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Mating and RelatingReclaiming Love and Commitment Through Divorce, Grief and Cultural Conditioning with Vasavi KumarAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Vasavi Kumar, personal coach and business mentor, opens up for the first time about her desire to be married again after divorce and navigating the cultural stigma that surrounds it.• Giving voice to desires we've been downplaying • How cultural stigmas can affect our willingness to express what we want• Reframing resentment as "misdirected reclamation" of our deepest desires• The way grief can clarify what truly matters in life• Finding the courage to say what we wan...2025-07-2351 minMating and RelatingAre You Loving or Loathing Your Partner? The Silent Signals of Relationship BreakdownAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!The Four Horsemen of relationship doom—criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling—can predict relationship failure when they become dominant patterns between partners. We explore these destructive behaviors and why contempt may be the most dangerous, creating a filter where everything your partner does becomes irritating.• Contempt is particularly destructive as it creates a negative lens through which you view your partner• Experiencing the Four Horsemen occasionally doesn't doom a relationship—living in these patterns does• The "cat syn...2025-07-1720 minMating and RelatingHow Religion, Trauma, and Bipolar Disorder Shaped My Sexuality with Brittney SmithAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Brittany Smith shares her journey from religious sexual repression to self-acceptance and healthy relationships, offering powerful insights on reclaiming pleasure after trauma.• Growing up in a Texas church where sexuality was only discussed within marriage context• Writing love letters to future spouses at age 12 with no actual sex education • Experiencing sexual trauma from a church authority figure with nowhere to turn• Feeling shame and confusion from mixed messages about sexuality• Living with bipolar disorder an...2025-07-0940 minMating and RelatingHow We Talk About Our Partners When They're Not AroundAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!We explore the delicate balance of discussing relationship issues with friends versus keeping conflicts within the partnership. Our conversation unpacks when seeking outside perspective is helpful and when it undermines the relationship.• Coffee in the morning starts our discussion about relationship boundaries• Analyzing a viral clip about whether to discuss marriage problems with friends• Questioning the "queen and chambermaid" analogy that positions marriage above friendships• Examining how the language we use about our partners affects...2025-06-2537 minMating and Relating6 Powerful Lessons To Transform Your Approach To Love and ConnectionAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Drawing from my Human Design as a 1-3 mental projector, I share six powerful relationship lessons that have transformed how I show up in partnership and for myself in ways that feel most nourishing and authentic.• The autonomy of your relationship is only as strong as the security of it—we feel liberated by our relationships when we feel safe within them• Fall for the potential—the route to knowing if someone is for you is through...2025-06-1812 minMating and RelatingCoffee In The Morning: The Illusion of One Person Being EverythingAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!We explore the modern expectation for our romantic partners to fulfill multiple roles – from lover and confidant to therapist and best friend – and how this pressure affects relationships in detrimental ways.• Examining how we now rely on one person for needs that communities traditionally fulfilled• The phenomenon of giving our "best selves" to work while bringing our "leftovers" home to partners• Why using your partner as an emotional "punching bag" damages relationship dynamics• The importance o...2025-06-1143 minMating and RelatingPractice Makes Partnership: Five C's Of LoveAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!A candid revelation over sushi sparked this exploration into what makes relationships thrive beyond the superficial. When a friend struggling with dating in his thirties called my marriage "perfect," I couldn't help but laugh—what he saw as perfection was actually years of messy, beautiful work.The dating landscape has drastically changed with swipe culture hijacking our natural connection abilities. We've lost patience for authenticity, constantly chasing the next best option rather than seeing the humanity in po...2025-06-0417 minMating and RelatingWelcome to Mating and Relating!Ask Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!We're creating a curious, cozy corner of the internet where we can explore the beautiful complexities of intimacy, love, and erotic connection together. Each week, we normalize conversations around pleasure, deconstruct stigmas surrounding sex, and help you step more fully into your relationships and erotic power.