, untouchable masterpiece.
Let’s break down why the setlist felt off, how the performance was a commercial disguised as a show, and why some of y’all refuse to call it what it is. Was it strategy? Absolutely. But was it entertaini...
2025-02-1409 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS6: Kendrick's Half Time Show Wad Mid! Let's Be Honest!The Super Bowl was supposed to be a night of epic performances, but instead, we got Kendrick Lamar delivering one of the most underwhelming halftime shows in recent history. Let’s be real—this wasn’t it.
Leading up to the performance, the hype was through the roof—coming off his beef with Drake, the leaked setlist, and the chance to make a major statement. But when it came time to deliver? The energy was off, the song choices were questionable, and casual fans were left disconnected.
In this episode of Said Nicely, Nic Nice breaks d...
2025-02-1013 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyS5: Why Men are Responsible for Women’s Lack of Accountability!!!For years, men have played a major role in women’s lack of accountability—by lying, sugarcoating, and avoiding the truth. Society coddles women, fathers shelter their daughters, and men refuse to be honest out of fear of backlash. But now? The truth is coming out, and women aren’t used to hearing it. In this episode of #saidNICEly, Nic Nice breaks down why men are responsible for this culture of dishonesty and why men stepping up to hold themselves accountable will naturally shift the way women react to truth. If men start leading with honesty, can women embrace it ins...
2025-02-1008 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCOSC07: More Money, More Problems? 🤔 Accountability & Podcast Scandals!From viral lawsuits to deep conversations on accountability, gender roles, and industry drama, The BLC Pod Off-Season Conversations #7 delivers another round of unfiltered discussions. Dank DeMoss, a rising rapper, claims Lyft denied her a ride due to her weight—sparking a debate on discrimination. Next, we tackle accountability in the Black community—who takes responsibility, and is there a double standard? Then, Sheryl Underwood’s stance on men being the automatic head of household stirs up gender role debates. Finally, we break down the explosive Tonight’s Conversation podcast drama, exposing behind-the-scenes allegations of cheating, missing money, and power plays.
2025-02-011h 46
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCOSC06: Trump’s Inauguration, Celebrity Backlash, & Defining Disrespect
Join The BLC Pod for an unfiltered, thought-provoking conversation in this Off-Season Conversation. We kick things off by diving into Donald Trump’s latest inauguration, his controversial executive orders, and their potential impact on race, class, and society. Next, we tackle the backlash against celebrities like Snoop Dogg and Nelly for participating in Trump-related events and compare it to the criticism faced by Chrisette Michele in 2016. Finally, we unpack the word “disrespect”—what it means, how it’s used, and whether we’ve lost a shared understanding of the term in today’s culture. Don’t miss this engaging and honest discussio...
2025-01-252h 03
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCAD410: Doing Too Much: Guy Code, Dry Snitching & TMIIn this season finale of the BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the crew dives into a whirlwind of topics that will have you thinking, laughing, and side-eyeing. The episode kicks off with a discussion on TikTok’s potential ban, exploring its implications for creators and users—and whether we’re prepared to leverage our audiences elsewhere.
From there, things heat up as the team breaks down the viral frenzy surrounding Aaron Pierce’s dance on the Jennifer Hudson Show and the double standards of sexual harassment when men are the targets. Speaking of drama, Jimmy Butler’s child supp...
2025-01-182h 19
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCAD409: Joy and Pain: Lawsuits, Leg ups, and Love in Modern DatingIn Episode 9 of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the crew dives into a mix of controversy, culture, and raw relationship truths. Kicking off the episode, they address Tyrese’s engagement drama and the public fallout following his messy split from his ex-wife. From there, they delve into stories of Yung Joc filing for divorce after snooping through his wife’s phone, sparking a heated debate about trust, boundaries, and accountability. The conversation takes a deeper turn with the Joy Taylor and Fox Sports lawsuit allegations, exploring power dynamics, workplace culture, and the damaging stereotypes about women “sleeping their way to...
2025-01-112h 03
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyAD408: Prize Picks, Who’s Really the Prize: Hunter, HOV, Ho’s, & Has-beensOn the 8th episode of the BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the crew—Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, Delilah Belvedere, Just J, and Delvin The Expert—come together for the final episode of 2024, just before the Christmas season. The episode kicks off with lighthearted banter about the perils of aging before diving into a lively debate about Travis Hunter’s relationship. The crew revisits previous predictions, discussing whether young couples deserve grace and how insecurities in relationships can impact personal growth, particularly when the “man is the prize.” Next, 50 Cent’s remarks about Jay-Z and Beyoncé spark a spirited conv...
2024-12-212h 22
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCAD407: Jay-Z Denies, Remy Ma/Papoose Demise, & Double Standards Arise!On the seventh episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the crew comes together for a no-holds-barred discussion on some of the most provocative topics hitting the headlines. With SNM’s absence, Nic Nice is joined by Just J, Kim Johnson, Delvin the Expert, and new host, Delilah Belvedere, as they tackle messy celebrity dramas, societal double standards, and deeper issues of justice and mental health.
During Quick Takes, the crew dives into the controversial acquittal of Daniel Penny, the man charged in the manslaughter of Jordan Neely, a Black homeless man killed on a New Yo...
2024-12-152h 15
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCAD406: Hall Passes, Hoe-dometers & Why Men & Women CheatIn this sixth episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, hosts Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Just J, and Delvin The Expert dive deep into the delicate balance between love, loyalty, and lingering insecurities.
