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Conversations with a Dom
E50: Navigating Solo Play Parties, Finding Real Dominants, and Mental Health in BDSM (Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered, Part 3)
Chief and Moineau are back, answering your burning BDSM questions submitted via KinkyEvents.co.uk. Whether you're a solo submissive wondering how to start your journey, or struggling to find a dominant who’s more than just talk, they’ve got you covered.They provide candid advice on tackling BDSM as a solo submissive, ways to find a true dominant partner, overcoming challenges in kinky relationships, and dealing with anxieties and insecurities within the dynamic.Additionally, they discuss practical tips for integrating D/s dynamics discreetly in everyday life, handling dominance outside the bedroom, dealing with...
2025-06-21
1h 13
Conversations with a Dom
E49: Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered (Part 2) - Swinger Clubs, Doms Without Labels, and BDSM without Pain
Chief and Moineau are back, answering more of your burning BDSM and relationship questions!Ever wondered what to do if impact play isn’t your thing? Or whether all Doms need a title? They break down alternatives for brats and subs who aren’t into spanking, and debate the role of labels in the Dom/sub dynamic. Plus, what’s the best way to meet a unicorn?Moineau shares an update on mastering the cowgirl position and Chief reveals his latest quest for the ultimate male sex toy - this time, an octopus-like vibrating stroker.S...
2025-04-04
1h 03
Conversations with a Dom
E48: Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered (Part 1) – Pegging, Watersports, Introducing Kinks, and More...
Chief and Moineau dive headfirst into the first batch of juicy, reader-submitted questions about BDSM, dominance, submission, and everything in between. From spicing up oral with dominant energy to navigating long-distance D/s struggles, they tackle it all with humor, honesty, and practical advice.Ever felt your dominance wane? Wondering how to introduce kinks to a vanilla partner without freaking them out? Curious about the psychology behind impact play? They’ve got you covered. Expect candid discussions on pegging, face slapping, balancing desires in a D/s dynamic, and how to keep that dominant spark alive....
2025-03-24
1h 18
Conversations with a Dom
E47: A BDSM Couple Try Two Kinky Communication Exercises (With Sprinkles on Top book)
Chief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goerlich's book 'With Sprinkles on Top' and the importance of communication in bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners.We compare mental fantasies with real-world practicality (including threesome and more-some discussions!), as well as negotiating and compromising in relationships.We then try out two exercises from the book - a mad-lib style desire sharing exercise, and one to gauge our comfort levels with erotic language.If you're a kinky person looking for ways to improve your relationship and get more comfortable sharing your desires with a partner...
2024-10-15
58 min
Conversations with a Dom
E46: 30 Surprisingly Simple Exercises to Supercharge Communication and Transform Your Sex Life!
Chief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen the connection, enhance understanding, and ultimately lead to a better sex life. Ranging from joint journaling and desire mapping to more elaborate setups like role-reversal games and fantasy sharing, each exercise builds upon the previous ones.Each exercise is discussed briefly, including instructions and several resources for each activity, emphasising the flexibility of the exercises to suit individual dynamics.The episode encourages couples to actively practice these exercises to foster trust, empathy, and a more...
2024-09-23
20 min
Conversations with a Dom
E45: Relaxed Intimacy: Sexting, Massage, Teasing, and Edging - Oh My!
Chief and Moineau share a candid conversation about their recent intimate and sensual experience. They discuss reading explicit sexting exchanges, the buildup of sexual tension, and the psychological and physical aspects of their BDSM and DS relationship. The conversation covers themes of edging, teasing, and the importance of understanding and meeting each other's needs. They also highlight the roles of communication and consent in their dynamic, delving into a detailed recount of a night filled with massages, dirty talk, and slow, anticipatory teasing, culminating in deep emotional and physical connection.00:00 Introduction and Naughty Sexting01:51 Dreams and Desires04:56 Consent...
2024-09-18
59 min
Conversations with a Dom
E44: Sex Menu Walk-Through (Have Our Tastes Changed!?)
Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what's changed and what hasn't. This episode highlights why a Sex Menu is such a fantastic tool for open communication in relationships. They showcase how such candid discussions can significantly enhance intimacy and satisfaction, foster a deeper understanding between partners, encourage exploration, and ultimately improve your sex life. Whether you're deeply embedded in the BDSM community or just curious about enhancing communication and desire in your relationship, this episode provides a real-world example of how embracing change and being open about your sexual wants can lead to...
2024-04-08
1h 03
Conversations with a Dom
E43: Finding BDSM Events and Making Friends
Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with personal anecdotes, laughter, and a heap of useful tips for anyone curious about or already exploring the world of BDSM.They tackle everything from the ins and outs of FetLife to the unique charm of munches, all while keeping it real about the ups and downs of connecting in the community.Whether you're navigating the scene in a buzzing city or a quiet town, this episode packs everything you need to broaden your kinky so...
2024-04-02
28 min
Conversations with a Dom
E42: A new sub discusses her experiences 3 months after introducing BDSM into an 11-year relationship
Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness, Liz shares their initial steps, challenges, and the profound impact of BDSM on their connection and communication. From confronting fears and preconceptions to utilising practical tools like the sex menu for negotiating desires, this episode is a testament to the transformative power of open dialogue and trust in rekindling intimacy.Join us for an enlightening discussion that demystifies the transition into a D/s lifestyle, offering insights and encouragement for those curious about the p...
2024-03-18
44 min
Conversations with a Dom
E41: 8 Common BDSM Myths Debunked
In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and debunks eight prevalent myths. Whether you're new to the scene or looking for clarity on certain aspects of BDSM, this episode is packed with insights, advice, and a call for open-mindedness and consent above all.Join us as we explore the true nature of power play and empower you with the knowledge to engage in healthy, consensual BDSM dynamics.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your...
2024-02-19
26 min
Conversations with a Dom
E40: What's it like visiting a professional Dominatrix?
What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and their guest Tom, discuss his experiences of visiting a professional Domme. It's an honest and educational look at personal growth and exploration in BDSM, tailored for those curious about or involved in the lifestyle. You’ll hear:Tom's journey: How personal circumstances led him to explore BDSM and seek professional Dominatrices.How to find the right Dominatrix for you: Where to find them, the process of choosing a Dominatrix, and tips for initiating cont...
2024-02-12
53 min
Conversations with a Dom
E39: Autism and Kink, Pup Play, and Puppy Ireland with Puppy Ripley
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our guest is Puppy Ripley (aka Sir Kris), to talk about their personal experiences with autism, pup play, and their kink journey. They share their story about how they got into Pup play, their transition from Alpha pup to Dom, and their involvement in Puppy Ireland and charity work. Plus, we explore how pup play has been a supportive tool for them in relation to their autism and discuss ways the BDSM community can become more inclusive for individuals with autism and...
2024-01-22
1h 13
Conversations with a Dom
E38: Stop Overthinking Your Dom/sub Dynamic
Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why overthinking the details can kill the mood in the bedroom and make your D/s dynamic trickier. He also discusses areas you SHOULD be thinking about instead, and ways to ensure your Dom/sub relationship is on the right track.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away!
2023-12-20
29 min
Conversations with a Dom
E37: Professional Dominatrix Miss Mae Ling Shares Her Secrets
Chief and Moineau chat with Miss Mae Ling, a professional Dominatrix living in Los Angeles. How did she come to be a pro Domme? What excites her most about her job? What tips does she have to help women feel more dominant? And what advice can she offer to couples who want to introduce dominance and submission into their relationship? Find out in this episode of Conversations with a Dom.Warning: This episode contains a brief discussion of sexual assault at 3:53. Find out more about Miss Mae Ling: https://missmaeling.com/....
2023-12-04
52 min
Conversations with a Dom
E36: What Sexual Fantasy Could You Never Tell Your Partner About?
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss a Reddit thread titled 'Wives of Reddit, what is a sexual fantasy you could never tell to your husband?'. The episode includes tips on taking about kinks with your partner, how Chief and Moineau's limits have changed over time, forced orgams, and getting kicked out of a club for having sex in the toilets!Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just...