• Educational deep dives with leading experts in intimacy and sexuality• Soul-bearing personal stories that will resonate with your own experiences• Raw, real conversations about the many ways we relate to one...2025-05-2801 minMating and RelatingCoffee In The Morning: What Is Sex & What Do We Really Want From Each Other In Bed?Ask Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Talking about sex can be intimidating, but it's essential for creating a fulfilling sexual relationship. We unpack how to communicate about sex effectively while navigating the complex interplay between desire, pleasure, and intimacy.• Asking for consent before discussing sex creates a safer space for vulnerability• The way we define sex shapes our expectations and desires in relationships• Rating sexual satisfaction across frequency, intimacy, and satisfaction helps identify specific areas for growth• Sexual tension often stems fr...2025-05-281h 06Mating and RelatingThe Masturbation Blueprint: How Solo Sex Enhances Your Life and RelationshipsAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Have you ever wondered if your solo pleasure practice is normal, healthy, or even allowed? You're not alone. The stigma surrounding masturbation has created generations of adults who harbor unnecessary guilt about this completely natural human behavior. But what if self-pleasure isn't just okay—what if it's actually beneficial for your health, relationships, and emotional wellbeing?Dive into the science-backed benefits of masturbation that extend far beyond momentary pleasure. From stress reduction and improved sleep to boosted im...2025-05-2820 min
Date in a Blink: Dates Between StrangersEmbracing Your Sexual Sovereignty: Brianna Endrina on sexual wellness, talking about sex, and fully embracing your sexualityTaboos? Forget it! Today we’re heating things up a bit with sex, love, and relationship coach Brianna Endrina. On today’s expert episode we dive into sexual wellness, consent, finding the beauty in sexploration, and embracing humor in the bedroom. Whether you’re looking to give your sexuality a reboot or simply enhance the fire that’s already burning, this episode’s for anyone and everyone who’s interested in that space between the sheets (and all the other spaces, for that matter).
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Brianna Endrina is your new favorite Sex, Love & Relationship Coach-to-be and Host of...2022-02-2127 minMating and RelatingStop Faking Orgasms, Discover Your Pleasure & Create New Habits for Sexual WellnessAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!I have been a part of the population of vulva owners who have betryed their sexual satisfaction. I have been one of those vulva owners who has dismissed my pleasure, who has silenced my desires, who has fantasized my way to climax and faked orgasm completely. It sucks. It feels dirty. It feels deceitful, it feels like "why have sex, if this is what it is." But I promise that’s not what sex is.And...2021-07-3024 minMating and RelatingOwn Your Sexy & Show Up As Your Most Authentic Self!Ask Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!You want to feel sexy? You want to learn how to take charge of your life and show up as your most authentic self? This episode has your name written all over it! -- Short and simple, you have everything you need to show up as the goddess you are. It’s not maybelline, baby, you were, in fact, born with it! Also, we've got a Full Moon In Aquarius Baby! So how fitting of this episode to...2021-07-2315 minMating and RelatingDating Yourself, Sex Energy & 2.5 Years Of Abstinence w/ Tara AliceAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Have you been going through a season of singleness or an extended period without sex? My guest host this week, Tara Alice, is diving into the struggles, lessons and clarity that has come from her 2 year season of singleness and 2.5 year abstinence journey!We talk about:The benefits of dating yourselfThe importance of nurturing your platonic relationships The impact of sex energy & sexual spiritualityThe clarity that comes with a season of singleness Her 2.5 year journey without se...2021-07-161h 05Mating and RelatingPower Exchange, BDSM & 50 Shades of Grey w/ Dr. Harmony HuntAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!What is POWER? How do you utilize it to level up yourself and your relationships? Dr. Harmony Hunt, Doctor of Physical Therapy and Power Exchange Coach joins me this week to demystify how we view POWER and shed light on the way it