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Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Beats, Part 2 (Women in Music feat. @splashrecordz & @msvameproductions)Welcome back to Knee Deep in Beats, Part 2 — our continued conversation with Sacramento’s very own audio engineers/producers @splashrecordz and @msvameproductions.This episode gets into:What it really looks like to be AFAB & queer in the music industryHow streaming platforms shape who “makes it”The tension between authenticity + capitalismThe renaissance of physical media (vinyl supremacy!!)How queerness shapes artistry, survival, and soundThe cutest queer wife stories you’ve ever heardK.K. Slider collabs that should exist yesterdayOur panel’s current unhinged song loops and feminist anthemsWe also talk about M...
2025-12-1050 min
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Beats, Part 1 (Women in Music feat. @splashrecordz & @msvameproductions)In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, hosts Cady Moore and Sharilyn Wester sit down with Sacramento-based producers and engineers Sam Splash and Ms. Vame (Vanessa Neves-Jackson) for a deep dive into queerness, feminism, and identity in today’s music industry.They break down what it means to be AFAB behind the boards, how queer artistry has shifted mainstream sound, and why community-centered collectives like ComposeHer are reshaping music from the inside out.You’ll hear conversations about:Overcoming misogyny in engineering and production spacesThe arti...
2025-11-261h 22
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Sesbian Lex feat. Eva Bloom @whatismybodydoingThis week, Cady and Sharilyn get knee deep in queer sex ed and are joined by Eva Bloom (@whatismybodydoing) — queer and trans late bloomer coach, inclusive sex educator, and host of Out in Bloom — for a cozy and frankly, charming, conversation about what it means to come into your queerness later in life, how to unlearn compulsory heterosexuality, and why sex ed should be way gayer.Together, they unpack:What “queer sex ed” actually means 🌈Late-blooming queerness and queer imposter syndromePleasure, play, and why scissoring is very real (and very hot)How to flirt without fee...
2025-11-121h 16
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in De-NestingWhat happens when you love your partner but living together just isn’t working? Cady and Sharilyn dive into the concept of de-nesting — choosing to live apart while staying together — and how it can reshape what commitment looks like.Cady shares her personal story of de-nesting with her husband Navarre after nearly a decade of cohabitation, revealing what led to the decision, how neurodivergence played a role, and how they maintain connection and intimacy across two homes.Later, Navarre joins for a candid conversation about how de-nesting strengthened their marriage, improved communication, and reignited appreciation for in...
2025-10-2942 min
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Non-MonogamyWelcome back to Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, your favorite GayDHD podcast hosted by Cady and Sharilyn. This week, we’re taking the scenic route through non-monogamy: how we practice it, what it means to us, and how we manage everything from jealousy to joy (and all the chaos in between).💬 In this episode, we talk about:How hierarchy, solo poly, and kitchen-table dynamics actually play out in real lifeWhat jealousy really means and how to turn it into self-knowledgeWhy communication and check-ins are the unsung heroes of healthy relationshipsHow capitalism creeps into our expectations of lo...
2025-10-151h 11
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Spooky SeasonIt’s officially spooky season, and we’re bringing the chills, laughs, and queer chaos straight to your ear holes! In this “minisode”, Cady and Sharilyn get real about their complicated relationships with horror, swap hilarious Halloween stories, and dig into why spooky season feels so special.From haunted house trauma to legendary costumes (hello, Big Naturals Gandalf!), this episode is part nostalgia trip, part queer nerd-out, and part cultural commentary. We’ll talk about what makes gothic horror so alluring, how true crime can shift from exploitative to empowering, and why D&D is the ultimate way to rec...
2025-10-0155 min
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Artistic RopeIn this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn welcome Lindy — a powerhouse in the Kansas City rope community and the foundress of the Sisterhood of Artistic Rope (SOAR). Together, we unravel the art of Shibari: its rich history, its role in queer culture, and how rope can be both sensual expression and radical empowerment.Lindy opens up about building safer, more inclusive spaces for femme-identifying folks in the rope scene, shares moving success stories from SOAR participants, and takes us behind the curtain of their newest venture blending burlesque and ro...
2025-09-171h 16
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Maasive TitsWelcome to Season 2!! In this episode, Cady and Sharilyn journey into the realm of fantasy. Together, they unpack its origins, representation, and how gender bias has shaped the genre. They tackle the Bechdel Test and shine a light on why romance deserves more respect in fantasy storytelling.The conversation celebrates under-recognized voices, highlighting the importance of diversity, strong female characters, and inclusive narratives. Along the way, Cady and Sharilyn share their own childhood and young adult favorites, reflecting on how those stories shaped their identities. They also explore the transformative role of fan fiction and small creators...
2025-09-031h 18
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Season One: A Recap EpisodeBuckle up for a season finale ride! In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, your hosts Cady and Sharilyn get personal (per usual) - talking about the chaos of moving, what they’ve learned from season one, and why community really is everything.We dig into the power of storytelling, the harm of medical misinformation, and why centering diverse voices is non-negotiable when it comes to reproductive justice and healthcare. Plus, we break down our top takeaways from the season and our silliest moments. Finally, we treat you to a little tease of what’s co...
2025-05-0858 min
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Punicillin, Part 2 feat. Guest Dr. Thalia McCann aka @supplementhalIn this episode, we finish our crucial conversation with Dr. Thalia McCann, an infectious disease specialist, about the power of trust and communication—especially for queer patients navigating the medical system. We unpack the impact of anti-science propaganda on public health and why effective science communication is more important than ever.But that’s not all—we also discuss an exciting new project aimed at educating the public about healthcare and supplements, the representation of women and marginalized communities in both medicine and literature, and the need for strong, well-rounded female characters. And because we can’t resist a...
