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The Road To HappinessHow Do I Cope With Pain & Trauma After Infidelity? | Ft. Mary Faxon [RTH Episode #40]Send a textHey friend, this episode is tender. If you’ve recently discovered your spouse has been unfaithful, we want to say first: We are so sorry. Betrayal is one of the most heartbreaking experiences a human being can walk through, so know we're here for you. In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh sits down with Mary Faxon, NICC® certified counselor and advanced practice therapist at MyCounselor.Online, to unpack her recent article: 👉 "How To Cope With Pain and Trauma After Infidelity."And le...
2026-02-2420 minThe Road To HappinessCan My Marriage Survive an Affair? | Ft. Peter Muhwati [RTH Episode #39]Send a textHey friend—this episode's topic is tender. If you’re facing infidelity in your marriage (or someone you love is), we want to start by saying: We see you. We’re so sorry. And we’re here to walk with you.In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh sits down with Peter Muhwati, one of our trusted counselors at MyCounselor.Online, a NICC®-certified advanced practice therapist, to unpack a powerful and heart-centered question: 👉 "Can my marriage survive an affair?"Peter recently wrot...
2026-02-1716 minThe Road To HappinessCan Men & Women Be “Just Friends”? —How to Navigate Healthy Relationships with the Opposite S*x [RTH Episode #38]Send a textHey friend! Today we’re excited to be answering a fantastic listener question that came in recently (we love when that happens!):👉 How do I have healthy friendships with the opposite s*x—especially in the Christian world?If you've ever wondered how to navigate these relationships without the awkwardness or crossed wires, you're not alone. Whether you're single, dating, or married, the dynamics of male/female friendships can be tricky—and sometimes even a little confusing.In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Ca...
2026-02-1054 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 22: "Until Death Do We Sex" —Why Your Best S*x Might Be Still Ahead [RTH Episode #37]Send a textHey friend—let’s talk about something we don’t hear enough:👉 Sex is meant to get BETTER with time.In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie (Christian s*x therapist and s*x educators) open up to their LAST chapter of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and reframe what lifelong intimacy is actually supposed to look like. Spoiler alert: awkward honeymoon s*x shouldn't be the finish line. It’s the starting line of a lifelong dance...
2026-02-0321 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 21: "Christian Sex Therapy" —When You Need More Than A Book [RTH Episode #36]Send a textHey friend! There are many wise, wonderful Christian counselors out there. We love them. We work alongside them. But here’s what most people don’t realize…👉 S*x therapy is not part of standard counseling training. That means even highly skilled, licensed counselors may not be equipped to navigate the deeply personal and often complex world of sexual concerns.That’s where Christian s*x therapy steps in.In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 21...
2026-01-2726 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 20: "Sex Positive Church" —Reclaiming S*xual Freedom God’s Way [RTH Episode #35]Send a textHey friend, we need a s*x revolution in the Church.For far too long, the enemy has twisted s*x into something shameful, secretive, and confusing. Yes, culture distorted it—but the Church has also lost ground. Too many believers were handed two broken options: 👉 the world’s way—hyper-s*xualized, self-focused, and empty 👉 or a purity culture that left us wounded, ashamed, and unsureAnd the fallout? Women carrying body shame, s*xual anxiety, performance pressure, low desire, p*rn struggles, trauma, and questions they...
2026-01-2044 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 19: "Kinky?" Part 3 — Exploring An@l, Role Play, and Sacred Creativity in the Bedroom [RTH Episode #34]Send a textHey friend! We’ve reached Part 3 of 3 in our deep dive into Chapter 19: “Kinky?” from Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire—and this final conversation might be the boldest yet!In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are having honest, grace-filled conversation around some of the most taboo—but frequently asked—topics in Christian marriages:An@l s*x: Is it off-limits, or is there room for biblical discernment?
2026-01-1347 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 19: "Kinky?" Part 2 — Restraints, Romance Novels & Real Talk for Christian Marriages [RTH Episode #33]Send a textHey friend! Welcome to Part 2 of 3 in our “Kinky?” conversation based on Chapter 19 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire. If you missed last week’s episode, we highly recommend hitting pause and starting there—it lays the foundation for today’s spicy but sacred discussion.In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are diving into some real talk about:Restraints & bondage — what they mean, why they’re appealing, and h...
2026-01-0638 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 19: "Kinky?" Part 1 — Exploring Uncommon Desires with Faith & Freedom [RTH Episode #32]Send a textHey friend! If you grew up in the church, you may have heard that Missionary was the only “godly” way to connect in the bedroom. Meanwhile, culture tells us that anything goes. So where’s the truth? Let’s talk about it.In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 19 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and dive into a hot-topic question: 👉 What is kink? And is it okay for Christians?The simplest definition of...
2025-12-3045 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 18: "Sexy Twister"—Exploring New Positions & The Heart of S*xual Adventure [RTH Episode #31]Send a textHey friend! Remember the game Twister? One spin of the dial and suddenly you’re tangled in awkward, hilarious poses—part chaos, part thrill, and 100% fun. Believe it or not, exploring s*xual positions in marriage can feel exactly like that… in the best way.In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie unwrap Chapter 18 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire and talk about the heart and mindset behind s*xual adventure—not a checklist of positions, but the spirit o...
2025-12-2320 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 17: "Getting Handsy"—A ‘Hands-On’ Guide to Sacred Pleasure [RTH Episode #30]Send a textHey friend! Let’s talk about something that rarely gets airtime in Christian conversations about s*x: hand jobs and manual pleasure. In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 17 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and they’re exploring the powerful, playful, and yes—profound role of your hands in the bedroom.If just reading that makes you a little uncomfortable, you’re not alone. Many couples feel unsure or even awkward about this part of thei...
2025-12-1623 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 16: "Testosterone & Tingles"—When Hormones Hold the Missing Piece [RTH Episode #29]Send a textHey friend! Let’s have a little holy honesty—when it comes to low desire in the bedroom, especially for women, it’s rarely just about hormones. Emotional wounds, spiritual weariness, exhaustion, disconnection, and stress all play a role. But sometimes… hormones really are the missing piece.In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 16 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and they're getting personal—sharing their own journey (especially Cassie) with testostero...
2025-12-0916 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 15: "Tongues of Fire"—What Does the Bible Say about Or@l S*x? [RTH Episode #28]Send a textHey friend! Let’s be honest—or@l s*x probably didn’t come up in Sunday school. But tucked right into the pages of God’s inspired love poetry (hello, Song of Songs) is a bold and beautiful picture of sensual, sacred pleasure.In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 15 of their book Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire and dive into a topic that often feels taboo in Christian circles: or@l s*x in marriage.
