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Sex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 120: The Transformational Recovery Matrix
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In this episode of The Purity Podcast, Chris introduces the Transformational Recovery Matrix. Chris created this powerful tool to help men identify where they are in their recovery journey and how to move toward true, Christ-centered transformation. Whether you’re feeling stuck, just going through the motions, or longing for deeper freedom, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and practical next steps.Learn the difference between surface-level sobriety and real heart change.
Discover which quadrant you’re in—and how to grow from there.
Be reminded: you are not alone o...2025-05-2800 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 119: Relentless Pursuit: What Could Stop You?
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What could stop you from becoming the man God has called you to be? In this personal episode, Chris explores the potential obstacles on the path to purity and integrity, driven by his commitment to recovery from past unfaithfulness and sexual addiction and his relentless pursuit of God, his wife, and his kids. We’ll examine the internal battles, external challenges, and even well-intentioned actions that could derail this crucial journey.Key Discussion Points:The Driving Force: Understanding the personal motivation behind relentless pursuit in the context of...2025-04-0800 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 118: Robert Switala Interview
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Today on Episode 18, Chris has the privilege of interviewing Robert Switala. Robert is an engineer by trade turned Licensed Mental Health Counselor. He is the owner of Mindview Mental Health Counseling. Chris invited Robert to join the podcast today when he introduced me to his Vowel Principle. He’s gonna talk us through the importance of how AEIOU and ALWAYS Y impact our Recovery. See below for a head start on what the letters stand for, and hang on til the end for the best Summer Olympics story you’ve ever hear...2025-01-2100 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 116 – Interview with Deborah Schiller and Erick
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On today’s episode, Chris is joined by Deborah Schiller and Erick, where Erick will share his journey from an early childhood porn addiction that escalated into child sexual abuse images and his ultimate arrest. Deborah, has a Master of Science in Counseling, is a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist, and she’s here to help us flesh out the nature of this addiction and brings compassion and deep knowledge to this topic.This is an important—yet difficult—topic. It’s one that doesn’t always get...2024-12-1700 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 114 – Chelsea and Layton Boovie of Liberator Podcast
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Today I’m interviewing Chelsea and Layton Boovie of liberator podcast. Chelsea and Layton are on mission to help couples understand the impact of pornography and equip those couples to find restoration in their marriages. To learn more about Chelsea and Layton and their resources, go to liberatorpodcast.com. Through their podcast and mission, you will find truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture. I love this quote from their website which reads, “Your mind will not give up easily that which you have fed so regularly.” You can also fin...2024-10-0800 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 112 – Developing a Recovery Plan
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Developing a structured plan with specific goals and action steps can be very beneficial in maintaining sobriety and recovery from sexual addiction. Join Chris today as he unpacks a few of his best practices. Here’s a breakdown of potential goals and actions on a daily, weekly, monthly, and annual basis.If you want a complete outline of the Recovery Plan Chris shared on the podcast today, send us an email with the subject “Recovery Plan” to puritypodcast@castimonia.org.Remember that on this path of recovery, you are no...2024-09-0300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 111 – Salvation Pin
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In today’s episode, Chris takes a break from sobriety and recovery topics to discuss the most important thing regarding sobriety and recovery…a relationship with Jesus Christ. Chris’s brother will be in Paris for about 10 days with International Sports Chaplains street witnessing using a “Salvation Pin” they will give out for free. The pin comes with a story that Chris will be sharing today. If you want to be a pin sponsor, please go to Venmo and give to @FICMin (Freedom In Chris Ministries). You can sponsor 5 pins for $10, 1...2024-07-2300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 110 – Chrisdom, Part 2
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Today in Season 8 Episode 10, Chris picks up where he left off on something he calls Chrisdom. Have you ever looked at someone with multiple years of sobriety and thought, “How the heck did they do that?!” Today, Chris shares some of his pro tips, lessons learned, and recovery hacks. To share your pro tips or to ask any questions about some of Chris’s lessons learned, please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org Remember that on this path of recovery, you are not walking alone.The post Castimonia Purity...2024-07-0200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 109 – Chrisdom
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Today in Season 8 Episode 9, Chris is flying solo again. Today, he introduces something he’ll be sprinkling in future episodes. Something he calls Chrisdom. Have you ever looked at someone with multiple years of sobriety and thought, “How the heck did they do that?!” Today, Chris shares some of his pro tips, lessons learned, and recovery hacks. To share your pro tips or to ask any questions about some of Chris’s lessons learned, please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org Remember that on this path of recovery, you are not w...2024-06-0400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 108 – Steve Etner Interview
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I’m interviewing The Purity Coach, Steve Etner. He has a point of purity program that will equip and train you in how to overcome porn addiction. His plan is Bible based and Christ centered, and he can help you create a strategic plan for ongoing purity. To learn more about Steve and the coaching he provides go to thepuritycoach.com. He has a free purity app, helpful videos, a podcast and lots of books. He even has a section that will help you find a counselor in your area....2024-05-1400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 107 – The Road to Recovery
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Found yourself in a place you never thought you’d be? The shame and hopelessness sexual addiction and compulsive sexual behaviors can ignite are real…but there is hope. Today Chris talks about how he entered recovery and reached sobriety early on. The difference between behavioral change and heart change, what steps he took early on, and something about reconstructive shoulder surgery. It’ll make sense in the end!If you have questions or want to reach out, please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org, and remember that on this...2024-04-2300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 106 – Dan Johnson Interview
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Today I’m excited to interview Dan Johnson from New Paths. I recently listened to Dan’s podcast and was blown away by his simple, yet profound method for how he stopped watching porn. Grab a pen and paper or open up your favorite note-taking app to capture this method. We might as well call Dan the bus driver because he’s about to take us to school.To learn more about Dan and his ministry, go to newpaths.me. There you can download the PATH plan and learn...2024-04-0200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 105 The Importance of Community