2025-03-2452 min
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Punicillin, Part 1 feat. Guest Dr. Thalia McCann aka @supplementhalIn this episode, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with Dr. Thalia McCann, an infectious disease specialist, for a deep dive into the messy, fascinating world of public health and medicine. From the dangers of C. diff to the promise of phage therapy, they unpack the latest in infectious disease research and policy.The conversation explores the human side of healthcare - how intersectionality shapes patient experiences, the critical role of mentorship for marginalized communities, and the challenges of navigating medical systems. Dr. McCann also breaks down the importance of antimicrobial stewardship in fighting superbugs, the impact of...
2025-03-121h 20
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in a Virtual RealityIn this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn hit start on a deep dive into the intersection of gaming and identity. From childhood nostalgia to the ways video games shape self-expression, they explore how gaming serves as both an escape and a tool for self-discovery.They share personal stories about growing up with The Sims, getting lost in World of Warcraft, and navigating the evolving landscape of online gaming communities. Along the way, they unpack the impact of gender norms in gaming culture, the challenges of balancing gaming with adulthood (and even...
2025-02-261h 13
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Syphilis🎙️ Syphilis, Sex Ed, and Waffles, Oh My!—With Epidemiologist Stephanie Booth 🍁In this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with epidemiologist Stephanie Booth to unpack the alarming rise in syphilis cases across the U.S. and the urgent need for improved public health strategies—especially for LGBTQ2S+ communities. They dive into the barriers queer folks face in accessing accurate sexual health information, the importance of inclusive risk communication, and how misinformation fuels disparities in care.Beyond the science, the conversation explores the quirks of Canadian identity, th...
2025-02-121h 10
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in the PleasuresodeIn this episode of Knee Deep in the Passenger Seat, Cady and Sharilyn take a deep dive into the world of pleasure—what it means, why it matters, and the barriers that keep us from fully embracing it. From the science of how stress and guilt hijack joy to personal anecdotes about navigating purity culture and inadequate sex education, they unravel the societal layers that fuel shame around pleasure.The conversation explores the role of body image, patriarchy, and economic inequality in shaping our access to pleasure and offers practical tips for finding joy in the everyday. It...
2025-01-291h 20
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in the Trenches, Part 2 feat. Guest MJ Hetland aka @uterusnurseBuckle up for a deep dive into the highs and lows of reproductive healthcare with special guest MJ Hetland (aka @uterusnurse)! From the behind-the-scenes realities of labor and delivery nursing to the systemic challenges around abortion access and maternal mortality, we’re unpacking it all.MJ joins us to chat about the critical role of midwives, the overlooked significance of the APGAR score, and the fight for reproductive autonomy in a world full of healthcare hurdles. But don’t worry—it’s not all heavy! We mix in humor, personal stories, and some lighthearted fun, including book talk and...
2025-01-151h 05
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Cybertruck Shade: Our 2024 Recap EpisodeCady & Sharilyn are back with a ✨juicy✨ rundown of their Top Ten Lists for 2024 and a peek into their Ins & Outs for 2025 (spoiler: boundaries are IN). This episode takes a thoughtful look at the highs and lows of the past year—caregiver burnout, the joy of creativity and cosplay, and the vital role of queer community—and sets the stage for an intentional and empowered year ahead.We explore themes of self-compassion, the transformative power of art, the importance of nourishing our bodies, and the art of detachment, all while celebrating personal growth and conn...
2025-01-021h 22
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in the Trenches, Part 1 feat. Guest Jill Lissner aka @sexedprincessIn this episode, Cady and Sharilyn sit down with Jill Lissner—educator, content creator, and student—to dive deep into reproductive justice and abortion care. Together, they unpack systemic barriers to access, the power of personal stories, and how misinformation impacts abortion rights.But that’s not all! The conversation takes a creative turn as they explore the sapphic vibes in Wicked, polar bears (!! 🐾), and the connections between compassion, sustainability, and advocacy.Referenced in this Episode:TikTok creator Cecilia Blomdahl: @sejsejlijaContent creator Marlee Liss: Marlee Liss on InstagramTooth and Claw Podcast: Tooth & C...
2024-12-121h 14
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Gay SwitzerlandThis week, Cady and Sharilyn take you on a whirlwind ride through the worlds of non-monogamy, queer identity, ADHD life hacks (or lack thereof), and all that jazz (yes, we’re talking musicals). 🎶Expect spicy takes on relationship dynamics, chaotic tangents that only ADHD kids can deliver, and heartfelt discussions on what it means to be queer and thriving. Tune in for laughs, feels, and the kind of conversations that feel like a night with your besties—weed optional, chaos guaranteed. Follow Us: Instagram: @KneeDeepPodcast TikTok: @KneeDeepPodcast Cady: @ageofsexploration Sharilyn: @queerwome...
2024-11-2758 min
Knee Deep in the Passenger SeatKnee Deep in Session ZeroIn which Sharilyn and Cady realize that they yapped too much in their first episode and that they’d have to split the episode or alienate their ADHD ass fanbase before they even got started. Translation:Our first episode was 90 minutes long, so we yanked some stuff and made Episode 0, which, if you’re not a D&D kid, is a term that refers to the session before you start your campaign where you get together with your party and make characters, get the lore, etc. So, please enjoy our lore 💕F...
2024-11-2011 min