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The Shit No One Tells You About WritingBianca and CeCe Discuss The Real Sh*t No One Tells You About WritingIn this special episode, CeCe Lyra sits down with our very own Bianca Marais to explore her writing journey, with a spotlight on her latest novel, ‘A Most Puzzling Murder.’ If you’re not already familiar with her work, Bianca is the bestselling author of ‘The Witches of Moonshyne Manor’, the beloved novels ‘Hum If You Don’t Know the Words’ and ‘If You Want to Make God Laugh’, and the Audible Original ‘The Prynne Viper’. She has also taught creative writing at the University of Toronto’s School of Continuing Studies, where she received an Excellence in Teaching Award.In this candi...2025-06-0536 min
The Wilderness and The Well#9 The Power of The Pause - Finding Stillness in ChicagoIn this episode, Cece shares personal reflections from a recent trip to Chicago—originally intended as a work trip to deliver a training—but one that became an unexpected invitation from God to pause, breathe, and be refreshed.Through the noise of the city, Cece discovered the quiet power of pausing—right in the middle of purpose and responsibility. Listen in as she explores what it means to slow down, listen for God’s voice, and create room for renewal, even when life doesn’t stop.🗝️ What You’ll Take Away:The importance...2025-06-0312 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingConcrete vs. Abstract CuriosityIn this special episode of Books with Hooks, author Kate Visser joins hosts Bianca, Carly and CeCe to share insights about her query letter for her YA fantasy novel, 'Stage of Shadows.' Carly and Cece dissect the strengths and weaknesses of Kate’s pitch, particularly focusing on character arcs, world-building, and the complexities of dual POV narratives. Carly and Cece provide constructive feedback, emphasizing the importance of clarity in storytelling and the need for the protagonist’s character arc to evolve throughout the narrative. The episode highlights the challenges of balancing ambitious concepts with reader engagement, offering valuable less...2025-05-2943 min
Going Solo Network Radio, TV & Podcasts (WGSN-DB) - #1 Singles Talk NetworkMove Through Fear To Embrace ChallengeMove Through Fear To Embrace Challenge with Host, Cece Shatz, Doyenne of Relationship Building on the Going Solo with Cece Show. WGSN-DB Going Solo Network, Radio, TV & Podcasts - #1 Internet Singles Talk Network. (www.goingsolomedia.com)A bit more about Cece....Cece is the Founder and Owner of the Going Solo Network (www.goingsolonetwork.com) as she is the “Doyenne” of Relationship Building. Her focus is on Divorce Recovery, Relationship Loss, Transition into Dating, Dating, Single Parent’s Support and Singles learning to live their BEST lives.She is an inspirational Divorce and Life Transi...2025-05-2943 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingMay Bonus EpisodeIn the first part of this month’s bonus episode, Carly Watters interviews Anna Mitchael, an accomplished author and copywriter. Anna discusses her writing journey, experiences in magazine publishing, and the art of storytelling through vignettes. They discuss the importance of building relationships in the writing community, the unique format of vignettes in Anna's latest book, and the nuances of ghostwriting. Anna shares her insights on creativity, overcoming fear, and the challenges of the publishing process, offering valuable advice for aspiring writers. Carly and Anna explore the complexities of personal triggers, the challenges of storytelling, and the realities of th...2025-05-262h 32
Going Solo Network Radio, TV & Podcasts (WGSN-DB) - #1 Singles Talk NetworkWhy We Attract the Wrong Men and How to Change It Guest Andrea OienWelcome to "Date The Right 1" on NEWStreamingNetwork.com! In this insightful episode, Host Cece Shatz, the Doyenne of Relationships, welcomes special guest Andrea Oien, Life-Partner Magnet Coach and Transformation Expert. Together, they explore "Why We Attract the Wrong Men – and How to Change It." Get ready for expert tips, powerful insights, and actionable steps to help you break old patterns and attract the love you truly deserve. Let’s dive in!A bit more about Cece...Cece Shatz is the “Doyenne” of Relationship Loss, Divorce, Transition into Dating, Dating, Single Parent’s Support, and helping Singles learn to l...2025-05-2146 min
Going Solo Network Radio, TV & Podcasts (WGSN-DB) - #1 Singles Talk NetworkFrom Trauma to Stronger! Guest Toby WedgleFrom Trauma to Stronger! Join us for an empowering conversation with guest Toby Wedgle—Divorce Coach, High Conflict Divorce Coach, Speaker, Author, and Acupuncturist—alongside Cece Shatz, Doyenne of Relationships, Divorce, Dating & Life Coach. Discover how to navigate the challenges of high-conflict divorce, heal from past trauma, and emerge stronger than ever. Don’t miss this transformative episode—only on NEWStreamingNetwork.com!A bit more about Cece... Cece Shatz is the “Doyenne” of Relationship Loss, Divorce, Transition into Dating, Dating, Single Parent’s Support and helping Singles learn to live their BEST lives.She is an inspirational...2025-05-1942 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingLeaning into Illustrator Notes & CeCe Not Minding a But, ButIn this episode of Books with Hooks, Bianca, CeCe, and Carly dive into a YA fantasy romance query, breaking down what works—and what doesn’t—when it comes to character arcs, high stakes, and spot-on comp titles. The hosts then shift gears to a picture book query, spotlighting the power of a strong hook and truly kid-focused storytelling. Packed with sharp insights and actionable feedback, this episode is a must-listen for writers ready to level up their queries and take on the publishing world.Note: Carly Watters and CeCe Lyra are literary agents at P.S. Literar...2025-05-1541 min
Going Solo Network Radio, TV & Podcasts (WGSN-DB) - #1 Singles Talk Network11 Steps To Prepare You For The Greatest Love Of Your LifeMany wonder why they can’t get ahead in dating or why they struggle to meet "The Right 1." Together, let's explore 11 Steps To Prepare You For The Greatest Love Of Your Life by Naomi Pabst, PhD. Join Cece Shatz, Doyenne of Relationships, on Date The Right 1 show as we dive into the essential steps to attract and embrace deep, meaningful love. Don’t miss this transformative conversation—only on NEWStreamingNetwork.com!Contact Cece @ goingsolonetwork@gmail.comA bit more about Cece...Cece Shatz is the “Doyenne” of Relationship Loss, Divorce, Transition into Dating, Dating, Single Par...2025-05-0959 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingThe Problem with the Blank Canvas ProtagonistIn this episode of Books with Hooks, hosts Bianca, CeCe, and Carly first review a query letter for literary fiction, providing insights on emotional depth in character relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for clarity in plot points and the importance of avoiding the blank canvas protagonist so readers can be engaged and connect with them. The second query letter is for a historical novel. The hosts discuss its title, plot structure, and the effectiveness of its opening pages. The conversation emphasizes the need for strong character connections, clear narrative goals, and the balance between description and story progression.2025-05-0144 min
