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Rise: Hope and Healing Podcast
The Grief of Betrayal: Loss that No One Talks About, with Kris Cristiano (Rise Season 2, Episode 5)
Show Notes Rise: Hope and Healing After Sexual Betrayal Season 2 Episode Title: The Grief of Betrayal: Loss that No One Talks About Healing from sexual betrayal is not something you were meant to do alone. In this episode of Rise: Hope and Healing After Sexual Betrayal, host MaryAnn Michaelis, LCSW, CSAT, CPTT is joined again by Kris Cristiano, LCSW, CSAT, for an honest and grounding conversation about one of the most misunderstood aspects of betrayal trauma recovery: grief. Together, MaryAnn and Kris explore how grief is not only connected to death, but to the loss o...
2026-02-10
32 min
Rise: Hope and Healing Podcast
”Are You There for Me?” Understanding the Role of Attachment in Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal with Dr. Kevin Skinner (Season 2, Episode 4)
In this episode of Rise: Hope and Healing After Sexual Betrayal, MaryAnn Michaelis LCSW, CSAT, CPTT, welcomes back Dr. Kevin Skinner to continue Season Two’s series on rebuilding trust. Together they explore why rebuilding trust after betrayal is so complex, especially through the lens of attachment and trauma, based on Sue Johnson's core attachment question: “Are you there for me?” They explain how trust begins early in life, how it’s shaped by our experiences, and how betrayal trauma can mirror early attachment ruptures—often leading to protest, emotional overwhelm, shutdown, or feeling frozen while waiting for...
2026-02-03
27 min
Rise: Hope and Healing Podcast
Rebuilding Self-Trust After Betrayal: Empowerment, Group Healing, and Learning to Trust Yourself Again, with Jennifer Johnson (Season2, Episode 3)
Rebuilding Self-Trust After Betrayal: Empowerment, Group Healing, and Learning to Trust Yourself Again Host: MaryAnn Michaelis, LCSW, CSAT, CPTT Guest: Jennifer Johnson, CMHC, CSAT, CPTT Episode Summary Rebuilding trust after sexual betrayal begins not with your partner—but with yourself. In this deeply meaningful episode of Rise: Hope and Healing After Sexual Betrayal, host MaryAnn Michaelis, LCSW, CSAT, CPTT, sits down with her longtime mentor, colleague, and friend Jennifer Johnson, CMHC, CSAT, CPTT, for a powerful conversation on self-trust, group healing, and empowerment after betrayal trauma. Jennifer—who has worked with betr...
2026-01-27
33 min
Rise: Hope and Healing Podcast
Rebuilding Trust through BRAVING: A Journey of Hope for Betrayed Partners with Dr. Karen Strange (Season: 2, Episode #2)
Rise: Hope and Healing from Sexual Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal: BRAVING, A Journey of Hope for Betrayed Partners with Dr. Karen Strange Host: MaryAnn Michaelis, LCSW, CSAT, CPTT Guest: Dr. Karen Strange, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, CPTT Episode Summary Healing from sexual betrayal is not something anyone is meant to navigate alone. In this Season 2 episode of Rise: Hope and Healing from Sexual Betrayal, host MaryAnn Michaelis, LCSW, CSAT, CPTT, is joined by colleague and friend Dr. Karen Strange, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, CPTT, for a deeply compassionate conversation about stabilizing after betrayal and rebuilding trust—first wi...
2026-01-20
34 min
Rise: Hope and Healing Podcast
Beyond the Marble Jar: Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal with Kris Cristiano (Season: 2, Episode #1)
Episode Summary Welcome to Season Two of Rise: Hope and Healing After Sexual Betrayal. In this opening episode, host MaryAnn Michaelis, LCSW, CSAT, CPTT is joined by Kris Cristiano, LCSW, CSAT, to explore one of the most painful and misunderstood aspects of betrayal trauma: trust. After Season One’s focus on immediate survival following discovery, Season Two shifts toward rebuilding—emotionally, relationally, and internally. MaryAnn and Kris unpack why trust cannot be rushed, demanded, or restored through checklists alone, and why safety and honesty must come first. Together, they deconstruct common misconceptions about trust, love, and...
