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The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 472 - Navigating the Ex FactorIs it healthy to have regular contact with your ex? Brian breaks down the pros and cons, where to draw the line, the rights in a new relationship, the puzzle of pet names, bringing forth the positivity, how to handle the discussion, and much,much more. Plus, Brian previews his brand new estrangement podcast "Dead To Me"!
2024-08-2712 min
Dead To MeWelcome to Dead To Me!Have you gone years and maybe decades without speaking with a family member or close friend? Welcome to Dead To Me...this is a podcast about estrangement. I'm Brian Howie, many of you know me as the host of The Great Love Debate, the top-rated dating and relationship podcast. Over the years of hosting that show, we listened to so many reasons why people can't find the right relationship, can't stay in a healthy one, leave one that has possibilities, or don't trust anyone enough to get into one in the first place. And so m...
2024-08-2301 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 349 - Brian Buys A RingWhat's the best way to buy the best jewelry for that special person? Brian takes a trip to Anna Zuckerman Luxury Jewelry in Boca Raton to learn how to recognize the best rocks, what makes a necklace special, how to get the most for your money, what she really cares about, the most popular items to shop for, the secrets behind the sparkle, how to pick out the right ring, and the best way to propose!
2022-04-1835 min
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 264 - Handling The HighsBrian sits down with influencer and founder of The Social Vine, Stephanie Llewellyn, to dig into why we self-sabotage, what we need from our friends, being our own worst enemies, living with choices, overcoming tough odds, the upside of normalcy, maintaining emotional balance, and how we can just do better!
2020-08-311h 00The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 263 - Beyond The Bachelor"The Bachelor" winner and "The Bachelorette" star Jen Schefft Waterman joins Brian in her Ohio hometown to relive reality star memories, being thrust into the spotlight, the magic of Chicago, how TV has evolved, finding new beginnings, dealing with kids' questions, life in suburbia, getting recognized unexpectedly, and what might happen at a Bachelor reunion!
2020-08-2451 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 262 - Grounds For Dismissal...Part 2!It's the ladies' turn to face the music! Brian reveals the 10 traits that will have him pointing her towards the relationship off-ramp. All the red flags, non-starters, warning signs, and horrible habits that signal "see ya later!"
2020-08-1730 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 261 - America's Best Cities To Find LoveA tradition unlike any other! Brian reveals and runs down the GLD's Top 10 Places To Find Love For 2020 - all of America's best cities to recharge, start again, make new connections, give a second look, find your mojo, and discover the dating pool of your dreams!
2020-08-1045 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 259 - Grounds For DismissalAre there things that immediately tell you he's got to go? Brian reveals the 10 traits that are total no-go's - the really bad habits, the really wrong moves, the really poor choices, and the really strange decisions. Plus, why you need to take a break from your Donald Trump obsession!
2020-07-2728 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 255 - The Opposite QuestionDo opposites really attract? Should they? Can they? Brian takes a deep dive on the science of sameness, how to bridge differences, the qualities that matter, what needs to be in alignment, and how far apart we really are. Plus, The Debate Team reflects on its own record on diversity, and what needs to be done better!
2020-06-2940 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 254 - Spouse HuntingAre you a relationship buyer...or seller? "Spouse Hunting" author Brian Belefant joins The Debate Team to talk about the similarities between great real estate and winning partnerships, how to spot an under-appreciate asset, which foundations are secretly shaky, how to make the most of your search, and the most important rules to follow as you look for love!
2020-06-2239 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 253 - The State Of The DateIs there any part of the current dating landscape that is actually...hopeful?Brian gives his annual State of The Date address, and breaks down current events, romance and race, political phonies, dishonest agendas, the loss of nuance, finding importance, missing connections, regaining balance, and the two things everyone needs to do moving forward! Plus, can the answer be found in...nachos?
2020-06-1531 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 252 - The Ex SmilesIsn't it time we all got along? The Debate Team breaks down a big batch of listener submissions on the one thing they miss most about their ex. All the positive traits, thoughts, quirks, moments, and memories that will make you think, hey, they really weren't so bad after all! Plus, Brian sorta...sings?
