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Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends196. (Solo) Life LatelyWhat I'm learning, what I'm launching, what I'm leaving behind. Happy eclipse season beloveds, join me on the virtual porch!Support the podcast!⁠Patreon.com/fkdp⁠ (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)⁠https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin⁠ (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)Venmo: @bevinbBuy my aerobics video! ⁠⁠fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack⁠⁠Amazon Wishlist: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL8...2025-04-0335 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends191. Koi Reid: Queer VagabondUnconventional life choices during a Saturn Return! Koi is a Taurus, a Burner and an explorer who has figured out life on the road as a car camper and a converted school bus. Van life is totally a learning curve and we talk about problem solving as a digital nomad. How do you care for yourself on the road? Koi is a queer friendly event producer and his (currently in New Mexico but will travel with him) event Pandemonium is linked below! Koi's blog: https://www.queervagabond.com/ Koi's Hair website: https...2025-01-2851 minThe SispatchThe SispatchEp. 20 When Mom Left Mid-Podcast: Family, Music, and Chaos In this special in-person episode of The Sispatch, Jasmine and Bevin sit down with their parents, David and Caroline, for a heartfelt and hilarious conversation. Recorded the day after Thanksgiving, the family dives into everything from David’s passion for music and photography to Caroline’s cultural roots and her knack for leaving mid-podcast to go on her daily walk. This episode is packed with stories about family dynamics, parenting lessons, and the quirks that make their family one-of-a-kind. Whether it’s Dad reflecting on grandparenting or Mom sharing childhood memories before making her great escape, this episod...2024-12-061h 02The SispatchThe SispatchEp. 19 Coleslaw’s Annual Audition for Thanksgiving: Still a NoIn this Thanksgiving-themed episode of The Sispatch, Jasmine and Bevin are joined by two very special guests: their cousin Janelle and Bevin’s husband, Thomas. Together, they dive into the hilarious chaos that is Thanksgiving, sharing their food preferences, quirky traditions, and the roles everyone plays during the holiday. From debating the best side dishes to revealing who’s most likely to burn the turkey, this episode is packed with laughs, personal anecdotes, and sibling-style banter. They also tackle some fun Thanksgiving trivia, dropping surprising facts about food, traditions, and the weird history of this iconic holiday. Whet...2024-11-3040 minSeeds & Weeds PodcastSeeds & Weeds PodcastGrowing Good with Hobby FarmsA special bonus episode of Seeds & Weeds! From 2021-2024, our friends at Hobby Farms hosted the Growing Good Podcast, a program about small-scale, sustainable farming. Bevin was a guest on the show in 2022 to talk about his book, The Complete Guide to Seed & Nut Oils. Unfortunately, Hobby Farm as decided to discontinue the show, but generously gave us permission to rebroadcast Bevin's episode here on Seeds & Weeds!Please enjoy this encore episode of Growing Good. Host Lisa Munniksma talks with Bevin about the early days of Small House Farm, his book...2024-10-3036 minDirty Money With Bevin & JaysonDirty Money With Bevin & JaysonSeason 3 Finale: Catching up with Bevin and MikeSUMMARYIn this season finale of Dirty Money with Bevin and Mike, our hosts return after a brief hiatus to catch up on life, love, and major life transitions. Mike shares his grad school plans and vision for a new practice focused on holistic wealth management. Bevin shares personal updates, from a rollercoaster relationship to working at the Sex Down South conference this year. She also has a new job and has just finished training!  Bevin and Mike reflect on their journeys and tease exciting plans for Season 4.TOPICS[1:50] Welcome Back[2:05] M...2024-10-251h 19The SispatchThe SispatchEp. 16 Disney Adventures & 90s Throwbacks: Arguing Like Sisters DoIn this episode of The Sispatch, Jasmine and Bevin are back with all the vibes. They kick things off with some life updates and dive into Jasmine's recent trip to Disneyland—let’s just say the food was everything. Then, it’s time for a classic “Sister Showdown,” where they hilariously debate who’s better at everyday tasks (because sibling rivalry never dies). From who’s got the green thumb to who wins in the gift-giving department, it’s all on the table. As if that wasn’t enough, they take a deep dive into nostalgia fro...2024-10-251h 11The SispatchThe SispatchEp. 15 Confessions of Messy Millennials: Our Struggles with Cleaning In this episode of The Sispatch, Jasmine and Bevin get real about their love-hate relationship with cleaning, organization, and those emotional attachments to stuff we all pretend we don’t have. From the dreaded cleaning tasks that make them want to hide under the bed, to the cleaning tools and hacks they swear by, they break down the rollercoaster of keeping their homes somewhat sane. They also reflect on how their childhoods shaped their current (often messy) cleaning habits and why decluttering is such a struggle when you’re attached to all your things. The conv...2024-10-1846 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends185. Colin Bedell: Healing the World, Having a Good TimeColin of Queer Cosmos is a Gemini who teaches me how to change the world without taking it too seriously. This is a fun conversation going deep on astrology themes, relational understanding and making jokes and teasing all the Zodiac signs. A Course in Miracles, autonomy, community and my hyper focus on the 1989-1991 birth year microgeneration. This is a FUN episode! Join us for this long form conversation! (When we finished I couldn't believe we clocked in at 1:44:44! An angel number!) Previous episodes with Colin: Episode 142 about partner...2024-09-261h 44Seeds & Weeds PodcastSeeds & Weeds PodcastSeed Saving and Story Telling - Remembering Wisconsin's Tomato ManWe've got tomatoes on our mind! Bevin shares a story of Thane Earle, famed Wisconsin seed saver most well known for introducing the world to the Amish Paste tomato! Hear about Thane's incredible collection of seeds; more than 1000 varieties of tomatoes and hundreds of beans! We dig into the history of the classic Amish Paste tomato and meet other dedicated seed savers including Lee Stoltzfus from the Landis Valley Museum in Pennsylvania and Tom Hauch, founder of Heirloom Seeds. Bevin was recently a guest on Wisconsin Public Radio's Morning Show with...2024-08-2825 minThe SispatchThe SispatchBONUS Ep. 11: While Jasmine's Away: Thomas and Bevin Spill AllThomas Takes Over While Jasmine's Away While Jasmine is off gallivanting on vacation, Bevin’s husband, Thomas, steps in as the guest co-host for this special bonus episode of The Sispatch. In this lively chat, Bevin and Thomas dive into parenting tips, health and fitness journeys, and the cultural contrasts between their families. They kick things off with some lighthearted banter about sending the kids to the grandparents for a break and then delve into their different approaches to dieting and weight loss. Thomas shares his secret of portion control, while Bevin op...2024-08-091h 18Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends182. (Solo) FaithCan you believe it before you see it? Listener question about how I walk with faith and trust in God. (The Goddess, the Universe, Spirit, a life force greater than myself, etc...) I talk a lot about faith in dreams and visions for your life with a brief visualization exercise towards the end to help orient you towards your dreams! Join us on the virtual porch as we chat faith! As with all spiritual content on my podcast this is take what you like and leave the rest. It's...2024-08-0625 minThe SispatchThe SispatchEp. 