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Martinis and Murder, BiPositive+, Important, Not Important
We've got podcasts right, freshly chilled, right out of the fridge for you this week. Liz goes back to her macabre roots with Martinis and Murder, Nick dips into the listener submissions with BiPositive+, and Zane turns to science with the award winning Important, Not Important. Then we review last week's offerings.Liz Recommends - Martinis and Murderhttps://www.oxygen.com/martinis-murder-true-crime-podcastFrom serial killers to mysterious disappearances to infamous murder cases, John and Daryn break down one murder over the course of one or two episodes, making heavy subject matter...
2020-09-27
25 min
BARTALK
Language as an Organism: Marie Diane Grouchka and Mariya Scherbinina (alchemy of love languages)
BARTALK: Language as an OrganismBARTALK is a multidisciplinary lecture-performance-storytelling series taking place in different bars in The Hague. In current corona times, we are bringing BARTALK to a podcast format. Our guests share their stories and perspectives after which we ask them questions (including audience contributions!)Episode 1: The Alchemy of Language in Relationshipsfeaturing Marie Diane Grouchka and Mariya Shcherbinina, therapists at PSYNT (The Hague). Their practice focuses on the LGBTQ+ community and ex-pats. M.D. and Mariya also run their own podcast series called BiPositive where they explore the sexual continuum.
2020-05-25
37 min
BiPositive
A Secret Love: The Story We Came Out For
MD and Mari sit down to discuss Netflix' A Secret Love, its message, and its importance for queer representation. Them interview: https://www.them.us/story/a-secret-love-netflix-pat-henschel-interview Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2020-05-15
00 min
BiPositive
#ItsCoronaTime
MD and Mari return from a long hiatus to talk about COVID-19: how it has changed our lives and what tools we can use to cope in these weird times. WHO Mental Health Recommendations: https://www.who.int/docs/default-source/coronaviruse/mental-health-considerations.pdf?sfvrsn=6d3578af_2 CDC Website: https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/index.html Dutch RIVM Website: https://www.rivm.nl/nieuws/actuele-informatie-over-coronavirus Mari's Article on Eating Disorders in the LGBTQ+ community: https://www.mirror-mirror.org/lgbtq.htm Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2...
2020-03-25
00 min
BiPositive
L Word Generation Q: Oh God Why?
Mari and MD sit down with some wine and discuss the recently aired season of L Word: Generation Q. CW: drinking, spoilers. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2020-01-28
00 min
BiPositive
Hayden Winston: The Bi-Catch-22
This week, MD and Mari talk with Hayden about his experience of being a Black bisexual man in a long-term same-gender relationship. Hayden Winston is a black, bisexual, writer, poet and activist. His work draws on his experiences as a QPOC and the child of West Indian immigrants. His goal is to expose life’s most jarring elements, while promoting self-exploration. He currently resides in Northern California with his husband. Follow him on Instagram @afterthewaves or visit his blog at sealedinink.com. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/biposi...
2019-12-11
00 min
BiPositive
I Ship Us: 13 Relationship Rules
Mari and MD discuss their 13 (and then some) guidelines for how to make a relationship work. Queer, heteronormative, poly, ace, kinky relationships and more more more! Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Recommended reading: Experiments for Newlyweds: https://www.amazon.com/Experiments-Newlyweds-Amazing-Science-Projects/dp/1492669768 Girl Sex 101: https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Sex-101-Allison-Moon/dp/0983830959
2019-11-07
00 min
BiPositive
LGBTQ Refugees: Running for Your Life
We are back! Mari and MD sit down to discuss working with LGBTQ+ refugees and the hurdles they have to face from a psychological and a human rights perspective. *** Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com *** Sources: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/refugees-europe-migrants-shelters-gay-asylum-seekers-attack-abuse-lgbt/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBTQ_migration#Current_trends_of_migration https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2018/08/austria-tells-teenager-hes-not-stereotypically-gay-enough-get-asylum/ https://www.dutchnews.nl/news/2018/10/ind-officials-still-assessing-gay-refugees-from-western-viewpoint/ https://www.pri.org/stories/2017-11-09/not-gay-enough-dutch-authorities-challenge-asylum-seekers-prove-their-sexuality https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s13178-018-0364
2019-10-21
00 min
BiPositive
PTS-Me?