2020-06-0847 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 251 - The Breakup ShowHave you ever been in a really great relationship that suddenly just...ends? Brian takes you into the world of breakups - the real source of heartbreak, how to process the pain, the questions you need to ask, what you're missing the most, and the ultimate answer that moves you forward in life and love!
2020-06-0123 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 250 - Winning The Blame GameHave you ever wanted to blame anyone and anything for...everything? Brian dishes out a healthy dose of how to blame! What went wrong, why it's their fault, excuses to lash out, reasons upon reflection, turning your bad into the greater good, and everything else you need to take back and take over the ultimate outcome!
2020-05-2522 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 248 - The Things That Will Get You LaidGuys, she might like you, but does she like you in THAT way? Brian sheds some light on the 10 things that will have her seeing you in a new light - everything you need to learn, say, think, feel, and master so you can have the confidence and skills to get to that place you know you really want to go. The episode that will help you make the magic happen!
2020-05-1126 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 247 - What You Really, Really WantNot quite sure what you even want out of a relationship? Brian has the answer, and he is sharing it on this special episode - what makes a relationship work, the things couples forget, what needs improving, the secret to happiness, what you both deserve, the elements to build upon, and what is truly important in the love of a lifetime!
2020-05-0426 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 245 - What Are You Doing?!Brian takes on the most important question of them all, and takes down all the barriers to answering it. Everything you need to ask to make a change, find your happy, become better, and to realize all the wrong - so you can finally make things right!
2020-04-2027 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 243 - Now Is Not The TimeWhen does timing matter most? Right now! "You're Not Getting Any Younger" host Jen Glantz joins Brian to break down getting through tough times, enforcing boundaries, discovering what you need, when it's time to take a timeout, the best way to communicate, and how sharing a stressful situation can make or break a relationship!
2020-04-0639 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 241 - Capturing The CrazyAre you ready to take on - and embrace - the crazy? Brian takes love off lockdown, and runs through 6 years of GLD wackiness - the most memorable moments, crazy characters, nutty cities, insane incidents, and a whole bunch of not-so-normal audience encounters. Plus...what we can all learn from Dolly Parton!
2020-03-2347 min
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 238 - When Fantasy Faces RealityHave you ever had a moment where it's time to confront your dreams? Brian breaks down the truth about crushes, what's real about reality romance, the strange balance between hopeful and helpless, what makes us act irrationally, why circumstance can shape outcome, and much, much more!
2020-03-0235 min
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 237 - The Ones With All The AnswersBrian heads to Cleveland and discovers a very special group of people who have quickly realized the keys to life, staying focused on what really matters, understanding what needs to happen, avoiding the wrong things (and people!), and the best mindset when it comes to what's important in the lifelong quest for love and happiness!
2020-02-2322 min
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 235 - 100 Days To Fall In LoveEver you ever wondered when is the best time to find love? Brian has the answer - and charts your course to find love by Memorial Day. Everything you need to know, do, think, and feel to make the most of the most fertile time of the year to find what you're looking for!
2020-02-1025 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 233 - What The Heck Is He Thinking?Ever wonder what's going on in his silly big head? "A Guy Thing Podcast" host Joe Mignone sits down with Brian to explore the muddled male mind - why it takes so long to grow up, the tough lessons learned, the best way to date, the wrong way to live, and the keys to becoming what she wants you to be!
2020-01-2759 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 231 - Come On Get HappyWhat did Meghan and Harry miss most? Brian delivers his unique take on the importance of happiness, why it's overlooked, the process of discovery, the places to find it, the ways to reveal it, the language behind it, and the real reason it matters!
2020-01-1327 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 228 - Respecting PerspectiveThink it's our differences that are keeping us apart? Think again! Brian explains the importance of expanding your viewpoint, learning to listen, altering perceptions, embracing differences, and why politics and religion don't have to divide us. Plus, the three things you need to do in the new decade - and why it's great to be a snowflake!
2019-12-2330 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 219 - The Hiding Of The HurtBrian heads to Florida, where he discloses some painful distant (and recent) memories; and explores compartmentalizing pain, holding onto the hurt, letting in the love, finding truth in a terrible moment, and the healing power of simply being heard.
