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SPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS2,Ep10. The Transition From Teenage Years To The TwentiesThis is the season finale for the season 2 of the podcast. Benjamin, the host, invited Priscilla, the scrabble champion, to spill tea about The Transition From Teenage Years To The Twenties.
They talked about, the challenges of the transition, the self discovery journey, lessons learnt so far from the transition, and their interactions with the word.
It a was fun and interesting conversation, letting the other peers that are in the phase of transition know that they are not alone in this.
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2023-10-211h 01SPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS2,Ep9. Countering Shege With Self CareOn this episode, ella joined Benjamin as they discussed the aspects of self care that could help counter shege. Listen and enjoy
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2023-09-2551 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS2,Ep8. Comfortably Single with DeraOn this episode, Benjamin invited Dera on the podcast, and they gisted about Dera’s comfortable single lifestyle, situationship and relationship sagas, and breakups. As Benjamin tried to discover the reasons Dera was so comfortable with being single, they had much to say, touching other aspects of the dating scene among young adults.
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2023-09-0546 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS2,Ep7. Leke, The Yoruba DemonOn this episode, the host explored the way of reasoning of a Yoruba Demon,Leke.
It was a calm episode, in which leke explained to the podcast who a Yoruba demon is, and their characteristics. It was shocking to know that Yoruba demons are calm and quiet, but also demonic in nature. Leke is a proud Yoruba demon, and he shared his perception on certain things asked by the host with you.
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2023-08-1228 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS2,Ep6. It’s Not Bad To Be SingleThere’s absolutely no need to be pressurised to be in a relationship. If you haven’t found someone you can enjoy every moment with, calm down if your age permits it. You’re less than 25 and you’re bothered about relationships, really? If you’ve found a good person, good for you. If you’ve not, it’s fine.
Benjamin and 3 of his friends talked about the rush into relationships, which, in most cases leads to unhealthy and toxic relationships. They also debated on the question “ is being single a flex?”
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2023-07-2657 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS2,Ep5. Stop Jumping Ship!After a very long unexpected break, the podcast is back with an amazing episode. Jumping “ship” is an activity whereby a a male or a female move from one committed “relationship” or “situationship” to another swiftly without any regard to their significant other. Kitan and Benjamin talked on this topic reflecting from their past experience and vocalising their opinions on the about topic.
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2023-07-0835 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS2, Ep4. Bro Code 101On this episode, Benjamin introduced a familiar face, Kitan, as the Co-host of the podcast. They gave a course on bro code titled “Bro code 101”. The lecture went on as the boys spilled a couple of bro codes with some experiences they had. Listen and enjoy.
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2023-05-0654 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS2E3. Master At One Or Average At Many?On this episode, Benjamin interviewed Seun Adesanya (aka The Pr Guy) on the above topic. Seun shares his story on how he achieve what he has, where he began, the struggles he faced, and how he was able to focus on his career path. We also talked about the power of focusing on a skill.
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2023-04-1933 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS2,Ep2. We Ignore ReciprocityArguments, banters, laughters, scenarios and life experiences. This episode was filled with all of these characteristics. Benjamin and his guests shared their opinion on what they know Reciprocity to be.
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2023-04-0357 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS2,Ep1. Self Love And ConfidenceHave you even felt too inferior for your own good, and your confidence is no where to be found?. And you wonder if self love is being selfish. I interviewed Esther and she shared her opinion on the topic said.
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2023-03-1742 min
SPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E29.Boundaries In RelationshipsHey guys! Welcome to the season 1 finale of this podcast. On this episode I have Suga and Oyin as my guests. And we talked on the topic ‘Boundaries In Relationships’
- What do you understand by boundaries?
- What is your perspective on boundaries?
- Who are you keeping boundaries with ?
- How do you set boundaries ?
- Do boundaries change?
All these questions and many more were carefully examined and talked about according of the guests or host’s perspective.
This will be the last episode of the season and it’s been a wonderful journey with every one of my au...
2022-12-1747 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E28. Prioritising Your PrioritiesHey guys, welcome to another episode of the podcast. On this episode I had two guests, Samson and Nifemi.
On this episode we talked about “ prioritising your priorities”. A lot of people do not know their priorities or what is more important to them and why.
As youths, we often ignore our priorities and follow other unimportant things.
We need to prioritise our priorities according to orders of importance.
My guests and I said our opinions on this topic, we said things according to our knowledge of understanding and our experience.
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2022-11-2639 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E27. Dealing With Your ExesHey guys welcome to another episode...
On this episode we talked about “Dealing with your ex’s.” Korex and Tolu joined me on this episode.
