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Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Love Bombs and LiesIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Kris, a woman who shares her powerful story of surviving emotional manipulation after a devastating end to her 17-year marriage. What started as a whirlwind romance with a man she met on social media quickly turned into a chaotic rollercoaster of love bombing, betrayal, and gaslighting.Over the course of five years, Kris uncovered message after message revealing his double life—but every time she confronted him, he twisted the truth, pulled her back in, and promised change. From en...2025-07-161h 04
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: Codependency is a Hell of a Drug Part TwoIn this episode (2 of 2), co-host LAH picks up her story after year one of her tumultuous relationship. Sitting down once again with her co-host, Behk, LAH dives deep into the emotional roller coaster, financial problems, and sexual trauma that marked her married years. She shares the highs and lows, the moments of hope and despair, and the ongoing struggle to break free from a toxic cycle. Join LAH and Behk as they navigate the complexities of surviving and healing from such profound challenges.Topics Discussed:LGBTQ+ marriageToxic family dynamicsCouples financesSexual coercionLAH's healing journey2025-07-0959 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: Codependency is a Hell of a Drug Part One🎙️ Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! is taking a short summer break! ☀️We’re pressing pause for just a couple of weeks to soak up some sunshine and recharge. Don’t worry—we’ll be back in mid-July with brand-new episodes and some incredible guests you won’t want to miss.Thank you for listening, sharing, and supporting the stories from our brave guests. See you soon and enjoy the replay of LAH's story if you are new to the pod.With love,Behk & LAH 💛In this episode (1 of 2), co-host LAH sit...2025-07-0258 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: Breaking Generational CyclesIn this episode, Stephanie opens up about her upbringing in Florida, shaped by the traumatic experiences of her parents' own challenging childhoods. The echoes of this difficult past reverberated through Stephanie and her sister's lives, causing tension and discord between them.With courage and vulnerability, Stephanie shares her personal journey and aspirations. Despite the shadows cast by her family's history, she expresses a deep desire to break the cycle of trauma. Stephanie is determined to provide her son with a different narrative — one filled with love, care, and protection.Discussions in this episode:...2025-06-251h 05
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Co-Parenting Trapped by Abuse Part TwoIn Part Two of Veronika’s story, Behk & LAH follow her through the exhausting and emotionally brutal reality of ongoing court battles. Despite facing relentless legal abuse from her ex—who continues to use the system as a tool for control—Veronika refuses to back down.Instead of letting the trauma define her, Veronika is reclaiming her voice and channeling her pain into action. She shares her vision for a nonprofit organization designed to support other parents navigating the same hellish terrain—those whose abusers are hiding behind custody filings and exploiting loopholes in a broken family c...2025-06-1849 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Co-Parenting Trapped by Abuse Part OneIn this episode, Behk and LAH sit down to share the heartbreaking and harrowing story of Veronika—one of LAH’s friends—who has endured a lifetime of high-conflict men, beginning with an emotionally abusive father. That pattern carried into adulthood, culminating in an abusive relationship with the father of her three children.Veronika’s experience goes beyond emotional and psychological abuse—she was drugged, raped, and manipulated by her partner, a man who continues to torment her through the legal system. Despite her attempts to create a peaceful co-parenting plan for the sake of their children...2025-06-1140 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!When Presence Feels Like AbsenceIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, your hosts Behk and LAH sit down with a remarkable guest, Penny, whose story is a powerful reminder that breaking the cycle is possible. Penny takes us through her family's legacy of generational trauma, starting with a grandfather who led a double life—maintaining a secret second family he chillingly referred to as “the others.” His cruelty left lasting scars on his children, including Penny’s father, who spent much of his life chasing an unattainable approval. In turn, Penny’s father became emotionally absent in her life...2025-06-041h 05
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Miss Zero AccountabilityIn this episode, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Cleo, whose powerful story we’ll be following over time. Cleo opens up about growing up with generational trauma and the deep, healing bond she formed with her sister-in-law—a woman who became more than family. Her unexpected passing has left a painful void, one made even more difficult by the arrival of a manipulative new woman dating Cleo’s brother-in-law.We explore how toxic people don’t just harm their partners—they fracture families, twist narratives, and sow division in the wake of grief. Cleo shares the...2025-05-2852 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: The Relative TruthIn this episode, we dive into the story of Shirley, a woman who believed she had found her soulmate in a 9-year relationship, only to uncover a shocking web of deceit.Discussions in this episode:Meet a listener, ShirleySeemingly perfect eight yearsShocking discovery of her partner's affairsUnraveling his pattern of serial cheatingEmotional and psychological impactJourney to healing and reclaiming her lifeComplexities of betrayal and infidelityResilience and finding strength after heartbreakShirley's world is turned upside down when she discovers that her seemingly perfect partner not only cheated on her...2025-05-211h 08
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!A Year Later: Buddy on Healing After Fast HeartbreakIn this episode, Behk and LAH reconnect with a familiar face—Buddy! If you remember his whirlwind romance that ended in heartbreak, buckle up: it’s been a year since the split, and Buddy is back with a fresh perspective, a lighter heart, and some hard-earned wisdom.We dive into his healing journey: the deep work of changing old patterns, finding joy in new experiences, and—most importantly—rebuilding a relationship with himself. Buddy opens up about the last conversation he had with his ex-wife and the unexpected moment of growth it revealed. He’s now happily si...2025-05-141h 03
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!UPDATE: Behk & LAH Shoot the ShitJoin Behk and LAH on this week's episode of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!" as they catch up on the latest, from a friend's wild holiday mishap in Europe to diving into the twists of the show "YOU." Plus, get ready for an insightful follow-up as Buddy from our recent replayed series "Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak" joins us next week to discuss the journey of healing after a year. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and plenty of unfiltered commentary!Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, alcoholism, mental health issues, and...2025-05-0711 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak Part TwoIn this episode (2 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH pick back up with Buddy’s story, delving deeper into the aftermath of his whirlwind marriage. Discover the shocking reason his ex-wife ended up in jail and how this event plunged their relationship into further turmoil. Tune in to continue Buddy's emotional journey and listen to the end to hear his powerful message to men about the importance of mental health and therapy.Follow Buddy: IG | FB | TikTok @brillianceproperWe believe in the importance of sharing stories and ta...2025-04-301h 26