2019-10-2126 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 217 - Check Out Of Heartbreak HotelIn this special solo episode, Brian takes on the trickiest of topics - heartbreak. A unique and game-changing look at what it is, why we feel it, how to get through it, processing the pain, bouncing back from a split, and everything else you need to move on and triumph through the tears!
2019-10-0742 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 213 - Getting Candid with Candace BushnellThe always-entertaining Candace Bushnell goes one-on-one with Brian to talk sex, New York City, Sex And The City, alpha guys, dating over 50, chasing cubs, dating famous, the secrets of Studio 54, and her new book "Is There Still Sex In The City?"
2019-09-0934 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 203 - A Tale Of Twelve CitiesBrian reviews and dissects the first half of 2019 and reveals the places you need to go, the life changes you need to make, how to decide your future, the cities with no hope, the communities on the rise, the worst place in America to live, and why it really is hot in Cleveland!
2019-07-0152 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 201 - Stopping The CheatingCan't everyone just stop screwing around? "First Comes Us" author Anita Chlipala joins Brian in Chicago to break down why people stray, how to prevent infidelity, the keys to bouncing back, the signs to look for, how to save a broken relationship, and much, much more! Plus, Brian shares the greatest story of all time - and why the Windy City is a great city for love!
2019-06-1758 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 199 - The Art Of The Dinner DateIf you're gonna do it, do it right! "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer joins Brian and the two of them take on and break down everything you need to know to make sure your dinner leads to breakfast. Where to go, when to plan, what to say, how to order, creating chemistry, and all the tasty tricks and tips you need to create magic over a meal!
2019-06-0348 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 198 - A Man And A TherapistNY Times Best-Selling Author of "Maybe You Should To Talk To Someone" Lori Gottlieb joins Brian in-studio to dissect the benefits of therapy, professional chemistry, breaking down, opening up, discovering your identity, sharing your secrets, moving on from your past, and the mirror that matters the most. Plus, Brian reveals the GLD tour plans ahead!
2019-05-271h 04The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 196 - Giving It All UpDoes absence make the heart grow...stronger? Author Kacie Main joins Brian in Washington DC to dish on going without, growing within, tuning out the noise, finding your inner purpose, discovering what matters, and why doing the wrong thing is sometimes the best thing. Plus - why we named the Nation's Capital "America's Best City To Find Love" for 2019!
2019-05-1349 min
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 189 - Flirt AcademyWant to ignite the spark? Not sure how to fan the flame? Brian and GLD lead love guru Kim Seltzer launch "Flirt Academy" - everything you need to know to get noticed, make connections, increase opportunities, pump up your possibilities, and kickstart your charisma!
2019-03-2544 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 188 - The Reality Of It AllBrian heads to New Orleans to rendezvous with reality tv legend Trishelle Cannatella, and they explore kissing for public consumption, overcoming bad behavior, maturing men, wild women, being judged, promiscuous pasts, discovering your identity...and why dating in The Big Easy isn't so easy!
2019-03-1848 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 186 - Going GagaBrian heads to Florida and digs into the truth about Bradley Cooper & Lady Gaga, fantasy versus reality, chasing ghosts, facing truths, breaking down myths, owning your fate, dealing with disappointment, the importance of elasticity, and the keys to continuing commitment!
2019-03-0439 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 185 - State Of ConfusionBrian heads to New York City where he is joined by comedian Jason Salmon and "Millionaire Matchmaker" co-host Marisa Saks to dish on keeping it real, flying coach, interesting accents, facial hair preferences, receiving compliments, southern charm, being genuine, taking things too far, and making the most of any opportunity!
2019-02-251h 04The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 184 - Making Mister RightThree wise men, one special podcast! "The Angry Therapist" John Kim and top guys' guru Spencer Burnett join Brian in the studio to break down modern men - what it means to be masculine, the value of vulnerability, creating breakthroughs, being better, taking risks, making a change, discovering desire, and getting the girl! Plus - are really great nachos the best recipe for really great love?