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Today, I’m talking with Jorge, about the importance of community as it relates to recovery. I had no idea that rats would be a part of this conversation. Join us on the next episode of the purity podcast where I interview Dan Johnson from New Paths. Dan has created a really incredible and very simple plan to help men, well anyone, conquer their addiction to pornography. See ya soon! If you have questions or want to reach out, please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org, and remember that...2024-03-1200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 104 – Healthy Sexuality
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Jorge joins Season 8 for the first time to talk about Healthy Sexuality. The conversation (that involved a lot of editing, lol) is designed to help men understand what healthy sexuality looks like and steps needed to help move from unhealthy sexuality into healthy sexuality. Because of our addiction, we have taken sexuality and distorted it, and we need to rewire our brain to see how healthy sexuality can be restored. For years we used sexuality as a coping mechanism to deal with uncomfortable emotions. Healthy sexuality is not just the...2024-02-2000 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 103 – Mark Denison Interview
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In Episode 3 Chris interviews Mark Denison to talk about his new book, Recovery Rules. In his book Mark gives 100 crazy awesome rules to a healthy recovery. We touch on several of the rules, talk about the difference between sobriety and recovery, and close with what I call your “go-to story.” Mark shocked me with his story as I was expecting something funny, but it instead really touched my heart.Mark and Beth Denison launched There’s Still Hope in 2017. The ministry offers nine weekly Freedom Groups for men, as wel...2024-02-0600 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 102 – Thomas Berry Interview
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Join Chris as he interviews Thomas Berry from Redemptive Living. Thomas was the speaker at the Castimonia Retreat in November of 2023 and he gives a recap from his sessions. Thomas also shares some observations he had from the retreat and we unpack some of the differences between sobriety and recovery.Redemptive Living was founded by Jason and Shelly Martinkus, author of Worthy of Her Trust, Rescued, Summit Devotional, and more. Redemptive Living offers couples coaching through their flagship program called Trustworthy U, online masterclasses, live workshops, and their...2024-01-2300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 101
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After 7 years of hosting the Purity Podcast Doug has passed the baton to Chris. Today, Chris introduces himself and welcomes you into his journey of recovery as well as your own. You may find yourself in a very dark place right now, but you are not alone, and there is hope. He challenges the listener to consider what kind of story he wants to tell. Your story is not over, in fact, it has just begun. When your time on earth is over and the only thing left is your story...2024-01-0900 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 100: Time for a new Chapter – Remember the light!Listen in as Chris, Jorge and Doug talk about the illustration of darkness vs. Light. We walk through struggles of so many in our lives, and it is so helpful to remember the light and joy that is in us. That gives us wisdom and strength to continue the journey. This is also Doug’s last episode at the host, and Chris is taking over the next 100! Doug is remaining heavily involved in Castimonia, and he is still reachable at the email address. Keith and Doug are beginning a training series for men’s retreats where men can face...2023-12-2200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 99: Do you want to get well?
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Listen in as Chris and Doug talk about the connection to Jesus healing the man at the pool to their recovery journey.The pain to change has to be greater than the pain of changing…and what does change look like? If you have questions or want to reach out, please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org, and remember that on this path of recovery, you are not walking alone.The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 99: Do you want to get well? appeared first on CAS...2023-09-2100 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 95B: Chris’s Testimony Part BJoin Doug as he talks with Chris about his journey of addiction and life choices that led him out of darkness. Chris shares how counselors, friends, Castimonia, and other avenues brought hope and light to his life. He is living a life of a true changed person, so listen in to learn more about that journey. Part B is the next episode so please listen to that as well to see how Chris found true freedom. There is hope in recovery. If you have questions or want to reach out, please email us at puritypodcast@casti...2023-01-1200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 93: The New Man podcast with Jorge and DougThe New Man Podcast airing on Purity Podcast this week. – Jorge and Doug talk about Sex Addiction RecoveryHere are the notes from the New Man podcast episode that we are airing on our channel. Check out his great resources below!Doug & Jorge are from Castimonia, an organization that helps men recover from sexual brokenness.Having both been through multiple affairs, near marriage breakdown, and deep porn/sex addiction,both Doug & Jorge know what it’s like to struggle. They also know what it’s like to experienceredemption through transparency, community, and ha...2021-09-1400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 87A: Patrick’s Testimony part ACastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 87A: Patrick’s Testimony Part APatrick tells Doug has story of addiction with same sex attraction, pornography, and otherassociated vices. He discusses his childhood trauma and the ways that affected his thinking throughadulthood. He discussed his spiraling of addiction and the ways that it brought him to his rock bottom moment.Part A’s of testimonies are designed to help addicts realize that they are not alone….but the joyIs in the Part B episode that follows this. But we hope that you can find things that you identify with toknow that you ar...2020-12-0900 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 84: War, Grit, and LustDoug talks through some action steps and analogies for addiction recovery. He points to theidea of treating every day like we are prepping for war…Remember that you are not alone on this road of recovery…..for more information please email puritypodcast@castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 84The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 84: War, Grit, and Lust appeared first on CASTIMONIA.
2020-09-2200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 83: Loneliness, Fishing Lures, and Animal Skinshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Castimonia-Purity-Podcast-Episode-83.mp3
Doug talks through some analogies that help his recovery as he looks for ways that Satan is trying to trap him. He discusses how loneliness can be a driver towards addiction, so we need to find ways to be aware. We can use self-care techniques and other connection elements to battle and beat loneliness
Remember that you are not alone on this road of recovery…..for more information please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org.
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82 – Interview with Joe Dallas – The Game Plan
Joe Dallas is an author, counselor, and speaker that is highly sought for his expertise in addiction recovery. He has his own story of struggling and finding healing in recovery. He now writes books, hosts conferences, and dedicates his time to helping others overcome sexual sin.
In this episode, joe and Doug discuss ideas of “being Christian” even though we sin/have sinned greatly. Is that possible?
Joe has deep knowledge of working through issues of Same Sex Attra...2020-05-0500 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 81: Staying Calm in the COVID-19 Chaoshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Castimonia-Purity-Podcast-Episode-81.mp3
81 – Staying Calm in the COVID-19 Chaos – Sex Addiction Recovery
Jorge and Doug discuss the crisis currently in America and how that may negatively affect our recoveries due to stress and isolation.
They discuss tools and perspectives to utilize during this time to help us grow in serenity and sobriety.
Remember that you are not alone on this road of recovery…..for more information please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org.