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak Part OneWe will be back in two weeks. In this replay episode (1 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Behk’s friend, Buddy, a man who found himself in a whirlwind romance that led to a quick marriage after just four months of dating long distance. What seemed like true love quickly turned injurious as Buddy discovered his wife's severe bipolar disorder and alcoholism. In Part 1, we explore the red flags he later realizes, leaving you with a cliffhanger that will have you eagerly awaiting the conclusion in Part 2. Tune in to hear Bu...2025-04-2356 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!The Return of the Dichotomy Diaries with Amanda ArnierIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH are joined by the fearless and unforgettable Amanda Arnier, host of the viral podcast The Dichotomy Diaries. Amanda was last on the show nearly a year ago, and a lot has happened since then.In Season 1 of The Dichotomy Diaries, Amanda peeled back the layers of her explosive relationship with her now ex-husband — a man who sold the world a carefully curated image of a devout, family-first Christian husband. But behind closed doors? A web of lies, secret lives, infidelity, a gambling ad...2025-04-1646 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!The Breaking PointIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Grace, a woman whose journey through an abusive marriage and the challenges of motherhood will leave you in awe of her strength and resilience.For years, Grace endured emotional and psychological abuse at the hands of her narcissistic husband. But her world was turned upside down when he was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Instead of receiving compassion, Grace and her son were met with abandonment, as her husband withdrew from them both. The weight of this isolation became even...2025-04-0940 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!EXPERT POV: Dissolving Emotional + Inner Child Trauma with Jen PetersIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! hosts Behk and LAH are joined by the remarkable Jen Peters, author of Coming Home: The Path to Healing Your Inner Child. Jen opens up about her harrowing journey through trauma, resilience, and the healing process that has shaped her life and work today. Jen’s memoir, Coming Home, takes us through her life story, including growing up with an alcoholic and abusive father, a traumatic gang rape in her teenage years, and the subsequent co-dependency and people-pleasing tendencies that played a major role in her tox...2025-04-0238 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!International Man of ToxicityIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Sarah, an international guest from Geneva, Switzerland, to unpack her shocking story of deception, manipulation, and betrayal. Sarah thought she had found her dream man—a charming and successful financier who swept her off her feet. But the man she believed was her soulmate turned out to be a master manipulator, a serial cheater, and a future faker who left a trail of broken hearts across Europe.Sarah reveals how this man led a double life, frequently traveling to Ireland to...2025-03-261h 03
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Surviving the Toxic TwentiesIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Elisea, aka ‘Leecy,’ who bravely opens up about her painful journey through a toxic relationship that consumed much of her 20s. Leecy shares her experience with constant gaslighting, emotional manipulation, and physical assault by a friend of her ex. Her partner, who presented himself as a "good Christian guy," demanded she take on all the responsibilities of the home—despite her working full-time and being independent.Leecy dives deep into the cycle of abuse, discussing the psychological toll it took o...2025-03-191h 04
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Fearlessly Unlearning a Toxic ChildhoodIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Jessica, a resilient woman who has overcome unimaginable childhood trauma and broken the cycles of abuse in her family. Jessica opens up about her father, an alcoholic who fathered nine children and subjected her to verbal and mental abuse while forcing her to care for her younger siblings. She shares her shocking story of learning he was her biological father at age 10 and being forced to live with him due to her mother's substance abuse disorder.Jessica speaks candidly about...2025-03-1243 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: Escaping the Hobosexual TrapIn this episode, we delve into Melanie's story of resilience and determination as she recounts her journey of breaking free from the clutches of a toxic relationship. Melanie, with her idyllic childhood and a heart brimming with kindness, thought she had found a life partner in James when they connected through a dating app. However, what began as a promising romance soon turned into a nightmare.Within a year of dating, James moved into Melanie's home, bringing along his children from a previous relationship. Despite Melanie's unwavering love and hospitality, James took advantage of...2025-03-0550 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Slaying Demons with Kim DavisIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with fellow podcaster Kim Davis, co-host of Slaycation, to explore her personal journey of healing from a childhood with an abusive, tyrant father. Kim opens up about how these early experiences influenced her relationships in her 20s, leading her to mirror the toxic behaviors she had learned.We dive deep into Kim's path to self-awareness, the critical role therapy played in helping her unlearn these negative patterns, and the importance of listening to your instincts. Kim shares valuable insights on...2025-02-2647 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!50 Shades of D&DIn this eye-opening episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH sit down with Charlotte Rivers, a brave woman who shares her unsettling experience within the gaming community, which was marred by toxic masculinity. Charlotte takes us through her journey of finding a supportive, inclusive gaming community—only for it to be shattered by rampant sexism and harassment.Charlotte opens up about her experience with a local gaming store owner who crossed boundaries with inappropriate comments and even coerced her into an uncomfortable back rub. When Charlotte stood up for herself, she wa...2025-02-191h 48
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Unmasking Covert NarcissistsGrowing up with a covert narcissistic mother, Michelle was conditioned to accept toxic relationships—leading her to marry a covert narcissistic husband. For years, she carried the weight of the relationship, handling everything on her own while seeking therapy to heal. When she finally recognized the patterns of manipulation and emotional abuse, she decided enough was enough.In this episode, Michelle shares her powerful journey of standing up for herself, breaking free, and creating a healthier future for her daughter. Tune in for an inspiring story of resilience, healing, and breaking generational cycles.Co...2025-02-121h 11
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Game Over, Player OneIn this episode, we sit down with Alice, who shares her compelling and heart-wrenching journey from growing up in a family with a special needs brother to navigating a marriage marked by narcissism, selfishness, and infidelity. Alice's story sheds light on the emotional toll of being in a relationship where one partner refuses to grow up, leaving the other to shoulder the weight of responsibility.Alice opens up about her childhood, where her family’s focus was largely on her brother, leaving her feeling isolated and socially limited. As an escape, she turned to online gaming, wh...2025-02-051h 21
