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Intentional Divorce InsightsDouble the Insight: Divorce Financial Planners Tackle Tough QuestionsIn this insightful episode, Leah Hadley is joined by fellow CDFA, Jacki Roessler, for a deep-dive into some of the most common and costly financial mistakes made during divorce. Drawing from decades of experience, Leah and Jacki share a wealth of knowledge relating to the financial aspect of divorce.
Whether you’re beginning the divorce process, in the thick of negotiations, or advocating for someone you care about, this episode is packed with tips and stories to help you approach financial decisions with clarity and confidence.
Key Topics Covered:
- Biggest Financial Mistakes in...
2025-08-2631 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 212: Disney Dad Exposed: How to Protect Your Kids and Your Finances During Divorce [Solo Episode]In this solo episode, Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, unpacks the psychology behind the "Disney Dad" and why his extravagant gestures aren't really about the kids. If you've ever felt frustrated, exhausted, or even questioned your worth as a parent while your ex showers the kids with trips, gifts, and treats—this episode is for you. Rhonda reveals how Disney Dad tactics often mask deeper issues like guilt, ego, or financial manipulation, and how those behaviors can quietly erode your financial future if left unchecked. She shares the tools and mindset shifts you need to reclaim your power, protect you...
2025-08-2215 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode #207: Breaking the Trauma Bond with Lisa HappIn this powerful and deeply insightful episode of Breaking the Trauma Bond with Lisa Happ , Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, sits down with divorce coach and survivor Lisa Happ to unpack the layered realities of high-conflict divorce—especially when narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and parental alienation are in play. Together, they offer transformational strategies for women navigating these emotionally charged separations, empowering them to recognize abuse, reclaim their voice, and create a safe, healing home environment for themselves and their children. Whether you're in the midst of a difficult divorce or supporting someone who is, this episode she...
2025-05-0228 min
Divorce Rich with Jacki Roessler, CDFAInvesting Myths Busted, with Melissa Fradenburg, Wealth AdvisorSend us a textCan investing outside of a bank account or CD be safe for those navigating a divorce? Tune in as we shatter the myth of high investment risk with my special guest, Melissa Fradenburg, CDFA, AIF, a seasoned wealth advisor with Antonelli Financial in Grosse Pointe, Michigan. Together, we unpack the essential strategies for maintaining your purchasing power and combating inflation through long-term investments. Learn how balancing financial safety with diversified investments can set you on the path to financial security. Let Melissa's practical advice guide you through this transformative period, ensuring your financial de...
2024-10-0327 min
Divorce Rich with Jacki Roessler, CDFAPrenup Lessons from J.Lo and Ben with Family Law Attorney, Max EmmerSend us a textIn this mini-episode, host and certified divorce financial analyst, Jacki Roessler, CDFA invites family law attorney, Max Emmer to dissect the recent buzz around high-profile divorces, such as Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck, and discuss the surprising fact that they lacked a prenup. The discussion goes beyond the celebrity world, offering practical advice for everyday people contemplating marriage. If you're thinking about tying the knot and want to make informed financial decisions, this episode is a must-listen!https://www.emmerlawplc.com/ Click here to learn more about family law attorney, Max Emmer...
2024-08-2214 min
Divorce Rich with Jacki Roessler, CDFAUnderstanding your Budget and Divorce with Jacki Roessler, CDFASend us a textJoin Jacki Roessler, CDFA in this keystone episode about the importance of creating a current and post-divorce anticipated budget. Although often forgotten or overlooked, getting on paper what you spend every month is a powerful tool that helps clients make decisions. It's one thing to say you want to keep the house and another to put that idea into concrete numbers.Resources:Click here to download Jacki's budget worksheetClick here to book a complimentary 30-minute Zoom meeting with Jacki to review your budget! https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/30min
2024-03-0210 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawUsing a Financial Specialist to Unpack Your Divorce MediationDiscover how to navigate the complexities of divorce with financial savvy and emotional intelligence as we chat with financial divorce consultant Mark Hill, CFP, CDFA, therapist Pete Roussos, MFT, and attorney Shawn Weber. This revealing conversation is packed with expert advice on the crucial role of financial specialists during divorce mediation. You'll gain an understanding of the emotional weight of assets, how to balance power dynamics, and the subtleties of informed decision-making. Our guests strip back the layers of financial negotiations, providing a clear path to a fair settlement that respects both the past and future financial health of...