MD and Mari talk about trauma, PTSD, available treatments and the vulnerabilities within the LGBTQ+ community. Sources: Pagani, M., et al. (2012). Neurobiological Correlates of EMDR Monitoring – An EEG Study. PLoS ONE 7(9). van der Kolk, B. (2015). The Body Keeps the Score. https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748
2019-08-14
00 min
BiPositive
Shopping For Therapy
Mari and MD discuss various techniques in therapy to help you find the right fit. Disclaimer: everything discussed is based on our own experiences and opinions. Israel, T., Choi, A. Y., Goodman, J. A., Matsuno, E., Lin, Y.-J., Kary, K. G., & Merrill, C. R. S. (2019). Reducing internalized binegativity: Development and efficacy of an online intervention. Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity, 6(2), 149-159. https://t.co/1uLhkBMUAJ?amp=1 Skinta, M., & Curtin, A. (2016). Mindfulness and Acceptance for Gender and Sexual Minorities: A Clinician's Guide to Fostering Compassion, Connection, and Equality Using Contextual ... Mindfulness and Acceptance Practica Series). https...
2019-08-01
00 min
BiPositive
Gentleman Jack: More Ways Than One
Mari and MD discuss Anne Lister, the famous "first modern lesbian," diarist, and title character of BBC's "Gentleman Jack." TW: mental health, sexual assault, gender dysphoria, sexual language. Watch the Gentleman Jack trailer here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uBYRcP44M4 The podcast on Gentleman Jack: https://www.secretlibrarypodcast.com/episodes/anne-choma-149 The book: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43980644-gentleman-jack Try out Anne Lister's code here: https://wuluwuh.com/anne-lister-code Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipos...
2019-07-17
00 min
BiPositive
20-Bi-Teen: An Update on Representation
Mari and MD talk about recent good and not so good representation of queer people in the media, sports, and politics. Featuring favorites such as Brooklyn 99, Lily Singh, Captain Marvel, Eugene Lee Yang and more! Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2019-06-26
00 min
BiPositive
Not Your Sidekick
Mari and MD sit down to talk with CB Lee, author of the Sidekick Squad series, about writing, stereotypes, and why queer characters will no longer stay on the sidelines. CB Lee is a Lambda Literary Award nominated writer of young adult science fiction and fantasy. Her works include the Sidekick Squad series (Duet Books), Ben 10 (Boom!) and All Out (Harper Teen). CB loves to write about queer teens, magic, superheroes, and the power of friendship. When not nationally touring as an educator, writer and activist, CB lives in Los Angeles, where she can neither confirm nor deny being a...
2019-06-12
00 min
BiPositive
Queers On Thrones: A Problematic Phenomenon
Join Mari, MD, and our good friend Tiaan, in a tipsy and much-needed discussion of how Game of Thrones tackles LGBTQ+ and mental health representation! Caution: coarse language ahead!
2019-05-30
00 min
BiPositive
Briana Venskus: Labels, Religion, and Not Queer Enough?
MD and Mari talk to Briana Venskus about labels, what it was like growing up with accepting parents in a religious environment, and why queer actors have a hard time finding work in the industry today. Follow Briana on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheVenskus Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2019-05-15
00 min
BiPositive
The Drive Bi Episode: Why We Love Crazy Ex-Girlfriend
In this drive bi episode Mari and MD fangirl about one of the best (in our humble opinion) TV shows in the recent years, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend. We talk about bi representation, mental health portrayal, and raunchy music numbers, so stay tuned in! Check out "Getting Bi" on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5e7844P77Is Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2019-05-01
00 min
BiPositive
Queer Storylines in Therapy: Bi+ @ ClexaCon feat. Nicole Pacent
A live recording of Mari and MD at ClexaCon 2019 in Las Vegas! This is our panel on "Queer Storylines in Therapy: Constructing Your Narrative Through Fictional Characters" featuring Nicole Pacent! Media representation of the queer community has steadily been improving over the recent years – and queer clients in therapy find themselves gravitating toward their narratives in hopes of finding a good example to live by. In this panel, psychologists and media enthusiasts will explain how relating to a well-represented queer character can help develop positive outcomes in therapy, and add to the creation of a well-grounded minority identity. Fo...