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Nice Guy, Big ProblemIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH are joined by Rena, who discusses her shocking and emotional experience with Pitre, a man who seemed perfect on the surface but was hiding a darker side.Rena met Pitre while they were both bartenders, and he charmed her with his affection, making her feel like the center of his world. Everyone loved him — her family, friends, and coworkers. But behind closed doors, Pitre was battling a severe drinking problem that spiraled out of control. His addiction led to lies, financial mismanagement, an...2025-01-2959 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Mr Emotionally UnavailableWelcome back to Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!—we’re back with regular programming and we’ve got a powerful episode to kick things off! Hosts Behk and LAH are joined by Katie, a woman who’s been through the emotional wringer in relationships that seemed to repeat the same painful patterns.In this raw and revealing conversation, Katie opens up about her marriage to an ex-husband who was emotionally checked out, cheated, and even refused to attend the birth of their third child. She shares the deep anxiety and self-doubt that grew in her as she t...2025-01-2250 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Behk & LAH Are Back!After a brief holiday hiatus, hosts Behk and LAH are back and ready to dive into the new year with fresh energy! In this return episode, they share exciting updates about the podcast and announce they'll be back with full episodes next week. The duo reflects on their own New Year's resolutions and intentions for 2025, discussing how to set meaningful goals for growth and healing. They also talk about practical tips for managing seasonal depression, offering listeners strategies to stay grounded and positive during the colder months. Tune in for a heartfelt and motivational episode to kickstart the year...2025-01-1526 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!DJ Holy High HorseIn the season two finale of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH go deeper than ever as Behk shares the story that started it all — her very first encounter with a narcissist. At just 15 years old, Behk found herself in a toxic relationship with a 21-year-old man she met online. What began as a seemingly innocent connection soon unraveled into a web of manipulation and harm, leaving scars that would impact her and others for decades.Joined by her best friend as a special guest, Behk revisits the ripple effects of this ea...2024-11-201h 27
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Behk & LAH Banter About Behk Sharing Her StoryIn this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! hosts Behk and LAH reflect on the podcast’s journey through season two, celebrating the milestones, growth, and incredible community support they've seen this year. They share behind-the-scenes stories, listener feedback, and how the show's success has exceeded their wildest expectations.As a teaser for the much-anticipated season finale, Behk gives a glimpse into a personal story she's never fully shared before—a relationship she had as a teenager with an older man she met online. The full story will unravel in the next episode, with a sp...2024-11-1335 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Major Mama's Boy Part TwoIn part two of Emily's story, Behk and LAH reveal the powerful conclusion to her journey through a toxic relationship and the hold of her manipulative mother-in-law. After noticing unusual phone records and suspicious bank charges, Emily discovered her husband Tom’s infidelity. This painful revelation led her to confront the reality of her marriage and lean on her family, who rallied around her when she needed them most. With unwavering support from close friends, Emily found the strength to walk away and ultimately chose divorce. Now, she’s embracing a path of healing, self-discovery, and renewal. Join us as w...2024-11-061h 23
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Major Mama's Boy Part OneIn this episode, hosts Behk and LAH dive into the complex dynamics of a marriage marked by control and manipulation. Guest Emily shares the beginning of her journey with her military ex-husband, whom she met at 22 before moving across the country to start a new life with him. As she settled in, Emily quickly encountered her toxic mother-in-law—a woman determined to maintain control over her 27-year-old son and create drama to keep herself at the center of his world. Emily describes the early warning signs and red flags in her husband and his mother, shedding light on their sh...2024-10-301h 18
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: One Rotten AppleIn this episode, we sit down with Nicole and A, two passionate Facebook group admins who set out to create a haven for like-minded crunchy women seeking support, empowerment, and camaraderie in a Southern town. Their intentions were pure, their vision radiant – to cultivate a positive and loving online and in-person community where women could thrive together and find a healthy lifestyle for their families in the deep-fried south.But as we all know, even the most idyllic landscapes can fall prey to a single rotten apple. In this case, that rotten apple was one toxic an...2024-10-231h 03
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Kiss Kiss Dang DangIn this episode, Behk and LAH welcome friend Steven, whose story is a rollercoaster of love, betrayal, and transformation. Steven opens up about his tumultuous relationship with his ex-boyfriend of several years, a love story that began at Nashville's former after-hours club, Kiss. What seemed like a fairy tale eventually turned into a nightmare, as Steven discovered years of infidelity, compounded by his ex’s meth addiction, constant gaslighting, and domestic abuse. Blinded by love and in deep denial, Steven struggled to accept what was happening behind his back.Now, Steven is fully immersed in his he...2024-10-1643 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Behk & LAH's Spooky Spectacular! Halloween EditionIn this special Halloween edition, Bekh and LAH break from their usual format to bring you all the spooky fall vibes! They kick things off by sharing their favorite autumn activities, from nature walks and pumpkin pies to cozy simmer pots! The episode gets a little creepier as the hosts dive into some personal ghost stories—prepare to be chilled! A special guest joins the show to read a haunting creepypasta story that will give you goosebumps! So light a candle, grab a blanket, and settle in for some spine-tingling fun. This episode is packed with spooky, cozy goodness!...2024-10-0949 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Mr Zero AcountabilityIn this episode, Bethanie shares her deeply personal story of surviving an emotionally and psychologically abusive relationship. She recounts the gaslighting, constant accusations of infidelity, and the overwhelming pressure to handle 100% of the home and childcare—including raising twin boys—while her ex-partner retreated to his own room. The conversation highlights the ingrained misogynistic and patriarchal expectations placed on her, but Bethanie's resilience shines through. With a mix of humor and insight, she opens up about the lasting effects of his control and how trauma therapy has helped her reclaim her life and joy. Bethanie's story is heartbreaking and insp...2024-10-021h 09
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Behk & LAH Banter: Autumn Vibes & Podcast GuestingIn this lighthearted episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into a fun conversation about all things autumn. From the spiritual significance of the autumn equinox and Mabon to their favorite Halloween movies, they share what makes this season so magical. The two also dish on their recent experience as guests on Bre Wolta's podcast, reflecting on what it's like to share their story on someone else’s platform. Wrapping up the episode, they give listeners a sneak peek into what's ahead for Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! as the fall season unfolds.Listen to Heartbreak to...2024-09-2521 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: Codependent Confessions of a Polyamorous HeartIn this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Amanda, who bravely opens up about her personal journey through polyamorous relationships and the unique challenges of navigating co-parenting with three different fathers. Amanda’s story highlights the complexities of love and relationships, as well as the strength it takes to confront her mistakes, patterns, and growth.Through her raw honesty and reflection, Amanda shows that healing and self-awareness are possible, even in the face of difficult choices. Her journey is a powerful testament to owning your truth, learning from the past, and doing better for the fu...2024-09-181h 22
