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Seek And Grow Rich034: Why Emotional Presence Matters More Than You ThinkIn this episode, Brett reflects on his spiritual journey, the meaning of the Kingdom of God, emotional growth as a husband, and his plans for the Men Before Marriage program and book. Brett shares how his understanding of the Kingdom of God has evolved, drawing inspiration from John Bevere's recent post on the Messenger X app is that the Kingdom is the "rule of God." He shares his interpretation that it involves both the eternal destiny of believers and the Holy Spirit's transformative work in and through us. Using the parable of the talents, Brett highlights how our actions...
2025-07-2811 minSeek And Grow Rich033: Are You Just Surviving—or Carrying the Kingdom for Your Family?In this episode, Brett shares a personal and spiritual update centered around seeking God wholeheartedly, living with kingdom authority, and the behind-the-scenes launch of his new program, Men Before Marriage. Brett opens by discussing his recent absence, explaining it was due to deep spiritual focus and development of a God-led vision. Drawing from Scripture and teachings by John Bevere, he emphasizes what it means to "go all in" with God—obedience, surrender, and walking in love and authority. He highlights the revelation that believers carry the Kingdom of God within them—not just waiting for heaven but empo...
2025-07-2316 minSeek And Grow Rich032: How God Took My Mess Up In Marriage and Gave Me a MissionIn this episode, Brett shares a personal update on his journey of surrendering every area of his life—marriage, finances, leadership—to God as of January 2025. He reflects on past mistakes, especially in his marriage, and his renewed commitment to honoring God through obedience, submission, and intentional living. A major focus of the episode is the development of his new initiative, Men Before Marriage, a biblically-based program designed to prepare single, dating, and divorced men for godly leadership and legacy. Brett emphasizes the importance of building the program in unity with his wife—something he admits he hasn't...
2025-07-0816 minSeek And Grow Rich031: The Moment God Broke My Heart in Church—and What It Means for Your SonIn this episode, Brett shares a deeply personal journey that began during a God's movement in his heart during a church service. Witnessing a congregation full of worshiping young women but few young men, he was overcome with emotion and conviction—recognizing the void of godly male leadership during the formative, pre-marriage years. This moment led to the birth of a powerful new vision: "Men Before Marriage", a ministry aimed at preparing young men to root their identity in Christ, lead themselves well, and pursue spiritual maturity before pursuing a wife. Despite doubts stemming from his own im...
2025-06-3013 minSeek And Grow Rich030: Complaining, Gossip, and the Power of Your Tongue: A Wake-Up Call for ParentsIn this episode, Brett shares a deeply personal journey of returning to God after years of spiritual distance. Speaking directly to fellow parents and believers, Brett highlights how God's Word continues to reshape his understanding of authority, obedience, and the power of words. One of the most eye-opening revelations he shares is from 1 Corinthians, where Paul writes that believers will one day judge angels. This truth underscores the high spiritual authority and identity we have in Christ—a truth often overlooked. Brett also dives into the sins of the Israelites as warned in 1 Corinthians 10, particularly the sin of...
2025-06-1711 minSeek And Grow Rich029: The Power Behind the Power – A Wake-Up Call for Christian GrowthIn this episode, Brett dives deep into a recent revelation sparked by listening to Pastor Ken Wilde and his references to Dr. Yonggi Cho's influential book The Fourth Dimension. Brett shares how Cho's teaching helped him reframe the personal development movement through a biblical lens, challenging the roots and spiritual sources behind affirmations, success, and healing. Cho pastored the largest church in the world and believed there are two spiritual "fourth dimensions"—one of God and one manipulated by Satan. Brett reflects on how many successes seen in the self-help world are powered by spiritual forces, but no...
2025-06-1112 minSeek And Grow Rich028: The Temple Tantrum: What Jesus' Outburst Teaches Us About Emotional ControlIn this episode, Brett explores the deeper meaning of anger, physical stewardship, and daily devotion, especially in the context of parenting and kingdom living. He begins with a reflection on Jesus' moment of righteous anger in the temple (John 2:13–16), highlighting the often-overlooked detail that Jesus braided a whip before taking action. Brett humorously imagines the scene and uses it to teach an important lesson: even in anger, Jesus was intentional and deliberate, modeling what it means to be "slow to anger." Brett transitions into encouragement for consistent Bible reading, emphasizing how the Holy Spirit reveals new treasures ea...