Going Solo Network Radio, TV & Podcasts (WGSN-DB) - #1 Singles Talk NetworkMindset Mastery for Startups with Cece ShatzJoin Cece Shatz, Doyenne of Relationships, Founder & Producer of Going Solo/Going BOLD/NEWStreamingNetwork.com, as she dives into Mindset Mastery for Startups on NEWStreamingNetwork.com. In this episode, Cece shares essential insights and strategies to build the resilient, success-driven mindset that every entrepreneur needs. Whether you're just starting out or scaling up, tune in for empowering tips on staying motivated, overcoming obstacles, and shaping a thriving startup journey!Want to Create a Shift in Your Life Path? Contact Cece @ goingsolonetwork@gmail.comA bit more about Cece...Cece Shatz is the “Doyenne” of Relat...2025-04-2734 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingWhy Plot and Specificity are a Query Letter's Best FriendsIn this episode of Books with Hooks, hosts Bianca Marais, Carly Watters and CeCe Lyra welcome querying author Debbie Whittall to discuss her query letter for her debut novel, 'Linda/Linda.' Carly and CeCe address the challenges of representing a quiet novel in a query format. The discussion transitions to the pages of the manuscript, highlighting the strengths of Debbie's writing and the need for a more engaging presentation of her story's drama. The critique discusses the complexities of character relationships, particularly focusing on characters in Debbie’s novel. The hosts offer advice on exploring themes of sapphic ro...2025-04-1749 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingStage Directions, Opening and How to Avoid ThemIn this episode of Books with Hooks, hosts Bianca, Carly, and CeCe discuss the importance of clarity in storytelling, character development, and the need for emotional depth in writing. The conversation emphasizes the significance of engaging openings and the necessity of establishing strong connections between plot points. They also offer great tips like avoiding starting with stage directions in the opening line and that a strong opening scene should have a disruption.Note: Carly Watters and CeCe Lyra are literary agents at P.S. Literary Agency, but their work on this podcast is not affiliated with the...2025-04-0335 min
The Bottom Line Is...Catch-up with Cece: Pageant & Life UpdatesJoin Cece as we catch up on life updates, pageant news, and so much more with a special guest! 👑✨ A huge thank you to Miss Corporate America Maryland for the incredible opportunity — we are so grateful! 🙏💖 And thank you all for your amazing support — we couldn’t do this without you! 🎧💬#MissCorporateAmerica #maryland #TheBottomLineIs #Cecthediva #podcast #podcasting #podcastlife #podcaster #spotify #applepodcasts #youtube #podcastlove #podcastinglife #podcastsofinstagram #podcasthost #applepodcast #podcastnetwork #love #podcastmovement #newepisode #motivation #podcastcommunity #blackpodcasts #entertainment #podcast #mca #LifeUpdates #PageantNews #SpecialGuest #CatchUpTime2025-03-3152 min
The Wilderness and The Well#3 From Burnout to Breakthrough (Ep.3): The New Beginning - Walking in Purpose with RenewalAfter the wilderness comes renewal. In this episode of The Wilderness and The Well, host Cece Henderson shares how she stepped into a new season of clarity, healing, and purpose after burnout. She opens up about the mindset shifts that changed everything, the lessons she learned about sustainable rest, and the bold decision to move to a new country as part of her fresh start.If you’ve ever wondered what comes after burnout—how to step into purpose without falling back into exhaustion—this episode is for you.Listen to Learn:How to...2025-03-2719 min
The Wilderness and The Well#1 From Burnout to Breakthrough (Ep.1): The Breaking Point - When Burnout Took OverEpisode 1: When Burnout Breaks You – My Story of Hitting Rock BottomHave you ever felt so drained that even praying felt like too much? In this first episode of The Wilderness and The Well, host Cece Henderson shares her raw and personal story of burnout—how years of striving, serving, and pushing through exhaustion finally caught up with her.Cece opens up about the moment she knew something had to change, the emotional and spiritual toll of burnout, and the first steps she took toward healing. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, discon...2025-03-2518 min
LinktoEXPERT Business Showcase & Good Reads ShowWant Extreme Exposure Joanne Weiland & Cece ShatzReady to take your visibility to the next level? Tune in to Want Extreme Exposure? with Hosts Joanne Weiland of LinktoEXPERT.com and Cece Shatz, Doyenne of Relationships and Founder of GoingSoloNetwork.com & NEWStreamingNetwork.com. Discover how spending just 40 minutes sharing your expertise in a video interview can amplify your reach. Your interview will be distributed across 50+ TV, radio, and podcast networks, plus social media, email blasts, and eNewsletters worldwide. Don’t miss this opportunity to expand your brand like never before!Contact Joanne Weiland: Tel: (727) 791-7338 Email: jweiland@linktoexpert.com https://www.linktoexpert.com/ Contact Cec...2025-03-2343 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingIt's a Vibe: Plot Points & Emotional Vibes in StorytellingIn this episode of Books with Hooks, hosts Bianca, Carly and CeCe welcome special guest, literary agent, Lauren Spieller to discuss query letters in romance and fantasy genres. The hosts discuss the distinctions between Young Adult and Adult Fantasy, and the dynamics of character relationships. Lauren provides insightful critiques on a submitted query letter and its opening pages, emphasizing the need for clarity, tension, and character depth. The hosts continue to talk about the intricacies of character development, particularly focusing on the protagonist's depth and emotional projection. The panel discusses a high concept query that intertwines elements of romance...2025-03-2041 min
