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Becky Aste
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Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
When Your Body Holds What Words Can't Say
I recently had the honor of being interviewed by Jessica Hoogendoorn in her wellness community, and this conversation touched me deeply—it was my first appointment after my mom passed. In this episode, I'm sharing how somatic healing helped me rescue my marriage, regulate my nervous system, and finally learn to speak my truth in a way that healed even my physical body. If you've tried everything and still feel stuck, this might be the missing piece. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why 93% of communication is nonverbal and how your nervous system affects every conversation ➡️ The connection between thro...
2025-12-19
28 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Loss That Cracks Us Open: A Three-Way Conversation on the Grief We Didn’t Choose
I'm grieving right alongside so many of you this holiday season, and this raw conversation with two of my closest friends felt like the only thing that made sense to share right now. We gathered in Palm Springs - Julie processing her divorce anniversary, Erin navigating waves of grief from losing both parents, and me just days after my mom's passing. What unfolded was exactly what we needed: permission to crash out, laugh through tears, and hold space for whatever showed up. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How grief shows up differently in each of our bodies and wh...
2025-12-12
36 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
A Conversation With My Mom: A Time-Capsule of Love, Memory, and Legacy
This is the most meaningful episode I will ever release. Recorded years ago - shortly after my mom’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis - this conversation was meant to be a time capsule, a tribute to her life and to our relationship. My mom, Diane Lesage, passed away this past Sunday at the age of 75 - and it finally feels like the right moment to share her voice, her stories, and her heart with the world. My mom only needed 30 seconds with you for you to never forget her. Anyone who met her remembers her radi...
2025-12-05
31 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Feminine Frequency- Making Life Delicious Again with Almira Bardai
In this week's episode, I'm joined by my dear friend Almira Bardai, a high-frequency mentor and founder of Ascension Sanctuary, to explore what it truly means to reclaim the divine feminine after years of survival mode and masculine hustle. We dive deep into her journey from building a seven-figure business to spending a year binge-watching TV as her body demanded rest, and how that surrender became the portal to her greatest work. This conversation is an invitation to remember that your softness is your superpower and that ascending doesn't require more doing, it requires coming home to yourself.
2025-11-28
29 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Trust, Trauma + Trying Again
I just wrapped up my powerful masterclass "Trust, Trauma, and Trying Again," and this episode gives you a taste of what went down through clips from our two transformative days together. You'll hear from me along with my mentors Kelly Brock and Julie Brumley as we dive deep into building energetic self-trust, understanding the neuroscience of trust through hormones like oxytocin and dopamine, and learning how tiny imperceptible shifts can completely change your relationship with yourself and your partner. The masterclass explored everything from recognizing when your body is telling you the truth to that "Premier League Woman" energy...
2025-11-21
27 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
BONUS REPLAY: The Universal, Savage Cycle of Shame
This week’s episode is all about shame. It’s universal—we all experience it—and it can become a savage cycle that affects our relationships, our self-worth, and how we show up in the world. In this episode, I’m diving deep into what shame really is, how it functions, and what you can do to break the cycle and start practicing radical empathy, both for yourself and others. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ What shame is and how it operates in the body ➡️ The difference between shame and guilt ➡️ Und...
2025-11-14
45 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Too Late, Too Old, Too Far Behind: Unraveling the Timeline Lie
In this episode, Noelle Kustas and I are digging into a topic that so many women struggle with: the fear that we've somehow missed our window. Noelle's story of leaving a 20-year teaching career, surviving an abusive marriage, and finding love again in her late thirties proves that our greatest transformations often happen when we think it's "too late." We explore how the unraveling process, though terrifying, is actually the gateway to discovering who we really are beneath all the roles we've played. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Breaking free from the timeline lie that says y...
2025-11-07
35 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Visibility Wound: Why So Many Women Still Fear Being Seen
I had a beautiful conversation with Amanda Wilson-Ciocci about overcoming the fear of visibility, finding your voice, and creating meaningful impact in the world. Her journey from thyroid cancer survivor to empowering visionary entrepreneurs is remarkable, and she shares powerful insights about breaking free from people-pleasing patterns and stepping into authentic expression. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The deep connection between physical health and suppressed truth (Amanda's thyroid cancer story and what it taught her about speaking up) ➡️ Why vulnerability and old conditioning keep so many women from being seen and heard ➡️ The difference between humility and invisibility—a...
2025-10-31
34 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
When Science Isn’t Enough and Spirituality Doesn’t Feel Safe
In this episode, I sit down with Seattle-based holistic therapist Casey Stevens to explore how blending traditional psychology with ancient energy practices opens doors that science alone can't reach. We dive into why Western psychology's labels and linear methods can feel claustrophobic, how spirituality offers the expansive freedom our healing requires, and what to do when religious trauma makes the word "God" itself triggering. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The limitations of Western psychology and what spirituality uniquely offers in the healing journey ➡️ Rebuilding trust with deeper connection after religious trauma or spiritual injury ➡️ Why nervous system...
2025-10-24
52 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
When Trust Breaks: How to Find Your Way Back to Each Other
In this episode, I dive deep into one of the most fragile and precious elements of any relationship: trust. Trust feels harder to come by than ever in 2025, and when it's broken in a relationship, the typical advice (endless talking, couples therapy, or trying to control your partner's behavior) often leaves us spinning our wheels or feeling even more traumatized. I'm sharing the somatic approach that actually works to repair trust after betrayal, including a powerful real-life example from a client who used these exact tools to shift the dynamic in her marriage. ✨ Topics Co...
2025-10-17
32 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Nervous System of Wealth + Dissolving Shame with Debt
I'm thrilled to catch up with Kelly Brock again! After hitting rock bottom with an adrenal crash and losing everything she'd built, Kelly spent two years in what we call a "soul sabbatical," completely stepping away from business to heal and understand the cycles that led to her burnout. Now she's back with hard-won wisdom about money, nervous system regulation, and building sustainable success that doesn't cost you your peace. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why understanding business seasons (spring, summer, fall, winter) is essential to avoiding burnout and financial collapse ➡️ How Kelly's encounter with money expe...
2025-10-10
52 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
What Human Design Reveals About Your Health
In this powerful conversation with Hope Pedraza, we explore the intersection of physical health, energy work, and human design, diving deep into how our bodies hold the keys to transformation when we stop compartmentalizing ourselves. Hope shares her quantum healing approach that addresses body, mind, and spirit as one interconnected system, revealing why your chronic symptoms might be pointing to patterns far deeper than what conventional medicine can see. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Understanding quantum healing and why we can't separate physical symptoms from emotional and energetic patterns ➡️ How human design reveals your energetic blueprint...
2025-10-03
39 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
To Dye For: The Sneaky, Shocking Truth of Synthetic Food Dyes
Today I'm diving deep into the hidden world of synthetic food dyes with filmmakers Brandon and Whitney Cawood, whose personal journey from desperate parents to documentary creators has sparked a nationwide movement. We're exploring how these petroleum-derived chemicals might be affecting our children's behavior, the shocking differences between American and European food standards, and practical steps you can take to protect your family. Their story reveals how one family's crisis became a catalyst for change that's now influencing legislation across multiple states. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How synthetic dyes transformed their son from aggressive to easygoing in 48...