2024-02-0738 min
Divorce for Wealthy WomenDeconstructing Divorce: Insights from a Certified Divorce Financial AnalystIntroduction
In this episode, we delve into the often-overlooked world of divorce and the crucial role of divorce professionals. Join us as Jonathan Satovsky, CEO and Chief Behavioral Coach of SAM, shares insights into his work with divorcing clients, focusing on supporting women through this challenging process.
1. The Importance of Attorneys in Divorce
Some people underestimate the role of attorneys in divorce proceedings.
Attorneys are vital because they have a deep understanding of the unique nuances within each state's divorce laws.
2. Guest Introduction: Jonathan Satovsky
Jonathan's impressive array of...
2023-09-1215 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 158: Is keeping the house worth it?Don't miss this episode if you're contemplating keeping your house in your divorce. Join Rhonda and Jeff Landers for this in depth conversation on keeping the house - is it a good idea? What factors should you consider? Learn what the 6-36 rule is and how it plays a pivotal part in planning for your future. Gather all of the information. Evaluate your particular situation (things are not black and white!). Get to a place where you can move forward. Do not fall for a false sense of financial security!
2023-04-1334 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawDivorce During a Financial CrisisOn this episode of The Three Wisemen of Divorce, our experts tackle a difficult but important topic: divorce during a financial crisis. Drawing on their extensive experience working with clients during periods of economic upheaval, the Wisemen share valuable insights and practical tips for navigating divorce decisions when finances are at their most precarious. From the lessons learned from the failure of Silicon Bank to strategies for protecting your assets during inflation, this episode is a must-listen for anyone going through a divorce during a financial crisis. Join us and learn from the divorce experts: Mark C. Hill, CFP®, C...
2023-04-1148 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & Law"Should Old Acquaintance be forgot": Divorce and the New YearWith the New Year come new resolutions and plans for the upcoming year. But what if your New Year's resolution is to get a divorce? Believe it or not, January is known as "divorce season" in the family law business because so many people decide to call it quits after the holidays.Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, MA, MFT, CST, psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F*, Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, talk about divorce in the New Year and things to think about before you take the plunge.*Cert...
2022-12-2740 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawSurviving the First Holidays After DivorceThe first holidays after a divorce can be tough. We call it the "Year of Firsts." It's the first Christmas, Passover, Birthday, Fourth of July, and even Super Bowl Sunday while separated. Questions abound such as:How are the holidays split in a divorce?What will Christmas after divorce be like?Should divorced parents spend holidays together?Surviving the holidays after divorce can be challenging. Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, MA, MFT, CST, psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F*, Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss legal, financial, and emotional aspects of the...
2022-11-0834 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawThe Most Dangerous Time of the Divorce In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, M.A., MFT, CST, Psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss why the first two weeks of any divorce is the most dangerous time. Learn what kinds of situations can make this the most dangerous time and learn strategies for setting boundaries and minimizing conflict.The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, MA, MFT, CST, psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F*, Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney.
2022-09-2047 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawHow to Tell the Kids About the Divorce (and How NOT to Tell the Kids!)What should we tell the kids? How much information should we share? How do we have this conversation? In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss what should and should not be shared with your children about the divorce.The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, MA, MFT, CST, psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F*, Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney.
2022-08-1633 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 125: Contemplating Divorce "Should I Stay Or Should I Go?" with Kate AnthonyRhonda talks with Podcast Host and Coach, Kate Anthony about how women can take care of themselves as they contemplate divorce. Kate tackles the difficult question: Should I stay, or should I go? About our guest, Kate Anthony: Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky ne...
2021-11-1944 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 124: The 5 Stages Of Ritual and Navigating Through ChangeClaire and Rhonda talk about rituals and how they help you move forward during any kind of transition. Tune in for their discussion of the 5 stages of ritual and how that can help you navigate through change. This episode gives practical tips that you can begin to implement into your life today! About our guest: Claire Jones is a Change Guide that supports conscious visionaries who are navigating transitional spaces in their personal or professional lives. Through bespoke rituals of intention, she guides people through transitioning into some...
