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Boring ConversationsA GENTLE REBUKE TO CARDINAL DOLAN BY SISTERS OF CHARITY OF NEW YORK | Boring Conversations | Ep. 98The Sisters of Charity of New York issued a gentle but firm rebuke to Cardinal Timothy Dolan after his public praise of Charlie Kirk as a “modern-day St. Paul.” In their statement, the Sisters reminded the Church that sainthood is measured not by divisive rhetoric but by service, compassion, and love of neighbour, citing the legacy of their foundress, St. Elizabeth Ann Seton. Their response raises important questions about faith, leadership, and the true meaning of discipleship in today’s Church.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://w...
2025-10-0120 minBoring ConversationsA GENTLE REBUKE TO CARDINAL DOLAN BY SISTERS OF CHARITY OF NEW YORK | Boring Conversations | Ep. 98The Sisters of Charity of New York issued a gentle but firm rebuke to Cardinal Timothy Dolan after his public praise of Charlie Kirk as a “modern-day St. Paul.” In their statement, the Sisters reminded the Church that sainthood is measured not by divisive rhetoric but by service, compassion, and love of neighbour, citing the legacy of their foundress, St. Elizabeth Ann Seton. Their response raises important questions about faith, leadership, and the true meaning of discipleship in today’s Church.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://w...
2025-10-0120 minBoring ConversationsNigeria Has Low Quality Elites | Boring Conversations | Ep. 97In this episode, I reflect on a post by Nigerian writer Ikenna Okeh, who said Nigeria has “low quality elites.” I explore what that means — how our wealthy too often chase status instead of building schools, libraries, or culture — and why true leadership should be about investing in the future, not just showing off wealth.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/emekamathew.obinna📘 Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/CatholicGriot/▶️ YouTube: https://www.you...
2025-09-2923 minBoring ConversationsNigeria Has Low Quality Elites | Boring Conversations | Ep. 97In this episode, I reflect on a post by Nigerian writer Ikenna Okeh, who said Nigeria has “low quality elites.” I explore what that means — how our wealthy too often chase status instead of building schools, libraries, or culture — and why true leadership should be about investing in the future, not just showing off wealth.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/emekamathew.obinna📘 Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/CatholicGriot/▶️ YouTube: https://www.you...
2025-09-2923 minBoring ConversationsEducation and Access to Books in Nigeria | Boring Conversations | Ep. 96In this episode, I take a hard look at the state of libraries in Nigeria. I reflect on the irony of a First Lady’s birthday donation campaign for a National Library building that has been under construction for years, and what that says about our national priorities. At stake is access to knowledge, education, and the future of literacy itself.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Face...
2025-09-2815 minBoring ConversationsEducation and Access to Books in Nigeria | Boring Conversations | Ep. 96In this episode, I take a hard look at the state of libraries in Nigeria. I reflect on the irony of a First Lady’s birthday donation campaign for a National Library building that has been under construction for years, and what that says about our national priorities. At stake is access to knowledge, education, and the future of literacy itself.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Face...
2025-09-2815 minBoring ConversationsThe Irony of History in the Palestinian Conflict | Boring Conversations | Ep. 95In this conversation, I discuss the ongoing conflict in Gaza and express my solidarity with the Palestinian people while recognizing the broader complexities of global oppression. I reflect on historical injustices, the recurring cycle of violence, and the urgent need for peace and solidarity among all people. I emphasize the importance of learning from history and the moral necessity of standing together against oppression wherever it occurs.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Facebook (Personal): https://www.faceb...
2025-09-2732 minBoring ConversationsThe Irony of History in the Palestinian Conflict | Boring Conversations | Ep. 95In this conversation, I discuss the ongoing conflict in Gaza and express my solidarity with the Palestinian people while recognizing the broader complexities of global oppression. I reflect on historical injustices, the recurring cycle of violence, and the urgent need for peace and solidarity among all people. I emphasize the importance of learning from history and the moral necessity of standing together against oppression wherever it occurs.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Facebook (Personal): https://www.faceb...
2025-09-2732 minBoring ConversationsNigeria’s Global Speeches, Local Failures | Boring Conversations | Ep. 94In this conversation, I reflect on Nigeria’s urgent challenges, from worsening insecurity to the hypocrisy of its leadership. I critique the administration’s failure to meet the needs of ordinary Nigerians. I also call out the government for sounding polished and persuasive on international platforms while failing to deliver real progress at home — a dangerous gap between rhetoric abroad and reality on the ground. This episode was inspired by the post of Precious Okuk, brought to my attention by Mr. Dele Farotimi.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips...
2025-09-271h 11Boring ConversationsNigeria’s Global Speeches, Local Failures | Boring Conversations | Ep. 94In this conversation, I reflect on Nigeria’s urgent challenges, from worsening insecurity to the hypocrisy of its leadership. I critique the administration’s failure to meet the needs of ordinary Nigerians. I also call out the government for sounding polished and persuasive on international platforms while failing to deliver real progress at home — a dangerous gap between rhetoric abroad and reality on the ground. This episode was inspired by the post of Precious Okuk, brought to my attention by Mr. Dele Farotimi.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips...
2025-09-271h 11Boring ConversationsGaza and the Double Standards of International Law | Boring Conversations | Ep. 93In this episode of Boring Conversations, South African writer and activist Zukiswa Wanner joins us from the Global Sumud Flotilla, a civilian mission sailing toward Gaza. She and colleagues from over 40 countries — artists, scientists, humanitarians, ordinary people — are demanding a humanitarian corridor to deliver food and medicine where governments have failed.We talk about the double standards of international law, South Africa’s case against Israel at the ICJ, the silence of the UN, and the falsehood that Gaza’s struggle began on October 7. This is a conversation about Gaza, Africa, and the Global South, about di...
2025-09-221h 07Boring ConversationsGaza and the Double Standards of International Law | Boring Conversations | Ep. 93In this episode of Boring Conversations, South African writer and activist Zukiswa Wanner joins us from the Global Sumud Flotilla, a civilian mission sailing toward Gaza. She and colleagues from over 40 countries — artists, scientists, humanitarians, ordinary people — are demanding a humanitarian corridor to deliver food and medicine where governments have failed.We talk about the double standards of international law, South Africa’s case against Israel at the ICJ, the silence of the UN, and the falsehood that Gaza’s struggle began on October 7. This is a conversation about Gaza, Africa, and the Global South, about dictators who always crumble...
2025-09-221h 07Boring ConversationsWHAT HAS IRELAND GOT TO DO WITH NIGERIA? Trauma, Colonialism, and the World on Our Screens | Ep. 92In this episode, we draw unexpected lines between Ireland and Nigeria — from colonial legacies to the traumas passed down through language, famine, and fate. Sparked by reflections after attending a lecture by Dr. Gabor Maté on trauma, we unpack how modern media shapes our sense of global crises, from Gaza to Ukraine, and why love, humanity, and hope remain urgent in a fractured world.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/emekamathew...