2025-09-26
58 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Miracle of the Messiest Marriages
I had this mind-blowing revelation while reading the virgin birth story about how Jesus came from what might be the messiest start to a marriage anyone could imagine. It got me thinking about my own journey from picture-perfect beginnings to a decade of struggle that nearly destroyed everything, and how that pain became the foundation for everything meaningful in my life today. This episode is about surrendering the small teddy bear for the giant one you can't see yet, and why your messiest chapters might actually be your most sacred. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How the world...
2025-09-19
29 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Scripture Before Systems: A Faith-First Framework to Fortune + Freedom
Justin Buonomo is back on this week for a refreshingly honest conversation about the intersection of faith, finances, and entrepreneurship. We dive deep into the personal limiting beliefs that nearly derailed his success, explore how to discern when struggles are meant to refine us versus redirect us, and discuss the practical rhythms that help him balance a seven-figure business with being present for his family. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Overcoming the limiting belief that you can control outcomes in entrepreneurship ➡️ Distinguishing between divine discomfort and lack of alignment when facing struggles ➡️ Why r...
2025-09-12
42 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The First Imprint: Healing Birth, Body & Attachment at Any Age
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jacey Goddard to explore how our very first moments of life can shape our relationships and nervous system patterns for decades to come. We dive deep into the often-overlooked connection between birth experiences and adult attachment styles, revealing how physical tension from birth can manifest as relationship challenges, anxiety, and difficulty with emotional regulation. Dr. Goddard shares her unique approach to healing that empowers people to rewire their own nervous systems through simple, practical techniques that can be used anywhere, anytime. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How birth experiences (too fa...
2025-09-05
42 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Redefining Masculinity: Raising Confident, Emotionally Intelligent Young Men
In this episode, I sit down with Nathan Francis, a former teacher turned young men's mentor, who shares his raw journey from a decade of partying and self-destructive behavior to finding his purpose in helping teenagers navigate the challenges of modern masculinity. We dive deep into the biggest issue facing young men today - pornography addiction - and explore how parents can create safe spaces for vulnerable conversations with their sons. Nathan's story is a powerful reminder that our darkest moments can become the foundation for our greatest purpose. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How Nathan...
2025-08-29
48 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Psychedelic Paradox: Healing or Hype?
In this episode, I sit down with former lawyer turned psychedelic facilitator Julie Hagen to explore the world of psilocybin microdosing and its potential for healing anxiety, depression, and trauma. We dive deep into the myths and realities surrounding psychedelics, examining whether they're truly transformative medicine or just another wellness trend. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ What psilocybin actually is and how microdosing differs from "tripping" - including safe dosages and what to expect ➡️ The connection between somatic processing and psychedelics for trauma healing without re-traumatization ➡️ Why intention setting matters and how to approac...
2025-08-22
51 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Voices in Your Head Aren’t Crazy—They’re Clues to Your Healing
Kyle Spears is back on the podcast and we're diving deep into parts work - exploring how the different voices in your head aren't something to fear, but actually roadmaps to your deepest healing. If you've ever wondered why you have different parts inside of you (think Inside Out the movie), this conversation will blow your mind. Kyle even walks me through a live parts work session on the podcast - it gets real, vulnerable, and incredibly healing as you witness firsthand how parts work can transform shame into compassion. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ What p...
2025-08-08
49 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Cheating, Jesus + The Coldplay Scandal
I knew this conversation with Kristina would be tender, heavy, and potentially triggering - but also desperately needed. We're diving into a topic that's rarely discussed from this perspective: what it's like to be the woman who steps outside of her marriage. Kristina courageously shares her seven-year journey through an affair, the crushing weight of shame that followed, and how she ultimately found healing through radical honesty and somatic work. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The snowball effect: how disconnection, miscarriages, and unmet emotional needs created the perfect storm for infidelity ➡️ How shame manifests...
2025-07-25
54 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Ancient Roots, Modern Rhythm: Ayurveda for Today's Woman
This conversation felt like an exhale—an invitation to reconnect with your body, your rhythm, and the ancestral wisdom that’s been here all along. Harmony Robinson-Stagg brings almost two decades of experience in Ayurveda, Traditional Chinese Medicine, and Western health to help us remember: the way forward is through remembering what we already know. We talk about hormonal harmony, business building, and how ancient practices can support modern women in leadership, motherhood, and nervous system healing. Whether you’re new to Ayurveda or craving a deeper integration, this one will leave you feeling grounded and lit up. ...
2025-07-18
47 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Healing Myths Keeping You Stuck - And What Actually Works
Let’s talk about the sneaky, shiny distractions of the healing world and how they might actually be keeping you from real transformation. In this conversation with Keri Ford, we unpack the myths that masquerade as healing (hello breathwork addiction, spiritual bypassing, and the pressure to “manifest better”). Keri shares what it actually means to do nervous system healing in a sustainable, embodied way, without outsourcing your power or numbing with wellness tools. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things and still not feeling better, this one is for you. ✨ To...
2025-07-11
36 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Divorce as Divine Timing: Finding Yourself Beyond the Breakup
When I say this conversation is real, raw, and deeply restorative—I mean it. Alex Long returns to the podcast to pull back the curtain on her personal journey through divorce, not as a defeat but as a doorway. As a client in the Root to Rise program, Alex did the deep nervous system and somatic work to move from confusion to clarity, from grasping to grounded. Together, we explore what it means to stay too long, to trust your body’s wisdom, and to do the hard work of becoming someone you deeply respect. This is a masterclass in s...
2025-07-04
53 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Truth About Self-Sabotage—And How to Break Free
If you’ve ever felt stuck, knowing what you want but struggling to follow through, you are not alone. In this conversation with Master Certified Coach Trista Guertin, we explore the deeper reasons behind self-sabotage, why it’s not a personal flaw, and how to begin gently moving forward. With a compassionate lens and practical tools, we talk about building emotional resilience, understanding your nervous system, and creating lasting change from a place of self-trust. This episode is a safe space to release shame, reconnect with your inner wisdom, and remember that growth is possible—even in the smallest steps...
2025-06-27
40 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Pretty Hands Hard Punches: Self Defense and Safety for Women
Today I'm joined by Elicia Ybarra to tackle one of the most important—and often overlooked—conversations around self-defense and safety for women. Elicia shares her deeply personal story of resilience, healing, and how Pretty Hands, Hard Punches was born out of her own lived experience. We dig into the myths and misconceptions about self-defense, why boundaries are the cornerstone of safety, and how physical, emotional, and mental self-protection all go hand-in-hand. Whether you’ve personally faced abuse, want to feel more empowered, or are raising daughters and wondering how to keep them safe without living in constant fear, this c...