2021-11-1222 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 122: The Importance Of Parenting Plans with Brian VictorOur guest today is Brian Victor, Attorney, JD, and LMFT. Brian is a family law attorney in San Diego, California focusing on the mediation of divorce, child custody, and parent plans. Brian has experience as a Family Court Counselor and brings us a unique perspective on the divorce process. He and Rhonda discuss mediation options and the importance of a good parenting plan. Connect with Brian: The Law Offices of Brian A. Victor https://brianvictorlaw.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lawofficesbrianavictor/ Instagram: @Brianav7 Twitter: @br...
2021-11-0130 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & Law"Why can't you be happy for me?": When straying spouses can't understand the pain they causeWe've seen it time and again in divorce cases. When adultery happens, sometimes the adulterer has no clue what kind of pain they are causing. It's almost like folks have blinders. While most states have "no-fault" divorce, the pain of an affair can adversely affect agreement readiness during divorce negations whether courts recognizes fault or not. In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss the psychology and emotional ramifications of adultery on divorce negotiations.The Three...
2021-10-2042 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 121: Benefits of Mediation and Communication During the Divorce Process with Amanda SingerIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Amanda Singer. Amanda is Co-Owner of West Coast Family Mediation Center. She is a Licensed Attorney, Certified Mediator, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. Amanda's key area of practice is mediation. According to Amanda, mediation is not going to work in all situations, but it does in a lot more than people realize. Some couples might agree on everything and they just might need more help with getting things done correctly. And there are those that agree on nothing. At least they have to both agree on mediation. Communication is not easy. Make...
2021-10-1521 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawI can't believe you asked for that! Reacting to insulting proposals in divorce negotiationsSometimes during a divorce mediation someone makes a proposal that is so off-base it is insulting. The temptation is to get angry, yell or even storm out of the room. But maybe there is a better approach. In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss what happens when someone makes a crazy or even insulting proposal during a divorce negotiation.The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consult...
2021-10-1442 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 120:Help Your Kids Manage Their Money with Gregg MursetIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Gregg Murset, the CEO of BusyKid, which is the ultimate debit card and app that helps teach kids how to manage their own money. Gregg is a Certified Financial Planner and consultant who has become a great advocate for sound parenting. In this episode, Gregg shares the importance of teaching your kids the value of money and managing it. He gives us some good tips on how you could help your kids have a better future by teaching them about the financial aspects of life. According to Gregg, it's important to know...
2021-10-0820 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 119 :Things to Consider When Selling Your Home in A Divorce with Bridget PottertIn today's episode, Rhonda is joined by Bridget Potterton. Bridget is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert in the state of California. Today they discuss the things you should be considering before selling your home during your divorce. Selling your home could be a tough decision due to various reasons such as emotional attachment, but you must consider everything when making this big decision in your life. Bridget reminds today's listeners to be careful and consider everything in making your decision. Here are some of the key points to the discussion that make this a...
2021-10-0129 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 118:Debunking Divorce Myths With David IancuIn today's episode, I sat down with David Iancu of Karp & Iancu, S.C. law firm in the state of Wisconsin, to debunk some of the myths surrounding divorce. Disclaimer! The discussion that we had pertains specifically to the laws on divorce in the State of Wisconsin. What we discussed may not apply to you as each state has its own laws pertaining to this matter. Nevertheless, I am encouraging you to listen to our discussion because there might be things that you didn't initially consider that could be touched upon here. Right off the...
2021-09-2430 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 117:Other Ways to Get a Divorce with Nicole Cheri OdenFor today's episode, Rhonda is joined by Nicole Cheri Oden. Nicole is an attorney licensed in the State of California for almost 10 years with her own virtual law practice. Today they will discuss the various options when going through a divorce. Litigation divorce isn't the only way and being aware of these options can help families minimize the emotional stress and costs during a difficult time. Taking a step back to review the emotional climate between the two parties can eventually help smoothen the journey through divorce. Nicole sternly reminds today's listeners that divorces don't necessarily need...
2021-09-1739 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawDivorce and Real EstateThe Three Wisemen of Divorce discuss the strange COVID influenced real estate market and how it impacts the decisions people in their divorce. Wisemen, financial divorce advisor Mark Hill, CFP, CDFA, psychologist Scott Weiner, J.D., Ph.D. and attorney Shawn Weber, CLS-F chat with realtor and Weber Dispute Resolution mediator Robert Flynn, J.D., SRES. For more information about Robert Flynn's real estate business, visit https://fairwayresidential.com/agents/robert-flynn/. To inquire about his mediation practice work with Weber Dispute Resolution, visit https://weberdisputeresolution.com/our-mediators/.The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hil...