2025-09-1943 minBoring ConversationsWHAT HAS IRELAND GOT TO DO WITH NIGERIA? Trauma, Colonialism, and the World on Our Screens | Ep. 92In this episode, we draw unexpected lines between Ireland and Nigeria — from colonial legacies to the traumas passed down through language, famine, and fate. Sparked by reflections after attending a lecture by Dr. Gabor Maté on trauma, we unpack how modern media shapes our sense of global crises, from Gaza to Ukraine, and why love, humanity, and hope remain urgent in a fractured world.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/emekamathew...
2025-09-1943 minBoring ConversationsAfrica’s Problem Isn’t Poverty, It’s Leadership | Boring Conversations | Ep. 90Nigeria is not poor. Africa is not poor. What we suffer is failed leadership. In this episode of Boring Conversations, we confront the absence of basic amenities like light, water, roads, schools, hospitals, and ask why, in the 21st century, our leaders still refuse to do what must be done.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/emekamathew.obinna📘 Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/CatholicGrio...
2025-08-2135 minBoring ConversationsAfrica’s Problem Isn’t Poverty, It’s Leadership | Boring Conversations | Ep. 90Nigeria is not poor. Africa is not poor. What we suffer is failed leadership. In this episode of Boring Conversations, we confront the absence of basic amenities like light, water, roads, schools, hospitals, and ask why, in the 21st century, our leaders still refuse to do what must be done.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/emekamathew.obinna📘 Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/CatholicGrio...
2025-08-2135 minBoring ConversationsThe Truth About Nigeria’s Broken Schools | Boring Conversations | Ep. 89Education is meant to be the great equalizer. In Nigeria, it has become the great divider.This first episode in the series, The Broken Ladder: Nigeria’s Education Crisis, examines how a system meant to lift children now holds them down — from overcrowded classrooms and absent teachers to the obsession with certificates and the neglect of rural schools.If we cannot fix the classroom, we cannot fix Nigeria.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@birin...
2025-08-1959 minBoring ConversationsThe Truth About Nigeria’s Broken Schools | Boring Conversations | Ep. 89Education is meant to be the great equalizer. In Nigeria, it has become the great divider.This first episode in the series, The Broken Ladder: Nigeria’s Education Crisis, examines how a system meant to lift children now holds them down — from overcrowded classrooms and absent teachers to the obsession with certificates and the neglect of rural schools.If we cannot fix the classroom, we cannot fix Nigeria.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@birin...
2025-08-1959 minBoring ConversationsWhat is love, really? | Boring Conversations | Ep. 88In this episode, we reflect on the failures of language, the weight of intimacy, and the moments that come close to meaning something. Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/emekamathew.obinna📘 Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/CatholicGriot/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BoringConversations🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2slpzW5L4aI8MmFlugtG1MJust search “Boring Conversations” wherever you listen or watch—and join a growing community asking th...
2025-08-0815 minBoring ConversationsWhat is love, really? | Boring Conversations | Ep. 88In this episode, we reflect on the failures of language, the weight of intimacy, and the moments that come close to meaning something. Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exclusive clips:📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biringkpa/🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@biringkpa📘 Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/emekamathew.obinna📘 Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/CatholicGriot/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BoringConversations🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2slpzW5L4aI8MmFlugtG1MJust search “Boring...
2025-08-0715 minBoring ConversationsThe Black Man Dressed Like a King | Boring Conversations | Ep. 87Inspired by Dike Chukwumerije’s Okwesilieze, this episode reflects on the Black man’s paradox. Regal by birth, yet burdened by poverty, silence, and chains he can see but cannot break.It’s a call to rise, reclaim our strength, and rewrite the story of our future with courage and dignity.
2025-08-0413 minBoring ConversationsThe Black Man Dressed Like a King | Boring Conversations | Ep. 87Inspired by Dike Chukwumerije’s Okwesilieze, this episode reflects on the Black man’s paradox. Regal by birth, yet burdened by poverty, silence, and chains he can see but cannot break.It’s a call to rise, reclaim our strength, and rewrite the story of our future with courage and dignity.
2025-08-0413 minBoring ConversationsThe Real Reason True Love is Hard to Find | Boring Conversations | Ep. 86In this episode, I explore how corruption and greed have deeply fractured Nigerian society and leadership. Why does it feel like change is impossible? How has economic insecurity warped our values, relationships, and communities?I unpack the connection between failed leadership, social decay, and the rise of desperation. From transactional relationships to rising crime and lost trust. Drawing on personal reflections and societal analysis, I challenge us to face these hard truths.Watch, reflect, and share. Let’s break the chains of silence and corruption — together.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for upda...
2025-07-2217 minBoring ConversationsThe Real Reason True Love is Hard to Find | Boring Conversations | Ep. 86In this episode, I explore how corruption and greed have deeply fractured Nigerian society and leadership. Why does it feel like change is impossible? How has economic insecurity warped our values, relationships, and communities?I unpack the connection between failed leadership, social decay, and the rise of desperation. From transactional relationships to rising crime and lost trust. Drawing on personal reflections and societal analysis, I challenge us to face these hard truths.Watch, reflect, and share. Let’s break the chains of silence and corruption — together.Stay connected and never miss an episode. Follow Boring Conversations for upda...
2025-07-2217 minBoring ConversationsWhy Speaking Out Against Corruption Can Cost You Everything | Boring Conversations| Ep. 85When you fight corruption, it fights back. It fights in stages, with all its power.In this episode, I share my own journey facing the brutal backlash that comes from resisting corruption. From bribes and compromises to threats and attempts at destruction, corruption does not relent. But beyond the personal, this video is a call for all of us to recognize that we need each other, to grow together in love, peace, and unity.We must confront the silence that allows injustice to thrive, the fear that stifles voices, and the societal pressures that keep us from...
2025-07-2243 minBoring ConversationsWhy Speaking Out Against Corruption Can Cost You Everything | Boring Conversations| Ep. 85When you fight corruption, it fights back. It fights in stages, with all its power.In this episode, I share my own journey facing the brutal backlash that comes from resisting corruption. From bribes and compromises to threats and attempts at destruction, corruption does not relent. But beyond the personal, this video is a call for all of us to recognize that we need each other, to grow together in love, peace, and unity.We must confront the silence that allows injustice to thrive, the fear that stifles voices, and the societal pressures that keep us from...
2025-07-2243 minBoring ConversationsThe Paradox of Progress: Are We Truly Connected?| Boring Conversations| Ep. 84In this episode, I explore the paradox of our modern world. A time blessed with incredible inventions like the internet, airplanes, and social media that should unite us, yet we remain deeply divided. Looking into how misinformation, political self-interest, and denial of our shared humanity keep us apart, and drawing from history, philosophy, and current events, I challenge us to confront the walls built in our hearts and the false narratives we live by. This episode is a call to embrace our common humanity, reject denial, and strive for genuine connection and peace in a fractured world...
2025-07-2135 minBoring ConversationsThe Paradox of Progress: Are We Truly Connected?| Boring Conversations| Ep. 84In this episode, I explore the paradox of our modern world. A time blessed with incredible inventions like the internet, airplanes, and social media that should unite us, yet we remain deeply divided. Looking into how misinformation, political self-interest, and denial of our shared humanity keep us apart, and drawing from history, philosophy, and current events, I challenge us to confront the walls built in our hearts and the false narratives we live by. This episode is a call to embrace our common humanity, reject denial, and strive for genuine connection and peace in a fractured world...