2026-01-13
34 min
Rise: Hope and Healing Podcast
Rise, Hope, and Healing After Sexual Betrayal: Closing Season One & Looking Toward Growth (Season 1: Episode #13)
Rise, Hope, and Healing After Sexual Betrayal: Closing Season One & Looking Toward Growth Summary In the final episode of Season One of Rise, Hope, and Healing After Sexual Betrayal, Dr. Kevin Skinner and licensed clinical social worker MaryAnn Michaelis reflect on the emotional journey of betrayal trauma and the foundational work required for healing. They validate the profound shock, grief, and disorientation that follow sexual betrayal, emphasizing that these reactions are normal responses to trauma—not personal failures. Throughout the conversation, they review core concepts introduced in the season, including emotional reg...
2026-01-11
23 min
Rise: Hope and Healing Podcast
When Self-Betrayal Hurts Most: Relearning to Trust Your Inner Voice After Sexual Betrayal (Season 1: Episode #12)
When Self-Betrayal Hurts Most: Relearning to Trust Your Inner Voice After Sexual Betrayal Episode Summary In this powerful episode of Rise: Hope & Healing After Sexual Betrayal, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis explore one of the most painful and complex layers of betrayal—self-betrayal. While a partner’s betrayal is deeply damaging, many betrayed partners describe an even more devastating wound: the moment they realize they stopped trusting themselves. We discuss the internal collapse that occurs when you silence your instincts, override your intuition, and ignore what your body and emotions tried to tell you. This creates deep...
2025-12-30
25 min
Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing
You Are Not Broken: Healing Betrayal Trauma and Attachment Wounds After Infidelity - with Dr. Laney Knowlton
Betrayal doesn’t just hurt—it changes how you attach, trust, and feel safe.Dr. Laney Knowlton (LMFT-S, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, CCPS, CST, CCRDS-S, RAE) joins Amie and Alana and explains how betrayal trauma impacts attachment styles, why disorganized attachment is so common after infidelity, and how healing can happen even if your relationship doesn’t survive.If you’ve ever wondered “Am I broken forever?”—this episode is for you.Together, we unpack:Why betrayal often creates disorganized attachmentHow attachment styles shift after traumaThe difference between innoce...
2025-12-30
44 min
Rebuilding Trust with Carol The Coach
Come Join Us for Unleashing Your Power Intensive with Carol the Coach
I am so honored to be with Heidi Kinsella who has created an amazing Five Day Intensive Equine Inspired Experience for Women Join a small group of women for an immersive healing experience set in a rural setting including equine assisted therapy, mindfulness, group therapy around the campfire, psychoeducation about betrayal trauma, and Soundbath healing to help work through the emotional and stress responses to trauma.We will be taking women throughthe three stages of healing including:1.safety and stabilization 2.working through anger, grief and mourning 3.restoration of self with posttraumatic growth. Heidi is using the concepts and exercises f...
2025-11-30
44 min
The Human Intimacy Podcast
From Hijacked to Healing: Navigating Triggers, Sobriety, and Repair after Sexual Betrayal (Episode #86)
From Hijacked to Healing: Navigating Triggers, Sobriety, and Repair after Sexual Betrayal Summary Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis break down what “being triggered” actually is—the body’s alarm system firing after a stimulus—and how it can hijack thinking and push couples into fight/flight/freeze. They map the reaction sequence (stimulus → thoughts/emotions → chemical surge → flooding) and explain why triggers can surface even years into recovery (Hebbian learning: “neurons that fire together wire together”). You’ll learn a practical path to move from reactivity to response: (1) name the trigger (“name it to tame it”), (2) notice wh...
