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Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolYour Questions Answered About Sex, Marriage, Same-Sex Attraction, and GodYou ask questions! And Dr. Carol loves to respond. In today's episode, Dr. Carol's addresses some of the most difficult questions about sex, love, marriage, same-sex attraction and more. These were sent in from real listeners just like you. Here are the resources Dr. Carol mentiones on thsi episode: Article Sex WIthout Pain Article Where to Start if Your Marriage Lacks Intimacy Article How to Stop Hiding From Your Spouse Article The Key to Filling Your Empty Soul Article How to Consecrate THAT Part of You to Jesus Article Is God Good? Healing Your Connection With Go...
2025-11-1833 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolRebuilding Us: The Path to Restoring Intimacy and Trust After BetrayalIn today's episode, Dr. Carol is joined by Dana Che, marriage coach, speaker, and host of the Rebuilding Us podcast. She knows firsthand what it's like to feel angry, hurt, and hopeless in marriage marred by infidelity, yet find her way to healing and restored connection. She now helps couples move from "I can't stand you" to "I still do," guiding them through the real work of rebuilding trust and intimacy after betrayal. Together, they unpack what forgiveness truly means (and what it doesn't), why healthy boundaries are not unspiritual but are essential, and how couples can t...
2025-11-1145 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolThe Fire of Jesus That Transforms What if the fire Jesus came to bring isn't about fear or destruction, but about freedom? In this episode, we explore how the fire of God doesn't just warm or comfort; it also burns away what keeps us from becoming whole, fully alive, and truly like Jesus. This isn't about trying harder or piling on more spiritual "shoulds." It's about letting Jesus consume what holds us back so we can live with undivided hearts before Him. We'll talk about three things that need to be burned up—people-pleasing, idols, and sin—and why this is actually very good news. Alon...
2025-10-2826 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolConfident Connection: What Neuroscience Teaches About Attachment and Your Spiritual LifeWhat does the science of attachment have to do with your walk with God? In this episode, we sit down with husband-and-wife team Geoff and Cyd Holsclaw who lead the Center for Embodied Faith to explore how experiences in early life shape our capacity for trust, intimacy, and connection—not only with people, but with God Himself. That connection then affords you the secure base to live and act in the world with confidence. Together we unpack the difference between secure and insecure attachment, how those patterns show up in faith, and why many of us struggle to rest conf...
2025-10-2146 min
The Holistic CounselorEp. 77 - Reclaiming Biblical Sexuality After Trauma & Purity Culture" with Dr. Carol Tanksley, M.D., D.Min.Welcome back to The Holistic Counselor Podcast! In this raw, redemptive, and research-backed conversation, Diana sits down with Dr. Carol Tanksley—a board-certified OB-GYN, ordained minister, trauma-informed coach, and author—to confront one of the most taboo topics in both clinical and Christian spaces: sex, shame, and spiritual healing. If you were raised in purity culture, survived sexual trauma, or are struggling with intimacy in marriage, this episode is a compassionate, evidence-based invitation to heal from sexual brokenness and rediscover God's design for whole-person intimacy. In This Episode, We Discuss: The trauma impact of purity cult...
2025-10-0858 min
Men in the Arena - Christian Men's PodcastThe Empty Feeling: When Sex Fails to Fulfill Men's Needs - Podcast Highlight: Carol Tanksley EP 889This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 730: SEXpectations: God's Design for Your Sex Life w/ Carol Tanksley. Check it out! This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing c...
2025-08-0606 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolWhy the Church Must Talk About Sex with the Next GenerationToday's young people are navigating a sexual landscape unlike anything previous generations have faced. Porn is not just accessible—it's expected. Messages about identity, desire, and intimacy are being shaped more by screens than by Scripture. In this important conversation, Dr. Carol talks with Joel Warneking and Bill Williams from 423 Communities, a ministry that walks with people toward freedom from unhealthy sexual patterns and into deeper intimacy with God. Joel and Bill unpack what's really going on in the hearts and minds of the next generation, and why transformation doesn't happen through willpower alone. They highlight the science of br...
2025-07-1544 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolMore Than a Retreat: What Three Women Discovered at the IntensiveWhat happens when you step away from the noise of life and create space for God to do deep heart work? In this special episode, Dr. Carol sits down with three courageous women who participated in one of our recent Intensives—four powerful days designed as a safe place to deal with the broken places in their stories around intimacy and relationships, and to experience deep healing, transformation, and connection with God and others. In this honest and hope-filled conversation, they share what drew them to the Intensive, the surprising ways God met them, and how their lives lo...
2025-07-0844 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolSingle, Christian, and Whole: Q&A with Dr. CarolWhat does it really look like to walk with God in singleness—especially when the path feels long, lonely, or confusing? In this honest and compassionate episode, Dr. Carol responds to real questions from listeners about the complexities of single life. We talk about the ache of unfulfilled longing, wrestling with God when He hasn't brought a spouse, and how to navigate desire—especially sexual desire—in a healthy, Christ-centered way when you're single. We also dive into the ways the Church can sometimes overlook or wound singles, and how to pursue genuine, soul-nourishing intimacy through friendship and spiritual commun...
2025-06-1735 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolDr. Carol Answers Your Toughest Questions on Marriage, Sex, and RelationshipsDr. Carol regularly gets questions about difficult marriage, relationship, and sexual issues. On this episode she answers questions about some especially challenging situations; a wife whose husband is living with another woman, a husband who is frustrated with his wife's frequent "no" to sex, a wife whose husband is threatening to make her move out, a husband whose wife has left for the second time, a young woman struggling with pornography, and a wife who has experienced traumatic married sex. The insights Dr. Carol offers will help you in your relationships too! And for each question, she...
2025-05-2738 min
Pure Desire Podcast409 - The Church, Mental Health, & Healing w/ Dr. Carol TanksleyIn this episode, we explore the intersection of faith and mental health with Dr. Carol Tanksley who has dedicated their life to helping others heal from fear, anxiety, grief, and more. We’ll talk about the Church’s role in addressing mental health struggles, unpack common misconceptions Christians hold about anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges, and discuss how believers can distinguish between spiritual battles and mental health issues. This conversation highlights the importance of creating safe spaces within the Church for those struggling with mental health, the role of community in the healing process, and offer...
