Shows
LiberatorHow Can I Support Someone Affected by Pornography Use? With L&CChelsea and Layton discuss how to be community for individuals affected by pornography. The episode explores how to approach the conversations with tact, compassion, and empathy - implementing practical steps that the hosts have learned from their own story. Authentic Intimacy Harvest USA 2025-08-0728 minLiberator96. Does It Get Any Easier? with L&CThis episode explores the personal and shared journey of healing from pornography addiction and betrayal trauma within marriage. The hosts, Chelsea and Layton, discuss the question they often receive: “Does it get easier?” They respond with honest reflections, spiritual insights, scientific support, and practical steps for healing, growth, and transformation.2025-07-3123 minLiberator94. Sexual Stunts with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the cultural implications of extreme sexual stunts, particularly in the context of platforms like OnlyFans. They discuss the impact of porn culture on societal views of sexuality, the ethical considerations surrounding adult content, and the importance of recognizing the sacredness of sexual intimacy. 2025-07-1719 minLiberator93. Longing For Eternity with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the concept of eternal desires and how they contrast with the instant gratification provided by pornography. They discuss the implications of pornography on personal relationships and emotional health, emphasizing the importance of introspection and seeking true fulfillment beyond superficial pleasures. 2025-07-1019 minLiberator92. Messengers with L&CChelsea and Layton unpack the concept of "messengers" — individuals who can influence and support loved ones struggling with issues like pornography. They explore the importance of praying for these messengers, the burden of trying to change others, and the role of conviction and preservation in relationships.2025-07-0319 minLiberator89. Words of Life or Death with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the profound impact of words, particularly in the context of relationships and healing from pornography addiction. The discussion delves into the science behind encouragement, the challenges of communication in emotionally charged situations, and the biblical perspective on the power of the tongue. They conclude with practical advice on how to choose words wisely to foster healing and connection.2025-06-1218 minLiberator88. I Don't Want To Expose My Partner’s Porn Struggle with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the challenges faced by spouses dealing with their partner's porn use - specifically in the context of how much they should share with others. They emphasize the importance of community support, the need for intentional communication, and the biblical approach to disclosure and restoration. The conversation also highlights valuable resources for those affected by betrayal, encouraging listeners to seek help and not feel isolated in their struggles. Hopequest Sarah Society Happily Even After 2025-06-0516 minLiberator86. Moral Absolutes with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the complex relationship between pornography, moral absolutes, and the pursuit of happiness. They explore the societal shift towards individualism and the implications of defining personal truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of discipline and accountability in achieving true freedom and joy, contrasting it with the fleeting nature of superficial happiness.2025-05-2217 minLiberator85. Why Are They Still Checking Out Other People? with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the complexities of temptation, particularly in the context of lust and pornography addiction. They discuss the nature of beauty, the struggles individuals face, and the influences of the World, Flesh, and Devil on these temptations. 2025-05-1531 minLiberator84. No Condemnation with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the themes of condemnation, forgiveness, and identity in Christ. They discuss the lack of condemnation for those in Christ, the journey of forgiveness, and the importance of understanding one's true identity as a child of God. The conversation emphasizes the freedom that comes from recognizing that one's past does not define them and the transformative power of God's love and mercy.2025-05-0817 minLiberator82. How Could I Have Missed It? with L&CChelsea shares her personal journey of dealing with betrayal and the emotional turmoil that followed. She discusses the common feelings of self-doubt and guilt that arise after being blindsided by a partner's actions, particularly in the context of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, both for oneself and for the partner, and the need to let go of the illusion of control over others' choices. 2025-04-2414 minLiberator81. What's Forming You? with L&CChelsea and Layton unpack the concept of formation and how our daily choices shape our lives and futures. The conversation touches on the importance of being intentional about what we consume, especially for those recovering from addiction or trauma. The discussion covers the impact of music, movies, and other media on our mental and spiritual well-being, advocating for a mindful approach to content consumption. 2025-04-1718 minLiberator80. Bangkok with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss their recent trip to Bangkok, where they witnessed the stark realities of the sex industry and its impact on workers and customers. They reflect on the importance of perspectives gained through travel, the deep sin nature of humanity, and the compassion shown by those who have escaped the sex trades. The conversation emphasizes hope and redemption, highlighting the transformative power of God even in the darkest places.2025-04-1023 minLiberator79. Craig MarshallChelsea and Layton welcome Craig Marshall to the show! Together they explore the complex relationship between beauty, embodiment, and the impact of cultural standards and pornography. Seeing and Seeking Embodied Beauty by Craig A. Marshall2025-04-0348 minLiberator78. Triggers with L&CChelsea and Layton unpack the deep physical and emotional reactions that porn consumption and betrayal create. They share personal stories of their own struggles navigating triggers, and explore the importance of vulnerability, relationships, and communication in healing.2025-03-2726 minLiberator76. Finding Joy with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the complex journey of finding joy amidst suffering, grief, and addiction. They discuss the difference between joy and happiness, the importance of intentionality