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Bez Stone & Freyja Dietrich
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The Infinite Relating Podcast
63. Having
For better or worse, wanting, desiring, and chasing can be such familiar energies for us to be in. What happens when we actually receive what we've been asking for? What fears or blocks might arise? What new tools can support us in being fully present with -and enjoying- the having?
2025-04-17
56 min
The Infinite Relating Podcast
62. Aim for a C+ Relationship
Many of us try to be perfect in our connections and avoid conflicts at all costs. Allowing ourselves to be messy and real has allowed us to learn that rupture is actually an opportunity for healing and connection.
2025-04-10
1h 00
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61. Inside Out
Bez and Freyja explore desire as the compass of their new relationship terrain. From solo polyamory to devotional partnership, hear how desire informs and serves their intentions for creating their most interesting and nourishing connections.
2025-04-03
54 min
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60. From the Mobile Home to the Mansion
Change is inevitable in life and relationships. How do we source safety and security as our relationships grow, evolve, and transition? Bez and Freyja explore the ways that they build solid ground to hold them through the turmoil of relational expansion and contraction.
2025-03-27
1h 00
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59. Permission to be Selfish
Selfishness has a bad rap in the dating and relating world. Having both just gone through a renaissance of selfhood, Bez and Freyja explore how being selfish can actually benefit everyone involved. When explored consciously, being selfish can guide us back to truth, authenticity, and greater intimacy with ourselves and others.
2025-03-07
59 min
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58. Do I Actually Want Five Guys at Once?
This week Bez and Freyja explore the many facets of desire from the outlandish to the tender, and how to move through the conditioned obstacles to our deeper truths.
2025-02-27
1h 03
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57. The Inside Out Work of Setting Boundaries
In Infinite Relating, boundaries can increase connection rather than inhibit it—but the process of adjusting to each other's needs and limits can be rocky. Discover with us how to set boundaries from the inside out so we can live our truth and have the connections we crave.
2025-02-20
58 min
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56. Bez and Freyja Fight Over a Guy
When the opportunity presented itself, Bez and Freyja thought it would be so much fun to date the same guy... and it was! Until it wasn't. In this episode, we unpack our first relationship rupture and how to navigate being poly in the same community.
2025-02-20
1h 00
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55. Little Shop of Horrors: "Us Between Us" 2.0
Nearly two years after discovering the concept of "Us Between Us," Bez and Freyja revisit the magic of the nuance in attending to You, Me, and Us.
2025-01-23
1h 05
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54. Let the Solo Poly Begin!
In this episode, we dive into our fresh journeys into solopolyamory after years of partnership. We share our excitement, explore how to stay rooted in desire rather than obligation, and reflect on what it means to navigate this new chapter with openness and curiosity.
2025-01-16
1h 09
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53. How to Make it Thru Relationship Transitions
Explore how embracing change and breaking free from scripts can deepen connection, foster growth, and help you move through transitions with grace and authenticity.
2025-01-09
58 min
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52. The Nations of Bez and Freyja
Sovereignty means I have the right and responsibility to make the decisions that are best for me. Bez and Freyja share the tools to determine how to interact with the other "nations" that I share borders with, to foster connection and intimacy, to share new experiences, and to care for myself and my inner world.
2024-12-29
1h 01
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51. Stop Trying to be a Good Partner
Ironically, one of the most effective ways we've found to sabotage our relationships is to try to be a "good partner." By investigating these shoulds and where they came from, we give ourselves a greater chance at being in truly fulfilling relationships.
2024-12-12
1h 00
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50. Kicking those Sneaky, Sneaky Habits
Using the podcast as a living lab, we explore some feedback we received on how our sneaky habits quietly erode our relationships without us realizing it. How can we catch the habits we don't see?
2024-12-05
1h 08
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49. The Grit of Making it Through Pain & Grief
While we've come into an Infinite Relating renaissance, getting there wasn't pretty. This week we share more of our struggles of the last four months, and the ways that we got ourselves out of the darkest moments. Join us here and coming soon IRL for our Infinite Relating Community Circle on the second and 4th Thursday nights 7-9pm in Santa Cruz, starting Dec 12, location TBD. More info soon at infiniterelatingpodcast.com and on Facebook.
2024-12-01
1h 08
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48. Mama Stay Friends and Mama Block Him
Bez and Freyja are back! Through many transformations, we catch up on the last several months and explore our diverse responses to relationship changes and how Infinite Relating encompasses all of it.
2024-11-23
1h 04
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47. Between Catastrophe and Wishful Thinking
As we go deeper with Infinite Relating, we discover truth and reality live on a spectrum rather than at a set point. Moving along the spectrum between catastrophe and wishful thinking empowers us to appreciate what we have while also going after what we want.
2024-08-08
59 min
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46. Parenting, Balls & Boundaries
From parenting to work to romantic relationships, there are infinite ways to be in connection. How do we explore this infinite gray area while having boundaries so we don't get lost?