2025-06-13
51 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Art of Being Seen In Love + Business
In this episode, I’m talking with the brilliant Jessica Papineau, and we’re diving into what it really means to feel confident in your own skin... and in your closet. Jessica shares how our clothing choices are often tied to deep internal beliefs, and how transforming your wardrobe can actually transform your mindset. We explore how body image, identity, and even trauma show up in what we wear and how we shop. This conversation is packed with permission, encouragement, and zero pressure to become someone you’re not. If you’ve ever felt frustrated staring at your closet or wonde...
2025-06-06
55 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
113: Getting Out of the Crazy Cycle
This week, I’m joined by the wise and grounded Jenni Rae for a conversation that’s going to hit home for so many of us—how to break free from the crazy cycle in relationships. You know the one: where the more we try to protect ourselves, the more disconnected and misunderstood we feel. Jenni shares her story of rebuilding after the loss of a child sent ripple effects of trauma that lasted years and nearly ended her marriage...and how recognizing her own patterns helped her stop reacting from fear and start leading with curiosity. We talk about...
2025-05-30
50 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Relationship Anxiety: What If Doubt Isn’t a Red Flag?
In this episode, I’m joined by the amazing Sarah Yudkin, and we’re pulling back the curtain on relationship anxiety: what it is, how it shows up, and why your doubt might not be a red flag after all. Sarah shares her personal story of spiraling uncertainty before getting engaged, and how self-compassion and nervous system safety helped her build deeper connection and clarity. Together, we explore how mainstream ideas about “just knowing” or waiting until you fully love yourself can actually get in the way of authentic partnership. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why relationship d...
2025-05-23
45 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Somatic Strength & Sanity When the World Seems Scary
Cultivating Safety Amidst Turbulence: Practical Somatic Tools with Becky In this episode, I share tangible, practical ways to create safety in your mind and nervous system during turbulent personal and political times. With so much collective fear and uncertainty, I invite you to root deeper into your somatic, spiritual, and subconscious safety than ever before. Join me as we cultivate somatic strength and sanity when the world feels scary. ✨ What We Cover In This Episode ➡️ Practical strategies to foster nervous system safety ➡️ Navigating fear and uncertainty with somatic awareness ➡️ Deep...
2025-02-14
28 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Can I Love God & My Gay Son Too?
A Mother’s Reckoning: Love, Loss & Repair with Linda Robertson This week, my guest is Linda Robertson. In 2013, Linda wrote a viral essay called Just Because He Breathes about her own role in the death of her gay son, Ryan. Since then, she’s dedicated herself to deep emotional repair — learning from her past, making meaning of it, and helping other parents do the same. ✨ What We Cover In This Episode ➡️ How Linda began to unpack the impact of her beliefs on her son ➡️ The journey of emotional repair and meaning-making a...
2024-08-02
1h 09
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
It Gets to Be This Good: Anchoring in the Gold
Moving Trauma Through the Body: Reflections on The Kite Runner & The Body Keeps the Score I’ve been reading recently — which, for me, hasn’t always been a big hobby. I picked up The Kite Runner for the first time since high school and The Body Keeps the Score again after over a year. These two books share a powerful alignment about the importance of moving trauma through the body. ✨ What We Cover In This Episode ➡️ Understanding negativity bias and its impact ➡️ The role of proprioception in healing trauma ➡️ Embracing v...
2024-07-26
38 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Intimacy Blocks, Emotional Intelligence, and the Nervous System
Healing Intimacy Blocks with Katherine Smailis My guest today is Katherine Smailis, a Holistic Therapist (OTR/L) and consultant for high-performing professionals and business owners. Katherine blends Western medicine with holistic healing, integrating science and spirituality. She specializes in emotional intelligence and nervous system work, with a deep focus on intimacy. ✨ What We Cover In This Episode ➡️ Understanding intimacy blocks in marriage ➡️ Where intimacy blocks come from and how to approach them ➡️ Processing and releasing trauma behind intimacy challenges ➡️ Managing life transitions with somatic practices ➡️ Building self...
2024-07-19
38 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Fully Healing the Mind Body Connection
Healing Trauma Through Mind-Body Connection with Melissa Armstrong My guest today is Melissa Armstrong, a nurse turned Trauma-Informed Functional Health Coach. Melissa specializes in helping women heal personal and intergenerational trauma by addressing the mind-body-spirit connection. She uses functional medicine lab testing, somatic practices, and lifestyle changes to support lasting healing. ✨ What We Cover In This Episode ➡️ How trauma impacts physical health and wellness ➡️ The mind-body connection in trauma healing ➡️ Using functional medicine and somatic practices to restore balance ➡️ Overcoming intergenerational trauma ➡️ Practical lifestyle modifications for holistic healing
2024-07-12
38 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Signs, Somatics & Soothing Death Anxiety
Healing Childhood Trauma & Death Anxiety with Tasleem Jessani Today, Tasleem and I are diving into childhood trauma, death anxiety, and parenting through a somatic lens. We each share our personal healing journeys and explore how we’re creating safety and connection in our lives today. About Tasleem Tasleem Jessani is a Clinical Hypnotherapist and Leadership Coach with over a decade of experience supporting female leaders. She blends hypnotherapy and coaching to help women overcome self-doubt, find their authentic leadership style, and manifest the success they deserve. ...
2024-07-05
38 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Decoding Your Marriage through Attachment Theory
Healing Anxious Attachment with Valerie Rubin My guest today is Valerie Rubin, a licensed Rapid Transformational Therapist and Anxiety Mindset coach. Valerie helps people heal anxious attachment, abandonment fears, and cultivate worthiness from the inside out. Using somatic therapy and hypnotherapy, she guides trauma to move through the body. Her heart’s desire is for women to become securely attached, embody that securely, and ultimately trust themselves and the world around them. ✨ What We Cover In This Episode ➡️ A foundational breakdown of attachment theory and styles ➡️ How anxious attachment shows up and impac...
2024-06-28
39 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Presence: The Portal to Your Purpose
Your Purpose Is Found in Your Presence In today’s episode, I’m sharing a heartfelt reminder that whatever struggles you’re going through right now, they are part of your metamorphosis. These challenges serve a purpose — helping you grow into the person you’re meant to be and preparing you to impact the world in your unique way. ✨ What You’ll Take Away From This Episode ➡️ How presence connects you to your true purpose ➡️ Embracing struggles as essential parts of growth ➡️ Seeing your challenges as stepping stones for transformation
2024-06-21
33 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Trauma Behind Reality TV with Love is Blind Star Kelly Chase
From Reality TV to Real Empowerment: Kelly Chase on Confidence & Coaching This week, I’m thrilled to introduce you to my friend Kelly Chase — entrepreneur, influencer, speaker, and former Love is Blind star. Audiences around the world fell in love with Kelly’s genuine personality, but she’s so much more than a reality TV star. Kelly is the founder of Goddess Magic, a coaching program that blends business strategy, mindset, and relationship coaching to help women step into their power, boost confidence, and master their self-worth to create the life they crave.