2025-06-0212 minSeek And Grow Rich027: From Striving to Abiding: What I Wish I Knew 25 Years AgoIn this episode, Brett shares a deeply personal revelation about spiritual stagnation and what it means to truly grow in faith. Reflecting on his own journey of relying more on personal development than God's Word, Brett unveils a Spirit-led 5-step process for moving from spiritual barrenness to kingdom fruitfulness. Rooted in Matthew 6:33 and inspired by the Parable of the Sower (Mark 4), he explains how many Christians today—himself included—have been caught in the thorns: distracted by the worries of life, chasing worldly success, and starving their spirit. Brett outlines a new model of spiritual growth that star...
2025-05-2615 minSeek And Grow Rich026: Why Christian Parents Need to Stop Praying for Stuff—and Start Asking for This InsteadIn this episode, Brett encourages Christian parents to go "all in" on their faith by seeking the Kingdom of God with intentionality and depth. He reflects on his personal journey of learning to discern God's voice versus his own thoughts and emphasizes the foundational role of Scripture in that process. Rather than relying solely on emotional impressions or external voices, Brett urges listeners to immerse themselves in God's Word to allow true revelation to take root. A powerful moment of insight comes as Brett revisits Luke 11:9-13, a passage often associated with general prayer. However, he highlights...
2025-05-1915 minSeek And Grow Rich025: Why I Chose the Bible Over the 'Experts' to Parent My SonIn this episode, Brett opens up about his spiritual journey and recent commitment to go "all in" with God. After years of dabbling in personal development and holding back in his faith, Brett recounts a pivotal moment in November when he began immersing himself in sermons and fully surrendered his life—including his marriage, finances, and parenting—to God's guidance. He shares a vulnerable parenting struggle with his five-year-old son, who has been acting out and not listening. Brett reflects on his previous parenting style influenced by personal development teachings—offering choices and avoiding discipline—but admits it hasn...
2025-05-1312 minSeek And Grow Rich024: The One Sin Most Christian Parents Overlook—And How It's Blocking Your PeaceIn this episode, Brett opens up about a powerful realization he had regarding sin—not just as the obvious wrongdoings like greed or immorality, but as disobedience to God's Word. He revisits the story of Adam and Eve, emphasizing that their sin wasn't some moral failure but rather failing to obey God's specific instruction. Brett shares how this truth convicted him personally, prompting him to reevaluate areas where he wasn't fully surrendering to God—particularly in trusting Him with his finances. Brett also reflects on a teaching by John Bevere, which illuminated the nature of God's love: God...
2025-05-0511 minSeek And Grow Rich023: Why Your Finances Might Be Blocking God's Blessing (And What to Do About It)In this episode, Brett shares a personal and powerful reflection on surrendering finances to God. Inspired by John Bevere's Honor's Reward, Brett opens up about the ongoing challenge of fully trusting God with his finances, particularly through tithing. Though he recognizes the biblical principle of giving the first 10% of income, he confesses the struggle between trusting God and covering essential bills. This tension becomes a springboard for deeper transformation as Brett seeks to align every area of his life—including business and ministry—with God's kingdom. Brett also reveals some exciting shifts. He plans to reduce his podc...
2025-04-3010 minSeek And Grow Rich022: The Silent Crisis in Our Churches (And What Parents Need to Know)In this episode, Brett reflects on a powerful church experience that left him weeping for today's generation of young men. During his third visit to a vibrant new church, Brett sensed a deep burden from the Holy Spirit after noticing a significant absence of young men among the congregation. Reflecting on societal shifts since the Industrial Revolution, Brett shares his concern over how fatherless upbringings and cultural confusion have left many young men lost, sedating themselves through unhealthy escapes. He also highlights his personal spiritual growth, inspired by John Bevere's teachings—specifically Honor's Reward, which emp...