in our low points, and the necessity of community support during difficult times. The conversation emphasizes the significance of taking breaks from grieving, redefining one's identity beyond pain, and the power of trust in finding joy.2025-03-1326 minLiberator75. Matthew & Joanna RaabsmithMatthew and Joanna Raabsmith join the show. They share their personal journey from friendship to marriage, the challenges they faced due to addiction, and the transformative power of vulnerability and honesty in healing. The discussion emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive framework for couples navigating difficult conversations and the ongoing journey of rebuilding trust and intimacy. Raabsmithteam.com 2025-03-0652 minLiberator74. Generational Impact with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the concepts of generational sin and redemption, discussing how these themes impact personal growth and family dynamics. They delve into the science of addiction, particularly focusing on epigenetics, and how our choices can affect not only ourselves but also future generations. 2025-02-2734 minLiberator73. Jacob Valk (Into The Light Ministries)Jacob Valk from Into the Light Ministries returns to the show to discuss pornography, sexuality, and parenting. Jacob shares insights from his ministry's journey, including the creation of a masterclass developed to empower parents to address porn with their children confidently. The discussion highlights the significance of personal stories and the collective responsibility of parents in shaping a healthy understanding of sexuality for the next generation. The episode contains conceptual truths about pornography and the family, as well as specific insights into how to make the home safer for children. Parenting & Pornography Masterclass TechSafe Series2025-02-2055 minLiberator72. Dating and The Porn Conversation with L&CChelsea and Layton Boeve delve into the complexities of dating and the often-taboo subject of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the need for both partners to be honest about their feelings and experiences with pornography, and how it can impact their relationship dynamics. They also explore the significance of personal healing and the necessity for individuals to address their own struggles with pornography before entering or continuing a relationship. 2025-02-1328 minLiberator71. One Piece of Advice with L&CChelsea and Layton share the best advice they each personally received during the healing journey. The conversation hits on the importance of confronting personal and familial secrets as a means of growth and recovery, as well as the centrality of grace, honesty, and courage in addressing our sin. 2025-02-0614 minLiberator70. Rationalization with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the damaging effects of pornography on the brain, the rationalizations people make to cope with addiction, and the importance of self-honesty in recovery. They discuss the cost of following Christ, the influences of media on personal behavior, and the challenges of healing from betrayal and insecurity. The dialogue emphasizes the need for deep introspection and the courage to confront difficult truths in order to find true freedom and growth.2025-01-3025 minLiberator69. Caitlin McCaffrey (Harvest USA)Chelsea and Layton are joined by Caitlin McCaffrey, the Director of Women's Ministry at Harvest USA. They explore the mission of Harvest USA, God’s heart towards those struggling with betrayal and sexual sin, and the significant need for support among women facing these challenges. Caitlin shares insights on betrayal trauma, the importance of acknowledging pain, and the role of church leaders in providing care. The discussion also delves into the science of pornography addiction, neuroplasticity, and the hope found in Christ for healing and restoration. https://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/silence-the-sound-of-female-sexual-shame/ https://harvestusa.org/ch...2025-01-2348 min
More than RoommatesEpisode 114 - A Story of Confession and Redemption (feat. Layton & Chelsea from Liberator Podcast) In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek and Scott interview Layton & Chelsea Boeve from the Liberator Podcast as they share their story about pornography and how it’s affected their marriage. Layton and Chelsea share how their story has not become their ministry as they seek to help couples with similar stories. Scriptures:1 Corinthians 6:182 Timothy 1:7Psalm 139:23-24 Resources:Podcast – Liberator Podcast (with Layton & Chelsea)Websites – Fight the New Drug and Truth About PornStudy & Website – Beyond the Porn Phenomenon...2025-01-2137 minLiberator68. The Church (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 4) with L&CChelsea and Layton wrap up Liberator’s Beyond the Porn Phenomenon series by diving into Barna’s research on pornography and the church. They discuss the importance of community support for both congregants and leaders, the generational perspectives on pornography, and the challenges faced by church leaders in addressing these issues. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and proactive measures within the church to foster a healthier environment for all members. The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix It by Sam Black2025-01-1626 minLiberator67. Generations (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 3) with L&CChelsea and Layton continue their Barna series, exploring the impact of pornography across different generations. The conversation compares differing attitudes around porn, while emphasizing the importance of communication and mentorship between different age groups.2025-01-0922 minLiberator66. Rewind: Bob and Dannah Gresh (Pure Freedom)We are rewinding back to one of our favorite episodes with some of our favorite people, the Greshes! Bob and Dannah Gresh are bestselling authors and leaders of the Pure Freedom, True Girl, and Born to Be Brave ministries. They join us to talk about Dannah's book, Happily Even After, and the incredible redemption story of their marriage. Resources Dannah mentioned: Healing Your Marriage When Trust is Broken by Cindy Beall Dannah’s website: PureFreedom.org2025-01-0252 minLiberator65. Liberator Christmas 2024 with L&CMerry Christmas from all of us at Liberator! We're taking a brief pause from our, "Beyond The Porn Phenomenon," series to do a special Christmas encouragement. You are not alone!2024-12-2514 minLiberator64. Motivations (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 2) with L&CChelsea and Layton delve into the motivations behind pornography consumption, exploring how factors like boredom, stress, and personal arousal influence individuals' choices. They discuss the differences in motivations between men and women, the impact of technology on access to pornography, and the need for the church to engage in discussions about sexuality and provide guidance. 