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Trapped in Mis-souri and AbuseIn this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Sarah, a true survivor in every sense of the word. After conquering cancer, Sarah faced another battle—one that left scars far deeper than her illness. Amid the liver complications caused by her treatment, she found herself in a toxic relationship with Bud, a man who embodied everything she never thought she'd accept. An alcoholic and emotionally and physically abusive partner, Bud pulled Sarah into a downward spiral at a time when she was already at her most vulnerable.Join us as Sarah bravely shares her journey of...2024-09-1157 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!EXPERT POV: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships with Bre WoltaIn this special expert POV episode of "NGC, Oh My!", we welcome Bre Wolta, founder of Lucid Living and host of the podcast Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangle the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships. Bre brings her deep expertise and compassionate insights to help us navigate the complex dynamics of narcissistic relationships.Join us as we dive into the tangled web of manipulation, control, and emotional turmoil that defines these toxic connections. Bre shares her personal journey of healing and the powerful tools she developed to reclaim self-worth and find wholeness. This episode is a must-listen for...2024-09-041h 02
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak Part TwoIn this episode (2 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, co-hosts Behk and LAH pick back up with Buddy’s story, delving deeper into the aftermath of his whirlwind marriage. Discover the shocking reason his ex-wife ended up in jail and how this event plunged their relationship into further turmoil. Tune in to continue Buddy's emotional journey and listen to the end to hear his powerful message to men about the importance of mental health and therapy.Follow Buddy: IG | FB | TikTok @brillianceproperWe believe in the importance of sharing stories and ta...2024-08-281h 26
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Fast Love, Fast Heartbreak Part OneIn this episode (1 of 2) of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, Behk and LAH sit down with Behk’s friend, Buddy, a man who found himself in a whirlwind romance that led to a quick marriage after just four months of dating long distance. What seemed like true love quickly turned injurious as Buddy discovered his wife's severe bipolar disorder and alcoholism. In Part 1, we explore the red flags he later realizes, leaving you with a cliffhanger that will have you eagerly awaiting the conclusion in Part 2. Tune in to hear Buddy's journey's emotional twists and turns and the ha...2024-08-2156 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!UPDATES: Behk & LAH Give You the 411In this episode, Behk and LAH dive into the latest updates, tackling a mix of current events and personal life stories with their signature charm and wit. Join them as they reveal exciting upcoming guests who will be sharing their incredible journeys and insights.Please bear with us as we navigate the ups and downs, and thank you so much for tuning in. We truly appreciate your support!We believe in the importance of sharing stories and talking about trauma. All stories are shared anonymously for privacy and respect, and no names or...2024-08-1411 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: Mr Tough GuyIn this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with Behk’s friend, Sam, about her courageous 13-year journey through an abusive, toxic marriage with an addict and diagnosed narcissist ex-husband. Through her incredible strength and determination, Sam not only survived but thrived in the aftermath.Episode HighlightsThe Early Years: Exploring the beginnings of the relationship.The Descent into Abuse and Addiction: Understanding the growing challenges.Breaking Point and Seeking Help: Sam's turning point and her steps to find support.The Journey to Healing: Navigating the path to recovery and healing.Empowerment and Se...2024-08-071h 13
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: Mr SexualIn this episode of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!", co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into Lauren's harrowing tale of her ex-boyfriend, Jason, who later referred to himself as Mr. Sexual. The story takes a dark turn when Jason reveals his hidden kinks much later in their relationship and forces Lauren to participate against her will. But that’s not all — Lauren's experience goes beyond just the unveiling of Jason’s secrets.Join Behk and LAH as they explore the complexities of manipulation, the impact of coerced consent, and the red flags that often go unnoticed until...2024-07-3157 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY: Let That Shit BurnIn this episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH dive into the harrowing tale of Kate and her ex-boyfriend, Justin. Kate opens up about her relationship with Justin, who secretly spiraled into meth addiction without her knowledge. As his addiction worsened, bizarre and unsettling events unfolded, leaving Kate in a state of confusion and fear. Join us as we unravel Kate's story, exploring the impact of addiction on relationships and the strange twists that accompanied Justin's descent. Don't miss this eye-opening episode that highlights the importance of awareness and self-care in the face of unexpected challenges.Tune in...2024-07-2449 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!From the Mouths of Babes: A Child's Perspective on RelationshipsIn this heartfelt kid-friendly episode, co-hosts Behk and LAH bring a unique and touching perspective to the table as LAH dives into a special conversation with Behk's 11-year-old daughter. Through her youthful eyes, she shares her insights on toxic relationships, drawing from stories of her schoolmates and the memorable 5th-grade dance where many of her friends ended up crying over boys.Topics Discussed:Behk & LAH banterMeet Behk’s DaughterStrangers OnlineWhat healthy relationships look likeConsentGaslightingBulliesEqualityBoundariesRed FlagsImportance of communicatingKind celebrities5th Grade Dance DramaAppropriate dating ageWith a mix of enthusiasm an...2024-07-1728 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Young Love Lost in a Mean Girl HazeIn this episode, Behk and LAH sit down with their friend, Charlie, who found herself in a web of toxic friendships and in a marriage with a woman growing in the opposite direction. Married in their twenties, our protagonist and her spouse began to drift apart as the pressures of maintaining a certain lifestyle mounted. Surrounded by a friend group that could be cast in a real-life "Mean Girls" saga, she struggled to meet her partner’s ever-growing demands, all while never receiving the basic love and affection she so desperately needed.Topics Discussed:2024-07-1052 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Codependency is a Hell of a Drug Part TwoIn this episode (2 of 2), co-host LAH picks up her story after year one of her tumultuous relationship. Sitting down once again with her co-host, Behk, LAH dives deep into the emotional roller coaster, financial problems, and sexual trauma that marked her married years. She shares the highs and lows, the moments of hope and despair, and the ongoing