First of all, this is not an advisory episode so we didn’t really do any advising. A wise person will take advices from our stories.
The point of this episode is to share with you all that we all can make mistakes while dealing with our ex’s and we aren’t perfect.
It all leads to working on yourself, you need to be that hard guy to your ex.
We talked about some situations t...
2022-10-2939 min
LifeThe Society Series: Social Media, the good, the bad and how to use it for the best. E4This is the first episode of The Society Series (formerly known as Social Issues Series), more positive name due to change on the podcast. In this Episode I have my dear friend Benjamin Olojede and we talked about how you can use it to your own advantage, in my mind it was supposed to be an issue episode so this now is more of a solution one. I really hope you enjoy the episode because there are a lot of juicy tips and tricks for how you can swerve away from the negative part of Social Media, always feel free t...
2022-10-2459 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E26. Keeping Worthy And Important FriendsOn this episode, I had David aka banky to join us. And we both had a conversation about worthy and important friends.
We talked about a lot of things and linked the topic to different scenarios and previous experiences.
We also talked about the features of an important friend, classifying our friends to the area of importance in our life’s.
We also talked about letting go of toxic and unimportant friends.
I passed a news about the podcast to my audience, so tap on the listen button to listen to the episode and also the news.
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2022-10-2240 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E25.Whore PhaseOn this episode of the podcast, we talked about whore phase. Whore phase is mostly related with teenagers and sometimes youths.
I had Kitan as my guest and we said some real truth and nothing bias.
We talked about our whore phase experience, what we felt during the phase and what we felt after.
We also gave some disadvantages and little bit convincing advantage.
You’ll enjoy the episode, trust me.
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2022-10-1531 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E24. Commitment Issues And TemptationOn this episode I was joined by Ella and we talked about commitment issues and temptations.
We talked about causes of commitment issues. And fear being one of the major factor.
We also answered questions in our own opinion on ; commitment being a choice, if you have to be committed in a unofficial relationship and many other questions relating to the episode topic.
And then we talked about temptation and how it is unavoidable.
We gave a lot of scenarios and talked about our personal experience on the topic.
We gave extra “Teas” too 😏. You won’t want to skip this epis...
2022-10-0846 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E23. The pressure is getting worserWe’ve been hearing the saying “The pressure is getting worser”. The pressure is actually getting worser, especially with the youth.
On this episode, I invited Deborah and David aka Banky to come and talk with us.
And they said a lot of meaningful things and also their opinion.
David shared a story of his trials to be in relationships and how it affected him. He also shared the way the pressure of seeing others in relationships affected him, although he’s doing very fine and he’s focused on his life at the moment.
Deborah kicked of with a story of a...
2022-10-0146 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E22. It’s Not Always About LoveOn this episode, the host Benjamin was joined by Allen and Ore.
The topic we talked on was “ it’s not always about love”
We had a very good discussion and some arguments.
We talked about people who cheat. And the question “ when someone cheats , does the person still love his partner?” Came up. We talked and argued on this question speaking from our own point of view.
We also talked about ended relationships which is not love related. Your partner breaking up with you is not always because your partner doesn’t love you anymore, there are some other reasons why...
2022-09-2439 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E21. Men and sharing emotionsShut up, you’re a man. Man up, stop crying men don’t cry , you can’t be sad , you can’t be scared you are a man. These are the things all men were told while growing up.
On this episode, I have Joba and Fome with me and we talk about ‘Men And Sharing Emotions’.
We talked about why it is difficult for men to share their emotions.
Joba said the society is the No1 factor why men do not show emotions. He also said the origin of Toxic masculinity was from the era of wars.
Then we talk more on...
2022-09-1753 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E20. What are you dating for ?What are you dating for ?
A lot of teenagers, youths and even some adults just jump ships , from one relationship to another without any aim whatsoever.
If you’re well developed personally, you are supposed to know what you’re dating for.
On this episode, Victoria, Ella and of course the host Benjamin had a round table discussion where there was arguments, vibe , disagreements, table shaking and much to learn.
We kicked of from the highlight of the Exclusive taking stage topic which was the “ whenever it ends it ends “ conversation. We argued a bit more about it being proper and best...
2022-09-1043 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E19. Love at first sight?Love at first sight is an overwhelming sensation that feels like love but is a fairytale that is almost impossible, yet some people believe in it and some do not.
On this episode I had Fisola and Fome as my guests. Fisola believes there’s love at first sight while Fome doesn’t.
They both argued on the topic and took the show away from the host , which is a good thing.