2025-10-01
36 min
Psych Talk
Episode 232 | Betrayal Trauma with Dr. Jessica Lamar Psy.D, LMHC, LPC, CPTT
In today's episode of Psych Talk I chat with Dr. Jessica Lamar about betrayal trauma. Dr. Lamar defines for listeners what betrayal trauma is and how she came to specialize in working with betrayal trauma. Dr. Lamara discusses the symptoms one may experience with betrayal trauma, as well as impacts of betrayal trauma, both on the individual experiencing it and their relationship with the person who betrayed them. Further, we discuss sexual bereavement and disenfranchised grief in the context of betrayal trauma. We end the episode by discussing some ways individuals can cope with betrayal trauma, as well as...
2025-06-23
44 min
Living God's Light
Healing the Hidden Struggle: Therapy, Trauma & Spiritual Growth | Colby Pomeroy, LMFT CSAT
In this powerful episode of Living God’s Light, Vinney, Lynn & Alyssa welcome therapist Colby Pomeroy, LMFT, CSAT, to explore the deeply misunderstood topic of a hidden addiction—and how true healing begins when we stop hiding and start connecting with the divine light within us.Colby shares groundbreaking insights from his work as a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, explaining how Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy reveals that “there are no bad parts, only wounded ones.” The LGL Team talks about the real roots of addiction, the destructive force of shame, and how spirituality is not separate from the...
2025-05-25
50 min
WILDCIDE
Betrayal Trauma with Dr. Jessica Lamar
Last interview, we sat down with Tamara Cooper to discuss compulsive sexual behavior. The question remained: what happens to the partners after betrayal? So this week, we sit down with Jessica Lamar, CPTT (Certified Partner Trauma Therapist) for an eye-opening conversation on betrayal trauma—the profound impact of infidelity and sex addiction on partners. Jessica brings years of clinical expertise to the table as we unpack the difference between sex addiction and infidelity, explore the trauma responses that often follow discovery, and discuss what healing actually looks like. If you've ever wondered how to support someone reeling from betrayal—or h...
2025-05-23
1h 06
Restored 2 More
The Art of Embracing Anger and Processing it in Healthy Ways with Erin Stretar CSAT, CPTT
In this episode, hosts Clint and Charity engage in an insightful conversation with Erin Stretar, a skilled therapist from Ohio who holds both CSAT (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist) and CPTT (Certified Partner Trauma Therapist) credentials. This discussion dives deep into the often-ignored feelings of anger that betrayed spouses experience during their recovery journeys.Erin paints a vivid picture of the two common responses a betrayed spouse may have toward their anger. For some, this powerful emotion serves as a strategy for protection, providing a false sense of control and safety and an attempt at balancing the power...
2025-03-11
38 min
The Human Intimacy Podcast
Finding the Right Support: How to Get Help After Betrayal and Addiction (Episode #56)
Finding the Right Support: How to Get Help After Betrayal and Addiction In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis discuss the crucial topic of seeking help after experiencing sexual betrayal, addiction, or trauma. They explore the different types of support available—family, friends, support groups, sponsors, therapy, and coaching—highlighting the importance of finding the right kind of help for each individual’s healing journey. Dr. Skinner shares research on the effectiveness of various support systems, emphasizing that meaningful support significantly improves recovery outcomes. MaryAnn adds insig...
2025-03-05
45 min
Hey Tabi!
What He’s NOT Telling You: The Truth About Therapeutic Disclosure with Expert Dan Drake
Welcome to Hey Tabi! Many survivors and betrayed partners have been ambushed with what they were told was a therapeutic disclosure of their partner's problematic sexual behavior or addiction. What actually happened was not therapeutic, was not a full disclosure, and left the partner more traumatized. In this episode, I sit down with Dan Drake, LMFT, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, CCPS-S, a leading expert in sex addiction recovery and therapeutic disclosure. We dive into what therapeutic disclosure should actually look like, especially for betrayed partners.Topics we cover:✅ Wha...