2024-12-1920 minLiberator63. The Widening Gap (Beyond the Porn Phenomenon Part 1) with L&CChelsea and Layton introduce a new series based from Barna's research on pornography usage in the U.S., discussing the growth of consumers and frequency of use across the country. They also explore the themes of substance versus shadow in life, particularly in relation to pornography and its impact on society. 2024-12-1227 minLiberator62. Jamie Gordon (Screen Sanity)Chelsea and Layton speak with Jamie Gordon from Screen Sanity about the challenges parents face in managing technology use among children. Jamie shares the mission of Screen Sanity, and shares practical strategies for establishing boundaries, addressing difficult topics like pornography, and fostering open communication with kids. ScreenSanity.org The Gabb Phone Bark Tech2024-12-0548 minLiberator61. Refining Fire with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the themes of pain, suffering, and God's role in our lives during difficult times. They explore the biblical concept of the 'refiner's fire' and how it relates to personal growth and healing. Through the stories of Job, Peter, and Judas, they emphasize the importance of understanding God's character and the hope that can be found even in the midst of pain. The conversation encourages listeners to seek God in their times of need, reminding them that they are not alone in their journey.2024-11-2122 minLiberator60. The Right Questions with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of communication around pornography use, particularly focusing on the questions that can hinder healing after betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trust and avoiding assumptions, as well as the impact of genuine curiosity. The conversation also highlights the significance of constructive dialogue and seeking divine guidance in understanding oneself and one's partner.2024-11-1423 minLiberator59. King Solomon with L&CChelsea and Layton explore the life of King Solomon, examining his rise to greatness and subsequent fall from grace. They discuss the importance of vigilance in leadership, the dangers of temptation, and the need for contentment and stewardship in relationships. The conversation serves as a cautionary tale about the consequences of straying from one's values and the hope for redemption through repentance and gratitude.2024-11-0728 minLiberator58. Amanda Aanestad (Victory Collective)Amanda Aanestad joins Liberator for episode 57! Amanda is the Co-Founder of The Victory Collective, an online ministry for girls and women seeking to overcome pornography and sexual shame. Amanda shares her personal journey, the power of confession, and the story behind the creation of the Victory Collective. The conversation explores the significance of understanding triggers, navigating relationships, and the resources available for support. 2024-10-3144 min
The Covenant Eyes PodcastDealing with Pornography in Your Marriage with Layton & Chelsea BoeveIn this episode, we welcome Chelsea and Layton Boeve, co-hosts of The Liberator Podcast, to share their story of healing, growth, and resilience as a couple navigating addiction recovery. Together with our hosts, they discuss the unique impact of addiction on relationships, how gender influences healing journeys, and the importance of honest communication, faith, and mutual support. This heartfelt conversation offers insight and hope for couples facing similar challenges, providing listeners with practical advice and inspiring encouragement from those who have walked this difficult path.Key Points Discussed:Introduction to Chelsea and Layton’s...2024-10-3024 minLiberator57. Humble Beginnings with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the early days of their personal story of porn use, betrayal trauma, and healing. They explore the struggles of confessing to a partner, the journey towards sobriety, and the impact of addiction on self-worth and trust. The conversation emphasizes the need for open dialogue, understanding, and support in overcoming challenges together, ultimately leading to hope and renewal.2024-10-2436 min
The Couch Next DoorPornography & Mental Health (Chelsea & Layton Boeve)Layton and Chelsea Boeve are co-hosts of the podcast, Liberator. Liberator is a discussion of pornography’s hard truths. The show was created to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography. Chelsea and Layton hit us with some truth bombs and remind us that this is a brain issue, not a moral issue. Be sure to subscribe to their podcast Liberator where ever you listen to podcasts.Follow Liberator @liberator.podcastLiberator PodcastRecommended ResourcesDopamine Nation2024-10-241h 25Liberator56. Dr. Juli Slattery (Authentic Intimacy)Dr. Juli Slattery returns to the show to address listeners’ most frequently asked question, “What should I do if my partner can’t or won’t stop watching porn?” Our conversation will dive into the challenges faced by individuals dealing with sexual addiction, the importance of humility in relationships, and the necessity of pursuing wholeness and sexual integrity on an individual level. The discussion navigates how to frame these issues whether you are married, dating, or single. 2024-10-1737 minLiberator55. Sextortion with L&CChelsea and Layton discuss the alarming rise of sextortion, a form of blackmail particularly affecting young people. They explore the mechanics of sextortion, the emotional impact on victims, and the importance of open communication between parents and children. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, practical safety measures, and the role of faith in overcoming the fear and shame associated with these threats.2024-10-1020 minLiberator54. Rahab with L&CIn this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the themes of shame, redemption, and the story of Rahab from the Bible. They explore how shame can distort our identity and how faith can lead to freedom. The conversation highlights Rahab's role as an unlikely heroine and the importance of obedience in the face of risk. They emphasize that God values everyone, regardless of their past, and that true freedom can have a ripple effect on families and communities.2024-10-0319 minLiberator53. Kori Trierweiler (New Hope Community Church)In this conversation, Chelsea and Kori explore the themes of identity, beauty, and freedom in Christ. They discuss the struggles women face regarding self-worth and outward appearance, emphasizing the importance of finding identity in God's love rather than societal standards. The conversation highlights the power of community, confession, and the journey towards embracing true beauty and liberation from core lies.2024-09-2751 minLiberator52. Troy & Melissa Haas (Hope Quest)Troy and Melissa Haas share their profound journey through pain, addiction, and healing in their marriage. They provide a roadmap and tools for the process of disclosure in overcoming betrayal. Their story leads to the founding of HopeQuest, a ministry dedicated to helping others impacted by addiction find hope and healing. The conversation emphasizes the significance of honest communication, therapeutic processes, and the relentless grace of God in the journey of recovery. HopeQuestGroup.org 2024-09-1953 minLiberator51. Uncontrolled Anger with L&CIn this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the emotions and struggles that arise after betrayal, even years after confession. They explore the importance of cultivating a safe community for confession and the shame that the betrayed person may carry. They share their own experiences and offer insights on how to cope with intense emotions and navigate difficult conversations. They emphasize the need for self-awareness, communication, and reliance on God's truth to find healing and restoration.2024-08-0827 minLiberator50. Christian Watson (1924us)Christian Watson, founder of 1924.us, shares his personal journey of overcoming pornography addiction and the importance of speaking out about it. Christian discusses the root causes of pornography addiction, including trauma and brokenness, and highlights the need for understanding and support. He also addresses the shame and guilt associated with addiction and the importance of self-discipline and accountability. The conversation delves into the normalization of pornography and its harmful effects on individuals and society. The need for open discussions about the porn industry and its consequences is emphasized, along with the importance of personal growth and venturing onward. 2024-08-011h 12Liberator49. Interceding For The Saints with L&CIn this last and final epsidoe of The Armor of God Series, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of intercession in the context of spiritual warfare and healing. They emphasize the need for community and the power of prayer in supporting and uplifting one another. They also highlight the role of prayer in bringing comfort, peace, and hope to those who are struggling. The conversation concludes with a reminder that God equips and empowers us to fight against sin and that we are not alone in our battles. 2024-06-2821 minLiberator48. Sword of The Spirit with L&CWhat does the Sword of the Spirit have to do with pornography? Porn is a destructive trap, but we have been given the power to fight back. In this episode Layton and Chelsea highlight the importance of the spoken word of God and the ability to use Scripture against the lies of the enemy. Every piece of armor before this has been defensive in nature, but the sword is explicitly for offense; tune in to find out why. 2024-06-2126 minLiberator47. Helmet of Salvation with L&CChelsea and Layton unpack the Helmet of Salvation as part of their Armor of God series. They explore the significance of the helmet in protecting the mind and controlling our thoughts, while emphasizing the importance of understanding our identity as children of God and the assurance of salvation. The connection between the breastplate of righteousness and the helmet of salvation is drawn, both of which are freely given to us by Jesus. The episode concludes with encouragement to listeners to stand firm in their belief and authority as children of God, even in the face of temptation and struggles w...2024-06-1325 minLiberator46. Shield of Faith with L&CThe conversation explores the concept of the Shield of Faith, drawing parallels from historical references and personal experiences. It delves into the nature of faith, its challenges, and the importance of community support. The discussion also addresses the relationship between faith and fear, the significance of God's promises, and the role of faith in overcoming pornography addiction. Online Communities L&C reccommend: SamsonSociety.com SarahSociety.com SheRecovery.com AuthenticIntimacy.com2024-06-0622 minLiberator45. Sandals of Peace with L&C In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the significance of having 'sandals fitted with the Gospel of peace' as part of the Armor of God. They explore the concept of peace as an active and powerful state, the metaphor of feet for scaling mountains, and the battle against sin and brokenness. They also share personal experiences and reflections on finding peace in the Gospel message. 2024-05-3126 minLiberator44. Breastplate of Righteousness with L&CIn the second episode of The Armor of God Series, Chelsea and Layton discuss righteousness and it's relationship with porn and healing. They contrast positional and conditional righteousness and how both are related to our walk with Jesus. The episode concludes with prayer and an encouragement to put on the Breastplate of Righteousness every day. 2024-05-2323 minLiberator43. Belt of Truth with L&CIn this episode, Layton and Chelsea introduce their new series on The Armor of God. They discuss the importance of truth as the foundation of the armor and how it applies to various aspects of life, including overcoming porn addiction and betrayal. They explore the lies of the world and the flesh, and the power of God's truth to combat them. They emphasize the need to challenge negative thoughts and replace them with God's truth. The episode ends with a prayer for strength and guidance in living according to God's truth. Scripture: Ephesians 6:10-18 2024-05-1630 minLiberator42. Kristen Miele (Sex Ed Reclaimed)Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, shares her personal journey into sex education and the importance of reclaiming the conversation around sex. She discusses the challenges and misconceptions surrounding sex education, while also highlighting the impact of pornography on kids and offering guidance on how to respond when they are exposed to it. Kristen's mission is to empower parents and equip them with the tools to have open and honest conversations about sex with their children. The importance of resting in God's design is explored, as well as the benefit of approaching our children with curiosity rather than...2024-04-1842 min
Pirate Monk Podcast416 | Layton and Chelsea Boeve | Couples on a Journey, Healing TogetherOn this episode: Nate and Aaron debate one day for p@rn. Nate updates us on his speaking engagements.
Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guests, Chelsea and Layton Boeve. Chelsea and Layton host the Liberator podcast. The Michiganders share their journey that brought them to their passion for strong and healthy relationships. Layton grew up without TV and became a voracious reader which started his journey into fantasy and later porn. Chelsea brings us to an understanding of how trust is broken with image consumption. The couple shares how healing in a relationship happens as...2024-04-1854 minLiberator41. Can There Be Sobriety Without Jesus? with L&CThis week's conversation explores the possibility of finding freedom and sobriety from pornography without a belief in God. Chelsea and Layton discuss their different perspectives on the topic, while emphasizing the importance of Jesus in true healing. They also address the challenge of waiting for someone to find sobriety and the power of prayer in the process. The conversation concludes with a prayer and a reminder to trust in God's work in the lives of loved ones.2024-04-1114 minLiberator40. Betrayal with L&CIn this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of betrayal and how Jesus can empathize with those of us who have experienced it. They explore different examples of betrayal in the Bible, including Judas, Peter, and the Pharisees. The goal of the conversation is for listeners to rely on Jesus and understand that he truly understands their pain and emotions.2024-04-0415 minLiberator39. Strongholds with L&CIn this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of strongholds, specifically focusing on Psalm 9:9 which states that the Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed in times of trouble. They explore different perspectives on strongholds, including the idea of reclaiming them and making Jesus the ultimate stronghold. They also discuss the importance of recognizing and repenting of sin strongholds, seeking revelation and accountability, and trusting in God's promise of a way out. The episode concludes with a prayer for freedom.2024-03-2926 min
The Union Podcast# 86 -Layton and Chelsea Boeve On The Hard Truths Of Porn in RelationshipsIn the journey of building meaningful relationships, it's essential to recognize the impact societal influences, like pornography, can have on our expectations. While it's often unspoken, the truth is that pornography can subtly chip away at the trust and sense of security vital for any relationship to thrive. Yet, in acknowledging this reality, we're presented with an opportunity to foster deeper connections.Let's envision a future where trust and safety are the cornerstones of our relationships, where love flourishes and freedom reigns. It's about creating spaces where authenticity and intimacy can truly blossom. So, how do we...2024-03-2258 minLiberator38. Scott Kedersha (Harris Creek Baptist Church)Our friend Scott Kedersha joins us to discuss the challenges and impact of pornography in relationships. Scott is the Marriage Pastor at Harris Creek Baptist Church. He shares his personal journey and how he became passionate about helping couples build strong marriages. Scott provides insights on how to address pornography addiction, the dangers of watching pornography together, and the importance of finding hope in difficult situations. He emphasizes the need for open conversations about pornography and the role of faith in strengthening marriages. Scott also introduces his books and podcast, which provide practical guidance and encouragement for couples. The...2024-03-2138 minLiberator37. Overcoming Fear with L&CIn this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate fear in relationships, particularly when there has been a history of betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trusting in God's goodness and surrendering control. They also discuss the need to question feelings and challenge irrational thoughts. Applying biblical truth and communicating openly in relationships are key to overcoming fear. The episode concludes with a reminder that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.2024-03-1419 minLiberator36. Dopamine Culture with L&CIn this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the impact of dopamine on addictive behavior, particularly in relation to pornography and sexual addiction. They explore how engaging in addictive behavior can lead to temptation and sin, as well as the dangers of dopamine addiction. They also discuss the influence of big tech and the need to be present in order to hear from God. Practical steps for overcoming addiction and healing from unhealthy self-image are also shared. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of understanding the role of dopamine in our culture and taking intentional steps to break free from...2024-03-0725 minLiberator35. Nate Larkin (Samson Society)Nate Larkin shares his journey of recovery and healing from pornography and sexual addiction. Growing up in a conservative Christian home, Nate experienced trauma and shame that led him to seek solace in pornography. He struggled with guilt and shame, hiding his addiction from his wife and family. Eventually, he reached a breaking point and sought help through a 12-step program. Nate emphasizes the importance of holistic healing, including emotional, spiritual, and community support. He also discusses the impact of his sobriety on his family relationships and the power of vulnerability and confession in finding healing. The conversation explores...2024-02-2253 minLiberator34. Fighting Fair with L&CIn this episode of Liberator, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of fighting fair in the context of pornography and relationships. They draw from their own experiences and share insights on how to navigate conflict without bringing up past hurts. They emphasize the need for humility, forgiveness, and taking thoughts captive. The episode highlights the power of vulnerability and communication in resolving conflicts and building stronger relationships.2024-02-1520 minLiberator33. Navigating Opposite Sex Relationships with L&CIn this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate friendships of the opposite sex in the context of healing and rebuilding trust after experiencing betrayal. They emphasize the importance of being vulnerable with the right people and being cautious of oversharing. The conversation covers topics such as seeking accountability, setting boundaries, including spouses in conversations and interactions, and the role of emotional connections in relationships. They also highlight the significance of building