The conversation opens with a buzzworthy moment from college football. Travis Hunter, a breakout two-way player at the University of Colorado, has just delivered the game of his life. Yet as he steps off the field, eagerly looking to share his moment of triumph with his fiance, he’s met with an unenthusiastic and “stank-faced” reception. The hosts debate whether her timing and attitu...
2024-12-081h 42
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCAD405: Swingers and Misses: Lifestyle & CurveballsThe fifth episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition features hosts Nic Nice, S.N.M. Jones, Kim Jones, and Just J as they dive into a lively discussion on modern relationships and societal norms. The episode kicks off with the buzzworthy engagement of Jonathan Majors and Meagan Good, sparking debates about public perception and the dynamics of their relationship. This segues into a thought-provoking conversation on whether waiting until marriage for sex remains relevant in 2024, exploring its pros, cons, and practicality. The hosts then delve into insights from Dr. Cheyenne Bryant, who links financial security and feeling “co...
2024-11-231h 43
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCAD404: S3x as a Weapon, Polygamy & Open RelationshipsIn the fourth episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, Nic Nice, S.N.M Jones, and guest, Delvin The Expert engage in a lively discussion about the intersection of sex, politics, and relationships. They start the show exploring the recent rise in the 4B Movement, where women are reportedly withholding sex as a political statement following the recent election (00:05:13). The conversation delves into the implications of using sex as a weapon in relationships, the dynamics of withholding intimacy, and the broader societal context surrounding these actions. The hosts share their perspectives on the motivations behind these behaviors...
2024-11-161h 29
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCAD403: Politics, Passion, & P3nis Size (The Great Size Debate)On this special third episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, and Just J break the show’s usual format to dig into the outcome of the 2024 U.S. Election (00:06:30). With Nic’s unique take on Kamala Harris’s loss to Donald Trump, the panel examines how voter demographics and social issues like misogyny and racism played into the result, debating whether the race was ever as close as it appeared. They question the state of the American electorate, and Nic suggests Trump may be the president “America deserves.” Shifting gears, the team tackl...
2024-11-091h 54
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCAD402: Head Over Bills: Bad S3x, 50/50 & Oral: Dealbreaker or No-brainer?In the second episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, and Just J dive into a range of taboo and hilarious topics. They kick off with a lighthearted chat on Halloween traditions—are they dressing up this year, and is the “sexy costume” thing still alive? Things take a spicy turn as they talk politics, touching on whether objectifying a female candidate holds up as “equality” when figures like Barack Obama have been subject to the same. Of course, they remind viewers of the real importance: exercising their right to vote. In the first...
2024-11-021h 42
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLCAD401: Why Sex is Taboo in the Black Community?!In the Season 4 premiere of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, and Just J kick things off with a lighthearted discussion about a playful campaign concept called #Kewchie4Kamala, exploring the idea of women using their influence to encourage their partners to vote for Kamala Harris (05:52). The conversation then shifts to a more serious topic: why sex is taboo in the Black community (12:56). They examine factors such as the influence of the church, the legacy of slavery, racism, and media portrayals that contribute to this cultural attitude. The hosts discuss the lack of...
2024-10-261h 49
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyOSC Ep. 5: Common Denominator: F*ckboys, V-Cards, & FATLASH!!!In this episode of Off-Season Conversation, after acknowledging and wishing those dealing with Hurricane Milton the best, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J start the show revisiting a topic discussed in the previous season, rapper/actor Common being a f*ckboy. In a recent appearance on The Jennifer Hudson Show, Jennifer asked Common about his recent comments about marrying her and he seemed to double down on his f*ckboy antics. Sides were clearly drawn, arguments made, and YOU get to be the judge. Is Common a F*ckboy? The gang turns their attention to the recent...
2024-10-121h 35
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyOSC Ep. 4: No Way Out! Diddy Indicted & hit w/ the FREAK-O (RICO)!In this episode of Off-Season Conversation, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J discuss the recent arrest of Sean “Puffy” Combs on charges of racketeering, trafficking and more. The gang get into the details of the accusations, the alleged victims, enablers, co-conspirators, the process, the likely outcomes and implications. The dive head first (pause) into the Freak Off conversation and the implications that will have on this case and how it's perceived, as well as whether some of the laws claimed to be broken should be laws in the first place. The group acknowledges the conspiracy theories, whether ther...
2024-09-211h 48
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC312: Throwing Out the Babies w/ the Bath Water: Dr. Bryant, Cam Newton, & Nick CannonOn the season finale of @theBLCod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J start with the double standard between men and women when it comes to choosing not to have children (04:30). According to SNM, John Cena's conversation with Shannon Sharpe about not wanting kids was met with acceptance, while Amanda Seales received criticism for expressing the same sentiment. The discussion touches on the societal expectation for women to be vessels for procreation and the challenges and risks associated with childbirth. It also highlights the importance of respecting individual choices and not pressuring women to have children. From there...
2024-09-071h 48
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN117: Standing Room Only! Why We’re Standing on Everything & Nothing at the Same Time!On this special episode of #saidNICEly, Nic Nice highlights the overuse of the phrase, "Standing on business" and its various cousins, "I stand on that”, “I stand ten toes down”, etc. He starts with appreciate the concept of having morals, values, and core principles that should be immovable. He then points out how people are using these phrases for trivial and trite situations and conversations with the goal of seeming solid. He cautions against the rigidity that comes with standing on things and not being open to new information. Lastly, he discusses the importance of being open to change while...