2025-12-0239 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 14: "Oh, Oh, Oh, Omazing®!"—Understanding Org@sms Without the Pressure [RTH Episode #27]Send a textHey friend! Let’s talk about something we all wonder about but rarely feel safe to ask: org*sms. In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 14 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and yes—they’re going there! Here’s the fun fact you didn’t know you needed: an orgasm is a lot like a sneeze. Seriously! It’s a reflex—not something you force, but something your body does when the right ingr...
2025-11-2529 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 13: "Imagine That"—How Your Mind Shapes Your S*xual Confidence [RTH Episode #26]Send a textHey friend! Did you know that Jesus designed your imagination? Yep—your vivid, playful, sometimes awkward, and even steamy imagination is His idea. In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie (Christian s*x therapist & s*x educators) explore Chapter 13 of their recent book "Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire." Today, it’s all about the sacred power of your mind when it comes to intimacy.You weren’t created to live disjointed—body over here, spirit over there. You’re an
2025-11-1827 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 12: "Just Me, Myself, & Jesus" —Let’s Talk About Self-Exploration & Shame [R2H Episode #25]Send a textHey friend! Today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast might feel a little… touchy. We’re diving into Chapter 12 of our book Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and we’re talking about something that’s rarely discussed in church circles with truth, grace, or clarity: self-exploration, the "M" word, and s*xual shame.Depending on the community you grew up in, you may have heard one of two messages:“Self exploration is a normal curiosity—just something private we all explore.”OR... “Don’t touch...
2025-11-1127 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 11: "(Unwanted) Pain Is NOT Sexy" -Finding Healing and Hope in the Bedroom [R2H Episode #24]Send a textHey friend! Let’s talk about something tender, real, and far too common: painful s*x. In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie unpack Chapter 11 of their book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to S*xual Confidence & Desire, and they’re shining a compassionate light on what many women silently struggle with—unwanted pain during intimacy.Let’s clear this up first: some couples enjoy a little playful pain in the bedroom with full consent and enjoyment. That’s not what we’re talking...
2025-11-0422 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 10: "Accelerators & Breaks" -Why You’re Turned On One Day and Off the Next [R2H Episode #23]Send a textHey friend! Ever wonder why some days you're totally ready for s*x with just one look from your spouse… and other days, even the idea feels like a chore? You’re not broken—you're just working with two powerful systems: your accelerator pedal and your brake pedal.In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie break down the concepts from Chapter 10 of their book Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire. You’ll learn how to recognize what’s revving your engine—...
2025-10-2816 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 9: "Secret Desires"—Understanding How S*xual Desire Really Works [R2H Episode #22]Send a textHey friend! When you think of s*xual desire, what comes to mind? If it’s a sudden, out-of-nowhere wave of horniness that feels like a chocolate craving—you're not wrong. That’s one form of desire… but it’s not the only one.In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie dive into Chapter 9 of their book Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and introduce you to a powerful concept that changes everything: Receptive desire.While spontaneous desire often shows up lik...
2025-10-2110 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 8: “Divorce-Proofing Your Marriage” – How Intimacy Reveals What’s Really Going On [R2H Episode #21]Send a textHey friend—deep breath. This one might challenge you a little, but it’s too important not to say: Your s*x life is a barometer for the health of your marriage.Now, before you panic—we’re not saying it’s the only barometer or even the most important one all the time. But it is a highly revealing one. In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are digging into Chapter 8 of their book Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confide...
2025-10-1420 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 7: "Sexy Talk"—How to Communicate About Intimacy Without the Awkward [R2H Episode #20]Send a textHey friend! When you saw the title “Sexy Talk,” your mind might’ve jumped to flirting or bedroom talk—but that’s a different chapter. 😉 In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 7 of their new book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and unpacking what “Sexy Talk” really means: open, healthy communication around s*x in marriage.Let’s be honest—s*x, money, and kids are the top 3 tension points in most marriages. And if you’re not talking about...
2025-10-0718 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 6: "Brats & Doormats"—Why Maturity Is the Real Turn-On [R2H Episode #19]Send a textHey friend! We’re back with another episode in our Feeling Sexy series, and this one gets real. Today, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 6 of their book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and the topic? Emotional maturity in marriage—and what happens when it’s missing.In the early days of love, everything feels dreamy. But when the honeymoon phase fades and real life sets in, those adorable quirks can turn into major irritations. That’s when we often default into one of two unheal...
2025-09-3024 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 5: "Green Means Go"—What Your Nervous System Says About S*x [R2H Episode #18]Send a textHey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 5 of their new book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and it’s a game-changer.This episode is all about the deep and often overlooked connection between your nervous system and your s*xuality—and how understanding that connection can completely transform your experience in the bedroom.Using a powerful stoplight analogy, they break down what your body might be telling you:💚 Green = Ventral Vagal: You’re sa...
2025-09-2323 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 4: "The Art of Seduction"—Confidence, Desire, & Body Image [R2H Episode #17]Send a textHey friend! We’re continuing our deep-dive into Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and today’s episode is all about one of the most tender (and powerful) topics: seduction.In Chapter 4, “The Art of Seduction,” Josh & Cassie explore how desire is experienced differently between men and women—and how confidence plays a key role. For many husbands, desire is fueled by how attracted they are to their wives. But for wives? It’s often about how attractive they feel about themselves.In this episode...
2025-09-1624 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 3: "S*x God"—Let’s Talk About Holy Desire [R2H Episode #16]Send a textHey friend—want to improve your s*x life? You’re in good company. In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie dive into Chapter 3 of their new book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and they’re not holding back.Today’s conversation is all about God’s design—for your body, for intimacy, and for what s*x is supposed to look like within Christian marriage. Spoiler alert: it’s better, deeper, and more sacred than what the world tries to offer....
2025-09-0930 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 2: How to Read Feeling Sexy & Maximize Your Growth [R2H Episode #15]Send a textHey friend! If you’ve grabbed your copy of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire (or you're thinking about it), today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast is for you.Josh & Cassie are sharing the best ways to read Feeling Sexy—whether you're a wife ready to grow in confidence and desire, or a husband hoping to better understand your wife’s journey. This isn't just a book—it’s a roadmap for healing, connection, and sexual wholeness, rooted in biblical truth and backed by decades of cli...
2025-09-0221 minThe Road To HappinessFeeling Sexy Ep. 1: The Story Behind Feeling Sexy — Confidence, Desire & Faith in the Bedroom [R2H Episode #14]Send a textHey Friend... Feeling Sexy? Because we've got some exciting news! 🎉 Josh & Cassie are thrilled to announce the release of their brand new book: Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman's Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire - and in this episode, they're giving you a behind-the-scenes look at how it came to life! This episode kicks off a special podcast series where they unpack why they wrote the book, who it's form, and how faith, neuroscience, and s*xuality all work together to help you create the thriving, connected, and joy-filled intim...