struggle to break free from a toxic cycle. Join LAH and Behk as they navigate the complexities of surviving and healing from such profound challenges.Topics Discussed:LGBTQ+ marriageToxic family dynamicsCouples financesSexual coercionLAH's healing journey2024-07-0359 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Codependency is a Hell of a Drug Part OneIn this episode (1 of 2), co-host LAH sits down with her co-host, Behk, to share a deeply personal story. LAH opens up about her childhood trauma and how it shaped her adult relationships. She briefly delves into her childhood, recounting experiences that led her into an 8-year codependent and toxic relationship with an addict.Topics Discussed:Disclaimer of all disclaimersWho is LAH?LAH’s childhoodLAH’s first long-term relationshipCocaine bluesJoin LAH and Behk as they explore the complexities of codependency and the impact of childhood trauma. This episode is a mu...2024-06-2658 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!DRAG is DRess As GirlQUICK NOTE: We apologize for the audio quality in this episode. We did this one in person and it didn't turn out like we'd hoped. If you can bear it, it is a great episode. In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH welcome the incomparable Dyson, also known by her stage name, Trinity Monroe. A two-time title-holding drag queen, Dyson joins us in the studio to share his remarkable journey through the world of drag performance.Topics Discussed:How Behk celebrates Pride Month with LGBTQ+ friendsWhere do we find Soul...2024-06-1938 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!The Greatest ShowmanIn this episode, Behk and LAH welcome a dear friend from their early twenties, John, to share his compelling and raw story from an LGBTQ+ perspective. Join us as John opens up about his tumultuous journey through a toxic relationship with a successful and influential partner who helped open doors for him in the theater world.Topics Discussed:Behk runs into a fan adjacent in the wildMeet Behk’s bestie, JohnA lesbian, a gay guy, and a witch walk into a barJohn talks about his toxic relationship with “the greatest showman”Understanding the narc is a conu...2024-06-1258 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!The Dichotomy Diaries with Amanda ArnierIn this special collaboration episode, Behk & LAH of "Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!" sit down with Amanda Arnier, the insightful host of "The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast." Together, they explore emotional intricacies in relationships, focusing on the challenges of dealing with narcissists and toxic people. Topics Discussed:Meet Amanda Arnier of the podcast, The Dichotomy DiariesTrust – is it earned or a gift?Why Amanda started “The Dichotomy Diaries” podcastThe importance of sharing our storiesThe case of DickThe dual mothership theory by Dr. VakninWe’re Carl JungiansAttachmentsAmanda’s healing journeyWhat's next for “The Dichotomy Diaries?”...2024-06-051h 03
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!The Relative TruthUPDATE: We are excited to announce that the episode has been updated to include the end of Shirley's story. We appreciate your patience and understanding as we worked through some technical difficulties to bring you the full, unfiltered account of Shirley's journey. Thank you for your continued support and for bearing with us. We hope you find the updated episode both compelling and insightful.Tip: If you're not seeing the 1:09 long version yet, you'll need to clear the cache in the app. ;)In this episode, we dive into the story of Shirley, a...2024-05-291h 08
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Behk & LAH Banter About Holler Goblins, Clueless Men, and T.SwiftIn this episode, hosts Behk and LAH take a break from the heavy and dive into a whirlwind of ADHD-fueled topics, from holler goblins, men who just don’t get it, to our favorite songs from Taylor’s The Tortured Poets Department album.Discussions in this episode:What is sassy water?The 5th-grade dance dramaUpcoming guestsCorporate event butt sketch artistsThe Kinky Renaissance FairHave you ever heard of the Holler Goblins?Harry the BigfootFuck venomous snakes!Bear vs Man in the WoodsThe clueless guyTaylor Swift and TTPDYou can tune in t...2024-05-2237 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Mr AudacityIn this episode, we delve into the harrowing story of Jodi, whose life took a dark turn when she entered a relationship with a friend. Thinking she knew him well after five years of acquaintance, she never imagined the horror that awaited her.Discussions in this Episode:Bloody Noses and TornadoesMeet a listener, JodiJohn moves in, turns out to be a nightmareJodi gets hooked on methPolice frequently visit her homeJohn ignores protective ordersDrains Jodi's life in 10 monthsSons sense troubleJodi struggles to break freeTherapy and support help her regain strengthJodi starts to reclaim her life and...2024-05-151h 23
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Unraveling Family Toxicity Part ThreeIn the powerful continuation of Sarah's journey, we delve into a deeply personal and emotional chapter of her life as she confronts the toxic relationship with her mother. Despite enduring years of neglect and abuse at the hands of her father and ex-husband, Sarah's struggles with her mother's racism and lack of love proved to be another layer of trauma she had to navigate.In this episode, Sarah bravely shares her experiences of growing up with a mother who showed zero love and constantly exhibited racist behavior towards Sarah’s partners and her children. From hurtful re...2024-05-0840 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Unraveling Family Toxicity Part TwoIn this follow-up episode, we delve into another chapter of Sarah's life filled with struggle and resilience. Sarah opens up about her tumultuous 14-year marriage to William, a religious and controlling man whose manipulation and dominance cast a shadow over her life.Discussions in the episode:Behk & LAH banter about trashSarah's relationship with William beginsTheir 14-year toxic marriageHis control tacticsBreaking free from the bullshitFinally focusing on herself and healingShe endured emotional abuse, manipulation, and control tactics that left her feeling trapped and isolated. William's strict religious beliefs served as a...2024-05-011h 09
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Unraveling Family Toxicity Part OneIn this episode, Sarah, the sister of Amanda who shared her perspective in "A Child Left Behind Part 1 and 2," bravely opens up about her own upbringing in a toxic family environment. From a very young age, Sarah was made to feel unloved by her father, who seemed to harbor deep animosity towards her. But her struggles didn't end there—her mother's indifference and eventual decision to send her to state custody only added to her trauma.Discussions in the episode:Behk & LAH banter about procrastinatingMeet SarahUnloving FatherSelfish MotherLiving in state custodyBeing kidnappedWe’ll pick up next...2024-04-241h 16
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Medical Gaslighting and a Poorly Timed Money ShotCurious about which episode topped our Top-Five Replay list? Just before our hiatus, we revisited it to help our guest, so we opted against another replay. However, the #1 spot goes to... Cue the drum roll... "The Definition of a Bad Guy." Wondering how we determined these rankings? We relied on metrics, selecting the episodes with the highest number of plays within the initial 30 days of their release. We trust you found it as captivating as we did. Now, let's dive back into the show.In this episode, we revisit Amanda, whose journey through the medical system...2024-04-1757 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Top-Five REPLAY: Sheila UnmaskedComing in at #2 on our top-five countdown, we delve into the heartbreaking story of Jessica, a dedicated community builder who found herself entangled in a tumultuous marriage with a narcissistic Sheila (an Australian woman). At first glance, her ex-wife appeared to have it all – stunning looks, intellect, and undeniable charm. However, behind this facade lay a dark and manipulative reality.Jessica opens up about the whirlwind romance that led her to believe she had found her soulmate, only to discover later that her partner had a severe narcissistic personality disorder. Their life took a devastating turn du...2024-04-101h 04