Date The Right 1Dating Transition with Cece Shatz Doyenne of RelationshipsWelcome to the Date the Right 1 show on NEW Streaming Network.com! In today's episode, we explore the "Dating Transition" with our insightful host, Cece Shatz, the Doyenne of Relationship Building. Join us as we delve into the journey of moving from one phase of dating to the next, offering valuable tips and strategies to help you navigate these changes smoothly. Don't miss this enlightening discussion designed to support you in finding and building meaningful relationships.A bit more about Cece... Cece Shatz is the “Doyenne” of Relationship Loss, Divorce, Transition into Dating, Dating, Single Parent’s Support, and he...2025-03-1630 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingUsing the 'Micro to Macro' HackIn this episode of Books with Hooks, hosts Bianca, Carly, and CeCe dive into the intricacies of middle grade fantasy submissions. They discuss a query about a fantasy novel featuring a cat protagonist, exploring themes of family, sacrifice, and the stakes involved in the narrative. The conversation shifts to critiques of character development, emotional stakes, and the importance of world-building in storytelling. The hosts provide valuable insights into writing style, narrative perspective, and the significance of grounding readers in the emotional experiences of characters. The episode concludes with a new query submission, focusing on a contemporary young adult speculative...2025-03-0634 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingDelving Deeply Into Your Antagonist's PsycheIn this segment of Books with Hooks, Bianca, Carly and CeCe discuss a gothic horror novel submission as well as a psychological thriller.They highlight the importance of starting a story in the right place, the challenges of multi-POV narratives, and the need for clarity in character perspectives. The critique emphasizes the balance between emotional depth and curiosity in storytelling. The hosts discuss the challenges of originality and character development in psychological thrillers; while navigating the complexities of writing compelling protagonists, particularly those with darker traits.The discussion also emphasizes the need for curiosity-inducing plots...2025-02-2044 minThe Bottom Line Is...Welcome back; Catch up with CeceWELCOME BACK; CATCH-UP WITH CECE! Grab a cup of tea and join us for a catch-up session with me, where I fill you in on all the latest podcast news and personal adventures! ☕🎧 It's the perfect way to stay connected and informed. 🌟🎤 For more previous podcast episodes from Season 1! Link in my bio.🔗#StayConnected #LifeUpdate #TheBottomLineIs #Cecthediva #podcast #podcasting #podcastlife #podcaster #spotify #applepodcasts #youtube #podcastlove #podcastinglife #podcastsofinstagram #podcasthost #applepodcast #podcastnetwork #love #podcastmovement #newepisode #motivation #podcastcommunity #blackpodcasts #entertainment #podcastepisode #subscribe #mentalhealth #spotifypodcasts #linkinbio #instagram2025-02-0810 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingWhat is Literary Burlesque and Can You Perform It?In this segment of Books with Hooks, Bianca, Carly and Cece discuss a memoir submission as well as a speculative thriller submission.They highlight the importance of balancing plot points with emotional depth; the significance of character development through interior monologue; how character arcs are crucial in memoir writing; the importance of building tension throughout the narrative; how the query letter should focus on plot points rather than just vibes; and the need for curiosity in opening pages. The hosts emphasize the delicate dance between withholding and revealing information in storytelling, and the necessity of g...2025-02-0648 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingCeCe Swipes Carly’s SubmissionIn this Books with Hooks segment, hosts Bianca, Carly and CeCe delve into two query letters from aspiring authors. The hosts discuss how negotiation can leak tension in storytelling; why character relationships should drive the narrative; how world-building should enhance character development; why queries for retellings need to focus on unique story angles; and avoiding namesplaining in character introductions.CeCe also swipes Carly’s submission because she loved it so much!Note: Carly Watters and CeCe Lyra are literary agents at P.S. Literary Agency, but their work on this podcast is not affi...2025-01-2339 min
Ryan and Cece's MysteriesA Special Message From Ryan and Cece!!Send us a textFans of Ryan and Cece, we've got great news! Listen to this special message from Ryan and Cece, announcing our exciting new project!Support the show2025-01-1801 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingA Query That Ticks all of CeCe’s Psychological Acuity BoxesIn this Books with Hooks segment, hosts Bianca, Carly and CeCe welcome listeners to a new year of writing while they reflect on their critiquing journey over the past four years. They dive into the critique of two query letters, focusing on the importance of connection, character motivations, and cinematic elements in storytelling. The conversation also explores the dynamics of campus novels and the significance of compelling hooks in narratives. They also discuss how psychological acuity is the child of interiority and emotionality, and CeCe declares her query to be the best she’s seen on t...2025-01-0942 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingCan An Agent Picture a Movie Trailer After Reading Your Query Letter?In today’s Books with Hooks segment, hosts Bianca, Carly, and CeCe provide feedback on two query letters, one for historical fiction and the other for historical fantasy.They discuss the importance of character development, plot clarity, and the balance between world-building and emotional engagement. The conversation emphasizes the need for specificity in storytelling and the challenges of writing historical and fantasy fiction.The hosts also explore the significance of themes versus plot in selling a book, and the complexities of crafting effective prologues.Note: Carly Watters and CeCe Lyra are literary agents at...2024-12-2636 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingThe Polarizing “P” WordIn today’s Books with Hooks segment, hosts Bianca, Carly, and CeCe analyze two query letters, one for an upmarket novel and one for women’s fiction, providing insights on character development, prologues, and the importance of clarity in storytelling. The discussion emphasizes the need for movement in narratives and the balance between internal conflict and external action. The hosts offer constructive feedback to aspiring authors, highlighting the significance of engaging openings and the necessity of grounding stories in specific contexts.Note: Carly Watters and CeCe Lyra are literary agents at P.S. Liter...2024-12-1235 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingThe Challenges of Writing in the First PersonIn today’s Books with Hooks segment, the hosts, Bianca, Carly and CeCe, analyze two query letters submitted by aspiring authors, one of which is a memoir and the other a YA steampunk query. They provide detailed feedback on the structure, content, and emotional depth of the letters, emphasizing the importance of clarity, causality, and character development. The conversation also delves into the challenges of writing in the first person and the need for emotional layers in world-building. Note: Carly Watters and CeCe Lyra are literary agents at P.S. Literary Agency, but the...2024-11-2828 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingThe Significance of Pacing in StorytellingIn today’s Books with Hooks segment, hosts Bianca, Carly and CeCe analyze a literary fiction query and a historical fiction query, providing insights on structure, emotional depth, and character development. The discussion emphasizes the importance of compelling opening lines, the need for emotional