2021-09-0829 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 116: Women, Money and the Mindset Around it with Ariel KopacIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Ariel Kopac, the founder and owner of Harness Your Hindrance. They talk about money and the mindsets that keep us stuck. We all experience fears around money, and that fear is heightened when there is a significant life change, especially divorce. Knowing that you can call out the fear, face it, and not be manipulated by it, you embrace the power you have. We can be manipulated by fear, or we can manipulate our fear. The choice is ours. Women going through divorce need to know that they have the power to choose.
2021-08-0632 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 115: Life After Divorce with Elizabeth KayIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Elizabeth Kay, the Morning Show host on 99.1 The Mix and podcast host of "50 Shades of Kay". Elizabeth talks about her divorce process, the things she did, and the things she wished she did differently. She also talks about her life after divorce. According to her, you are going to have tough days, even after the divorce, because you need the time to mourn your relationship. Elizabeth also shares about her life in a blended family and gives some excellent co-parenting tips. She highly recommends the book The Happy Stepmother by Rachelle Katz, which is...
2021-07-3028 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 114: Financial Independence with Amee QuiriconiIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Amee Quiriconi. Amee is an advocate, business consultant, speaker, author, and the owner of Activity Girl, LLC. Amee has been divorced twice and has learned valuable lessons from each experience. According to Amee, divorce is emotional. We have to find space in our divorce process to breathe, to calm down, and to come back to the really hard decisions that we have to make when we are not amplified, and elevated, stressed down, and depressed. Here are some of her thoughts and recommendations: Support system is invaluable. It is...
2021-07-2343 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 113: Mediation with Dan ExnerIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Attorney Dan Exner, Family Law and Divorce Lawyer, and the Founder of Exner Legal, LLC. They talk about mediation. There are some misperceptions about mediation. Mediation is not an alternative to the divorce process. And mediator is not an attorney that's there to advise people. Mediators are not supposed to give you any kind of direction - their role is either to find the middle ground or to figure out where there is none. The one thing Dan wants you to know is: You need to be empowered with as...
2021-06-1834 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 112: Prepare, Plan, Investigate and Know Your Facts with Ilyssa PanitzIn this episode, Rhonda welcomes Ilyssa Panitz, a Divorce Journalist and Columnist. According to Ilyssa, too many times women act on emotions, and then when faced with a barrage of questions about money, finances, marital residence, and expenses, they come up short by not having any of the answers. It is crucial, vital, and imperative that women do their homework before serving their husbands with divorce papers. Ilyssa's message for you today is: You are going to be OK. You are going to land on your feet. You are going to survive and thrive. Here...
2021-06-1130 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 111: Healing from Trauma of Divorce with Dr. Elizabeth CohenIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, a clinical psychologist and the Divorce Doctor. She is the author of the book Light on the Other Side of Divorce. In this episode, Dr. Cohen shares about the trauma of divorce and healing from that trauma, and she gives some really good tips on how to process the anger. According to Dr. Elizabeth, your experience matters. And the only person you can change is you. Her message for you today is: You are immensely brave, you are immensely courageous, you are strong beyond measure. Here are...
2021-06-0421 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 110: Your Own Personal Crisis Management Team with Rebecca Stern KaufmanIn this episode Rhonda introduces Rebecca Stern Kaufman, Founder of Pearl Mediation Group, LLC. Rebecca is a divorce mediator that specializes in working with families that have children with special needs, and she is also a special education advocate for those parents. According to Rebecca, whether you're experiencing a divorce, separation, or you have a child with any kind of behavioral, developmental or educational issue, it's a crisis, it is something you did not expect. In that moment of crisis, you're not going to make the best decisions. You need a team of professionals, people who can...
2021-05-2831 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 109: Listen to Your Body with Jasmin CaviezelIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Jasmin Caviezel, Personal Trainer and Menstrual Cycle Coach. They talk about the four cycle phases and what happens during the phases with hormones and energy changes. Jasmin's message for you today is: Listening to your body is always the best thing to do. Keep track your changes. Journaling is great way to start for anyone that is new to this. The My Flow App may help you track your cycle and gives you some useful tips. Here are some of Jasmin's tips: Women in menopause still can feel those...
