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Chantell Edwards And Karina Dustin
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Not So Secret Lives
The Good Girl Era
This week, we’re flipping the script on what it really means to be in our Good Girl / Soft Girl Era—and trust us, it’s not all sundresses and silence. We dive into the power of softness as women: embracing femininity, surrendering control in the right spaces, and still being bold, vocal, and in charge of our needs. We talk about dominance and submission in the bedroom, the desire to be taken care of, and the trust it takes to lean into that. We're also unpacking what traditional female traits look like today—with a modern twist. Can you be soft...
2025-06-27
48 min
Not So Secret Lives
Shame, Self-Confidence, and Self-Sabotage: Healing Before Dating
In this powerful and honest episode, we dive deep into the complicated relationship between shame and self-confidence. From the invisible weight of social norms to the internal battles we fight daily, we explore how shame shows up in our lives—and how it holds us back from becoming our most confident, authentic selves. We talk about the importance of surrounding yourself with friends who lift you up, how positive self-talk can shift your mindset, and why healing yourself is essential before stepping back into the dating world. We’re getting real about self-sabotage, self-worth, and what it truly takes to rebu...
2025-05-29
42 min
Not So Secret Lives
The Silent Battle: Mental Health Awareness with Brook
In this special episode, we’re stepping outside of our usual niche to shine a light on a topic that affects so many but is often left in the dark—mental health and suicide prevention. In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, we’re joined by Brook, a passionate Community Suicide Prevention Outreach Specialist with Nomi Health and the Co-Chair of the Utah Board of Directors for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Brook shares invaluable insight on where individuals can turn for help, the many free resources available, and what we can all do to support ourselves and our loved...
2025-05-14
58 min
Not So Secret Lives
The Male POV: One Man’s Opinion on Today’s Dating Scene
Hey look Mom! We made it! Episode 20 coming in hot with our most requested topic... Male and female POV on dating! This week, we’re getting into the male perspective with a special guest who doesn’t hold back. After a 14-year marriage and 10 years in the single world, he’s got stories, opinions, and a great insight on what he wants. He breaks down what dating looks like from his point of view, sharing real-life examples, frustrations, and a few surprises along the way. We explore what guys really go through—and realize maybe we’re not as different as we thin...
2025-05-06
1h 08
Not So Secret Lives
Catch-Up & Chaos: Our Dating Diaries and Life Lately
In this episode, Karina and Chan are back with all the juicy updates! From unexpected dates to wild encounters out in the real world, we’re spilling it all. Chan went out with someone we never saw coming, and we're diving into whether relationships can really work when your beliefs totally clash. We’re talking compatibility, real-life connections, sex, and why Karina and Chan are convinced they’re destined to stay single (spoiler: we’re laughing through it). Plus—major moment—Karina finally took a nap! Tune in for laughs, real talk, and all the spicy stories you’ve missed. Want to keep t...
2025-04-29
48 min
Not So Secret Lives
Becoming Jennie: Reclaiming Her Body, Her Voice, Her Life
This week, we’re getting real (and a little rebellious) with our guest Jennie — who left the church and an 18-year marriage like it was a bad group chat and never looked back. She takes us through her journey of shedding shame, realizing her body wasn’t just for making casseroles and babies, and figuring out who she actually is outside of religion and marriage. We talk about the awkward (and sometimes hilarious) parts of finding yourself sexually after years of repression, the therapy sessions that cracked her wide open, and the people who showed up when she found herself again...
2025-04-23
53 min
Not So Secret Lives
Sex Myths & G Spot Truths
This week, we’re busting myths and dropping facts—from erectile dysfunction and STIs to the age-old claim that men want sex more than women (uhh, let’s talk about that). We’re calling out the BS and keeping it all the way real. Fellas, want to know where the G spot really is? We got you. And yes, we’re spilling the tea on the G spot for men too—because pleasure ain’t one-sided. And ladies, let’s talk about the 7 most erogenous zones on a woman’s body that deserve way more attention. (Hint: it’s not just about the obvio...
2025-04-15
37 min
Not So Secret Lives
Getting Spiritually Smacked with Tarot Readings by Haylie
Getting Spiritually Smacked with Tarot Readings by Haylie In this episode, we sit down for a raw, honest, and unexpectedly emotional tarot reading with our magical, intuitive, and absolutely radiant friend Haylie. From the moment the cards hit the table, the truths came pouring out — and baby, they did NOT hold back. 💀✨ We dive into conversations about life, love, depression, growth, and everything in between. Haylie’s reading didn’t just call us out (gently… sort of 😅), it offered clarity, comfort, and a few much-needed laughs. This episode is a mix of tough truths, real talk, and those spiritual slaps we didn’t know w...