trust through scripture, open communication, and embracing community and friendships.2024-02-0826 minLiberator32. Phil & Priscilla Fretwell (Savage Marriage)Phil and Priscilla Fretwell share their journey of healing and restoration in their marriage after years of secrecy and addiction. They emphasize the importance of transparency, vulnerability, and accountability in overcoming struggles and finding healing. Their story has had a ripple effect, impacting their family and friends, and they now minister to others through Savage Marriage Ministries. They encourage couples to take a step into the pain and seek healing through confession and prayer. Their story offers hope and encouragement to those who feel hopeless in their marriages. Savage Marriage by Phil & Priscilla Fretwell 2024-02-0144 minLiberator31. Jamie Ivey (The Happy Hour) In this conversation Jamie Ivey discusses her book 'Why Can't I Get It Together?' and shares her personal struggles with feeling out of control and having unrealistic expectations. She emphasizes the importance of community and vulnerability in overcoming these challenges. Jamie also opens up about her experiences with pornography and the power of sharing personal stories. Throughout the conversation, she encourages self-compassion and highlights the journey of healing and growth. Jamie's New Book: https://www.jamieivey.com/get-it-together Jamie's Website: https://www.jamieivey.com 2024-01-1846 minLiberator30. Why We Love Over-Communicating with L&CThe healing process after betrayal is long and fraught with unexpected challenges. Even the smallest misunderstanding can spiral into a full-blown fight when trust is fragile or missing. In this episode we break down a common conflict that we've found ourselves in, as well as how we've learned to navigate it over the years.2024-01-1219 minLiberator29. The Evolution of Pornography with L&CEvery day seems to bring a new invention or scientific breakthrough. This episode we take a few minutes to parse through the intersection of technology and porn, as well as give our thoughts on where we see some of these trends heading. 2024-01-0425 minLiberator28. Dr. Heath Lambert (First Baptist Church of Jacksonville)Heath Lambert (M.Div, Ph.D.) joins Liberator this week! Dr. Lambert will share insights into pornography and relationships from his book research, as well as years of experience as a pastor. Our conversation delves into marriage, singleness, and Heath’s advice for those suffering the aftermath of betrayal. Heath’s Books: Finally Free and The Great Love of God. Heath’s Podcast: Marked By Grace Podcast2023-12-2849 minLiberator27. Who Is This Hurting? with L&CIs watching porn really that big of a deal? It seems like it's a lot better than some of the alternatives, and it feels especially harmless if I'm single. Join Chelsea and Layton as they take a closer look at one of the most common questions they receive. Fight The New Drug Truth About Porn2023-12-2118 minLiberator26. Galatians 5:1 with L&CJoin us as we take a closer look at one of the key verses that helped Layton on his journey towards healing. We'll explore the themes of freedom and our identity in Christ. "For Freedom Christ has set us free. Stand firm, therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery."2023-12-0714 minLiberator25. Dave (Name Withheld)We are joined today by our dear friend, Dave. Dave's work on the missions field takes place in sensitive and dangerous circumstances, so his full name is being withheld to protect his family and ministry partners. In this episode we will discuss the spread and impact of pornography throughout the developing world, as well as the enduring power of dying to ourselves.2023-11-3041 minLiberatorDave (Name Withheld)We are joined today by our dear friend, Dave. Dave's work on the missions field takes place in sensitive and dangerous circumstances, so his full name is being withheld to protect his family and ministry partners. In this episode we will discuss the spread and impact of pornography throughout the developing world, as well as the enduring power of dying to ourselves.2023-11-3042 minLiberator24. Season 3 Q&A: Layton & Chelsea BoeveIt’s time for our Season 3 Q&A! Please join us as we open up the inbox and answer listener’s questions from Instagram and Liberator.com. Thank you for another fantastic season and entrusting us with your time and attention. We look forward to connecting with you soon. Be well and God Bless! Resources Layton & Chelsea mentioned: Defend Young Minds, Birds & Bees Instagram Page, Screen Sanity, and Dr. Meg Meeker Website.2023-10-1351 minLiberator23. Kristen A. Jenson (Defend Young Minds)This week we are joined by Kristen A. Jenson. She is the founder of Defend Young Minds® and the #1 best-selling author of the Good Pictures Bad Pictures read-aloud books. Her books have translations in over a dozen languages and are now augmented by a Guidebook for Counseling Kids supporting child therapists and educators. She is also the executive producer of the Brain Defense: Digital Safety® curriculum—a powerful and engaging video-based course for families and educators. Kristen is a positive voice for raising empowered, resilient, screen-smart kids who know how and why to reject pornography. Website/Books: www.Def...2023-10-0652 minLiberator22. Bryan & Bonnie Pue (The Union Movement)Bryan and Bonnie Pue are the founders and leaders of The Union Movement. As a young man, Bryan was into the party scene - depressed, angry and addicted to porn. Meanwhile, Bonnie was the homeschooled Christian teen whose naivety was shattered by the sexual sin of a church leader. Though their backgrounds were vastly different, they were both deeply impacted by sexual brokenness. As they found restoration and freedom, their passion grew to help others find wholeness and to strengthen churches and ministries who desire to do the same. They created The Union Movement for this purpose.2023-09-2845 minLiberator21. Crystal Renaud Day (SheRecovery)Crystal Renaud Day is a pastoral counselor, certified coach, podcast host, author, and speaker with over 15 years of experience working with women facing pornography and other unwanted sexual behavior. Crystal owns and operates Living on Purpose Coaching & Pastoral Counseling and is the founding director of SheRecovery, an online ministry helping women overcome porn and sexual addiction. She has authored several books including 90 Days to Wholeness and Dating Done Right. Crystal resides in the Kansas City area with her husband Tim. Crystal’s Website: SheRecovery.com Crystal’s Books: 90 Days to Wholeness:: A Porn