2024-06-14
1h 02
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
How to Make More, Work Less + Nail Your Online Dating Game
Scaling Income Without Hustle: Chatting with James Allen Today my guest is James Allen, an online coach who helps content creators build automated and scalable income streams—so they can ditch the hustle and grind and reclaim their time. Starting out as a productivity coach, James became obsessed with working fewer hours while growing income, which led him to master passive income through digital products. ✨ What We Cover in This Episode ➡️ Moving from hustle culture to freedom and fulfillment ➡️ Creating passive income with digital products ➡️ Turning your knowledge...
2024-06-07
44 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
From Pain to Power with Pornography: Client Breakthrough Spotlight
Beverly’s Journey: Healing Marital Struggles Through Somatic Work My guest this week is a cherished client who’s decided to courageously share her name and story publicly. When Beverly and I first met, she and her husband were struggling and keeping their marital challenges under wraps. Though skeptical at first about somatic practices, Beverly soon felt a profound shift in her life—and her husband became a believer, too. Now, he’s part of our men’s program, and together they’re passionate advocates for healing trauma through somatic work. ✨ What You’ll Hear In...
2024-05-31
30 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
When Life Feels Upside Down, Get Grounded
When Your World Feels Upside Down: Living with Grief and Loss Today, I’m sharing a very intimate and vulnerable episode with you. My mom has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and is now in hospice care. This experience feels like 1,000 cuts, turning my whole life upside down. I’ve been feeling lost and unsettled, but saying it out loud helps me take the first steps toward grounding. ✨ What You’ll Hear In This Episode ➡️ The raw reality of living with grief and chronic loss ➡️ How admitting your feelings can begin...
2024-05-24
34 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Complex PTSD, Somatics + Psychadelics with Matthew Bruce
From Special Forces to Somatic Healing with Matthew Bruce This episode is a special one. I’m joined by Matthew Bruce, an ex-Army Veteran with 10 years of service, including active deployments to the Middle East and time with the Australian Special Forces. Now, Matthew is a somatic and trauma healing expert who guides others through powerful transformation using breathwork, yoga, meditation, sexuality work, and plant medicine. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ Matthew’s journey from military life to the healing arts ➡️ How trauma lives in the body and how to release...
2024-05-17
49 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Codependency & Love Addiction Redefined
Codependency, Fantasy & Love Addiction with Cera Byer Today’s episode is a deep dive into the world of codependency, fantasy addiction, and love addiction. I’m joined by the incredible Cera Byer—coach, dancer, embodiment teacher, and creative entrepreneur—who brings both personal insight and professional wisdom to this expansive conversation. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ What codependency really is—and how it relates to addiction ➡️ How our nervous systems respond to codependent dynamics ➡️ Understanding fantasy & love addiction and how it shows up in real life ➡️ Why creatives...
2024-05-10
53 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Purpose, Passion + Dharma
Living Your Soul Purpose with Anamaria Velasquez This week I’m joined by Anamaria Velasquez, a Soul Purpose (Dharma) Coach who helps people live in alignment with their heart, intuition, and true calling. Based in the Bay Area, Anamaria brings a beautiful blend of business, energy healing, Human Design, and coaching into her work—and she’s sharing her story and wisdom with us on the podcast today. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ What Dharma really means and how to discover your soul’s purpose ➡️ How Anamaria’s upbringing shaped her passion for help...
2024-05-03
44 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Mind & Muscle Metamorphosis
Emotional & Physical Transformation with Tayler Wohlleben My guest today is not only my personal trainer but also an old friend—I actually used to babysit her! Tayler Wohlleben has been on an incredible journey of deep healing and transformation, both emotionally and physically. In this episode, she shares what it’s really taken to rewrite her story, reclaim her strength, and show up fully for herself. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ Tayler’s personal healing journey and what sparked her transformation ➡️ The emotional side of fitness and reclaiming your body
2024-04-26
44 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Boundaries, High Vibes & Bulldog Energy
Redefining Boundaries: What They Really Look Like in Real Life & Marriage I've wanted to record an episode on boundaries for a long time, and lately, the topic has been showing up everywhere in my life. But rather than giving generic advice you've probably heard before, I'm offering a fresh take—because boundaries aren't one-size-fits-all. In this episode, I’m sharing personal reflections and practical insights that can help you explore what boundaries really look like for you in your own life and marriage. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ Why traditional boundary a...
2024-04-19
39 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Abandonment Wounds Are Your Superpower
Radical Self-Belonging with Julie Brumley: A Year of Healing and Growth Last week we celebrated one year of the podcast with Kelly Brock, and this week we're keeping the celebration going by welcoming back my second-ever guest—Julie Brumley. Julie is a dear friend, mentor, Root2Rise alumna, and now a support coach on my team. In this episode, we catch up on how much has shifted in her life over the past year and the deep healing she's stepped into since we last spoke. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ Julie’s...
2024-04-12
40 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Intentionally Dismantling Your Marriage + Business
One Year Later with Kelly Brock: Identity, Intuition & Authentic Living To celebrate one year of the podcast, I'm welcoming back my guest from episode 2—Kelly Brock. So much has shifted for Kelly in the past year, including becoming a mama for the third time and re-evaluating what it means to live in alignment with her values. In this conversation, we talk about the evolution of identity, the power of intuition, and what it looks like to lead yourself through changing seasons of life. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ Letting go of old i...
2024-04-05
48 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Secrets Your Symptoms Are Telling You
When Your Body Says “Enough” with Dr. Kelly Kessler My guest today, Dr. Kelly Kessler, joins me for a powerful conversation about what happens to our bodies when we hit rock bottom—and how we can reclaim our wellness through nervous system regulation and holistic healing. As a physical therapist, Kelly brings a unique perspective on how trauma, perfectionism, and chronic stress can manifest physically, and what to do about it. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ How trauma and stress show up in the body ➡️ Understanding the physical toll of high ach...
2024-03-29
43 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Sneaky, Subtle Truth of High-Functioning Anxiety
High-Functioning Anxiety & How to Break Free with Nadia Fiorita Is your high-functioning anxiety running the show behind the scenes? On the outside, you might seem like you've got it all together—ambitious, successful, always helping others. But internally, it’s a whirlwind of overthinking, self-doubt, and nonstop mental noise. That’s where my guest today, Nadia Fiorita, comes in. Nadia is a licensed therapist and holistic health & wellness coach who specialises in helping women overcome high-functioning anxiety. In this episode, we unpack what high-functioning anxiety really looks like, and how to finally break free from the pr...
2024-03-22
35 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
From Cognitive Dissonance to Total Alignment: Client Success Story
Emerging Like a Butterfly: Healing Trauma, Marriage, and Finding Peace This week, I’m joined by a courageous client who chose to remain anonymous to share her powerful healing journey. From navigating the complexities of racial trauma and postpartum depression in her marriage to setting boundaries in toxic relationships, this conversation is a testament to the strength found in somatic healing and emotional regulation. Her story reminds us that even after heartbreak, gaslighting, and abuse, peace and closure are possible—and they’re waiting on the other side of doing the deep inner...