2025-08-2621 minThe Road To HappinessCommon Therapy Struggles for Alpha Males [R2H Episode #13]Send a textHey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough—why alpha males often avoid therapy and what that means for their growth, relationships, and emotional well-being.If you’re someone with a strong, take-charge personality—or you love someone who is—this conversation is for you. We’re breaking down the myths around masculinity and strength, and challenging the idea that emotions make you weak. Because true strength? It starts with honesty, vulnerability, and a willingness to grow....
2025-08-1917 minThe Road To HappinessNavigating Relationship Loss: Tips for Healing & Moving Forward [R2H Episode #12]Send a textHey friend. Let’s be real—relationship loss hurts. Whether it's the death of a loved one, a friend who moved away, or a painful falling out, losing someone close to you leaves a deep ache. In today’s episode, Josh & Cassie are walking with you through the grief, the questions, and the slow, hopeful process of healing.You’re not alone in this. And while loss is a painful part of life, it can also become a turning point for growth, emotional maturity, and deeper connection with others—and with yourself.Join...
2025-07-2217 minThe Road To HappinessHow Do I Find & Retain Adult Friendships? [R2H Episode #11]Send a textMaking friends as a kid? Easy. Making friends as an adult? Well… that’s a whole different story. In today’s episode, Josh & Cassie dive into the real-life challenge of building and maintaining adult friendships—especially when life keeps changing.Whether you’ve moved, gotten married, had kids, or just feel like your old friendships don’t quite fit anymore, you’re not alone. But the good news? You can create meaningful, grown-up connections that last—and they’re worth the effort.Join us as we discuss:Why adult friendships feel h...
2025-07-1528 minThe Road To HappinessI'm Aroused When I Have a Full Bladder—Is That Normal? | Asking For A Friend [R2H Episode #10]Send a textIs it weird to feel sexually aroused when you have a full bladder? One listener submitted this honest “Asking for a Friend” question—and Josh & Cassie are here to answer it with compassion, clarity, and a little bit of science.Here’s the good news: Yes, it’s normal! You’re not broken, you’re not alone, and you’re definitely not the only one who’s ever felt this way.In this episode, Josh (certified sex therapist) and Cassie explain:Why some people experience arousal when their...
2025-07-0806 minThe Road To HappinessMy Husband Has ED—What Now? | Asking For A Friend [R2H Episode #9]Send a textSix weeks into marriage and struggling with erectile dysfunction? You’re not alone. In this “Asking for a Friend” episode, Josh & Cassie respond to a heartfelt submission from a newlywed facing unexpected challenges in the bedroom—and the emotional weight that comes with it.When expectations around intimacy collide with real-life struggles, it can feel isolating, discouraging, and even threatening to your relationship. But the truth? There’s hope—and healing is possible.In this episode, Josh (certified sex therapist) and Cassie explore:What to do when erectile dysfunction
2025-07-0115 minThe Road To HappinessHow Do I Heal from Verbal Abuse? | Asking For A Friend [R2H Episode #8]Send a textNo one walks into a relationship expecting to experience verbal abuse—especially not from someone they love. And yet, here you are, carrying the weight of words that were never meant to define you. If this is your story, friend, we see you—and you're not alone.In this heartfelt “Asking for a Friend” episode, Josh & Cassie gently unpack what it means to begin healing from verbal abuse. Whether you’re still in the relationship or picking up the pieces afterward, this episode offers compassion, clarity, and next steps for healing.Join us...
2025-06-2711 minThe Road To HappinessIs Healing from Infidelity Possible? The Power of an Impact Letter [RTH Episode #7]Send a textInfidelity. It’s one of the most painful, disorienting experiences a couple can face. The betrayal. The broken trust. The "How did we get here?" feeling. If your world feels like it just turned upside down, this episode is for you.Josh & Cassie don’t shy away from the hard stuff—and today, they dive headfirst into the question: Can a marriage truly heal after an affair? As a certified sex therapist and affair recovery specialist, Josh has walked with countless couples through devastation and into redemption. He’s seen miracles—and he wants t...
2025-06-1610 minThe Road To HappinessDoes Oral S*x Freak You Out? [R2H Episode #6]Send a textHey Friend! Let’s be real—when it comes to sex, especially oral sex, a lot of people feel awkward, unsure, or downright freaked out. Whether it’s something you’ve never talked about or something that brings up guilt, confusion, or curiosity, this episode is a safe space to explore it all.As a certified sex therapist, Josh is here with Cassie to help couples find true freedom and intimacy—including in the areas that feel the most taboo. In today’s episode, they tackle the stigma, the shame, and the silence arou...
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The Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastThe Immanuel Approach & The Heart of Jesus | Ft. Dr. Karl Lehman [NICC Episode #56]Send us a textPsychiatrist. EMDR therapist. Kingdom-minded healer. In this rich and inspiring episode, Josh & Cassie sit down with Dr. Karl Lehman—author of The Immanuel Approach—to explore how imagery, neuroscience, and the presence of Jesus come together to spark real, lasting transformation.Dr. Lehman has spent thousands of hours walking people into healing encounters with Jesus, and today he shares how the Immanuel Approach uses guided imagery to establish connection with the living God. From his clinical training to his ministry roots, Karl brings wisdom, joy, and deep conviction that Jesu...
2025-06-051h 28The Road To HappinessWhat is Sexual Immorality? [R2H Episode #5]Send a text“Sexual immorality.” It’s a phrase you’ve probably heard—maybe in church, in culture, or growing up. But what does it really mean? And why does it carry so much weight, confusion, and (let’s be honest) shame?In this episode, Josh & Cassie unpack what sexual immorality actually means—biblically, emotionally, and relationally—and how your past experiences may be shaping the way you interpret that phrase today. Whether you’re navigating your faith, your past, or your marriage, this conversation will give you fresh clarity and hope.Join us as we discuss:
2025-06-0209 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastReplay & Anchoring: How Reflection Reinforces Healing [NICC Episode #55]Send us a textHealing doesn’t end when the breakthrough moment happens—true transformation is sealed through Replay. In this episode, we unpack the powerful practice of Replay (also known as meta-processing), a vital part of the NICC process that helps the brain lock in healing and grow new, healthier neural pathways.We’ll also explore the role of Anchoring, which helps participants carry the healing with them beyond the session. Whether it’s a word, phrase, image, or physical object, an anchor lights up the new pathways that were formed—r...