2024-09-0206 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN116: Calling Cap on CAM & Men’s “Fear” of Divorce & Marriage!On this special episode of #saidNICEly, Nic responds to the Cam Newton conversation with Dr. Cheyenne Bryant on his show, Funky Fridays. The part that really piqued Nic’s interests was when Cam mentioned how his desire for marriage was less than his fear of divorce. After hearing men on social media express the same “fears” for the past several years, Nic finally had ENOUGH and calls out Cam, and men like him, for what’s really holding them back from marriage, and it’s NOT fear of divorce. He also wonders why men focus mainly on the negatives and why so...
2024-08-3109 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC311: The DNC, LaLa & Women Keeping his Last Name, Rasheeda v Kirk pt 30308, & more...On the eleventh episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J start the show talking about the Democratic National Convention (03:17). Although the episode was being filmed during the last night of the convention and when Vice President Kamala Harris would give her speech, the crew discussed what they saw at the convention up to that point, the speakers and celebrities at the event, and the overall messaging going into the final leg of the election season. From there, the gang got into an unexpectedly lively discussion about last names, what they mean when people get married...
2024-08-241h 38
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC310: Jonathan’s Major FAIL, Weaponizing Marriage, PickMes getting picked, & more!On the tenth episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J start the show talking about Jonathan Major’s emotional tribute to Meagan Good at the Hollywood Unlocked Awards (03:32). The consensus was strong as the crew gave their thoughts on the authenticity of the speech and whether the relationship, as a whole, is genuine. From there, the gang discusses Kirk Franklin’s recent commentary regarding how the church weaponizes marriage against people, particularly single women (19:28). The discussion starts with whether marriage is actually being weaponized and delves into the depths of misogyny in various aspects of life...
2024-08-172h 08
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC309: Big Sean won’t Marry Jhene! Preggo Cardi Divorcing Offset? Van Jones, Tim Walz & moreOn the ninth episode of the @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, Kim Jones, Just J, & Mr. Finley start the conversation with the Olympics and the storylines that resonated with them (06:52). For some, Noah Lyles winning the Gold after his remarks about the NBA champs not being true world champions stood out. Others highlighted some of the behind-the-scenes events that spilled onto the track, which was the case for Sha’Carri Richardson. And of course, the crew discuss the bounce back and dominance of Simone Biles, the offhand comments about her appearance, and plans for starting a family. The gang pivots to di...
2024-08-102h 05
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC308: With Biden Out, Can Kamala Win? Sonya Massey’s Tragic End, & so much more!On the eighth episode of the @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J start the conversation with Joe Biden’s announcement that he will step aside and not seek reelection for a second term (3:50). They delve into the President’s public address, the “real” reason for his withdrawal, the timing of this decision and the implications for Kamala Harris. Speaking of the VP, the crew discuss her chances of winning, the position she’s in, whether she can win, and the role that black men and women will play in this election (16:29). Taking more of somber tone, the group...
2024-07-271h 41
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC307: Trump Assassination Attempt, Amber at the RNC, & Is Common a F- boy?On the seventh episode of @theBLCPod, the Fantastic Five unite for the first time after a short hiatus. After brief introductions and banter, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Just J, Mr. Finley & Kim Jones start the show by discussing the assassination attempt on Donald Trump (7:18). They talk about whether people believed it was real when it first happened, why so many think it was staged or at the very least suspicious, who could’ve been behind it, the impact it might have on the election, and whether this sealed the deal for a Trump victory. The crew then pivots, albeit sl...
2024-07-202h 00
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN115: Why Criticism ≠ Hate & is Important for Growth: A Response to K Dot FansOn this special episode of #saidNICEly, Nic begins by addressing some of the people that commented on his video about why he thought ‘Not Like Us’ was not ‘Like That’, the impact hate for Drake had on the success of the song and so on. One of the common accusations was that Nic was hating on Kendrick Lamar and he rebuts that he did no such thing. In fact, Nic expands the conversations and argues that we’re in a culture where anything that seems critical is perceived as hate and why that’s dangerous. He argues that criticism is needed fo...
2024-07-1704 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN114: How I Accidentally became a Passport BroOn this special episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses his recent trip to Medellin, Colombia, which started with Costa Rica in 2016. From exploring alternative places to live with lower cost of living and higher quality of life to the emergence of Passport Bros to explosion of Digital Nomads and Expats, Nic talks about how he accidentally became a Passport Bro. He also talks about the impact of perception, how it affects us moving towards our goals, why travelling gives us more real-life experiences versus going off what people with limited information tell you, and the importance of respecting other cultures...
2024-07-1309 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN113: Why ’Not Like Us’ is not ’Like That”!On this special, pop-up episode of #saidNICEly, Nic questions the impact of Kendrick Lamar’s mega diss against Drake, Not Like Us, and his concert at the forum on Juneteenth. While the conversation starts with whether the hype around the song is based on the song’s merits or hate for Drake, it evolves into larger issues including being prisoners of the moment & hyperbole around current events. Join the conversation and let's communicate respectfully! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, and all that good stuff!
2024-07-1307 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC306: Happily Never After: in the Dating Pool to Why Blacks are the Most DivorcedOn the sixth episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Just J & Kim Jones start the show talking about the popular internet dating show, Pop The Balloon, if it’s a microcosm of what’s happening in the dating space, the challenges people face in dating, and if there’s pee in the dating pool (02:47). After a complete breakdown, and questionable analogies, the crew shift gears to discuss if polygamous relationships is something black women and black people should consider (29:20). This topic was inspired, in part by last week’s discussion about why black women are the most single and bein...