8 Sister Storytime SeshJoin Bevin and Jasmine in this heartwarming yet hilariously candid episode of The Sispatch as we dive deep into our current obsessions, childhood predictions, and those special, if not slightly awkward, sibling moments. We kick things off with a look back at what we thought each other would become—Bevin envisioned Jasmine twirling as a dancer or whipping up delicacies as a chef, while Jasmine... well, let's just say she was less sure about Bevin's future path. Expect a bit of sibling tea as we recount the tale of Jasm...2024-07-191h 07Seeds & Weeds PodcastSeeds & Weeds PodcastHerbal Hydrosols w/ Liz Fulcher + Mint in the Kitchen and ApothecaryHydrosols are aromatic waters produced by steam distillation of botanicals. Learn about these unique herbal products, the distillation process, and more with clinical aromatherapist Liz Fulcher. Liz also shares her Top 5 hydrosols and how to use them!Liz Fulcher brings over 33 years of essential oil experience, research, and education to her work as a clinical aromatherapist, educator, podcast host, and distiller.Since 1997 Liz has been teaching and making it easy for others to safely and effectively use essential oils and hydrosols. In 2010 she founded the Aromatic Wisdom Institute where she offers online training...2024-07-1712 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends180. Erica Nix: Richard Simmons Remembering with Queerdo Performance ArtistRichard Simmons just passed away and Erica and I share a queer freak aerobics root in his workout videos and she reminisces about being in his last workout video and I reminisce about his influence on me in the intro to this episode. Erica and I talk sobriety, exploring who we are in a normie world, processing emotions, dating a cis man while being queer, the heteropatriarchy, officiating weddings, hypnotism, and so much more! Erica is one of one and I hope you enjoy her as much as I do! Erica on Instagram: https...2024-07-161h 23The SispatchThe SispatchEp. 7 Cottage Cheese & Taylor SwiftHey, Swifties! 🎉 It’s Bevin’s birthday bash on today’s episode of The Sispatch, and what better way to celebrate than by geeking out over our queen, Taylor Swift? Bevin's all about the dreamy vibes of Evermore, while Jasmine's still living for the bold beats of Reputation. We're diving deep into our favorite Taylor tracks and dissecting the storytelling genius behind her songwriting. Prepare for a fan-fueled journey through her concert experiences too—from the electrifying Reputation Tour to the sad cancellation of Loverfest. Join us as we explore the energy, versatility, and sheer impact of T...2024-07-1251 minThe SispatchThe SispatchEp 6. We're Talking First Relationships...with a Surprise Guest!Get ready for a trip down memory lane in this episode of **The Sispatch** as Bevin and Jasmine dive into the world of first relationships, with a very special guest—Bevin's husband, Thomas! From their quirky meeting in an AOL chat room to the early days of singing Disney songs to break the ice, we're unpacking all the sweet and hilarious beginnings of their relationship. But that's not all. We'll also explore the twists and turns of telling their families, navigating their first challenges, and the funny stories that came along with blending their li...2024-07-051h 34Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends177. Lisa Snyder: Facilitated Psilocybin JourneysOregon recently legalized facilitated psilocybin journeys and Lisa is back on the podcast talking about them! She is a licensed facilitator and we go through the whole process of taking a potentially life changing journey with plant medicine at the center she works for. We also talk about career pivots and connecting to our loving ancestors with fungi! Previous episode with Lisa, with her background: Episode 63 https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/63--Lisa-Snyder--Co-Founder-of-Tokeativity-on-Women--Cannabis-and-Unity-emnv2c Lisa's website: https://liberadiate.com/ Women's retreat July 12-14: https://www.innertrek.org/july12...2024-06-071h 10Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends176. (Solo) Spirituality: My spiritual practice and folks that bring me spiritual nourishment Vol 3My relationship with God is my top value. Since relationship is an action word my practice evolves as I evolve. It's been over three years since I did an episode about this and thought an update was due! My hope is it will inspire you to develop your own spiritual practice (if you want one) and/or give you some ideas of folks to connect to who can help guide you on your path! Grab a notepad! My blog post about going to online church with me! https://queerfatfemme.com/2023/11/11/come-to-church-with-me-if-you-want/ 2024-05-3155 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends170. Bianca Russo: Customized Habits for Optimal WellnessAudio Episode 170. I welcome back body positive personal trainer Bianca Russo to the podcast. How to use Chat GPT to design a personal habits protocol tailored to your specific goals. What is wealth and how do we define abundance. Unlearning extractive capitalism overwork. A surprising update about women's sports. Toppling the patriarchy. My previous episode with Bianca is episode 148: Tips to Support Mental Health Spirals Resources: A) The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business (book) https://amzn.to/4aSaWI1 B1) Habit, by Snail Mail (album) https://open.spotify.com/album/3u9aqsJAlEpt7...2024-04-121h 11Seeds & Weeds PodcastSeeds & Weeds PodcastGarden for Wildlife w/ Shubber AliDiscover the magic of native plants and bring your garden to life! Get your garden party started with Shubber Ali, founder of Garden for Wildlife. We’re talking with Shubber about growing native plants, how native plants support our ecosystem and what you can do to create a little wildlife sanctuary in your own backyard!Shubber Ali is the CEO of Garden for Wildlife, a program that began within the National Wildlife Federation. Garden for Wildlife allows people to make a difference for the environment by shipping plants native to their zip code that support lo...2024-03-2724 minDirty Money With Bevin & JaysonDirty Money With Bevin & JaysonSeason Two Finale: Wrap it UP! (Bevin's Love Life, that is)SUMMARYWelcome to the season 2 finale of Dirty Money with Bevin and Mike! In this episode, we catch up with Bevin and Mike and take a journey through the highlights of this season, from Bevin's recovery after a recent ankle injury to Mike's ventures into content creation and what it means to actually ‘do the work.’ Get ready for a fun chat filled with laughter, wisdom, and unexpected tangents as we look ahead to the exciting plans for season three.TOPICS[0:55] Catching up with Bevin[6:22] Relationships and Self-Work[17:25] Understanding Self...2024-03-221h 18Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends161. Elysia The Naughty Faery: Candle Magic and Lunchtime of Life LoveAudio Episode 161. Elysia the Naughty Faery has a compelling story of spiritual development and following the jolly freefall of alignment. We talk candle magic, her amazing lunchtime of life love story, the Goddess/Saint Brigid and the upcoming Imbolc holiday! She is my local candlemaker! I love visiting her store in Port Townsend and you can visit her online store! Candle store on etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/thenaughtyfaery/(Use code BevinLove10 for 10% off through the end of Feb 2024)Instagram & FB: TheChandleryPTIf you're visiting Port Townsend stay at The Washington Suites: https://www.thewashingtonpt.com/SUPPORT THE PODCAST! ...2024-02-021h 11Seeds & Weeds PodcastSeeds & Weeds PodcastLet's Chat w/ Felicia Ruiz, Kitchen CuranderaWhat does it mean to be a kitchen curandera? What’s the difference between Indigenous food and local food? We’ll learn all this and much more when we sit down to chat with traditional healer and award-winning author Felicia Ruiz. We’ll also talk about Felicia’s book Earth Medicines, winner of the 2022 Reading the West Award: Eating The West and the 2023 LULAC Book Award! Earth Medicines is an accessible guide to time-honored Indigenous wisdom, healing recipes, and wellness rituals for modern life from an experienced curandera. You can learn more about Felicia’s work and get...2024-01-3118 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends158. (Solo) Winter Weather Clothing Tips and RV Winter EssentialsFor anyone else dealing with the arctic freeze! I grew up in California and it was a big shock moving to Philadelphia as a young adult. I teach my tips and tricks and foolish choices so you can have a better shot at staying warm. I also talk through the values balance of shopping for winter gear as a plus size babe while also not wanting to support sweat shop labor! All that and four years living through Pacific Northwest winters in an RV I have some thoughts! Here are the gloves I mention...2024-01-1723 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends155. Leah Garza: Desire, Disgust and DyadsLeah has taught me so much about dyads--relationships with others, the world around me, and my soul. One of the most essential things in the creation of the world of our dreams is our individual growth. Creating our own path, pursuing our desires, and not letting the judgment of others slow us down or stop us. Leah's relationship with disgust as a concept is gorgeous. I hope you enjoy this conversation, our previous conversations and her podcast Magical Baddies! Links below. Episode 109: What even is reality? https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/109--Leah-Garza-What-Even-is-Reality-e18l8o22023-11-301h 33Seeds & Weeds PodcastSeeds & Weeds PodcastUSDA Map Heats Up! + Five Questions w/ Peggy RiccioOne of the biggest things happening in the (gardening) world right now is the new USDA Hardiness Zones Map! Plus horticulturist and garden educator Peggy Riccio is joining us on the podcast to talk about her information-packed garden website resource, pegplant.com and to answer 5 Questions!  