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Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Anal Sex 101: Everything You’re Curious About And Too Afraid To AskIn this episode, I break down anal sex without hype, fear, or pressure. I explain why curiosity shows up in midlife and why it has nothing to do with identity or performance. You learn how pleasure works anatomically, what safety really looks like, and why pain is never the goal. I cover common myths, real risks, emotional blocks, and how to talk about curiosity without turning it into pressure. This episode gives you information so you decide from choice, not shame or fear.In This Episode: 0:00 Anal feels less scary than you think0:30...
2026-02-0609 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 506 Masturbation Myths Debunked | Ep. 149You were probably taught to fear masturbation. I see this every day in my work with men and women. The problem is not self pleasure. The problem is guilt, misinformation, and nervous system disconnection. In this episode, I break down the biggest masturbation myths and explain what actually supports sexual health, erections, confidence, and pleasure after 50. I talk about porn use, erectile dysfunction, testosterone fears, technique, frequency, and shame. I also explain why orgasms act like pelvic floor training and why mindful self pleasure strengthens partner sex instead of replacing it. This is a no shame conversation about choice...
2026-01-3006 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50The Truth About Multi Orgasmic Pleasure | Ep. 148In this episode, I sit down with Jim Benson to break down what multi orgasmic pleasure really means for men and why most men never learn it. Jim explains the difference between ejaculation and orgasm, why pleasure does not need to end with climax, and how presence, relaxation, breath, and body awareness change everything. They explore how men learn these skills over time, why partners play a powerful role in success, and how aging does not signal the end of sexual growth. This episode reframes male pleasure as something expansive, learnable, and deeply connected to emotional safety and presence.
2026-01-2724 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Real Solutions for Erectile Dysfunction After Midlife | Ep. 147If you want a clear breakdown of your choices, download the ED Options Cheat Sheet with links and exclusive discounts here: https://www.taboototruth.com/ed-options-cheat-sheetIn this episode of Taboo To Truth, I talk honestly about erectile changes in midlife and beyond. I explain why ED happens, why it often starts with blood flow and heart health, and why silence and shame delay real solutions.I cover what most men are never told.Why Viagra and Cialis stop working for some menWhy guessing and self adjusting doses backfires
2026-01-2308 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50What Kind Of Woman Likes Cuckolding? | Ep. 145Today I’m talking about a topic people whisper about or judge from the outside. Cuckolding. And no, it’s not what you’ve been told. In this episode, I break down what cuckolding actually is, how it differs from hotwife and stag vixen dynamics, and why the women drawn to it are not insecure or desperate. I explain the psychology behind it, the role of power and consent, and why this dynamic only works inside emotionally healthy relationships. This is a conversation about sexual autonomy, confidence, and telling the truth about desire.In This Episode: 00...
2026-01-1605 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Dating and Sex With Herpes. The Truth No One Told You | Ep. 143🩸Head to ProDx and use CODE: TABOO12 for 12% off! https://prodxhealth.com/products/full-10-home-collection-kit?variant=42594726838374&uid=9&oid=1&affid=44A herpes diagnosis does not end your sex life. I break down what herpes really is, how it spreads, and why shame has no place in the conversation. I explain HSV-1 and HSV-2 in plain language, talk through real transmission risks, and share how antiviral medication and honest communication protect both partners. We tackle the biggest myths head-on and redefine what fulfilling sex looks like after a diagnosis. This is about facts, agency, and staying connected without fear.I...
2026-01-0906 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50How Women Over 50 Flirt Without Saying a Word | Ep. 141Flirting after 50 is not subtle. It is intentional. It is confident. It is clear.In this episode, I break down how women over 50 signal interest without spelling it out. Flirting after 50 looks different. It is clearer. It is more confident. I walk through real world cues men miss every day. Eye contact. Touch. Humor. Questions that are not random. I also share subtle lines women use to open the door without chasing. If you are dating in midlife, this helps you read the room and respond with confidence.Timestamps:0:00 How Women Over 50 Signal...
2026-01-0206 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50The 10 Conversations That CHANGED Us In 2025 - Best of 2025 | Ep. 140💋 Hotter, Wilder, Wiser is now 75% OFF! Use code HOLIDAY2025 at checkout! https://www.taboototruth.com/hotter-wilder-wiserThis episode is the best of 2025 and pulls together the moments that defined Taboo To Truth this past year. Let’s revisit the conversations that sparked the most reactions, the questions listeners were afraid to ask, and the truths that changed how people think about sex, desire, and relationships in midlife. This year we discussed why intimacy breaks down, why communication matters more than technique, and why owning your pleasure changes everything. This is a fast paced reset for anyone who wants...
2025-12-3014 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Why You Keep Falling for Emotionally Unavailable Partners | Ep. 139💋 Hotter, Wilder, Wiser is now 75% OFF! Use code HOLIDAY2025 at checkout! https://www.taboototruth.com/hotter-wilder-wiserDo you fall fast and then feel abandoned when they pull away? You are not broken. In this episode I explain the anxious and avoidant attachment cycle and why it feels so intense. I walk you through what is happening in your nervous system and how early patterns replay in adult relationships. You learn how to soothe yourself, set real boundaries, and redefine attraction so secure love stops feeling boring and starts feeling safe. This episode is for anyone tired of cha...
2025-12-2614 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Why Sex Starts Feeling Like Work for Women | Ep. 138💋 Hotter, Wilder, Wiser is now 75% OFF! Use code HOLIDAY2025 at checkout! https://www.taboototruth.com/hotter-wilder-wiserSex feels like work for many women. Desire fades. Resentment builds. In this episode, Annette Benedetti explains why this happens and how intimacy breaks down over time. She unpacks the orgasm gap, the damage of performance driven sex, and why penetration centered intimacy leaves women disconnected. You hear why foreplay throughout the day matters, why aftercare changes desire, and how owning your own pleasure transforms relationships. This episode gives men clarity and gives women permission to stop performing and start feeling.