2024-06-291h 25
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC305: A Fairytale Ending: Why Some SBW🤦🏾♀️ like Ashanti Get Theirs & Some Don’tOn the fifth episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, & Just J welcomes new cast member, Kim Jones, to the show. Kim brought her experience and expertise to the discussion as they started the show with trying to answer the question of why black women are more single than other races of women as well as their male counterparts (04:21). Kim kicks off the discussion with a conversation about the incarceration rate and its impact on black women being single before all breaks loose. After Kim, SNM, & Just J gives their thoughts, Nic erupts in a classic rant that you...
2024-06-221h 21
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC304: Sad & Bougie: Eboni K, masculine 🤦🏾♀️BW, 🤦🏽♂️BM’s #MeToo Moment & more!!!On the fourth episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SMN Jones, Penny Finley, & SB Roberts start by discussing Eboni K and comments she made regarding how some black women are men in skirts, while trying to define certain behavior of black women as masculine (03:37). The crew pushes back on her comments and ponder the impact her ideas may have on other women, who may not be in the same position as her. They also discuss the trope of the strong, independent black woman, its root, and impact on today’s conversations. They also talk about the idea of being a bo...
2024-06-151h 54
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC303: LAW & disORDER: The Dream/Kanye Accused; Baby on the Way for Eboni K!On the third episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SMN Jones, Penny Finley, & Just J start by somewhat congratulating the employees at Revolt for gaining equity in the company from Diddy’s share, while also trying to discuss new allegations against the Diddler (03:52). From there, they discuss the allegations made against singer, songwriter, & super producer The Dreams by Chanaaz Mangroe (09:06). At the heart of the conversation is why women may take time before reporting, the implications for some if it’s criminal versus civil, the power dynamics at play, & why powerful men need to be more careful. The also discuss the...
2024-06-081h 56
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC302: Trump’s Trials to Vivica’s Tribulations; White Boy Wasted to Black Chick Dateless!In the second episode of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Mr. Finley and Mr. Brown delve into Donald Trump’s conviction on 34 counts, becoming the first president to be guilty of a felony, how that affects his ability to run and win, why his support among black people have grown and whether criminality plays a role. The group shifts gears and talk about black people traveling and moving abroad to places like Medellin, Costa Rica, looking for lower cost of living and higher quality of life. They also discuss the benefits of travel and broadening one’s horizons, as well...
2024-06-011h 38
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyBLC301: Diddy Exposed! Why there’s ’No Way Out’ for the Bad Boy turned Monster!In the first episode of season 3 of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Just J and Mr. Finley delve into the recent controversy surrounding P. Diddy. The episode begins with an analysis of Diddy's public apology video, exploring the hosts' varied reactions to his attempt at addressing the situation. The conversation takes a turn as they focus on the shocking video of Cassie Ventura being beaten in a hotel, reflecting on the impact of such graphic evidence and the shift that occurred amongst Diddy's allies and the public in general. The hosts then transition into a broader discussion on colorism...
2024-05-251h 41
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN112: Why Effective Communication is NEEDED & How #saidNICEly Came AboutOn the 12th episode of #saidNICEly, discover the power of effective communication. Nic Nice, aka Big Nic Energy, discusses the origin of #saidNICEly, shares his thoughts on crafting messages that resonate, and reaching people where they are. He also discusses how to engage in productive conversations and avoid misunderstandings, especially in this internet, social media age. Join the conversation and let's communicate respectfully! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, and all that good stuff!
2024-05-1504 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN111 (FULL): The UNBIASED Take on Kendrick/Drake Battle & 6 TAKEAWAYS for the Rest of UsOn this episode of #SaidNICEly, Nic calls the winner of the EPIC Kendrick Lamar vs. Drake rap battle, and the lessons or takeaways that we can glean from how it all played out. He discusses the real reasons behind the hate for Drake, how it came back to hurt him and why we should avoid creating new hater. He also talks about the importance of how the artists (or people) move before a battle or tough times, and the truth about objectivity in the music industry and those engaged in the conversation. For the second half of the conversation...
2024-05-1116 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN111: An OBJECTIVE Take on K. Dot vs. Drake & TAKEAWAYS for Us (Part 2)On the 11th episode of #SaidNICEly, and part 2 of the Take on Kendrick & Drake Rap Battle, Nic continues the takeaways starting with cautioning people against the Rush to Judgment, followed by how Strategy is King. He also provides a sixth and bonus takeaway, Silence is Golden. While the rap beef was interesting, Nic didn’t want to let this beef go to waste (Pause), without thinking about what we can learn from this experience. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share & all that good stuff!!!
2024-05-1108 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN110: Rare UNBIASED Take on Kendrick vs. Drake & 6 TAKEAWAYS for Us (Part 1)On the 10th episode of #SaidNICEly, Nic calls the winner of the EPIC Kendrick Lamar vs. Drake rap battle, and the lessons or takeaways that we can glean from how it all played out. He discusses the real reasons behind the hate for Drake, how it came back to hurt him and why we should avoid creating new hater. He also talks about the importance of how the artists (or people) move before a battle or tough times, and the truth about objectivity in the music industry and those engaged in the conversation. Stay tuned for Part 2 and don’t...