2025-05-0658 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolHow to Find True Connection Through Courageous AuthenticityThis episode is about matters of the heart. Dr. Carol talks with Tom Bennardo, a seasoned ministry leader, author, and spiritual director, about the power and challenge of courageous authenticity. We explore the barriers that keep us from true connection—what he calls "Level 3 intimacy," where we move beyond surface interactions into deeper, truly vulnerable relationships. Whether it's fear, shame, or past wounds, we unpack what holds us back and why authenticity is both risky and essential for a meaningful life. Together, we discuss practical ways to cultivate deeper intimacy—with God, within ourselves, and in a few pers...
2025-04-2948 min
Beauty in the Brokenness- Christian Women (Bible Study, Faith, Sexuality, Freedom from Shame)Come As You Are: Finding Sexual Healing in Jesus with Dr. Carol Tanksley - Part 2 (SEXUAL WHOLENESS SERIES)This week we continue our transformative conversation about sexual wholeness from a Christian perspective with Dr. Carol Tanksley. If you haven't heard Part 1 yet, listen here. Whether you're single, struggling with shame about your sexual past, or simply trying to understand how sexuality fits within your faith journey, this episode offers wisdom and practical guidance. Sexual wholeness begins with accepting this invitation to "just come" as you are, trusting that Jesus will meet you with gentleness and guide you toward healing.Click here for show notesWatch this Episode on YouTubeSupport the sh...
2025-04-2227 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolWhy There's More to Your Story: Unpacking the Past to Unlock Your FutureYour past is not truly past; it is still impacting you today. In this episode, Dr. Carol talks with trauma therapist and licensed clinical social worker Adam Young to explore how making sense of your story can lead to freedom, meaning, and transformation. We unpack the ways your past still holds power over you—often in ways you don't even realize—and why resistance to facing your story is so common. Adam Young shares insights into how memory works, why certain moments from your past feel "stuck," and how your brain and body hold onto experiences and bring them into the...
2025-04-2240 minBeauty in the Brokenness- Christian Women (Bible Study, Faith, Sexuality, Freedom from Shame)Breaking Down Sexual Walls: From Shame to Wholeness with Dr. Carol Tanksley - Part 1 (SEXUAL WHOLENESS SERIES)Sexual brokenness often begins with wounds we don't want to face. Dr. Carol Tanksley, OBGYN physician turned ordained minister, draws from 30 years of medical practice and her own journey to explore how our personal stories shape our sexual decisions. Dr. Carol directs our attention to what Jesus emphasized most - the condition of the heart. While behaviors certainly have consequences, lasting transformation begins with addressing the wounds, lies, and empty places in our souls that drive our choices. Your story matters, and God wants to meet you exactly where you are.🎙 Click here for show notes▶️ W...
2025-04-1529 min
The Covenant Eyes PodcastWhat's the REAL Reason Churches Avoid Talking About Sexual WholenessIs the Church silent where it should be healing?In this powerful episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, Dr. Carol Tanksley—physician, minister, and intimacy coach—dives into the deep waters of sexual brokenness, healing, intimacy, and the role of the Church. Joined by host Karen Potter, Dr. Carol shares her personal story, the transformative journey of her ministry, and why real healing requires honesty, community, and God's redemptive love.🔥 Whether you're battling a pornography addiction, supporting a spouse in recovery, or longing for deeper emotional intimacy, this conversation offers practical tools, spiritual encouragement, and biblica...
2025-04-0933 min
A Minute To Midnite588- Dr Carol Tanksley – Audio Only Version558- The World is a Mess. But We don't have to be! – Dr Carol Tanksley Right click to Download
2025-04-0938 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolBreaking the Silence: Women, Abuse, and the ChurchThe Christian church has long been a place of both refuge and harm for women, with many experiencing sexism, harassment, or a culture that upholds harmful power dynamics. That is certainly not the way of Jesus, so what can we do about it? In this episode, Dr. Carol talks with licensed counselor and former pastor Dr. Andrew Bauman to discuss the ways a pornified mindset distorts relationships, how church culture can perpetuate abuse, and what true healing and change require. Whether you're a man seeking to unlearn harmful narratives or a woman longing for clarity and empowerment, this...
2025-04-0836 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolRestoring What's Broken: Biblical & Clinical Wisdom for Healing from Sexual AbuseChildhood sexual abuse leaves deep wounds—emotional, psychological, and spiritual. But healing is possible. In this powerful conversation, Dr. Carol sits down with Dr. Adam Dell, a licensed psychologist, trauma expert, and author, who shares his personal journey of healing and how both faith and therapy played a role in his restoration. With honesty and compassion, he unpacks the Bible's perspective on trauma and sexual shame, addressing common struggles survivors face, from self-blame to feeling distant from God. Drawing from his clinical experience, Dr. Dell provides practical steps toward healing, emphasizing the power of truth, community, and God's redeeming lo...
2025-04-0146 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolWhy the Presence of Jesus Changes Everything We may believe Jesus can change things. But we either get upset because we can't orchestrate things to make it happen, or get discouraged because it seems He's not doing what we expect. The truth is that everything changes when Jesus shows up! That beautiful moment when Jesus steps in is usually the beginning, and there's much transformation yet for us to experience. But there are elements we can embrace, places we can put ourselves, to make space for Jesus to do His transformative work. Dr. Carol talks about that in this episode, and introduces...
2025-03-1822 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolFalling Forward: Turning Slips and Relapses into Stepping Stones to Transformation In your journey to transformation you will be tempted again. And most followers of Jesus will slip again. It's tempting to fall into a shame spiral. You may think, "I've got to try harder and be more self-disciplined." Or, "It's no use. I'm too far gone. I might as well give up." You find yourself hiding from yourself, others, and from God. In this episode Dr. Carol unpacks how to deal with slips and relapses in your transformation journey. She outlines practical steps to building your escape plan for when you're tempted, and also how to set yourself...