Peggy talks about why basil is her favorite garden herb… and not just Genovese basil, but all of the basils! She also shares her recipe for flavorful Thai Basil Syrup. Peggy runs the well-known garden resource website PegPlant.com and during the pandemic she launched a Facebook group dedicated to C...2023-11-2218 minSeeds & Weeds PodcastSeeds & Weeds PodcastGardening Can Be Murder w/ Marta McDowellJoin us for an extra special, spooky episode of Seeds & Weeds. In today’s episode, author and horticulturalist Marta McDowell is joining us on the podcast to talk about her new book, Gardening Can Be Murder. We'll also be talking about some of Marta’s previous books, including Bevin’s personal favorite, Beatrix Potter’s Gardening Life. We’ll also get a sneak peek at an upcoming project, an updated edition of her 2016 book, All the Presidents’ Gardens. In Gardening Can Be Murder, New York Times best-selling author Marta McDowell explores the deeply rooted connection between garden...2023-10-2520 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends151. (Solo) My Experience as a Cancer CaregiverIn 2013-2014 I supported my ex-fiance through her treatment for breast cancer. I talk about my experience, what I learned, what I wished I would have done and how caregivers can learn to take care for themselves, too. I hope this helps anyone out there dealing with the uncertainty of a cancer diagnosis for a loved one. And I hope you have the best of all possible outcomes! Here is a list of my blog posts about cancer experience: https://queerfatfemme.com/tag/cancer/ Support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdpWork one-on-one...2023-08-1127 minSeeds & Weeds PodcastSeeds & Weeds PodcastFive Questions w/ Christy Wilhelmi, GardenerdNerd alert! Gardenerd founder Christy Wilhelmi joins us on the show to talk about small-space fruit orchards, Russian tomatoes, reclaiming food waste and all sorts of groovy stuff! Christy empowers people to grow their own food, to be more self-reliant, and to reduce pollution and waste, one garden at a time. Christy is founder of Gardenerd, the ultimate resource for garden nerds, where she publishes newsletters, her popular blog, and top-ranked podcasts. Today, Christy is joining us on the podcast to answer 5 questions..Bevin was recently a guest on Christy’s Gardenerd Podcast. You...2023-07-1919 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends150. Jess Morgan Grace: Dating, Parenting and Self Care while PsychicJess Morgan Grace is a psychic medium, astrologer, queer parent and a dynamic, fascinating human! We share a maternal concern for psychic medium Tyler Henry and passion for protecting our energy field. If you work with your spiritual senses you will want to take notes about JMG's must-practices so you can develop your own self care rituals. JMG pursued non-gestational parenthood through foster and adoption and shares that experience, and their experience dating while psychic. JMG on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jessmorgangrace/ Book a Session with JMG: https://www.jessmorgangrace.com/ ...2023-07-141h 32Seeds & Weeds PodcastSeeds & Weeds PodcastAsk an Herbalist w/ Crystal Stevens, Flourish FarmsteadHerbalist Crystal Stevens joins us to answer your questions and Bevin shares a recipe for a healing salve made from yarrow and comfrey!We’re so excited to have Crystal Stevens join us for ‘Ask an Herbalist.’ *Learn more about Crystal and her farm* -  https://flourishfarmstead.comCrystal is an herbalist, author, educator and co-owner of Flourish Farmstead in Godfrey, Illinois. You’ve sent in your herb questions and Crystal is here to answer them! Some of the questions we talk about include:·        What herbs would you recommend for making a salve or lotio...2023-07-0516 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends149. Michael Anthony: Twin Flames, Soulmates and TransitionsMichael Anthony returns to the podcast with a new name, pronoun update and a metaphysical perspective on Twin Flames! This isn't the buttery you tube clickbait version promising a Cinderella / Prince Charming union, it's a holistic approach to soul growth and development. We all deserve to freely express ourselves, our truth, our sovereignty and receive love. Happy LGBTQIA+ Pride 365 days a year! Let's learn how to love ourselves so much exactly as we are so that it is easy to love everyone else exactly as they are! The primary work he cites is Todd R. Diviney: Expansion...2023-06-151h 08Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends148. Bianca Russo: Tips to Support Mental Health SpiralsBianca is a Zoom-based personal trainer with a big heart and great cheerleading! As I have experiienced and shared on this podcast, sometimes those of us with big cheer to offer also have mental health struggles! As her friend I've witness Bianca develop exceptional self awareness and not only learn but use tools to regulate and recover. This episode is chock full of ideas for how to get back to center, how to define success for ourselves and how Bianca pivoted from nursing to personal training! Virtual Personal Training on Zoom with Bianca starts with a 1-hour...2023-05-261h 05Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends146. Jerri Berry & Michelle: My first Alien Encounter! And Glowing Up with Cannasisters at a Wellness Retreat!Jerri had an alien encounter in June gathering with our cannasisters and had another one with me and her sister Michelle on 03/17/2023 in Loomis, CA. We talk about the circumstances of each experience, how they overlap and what the experience felt like. (I was shocked!) We also talk about our whole trip to the women's wellness cannabis retreat we were attending when we met our Star Family! "Follow Taylor Swift's voice" is my favorite part of our tale. Jerri is a you tuber, bullet journal designer and has her own podcast! You can hit...2023-04-1757 minSeeds & Weeds PodcastSeeds & Weeds PodcastFive Questions w/ Melissa DeSa, Working Food + Weed Ramble: PlantainSeed steward Melissa DeSa tells us about her tomato breeding program and Bevin rambles on about one of his favorite wild herbs.  Melissa DeSa is a seed saver, artist and founder of the Florida nonprofit, Working Food. Today Melissa answers 5 questions and talks to use about some of her recent garden challenges and successes. She also tells about her latest tomato breeding project!  You can learn more about Melissa’s work at www.workingfood.org and follow along on Instagram at @workingfoognv In the second half of the show, Bevin shares his love for one...2023-03-1517 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends144. Scott K. Smith: Solstice, Magick and DiscernmentOne of the most potent things you'll do moving into the next phase of your life is determine who is going to influence you! Scott K. Smith is back on the podcast with a Solstice candle magick ritual! We talk through the ethics of spiritual leadership falling down conspiracy rabbit holes and how to choose who and how people influence us. Trusting your intuition and your intimate connection with the Divine is the most important skill you will develop! Scott is here to help! Website featuring Scott's practice: TheSacredOther.com Star Stone Education LLC, featuring...2022-12-201h 20Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends142. Colin Bedell of Queer Cosmos: Healing Wounds and Partner Pre-SelectionColin is back and fresh from filming the new reality dating show he lent his astrology expertise to--Written in the Stars premiers on Discovery+ on November 27th! On this episode we talk show biz filming--best case scenario, Colin reports--and the process of partner pre-selection! Chiron, the wounded healer of the zodiac, is heavy in our convo about how to address those wounds that keep popping up! The balance between friends and family, responsiblity and freedom, rejection, money, and so much more!  