2019-04-17
00 min
BiPositive
Queer Impostor Syndrome: Am I Even Real?
Mari and MD discuss queer impostor syndrome, why we sometimes feel like we don't quite belong in our own communities, and how we can overcome that feeling using wisdom from other sexual minority groups. See us at ClexaCon: https://clexa-con.com/programming/2019-speakers-and-panelists Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Sources: Clance, Pauline R.; Imes, Suzanne A. (Fall 1978). The Impostor Phenomenon in High Achieving Women: Dynamics and Therapeutic Intervention. Psychotherapy Theory, Research and Practice. 15 (3): 241–247. CiteSeerX 10.1.1.452.4294. doi:10.1037/h0086006. Joshi, A., & Mangett...
2019-04-03
00 min
BiPositive
The Wolf Of Publishing
Mari and MD talk to Astrid Ohletz, the founder and CEO of Ylva Publishing, "the home of quality books about women loving women," about what makes a good queer book and just how niche the market is. Connect with Ylva and view available titles here: www.ylva-publishing.com. Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, Pinterest: @YlvaPublishing. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2019-03-13
00 min
BiPositive
Queer Little Boxes: Cognitive Psychology and Prejudice
MD and Mari discuss how cognitive psychology explains prejudice and stereotyping, and why not fitting into a box can be a very rewarding thing. Sources: Intersectionality and the Stereotype Content Model: Cognitive, Affective, and Behavioral Consequences for Multiply-categorized Individuals by David W. Hancock, M.A. Adams GA, Webster JR. When leaders are not who they appear: The effects of leader disclosure of a concealable stigma on follower reactions. J Appl Soc Psychol. 2017;00:1–16. https://doi.org/10.1111/jasp.12467 Mémoires, représentations et traitements - 2ème édition Collection : Psycho Sup, Dunod Parution : février 2015 Jean-Marc Meunier Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best an...
2019-03-06
00 min
BiPositive
Queer Utopia: LGBTQ+ Parenting In The Netherlands
Mari and MD talk to Greetje den Holder, blogger at Meemoeder.com, who talks about her experience as a queer person, and later, a parent, in the Netherlands. Follow Greetje: http://meemoeder.com/en http://youtube.com/meemoedercom http://instagram.com/meemoeder http://twitter.com/meemoederdotcom http://facebook.com/meemoeder Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2019-02-27
00 min
BiPositive
I Think My Kid Is Queer!
Mari and MD discuss tips on how to respond to a child's coming out and how to create a nurturing and supportive environment for an LGBTQ+ child. References: Katz-Wise, S. L., Rosario, M., & Tsappis, M. (2016). LGBT Youth and Family Acceptance. Pediatric Clinics of North America, 63(6): 1011-1025. DOI: 10.1016/j.pcl.2016.07.005. Rosario, M., Schrimashaw, E. W., & Hunter, J. (2009). Disclosure of sexual orientation and subsequent substance use and abuse among lesbian, gay, and bisexual youths: Critical role of disclosure reactions. Psychology of Addictive Behaviors, 23(1): 175-184. DOI: 10.1037/a0014284. Ryan, C., Huebner, D., Diaz, R. M., & Sanchez, J. (2009). Family...