2025-03-1128 min
Marriage Rehab: Exposing Narcissistic & Emotional Abuse51. Navigating Sexual Wholeness with Dr. Carol TanksleyIn this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins is joined by Dr. Carol Tanksley, author of Sexpectations, and MRC clinician Jill Stenerson to discuss the intersection of sexual intimacy, emotional abuse, and narcissistic behaviors in relationships. Together, they explore what healthy intimacy looks like, how to heal from sexual harm caused by abuse, and practical steps toward sexual wholeness. Whether you're recovering from past trauma or navigating challenges in your current relationship, this episode offers hope and guidance for your journey.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on...
2025-01-2241 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolReclaiming Your Power: Steps to Healing from Sexual HarmDr. Carol believes, as many experts do, that it's a rare person indeed who has not experienced some form of sexual harm, whether obvious and severe, or more subtle and "normalized." You didn't wake up one day and decide to have sexual "issues," and behind your "issues" is almost always some dimension of experiencing sexual harm. In this episode Dr. Carol discusses different categories of sexual harm, the many ways such harm impacts you over the long haul, and three specific and practical steps to take that will bring real and deep healing. Check out...
2025-01-2129 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolHow Will You End 2024?In this raw unproduced non-episode episode, Dr. Carol shares a quick word from her heart about coming to the end of 2024. Right now, come check out ARISE: A Place of Transformation, and be part of making this beautiful place a reality for people to experience lasting transformation through Dr. Carol Ministries intensives. Or you may wish to purchase an item from our Amazon Wish List to help us be ready for moving into this place where lives will be healed and transformed for eternity. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave her a confidential message here.
2024-12-2807 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolA Christmas Eve Special: Some of My Favorite ThingsChristmas can be a season of wonder, hope, and joy. However, it can also be a very difficult season for many. Often it's both good - and hard. Dr. Carol shares a few of her favorite things at Christmas, and how these objects signify aspects of what Christmas means. Perhaps this will help you think of your own favorite things this Christmas. All of us at Dr. Carol Ministries pray that Jesus bless you with a special sense of His presence this season. Merry Christmas! Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You c...
2024-12-2411 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolA Fresh Perspective on Charles Dickens' A Christmas CarolA Christmas Carol, the classic story by Charles Dickens, has been made into several movies and told in countless ways for generations. However, is it possible that this holiday story of Ebeneezer Scrooge and the ghosts of Christmas Past, Present and Yet to Come might have meaning to your own life story? In this special Christmas episode Dr. Carol talks with best-selling author and columnist Bob Welch about stinginess, innocence, grief, joy, transformation, and other contemporary and meaningful lessons about how to live - and how not to live - not only at Christmas but throughout the y...
2024-12-1730 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolCan Biblical Friendships Be the Cure to Loneliness?Christians have the best answer to the epidemic of loneliness in our culture. As articulated by the US Surgeon General, being disconnected has life-damaging consequences. But too many in the body of Christ are neither experiencing nor offering the kind of friendship Christians are uniquely equipped to provide. Dr. Carol's guest on this episode is author and podcaster Rebecca McLaughlin who has a PhD in literature from Cambridge University and a theology degree from Oak Hill Theological College in London. She contends that friendship love is not optional for followers of Jesus. She explains why this love...
2024-12-1043 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolHealing Your Sexual StoryLove sex or hate it, and regardless of your relationship status, you have a sexual story. You might be proud of part of your sexual story. But you may also struggle with shame and guilt about parts of your story. And whether you're married or unmarried, your sexual story greatly impacts your ability to experience real intimacy with others and with God. In this talk Dr. Carol gave at the SHE Recovery Summit, she uses personal stories, theological perspectives, and clinical research in sexuality and neuroscience, to address how the unhealed parts of your sexual story prevent...
2024-11-2653 min
Raising Kingdom WarriorsSexpectations with Dr. Carol Tanksley | Ep. 15On this episode of Raising Kingdom Warriors, Dr. Carol Tanksley, a seasoned OB-Gyn, minister, and author, shares her deeply personal journey of transformation, the healing power of vulnerability, and the importance of addressing matters of the heart. In this episode, she discusses her latest book, Sexpectations, exploring how our personal stories shape relationships and intimacy. Learn how to submit your sexuality to Jesus, confront hidden struggles, and experience the wholeness and freedom He offers. A thought-provoking conversation about faith, love, and living “Fully Alive.”
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2024-11-2147 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolHow Saying YES to God's Intervention Can Save a Toxic Marriage"Is there anything too hard for the Lord?" The Bible asks that question, and answers it with a clear "No, nothing is impossible with God!" But does that apply to a truly destructive marriage? If your relationship is deeply troubled, you may be asking, "Is there any hope?" Shayne and Sheila Pitcock would say YES, there is hope! They join Dr. Carol on this episode to share their story. There are buzzwords here; domestic violence, abuse, separation. Healing requires both partners to allow God to do His work, but you'll hear how God can redeem anything when t...
2024-11-1944 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolHow Your Story, the Bible's Story, and God's Story Come TogetherKnowing information, even information about God, is important. But so many Christians find information woefully inadequate to fully address the realities of their lives. Our souls long for something more - something of beauty, connection, even love. In this unique and beautiful conversation Dr. Carol talks with Quina Aragon, author, editor, and spoken word artist, about the love of God - not in the sense of information, but from story - our story, the Bible's story, and God's story. And you'll especially enjoy the poetic reading near the end of this episode. Connect with Quina...
2024-11-1242 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolPractical Ways to Overcome Loneliness and Find the Deeper Connections Your Heart NeedsThe US Surgeon General has highlighted the epidemic of loneliness in our culture, and the very negative health implications. Just being around people is helpful but inadequate to satisfy the deep longing for connection God built into every human heart. In this practical episode Dr. Carol talks with Becky Harling, speaker, podcaster, Bible teacher, and author, about the deeper connections our hearts truly need, and what you can do to proactively nurture those connections. Though it may feel challenging, every one of us can take the initiative to find your people, and you'll be healthier and happier...