2024-03-15
41 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Is Your Anger Suppressed, Spewed or Sacred?
Releasing Rage: Healing Anger in a Healthy Way Today, we’re talking all about anger—how to process it, express it, and release it in a way that’s healing instead of harmful. Whether you’re navigating anger in toxic relationships, parenting dynamics, or your personal healing journey, this episode offers practical insight and compassionate guidance. Anger is a powerful emotion that often gets a bad rap, but when honoured intentionally, it can be a doorway to deep transformation. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ Understanding the role of an...
2024-03-08
34 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Thriving Against All Odds & Kicking Cancer in the Ass
Healing Through Empowerment with Carly Shankman A traumatic event or diagnosis—whether in life or marriage—can feel like the end of the world. But today’s guest, Carly Shankman, reminds us that healing is possible, and often begins with radical self-trust. Carly shares her powerful journey of receiving a thyroid cancer diagnosis and choosing to walk a holistic healing path beyond traditional medical approaches. Carly is a mother, yogi, juice fanatic, and wellness advocate passionate about empowering others to take charge of their health. Her story is one of deep listening, person...
2024-03-01
44 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
How Hyper-Achieving Can Ruin Your Marriage
Breaking Free from the Hyper-Achiever Mindset with Breanne Sufrin This week, I'm joined by my guest Breanne Sufrin to explore how recovering from a hyper-achiever mindset can actually save marriages—and how learning to scale a business with intention can support a more balanced and values-aligned life. Breanne is a business and leadership coach with over 19 years of experience in the network marketing industry, corporate leadership, and executive coaching. She now helps business owners become stronger leaders while scaling sustainably and maintaining a healthy work-life balance. ✨ Topics Cove...
2024-02-23
41 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Breathwork, Feminine Energy and the Enneagram
Healing Through Feminine Energy & Breathwork with Bridget Covill My guest today is Bridget Covill, a feminine embodiment coach, breathwork facilitator, and dear friend. We dive into how somatic work and breathwork can support trauma healing, nervous system regulation, and deeper self-connection—especially through the lens of feminine energy. Bridget is the founder of Find Her Wild Coaching, and began this work after choosing sobriety in 2019. That choice opened the door to mindset and somatic healing. She now teaches the Reset Method of breathwork and hosts accessible monthly classes to help women reconnect wi...
2024-02-16
41 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Follow Your Sacred Breadcrumbs
Following Your Sacred Breadcrumbs Today, I am sharing how to follow your own sacred breadcrumbs, so you can live how you were designed in the life you were meant to live. If you’re wondering, what the heck are sacred breadcrumbs?! Well, sacred breadcrumbs are the signs, hints, clues, and nudges from God that are always leading you to your most aligned, anchored, and authentic life. I’m digging in deep about this in this week’s podcast episode. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ What sacred breadcrumbs really are and how to recog...
2024-02-09
42 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Revolutionary Power of Hypnotherapy
Demystifying Hypnotherapy with Julie Costa In this episode, I'm joined by special guest Julie Costa, a coach and hypnotherapist certified in NLP, EFT, T.I.M.E. techniques, Hypnotherapy, HypnoBreathwork, and Life & Success Coaching. Julie and I dive into what hypnotherapy really is, bust common myths, and explore how it can support your healing and personal growth journey. ✨ Topics Covered In This Episode ➡️ Hypnotherapy as a powerful tool for trauma healing and growth ➡️ Origins and misconceptions of hypnotherapy ➡️ How hypnotherapy works and its wide applications ➡️ Using hypnotherapy for g...
2024-02-02
28 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Turning Your Deepest Pain Points Into Your Highest Purpose
Overcoming the Odds & Building Purpose with Kenda Laney Today I have Kenda Laney as my guest on the podcast to share her story about overcoming the odds that were stacked against her to build a life of purpose and meaning. Diagnosed in early life with a rare form of eye cancer, she discovered a passion for equine therapy and ultimately built her own successful business helping other business owners share their stories of perseverance to drive organic traffic to their offers and websites through social media marketing. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ Battli...
2024-01-26
40 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Somatic Success in Life and Marriage with Dr. Brian Tierney
Healing Through Somatics: EMDR, Trauma & Visionary Somatics with Dr. Brian Tierney This week, I'm excited to share my conversation with Brian Tierney, a somatic psychologist with over 19 years of experience. We discuss a wide range of topics including EMDR therapy, working with cancer patients, rites of passage events for men and boys, and his approach to couples therapy. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ EMDR therapy and trauma resolution ➡️ Supporting cancer patients through somatic work ➡️ The importance of rites of passage for men and boys ➡️ Couples therapy from a somatic per...
2024-01-19
41 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Mystery and Magic of Being a Spiritual Being
Being Fully Seen: Vulnerability, Human Design & Spiritual Growth with Stacy Gissal Today, I have my dear friend Stacy Gissal on to discuss the power of being true to yourself and letting yourself be fully seen. We dive deep into vulnerability and connection, with insights into human design and spirituality. Tune in for an inspiring yet real conversation on healing, growth, and living your fullest life. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ The power of vulnerability and authentic connection ➡️ Human Design as a tool for self-discovery and growth ➡️ Integrating shamanism, tantra, ayurve...
2024-01-12
49 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
My Pre-Mid-Life Identity Crisis Entering 2024
Discovering My True Enneagram Type: From Type 1 to Type 9 In this episode, I’m opening up about a personal identity crisis after realizing I’m actually a Type 9 on the Enneagram—not the Type 1 I always thought. It threw me for a loop but also brought deep self-understanding. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ What it felt like to uncover a new Enneagram type ➡️ How identity shifts can challenge and heal us ➡️ Practical tools for navigating identity struggles ➡️ Finding growth and lightness through unexpected personal discoveries ➡️ Embracing the beaut...
2024-01-05
31 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Coparenting Through Separation, Abuse & Food Fights
Co-Parenting Harmony with Anastasia Arauz In this episode, I’m joined by Anastasia Arauz, a marriage and family coach with over 25 years of experience helping families. We’re diving into the topic of co-parenting harmony. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ Defining different co-parenting scenarios ➡️ Common challenges in co-parenting ➡️ Practical and actionable advice for effective co-parenting ➡️ How to prioritize your kids while navigating co-parenting dynamics ➡️ Empowering yourself with tools for healthy family relationships 💌 Love Note From Becky Aste: Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Come s...
2023-12-22
37 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Mexico Reunion Round Table Q+A!
Reflections on the Soul Prism Retreat: A Circle of Women I couldn’t let last week’s episode about the Soul Prism Retreat in Mexico stand alone without sharing a powerful conversation with six incredible women who were there. In this episode, we come together to reflect on our retreat experiences. From vulnerable breakthroughs that stretched us beyond comfort zones, to transformative moments like the body mapping workshop, and the healing journeys of the retreat leaders, we dive deep into the emotional, spiritual, and physical impact of this immersive retreat. Plus, we share heartfelt advi...