2019-02-20
00 min
BiPositive
Jae's Romance: On WLW Literature
MD and Mari interview Jae, former psychologist and now full-time writer of books in which women unapologetically love women. Check out Jae's website: https://jae-fiction.com Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2019-02-13
00 min
BiPositive
Queer And Religious: A Search for Wriggle Room
Mari and MD talk to Katy-Jon Went, an activist on equality, diversity, and intersectionality, about being a religious queer person, the pitfalls of fundamentalism, and self-acceptance in the Church. Katy-Jon's website: http://www.katyjon.com Find Katy-Jon on Twitter: https://twitter.com/katyjon Find Katy-Jon on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katyjonwent Find Katy-Jon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katyjonwent/ Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2019-01-30
00 min
BiPositive
On "Toxic Masculinity"
Mari and MD discuss the concept of toxic masculinity; what it means, how it happens, how it impacts society, and how it puts people in boxes. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Sources: http://theconversation.com/australian-study-reveals-the-dangers-of-toxic-masculinity-to-men-and-those-around-them-104694 https://www.apa.org/research/action/speaking-of-psychology/men-boys-health-disparities.aspx https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4062033/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2662681/ https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/22/us/toxic-masculinity.html https://www.amazon.com/Behave-Biology-Humans-Best-Worst/dp/1594205078
2019-01-23
00 min
BiPositive
LezWatchTV: The Queer Body Count
Mari and MD talk to Tracy and Mika, creators and editors of LezWatchTV, "the greatest database of queer female, non-binary, & transgender characters & shows on TV" about the good, the bad, and the queerbait-y of representation. NOTE: Sorry for the funky audio, Skype screwed up and we tried our best to reduce the echo! Check out LezWatchTV: https://lezwatchtv.com/ Follow LezWatchTV on Twitter: https://twitter.com/lezwatchtv Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email u...
2019-01-16
00 min
BiPositive
The Closet Beckons: "Bad" Coming Out Experiences
Mari and MD, inspired by an email from one of our listeners, discuss negative coming out experiences and how one can cope with things going sour when sharing their sexuality or gender with their loved ones. *** Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2019-01-09
00 min
BiPositive
Purple Katy: Religion, Interse(x)tionality & More
Mari and MD talk to Katy-Jon Went, an activist on equality, diversity, and intersectionality, about a variety of topics including gender, sexuality, Christian fundamentalism, and queer spaces. Katy-Jon's website: http://www.katyjon.com Find Katy-Jon on Twitter: https://twitter.com/katyjon Find Katy-Jon on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katyjonwent Find Katy-Jon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katyjonwent/ Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-12-19
00 min
BiPositive
Orient Me: Bi, Pan, and What is Sexuality?
MD and Mari address the infamous bi/pan discussion and delve into what sexual orientation and attraction really are, how they come about, and what our attitudes are toward them. *** Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com *** Sources: - https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/sex-sexuality-and-romance/201711/the-truth-about-pansexuality?amp - https://edition-m.cnn.com/2016/01/07/health/bisexuality-on-the-rise/index.html - Morandini, J. S., Blaszczynski, A., & Dar-Nimrod, I. (2017). Who adopts queer and pansexual identities? Journal...
2018-12-12
00 min
BiPositive
Playing Bi: Bisexuality, the Media, and Marriage
Mari and MD talk to Nicole Pacent, bisexual actor, writer, activist, and overall awesome human being about queerness, marriage, representation, and how it is to navigate a relationship with a cishet partner. Follow Nicole: https://twitter.com/NicolePacent Follow Nicole's ComingOutPod: https://twitter.com/comingoutpod *** Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-12-05
00 min
BiPositive
Queerly Beloved: Marriage Equality and Mental Health
Mari and MD sit down to talk about marriage equality, its history from Ancient Rome to today, and its influence on mental health. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Sources: Marriage equality and mental health Am J Public Health. 2015 June; 105(6): 1101–1105. Published online 2015 June. doi: [10.2105/AJPH.2015.302589] PMCID: PMC4431106 PMID: 25880959 Ben Lennox Kail, PhD, Katie L. Acosta, PhD, and Eric R. Wright, PhD Journal of Marriage and Family Volume 80, Issue 2 Brief Report Legal Marriage, Une...
2018-11-28
00 min
BiPositive
A Poly View
Mari and MD talk to Cathy and Barry, pioneers of the poly community, about self-determination, the bisexual unicorn, and how the culture at large sells toxic monogamy. *** Barry and Cathy Smiler have been presenters and organizers in polyamory and related communities for many years, on both the US east and west coasts and now in Europe, and are members of the global Polyamory Leadership Network. Ex-Californians, they are former organizers of East Bay Poly in the Berkeley/Oakland area. Then while living in Maryland they led BmorePoly, which they grew to more than 3000 members and over 50 events every month making...