2024-05-1009 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN109: Drake vs. Kendrick Lamar Battle Breakdown #saidNICElyOn the ninth episode of #saidNICEly, Nic jumps into the fray with his opinions on the Drake vs Kendrick Lamar beef. He provides a timeline of things escalated between the two MCs after Drake and J. Cole dropped “First Person Shooter” and Kendrick followed up with a scathing rebuke of Drake (& maybe J. Cole caught a stray) on Future & Metro Boomin’s smash single “Like That”. Things quickly escalated from there and Nic gives his thoughts on who’s winning this war of words, if it’s living up to the hype & so much. Tune and tap in. Don’t forget to like...
2024-05-0509 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN107 (Full): Why Amanda Seales is A Narcissist using Autism to Avoid AccountabilityCheck out the full 3-part series of #saidNICEly, where Nic Nice discusses Amanda Seales after her Club Shay Shay interview, and why he thinks that she’s taken avoidance of accountability to the next level. In part 1, Nic addresses the response and backlash received after his previous episode on Amanda and from there gets into some of her problematic behavior. In part 2, Nic discusses & her avoidance of accountability as well as recent claims of an autism diagnosis and how he things she using that as an excuse. He also shows how she’s Pulling A Jussie by being “low-key noble”...
2024-05-0522 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN108: Pickmes & Why Women Should Cook, Clean, F--k & STFU!In the 8th episode, Nic explores a thought-provoking new rap song by China Monai that challenges the current music climate with artist like Sexyy Red & Glorilla. Her new single, I Cook, I Clean, upsets societal norms associated with modern women and offers a different perspective on love and submission. Join the discussion about the reactions and implications of this bold message. Tune in and don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, & share.
2024-05-0508 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN107: Amanda Seales: Is Narcissism (v. Autism) the Right Diagnosis? Pt. 3On episode 7 of #saidNICEly, Nic Nice concludes his 3-part series on Is Amanda Seales being “low-key noble”; using Autism for Sympathy & to Avoid Accountability? He delves into the controversial statements made by her and explore the blurred lines between criticism, empathy, and narcissism. Discover the impact of self-diagnosis and the dangers of falling for exploitation. Let's discuss the importance of accountability and the pitfalls of defending someone based solely on likability.
2024-04-3006 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN106: Exposing Amanda Seales’ Using Autism for Sympathy! Pt. 2In the 6th episode of #saidNICEly, Nic delves into part 2 of his series about Amanda Seales' & her avoidance of accountability as well as recent claims of autism as an excuse. He also shows how she’s Pulling A Jussie & being “low-key noble” by leaning on self-diagnosed autism for sympathy, similar to Jussie Smollett faking a hate crime for sympathy; which is confirmed by her own comments. We discuss the implications of her actions and explore the importance of empathy and real-world consequences. Part 2 of the series. Part 3 coming soon. Stay tuned. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and follow at the BL...
2024-04-2909 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN105: Is Amanda Seales using Autism to Avoid Accountability? Pt. 1In the fifth episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses Amanda Seales after her Club Shay Shay interview, and why he thinks that she’s taken avoidance of accountability to the next level. In the first part of a series, Nic addresses the response and backlash received after his previous episode on Amanda and from there gets into some of her problematic behavior. Part 2 coming soon. Stay tuned. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and follow at the BLC pod!
2024-04-2807 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN104: Why (BLACK) Businesses Need to Do Better re. Customer ServiceIn the fourth episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses the crucial role that customer service plays when it comes to of supporting Black-owned businesses. He shares personal experiences of encountering poor customer service and emphasizes the importance of businesses being receptive to feedback and making necessary improvements. The conversation also touches on the symbiotic relationship between customers and businesses, the role of efficiency in customer service, and the need for a mindset shift. Don't miss out on this insightful conversation! Tune in, turn up, & comment below. Also like, subscribe, follow, share, etc.
2024-04-2505 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN103: The Problem w/ the WNBA, Equal Pay ConversationIn the third episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses the pay disparity between the WNBA and NBA players, highlights the reasons behind the pay difference, including the number of games, revenue generation, and interest in the game. The conversation also touches on negotiation tactics and the importance of considering business considerations. Nic emphasizes the need for nuanced discussions and solutions to improve the WNBA and elevate the game. The episode concludes with a call to support and be a fan of the WNBA. Tune in, turn up, & comment below. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, etc.
2024-04-2506 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN102: Amanda Seales & lack of accountability, respectfully!In the second episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses the recent bruhaha around Amanda Seales after she wondered aloud why she wasn’t invited into black spaces. When several outlets attempted to answer that question for her, her support train jumped into action to defend her at all cost. But is Amanda Seales a victim of a hate train or is she someone who suffers from lack of self-awareness and accountability? Nic takes his turn in answering the question and the broader implications. Tune in, turn up, & comment below. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, etc.
2024-04-1609 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselySN101: Why J. Cole did the right thing by apologizingIn the premiere episode of #saidNICEly, Nic discusses J. Cole and the apology heard around the world! First Nic dispels the idea that Cole is scared of Kendrick, deep dives into who J. Cole is and has been, the pitfalls of rash decisions, friends influence on us, being a man and accountable. He concludes with the evolution of the game, uses Lebron and MJ as examples, what being a man is, how we judge being the GOAT, and why it’s time for all of us in the culture to evolve. Tune in and tune up! Comment below!