Fisola tried to twist the head of the host into believing there’s love at first sight but Fome did a good job not making the host fall for it...
2022-09-0329 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E18. Exclusive Talking StageVibes, disagreements, agreements, laughter and ultimate fun.
This episode is called the Exclusive Talking stage, I had kitan and Victoria as my guests on this episode.
An exclusive talking stage is a well developed talking stage where by some certain and obvious things happening in a titled relationship happen in the talking stage.
We vibed and looked into some some really good questions and also talked on things from our point of view.
We argued and agreed and even learnt somethings from the episode.
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2022-08-2737 min
SPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E17. Blind Date (special episode)This special episode is a Blind date.
This blind date is a social experiment examining the possibility of forming and creating a bound or connection between two different people ( different gender), who do not know each other from Adam!.
On this episode, I had confidence and korede set up for a blind date. They didn’t even know each other’s name until the date.
They had 15 minutes to get to connect and vibe, with two life lines ( sneak a pic and skip a question)
They started the date on a slow and wired pace which is normal , they do not...
2022-08-2022 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,E16. Open relationship with MustyOn this episode, I interviewed musty.
He shared his experience in an open relationship.
An open relationship has been accepted as normal in the society but yet still uncommon or rather people have not been really comfortable sharing the definition of their relationship.
Musty story is a very interesting one and he left a warning “ you’ll think you can handle it until you get into it”.
Listen to his story , and enjoy.
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2022-08-1328 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep15. Lack of contentment in relationshipsOn this episode, Benjamin the host went solo.
I talked about lack of contentment in my relationship and how it affected me when I realised.
It went in an anticlimax kind of story telling, from how my first breakfast (breakup) lead to series and couple of situationships and fall out to the relationship where I wasn’t contented. Then later realising my lack of contentment after months of self growth and development.
I also talked about the pain I felt and how I was hunted by it. It was a very interesting story with much to learn from.
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2022-08-0627 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep14. What happened to Dead Dreams ?What happened to dead dreams ?
We can’t formulate a theory because there are infinite amounts of things that makes a dream dead.
On this episode, I had joba and Tamilore as my guests and they said their opinions on dead dreams.
We talked on some hindrances to dreams and how the society affects dreams.
I formulated 4 major dream killers , which are fear , negative company , bad behaviour and procrastination. We talked more on them on the podcast , listen for yourself and enjoy.
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2022-07-3049 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep13. Why do “we” cheat ?It’s not a new saying that men are the most likely to cheat, now the rate is almost even between both genders.
On this episode I had Victor and Shalom as my guests. Wonderful people with different point of views or similar in some cases.
They both shared their opinion on the above topic. Why do we cheat ?, this is practically a rhetorical question. There’s no perfect answer to it.
My guest and I answered to some situations where people cheat in their relationships.
The point where men starts cheating , the moment when the butterflies fades away in a wo...
2022-07-1644 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep12. Q&A with my best friendOn this episode, I had a double host thing. It was me(Benjamin) and my best friend Ella .
My best friend and I have been together for almost 4 years now and have been very genuine in our relationship, we’ve had to endure some difficult moments also.
Maintaining a good best friend relationship with an opposite gender is a beautiful and an interesting thing , but our society doesn’t want it.
It’s a great feeling for me and Ella to have proved society with all their theories wrong till this day. You deserve a best friend, same gender or opposi...
2022-07-0940 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep11. Chronicles of the simpmasterSimping,what do you understand by simping?.
Well, I got the simpmaster (fisola) and Kitan to talk on this episode.
We all know simping has been trending lately, the whole alpha male thing. But it’s not only men that do simp, women also simp.
On this episode I and my guest talked about the simping, what simping is , who a simp is, some simp behaviours and many more.
Kitan shared his awful simping experience while fisola referred us back to episode 5 where she said everything.
This episode is full of fun and laughter. I enjoyed it and I’m sure...
2022-07-0241 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep10. Men and societal pressure and expectationsSocietal pressure is inevitable, but it punishes a lot of youths, especially men.
On this episode, I had a round table talk with joba , semilore and kayode on “men and societal pressure and expectations “
The pressure on men has been consistent almost from the beginning of humanity. And it’s very hard for us(men).
I decided to talk on this topic with these guys and we had a lot of fun talking about this topic. Answering different questions the way we seem to understand it.
We talked about how financial pressure has been more emphasised. We also talked about family...
2022-06-251h 01SPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep9. Short or long distance, na everybody go chop breakfastOn this episode , I interviewed Deborah about her relationship.