2025-04-2811 minSeek And Grow Rich021: Feel Distant from God? This One Shift Brought Me Closer Than EverFeel Distant from God? This One Shift Brought Me Closer Than Ever In this episode, host Brett invites listeners to refocus their lives on seeking God first, especially in a world overwhelmed by worry and self-reliance. Brett shares his personal journey of faith renewal, including his daily Bible study routine and how it has transformed his perspective. He emphasizes the importance of being fully reliant on God and cultivating a relationship with the Holy Spirit for wisdom and understanding. Brett reflects on how the teachings of Jesus, especially in passages like the fig t...
2025-04-2518 minSeek And Grow Rich020: I Thought I Had Forgiven Them—Until God Showed Me ThisIn this episode, Brett revisits the deeply intertwined topics of stress, offense, and forgiveness, sharing how his spiritual journey has transformed his response to life's challenges. Inspired by John Bevere's teachings—especially The Bait of Satan and The Awe of God—Brett reflects on how offense and unresolved bitterness are subtle but destructive traps that pull believers out of alignment with God's will. He shares that true forgiveness and the ability to handle offense don't come from willpower alone but through being filled daily with the Holy Spirit and the fruits of the Spirit, especially self-control. Brett emph...
2025-04-2317 minSeek And Grow Rich019: From Burnout to Breakthrough: Discover the Power of Nature with GodIn this episode, Brett shares a personal and spiritual journey centered around the healing power of nature and the upcoming Eternal Life Plan workshop. Brett opens by providing an update on the workshop's evolution—from a comprehensive deep-dive into life planning to a more focused beta session centered around writing your Judgment Day Story. This exercise challenges participants to envision what they hope Jesus will say to them about how they lived in five key areas: faith, fitness, family, finances, and fellowship. It's a call to self-reflection and alignment with God's purpose. Brett then shifts into the he...
2025-04-2118 minSeek And Grow Rich018: What Will Jesus Say About Your Life? How to Live for That MomentIn this episode, Brett shares a personal reflection on his spiritual journey—from being a Christian who drifted due to worldly distractions, to realigning his life around eternal priorities. Brett opens up about his past reliance on self-help and personal development strategies that emphasized self-reliance over God-reliance. He acknowledges how even though he was baptized over 25 years ago, the cares of the world—work, routine, and personal loss—choked out his spiritual growth. A major turning point came a few months ago when he fully surrendered to God, committing to seek Him with all his heart, soul, mind...
2025-04-1822 minSeek And Grow Rich017: What We Should Want to Hear from Jesus—and Why It Changed My Life PlanIn this episode, Brett opens up about a transformative shift in his faith journey. After being drawn into personal development through network marketing years ago, Brett recently realized how deeply rooted in self-reliance that world can be—contrary to what Scripture teaches. He shares how an email triggered a powerful awakening: we are not called to rely on ourselves, but fully on God. Brett dives into the contrast between two types of eternal judgment: the White Throne Judgment for the unsaved, and the Judgment Seat of Christ for believers. Drawing from Scripture and John Bevere's Driven by Et...
2025-04-1616 minSeek And Grow Rich016: Addicted to Your Phone? This Might Be the Reason You Can't Hear GodIn this episode, Brett reflects on his personal journey from self-reliance in the personal development industry to surrendering fully to God, aligning with Matthew 6:33. Brett shares a touching conversation with his 82-year-old mother, revealing a side of her faith journey he had never heard before. Their exchange about prayer, memory challenges, and God's understanding presence reinforces the power of family, faith, and generational stories. Brett also dives into the impact of digital distraction on our spiritual lives, referencing a podcast episode from John Bevere featuring his pastor, who authored The Digital Fast. The book outlines a 28-day...
2025-04-1414 minSeek And Grow Rich015: I Thought I Was Doing Enough—Until God Wrecked Me at the ParkIn this episode, Brett opens up about his personal walk with God and the ongoing shift from self-reliance to full dependence on the Lord. Inspired by Matthew 6:33, Brett reflects on a moving encounter at a local park, where a spontaneous moment of prayer for two children—one autistic, the other visibly recovering from illness—opened his eyes to God's deep love and the power of being filled with the Holy Spirit. Brett also challenges the influence of the self-help industry within both secular and Christian circles. He warns that the cultural rise in self-centeredness, self-promotion, and moral rela...