2025-04-08
1h 18
Not So Secret Lives
Rewriting the Rules: Love, Identity & Owning Your Power
This week, we sit down with an incredible guest whose journey is nothing short of inspiring. She went from being in a relationship with a Mormon man and raising five children to embracing her true self, falling in love with a woman, and launching her own dance business, Floor Play by Fay. She’s all about confidence, empowerment, and helping women feel comfortable in their own skin—one high-heeled dance step at a time. We’re talking transformation, self-love, and the power of women supporting women. You don’t want to miss this one! 💃✨ You can find Fay on her socials and c...
2025-03-11
51 min
Not So Secret Lives
Dating in Your 40s – A Complete Dumpster Fire
Well, it happened. We don’t know how we got here but, here we are! Dating in your 40s! Buckle up, because it’s a wild ride! In this episode, we dive into the absolute chaos that is modern dating at this stage in life—the red flags, the disappointments, the rare gems, and the hilarious horror stories. But of course, things take a turn when our audio guy decides to put us in the hot seat, asking some unexpected and personal questions about what it’s like to date us. Things get messy, real, and ridiculously funny—just how we like it...
2025-02-25
1h 10
Not So Secret Lives
Swinging State of Mind: Love, Lust & ENM
Ever wondered what it really means to be in an open relationship? In this episode, we sit down with the author of For Better or Even Better -Lauren Hayes, who is also a swinger and ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) lifestyle and relationship coach. She takes us deep into the world of ENM, sharing the truths, myths, breaking down misconceptions, and spicy details about love without limits. We also dive into her book, exploring how couples can thrive in unconventional relationships. Trust us—this one is unfiltered, eye-opening, and seriously steamy… or at least spicy vanilla 😉 The link to Laurens book – For Better or...
2025-02-18
1h 05
Not So Secret Lives
Dating Do’s & Don’ts: The Internet Said It, We Judge It
Look, we’re not experts… but we’ve got Google to help us out! We took a deep dive into the internet’s list of dating do’s and don’ts, and let’s just say… we have thoughts. In this episode, we’re breaking down all the so-called “rules” of dating—and giving our unfiltered, and slightly chaotic opinions. Some we totally agree with, and others? Yeah, not so much. Expect plenty of laughs, opinions, debates, and probably a few side-eye moments as we give our take on what’s actually good advice and what’s just straight-up ridiculous. Tune in for the laughs, the...
2025-02-12
47 min
Not So Secret Lives
New Studio, New Dates, Same Hot Mess
After a 2 week break and a couple recording hiccups were back baby! We’re officially in the studio, and we’re bringing the same raw, unfiltered energy with us! In this episode, we spill the tea on our recent dates—some good, some… well, let’s just say memorable. We dive into our dating styles, how emotional attachment plays a role when sex is involved.... or does it?! Lots of laughs and some side commentary from our new partner in audio, Sean! Grab your drink, get comfy, and join us for another juicy convo about dating, lust, and everything in between!
2025-02-03
52 min
Not So Secret Lives
Swiping, Sniffling, and Laughing: Our Adventures Back on Dating Apps
In this episode, we're diving back into the world of dating apps and trying to navigate finding love (or at least a good laugh) while juggling our crazy schedules. Between sharing hilarious messages from the apps, and recording while under the weather, we’re embracing the messy reality of modern dating. We had some scheduling conflicts so next week episode we will be shooting the shiz with our special guests from the podcast A Little Bit Of Me In You! Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all the wonderful feedback, likes comments, shares, and ov...
2025-01-13
1h 00
Not So Secret Lives
New Year New You – Self Confidence Baby!
Let’s kick off the new year with confidence! In this episode, we dive into the power of self-confidence, affirmations, and positive self-talk. Learn how to be kinder to yourself, embrace your worth, start over stronger than ever, and let go of anything that no longer serves you. It's time to start fresh and step into your best self! Book recommendations in this episode The Universe has your back by Gabrielle Bernstein Coffee Self Talk by Kristen Helmstetter Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all the wonderful feedback, likes comments, shares, and overall ego pu...