impacts our relationship to ourselves as well as others. We cover:What power exchange isHow media portrays power exchange50 Shades of GreyBenefits & Relevance of Power Exchange DynamicsCommon misconceptions about Power ExchangeAdvice...2021-07-091h 01Mating and RelatingImprove Sexual Intimacy & Become Sexually Satisfied w/ Your Partner In 4 Easy StepsAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!It's story time y'all! I made someone uncomfortable, but what's new? Sexual dissatisfaction is one of the most common things people come to me about. It breaks my heart knowing that there are so many couples whose sexual needs aren't being met because they don't have the tools or confidence to ask for what they desire. This week I'm coming at ya with a solo episode to talk about how to improve sexual intimacy with yo...2021-07-0221 minMating and RelatingSugar Daddies, Sugar Lifestyle, Ethical Non-Monogamy & Sexual Liberation w/ Sugar Baby, Ellie RaeAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Being a Sugar Baby is one of the many taboo facets of this world that exists, but let’s recognize that it is also very much in demand. A recent statistic from one of the top sugar baby sites, Seeking Arrangements, shows that there are around 8 million sugar baby users world wide-wide-wide…This obviously peaks my interest and I am so excited to be joined today by seasoned Sugar Baby & Host of the Sugar Pussy Podcast, miss Ellie Rae....2021-06-251h 02Mating and RelatingHeart-Centered Healing for the Masculine w/ Men’s Intimacy Initiatress Allison CruzAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Attention All Penis Owners! This yummy and juicy convo with Men's Intimacy Coach, Allison Cruz, will have you ready to let down your guards, dearmore your hearts and come back home to your body and love your cocks in the most heart-centered way! Allison shares her work as a self-proclaimed Men's Intimacy Initiatress + what catapulted her into this line of work for healing the masculine. We talk about the benefits of Breath Work, Shadow Work and what...2021-06-181h 00Mating and RelatingEmbracing Your Sexuality and Prioritizing Your Sexual PleasureAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Embracing your sexuality is the greatest gift you could give yourself. Showing up in this world in your power, that which sexual energy is inarguably attached too, is one of the greatest feelings. Because you get to come home to yourself in the most intimate way. And when we do that we drip with confidence. Have you ever just looked at someone and you’re like...they just look like sex. I guarantee they are standing so strong in th...2021-06-1119 minMating and RelatingHow Sex-Ed Informs Sexual Experiences, Sexual Self-Acceptance, Breath Work & Body Gratitude w/ Haley NavarroAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode! Guest Host, Haley Navarro, joins me this week on Sexy, Soulful, Confidence.We discuss:Her becoming a breath work facilitator & it's healing and wellness benefits.Her lack of sex education & how that shaped her sexual experiencesHow competing in body competitions affected her self-esteemHow having a positive body image impacts becoming a sexual beingFinding out more about her kinks... and a few other fun bits! Get social w...2021-06-0445 minMating and RelatingUpdates & Happy International Masturbation Day!Ask Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!There have been a few changes happening with the podcast, my social media & my life in general. I didn't want to keep y'all in the dark any longer. We've got a New Name, New Look, New Collaborations & Semi-New Content! It's also the end of Masturbation May and I'm finally releasing the episode I should have released on the 1st of the month. But how fitting that it came out on International Masturbation Day!? Love that! ...2021-05-2833 min
Sugar PussyEp 28: TOO OLD TO GET A SUGAR DADDY? BUTT STUFF, SAFE SUBMISSION, AND MONOGAMY (WITH, BRIANNA) PT 1Wait...what did Ellie do last weekend?! Ellie talks butt stuff, sugar dating, healthy relationships, monogamy, and safe submission this week with Brianna Endrina, a Love, Sex, and Relationship Coach. Here this part one of the interview and tune in next week for part two, where Ellie and Brianna talk about how to talk about a history of sex work with new partners, one-night stands, and more...Follow Brianna on IG: @briannaendrinaFollow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarraeFollow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod
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Mating and RelatingBri & John Make A PornoAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Not really. I just really liked that title. For those of you who didn't know, I'm a married women of 7 years and have been with my S.O. for a decade overall. We celebrated our 21st birthdays together, bought our first, second & third homes together, we have two fur-kids, we've traveled the world, worked on countless projects along side each other, have grown, changed, struggled & evolved as individuals while maintaining our dynamic in the ways that are ri...2021-04-1747 min