2025-07-2135 minBoring ConversationsThe Man They Said Had No Political Structure | Boring Conversations | Ep. 82In this episode of Boring Conversations, I sit down with Nigerian journalist and commentator Kizito Duru to discuss the country’s political crossroads. From Peter Obi’s ongoing relevance to the fractures within Labour Party, Kizito shares bold, unfiltered insights on leadership, youth disillusionment, and the cost of survival in today’s Nigeria.We unpack the hunger—literal and metaphorical—that’s shaping the political mood, and reflect on what it means when people begin to lose faith not just in parties, but in the very idea of the state.Kizito doesn’t hold back. He names names. He ques...
2025-07-2057 minBoring ConversationsThe Man They Said Had No Political Structure | Boring Conversations | Ep. 82In this episode of Boring Conversations, I sit down with Nigerian journalist and commentator Kizito Duru to discuss the country’s political crossroads. From Peter Obi’s ongoing relevance to the fractures within Labour Party, Kizito shares bold, unfiltered insights on leadership, youth disillusionment, and the cost of survival in today’s Nigeria.We unpack the hunger—literal and metaphorical—that’s shaping the political mood, and reflect on what it means when people begin to lose faith not just in parties, but in the very idea of the state.Kizito doesn’t hold back. He names names. He ques...
2025-07-2057 minBoring ConversationsWhat Happened at the Last UN General Assembly? | Boring Conversations | Ep. 81In this episode, I reflect on the recent UN General Assembly and the persistent conflicts shaping our world. From historic wars to the ongoing crises in Ukraine, Israel, and Palestine. I question the role of global institutions and urge honest dialogue to break cycles of violence and mistrust. This is a thoughtful meditation on our shared failures and the urgent need for peace and understanding.Join us as we explore the intersection of culture, leadership, and storytelling with one of Nigeria’s vibrant voices in film.Follow Boring Conversations:Stay connected and never miss an episode! Follow Bo...
2025-07-1112 minBoring ConversationsWhat Happened at the Last UN General Assembly? | Boring Conversations | Ep. 81In this episode, I reflect on the recent UN General Assembly and the persistent conflicts shaping our world. From historic wars to the ongoing crises in Ukraine, Israel, and Palestine. I question the role of global institutions and urge honest dialogue to break cycles of violence and mistrust. This is a thoughtful meditation on our shared failures and the urgent need for peace and understanding.Join us as we explore the intersection of culture, leadership, and storytelling with one of Nigeria’s vibrant voices in film.Follow Boring Conversations:Stay connected and never miss an episode! Follow Bo...
2025-07-1112 minBoring ConversationsCongo: The Hidden Cost of Technology | Boring Conversations | Ep. 80In this conversation, I explore the dark and often overlooked realities behind the technology we rely on every day. The cobalt mined in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Essential for our smartphones, laptops, and electric cars, is extracted at a tremendous human cost. Child labour is rampant, perpetuating a cycle of exploitation and poverty that echoes the region’s colonial past.The legacy of colonialism still haunts Congo, shaping economic structures that prioritize extraction over human dignity. Corporations and consumers alike are entangled in this system, often knowingly complicit in sustaining the suffering. This conversation is a ca...
2025-07-1044 minBoring ConversationsCongo: The Hidden Cost of Technology | Boring Conversations | Ep. 80In this conversation, I explore the dark and often overlooked realities behind the technology we rely on every day. The cobalt mined in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Essential for our smartphones, laptops, and electric cars, is extracted at a tremendous human cost. Child labour is rampant, perpetuating a cycle of exploitation and poverty that echoes the region’s colonial past.The legacy of colonialism still haunts Congo, shaping economic structures that prioritize extraction over human dignity. Corporations and consumers alike are entangled in this system, often knowingly complicit in sustaining the suffering. This conversation is a ca...
2025-07-1044 minBoring ConversationsFrom Vision to Reality : David Akwara on African Filmmaking | Boring Conversations | Ep. 79In this inspiring episode, Nigerian filmmaker David Akwara takes us on his journey from aspiring lawyer to passionate storyteller. He shares how family support shaped his path and the challenges he overcame in the filmmaking world. David speaks passionately about the urgent need for African unity and the power of authentic storytelling to preserve culture and drive real leadership and social change across the continent.Throughout the conversation, David highlights how film can transform societies by telling honest stories that inspire progress. David also reflects on how spirituality influences his work and the importance of hope and...
2025-07-091h 54Boring ConversationsFrom Vision to Reality : David Akwara on African Filmmaking | Boring Conversations | Ep. 79In this inspiring episode, Nigerian filmmaker David Akwara takes us on his journey from aspiring lawyer to passionate storyteller. He shares how family support shaped his path and the challenges he overcame in the filmmaking world. David speaks passionately about the urgent need for African unity and the power of authentic storytelling to preserve culture and drive real leadership and social change across the continent.Throughout the conversation, David highlights how film can transform societies by telling honest stories that inspire progress. David also reflects on how spirituality influences his work and the importance of hope and...
2025-07-091h 54Boring ConversationsThe Weight of What We Must Carry | Boring Conversations | Ep. 78In this episode of Boring Conversations, Chibueze Darlington Anuonye, a Nigerian writer and editor, speaks openly about his journey in literature and the importance of making space for diverse African voices.We talk about the impact of the EndSARS protests in Nigeria, on how stories are told, the quiet work editors do to shape meaning, and the everyday challenges writers face in Nigeria.Darlington also shares his thoughts on language, truth, friendship, and the joy found in small, unexpected moments.This is a warm and thoughtful conversation about why literature matters—not just fo...
2025-07-071h 07Boring ConversationsThe Weight of What We Must Carry | Boring Conversations | Ep. 78In this episode of Boring Conversations, Chibueze Darlington Anuonye, a Nigerian writer and editor, speaks openly about his journey in literature and the importance of making space for diverse African voices.We talk about the impact of the EndSARS protests in Nigeria, on how stories are told, the quiet work editors do to shape meaning, and the everyday challenges writers face in Nigeria.Darlington also shares his thoughts on language, truth, friendship, and the joy found in small, unexpected moments.This is a warm and thoughtful conversation about why literature...
2025-07-071h 07Boring ConversationsTHE TROUBLE WITH NIGERIA | Boring Conversations | Ep. 77In this conversation, I talk about the many problems Nigeria faces. Divisions among people, corruption, and bad leadership. I stress the importance of coming together, taking responsibility, and working as one to fix these issues. I call for honest reflection on our education system, how the country is governed, and the moral gaps that lead to insecurity and social decline. I challenge everyone to stop being passive and start taking real action for a better Nigeria.Follow Boring Conversations:Stay connected and never miss an episode! Follow Boring Conversations on all major social media platforms for updates...