2025-12-2343 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Why I Deleted the Dating Apps | Ep. 137💋 Hotter, Wilder, Wiser is now 75% OFF! Use code HOLIDAY2025 at checkout! https://www.taboototruth.com/hotter-wilder-wiserDating apps promise connection, but for many midlife daters they deliver frustration, confusion, and burnout. In this solo episode, I share why I stepped away from dating apps, what repeated dead-end conversations taught me, and how honesty, boundaries, and self-awareness matter more than chasing matches. We talk about pursuit, ghosting, who should ask first, who should pay, and why rejection is information. If dating feels exhausting, this conversation is for you.Timestamps:In This Episode:0:00 Int...
2025-12-1910 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Curious About Threesomes? 5 Positions That Actually Work | Ep. 135Many people fantasize about exploring intimacy with three people, but very few know how to talk about it or where to begin. In this episode, I walk through communication steps, boundary-setting, and five setups that help people feel grounded instead of overwhelmed.In this episode, I break down what people over 50 are most curious about when it comes to trying a threesome. You get clear guidance on communication, consent, emotional grounding, and five practical positions that make a threesome feel exciting instead of overwhelming. This episode gives you structure, safety, and real world tips you can use...
2025-12-1207 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50The New Rules of Posting Your Relationship | Ep. 133In this episode, I react to a provocative cultural shift highlighted in Vogue’s viral piece “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?”. Straight women are hiding their partners online. Faces are blurred. Fiancés are cropped out. Entire relationships are reduced to a hand on a steering wheel. The fear is that posting a boyfriend makes a woman look less independent and less culturally relevant. I compare this to myr own experience as a boomer who grew up with the belief that partnership was an achievement. I explore how this shift affects men, why younger women feel pressure to appear si...
2025-12-0507 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 504 Intimacy Techniques That Will Make Her Beg For It | Ep. 130🩷 Head to https://www.arya.fyi for 15% off with coupon code: TRUTH15 - An Intimacy Concierge for couples⏩ FREE: 10 TIPS EVERY MAN NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT THE FEMALE O https://www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook🚨 Head to https://www.ooyes.love and use code TABOO20 for 20% off at checkout!💋 Hotter, Wilder, Wiser | You’ve mastered everything else in life — now master pleasure!https://www.taboototruth.com/hotter-wilder-wiserIn this episode of Taboo To Truth, I break down the four techniques I teach men who want to turn their partner on with confidence. I explain why o...
2025-11-2108 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50From "Hey" to Hooked: The Art of Text Flirting in 2025 | Ep. 128Most people are texting wrong. In this episode I break down why the “Hi. How are you?” cycle kills attraction and how to turn texting into a tool for real connection. Learn how to craft messages that show curiosity, spark chemistry, and move things off the screen and into real life. If your conversations keep dying in the chat, this episode will change the way you text forever.Timestamps:00:00 – You’re Texting Wrong: Why Conversations Die Fast00:45 – The “Hi. How Are You?” Trap01:32 – Lazy Texting and the Emoji Problem02:40 – Crafting Better Ques...
2025-11-1406 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 505 Secrets to Mind-Blowing Sex (That Actually Work) | Ep. 126Good sex doesn’t happen by accident—it takes curiosity, communication, and intention. In this episode of Taboo to Truth, I’m breaking down five simple but powerful ways to go from “meh” to mind-blowing in the bedroom. From making foreplay last all day to using your words with confidence, these are the practical, pleasure-focused habits that transform intimacy at any age.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: What Great Sex Really Takes00:25 – Welcome to Taboo to Truth with Karen Bigman01:00 – Why “Good Sex” Isn’t Enough01:35 – Tip #1: Get Curious02:10 – Tip #2: Slow It Down02:45 – T...
2025-11-0705 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50He’s So Into You—Or Is It Love Bombing? | Ep. 123Is it real love or manipulation in disguise? In this episode of Taboo to Truth, I unpack the difference between genuine affection and love bombing, how to spot the red flags early, what behaviors cross the line from caring to controlling, and why those of us with anxious attachment styles can be especially vulnerable. Learn how to trust your instincts, slow down the pace, and protect yourself from emotional manipulation disguised as romance.Timestamps:00:00 – Intro: When Love Feels Too Intense00:45 – What Love Bombing Really Is01:45 – Signs You’re Being Love Bombed02...
2025-10-2806 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 503 Boundaries To Seriously Consider Before You Start Dating Again | Ep. 121In this solo episode, I’m diving into my own experience with dating, setting boundaries, and figuring out what really matters when it comes to love and relationships at this stage of life. From financial security to sexual health, and even politics, I share what I’ve learned about myself — and why holding firm to your non-negotiables isn’t being picky, it’s being honest.Timestamps:00:00 – 00:48 Why I Actually Love Dating Apps00:49 – 02:05 Finding the Balance Between Boundaries and Flexibility02:06 – 03:04 Why Financial Security Matters to Me03:05 – 04:00 Dating Younger Partners and Managing Family Diff...
2025-10-1708 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Top 3 Female Fantasies—And What They Really Mean | Ep. 120In this episode I’m pulling back the covers—literally—on the top three sexual fantasies most women have but rarely confess. From the thrill of novelty and adventure, to the ego-boosting allure of multi-partner desire, and the power dynamics of dominance and submission, let’s explore what these fantasies really mean and how they connect to women’s need for freedom, safety, and pleasure. Timestamps:00:00 – Intro & welcome00:20 – Why fantasies matter00:46 – #3: Novelty & adventure01:51 – #2: Multi-partner fantasies02:51 – #1: Power play03:51 – Final thoughts & free guideWant a deeper look? Watch the f...
2025-10-1404 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50How deep is her vagina? 5 Facts that’ll change how you do it!In this episode of Taboo to Truth, I break down one of the biggest misconceptions in sexual health: that size matters most. From understanding real female anatomy to addressing midlife changes, we explore why pleasure, comfort, and communication matter far more than length or depth. With candid examples and practical advice, I challenge outdated ideas, tackle the myths created by porn, and encourage curiosity, consent, and conversation as the true keys to sexual connection — especially for women over 50.Timestamps:0:00 – Intro: Why this conversation matters0:22 – The truth about vaginal depth0:55 – Why bigger isn’t al...
