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Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment155. 4 Times Anxious Attachment Triggers Hit Even HarderSend us a textDo you have an anxious attachment style? In this episode, we get real about four times your anxious attachment hits the hardest - when you're most likely to spiral and feel out of control. From the struggles of nighttime to the stress of sudden changes in routine, Carly Ann breaks down why these moments trigger intense anxiety. We will discuss the moments when it feels like your attachment issues are taking over. If you're ready to stop letting these key moments control you, have a listen to this episodeBecoming S...2024-09-1222 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment152. The TRUTH About HEALING Anxious AttachmentSend us a textAre you on a journey of healing your anxious attachment? Well, what exactly does healing mean?There is a lot of misleading information about what it means to heal... what are you allowing yourself to believe?We know it's not easy, right? We know you want it to be quicker...You want it to be easier! That makes sense to us. But still.. what is it??In this episode Carly Ann discusses some TRUTHS about healing your anxious attachment. Not only will you hear what healing IS, you will also...2024-09-0119 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment151. Anxiously Attached & Triggered? TRY THIS!Send us a textDo you have an anxious attachment? In this episode, Carly Ann offers a practical tool and five essential questions that you can use daily to help manage your triggers. By planning ahead and taking proactive steps, you can significantly reduce and understand your triggers over time. Tune in to learn how to navigate your anxious attachment and walk away with five powerful questions that will empower you to manage your triggers more effectively each day.Curiously Triggered: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-TriggeredOther useful links: FREE...2024-08-2524 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment150. Signs of Anxious AttachmentSend us a textFREE WORKSHOP: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/anxious-to-secure-free-workshopIn this episode of Lessons in Attachment Carly Ann gives the key indicators that you or someone you know might be experiencing anxious attachment in relationships. If you often feel insecure, crave constant reassurance, or have a deep fear of abandonment, this episode is a must-listen.We'll break down the most common signs of anxious attachment so you can recognise these patterns in yourself and others.Other useful links: FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS...2024-08-1817 min

Lessons in (Anxious) AttachmentThe TRUTH About HEALING Anxious AttachmentSend us a textAre you on a journey of healing your anxious attachment? Well, what exactly does healing mean?There is a lot of misleading information about what it means to heal... what are you allowing yourself to believe?We know it's not easy, right? We know you want it to be quicker...You want it to be easier! That makes sense to us. But still.. what is it??In this episode Carly Ann discusses some TRUTHS about healing your anxious attachment. Not only will you hear what healing IS, you will also...2024-08-1119 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment146. 5 Lessons in Why They Are Pulling Away (Listen if you have an anxious attachment style)Send us a textCan you sense someone is pulling away? Or maybe they have pulled away? Either way, it feels horrible and you can't stop obsessing over them?In this short series of the podcast, Carly Ann shares some key lessons about her experience with having an anxious attachment - knowing why someone pulls away has helped in the recovery process. This episode is based on a combination of personal experience and professional experience (evidence backed research).Carly Ann's insights have made a profound impact on her life, and they can do...2024-07-1412 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment145. Lessons in Healing My Anxious Attachment (That you can use too!)Send us a textIn this short series of the podcast, Carly Ann shares some key lessons about healing her anxious attachment. Using both a combination of personal experience and professional experience (evidence backed research).If you have an anxious attachment style and you're on a journey to becoming more secure, this episode is for you. If you are seeking to become more secure in your relationships, tune in to hear practical tips, real experiences, and essential advice to help you move towards a more secure attachment style.Don't forget to write these...2024-07-0716 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment139. Anxious Attachment & Struggling with Separation from the Person You Love (6 Signs)Send us a textDo you have an anxious attachment style? If so, you might struggle with distance and time apart in relationships. People in this community often talk about struggling with no plans in the diary or not knowing where their attachment figure is. Carly Ann has struggled with this herself so this really is an episode of experience. Tune in as Carly Ann discusses six signs that could indicate separation anxiety, including excessive reliance on contact and worrying about your loved one.Other useful links: FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF...2024-05-1916 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment137. Lessons in: Doubting Your Relationship & Decoding "When You Know, You Know"Send us a textWelcome to Lessons in Attachment. Do you have an anxious attachment & find yourself doubting your relationship, constantly questioning if this is the right person for you? In this episode, Carly Ann offers valuable tips for managing relationship doubts and worries. Did you know that feeling uncertain about your relationship leads to jealousyhypervigilenceoverthinkingIn this epsiode of Lessons in Attachment, Carly Ann addresses the age old quote "when you know you know".Curiously Triggered: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-TriggeredOther useful links:...2024-05-0516 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment126. Lessons in Neuroplasticity: Healing the Nervous System & Attachment (with Jessica Maguire)Send us a textDo you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? Carly Ann is interviewing different guests to help you learn, heal, and move towards a secure attachment style. In this epsiode Carly Ann meets Jessica Maguire (repairing_the_nervous_system)Listen is as we discuss:- Understanding the Mind-Body Connection for Self-Healing- Creating Long & Short Term Change- Essential Tools for Soothing & Healing Your Nervous System- The Window of Tolerance and How it Applies to Your Attachment Style- How to Go from Overthinking...2024-02-251h 00