2025-07-0128 minBoring ConversationsTHE TROUBLE WITH NIGERIA | Boring Conversations | Ep. 77In this conversation, I talk about the many problems Nigeria faces. Divisions among people, corruption, and bad leadership. I stress the importance of coming together, taking responsibility, and working as one to fix these issues. I call for honest reflection on our education system, how the country is governed, and the moral gaps that lead to insecurity and social decline. I challenge everyone to stop being passive and start taking real action for a better Nigeria.Follow Boring Conversations:Stay connected and never miss an episode! Follow Boring Conversations on all major social media platforms for updates...
2025-07-0128 minBoring ConversationsThey Burned Them Alive – The World Is Watching Benue | Boring Conversations | Ep. 76In this episode, I sit with the burden of truth. Truth about what is happening in Benue, in Nigeria, and in places the cameras rarely go. Here, we are confronted with the endless and senseless killings. We confront the silence also. And we confront the weight of watching our people burn while our leaders speak in riddles or say nothing at all.With this, I hope to spotlight the suffering of ordinary people, and demand for dignity in a country that seems to forget what these words mean. And from the testimonies of survivors to the powerful...
2025-06-3042 minBoring ConversationsThey Burned Them Alive – The World Is Watching Benue | Boring Conversations | Ep. 76In this episode, I sit with the burden of truth. Truth about what is happening in Benue, in Nigeria, and in places the cameras rarely go. Here, we are confronted with the endless and senseless killings. We confront the silence also. And we confront the weight of watching our people burn while our leaders speak in riddles or say nothing at all.With this, I hope to spotlight the suffering of ordinary people, and demand for dignity in a country that seems to forget what these words mean. And from the testimonies of survivors to the powerful...
2025-06-3042 minBoring ConversationsOne Person Isn’t Enough: Why We Need Each Other Now More Than Ever | Boring Conversations | Ep. 75In this episode of Boring Conversations, I sit down with Iquo DianaAbasi to explore the deep complexities of African literature and Nigerian society. We looked into themes of corruption, the healing power of writing, and the immense challenges literary magazines face in Nigeria.Iquo DianaAbasi is a celebrated Nigerian writer and editor whose work spans poetry, prose, and speculative fiction. Known for her insightful exploration of Nigerian society, identity, and resilience, DianaAbasi uses her voice to highlight the complexities of African literature and the power of storytelling as a tool for social change. Our dialogue...
2025-06-292h 36Boring ConversationsOne Person Isn’t Enough: Why We Need Each Other Now More Than Ever | Boring Conversations | Ep. 75In this episode of Boring Conversations, I sit down with Iquo DianaAbasi to explore the deep complexities of African literature and Nigerian society. We looked into themes of corruption, the healing power of writing, and the immense challenges literary magazines face in Nigeria.Iquo DianaAbasi is a celebrated Nigerian writer and editor whose work spans poetry, prose, and speculative fiction. Known for her insightful exploration of Nigerian society, identity, and resilience, DianaAbasi uses her voice to highlight the complexities of African literature and the power of storytelling as a tool for social change. Our dialogue...
2025-06-292h 36Boring ConversationsTRIBLAISM IS NOT WHAT YOU THINK IT IS | Ep. 74Tribalism is not love for your people. it is the fear of others. It is not culture or pride. It is when identity becomes a weapon. We say we are protecting our own, but often, we are just building walls that blind us. Amd so, tribalism hides as loyalty, but it divides like hate. For it turns neighbours into threats, and elections into war. Nigeria has many tribes, yes! But tribalism is the lie that says we can’t be one people. Because in the end, it is not our roots that harm us—it is how we use them...
2025-06-1522 minBoring ConversationsMakoko is not Venice, Venice is not Makoko | Economic Disparities and Misconceptions | Ep. 73This conversation looks into the socio-economic challenges facing Nigeria, particularly focusing on the stark contrasts between the realities of life in places like Makoko and the romanticized perceptions of such areas. Here, I critique the illusions of progress, the economic disparities, and the role of religion in perpetuating societal issues. A call to action is to be continually made for a collective awakening and responsibility towards building a better future for Nigeria. Not some fantasy in our heads, as to what progress means fro us.00:00 The Illusion of Progress in Nigeria10:00 Comparative Realities: Makoko vs...
2025-05-1735 minBoring ConversationsMakoko is not Venice, Venice is not Makoko | Economic Disparities and Misconceptions | Ep. 73This conversation looks into the socio-economic challenges facing Nigeria, particularly focusing on the stark contrasts between the realities of life in places like Makoko and the romanticized perceptions of such areas. Here, I critique the illusions of progress, the economic disparities, and the role of religion in perpetuating societal issues. A call to action is to be continually made for a collective awakening and responsibility towards building a better future for Nigeria. Not some fantasy in our heads, as to what progress means fro us.00:00 The Illusion of Progress in Nigeria10:00 Comparative Realities: Makoko...
2025-05-1735 minBoring ConversationsThe Indifference of Humanity | Ep. 72In this conversation, I reflect on the decay around us—social, moral, and political. Through poetry and personal thoughts of Rasaq Malik Gbolahan, I try to explore the quiet conflict of being human in a world that often looks away. There’s so much indifference, so much inaction. And yet, I believe we must stay awake, stay aware. We all have a role to play, however small, in shaping the world we live in. I ask myself, and I ask you—how do we want to be remembered?00:00 The Weight of Decay and Conflict0...
2025-05-1620 minBoring ConversationsThe Indifference of Humanity | Ep. 72In this conversation, I reflect on the decay around us—social, moral, and political. Through poetry and personal thoughts of Rasaq Malik Gbolahan, I try to explore the quiet conflict of being human in a world that often looks away. There’s so much indifference, so much inaction. And yet, I believe we must stay awake, stay aware. We all have a role to play, however small, in shaping the world we live in. I ask myself, and I ask you—how do we want to be remembered?00:00 The Weight of Decay and Conflict0...