2023-11-27
55 min
Conversations with a Dom
E35: We Discuss Our First Sensual Dominance Public Performance
Get ready for a sizzling rollercoaster of emotions in this electrifying episode! Join us as we delve into the uncharted territory of our first-ever BDSM performance at Mistress Jane's Divine Darkness event. Feel the adrenaline rush as we spill the beans on our pre-event jitters, the nerve-wracking process of figuring out the perfect moves, and the heart-pounding aftermath as we dissect how it all went down.We delver into the world of Sensual Dominance, opening the door to BDSM for every couple daring enough to explore. We also share a cascade of top-notch ideas you can try...
2023-11-18
58 min
Conversations with a Dom
E34: How to Powerplay in Public (5 Ways)
Could you imagine showing up to a Shakespearean play in full gimp attire? Talk about a culture shock! In this episode, we delve into the controversial world of public kink and discuss what makes public displays of kink both intriguing and potentially inappropriate.We also share 5 ways you can engage in powerplay and D/s in public, including sharing a personal story of a hilarious mishap with a cat and a remote-controlled toy. We discuss navigating the thrilling yet risky world of public play, emphasizing the importance of understanding the potential risks. As always, we end with...
2023-11-06
32 min
Conversations with a Dom
E33: The Psychology of the Pleasure Dom
Have you ever wondered about the intriguing world of Pleasure Domination, or how to optimize pleasure and communication within relationships? Prepare to have your curiosity satisfied, as we have an enlightening conversation with Chief and Moineau, exploring the fascinating dynamics of a Pleasure Dom and the importance of prioritizing the well-being of the submissive partner, even when they seek pain. We delve into the nuances of creating a safe, consensual environment, and how this contrasts dramatically with the typical perception of a Dom who focuses primarily on pain.Navigating relationships where one partner has a kink that...
2023-10-31
53 min
Conversations with a Dom
E32: Anxiety and BDSM (with Moineau)
Moineau discusses her experiences with anxiety and how it impacts her BDSM, sex and dating life.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing...
2023-06-26
44 min
Adult Buddy Finders
BONUS | 50 Shades of Grey VS real world BDSM
Chief and Moineau put the DS in BDSM. Chief and Moineau from Kinkyevents.co.uk and Conversations with a Dom podcast: (https://open.spotify.com/show/1zdcrV9zDdMXRv6isOM84W) In this bonus they talk with hosts @GreenberryLucas and @KerstinPorter about the erotic book turned film 50 Shades of Grey that was known by some as getting BDSM dangerously wrong. Since Chief and Moineau have been active in BDSM for years we wanted to hear what they thought. They even share their favorite erotica. Links to Click : Kinky Events fo...
2023-06-14
09 min
Conversations with a Dom
E31: Vibrator Showdown! Lovehoney Magic Wand vs Le Wand Classic vs Le Wand Petite (Tested LIVE)
Which wand vibrator is best? Chief pits two Le Wand massagers against his trusty Lovehoney mains powered magic wand vibrator to see which one triumphs. Moineau kindly volunteers her body for science.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).
2023-06-12
36 min
Adult Buddy Finders
How to Find a Dominative OR Submissive Buddy
Chief and Moineau put the DS in BDSM. Chief and Moineau from Kinkyevents.co.uk and Conversations with a Dom podcast: (https://open.spotify.com/show/1zdcrV9zDdMXRv6isOM84W) let ABF hosts Greenberry Lucas and Kerstin Porter into their bedroom, metaphorically. The give caller, Troy, tips and demos on how to be a dominatrix. Links to Click : Kinky Events for Ideas on getting the D/S relationship of your dreams: Conversations With a Dom on Spotify: Help ABF make more shows Hit up AdultBuddyFinders.com or...
2023-06-07
1h 18
Conversations with a Dom
E30: What Does D/s Mean to You? (We Ask Our Community Members)
Chief and Moineau posed the question 'What does D/s mean to you?' to our Discord community members to see how they felt about it. The results we got back were inspiring, moving, deep, and generally wonderful. In this episode, we share what they wrote and reflect on our own thoughts about power play and being in a relationship revolving around dominance and submission.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is...