Aligned, Embodied, and Empowered | Wellness, Nervous System Healing & Soulful Success27. Transitioning From Actress To The Sexual Wellness Space w/ Brianna EndrinaBri is your new favorite Sex, Love & Relationship Coach-to-be and Host of the So Bri Says Podcast! She’s here to refine sexuality and encourage you to be the metaphorical 'Fluffer' of your own damn life! She is married with two fur-kids and enjoys Astrology, Orange Theory Fitness & sipping Bloody Mary’s at the best brunch spots in town.In this episode, we talk about, how Bri transitioned from being an actress going into the sexual wellness space and what that was like for her and her family...and some of the hurdles that she had to go t...2021-04-1457 min
Mating and RelatingForeplay All Day!Ask Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!I wanna know what y’all think about foreplay. Cause here is the hard and semi-sad truth. When most people think of foreplay they think of a little dry humping, fingering, stroking or some oral action right before intercourse. I put out a poll on IG and I asked y’all “what is foreplay to you?” And the answers I got back were confirming that people confine foreplay to the moments right before the full on sex-making session. Because...2021-04-0218 min
Mating and RelatingWe Could All Use A Little Bit Of NumerologyAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!What is Numerology? I'm chatting with Professional Numerologist Novalee Wilder in this episode as she gives us a glimpse into the intricate esoteric world of Numerology. Diving into the basics of base numbers, numeroscopes and covering the truth behind compatibility and sexual preferences between numbers. Novalee is an actress, and artist turned professional Numerologist and writer living in Los Angeles. She's been through a whole lot of heartache and pain before finding numerology. She's been walking the...2021-03-261h 12
Mating and RelatingLet's Talk Butt StuffAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Let’s talk Butt Stuff 🍑•We’re covering ground rules, why anal play can be amazing & how to tell if you’re ready to open the back door.•Ground Rules✨- Consent is of the utmost importance! #NoMeansNo so don’t pressure! - Lube is a necessity - Clean before & after you play- Don’t worry about the “poop thing.” You’re a mature adult. 😉- G...2021-03-1953 min
Mating and RelatingYou Can Mute People IRL Too...It's Called BoundariesAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Boundaries are a form of Self-Care, Self-Love and Ultimately Self-Accpetence.Why we don’t want to set boundaries:fear rejectionfear abandonmentdon’t want to hurt anyonedon’t like to approach conflict head ondon’t want to be misunderstood or have what we say be misinterpreted we have a hard time asserting ourselves in vulnerable situationsSetting a boundary is an act of strength. You're honoring your value, your responsibilities and your needs. It does not reflect w...2021-03-1245 min
Mating and Relating6 Ways To Hit The Spot Pt.2Ask Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!So, Let’s continue with some Adult Sex Ed! The G Spot is not actually part of the female sexual anatomy. A study using ultra sound found that our G-spot is so sensitive and responds so well to stimulation because the clitoral root is located right behind the anterior or front vaginal wall, which is where the “g-spot” has been said to be located. The most popular way to stimulate the G-spot is by using two fing...2021-02-2625 min
Mating and Relating6 Ways To Hit The Spot Pt.1Ask Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Vulva owners! Did you know you’ve got 6 Pleasure Points located within your beautiful majestic pussies? Yeah I just said that. Well, let me introduce you to them and how to play your way to the most conscious & intense orgasms of your adult life. In this two part series I'm breaking down the 6 Pleasure Points of all my Vulva owners out there. Part One I’m diving into just the C-spot, because there is so much that many...2021-02-1920 min
Mating and RelatingBe The Fluffer Of Your LifeAsk Bri! Got a question? Send it over and listen out for a response during the following episode!Welcome tootsiepops! Y’all are tuning in to So Bri Says, and the first ever episode of this podcast. I’m Bri I’m your host thank you so much for being here.This episode is an intro to the vibe of this podcast, a little bit more about who I am and what this podcast is really for which is to aid in you becoming the fluffer of your own life. If you’re no...2021-02-1112 min