2025-05-1620 minBoring ConversationsHow JAMB is Killing Dreams in Nigeria | Ep. 71In this episode, we confront the failures and shortcomings of the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB) in Nigeria. Once created to streamline university admissions, JAMB has now become a source of frustration for thousands of young Nigerians. From technical glitches to questionable grading systems and opaque admission processes, the institution continues to tarnish dreams and undermine trust.00:00 The Educational Crisis in Nigeria10:01 Inequality in Educational Opportunities20:11 The Role of Government and Policy30:00 The Need for Systemic Reform39:48 A Call to Action and Accountability
2025-05-1540 minBoring ConversationsHow JAMB is Killing Dreams in Nigeria | Ep. 71In this episode, we confront the failures and shortcomings of the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB) in Nigeria. Once created to streamline university admissions, JAMB has now become a source of frustration for thousands of young Nigerians. From technical glitches to questionable grading systems and opaque admission processes, the institution continues to tarnish dreams and undermine trust.00:00 The Educational Crisis in Nigeria10:01 Inequality in Educational Opportunities20:11 The Role of Government and Policy30:00 The Need for Systemic Reform39:48 A Call to Action and Accountability
2025-05-1540 minBoring ConversationsNavigating Home and Identity in the Diaspora | Ep. 70In this episode of Boring Conversations, Dr. Uchechukwu Peter Umezurike discusses the complexities of women's lives, the nature of home and migration, the role of literature in shaping society, and the evolving understanding of love and relationships in contemporary Nigeria. We also looked into the silent pains of women, the challenges faced by the diaspora, and the social critique embedded in storytelling.Dr. Uchechukwu Peter Umezurike's Amazon Account: https://bit.ly/4kcDMr500:00 Introduction to Dr. Uchechukwu Peter Umezurike07:04 The Symbolism of the Tortoise in Diaspora
2025-05-111h 08Boring ConversationsNavigating Home and Identity in the Diaspora | Ep. 70In this episode of Boring Conversations, Dr. Uchechukwu Peter Umezurike discusses the complexities of women's lives, the nature of home and migration, the role of literature in shaping society, and the evolving understanding of love and relationships in contemporary Nigeria. We also looked into the silent pains of women, the challenges faced by the diaspora, and the social critique embedded in storytelling.Dr. Uchechukwu Peter Umezurike's Amazon Account: https://bit.ly/4kcDMr500:00 Introduction to Dr. Uchechukwu Peter Umezurike07:04 The Symbolism of the Tortoise in Diaspora
2025-05-111h 08Boring ConversationsThe Role of Literature in Conflict Resolution | Ep. 69In this conversation, I sit down with Obinna Udenwe to talk about writing, leadership, and the realities of living in Nigeria. We touch on his books, how literature can respond to issues like corruption, religion, and politics, and the challenges writers face in the Nigerian publishing space. We also talk about the role of women, the importance of education, and why storytelling matters in making sense of our society. It’s a conversation about responsibility, change, and how literature can help us reflect and move forward.Obinna Udenwe is a Nigerian author, civil engineer and political thinker. He...
2025-05-042h 36Boring ConversationsThe Role of Literature in Conflict Resolution | Ep. 69In this conversation, I sit down with Obinna Udenwe to talk about writing, leadership, and the realities of living in Nigeria. We touch on his books, how literature can respond to issues like corruption, religion, and politics, and the challenges writers face in the Nigerian publishing space. We also talk about the role of women, the importance of education, and why storytelling matters in making sense of our society. It’s a conversation about responsibility, change, and how literature can help us reflect and move forward.Obinna Udenwe is a Nigerian author, civil engineer and political thinker. He...
2025-05-042h 36Boring ConversationsRethinking Economics and Ethics in Nigeria | Ep. 68In this conversation, I speak with Professor Nimi Wariboko about his interdisciplinary journey from economics to theology, and the insights he has gathered along the way. We discuss the challenges facing education and leadership in Nigeria, and the urgent need for ethical leadership rooted in community and social responsibility. Professor Wariboko also reflects on how religion and economics intersect, especially in how we think about money, value, and human flourishing. He calls for a rethinking of societal values and a collective commitment to building a more just and hopeful future.Professor Nimi Wariboko is a Nigerian-born scholar...
2025-05-041h 27Boring ConversationsRethinking Economics and Ethics in Nigeria | Ep. 68In this conversation, I speak with Professor Nimi Wariboko about his interdisciplinary journey from economics to theology, and the insights he has gathered along the way. We discuss the challenges facing education and leadership in Nigeria, and the urgent need for ethical leadership rooted in community and social responsibility. Professor Wariboko also reflects on how religion and economics intersect, especially in how we think about money, value, and human flourishing. He calls for a rethinking of societal values and a collective commitment to building a more just and hopeful future.Professor Nimi Wariboko is a Nigerian-born scholar...
2025-05-041h 27Boring ConversationsLife in the Jungle: A Contrast of Worlds | Ep. 67In this conversation, Dr. Cleveland Hicks, an American primatologist, discusses his extensive research on chimpanzees and bonobos in Central Africa. He explores the evolutionary paths of these primates, their communication methods, and the cultural connections between humans and animals. The discussion also challenges misconceptions about Africa, highlights the importance of local knowledge in conservation efforts, and critiques human exceptionalism in understanding intelligence and culture across species. This conversation explores the fascinating world of chimpanzees, their cultures, and the evolutionary insights they provide. Dr. Cleveland discusses the impact of technology on knowledge systems, the study of chimpanzee behaviour...
2025-04-281h 27Boring ConversationsLife in the Jungle: A Contrast of Worlds | Ep. 67In this conversation, Dr. Cleveland Hicks, an American primatologist, discusses his extensive research on chimpanzees and bonobos in Central Africa. He explores the evolutionary paths of these primates, their communication methods, and the cultural connections between humans and animals. The discussion also challenges misconceptions about Africa, highlights the importance of local knowledge in conservation efforts, and critiques human exceptionalism in understanding intelligence and culture across species. This conversation explores the fascinating world of chimpanzees, their cultures, and the evolutionary insights they provide. Dr. Cleveland discusses the impact of technology on knowledge systems, the study of chimpanzee behaviour...
2025-04-281h 27Boring Conversations15 Questions About Nigeria That Keep Me Awake | A Conversation on Healthcare | Ep. 65In this solo episode with a twist, I am joined by my friend from Indonesia who flips the mic and asks me the questions—15 thought-provoking ones that have been keeping me up at night. From the public health system to medical brain drain, we unpack the state of healthcare in Nigeria and how it affects everyday lives. It’s a deeply personal and eye-opening conversation that crosses borders, cultures, and concerns—because health, after all, is a human thing.
2025-04-211h 05Boring Conversations15 Questions About Nigeria That Keep Me Awake | A Conversation on Healthcare | Ep. 65In this solo episode with a twist, I am joined by my friend from Indonesia who flips the mic and asks me the questions—15 thought-provoking ones that have been keeping me up at night. From the public health system to medical brain drain, we unpack the state of healthcare in Nigeria and how it affects everyday lives. It’s a deeply personal and eye-opening conversation that crosses borders, cultures, and concerns—because health, after all, is a human thing.