complexity in characters, and the significance of pacing in storytelling. The hosts also share their thoughts on how to effectively convey a protagonist's journey and the nuances of familial relationships in writing.Note: Carly Watters and CeCe Lyra are literary agents at P.S. Literary Agency, but their work on this podcast is not...2024-11-1430 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingThe Black List: The Future of StorytellingIn today’s episode, Carly and CeCe interview Franklin Leonard and Randy Winston, founders of The Blacklist, a platform designed to connect writers with industry professionals. They discuss the role of literary agents, the pricing structure of their services, the qualifications of their readers, and the impact of their recent New York Times profile. The conversation highlights the challenges and opportunities in the publishing industry, emphasizing the importance of quality feedback and the need for writers to aim high in their craft. In this conversation, Franklin and Randy discuss the evolving relationship between the film and television industry and li...2024-11-0739 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingLeveraging Your Characters’ Emotional ComplexityToday Bianca, Carly, and CeCe critique a coming-of-age submission set in the 80s, as well as a speculative literary fiction query.They chat about the importance of details in a query, as opposed to big-picture themes; an example of a prologue that induces curiosity; layering emotion to create more realistic interactions with characters; including emotion and interiority during narration/exposition to elevate your work; how the emotional complexity of your characters can heighten your readers’ connection to them; figuring out ways to show what characters want, rather than explicitly telling readers what that is; the risk of wr...2024-10-3132 min
畅所育言63 再见爱人：黄圣依为啥找了杨子这盏煤气灯？在爱情的长河中，我们都渴望 “愿得一人心，白首不分离”。现实中的婚姻却如同一座复杂的迷宫，充满了曲折与挑战。《再见爱人》这档综艺，无疑是将婚姻中最敏感的神经暴露在了聚光灯下。他们的故事有欢笑，有泪水，有争吵，也有无奈，让我们看到了婚姻背后的真实与残酷。从杨子和黄圣依的时差生活，到留几手和葛夕的性格冲突，再到李行亮和麦麦的相处困境，每一对都引发我们深深的思考。每一对夫妻的故事都是一面镜子，映照出那些在婚姻中被忽视的角落，映照出我们自己婚姻中的点点滴滴。边看节目的我们在想，所以人类的高质量情感是什么呢？我们的听友们，你们有答案了吗？时间轴简介 00:05 - 开场介绍，Cece和Soso对《再见爱人》的初步印象 00:15 - 杨紫和黄圣依：玫瑰的故事现实版 01:00 - 婚姻中的权力游戏，夫妻间的控制与反控制 03:09 - 留几手和葛夕：互怼与分房 06:01 - 李航亮与麦麦：不安全感与自我课题 19:23 - 婚姻中的煤气灯效应，被操控的情感 24:12 - 夫妻间的默契与独立，婚姻的本质探讨 35:20 - 婚姻体检，了解与被了解的重要性 41:15 - Soso最近沉迷的人类高质量情感：萧敬腾与林友慧 45:53 - Cece最近沉迷的人类高质量情感：王楚钦与孙颖莎 49:00 - 总结与反思，婚姻中的自我成长与情感觉醒【Cece的小笔记】【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），前投资人，现入局创业者/白羊/INFP/深圳/22.09女宝Soso（@sosochen），前互联网，现跨境业务探索者/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/23.03男宝2024-10-2452 min
The Discovery Doc - Non-Toxic, Crunchy Mom, Optimal Health82.Family, Fitness, and Fluoride - A Holistic Approach to Optimal HealthMaster Family Management & Unity: Dr. CeCe shares her type A secrets for balancing her professional duties at Discovery Wellness and her bustling household. Learn how to foster family unity by collectively attending each other's events, managing without a babysitter, and prioritizing your marriage.
Health and Fitness Post-Pregnancy: Are you struggling to maintain your fitness regimen? Hear Dr. CeCe's candid discussion on prioritizing rest and self-grace post-pregnancy, offering invaluable advice for new moms or anyone trying to balance personal health with a demanding schedule.
Toxin-Free Living: Do you know the real impact of fluoride in your water? Gain practical advice on...2024-10-2443 min
The Discovery Doc - Non-Toxic, Crunchy Mom, Optimal Health80.Crunchy Mama Postpartum Recovery, Toxic Fluoride Tamed, and Medication Dosage BustedEmpowering Postpartum Recovery:
Dr. CeCe opens up about her positive postpartum experience, showcasing the real power of a supportive team. From her doting husband Will, who managed household tasks and cared for their children and pets, to her postpartum doula, whose Ayurvedic-based services like body work and womb massage were essential. Plus, the vital role a lactation consultant played in her successful breastfeeding journey.
Fluoride Debunked:
Annah Kate and Dr. CeCe question the long-held belief that fluoride in our drinking water is necessary to prevent tooth decay. They reveal studies that link fluoride consumption to potential health risks like cognitive...2024-10-1043 min
Self Discovery Wisdom TVRelationship Building & Streaming TV with Cece ShatzRelationship expert Cece stresses the importance of connections in all life areas, highlighting how podcasting and TV can help us understand and improve these relationships. Embark on a transformative journey in the realm of dating together with the esteemed Cece Shatz, fondly called the Doyenne of Relationship Building. In this illuminating episode, Cece guides us through the intricacies of transitioning in the world of relationships. With her wealth of experience and insightful perspective, she sheds light on navigating the twists and turns of modern romance. Whether you’re embarking on a new chapter or seeking to enhance existing connections, Cece’s wi...2024-08-011h 11
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingWorking With an Agent on Edits Ahead of SubmissionIn today's Books with Hooks, we’re throwing it back to an early backlist segment.After which, CeCe speaks with her very own client, Anamely Salgado Reyes, author of My Mother Cursed My Name. They discuss Anamely's query letter to CeCe and CeCe's response to it; Anamely's experience with her first round of edits from CeCe; the inspiration behind her work; how she feels about family and friends reading a work that was loosely inspired by them; and what has surprised Anamely about publishing. Note: Carly Watters and CeCe Lyra are literary agents at P.S...2024-08-011h 16
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingGiving Characters Changing Wants and Needs to Fulfill Their Character ArcsIn today's Books with Hooks, we’re throwing it back to an early backlist segment.After which, Bianca interviews creative writing professor, essayist, and author of Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance, Alison Espach. They discuss falling into the mode of writing the same sorts of novels repeatedly; the genre that Notes on Your Sudden Disappearance was pitched and marketed as; Alison's latest release, The Wedding People; writing a book that spanned a long period of time to one that spanned only a few days; writing a voicey third person POV; inciting incidents that happen off the page an...2024-07-251h 27
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingGiving Yourself Permission to Change and Grow as a WriterIn today's Books with Hooks, we’re throwing it back to an early backlist segment.After which, CeCe interviews Parini Shroff, lawyer and author of the national bestseller and award nominated The Bandit Queens. They discuss, Parini's experience working as a lawyer part-time while also writing fiction; finding it difficult to sustain writing for long periods; Parini's editing and writing process; giving yourself permission to change and grow as a writer; what Parini finds the most challenging in her writing; the POV of The Bandit Queens; Parini's path to publication; how she approaches starting a novel; her re...2024-07-181h 15