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Top-Five REPLAY: Unexpected Validation and HopeComing in at #3 on our top-five countdown, we delve into the extraordinary life of Nancy, a resilient individual who triumphed over a tumultuous childhood marked by a toxic mother and the devastating loss of her father to suicide. Nancy bravely shares her deeply personal story, recounting the challenges she faced while growing up and the emotional turmoil of witnessing her father's tragic end.Despite the overwhelming trauma, Nancy found the strength to envision a life filled with positivity and fulfillment. She takes us through her journey of self-discovery, highlighting the pivotal moments that allowed her to...2024-04-0346 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Top-Five REPLAY: The Parasite of AnywherevilleComing in at #4 on our top-five countdown, we delve into the life of Cheryle, whose childhood took an unexpected turn when her parents divorced. As she navigated the complexities of life, she found herself entangled in a series of disappointing romantic relationships. However, none compare to the tumultuous saga that became a thorn in her side for 7 years..Cheryle shares her stressful experience with a partner she describes as a parasitic presence – a man who entered her life and seemed to have no intention of leaving. With precision, she recounts the moments when attempts to distance he...2024-03-2759 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Top-Five REPLAY: Unbreaking Bad - Bred from ToxicityComing in at #5 on our top-five countdown, we sit down with Brandy, a counselor and author whose life story is nothing short of inspiring. Brandy's journey has been marred by the long-lasting scars of an abusive, narcissistic father that left her with seemingly insurmountable challenges. Her resilience, however, is a testament to the power of the human spirit.Brandy's life took a dramatic turn when she reached her breaking point, resulting in her imprisonment. But what could have been the end of her story turned out to be a turning point. During her time behind bars...2024-03-2059 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Behk & LAH Banter About...In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH dive into a whirlwind of random topics, from mourning the loss of LAH's beloved family dog to discussing the latest mind-boggling TikToks of ReesaTeesa's "Who the TF did I marry?"As they dissect their favorite podcasts and docu-series, including the gripping "Death by Fame" Behk and LAH ponder when they'll be ready to share their own tales with their audience.However, the conversation takes a poignant turn as they delve into the topic of emotions. With genuine curiosity, they ask: "How are you with your feelings?"...2024-03-1336 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY Spotlight: The Definition of a Bad GuyIn this episode, Behk & LAH engage in lively banter, but amidst the laughter, we are compelled to share a poignant story. We revisit this episode to shed light on a tragic event unfolding in the lives of Bethany and her husband, Jeff. On February 10th, Jeff suffered a debilitating stroke, affecting the left side of his brain. Although he survived a challenging MER procedure to remove the blood clot, he now faces immense hurdles. His right side is paralyzed, his speech severely limited, and tragically, he has lost the ability to indulge in his greatest passion – playing the guitar. We...2024-03-061h 01
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!The Hot Guy from High SchoolIn this episode, Heather shares her tumultuous journey with a narcissistic partner she encountered after reconnecting with a hot guy from high school. Heather recounts her initial excitement as she pursued a relationship with him through social media, only to find herself ensnared in a web of manipulation and emotional abuse.Discussions in the episode:Meet HeatherMoving back to her hometownInitial excitement and pursuitExclusivity and control tacticsInternal confusion and questioning of her self-worth and sanityRed flags and warning signsEmpowerment and encouragement for listenersAs their relationship progressed, Heather found herself subjected...2024-02-2854 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY Spotlight: All-American ChadIn this episode, Behk and LAH banter for a bit about things like being 40 and recouping from a night out at the club, the gorgeous Tennessee weather, but most importantly why they want to replay Reshea’s incredible story. Reshea is a survivor who escaped an abusive and toxic marriage to a military husband, all while contending with societal pressures and a misplaced belief in superficial standards of partner acceptability.Discussions in the episode include:Meet ResheaGrowing up under societal pressuresFalling into the toxic marriage trap too youngThe military marriage dynamicThe turning point and escaping ab...2024-02-211h 04
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Escaping the Hobosexual TrapIn this episode, we delve into Melanie's story of resilience and determination as she recounts her journey of breaking free from the clutches of a toxic relationship. Melanie, with her idyllic childhood and a heart brimming with kindness, thought she had found a life partner in James when they connected through a dating app. However, what began as a promising romance soon turned into a nightmare.Discussions in this episode:Meet MelanieMeeting James, the hobosexualJames moves inCOVID-19 Lockdown hellEscaping the manipulationFinally no contactWithin a year of dating, James...2024-02-1450 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Covertly Yours, Dick the CharmerIn this episode, we continue the harrowing story of Jena from episode five, who escaped the clutches of a cult only to find herself ensnared in another form of darkness. After leaving the cult, Jena thought she had found solace in the arms of Dick, a man who initially seemed like the perfect partner—comforting, strong, and gentle. They swiftly tied the knot after a year of seemingly blissful companionship.However, the facade began to crumble as Dick insidiously tore apart the very fabric of Jena's well-being and used her past against her. This episode explores th...2024-02-071h 32
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Abusive Culty ToxicityIn this gripping episode, we dive into the harrowing journey of Jena, a survivor who grew up in a cobbled-together toxic Christiany cult. The cult's roots trace back to Southern California before its leader convinced the members to uproot their lives and relocate to the Bible Belt, White House, TN.Jena shares the chilling details of her upbringing within the cult, where a rigid doctrine based on perfection and blind obedience dominated every aspect of life. As a survivor of sexual abuse, she courageously opens up about the traumatic experiences she endured at the hands of...2024-01-3158 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Breaking Generational CyclesIn this episode, Stephanie opens up about her upbringing in Florida, shaped by the traumatic experiences of her parents' own challenging childhoods. The echoes of this difficult past reverberated through Stephanie and her sister's lives, causing tension and discord between them.With courage and vulnerability, Stephanie shares her personal journey and aspirations. Despite the shadows cast by her family's history, she expresses a deep desire to break the cycle of trauma. Stephanie is determined to provide her son with a different narrative — one filled with love, care, and protection.Discussions in th...2024-01-241h 05