2025-04-211h 05Boring ConversationsThe Youth That Was Stolen | Ep. 64In this conversation, I discuss the challenges faced by the youth in Nigeria, emphasizing the loss of time and opportunities. I also critique the education system, the political landscape, and societal expectations that hinder youth empowerment. In this discussion, highlights on the importance of responsibility, the power of knowledge, and the need for active engagement in societal change are drawn. And in the end, a collective awakening among the youth to reclaim their time and potential must be championed by one and by all. 00:00 The Youth's Time Crisis05:58 The Role of Education and Responsibility
2025-04-1933 minBoring ConversationsThe Youth That Was Stolen | Ep. 64In this conversation, I discuss the challenges faced by the youth in Nigeria, emphasizing the loss of time and opportunities. I also critique the education system, the political landscape, and societal expectations that hinder youth empowerment. In this discussion, highlights on the importance of responsibility, the power of knowledge, and the need for active engagement in societal change are drawn. And in the end, a collective awakening among the youth to reclaim their time and potential must be championed by one and by all. 00:00 The Youth's Time Crisis05:58 The Role of Education and Responsibility
2025-04-1933 minBoring ConversationsWe don't have real leaders | Ep. 62Nigeria is in dire need of good state politics. And emphasis must be made on the rampant corruption and the failure of leaders to act in the best interest of the people. Highlights also must be made on the need for accountability and the importance of history in understanding the consequences of political actions. The conversation must not stop there, it must look into the challenges of leadership and the moral implications of stealing from the public, now, into the future.00:00 The State of Nigerian Politics02:53 Corruption and Leadership Challenges06:11 The Role of History in Political Accountability
2025-04-1806 minBoring ConversationsWe don't have real leaders | Ep. 62Nigeria is in dire need of good state politics. And emphasis must be made on the rampant corruption and the failure of leaders to act in the best interest of the people. Highlights also must be made on the need for accountability and the importance of history in understanding the consequences of political actions. The conversation must not stop there, it must look into the challenges of leadership and the moral implications of stealing from the public, now, into the future.00:00 The State of Nigerian Politics02:53 Corruption and Leadership Challenges06:11 The Role of History in Political Accountability
2025-04-1805 minBoring ConversationsHARD TIMES | Ep. 61In this conversation, I discuss the importance of embracing life's challenges and the concept of 'rock bottom' as a transformative experience. Rather than running away from problems, individuals should confront them, learn from their experiences, and work towards rebuilding their lives. I advocate for a realistic perspective on life, acknowledging both its ups and downs, and encourage all to accept reality while striving for improvement.00:00 Embracing Rock Bottom: A Path to Rebuilding02:56 Reality Check: Life's Ups and Downs
2025-04-1805 minBoring ConversationsSaddam Hussein: An American Obsession | Ep. 59This conversation explores the complexities of human existence, touching on themes of war, leadership, colonialism, human rights, technology, and the search for meaning in life. Her we emphasize the need for peace, responsibility, and collective action to address the ongoing challenges faced by humanity. In the end, we ask the question, " Why was Saddam Hussein an American Obsession? And why was he killed?"00:00 The State of Humanity: A Call for Peace03:07 The Complexity of Leadership and War05:47 Colonialism and Modern Dependency09:07 The Illusion of Human Rights11:59...
2025-04-1852 minBoring ConversationsTHE SHAPE OF SILENCE | Ep. 60In this episode of Boring Conversations, Nigerian poet Sarah Adeyemo discusses her book 'The Shape of Silence,' exploring the inspiration behind its title and the themes of silence in her poetry. She reflects on her experiences as a writer in Nigeria, the impact of the Sprinng Writing Fellowship on her craft, and the challenges posed by inadequate infrastructure in the country. Sarah shares personal stories that shape her writing, emphasizing the role of poetry in social commentary and healing. The conversation also touches on the importance of cultural identity in literature and the...
2025-04-1839 minBoring ConversationsSaddam Hussein: An American Obsession | Ep. 59This conversation explores the complexities of human existence, touching on themes of war, leadership, colonialism, human rights, technology, and the search for meaning in life. Her we emphasize the need for peace, responsibility, and collective action to address the ongoing challenges faced by humanity. In the end, we ask the question, " Why was Saddam Hussein an American Obsession? And why was he killed?"00:00 The State of Humanity: A Call for Peace03:07 The Complexity of Leadership and War05:47 Colonialism and Modern Dependency09:07 The Illusion of Human Rights11:59 Technological Advancements and...
2025-04-1852 minBoring ConversationsThe High Cost of Knowledge: Accessing Literature in Nigeria | Ep. 58The Nigerian publishing industry is experiencing growth. Educational publishing dominates, while trade publishing, including fiction and non-fiction, holds a market share. Despite this growth, challenges such as limited access to books, high costs, weak public library systems, amongst many other issues, persist, affecting readers' ability to obtain literature. In this episode, I look into the matter.00:00 The State of Literacy and Education10:54 Challenges in Accessing Literature21:06 The Role of Government and Policy32:26 Cultural Attitudes Towards Reading39:06 The Future of Literature and Creativity
2025-04-1249 minBoring ConversationsThe High Cost of Knowledge: Accessing Literature in Nigeria | Ep. 58The Nigerian publishing industry is experiencing growth. Educational publishing dominates, while trade publishing, including fiction and non-fiction, holds a market share. Despite this growth, challenges such as limited access to books, high costs, weak public library systems, amongst many other issues, persist, affecting readers' ability to obtain literature. In this episode, I look into the matter.00:00 The State of Literacy and Education10:54 Challenges in Accessing Literature21:06 The Role of Government and Policy32:26 Cultural Attitudes Towards Reading39:06 The Future of Literature and Creativity
2025-04-1249 minBoring ConversationsThe Cycle of Violence | Ep. 56In this conversation, I explore the multifaceted implications of war, emphasizing that no one truly wins in conflict. I advocate for peace and highlight the human, economic, and psychological costs of war. Through historical examples and personal reflections, I urge one, and all to consider the broader impact of conflicts on society and the importance of leadership in fostering peace. In this conversation also, I also look into the complexities of global conflicts, particularly focusing on the humanitarian crises in regions like Gaza, Sudan, and Haiti. While discussing the role of global powers in these conflicts, the...
2025-04-0959 minBoring ConversationsThe Cycle of Violence | Ep. 56In this conversation, I explore the multifaceted implications of war, emphasizing that no one truly wins in conflict. I advocate for peace and highlight the human, economic, and psychological costs of war. Through historical examples and personal reflections, I urge one, and all to consider the broader impact of conflicts on society and the importance of leadership in fostering peace. In this conversation also, I also look into the complexities of global conflicts, particularly focusing on the humanitarian crises in regions like Gaza, Sudan, and Haiti. While discussing the role of global powers in these conflicts, the...
2025-04-0959 minBoring ConversationsArt as a Lens to Humanity | Ep. 55In this conversation Amer Rashid and I delve into the complexities of human history, the impact of war and peace, and the role of art and travel in understanding our shared humanity. We reflect on our experiences visiting concentration camps, the dark side of humanity, and the rise of fascism in modern society. We also discuss the importance of hope and the potential for change, emphasizing the need for individuals to strive for a better world despite the overwhelming challenges we face.Amer Rashid is an artist, architect, and teacher who works in many creative areas, including...
2025-04-0523 minBoring ConversationsArt as a Lens to Humanity | Ep. 55In this conversation Amer Rashid and I delve into the complexities of human history, the impact of war and peace, and the role of art and travel in understanding our shared humanity. We reflect on our experiences visiting concentration camps, the dark side of humanity, and the rise of fascism in modern society. We also discuss the importance of hope and the potential for change, emphasizing the need for individuals to strive for a better world despite the overwhelming challenges we face.Amer Rashid is an artist, architect, and teacher who works in many creative areas, including...