2023-12-15
48 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
What Happens In Mexico: Part 1
Whispers & Wisdom from My Mexico Retreat In today’s episode, I’m opening up about my recent retreat in Mexico—a sacred week away from the daily chaos and fires in my life. This trip gave me space to tune into countless little whispers from God and my own intuition. I hope this episode inspires you to recognize that your own guidance—the whispers of your path and your spirit—is available to you right here, right now, in this very moment. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ Creating space for clarity amid lif...
2023-12-08
47 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Would A Separation Ruin My Kids?
Claiming Bold Action & Connection with Darcey Burke Today, I’m chatting with my friend Darcey Burke—a fellow traveler on a shared life path that took us to very different destinations. I wanted to spotlight her story and give you a glimpse of her inspiring journey. Darcey is the CEO of Claim Your Network, where she’s on a mission to help entrepreneurs take bold action and grow their communities through powerful networking. She’s a speaker, podcaster, networking strategist, event designer, and Reiki Master, blending strategy with soulful connection. ✨ Topi...
2023-12-01
33 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Addiction Through the Holidays
Navigating the Holidays with Addiction in the Family — Real Talk with Courtney Wendzicki The holidays can be tough and triggering for so many reasons, especially when you’re spending them with someone struggling with addiction. Today, I’m joined by Courtney Wendzicki for a heartfelt conversation about vulnerability, resilience, and living alongside addiction. Courtney, an Ohio native near Lake Erie, is the founder of Confetti Worthy Media—a company helping small business owners create lives and careers worth celebrating through social media strategy and content design. She’s also the host of the Confetti Worthy Wom...
2023-11-24
48 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Repairing a Corroded Relationship with Your Own Intuition
Getting to Know Your Intuition: Foundations & Trust This episode is all about intuition — what it really is, how to trust it, and why self-awareness matters. We dig into overcoming gaslighting, the role of ego in business decisions and personal growth, and the power of self-reflection to deepen your intuitive connection. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ Defining intuition and its role in our lives ➡️ Building trust in your inner guidance ➡️ Recognizing and overcoming gaslighting ➡️ Navigating ego in decisions and growth ➡️ Using self-reflection to strengthen intuition 💌 Love...
2023-11-17
33 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Next Generation of Caretaking
Navigating Caregiving for Aging Parents with Erin Antroinen In today’s episode, I’m joined by Erin Antroinen to talk about a caregiving role many women find themselves in—taking care of aging parents. It’s one of the most unexpected and challenging caretaking journeys, and we dive deep into how to manage it with grace. Erin and I explore: ➡️ The realities of caregiving for aging parents ➡️ Avoiding burnout through self-care ➡️ Finding emotional support and processing complex feelings ➡️ Honouring loved ones with dignity through illness ➡️ And so much more!
2023-11-10
42 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
How to Create a Life of Holistic Abundance
Unlocking Intuition, Abundance & Manifestation with Nat Riley This week, I’m chatting with my business bestie Nat Riley, creator of Empath Academy and her newest project, Indigo Women — a community for intuitively and divinely guided old souls. We dive into intuition, abundance, and manifestation within spiritual growth and personal development. Nat is a trauma-informed NLP practitioner who helps soul-powered women break free from limiting beliefs and magnetize their deepest desires. Her work with The Indigo Women blends science, psychology, and soul, creating a safe space for women to shift their identities into their most empo...
2023-11-03
42 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Abandonment Wound and Intimacy Blocks
Healing Intimacy Blocks & the Abandonment Wound with Julie Brumley I’m so excited to finally bring a conversation to the podcast that I’ve had many times in private with my friend Julie Brumley. We’re diving deep into a common but often unspoken experience for many women: intimacy blocks. These blocks show up not just in the bedroom but in many areas of life. Today, we explore intimacy blocks, the abandonment wound, and the powerful keys to healing. Julie, an adult adoptee, has faced deep abandonment and rejection wounds. Despite years of therapy, EMDR...
2023-10-27
26 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
My Tangled Trek Through the Trauma and Triumph of Motherhood
Untangling the Secret Struggles of Motherhood Motherhood comes with so many conflicting, secret moments that are confusing and hard to talk about. In this week’s episode, I’m opening up about my own tangled journey through trauma and triumph as a mom. Whether your experience is full of confusion, conflict, or pain, I hope the tips and strategies shared here remind you that you are a good mom — even in the hardest moments. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ Navigating the hidden struggles of motherhood ➡️ Healing from trauma while parenting ➡️ Practi...
2023-10-20
44 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Healing the Hyper-Achiever Within
Somatic Success™ & Transformational Coaching with Keri Ford This week, I’m thrilled to have Keri Ford, one of the world’s leading coaches for over 15 years. Keri has hosted wellness retreats for Jillian Michaels and worked with celebrities like Alison Sweeney, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Natasha Lyonne, Laura Prepon, and Kaley Cuoco. Her mission? To help modern women live lives they truly love through transformational practices and holistic modalities — what she calls Somatic Success™. This approach empowers women to expand their fullest potential while experiencing more peace, profit, and productivity every day. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode...
2023-10-13
50 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Dissolving the Shame In Marriage & Money with Justin Buonomo
Journey to Financial Freedom with Justin Buonomo This week, I’m joined by Justin Buonomo, founder and CEO of Journey to Financial Freedom. Justin and his wife Lauren hit financial freedom in January 2022, scaling their business to seven figures in just two years. Justin now teaches people worldwide how to optimize their finances, grow their businesses, and live their dream lives. He’s had a huge impact on my own journey, and I’m excited to share his wisdom and insights with you today. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ The keys to scaling a bu...
2023-10-06
45 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Life's Not Supposed to Be This Way
Unlocking Your Inner Peace Superpower Humans naturally crave comfort, and our nervous systems seek familiarity — but real strength comes when life doesn’t go as planned. In today’s episode, I’m exploring the superpower inside all of us: a deep, unshakable inner peace that remains steady no matter what’s happening around us. Whether this power feels dormant or you’ve already uncovered it, this conversation offers a blueprint to find it—or a reminder that you’re absolutely thriving despite the chaos. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ Why comfort and familiarity feel safe...
2023-09-29
43 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
How Separation Can Lead to Authentic Love & Belonging
Embodying Authenticity & Empowerment with Amy Natalie This week, I’m joined by Amy Natalie, a women’s empowerment coach and feminine embodiment guide with over a decade of experience. We dive into personal growth, aligning with your values, trusting your inner knowing, intuitive decision-making, and practicing self-compassion. After three years of deep soul-searching, Amy made the courageous choice to end her marriage — shedding people-pleasing and stepping fully into a life that feels authentic to her soul. If you’re ready to channel that same energy of bold authenticity, this episode is for you. ✨ Topics Covered in...