2025-05-2917 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastImmanuel Imagery: Experiencing Jesus Through the Power of Visualization [NICC Episode #54]Send us a textWhat if your imagination isn’t just for daydreams—but a powerful, God-designed tool for healing and connection? In this episode, we dive into Immanuel Imagery—a practice that invites the Holy Spirit into your imagination to experience Jesus in personal, transformative ways.Join us as we discuss:Create your Immanuel Space—a sacred, Spirit-led place in your imagination where you can meet with JesusUse Joyful Immanuel Memories to strengthen connection and healingSafely engage in Immanuel Healing Imagery to process painful memories with Jesus’ helpRecognize signs of emotional overload and how to ret...
2025-05-2236 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastHealing the Younger You: How to Integrate Parts of Self for Greater Wholeness [NICC Episode #53]Send us a textEver wonder why you suddenly feel like a kid again in certain situations? It’s not your imagination—it’s your brain. In this episode, we explore how memories store snapshots of our younger selves and how these "parts of self" come online when old wounds are triggered. These aren’t separate people—they’re earlier versions of you, still carrying the emotions and beliefs of the moment that shaped them.Join us as we discuss:What “parts of self” really are and how they show up in daily lifeHow engaging with th...
2025-05-1533 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastFrom Coping to Thriving: Healing Wounds, Gaps & Unhelpful Habits [NICC Episode #52]Send us a textHey Friend! What if the path to happiness isn’t about doing more—but about becoming more whole? In this episode, we explore how the Holy Spirit, through your Thrive Drive, brings forward the right memories at the right time for healing. It’s not random—it’s divinely timed, and your nervous system knows what needs attention.Join us as we discuss:Wounds (from things that shouldn’t have happened) can be healed through emotional processing.Gaps (from things that should have happened but didn’t) can be fill...
2025-05-1347 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastTrue Happiness: Healing, Joy, and the Power to Change [NICC Episode #51]Send us a textWhat if true happiness isn’t about chasing the next high—but about becoming the person Jesus created you to be? In this episode, we explore how peace, joy, and satisfaction come together to form a deeper, lasting happiness. It’s not about perfection—it’s about maturity, healing, and freedom from the wounds, gaps, and unhelpful habits that keep us stuck. ⛓️💥 You’ll learn how the Pain Processing Pathway and memory reconsolidation work together to transform painful memories into sources of wisdom. We break down how to activate the brain’s natural healing abilit...
2025-05-0824 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastRhythms of Renewal for Resilience in Ministry [NICC Episode #50]Send us a textHey friend! We’re so excited for today’s episode—it’s a little different than usual, and we think you’re going to love it. Recently, Josh and Cassie had the privilege of speaking to a group of ministry leaders about how to build Rhythms of Renewal in ministry, and the conversation was so rich and encouraging, they knew they had to share it with you too! 💛Ministry can be draining, but it doesn't have to lead to burnout! God created us for rhythms of rest, connection, and restoration—and living them out...
2025-04-2248 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastTrue Happiness: What Jesus & Neuroscience Agree On [NICC Episode #49]Send us a textIs happiness unspiritual? Somewhere along the way, Christians started believing that Jesus only came to give us “joy” but not happiness. But here’s the truth—Scripture and science say they are the same thing! In this episode, we’re unpacking what the Bible really teaches about happiness, why Jesus does want us to be happy, and how neuroscience backs it all up.Join us as we discuss:Why the Bible makes no distinction between happiness and joyHow our brain’s systems are wired for True HappinessThe difference between fleeting pleasure and...
2025-03-2530 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastDesigned for Joy: How Play Connects Us to God & Each Other [NICC Episode #48]Send us a textPlay is deeply underrated—but did you know it's actually part of God's design for human flourishing? From childhood games to laughter with friends, from the arts to adventure, play is woven into the fabric of creation. In this episode, we explore how embracing play can deepen our joy, strengthen our relationships, and even enhance our faith.Join us as we discuss:How play reflects the heart of God and is embedded in ScriptureThe science behind play—how it shapes our brains and boosts emotional well-beingDiscovering your "play personality" and how...
2025-03-2024 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastDeepen the Good: How to Rewire Your Brain for Lasting Change [NICC Episode #47]Send us a textSend us a textDid you know your brain is constantly changing? Thanks to neuroplasticity, our brains can rewire and adapt throughout life—for better or worse. In NICC, we privilege the positive—not by ignoring pain, but by reinforcing the good. In this episode, we’re diving into how you can intentionally shape your brain’s pathways to cultivate resilience, joy, and healing. Learn how to intentionally nurture the right neural pathways and create lasting change.Join us as we discuss:The science behind neuroplasticity and how it impac...
2025-03-1824 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastSelf-Compassion: Seeing Yourself Through God’s Eyes [NICC Episode #46]Send us a textSelf-compassion isn’t self-indulgence—it’s an invitation to see ourselves with the same grace, mercy, and patience that Jesus extends to us. Through the lens of God’s love, we can acknowledge our wounds without shame, extend kindness to ourselves in moments of failure, and embrace growth with gentleness instead of self-criticism.In this episode, we explore what it means to meet ourselves with the same compassion Christ offers. We’ll discuss how our past experiences shape our self-perception, why gratitude for our survival strategies matters, and how patience in the journe...
2025-03-1323 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastHealing Through Connection: Practical Steps for Co-Regulation [NICC Episode #45]Send us a textHealing from emotional wounds and insecure attachment isn’t just about self-help—it’s about connection. God designed us to co-regulate with others, offering and receiving comfort in relationships that reflect His love. But how do we find safe people? How do we build trust when our nervous system has been wired for self-protection?In this episode, we explore practical ways to engage in co-regulation while integrating spiritual practices that align with biblical truth. From identifying safe co-regulation partners to practicing verbal, non-verbal, and spiritual co-regulation, we’ll unpack actionable steps toward h...
2025-03-1125 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastHealing Through Connection: How Relationships Rewire the Brain [NICC Episode #44]Send us a textGod designed us for connection. From the very beginning, He declared, “It is not good for man to be alone” (Genesis 2:18). Yet today, nearly half of American adults experience loneliness—an epidemic that takes a toll not just on emotions but on physical health. Research shows chronic loneliness can be as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.In this episode, we dive into the powerful intersection of neuroscience and Scripture, exploring how relationships shape our nervous system, impact mental health, and play a crucial role in emotional healing. We’ll uncover why atta...
2025-03-0627 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastThe Power of Bearing Burdens Together [NICC Episode #43]Send us a textWhen we go through overwhelming experiences—things that shake us to our core—our nervous system can’t always process them in the moment. Instead, our brain packs these emotions and memories away, like boxes stored on a high shelf, only to be knocked down when life triggers them. And when they fall, we’re left scrambling, unsure how to sort through the mess.But here’s the truth: we were never meant to navigate our pain alone.In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of connection and healin...