2025-04-1114 minSeek And Grow Rich014: Am I the Seed Among Thorns? – What the Parable Revealed About My LifeIn this episode, Brett opens up about his personal journey from self-reliance to God-dependence, highlighting the importance of seeking God first in every area of life. Drawing from Matthew 6:33 and his own life experiences, Brett shares how years in the self-help industry led him away from full reliance on God and how a renewed relationship with Scripture—especially through the parable of the sower—opened his eyes to how the "cares of the world" had choked out his faith. He explores the transformative power of getting outside, noting how even five minutes of sunshine can reduce stress, impr...
2025-04-0915 minSeek And Grow Rich013: I Thought I Was Fine… Until God Showed Me This One ThingIn this episode, Brett shares a powerful message on the importance of forgiveness as a vital step in spiritual renewal and healing. Reflecting on his own journey back to God, Brett opens up about rediscovering his faith after years of being distracted by the cares of the world. Through daily prayer, scripture, and spiritual resources like A More Excellent Way and Driven by Eternity, he's learning how unforgiveness—toward others and himself—was holding him back emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Brett explains how unforgiveness can lead to a dangerous chain reaction: from resentment, to retaliation, to anger, hatr...
2025-04-0713 minSeek And Grow Rich012: The Self-Help Trap: What I Spent 25 Years Searching ForIn this episode, Brett shares his excitement for the revelations and insights he has gained in his journey from self-reliance to God-reliance. He discusses how his past search in the personal development industry left him unfulfilled and how he now finds true wisdom and transformation through deepening his relationship with God. He emphasizes that he is not a "podcast preacher" but rather someone sharing his journey and discoveries to help others grow spiritually. Brett highlights the importance of moving away from self-help's mindset-focused approach and instead embracing heart transformation through God. He shares key resources that have...
2025-04-0416 minSeek And Grow Rich011: What I Learned About God From Playing With My SonIn this episode, Brett unpacks key lessons from his journey—shedding light on the false promises of self-help, the power of God's Word, and the joy of experiencing life through a childlike faith. Whether it's through moments of laughter with his son, reflections on scripture, or deep dives into mindset and biblical truth, Seek and Grow Rich encourages listeners to grow spiritually while transforming their daily lives. Key Takeaways: Seek First the Kingdom – True success and fulfillment don't come from self-improvement alone but from putting God at the center of everything (Matthew 6:33). Childlike Faith and Joy – Experi...
2025-04-0225 minSeek And Grow Rich010: Why Your Self-Help Journey Might Be Holding You BackIn this episode, Brett shares a powerful personal experience with the Holy Spirit that reshaped his understanding of healing, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally. He discusses how his journey of seeking everything Jesus died to give us has led him to a deeper reliance on God, the gifts of the Spirit, and the power of prayer. Brett also takes a fresh look at the self-help movement, particularly Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. He breaks down its core principles and contrasts them with biblical truth, highlighting the importance of aligning our desires with God's w...
2025-03-3121 minSeek And Grow Rich009: I Deleted My Podcast—Here's Why You Might Need to Rethink What You BelieveAfter years of chasing personal development strategies, Brett had a wake-up call—much of what he had learned was rooted in self-sufficiency rather than faith. This realization led him to dismantle his old teachings and build a new foundation centered on seeking first the Kingdom of God (Matthew 6:33). In this episode, Brett shares personal revelations, biblical wisdom, and practical steps to help you break free from the lies of self-help and embrace a life led by God's plan. You'll learn how to align your ambitions with faith, trust God over hustle culture, and walk in true abundance....
2025-03-2820 minSeek And Grow Rich008: The Hidden Trap of Self-Reliance (And How It Affects Your Family)In this episode, Brett shares how when he started listening to the Oceans Church Podcast, and through prayer, scripture, and surrender, his eyes were opened. He realized that true growth isn't about striving—it's about seeking first the kingdom of God (Matthew 6:33). This revelation led him to restructure everything he had been teaching, refining his framework into a biblical model that aligns with God's plan.\ Today's episode concludes with the final stage of his framework which began with Nature Nurturer, using God's creation to refresh our body, mind, and spirit. Balance Builder teaches us to surrender stress and...