2024-04-1410 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyOSC Ep. 3: Cleared for TakeoffIn the third installment of off-season conversation, Nic Nice and SNM Jones have a blast from the past as they chop it up with a former Clubhouse guest Mr. Finley, an avid participant in "Black Women Need Love Too" and "Make Marriage Great Again" Clubhouses. As they reminisce on their Clubhouse connection and the evolution to today’s podcast, they get to know Mr. Finley aka “Penny” a bit more as he shares his experience with looking for love and finding it. They delve into his journey as a newly married man as he discussed dating woes, finding a compat...
2024-03-262h 00
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyHHE110: Fighting BackOn the season finale of @TheBLCPod: His and Hers Edition, Nic Nice shares how he’s teaching his son to fight back in daycare and SNM Jones comments on overextending herself (0:53). In Quick Takes, Nic discusses Clay’s reaction to the internet hate he received after the airing of the “Love is Blind” reunion (10:48), SNM reacts to Draya’s claims of depression after being shamed for getting pregnant by 22-year-old Jalen Green (12:45), Nic comments on Simon Guobadia’s post-divorce announcement behavior while SNM calls out Lil Scrappy’s spitefulness (14:13). Wrapping up Quick Takes, Nic explores the reasoning behind Dame’s willingness to...
2024-03-191h 41
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyHHE109: Throwin’ ShadeOn this week’s episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic Nice and SNM Jones engage in banter pertaining to Tyler Perry’s movie, “Mea Culpa” featuring Kelly Rowland (0:52). In Quick Takes, they discuss a recent interview by Usher’s mom and rumors about Usher and Russell Simmons (12:57), Draya confirms that she’s pregnant by 22-year-old Jalen Green (17:50), Tia Mowry and Cory Hardrict’s awkward red-carpet moment (21:17), Christina Mackay and Rick Ross splitting up (23:39), and Natalie Nunn exposed for cheating on her husband (28:41). The hosts then delve into the Main Topics, starting with Mike Epps vowing to treat women better and his apology to his...
2024-03-121h 25
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyHHE108: Wash, Rinse, RepeatOn the 8th episode of @TheBLCPod: His & Hers Edition, Nic Nice and SNM Jones engage in lively banter from appearing manly while drinking through a straw to SNM self-reflection on Bantu Knots. They jokingly highlight a clip that indicates that only 2.7% of podcasts aren't toxic, positioning @TheBLCpod among this elite group (0:51). In Quick Takes, they revisit the drama surrounding Reesa Teesa's "Who TF Did I Marry" (8:40), Porsha Williams (RHOA) requesting the court enforce her prenup (11:16), Diddy accused of sexual assault by Lil Rod (13:54), Princess Love and Ray J’s divorce announcement (17:30), and Cameron Newton getting jumped at his own ch...
2024-03-051h 23
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyHHE107: Love Is BlindOn this week's episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic Nice and SNM Jones provide an unexpected history lesson on watermelons. Nic Nice also shares a heartwarming father-son moment of his son's first haircut, while SNM gives commentary on her recent attendance at a 90s concert featuring Monica (0:54). They start with Quick Takes, highlighting Beyoncé single debuting as #1 on the Country Music charts and her impact on the genre; (9:56), Monica’s BBL accusations (13:38), Tiffany Haddish’s trip to Israel (17:37), Trump’s Golden High Tops (19:57), and Scrappy professing his love for Erica Dixon and being petty towards his ex-wife Bambi (23:57). The hosts then delve i...
2024-02-271h 33
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyHHE106: Caught UpOn the sixth episode of @TheBLCPod: His & Hers Edition, hosts Nic Nice and SNM Jones engage in banter about Valentine's Day and explore the concept of frenemies (1:40). They then move on to quick takes, covering the short-lived beef between Shannon Sharpe and Mike Epps (14:28), the split between Larsa Pippen and Marcus Jordan (16:20), Rachel Dolezal's dismissal due to her having an OnlyFans account (17:37), Fani Willis taking the stand (19:58), Diamond from Crime Mob's engagement news (22:38), Christina Mackay's mishap with Hamburger Helper (25:55), and Beyoncé's release of two new country music songs (29:27). The hosts delve into the main topics, beginning with Usher a...
2024-02-201h 29
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyHHE105: Simpin’ Ain’t EasyOn this week's episode of @TheBLCPod, hosts Nic Nice and SNM recognizes Black History month, while Nic reveals a dark side to Disney’s Moana (01:15), before jumping into quick takes: Spanish artist marrying a holographic image of a man (08:30), congratulating Eddie Murphy’s son, Eric, on his engagement to Martin Lawrence’s daughter, Jasmin (09:38), Sexyy Red’s latest video and baby drop (10:50), Drake’s leaked masturbation video (13:24), Monique’s going in on everybody during her interview with Shannon Sharpe (17:40), and the latest accusations against Jonathan Majors (24:35). The hosts delve into main topics highlighting Jay-Z’s Grammy award and his speech pertain...
2024-02-131h 39
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyHHE104: Role ReversalOn this week's episode of the His & Hers edition of @TheBLCPod, Nic Nice and SNM Jones reflect on audience feedback, with Nic addressing those calling him a "simp" (1:15), then jump into Quick Takes including Nicki Minaj's response to Meg Thee Stallion's new record, "Hiss" (8:15), the R&B feud and fight between Jacquees and Trey Songz (9:25), a debate on Taylor Swift vs. Beyoncé's influence (11:05), the cancellation of Issa Rae's "Rap " (16:14), and California's reparations proposal (24:35). For the Main Topics, the hosts delve into Gayle King's revelation that she loaned an ex-boyfriend $4k (30:00), Fani Willis' office romance with special prosecutor, Nathan W...