2025-03-0413 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastSpirituality and Mental Health: NICC Insights [NICC Episode #42]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® podcast, we explore how spirituality and our relationship with God intersect with mental health and well-being. Join Josh Spurlock as he discusses the five developmental domains that shape human character, with a deep dive into the spiritual domain—an essential part of holistic health and growth in who God created us to be.If you're ready to take your counseling approach to the next level, learn more about the NICC Basic Training course by clicking here: https://joshspurlock.com/nicc-basic-training/.S...
2025-02-2729 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastFeelings: Unlocking Emotional Intelligence [NICC Episode #41]Send us a textHave you ever felt a little out of sync when it comes to emotional intelligence or relationships? You're not alone! In this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® podcast, Josh and Cassie Spurlock dive into the fascinating world of emotional intelligence and its impact on happiness, relationships, and spiritual growth. Learn how understanding your feelings is a critical developmental domain for both personal and professional success—and how neuroscience and Christian counseling come together to guide the way.👉 Ready to take the next step? Learn more about the NICC Basic Traini...
2025-02-2523 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastReality Check: Understanding the Reality Domain in NICC [NICC Episode #40]Send us a textHave you ever wondered why some people seem completely out of touch with reality? In this episode of the Neuroscience-Informed Christian Counseling® podcast, we explore the "Reality Domain"—how realistic expectations of self and others impact personal and spiritual growth. This engaging discussion is an excerpt from the NICC Basic Training course, led by Josh Spurlock, who dives into the developmental factors behind our connection to reality.✨ Ready to deepen your counseling skills and learn more? Discover the full NICC Basic Training course here: https://joshspurlock.com/nicc-basic-training/.Tune in to...
2025-02-2022 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastIndependence & Mastery [NICC Episode #39]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® podcast, we explore the developmental domain of independence and mastery. How do you navigate life’s practicalities? What makes you unique in the world? And do you have what it takes to live with confidence and purpose? Join Josh Spurlock as he unpacks these essential questions, helping you understand independence through the lens of neuroscience and Christian counseling.This episode is an exclusive excerpt from the NICC Basic Training course, designed to equip counselors with transformative tools for personal and professional growth.
2025-02-1824 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastConnection: How Do We Learn We Are Lovable? [NICC Episode #38]Send us a textWhat makes us feel lovable and worthy of care? Where does our sense of value and connection come from? In this episode, Josh Spurlock dives into key questions about self-worth, attachment, and the neuroscience behind feeling loved and secure. You'll learn about the foundations of emotional safety, what happens when those foundations are disrupted, and whether it's ever too late to heal.This episode is an exclusive excerpt from the NICC Basic Training course, designed for counselors, coaches, and ministry leaders who want to integrate cutting-edge neuroscience with Christian...
2025-02-1326 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastLimited Reparenting: Healing Life’s Gaps [NICC Episode #37]Send us a textIn a perfect world, our childhoods would be filled with ideal experiences that fully shape our character and equip us for the abundant life God designed us for. But reality often leaves us with developmental gaps and wounds that impact how we navigate life.In this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® podcast, Josh Spurlock explores how neuroscience and faith intersect to address these gaps. Discover how imperfect experiences shape us, how God’s design equips us for healing, and practical insights to help you or your clients move toward who...
2025-02-1141 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastIncarnational Counseling: Insights from NICC Basic Training [NICC Episode #36]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Podcast, we bring you an inspiring excerpt from the NICC Basic Training course. Join Josh Spurlock as he shares practical, faith-based insights on the integration of neuroscience and biblical truths to foster healing, growth, and thriving.Explore how God’s design of the mind and spirit enables transformative change in counseling and ministry settings. Whether you're a pastoral counselor, ministry leader, or simply passionate about personal growth, this episode provides powerful tools to deepen your understanding of mental and spi...
2025-02-0645 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastThe Thrive Drive: Unlocking God’s Design for Healing and Growth [NICC Episode #35]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Podcast, Josh Spurlock shines a spotlight on the Thrive Drive, a foundational concept from the NICC Basic Training course. Learn how God has wired each of us with an innate drive for healing, growth, and thriving, and how understanding this design can transform your approach to emotional and spiritual health.Discover how integrating neuroscience and Scripture can empower counselors, ministry leaders, and individuals to align with God’s purpose, overcome obstacles, and experience true flourishing.👉 Take the ne...
2025-02-0421 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastBrainSync: The Neuroscience of Connection in Christian Counseling [NICC Episode #34]Send us a textIn this insightful episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Podcast, Josh Spurlock unpacks BrainSync, a transformative concept from the NICC Basic Training course. Discover how God-designed neuroscience principles guide us in fostering meaningful connections with others and with Christ.This episode explores the role of relational connection in healing and thriving, showing how our brains are wired for attachment, community, and spiritual growth. Whether you're a counselor, ministry leader, or someone passionate about integrating faith and science, this episode provides practical tools to deepen relationships and align w...
2025-01-3026 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastWounds and Trauma: A Neuroscience-Informed Approach to Healing [NICC Episode #33]Send us a textIn this impactful episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Podcast, Josh Spurlock explores the profound connection between wounds, trauma, and healing through a biblical and neuroscience-informed lens. Taken from the NICC Basic Training course, this episode delves into the theory of trauma, how it affects the body and soul, and the pathways God provides for restoration and thriving.Learn practical ways to address the impact of trauma by integrating neuroscience and Scripture, equipping yourself to guide others (or yourself) toward healing and wholeness in Christ.T...
2025-01-2833 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastThe Thrive Drive: Attuning to Your Nervous System for Spiritual Growth & Healing [NICC Episdoe #32]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Podcast, Josh Spurlock introduces the concept of the Thrive Drive—the God-designed force within us that propels healing, growth, and thriving. This excerpt from the NICC Basic Training course explores how attuning to your nervous system can unlock deeper spiritual connection, emotional regulation, and personal transformation.Discover how aligning with the Thrive Drive fosters a life of purpose, joy, and resilience as you embrace the intricate connection between body, mind, and spirit. This episode blends neuroscience, theology, and practical ste...
2025-01-0731 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastNavigating Nervous System States in Embodied Spirituality [NICC Episode #31]Send us a textIn this enlightening episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Podcast, Josh Spurlock takes a deep dive into the role of nervous system states in the journey of embodied spirituality. Pulled from the NICC Basic Training course, this episode unpacks how understanding and regulating our nervous system can enhance our emotional, spiritual, and relational health.Explore how God’s design of the nervous system aligns with biblical truths, and discover practical tools for cultivating safety, connection, and spiritual thriving through awareness of your body’s responses.Wheth...