2025-03-2619 minSeek And Grow Rich007: What If You're Planning for the Wrong Future? A Must-Hear for Christian ParentsIn this episode, Brett guides listeners to break free from worldly distractions and refocus on what truly matters—building a legacy centered on God. Each episode dives into essential principles for spiritual and personal growth, helping listeners integrate their faith into every aspect of life. Brett explores the concept of life planning—not just for this earthly life, but for eternity. Drawing from his personal journey and insights from thought leaders like Michael Hyatt and Donald Miller, he reveals the importance of creating an eternal life plan. Unlike conventional life plans that focus solely on career and pers...
2025-03-2414 minSeek And Grow Rich006: The Hidden Reason You Struggle With Balance (It's Not What You Think!)In this episode, Brett introduces the Balance Builder, a core part of the new framework that replaces previous concepts focused on self-reliance. It explores how attitude, stress, and mood interact and how surrendering these to God leads to peace, stability, and true balance in life. The discussion also emphasizes that work-life balance isn't about separation but about integrating work, home, and faith into a God-honoring life. 4 Key Takeaways from This Episode: Self-Help vs. God-Help – The self-help movement promotes self-reliance, but true transformation comes from surrendering to God and allowing Him to renew the mind and heart. Ba...
2025-03-2417 minSeek And Grow Rich005: Why Getting Outside is More Than Just 'Fresh Air' for Your FamilyIn this episode, Brett shares a powerful revelation from the Parable of the Sower, where he realized he had been the seed cast among thorns—choked by the cares of the world rather than thriving in good soil. To help others assess where they stand spiritually, he introduces The Sower's Scorecard, a free worksheet designed to evaluate whether one's life is bearing fruit or being stifled by distractions. Brett also dives into the first step of his Nature Fit Family framework: getting outside daily. He explains how reconnecting with nature reduces stress, boosts mood, and improves overall we...
2025-03-2414 minSeek And Grow Rich004: Why Most Parents Miss Their True Purpose (And How to Find Yours)In this episode, Brett speaks directly to those who feel caught between worldly demands and God's calling. Through candid discussions on faith, biblical principles, personal growth, and family leadership, listeners are encouraged to seek God first and trust in His provision. As a father raising a son, Brett shares insights from his journey of rediscovering biblical truth after years in the personal development world. He challenges the self-help industry's self-reliance narrative by aligning wisdom with scripture and guiding parents—especially fathers—to step into their God-given role as spiritual leaders. Whether addressing the struggles of overcommitment, purpose conf...
2025-03-2415 minSeek And Grow Rich003: How a Single Email Exposed the Truth About the Self-Help IndustrySeek and Grow Rich is a transformative podcast designed for Christian parents who feel like they've been caught up in self-reliance rather than trusting in God. Rooted in Matthew 6:33, this podcast explores faith, family, health, and finances through a biblical lens, challenging the self-help movement's focus on self-reliance and instead emphasizing complete dependence on God. Through personal revelations, deep biblical study, and life-changing experiences, Brett shares his journey of breaking free from worldly teachings and embracing a God-centered approach to success and fulfillment. His story includes a pivotal moment when he recognized the deception in self-help principles...
2025-03-1822 minSeek And Grow Rich002: The Turning Point That Changed EverythingIn this episode, Brett takes you on a journey through one of the most pivotal moments of his life—the night he realized something had to change. Three years ago, his family moved from California to Arkansas, and things were tough. Finances were tight, his marriage was struggling, and he was feeling the weight of the world on his shoulders. One night, after a long, exhausting day, he lost my temper with his two-year-old son over something trivial. As he whimpered beside him, the shame and guilt hit him hard. He knew he needed to figure out wha...
2025-03-1827 minSeek And Grow Rich001: Welcome to Seek and Grow RichWelcome to Seek and Grow Rich – a podcast designed to help Christian parents break free from self-reliance and fully embrace God's plan for their lives. Hosted by Brett Trout, this show is inspired by Matthew 6:33: "But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided to you." For years, Brett explored personal development, the power of the outdoors, and the four core domains of life: health, wealth, relationships, and spirituality. However, after a deep realization, he recognized that true transformation comes not from self-help but from seeking God first. This podcast is a...
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