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Doug discusses the differences in sobriety and serenity as well as practical ways to apply serenity to our lives. What does it look like in recovery? How do you truly find replacement behaviors and a replacement attitude?
Remember that you are not alone on this road of recovery…..for more information please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org.
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2020-03-1000 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 79: Eddie Capparucci – Going Deeper – Inner Child Work in Sex Addiction RecoveryEddie is a Christian counselor and author as well as fellow brother in recovery. His most recent book “Going Deeper” is a look at 9 different child types that can identify with. Doug and Eddie discuss the book and the importance of understanding the triggers that take us back to wanting to act like our inner child. This awareness can lead us towards better and more productive self talk and reflection. Recovery is a process that takes time and grace. Eddie speaks from the heart and with years of experience helping men find their steps on the pathway o...2020-03-0300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 78b: Sam’s Testimony Part BSam and Doug pick up where they left off at the depth of Sam’s addiction story. This episode highlights where he found and healing.
Hopefully there are ways that you can identify with this story to continue finding your own hope and healing!
Please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information! Remember that you are not walking on this road of recovery alone!
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2020-01-3000 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 78a: Sam’s Testimony Part ASam’s Testimony (Part A) — Sex Addiction Recovery
Sam and Doug discuss his childhood, and how his addiction began and developed. They discussed his life trying to overcome his addiction on his own unsuccessfully.
Make sure to listen to Part B of his testimony to hear the hope and healing!
Please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information! Remember that you are not walking on this road of recovery alone!
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The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 78a: Sam’s Testimon...2020-01-2800 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 77: Be Less Jerk – Christmas Fun on the Sex Addiction PodcastJorge and Doug help those in recovery prepare for the holidays. They walk through some practical tips for the holiday season and the new year that are good for all year round. Check out the “dad joke” challenge as well, and vote for your winner! Email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information. Thanks for listening and MERRY CHRISTMAS! The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 77: Be Less Jerk – Christmas Fun on the Sex Addiction Podcast appeared first on CASTIMONIA.
2019-12-2600 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 76: The Power of Parables in Sex Addiction RecoveryDoug shares two different parables that have added him in his recovery. He also talks about patterns in his live that can lead towards positives as well as negatives and the importance of recognizing them. For more information on recovery or the podcast, please reach out to puritypodcast@castimonia.org. Remember that on this road of recovery, you are not walking alone The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 76: The Power of Parables in Sex Addiction Recovery appeared first on CASTIMONIA.
2019-12-2400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 75: Conversation with Brad from “Addict’s Messy Marriage” PodcastCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 75: Conversation with Brad from “Addict’s Messy Marriage”Brad and Doug discuss the nuances of trying to work on a marriage and
recovery at the same time. It is
difficult to stay “on our side of the street” but they discuss some practical
suggestions to help.Brad offers guidance on some of the stages in rebuilding trust in a
marriage as well as how to make the marriage better by working on ourselves.His podcast can be found wherever you find your podcast under the name
“Addict’s Messy Marriage”As always, than...2019-12-0200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast – Episode 74 (Part B) – Kevin’s TestimonyKevin was a listener of the podcast, and he felt he wanted to share his story with other listeners. After nearly of month of sobriety, he wants his story to help other connect in order to find healing. His story walks through his life, addiction, and the pitfalls that life brought him. There are many elements of his story that may help others feel that are not alone in their struggles and that healing is in fact possible.
In this episode he picks up from where the addiction ended and true healing began. There are bumps and slips...2019-09-1400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast — Episode 74 (Part A) — Kevin’s TestimonyKevin was a listener of the podcast, and he felt he wanted to share his story with other listeners. After nearly of month of sobriety, he wants his story to help other connect in order to find healing. His story walks through his life, addiction, and the pitfalls that life brought him. There are many elements of his story that may help others feel that are not alone in their struggles and that healing is in fact possible.
He shares his family of origin story, and begins to share how his addiction framed his thinking and actions for...2019-09-1000 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 73: Conversation with Ben – Resentments, Fear, Pride, and Being RightEpisode 73: Conversation with Ben – Resentments, Fear, Pride, and Being RightBen and Doug discuss the power of the progression in working Steps
4-7. Ben utilizes some real life issues
that have come up that can brew into resentments. These are often caused by fear and pride
issues. So being aware helps us in
recovery start to turn those over to a higher power.They also discuss the patterns of thinking that can continually damage
relationships, like having to “be right.”
The ability to try to control someone else’s emotions can rob our own
joy and serenity.Thank y...2019-08-0700 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 72: Dr. Milton Magness – How can a moral person fall into addiction?https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Castimonia-Purity-Podcast-Episode-72.mp3
Dr. Milton Magness – How can a moral person fall into addiction?
One of the common questions in recovery is “how did I get here?” Often it is the opposite place of our values and our character. Addicts can be figures in high standing in churches, communities, and other areas all while struggling with their secret.
Dr. Magness discusses why this occurs and how it can be a. “good thing” in recovery to found out you are sex addict.
Doug and Milton discuss practical ways to find hea...2019-07-2400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 71: MessItUp! Part 2https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Castimonia-Purity-Podcast-Episode-71.mp3
The Bow Tie Guy and the Biker Chick interview Doug on their podcast called “MessItUp” which is great recovery resource as men and women seek healing from all types of addictions and other habits and hang ups.
They discuss sex addiction recovery, Doug’s journey, and Doug’s favorite recovery artist. It is a great rebroadcast of their podcast, so enjoy!
Please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information!
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2019-07-1600 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 67: Jason Martinkus – Worthy of Her TrustCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 67: Jason Martinkus – Worthy of Her TrustJason is a well-known author of “Worthy of Her Trust”. Doug and Jason discuss his book as well as the difficulty and benefits of choosing recovery. Healing is possible for individuals and marriages, and they discuss some of the mindset shifts that occur in the process. “Worthy of her trust” is a great book for debunking myths that we hold about recovery and addiction. For more information, please visit our website at castimonia.org/podcasts or email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org Remember you are not wa...2019-05-1400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 63: Theresstillhope.org –Resources for Sex Addiction RecoveryDoug talks with Mark Denison who is the co-founder, with his wife Beth, of Theresstillhope.org which is a ministry for sex addicts, their spouses, churches, and pastors. He talks about his own personal story and the power of recovery.Doug and Mark discuss practical tips for dealing with recovery as well as ways for “high profile” people to find support and connection. Their website is a great resource for addicts as well as spouses, so make sure to check it out. Visit our podcast page for links to his books and other great resources. cast...2019-03-1900 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 61: Defining Lust – How to Find True Joy in Sex Addiction Recoveryhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Episode-61-Defining-Lust.mp3
Doug discusses how he defines “lust” and how that affects his outlook in recovery. He discusses how the devil works by taking our eyes off of the gifts God has given us.