2024-11-0540 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolDr. Carol Answers Your Toughest Questions About Intimacy, Sex, and RelationshipsDr. Carol receives lots of questions about relationships, menopause and married sex, marital rape, struggle with pornography, and more. In today's episode she answers some listener submitted questions on a range of subjects. You won't want to miss this! Resources mentioned in this episode: - Navigating Midlife online course - Article Having the Sex Talk With Your Spouse - eBook Dr. Carol's Guide to Sex and Menopause - Article Why You Are Not Entitled to Sex - Article Where to Start if Your Marriage Lacks Intimacy - Free download A Pres...
2024-10-2226 minRelationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolIt's Not About the Porn, Alcohol, or Drugs: Getting Deeper Than Behavior ChangeMany followers of Jesus might wish God would "zap" them out of their addiction to porn, alcohol, or whatever else. Are they uniquely flawed when they still struggle with their unwanted behavior patterns? Doesn't being "a new creation in Christ" mean things should be resolved? Troy and Melissa Haas are licensed counselors and lead the HopeQuest family of ministries. They join Dr. Carol on this episode to talk about their own story of painful addiction and betrayal trauma, and about how they are now helping so many individuals and families find not just sobriety but lasting and w...
2024-10-1553 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolDoing Blended Families God's WayThe divorce rate for blended families is 70%. But there's another surprising statistic; well over 99% of couples who do this one specific activity stay together - blended or not. Dr. Carol talks with Scott and Vanessa Martindale of Blended Kingdom Families in this very encouraging episode. Scott shares the one activity that guarantees an over 99% success rate for you staying together! We talk about the unique challenges blended families face, but even more about the doable ways of building oneness even when your marriage is blended. Check out the organization Scott and Vanessa Martindale lead, Blended K...
2024-10-0137 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolThe Journey Out: How One Man Experienced Lasting ChangeWhat kind of change is possible - or not possible, especially when it comes to LGBTQ issues? And how does change happen? There are no one-size-fits-all answers. But as the Changed movement is demonstrating, there are more stories of lasting change than many realize. Dr. Carol's guest on this episode is Ken Williams, co-founder of the Changed Movement. He shares his story of following Jesus away from a gay identity to what he describes as a true masculine identity and intimacy with God – and also being happily married to his wife. And Ken and Dr. Carol dive deep...
2024-09-2445 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolWhen Things Fall Apart: God's Creative Process for Rebuilding Your LifeAt some point in life, you'll likely to face a time when everything seems to be falling apart. A job loss, health or financial crisis, end of a marriage, death of a close loved one, or other catastrophe that can leave you feeling overwhelmed, confused, and unsure whether or how you can go on living. Dr. Carol's guest on this episode, author, Bible teacher, and minister Dawn Mann Sanders brings her own personal experience and a deep exploration of God's creative process to this encouraging conversation. You'll learn how to partner with God in overcoming adversity and r...
2024-09-1741 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolDating God's Way: Preparing for a Marriage, Not Just a WeddingThe Bible doesn't talk specifically about dating. But that doesn't mean it has nothing to say on the subject. Dating as a Christian can seem confusing, and hard. There are questions not only about sexuality and sexual behavior, but about how to know if this is "the one," what makes a relationship healthy, and preparing for not just a wedding but a marriage. Tovares and Safa Gray talk with Dr. Carol in this authentic and fun conversation about Godly Dating 101 - their ministry to young Christians helping them navigate all the challenging questions and experiences they are...
2024-09-0342 min
PSR PodcastExploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol TanksleyIn this episode, I chat with Dr. Carol Tanksley, a ministry friend and author of the book Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships. We dive into the complexities of sexuality, intimacy, and how personal and cultural experiences shape these aspects of our lives. Dr. Tanksley shares her personal journey of learning about sexuality and intimacy, emphasizing the importance of addressing heart issues and healing from past wounds. We discuss the difference between intimacy and sexuality, the necessity of community support, and the concept of sexual wholeness. Finally, Dr. Carol offers practical ad...
2024-08-2834 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolRaising Christian Kids in an LGBTQ+ WorldThe rapid increase in LGBTQ+ issues in our culture leaves many Christian parents struggling with how to navigate these realities with their children in ways that are both loving and aligned to their Christian faith. Dr. Carol's guest on today's episode is Ellen Radcliff. She was raised in a Christian home and also wrestles with same-sex attraction. As a faithful Christian wife and mother who holds to a Biblical sexual ethic, she now works with other parents and families navigating these challenging waters. From both her own experience and her theological training she can help you maintain...
2024-08-2738 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolAuthentic Intimacy, Sexual Wholeness, and Freedom from Shame for Christian WomenChristian women, young and old, often struggle with a disconnect between what their intellect may know is "right" about sexuality, God, and relationships, and what their own experience has been. Pornography or other ungodly sexual behaviors only add to their sexual shame and feeling of being stuck. On this episode Dr. Carol talks with Dr. Joy Skarka, director of discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, about the journey God invites every woman into of discovering the full love of God, how to grow into freedom from sexual shame regardless of your story, and the experience of true intimacy as G...
2024-08-2038 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolReclaiming the Way God Made You as a ManOur culture seems obsessed with sex. Then why do so many men seem to experience sexual desire as a place of brokenness, shame, struggle, and confusion? Dr. Carol's guest on this episode asserts that men are oversexualized yet sexually undernourished, and that many men need more talk, not less, about sexuality. Experienced therapist and author Sam Jolman joins Dr. Carol to talk about masculine sexuality as God designed it to be, how evil has hijacked and distorted this critical part of a man's soul, and what the journey to sexual wholeness, wonder, freedom, and even innocence is...
2024-08-0645 min
TypologyTransforming relationships with true intimacy, feat. Dr. Carol TanksleyThis week, we welcome back Dr. Carol Tanksley, author of "Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships." Dr. Tanksley brings a unique perspective shaped by her extensive background as a former OBGYN and reproductive endocrinologist, offering a compassionate exploration of human sexuality, intimacy and relationships. Dr. Tanksley sheds light on several misconceptions surrounding sex, aiming to challenge and reshape our perspectives. Drawing from her clinical experience, she provides valuable insights on how we all can begin to heal from societal and personal misconceptions about sexuality. Moreover, we delve into the...