2023-09-22
43 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Tender Care for Your Spiritual Wounds
Healing Church Trauma & Spiritual Hurt with Kyle Spears Today’s guest is Kyle Spears, a marriage and family therapist specializing in complex trauma and PTSD. Kyle brings a unique perspective at the crossroads of theology and psychology, and in this episode, we dive deep into church trauma, spiritual wounds, and the path toward healing. If you’ve experienced spiritual hurt or are curious about how faith and trauma intersect, this conversation offers insight and hope. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ What church trauma is and how it impacts mental health ➡️ The intersecti...
2023-09-15
47 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Go With The Flow: Learning to Leverage Your Unique Feminine Cycle
Leveraging Your Menstrual Cycle in Business with Melissa Rodriguez What if your cycle could actually support your business growth? In today’s episode, I’m joined by Melissa Rodriguez — a digital marketing expert and passionate advocate for cyclical living. Melissa shares how aligning with your menstrual cycle can help you work smarter, not harder, and how tuning into your body’s rhythms can elevate your creativity, productivity, and presence as a female entrepreneur. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ How your menstrual cycle affects energy, focus, and creativity ➡️ The four phases of the cycle and h...
2023-09-08
38 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Portal to Your Next Level
The Portal: Facing the Parts of You You'd Rather Avoid The path to your next level isn’t always easy — in fact, it usually runs right through the parts of yourself you'd rather not face. In this episode, I’m talking about The Portal — what it means to move through discomfort, shadow, and resistance in order to access real transformation. If you’re feeling stuck or like something’s calling you forward… this might be it. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ Why the parts you avoid hold the keys to your growth ➡️ How resista...
2023-09-01
44 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
A Second Chance At Relationships Through Nervous System Repair
Healing as Individuals & as a Couple with Courtney & Andrew In today’s episode, I’m joined by my best friend Courtney and her husband Andrew — two people I adore and admire deeply. They’re sharing their relationship story: the personal healing they each did before meeting, and the work they continue to do together within their marriage. It’s honest, inspiring, and full of real-life insight into what it takes to grow both individually and as a couple. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ The importance of doing your own work before entering a relationship ➡...
2023-08-25
36 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
How to Complete Grief in a Grief-Illiterate World
Understanding Grief & the Grief Recovery Method with Sarabeth Felushko Today’s episode is a tender and important conversation about grief — what it is, how we learn to process it (or avoid it), and what recovery can actually look like. I’m joined by the compassionate and wise Sarabeth Felushko, an Advanced Grief Recovery Method Specialist and trauma-informed educator. Together, we explore the emotional landscape of grief and how specific, intentional actions can lead to healing and wholeness. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ What grief really is and how it shows up in our lives
2023-08-18
51 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
What Your Body Posture Says About Your Identity
Posture, Body Language & Reclaiming Identity Your posture says more than you think — about who you are, how you feel, and how you show up in the world. In this episode, we’re exploring the connection between body language and identity. I’m diving into the science behind posture, how to start tuning into your body’s messages, and ways you can use body language to express confidence, clarity, and self-trust. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ How posture and body language reflect (and shape) identity ➡️ The science behind how we carry ourselves ...
2023-08-11
25 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Subconscious Rewiring Through the Mind Change Method
Rewiring the Subconscious with the Mind Change Method In today’s episode, I’m joined by Heather and Kent McKean — the brilliant minds behind the Mind Change Method. Together, we explore how rewiring the subconscious can lead to deep personal transformation. Whether you’re navigating challenges, stuck in old patterns, or ready to step into your potential, this conversation is packed with insight and possibility. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ What the Mind Change Method is and how it works ➡️ How limiting beliefs shape our lives — and how to shift them ➡️ Tool...
2023-08-04
56 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Intuitive Healing for High-Performance Individuals
Intuition & Leadership with Jennifer Watson This episode is all about intuition — how to access it, strengthen it, and lead from it. I’m joined by the incredible Jennifer Watson, an expert in transformational leadership and soul-aligned living. Together, we dive deep into how intuition can become one of your most powerful tools, in life, work, and relationships. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ What intuition really is — and how to trust it ➡️ The connection between intuition and leadership ➡️ How to hone your intuitive edge and use it with confidence ➡️ Access poin...
2023-07-28
49 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Tame Your Triggers: From Earthquakes to Tremors
Understanding and Working Through Triggers This week, we’re diving into the world of triggers — what they are, why they happen, and how we can begin to move through them with more awareness and care. We all get triggered sometimes, and it’s in spaces like this that we get to unpack what’s really going on underneath. Whether it’s emotional, relational, or nervous-system based, this episode offers tools to help you respond rather than react. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ What a trigger actually is (and isn’t) ➡️ The role of the nervou...
2023-07-21
46 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Spirit of Abundance in Marriage & Money
The Spirit of Abundance in Marriage & Money For the first time ever on the podcast, I’m joined by two incredible guests — Svetlana and Jerremy Newsome. In both life and marriage, they’ve tapped into something powerful: the spirit of abundance. This episode is full of wisdom, insight, and inspiration for anyone wanting to deepen their relationship with wealth, purpose, and partnership. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ How Jerremy teaches financial freedom through the stock market ➡️ The intersection of money, mindset, and mission-driven living ➡️ Svetlana Newsome’s path of spiritual leadershi...
2023-07-14
47 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Should I Stay or Should I Go? How to Navigate Daunting Life Decisions
In this episode, I’m exploring how our bodies respond when we’re faced with big, looming decisions — especially when trauma is in the background. We’ll take a gentle look at how past experiences might be showing up in the present through tension, fear, numbness, or even overthinking. Through a blend of meditation, reflection, guided visualization, and insight, this episode is designed to help you meet those big choices with more clarity and care. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ How trauma lives in the body and influences decision-making ➡️ Common nervous system res...
2023-06-30
44 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Removing the Bedroom Blocks & Healing From Hyper-vigilance
Removing the Bedroom Blocks & Healing From Hyper-vigilance In this episode, I’m joined by a beautiful client and friend who has chosen to remain anonymous. She shares her journey of how somatic practices have transformed her life. Not only has she made progress in intimacy with her husband, but she also unexpectedly overcame her paralyzing fear of bugs. Podchaser ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ Understanding hyper-vigilance and its impact on intimacy ➡️ The role of somatic practices in healing trauma ➡️ Personal transformation stories and breakthroughs ➡️ Practical steps to c...
2023-06-23
39 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Repairing the Moments, Mistakes and Messes we all create in Motherhood with Lauren Dry
In this episode, I’m joined by my friend (and Instagram-crush) Lauren Dry. We're talking about generational trauma, parenting related to the nervous system, rewriting our childhood trauma stories, attachment styles, and so much more.Podchaser ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ Understanding generational trauma and its impact on parenting ➡️ The role of the nervous system in parenting and child development ➡️ Rewriting childhood trauma stories for healing ➡️ Exploring attachment styles and their influence on relationships ➡️ Practical strategies for repairing moments and mistakes in motherhood Podchaser 💌 Love...