Doug seeks to help listeners see the importance of honoring God in our actions and with our focus…that lust dissipates as we act in line with the gifts provided just for us.
In you need more information or help, please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org
We would love to hear f...2018-12-0300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 60: Step 8 in Sex Addiction Recoveryhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/Episode-60-Step-60-in-Sex-Addiction-Recovery.mp3
Owning your actions and the hurt that you caused others is a very difficult and necessary step in recovery from any addiction. In sex addiction recovery, we have a lot of people, identities, companies, and institutions that we have directly and indirectly caused harm.
Jorge and Doug discuss practical ways to set up Step 8 to be successful and enlightening. It is a step that can help us grow in developing empathy and grace.
Listen in to learn more, and please email us at puritypodcast@ca...2018-10-0200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 59B: Caleb’s Testimony Continuedhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/Episode-59-Part-B-Calebs-Testimony-Continued.mp3
Doug interviews Caleb to hear about the redemption of his story and the clarity that came from recovery practices.
They discuss the ups and downs of recovery and the process over perfection concept.
Caleb’s testimony is a powerful message of the power of God in our lives. Listen to finds ways to utilize community to help you in your recovery.
Email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information…thank you for listening!
The book mentioned in this podcast can be fo...2018-09-2700 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 59A: Caleb’s Testimonyhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/Episode-59-Part-A-Calebs-Testimony.mp3
Doug interviews Caleb to discuss his journey through addiction.
He discusses his early family life as well as his introduction to pornography and acting out template.
He discusses family patterns, low points, and the darkness of his addiction.
Check out Part B for the rest of the story to hear how Caleb found recovery.
Email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information…thank you for listening!
The book mentioned in this podcast can be found by following the link...2018-09-2500 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 57: I Get Drunk, We Stay Sober – Addiction Recovery in Communityhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/Episode-57-I-Get-Drunk-We-Stay-Sober-–-Addiction-Recovery-in-Community.mp3
Doug discusses the elements of community as they relate to recovery. We are stronger together, and there are elements of recovery that can only happen when we walk through them together.
Please visit castimonia.org/podcasts for more information or links to the books referenced. As always, email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org with any questions and/or comments!
Thanks for listening!
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Sex Addiction Recovery PodcastCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 57: I Get Drunk, We Stay Sober – Addiction Recovery in CommunityDoug discusses the elements of community as they relate to recovery. We are stronger together, and there are elements of recovery that can only happen when we walk through them together. Please visit castimonia.org/podcasts for more information or links to the books referenced. As always, email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org with any questions and/or comments! Thanks for […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 57: I Get Drunk, We Stay Sober – Addiction Recovery in Community appeared first on CASTIMONIA.2018-08-1437 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 56: #MeToo – How It Affects Sex Addictshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/Episode-56-Me-Too-–-How-it-affects-Sex-Addicts.mp3
Doug discusses the Me too movement from the perspective of the addict. It can bring about feelings of guilt and shame as addicts have misused power and been guilty of objectification in our addictions.
He discusses some ways to address how to fight against the pattern continuing in our lives and in society as a whole.
Please visit castimonia.org/podcasts for more information or links to the books referenced. As always, email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org with any questions and/or comments!
2018-05-2200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 55: Conversation About Finding Hope in Living Without Addictionhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/Podcast-55-Converastion-About-Finding-Hope-in-Living-Without-Addiction.mp3
A listener calls in to talk with Doug about his take on choosing recovery and the hope that comes from living without addiction. Creating new patterns and new choices can be freeing, but there are still patterns of codependency and negative habits that will take time to work through.
Listen in to find elements that you identify with and look for ways to grow to find your serenity. Email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information or visit our podcast page at castimonia.org/podcasts. You can...2018-04-2500 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 54: Clint’s Journey Home – A Novel About Sex Addictionhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Podcast-54-Clints-Journey-Home-–-A-Novel-about-Sex-Addiction.mp3
Dr. Milton Magness (A.K.A Roy Clinton) discuss his new writing endeavor which is a Western novel about sex addiction recovery. Dr. Magness highlights aspects of the book that are pulled from his extensive work with men and couples facing addiction. This includes the prevalence of multiple addictions, roadblocks in recovery, and tools of accountability.
“Clint’s Journey Home” is available at Amazon.com, HopeandFreedom.com, and TopWesterns.com.
It is a novel about a modern cowboy that finds the need for freedom from add...2018-04-0300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 51: Seeing Clear in Sex Addiction RecoveryEpisode 51 – Seeing Clearing in Sex Addiction Recovery
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Doug discusses how riding a hoverboard can be the same way that we approach life. He also discusses the importance of utilizing tools in our recovery walks. He looks at practical tools that we can use to meditate and focus on what God really wants for our lives.
Email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information, and remember that you are not walking on this road of recovery alone.
The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 51: Se...2018-01-1800 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 50 (4Real!): I Am Right!https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/podcast-50-4real-sex-addiction-recovery-admitting-when-you-dont-know.mp3
Episode 50 – I am right! Being confident as a way to hide sex addiction
Doug discusses how “being right” was a mask to hide his weaknesses. Being known by others wasn’t possible because appearing right was more important.
Doug talks about ways to look introspectively to overcome addiction and character defects. Learning to say “I don’t know” and “I was wrong” are gateways to healing.
Please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information!
The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 50...2017-11-1000 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 50: Step 6 in Sex Addiction Recoveryhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/podcast-50-step-6-in-sex-addiction-recovery.mp3
Jorge and Doug discuss the practical steps in working Step 6. How do we take ownership in our recovery and still step aside for God to heal us? What does that look like?