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!A Child Left Behind Part TwoIn this episode, we continue our conversation with Amanda, a remarkable individual who emerged triumphant despite growing up in the deep rural South with disturbingly toxic parents. From a young age, Amanda faced the harsh realities of child abuse, and neglect, while witnessing unimaginable scenarios that no child should endure.As we explore Amanda's narrative, we unravel the layers of her resilience and strength. Her teenage years were marred by the deep-seated scars of abuse, leaving her caught in the clutches of a broken foster care system. However, Amanda's story is not one of defeat; it's...2024-01-171h 17
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!A Child Left Behind Part OneIn this episode, we sit down with Amanda, a remarkable individual who emerged triumphant despite growing up in the deep rural South with disturbingly toxic parents. From a young age, Amanda faced the harsh realities of child abuse, and neglect, while witnessing unimaginable scenarios that no child should endure.As we explore Amanda's narrative, we unravel the layers of her resilience and strength. Her teenage years were marred by the deep-seated scars of abuse, leaving her caught in the clutches of a broken foster care system. However, Amanda's story is not one of defeat; it's a...2024-01-101h 20
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!The Parasite of AnywherevilleIn this episode, we delve into the life of Cheryle, whose childhood took an unexpected turn when her parents divorced. As she navigated the complexities of life, she found herself entangled in a series of disappointing romantic relationships. However, none compare to the tumultuous saga that became a thorn in her side for 7 years..Cheryle shares her stressful experience with a partner she describes as a parasitic presence – a man who entered her life and seemed to have no intention of leaving. With precision, she recounts the moments when attempts to distance herself only fueled his pe...2024-01-0359 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Behk & LAH Give ThanksHey, loyal listeners! This is Behk & LAH from Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!, and we can't express enough gratitude for your continued support. As the holidays approach, we're taking a brief hiatus to recharge, spend time with loved ones, and gather even more jaw-dropping tales for you.But don't worry, we're not leaving you hanging for too long! We will return in January with fresh episodes filled with new stories that will make you gasp, laugh, and maybe even question the sanity of some individuals out there.As we wrap up this...2023-11-2207 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Unexpected Validation and HopeIn this episode, we delve into the extraordinary life of Nancy, a resilient individual who triumphed over a tumultuous childhood marked by a toxic mother and the devastating loss of her father to suicide. Nancy bravely shares her deeply personal story, recounting the challenges she faced while growing up and the emotional turmoil of witnessing her father's tragic end.Despite the overwhelming trauma, Nancy found the strength to envision a life filled with positivity and fulfillment. She takes us through her journey of self-discovery, highlighting the pivotal moments that allowed her to break free from the...2023-11-1546 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Unbreaking Bad – Bred from ToxicityIn this episode, we sit down with Brandy, a counselor and author whose life story is nothing short of inspiring. Brandy's journey has been marred by the long-lasting scars of an abusive, narcissistic father that left her with seemingly insurmountable challenges. Her resilience, however, is a testament to the power of the human spirit.Brandy's life took a dramatic turn when she reached her breaking point, resulting in her imprisonment. But what could have been the end of her story turned out to be a turning point. During her time behind bars, Brandy discovered an unexpected...2023-11-0859 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Doctor FeelbadIn the episode, we dive into the agonizing journey of Aleah, a military veteran who battled an invisible enemy for six long years. Her enemy wasn't on the battlefield; it was hiding within her own body, and its name was alpha-gal.Join us as we explore the distressing story of Aleah's relentless struggle with the condition that few had even heard of. Despite her consistent pleas and undeniable symptoms, doctors consistently dismissed her concerns, attributing her health issues to stress, anxiety, or other unrelated factors. Aleah's ordeal serves as a compelling reminder of the all-too-common experiences...2023-11-0152 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!The Definition of a Bad GuyIn this episode, we sit down with Bethany, a survivor with a powerful story of resilience, hope, and recovery. Join us as she bravely recounts her encounter with a manipulative sexual predator who turned a date into a nightmarish ordeal.Bethany opens up about the chilling experience of being taunted and sexually harassed by someone she initially considered a potential romantic interest, and how she summoned the courage to escape from his home. Her escape was only the beginning of her journey to healing, as she shares how she sought support from a trusted friend and...2023-10-2558 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Sheila UnmaskedIn this episode, we delve into the heartbreaking story of Jessica, a dedicated community builder who found herself entangled in a tumultuous marriage with a narcissistic Sheila. At first glance, her ex-wife appeared to have it all – stunning looks, intellect, and undeniable charm. However, behind this facade lay a dark and manipulative reality.Jessica opens up about the whirlwind romance that led her to believe she had found her soulmate, only to discover later that her partner had a severe narcissistic personality disorder. Their life took a devastating turn during the COVID-19 lockdown, a time when st...2023-10-181h 04
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Sweet Peaches, Toxic MamaIn this episode, we sit down with Maya, a resilient woman in her 40s hailing from the heart of Georgia. Maya's story is a poignant exploration of her tumultuous relationship with her narcissistic mother, her pursuit of healing through therapy, and her remarkable journey toward building a harmonious life with her wife while becoming closer to her father later in life.But this story isn't just about hardship; it's about resilience and growth. Maya's decision to seek therapy in her 40s marks a turning point in her life. With the guidance of a compassionate therapist and...2023-10-1136 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!REPLAY Spotlight: Bully Behind the ScreenIn this episode, we dive into a unique and challenging dating story as Lisa opens up about her experience with Trent, the man who presents two vastly different sides: an ideal partner in person and a relentless bully behind the screen. Join us as we explore the complexities of dating, emotional manipulation, and the importance of recognizing red flags.Discussions in this episode:Behk & LAH’s message to listeners :)Meet LisaLisa's first impressionsTrent's Jekyll and Hyde actThe emotional tollDecision to confront TrentThe enigma of TrentThe importance of setting boundariesHealing journeyMessage to others...2023-10-041h 07
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!One Rotten AppleIn this episode, we sit down with Nicole and A, two passionate Facebook group admins who set out to create a haven for like-minded crunchy women seeking support, empowerment, and camaraderie in a Southern town. Their intentions were pure, their vision radiant – to cultivate a positive and loving online and in-person community where women could thrive together and find a healthy lifestyle for their families in the deep-fried south.But as we all know, even the most idyllic landscapes can fall prey to a single rotten apple. In this case, that rotten apple was one toxic an...2023-09-271h 03