2018-11-21
00 min
BiPositive
Queerdom: How Fandoms Help Develop Queer Identities
Mari and MD talk about how fandoms can help build and develop queer identities. We will be name-dropping ClexaCon, The 100, Harry Potter, Voltron and many others! Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Sources: Line Boye Danielsen, "Lexa was me," A case study of Clexa fandom grieving. https://t.co/400XmMn1V0 Mariya Shcherbinina. Attack on Fandom: How Attack on Titan Fans Use Tumblr. https://www.academia.edu/12388417/Attack_on_Fandom_H...
2018-11-14
00 min
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A Lesbian Lounge in the Queer Community
Mari and MD sit down to talk with Denise Warner, an experienced podcaster from Lesbian Lounge. Denise talks about how she found a way to not only express herself but also give a voice and guidance to those in the LGBTQ who needed it most. Shoutout to ClexaCon London for bringing us together! Follow Denise on Twitter: https://twitter.com/LesbianLounge Follow Denise's Podcast: https://www.lesbianloungeshow.com *** Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositi...
2018-11-07
00 min
BiPositive
Ani-Queers: Portrayal of Queerness in Anime
Mari and MD sit down to talk about queer representation in Japanese anime, including all-time favorites like Sailor Moon, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Yuri on Ice and many more. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-11-01
00 min
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A Religious Perspective On Queerness: In God's Image, Part II
Part 2! Mari and MD sit down with Rabbi Marianne van Praag to talk about a spiritual perspective on queerness and how religions could be more inclusive of the LGBTQ+ community. *** Article on Marianne van Praag’s lecture at Leiden University Pride: lupride.love/2018/04/04/judaism…btq-a-divine-spark More about Marianne’s work as a Rabbi (in Dutch): www.kerkindenhaag.nl/interview/mari…f-jaar-rabbijn Contact the Liberaal Joodse Gemeente Den Haag: www.ljgdenhaag.nl/nl/contact-4 *** Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositi…d1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositi...
2018-10-17
00 min
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A Religious Perspective On Queerness: In God's Image, Part I
Mari and MD sit down with Rabbi Marianne van Praag to talk about a spiritual perspective on queerness and how religions could be more inclusive of the LGBTQ+ community. Part II coming next week! *** Article on Marianne van Praag’s lecture at Leiden University Pride: https://lupride.love/2018/04/04/judaism-and-lgbtq-a-divine-spark More about Marianne’s work as a Rabbi (in Dutch): http://www.kerkindenhaag.nl/interview/marianne-van-praag-vijf-jaar-rabbijn Contact the Liberaal Joodse Gemeente Den Haag: https://www.ljgdenhaag.nl/nl/contact-4 *** Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.appl...
2018-10-10
00 min
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The Gay Word: Are Bi Men Dateable?
Mari and MD sit down with Tiaan, our resident expert on all things gay, to discuss how the male gay community views bisexuals and whether prejudice may stand in the way of love. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-10-03
00 min
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Bi To Make History
Mari and MD celebrate Bi Visibility Week by talking about the ways in which bisexuality was perceived throughout history and dropping some world-famous bi names. Happy #BiVisibilityWeek everyone! Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Sources: https://www.bustle.com/articles/111515-8-famous-people-in-history-you-didnt-realize-were-bisexual https://www.bustle.com/articles/40282-a-brief-history-of-bisexuality-from-ancient-greece-and-the-kinsey-scale-to-lindsay-lohan https://www.sbs.com.au/topics/sexuality/agenda/article/2017/09/19/13-historical-figures-who-are-bisexual-icons
2018-09-26
00 min
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It's A Queer World: LGBTQ And Transnationalism
Mari and MD sit down with Tiaan to discuss his thesis on LGBTQ identity and transnationalism. Why is it that queer people all over the world feel more connected to each other than to their respective nations? Where does queer nationalism come from? Are we truly an LGBTQ nation? You can find Tiaan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiaan-andre-westenberg/ Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-09-19
00 min
BiPositive
Sexpectations
MD and Mari get down and dirty with the gender norms and social expectations we have about sex: straight sex, bi sex, gay sex, and anything (and anyone) in between. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Sources: Moon, A., & KD Diamond. (2015). Girl Sex 101. https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Sex-101-Allison-Moon/dp/0983830959 Scott, S.B., Ritchie, L., Knopp, K. et al. Arch Sex Behav (2018) 47: 681. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-017-1077-3 Seidman, S., Fisc...