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingWriting Issue-Driven YA Fiction & Considering Alternate Routes to PublicationIn today's Books with Hooks, we’re throwing it back to an early backlist segment.After which, Bianca interviews author, editor, head of Writing Ink Publishing, and creative writing teacher, Abigail Wild. They discuss Abigail's latest novel, More Than One Way To Breathe; the extent to which younger readers can handle difficult topics; Abigail's advice to YA writers who want to write issue-driven fiction for teens; writing characters with disabilities authentically and sensitively; Wild Ink Publishing and Abigail's inspiration for starting the company; and building an author brand platform.Note: Carly Watters and CeCe Lyra ar...2024-07-111h 07
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingHow to Tackle Writing an Omniscient POVIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, CeCe, and Carly are joined by Jennifer to discuss her thriller submission. They chat about trigger warnings and their necessity in a query; ensuring your stakes aren't too obvious while illustrating the bigger 'why' at hand; framing your query letter in a way that highlights your POV characters and not others; the need for causality when it comes to plot points; utilizing similar pitch copy to help write more difficult or unique aspects of your query; tips for writing a query for a novel that is first person POV; avoiding overexplaining and trusting...2024-06-271h 11
Date The Right 1Never Say Never with Cece ShatzNever Say Never with Cece Shatz, Doyenne of Relationships, Divorce, Dating & Relationship Coach. If there's one thing I've learned in life, it's that you should never say never. In this video, I'm going to show you how you can achieve anything you put your mind too regardless of your starting point. So sit back, relax and let me show you how it's done. www.NEWStreamingNetwork.com. Home of NEW Streaming TV, Going Bold Media, Going Solo Media. and WGSN-DB Going Solo Network Radio, Podcasts, and TV. for a Complete Singles Connection (www.goingsolonetwork.com) Contact Cece @ goingsolonetwork@gmail.co...2024-06-2642 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingHow Interiority Makes a Character Come AliveIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, Carly, and CeCe critique a rom-com and a YA submission. They discuss the importance of clarity in your query and avoiding language that might cause confusion; the necessity of a clear major dramatic question in your query; ensuring your protagonists aren't anticipating everything that happens in your pages; the necessity of including a character's tone in dialogue; properly mapping out how your plot points connect; thinking in specifics and futurization; and an example of strong opening pages.After which, Bianca chats with Claire Lombardo, best-selling author of The Most Fun We...2024-06-201h 12
畅所育言49 当父亲成为外公后，我好像才懂得他｜父亲节特辑【节日特辑】「父亲节在Cece 和 Soso 看来是个有点尴尬的节日，一方面和母亲节齐名是个正儿八经很难不过的节日；另一方面这个节日真的很不走心，毕竟连要过节的主角似乎都对这个角色的体会并不那么深刻。」这是一段我们纠结许久想删又不想删的内心活动，可能是不合时宜的吐槽，却也是真真切切的感受。从小到大，父亲的形象似乎有点模糊和陌生，甚至常是“从别人口中听到父亲的事情”，但生娃后的 Cece 和 Soso 好像第一次和父亲有了更紧密的连结和更深的理解。本期节目，Cece 和 Soso 分别和九九&小胖进行了第二次夫妻对谈，聊聊他们成为父亲一年多来的感受和体会，同时也和他们就“父职奖励”和“母职惩罚”的理解进行了探讨。最后祝所有的爸爸们节日快乐！Soso Vs. 小胖01:20 当父亲成为外公后，我好像才懂得他03:21 看见男性：他们也有自己的人生困境07:57 小胖心中和爸爸最快乐和最难过的事发生在同一天13:25 小胖后悔过成为父亲吗？16:17 被控制和溺爱的童年，成为父亲后唯一愿望是给儿子更多自由18:36 小胖心中的完美父亲竟然是？21:27 小胖看到的父职奖励和母职惩罚Cece Vs. 九九27:35 父亲对爷爷奶奶的态度给九九树立了榜样30:52 父亲给九九的底气，让他更愿意选择一条难但有意义的路34:12 “不是所有的人都要一辈子追求挑战和上进”36:18 男性和女性和爸妈相处的区别44:48 九九心目中好的父亲的形象：支持孩子的选择，没有把不好的情绪带给孩子46:29 九九心目中父母对孩子的影响：成为孩子观察的对象47:09 九九看到的父职奖励和母职惩罚【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），前投资人，现入局创业者/白羊/INFP/深圳/22.09女宝Soso（@sosochen），前互联网，现跨境业务探索者/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/23.03男宝【本期嘉宾】九九，Cece 队友，INTJ小胖，Soso 队友，ENFP2024-06-1550 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingAn Inspiring Journey to PublicationIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, CeCe, and Carly critique two upmarket submissions, one of which is in the gothic genre. They discuss the reasoning behind placing your metadata at the top of a query; avoiding unnecessary detail in your query; avoiding slipping from pitch to synopsis; the need for interiority, particularly interiority that will surprise the reader; taking the opportunity to use plot points as curiosity seeds when you're able to; avoiding performative dialogue; being mindful about word choice in your query so as not to confuse your reader; avoiding withholding too much plot in your query; and...2024-06-131h 05
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingWriting That Evokes All the FeelsIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, CeCe, and Carly are joined by guest literary agent, Mary C. Moore. They critique a resubmission and a sci-fi query, during which they discuss: the importance of making tropes as fresh and different as possible; how to ensure your pitch isn't too dense, especially in genres that involve world-building; highlighting why you're the right person to tell the story you've written; writing plot points that connect to your major dramatic question; the balancing act of trying to write a cross-over novel; always being mindful of your writing at a line-level; the quality of...2024-06-061h 04
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingChoosing How to Frame Certain Aspects of Your WorkIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, Carly, and CeCe are joined by listener, Kelly Fuller, as they critique her book club fiction submission. They discuss picking comps that match the genre you're writing in; using your query to discuss the plot of the book rather than backstory about your characters; ensuring your stakes are high enough; pitching the right agent for your book based on its content; the need for plot that showcases causality in your query; writing a book that's as long as it needs to be; balancing plot development and character development; being mindful of intentionally writing...2024-05-301h 11
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingA Debut Experience All Authors Dream OfIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, Carly, and CeCe critique a YA submission and a literary coming-of-age horror. They discuss avoiding using repetitive language in a query; considering SEO when choosing a book title; the concept of 'scene work'; the need for disruption to occur in opening pages; matching word choice to genre when writing your query; pitching a literary fiction; finding a balance between showing and telling, even in literary fiction; and avoiding overwriting.After which, Bianca chats with freelance TV executive and writer, Samuel Burr. The two discuss Samuel's novel, The Fellowship of Puzzlemakers; its...2024-05-2357 min