2019-02-181h 02The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 183 - Two Worlds CollidingBrian heads to Hong Kong, where he discovers - and reveals - the keys to merging lives, blending in, standing out, coming together, recognizing what's important, changing on the fly, and learning to grow in tandem!
2019-02-1120 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 180 - A Study In ContradictionsDoes your partner say one thing and do another? Think one thing and want another? Do one thing and not another? "Millionaire Matchmaker" co-host Marisa Saks joins Brian to answer your Listener Letters and dish the dirt on communication breakdowns, unresolved differences, definitive deal-breakers, and heightened hypocrisy!
2019-01-201h 02
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 176 - The Dawn Of A New Dating DayWe wrap up, review, and recalibrate a crazy year in love! Our lead love guru Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to dish on why things are (finally!) looking up as we launch a new year filled with new possibilities, new hope, and a fresh dating horizon. Plus, Brian gives a sneak peek at that's ahead for him - professionally and personally - in 2019!
2018-12-2447 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 174 - Surviving The HolidaysCBS "Survivor" fave Corinne Kaplan joins Brian to unwrap our annual Mistletoe Mailbag, and take on Santa fetishes, party impropriety, overindulging, undergifting, flying solo, competing to win, and much, much, more! Everything you need to deck the halls and fa-la-la-la-LOVE!
2018-12-101h 05The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 172 - The End Of ExcusesExcuses, excuses, excuses…enough! Brian lays out the case for the elimination of lame excuses, ridiculous reasons, and imaginary obstacles that stand between you and the relationship you want! A passionate and necessary pep-talk to push ahead.
2018-11-2646 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 170 - Love, American StyleIn this very special episode, we take the podcast to the people! Brian heads to the heartland and hits the legendary Mall of America to discover what people want, the best place to find it, where things go wrong...and why all of life's answers can be found at the food court!
2018-11-1230 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 168 - Fear & LovingBrian heads to Dallas to explore the relationship between fear, pain, redemption, and love. An honest and personal look into taking chances, overcoming obstacles, rewiring your reality, breaking through barriers, and letting in the light!
2018-10-2955 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 166 - Things That Make Her Go Hmmm...Guys, are you worried that you're not funny enough? Cool enough? Tall enough? Rich enough? Then this one is for you! Brian reveals his ten things guaranteed to increase your appeal, make her notice, and get you a second look. Everything that every guy can do, every single day, that will make her go "hmmm!"
2018-10-1545 min
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 164 - Why Mood Matters, w/ Dr. Larry SennBest-selling author and Corporate Culture pioneer Dr. Larry Senn sits down with Brian to discuss his groundbreaking philosophy "The Mood Elevator," and reveals the power of curiosity, how to change a culture, using your feelings as a guide, setting goals at any age, recognizing epiphanies, and training for triathlons at the age of 80!
2018-10-0150 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 162 - Exes & Uh-Ohs: The RevengeOur fans' favorite feature is back! Have one more question you need to ask your lost love? Really dying to get the last word in? Just need to say what you didn't get to say? Still hoping for one more chance? Radio personality Emily Makinzie joins Brian in Denver to do the deed and remind you - be careful what you wish for!
2018-09-1759 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 161 - Stop Settling For SingleYou aren't single because you refuse to settle, you are single because you have chosen to settle! Brian breaks it all down and lays out the definitive path to your maximum happiness - changing your mindset, recognizing your reality, understanding your opportunities, forgetting about closure, finding the right road, and kickstarting your confidence to get into the relationship you definitely want and deserve. Plus, an original take on an old issue - the dinner check!
2018-09-1031 min
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 159 - Laying Down The LawBrian unveils and breaks down his revolutionary "Law of 20%" to get you out of the relationship you don't want and into the one that you do! "Charisma Quotient" host Kim Seltzer returns as The Debate Team reveals a foolproof formula to determine when it's time to get out, why you need to draw a line in the sand, where is the point of no return, how to weigh pros and cons, and why your happiness needs to happen now!
2018-08-2750 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 157 - Make Men Sexy AgainWhat really makes a man appealing? Can any man become sexy? The Debate Team heads to Seattle to find out if funny really matters, how he can kickstart his charisma overnight, the secret to getting her attention, the things that will really trigger her desire, the style behind the sexy, the power of a proper haircut, and much, much more! Plus, Brian reveals the surprising sexiest male character and most romantic movie ever!