2024-02-061h 42
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyHHE103: ToxiqueOn this week's episode of @TheBLCPod His & Hers Edition, Nic Nice and SNM Jones catch up on their week's activities, including SNM's recovery from illness after a conference, the disappearance of COVID, and Nic's use of hate for motivation (1:10). They discuss Meg Thee Stallion's new record "Hiss" (5:23), Kountry Wayne's interview on Club Shay Shay, where he discusses his ex, Jess Hilarious, and her incessant need to keep his name in her mouth (8:02), Tia Kemp's accusations against Keyshia Ka’Oir (10:19), and Dave Chappelle's comments on Katt Williams (13:11). The hosts dive into their main topics, kicking it off with a conversation ab...
2024-01-301h 18
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyHHE102: Tongue-In-Cheek(s)In the second episode of @TheBLCPod His & Hers Edition, Nic and SNM engage in pre-show banter highlighting the necessity of the disclaimer; returning to work; and diving into an exploration of the term "Karen," warning signs, and how the term has become ubiquitous (6:07). They offer quick congratulations to Pharrell for becoming the Men’s Creative Director for Louis Vuitton and his Timberlands collaboration (13:01), discuss P. Diddy's lawsuit settlement with Diageo and his Grammy’s invitation rescission (15:58), analyze Tim Scott's endorsement of Trump (20:24), and share insights on Jerod Mayo, the first Black coach of the New England Patriots, and his appr...
2024-01-231h 39
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyHHE101: UnapologeticOn the premiere episode of @TheBLCPod: His & Hers edition, SNM Jones and Nic Nice take a moment to reflect over the holiday break, discuss their New Year’s resolutions, the origin of their relationship, and the launching of the His & Hers edition of the Black Lives Chatter Podcast. They start off the show giving their take on the Katt Williams’ interview with Shannon Sharpe/Club Shay Shay (13:52), before shifting gears to discuss Jonathan Majors being convicted on two charges related to domestic violence, and Meagan Good's role as his girlfriend (23:18). Nic and SNM dive into “The Prize'' conversation triggered by a c...
2024-01-161h 26
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyOSC Ep. 2: When They Go LowIn the second & final installment of off-season conversations, Nic & S.N.M. start with their appreciation & enjoyment of the disclaimer, followed by S.N.M. kicking off Sagittarius season with her birthday coming up & celebrating at a Swinger’s Club. After acknowledging J’s absence, & a brief discussion of whether this episode was considered a pop-up, they dive into the topics, starting with Jonathan Major’s ex stating that he wanted her, a white woman, to emulate Michelle Obama & Coretta Scott King. They talk about recent revelations or allegations regarding Jeannie Mai & Jeezy’s divorce involving infidelity & gatekeeping, TJ Holmes...
2023-12-0750 min
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyOSC Ep. 1: Rush To JudgmentIn the first off-season conversation, the BLC crew admit to having withdrawal in talking their talk since the season ended. They talk about their Thanksgiving experience with J admitting to having the worst tasting Turkey Day ever, SNM having two Thanksgiving meals, and Nic having a quiet holiday at home. They give updates on topics that they’ve discussed before like Angela Simmons and Yo Gotti still going strong, and Tamar Braxton being spotted with her old bae. J recalls the story about Snoop giving up smoke and him following suit, but for real. They discuss updates regarding Diddy an...
2023-11-301h 18
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 12: Where There’s SmokeThe episode begins with a little pre-show banter. (1:00) Nic blames his wife and daycare-attending son for being sick while trying to produce the final episode of Season 1. Nic is also sick of Kisha Chavis’s continual disrespect for her husband, Joe Smith. (2:30) SNM reflects on Tim Scott’s sudden departure from the presidential race. (3:30) J mentions the first black-owned sperm bank but tells Tim Scott his services won’t be needed. Following the intro, (6:50) the crew talks about their week including SNM attending a conference for women veterans, J trying to recover from disappointments in Houston, and Nic reminding black...
2023-11-211h 44
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 11: Believe it or not!On the eleventh episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, SNM, and Just J start with pre-show banter about SNM's dismal record with mispronouncing people's names, a light-hearted conversation about a clip featuring a Blood gang member's inability to use the letter C ( the BLCPod crew has no gang affiliation), and the need to retire the word "pause". They ponder the need to add more to the disclaimer at the start of the show (4:22). Following Nic's suggestion, the crew watched the Milli Vanilli documentary and gave their thoughts on what they learned (5:04), as well as whether they would take $500,00 a year to...
2023-11-142h 19
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 10: High Value Man?On the tenth episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, SNM, and Just J discuss the new and improved disclaimer. Ironically, the new disclaimer was so long that the portion telling viewers and listeners to Like, Subscribe, and Follow (a throw-back to last week's pre-pod chatter) had to be cut. Meanwhile, the crew is still searching for their 'intro phrase'. They start the show (4:40) celebrating their 10th episode before recapping their week, which includes Just J's first time trying fully immersive VR, SNM picking up a side-gig as a book reviewer only to discover it was too time-consuming, Nic celebrating his birthday...