2024-07-25
1h 00
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45. Partnership is Choosing to be In
What does it mean to be partners? Why is it different? Choosing the shared label is only the first step to being in a partnership. Here are some tools we're exploring to actively participate in this living, dynamic co-creation.
2024-07-04
1h 04
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44. Magic Spells
As we stretch and expand our minds in this growth work of relating, our nervous systems can still get stuck in old fear patterns and sensations. This week Bez and Freyja share some new magic spells to heal and train our nervous systems that we are safe to explore new edgey ways of connecting.
2024-06-20
44 min
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43. Planning for Change: A How-to Guide
Embracing change can sound like such a great idea, but in reality, it can be difficult and triggering. What can we do today to prepare ourselves so we can welcome change with more grace and ease?
2024-05-30
52 min
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42. Hello Resistance, My Old Friend
After months of turmoil and transition, we are feeling empowered. As we acknowledge the pleasure and joy of being back in the flow state of Infinite Relating, we explore the patterns of resistance that arise when things get messy.
2024-05-23
56 min
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41. True Empowerment
It turns out that no specific choice or lifestyle is inherently more empowered than another. Anything can be empowering when it's done in deep connection with ourselves.
2024-05-16
49 min
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40. I would never!!
In this episode, we explore what we once thought were the hard boundaries of our relationships. We explore dynamics that once had us exclaiming, “Never!” with new curiosity, openness, and even a surprising new, “Fuck yes.”
2024-05-13
53 min
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39. Conscious Monogamy and Sovereign Sluts
It's Freaky Friday! Bez and Freyja change places with their relationship styles and share the potential pitfalls and benefits of the various ways of relating.
2024-04-25
59 min
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38. Feelings vs. Behaviors: Bez’s Update
How do we make it through ruptures and repairs in our relationships? We explore how liberating our emotions and feeling them without blaming ourselves or someone else can bring more maturity and strength into relationships.
2024-04-18
56 min
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37. The Break-Up: Freya's Update
Sometimes the best intentions can cloud the way to clarity. The mercy death blow was the kind and necessary action we needed to make a true transition.
2024-04-18
54 min
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36. Standing in the Wreckage
Sometimes embracing change means making small nuanced adjustments to the way that we relate with our beloved, and sometimes it means that we have to let it all burn to the ground to make way for something new. In this episode we discuss how to hold both the pain of loss of something that we once held dear, and the curious excitement of what we get to co-create in it's place.
2024-04-01
47 min
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35. You Can't Just Read the Book
Big evolutions are happening in both of our relationships. In this episode, we cover the primal processes involved in Infiite Relating as well as the daily emotional upkeep required not just to understand it but to live it.
2024-03-07
54 min
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34. Moving Towards What's True
We don't get to know ahead of time how deep a relationship will go or what form it will take. We discover that by simply moving towards what's true, and then seeing what happens next.
2024-02-22
52 min
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33. Psychadelic Selfhood
We return to self - for real this time...
2024-02-15
1h 01
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32. What CAN We Commit to in a Relationship?
In Infinite Relating we dismantle all the structures that used to keep us safe in relationships, such as, “'Til death do us part.” In this episode, we explore new ways to feel deeply connected and secure with our beloveds.
2024-02-08
1h 03
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31. Kink & Relationship Playgrounds
With Freyja back on the podcast, we explore the types of relationship playgrounds that are the most fun and alive for us. We're walking away from that rusty old 1950s swingset and jumping into some edgier games.
2024-02-01
54 min
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30. Max Joins the Podcast
With Freyja away for the week, Max joins the podcast as a special guest to share his side of being in an Infinite Relationship with Bez.
2024-01-19
1h 04
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29. Our Ten Core Principles Break All the Rules
These are the ten core principles that create the dynamic relationships that light us up. We explore how these principles help us break through our limited conditioning and have more satisfying experiences. Breaking the Script and Going Custom Sovereignty Eliminating Obligation and Expectations Desire Returning to Self - All the Information is Inside of Us Embracing and Welcoming Change Community Transparency and Authenticity Wanting What Is - Loving Reality The Us Between Us
2024-01-11
1h 10
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28. Healthy vs. Unhealthy Control
Control gets a bad reputation - and rightfully so. But having no control is also dangerous and limits our possibilities. Let's walk the fine line between healthy and unhealthy control to cultivate the juiciest experiences.
2024-01-04
58 min
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27. Caring vs. Caretaking
Explore this very fine line with us as we uncover why it feels better on both sides to stay in the energy of caring and not cross over into caretaking.
2023-12-28
1h 01
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26. Living on the Edge
Expansion happens when we live at our edges, but that edge might now always be where we expect it to be… Sometimes just being present with what is can be the edgiest of all. Here's how we honor all of our edges bit and small, and support ourselves through our expansion.
2023-12-14
55 min
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25. Huh... Interesting
So often when “something happens” in our relationships, the first thing we do is react and jump to conclusions. We discuss why that's usually not the most valuable thing to do in an Infinite Relationship.