2025-01-06
1h 12
Not So Secret Lives
The Science of Sex and Random Facts
In this episode, we dive into the fascinating science behind sex! From surprising fun facts to the quirks of human biology, we’re exploring what makes our bodies and minds tick in the bedroom. Join us for hilarious conversations, unexpected discoveries, and our signature dose of candid humor. Whether you’re here for the knowledge or the giggles, this episode will leave you entertained and enlightened. Don’t miss it! Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all of the wonderful feedback, likes comments, shares, and overall ego pumps! Stay Connected! Want to keep the conver...
2024-12-23
58 min
Not So Secret Lives
Why We're Single
Ever wonder why we’re still single? In this episode, we’re spilling all the tea on our single status, breaking down the good, the bad, and the downright hilarious reasons why we haven’t settled down. Spoiler alert: we’re picky, we have high standards, and we’re patient enough to wait for the right one. From navigating red flags to knowing our worth, we’re keeping it real and raw. Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a little self-reflection as we dive deep into the single life Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all of t...
2024-12-09
1h 12
Not So Secret Lives
Sexual Fantasies
In this steamy episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on sexual fantasies. Karina and Chan will be baring it all as we explore what turns us on, what we’ve dreamed about, and what we’ve dared to try (or hope to). From the most common to the downright surprising, we explore what fuels desire for both men and women. What are the most common fantasies for men and women? How do they differ, and what do they reveal about our desires? From role-playing to forbidden encounters, we’re exploring it all with our signature mix of honesty, humor, and unfi...
2024-12-03
57 min
Not So Secret Lives
Dating Games part 2 – Catching Feelings, Leaning in, Expectations, and Sending Nudes!
Dating in the modern world is a wild ride amiright?! We’re here for ALL of it! This week, we’re getting real about catching feelings and figuring out if they’re mutual, leaning into those feelings, and getting real and raw about sending nudes (Is it too soon? Too late? Too much?). We’ll also dive into having the confidence to walk away when it’s not right, setting realistic timelines for meeting in person, and managing expectations in the wild world of modern romance. Chan gets a little heated and a little feisty on some topics in this episode so...
2024-11-25
1h 00
Not So Secret Lives
The Dating Game Part 1 - Getting Ghosted, Catfished, and Dating Multiple People
Dating in the digital age is a wild ride! This week, we’re talking about the highs and lows of modern romance—getting ghosted, the shocking reality of being catfished, and the art (or chaos) of dating multiple people, we’re sharing our personal experiences and lessons learned along the way. Plus, we’re spilling the tea on receiving explicit snaps: Is it flirty fun, or a recipe for disaster? And what happens when catching feelings gets in the way of staying true to yourself? Join us as we navigate the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of dating in today’s world. G...
2024-11-19
57 min
Not So Secret Lives
Bedroom Confessions—What Men and Women Really Want
!!THIS EPISODE IS VERY EXPLICIT!! Get ready to turn up the heat! In this episode, we’re delving into the thrilling and often taboo topics of sex, desire, and what men and women really want when the lights go out. With a special male guest, we break down the secrets behind our wildest fantasies, unfiltered preferences, and those "off-limits" topics that make the bedroom sizzle and we are not holding back! From confessions that might surprise you to an honest look at what makes intimacy unforgettable, this episode promises to be as raw as it is spicy. Tune in for la...
2024-11-12
1h 17
Not So Secret Lives
What Women and Men Really Want in Relationships
In this episode, we’re keeping it real and raw as we dig into what women and men truly want in relationships. From the value of honest communication and genuine effort to the power of vulnerability and being unapologetically yourself, we explore the elements that make relationships thrive. We’ll talk about why being authentic matters, how showing up as the real you can deepen a connection, and what it takes to build something meaningful and lasting. Get ready for a candid, unfiltered conversation that cuts to the core of love, connection, and what both partners are really looking for. Stay...
2024-11-05
40 min
Not So Secret Lives
Pilot - Dating Stories & Real Talk
Get ready to meet us, your new best friends in dating! In this episode, we're not only sharing our (mis)adventures in dating but giving you a front-row seat to our unfiltered friendship. Hear the way we really talk about our dating goals, biggest turn-ons, and what we’re hoping to find in a partner. From raw truths to laugh-out-loud moments, this episode is all about bringing you into our world, where no story is off-limits and no advice is sugarcoated. If you’re looking for real talk, real laughs, and a peek into our friendship, hit play and join the...
2024-10-28
53 min