2025-01-0239 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastFeel-It-Thru: Harnessing the Power of Emotions in Embodied Spirituality [NICC Episode #30]Send us a textDive into this transformative episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Podcast, where Josh Spurlock reveals the pivotal role of emotions in spiritual growth and healing. Taken from the NICC Basic Training course, this episode explores the Feel-It-Thru process, a powerful tool for engaging emotions as God-designed pathways to freedom and wholeness.Learn how to embrace your emotions as integral to your faith journey, allowing them to lead you into deeper connection with Christ and alignment with your God-given purpose. Combining biblical truths with neuroscience, this episode equips p...
2024-12-311h 16The Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastSin, Salvation, and the Path to Wholeness: A Neuroscience-Informed Approach [NICC Episode #29]Send us a textn this powerful episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Podcast, Josh Spurlock unpacks the profound connection between sin, salvation, and emotional healing. Drawing from the NICC Basic Training course, this excerpt explores how the integration of biblical truths and neuroscience can guide you toward spiritual wholeness and thriving in Christ.Learn how the concepts of sin and salvation not only affect your soul but also leave imprints on your body and mind—and how God’s redemptive work offers holistic healing for every aspect of your being....
2024-12-2650 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastEmbodied Spirituality: Integrating Body and Soul in Christian Counseling [NICC Episode #28]Send us a textDiscover how neuroscience and biblical wisdom converge to transform your spiritual journey in this excerpt from the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Basic Training course. Explore the concept of Embodied Spirituality, where the integration of body and soul unlocks deeper connections with God, emotional healing, and personal thriving.Join Josh Spurlock as he delves into practical applications of NICC, blending cutting-edge neuroscience with timeless truths of Scripture to help you align your body, mind, and spirit with God's design.This episode is perfect for pastoral counselors, lay l...
2024-12-2439 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastHumor [NICC Episode #27]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we dive into the strategic use of Humor as a therapeutic tool, a core skill introduced in the NICC Basic Training course. Humor, when used judiciously, can strengthen the therapeutic alliance, disarm defenses, and neutralize shame, creating a safe space for participants to engage in deeper emotional work. Whether it’s building rapport, easing tension, or offering a new perspective, humor brings lightness to the therapeutic process, helping participants feel seen and understood.Learn how humor can regulate the nervous system, cr...
2024-12-1918 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastPacing [NICC Episode #26]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the powerful skill of Pacing, as taught in the NICC Basic Training course. Pacing is the strategic use of verbal tone, volume, tempo, and body language to mirror, upregulate, or slow down a participant’s emotional state, facilitating deeper emotional connection and healing. By attuning to the participant’s nervous system, care providers use pacing to promote safety, regulate emotions, and enhance the participant’s engagement with their inner world.Learn how Pacing works to create a therapeutic environment where...
2024-12-1723 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastSilence [NICC Episode #25]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the transformative role of Silence in the therapeutic process, as taught in the NICC Basic Training course. Silence isn’t just the absence of words; it’s a powerful tool that creates space for participants to process emotions, integrate new insights, and deepen their connection with their inner world. This intentional quiet allows participants to attune to their deeper emotional and bodily experiences, fostering healing and growth.Discover how silence enables both care provider and participant to engage in Brai...
2024-12-1213 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastTeaching [NICC Episode #24]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the role of Teaching in the counseling process, as introduced in the NICC Basic Training course. Teaching, or psychoeducation, involves providing participants with concise, relevant insights from theology, neuroscience, and psychology to support their healing journey. However, effective teaching in a therapeutic setting is minimal and focused, offering just enough information to help participants better understand their emotions and behaviors without overwhelming the relational and emotional work.Discover how to integrate brief, powerful teaching moments that offer participants a...
2024-12-1012 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastSelf-Disclosure [NICC Episode #23]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the delicate yet impactful skill of Self-Disclosure, drawn from the NICC Basic Training course. Self-Disclosure involves the care provider sharing their personal experiences to build connection, foster trust, and support the participant’s healing process. By carefully and judiciously sharing insights from their own life, the care provider helps participants feel understood and validated, while modeling vulnerability and openness.Learn how to use Self-Disclosure to deepen the therapeutic relationship, normalize participants' experiences, and guide them towards greater growth. This ep...
2024-12-0515 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastRestructuring [NICC Episode #22]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the process of Restructuring—a core skill from the NICC Basic Training course. Restructuring invites participants to step out of habitual thought and behavior patterns and create new, more empowering ways of responding to their experiences. This episode highlights how restructuring helps participants bridge internal emotional work with real-world action, creating mismatched experiences that challenge old beliefs and behaviors.By offering practical directives and supportive nudges, care providers help participants align their actions with their goals, deeper longings, and th...
2024-12-0311 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastReframing [NICC Episode #21]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we delve into the practice of Reframing—a powerful technique from the NICC Basic Training course. Reframing helps participants view their experiences through a new, healthier lens, connecting their current struggles to past formative experiences, internal working models, and their God-given Thrive-Drive longings. By offering participants a clearer, more hopeful narrative, Reframing provides validation, clarity, and new possibilities for growth.Discover how Reframing can empower participants to make sense of their story, gain self-compassion, and approach their challenges with resilience. This ep...
2024-11-2915 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastValidating [NICC Episode #20]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the transformative power of Validation—a core skill from the NICC Basic Training course. Validation acknowledges, legitimizes, and accepts participants' feelings, thoughts, and beliefs, helping them feel seen, heard, and understood. Through this practice, care providers foster an empathetic and non-judgmental space, encouraging participants to explore their internal world with acceptance and self-compassion.Validation honors each participant’s unique experience and story, making it a key step in the healing process. By reflecting feelings, affirming struggles, and legitimizing their expe...
2024-11-2611 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastDeepening [NICC Episode #19]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the skill of Deepening—a powerful therapeutic process that enhances emotional experiences and strengthens neural pathways. Taken from the NICC Basic Training course, Deepening focuses on engaging participants with specific bodily sensations and emotions to amplify positive experiences, reinforcing them in the brain for lasting change.By intentionally dwelling on positive emotions, this technique strengthens the neurological connections associated with joy, peace, and love, fostering greater emotional regulation and self-awareness. Learn how the brain responds to this focused attention, wh...
2024-11-2114 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastHeightening [NICC Episode #18]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the powerful technique of Heightening, a core skill from the NICC Basic Training course. Heightening involves intensifying a participant’s emotional experience through vivid imagery, repetition, and attuned language, bringing clarity to both positive and negative emotions. By amplifying the participant's experience, care providers help them gain a deeper understanding of their internal world, setting the stage for transformation or deeper emotional connection.This episode unpacks the R.I.S.S.S.C. principle—Repeat, Image, Simple, Slow, Soft, and...