This is a difficult step, and it marks a major shift in our recovery as we now are taking ownership and creating more confidence in our sobriety.
Email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information. And remember you are not on this journey alone!
The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Epi...2017-09-1200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 49: Being Relationalhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/podcast-49-being-relational.mp3
Doug discusses the awkwardness of relationship when someone is going through a difficult time, and he gives some tips on how to live in the awkward parts of people’s storms of life.
Being aware of emotions and finding relationship and connection is vital in recovery, so we are looking for ways to break the cycle of addiction to find meaning and peace.
For more information, please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org.
The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 49: Being Relational appeared first on...2017-08-1500 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 47: Interview with Dr. Alexandra Katehakis – Certified Sex Addiction Therapist on Sexuality in Recoveryhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/podcast-48-interview-with-alexandra-katehakis.mp3
Dr. Katehakis weaves together her background as both a Sex Addiction Therapist and Sex Therapist to look for ways where those in recovery can find healthy sexuality again.
She speaks on practical matters for couples in recovery as well as the importance of meditation and vulnerability.
She is the Director of the Center for Healthy Sex which has a large array of resources available.
Please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information.
The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 47: Interview with Dr. Alexandra Katehakis – Certified Sex Addiction Therapist on Sexua...2017-05-0300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 47 – Dealing With Challenges Sober – Sex Addiction Recoveryhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/podcast47-dealing-with-tough-situations-with-sobriety.mp3
Doug discusses how the format and hosts of the podcast will be changing in the upcoming weeks and months due to personal challenges.
He discusses how being sober will help deal with all aspects of life, including challenges.
He gives motivation for how to face the world of problems and challenges by focusing on the strength for today.
Please email puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information.
The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 47 – Dealing With Challenges Sober – Sex Addiction Recovery appeared first on C...2017-04-1100 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 46: The Importance of Telling Your Story in Sex Addiction Recoveryhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/podcast46-telling-your-addiction-story.mp3
Doug discusses the importance of telling your story in addiction recovery. It is a powerful way to become more connected and develop a stronger community. We learn to overcome our character defects, and we see how God can use our brokenness to benefit others.
Doug discusses the practical ways to begin the process as well as the overall importance in doing so.
Please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org to get help, gather information, or let us record your testimony!
Remember that as yo...2017-03-2800 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 45: Overcoming Abandonment in Recoveryhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/podcast45-overcoming-abandonment-in-recovery.mp3
Doug discusses his character defect of Abandonment and how it can feel all-consuming at times. He discusses illustrations that point out the negative aspects of abandonment that can creep in without being aware.
He also discusses practical ways to overcome fear and abandonment by being healthy emotionally and vulnerable in relationship.
Please email us with any comments and/or questions at
puritypodcast@castimonia.org, and remember that you are not alone!
The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 45: Overcoming Abandonment in Recovery appeared...2017-03-2100 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 44: Learning To Forgive Yourself – Sex Addiction Recoveryhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/podcast44-learning-to-forgive-yourself.mp3
Jorge and Doug discuss the aspects of forgiveness in recovering from sexual addiction. They focus on the power of accepting the forgiveness of God through the power of Jesus on the cross.
They focus on practical ways to separate forgiveness from forgetting, and how to use our memory of who we once were as a defense against temptation.
For more information about this podcast or sex addiction recovery, please visit castimonia.org or email us at
puritypodcast@castimonia.org
The post Castimonia P...2017-03-1400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 43: Interview With Tony Ingrassia – Power of Purityhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/podcast43-interview-with-tony-ingrassia.mp3
Tony is the founder of the “Power of Purity” ministries, and he is a fellow podcaster in the fight for sexual purity. This conversation highlights his story and the work that God has done in his life, ministry, and marriage.
He talks about practical approaches to recovery and marriage. He gives a “real” and straight take on fighting for sexual purity and keeping the “holy vow” of marriages.
For more information on his podcast, conferences, books, and ministry, please visit the powerofpurity.org.
Please email...2017-03-0700 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 42: Step 5 – Sex Addiction Recovery – Confessionhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/podcast42-step-5-in-sex-addiction-recovery.mp3
Jorge and Doug discuss how to work Step 5 in sex addiction recovery. They discuss the practical steps in confession to God, to yourself, and to another person. There is freedom in admitted all of our brokenness and still finding acceptance.
They talk about resources at castimonia.org as well as other recovery tools.
After working on Step 4, we have a clear picture of our character defects and our need to change, so Step 5 allows us to “grow up” and start living in the light in an...2017-02-2800 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 41: Interview with Dr. Milton Magness and Marsha Means Part 2https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/podcast41-dr-magness-and-marsha-means-part-2.mp3
Marsha Means and Dr. Magness are co-authoring a new book that is designed to be a resource for therapist, addicts, spouses and family. Their new book “Real Hope/True Freedom: Understanding and Coping with Sex Addiction” is designed in a “FAQ” format to be a resource.
In this podcast they discuss the book as well as practical advice for recovery and spousal support. The share from their vast personal experience working with couples, addicts, and spouses.
This is a 2 part series, so make sure to listen t...2017-02-2100 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 40: Interview with Dr. Milton Magness and Marsha Means Part 1https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/podcast40-dr-magness-and-marsha-means-part-1.mp3
Marsha Means and Dr. Magness are co-authoring a new book that is designed to be a resource for therapist, addicts, spouses and family. Their new book “Real Hope/True Freedom: Understanding and Coping with Sex Addiction” is designed in a “FAQ” format to be a resource.
In this podcast they discuss the book as well as practical advice for recovery and spousal support. The share from their vast personal experience working with couples, addicts, and spouses.
This is a 2 part series, so make sure to listen t...2017-02-1400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 39B: Chris’ Testimony – Pornography Addictionhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/podcast39-part-b-chris-pornography-addiction-testimony.mp3
Part B – Chris walks through the second part of his testimony. We get to see what recovery tools became crucial to his healing.
We appreciate his honesty and openess, and our hope is that we can all identify with areas of his story in a way that leads us to a better self.