2018-08-1355 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 154 - Leading With Your WorstWhen do you divulge your dirty little secret? When You Least Expect It author Jen Glantz returns to The Debate Team to talk truth bombs, dealing with your darkness, navigating neuroses, putting on a happy face, and using imperfection to your advantage! Plus, Brian and Jen reveal their shared - and bizarre - hidden habit!
2018-07-2653 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 152 - Saving SpontaneityWonder why a moment was missed? Want him to make a move? Can't read her reactions? Confidence Guru Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to talk mixed messages, uncrossing signals, the importance of communication, and why it's harder than ever to maximize an opportunity. Plus, Brian reveals the one single gesture that will turn every spark into a flame!
2018-07-091h 04The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 151 - More Exes & Uh-Oh's!Our listeners' favorite feature is back for an encore! Ever wanted to have one last conversation with that long lost love? Be careful what you wish for, as radio personality Emily Makinzie joins Brian to do the honors from Denver - taking on recycled engagement rings, unrequited threesomes, revenge porn, Mommy issues, second chances, and more!
2018-07-0258 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 148 - Bringing Back The Broken MenCan we create more healthy men (and relationships) through a foundation of healing? Cove founder Charles Messow and Intimacy Specialist Valerie Baber join Brian to lay out a path to bring light to the darkness, incentivize engagement, build trust, rationalize rejection, break down barriers, communicate with confidence, overcome fear, eliminate anger, and heal the dating disconnect. Plus - a sneak preview at a new app that might just change everything!
2018-06-111h 15The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 147 - Addicted To LoveYou know you're gonna have to face it…you're in need of this podcast. Dr. Deena joins The Debate Team to talk about chasing the love high, the desire for dating drama, breaking bad patterns, the root of wrong relationships, reprogramming your picker, and how to make healthy changes to avoid heartbreak! Plus, Brian explains his theory on how _Sex And The City_ caused a decade of dating damage!
2018-06-0454 min
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 140 - Sara Gore, Confidence, & The CarlyleBrian is joined by NBC's Sara Gore at the legendary Bemelmans Bar at The Carlyle Hotel in NYC, where they share the right way to impress a woman, the keys to unlocking confidence, how to mature as a man, and the secret to making the pieces come together. Plus, Brian offers Prince Harry and Meghan Markle a creative plan to insure their fairy tale marriage lasts!
2018-04-1746 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 139 - You Are Who You Aren'tYou want to know who they are, but do you really know who you are? Brian heads to Seattle and takes a deep dive into self-discovery with dating gurus Marina Lavochin and Rachel Paz. Wake up calls, surprising developments, forks in the road, living without regret, changing your course, mileposts that matter, trying new paths, and how to find the life you love - and the love of your life - starting now!
2018-04-091h 02The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 136 - Landing On Planet SingleSuddenly thrown back into the deep end of the dating pool? The Debate Team lays out everything you need to deal with your divorce, bounce back from your breakup, learn the new landscape, discover your best you, regain hope in others, explore fresh possibilities, and get your love mojo back on track. Plus - Brian explains why 50 truly is the new 20!
2018-03-1951 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 135 - The Players And The GamesBrian and Your Love Accomplice host Christina Weber come together for a special "Menage a Pod" episode to talk players and their games! All the scoop on alpha guys, beta boys, secret signs, sweet spots, breath kisses, hidden agendas, the importance of 100 hours, breaking patterns, and how much is enough. Plus, Brian opens up on his player past, and Christina explains the Legend of The Dragon Penis Tattoo!
2018-03-1255 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 134 - The Dating Commandments (Part 2)Brian releases Part 2 of his groundbreaking **Dating Commandments** - listen, save, ingest, practice, memorize, share...and watch your love life change forever!
2018-03-0547 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 133 - The Dating Commandments (Part 1)You asked, we listened! Brian releases part one of his definitive list of **Dating Commandments** - the 10 things you MUST do to change your life, date better, increase your appeal, grow a relationship, and find lasting love!