2024-07-1135 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolWhat Healing from Trauma and Betrayal can Mean for Your Marriage NowYour heart is shattered. How can you find healing when you've been wounded by trauma and betrayal? And that process is even more challenging when you brought your past complex trauma into the relationship to begin with. Trauma expert and counselor Stacey Sadler Smith has both experienced that herself, and now brings years of professional experience to helping both individuals and couples heal from trauma and betrayal. She talks with Dr. Carol on this episode about her own story, about broken attachments, and about the process of repair after trauma and betrayal - both for one's own...
2024-06-1136 min
Sex Chat for Christian WivesYour Sexual Story, with Dr. Carol Tanksley We welcome guest Dr. Carol Tanksley, who is an author, speaker, podcaster, licensed OB-Gyn, and a trained and ordained minister. She joins us to talk about how your sexual story shaped you and how to pursue sexual wholeness as God intended. Sponsor Share the Soap – goat milk soap & bath products. Special offer for our listeners: free lip balm (any flavor) with purchase of aloe & goat milk lotion! Put both lotion and lip balm into your cart and check out with the code FCWJUNE. From the Bible John 4:1-42 (Jesus and...
2024-06-0530 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolUnderstanding the (False) Solution Porn Offers and Why it MattersMany who use pornography struggle to quit when they try to, even if they deeply believe it's wrong and even while using various tricks and techniques and "praying more". Porn is often seen as the problem, and it is a problem. But what if porn is the (false) solution being offered to a different "problem". On this vulnerable and raw episode, Dr. Carol talks with Drew Boa about how he came to see "porn as my pacifier". They unpack the often-unaddressed issues that lead to pornography use. Hear how Drew did the hard and successful work to hea...
2024-06-0433 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolA Survivor's Story of Freedom from TraffickingMost people know sex trafficking exists. But you might imagine that's something "out there" and could never affect anyone close to you. And why would someone ever get hooked into that lifestyle? Why don't they just leave? Dr. Carol's guest on this episode is Jasmine Grace Marino. As a former sex worker who now helps and advocates for others on the journey out of that lifestyle, she talks openly about the matters of the heart that are at play for those affected by sex trafficking, including the roles of addiction and pornography. And it's not hopeless; you'll...
2024-05-2834 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolThe Best-Kept and Proven Secret for Improving Your Mental HealthMay is mental health awareness month. It's no secret that mental health issues have become a pandemic in our culture. How can Christians navigate their own mental health in ways that are both effective and consistent with their faith? And what might the Christian church have to offer in the broader mental health arena? Joe Padilla, licensed and ordained minister, talks with Dr. Carol about the Mental Health Grace Alliance - validated in scientific journals, and perhaps the largest network of Christian mental health groups worldwide. Combining research-based best practices and Bible-centered curricula, this resource is a...
2024-05-2143 minMen in the Arena - Christian Men's PodcastSex and the Single Christian Man: Honoring God with Your Body Before (or After) Marriage w/ Dr. Carol Tanksley EP 732How should a single Christian man approach sex? What does honoring God look like when single, dating, or divorced? In this second episode in our two-part series on "SEXpectations," Jim Ramos is joined by Carol Tanksley, MD DMin, to discuss biblical principles for how to honor God in your sex life during all seasons. The first episode focused on married sex. This week's interview focuses on sex and the single, dating, and engaged Christian man. Dr. Carol's Book: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships (Using our link to check out the b...
2024-05-1750 minA Minute To Midnite509- Dr Carol Tanksley – Audio Only Version509- Sexuality, Relationships, Spirituality. Get the Help You Need! – Dr Carol Tanksley Right click to Download
2024-05-1732 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolWhy Being a Real Man is Different than you Think, and How to Get ThereWith all the talk in the last few years about "toxic masculinity," what is a real man? Does it have to do with doing "manly" things such as sports or being outdoors? It can't be being "nice;" that's not appealing. What's really at the core of being a man, particularly as God intended? Author, radio host, and advocate for children's healing Brant Hansen talks with Dr. Carol on this episode about the kind of men, and especially young men, we need. He describes some critical decisions a young man needs to make, and applies this to relationships...
2024-05-1437 minMen in the Arena - Christian Men's PodcastSEXpectations: God's Design for Your Sex Life w/ Carol Tanksley EP 730 Are you disappointed by your sex life? Many Christian men in otherwise happy Christian marriages are not getting the sex they hoped for. There are hidden motivations, lies, and expectations that may be manipulating your views on sex! In this two part series on "SEXpectations," Jim Ramos is joined by Carol Tanksley, MD DMin, to discuss biblical principles for how to honor God in your sex life during all seasons. This first episode focuses on married sex. Next week's interview will focus on sex and the single, dating, and engaged Christian man. Dr. Carol's Book: S...
2024-05-1054 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolAre You Getting What You Wanted: The Christian Man's Key to the Life You Always WantedWhat did you expect out of life and marriage? Are you getting what you wanted? Life can get busy and overwhelming for a man in the "stress bubble" in trying to manage life, marriage, perhaps kids, career, and trying to be the man God created you to be. You could use some help. Jim Ramos, author, speaker, and founder of Men in the Arena, is Dr. Carol's guest on this episode. They talk about the major mindset shift Jim had to experience that changed everything in his life and especially in his marriage. Husbands will be both e...
2024-05-0751 min
Strong Tower Mental Health Podcast170. Redefining Sex and Intimacy with Dr. Carol Tanksley, MD, DMinDid you know that your sex life has a story to tell? Many of us avoid the topic of sex, but our avoidance says more about a key to our freedom that we need to get curious about. It's an invitation to know God more deeply and authentically. Carol Tanksley, MD, DMin is a licensed ob-gyn physician and wrote a book about the expectations of sex. In this episode you will hear the insights of how she discovered to write the book and highlights we need to know. The book is about reframing your good and not-so-good stories about...