Colin's show! https://www.discoveryplus.com/ie/show/written-in-the-stars Previous episode 96 with Colin about v...2022-11-2253 minWe Both Grown PodcastWe Both Grown PodcastLover's and FriendsIn the 10th episode of the We Both Grown Podcast Chantal and Bevin return from a short break! The ladies dive into what music/podcasts/books they are vibing to this week and then jump right into the topic of the day. This episode posed the question Can you have a friend of the opposite sex while in a marriage/relationship? Bevin and Chantal provide their unfiltered opinion on what that looks like from their perspectives! Be sure to tune into this episode with your open mind and not your closed one!2022-09-2832 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends139. (Solo) How to get paid to create via Patreon!I'm so passionate about helping folks use Patreon to nurture and support their ongoing creative and world changing work! I know consultants, activists, psychics, healers, musicians, visual artists, you tube creators, group projects, and so many other types of creators who use Patreon to keep their work going. It's a really cool platform with a lot of flexibility and resources. Here's much of what I've learned in nearly four years using the app as a primary source of income. And much of what I've learned from studying Prince Rogers Nelson about creating a body of work that I think...2022-09-0155 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends137. Chrissy Tolley: Reality TV Psychic and Avoiding Demonic PossessionChrissy Tolley is an excellent teacher of intuition and observation for empaths / psychics. Her best method involves her great passion: hilarious scrutiny of human dynamics on reality television.  Chrissy talks about her new project Reality TV Psychic, her new Patreon which is a metaphysical community with a side of reality tv, and best practices to avoid demonic possession. (Trust a professional psychic to know how this happens--the best defense is a good offense!) Previous episodes with Chrissy: 29 is her background! Episode 53, too! Reality TV Psychic on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/chrissytolley 2022-07-201h 08We Both Grown PodcastWe Both Grown PodcastWelcome to the HOOD....AdulthoodThis is the premier of We Both Grown Podcast!! In this episode host's Bevin and Chantal introduce themselves to the world. The topic up for discussion in today's episode is why is adulting so damn GHETTO? Bevin and Chantal discuss their opinions on what they think the term ghetto means in relation to the topic. This first episode covers a bit more content than what you can typically expect, however that just shows how fun and entertaining the conversations will be moving forward. So - Sit back, relax and enjoy the podcast with your open mind not your closed...2022-07-121h 18Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends136. (Solo) Diagnosing Myself with ADHD from Memes on Instagram Dot ComIt was undeniable to me that my brain was likely ADHD when my favorite productivity expert received her diagnosis. Why did her systems work so well for me? I started to recognize the signs because I had done lots of work on myself to embrace neurodivergence and different ways to thrive in this world that stigmatizes differences and mental health. Hopefully my story will help you create sovereignty over how you perceive your brain/body/life/experiences.  This podcast can only happen because of support from listeners like you! I appreciate you considering supporting my work! 2022-07-0122 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends135. (Solo) Rest, Recovery and Really Good Binge WatchesGetting injured last week has given me the opportunity to work on my mindset around rest, recovery and surrender. It's also given me more time to watch streaming shows and movies and I have recommendations! Netflix has The Lake House and You've Got Mail, Amazon Prime has Lizzo's Watch Out for the Big Grrrls, and HBO Max has Dr. Brene Brown's The Atlas of the Heart. Heartily recommend! Reflections on growth and surviving this pandemic--I hope you'll enjoy! If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting! Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp ...2022-05-1224 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends134. Mskindness B. Ramirez: Canna Mom, Entrepreneur and EducatorMskindness is on this planet to teach us how to elevate our lives! Her education about healing with Cannabis, hair care line and book The Root Family's Very Special Garden support families in a refreshingly empowering way. We talk healing mental health with psilocybin, destigmatizing the plant in parenting and much more! Mskindness' website: https://mskindnessofficial.com/ Mskindness' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mskindnessb/ If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting! Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp NEW Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party Buy...2022-05-0558 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends133. Leah Garza: Make the World Better by Becoming More YOULeah is my favorite decolonial teacher. I learn so much from her! An Akashic Records teacher and phd student of ontology (the study of reality) I love the way she thinks and connects to information. We talk fatphobia, disgust, belonging, trauma, cancel culture, how to level up emergent timelines to save Earth from climate change. SO MUCH!  This is our second episode together! Our first, 109, linked right here): https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/109--Leah-Garza-What-Even-is-Reality-e18l8o2/a-a6me3j6 Leah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crystalsofaltamira/ Leah's website: https://www.crystalsofaltamira.com/2022-04-291h 26Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends132. Samantha Montanaro: Mushroom Medicine, Music and MotherhoodMama Sam is a plant healing musician, community builder and international business woman. She co-founded Tokeativity, the largest women's cannabis community in the world! She knows a lot about healing with psilocybin and non-psychedelic mushroom medicine! Sam is a plant maximalist and stuff minimalist and has much to share about parenting while using plant medicine and becoming willing to hear the truth revealed to us through the use of plants. Sam on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/prismhousepdx/ Tokeativity on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tokeativity/ Tokeativty website (register for a free grass...2022-04-201h 09Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends131. Aunt Mimi: Leaning into Pleasure and Delight for Chronic PainAunt Mimi is a ball of joy and radiates love! She also lives with chronic pain. In 2016 she turned a corner in how she experienced her body and leaned into learning mindfulness. She has lots of resources to share that worked for her! One of those tools was leaning into joy and delight! Cannabis and other plant medicine help! She's an incredibly talented jewelry maker, creating canna accessories covered in treasures as Pimp My Pipe. Out of necessity makes incredible salves, teas and thick thigh butter as Aunt Mimi's Apothecary. Explore her world through her links and enjoy our...2022-04-131h 02Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends130. (Solo) Developing IntuitionIntuition is data processed too fast for our logical mind to understand. My intuition is the biggest topic I have in therapy because sometimes it feels BONKERS to me to go against my logical mind. Learning to trust myself, my inner knowing, my connection to Source has been one of the singular most important skills I have. My primary goal as a mom is to teach my kids to follow their inner knowing. The past two weeks my intuition has saved me from burn out by guiding me to rest more. I've gotten so creative during this time and...2022-04-0632 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends129. Noemi Sparks: Emotional Freedom and Energetic MasteryMy friend Noemi is a Tapping Wizard! I've been working with her one on one to release trauma and energetic blocks through EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique aka Tapping). Life changing! Such an incredible modality. We talk tapping with a brief demo, using psychedelics