畅所育言46 0-2岁宝宝绘本大分享：陪你一起观宇宙繁星，看蚂蚁搬家【当妈第一年】鸽了很久的绘本推荐终于来啦！Cece 和 Soso 家的两个小朋友是两只小书虫，因此 Cece 和 Soso为他俩寻寻觅觅，在不断试错、踩坑后，总结规律，终于在浩瀚书海中挑到了一些还算称心如意的绘本。本期节目就以年龄为标准，按照0-2 月龄、3-6 月龄、7-12 月龄以及 12-24 月龄为维度为大家推荐书目，愿每位小朋友都能找到自己心爱的那本书。03:00 挑选绘本的 3 原则： 1.不分年龄、逐步引入和隔段引入 2.挑选适应不同阶段的材质 3.绘本语言的选择原则09:59 0-2 月龄绘本挑选原则及推荐：黑白为主大色块、带声音14:33 3-6 月龄绘本挑选原则及推荐：视觉、听觉逐步发育完全，口欲期的到来，追求触摸的质感15:21 Ditty Birds 是一套常看常新的好书20:03 3-6 月龄推荐的有声书22:10 3-6 月龄推荐的触摸书25:10 3-6 月龄推荐的故事书26:58 6-12 月龄特点及绘本挑选原则：手部精细动作飞跃期、认知启蒙期，以锻炼手部动作，轻认知为主27:32 6-12 月龄推荐的撕撕书31:16 6-12 月龄推荐的翻翻书41:53 6-12 月龄推荐的机关书45:10 12-24 月龄特点及绘本挑选原则：认知飞跃期，以培养认知和感知为两条主线45:53 12-24 月龄推荐的认知书54:18 12-24 月龄推荐的感知书1:09:16 IP类绘本推荐：挑选和小朋友一起长大的好朋友1:18:53 读绘本的机器人的推荐：Luka！【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/22.09女宝Soso（@sosochen），前互联网，现跨境业务探索者/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/23.03男宝2024-05-191h 21
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingInsights from Publishing Phenomenon, Veronica RothIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, Carly, and CeCe critique a literary fiction query and a high concept YA fantasy query. They discuss the necessity of being specific with plot details and your protagonists' motivations in your query; honing in on world-building when your novel takes place in a reality that's different from ours; the issue with not grounding readers strongly enough in scene; avoiding jumping around in time too much in the opening pages; the need to correctly specify your genre so an agent knows what to expect from your pages; being mindful of spelling errors and putting...2024-05-1653 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingRewriting Instead of Giving UpIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, Carly, and CeCe are joined by Paige to discuss her query for her action-adventure romance novel. They discuss the importance of spelling out your protagonist's motivation in your query; the need for story-forward plot escalation; accurately positioning your novel’s genre; making an agent's job easier by picking the right comps; using external plot to make readers invested in your characters; following genre rules when it comes to plot points; the need for conflict and tension in act two; focusing on your protagonist in your opening lines/paragraphs; avoiding character descriptions that are to...2024-05-091h 09
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingMetaphor and Meaning in MemoirIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, Carly, and CeCe are joined by two guests, author Rachel Kapelke-Dale and her agent, Sarah Phair. They discuss ensuring your comps align with each other and with your work; making sure your query is representative of your whole novel and not just one part; using your author bio to help show why you're the one to write this story; the concept of auto-fiction; the importance of highlighting the POV you're writing from; being specific with your plot points in your query; finding the right balance between what you withhold and what you reveal...2024-05-021h 22
BHN: Peaceful Empowerment WorksCollaboration with Guest, Cece ShatzWelcome to the 'Peaceful Empowered Works Show,' where synergy and collaboration pave the path to success. Today, we're diving into the transformative power of collaboration. Joining us is the esteemed Cece Shatz, the Doyenne of Relationships and President of Going Solo Network/NEW Streaming Network.com.Cece brings a wealth of expertise in fostering meaningful connections and collaborative endeavors. Alongside our insightful hosts, Kris Burke & Judy Forder, we'll explore how collaboration transcends mere connection, unlocking new realms of possibility and mutual empowerment. Let's harness the collective wisdom and energy as we embark on this journey of collaboration...2024-04-2942 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingCaroline Leavitt’s Insights and EncouragementIn today’s Book with Hooks, Carly and CeCe critique two listener queries, a resubmission and a YA fantasy. They discuss the issue of starting with a protagonist that has a 'simple, stable' life; a great example of an inciting incident; ensuring your major dramatic question is strong enough; good storytelling as the promise of change; making your protagonist the 'sun' of your story; infusing emotion into the information you provide; ensuring that your plot feels like a set of dominos tipping over; taglines in a query; differentiating your novel's tropes from how they're used in other novels in yo...2024-04-251h 04
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingFiguring Out What Genre You Should Be Writing InIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, Carly, and CeCe critique a children's picture book and a literary fiction query. They discuss avoiding vagueness, no matter the genre; using illustrator notes in a picture book pitch; the need for tension, even in a children's book; framing your novel in your query so agents aren't confused when they get to the pages; the need for external plot points, even in a more internal work of literary fiction; the natural gravitation of readers to one POV in a dual POV work; the subjectivity of the industry; the purpose of interiority; and erring...2024-04-1856 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingChoosing the Best POVs for a Multi-POV NovelIn today's Books with Hooks, Carly and CeCe are joined by guest agent, Jo Ramsay, to critique two queries. They discuss the issue of withholding too much plot in a query; highlighting the stakes in your query; the importance of first lines in a novel; the need for psychological depth and acuity in your characters; the issue of comping to titles that are hugely successful; the risk of having too many POVs in a novel; avoiding too much backstory in your query; and the problems with a reader being too removed from a scene, even if it's done intentionally.2024-04-111h 00
畅所育言40 青春虽好，三十而已，今日忌「年龄焦虑」【节日特辑】四月微风暖暖，白羊座的Cece和Soso正式迈入33岁啦！曾经有人说过，“30不是新20”，这句话或许正是对女性年龄焦虑的最好解释。在这个充满焦虑和不安的社会，我们常常被要求保持年轻、保持活力，仿佛年龄是我们自身价值的唯一标准。随着岁月的流逝，我们逐渐明白，年龄并非我们的包袱，而是我们的财富。三十岁的我们比二十岁的自己更懂得自爱、自处、自洽，每一个当下都是最好的我们。30岁的自己一点都不比20岁的自己差，相反，她更懂得如何激励自己、如何与自己和解、如何找到内心的平静、如何探寻向外的勇气。无论你是刚踏入30岁的新时代，还是即将迈入这个新阶段，我们都希望通过这期节目与你一同分享成长的喜悦与当下的力量。三十而已，人生正当光芒万丈。02:37 30岁的新认知：以前觉得 30 岁很老，现在觉得 30 岁人生才刚刚开始03:14 所谓的社会时钟，是在慢慢变慢的。05:27 25岁开始的紧张感：30 岁事业爱情双丰收，我好像一样也没有？11:39 35岁魔咒： "有一种倒计时的存在，有一种滴答滴答马上要临近世界末日的感觉。"14:45 谈恋爱是一个很需要培养的能力17:25势均力敌的吸引力让我们在婚姻里忘记年龄19:43 Cece&Soso理解的焦虑的原因和缓解焦虑的方式23:46 打败焦虑："越想会让自己越焦虑，先做再说。"26:42 "你的人生不是别人给你打分，是你自己给自己打分。"28:16 20 岁的我们选择讨好别人，30 岁的我们选择讨好自己29:35 感谢20 岁的自己，让 30 岁的自己可以在通讯录里找到想找的人。32:55 30岁的小确幸 ——"我现在是肯德基跟水果自由。"34:10 30 岁的消费观——“我买完CF之后对奢侈品包包就没有什么执念了。"38:16 对 40 岁的展望和期待40:36 "女性，她不再是依附于一段关系的存在。"41:50 30 岁以后认识到时间的重要性："时间对每个人是公平的。"43:00 生育激发出的女性力量：“我不想做笼子里的金丝雀。”【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/22.09女宝Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/23.03男宝欢迎来评论区聊聊你对年龄的理解和打败年龄焦虑的方式，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2024-04-0447 min