For more information, please contact us at
puritypodcast@castimonia.org
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2017-02-0900 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 39A: Chris’ Testimony – Pornography Addictionhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/podcast39-part-a-chris-testimony-of-porn-addiction.mp3
Part A — Chris walks us through his life and his growing addiction to pornography. He is rigorously honest about the struggles in his life and the character defects that magnified those.
He shares candidly patterns in his life that lead to broken thinking and false beliefs.
We thank him for his story of how he was in need of rescuing and restoration. This is part 1 of a 2-part testimony. Part 2 will highlight the restoration and what recovery tools worked best for him.
For mor...2017-02-0700 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 38: Living in the Present by Seeing the Future – Sex Addiction Recoveryhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/podcast38-living-in-the-present.mp3
Doug talks about the contrast of the “morning after” when in addiction vs in recovery. Learning to see the consequences of a choice when facing temptation is an important step in recovery.
Learn some practical ways to enjoy the moment and sustain a better recovery by being intentional and real.
If you need more information, resources, or help, please email us at
puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information.
Remember, that the road of recovery is a tough one, but you are not walk...2017-01-3100 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 37: The Importance of Rest – Addiction Recovery talk with Nick Fouts of Cedar Rock Ministrieshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/podcast37-conversation-on-the-importance-of-rest.mp3
Nick Fouts is the co-founder of Cedar Rock Ministries that strives to teach people about how to incorporate rest into their lives. He has experience as a presenter, counselor, and he has served on the mission field in Africa.
Nick and Doug discuss the importance of learning the discipline of rest. They discuss the dangers of living distracted and busy. Nick offers practical suggestions for helping set aside our own pride to learn to live “from rest” not “to rest”
If you need more information or to fin...2017-01-2400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 36: Working Step 4 – Sexual Conduct & Deep, Dark Secretshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/podcast36-part-d-step-4-deepest-darkest-secrets.mp3
Part D – Jorge and Doug discuss the next aspect of working Step 4 in sex addiction recovery. If you haven’t listened to steps 1-3, it may be a good idea to listen to episode 31 (Step 3), episode 20 (step 2), and episodes 9/10 (step one). Also parts A, B, and C of step four were released a few days before this episode.
In this podcast, they discuss how to work through the harms we have done to others or have been done to us. We take ownership for our part in those h...2017-01-1900 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 36C: Working Step 4 – Fearshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/podcast36-part-c-step-4-working-on-fear.mp3
Part C – Jorge and Doug discuss the next aspect of working Step 4 in sex addiction recovery. If you haven’t listened to steps 1-3, it may be a good idea to listen to episode 31 (Step 3), episode 20 (step 2), and episodes 9/10 (step one). Also parts A and B of step four were released a few days before this episode.
In this podcast, they discuss how to work through fears. Often we feel that fear is a weakness that should be forgotten about or not dealt with. In recovery, we see the...2017-01-1700 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 36B: Working Step 4 – Resentmentshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/podcast36-part-b-step-4-working-on-resentments.mp3
Part B – Jorge and Doug discuss the next aspect of working Step 4 in sex addiction recovery. If you haven’t listened to steps 1-3, it may be a good idea to listen to episode 31 (Step 3), episode 20 (step 2), and episodes 9/10 (step one). Also part A of step four was released a few days before this episode.
In this podcast, they discuss how to work through resentments. Our childhood, development, and adulthood are full of resentments that we store and ignore. Jorge and Doug explore the importance of bringing...2017-01-1200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 36A: Working Step 4 – Introduction and Character Defects & Assetshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/podcast36-part-a-introduction-to-working-step-4.mp3
Part A – Jorge and Doug discuss the overview of working Step 4 in sex addiction recovery. If you haven’t listened to steps 1-3, it may be a good idea to listen to episode 31 (Step 3), episode 20 (step 2), and episodes 9/10 (step one).
In this podcast, they discuss how to not be overwhelmed with such an important step. They discuss how to create an inventory as well as some practical steps to doing the step work. It is a good idea to have a sponsor in place before beginning this step as...2017-01-1000 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 35: Mark Laaser – A Whole New Youhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/podcast-35-mark-laaser.mp3
Dr. Mark Laaser of Faithful and True Ministries shares his story as the first podcast of 2017.
He also shares practical advice from his practice about recovery practices. He emphasizes that men recover best in community and dealing appropriately with shame.
Check out his resources as faithfulandtrue.com to see how to get his books and other resources.
Email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information.
The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 35: Mark Laaser – A Whole New You appeared first on CAS...2017-01-0300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 34: Happy New Year – Finding the “New You” Out of Sex Addictionhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/podcast-34-happy-new-year-to-a-new-you.mp3
Doug discusses some topics for focusing on the new year. How to walk in the freedom of God’s grace and your own recovery.
We pray for blessing upon you and your family in 2017, and we look forward to an exciting year of guests, topics, and testimonies.
Please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information.
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2016-12-2700 minSex Addiction Recovery PodcastCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 33: Merry Christmas from Castimonia – Addiction Tools for the HolidaysJorge and Doug talk about the upcoming holidays as well as two tools that are helpful in recovery. They discuss the importance of the season as well as difficulties for addicts during the holidays. They discuss the FANOS “check in” tool from Mark Laaser and the Smart Recovery ABC tool. For more information, please email […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 33: Merry Christmas from Castimonia – Addiction Tools for the Holidays appeared first on CASTIMONIA.2016-12-2037 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 33: Merry Christmas from Castimonia – Addiction Tools for the Holidayshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/podcast33-merry-christmas-from-castimonia.mp3
Jorge and Doug talk about the upcoming holidays as well as two tools that are helpful in recovery.
They discuss the importance of the season as well as difficulties for addicts during the holidays.
They discuss the FANOS “check in” tool from Mark Laaser and the Smart Recovery ABC tool.
For more information, please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information.
The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 33: Merry Christmas from Castimonia – Addiction Tools for the Holidays appeared first o...2016-12-2000 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 32: God Can Get Your Attentionhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/podcast32-god-can-get-your-attention.mp3
Doug gives an example of a story he heard during his recovery that helped him realize that God is willing to go to any length to get our attention and purify us. Those methods might seem harsh at the on set, but they are ultimately an act of love.