2023-06-16
44 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
How to Find Safety After Trauma
In this episode, I’m sharing two major secrets to finding safety after trauma: how to seek somatic safety and how to solve subconscious stories. If you're in survival mode, this episode is for you. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ Understanding somatic safety and its role in trauma recovery ➡️ Identifying and addressing subconscious stories that hinder healing ➡️ Practical steps to create a sense of safety in your body ➡️ The importance of nervous system regulation in overcoming trauma ➡️ How to begin the journey from survival mode to thrivingPodbay 💌 Love Not...
2023-06-09
59 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Client Success Story: Repairing Your Nervous System After Infidelity
In this episode, I sit down with one of my students who joined my program after experiencing betrayal trauma in her marriage. New to nervous system work, she felt like she had tried everything else and still, her world felt out of control. Listen in to hear her experience before, during, and since beginning this journey of healing her nervous system to move forward in her life and marriage. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ The impact of betrayal trauma on the nervous system ➡️ Healing from infidelity through nervous system regulation ➡️ T...
2023-06-02
39 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Finding Yourself Again Postpartum with Chandler Sommerfeldt, Postpartum Adventure Coach
In this episode, I’m joined by Chandler Sommerfeldt, a Postpartum Adventure Coach, to discuss the profound identity shifts that come with motherhood. Chandler shares insights on navigating postpartum recovery, pelvic floor wellness, and the importance of seeking support during this transformative time. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ Understanding the trauma of childbirth and its impact on identity ➡️ The significance of pelvic floor health in postpartum recovery ➡️ Practical steps to reconnect with oneself after childbirth ➡️ The role of adventure and movement in healing ➡️ Resources for seeking postpartum s...
2023-05-26
40 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Healing My Messy Money Wounds One Mistake at a Time
In this deeply personal episode, I’m sharing my money story—the biggest money wounds from childhood into adulthood and all the mistakes I made along the way. This is the most vulnerable I’ve ever been on this podcast, but I wanted to share it all with you, including what I’ve done to turn it all around today. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ My earliest money memories and how they shaped my beliefs ➡️ The shame and self-sabotage that kept me stuck ➡️ How I started healing my relationship with mone...
2023-05-19
54 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
From Touch Aversion to Thriving Intimacy in Marriage
I’m thrilled to introduce Daneisha, a dear friend and client who is vulnerably sharing her story. She went from flinching when her husband touched her, struggling to communicate, and feeling unloved to thriving in intimacy, giggling with joy, and feeling lit up by her marriage. Listen in to hear how I Do Breakthrough helped her revolutionize her relationship. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ Navigating emotional and physical disconnection ➡️ Overcoming communication barriers in marriage ➡️ Healing trauma to reclaim intimacy ➡️ Practical somatic tools that changed the game ➡️ What thrivi...
2023-05-12
36 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Invisible Anchors of Unhealed Trauma with Jacob Kauffman
Today, I want to explore why having a fixed mindset can actually lead to unintended self-sabotage—and how shifting into curiosity can become your secret weapon for breakthrough in any area of your life. This is a mindset episode you won’t want to miss! ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ What a fixed mindset looks and sounds like ➡️ Subtle ways self-sabotage shows up ➡️ Why curiosity disrupts shame and perfectionism ➡️ How to activate a growth mindset in hard moments ➡️ Practical steps to get out of your own way 💌...
2023-05-05
47 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
How Curiosity Cures the Client
Today, I want to explore why having a fixed mindset can actually lead to unintended self-sabotage—and how shifting into curiosity can become your secret weapon for breakthrough in any area of your life. This is a mindset episode you won’t want to miss! ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ What a fixed mindset looks and sounds like ➡️ Subtle ways self-sabotage shows up ➡️ Why curiosity disrupts shame and perfectionism ➡️ How to activate a growth mindset in hard moments ➡️ Practical steps to get out of your own way 💌 Love No...
2023-04-28
42 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Client Marriage Journey: From Dying to Thriving
Today’s guest has chosen to remain anonymous so she can share the real, raw details of her journey. I’ve had the honor of witnessing her transformation—from feeling lost, hopeless, and even like she was going crazy at times, to becoming a woman who can breathe, speak her truth, and stand in confidence. Her evolution has been nothing short of incredible, and I know her story will inspire you just as much as it has inspired me. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ The emotional toll of silently suffering in marriage ➡️ Wh...
2023-04-21
29 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Universal, Savage Cycle of Shame
This week’s episode is all about shame. It’s universal—we all experience it—and it can become a savage cycle that affects our relationships, our self-worth, and how we show up in the world. In this episode, I’m diving deep into what shame really is, how it functions, and what you can do to break the cycle and start practicing radical empathy, both for yourself and others. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ What shame is and how it operates in the body ➡️ The difference between shame and guilt ➡️ Und...
2023-04-14
47 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
How Betrayal Trauma Impacts the Nervous System with Carrie Holladay
Betrayal Trauma & Somatic Mindfulness with Carrie Jean After spending a decade suffering from the impact of betrayal trauma, Carrie found a path to healing using Somatic Mindfulness. She discovered the power of connecting to her body and healing the nervous system in order to truly heal and find herself again. She now has the honor of teaching this work to women all over the world on their own healing journeys. About Carrie: Carrie is a Trauma-Trained Somatic Practitioner and Betrayal Trauma Coach. She holds certifications in Trauma Sensitive Mindfulness and Meditation, Somatic Attachment Therapy...
2023-04-07
38 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
The Power of Self-Belonging: Healing Deep Abandonment Wounds
Today, I'm sitting down with one of my clients, Julie. She’s recently experienced some major breakthroughs in her life while participating in my Root to Rise program. I think you're really going to relate to her story—and I can't wait to hear what you think! ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ Julie’s life before starting the program ➡️ The turning point that led her to seek support ➡️ Breakthrough moments in her healing journey ➡️ How somatic work helped shift her marriage ➡️ Encouragement for women silently struggling
2023-04-01
31 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
My Breakthrough and an Introduction to Trauma and Healing
Welcome to the first episode of Your Breakthrough Blueprint. It makes sense to start at the beginning, right? So in this episode, I'm sharing a little bit of my story and my personal breakthrough. I'm also setting the foundation for some of the fundamental definitions and understandings about what trauma is and how it works in our bodies. There is so much more to come, and I am so glad you're here. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ Becky's personal breakthrough story ➡️ What trauma really is (and isn’t) ➡️ How trauma lives...
2023-04-01
41 min
Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life
Ready for Your Breakthrough?
Do you find yourself with a marriage falling apart at the seams? A body riddled with stress and anxiety? The kind of tension that seeps into every area of your life? If that sounds like you, you're in the right place. This episode introduces your host, Becky Aste, and sets the stage for what's to come on the Breakthrough Marriage Podcast. ✨ Topics Covered In this Trailer ➡️ The pain of a marriage on the brink ➡️ The effects of trauma on your body and relationship ➡️ Why traditional therapy wasn’t enough ➡️...
2023-03-08
08 min