2018-09-12
00 min
BiPositive
Queerlitics
MD and Mari sit down to discuss queer theory and just how political the queer and bisexual labels can be. *** Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com *** Sources: Esterberg, k., g., (2007). The bisexual menace revisited: or, shaking up social categories is hard to do. In Seidman S., Fischer N., & Meeks, C. (Eds.) Handbook of the New Sexuality Studies. New York (NY): Routledge. Not all one and the same: Sexual identity, activism, and coll...
2018-09-05
00 min
BiPositive
Once Upon A Bi
MD and Mari sit down to talk about bi+ narratives and why sometimes, it's so hard to tell a queer story. We explore humor, tragedy, and even terrible puns. “The shortest distance between two people is a story.” - Patti Digh. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com *** Sources: Hannah Gatsby – Nanette. 2018. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt8465676/ Joe Lycett – Live at the Apollo. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=El2woked9r8 Joel Herman –...
2018-08-29
00 min
BiPositive
Vaginacology
Mari and MD sit down to discuss what everyone in possession of a vagina needs to know: PCOS, cervical cancer, so-called hysteria, etc., as well as medical and psychological diagnoses dating all the way back to the beginnings of modern medicine and how to find a doctor who listens. *** Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com *** Sources: https://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/womensrh/healthconcerns.html https://cancer-network.org/cancer-information/hpv-and-cancer/ https://stacks.cdc.gov...
2018-08-22
00 min
BiPositive
It's Okay To Be A Stereo-Bi
MD and Mari discuss why sometimes, it's absolutely okay to be a stereotype. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-08-15
00 min
BiPositive
Queer Jams
Mari and MD discuss queer representation in music: from your favorite summer bops to your rock ballads, we have something for everyone's taste! *** Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-08-08
00 min
BiPositive
It's All About Sex
Mari and MD talk about the early sexualization of women – straight and queer – in our society and what can be done to reduce its harmful effects. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com *** Sources: APA Task Force (2010). Report of the APA Task Force on the Sexualization of Girls. Washington, D.C.: American Psychological Association. OCLC 123130352. Pdf. Dodge B, Herbenick D, Friedman MR, Schick V, Fu T-C(, Bostwick W, et al. (2016) Attitudes toward Bisexual Men...
2018-08-01
00 min
BiPositive
Queer-dicted
MD and Mari discuss the issue of addiction within the LGBTQ+ community and what can be done to stop and prevent this epidemic from spreading. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com *** Sources: - Illicit drug use among gay and bisexual men in 44 cities: Findings from the European MSM Internet Survey (EMIS). Schmidt AJ, Bourne A, Weatherburn P, Reid D, Marcus U, Hickson F; EMIS Network. International Journalof Drug Policy. 2016 Dec;38:4-12. doi: 10...
2018-07-25
00 min
BiPositive
Bi - Dy Image
Mari and MD discuss body image issues and eating disorders within the LGBTQ community and why bisexual and trans people seem to have it the hardest. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com *** Sources: Lesbian, gay, and bisexual college student perspectives on disparities in weight-related behaviors and body image: A qualitative analysis. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5123600/ Patterns of Body Image Concerns and Disordered Weight- and Shape-Related Behaviors in Heter...
2018-07-18
00 min
BiPositive
Bi In The USSR
Mari and MD discuss being queer in Eastern Europe: attitudes, politics, religion. Are things looking better? Will they ever? Listen and find out! Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com *** Sources: Chetaille, A. (2013) Une « autre Europe » homophobe ? L'Union européenne, le nationalisme polonais et la sexualisation de la « division Est/Ouest », Raisons politiques, 49, pp. 119-140. DOI 10.3917/rai.049.0119 Stella, F., Flynn, M., & Gawlewicz, A. (2017) Unpacking the Meanings of a ‘Normal Life’ Among Lesbian, Gay, Bise...