If you need information, or you are finally finding a time to be willing to submit to your Higher power, we will support you any way that we can. Email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org. Remember that you a...2016-12-1300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 31: Working Step 3https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/podcast31-step-three.mp3
We made a decision to turn our lives and our wills over to the care of God, as we understood God.
“Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:6-7)
Step 1 we talked about how “I can’t,” step 2 was “He can,” and now in step 3 we know “He will” if we let him. Turning our will over to God is difficult because we have been given free w...2016-12-0600 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 30: Recovery Clichéshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/podcast30-cliche-episode.mp3
Recovery is known for having a whole host of clichés that are passed around. Many are deep nuggets of wisdom buried inside an easy to remember saying. While some may seem trivial, they often have a deep truth to be explored.
Jorge and Doug discuss many of the clichés found in recovery. Most have roots in AA, but some are specific to those in Sex Addiction recovery.
Let us know if any of these clichés help you at puritypodcast@castimonia.org.
T...2016-11-2900 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 29: Giving Thanks for Addiction???https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/podcast29-thanksgiving-episode.mp3
Jorge and Doug discuss the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday in terms of recovery. Family and friends are not always easy to be around, but especially when dealing with recovery issues.
They discuss travel plans as well as ways to handle in-laws. They also discuss the dangers of being alone, and they talk about some strategies to put in place if you are.
Thanksgiving is a great time to serve your community, so look for ways to bless others. Also, journal all of the things y...2016-11-2200 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 28b: Mike and Sex Addiction – Testimony and Interview (Part B)https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/podcast28b-mikes-hope-and-freedom.mp3
God wasn’t through with Mike in the midst of his addiction. He didn’t abandon Mike during his discovery. God walked with him and carried him through the pain to reach better days on the other side.
Listen as Mike discusses the practical and supernatural ways that he found hope and freedom. Mike discusses the power of recovery groups and not isolating. He was able to establish years of sobriety based upon the truth that God put on his heart.
For more information about our po...2016-11-1700 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 28a: Mike and Sex Addiction – Testimony and Interview (Part A)https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/podcast28a-mikes-testimony.mp3
Mike takes us through his life’s story that walks us through his addiction story. His honest approach to the dark days in his past show the power that Satan can have over us.
He talks about his youth as well as the slippery slope of his addiction. His progression into bondage of sexual sin is one that highlights the broken thinking and false beliefs that we tell ourselves.
Listen for how his story is like your story…we all have brokenness and areas that God c...2016-11-1500 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 27: Frank Honess Interview – Sex and Pornography Addiction Podcasterhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/podcast27-frank-honess.mp3
Frank has over 150+ podcasts recorded that are designed to help addicts and men find hope and freedom from the chains of sexual sin. He has a story that powerfully displays the way that sexual impurity can affect those around us.
He speaks about the practical ways to find recovery as well as the pressure that is on men in the ministry.
Frank’s honesty and practical knowledge is eye-opening, and his approach to finding healing can give hope to anyone that earnestly seeks it.
2016-11-0800 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 26b: Jorge’s Testimony Followuphttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/podcast26b-jorges-testimony-followup.mp3
Jorge takes us through the second part of his story. He guides us through the steps he needed to find healing as well as long-lasting sobriety.
It is possible to find healing from any addiction, and Jorge discusses some of the key elements that he needed to find help.
For more information on how to get help, or if you know of a great topic/testimony idea, please let us know at puritypodcast@castimonia.org
The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 26b: Jorge’s T...2016-11-0300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 26a: John’s Follow-up to Episode 14https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/podcast26a-johns-testimony-part-2.mp3
John takes us through the hope portion of his recovery…how did his recovery start and what resources worked for him to find healing.
Our new format will be set up to make all testimonies a 2-part series from now on to allow for us to hear and connect with the brokeness, and then connect with the healing and the hope.
We appreciate his honest and transparent talk, and we are inspired at the work that God has done in him and his life.
2016-11-0100 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 25: How Does God Talk To Us Today?https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast25-how-god-talks.mp3
Sex Addiction can be a dark place. Pornography and lust can trap us in a dark pit. Hearing God or our Hgher Power can be difficult, but there are still ways.
Andy and Doug discuss ways that God speaks to us today as well as practices to hear His voice more clearly.
The sheep will know the voice of the shepherd, and we are called to know the voice of Jesus.
Learn ways to not have your hearing clouded with addiction, but open y...2016-10-2500 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 24: Carol the Coach, Sex Addiction Expert, Psychotherapist, & CSAThttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/podcast24-carol-the-coach.mp3
Carol the Coach is a sex addiction expert, psychotherapist, CSAT, and blog talk radio host. She is a life coach, and she has two podcast/blog talk radio programs. She was trained directly by Carnes, and she has a host of resources on her websites.
She discusses the impact of addiction on spouses, the effect of lying, and various tools to utilize in recovery.
She mentioned the ebook “Sex Addiction: Wisdom From the Masters” as a great book to buy as 100% of the proceeds go towar...2016-10-1800 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 23: The Three Circles of Sex Addicts Anonymoushttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast23-three-circles.mp3
Sex Addiction recovery relies on several tools that addicts can learn from. One of those is the intentional decision to look at all behaviors and categorize them. Certain behaviors are healthy, others are obviously sinful or dangerous, and other behaviors might not be “bad” but don’t lead us in a positive direction.
Jorge and Doug discuss the power in the circles as well as their history. Listen to how you can find healing in utilizing this resource in your own journey of healing.
For more in...2016-10-1300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 22: Jorge’s Testimonyhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast22-jorges-testimony.mp3
Jorge walks through his story of early exposure to pornography and sexual abuse. He talks about the tie-ins to his addiction in adulthood, and his out of control lifestyle.
He discusses his journey through a world of sex, power, and ego. He discusses finding true love and finding his hope in Christ who was waiting for him all along.
His powerful story is one that tells the power of God. If Jorge can find sobriety, healing, and freedom, anyone can.
Email us at...2016-10-1100 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 21: Doug’s Sex Addiction Testimony – Celebrating Recoveryhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast21-dougs-testimony.mp3
Doug utilizes his Celebrate Recovery testimony to share his struggle with pornography, lust, and sex addiction. He shares the history and foundation of his life that built pathways that developed into addiction.