2025-10-0303 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 507 Truths About Female Orgasm Every Couple Needs to Know | Ep. 116Why do so many women struggle to orgasm — and what can couples do about it? In this episode, I break down seven real, practical, and sex-positive truths about female pleasure. From communication to clitoral focus, safety to novelty, and why toys are tools. I share how orgasm is less about performance and more about connection and collaboration. If you want to upgrade intimacy and remove shame from the bedroom, this one’s for you.👉 Download my free guide: 10 Things Every Man Needs to Know for more insights.Timestamps:00:00 – Intro: Why female orgasm is misunders...
2025-09-2607 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50How to Please Her: Oral Sex Secrets Men Need to Know | Ep. 114In this episode, I unpacks the truths about oral sex that most men have never been taught. From understanding the female body to slowing down, asking the right questions, and focusing on connection instead of performance, this episode reveals how to move from being a good partner to a great one. Men who listen and apply this will transform not just their partner’s experience, but their entire relationship dynamic.Timestamps:00:00 – Stop Guessing, Start Connecting00:42 – Why Penetration Alone Isn’t Enough01:15 – Understanding Her Anatomy (Clitoris & Vulva)02:00 – The #1 Mistake Men Make03...
2025-09-2006 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Does Size Really Matter? Breaking the Silence on Male Enhancement | Ep. 113In this episode, I dive into the world of male enhancement with William Moore, founder of PhalloFILL. We discuss the cultural silence around penis size, why girth is often more important for pleasure than length, and how fillers are changing the game. William explains the science behind hyaluronic acid injections, how long results last, and why more men are secretly seeking these treatments. We also address risks, myths, and the emotional weight tied to masculinity and size. By bringing this hidden conversation to light, the episode encourages openness, education, and self-confidence for men everywhere.Timestamps:0:00 – In...
2025-09-1634 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Why Midlife Women Stop Having Sex (and How to Fix It) | Ep. 112Midlife women aren’t avoiding sex—they’re avoiding pain, boredom, and frustration. In this episode, I unpack the real reasons intimacy fades during midlife and what couples can do to reconnect. From hormone shifts and low libido to communication struggles and painful sex, Karen provides practical solutions and compassionate insights to help couples reignite intimacy.If you’ve ever wondered why your partner seems to avoid the bedroom, this episode gives you the tools to start the right conversation and explore solutions—from medical options like hormone therapy to introducing new ways of creating pleasure.Timestam...
2025-09-1306 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50The New Face of Menopause: Hormones, Supplements & GLP-1 Therapy with Jackie Giannelli | Ep. 111Menopause is no longer a silent struggle. From “millennipause” to cutting-edge treatments like GLP-1s, today’s conversation with Jackie Giannelli, a board-certified family nurse practitioner specializing in women's health with extensive expertise in hormonal health, menopause, women's sexual health, and urogynecology, dives into the evolving landscape of perimenopause and menopause care.We explore the shifting attitudes around hormone replacement therapy, the rise of millennials entering perimenopause, and why lifestyle, supplements, and community matter just as much as medical interventions. Jackie also breaks down how GLP-1 medications may become a new arm of menopause treatment — while highlighting their po...
2025-09-0926 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50How I Knew I Was Entering Menopause: The 5 Emotional Stages | Ep. 110In this episode, I share what I’ve learned after coaching women through menopause and living it myself. Through my own journey and countless conversations, I’ve identified what I call the five emotional stages of menopause: What the F**, Confusion, I Need Help, Acceptance,* and Empowerment. I walk you through each stage, the struggles and frustrations, and the hope that comes when you realize you’re not alone. Menopause isn’t a disease—it’s a natural phase of life that can actually lead you to strength, freedom, and empowerment.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: My Menopause Journey...
2025-09-0606 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50What If Everything You Knew About Porn Was Wrong? | Ep. 108What if everything you thought about porn was wrong?In this episode let’s dive into the world of ethical porn—porn made with consent, transparency, fair pay, and respect for all performers. Unlike mainstream porn, ethical porn focuses on real people, real pleasure, and real connection.👉 What you’ll learn in this episode:What ethical porn is and how it’s madeWhy mainstream porn sets dangerous, unrealistic expectationsThe importance of consent, safety, and fair pay in adult contentHow to find ethical platforms you can feel good supportingWhy ethical porn can help reframe intimacy in healthy...
2025-08-2604 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Protect Your Love AND Your Wallet: Relationship Money Red Flags | Ep. 106Cheating isn’t the biggest relationship killer—money is. I reveal the hidden financial red flags that can quietly destroy trust and security, and how to protect yourself before it’s too late.I share my own experience of ignoring the warning signs and what it cost me, plus the subtle clues you might be missing: lavish spending on a modest income, secretive money habits, repeated requests for “loans,” inconsistent stories about debt, and more.You’ll learn:How to spot financial instability earlyWhy joint expenses should never mean giving up controlHow to protect yourself wit...
2025-08-1206 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Porn Addiction vs. Entertainment: How to Tell the Difference | Ep. 104Porn: educational tool or relationship wrecker? This week, I’m breaking down the truth behind adult content—how it impacts solo and partnered intimacy, when it becomes problematic, and how it can actually support a healthier relationship and better sex. We will also explore the world of ethical porn, real-life arousal, and how fantasy on-screen isn't always what it seems in real life.If you’ve ever wondered whether porn is hurting or helping your connection, this episode is a must-listen.Timestamps:00:00 – Intro: Is Porn Really Bad for You?01:42 – When Porn Becomes a P...