2018-02-2746 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 131 - The Narcissist RealityAre you dating a narcissist? Brian is joined by "Prison Letters' host Dr. Mark Goulston and leading confidence specialist Kim Seltzer to debate the answer. The warning signs, the false alarms, the keys to avoidance, the misinformation, the points of origin, the hidden triggers, the polar opposite, and how to take control of any situation!
2018-02-1256 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 130 - How Much, How Soon“The Margarita Confessionals” hosts Lauren Levine and Ali Washburn join Brian to debate the importance of information, how to do your homework, the best way to screen potential dates, what characteristics are crucial, the ways we overthink things, why ignorance can be bliss, and how much their past should influence your future!
2018-02-0557 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 128 - Save The MalesWhere do we go from here? A most important episode - "Your Love Accomplice" Christina Weber joins Brian and The Debate Team to unravel the dangerous dating disconnect, where it stems from, the repercussions of a reaction, working through the pain, learning from each other, the right to be heard, the need to listen, and how to bridge the divide. A refreshing burst of healing and hope to collectively move forward!
2018-01-2255 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 127 - So You Wanna Get MarriedProfessional Bridesmaid Jen Glantz joins The Debate Team to talk about her latest book, the state of modern marriage, bad bride behavior, what can go wrong on a wedding day, and why things may not always be as they seem. Plus, Brian explains why the question "Why are you still single?" is the greatest compliment of all!
2018-01-1547 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 126 - Making Your MoveIs it time to make the move of a lifetime? Brian & The Debate Team are joined by America's Leading Confidence Expert Kim Seltzer to lay out the ultimate decision designed to shake things up, make real change, and find new love! Stop thinking a few spin classes or half-hearted resolutions are going to make a difference, now is the time for a smart - and real - breakthrough!
2018-01-0852 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 125 - Train Your MenBrian unveils his groundbreaking and controversial "Require & Reward" method for getting what you want from your guy and from your relationship; and is joined by "America's Wingwoman" Erin Davis to discuss setting the course, raising the bar, and reaping the benefits of lasting love! Plus, The Debate Team decides who would be more difficult to date - Siri or Alexa?
2017-12-2556 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 123 - America's Best & Worst For 2017It's time to hand out the awards for the Year in LOVE! Brian & The Debate Team unveil the best cities, worst cities, most dateable women, least dateable men, most improved, kinkiest, top trends, best dating site, and much, much more as we look back on a crazy year in dating!
2017-12-1144 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 122 - Clarity, Hope, & The Right To Be Loved"Safe To Love Again" author Dr. Gary Salyer & love guru Peggy Bennett join Brian & The Debate Team in Seattle to talk releasing past pain, discovering the path to be cherished, healing one's inner child, why joy matters, and unlocking the keys to your heart - and someone else's!
2017-12-0452 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 120 - Los Angeles Live Audience Show!The Great Love Debate tour returns to the world-famous Hollywood Improv where Brian is joined by some of LA's most dynamic & hilarious personalities - and a couple hundred of its finest and feistiest guys & gals for another wild live audience show!
2017-11-201h 14The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 119 - Love & Laughter"Figuring It Out" hosts Candi Clare and Steve Lipman join Brian in New York City to answer Listener Letters on laughter and love! What's too much, too weird, too soon, and too challenging when it comes to balancing the fun and the funny!
2017-11-1355 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 118 - Naming Names with AJ BenzaLegendary gossip columnist, best-selling author, and host of E!’s “Mysteries and Scandals” A. J. Benza sits down with Brian to share stories, compare notes, drop names, and dish the dirt on Hollywood’s biggest stars - Donald Trump, Madonna, Kim Kardashian, Harvey Weinstein, Paris Hilton, Jeremy Piven, Mickey Rourke, David Blaine, Chris Noth, Brett Ratner, Camille Grammer, John Gotti, and many more! Our most revealing episode ever.
2017-11-0651 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 116 - The Whole TruthAcademy Award Winner Tatum O’Neal joins Brian for a heart-to-heart on sexual harassment, Hollywood hypocrisy, the danger of #MeToo, personal experiences, where America went wrong, how we can heal, and a path to build hope for the future.