He highlights the negative choices that he made as well as the chaos of living in addiction. He shows the grace that others can show as well as the true freedom that is possible in getting the help needed.
He is currently sober from alcohol and sex by staying involved in programs that...2016-10-0400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 20: Step Twohttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast20-step-two.mp3
We came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. That is a powerful step in recovery after realizing how broken, powerless, and insane our behaviors were previously.
Jorge and Doug discuss how to “work” the step and have it “work you.” They discuss what “Higher Powers” could mean, and they seek to expand your view of God in the process.
Learn practical tips for working the step in the casual conversation as well as find resources to get help if you need...2016-09-2700 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 19: Nate Larkin, Founder of Samson Societyhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/podcast19-nate-larkin.mp3
Nate Larkin is the founder of the “Samson Society” and the author of “Samson and the Pirate Monks” (www.natelarkin.com and www.samsonsociety.com)
He shares his powerful story as well as his involvement with the “I am Second” movement. His video testimony has taken his story to countless men that struggle in similar ways.
He is dedicated to establishing real community for men to be able to find help.
He discusses how sex wasn’t his problem, but it was the solution that h...2016-09-2000 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 18: Grace for the Addicthttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast18-grace-ronnie-norman.mp3
Ronnie Norman is the Senior Minister for the First Colony Church of Christ in Sugarland, Texas.
He discusses his views of God’s amazing grace for all of us. He talks specifically of addiction and how grace is our undeserved gift from God, and how it is free, but not cheap.
He shares his wisdom on how to accept grace, and what the Bible promises us as sinners.
He shares his love of the Celebrate Recovery ministry at First Colony Church of Christ. In...2016-09-1500 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 17: Andy’s Testimony – A Spiritual Awakening for Pornography Addictshttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast17-andys-testimony.mp3
Andy discusses the power of God in his life in finding healing from addiction to pornography. He discusses his childhood and life-long struggle with pornography and lust.
He highlights the dangers that pornography brought to his life as well as the efforts used to try to stop over and over.
He found healing and true freedom when he decided to let go of his control and his addiction to his higher power. He speaks of his immediate transformation and some of the revelations from God...2016-09-1300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 16: Dr. Milton Magness – Stop Sex Addictionhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast16-dr-milton-magness.mp3
Dr. Milton Magness is a leader in the fight against sex addiction, and he has developed a proven system for couples to find healing. He is the author of “Stop Sex Addiction,” and he is a known world-wide as a champion for the recovery process.
In this podcast, he discusses his approach as well as the healing that is possible from true recovery. He discusses the resources that are available at his website www.hopeandfreedom.com as well his upcoming book with co-author Marsha Means. (www.acircleofjoy.com)2016-09-0600 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 15: Michael John Cusick – Sex Addiction Recovery Interviewhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast15-michael-john-cusick1.mp3
Michael John Cusick is the author of “Surfing for God” which details his story and struggle with pornography and sexual addiction. He highlights the power of addiction within the chemicals of the brain based upon years of conditioning. His book highlights ways to breaks those patterns of behaviors to live a light fully in the freedom of Christ.
He is an expert on the addiction to pornography and the practical and spiritual steps necessary to break free from that bondage. He is the founder and President of “Restor...2016-08-3000 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 14: John’s Testimony – Overcoming Sex Addictionhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast14-johns-testimony.mp3
John shares his life’s story in an honest and open way to help us see patterns in his life that we might identify with.
He discusses his early exposure to life situations that were too mature for him and how that confuses his view of “reality.”
We see the use of secondary addictions creep in as he tries to compensate for feelings and guilt. He also discusses how he found hope, and how that new life style has given him a fresh outlook on life.2016-08-2300 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 13: Sex Addiction and Polygraphs…an interview with Stephen Cablerhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast13-cabler-polygraph.mp3
Stephen Cabler is a nationally recognized polygrapher and a leader in the use of polygraphs with sex addicts. He has worked with literally 1000’s of men and women struggling with sexual purity as a means to help them find solid ground on which to stand with their spouses, family, friends, and themselves.
He has training with criminal polygraphs as well, but his heart and passion are with those men and women seeking to turn their lives around by seeking truth.
He discusses in this episode th...2016-08-1800 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 12: The Power of Lies – Learning to Tell the Truth and Nothing but the Truthhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast12-power-of-lies.mp3
How do you know when an addict is lying? …. When his lips are moving!
See why there is no addiction without lying, and how there is no recovery with truth.
Jorge and Doug highlight the reasons that addicts use lies and how they originate in us as children. Once we are aware of this issue, we can intentionally choose truth.
They discuss the power that truth has as well as the freedom from not looking over our shoulders or remembering what lie we migh...2016-08-1600 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 11: Pornography Addiction Help – www.pornknow.orghttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast11-pornknow.mp3
Pornknow.org is a group based in the Houston area that seeks to open up the barriers that prevent parents from engaging with their kids in conversations about porn. This podcast is an interview with the founder, Beau that captures his heart for the mission to get the message to all those who are suffering as well as educate our children effectively.
Beau and Doug discuss the real dangers of pornography, and how Pornknow is engaging in the fight.
Learn how you can have pornknow...2016-08-0900 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 10: Step One Continuedhttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast10-step-one-continued.mp3
Step one takes a lot of work to look deeply into beginning change. We need to first see the true cost of our insane behavior, so we can begin to build a life free from sexual impurity.
Learn how to find the true cost of our behaviors as well as what is meant by a “public first step”. Learn how publicly confessing can lead to healing.
Jorge and Doug discuss the pros of taking a deep look into our family of origin, our unmanageability, and our...2016-08-0400 minSex Addiction, Pornography, and Sexual Purity -- Castimonia.orgCastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 9: Step One – Explanation, Examples, and How to Work the Stephttps://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast09-step-one.mp3
Step one is the beginning of the journey of the 12-steps. Learn what it takes to break free of the denial and recognize our own insane behaviors.
This is a 2-part series that is designed to help us see how we were powerless to change without help from our Higher Power.
In this casual conversation, learn what it takes to begin to seek healing and help by being vulnerable enough to admit we can’t change on our own no matter how much we want to...2016-08-0200 min