2023-06-05
42 min
Conversations with a Dom
E29: How Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies?
In this intriguing episode of the BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau dive into a fascinating 2014 research paper titled 'What exactly is an unusual sexual fantasy?'. Their lively discussion revolves around exploring their own kinky inclinations. They explore interesting topics, like the differences in fantasies between genders, and discover what percentage of men and women have fantasized about:Having sex with multiple menEngaging in intimate encounters in unconventional placesSwinging with both known and unknown couplesExploring the act of urinating on a partnerThe goal of this latest episode is to entertain and normalize the wide range of...
2023-06-03
48 min
Conversations with a Dom
E28: 9 Mistakes Beginner Submissives Make Time and Again (aka How to Protect Yourself)
Discovering the BDSM world as a beginner submissive can be incredibly exciting, but it can also lead to repeated mistakes and take its emotional toll on you. In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, we discuss beginner subs' common mistakes and how to avoid them. Our conversation involves everything you need to know about BDSM, including creating a sex menu, understanding terminology, finding a dominant, and avoiding people who might take advantage of you. The discussion emphasizes the importance of taking time and sense-checking your journey to avoid sub-frenzy. We look at how communication, negotiations, and d...
2023-05-15
32 min
Conversations with a Dom
E27: Spring Swinging Shenanigans at the Venus Star Resort in Maspalomas, Gran Canaria
Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to the Venus Star Resort for swingers in Gran Canaria, and their stroll along the Maspalomas nudist beach. Find out what goes on at a swingers day club, and what you can expect your first time. For photos, visit the accompanying Kinky Events article.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best...
2023-05-08
51 min
Conversations with a Dom
E26: Divine Darkness Party Review & Spring BDSM Scene Ideas
In this BDSM podcast episode Chief and Moineau review the Divine Darkness London kinky party they attended, then talk about two recent scenes they did together, involving rope bondage, teasing, erotic NLP techniques, quite a lot of roughness, and a favourite new activity - face f*cking. Listen along for spicy tips to incorporate into your power play dynamic and get a sense of what really happens in a real-life D/s relationship.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with...
2023-05-01
44 min
Conversations with a Dom
E25: Swinging Pineapples, Kinky Conundrums, and Reader Questions
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau help two readers who submitted questions about transitioning from a Master/slave dynamic to more of a Daddy Dom/Little dynamic, and what to do if you're kinky but your partner isn't.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https...
2023-04-24
35 min
Conversations with a Dom
E24: Divine Darkness with Special Guest Mistress Jayne
In this BDSM podcast episode by Kinky Events, Mistress Jayne, a London-based Dominant, shares her story of how she ended up in this world, and how she helps people safely discover kinky connections and intimacy. Mistress Jayne can be found on Instagram @sexcoachsarahjane.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as...
2023-04-17
36 min
Conversations with a Dom
E23: 9 Powerful Techniques to Supercharge Your Dominance and Drive your Submissive Wild
In this BDSM podcast episode, I dish out my favourite tips and techniques for heightening submission and having loads of fun in your power-play dynamic. There really are some KILLER tips in this episode that I've used and had fantastic results with for years. Enjoy!Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my...
2023-04-10
35 min
Conversations with a Dom
E22: How Herpes Simplex Virus Impacts D/s with Guest Emily
In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast Moineau and Chief talk to Emily, a reader who emailed in asking if she could share her experiences of engaging in a D/s dynamic after testing positive for the Herpes simplex virus (HSV). We talk about:What HSV is and what the symptoms areHow Emily contracted HerpesWhat she does and doesn't do in her dynamic to keep herself and others safeHow it impacts play with her DomSupport the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new h...
2023-03-09
34 min
Conversations with a Dom
E21: All about DDlg and CGl (Warning: May be triggering to some)
*TRIGGER WARNING* On this episode of Conversations with a Dom Chief and Moineau answer a reader's question about DDlg. What is it? How do we practice it in our relationship? And how might you go about introducing it into your relationship? We discuss psychology, why it turns us on, and how to talk to a partner about it. Please note: We also discuss CNC, the R word, childhood trauma, and parental wounds, which can be very sensitive topics. Please proceed with caution if these are triggering for you.Support the show
2023-01-29
1h 03
Conversations with a Dom
E20: London Alternative Market, Punishments, Consent, and ChatGPT
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to L.A.M. (London Alternative Market); why consent is sometimes a grey area, especially when it comes to implicit vs explicit consent; why punishments aren't always what they seem; and then ask ChatGPT what it knows about BDSM (quite a lot!).Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM...