2021-05-2121 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 108: Parenting Aspect of the Divorce Process with Kristin BelkoferIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Kristin Belkofer, a mental health professional, and a Founder and Clinical Director of CLARA Healing Institute. They talk about the parenting aspect of the divorce process and therapeutic strategies for working with children. According to Kristin, if communication and healthy confrontation is a problem in marriage, it is going to be a problem in the coparenting relationship. Her message to you today is: This is just a chapter of not only your story but of your family's story. And remember that kids are extremely resilient. Here are some of Kristin's...
2021-05-1446 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawGood Remarriage: How not to make the same mistakes you made in your last marriage.So, you survived the process of divorcing your ex. Now you want to remarry. How do you avoid repeating same mistakes you made the first time around? In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss how to start the next relationship on the right foot. The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, MA, MFT, CST, psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F*, Family Law Mediator and Divorce...
2021-05-1236 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 107: Answering Questions and Starting Over with Jess CoenenIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Jessica Coenen, Founder and CEO of La Belle Creative. Jess shares her story of being divorced twice, left almost homeless, without an income, and full of questions like: Who am I? And then starting over, answering those questions and building the new story for herself. Here are some of her encouragements: This is you new life and fresh start. And that is scary as hell because you don't know what's around the corner. What do you fantasize about? What are your biggest dreams? Even if you have to go to...
2021-05-0720 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawFinancial DisclosuresFinancial Disclosures are necessary in every divorce. While the process can be tedious, divorcing parties need to do the financial disclosures truthfully and thoroughly. We know that money can mean a lot of different things to different people. In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, chat about the importance of the financial disclosures and the emotional and legal challenges they raise.The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce...
2021-05-0434 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawDivorce Negotiation and Thinking Outside the BoxIt's very easy to get stuck in a certain way of approaching things, especially during the challenges of a divorce negotiation. In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss how creative thinking by "thinking outside the box" can lead to better and happier outcomes.The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, MA, MFT, CST, psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F*, Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attor...
2021-04-3033 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 106: Trauma, PTSD, Faith and Courage with Christine BannisterOn this episode Rhonda welcomes Christine Bannister, a Courage Coach, mom of two, and a full-time Dispatch Supervisor for 911 center. Christine shares about her own experience of raising children as a single mom, building her career in emergency services, and PTSD as a result of being overloaded and not dealing with the trauma of divorce. Christine's message for those who are going through divorce is: This is not the end of you. There is hope. As you progress, and move through the trauma, and start dealing with things, you continue to find yourself and discover who you...
2021-04-3025 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawThe Multi-dimensional Aspects of the Marital HomeOriginally recorded on March 8, 2023, the Three Wisemen sit down with Massachusetts Attorney and Mediator Beth Aarons, JD, MSW to discuss the multi-dimensional aspects of the marital home and how it hits the emotional, legal and financial aspects of a divorce. The Three Wisemen of Divorce are Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney.The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, MA, MFT, CST, psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F...
2021-04-2732 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 105: Authenticity and Balance with Jessica Lucchesi MoylanIn this episode Rhonda welcomes her friend Jessica Lucchesi Moylan, health and wellness expert, a mom of three daughters and recently divorced after 25 years of marriage. Jessica shares her insight and encouragement with you, and her message for you today is: Tack your head, your heart and your gut in the alignment. According to Jessica, divorce is like a bad dream, but she'd rather be alone than lonely with somebody else. Here are some of Jessica's suggestions for those women contemplating divorce: Start to journal – What do I want? What do I want out of...
2021-04-2334 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 104: You Can Have a Great Life on the Other Side with Lisa MackIn this episode Rhonda talks to Lisa Mack, an independent senior sales director, and a Cadillac driver. Lisa shares about her experience when she was going through divorce after four years of marriage, starting her business and building credit ratings. For a long time, she found comfort in her favorite Bible verse from Jeremiah 29:11, and it proved true in her life. According to Lisa, the overall thing is: You can do it. You can make it through. You really can come through on the other side even better than you could've even imagine. Here are...
2021-04-1635 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawPrenups, Postnups and Pillow TalkNeed to get a prenup? What about a postnuptial agreement after your already married? Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss why formal marital agreements can be good and why pillow talk agreements don't count. The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, MA, MFT, CST, psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F*, Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney.