2025-02-03
41 min
Therapists' Take with Carrie and Josh
Episode 48: On Climate Anxiety | Mary Scruggs (guest therapist)
In this episode of Therapists' Take, we explore the growing phenomenon of climate anxiety and how therapy can offer hope and healing in the face of environmental uncertainty. Mary Scruggs of Family Solutions Counseling joins us to discuss the emotional toll of climate change and share strategies for managing eco-anxiety. We’ll cover key aspects of this timely issue, including understanding climate anxiety, the impact of environmental stress on mental health, therapeutic tools to address eco-distress, and how to foster hope and resilience in uncertain times. Whether you’re personally feeling the weight of c...
2025-01-28
35 min
SHIFT with Blake Mallen
From Enthusiasm to Impact: The Frameworks That Fuel Success with Betsey Bishop
Blake Mallen welcomes Senior Executive Director and Founding Leader Betsey Bishop to the SHIFT podcast. In this can't-miss episode, Betsey shares her inspiring 23-year journey of building an award-winning team, mastering leadership and redefining what it means to empower others. From overcoming challenges as a pioneer to embracing the golden age of selling, she reveals the strategies that drive lasting success. Tune in to uncover her insights on consistency, persistence and the art of asking powerful questions to unlock potential and create meaningful impact. What you'll learn: Demystifying Sales: Identifying what people want an...
2025-01-06
1h 01
Navigating Betrayal
Healing in High Gear: Unlocking the Power of Intensives with Tina Wehner
Are you ready to supercharge your healing journey? Join us for an exclusive webinar with Tina Wehner, MTSC, LCMHCS, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, CCBRT, CHFP where we’ll explore how therapeutic and coaching intensives can help you break through barriers, process pain, and reclaim your power.Tina Wehner is the President and Executive Director of Hope & Freedom Counseling Services in Charlotte, North Carolina. She is also the Founder of The Intensive Method, an online course designed to help counselors and coaches develop and launch intensives. A Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor, Tina sp...
2025-01-03
54 min
The Human Intimacy Podcast
Navigating the Early Stages of Sexual Betrayal Trauma: Understanding, Healing, and Support (Podcast #34)
Navigating the Early Stages of Sexual Betrayal Trauma: Understanding, Healing, and Support In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and his colleague MaryAnn Michaelis delve into the emotional and psychological impacts that arise immediately after discovering a partner's sexual betrayal. The conversation centers on the shock and disorientation many betrayed partners experience, and the varied ways they respond—either by isolating themselves or sharing their pain publicly. Dr. Skinner and MaryAnn emphasize the importance of recognizing and addressing betrayal trauma, providing validation for those suffering from overwhelming emotions such as co...
2024-10-02
46 min
Theories of Everything with Curt Jaimungal
Retired Off Apple Stock Then Revolutionized Physics Living in Hawaii | Garrett Lisi
Garrett Lisi, a theoretical physicist and surfer, discusses his Exceptionally Simple Theory of Everything based on the E8 Lie group and its implications for fundamental forces and particles. The conversation also explores spinors, triality, and the challenges of unifying physics outside academia.- 00:00 - Intro- 01:24 - Garrett’s Ted Talk and Background- 08:36 - Mystery of Spinors- 10:13 - Garrett Poses a Physical Problem- 12:22 - String Theorists- 23:48 - Triality- 26:13 - Garrett’s Top Points in His Talk- 28:42 - “String Theory’s the Only Game in Town”- 32:10...
2024-09-25
1h 53
Theories of Everything with Curt Jaimungal
Retired Off Apple Stock Then Revolutionized Physics Living in Hawaii | Garrett Lisi
Garrett Lisi, a theoretical physicist and surfer, discusses his Exceptionally Simple Theory of Everything based on the E8 Lie group and its implications for fundamental forces and particles. The conversation also explores spinors, triality, and the challenges of unifying physics outside academia.- 00:00 - Intro- 01:24 - Garrett’s Ted Talk and Background- 08:36 - Mystery of Spinors- 10:13 - Garrett Poses a Physical Problem- 12:22 - String Theorists- 23:48 - Triality- 26:13 - Garrett’s Top Points in His Talk- 28:42 - “String Theory’s the Only Game in Town”- 32:10...