2024-11-1911 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastNaming [NICC Episode #17]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the skill of Naming, a key aspect of emotional and relational healing within the NICC framework. Taken from the NICC Basic Training course, Naming involves assigning language to emotions, thoughts, and sensations, helping participants make sense of their internal world. By putting words to what was previously unspoken, participants can better understand, regulate, and share their experiences.This episode unpacks how Naming bridges the gap between the felt experience and conscious awareness, allowing participants to gain insight, process emotions...
2024-11-1408 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastNoticing [NICC Episode #16]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we dive into the practice of Noticing—a vital skill that enhances therapeutic engagement by fostering moment-to-moment awareness of intrapersonal and interpersonal experiences. Drawing from the NICC Basic Training course, this episode explores how care providers track subtle changes in body language, tone, and emotion, while using mindful awareness to understand the participant's inner world.Through real-time observation of the here-and-now, Noticing helps to bring unconscious feelings and thoughts into the light, setting the stage for deeper emotional exploration and healing. Wh...
2024-11-1211 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastDelighting [NICC Episode #15]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the powerful practice of Delighting—an essential skill in the NICC framework. Taken from the NICC Basic Training course, Delighting is the intentional act of sharing encouragement and affirmation with participants by reflecting positive truths about them. Through the practice of “Shining,” care providers mirror God’s affirming love, helping participants internalize their worth and identity in Him.Drawing from biblical concepts like the Aaronic blessing and Jesus' baptism, Delighting fosters a healing environment where participants experience unconditional love and acce...
2024-11-0712 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastWelcoming [NICC Episode #14]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the essential skill of Welcoming, a key component of the NICC framework. This episode, taken from the NICC Basic Training course, highlights how Welcoming creates a safe, compassionate space for participants to connect with their experiences. Through genuine curiosity and self-compassion, care providers counter the pervasive power of shame, allowing individuals to explore their inner world without judgment.Discover how Welcoming enables participants to embrace all parts of themselves—flaws, emotions, and past experiences—inviting grace, transformation, and healing. Lear...
2024-11-0511 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastCore Skills in Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® [NICC Episode #13]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we delve into the Core Skills that form the foundation of effective therapeutic interaction in the NICC framework. Taken from NICC Core Competency #17, these Helping Skills are essential tools that empower care providers to guide participants through their healing journeys.Learn about key skills like Welcoming, Delighting, and Noticing, which help create a safe, compassionate space for clients to explore their inner world. Explore advanced techniques such as Heightening and Restructuring that foster deeper emotional engagement and promote lasting change. Each...
2024-10-311h 36The Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastParallel Process [NICC Episode #12]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the concept of Parallel Process, a core component in the NICC Basic Training course. Designed for pastoral counselors, coaches, and lay leaders, this episode unpacks how a counselor’s internal emotional experience during a session can mirror or complement the participant’s emotional state. By developing self-awareness and understanding these dynamics, caregivers can deepen empathy, manage challenging emotions, and repair relational disconnects, ultimately fostering a Christ-centered environment for healing.We delve into the stages of Parallel Process—Attuned Sharing, Ruptur...
2024-10-2915 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastMandated Reporting [NICC Episode #11]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore the critical responsibility of mandated reporting, especially for pastoral counselors, coaches, and lay leaders. Mandated reporting requires care facilitators to report any reasonable suspicion of abuse—whether physical, emotional, or sexual—without conducting investigations themselves. This legal and ethical duty is essential in protecting vulnerable individuals, such as minors and the elderly.Within the NICC framework, this responsibility is deeply rooted in Christian principles, such as loving your neighbor (Mark 12:31) and caring for "the least of these" (Matthew 25:40). NICC trai...
2024-10-2418 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastSuicidality Assessment & Prevention [NICC Episode #10]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we delve into the critical topic of suicidality, offering guidance on how lay leaders, coaches, and pastoral counselors can compassionately support individuals grappling with suicidal thoughts. Through open conversations, active listening, and the development of safety plans, we explore how to assess risks, engage directly with those in crisis, and connect them with the appropriate professional care.Drawing on the principles of NICC, this episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing signs of suicidality, using Christ-centered compassion, and understanding the neurological underpinnings...
2024-10-2242 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastEmergent Situations [NICC Episode #9]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling podcast, we explore how to navigate emergent situations with calm, faith, and a neuroscience-informed approach. Whether you're a pastoral counselor, coach, or lay leader, handling crises like suicidal ideation or psychiatric emergencies requires a blend of spiritual and psychological wisdom.We discuss practical steps to stay grounded in prayer (Philippians 4:6-7), calm the nervous system, and help others feel safe by addressing the neurological dysregulation often triggered in such moments. Through these experiences, we model the love of Christ (Hebrews 13:5), offering phrases...
2024-10-1739 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastEthical Practice and Informed Consent [NICC Episode #8]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling (NICC) podcast, we explore the essential role of ethical practice in faith-based counseling. A key part of the NICC Basic Training program is the integration of the American Association of Christian Counselors (AACC) Code of Ethics, which acts as a guide for pastoral counselors, coaches, and lay leaders to deliver effective and ethically sound care.Join us as we unpack why adherence to ethical standards matters, especially in the context of counseling that merges neuroscience, mental health, and Christian theology. Learn how...
2024-10-1530 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastMental Status Exam [NICC Episode #7]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling (NICC) Podcast, we dive deep into the Mental Status Exam (MSE)—a foundational tool used to assess a person’s psychological and cognitive functioning. Join us as we explore how this structured assessment can help determine whether someone is suitable for lower-level interventions, such as counseling or coaching, or if they require a higher level of care, such as psychiatric intervention. We'll break down the key components of the MSE, including appearance, behavior, mood, thought processes, and more, and discuss how it serves as a gu...
2024-10-1019 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastWhen and How To Refer [NICC Episode #6]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Podcast, we dive into the crucial topic of recognizing when and how to refer clients within the continuum of care. Understanding where you stand in terms of your training, supervision, and scope of competency is vital for offering safe, effective, and ethical support to those in need. We'll explore how knowing your limitations as a coach, counselor, or therapist is a sign of professional integrity, not failure, and how making appropriate referrals ensures that clients receive the best care possible.We d...
2024-10-0823 minThe Road To HappinessThe Good Life: How Faith, Friends, and Finances Boost Happiness [R2H Episode #4]Send a textIn this episode, we dive into "The Good Life" — exploring how faith, friendships, and financial stability form the essential pillars of happiness and well-being. Discover the secrets to living a fulfilled life through meaningful connections, social fitness, and a balanced approach to spirituality and finances. We’ll discuss the latest research on health and happiness, share practical tips for nurturing relationships, and reveal why spending 6-9 hours a day engaging socially is key to thriving.If you’re struggling with loneliness or building deep friendships, connect with a Christian counselor at MyCoun...