for emotional wellness, toad medicine, divorcing our attention from the news and stepping into the fullness of our destiny! Noemi's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/noemisparks Noemi on IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamnoemisparks/ Noemi's Morning Self Care Journal: https://amzn.to/3Lh9ZvY If you find value i...2022-03-3053 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends128. Jennifer Axcell: Building Back after Burn OutI love the saying that God first speaks in a metaphor and then a two by four? That reminds me of burn out. Burn out is our body's alarm system telling us we need a full control alt delete reset! My friend Jennifer Axcell is an amazing entrepreneur with a big heart. Her desire to serve so much burnt her out and she's spent the past year rebuilding. She uses plant medicine, including psilocybin, to intentionally self care back from burn out. Her work now is to empower other entrepreneurs to do the same. She's also an identical twin...2022-03-231h 18Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends127. (Solo) I'm Not Done Talking About Grieving My DadGrieving my dad brought up grief I didn't have the tools to process at the time. My step mom Liz died when I was 19. I could have anticipated that his death would bring it up but I didn't. However, grieving her freshly has been surprisingly pretty sweet and inspired me to take some big action in my life to develop myself into a more loving person--like she was. More grief talk on this episode! Quality of grief is quality of life!! If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting! Support the Podcast: Patreon...2022-03-0447 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends126. (Solo) Taking 20 Years to Figure Out My Career PathFat Kid Dance Party Aerobics turns five years old on March 2, 2022! I'm thrilled that I've found the gift I'm uniquely meant to bring to the Earth and that it's already sustained so long! I can't wait to see what the next fifty years bring! But before I figured this aerobics class out I had a winding career through law school and residential real estate and nightlife production and various small businesses and side hustles. I share about my experience to inspire YOU to figure out what YOUR special gift is to bring to the Earth. I think everyone has...2022-02-251h 01Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends125. Radavie Riom: Healing Inner Child to Live in Freedom and HarmonyRadavie is the comforting spiritual guide to help your inner child healing. We all have inner children who need our unconditional love and acceptance, but if we weren't taught how to do that for ourselves we need to learn. Radavie is a healer with a gift for holding space for that journey. Click the link to her website for a free 20 minute exploration session with her and experience the magic! In the meantime, cuddle up with your favorite childhood blanket and enjoy our conversation. Remember, you're never too old and it's never too late to heal & pursue the life...2022-02-1842 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends124. (Solo) The Complicated Grieving of my Deadbeat DadMy dad passed away one month ago and I've learned a lot on the ground walking through this grief. Every grief is an opportunity to open up to more loving on the other side of the pain. I have also learned you gotta walk through the pain or you end up paying for it with interest. The father/daughter relationship I had already grieved for quite some time but you can't outsmart the pain of actual death. Part of what helps me get through the hardest days is knowing that I can teach from the pain. Hopefully this can...2022-02-1152 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends123. (Solo) 10 Minute Body Positive Aerobics ClassRecorded live on Zoom this is a 10 minute class with testimonials from some of my beloved Regulars about Fat Kid Dance Party aerobics on Zoom! We have made such a special community over the past nearly five years, it's nourishing for mind, body and soul! Check this visual episode out on You Tube: https://youtu.be/KxeNkegaLWU Sign up for Zoom Classes: Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting! Patreon.com/fkdp Buy me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin Bevin on...2022-02-0425 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsEpisode 122 Deidra Bliss: Rest Evangelist and Plant Based Air FryingWhen Deidra came back to the community from having been down for a month with Covid, she declared, "Rest is my LOVER." She needed epic amount of rest for her body to recuperate and it has ignited a newfound redirection in how she prioritizes the needs of her body versus productivity. Since she's my favorite person to talk about plant based foods I wanted to talk about living my best life air frying plants (especially potatoes!!) and the best vegan dips! Really Deidra loves dips and drops some great recipes. She's also a multi-hyphenate entrepreneur and the lifestyle of...2022-01-281h 24Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends121. Y Thuan La: Acupuncture and Traditional Chinese MedicineAcupuncture and Traditional Chinese Medicine have been profound allies to me in my healing journey. Meet my real life acupuncturist! Y Thuan is an incredibly gentle and wise practitioner and has much to share with us about great mental and physical health in these times. We talk about what happens in a session, how TCM works and what it can help with! We didn't even talk about ear seeds one of my favorite treatments! Glamorous and effective! Y Thuan's website: https://www.deersongwellness.com/ Y Thuan's phone number (Defender V is the name of the supplement!): (562) 373-22982022-01-2139 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends120. (Solo) Getting Over My Resistance to Goal Setting and PlannersI noticed I was having massive resistance to setting goals and using a planner. Turning myself from a stressed out Type A person to being more of an "in the flow" artist was life saving for me, but I also recognize my big dreams won't come true if I don't take action. I got curious about my resistance to goals and using planners and recognized shame was holding me back! Shame is something we learn from people and systems. I have busted through and set some goals for myself this year. I'm also one month into successfully using a...2022-01-0825 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends119. (Solo) Navigating Emotionally Treacherous Trigger MomentsCovid is a disease of many losses! My birthday is tomorrow and I feel like a total birthday Grinch because I don't want to risk Covid exposure. I am, once again, asking God for the courage to accept the things I cannot change. I got triggered today and talk through how I weathered that moment to release it. I hope it helps you get clarity on whatever you're going through this wacky and wonderful Second Pandemic Holiday season! If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting! Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp ...2021-12-2429 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends118. Scott K. Smith: Navigating a Magickal Path to Ascend Amidst Mass Death and MadnessScott K. Smith just finished a Reiki manual that might lead you to a better more resilient version of yourself. My own path as a Reiki Master Healer has absolutely rooted me in a spiritual life path. Scott is one of my favorite people to talk about spiritual philosophy with and we discussed a prediction for the Age of Aquarius that a third of people will die, a third of people will go mad and a third of people will ascend. We talk how to navigate the mass death that's already underway, and how we ensure we are green...2021-12-171h 27Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends117. Kendrra Thoms: Cannabis Fine Artist on When a Piece of Art is Done, Neurodivergence, and Expanding CreativelyKendrra went to art school... for an area of art she actually hates! She's now creating art in entirely new ways and leading groups for other creative cannabis entrepreneurs. Later in life discovery of her autism helps her make peace with the ways she has been different (and a genius artist) all her life. We talk using lifestyle and changing how we see "work" to minimize chronic health conditions, perfectionism, how to know when a creative piece is "done" and so much more!    Kendrra's website: www.kendrrathoms.com Kendrra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/st...2021-12-1057 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends116. Ashley Manta: Using Ketamine for Treatment Resistant Depression!Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) is truly the kind of teacher who goes the way and shows the way! She has been working to heal her CPTSD and depression using lots of modalities over the year and in the pandemic needed a level up. We talk about her recent Ketamine treatments, the process and the result. We also discuss her exceptional course Activating Your Cosmic Pussy and how she leads vulva owners in connection, growth, satisfaction and liberation! Episode 23: Bevin & Ashley talk Defeating Imposter Syndrome! https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/23--Ashley-Manta-on-Pleasure--Imposter-Syndrome-and-Allowing-Ease-ear14g/a-a1fkkcl Bevin on...2021-12-0353 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends115. (Solo) Holiday Mourning, Holiday Mourning, Holiday MorningHow do we find a song on our hearts every day when we carry the weight of what could or should have been with loved ones? When we get caught in thought loops that bring us down or are in the acute stages of grief? How do we harness our power on our Holiday Mornings. What traditions are meaningful to us? How do we release our expectations and connect to our joy even while carrying grief? All that and my favorite never miss holiday breakfast casserole recipe--Spotted Owl Casserole! If you find value in this...2021-11-2735 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends114. (Solo) Pep Talk About Your Body!Maybe your body has changed in the past couple years. Maybe you are annoyed anticipating what folks might say about your body. Maybe you're feeling frustrated with your body? Maybe you just can't seem to make peace with it? Here's a pep talk for that. If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting! Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Buy me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin Bevin on Instagram: Instagram.com/bevinsparty You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty Email list: http...2021-11-1917 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends113. (Solo) Creating more than you ConsumeCreativity can be really hard. Imposter syndrome! Feeling like making a thing and not finishing is a waste of time (it's not)! Freezing because what you say could be criticized! (Everything you fear will come to pass and you will be okay.) I talk about my recent call to create more than I consume and how I've been getting through all of these head blocks. I assure you that the world needs what only you have to offer and part of the creative process is letting it be messy! If you find value in this podcast, please...2021-11-1227 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends112. Meredith aka Hippie Dippie Gypsy Teaches Boondocking! Life on the Road Tips!My friend Meredith ditched her corporate life for a life on the road boondocking in a small red truck! She lived on the road for several months this year. She shares her story of how she planned, visioned and executed her life on the road. If you have dreams of travel life I hope this inspires you to think about what is possible for you! This episode (without the intro) is also on You Tube! https://youtu.be/6OlUfjC-LEo Meredith is now going to base her life out of a plant medicine friendly bed and...2021-11-0559 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends111. (Solo) What are Your Personal Values?Personal values (also known as core values) are beliefs that are so important to you that they guide how you organize your behavior and association. Values are a great way to know yourself and being clear and prioritized with your values makes decision making much easier. Especially in terms of who you are going to invest time and collaboration. We live in a world that teaches us to people please, say yes to everything and run on other's priorities. Having values clear makes being unique easier! And we are all unique by design! In this episode I...2021-10-2935 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends110. Mindie Gum-Grivell: Into the Mind of an Artist--Welcome to the Creatch UniverseWhile this episode is optimized for you tube (see link below in show notes), the first 20 minutes are great for an audio podcast about healing with art!   Does the art heal us or do we heal through the art?  I walk through a career retrospective with visual artist Mindie Gum-Grivell. Her Creatch collection began as an art practice that has developed so many delightful layers! Characters, aesthetic, personal branding, merchandising--as a brand nerd I just adore this on so many layers.  Our conversation touches the work I've been doing to heal my social anxiety and the...2021-10-222h 28Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends109. Leah Garza: What Even is Reality?Leah Garza taught me how to question what even is "normal." Decolonizing our mind is some of the most important work we can do on ourselves to reclaim our power from systems of oppression. Learning how to think for yourself comes with great teachers and Leah is great at showing how to question the colonizer in our mind. Leah is a phD student in Ontology--the study of reality. She's also a reader of the Akashic Records. We talk about both of these at length. Leah is truly unforgettable and sharp! Leah on Instagram: https://www.i...2021-10-151h 13Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends108. (Solo) Sister Sesh Camp Out! My first adventure in 80 weeks!I left my quarantine for the first time since March 2020! I went camping with friends in Southern Oregon and had a blast! I share all about the trip, plant medicine in the woods, taking covid precautions and grieving our friend Purple Courtney together. Cultivating joy and grief in the same space is beautiful and healing. If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting! Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Buy me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin Bevin on Instagram: Instagram.com/bevinsparty You Tube Channel: ...2021-10-0651 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends107. Casey: Psychic Medium ExtraordinaireCasey has been a working psychic medium for decades! We talk about how she grew up, opened up to her gifts, how she creates boundaries with seeing clients. She and her husband also work together alongside each other in a muggle business and she gives her tips for a long lasting relationship. I asked for some tips on grieving and on working with our own psychic power! Connect with Casey here--she asks for DMs: https://www.facebook.com/Casey-PsychicMedium-and-Yogi-extraordinare-478519665534638 If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting! Support the Podcast: Patreon...2021-09-2444 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends106. Beautiful Existence: Connecting with Your Soul SovereigntyBeautiful Existence (B3 for short) is an oracle! In this episode we talk about the Age of Aquarius and how to level up for that. We also explore the entirety of humanity, connecting with nature and spirits. B3 truly channeled and downloaded a lot of information for us!! Take notes! B3 mentions the experience of embodiment as a full five sensory experience! I want to encourage you to really hear that and think about how you can embody your own beautiful existence even deeper! This episode is also on you tube! Episode 18, my...2021-09-171h 45Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends105. (Solo) How to Grieve Volume 2We live in a time when almost everyone is grieving. Rarely are we taught how to grieve. Grief is a response to change, and how we integrate life altering experiences and losses. I go through my best tips for moving through grief. Content warning--suicide. Other episodes of note--if you sometimes struggle with suicidal thoughts Episode 70 to help prepare a resource list for when you need it. Previous episode about Grieving: Episode 7 on October 31, 2019. If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting! Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Buy me...2021-09-1027 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends104. (Solo) My Experience with Psilocybin (Magic Mushrooms) for HealingThis episode is for informational purposes only. It's not intended to provide advice--consult your healthcare professionals before consuming anything you haven't consumed before or in new ways.  