2025-07-2906 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Can’t Stay Hard? Here’s What Really Matters | Ep. 102In this honest and empowering episode, I break down the stigma around erectile issues and the myth that a hard penis is the only key to great intimacy. Whether you or your partner struggles with maintaining an erection, this episode offers a fresh perspective on redefining intimacy, practical tips to keep the connection hot, and how to explore pleasure beyond penetration. From medical insights to creative intimacy tips, Karen shares how couples can stay connected — soft or hard.Ready to feel Hotter, Wiser, and Wilder?Join my brand-new Hotter, Wiser, Wilder Masterclass — real talk, real tool...
2025-07-1505 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Top Ten Moments Of Taboo To Truth | Ep. 100In this milestone 100th episode, I’m celebrating by launching my Hotter, Wiser, Wilder adult sex ed masterclass and revisiting the 10 most unforgettable moments from Taboo to Truth. Inside this episode:Why younger men pursue older womenThe 5 secrets of desire: sensuality, curiosity, adaptability, vulnerability, attunementTestosterone myths & benefits for womenWhy fantasy is essential for getting turned onReframing foreplay to coreplaySexual snacking to reignite connectionThe anatomy and purpose of the clitorisThe truth about midlife dating insecuritiesWhy communication is the foundation of great sexHow to keep sex creative and fun in long-term relationshipsTimestamps:00:00 – Welcome & Celebrat...
2025-07-0118 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Inside Babeland: A No-Shame Tour of Sex Toys | Ep. 99In this special on-location episode, I visited Babeland, the iconic sex shop in Brooklyn, NY, for an educational and eye-opening walkthrough of the latest in adult toys and accessories. Joined by certified sex educator Lisa Finn, we explore a wide range of products—from vibrators and anal plugs to BDSM gear and positioning pillows.Whether you're new to sex toys or looking to expand your toolkit, this episode delivers a shame-free, inclusive, and curiosity-driven look at what pleasure can truly be.👀 This is a highly visual episode—watch the full tour on YouTube for the complet...
2025-06-2402 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50The Truth About Orgasms, Vibrators & Vaginas – with Dr. Laurie Mintz | Ep. 98 Part 2In Part 2 of my conversation with Dr. Laurie Mintz (Becoming Cliterate), we unpack some of the biggest myths around women's intimacy, including the idea that satisfaction should come from one kind of experience alone.Timestamps:0:00 – Missed Part 1? Go Back!0:45 – Why Vibrators Are Game-Changers2:30 – Debunking the Biggest Myths About Toys4:30 – How Vibration Supports Pleasure and Healing6:15 – Do Vibrators Replace Partners? Let’s Be Real.8:00 – Rethinking ‘Foreplay’: The Four Plays That Work10:16 - Announcing My New Masterclass - Hotter, Wiser, Wilder!10:30 – Sexual Guilt & The Orgasm Gap
2025-06-1721 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Supercharge Your Orgasm with Tanya Griffin | Ep. 97In this episode I welcome Tanya Griffin, founder of “oOYes,” an ecstatic intimacy and cannabis lifestyle brand. Together, we dive deep into how cannabis can elevate female pleasure, the science behind multi-orgasmic experiences, and how to use both systemic and topical products to enhance your sensual life—especially in midlife and beyond. From THC-infused lube to breaking down barriers around oral, nothing is off the table. You’ll laugh, learn, and leave feeling liberated.Timestamps:00:00 - Welcome + Meet Tanya from Oh Yes01:15 - From Cannabis to Climax: Tanya’s Entrepreneurial Journey04:28 - Cannabis...
2025-06-0337 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Delayed Ejaculation: What’s Causing It—And How to Fix It | Ep. 96In this episode, I dive deep into the often-overlooked world of delayed ejaculation—a condition that affects up to 10% of men and becomes more common with age. I break down the physical and psychological causes, including hormone shifts, nerve damage, porn habits, and emotional trauma. With candid reflections from my own experience with orgasmia, I offer a compassionate and practical guide for men (and their partners) to reclaim pleasure, confidence, and connection.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Why This Topic Matters01:20 – My Personal Journey with Orgasmia03:00 – What Is Delayed Ejaculation?04:15 – Defining “Normal” Timing vs. Clinical Diagnosis05:30 – How Common Is It? (Stats + Agi...
2025-05-2706 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Reverse Erectile Dysfunction & Save Your Sex Life with Dr. Elliot Justin | Ep. 95In this candid episode, I sit down with Dr. Elliot Justin—emergency physician turned sex tech innovator—to talk erectile fitness, aging erections, and why the humble c*ck ring might just be the unsung hero of midlife pleasure. From horse accidents and centaur metaphors to revolutionary wearable tech, this episode explores the real (and often overlooked) science behind erections and the emotional toll of performance anxiety. If you're ready to shift shame, embrace better tools, and reignite connection with your partner—this one's for you.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction01:40 – Meet Dr. Elliot Justin & his journey from ER to sex tec...
2025-05-2023 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 505 Myths that are Ruining your Sex Life | Ep. 94We’ve all heard them—the whispered “rules” about how sex should be. Be spontaneous. Always want it. Orgasms are everything. Sound familiar? But what if I told you these so-called truths are actually myths… and they’re killing our sex lives behind closed doors? These myths sneak into the sheets with us. In this episode, I’m breaking down five myths that could be ruining your sex life—and offering a fresh, honest look at how to bring the pleasure back. One of them might even surprise you (myth #4 is a game changer).Let's dive in!Ti...
2025-05-1306 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50The Surprising Truth About BDSM with Sir Leezus | Ep. 93, Part 1Some people say kink is just about pain. Others think it’s only for people with trauma. Some have never given it a second thought—and then there are those who know exactly what their kink is… or at least think they do. But what if kink is about more than any of that?In this episode, I sit down with Sir Leezus, a sensual sadist and erotic power exchange expert, to talk about what really draws people into kink. Is it healing? Is it about control? Is it even sex at all? For some, kink happens withou...
2025-04-2915 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 5013 Spots Men NEVER Touch (But Women Beg For) | Ep 92Think you know what turns you on? Think again. We tend to treat pleasure like it lives in a few familiar places—the usual G-spots, the go-to zones we all default to. But the truth? Your entire skin is wired for sensation. Your body is a playground of possibility… and chances are, you’re only exploring a fraction of it.In this episode, I’m taking you beyond the basics—past the genitals, breasts, and all the usual G-spots—to uncover the overlooked 13 erogenous zones that can completely transform your experience of desire. No penetration required. Just curiosity, p...