2017-10-2355 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 115 - Remasculating AmericaBrian heads to Denver to explore why so many American men have lost their "testicular fortitude" when it comes to dating. How the guys got off track, what's holding them back, why it's time to step it up, what they can do to get their manly mojo back, and what's really hiding behind all those beards and flannel!
2017-10-1658 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 114 - Sex, Lies, & Family MembersBrian and “Your Love Accomplice” host Christina Weber hook up at the Hollywood Improv to take on a fresh batch of Listener Letters! Interesting takes on lusting after in-laws, male pregnancy scares, absolving guilt, the price of forgiveness, setting boundaries, how much is too much, and a whole bunch more!
2017-10-0945 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 111 - Love, Loss, & Las VegasThe Debate Team hits Sin City for a special show from the Las Vegas Strip! Brian is joined by Vegas Insider & Relationship Realist Zoey D'Arienzo to shed light on living with regret, letting things go, starting over again, bad vacation behavior, the best way to say goodbye, and how to discover what it means to really be real.
2017-09-1852 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 110 - Debunking Dating MythsBrian & "Your Love Accomplice" host Christina Weber team up to take on - and take down - the dating industry by dispelling and disproving some prevalent myths, mistakes, and misinformation. Plus, The Debate Team kicks off two new ways for listeners to engage with the GLD on a deeper and more intimate level!
2017-09-1259 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 109 - The Simplest SolutionBrian is joined by Style & Confidence Guru Kim Seltzer to talk about the one change everyone should make, what we secretly want from each other, the shortest route to your partner's happiness, communicating concerns confidently, the science of attraction, and what attributes are timeless. Plus, Brian shares how you can create your own podcast!
2017-09-0454 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 106 - Dating AddictionBrian and The Debate Team are joined by "Making Love Great Again" author DeAnna Lorraine and the First Couple of Love Thomas Edwards & Laurie Davis Edwards to dive into digital dating addiction - what causes it, why it's different for men versus women, how to properly and patiently deal with it, and when it can become a real problem. Plus, Brian reveals the hidden cause of the modern dating disconnect!
2017-08-1455 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 105 - "The Bachelor" Nick Viall & More - Live in Hollywood!“The Bachelor” Nick Viall & Oscar Winner Tatum O’Neal join Brian and an on-stage lineup of GLD faves LIVE in front of a sold-out crowd at the world-famous Hollywood Improv! A special (and wild) show full of surprises, shocks, laughs, and LOVE!
2017-08-061h 14The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 103 - The End Of The Friend ZoneUltimate Wingman founder Samantha Ross joins The Debate Team to take a deep dive into the The Friend Zone - why it is wider and deeper than ever, how to avoid it, why it is different from women than for men, how to break free of it, how to use it to your advantage, and how we can close it permanently. Plus, Brian defines the perfect friendship/relationship symbiosis!
2017-07-2454 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 100 - How To Break UpEverything you need to know about getting out and moving on! Comedians Allison Goldberg & Jen Jamula and Underground Unattached CEO Christina Weber join The Debate Team to share the benefits of breaking up, the secret upside of ghosting, the challenges of texting, avoiding bad endings, the best ways to transition to the next, and much more! Plus, Brian reveals the perfect solution to get out of any relationship!
2017-07-031h 01
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 099 - Couples QuestionsBrian & The Debate Team answer questions from current couples - and gives you answers to everything you need to fall into a new relationship, stay in a great relationship, and get out of the wrong relationship! Learning to share, the value of counseling, the art of compromise, the challenges of curiosity, ignoring the noise, and much more!
2017-06-2655 min
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 096 - Family Matters"Mom vs Matchmaker" star Carmelia Ray and "Making Love Great Again" author Deanna Lorraine join The Debate Team to discuss the challenges of family in relationships, do parents really know best, bridging the generational disconnect, overcoming meddling moms and dads, the motivations of in-laws, and why Brian isn't dating Charlize Theron!
2017-06-0558 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 095 - The Minds Of Men"Talking To Crazy" Author Dr. Mark Goulston joins The Debate Team to take a deep dive into the male mind, why men don't trust, key ways that guys can learn to open up, and how to avoid the intersection of fear and anger. Plus, listen in to a little live therapy on Brian and media personality James Michael Sama!