2024-09-25
1h 53
The Mentally Shredded Show
Life Healing Counseling with Michelle Holleman
In this episode, we sit down with Michelle Holleman, Owner & Clinical Director of Life Healing Counseling, and one of our esteemed clinical partners. Michelle is an experienced Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist (LCAS), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), Certified Multi-Addiction Therapist in Tech/Internet and Gaming (CMAT), and is trained in EMDR therapy. Michelle specializes in treating sex/pornography addictions, betrayed partners, tech/internet/gaming addictions, chemical addictions, trauma, and enmeshed relationships. Through her trauma-focused approach, Michelle helps individuals, couples, and families navigate the complex emotional and relational challenges tied...
2024-09-25
59 min
Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women
Episode #180: The Deadly Duo - Money & Sex with Dr. Sheri Keffer
[Warning: This episode may be triggering for some, be gentle with yourself and take breaks while listening, or pass on listening until you're ready. It is not meant for children's ears.) Rhonda sits down with Marriage and Family Therapist, Dr. Sheri Keffer of the Brave One Community to discuss sexual deception and betrayal and how that intersects and affects your finances. Here are some highlights of what they cover: What is sexual acting out? What should you be doing if you feel your spouse is...
2024-03-22
49 min
Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal
#44 Couples in Recovery- Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith
This episode highlights the journey of Joanna and Matthew Raabsmith, professionals in the field of relationships and intimacy. Joanna, with her background as an LMFT, CPTT, and CCPS, and Matthew, as a PCC, CPC, both bring a wealth of expertise to their work. They co-authored the book "Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time," offering insights and strategies for cultivating deep, lasting connections in relationships. Listeners interested in delving deeper into their work can explore their book, available for purchase at https://intimacypyramid.com/. Additionally, those looking to engage directly...
2024-03-14
37 min
One Day You'll Thank Me
138 - Guest Expert - Michelle Holleman- Understanding Betrayal Trauma
Cast:Dr. Tara Egan - hostMeredith Eaton - co-hostMichelle Holleman - guest expert~Last Episode of Season 7~Today Tara and co-host Meredith are super excited to welcome Michelle Holleman. Michelle is a licensed psychotherapist and the founder and Clinical Director of Life Healing Counseling, located in Charlotte, NC. Michelle Holleman also holds specializations as:- Clinical Addictions Specialist (LCAS) – Certified Sex Addictions Therapist (CSAT)– Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT) – Certified Multi-Addiction Therapist (CMAT) in Tech and...
2024-02-28
1h 00
The Built Different Podcast with Dr. Zach Clinton
False Lovers: Overcoming the Grip of Sexual Sin, Addiction, and Shame with Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist, Jim Cress, Ep. 161
There’s no question that sexual sin is something that many struggle with at some point throughout their life. Pornography, premarital sex, extra-marital affairs - they have unfortunately and heart breakingly become too common in our culture and society today. A recent statistic recently projected over 30 million people struggle with problematic sexual behavior, if not addiction - and another stat revealed that over 10 million youth and adolescents regularly view pornography online. Now we understand this is a sensitive topic, but one that needs to be further discussed if we are going to experience freedom from it’s bondage in orde...
2024-02-20
33 min
Women Who Roar
Therapist Falls Prey to Narcissist
This episode features Chelsey Brooke Cole LPC-MHSP, CPTT, RPT, Psychotherapist, Certified Partner Trauma Therapist, Registered Play Therapist, Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 1 Certified, Speaker, Author & Coach, who had one too many personal experiences with narcissists before becoming a NARCISSIST EXPERT. Chelsey walks us through what a narcissist is, the 6 different types of narcissism, the ingredients of narcissistic abuse, what motivates narcissists, and most importantly how to spot the signs of a narcissistic relationship. You can learn more about Chelsey by visiting her website:chelseybrookecole.comFollowing her on Instagram: https://instagram.com/chelseybrookecole?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==And buying her best-selling book: If Only I'd Known: H...