2023-01-22
51 min
Conversations with a Dom
E19: Happy New Year! Welcoming in 2023 with some D/s Questions
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast about D/s and BDSM for beginners, Chief and Moineau reflect on their 2022 kinky activities, discuss Chief's new course for beginner submissives, and answer questions asked by the Kinky Events Community members.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a...
2023-01-01
1h 03
The Kitchen Sink, ENM and Kink Podcast
Ep 14: New Dom’s and Curling Irons
In this episode Pedro and Tink talk about when is it time to take a step back from swinging. They discuss the failures and successes of Mono-Poly, as well as giving insight to new Dominants wanting to get into the BDSM lifestyle. And to close out the show Tink uses a curling iron for science purposes. www.onlyfans.com/ksenmandkinkpodcast https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dominants-start-here/ https://submissiveguide.com/
2022-11-07
1h 07
The Kitchen Sink, ENM and Kink Podcast
Ep 14: New Dom’s and Curling Irons
In this episode Pedro and Tink talk about when is it time to take a step back from swinging. They discuss the failures and successes of Mono-Poly, as well as giving insight to new Dominants wanting to get into the BDSM lifestyle. And to close out the show Tink uses a curling iron for science purposes. www.onlyfans.com/ksenmandkinkpodcast https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dominants-start-here/ https://submissiveguide.com/
2022-11-07
1h 07
Conversations with a Dom
E18: Belle Talks About Her Experiences as a Beginner Submissive
In this episode Belle talks about her experiences as a beginner submissive, how she overcame shame around her sexual desires, what her submissive training involved, and how getting involved in dominance and submission has impacted her life.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co...
2022-10-09
52 min
Smut Drop
24: Can you ever have enough lovers? Exploring Polyamory with Dr Joli Hamilton.
Polyamory, open relationships, ethical non-monogamy...there's many a name for it and Dr Joli Hamilton (Coach for those who want to colour outside the lines!) is the perfect person to help us define it all. Miri & Dr Joli explore how to successfully open up a monogamous relationship to a polyamorous one.Miri also takes a peek at how to Swing successfully. Brace yourselves. Make sure you follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode, and of course, give us a cheeky five star rating. To send us your listener stories, or if you...
2022-08-17
31 min
Smut Drop
24: Can you ever have enough lovers? Exploring Polyamory with Dr Joli Hamilton.
Polyamory, open relationships, ethical non-monogamy...there's many a name for it and Dr Joli Hamilton (Coach for those who want to colour outside the lines!) is the perfect person to help us define it all. Miri & Dr Joli explore how to successfully open up a monogamous relationship to a polyamorous one.Miri also takes a peek at how to Swing successfully. Brace yourselves. Make sure you follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode, and of course, give us a cheeky five star rating. To send us your listener stories, or if you...