2025-04-2207 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 5010 Realistic Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life | Ep 90Ever feel like your sex life is on autopilot? We’ve all been there – the same routine, the same positions, the same predictable outcome. What if I told you your sex life could be playful, adventurous, and deeply satisfying again? Routine can be the death of passion—but it doesn’t have to be.In this episode, I delve into 10 ways to have better sex and break free from "wallpaper sex" (you know, the same old routine). Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or exploring solo pleasure, these tips will help you reconnect with pleasure, curiosity, and fun. S...
2025-04-0805 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50The Surprising Truth About Testosterone Therapy | Ep 88In this episode, I dive into the benefits of testosterone for women. I share my own experience with testosterone therapy and how it helps me with everything from libido and orgasms to brain fog and muscle mass.It’s not just about sex drive—testosterone also helps with bone strength, hot flashes, and even Alzheimer’s prevention. I break down how it’s prescribed, why proper dosing is so important, and why you should never borrow your husband’s testosterone (trust me, I’ve got a wild story about that).Whether you’re curious about testosterone...
2025-03-2508 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Prescription Drugs & Hormone Therapy for Low Libido | Ep 86Low libido, or hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), can be a tough challenge for many women, particularly during midlife.In this episode, I take a closer look at the various medical treatments available for low libido, covering everything from prescription medications to hormone therapy and beyond. Whether you're dealing with hormonal shifts, relationship challenges, or simply feeling drained, this episode offers practical advice and solutions to help you regain your sexual vitality and feel more like yourself again.If this episode resonates with you, don’t forget to subscribe, share with someone who might benefit, an...
2025-03-1109 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Squirting and Midlife Sex: What’s Real, What’s Hype, and How to Explore It | Ep 84Is squirting the ultimate out-of-body orgasmic experience, or just another overhyped sex myth? Some women swear it’s euphoric, others feel indifferent, and some want nothing to do with it. But what is squirting, really? Is it just pee? Is it something every woman can do? And how can you (or your partner) experience it?In this episode, I break down the science and psychology behind squirting, from the anatomy of the female body to techniques that can lead to female ejaculation. Plus, we talk about the mental blocks that might be holding you back—and why prep...
2025-02-2505 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Midlife Dating: Red Flags to Run From, Green Flags to Stay For | Ep 82You spot a red flag, and what do you do? Run. Someone’s still obsessed with their ex? Gone. Talks only about themselves? No thanks. Financially unstable in their 50s? Hard pass.We’ve trained ourselves to scan for every possible warning sign before we even give someone a real chance. But here’s a thought—when was the last time you actively looked for green flags? The little signs that someone might actually be worth your time?In this episode, I flip the script on dating and relationships. Sure, avoiding red flags is important, but what...
2025-02-1108 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50The Power of Somatic Practices: Transforming Relationships and Intimacy with Kiana Reeves | Ep 79How do emotional and sexual wellness intertwine to redefine intimacy in midlife?In this episode of Taboo to Truth, I sit down with somatic sex educator Kiana Reeves for a deep dive into the evolving dynamics of relationships and sexual intimacy, particularly during midlife. We talk about the vital connection between emotional and sexual well-being, exploring how authentic communication and intentional practices can transform both personal and partnered experiences.Kiana shares her expertise on somatic approaches to intimacy, offering insights into how cultivating love, safety, and embodiment can lead to a richer, more fulfilling sexual...
2025-01-2137 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Lessons from Babygirl: Power, Kink, and Midlife Intimacy | Ep 78What’s the role of power in your relationships, and how does it shape intimacy?In this episode, I delve into the nuanced world of power dynamics, kink, and midlife sexuality. Inspired by the provocative themes in the film Babygirl featuring Nicole Kidman, I bring my perspective as a sex educator to explore topics that are often left unspoken, but deeply impactful.From the transformative possibilities of power exchange to the surprising ways infidelity might reignite connection, I tackle the complexities of modern relationships with insight and empathy. I also discuss the importance of honest co...
2025-01-1808 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Is Your Definition of Monogamy Killing Your Relationship? | Ep 77Monogamy might seem simple on the surface, but is it really? In this episode, I dive into the often-overlooked complexities of what it means to be monogamous, especially in midlife relationships. From historical roots to modern interpretations, I explore how personal experiences and upbringing shape our definitions of fidelity.I also share personal stories, thought-provoking questions, and tips to help you clarify expectations and strengthen communication with your partner. Whether you’re starting a new relationship or redefining an existing one, this episode is all about creating clarity and connection.Timestamps:(01:10) Different perspectives on mono...
2025-01-1410 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Shame, Morality, and Sex Addiction: Is It Time for a Change? | Ep 76In this episode, I sit down with Heather McPherson, a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of the Sexual Health Alliance, to explore the complexities of sex addiction and its societal perceptions. Why are we so quick to label and judge? Heather dives into the origins of the sex addiction diagnosis and critiques its impact, advocating for a harm-reduction and education-focused approach instead. We also take a deep dive into sexual health, consent in non-traditional relationships like kink, polyamory, and open relationships—are therapists equipped to understand these dynamics? Heather explains why proper training is essential. Plus, she ex...
2025-01-0740 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Introducing Season 4: The Greatest Secrets to Revitalizing your Sex Life in MidlifeHey there, and welcome to Season 4 of the Taboo to Truth podcast! I’m your host, Karen Bigman, and I’m thrilled to have you with me for another season of unapologetic conversations about sexuality in midlife. Whether you're navigating a dwindling libido, struggling with sexual health changes, or just trying to understand what's happening to your body during menopause, I’m here to talk about it all. This podcast is all about breaking the silence around these topics and creating a safe, supportive space where no question is too awkward or taboo.This season, I’m on a mis...