2017-05-291h 02
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 093 - Listener LettersThe Debate Team dives into the mailbag with the help of top relationship blogger James Michael Sama and media personality Lauren Leonelli to reveal the absolute best first date idea, which movies accurately showcase the reality of love, the one thing a woman should never worry about, why the friend zone is a dead zone, and more! Plus, Brian details the best way to get the GLD tour to come to your city!
2017-05-1554 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 092 - The Best Men EverBrian reveals his controversial new theory on the dating disconnect, and The Debate Team is joined by personal growth guru Traci Porterfield to dig into the state of the modern man, the rise of the independent woman, the first steps to love, the barriers to romance, the importance of owning your energy, and how everyone can transform their dating destiny!
2017-05-0857 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 086 - The Greatest Love Of AllWhat does Self-Love really mean? Christina Weber from Underground Unattached joins Brian and The Debate Team to take on the trickiest of topics - why it's important, where to start, how to find it, the keys to creating it, the best way to define it, and why the journey is as important as the discovery!
2017-03-2739 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 084 - Great Love CoachingYou asked for it, you got it! Brian & celebrity dating coach Laurel House debut an exciting and innovative new series of products designed to kickstart your heart, jump start your love life, increase your confidence, and get you back in the game!
2017-03-1616 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 081- Leading Social Strategist David WygantTop social strategist David Wygant and media personality Jenifer Golden join The Debate Team to break down the roadblocks to a real relationship, how to flirt as a man, the changes women need to make in their mindset, and the best ways to discover a meaningful connection. Plus, Brian gives the definitive take on Warren Beatty and the Academy Awards, and shares what it's really like to attend the Oscars!
2017-02-271h 01The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 080 - Thirtysomething LoveDating gurus Erin Davis and Rachel Russo join Brian in NYC to dish on why dating is different in your thirties, the benefits of being a late bloomer, how soon to have serious talks, and the best time to have the best sex!
2017-02-211h 02
The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 079 - Sex And New York CityBest-selling authors Melanie Notkin and Jon Birger join Brian in his hometown of New York City to dish about love in the Big Apple, the challenges of dating over 30, where to find the good men, the price women pay for independence, the benefits of a issuing an ultimatum, and the three words nobody wants to hear on a date!
2017-02-121h 04The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 077 - Live Hollywood Show!Brian and a sold-out crowd at the world-famous Hollywood Improv are joined by some of LA's most dynamic personalities to take on love, sex, dating, relationships, and a whole lot more at this hilarious and feisty live audience show!
2017-02-041h 22The Great Love Debate with Brian HowieBest of GLD: Ross MathewsEveryone's BFF the always fun and hilarious Ross Mathews joins The Debate Team to share gossip from the Tonight Show, his hopes for a Fat Bachelor, favorite childhood crushes - and Ross plays Celebrity Matchmaker for Brian!
2017-01-0958 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 073 - Celebrity Matchmaker Alessandra ContiCelebrity Matchmaker Alessandra Conti joins The Debate Team to talk about resolutions, rebounds, making changes that matter, finding success in the New Year, how to date like you're on "The Bachelor", and the best place to find new love! Plus - Brian shares a personal peek into Debbie Reynolds' love life and heartbreak.
2017-01-0351 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieBest of GLD: How To Man UpIn this classic show which Medium named one of the "Top 10 Podcast Episodes of 2016", Brian & celebrity dating coach Laurel House reveal the all secrets to being a better dater! Your compete guide to taking a chance, throwing out the rules, improving your odds, the best pickup lines - and how to master the art of the compliment.
2016-11-1559 minThe Great Love Debate with Brian HowieGLD 067 - Trishelle CannatellaMTV "Real World" star Trishelle Cannatella joins The Debate Team to talk about finding real love, getting hit on by celebrities, why being a good poker player helps with dating, and the repercussions of sex on reality TV. Plus, Brian and Trishelle reminisce about how they first met, and share their classic Ashton Kutcher stories!
2016-10-3039 min