It was a long distance relationship, and she talked about how she took the risk of trying it out.
This episode was definitely fun. I was very interested in what she had to to say about long distance relationship. I mean it’s an attractive topic.
I think the world had a view of long distance relationship being dangerous but she said and I quote “ short,long or medium, we will all receive breakfast”.
That sentence change my mind to be honest, I’m sure it will also change your narrative about lo...
2022-06-1822 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep8. What do women want? With Victoria HoraceWhat do women what ?
This can be referred to as the question of the century. Women, very complicated and difficult set of human to understand.
Personally I do not know what women want. But different women have different wants.
On this episode, I interviewed Victoria Horace. She talked briefly about her relationship status.
She said a lot of different things about what she wants as a woman.
She was also very considerate with men when mentioning some things. I was quite surprised, maybe you might not be surprised when you listen.
It’s a different thing to know what your wo...
2022-06-1126 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep7• Meet ashawo aidexThis weeks episode is “meet ashawo aidex “😂, I invited Samuel (aidex)
It was an interview on his former relationship and how it was like , how his partner then didn’t reciprocate the same energy he gave. “She wanted to be treated like a queen, but didn’t want to treat me like a king” (his words).
He also spoke on how she felt entitled. Being more demanding than grateful.
He also spoke on the benefits of being single, and how breaking up with his partner then actually helped him to visualise himself and be better.
He also spoke about the way he tried to...
2022-06-0433 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep6. After Breakfast 🍳After breakfast
Like we all know , breakfast is a common term used in Nigeria for breakup.
Everyone eventually collects breakfast, as a popular saying “breakfast na national cake”😂.
Well on this episode I was joined with Iyanu and mayowa. My guests gave their views on what breakfast means.
Based on our little personal experience or what they have witnessed from people’s broken relationships, we gave our ideas on what to do after a breakup and what not to do. Also , how to heal without spoiling the healing process.
Being single is not a disease or a bad thing, they are a lot...
2022-05-2843 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep5. Mumu ButtonMumu Button , you’ll be thinking what kind of topic is this. But this topic is very attractive and fun to talk about. The term mumu button is common among Nigerian youths and teenagers. It’s a soft spot for a person that makes the person compromise his or her usual standards.
Is mumu button just a soft spot or it can also be a person itself?.
I was joined by two spectacular guests of mine and we talked about a lot including mumu button being a person.
We laughed and had fun talking about this topic. The guest gave thei...
2022-05-2142 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep4. 3 months again !3 months again!!
How awful, students are being deprived of learning just because our federal government has refused to pay ASUU.
Of course we can’t blame Asuu, it’s their right and they are reacting the best way they can.
This strike is a negative news , but as well a blessing in disguise. It has positive outcome for a lot of people
On this episode I was join with a political minded person , ifeoluwa. He talked about a lot of positives this strike can bring out.
I hope this episode makes every student suffering from this strike or students that are...
2022-05-1439 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep3. Knowing and discovering yourselfKnowing yourself is also discovering yourself at every stage of life per circumstance and situations you’ve encountered.
On this episode, we viewed knowing yourself as a continuous process in life. The more circumstance and situation you encounter the more you learn and discover yourself.
I was joined with Joba, a programmer. He shared how he started discovering himself, how he started knowing himself truly.
We talked about money playing a role in the process of knowing and discovering yourself.
Knowing yourself is also knowing your worth , your worth speaks for you.
This episode is very mind opening and relatable. Si...
2022-05-0744 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep2. Red flags 🚩Red flags are turn offs you see in a person.
On this episode, red flag was defined and talked about based on personal thoughts or reasoning.
I was joined with my friends Kitan and Ella , we spilled tea on red flags and we stated some red flags.
The guests gave few of their red flags and we looked into them if they are actually red flags or not.
We also talked about red flags being a major determinant when starting a relationship.
This episode was very interactive and interesting, sit back , laugh and enjoy!.
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2022-04-3048 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminS1,Ep1. Starting a relationshipEverybody wants a perfect relationship but at every try some fail.
On this episode we stated different relationships and talked on one,which is the romantic relationship.
I was joined with friends Dewale and Phebe,we spilled some tea and pointed out some things necessary when going into a relationship.
Unlike a relationship therapy it was more of fun and gist between us which will be helpful to people who need it
We talked about people creating fairytale relationship in their heads , which results to high expectations.
Sit back,laugh and enjoy this interesting episode.
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2022-04-2337 minSPILL THE TEA with BenjaminIntroductionA short intro on what the show Spill The Tea with Benjamin is about
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