2018-07-11
00 min
BiPositive
BiDSM
Let's talk about kink: Mari and MD get down and dirty discussing BDSM, its relation to the queer community, and what societal pressures kinky people have to face when discovering their sexuality. NOTE: We apologize for the sound issues in the beginning of the episode – that's what happens when you record an episode via Skype :( Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Sources: Dominguez, M. (2017). Kinky and queer: BDSM in the LGBTQ community...
2018-07-05
00 min
BiPositive
The Sexy One
In this episode, Mari and MD go in-depth *pun intended* on sex: the problem of limited sex ed, what things need to be discussed, and how to protect yourself before you have intercourse. We apologize in advance for the slightly cishet skew at the beginning of the episode: we've been having nothing but cis M/W sex for years now. NOTE: We are going on hiatus for a couple of weeks after the release of this episode, given the geographical difficulties in recording an episode. We will be back soon with more BiPositive+ content! Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.c...
2018-06-13
00 min
BiPositive
Queer Fanfiction and Why It's Important
Mari and MD discuss slash fanfiction and why it's important for queer identity development. They also dip their toes into fandom territory and talk about what makes fandoms good, and what makes them toxic. *** Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com *** Sources: Bacon-Smith, C. "Spock Among the Women." New York Times Sunday Book Review, November 16, 1986. Russ, J. "Pornography by Women for Women, With Love" in her book, Magic Mommas...
2018-06-06
00 min
BiPositive
Queerenting: Do You Come Out to Your Kids?
MD and Mari discuss parenting as a bisexual+ person and what it entails. Do you come out to your kids? When and how? Join in our discussion! Article referenced: DiVerniero, R., & Breshears, D. Verbal and Emotional Responses Among Children of Lesbian and Gay Parents’ Coming Out. Qualitative Research Reports in Communication Vol. 18, No. 1, 2017, pp. 45–53 A list of LGBTQ+ friendly books for kids: http://huffp.st/CL5TJfk Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepo...
2018-05-30
00 min
BiPositive
Scaling The Bi
MD and Mari discuss the famous Kinsey Scale and why it's problematic. They later go on to talk about bisexual confusion – the real one, not the stereotypical one: have you ever doubted your bi-ness? Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Email us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Riggle, E. D. B., Mohr, J. J., Rostosky, S. S., & Fingerhut, A. W. (2014). A Multifactor Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Positive Identity Measure (LGB-PIM). Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity, 1(4): 398-411. http...
2018-05-23
00 min
BiPositive
Queer Women And Their Brains
Mari interviews MD about her thesis on media representation and what it does to queer women – and what kinds of representation would be the best to ensure better mental health outcomes. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-05-16
00 min
BiPositive
Work It, Bi-By
Mari and MD discuss being queer in the workplace. How do you navigate that? Is it even professional to discuss your sexuality at work? Is it appropriate for a therapist to be out? Join the discussion with us at @bi_positive! Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com The Stonewall study cited: Bachmann, C. L., & Gooch, B. (2018). LGBT in Britain: Work report. Stonewall. https://www.stonewall.org.uk/sites/default/files/lgbt_in...
2018-05-09
00 min
BiPositive
Bi's In "Straight" Relationships
Mari and MD talk to Greg (@hatori1181) about what it's like to be bisexual in a "straight" relationship (one where the other partner is of the socially acceptable gender) and discuss coming out while being married. Follow Greg on Twitter: https://twitter.com/hatori1181 Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-05-02
00 min
BiPositive
On Erotica, Secret Codes, and Bi-sibility
This week, Mari and MD are talking to Jayne B Shea (@JayneBShea), owner and writer at http://bisexualtshirts.com, about bi visibility and why it's not always a recipe for success. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-04-25
00 min
BiPositive
Boys Just Wanna Have Representation
This week, Mari and MD talk about representation of male queerness and bisexuality in media. From Love, Simon, to C. S. Pacat's Captive Prince, to anime, we talk about the necessity of seeing non-monosexual men in the media. Buy us a Ko-Fi: http://ko-fi.com/bipositive Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-04-18
00 min
BiPositive
Porn And Psychos
Mari and MD discuss bisexual porn and whether bi women are nasty predators (spoiler alert: we're not). Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com The study: http://www.psypost.org/2018/03/bisexual-women-tend-elevated-levels-sociosexuality-psychopathic-traits-50847 The Davey Wavey article: https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/davey-wavey-watching-porn-makes-gay-men-bad-sex/#gs.U8nUWYM
2018-04-11
00 min
BiPositive
Bi-Fi Active or When Is It Okay To Assume?