2021-04-1443 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 103: Find Your Value and Set Your Goals with Leslie VanDorfIn this special episode Rhonda welcomes her friend Leslie who shares her own experience with divorce. ____________________ Our host of Divorce Conversations for Women Podcast is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA® Rhonda Noordyk's relentless pursuit of financial justice for women going through divorce drove her to leave the financial industry in 2014 to open The Women's Financial Wellness Center. She was in search of a better way. She used her knowledge, passion, and experience to build a leading-edge business model. The intention was to create a business that provided a safe place for women - especially tho...
2021-04-0936 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 102: Special Episode with Kim RuefIn this special episode Rhonda welcomes Kim Ruef, the owner of TRUE Tax & Accounting. Rhonda and Kim discuss Tax concerns issues, such as the extended filing date, child tax credits, the filing married versus single, how to handle an uncooperative spouse and claiming Head of household. According to Kim, the key is to be educated. Contact Information Kim Ruef Website | LinkedIn | (608) 218-6547 kim@trueconsultingllc.net ____________________ Our host of Divorce Conversations for Women Podcast is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA® Rhonda Noordyk's relentless pursuit of fin...
2021-04-0729 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 101: Taking Back Control Over Your Body with Stephanie ShawIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Stephanie Shaw, the founder of Leigh & Ollie. Stephanie is a health and wellness coach and a Certified Holistic Nutritionist and Nutrition Strategist. According to Stephanie, you need to look at the bigger picture, not just how to lose weight. Here are some of her tips: Meal prepping – make sure that your metabolism maintains consistency throughout the day and that you are getting good carbohydrates, fats, protein. You want to make sure that you're eating that balanced diet. If you look at your cycle, the four different phases of your cycle, each of...
2021-04-0223 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 100: Resistance to Change with Barbara HusonIn this episode Rhonda welcomes Barbara Huson. Barbara is the leading authority on women, wealth and power. Barbara shares several tips on how to change our mindset and deal with that resistance that keeps us from making that change. The ideal way to work with resistance is to explore it – to ask yourself some really deep questions and think it through: what am I afraid of; why am I afraid…. When you look at your resistance and you explore it, it is amazing what happens. It's quite simple to rewire for wealth. It's only three steps: reco...
2021-03-2620 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 099: Asking the Right Questions with Kimberly WarnerIn this episode Rhonda welcomes her friend and a fellow podcaster Kimberly Warner. Kimberly shares about her experience of going through divorce after 19 years of marriage, dealing with attorneys and the importance of asking the right questions, even if your process is amicable. Here are some of Kimberly's thoughts on the subject: It does take time, and I think you have to do something for yourself. Pick up a new hobby, or a new habit, or something that you really want to do to start healing. You have to be authentic and honest with yourself and...
2021-03-1925 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 098: Financial Therapy with Nathan AstleOn this episode Rhonda introduces Nathan Astle, the founder of Relational Money LLC. Rhonda and Nathan talk about financial therapy, the goal of which is to change the way people think, feel, and behave with money. Through several examples and exercises, Nathan shares where and how financial therapy can make that change and increase the person's wellbeing. According to Nathan, money is emotional. If financial wellness is difficult for you in the process of a divorce there are reasons behind it, and it can be a lot of different things, like your family, or your relationship with...
2021-03-1227 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 097: Estate Planning with Dera Johnsen-TracyOn this episode Rhonda talks to Dera Johnsen-Tracy, an Estate Planning Attorney and a partner at Horn & Johnsen SC. Dera law firm, about the importance of Estate planning. Dera's message for us today is: Getting started on your Estate plan, or even getting a plan in place, gives you a sense of control. You can decide, even if your divorce is not final yet, who is going to make financial decisions for you if you cannot do that for yourself; your healthcare decisions; who is going to plan your funeral… Here are some of Dera's re...
2021-03-0526 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawFinding Fault in the "No-Fault" DivorceMost jurisdictions in the United States embrace the concept of so-called "no-fault divorce". It makes sense for the Court. No Judge wants to involve themselves in deciding who is a fault when a marriage fails. It's a recipe for a soap opera reality TV proceeding. So the divorce for "irreconcilable differences" often makes the most sense. But some folks can't walk away from the idea of blaming someone for the demise of the marriage. This week, the Three Wisemen of Divorce discuss what to do when a party to a divorce insists on assigning blame even in the no-fault divorce...