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment125. Lessons in The Cycle of Change (from an Attachment Perspective)Send us a textThis is your last chance to join my 7 week course Becomong Secure: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/becoming-secure-courseIn this episode Carly Ann shares a psychology model that looks at how people change, of course through the lens of changing your attachment style. If you have an insecure attachment and you are determined to move from insecure to secure, there are some gems inside this ep just for you!Other useful links: FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram 2024-02-1816 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment120. Lessons in Navigating Life & Relationships with an Anxious Attachment (With Dominy Roe)Send us a textListen to this if you have an anxious attachment and are trying to or want to navigate a healthy, long term relationship. Both Carly Ann and today's guest, Dominy Roe have moved on from the toxic, unavailable guys, but does that mean we are fully healed? Listen in as we talk about navigating our relationships.Follow @carly.ann_Follow @dominyroeWe discuss:Living without a secure network and how you can manage that What’s it's like when you lose yourselfHow do you come back to selfWhen you...2024-01-281h 10

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment115. Lessons in Mr Unavailable with our guest Natalie LueSend us a textDo you have any anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? Lessons in Love brings you Carly Ann's and other people's inspiring stories to support you on your own journey of healing and change. If you are doing the inner work on healing the past and becoming more secure, you are in the right place.You are invited in to a VERY special episode of Lessons in Love. If you are in the trap of repeating unhealthy patterns in your life & love life, attracting people who do not or cannot...2023-12-311h 14

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment112. Lessons in 6 More Consequences of Attachment Wounds (Part 2)Send us a textDo you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? If you are living as an adult with attachment trauma, there are certain signs and consequences you might be experiencing. Impacts on self-esteem, attachments, and mental health. In this episode, Carly Ann is determined to let you know about what is coming up inside The Attachment Recovery Gym. Join Carly Ann as she discussed 6 key ways we struggle with love & life when we are living with attachment trauma.Other useful links: FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE...2023-12-1318 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment111. Lessons in 6 Consequences of Attachment Wounds (Part 1)Send us a textIf you relate to having an insecure attachment, you will know already that there are certain consequences and impacts on our adult life. In this episode, Carly Ann is determined to let you know about what is coming up inside The Attachment Recovery Gym. Join Carly Ann as she discussed 6 key ways we struggle with love & life when we are living with attachment trauma.Other useful links: FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram 2023-12-1027 min

All About Love: The Dating, Healing, & Attachment Podcast15. All About FINDING HAPPINESS ON YOUR OWNIt’s our final episode of season 2, and we’ve saved the best topic to last! I think this might be our favourite one yet. In this episode we’re talking all about how to be happy being alone, whether you’re in a relationship or single! We discuss: Why learning to be happy single is SO important in every stage of life Have we gone too far the other way with hyper independence? Why we forget this when getting into a relationship What Caitlin gets jealous of that Carly-Ann does every day Tips on what you can do t...2023-10-1636 min

All About Love: The Dating, Healing, & Attachment Podcast13. All About RAISING YOUR STANDARDSIn this episode we lay down the law about the BASIC standards everyone should be expecting when dating and in a relationship! That means no more medals for someone asking how you are, or texting you back. We discuss how you can start to raise your standards and up your dating game. We Discuss: What is the bare minimum you should be accepting The impact of dating apps on this Our own personal (rubbish) experience when dating The difference between high expectations and low standards Why sometimes things get worse before they get better when rai...2023-10-0237 min

All About Love: The Dating, Healing, & Attachment Podcast12. All About SELF-SOOTHING FOR ABANDONMENT WOUNDSIn this episode, we discuss how to self-soothe in the moment, when an abandonment wound is triggered. This episode is about learning what powerful tools you can apply and practice to work towards inner child healing and healthier relationships. We Discuss: How abandonment wounds can manifest in dating (and what it looks like) How to cut through the jargon and define what self-soothing means Our personal experience with abandonment wounds + self-soothing How to start practising somatic work Why it is so important to build this up when you are NOT triggered Key powerful tips on how...2023-09-2533 min