Mari and MD talk about the gaydar and the bi-fi, and discuss whether it is ever okay to assume someone's sexuality. What are the signs? How do you approach the person? Do you approach the person? Is it ethical? Listen up and join the discussion! Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com
2018-04-04
00 min
BiPositive
Polyamory: A Solution to 'Bi Greed?'
MD and Mari talk about why it's okay to love several people at the same time and why it's not the same nor mutually exclusive with bisexuality. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Ricky Martin Article: http://www.newnownext.com/ricky-martin-wants-to-help-normalize-open-relationships/02/2018/?xrs=synd_facebook_logo Klesse, C. (2011). Notions of Love in Polyamory – Elements in a Discourse on Multiple Loving. Laboratorium 3(2): 4-25. Mint, P. (2004). The power dynamics of cheating: Effects on polyamory and bisexu...
2018-03-28
00 min
BiPositive
Queerbaiting: To Sell or Not to Sell
MD and Mari tackle the subject of queerbaiting in media and looks at several examples of this phenomenon, discussing why it's problematic and what could have been done to avoid it. Shoutout to our friends @tqawpodcast and @applewriter for contributing! Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com!
2018-03-21
00 min
BiPositive
Coming Bi
MD and Mari talk about coming out as a bisexual person and all the psychological and cultural turmoil it may entail. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: http://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositi…d1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Calzo, J. P., Antonucci, T. C., Mays, V. M., & Cochran, S. D. (2011). Retrospective recall of sexual orientation identity development among gay, lesbian, and bisexual adults. Developmental Psychology, 47, 1658–673. doi:10.1037/a0025508. Cox N., Dewaele A., Van Houtte M., & Vincke J. (2011). Stress-related growth, coming out, and inte...
2018-03-14
00 min
BiPositive
Bi Erasure, Birasure?
MD and Mari take on the sore subject of bi erasure and what it does to us and society at large, citing sources from Kinsey to online p0rn. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: http://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositi…d1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com Filippo, M. (2007). (Re)constructing Bisexual Space in Contemporary Visual Culture. English Language Notes 45(2). Filippo, M. (2013). The B word: bisexuality in contemporary film and television. Bloomington: Indiana U. Press. Kinsey, Alfred C. et al. (1948/1998). Sexual Behavior in the Human...
2018-03-07
00 min
BiPositive
Bisexuals Represent Pt. 2: The Bi, the Bad, and the Ugly
Mari and MD talk about amazing and awful examples of bisexual representation in the media: movies, television, and even anime. Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/bipositive/id1351323613?mt=2 Emails us at bipositivepodcast@gmail.com DISCLAIMER: We don't own any of the movies/shows mentioned in the podcast, we just either enjoyed them or didn't.
2018-02-28
00 min
BiPositive
Bisexuals Represent Pt. 1: I See You
MD and Mari dig into the issue of bisexual representation in the media and its effects on the mental health of bisexual and queer viewers. Referenced article, please go check it out: https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-media-doesnt-know-how-to-talk-about-bisexuality Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/bi_positive Follow us on Tumblr: http://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com Follow us on iTunes: https://goo.gl/os1Qes Follow us on Soundcloud: https://goo.gl/7cND1j
2018-02-22
00 min
BiPositive
The Common Myths
Introducing BiPositive – a new podcast for bisexuals, about bisexuals and by bisexuals! This week, join your hosts, Mari and MD, on a journey to dispell common (and stigmatizing) myths about bisexuality. Transcipt: https://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com/post/171196487054/bipositive-episode-1-the-common-myths The article we discussed: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/maria-burnham/bisexuality-myths_b_1193152.html. The scientific study: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/241745537_An_Empirical_Study_into_the_Relationship_between_Bisexual_Identity_Congruence_Internalized_Biphobia_and_Infidelity_among_Bisexual_Women. Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/bi_positive and Tumblr: https://bipositivepodcast.tumblr.com and send us suggestions for future episodes! We do no...
2018-02-21
00 min