2025-04-0523 minBoring ConversationsFree Will in Nigeria and Africa | Ep. 54In this conversation, I explore the complex interplay between freewill, freedom, economic constraints, cultural pressures, and the influence of destiny and superstition in Africa. I emphasize the need for self-determination and critical thinking to break free from societal limitations and external influences. Our discussion highlights the importance of understanding the nuances of freedom and the various factors that shape individual choices and opportunities in the African context.00:00 Understanding Freedom and Fiction05:41 Constraints of Economic Policies10:34 Cultural and Societal Pressures15:52 The Role of Destiny and Superstition20:08 Breaking Free from Limitations
2025-03-3126 minBoring ConversationsFree Will in Nigeria and Africa | Ep. 54In this conversation, I explore the complex interplay between freewill, freedom, economic constraints, cultural pressures, and the influence of destiny and superstition in Africa. I emphasize the need for self-determination and critical thinking to break free from societal limitations and external influences. Our discussion highlights the importance of understanding the nuances of freedom and the various factors that shape individual choices and opportunities in the African context.00:00 Understanding Freedom and Fiction05:41 Constraints of Economic Policies10:34 Cultural and Societal Pressures15:52 The Role of Destiny and Superstition20:08 Breaking Free from Limitations
2025-03-3126 minBoring ConversationsGovernance is Not for Stupid and Lazy People | Ep. 53In this conversation, I discuss the critical role of leadership in governance, emphasizing that leaders are elected to serve the people and must be held accountable for their actions. I highlight the pervasive issues of mediocrity, incompetence, and corruption in Nigeria, arguing that these problems stem from a lack of civic engagement and critical thinking among the populace.There must be calls for a collective effort to educate the electorate, demand better governance, and reject mediocrity in leadership. While stressing the importance of personal accountability and the need for citizens to take charge of their destinies to...
2025-03-3142 minBoring ConversationsGovernance is Not for Stupid and Lazy People | Ep. 53In this conversation, I discuss the critical role of leadership in governance, emphasizing that leaders are elected to serve the people and must be held accountable for their actions. I highlight the pervasive issues of mediocrity, incompetence, and corruption in Nigeria, arguing that these problems stem from a lack of civic engagement and critical thinking among the populace.There must be calls for a collective effort to educate the electorate, demand better governance, and reject mediocrity in leadership. While stressing the importance of personal accountability and the need for citizens to take charge of their destinies to...
2025-03-3142 minBoring ConversationsConfronting the Crisis in the South Eastern Region of Nigeria and Beyond | Ep. 53In this conversation, I address the escalating violence and socio-economic challenges in the South East of Nigeria. I emphasize the need for accountability among the community and leadership, highlighting the human cost of violence and the impact of youth unemployment. I also call for a collective effort to confront cultural beliefs that perpetuate violence, while urging for a comprehensive approach to governance and community responsibility.00:00 Addressing the Crisis in the South East06:54 The Human Cost of Violence13:46 Socio-Economic Challenges and Youth Unemployment21:02 The Role of Leadership and Governance
2025-03-2935 minBoring ConversationsConfronting the Crisis in the South Eastern Region of Nigeria and Beyond | Ep. 53In this conversation, I address the escalating violence and socio-economic challenges in the South East of Nigeria. I emphasize the need for accountability among the community and leadership, highlighting the human cost of violence and the impact of youth unemployment. I also call for a collective effort to confront cultural beliefs that perpetuate violence, while urging for a comprehensive approach to governance and community responsibility.
2025-03-2935 minBoring ConversationsThe Alchemy of Scars: Chisom Okafor on Poetry, Science, and the Truth of Being Human | Ep. 52In this episode, I sit down with the Nigerian poet and clinical nutritionist, Chisom Okafor, for a deep dive into his literary journey, the raw vulnerability of his work, and the intersections between science, art, and identity. Chisom opens up about his poetry collections, "Winged Witnesses" and "All I Know About a Heavy Heart Is How to Carry It," sharing how his clinical background and Igbo heritage shape his unflinching exploration of human fragility.We tackle big questions: What defines an "African writer"? How do grief, memory, and resilience weave into poetry? And why platforms matter for emerging voices.00:00...
2025-03-296h 05Boring ConversationsFree Will, Destiny Helpers, and the Myth of ‘Village People’ | Ep. 51In this episode, I look into the complexities of free will, destiny helpers, and the cultural pressures that shape our lives. Too often, we attribute personal failures to unseen forces—what many call ‘village people’—instead of confronting the real systemic issues around us. But how much of our fate is truly in our hands? And how much do we surrender to superstition? I explore why blaming external forces prevents us from addressing the root causes of our struggles—poor infrastructure, corruption, and a lack of accountability. I also challenge misconceptions about agriculture and community roles, questioning how we per...
2025-03-2324 minBoring ConversationsFree Will, Destiny Helpers, and the Myth of ‘Village People’ | Ep. 51In this episode, I look into the complexities of free will, destiny helpers, and the cultural pressures that shape our lives. Too often, we attribute personal failures to unseen forces—what many call ‘village people’—instead of confronting the real systemic issues around us. But how much of our fate is truly in our hands? And how much do we surrender to superstition? I explore why blaming external forces prevents us from addressing the root causes of our struggles—poor infrastructure, corruption, and a lack of accountability. I also challenge misconceptions about agriculture and community roles, que...
2025-03-2324 minBoring ConversationsChallenges and Triumphs of Nigerian Writers | Ep. 50In this episode of Boring Conversations, I sit down with Michael Chiedoziem Chukwudera, a writer and critic deeply engaged in the evolution of Nigerian literature. We explore the challenges faced by writers, the importance of literary criticism, and the role of storytelling in preserving cultural identity and memory.Michael reflects on the impact of the Biafran War, the War's impact on Nigerian literature, the need for reconciliation, and how historical trauma continues to shape contemporary narratives. We discuss the necessity of healthy competition in the arts, the influence of Russian literature, and the importance of building cultural institutions to...
2025-03-183h 07Boring ConversationsChallenges and Triumphs of Nigerian Writers | Ep. 50In this episode of Boring Conversations, I sit down with Michael Chiedoziem Chukwudera, a writer and critic deeply engaged in the evolution of Nigerian literature. We explore the challenges faced by writers, the importance of literary criticism, and the role of storytelling in preserving cultural identity and memory.Michael reflects on the impact of the Biafran War, the War's impact on Nigerian literature, the need for reconciliation, and how historical trauma continues to shape contemporary narratives. We discuss the necessity of healthy competition in the arts, the influence of Russian literature, and the importance of building cultural institutions to...
2025-03-183h 07Boring ConversationsLegacy and Ancestry in African Literature | Ep. 49In this episode of Boring Conversations, I sit down with Chinua Ezenwa-Ohaeto to explore the intricate ties between legacy, language, and identity in African literature. We discuss the weight of familial legacies, the evolving role of language in shaping identity, and the challenges contemporary African writers face in a rapidly changing literary landscape.Chinua reflects on the significance of naming, cultural memory, and the dialogue with his ancestors—how grief, history, and personal loss shape his work. We looked into the necessity of institutional support in African publishing, the importance of heritage in storytelling, and how young poets and wr...
2025-03-162h 08Boring ConversationsLegacy and Ancestry in African Literature | Ep. 49In this episode of Boring Conversations, I sit down with Chinua Ezenwa-Ohaeto to explore the intricate ties between legacy, language, and identity in African literature. We discuss the weight of familial legacies, the evolving role of language in shaping identity, and the challenges contemporary African writers face in a rapidly changing literary landscape.Chinua reflects on the significance of naming, cultural memory, and the dialogue with his ancestors—how grief, history, and personal loss shape his work. We looked into the necessity of institutional support in African publishing, the importance of heritage in storytelling, and how young poets and wr...