2025-01-0102 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 505 Secrets to Turning Up the Heat in 2025: Better Sex Starts Here! | Ep 75As we countdown to the new year, it’s time to leave behind the dull sex life of 2024 and step into something hotter and more exciting. Want to know how to turn up the heat in the bedroom or even at your next sex party? In this episode,I’m sharing five tips for better sex in 2025.What’s the secret? Well, let’s just say communication is key (but I’m not talking about just words), making time for sex is a must (yes, even if it means scheduling it), and being creative will totally change the game...
2024-12-3104 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50When Men Talk About Sex: The Power of Vulnerability in Relationships | Ep 73In this episode, I’m getting real about something that can completely transform your relationship: vulnerability. We often think of vulnerability as something women do, but here’s the truth—men can be just as willing to open up, and when they do, it’s absolutely amazing. Here’s the thing: men and women aren’t as different as we think. The fears women have about aging, like changes to our bodies or confidence, are so similar to what men go through. For men, things like erectile dysfunction can feel like their whole identity is being questioned. But just like...
2024-12-1710 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Sex, Hormones & Menopause with Dr. Irwin & Sue Goldstein | Ep 72In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Irwin and Sue Goldstein to tackle the taboo around menopause and women’s sexual health. Why is it that we still don’t talk about what’s really happening in our bodies during menopause? It’s not just about hot flashes—there’s so much more going on beneath the surface that impacts everything from our physical health to our sexuality. Sue cuts through the noise about bioidentical hormones, while Dr. Irwin introduces us to a groundbreaking technique—a game-changer for understanding your own body. We’re breaking down the myths around hormone t...
2024-12-1047 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50The Glorious Clitoris | Ep 70Ever wondered why the clitoris is often misunderstood, despite being the ultimate pleasure powerhouse? Did you know it has over 10,000 nerve endings—more than any other part of the body? In this episode, I dive into the fascinating world of the clitoris, an organ uniquely designed for pleasure. I break down its anatomy, both external and internal, and explain why it’s so vital for sexual satisfaction. I also tackle misconceptions, explore how menopause impacts sensitivity, and share actionable tips for self-exploration and partner education. My goal is to empower you to understand your body better, embrace your...
2024-11-2611 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50The Science of Better Sex with Dr. Emily Jamea | Ep. 66In today's episode, I sat down with Dr. Emily Jamea, sex and relationship therapist and host of the Love and Libido podcast. We dove deep into her groundbreaking research on the connection between flow states and sexual satisfaction, which forms the foundation of her new book "Anatomy of Five Secrets to Create Connection and Cultivate Passion." Dr. Jamea shared her innovative approach to helping couples enhance their intimate relationships, revealing how the five secrets - sensuality, curiosity, adaptability, vulnerability, and attunement - can transform ordinary sexual experiences into extraordinary ones. Her fresh perspective on sexual wellness challenges traditional narratives...
2024-11-0330 minTaboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Navigating Intimacy and Consent with Eric FitzMedrud, Ph.D. | Ep 60In this episode, we sit down with Eric FitzMedrud, Ph.D. a therapist specializing in relationship and sexual issues, to discuss how men can improve their sex lives through emotional regulation, removing sexual entitlement, and enhancing consent and negotiation skills. Eric, an award-winning author, shares his personal journey and professional insights on creating healthier, more enjoyable sexual relationships. I also delve into his approach to addressing issues related to patriarchal norms, empathetic communication, and the importance of consent. Whether you're dating, in a long-term relationship, or exploring non-monogamy, this conversation offers valuable guidance on fostering deeper and more respectful...
2024-09-2246 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Testosterone's vital role in Women's Health | Ep 59In this episode, I dive into the role of testosterone as part of hormone replacement therapy. Inspired by a recent conversation with a male endocrinologist, I tackle the frustrating double standards surrounding testosterone treatment for women. Why is it casually prescribed for men, but women need a specific diagnosis?Check out this episode where we discuss:The importance of testosterone for women's health beyond libido.How low testosterone affects your sex life and overall well-being.Different methods of testosterone supplementation and their pros and cons.Timestamps: (00:00) - Introduction to Taboo to Truth P...
2024-09-1514 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Sex Tech for Beginners with Ola Miedzynska | Ep 58Breaking Barriers In this episode of the 'Taboo to Truth' podcast, host Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, menopause coach and sex educator, delves into the world of sex tech and sex work advocacy with Ola Miedzynska. Ola, a trailblazer in the sex technology industry, discusses her extensive experience with over 60 global sex tech and adult tech brands, including the founding of Sex Tech EU and co-founding EroBella, a safer platform for sex workers. Karen and Ola discuss the evolution of sex tech, the impact of AI on the industry...
2024-09-0739 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Menopause to Prostate Health: Vibrators Are Not Just for Pleasure with Dr. Soum Rakshit | Ep 57Revolutionizing Sexual Health: Dr. Sum Rakshit of Mystery Vibe Explains Innovative SolutionsIn this episode, Dr. Sum Rakshit, founder of Mystery Vibe, delves into the world of sexual health and wellness. Dr. Rakshit discusses how Mystery Vibe's devices, originally based on biomedical engineering principles, are designed to address various sexual dysfunction issues such as vaginal dryness, lack of libido, pelvic pain, erectile dysfunction, and more. He shares insights on the development journey, highlighting the importance of addressing sexual health issues that arise from life events like childbirth, menopause, and other major medical conditions.
2024-08-3145 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Finding Love in Midlife - Stop Settling and Start Living | Ep 56In this podcast episode, I dive into my own experiences with dating apps and the journey to change my patterns—moving from an anxious attachment style to a healthier, self-assured approach. Women often worry about whether he’ll call or text again, and sometimes settle for less than they deserve. It's easy to latch onto someone just because they're available, but true connection goes deeper. Here’s what we explore in this episode:The importance of self-worth in attracting the right partnerNavigating the dance of early dating and managing initial attractionsHow clear communication—both emotional and sexual—ca...