Plant medicine has been an important ally in my personal spiritual and health journey. I find it helps me sit with the truth of my experience in life, reveals things to me in a way that is more gentle than going alone, and helps me find places that need more tenderness. I talk about my experience microdosing with psilocybin and using reset trips to connect and support my ongoing mental h...2021-09-0328 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends100. My Mom Marianne! Single Mom Raising a Bullied Child in the School SystemFor this 100th episode of the podcast I wanted to create something valuable for folks. How I've healed from a really traumatic childhood with caregiver abuse and bullies is possibly my greatest achievement. My mom went through a lot of hardship raising me as a single mom, including the fact that I was frequently bullied (for my weight and for just being different). I wanted to talk through some of her experiences in case it helps anyone out there who is raising or will be raising kids. Especially in navigating the school system, as my mom became a teacher...2021-08-0647 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends96. Colin Bedell of Queer Cosmos: Discerning Values to Create a Life Worth Living!Colin Bedell is back to discuss astrology and relational intelligence! We discuss what values are and how to form them, using them in decision making and to create a life by design. We chat body currency and why Colin stopped modeling. Time and what it does for us and how much alone time we need in order to bring our best selves to the work we do and the world around us. PLUS lots of tidbits about our current astrology (new moon in Cancer! Leo season is coming!). Episode 68 is my first episode with Colin six months...2021-07-091h 16Bevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingAfter:NEW JAZZ CITY w/Maria WilsonBevin and Maria casually discuss the delightfully successful event held on Sunday, June 27th at the Marriott Residence Inn in The Bronx. Audience members were pleased and surprised about the newly-developed area in which the hotel is located. Free parking was provided and they were able to enjoy the flower garden environment on the patio, where the show took place.  The sound outside the hotel was especially acoustically friendly. Nothing got too loud, yet the actors and singers were heard clearly, as the audience was close up. They interacted enthusiastically with our group in that unique intimate setting. They also d...2021-07-0315 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends91. Psychic Mayuri: Name Changes and Coming into AlignmentMy beloved Femme sibling Mayuri is the first guest on my podcast who had a name and pronoun change since our first conversation! We talk about name euphoria, seeing our children as our teachers, healing and so much more! We also talk about the psychic realm! Spirit is feeling in alignment to the re-opening. Episode 34 is my first conversation with Mayuri! Tune in for their backstory, shifting from 9 to 5 to being a working psychic! https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/34--Jennifer-Leigh--Femme-Oracle--on-Healing-and-Flourishing-edfjsa/a-a22tufn Psychic Mayuri: Psychicmayuri.com Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp2021-06-041h 02Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends90. Alex the Medium "You Can't Get Ideas Unless You Show Up To Play"Alex Altomonte aka Alex the Medium is back on the podcast! One of my beloved psychic friends we check in about the pandemic, travel, being cautious and "safe" while also acknowledging the play we need to create! During the pandemic Alex followed his alignment and opened a brick and mortar and web store in a tiny New York State town with his partner. It's a great story and so relevant for anyone who is on an entrepreneurial path. We talk about creativity, play and being a vessel for spiritual alignment to express through you. Release the need to plan...2021-05-281h 25Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends89. Dr. Tanya Gilbert: Mental Wellness Mindset Tools and TipsMay is Mental Health Awareness month and Dr. Tanya Gilbert is back on the podcast to help us focus on our mental health! Dr. Tanya is an incredible resource--a psychotherapist, transformational life coach and someone who has put the work in practice ending generational cycles in her family. In this episode she offers tips and tools (especially mindset) around mental health wellness. You don't need to wait for a break down to start supporting your mental wellness! She also shares a miraculous story of how she came to realize her dream of owning an RV! Listen to...2021-05-211h 07Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends88. (Solo) How Queers Become ParentsWhen you're trying to become a parent there is so much uncertainty and frequently stress! My faith has totally been supported by my friends achieving parenthood after sometimes decade long journeys! I talk through my mindset on my own fertility and hope for parenthood. I talk about pregnancy loss, and share stories about how folks I know have become parents. There are so many different journeys and I find a lot of hope in how so many folks who seek parenthood and aren't deterred by the set-backs do eventually succeed. In many often unforeseen ways! I refer...2021-05-1454 minBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingPROMISING YOUNG MAN: Sean DIcksA casual conversation with my music student, Sean Dicks (14 years old).  LYRICA by Bevin Turnbull; Bevin- piano, Garry Bruer- drums, Charles Butler- bass NEW JAZZ CITY by Bevin Turnbull; Bevin- keyboards, trumpet, Booker T.- sax DON'T PANIC! by Bevin Turnbull; Bevin- keyboards & drums JAZZ IN THE HOOD by Thomas John & B. Turnbull PATHETIQUE by Ludwig Van Beethoven; Angela Hewitt- piano CLOCKTIME  (our podcast theme song) written by B. Turnbull; Stew Cutler-guitar, Erroll Bedward- drum programs, Bevin on keyboards  Reorded at SYSTEMS ll Brooklyn, NY.2021-04-2221 minBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingMilan: BUILD THE WORLD for CHILDRENMilan Bookal (10 years old) and I have a conversation. BxRTheatre.org TARA(H)- written by B. Turnbull with Bevin on keyboards, vocals, percussion; Wade Lance-guitar. BUILD THE WORLD for CHILDREN- written by Gene Kitt & B. Turnbull w/ Bevin on keyboards and trumpet Tara Turnbull- lead vocals on first verse and ending.  CLOCKTIME (our podcast theme song) written by B. Turnbull; Stew Cutler-guitar, Erroll Bedward- drum programs, Beviin on keyboards;  Reorded at SYSTEMS ll, Brooklyn, NY.2021-04-1713 minBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingDr. Donald Byrd-Part 2: My Mentor /TorMENTORSecond episode which recounts my years of knowing Dr. Byrd and how he schooled me and others. Bevin plays keyboards and trumpet on: TUMBLIN’ by Bevin Turnbull; Joyce Stovall, vocals JUST BEFORE THE STORM by Bevin Turnbull; Joyce Stovall, Michael McCray, vocals; Garry Bruer-drums, Phil Hamilton-guitar, Ed Martin-bass, Anthony MacDonald-percussion.  SUNRISE by Bevin Turnbull; Yolanda Lee, vocals; Erroll Bedward-drums, Ted Williams-bass; Philadelphia String Quartet arranged & conducted by Bevin Turnbull2021-04-0612 minBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingDr. Donald Byrd: My Professor & FriendA very honest talk about the mecurial musician, educator and scholar, Dr. Donaldson Toussaint L'Ouverture Byrd. CRISTO REDENTOR- composed by Duke Pearson & Donald Byrd. CERTAIN WORDS composed by Bevin Turnbull.  BABY STEPS by Steve Johnson. BAY'S WINDOW by Bevin Turnbull (composed for Maria Wilson). CLOCKTIME by Bevin Turnbull. Bevin plays all instruments except on Mozart and Stew Cutler guitar on Clocktime.2021-04-0318 minBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingBevin Turnbull/Turn-Tay-Bull PodcastingFRIDAY FRIDA: FlautistaInformal talk with Frida Hidalgo, Mexican flautist, who plays flutes on compositions by Bevin Turnbull with collaborators-- Maura McCabe (TALK TO ME); Anthony Wisdom (Ms. NIRVANA) and Roma Irizarry (FLUTTERBY). Bevin plays keyboards, trumpet and percussion. Stew Cutler plays guitar; Errol "Pumpkin" Bedward plays drum programs on outro theme song (CLOCKTIME). 2021-03-2816 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends78. McKay Gordon: Free Britney--A PrayerMcKay! You recognize them from the Fat Kid Dance Party Workout Video 4 pack, episode 44 of this podcast or if you've ever had the good fortune to have shared space with them! If not, you're in for a treat!  