2022-08-17
31 min
Smut Drop
23: Finding your submissive side with Moneau (Part 2) and a masterclass in pegging of course
Last week you heard from Dominant, Chief. Now hear from his Submissive, Moneau. Moving away from her Mormon upbringing, she found herself drawn to the Submissive strength. How do you date as a Submissive and what is a Sub space and Sub Drop?! And Miranda explores why Pegging is on ...everyone's lips this week. Make sure you follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode, and of course, give us a cheeky five star rating. To send us your listener stories, or if you just wanna say hi, drop us an email at smutdrop@metro.co.uk
2022-08-10
28 min
Smut Drop
23: Finding your submissive side with Moneau (Part 2) and a masterclass in pegging of course
Last week you heard from Dominant, Chief. Now hear from his Submissive, Moneau. Moving away from her Mormon upbringing, she found herself drawn to the Submissive strength. How do you date as a Submissive and what is a Sub space and Sub Drop?! And Miranda explores why Pegging is on ...everyone's lips this week. Make sure you follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode, and of course, give us a cheeky five star rating. To send us your listener stories, or if you just wanna say hi, drop us an email at smutdrop@metro.co.uk
2022-08-10
28 min
Smut Drop
22: Finding your dominant side, sex menus and what it's really like to be a domme with Chief (Part 1)
Forget everything you think you know about BDSM as we welcome Chief to the Smut Drop. Keeping things strictly anonymous, we take a peek behind the kinky curtain. Rope bondage, role play, boundaries and sex menus. And every Dominant needs a Submissive...as we meet Chief's Sub next week. Make sure you follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode, and of course, give us a cheeky five star rating. To send us your listener stories, or if you just wanna say hi, drop us an email at smutdrop@metro.co.uk ...
2022-08-03
35 min
Smut Drop
22: Finding your dominant side, sex menus and what it's really like to be a domme with Chief (Part 1)
Forget everything you think you know about BDSM as we welcome Chief to the Smut Drop. Keeping things strictly anonymous, we take a peek behind the kinky curtain. Rope bondage, role play, boundaries and sex menus. And every Dominant needs a Submissive...as we meet Chief's Sub next week. Make sure you follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode, and of course, give us a cheeky five star rating. To send us your listener stories, or if you just wanna say hi, drop us an email at smutdrop@metro.co.uk ...
2022-08-03
35 min
Conversations with a Dom
E17: Sub Takeover! Two Subs Answer Your Anal Sex Questions
Anal aficionado Moineau and anal virgin Belle answer questions submitted by readers of the Kinky Events community (Join here! kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community) in this sub takeover episode, where Chief has been banished!They answer questions such as:How did/do you prepare mentally for anal play? And is it a different mindset when you were just starting on your own to when you were with Chief?What did Chief do to help you feel more comfortable with it?What helped you get past feeling self-conscious?Have you learned to like anal sex?Did you start...
2022-07-31
57 min
Conversations with a Dom
E16: Rituals, Fitting D/s into Your Everyday, and Overcoming the Slump
In this episode Chief and Moineau discuss how they've recently hit a slump, and some strategies they're thinking about introducing in order to keep the dynamic fresh and exciting. You'll learn about the power of rituals, ideas to keep your dominant and submissive energy alive, and how to encourage your partner to take on a more dominant or submissive role.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away!
2022-07-09
43 min
Conversations with a Dom
E15: How to Talk About Sex with the Squirm Team
In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau talk to Kels and Tess from Squirm, an adult sex education platform committed to promoting healthy sexual communication. You'll learn ways to improve how you communicate about sex and desires with partners, how to bring up kinks, common mistakes to avoid, and how to be a more effective communicator in general.Remember to subscribe to the podcast and visit KinkyEvents.co.uk for a free guide on introducing BDSM into your relationship.Support the show--------------...
2022-06-05
56 min
Conversations with a Dom
E14: Subdrop, Aftercare, and Other D/s Stuff (Wisdom Talk)
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief (a male Dominant) and Moineau (a female submissive) experiment with Wisdom, an app where mentors can give talks, share knowledge, and help make the world a better place. They discuss Subspace, Subdrop, Aftercare, and other things related to BDSM and dominance and submission.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my...
2022-03-29
32 min
Conversations with a Dom
E13: Moineau asks Chief about his Kinky Beginnings
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast all about dominants and submissive's, Moineau (a sub) asks Chief (a dominant) some personal questions about kink and BDSM, including what got him into it, what his favourite toys are, and much more!Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as...
2022-02-27
48 min
Conversations with a Dom
E12: Answering BDSM Questions From Reddit
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom (a BDSM podcast for beginners) Chief from KinkyEvents.co.uk browses through the BDSM subreddit for questions, reads them out, and give some answers and advice. Topics include prostrate massage, when does a sub become a Dom, and funishments.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses...