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Holy Toxic Mama!In this episode, we unravel the harrowing journey of Lydia who endured relentless verbal abuse at the hands of her brutal Pentecostal mother while her pleas for mental help regarding physical and sexual abuse fell on deaf ears. Lydia's story sheds light on the often unspoken pain experienced within some religious communities. This episode may contain triggering content, so please listen with discretion.Discussions in this episode:Who is Lydia?Unveiling the painful pastDarkness within the homePhysical and emotional painDeath becomes herLetting goIf you or someone you know is dealing...2023-09-2043 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Codependent Confessions of a Polyamorous HeartIn this episode, we delve deep into Amanda's personal journey, where she courageously shares her experiences with polyamorous relationships and the challenges she faced with her three different baby daddies. Amanda's story is a powerful reminder of the complexities of love, relationships, and the resilience of the human spirit. She is brave enough to share her story and admit to mistakes and patterns that hurt people. What we think is amazing about this guest's story is her willingness to own her shit, heal, grow, learn, and do better.Discussions in this episode:Who is Amanda...2023-09-131h 22
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!AssholeryIn this episode, Sheena is back sharing the story of her ex, Matt. Their dysfunctional on-again, off-again relationship almost ended up with him laying hands on her. How did she navigate his toxic assholery and got out once and for all before it turned physical? Oh my, let’s get into it.Content Warning: This episode discusses topics that may upset some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Pl...2023-09-0642 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Okay, Nope.In our TENTH episode, OMG WE MADE IT TO TEN! We’re a little excited. Anyway, we’re doing something a bit different than we’ve done so far. Sheena shares her long list of “fun” online dating stories. If you are on the dating apps, you know the “fun” we mean. She also shares insights on what she's learned through these experiences - so listen to the end. Oh my, let’s get into it.Content Warning: This episode discusses topics that may upset some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or t...2023-08-3052 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Monster-in-LawIn this episode, Alex shares stories of her overbearing mother-in-law, where she and her husband are trying so hard to create boundaries and not let the husband’s mother affect their relationship with each other. Luckily, Alex has her husband's full support. How will this supportive duo tame the beast?Content Warning: This episode discusses topics that may upset some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill ou...2023-08-231h 04
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Adventures of Voldemort, Chuck Roast, & Kitchen ShitterIn the second half of this two-part episode, Fred and Roxy continue to share their sordid, twisted tale with their very funny comedic banter. This time Roxy shares the story of three toxic exes; Lord Voldemort, Chuck Roast the hobo sexual, and Damien the kitchen shitter. It’s a longer one, but they bring the funny with heartfelt lessons learned.Content Warning: This episode discusses sensitive mental health episodes, infidelity, drug addiction, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not ta...2023-08-161h 07
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Lesbians Call It UhaulingIn this special two-part episode, Fred and Roxy join us to share their sordid, twisted tale. In part one, Fred shares the story of his ex-wife, Farrah. Their relationship went from 0 to 60 in a flash — which left no time to get to know each other when fools rush in. What could possibly go wrong?Content Warning: This episode discusses sensitive mental health episodes, drug addiction, infidelity, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice....2023-08-0957 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Let That Shit BurnIn this episode, Kate shares the story of her ex-boyfriend, Justin who became addicted to meth without her knowing at first. But then shit got real weird.Content Warning: This episode discusses drug addiction and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.If you feel like you or anyone you know is showing signs of drug abuse or addiction please call the American Addiction Center at 877-768-9614 or...2023-08-0249 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Mr SexualIn this episode, Lauren shares the story of her ex-boyfriend, Jason, who later referred to himself as Mr. Sexual. He revealed to her much later in the relationship about his kinks and forced her to participate anyway. But, that's not all.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of domestic violence, infidelity, sexual abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.If you feel like you may be...2023-07-2657 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Co-Parenting TrapIn this episode, Maggie is a brave survivor who will share her harrowing experience and her ongoing struggles with co-parenting in a court system that doesn't always provide the fairness and support survivors need.Episode Highlights:Meet MaggieThe abusive relationship unveiledNavigating the legal systemCoping and healingLessons learned and adviceThank you for joining us for this heartbreaking episode. If you or someone you know is experiencing narcissistic abuse or a challenging co-parenting situation, please don't hesitate to seek help.Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of domestic...2023-07-191h 03
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Mr Tough GuyIn this episode, we're honored to have Sam as our guest, who will bravely share her 13-year journey through an abusive, toxic marriage with an addict and diagnosed narcissist ex-husband. Through her strength and determination, Sam not only survived but thrived in the aftermath.Episode HighlightsThe Early YearsThe Descent into Abuse and AddictionBreaking Point and Seeking HelpThe Journey to HealingEmpowerment and Self-DiscoveryMoving ForwardSam's story is a testament to the power of resilience and the capacity for healing. It reminds us that it's never too late to break free from...2023-07-121h 13
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!All-American ChadIn this episode, we delve into the remarkable journey of Reshea, a survivor who escaped an abusive and toxic marriage to a military husband, all while contending with societal pressures and a misplaced belief in superficial standards of partner acceptability.Discussions in the episode include:Meet ResheaGrowing up under societal pressuresFalling into the toxic marriage trapThe military marriage dynamicThe turning point and escaping abuseUnpacking the healing processMessage to listenersThank you for joining us on this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! If Reshea's story resonated with you, please...2023-07-0557 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Bully Behind the ScreenIn this episode, we dive into a unique and challenging dating story as Lisa opens up about her experience with Trent, the man who presents two vastly different sides: an ideal partner in person and a relentless bully behind the screen. Join us as we explore the complexities of dating, emotional manipulation, and the importance of recognizing red flags.Discussions in this episode:Meet LisaLisa's first impressionsTrent's Jekyll and Hyde actThe emotional tollDecision to confront TrentThe enigma of TrentThe importance of setting boundariesHealing journeyMessage to othersLisa's dating story serves as...2023-06-2857 min
Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!Intro - Hi, We're Behk & LAHIn this intro, Behk & LAH /ehl-uh/ introduce themselves and banter about the show and why they are here sharing these stories with you.We are not doctors or therapists and none of our opinions should be taken as medical advice.Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.Would you like to help support the show more? Donate or subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHarden2023-06-2118 min