2024-05-0640 min
T Time: Spiritual conversations For, With and About Women.A Conversation with Dr. Carol Tanksley: Understanding Intimacy and Its Role in RelationshipsWhat would it look like to have a God given view of Sex and Intimacy? In this episode of T Time Twanna discusses Understanding God’s desire for us with intimacy and its role in relationships with Dr. Carol Tanksley.00:09 Intro01:13 Biology vs Intimacy04:16 “Sexpectations”07:07 The big deal about sex10:16 Healing from past sexual experiences17:07 The start of “Sexpectations”20:24 God’s view on sexuality and intimacy25:42 Relationship Prescriptions29:51 How Dr. Carol dealt with her sexual dysfunctions34:26 Closing PrayerFor video...
2024-05-0137 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolHow to Maintain a Soft Heart in a Hard-edged SocietyThere are many reasons for and ways of becoming hard in our cruel world. You may think a hard heart is a good and protective thing. When harm or disappointment comes, a natural human response is to develop a tough and closed heart. But that also closes you off to the good things God intends for you and wants to work in you. Is there a way to cherish a soft heart in a tough world? Mother, writer, and teacher Charaia Rush is Dr. Carol's guest on this encouraging episode. They talk about how shame and pain...
2024-04-3038 min
The Flip Side with Noah FilipiakEp. 95: Dr. Carol Tanksley on Spouses with Differing Levels of Sex Drive & Finding Sexual WholenessNoah interviews Dr. Carol Tanksley on her new book Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships. The conversation covers a broad spectrum of topics relating to sexuality for singles and married couples and how each of us are looking for sexual wholeness. Noah and Dr. Carol talk at length about when a husband and wife have different levels of sex drive within a marriage, the problems this can cause, and what can be done about it.
Carol Tanksley, M.D., D.Min., is an author, speaker, podcaster, personal coach, licensed OB-Gyn physician, and ordained Doctor of Mi...
2024-04-261h 20
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolGetting to the Roots of Sexual Issues and the Way to HealingIf you've been wrestling with sexual "stuff," you may wonder things like, How did I end up this way? Why do I keep doing this? Why do I keep trying harder and nothing seems to change? Why aren't my prayers working? How do I get out of this mess? In this conversation with Dr. Carol, counselor, author, and minister Jay Stringer explains why the details of your story, especially your sexual story, shine the light on the path to healing. He uses attachment theory to explain how we come to be where we are, including how our...
2024-04-2347 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolA Transgender's Story of Brokenness, Faith, and HealingTransgender issues have become a hot topic in culture and in the Christian church. Is the cultural narrative missing the point, and if so, where? How can Christians address the distress those struggling with gender issues experience in a redemptive way? Dr. Carol's guest on this fascinating episode is Walt Heyer, who transitioned to living as a woman for eight years, and then de-transitioned back to his birth gender. Walt has now devoted his life and influence to helping others who are struggling with these issues. His faith and relentless pursuit of wholeness will inspire you.
2024-04-1642 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolWhy Information Alone Can't Fix Sexual Brokenness Part IIIn part one of last week's conversation, Dr. Carol described why information alone is not effective in bringing sexual wholeness, and why experiences and true connection is necessary. In part two, you'll hear what Dr. Carol Ministries has already been doing to help people grow into sexual wholeness, and some of the results. And you'll hear about the new kind of experience we are offering to help people bring Jesus into the places they need Him most, and how you - or a friend - can be a part of this. Check out Dr. Carol's...
2024-04-0919 min
TypologyBefriending feelings to find wholeness, feat. Dr. Carol Tanksley (Enneagram 5)Dr. Carol Tanksley joins Typology to discuss her journey of self-discovery and the powerful impact learning to see her emotions as knowledge has had on her life. As Dr. Tanksley explains, "When I finally started to understand that it was not knowledge that I needed to quote 'fix me,' then I started to make progress. […] Things started to change in my life. I started to come to terms with the emotional and feeling part of me, hence the wing four. I had all kinds of feelings. They were there all the time." Learning to befriend our feelings opens th...
2024-04-0428 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolWhy Information Alone Can't Fix Sexual Brokenness There's an abundance of information available in regards to sexuality and relationships. But that information has not resulted in any lessening of sexual brokenness - in the culture at large or within the Christian church. Something is missing. In this first of a two-part conversation, Dr. Carol addresses that missing piece by discussing neurobiology, the way God created human beings with the need for intimacy (different from sex), and the process God uses to bring us to integration and wholeness. You'll understand what leads to true change, and why more information doesn't work. Check out...
2024-04-0228 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolLove Across the Spectrum: Neurodiversity and Your Christian Marriage If your marriage is difficult, when is it a character issue? And when is it the way someone's brain is wired? How do you respond with grace while protecting your sanity? Neurodiversity, in particular autism spectrum disorder, impacts human relationships deeply, especially marriages. On this episode Dr. Carol talks with Dr. Stephanie Holmes, psychologist and coach specializing in neurodiverse Christian marriages, about how understanding brain wiring provides perspective on living wisely in a difficult marriage, differentiating character issues vs. neurology issues, and provides an honest look at how to find a God-honoring way to function well.
2024-03-2637 min
Simply For WomenFrom Broken to Beautiful: Embracing Life's Journey with Dr. Carol TanksleyWhen the pieces of a broken life come together, they can form a mosaic more beautiful than the original; this is a truth Dr. Carol Tanksley embodies. As an OBGYN turned minister, Dr. Carol shares her emotional saga from the throes of mental turmoil to the solace of divine connection. Have you ever felt the transformative power of a single, humble act of faith? Today on Simply For Women, we journey alongside the biblical woman who teaches us the profound impact of reaching out to Jesus in our darkest moments. Thanks for listening to Simply...
2024-03-2512 min
Simply For WomenFrom Broken to Beautiful: Embracing Life's Journey with Dr. Carol TanksleyWhen the pieces of a broken life come together, they can form a mosaic more beautiful than the original; this is a truth Dr. Carol Tanksley embodies. As an OBGYN turned minister, Dr. Carol shares her emotional saga from the throes of mental turmoil to the solace of divine connection. Have you ever felt the transformative power of a single, humble act of faith? Today on Simply For Women, we journey alongside the biblical woman who teaches us the profound impact of reaching out to Jesus in our darkest moments. Thanks for listening to Simply...