2025-03-162h 08Boring ConversationsDAILY REALITIES IN NIGERIA | Ep. 48In this episode of Boring Conversations, I take a hard look at the deep-rooted cynicism among Nigerians when it comes to politics and leadership. Why do so many feel powerless? Why does change seem impossible? And most importantly, how do we break free from this cycle of disillusionment?I explore the lasting impact of colonialism, the disconnect between political elites and everyday citizens, and the illusion of freedom that many Nigerians unknowingly live under. But this isn’t just about leaders—it’s about us. About self-reflection, accountability, and the urgent need for civic engagement. If we want a differ...
2025-03-1552 minBoring ConversationsDAILY REALITIES IN NIGERIA | Ep. 48In this episode of Boring Conversations, I sit down with Michael Chiedoziem Chukwudera, a writer and critic deeply engaged in the evolution of Nigerian literature. We explore the challenges faced by writers, the importance of literary criticism, and the role of storytelling in preserving cultural identity and memory.Michael reflects on the impact of the Biafran War, the War's impact on Nigerian literature, the need for reconciliation, and how historical trauma continues to shape contemporary narratives. We discuss the necessity of healthy competition in the arts, the influence of Russian literature, and the importance of building cultural institutions to...
2025-03-1552 minBoring ConversationsExploring Cultural Beliefs and Literature with Ugochukwu Anadi | Ep. 47I sit with Ugochukwu Anadi, a writer, poet, and fearless critic, to unravel the unsettling realities of our world—patriarchy, ritual killings, the commercialization of spirituality, and the dangerous grip of unchecked materialism. We explore how literature becomes a weapon—how words can disrupt power, reclaim lost narratives, and force us to confront the truths we would rather ignore. We talk about the weight of history, the burdens of identity, and the struggle to remain human in a world that often demands our complicity. What does it mean to tell the truth in a country where truth is costly? How...
2025-03-124h 26Boring ConversationsExploring Cultural Beliefs and Literature with Ugochukwu Anadi | Ep. 47I sit with Ugochukwu Anadi, a writer, poet, and fearless critic, to unravel the unsettling realities of our world—patriarchy, ritual killings, the commercialization of spirituality, and the dangerous grip of unchecked materialism. We explore how literature becomes a weapon—how words can disrupt power, reclaim lost narratives, and force us to confront the truths we would rather ignore. We talk about the weight of history, the burdens of identity, and the struggle to remain human in a world that often demands our complicity. What does it mean to tell the truth in a country where truth is costly? How...
2025-03-124h 26Boring ConversationsThe Cost of Conflict: A Call for Humanity | Ep. 45I reflect on the ongoing war in Ukraine and the devastating toll it takes on humanity. The loss of life, the failures of leadership, and the disillusionment with politics weigh heavy. In this seeming sololoquy, we are confronted with the harsh realities of war and must come to question what true peace requires. We must ask ourselves; can we move beyond empty rhetoric to real solutions? And since we live in an era where power outweighs principle, where leaders manufacture conflicts to serve their own interests while the innocent pay the price. We are left with no choice but...
2025-02-2425 minBoring ConversationsThe Cost of Conflict: A Call for Humanity | Ep. 46I reflect on the ongoing war in Ukraine and the devastating toll it takes on humanity. The loss of life, the failures of leadership, and the disillusionment with politics weigh heavy. In this seeming sololoquy, we are confronted with the harsh realities of war and must come to question what true peace requires. We must ask ourselves; can we move beyond empty rhetoric to real solutions? And since we live in an era where power outweighs principle, where leaders manufacture conflicts to serve their own interests while the innocent pay the price. We are left with no...
2025-02-2425 minBoring ConversationsThe Real Reason Youths Feel Lost in Today's World | Ep. 45Young men and women today face immense pressure, caught between societal expectations and the failures of leadership. In this episode, Karo Enajemo join me to discuss the role of education, art, and activism in shaping the future. We explored the need for libraries, cultural festivals, civic engagement, and the tension between tradition and modernity. How do we reclaim our spaces and drive change? Tune in. Chapters00:00 The Pressure on Young Men in Society11:24 Tired of Nigerian Realities13:05 No Electricity in Nigeria27:39 Reno Omokri is not an Intellectual45:31 How Students survive in Nigerian Universities01:03:00 The Impact of Art and Music...
2025-02-092h 53Boring ConversationsThe Real Reason Youths Feel Lost in Today's World | Ep. 45Young men and women today face immense pressure, caught between societal expectations and the failures of leadership. In this episode, Karo Enajemo join me to discuss the role of education, art, and activism in shaping the future. We explored the need for libraries, cultural festivals, civic engagement, and the tension between tradition and modernity. How do we reclaim our spaces and drive change? Tune in. Chapters00:00 The Pressure on Young Men in Society11:24 Tired of Nigerian Realities13:05 No Electricity in Nigeria27:39 Reno Omokri is not an Intellectual45:31 How Students survive in Nigerian Universities01:03:00 The Impact of Art and Music...
2025-02-092h 53Boring ConversationsTHE THINGS THAT DIVIDE US | Ep. 43On this Episode, I reflect on the growing divisions in Nigeria—tribal, religious, and historical—that threaten our unity. With tribalism on the rise, politicians exploit our differences for power, deepening the cracks in our national identity. Here, I challenge these divisions and ask: Can we, as Nigerians, rise above ethnicity to forge a collective future?
Chapters
00:00 The Historical Context of Division in Nigeria
02:52 The Impact of Tribalism on National Unity
06:12 The Role of Leadership in Ethnic Relations
09:09 Personal Reflections on Ethnic Identity
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2025-02-041h 02Boring ConversationsBoring Conversations | Ep. 20 – The Trouble With Nigeria (Is Still the Trouble With Nigeria)In this episode of Boring Conversations, I reflect on the tragedy of Nigeria’s politics and the fatigue of its people. From the false promise of change to the noise of new political campaigns, I explore how leadership failure, corruption, and ignorance have shaped our national destiny. Drawing on the works of Chinua Achebe and Dike Chukwumerije, I question what accountability, unity, and true education mean for Nigeria’s future. When the drum of truth is already sounding, the question remains: will we finally listen—and act?Stay connected and never miss an episode.Follow Boring Conversations for up...
2024-10-2656 minBoring ConversationsBoring Conversations | Ep. 20 – The Trouble With Nigeria (Is Still the Trouble With Nigeria)In this episode of Boring Conversations, I reflect on the tragedy of Nigeria’s politics and the fatigue of its people. From the false promise of change to the noise of new political campaigns, I explore how leadership failure, corruption, and ignorance have shaped our national destiny. Drawing on the works of Chinua Achebe and Dike Chukwumerije, I question what accountability, unity, and true education mean for Nigeria’s future. When the drum of truth is already sounding, the question remains: will we finally listen—and act?Stay connected and never miss an episode.Follow Boring Conversations for up...
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As the largest generation of young people in history, we hold the power to shape the future. Understanding history will equip us with the wisdom to navigate the complexities of today’s world. A thing we have come to consider boring and far...
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