2023-12-07
52 min
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24. Vulnerability Dumpster Fire
We get vulnerable about how the last two weeks of our relationsihops have been - sneak peak: it’s been a hot mess…
2023-11-30
56 min
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23. Make Agreements Not Rules
Agreements in relationships can foster trust and increase pleasure and ease - but they can also backfire. Learn how to do them well in this episode!
2023-11-16
49 min
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22. Know Thyself
Going inside and really being honest with who we really are and what we really want is the only way we can actually have the relationships we want.
2023-11-09
54 min
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21. What to do When He's Pulling Away
“He's pulling away” is a buzz phrase that we might think signifies major problems in the relationship. Hear our take on the phenomenon and what to do about it!
2023-11-02
56 min
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20. Is it Weird that We Don't Fight?
There are still ruptures and difficult conversations in Infinite Relating... but now we have tools that guide us towards connection and away from power struggles.
2023-10-26
49 min
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19. You Can’t Go Back
We all love the high of a new relationship. As our relationships evolve, the honeymoon does end… but this is actually a good thing, as we get to uncover exciting new depths.
2023-10-19
49 min
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18. Busting through the Fixer-Upper Myth
There's so situation in which Infinite Relating doesn't apply—even when your partner has “potential.” We take a look at the fixer-upper myth and how we've liberated ourselves from this old limiting pattern.
2023-10-12
53 min
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17. The "I'm Too Much" or "I'm Not Enough" Story
We dive deep into the “I'm too much” or “I'm not enough” stories—and discover what really underneath them.
2023-10-05
59 min
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16. How to Have the Relationship You Want
Three simple but groundbreaking tools for actually having what your heart desires.
2023-09-30
54 min
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15. 3 Ways to Add Infinite Relating to Any Relationship
Whether you're newly in love or been married for decades, anyone can apply these 3 moves to any relationship for greater intimacy, peace, and aliveness.
2023-09-23
40 min
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14. It's not Good, it's not Bad—it’s just True
Desire is the Voice of our Higher Self. It isn't something we can control—and it doesn't always match what we think we *should* want…
2023-09-14
58 min
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13. When to Label your Relationship—and When Not to
How do we apply labels and make agreements in our norm-busting intimate relationships?
2023-09-07
52 min
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12. Attachment Styles and Trauma
In Infinite Relating, our attachment patterns and traumas no longer run the show. We are not therapists, just two women sharing our personal experiences of healing.
2023-08-31
1h 00
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11. What NOT to Tell Your Partner
Honesty is the best policy… unless it's not? Find out what we DON'T tell our partners and why.
2023-08-24
52 min
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10. Does it feel good from the inside?
We all know how a romantic relationship is "supposed to" be and progress - the happily ever after. While that might look good from the outside, it doesn't always feel good from the inside… so what does? For an image of the Relationship Anarchy diagram we reference: https://infiniterelating.love/relationship-anarchy-smorgasbord-a-tool-for-discussion/
2023-08-17
53 min
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9. Infinite Monogamy
"I'm monogamous. Does Infinite Relating still apply to my?" Oh yes!
2023-08-10
51 min
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8. Make Friends with Jealousy
Many of us don't want to admit we have jealously, let alone feel it or embrace it. We share why jealousy is actually essential for Infinite Relating because it requires self-inquiry and trust. TW: self-harm ideation
2023-08-03
57 min
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7. Stop Should-ing Yourself
An essential aspect of Infinite Relating is eliminating obligation, expectations, and “shoulds” from your relationships. We explain how and why in this episode.
2023-07-20
51 min
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6. I Wonder What's Going to Happen Next?
Change in relationships can be such a source of fear—but it's inevitable. Embracing and even delightfully anticipating evolution and growth transforms our connections and makes them vastly more rewarding and sustainable.
2023-07-13
50 min
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5. The "Us" Between Us
In Infinite Relating, there aren't just two of us here. There are actually three forces at work: you, me, and us.
2023-07-06
50 min
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4. The S-Word: Sovereignty
Sovereignty is one of the cornerstones of Infinite Relating. Find out why some things change in an Infinite Relationship, but sovereignty doesn't.
2023-06-29
46 min
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3. The D.R.E.A.M.S. Talk
In the dark uncharted territory of Infinite Relating, the D.R.E.A.M.S. talk is like a lantern that shines a light on the potential paths ahead. Do we want to explore the same quadrant of reality? Or not? For a PDF of the D.R.E.A.M.S. talk, visit: https://infiniterelating.love/the-d-r-e-a-m-s-talk/
2023-06-02
55 min
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2. What Infinite Relating Isn't
We'll clear up two of the biggest misconceptions we hear about Infinite Relating and share personal stories of how we have faced and overcome them in our own relationships.
2023-05-25
48 min
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1. What is Infinite Relating?
What is Infinite Relating? Learn the essential keys of this new way to do relationships plus how we apply it to our own lives and partnerships, with both wonderful and unexpected results.
2023-05-25
49 min
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