2024-03-2512 minSimply For WomenHealing Connections Between Mind and Divine with Dr. Carol TanksleyWitnessing a serene sunset always fills my heart with a sense of divine peace, a reminder of the profound connection between our spiritual well-being and the world around us. Today's podcast reaches deep into this connection, as we're joined by Dr. Carol Tanksley, whose wisdom on embracing God's presence promises to inspire and rejuvenate your soul. Have you ever felt the transformative power of a single, humble act of faith? Today on Simply For Women, we journey alongside the biblical woman who teaches us the profound impact of reaching out to Jesus in our darkest moments.
2024-03-2212 minSimply For WomenHealing Connections Between Mind and Divine with Dr. Carol TanksleyWitnessing a serene sunset always fills my heart with a sense of divine peace, a reminder of the profound connection between our spiritual well-being and the world around us. Today's podcast reaches deep into this connection, as we're joined by Dr. Carol Tanksley, whose wisdom on embracing God's presence promises to inspire and rejuvenate your soul. Have you ever felt the transformative power of a single, humble act of faith? Today on Simply For Women, we journey alongside the biblical woman who teaches us the profound impact of reaching out to Jesus in our darkest moments.
2024-03-2212 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolOne Woman's Journey of Homosexuality, Healing, and JesusSame-sex attraction and homosexuality are hot-button issues both in culture and in the Christian church. But beneath the debates about behavior, as important as those are, there are deeper matters of the heart including the need for attachment and intimacy. How does that connect with what Scripture says about homosexuality? In this challenging and deep episode, Dr. Carol talks with Anne Edward about her own journey through lesbianism, the matters in her heart that led her out of that, and what it's looked like for her to follow Jesus and now minister to countless others wrestling with i...
2024-03-1945 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolThe Impact of Narcissistic Abuse in Marriage Confused, emotionally exhausted, or feeling crazy or depressed about your marriage? These might be signs you are being impacted by narcissistic and emotional abuse. Narcissism is a loaded word in our contemporary culture. But how do you know if that's what you're experiencing is your imagination, or is truly toxic? Dr. David Hawkins, director of the Marriage Recovery Center, has been dealing with individuals so affected for over 40 years. He joins Dr. Carol on this episode to provide a sobering picture of the suffering narcissistic and emotional abuse brings, and also to offer some wonderful guidance and hope...
2024-03-1253 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolThe Truth About Faith, Trauma, PTSD, and Post-Traumatic GrowthBad things happen even to good people. What happens in a person when they experience trauma or ongoing hardship? There's been a lot of talk in the last few years about trauma-informed care, PTSD, and such. How does all that integrate with faith in God and one's Christian experience? Dr. Shannae Anderson, licensed clinical psychologist, has been working in this field for over 25 years. She talks with Dr. Carol on this episode about integrating psychological trauma-informed care with the Holy Spirit's presence and work in a person's heart to bring healing, growth, meaning, and resilience. They talk...
2024-03-0544 minRelationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolHow Feeling Entitled to Sex Can Destroy Your MarriageCulture has made many people believe you must have a happy sex life in order to be whole and fulfilled in life. The church has "Christianized" that idea, leading many to believe you are entitled to sex, especially if you're married. But countless Christian married people are finding that doesn't work out well. Author, husband, podcaster, and pastor Noah Filipiak talks with Dr. Carol on this episode about how feeling entitled to sex almost destroyed his marriage, and what he believes now. They talk about the belief some have that sex is the "prize" for getting married...
2024-02-2748 min
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2024-02-221h 22
Susie Larson LiveGod, Love, and Relationships with Dr. Carol TanksleySex is a big deal--yet many Christians struggle to make sense of their sexual story in light of their faith. Dr. Carol Tanksley shares from her book "Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships." She offers a redemptive, practical path to sexual wholeness. Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: click here
2024-02-1351 min
Experience A Powerful Full Audiobook On Your Commute.Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships by Carol Tanksley Md DminPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/734881to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships
Author: Carol Tanksley Md Dmin
Narrator: Susan Hanfield
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 7 hours 42 minutes
Release date: February 13, 2024
Genres: Counseling & Inspirational
Publisher's Summary:
Redefine the Way You Look at God, Love, and Relationships Sex is a big deal—yet many Christians struggle to make sense of their sexual story in light of their faith. Porn addiction, hooking up, hating sex, same-sex attraction, fighting about sex, or past sexual harm become part of a cycle of shame you can't es...
2024-02-137h 42
Wholly Well JourneyEp 013: Dr. Carol Tanksley on Sexual Wholeness and Restoring a Messy PastWhat does it mean to be sexually whole? In this episode, Stephanie engages in a deep conversation with Dr. Carol Tanksley on the topic of Sexual Wholeness. Dr. Carol, a medical doctor, ordained minister, and relationship coach, shares insights from her latest book, Sexpectations, delving into the complexities of sexuality, intimacy, and healing from sexual brokenness. You'll be guided through an exploration of the differences between sex and intimacy, the various forms of sexual harm individuals may experience, and the journey toward achieving sexual wholeness. Dr. Carol also addresses the importance of ongoing transformation, for...
2024-02-1333 minGet Best Full Audiobooks in Religion & Spirituality, Counseling & InspirationalSexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships by Carol Tanksley Md DminPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/734881to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships
Author: Carol Tanksley Md Dmin
Narrator: Susan Hanfield
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 7 hours 42 minutes
Release date: February 13, 2024
Genres: Counseling & Inspirational
Publisher's Summary:
Redefine the Way You Look at God, Love, and Relationships Sex is a big deal—yet many Christians struggle to make sense of their sexual story in light of their faith. Porn addiction, hooking up, hating sex, same-sex attraction, fighting about sex, or past sexual harm become part of a cycle of shame you can't es...
2024-02-137h 42
The Covenant Eyes PodcastMastering the Art of Intimacy: Insights from Dr. Carol TanksleyWelcome to another insightful episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast! In this episode, we have the honor of hosting the accomplished Dr. Carol Tanksley – author, speaker, personal coach, and licensed OB-GYN physician. Dr. Carol shares her unique journey, highlighting the profound impact of personal growth and overcoming challenges in her life.Discover the depths of Dr. Carol's ministry as she discusses her latest book, "Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not So Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships." This candid conversation delves into the complexities of sexuality, relationships, and intimacy, offering valuable insights for individuals seeking freedom fr...