2023-10-02
37 min
A Deeper Conversation
Beyond Betrayal: A Deeper Conversation with Mrs. Abby Delouya
In this episode, I talk to Abby Delouya, RMFT-CCC, CPTT, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in trauma and addiction. In this episode, we talk about marriage in tough circumstances, coming back from betrayal, and overcoming adversity. Abby can be found at abbydelouya.com and also through Ray of Hope - rayofhopeus.org. I can be reached at adeeperconversation120@gmail.com.
2023-06-27
58 min
Boom Boom .... vent your thoughts
TRUNK MONKEY not TRUMP MONKEY(google trunk monkey)listen with my guests,Jake the snake as well guest named Jake as well in on CHAT GPT and ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE, PSYCHEDELICS ,RON JEREMY
Listen in to my very interesting guests as we discuss these topics.Topics include Trump indictment, Gun Control in USA,CHAT CPTT, psychedelic drugs for medical use clinical trials, Ron Jeremy, scratch and sniff stamps , closing statements on upcoming sports.Email for comments on past episodes as well if your interested in a topic on future episodes .Your privacy will be respected and anonymous if you choose .boomboom456@telus.net
2023-04-08
1h 20
The Places Between
Ep 67. Unpacking Emotional Safety with Therapist Alex A. Avila
Whether it’s in everyday friendships or colleagues that you interact with or a significant other, for some of you be it your spouse we all can agree the relationships we hold in life are important. Pretty sure even the last 24 hours of life I had to interact with a number of people from best friends to family and operating in a manner of health and wholeness is definitely a desire of mine. Hopefully it is for you too. Today I invited a friend of mine on The Places Between to share a bit from his point of view as a t...
2022-10-13
41 min
Husband Material
Healing From Sexual Betrayal (with Dr. Sheri Keffer)
What is intimate deception betrayal trauma? Why is it so hard for partners of porn users to get help? When it comes to healing, what (doesn't) work? Dr. Sheri Keffer explains how porn impacts partners—and more importantly, what we can do about it. She even guides you on how to share this episode with your wife or girlfriend without triggering her. If you're married, your wife will love hearing from Dr. Sheri!Dr. Sheri Keffer is the author of Intimate Deception (paid link) and a regular cohost of New Life Live! with an audience of more th...
2022-09-12
53 min
Help Them Heal-with Carol the Coach
Come Join Us for Unleashing Your Power Intensive with Carol the Coach
I am so honored to be with Heidi Kinsella who has created an amazing Five Day Intensive Equine Inspired Experience for Women Join a small group of women for an immersive healing experience set in a rural setting including equine assisted therapy, mindfulness, group therapy around the campfire, psychoeducation about betrayal trauma, and Soundbath healing to help work through the emotional and stress responses to trauma.We will be taking women throughthe three stages of healing including:1.safety and stabilization 2.working through anger, grief and mourning 3.restoration of self with posttraumatic growth. Heidi is using the concepts and exercises from U...
2022-05-26
45 min
The Covenant Eyes Podcast
Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal with Special Guest Dr. Sheri Keffer
Many women are living with wounds of sexual betrayal, and you may not even know it. What does that look like in day-to-day life, and how can you help?Key topics covered in this episode:Impact of lying and deception on a spouseHow church leaders can unknowingly collude with deceptionFinding a support communityStay up to date on our podcast: https://learn.covenanteyes.com/podcast-newsletter/More Information:"Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal" The first month FREE in BraveOne Community: braveone.com/covenant (C...
2022-04-28
36 min
Therapy Extended With Liza Young
Answering The Betrayed Partner's Questions with Dr. Sheri Keffer
Have you been betrayed sexually by your spouse? Do you have questions about your trauma response, why he did what he did, how to trust again, how to begin healing, what it looks like if you stay, what it looks like if you leave and more? Be encouraged as Dr. Sheri answers these questions and more! Dr. Sheri Keffer is a regular cohost of the nationally syndicated radio talk show New Life Live! with an audience of more than two million people each week. For over twenty years, she’s worked as a Doctor of Mar...