Addiction Recovery Devo...2023-09-2149 minLiberator20. Matt Krieg, MA, LPC (Second Story Counseling)Matt Krieg, MA, LPC is a licensed therapist in the state of Michigan, connecting with many individuals and couples to develop more compassion and curiosity toward themselves and others, specifically around the topics of sexuality and marriage. Along with his wife, Laurie, Matt co-hosts the Hole in my Heart Podcast, and also co-authored the book, An Impossible Marriage. Matt & Laurie’s Podcast: Hole In My Heart Podcast Books Matt recommended: Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing by Jay Stringer and The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves by Curt...2023-09-1449 minLiberator19. Dr. Juli Slattery (Authentic Intimacy)We are delighted to host Dr. Juli Slattery this week on Liberator. Dr. Juli Slattery is a clinical psychologist, author, speaker and the president/co-founder of Authentic Intimacy. From 2008-2012, Dr. Slattery served at Focus on the Family writing, teaching, and co-hosting the Focus on the Family Broadcast. In 2012, she left Focus on the Family to start Authentic Intimacy, a ministry devoted to reclaiming God’s design for sexuality. In 2020, Juli launched SexualDiscipleship.com, a platform designed to help Christian leaders navigate sexual issues and questions with gospel-centered truth. Juli is the author of twelve bo...2023-09-0742 minLiberator18. Jacob Valk & John-Michael Bout (Into The Light)This week we are happy to welcome Jacob Valk and John-Michael Bout, filmmakers of the documentary, Into The Light. Into The Light is a Teaching Documentary on freedom from pornography that walks through the fundamentals of change from bondage in sin to freedom in Christ. This documentary is a hope-filled, Gospel-centered resource for individuals and churches. Our conversation will explore the motivations behind the creation of the documentary, as well as the power of self-reflection in breaking free from addiction. Into The Light website: intothelightdocumentary.com 2023-08-3146 minLiberator17. Jason VanRulerTo kick-off Season 3 we have our friend and licensed therapist, Jason VanRuler on the show. Jason began his career in 2011 and has worked with many populations over the years, ranging from persons who are incarcerated to top CEOs, performers and artists, and just about everyone in between. Jason has extensive experience as a clinician, coach, and speaker and operates a multistate private practice. He has an engaged and rapidly growing online audience for his insightful, short videos sharing practical tips for psychological care, self-help, and healthy relationships. Jason joins us to share his thoughts on intimacy, trust, and cultivating...2023-08-2442 min
Man Within Podcast590 - Layton and Chelsea Boeve on How Their Marriage Survived Betrayal, Why Betrayed Women Must Take Responsibility, and The Importance of Red Lines"Layton and Chelsea are a married couple who live in Northern Michigan and host the Liberator podcast. Liberator was created to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography. Their show is a discussion of pornography's hard truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture.
Layton, Chelsea and Sathiya discuss:
[06:34] Attempts at sobriety and addressing the issue of lust
[:07:15] Coming clean and the courage to tell
[09:49] The turning point in addiction
[11:36] Chelsea's insecurities
[17:13] Rebuilding trust and security
[20:06] The importance of...2023-07-201h 00Liberator16. Season 2 Q&A: Dr. Meg MeekerDr. Meg Meeker is a pediatrician who is widely recognized as one of the country’s leading authorities on parenting, teens and children’s health. With appearances on numerous nationally syndicated radio and TV programs, her popularity as an expert on key issues confronting families has created a strong following across America. Her work with countless families over the years served as the inspiration behind her best-selling books which include Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters, Strong Mothers, Strong Sons and The Ten Habits of Happy Mothers. She resides in northern Michigan where she shares a medical practice with her husband, Walt...2023-07-0654 minLiberator15. Sathiya Sam (DeepClean)Sathiya Sam is an author, coach, and speaker that helps men live with confidence and integrity. A recovered addict himself, Sathiya is the creator of DeepClean – a research-based and Bible-backed system for overcoming porn addiction. This work has helped everyone from college students to medical doctors regain control of their lives and walk in greater levels of freedom. Based out of Toronto, Canada, Sathiya is happily married and a die-hard basketball fan. Resources Sathiya Mentioned: Unleash The Man Within Podcast Sathiya’s Book: The Last Relapse: Realize Your Potential, Reclaim Intimacy, and Resolve the R...2023-06-2941 minLiberator14. Mo Isom Aiken (5th Wheel Missions)Mo (Isom) Aiken is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker and blogger. Not only an accomplished writer, Mo was an All-American goalkeeper for the Louisiana State University soccer team, as well as the first female to train with and tryout for an SEC men's football team. Mo speaks nationally and internationally on a variety of faith-based topics and facilitates a faith-centered blog that has garnered millions of views to date. Mo joins us to tell the incredible story of God’s intervention in the midst of her pain, and the fierce joy of knowing Jesus through our struggles....2023-06-221h 04Liberator13. Steve Etner (The Purity Coach)Steve Etner is a national men's speaker, author of five books, and a Purity Coach. His conferences, seminars and retreats focus on what God has to say about the way we think and the impact it has on our behavior. Teaching men how to live in moral purity by equipping them with Biblical answers, Steve's goal is for men to have a re-ignited passion for Jesus and learn how to prepare their minds to successfully overcome their temptations and thus live pure lives for Christ. In short, the focus of Steve's ministry is all about helping men...2023-06-1542 minLiberator12. Danny Ray & Kimberly Thompson (We Do Whatever it Takes)Danny Ray and Kimberly Thompson have been married for 26 years and are devoted to doing whatever it takes for their marriage. Danny is one of the world’s premier illusionists and has amazed thousands of audiences worldwide. Yet, he is far more than entertainment — Danny and his team bring the powerful and transforming message of the Gospel to every show he performs. Kimberly has worked behind the scenes partnering in Danny’s act for over two decades. She recently obtained her Masters in Counseling Psychology and began working as an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist. Together they host the “We Do Wh...2023-06-0844 minLiberator11. Sam Black (Covenant Eyes)Sam Black is a former journalist and current Director of Recovery Education for Covenant Eyes; he understands the stronghold pornography can have on an individual’s life. His new book The Healing Church actively addresses these issues and provides clear guidance for ministry leaders as they support those who seek to live in freedom. Sam joins us to discuss his motivations for writing the book, as well as resources he recommends to equip the church in the battle against porn. Resources Sam Mentioned: The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fi...2023-06-0148 min