2024-10-0728 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastContinuum of Care & Scope of Competency [NICC Episode #5]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) Podcast, we delve into the Mental Health Continuum of Care, a comprehensive range of mental health services that evolves with the needs of individuals. This continuum spans from informal support provided by family and community to highly specialized, emergency inpatient care, aiming to provide seamless transitions and appropriate care across different levels. Drawing parallels to the medical model of continuum care, we explore how mental health care should adapt as needs change, ensuring that support is not only effective but also ethically aligned w...
2024-10-0344 minThe Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastWhat is NICC? [NICC Episode #4]Send us a textIn this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling (NICC) podcast, we dive into an insightful excerpt from the NICC Basic Training course. This segment offers a glimpse into the transformative journey of NICC, blending neuroscience and biblical principles to provide a comprehensive approach to mental health and spiritual growth. If you’re passionate about integrating faith and psychology in your counseling practice, this episode is packed with foundational insights to help guide you.Discover how NICC utilizes a structured yet fluid framework to address trauma, foster thriving, and promote holistic he...
2024-10-0129 min
The Road To HappinessNavigating Grief: Faith, Science, and the Road to Healing [R2H Episode #3]Send a text🎧 Ever felt like grief is an endless road with no map? You're not alone. In this episode of the Road to Happiness Podcast, we dive deep into the complex world of grief—a journey we all experience but often struggle to navigate. Whether it's the loss of a loved one, a job, or even a dream, grief hits us all differently, and it’s not just about feeling sad. It’s about understanding, processing, and ultimately finding a path to healing.💡 So, what's the deal with grief? We’re breaking it...
2024-08-2028 min
The Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastFinding Healing Through NICC Grief Counseling [NICC Episode #3]Send us a textGrief is one of life’s most challenging experiences, touching every corner of our hearts and minds. But what if there’s a way to navigate this difficult journey that leads not just to survival, but to profound healing and growth? In this episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® Podcast, we’re exploring how the NICC treatment protocol offers a unique, integrative approach to healing from grief.Discover how NICC combines cutting-edge neuroscience with deep spiritual wisdom to help you regulate your emotions, make sense of your loss, and tra...
2024-08-2033 min
The Road To HappinessNavigating Singleness: Faith, Friendship, and Righteous Flirting [R2H Episode# 2]Send a textIn this episode of The Road To Happiness Podcast, join hosts Josh and Cassie Spurlock as they dive into the rich, multifaceted journey of singleness. Whether you're young, older, separated, divorced, widowed, or simply navigating the complexities of long-distance relationships and personal challenges, this episode has something for you.Discover how faith and science come together to help you understand and steward your sexuality responsibly. Learn about the distinction between social and erotic sexuality, and how embracing these aspects can lead to a more fulfilled and balanced life. Josh and Cassie explore...
2024-07-2333 min
The Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastNavigating Sexuality as a Single: A Christian Approach [NICC Episode# 2]Send us a textLinks and ResourcesFor more information on the topics discussed in this episode, check out the supplemental materials provided in the article that accompanies this episode: Navigating Sexuality as a Single: Christian Thoughts.Welcome to Episode 2 of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® Podcast, where we dive into the complexities of navigating sexuality as a single person through the lens of Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC). In this episode, Josh Spurlock and Cassie Spurlock explore how biblical wisdom and contemporary psychological insights can help singles understand and st...
2024-07-2346 min
The Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® PodcastNICC Treatment Protocol for Crisis Stabilization and Debriefing [NICC Episode #1]Send us a text🎙️ Episode 1: NICC Treatment Protocol for Crisis Stabilization & DebriefingAre you a Christian counselor looking for effective ways to support clients in crisis? Join us in this inaugural episode of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC) podcast, where hosts Josh and Cassie Spurlock dive into the NICC Treatment Protocol for Crisis Stabilization and Debriefing.In this episode, you'll discover:Key Techniques: Learn how to regulate the nervous system and establish a sense of safety for clients experiencing intense pain and suffering.Practical Steps: Gain i...
2024-07-1657 min
The Road To HappinessUnderstanding and Healing Trauma: Faith and Neuroscience [R2H Episode #1]Send a textIn this powerful debut episode of The Road To Happiness Podcast, hosts Josh and Cassie Spurlock dive into the profound ways that faith and neuroscience intersect to offer healing from trauma. Discover how pain and suffering can be transformed rather than endured, with practical insights and compassionate guidance.What You'll Learn:The true nature of trauma and its impact on the nervous systemEffective strategies to regulate the nervous system and create a sense of safetyPractical steps to help someone in crisis stabilize and organize their experiencesHow integrating biblical wisdom...
2024-07-1623 min
Hearts and Minds: Northern ViewsSubjective MattersThis week's episode, we unpack Kelly Rowland's recent encounter on the Cannes red carpet. Cardi B's decision to not vote federally, and we remember filmmaker Morgan Spurlock, who passed away at 53. Comedian Lavell Crawford makes appearance on Club Shay Shay. We discuss Simone Biles shutting down negativity towards her husband. In the music news, we celebrate Lauryn Hill's massive achievement with her album topping Apple Music's Top 100 Best Albums. Does body count matter? In The Workout Session, we dissect the ongoing saga of Diddy's apology, the backlash, and Cassie's recent comments. Enjoy the show! 💜🧠🎙️
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2024-05-301h 42
Keep It On The DLEenie Meenie Miney Mo ScammerThis week Daria & Liv give updates on Cassie and Harrisson Butker, Millie Bobby Brown and Jake Bonjovi are married (yay?), Morgan Spurlock passed away, Austin Maddox, Four Seasons Orlando baby, Halley Kate bought a house in the Hamptons, Sean Kingston and is mama are up to some scamming, and Kelly Rowland v. the Cannes Film Fest security guard.
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2024-05-281h 10
Left at the DoorEp 11: Guilt with Chrissy SpurlockChrissy Spurlock, the owner of the whimsical and delightful gift shop, Giggles, located in downtown Decatur, Illinois talks about how being an entrepreneur, mother, wife, and everything else in between can feel overwhelming. She discusses her daily battle with leaving guilt at the door. Mom-guilt as many refer to it, is that doubt, anxiousness, or uncertainty experienced by mothers & women when they worry they’re failing or falling short of expectations. While the intensity can vary, Chrissy talks about her supportive relationships and coping skills on how she maneuvers those feelings to allow her to be the best version of...
2021-04-281h 01
BNWYDSE - The Official THAC PosdcastBNWYDSE: The Official THAC Posdcast - Episode 6Troy, Joseph and Tim are joined by John Soares, Justin Spurlock and Cassie Meder of Westhavenbrook Productions: Creators of Sockbaby, Go Sukashi, and The Danger Element.
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