2024-02-0720 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolHow to Have the Intimacy You Always Wanted in Your MarriageThe illusion that intimacy in marriage just "happens" may not even last as long as the wedding cake. Maybe the intimate connection between you was good but became broken, or maybe you've never had that strong of a connection. What are the practical steps for those who want more from their relationship to actually build true intimacy that lasts? Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith had to wrestle with that question in their own marriage. On this episode they talk with Dr. Carol about not only their story, but the practical framework they've developed to help couples at every...
2024-02-0642 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolA Christian Lawyer Addresses Sexual Abuse by Church LeadersTragically there are too many times when a spiritual leader uses their spiritual authority to perpetrate sexual harm and abuse on individuals under their care. The harm such victims experience is deep and long-lasting. And when these individuals seek help, the church's response has too often only added to their pain. In this sobering but enlightening episode Dr. Carol talks with Christian lawyer Boz Tchividjian about clergy sexual abuse in the Protestant church - a cause he has devoted a good share of his career to. Boz has worked for decades on behalf of those who have...
2024-01-3044 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolBoundaries for Christians: How to Guard Your Heart and Love WiselyDo you find yourself struggling with people pleasing, unhealthy relationships, avoiding conflict, or trouble setting boundaries? Have you lost yourself along the way of trying to love those closest to you? Perhaps you're suffering and struggle to understand why. On this episode Dr. Carol talks with Courtney Burg about the family-of-origin dynamics that may set you up for codependency and ongoing dysfunction. And then you'll hear how to overcome your fear of setting boundaries, and what that looks like for a follower of Jesus. You can learn to love in ways that are wise and life-giving.
2024-01-1633 min
The Counter Culture Mom Show with Tina GriffinPrevalence of Sexploitation Among Minors Requires Proactive Parenting - Dr. Carol TanksleyTAKEAWAYSParents will not be with their kids all the time, so they must prepare their children to have character and awarenessEveryone needs connection and intimacyShame isolates us from people and even from God - we have a choice to step into the light and disinfect shame with truthWe need to be having conversations with our children that will help them understand their own needs and desires🛠 TOOLS AND RESOURCES FROM EPISODEDownload the Counter Culture Mom App: https://bit.ly/3d2wSYyS...
2024-01-1227 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolHow to Help Your Children Adopt Positive Attitudes, Act Righteously, and Develop Healthy HabitsDoes trying to get your children to obey leave you frustrated and upset? And does it seem that if you clamp down harder, your kids only resist more? What if there were a way to help your kids want to "be good," know how to do that, and actually demonstrate a healthy godly character even when you're not watching? Dr. Kathy Koch from Celebrate Kids joins Dr. Carol on this episode to help you learn how to Parent Differently. She offers practical, relatable, and spiritually-related insights and strategies that focus on guiding and growing your kids so...
2024-01-0936 min
Dream Out Loud Podcast2023 Top Rated Podcasts: Carol Tanksley: Coaching Through GriefIn this top-rated replay episode, Carol Tanksley opens up about her journey, what got her into coaching, how processing grief factors into coaching, the lessons she's learned in coaching, and so much more!
2023-12-1431 min
Theology in the RawS2 Ep1105: Purity Culture, Female Sexuality, Shame, Body Positivity, Lust, Modesty, and a Theology of Menopause: Dr. Carol TanksleyDr. Carol Tanksley practiced medicine as an OB-Gyn physician and Reproductive Endocrinologist for over 29 years. While continuing to practice medicine, I also obtained an M.Div. (Master of Divinity), and then a D.Min. (Doctor of Ministry) from Oral Roberts University, focusing on Christian leadership. She’s an author of several books that focus on mental, physical, and sexual health from a Christian perspective. In this episode, we talk about the challenges facing Christian women in the wake of purity culture. We talk about shame, body positivity, challenges to female sexual satisfaction and desire, Christian marriages, lust, modesty and clothing, me...
2023-08-241h 09
The Jar Podcast | Dignity, Restored, Marriage, Healing, Forgiveness#128 - Is Sex a Problem in Your Marriage? How to Communicate to Increase Intimacy with Your Husband with Guest: Dr. Carol TanksleyDoes Your Husband Expect Sex Even When You Don’t Want It?
Have you experienced trauma in you past that makes intimacy difficult for you?
You want him to feel fulfilled but you just don’t enjoy it?
You WANT this area of your marriage to be healthy, strong and comfortable, but there’s a lot to unpack. You WANT to open up to your husband about it, but you also don’t want to make him feel bad… plus, it’s just plain embarrassing sometimes!
Whether it...
2023-07-1528 min
The Counter Culture Mom Show with Tina GriffinWalking Through the Tough Journey of Infertility Together as a Couple - Dr. Carol TanksleyInfertility can heavily affect marriages when couples begin playing the “shame and blame” gameSupport your partner throughout infertility by reaffirming your unconditional love for them, regardless of whether you have childrenWe are not taught to suffer well in our culture and infertility is a type of suffering that pains many peopleChurch can serve as a highly isolating environment for those who are longing to expand their families🛠 TOOLS AND RESOURCES FROM EPISODEPrimal Life Organics: https://bit.ly/3NwTY8UGuide to Women’s Health Bo...
2023-06-2727 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolDr. Carol Answers Your Toughest Questions About Relationships, Sexuality and Intimacy We hear from many of you asking questions about difficult situations involving sexuality, relationships, and intimacy. In this episode Dr. Carol addresses a number of your questions around these challenging issues. Issues she addresses include sexual betrayal in marriage, shame around masturbation, struggles to break free from pornography, and long-standing disconnect around sexual intimacy between husband and wife. Check these resources Dr. Carol mentioned: Ways to Pray About Your Troubled Marriage Free download 5-part Prescription for Sexual Healing–God's Way Online course Fully Alive Marriage Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. Leave a question or confidential message here.
2023-04-2525 min