2022-02-09
27 min
Conversations with a Dom
E11: Liberating Your Sexual Desire with Rosa Maxwell (A Sex, Love & Relationship Coach)
In this week's episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I are joined by Rosa Maxwell, a sex, love, and relationship coach based in London. We discuss:How to connect to your authentic desiresHow to share those desires with partnerHow to overcome feelings of shame about your sexual wants and needs Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my t...
2021-12-10
1h 03
Conversations with a Dom
E10: Who Knows More About Sex?
Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk take on Buzzfeed's sex quiz in a head to head battle. Who knows more about sex? Listen to find out. We answer the sex questions and discuss the answers, throwing it tips and tricks to improve your sex life along the way.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling...
2021-12-02
25 min
Conversations with a Dom
E9: Chief and Moineau Answer BDSM Questions From Reddit
Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk delve into Reddit to answer questions posted to the BDSM subreddits, and read out other people's answers. Questions include "My boyfriends too nice, what can I do?" and "My partner wants a threesome, what should I say?". If you're a beginner Dominant or submissive then these questions and answers will help you avoid the common pitfalls for the D/s lifestyle.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your...
2021-11-25
31 min
Conversations with a Dom
E8: Dating When Kinky and Non-Monogamous
Chief from KinkyEvents.co.uk discusses the trials and tribulations of dating when both kinky and non-monogamous. He discusses the best places to meet other people into Dom/sub dynamics, non-monogamy, and kink, and also at what point you should disclose this bombshell to potential partners.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus...
2021-11-18
20 min
Conversations with a Dom
E7: Chief and Moineau Chat to Seren Sins (A Female Dom)
Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk chat to Seren Sins, a London based female Dom, and Mistress of Experiences. You’ll learn what drove her to become a Dom, the kinds of experiences she offers, and some incredible tips on how YOU can embrace your desires and implement a little bit of kink into your relationships if you’re just starting out.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is j...
2021-11-11
47 min
Conversations with a Dom
E6: Chief and Moineau Take a Sexual Temperament Quiz
Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk discuss the Dual Control Model of sexual response, and take the sexual temperament quiz from Emily Nagoski's book Come As You Are. Follow along and complete the quiz yourself, learn about sexual exciters and inhibitors, and how they can influence your sexual arousal, and impact your relationship.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle...
2021-11-04
1h 01
Conversations with a Dom
E5: How to Introduce Kink and D/s Into Your Relationship
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk discuss how to introduce kink and Dom/sub power play into your relationship for beginners. We discuss: common challenges faced when bringing up kink with your partner; techniques to overcome nervousness, shame, and improve communication in D/s, including using sex menus, sharing porn, and establishing judgement-free zones; 3 important questions to ask your partner; and common issues beginner Doms and subs encounter when starting a dynamic. ContentsIntroduction [00:00:42]Common challenges when discussing kink with your partner [00:01:40]Techniques to overcome...
2021-10-28
32 min
Conversations with a Dom
E4: Tips for Beginner Dominants
Chief discusses tips for those who are new to D/s and want to become the best Dominant they can be. This episode discusses consent, your Dom personality, where to find a submissive to date, and a whole lots more about the world of Dom/sub dynamics.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses...
2021-10-21
24 min
Conversations with a Dom
E2: Ask a Dom Anything (Reader Questions Answered)
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom I answer questions submitted by readers on my website KinkyEvents.co.uk, including:Do Doms really care about/love their subs?What would be a good punishment for talking back or attitude?Do you take enjoyment in punishments?What is one thing that turns on a Dom?Would you hurt your sub?Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away!
2021-10-18
21 min
Conversations with a Dom
E1: Subspace
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I discuss subspace.What subspace feels like?Are there levels of subspace?The two components of subspaceWhat activities put you into subspace?Subspace and consentSupport the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles...
2021-10-18
26 min
Conversations with a Dom
E3: Everything You Wanted to Know About Sex Parties (Interview with Pleasure Island Parties Founder)
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Jessica from Pleasure Island Parties and I discuss sex parties. What really happens at them? How do you get invited? What sort of people attend? This and more are discussed in intimate detail. If you've every been curious about attending an adult play party, this one is for you.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The...
2021-10-18
37 min