McKay shares with us all about the Free Britney movement, we deeply discuss the record industry, diet culture, patriarchal media, and our spiritual connection to the pop icons who molded the creators coming of age today. At MmmmBop Cardio there's a dance move called the "Free Britney." We offer this as a prayer. And a visual demonstration on the y...2021-03-0559 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends77. Jeffrey Marsh--Being True to YourselfJeffrey Marsh is a viral sensation! Known for warmth and acceptance on the social media, thoughtful articles and the incredible book How to Be You, Jeffrey is truly a hug on the internet. Their book How to Be You is an incredible roadmap back to yourself, part memoir, part self acceptance essays and part journaling prompts.  We talk about Jeffrey's coming out (mom drove off the road), BOUNDARIES, and being kind not nice. Long walks. Self care. Luxuriating in the experience of being exactly who you are. How to Be You: https://amzn.to/3aW1K...2021-02-261h 19Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends75. Substantia Jones Queer Sex Chat with Adipositivity Photographer"Queerantine horny" is a Subtantia Jones quote from one minute into our conversation. There's nothing off limits in this conversation! This is really like brunch with Samantha Jones if she was a queer fat Southern photographer who came out late in life. Coming out later in life, living a life as a photographer of naked fat people who hasn't been shooting during quarantine, Substantia Jones is ready for "Full out Caligula" once the qurantine in over and we're back in person. We talk about love, lessons learned, sex, visions for the future, dreamy memories and creating! Join us on...2021-02-121h 23Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends72. (Solo) My Journey to Well-RestedRest is Essential! Beginning in November 2020, I kept getting messages from Spirit that I needed to rest. I began a journey over the last couple months of reflecting on what rest means to me, how much rest I really need, and what I wasn't doing when I was distracting myself with endless events.  I hope these reflections help you understand more about the role of rest in your life and what you might be able to let go of in order to welcome more rest! Support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Bevin on Instagram: I...2021-01-2226 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends65. (Solo) Lessons from 2020My biggest lessons from 2020 weren't what I expected but definitely what I needed! Like being able to receive unconditional love from people when they don't understand me! And how important it is to me to be a lifelong learner.  I'd love to hear what your lessons are--leave me a voice note at anchor.fm/bevin Support the podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp Bevin on Instagram: Instagram.com/bevinsparty 2020-12-0427 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends53. Chrissy Tolley, Psychic Sidekick: 6 Months into Corona Quarantine Check-InAn update six months into the Coronapocalypse! I checked in with Chrissy at the outset of the Corona Virus in episode 29, so I thought it would be fun to get her to update predictions six months into the pandemic. All hell broke loose methodically--not as fast as originally predicted. The painful things happening will make sense. "I have figured out as a human how to just sit down with all of the feelings and not center my fear." We talk about releasing judgment and criticism. "When things get mirrored back to me in my life, it's hard...2020-09-111h 14Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends51. Dylan Hill "If me wearing make-up bothers you, oh well.""...there's a lot about my life that's bothered me but I couldn't do anything about it. I just had to survive. You're going to have to find a way to survive me walking through the halls in hair and make-up."  Dylan Hill grew up in North Carolina a local performer while going through a tumultuous childhood. He began wearing make-up to high school because it made him happy and expressed himself. "Even if you don't agree with my lifestyle I don't judge yours. I just live and let live."  Dylan is a singer, performer, stand-up co...2020-08-2857 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends47. Jeff Scult "When we choose to listen to ourselves we are golden"Jeff Scult left the busy world of mainstream advertising to entrepreneurialism where he learned "Getting cool with uncertainty" but got really sick. He realized that locked up inside "shoulding all over himself" was someone inspired to create and make real human connections.  "It's a beautiful thing to realize the magic is in co-creation. We're always better together." His movement One Golden Thread, born from a poem by the same name, eventually morphed into a unique clothing line. Unisexy and unisize, the colors derive from his mother's paintings of nature. The fabric is a cutting edge sustainable m...2020-07-3147 minBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends42. Christine Dunn Helps Business Owners Get Their Time BackChristine Dunn is a coach and consultant who helps business owners get their time back! She grew up in an entrepreneurial household, started a property management business right out of college and has gone through a few career permutations within the coaching world. We talk about her journey, coming out of the closet, developing a coaching and public speaking practice as an introvert and self care. So excited to share her wisdom with you! Christine has some amazing bonus webinars available just for my listeners--click the link below! Bonuses from Christine: helpmechristine.com/bevin Support...2020-06-261h 06Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends36. Victoria Albina on Parenting Inner Children as Root Cause MedicineMy friend Vic learned as a medical provider (she has letters behind her name that mean medical) that mostly people had root cause emotional issues that were manifesting physically. Her nerdy interests in holistic health, herbal medicine and natural healing coincided with her deep personal work healing from codependency. Now she shows her clients how to heal their relationships with everyone in their lives, especially themselves. We talk nourishing self care during The Corona, circuitous career paths that become true callings, laugh a whole lot at ourselves and healing with self love. Vic is a gift!! I'm so thrilled...2020-05-151h 08Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends33. Katie Sweetman, Empowering AstrologyKatie Sweetman is an incredible astrologer living in Brooklyn, NY. I've been personally working with her since 2009 and have absolutely loved watching her grow her astrology practice from an idea to now her full-time career. She called her business Empowering Astrology because she knows that working with the elements of our astrological birth chart can help us maximize our time and potential on Earth. She has so much wisdom to share for astrology buffs and newbies alike!  Katie's website: https://empoweringastrology.com/ Katie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/empoweringastro/ Katie's Facebook Page (Daily A...2020-04-241h 12Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends22. Tamale on Rising Again, Making a Unique Imprint on the World and Learning How to ReceiveTamale is a skydiving comedian setting out on the road in her tour van. With her signature red hair, eyeliner, all black everything, ruffles and sass, Tamale is unforgettable. Tamale shares how every break down comes a break through, finding peace after cheating and heartbreak. Homeless for a period of time, living out of a backpack on a motorcylce, she shares hard-won self compassion. Tamale's simple morning gratitude practice grounds her as she continues to make giant artistic leaps in pursuit of her purpose in this world. I'm soooo excited to share her with you!  All the p...2020-02-071h 31Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsBevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsAshley on Healing, Thriving and Loving Your LifeAshley Manta, better known as The Cannasexual, is the cannabestie big sister we all need. She teaches me so much about sex, cannabis and having the best life I possibly can. I'm so excited to share her with you! We talk healing, screening people before first dates, law of attraction and loving our bodies no matter what. You can find Ashley at cannasexual.com and find us both on instagram @cannasexual and @bevinsparty --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/bevin/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/bevin/support2019-10-1751 min