The Shit No One Tells You About WritingInsights from Mary KubicaIn today's Books with Hooks, Bianca, Carly and CeCe discuss choosing a unique title for your work; having a strong plot connection between your main characters in a multi POV novel; avoiding situations where the agent has to make too many assumptions in a query; choosing between italics and dialogue tags when having a character talk to themselves; balancing interiority so as not to leak tension; framing your story in a way that is accurate to your work; connecting external stakes to plot points; centering the reader in a memoir query; and CeCe's tension song!Bianca then...2024-04-041h 04
畅所育言39 作为妈妈，我们想聊聊邯郸事件【我们想说】这是我们录“畅所育言”有史以来心情最沉重的一期节目。3月17日，邯郸市肥乡区3名不满14岁的初中生将同班同学杀害，并掩埋在一处蔬菜大棚内。Cece和Soso跟踪了两天关于这个事件的进展，作为妈妈，我们揪心、痛心、担心。揪心的是什么样的教育和环境让孩子变成杀人的恶魔，痛心的是那个长期遭受霸凌最后失去生命的孩子和孩子的父母，担心的是我们是否有能力保护好自己的孩子和不培养出霸凌者？这期节目，我们仅以妈妈的视角，去体会这个事件带给我们的感受，并借由《养育男孩》和《养育女孩》两本书聊聊如何避免孩子遭受霸凌。校园霸凌是个长期存在的问题，虽然场景是校园，但却是个社会问题，我们呼吁全社会的共同关注和共同努力。02:29 讨论：年龄该不该成为承担刑事责任的标准？07:01 F人听到案件细节的描述爆哭08:59 Cece和Soso学生阶段见证和经历的校园霸凌10:32 什么样的小孩容易被霸凌12:40 小女孩之间的隐性霸凌和显性霸凌13:46 在霸凌者和被霸凌者之外的第三者——旁观者的视角17:01 环境使然，我们的小孩也有可能成为霸凌者19:18 犯罪集中在十几岁的元凶是激素23:42 如何观察小朋友有没有被霸凌30:29 Soso小姨的故事：17岁被推出家门的女孩33:27 讨论：什么样是好的家庭范式？38:24 伊能静是我们心目中理想的妈妈的样子42:58 邯郸事件引发的思考：我们能做什么？社会能做什么？【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/22.09女宝Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/23.03男宝欢迎来评论区聊聊你对邯郸事件的看法以及自己作为霸凌者or被霸凌者or旁观者的经历，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2024-03-2145 min
畅所育言35 婆媳的尽头不是母女，这年头谁家还有皇位要继承啊？【当妈第一年】婆媳二字一被提起，就好像电影里硝烟弥漫开，马上就有一场大战要上演。Cece&Soso非常幸运遇到了两位充满人生智慧的婆婆，一起带娃中逐渐培养了战友情。然而婆媳总归是婆媳，我们不能如母女般随意，生气的时候对吼，吼完我妈还是我妈，那种血缘带来的安全感是再好的婆媳都无法比拟的。婆媳相处是门大学问，有时需要真诚，有时需要克制。愿你和婆婆成为带娃的战友，生活的朋友，不求满分，及格就好！07:29 阿姨精心收拾过的厨房，婆婆评价：一塌糊涂10:45 婆婆真言：自己没有被善待过，希望可以善待我17:01 饭桌的菜偏咸到底要不要直接说出来？19:33 谁家没有个儿宝妈？23:24 媳妇居然在公公使唤婆婆的时候力挺婆婆27:40 宝宝一有风吹草动婆婆就想带去医院怎么办？33:56 媳妇提醒儿子主动关心婆婆：虽然你不是我的妈妈，但你的感受我能懂36:00 阵痛期婆婆死活不让媳妇打无痛36:53 婆婆不让怀孕的媳妇用手机，号称有辐射37:20 下奶汤喝喝喝！婆婆围观喂奶现场好尴尬39:35 没有边界感的公公每天都要来家里做“指示”41:56 人手过于富裕，不母乳喂养快抢不到娃了42:36 婆婆带娃的牺牲感44:20 婆婆总说：宝宝没吃饱，宝宝没穿暖怎么办？47:39 婆媳关系tip：画饼很重要54:17 令人羡慕！Cece可以带着公公婆婆和爸爸妈妈一起去旅行！1:00:19 护崽心态：你有我也有，不羞耻，大胆说出来！1:04:45 有好的事情的时候要把婆婆当成妈妈去看待，婆媳关系的尽头是朋友1:08:04 少一些YY，还有好多重要的事情需要我们去努力【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/22.09女宝Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/23.03男宝欢迎来评论区分享你与婆婆相处的经历，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2024-02-291h 10
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畅所育言34 当妈也要做自己，不够难怎么叫New Year Resolution【春节特辑·做回自己】【春节特辑·做回自己】今天是「畅所育言」“做回自己”系列的第四期，也是我们春节日更特辑的收官节目。cece和soso想勇敢地分享一下对于2024年的畅想与展望。我们参考了Ali Abdaal的新年决心规划方法（xhslink.com），复盘了我们关于健康、关系以及工作的自我评价，并对新一年的挑战目标画出了重点。当妈以后，想做的事情比以前更多了，想知道我们又有哪些新妄想吗？欢迎一起听下去，也欢迎在我们的评论区也留下你的new year resolution，明年今日，我们再来一起复盘：）00:32 启用立flag的新办法：wheel of life03:01 每年年头插的小红旗，年底都找不到了10:32 生娃让婆媳、老丈人女婿居然产生了战友情11:23 生娃后的妈妈虽然身材走样但在老公心里更有魅力了14:05 生娃之后的朋友们：有的更加靠近，有的渐行渐远17:05 隐隐约约看见了人生的终极目标18:52 OMG！居然有一项我们给自己打出了接近0分27:17 胆子大了！Ceso组合居然想挑战英文播客？！33:12 Soso的修心课：给别人犯错的空间42:05 Cece想改掉全人类都有的坏毛病之睡前手机刷不停【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/22.09女宝Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/23.03男宝2024-02-2344 min
LinktoEXPERT Business Showcase & Good Reads ShowBusiness Grow with Grace! Guest, Camille LeonBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/linktoexpert-business-showcase-good-reads-show--5963091/support.Are you ready to grow your business with grace and ease? Then join Camille Leon, Founder and Chief Visionary Officer of the Holistic Chamber of Commerce, along with Cece Shatz and Joanne Weiland in our LinktoEXPERT Business Showcase Show. In this show, you'll learn amazing tips from Camille on how to use grace and connection to build a powerful business that truly serves people.Don't miss out - tune in now! LinktoEXPERTS Business Showcase with Hosts, Cece Shatz, Doyenne of Relationship Building & Pres...2024-02-2233 min
畅所育言33 春节育儿吐槽会：爸爸们为什么总在上厕所？【春节特辑·吐槽专栏】【春节特辑·吐槽专栏】不到十五还是年！是的，我们的春节特辑还在磨磨蹭蹭地更新。这一期是cece和soso过完整个春节假期后首录，积累了一个春节的育儿吐槽大会就此展开。首当其冲的吐槽对象就是爸爸。这个春节假期，soso和小胖召开了2·17大会，形成了新一版2·17讲话精神，尽管有不同的想法和气头，尽管至今还是没懂为什么爸爸一带娃就要上厕所，但就像cece说的，soso和小胖都在尽自己的努力承担起育儿的责任，只是我们更希望爸爸们能打从心里认可到：育儿从来都不是妈妈一个人的事，而是我们彼此共同的甜蜜负担。其次是关于社会风气与社会支持的呼吁。对于cece来说，因为有父母的大力协助，家庭育儿一片祥和，但在出行途中却遭遇了不同的窘境。我们当然知道高铁上换座不是义务、可以勇敢拒绝，但有的时候我们也希望在面对一些特殊情况以及不是很过分的求帮忙时，陌生人能够伸出援手；我们都很理解在旅途中遭遇熊孩子吵闹的难受，但有的时候熊孩子也需要划分，我们需要管教有认知、能沟通的孩子，但也希望这个社会对还很懵懂的小月龄宝宝多一些包容。生不生娃，从来都不是妈妈一个人的选择，另一半的身体力行、这个社会的支援帮助，都是缓解恐婚恐育的最基本条件。【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝23032024-02-2033 min
畅所育言25 春节带娃出行｜看人菜瘾大的妈妈如何与“尖叫鸡”斗智斗勇收获完美旅行【养娃教会我的事】Cece和Soso都是酷爱旅行的那一派，总有一颗按耐不住想往外奔跑的心，虽然我们不得不说，带娃出门真！的！很！麻！烦！但办法总比困难多，只要有心出门，没有什么逾越不过的高山。作为出门老司机，且听我们分享几次带娃飞机&高铁的经历，如何不让自己的娃成为公共场合的“尖叫鸡”，如何既轻装简从又面面俱到收拾宝宝出门的行囊！03:52 Soso的宝宝飞机出行tip：宝宝可以向航司申请提篮，推车可以推到登机口06:03 Soso的宝宝火车出行tip：给宝宝安排吃+玩的plan ABCD08:12 Cece的宝宝飞机出行的血泪史：遇到延误到半夜的红眼航班&宝宝在飞机上候机超过2个小时该怎么办10:20 Cece出行妙招：用零食碗给宝宝吃零食15:12 旅途中遇到的陌生人的善意：girl helps girl 总让人温暖16:18 tip：带小月龄宝宝出门可以适当给自己升个级！19:15 tip：高铁上有母婴室！可以把换尿布的装备收纳在一个专门的袋子中22:57 Cece可反复使用的行李清单实在太赞了！26:14 Soso旅行途中的好物之：防丢链&充气脚垫28:49 Cece旅行途中好物之：一次性大法好！30:15 旅行途中的餐食如何解决？31:17 宝宝出行好物——衣33:30 宝宝出行好物——食39:49 宝宝出行好物——住42:30 宝宝出行好物——行47:10 Cece出行妙招：行李可以提前寄到目的地！【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝2303欢迎来评论区分享你带娃出行小妙招&踩过的坑，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2024-02-0249 min
畅所育言24 过年回谁家？这个千古难题怎么答【当妈第一年】过年回谁家？一个提起来就能引战的话题。每年数着过年的日子的到来，小夫妻可能就会小心翼翼的讨论这个话题，可能是个大家能达成共识的happy ending也可能成为不欢而散的起点。家不是一个讲道理的地方，过年去谁家也不是一个讲规则的事。当然，除去要发拜年短信以及亲戚们可能会对娃做一些让妈妈们拉响警报的举动有一些烦恼之外，过年总体上还是让人开心的。愿你有个美好新年Happy New Year！P.S 过年期间我们会推出新年特辑，每天更新一个短节目和你一起闲聊和吐槽（希望不鸽哈哈），敬请期待吧～04:03 Soso家过年大阵仗：妈妈是大姐，总觉得一大家人一起过才是年08:43 Cece过年的开心事之一：见到很多很久不见的亲戚们09:35 过年到底去谁家？？总是要吵一架才能决定11:55 对于男生来说，家就是一个放装备的地方15:30 闽南风俗之女儿出嫁前不去未来婆家串门17:00 Cece小姐妹因为讨论过年去谁家的问题成为分手导火索19:05 过年跟着女儿回娘家的女婿有一样的画像20:00 婆家娘家住得近可以吃两顿年夜饭22:20 Soso的小姐妹让人心疼的过年故事23:50 再好的公公婆婆，对儿媳妇还是有去客人家的感觉25:15 你介不介意过年回家听到身边的人都说你听不懂的方言？27:34 过年故事之：福建小伙娶了新疆姑娘，一个假期都在飞28:55 过年故事之：大年初一要上坟30:00 过年故事之：各地吃年夜饭时间能差出一个时区31:00 过年故事之：全家老小出门旅行，需要和神明提前拜拜打招呼33:35 过年烦心事之：要完成的事情实在太多了34:45 过年烦心事之：红包怎么包&红包要不要收37:00 过年烦心事之：拜年短信从大年三十发到初二40:40 Cece每年要帮爸妈编拜年短信42:15 最烦亲戚对小孩做的事之：比较42:50 最烦亲戚对小孩做的事之：逼小朋友喊人和表演节目45:00 最烦亲戚对小孩做的事之：推搡红包45:50 最烦亲戚对小孩做的事之：抽烟46:25 最烦亲戚对小孩做的事之：给各种不合适的食物诱惑小朋友47:50 最烦亲戚对小孩做的事之：强抱小孩【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝2303欢迎来评论区分享你情绪崩溃或者情绪稳定的时刻，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2024-01-2650 min
畅所育言20 有娃的家，更需要怦然心动的人生整理术【当妈第一年】人生如旷野，但有娃的第一年，感觉自己像生活在一个大仓库。台面上依次陈列恒温壶、消毒柜、辅食机、各种规格的奶瓶，地上满是玩具，床上铺满了各种包单、包被、衣服、纸尿裤和睡衣，简直无处下脚。每天都在翻箱倒柜找各种昨天还看到今天却不翼而飞的东西，生活因此变得支离破碎。这也经常成为新手爸妈引战的话题，你到底把剪刀放哪儿去了？？！！经过了一年，Cece&Soso终于逐渐从这些混乱中走出来了，悟出了一些有娃以后的整理之道与你分享。01:49 有娃以后家里人口变多，大家天天都在找东西02:57 收纳东西的过程就是理清思路、认清自己的过程03:54 收纳一次家居然要1w+？！06:00 把东西都收进箱子里就是收纳了吗？06:40 爱收旧货的Soso爸原来是童年的ptsd07:46 收纳习惯很好的九九居然有一些收纳小癖好？10:22 桌面很干净的小胖一拉开抽屉简直别有洞天11:30 仔细翻找，我们家竟然有5瓶酱油？！16:19 Soso对收纳的理解：东西应该呆在正确的地方17:00 Cece收纳大法:给所有物品打标签22:54 Cece：每个人对于麻烦别人的标准和尺度的把握是不一样的24:30 收纳背后是为人处世的风格28:14 不怎么进厨房的爸爸设计厨房哪里哪里都不对31:10 对空间设计的理念源自于对生活的思考和要求33:52 收纳是让物品保持与人有适当强度的连接40:59 方便拿取才会方便收纳45:23 收纳需要把大空间分割成小空间46:13 过度收纳会让自己变成装在套子里的人49:35 A4文件夹是收纳说明书的神器52:06 收纳好物如果不能真正用起来就是无效的58:22 “收纳不是什么都干净，而是留下重要的东西”【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝2303欢迎来评论区分享你的人身整理之道，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2023-12-291h 03