Let It Shine with Angie ElkinsEpisode 221- Breaking Free from Pornography with Layton and Chelsea BoeveSend us a textWe’re having a conversation today we’ve never had before on chatologie, and because of our topic, you probably want to listen to this episode without little ears listening. I’ve invited my new friends, Layton and Chelsea Boeve to share their story and journey with finding freedom from the effects of pornography on their dating life and marriage. If you know someone that is struggling with this form of addiction, please share this episode with them. The Boeves have resources available to help provide support to find healing from this form of self-m...2023-05-3034 minLiberator10. Jessica Harris (Beggars Daughter)Jessica Harris is the founder of the Beggars Daughter ministry and author of the books Beggars daughter, and Quenched: Quenched: Discovering God’s Abundant Grace for Women Struggling with Pornography and Sexual Shame released in 2023. Sharing her story has grown to encompass much more than just one woman’s struggle with pornography. She writes and speaks about pornography, online safety, and how to talk about sex in the church. Resources Jessica Mentioned: Quenched, by Jessica Harris Every Woman a Theologian website with Phylicia Masonheimer Jessica’s website: Beggar's Daughter 2023-05-2548 minLiberator9. Bob & Dannah Gresh (Pure Freedom)Bob and Dannah Gresh are bestselling authors and leaders of the Pure Freedom, True Girl, and Born to Be Brave ministries. They join us to talk about Dannah's newest book, Happily Even After, and the incredible redemption story of their marriage. Resources Dannah mentioned: Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken, by Cindy Beall Dannah’s website: Dannah Gresh, Pure Freedom Ministries2023-05-1852 minLiberator8. Season 1 Q&A: Richie HensonRichie Henson has over a decade of experience working in youth ministry and currently serves as the Senior High Pastor at New Hope Community Church. Today he joins us to field questions about pornography submitted by students aged from Junior High to College. Questions Covered in This Episode: What constitutes porn and is there porn that is ok? Does the Bible have anything to say about porn other than the basics about sex and lust? What do I do if I find out my siblings watching porn? I feel shame and want out but don’t trust...2023-03-3051 minLiberator7. Chelsea & Layton BoeveJoin us as we unpack more of our journey and detail some of the initial steps we took towards healing. Your story might not look exactly like ours, but it can be redeemed like ours has. 2023-03-2349 minLiberator6. Phylicia Masonheimer (Every Woman A Theologian)Phylicia Masonheimer is a bestselling author, Bible teacher, and host of the Verity podcast. Her blog and shop, Every Woman a Theologian, exists to teach Christians how to know what they believe and live that out boldly. Phylicia walks us through her story of being introduced to erotica at a young age and the importance of finding her true identity in Christ. We also discuss the advantages of accountability and fellowship in our lives. Resources: Podcast Phycilia Referenced: Verity Podcast with Phylicia Masonheimer Books Phylicia Referenced: A Gospel Primer for Christians by Milton...2023-03-1640 minLiberator5. Jeff CarterJeff Carter, PT, MBA, is the Owner of Apogee Therapy Center (atcforme.com), a Functional Medicine and Integrative Health Therapy Center. Jeff will draw on his years of experience and passion for research to unpack how pornography creates addiction in the brain, as well as steps we can take to break free. Resources Jeff Referenced: The Hacking of the American Mind:The Science Behind the Corporate Takeover of Our Bodies and Brains by Robert H. Lustig (Neuro-Endocrinologist) How an Addicted Brian Works: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RZ5LH634W8s2023-03-0945 minLiberator4. Jeremy BilderbackJeremy Bilderback MA, LLPC is a close friend and mentor. He has earned his Masters in Counseling from Grand Rapids Theological Seminary. Jeremy will be talking with us about how pornography acts as a damaging imitation of real relational connection. Books Jeremy referenced: Sex and the Supremacy of Christ by John Piper & Justin Taylor, and Every Young Man's Battle: Strategies for Victory in the Real World of Sexual Temptation by Stephen Arterburn, Fred Stoeker, & Mike Yorkey.2023-03-0242 min
Liberator3. Kimi MoodyKimi Moody is a student at Anderson University and has served as a camp counselor and youth leader for over four years in northern Michigan. She is giving voice to the importance of building trust with kids and students. Books Kimi referenced: Live Original by Sadie Robinson and Beth Clark, and Not Yet Married by Marshall Segal. Bible study plan Chelsea referenced: Finding Freedom Workshop with Alyssa Bethke and Sadie Robertson.2023-02-2349 min
Liberator2. Tim ManzerTim Manzer is the Care Pastor at New Hope Community Church in Northern Michigan. Tim has decades of experience in counseling and mentorship. Books Tim referenced: Winning The Battle Within, Pure Desires, *Note: The Betrayed Heart book that Tim mentions is out of print.2023-02-1643 min
Liberator1. Meet The HostsWe’re so happy you’re here! Please join us as we share our goals for this series and discuss why we wanted to start the conversation about the effects of pornography. We’re here for you. Podcast reference: Walking Lessons for Christians Who Sometimes Fall Down, By Nate Larkin2023-02-0948 min
LiberatorIntroducing LiberatorJoin Chelsea and Layton as they discuss pornography’s hard truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture. Liberator Podcast was created to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography. We look forward to earning your trust.2022-11-2802 min