2022-03-14
1h 03
From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer
Responding to sexual offenses - Dr. Stefanie Carnes - Episode 101
In this episode I interview Dr. Stefanie Carnes, an internationally recognized expert on treating sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. We talk about the difficult subject of responding to sexual offenses. Even though sexual addiction is a serious issue, sexual offending directly violates another person and involves illegal activities. Sexual offenses can include behaviors such as eroticized rage, voyeurism of family members, revenge porn, marital rape, touching while asleep/unconscious, exhibitionism, child sexual abuse images, etc. Specifically, we discuss: The difference between addiction and offending behaviors The impact on partners and kids The necessary steps each person needs to...
2021-07-15
57 min
Skilling It!
Self-compassion: What it is. What it isn’t. Do I need it?
Do you tend to be really hard on yourself? Do you feel overwhelmed when you fail? Are you confused about the difference between self-compassion and self-esteem? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, listen to this episode of Skilling It! I’ll discuss what self-compassion is and isn’t. Where it fits in Christianity and look at a biblical perspective. We’ll dispel some myths about it and take a survey to assess our self-compassion level. Join me for a splash of self-care. Links: Mindful Self-Compassion by Kristin Ne...
2021-04-29
22 min
Pulling Curls Podcast: Pregnancy & Parenting Untangled
Preventing Porn Addiction in Teens with Stephen Moore from Dare to Connect Podcast
Teens are on screens now more than ever, but how do we make sure that they are prepared to make good choices online and keep connections with people vs just screens. Today's guest is Stephen Moore. He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who has a strong background in addiction-related treatment and program development. He is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), and as a sex addict in successful recovery himself. He owns Ascension Counseling in American Fork, Utah, a private practice which focuses on all issues related to attachment and intimacy...
2021-02-08
45 min
From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer
Toxic giving and taking in relationships - Mari Lee (part 2) - Episode 42
If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements! Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...
2019-10-17
34 min
From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer
Toxic giving and taking in relationships - Mari Lee - Episode 42
Have you broken your partner's trust and want a structured process to help you repair it? Get instant access to my 12-week online Trust Building Bootcamp and begin repairing your marriage. Illuminate listeners can get 30% off the price of the course by visiting https://www.trustbuildingacademy.com/bootcamp and entering coupon code ILLUMINATE at checkout. In this episode, I interview Mari Lee, LMFT, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, CMBAT-S on the topic of toxic giving and taking in relationships. She also wrote a helpful blog post addressing this topic here: http://www.growthcounselingservices.com/blog/2015/8/24/givers-and-takers-which-one-are-you In this...
2019-10-17
33 min
From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer
Using mindfulness to treat addiction and trauma - Mari Lee (part 1) - Episode 41
If broken trust is an issue in your relationship, download the FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust” to help you get on the right track. https://www.geoffsteurer.com/freebie For details on our Connection Plus Membership Community, please visit https://www.connectionpluscommunity.com Sign up for my FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements! Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse Connect with me on social media:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online c...
2019-10-01
40 min
From Crisis to Connection - with Geoff & Jody Steurer
Using mindfulness to treat addiction and trauma - Mari Lee - Episode 41
Have you broken your partner's trust and want to repair it? Get instant access to the 12-week online Trust Building Bootcamp and begin repairing your marriage. Illuminate listeners can get 30% off the price of the course by visiting https://www.trustbuildingacademy.com/bootcamp and entering coupon code ILLUMINATE at checkout. I interview Mari Lee, LMFT, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, CMBAT-S on the topic of how mindfulness can help improve outcomes when treating pornography/sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. In this episode, we discuss: - How she discovered the power of mindfulness i...
2019-10-01
40 min