畅所育言18 宝宝辅食理论与实操：愿每个宝宝都能感受食物的美妙【成长每一步】6个月后宝宝迎来人生新的阶段，开始吃东西啦！恭喜TA，开始了一件贯穿一生美妙幸福的事！新手妈妈有很多焦虑：我该什么时候开始辅食？加辅食需要按照什么样的顺序？宝宝每天要吃多少？排敏怎么排？有菜谱吗？Cece和Soso从这些焦虑中走过，掰开了揉碎了和你聊聊辅食该怎么吃～02:00 添加辅食的原因和添加辅食的3个前提条件04:04 辅食添加的4个原则07:01 辅食添加阶段最大的风险：呛咳窒息08:45 BLW vs. 勺喂 到底该怎么选呢？14:05 BLW的食物该怎么处理？15:29 BLW最大的信心来源于对宝宝的信任16:45 Cece&Soso作为温和改良派如何在勺喂和BLW中间取得平衡20:02 辅食添加有一张确定的顺序表吗？20:20 九大高敏食物及排敏方式25:49 高铁食物的提供方式：红肉及植物性铁都应该怎么给？29:30 妈妈不挑食的真相：妈妈只买自己爱吃的菜，不要让自己对食物的偏好影响宝宝31:55 宝宝的辅食的烹饪方式怎么选？34:46 辅食和奶的时间表与过渡注意事项44:35 辅食工具好物&雷品：1.辅食机搅拌棒；2.硅胶冰格；3.储奶袋；4.餐椅；5.进餐工具；6.各种碗；7.各种杯子57:33 宝宝米粉怎么买？不要再一次买一套组啦57:56 碎碎面为例：不必要的细分需求是如何创造的？58:38 成品辅食推荐鱼泥肉泥1:00:03 吃辅食以后宝宝便秘怎么办？1:02:01 以下开始宝宝辅食推荐菜谱：1:03:34 法式牛尾汤&罗宋汤意面1:05:00 猪肉丸子1:06:32 虾丸&虾条1:07:44 蒸鸡腿1:08:36 各类青菜BLW的处理方式1:10:13 椰浆饭团1:11:26 虾丸鱼丸1:15:09 宝宝随地丢食物该怎么办？1:16:20 最后最后重中之重：如何区分gaging（咽反射）和choking（呛咳）？【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝2303欢迎来评论区分享宝宝辅食的小心得&好食谱，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2023-12-151h 19
畅所育言13 备孕怀孕生产的妈妈好物&雷品大公开【双十一购物指南】【当妈第一年】大概是受到雌激素和孕激素的双重催化，从怀孕的那一刻起不但我们的身份变了，我们的购物车🛒也发生了巨大变化，漂亮的时装、华丽的彩妆暂时Byebye，孕妇装、哺乳内衣、纸尿裤华丽登场！Cece和Soso将用两期节目为大家作这一年以来的好物分享与避雷指南～本着本节目Mummy First和Happy wife，happy life的精神，以及照顾好妈妈是一切的前提的宗旨，第一期节目为大家奉上的是我们自己用过的妈妈怀孕及生产好物&雷品大集合！干货满满！01:43 孕前检查、宠物检查不可少05:36 孕期补剂好物&雷品，避雷爱乐维让我肝功超标到吃药两周10:25 孕妇枕真的很有必要，保护妈妈的“负重前行”的小腰啊11:50 防长妊娠纹的秘诀大公开18:20 孕妇便秘，多么痛的领悟～幸好我们找到了独门秘方24:55 胎心监护仪：半夜12点远程医院的来电让我倍感安心29:58 孕妇的牙齿需要重点护理、洗牙、刷牙、牙线三件套走起！31:26 会阴按摩，大概是帮我们变成lucky产妇的小秘籍吧！33:40 给孕妈妈&爸爸的书单35:16 生产好物大推荐，待产包到底该怎么准备42:05 哺乳睡衣真的不需要，开扣舒适且吸汗就够了！45:12 骨盆带：cece产后迅速恢复的秘诀！46:49 哺乳内衣：常穿、常换有承托力最重要！49:41 好的哺乳枕是哺乳路上重要的支持！53:01 真正的免手扶才真香，平价&贵价吸奶器大推荐57:52 储奶袋用不完千万别丢掉！【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝2303欢迎来评论区分享你用到的孕期、生产和产后好物，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2023-11-1059 min
畅所育言12 女性喝酒实录：喝了这杯，还有三杯，能拦我的只有嗷嗷待哺的崽！【边喝边聊吧】这一年总体还是满意的，如果有一件事让我们很想逃离妈妈的身份回到过去，那应该就是我！真！的！很！想！喝！酒！虽然不是酒鬼，但cece会因为没喝爽而睡不着，soso怀孕的时候有一次馋酒馋哭了。我们能喝酒，我们爱喝酒，我们爱喝好酒，尽管也见证过各种职场喝酒的门门道道，但我们始终是因为自己喜欢而喝，而不是为了追寻圈子而醉。爱喝酒可能不是刻板印象中的好妈妈形象，但一点都不影响我们是个好妈妈。喝酒豪爽的女性在我们眼里就像个女英雄，平淡生活的反派，可爱又迷人。【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝230303:21 与其独自清醒，不如加入一起群魔乱舞04:29 馋喝酒馋到哭的小孕妇06:58 夜店“一指喝”，让干坏事都没了借口09:04 喝完酒的的怪癖就是必须要洗头洗澡11:09 茅台真的不容易醉12:55 职场女性喝酒生存指南17:05 大尴尬！i人参加饭局连敬酒对象都不知道名字怎么办19:49 正式酒局必有一名女性的秘密21:51 酒局上的黄笑话真的无聊又尴尬！24:53 妈妈的故事1：为pk挑衅男1小时喝下1斤白酒稳如泰山，从此江湖留名27:50 妈妈的故事2：喝多了当着众人面抱着闺蜜表白，率真又可爱31:57 和外婆喝酒：我竟然有点喝不过她32:40 和爷爷喝酒：即是喝酒也是家族精神的传承37:14 女生能喝酒容易被贴“坏女孩”标签37:45 酒量很好的婆婆竟然半辈子没有被给过酒杯40:30 对待不尊重女性的男性，Soso会用酒量这种男性的游戏规则征服对方43:27 惊呆！大学时期的Cece竟然用桌角开酒获得男生群体的入场券（当然也没有很稀罕啦哈哈哈哈）49:09 Cece印象中唯一喝酒吐的经历竟然是被低度清酒打败欢迎在评论区分享你喝酒的乐事和糗事，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2023-11-0357 min
畅所育言09 宝宝睡眠训练也可以很温和？这期养娃睡眠指南请收好【成长每一步】产后第一年，宝宝的睡眠决定了妈妈乃至全家的睡眠质量。睡眠训练一直备受争议，当说起睡眠训练几年前那个新手妈妈做睡眠训练在房间外任由宝宝哭几个小时最后窒息的例子就会被提起，往往联想到的都是宝宝在房间里哭得撕心裂肺狠心的妈妈在旁无动于衷的画面。Cece和Soso本来对宝宝睡眠这个事并没有那么在意，直到两个小朋友都出现了抱睡、奶睡、小觉短、接觉难，睡训似乎是摆在眼前的一条光明大道。我们都相信赋予宝宝自我安抚的能力，不依赖于任何一个人入睡是妈妈教给宝宝生存的第一个技能，也是他逐渐独立的标志之一。我们目送他逐渐长大，逐渐离我们远去，心中虽有不舍，但更多的是骄傲。【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝230301:23 抱着20斤的宝宝萝卜蹲才能睡？还是睡训吧24:49 如何断夜奶？相信宝宝有不断进步的能力！41:57 Cece睡眠训练的辛酸史45:33 长辈在哄睡这件事上有一种征服感47:51 Cece在自主入睡路上最大的惊喜50:24 成功的秘诀是放平心态，佛系哄睡56:03 Soso哄睡血泪史：萝卜蹲+抽油烟机【参考书籍】【推荐app】piyo日志欢迎在评论区留下关于让宝宝睡好觉的小故事、好办法，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2023-10-131h 07
畅所育言08 真希望我的父母读过这本书，育儿之路也是原生家庭自我疗愈之路【一起读本书】我们是如何被原生家庭养育的，不仅影响我们如何成长、如何度过一生，甚至还将影响我们如何养育下一代。没有绝对完美的父母，但我们希望成为不断反思、不断成长的家长。本期Cece和Soso一起阅读了《真希望我的父母读过这本书》，一方面我们回忆起了童年的星星点点、期待自我童年的感受缺失能够被改善，另一方面这本书也疗愈了作为新手妈妈的我们、只要愿意修正任何时刻都是最好的时候。新手妈妈，育儿也育己，共勉。【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝230305:12 育儿路上“never too late to begin”我们唯一要做的就是勇敢去追求的机会，不要沉浸在自责中09:40 育儿的崩溃时刻：闹觉的夜晚抱着小小的你一起看日出的时候Cece战胜了自己烦躁的情绪14:07 90后的妈妈鼓励宝宝哭出来，不要忍17:15 先感受，再处理问题，爱和关心比解决方案更重要22:27 妈妈，女儿希望你更爱自己一些23:37 “小朋友撒谎是被允许的”27:12 和妈妈一起讨论前男友28:20 “管控型父母和引导型父母没有谁好谁坏”39:31 父母需要在帮助宝宝和鼓励宝宝中间取得平衡42:45 “关注当下的方案不需要太在意养成长期的习惯”43:42 先感受情绪，共情而不是转移注意力46:23 看起来阐述客观事实的“事实网球”方式无处不在，往往让争吵不断升温，家不是一个讲道理的地方49:15 “父母与子女不是输赢的关系”51:33 不做逼孩子道谢的妈妈55:00 我和妈妈的对话就像在辩论1:00:48 Cece和Soso互相共勉：像男性一样对自己充满自信1:04:33 界定自己，而不是界定孩子【参考书籍】【一起读本书】是我们新开设的栏目，欢迎在评论区分享读书的感悟，也欢迎向我们推荐书，育儿之路也是妈妈二次生长之路，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2023-10-061h 06
畅所育言07 女性生育成本大测算：新手妈妈除了近40万的花销，还有职业机会成本【当妈第一年】都说娃是四脚吞金兽，Cece和Soso很认真盘算了一下养娃的一年&半年的支出，不算不知道，一算吓一跳！本期节目主播一同讨论，生育的大头成本到底是什么？哪些值得重点投入，哪些又需要抠抠嗖嗖？希望每个姐妹都能花好适合自己宝宝体质的“聪明钱”，尽可能减少“失心疯”，养娃不易，有时候花钱就是省钱，有的时候不花就是赚了！除了金钱上的成本，妈妈们不得不面对的是“职业沉没成本”，Cece和Soso回顾了各自孕期/产假/复工后的工作种种，令我们唏嘘的是，或许我们的社会还没有准备好如何接纳一个女性与一个家庭的所需的育儿投入与所付出的努力。所谓的work&life balance 是每个妈妈都在认真研习却总无法满分的难题，一起来听听我们的思考与纠结吧！【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝230304:10 Soso和Cece为了更有尊严的生产选择了昂贵的公立医院vip生产服务和私立医院生产服务08:01 Soso养娃省钱秘诀大公开09:56 Cece花了冤枉钱后总结出的养娃省钱大秘诀11:32 “失心疯”的妈妈都能买出一些什么贵到离谱的东西15:49 婴儿床真是令人头大的大件，到底有哪些挑选要点？以及送人礼物真的不要轻易送床啊！24:04 “抠搜”妈妈给宝宝穿百家衣，买5件包屁衣竟然只花了30块钱？！28:13 “抠搜”妈妈奶粉和纸尿裤都只选对的，不选贵的30:25 tip：纸品/纸尿裤不要在出生前囤太多35:42 tip：宝宝摄影与其选择影楼固定套路不如选择到家摄影师！43:45 职场女性告诉上级怀孕的事实需要鼓起勇气，并且不停想证明自己能保持好状态44:55 讨论：职场女性是否曾因为怀孕休产假有羞耻感？46:39 被调侃避开大厂裁员潮的战略性怀孕，Soso很不开心48:30 生娃以后人生开了新副本：价值观序列重新排序，以前的惊涛骇浪瞬间云淡风轻了49:44 Cece早早抱定休满产假的想法，希望为后来的职场妈妈顶住压力，立住标杆51:03 职场妈妈的“卷”：产床上还在打call、满月即复出，是否伤害了女性的权益？52:05 生娃后心态的变化：不想瞎卷，再也不想干“屎上雕花”的工作了53:11 “再也不愿在别人的价值观序列里去证明自己”55:00 职场女性的不易：除了工作，家中事务也非你不可55:56 讨论：女性work&life是否能balance？59:27 呼吁在生育的机会成本上在男性、女性之间更加平衡1:00:39 希望未来女儿生育年龄时能有更自由的选择权1:06:28 长辈来帮忙带娃从来都不是天经地义的！互相的适应和妥协才能和平共处【测算参考】欢迎在评论区分享你的生育花销&隐形成本，姐妹们一起聪明消费不踩坑，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2023-09-291h 09
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畅所育言06 当妈妈选择母乳喂养（下）：自然离乳后宝宝没有烦躁，但我却哭了【当妈第一年】接续上一期的母乳喂养问题，我们又共同聊了关于喂奶姿势、厌奶期、急性乳腺炎、追奶、职场背奶与断奶这五大关键问题的干货分享。本以为最后的“背奶与断奶”将是一带而过，但没想到这反而是一个让我们既放大到社会支持、又聚焦到妈妈自我情感的话题。随着Cece和Soso追忆曾经在职场、社会中见证与亲历的种种母婴室故事——因为设施的不健全让哺乳妈妈寸步难行，因为哺乳话题的遮羞让大部分人难以了解共情，我们更加坚定了对母乳喂养和母婴需求的公开科普与大声疾呼——淋过雨的我们比任何人都希望后来的姐妹遇见的都是晴天。最后的最后，Cece原本想酷酷又潇洒地介绍自己成功自然离乳的小秘诀，但没想到有的时候成功也会让人感伤与追念，从这份37度的爱开始，我想我们都在一边放手一边不舍，我们怀中的小娃娃呀，你们终究都会长大。【本期主播】Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝230301:36 亲喂的正确姿势11:51 瓶喂的时候切忌转奶瓶&敲奶瓶21:29 不管选择奶粉还是母乳，只要是妈妈的选择，都是最好的22:14 厌奶期来了该怎么办呢？Cece给你支3大招26:13 Soso高烧5天40度急性乳腺炎血泪史&应对方式34:15 高烧时能不能亲喂呢？40:47 奶量不够需要追奶该怎么办？压箱底好方法大公开48:59 职场背奶怎么背？50:08 Cece&Soso共同呼吁：母婴室的建设需要被看到！54:45 母乳妈妈的困境需要被更多地看到和支持56:55 喂奶、泵奶不羞耻！大声说出你的需求1:00:22 Cece断奶tips1:02:18 Cece最后一次亲喂经历：告别37度母爱不代表妈妈对你的爱减少了，宝宝妈妈会越来越爱你！欢迎在评论区留下你们母乳喂养过程中的精彩故事，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2023-09-211h 07
畅所育言04 产房生完的第一现场：排尿居然成为第一要务？生理性涨奶=胸顶两块巨石？胸罩定制&骨盆私密修复都是什么嘛！【生育不羞耻】怀孕的时候我们也曾天真的以为，生完孩子后，身体就恢复如常了。但真相却是，在未知与迷茫中，我们迎来了生产后身体的一波又一波的连锁反应。未曾想过自己竟然会为如何正常地排尿而发愁，也未曾被告知还有一种叫做生理性涨奶的疼痛难眠，同样始料不及的还有激素水平骤降带来的流泪不止。但还好，头回当妈的我们有足够强大的内心与产后的科学指导，有家人的陪伴与关怀，抵御花式产后修复的每一招出拳，内化成现在的奇闻逸事供大家笑谈。【本期主播】一不小心感冒的鼻音Cece（@Cece育儿也育己），金融/白羊/INFP/深圳/女宝2209Soso（@sosochen），互联网/白羊/ENFJ/厦门/男宝230301:05 Cece强势call back第二期，两周更换两个阿姨05:46 因为生产竟然经历人生第一次插尿管和躺着尿尿09:54 第一次看到自己满出来的尿袋竟然毫无羞耻感11:53 Soso的产后第一次排尿大招16:24 Soso第一次开奶：咬着毛巾和电视剧上生孩子的场景一模一样22:14 Cece体会了一把身体做的“吐司”26:09 排恶露和产褥汗——在医院的时候身体总是黏哒哒的30:08 生产后的妈妈真的都会睡不着32:47 宝宝的第一口：千万不要用奶瓶！52:04 Cece亲身讲述月子中心营销套路大揭秘！2件胸罩居然要9800？！1:03:12 半夜吃东西的不只有老鼠，还有母乳妈妈！1:04:18 月子中心的routine真的很多，大胆say no！1:08:29 我为什么一直哭啊，原来是激素水平的极速下降1:15:16 月子中心的产康都是虚的，靠自己才是王道！【自我拯救神器】欢迎在评论区留下你们坐月子和产后修复的精彩故事，生育不羞耻，教训与幸运都值得学习与传承。2023-09-011h 22