All About Love: The Dating, Healing, & Attachment Podcast11. All About HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPSAll About HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS In this episode, we delve deep into the signs of healthy relationships and uncover the elusive yet essential concept of "green flags." While red flags often dominate the conversation about relationships, it's time we shift our focus to the positive signs that lead to lasting, fulfilling love We Discuss: Our personal experience with healthy relationships Why you need to make the shift from red flags to green Key Green flags for a healthy relationship to look out for How to manage conflict within relationships We questions if we should compromise o...2023-09-1839 min

All About Love: The Dating, Healing, & Attachment Podcast10. All About ATTACHMENT STYLESDo you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? Perhaps you are curious to understand attachment styles. In today’s episode we’re doing a longer deep dive on the three key Attachment Styles, Secure, Anxious & Avoidant. We talk about: The key characteristics of the three Attachment styles Our own experiences of being on the anxious and avoidant scale Why we view a secure attachment as the holy grail How you can turn your attachment style into your superpower How the perception of time and goodbyes can be difficult when anxious Why it’s not...2023-09-1154 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment89. Lessons in New Habits & Creating Change in Your Life (Weekly Mind-Stretch)Send us a textAre you determined to break old attachment habits and adopt new healthy habits?This week Carly Ann shares a concept from one of her favourite books Atomic Habits (Author: James Clear). Hoping it will help you the same way it has helped her. This idea is one that is used across all of Carly Ann's containers to help people create long term change and break old habits.Other useful links: FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram 2023-08-1604 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment83. Lessons in "Going Inwards" for Healing Attachment (What does it Mean & Some Tips)Send us a textDo you have an anxious/and or avoidant attachment style? If yes, it is possible you have heard the term "going inwards". It is often a tip we are given yet it is a skill we lack. That's why in this week's episode Carly Ann begins to describe what it means to go inwards when you are on a healing journey.Curious Triggered can be access here: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-TriggeredOther useful links: FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow C...2023-07-1610 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment76. Lessons in The "Good Enough" Relationship (Weekly Mind-Stretch)Send us a textWelcome to your weekly Mind-Strecth! Carly Ann is bringing you new information to stretch your mind and support healthy relationships (with yourself included). This week Carly Ann is discussing an idea called "The Good Enough Relationship". Listen to this if you struggle with expectations and standards.You can read the full article with John Gottman HEREOther useful links: FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram 2023-06-2106 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment75: Lessons in 5 Ideas that Will Support You to Move From Insecure Attachment to SecureSend us a textDo you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? Carly Ann teaches six core skills that can help you overcome insecure attachment and move towards a secure attachment. In this episode Carly Ann shares 5 ideas that will help you develop these skills. It just so happens these ideas can also help your well-being and happiness too.Other useful links: FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram 2023-06-1813 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment73. GUEST - Lessons in Discovering and Becoming Your Most Authentic Self with Becky RodriguesSend us a textDo you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? If yes, it's possible you might question who you are and find yourself falling into patterns like people pleasing and self-abandonment. In this episode of Lessons in Attachment I am joined by Becky Rodrigues.Becky is an Integrative Psychotherapist, Counsellor & Empowerment Coach for those who struggle with self-doubt, comparison, overthinking or anxiety and instead want to feel confident in who they are & have the courage to achieve what they truly want, in their relationships, work/business & life. Links:T...2023-05-2850 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment72. 10 Things I Learned Healing Insecure Attachment WoundsSend us a textYour Lessons in Attachment host Carly Ann shares 10 Lessons she has learned in the last 5-6 years of healing insecure attachment wounds. If you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style, this is an episode not to be missed. Carly Ann has been on her own journey to overcome anxious and avoidant attachment patterns & in this episode she is letting you know 10 of the core tips she believes can help on your own journey to becoming secure.Links:The Attachment Recovery Gym: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym Follow Carly An...2023-05-2430 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment71. Lessons in Feeling Left Behind When Your Friends are in Relationships and You Have an Insecure AttachmentSend us a textDo you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? If yes, it's possible you know the feeling of being left behind. Perhaps your friends are in relationships, you struggle meet someone, or you can't seem to sustain a relationship. Whatever your pattern, in this episode Carly Ann talks about why this might be and how important it is to heal attachment wounds.Links:The Attachment Recovery Gym: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-TriggeredFollow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.an...2023-05-2112 min

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment70. Lessons in How To Stop Waiting For Good Things to go WrongSend us a textDo you have an anxious and/or avoidant attachment style? If yes, it's possible you know all about expecting the worst, worrying, and feeling like good things never last. In this episode, Carly Ann gives two tips to help you start enjoying the present moment.Links:The Attachment Recovery Gym: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/attachment-recovery-gym FREE CURIOUSLY TRIGGERED: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/Curiously-TriggeredFollow Carly Ann on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carly.ann_ Follow The Attachment Recovery Gym on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachment.recovery.gymM...2023-05-1408 min