2023-11-072h 05
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 9: PauseOn the ninth episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, SNM, & Just J discuss the progress of gaining likes, subscribers, & followers before trying to figure out a better way to start the show. They start the show (03:04) recapping their week, which includes Just J's experience with shrooms, SNM cooking for her dog more than her husband, & Nic discussing the joys (& cost) of parenthood. For the first topic, they get into Cesar Pina's IG live video addressing his allegations, while trying to defend DJ Envy (12:43), followed by Tyrese responding to his ex, Samantha Lee, after she made comments about people being in her...
2023-10-312h 26
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 8: Like, Subscribe and FollowOn the eighth episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, S.N.M., and Just J admit to their shortcomings regarding likes, subscriptions and follows, but are still excited about the new disclaimer (w/ logo), before starting the show (03:41). They dive into the conversation starting with the conflict in the Middle East between Israel and Palestine, and US involvement (10:30), before reacting to Will Smith comments at Jada Pinkett Smith's Baltimore book store appearance (23:40). They react to Jeezy's recent public statement regarding his divorce from Jeannie Mai (36:00), before getting into Taye Diggs' ex-wife, Idina Menzel, and her comments about how race played a role...
2023-10-232h 27
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 7: For Entertainment Purposes OnlyOn the seventh episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, S.N.M., & Just J are excited about the new disclaimer, before starting the show (02:38). They dive into Hot Topics with comments from DJ Vlad & whether celebrities are obligated to speak out (11:43), followed by an update on Carlee Russell (19:37). After discussing the newly proposed Ebony alert in California (21:58), we get an update on Jeannie Mai dealing with her divorce (29:34), discuss Tia Mowry & her dating woes (33:48), & end with Jada Pinkett-Smith's recent press run & revelations (41:20).For the main conversation, the crew tackle whether women who act like Jada (or ____) are the reason some men are...
2023-10-171h 44
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 6: It’s Giving ElitismOn the sixth episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, S.N.M., & Just J start with their weekly recap and lament the state of affairs in customer service (04:56). They dove into Hot Topics talking about Tamar Braxton's recent split (10:50) and whether Terrell Owens blames black women for why he dates white women (16:33). They also talked about Sexxy Red and her recently leaked tape as well as her comments about Trump (28.24). After talking about Drake's new album and his clapback at Joe's Budden's criticism (39:37), they reacted to the new AI-generated Tupac song dissing Keefe D (46:31), and gave their thoughts on the Waffle...
2023-10-102h 21
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 5: It Takes A VillageOn the fifth episode of @TheBLCPod, Nic, S.N.M., & Just J start with how their week went & the joys of getting older. They kick off hot topics discussing the recent arrest in the Tupac Shakur murder case. Nic & J get into a heated discussion about Birttany Renner, body counts & whether 35 is a high number. They follow that conversation with Draya standing on her belief that a woman can delete their hoeness, Eboni K agreeing with Nic, & Usher performing at the SuperBowl. For the main conversation, the gang discusses why when it comes to dating & relationships conversations on social media...
2023-10-031h 50
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 4: Breakups & Body CountsOn the fourth episode of The Black Lives Chatter Podcast, Nic, S.N.M., & Just J had even more to say. After catching up and Nic responding to a commenter, the crew got straight into it with Anthony Anderson's recent divorce settlement, followed by how Teyana Taylor showed up for soon-to-be (?) ex, Iman Shumpert, and an update of what's going on with Jeannie Mai and Jeezy. After that they talked about Danny Masterson's wife filing for divorce shortly after his sentencing, they ended Hot Topics with what's going on with Remy Ma, Papoose and EZ The Block Captain. Inspired...
2023-09-261h 50
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 3: Love You Long Time?On the third episode of The Black Lives Chatter Podcast, Nic, S.N.M., & J had a lot to talk about. After exchanging not so pleasant pleasantries, LOL, they got right into Hot Topics and started with the DJ Envy and Tyrese beef involving DJ Envy's wife, Gia. Speaking of relationships, they also touched on the news of Jeezy filing for divorce from Jeannie Mai after two years of marriage. After talking about how Jonathan Majors "allegedly" stopped two girls from fighting (on camera), they talked about the Deion Sanders effect on Colorado University and college football as a...
2023-09-191h 29
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 2: Damaged Goods?On the second episode of The Black Lives Chatter Podcast, Nic, S.N.M., & J had a lot to say. After exchanging pleasantries, they got right into Hot Topics with the recent updates on Clubhouse, the social audio app that they started on. They followed that up with a hard-hitting conversation about Brickgate, the backlash Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis received for their support of Danny Masterson, Chrisean and Blueface, & the start of the NFL season. Inspired by the social media chatter around Angela Simmons and Yo Gotti's relationship, the crew delved into the main conversation regarding issues that some...
2023-09-131h 43
The BLC Pod #BetterListenCloselyEp. 1: Love & Hip-ocrisyOn the premiere episode of The Black Lives Chatter Podcast, after a few minutes of preshow banter, Nic, S.N.M. & Just J introduce themselves & why they decided to do this podcast. During hot topics, they discussed Erica Mena & her fallout with Spice on Love & Hip-Hop Atlanta, Deion Sanders' big win over TCU, the premiere of The Golden Bachelor, & Donald Trump raising money after his indictment. For the main discussion, Love & Hip-ocrisy: How social media affects us & our relationships, the crew opines about how social media affects how we view & relate to each other & how that affects our relationships. Tune...
2023-09-061h 19