2024-08-2509 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Navigating Menopause - Your Hormone Therapy Questions Answered | Ep 55In this episode, I explain the differences between bioidentical, synthetic, and natural hormones and various hormone delivery methods. I highlight the benefits of hormone therapy for managing menopausal symptoms and long-term health. The episode aims to provide women with the knowledge needed to navigate hormone therapy and improve their quality of life during menopause.(01:49) Understanding Hormone Therapy(05:03) Bioidentical vs. Synthetic Hormones(06:41) Compounded Hormones: Risks and Considerations(10:32) The Importance of Proper Hormone Therapy(12:19) Topical EstrogenKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coac...
2024-08-1814 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 5024 Sexuality Professionals Define Sex | Ep 54Have you ever wondered what sex really means? This spring, I attended the Association of Sex Educators, Coaches, Counselors, and Therapists conference in St. Louis. I met remarkable professionals dedicated to fostering a more sex-positive world. Curious, I asked 24 of these experts—from sex therapists to professional cuddlers—what their definition of sex is.Interestingly, "sex" means something different to everyone. From a sacred energy exchange vital to life to wonder, creativity, and lust all bundled in one. One interviewee emphasizes that sex transcends the physical—it's about identity, intimacy, and respectful connection, always with consent.Join...
2024-08-1113 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Finding Love in Perimenopause How Alyssa Dineen Transformed Her Dating Life Post-Divorce | Ep 53Jump into a riveting conversation that breaks down misconceptions and tackles the universal challenges of dating and sex in midlife. In this episode, I sit down with Alyssa Dineen, a renowned dating coach, stylist, and author, as she shares her journey of rediscovery post-divorce. From navigating the intimidating world of online dating to revealing personal stories of "losing her second virginity," Alyssa’s candid dialogue is both inspiring and downright hilarious. Check out this episode where we discuss:Navigating the hurdles of online dating post-divorce Dealing with sexual insecurities and STDs Embracing intimacy and redefining personal bound...
2024-08-0418 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Exploring Non-Monogamy Is It Right for Your Relationship | Ep 52This episode is a replay of one of our most popular episodes since launching last September. In this episode, I delve into non-monogamy, a topic stirring a lot of curiosity, especially among those in long-term relationships. I discuss what non-monogamy is, various forms it can take, like swinging and polyamory, and how it might either revitalize or challenge your relationship. This isn't an endorsement of any lifestyle but rather an exploration of different relationship paradigms. If you’re curious and have questions, head over to my website and use the form to ask me anonymously. Our...
2024-07-2917 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50From Self-Discovery to Deeper Intimacy My Midlife Sexual Journey | Ep 51Embarking on my journey back into dating and relationships after my marriage ended taught me hard but valuable lessons about intimacy and self-worth. From the initial thrill of sexual liberation to the heart-wrenching lows of rejection, I learned the importance of knowing myself and my emotional needs. Whether you’re navigating menopause, exploring new relationships, or just trying to understand your body better, it’s crucial to communicate openly and find what truly brings you joy and fulfillment. Join me in breaking the silence and embracing the beauty of midlife sexuality—grab your favorite drink, put me on spe...
2024-07-2121 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 5050 Unapologetic Conversations (and many more to come) | Ep 50Reflecting on my journey, I've covered an array of topics—from orgasms, UTIs, and hormone therapy to interviewing incredible experts like Dr. Alyssa Dweck and Dr. Mohit Khera about sexual dysfunction and menopause. I've tackled tough subjects like consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, BDSM, and sexual health at different life stages. Your interest and trust drive me, whether I'm in a bar hearing someone's personal story or answering your questions anonymously on the show. As I take a short break to prepare for season three, please keep sending your questions and reviews. This milestone and every episode is dedicated to...
2024-07-1408 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Embracing Sexual Pleasure with Sexologist & Sex Educator Jennifer Rahner | Ep49In this episode, I'm joined by Jennifer Rahner, a certified sexologist and sexuality educator who is transforming the conversation around sexuality with her authentic and vulnerable approach. We delved into her journey from a 25-year career in IT to becoming a sex educator inspired by listening to Dr. Ruth as a teenager.Jennifer shared how she rediscovered her passion for sexuality at 45 and her transformative experiences with workshops led by Betty Dodson, a renowned sexuality educator focused on masturbation and pleasure. Jennifer candidly talked about how she teaches classes such as "Anatomy of Pleasure" to offer the s...
2024-07-0744 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50How Dirty Talk Deepens Connection and Enhances Pleasure | Ep48Dirty talk in the bedroom might not be everyone's cup of tea, yet it's a powerful tool for staying present during sex. Women tend to get lost in their thoughts, worrying about whether their partner is getting bored or if they're taking too long to reach orgasm, which can detract from the pleasure of the experience. The same goes for men, particularly those dealing with erectile dysfunction, who might find their performance anxiety worsened by overthinking. In a previous episode, I discussed the importance of pleasure and touch, in this episode, I'm suggesting we engage our minds...
2024-06-3007 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Unlocking the Secrets to Lifelong Passion with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus | Ep 47I had the great pleasure of welcoming Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, certified sex therapist, and the author of "Satisfaction Guaranteed: How to Have the Sex You've Always Wanted," to the show. Bat Sheva has dedicated her career to empowering women to find pleasure in their bodies and spirit by combining medical and psychological approaches to women's sexual health. Having met Bat Sheva years ago when she was my doctor, I credit her with starting me on my journey to openly discuss sexuality, a topic often shrouded in silence.Our conversation delved into the complexities of maintaining a...
2024-06-2350 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Boardroom to Bedroom - Kate Pozenik interviews me! | Ep 46In this episode, Kate Pozenik, Founder of Quirk Personal Branding and Career Consulting, interviewed me - Spilling the Tea for Career Success. I'm thrilled to dive into an enlightening conversation with you all about midlife transitions, sexuality, and breaking down the taboos surrounding menopause.My journey has been anything but linear, starting my career as a computer programmer and navigating through various roles before landing where I am today. It's this winding path, filled with its share of transitions and transformations, that has ignited my passion for empowering women and fostering open conversations about the real changes w...