2021-03-0340 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 096: Heal and Honor the Place You're in with Rachel O'ConnellOn this episode Rhonda talks to Rachel O'Connell, founder and CEO of Pinnacle Parent and Divorced Family Coach about the choices that make a difference in life and parenting. Rachel's message today for our listeners is: You will get through it; you are going to be OK, and you will probably be better than you could even imagine. Here are some of her recommendations: Accept and own the choices you have made, and you'll be able to grow and move through them and make different choices in the future. Everything starts with the parents. We have...
2021-02-2630 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 095: Divorce and Taxes with Jason JendrachIn this episode Rhonda talks to Jason Jendrach, a CPA and owner of Jendrach Dobogai Lindseth inc., about the importance of having right information regarding finances, especially while going through divorce. Our guest shared some important information about debts, bad tax issues, MSA, innocent spouse, how to get copies from IRS, tax refund splitting, tax table changes and business valuation. Here are some of his recommendations: Do not be afraid to ask questions. Do not hesitate and reach out, it is to your benefit. The more planning and the more you can put in on the...
2021-02-1936 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawThe Flowers are Dead: When Valentine's Day Leads to DivorceSometimes Valentine's Day, a day supposedly to express love, can be the very catalyst that leads to the final decision to divorce. Sometimes these annual celebrations become triggering to people. The Three Wisemen of Divorce discuss the post-Valentine's Day divorce surge and the relationship psychology that seem to attend such important days. Is it the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back? The final break in the dike? Divorce Wisemen Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, talk it out.The Thre...
2021-02-1530 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 094: Leading Full Emotionally Intelligent Lives with Paula RauenbuehlerIn this episode Rhonda talks to Paula Rauenbuehler, an International Coaching Federation Certified Associate Coach, about Emotional intelligence. Paula shared about emotional intelligence assessment, self-awareness, mindset and dealing with emotions in a stressful situation, such as divorce. Emotional intelligence assessment is behavioral in nature – it is about where are you right now, where do you want to go, and what behaviors are needed in order for you to get there. Here are some of her recommendations: Self-awareness is about finding out what is behind the emotion, what caused the reaction. Take time to see what's really go...
2021-02-1224 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 093: Financial College Planning with Vicki VollweilerIn this episode Rhonda talks to Vicki Vollweiler, the Founder of College Financial Prep, about plans and strategies on saving money on the cost of college when parents are separated or divorced. According to Vicki, it is possible to save money on the cost of college, but it takes some planning and strategizing. She talks about developing a college list, merit and need based scholarships, filling financial aid forms, filling appeals due to separation and divorce, custodial parents, and student loans. Vicki recommends to start developing a college list by high school sophomore/junior year...
2021-02-0528 min
The Three Wisemen of Divorce: Money, Psych & LawWhat to do if one spouse wants a divorce and the other doesn'tIt is rare that both spouses mutually agreed that a divorce should happen. Usually, there is a "leavor" and a "leavee". What do you do if you want a divorce and the other person doesn't want to "grant" the divorce? This week, Divorce Wisemen Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss letting the myriad of issues that occur when one spouse wants out and the other won't leave.The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, C...
2021-02-0349 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 092: Be Your Best Self with Shannon VickIn this episode Rhonda talks to Shannon Vick, Personal Trainer and the Owner of Iron Fist Fitness, about fitness and taking care of your body in order to stay healthy and ready for the challenges throughout the stressful period of divorce. Shannon points out that working out and taking care of your body is no longer an option, it is an absolute must, just like eating, drinking water or taking a shower. His recommendations for women are: Find your reason and find out your why – Figure out what you want to do and why you want to...
2021-01-2919 minDisrupting Divorce: Conversations for WomenEpisode 091: The Power of Self Love with Chidima AnusiemIn this episode Rhonda talks to Chidima Anusiem, a Best Selling Author and a Divorce Coach, about abusive relationships and how to find true freedom and joy. Chidima shares several tips to get through a divorce You have to know you've made the best decision for yourself and your family Stand up for yourself and make your own opinion about yourself Lean into your pain. You'll find some jewels there. You don't deserve to be abused. You're already everything you want to be. Just know you're originally who you are, and you're beautiful that way...
2021-01-2226 min