2024-06-1649 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50A Sex Therapist's Guide to Exploring Love Beyond the Norms | Ep 45I had the pleasure of speaking with Alycia Williams, a sex and relationship therapist with a wealth of experience and a unique perspective rooted in her own background and professional journey. Alycia's insights into the complexity of human sexuality, the importance of self-acceptance, and the transformative power of therapy were both enlightening and inspiring. Her approach, emphasizing personal growth, open communication, and the celebration of individuality within relationships, resonated deeply with me.This interview is a reminder of the beauty in embracing our own stories and the potential for growth and connection when we approach our relationships...
2024-06-0943 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Demystifying the World of Professional Help in the Field of Sexology with Sex Counselor Heather Howard, PhD, MPH | Ep 40In this episode, I explore the multifaceted world of sexology and the importance of finding the right professional to address sexual health and intimacy issues with Sex Counselor, Heather Howard, PhD, MPH. We delved into the differences between sex therapists, counselors, sexological bodyworkers, and surrogate partners, highlighting the significance of their roles in helping individuals and couples navigate sexual challenges.This was an eye-opening conversation. We talked about the diverse approaches and ethical considerations within this field, underscoring the importance of a nonjudgmental, informed, and supportive environment for addressing sexual concerns.Navigating...
2024-05-1959 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50From Vanilla to Varied - A Beginner's Guide to Exploring Kink | Ep 39In today's episode, I'm diving into the world of kink, a term that captures a broad spectrum of activities beyond the conventional or "vanilla" intimate practices. Kink isn't just about the extreme of dungeons and dramatic scenarios; it's fundamentally about venturing into desires that stray from one's usual experiences, which could be as straightforward as altering the ambiance with different lighting. Within this realm, BDSM stands out as a notable subset, encompassing bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism. Many people find kink a playful and explorative outlet, a healthy way to relieve stress, and an...
2024-05-1210 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Beyond the High-Medical Cannabis & It's Impact on Women's Health with Dr. Staci Gruber, PART 2 | Ep 38In part 2 of my interview with Dr Staci Gruber, we delved into the complexities of cannabis use, including its potential for addiction, known formally as Cannabis Use Disorder (CUD). We also touched upon the evolution of cannabis potency over the years, with today's products containing much higher THC levels than those from decades ago, raising the stakes in the risk-benefit analysis of cannabis consumption. The conversation further explored the medical applications of cannabis, highlighting its utility in managing pain, sleep disorders, and other health issues. The conversation also ventured into the areas of women's health, underscoring the...
2024-05-0521 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Beyond the High - Medical Cannabis & Its Impact on Women's Health with Dr. Staci Gruber PART 1 | Ep 37In today's episode, part 1 of 2, I had the pleasure of welcoming Dr. Stacey Gruber, a renowned expert in the field of cannabis research and its implications on mental health and substance abuse. One of the most compelling parts of our conversation revolved around personal experiences with cannabis, including my own. Dr. Gruber eloquently addressed the challenges and misconceptions surrounding cannabis use for medical purposes, emphasizing the importance of finding the right product and dosage to suit individual needs and conditions. She also touched on the potential benefits of cannabis in enhancing sexual health and wellbeing, a topic...
2024-04-2828 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Society's Rainbow - Embracing the Diversity of Human Identity | Ep 36In this episode, I delve into the complex world of gender and sexuality, acknowledging the vast array of terminology that exists today compared to the simpler times of my youth. I explore the distinctions between identity, expression, gender, and sexual orientation, emphasizing that these aspects of ourselves are not always aligned. I introduce concepts such as the Genderbread Person to illustrate the differences between sex, gender expression, sexual attraction, and identity. I also share insights on how societal norms have evolved to recognize not only the binary of male and female but also the spectrum that includes...
2024-04-2114 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Love at First Swipe? The Reality of Dating in Midlife | Ep 34Online dating is the way for people of all ages to meet today, though it comes with its own set of challenges and rewards. The variety of dating apps available allows you to find one that aligns with your values and lifestyle, whether that's based on religion, interests, or relationship goals. It's crucial to approach these platforms with a sense of authenticity and honesty, both in how you present yourself and in what you expect from others. In this episode I discuss my experience navigating the apps, the first dates and the next ones, communicating on dates...
2024-04-0720 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50From Erections to Intimacy - A Whole New Take on Urology | Ep 33In this episode I had the privilege of speaking with Dr. Rachel Rubin, a highly respected urologist and sexual medicine specialist known for her comprehensive approach to sexual health across all genders. Dr. Rubin enlightened us on the vital connection between urology and sexual function, emphasizing the importance of understanding our bodies' anatomy and physiology to address sexual health issues effectively. She shared her passion for educating both the public and healthcare professionals on the complexities of sexual medicine, underscoring the need for better sexual education and the removal of stigma from conversations about sexual...
2024-03-3129 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Unveiling Desire - Navigating Mismatched Libidos in Relationships | Ep 32In this episode, I'm opening up about a topic that's often whispered about but rarely spoken out loud: mismatched libidos. I'll share with you my thoughts and experiences on the lack of sexual desire—whether it's something that can be revived or an intrinsic part of someone's being. I talk abut strategies for finding what gets you in the mood, and how to communicate these needs to your partner. Whether it's setting a romantic scene or experimenting with new forms of foreplay, finding the key to your desire can be a rewarding journey. Let's get comfortable and st...
2024-03-2407 min
Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50Communicate to Elevate-The Art of Exceptional Sex | Ep 31Embark on a journey to redefine what it means to have truly mind-blowing sex in this eye-opening episode. In this episode I confront the traditional script of sexual encounters and propose a more expansive and satisfying approach. It's a candid talk about the nuances of desire, the rhythm of sexual compatibility, and the profound role of intellectual connection in physical intimacy. Discover the transformative power of slowing down, the art of anticipation, and the joy of exploring your partner's body and mind in ways that defy convention. If you're ready to turn the page on...
2024-03-1710 min