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The Forgotten PodcastEpisode 271: Foster Fathers (w/ Chris Easley & Kyle Seick)Note: In this episode, Jami talks about her pregnancy—but don’t worry, you didn’t miss another baby announcement! If you’re part of our TFI family, you know her sweet little one has already arrived. This episode was recorded back in January! Sometimes, it can feel like the conversation within the foster care community is predominantly shaped by female voices. While it’s wonderful to have such a strong female perspective in this space, it can be a challenge for men to find resources that speak to their unique experiences. This is the heartbeat beh...2025-06-0947 min
Foster FathersThe A Word...In this episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, we dive into one of the most nuanced and debated topics in the world of fostering and adoption: should we openly use the word “adoption” around our adopted kids?This isn’t just a provocative question; it’s a reflection of the real-world tension that parents feel as they navigate when and how to discuss adoption. Should it be a word spoken freely in everyday life, or should it be introduced with intentionality and care? We explore the diverse perspectives of adoptive parents, therapists, and even adoptees themselves.Join u...2025-01-0924 minFoster FathersOperating from a DeficitIn this eye-opening episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, we tackle the reality of operating from a deficit—starting from behind and having to work harder than most just to reach a sense of normalcy. For foster parents, adoptive families, and the children in their care, the journey often begins with gaps to fill, whether emotional, physical, or systemic. This episode is all about acknowledging those challenges while finding hope and strength to move forward.In this episode, we discuss:What it means to operate from a deficit in foster care and adoption, including the unique hu...2024-12-1326 minFoster FathersYou Got A Friend In MeIn this uplifting episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, we shine a light on the importance of friendship during the toughest seasons of foster care and adoption. While the journey can be incredibly rewarding, it’s also filled with emotional challenges, and having strong friendships can be a lifeline for foster parents, adoptive families, and even the children in their care.In this episode, we explore:How to maintain and prioritize friendships when life feels overwhelming and chaotic during foster placements or adoption transitions.The unique role that friends play in providing emotional support, perspective, and so...2024-11-1217 minFoster FathersWhen Termination of Parental Rights Becomes the Best OptionIn this deeply emotional episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, we tackle one of the most difficult and complex topics in foster care—when termination of parental rights (TPR) becomes the best option for a child’s well-being. While every foster parent hopes for family reunification, sometimes the most loving and necessary decision is to create a permanent path forward for the child through adoption.In this episode, we discuss:The emotional, legal, and ethical considerations that come with the decision to pursue termination of parental rights.Real stories of foster parents who have faced this chal...2024-10-2430 minFoster FathersWhat I Learned After the Fact...In this reflective episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, we explore the powerful lessons that only become clear after the moment has passed. From navigating tricky situations to facing the unexpected, we often don’t fully understand the weight of our decisions or experiences until we’ve had time to reflect. Join us as we share stories of growth, insight, and wisdom gained in hindsight.In this episode, we cover:Personal experiences where the significance wasn’t clear in the moment but became profound after looking back.The surprising things we learned about ourselves, our families, and th...2024-09-2334 minFoster FathersThe Days After Adoption DayIn this episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, we take a deep dive into life after adoption day. Kyle, fresh from adopting his kids, shares his raw and honest reflections on what it’s really like in the days and weeks that follow this life-changing event. While adoption day is filled with celebration, what happens after is often unexpected and emotional in ways you might not anticipate.In this candid conversation, Kyle talks about:The expectations he had going into adoption and how the reality differed in both beautiful and challenging ways.Navigating the unknown—what chan...2024-09-1327 minFoster FathersWE'RE BACK & Kyle Adopted His Kids!!!The Foster Fathers Podcast is back after a short summer break, and we’re returning with an incredible story you won’t want to miss! In this heartfelt episode, we celebrate a major milestone as we dive into Kyle’s journey to officially adopting his kids. From the court hearing to adoption day, Kyle and his family experienced a whirlwind of emotions, and he’s here to share every step of the way.Join us as we explore:The anticipation leading up to the court hearing, the legal process, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with finalizi...2024-09-0638 minFoster FathersFirst Foster Placements & NICU Babies | DJ's StoryIn this special episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, we are thrilled to welcome our first in-person guest, DJ, who shares his poignant and inspiring journey through foster care in California. Join us as we delve into the profound experiences of first foster placements and the unique challenges and rewards of caring for NICU babies.In this episode, you'll hear:DJ's personal story of entering the foster care system, the emotions he faced, and the resilience he discovered along the way.Insight into the realities of first foster placements, including the anticipation, the...2024-07-3146 minFoster FathersThe State of Foster Care & Adoption In Idaho: A Conversation with Idaho Health and Welfare Leaders Alex Adams & Monty ProwIn this special episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, we sit down with Alex Adams, Idaho Director of Health and Welfare, and Monty Prow, Deputy Director of Child, Youth, & Family Services. They discuss the state's initiatives to improve foster care, the challenges faced by foster families, and their vision for a more supportive system. Tune in to hear about the critical efforts underway to ensure the well-being of Idaho's children and how these leaders are driving positive change in the community.2024-07-1227 minFoster FathersOur Biggest Failures as FathersIn this brutally honest episode of Foster Fathers, Kyle and Chris open up about a topic that's often difficult but incredibly important: "Our Biggest Failures as Fathers." Join them as they share their most challenging moments and the lessons they've learned from their missteps along the way.Kyle and Chris reflect on their personal experiences, discussing times when they felt they fell short as foster and adoptive dads. With honesty and vulnerability, they reveal the struggles, mistakes, and regrets that have shaped their parenting journeys. By sharing these stories, they aim to normalize the reality that every...2024-07-0528 minFoster FathersPrioritizing Mental Health in Foster Care + AdoptionIn this important episode of Foster Fathers, Kyle and Chris turn their focus to a crucial topic: "Prioritizing Mental Health in Foster Care + Adoption" Join them as they explore the mental and emotional challenges faced by both parents and children in the foster care and adoption journey.Kyle and Chris share their personal experiences and insights on the significance of mental health, highlighting the unique stressors that come with fostering and adopting. They discuss common mental health struggles, such as burnout, compassion fatigue, and the emotional toll of caring for children who have experienced trauma....2024-06-2835 minFoster FathersWhy is Foster Care + Adoption So Hard?In this honest episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, we dive deep into one of the most pressing questions faced by many prospective and current foster parents: "Why is Foster Care + Adoption So Hard?" Join us as we unpack the emotional, logistical, and systemic challenges that make the journey of fostering and adoption both uniquely rewarding and incredibly tough.Through candid conversations and personal anecdotes, we explore:The emotional toll of opening your heart and home to a child who has experienced trauma.The complex legal and bureaucratic hurdles that can feel overwhelming.The balancing act...2024-06-2425 minFoster FathersHappy FOSTER Father's Day!In this heartwarming episode of Foster Fathers, Kyle and Chris celebrate a special twist on a beloved holiday with "Happy FOSTER Fathers Day." This episode is a tribute to all the amazing foster and adoptive dads who dedicate their lives to providing love, stability, and support to children in need.Join Kyle and Chris as they share stories of joy, resilience, and the unique challenges that come with being a foster or adoptive father. They highlight the incredible impact these dads have on their children's lives and the profound difference they make every day.In "...2024-06-1615 minFoster FathersHi! We're the Foster Fathers PodcastWelcome to the revamped Foster Fathers Podcast! In this special reintroduction episode, your hosts Kyle and Chris take a moment to reintroduce themselves and the podcast to both new listeners and loyal followers. After experiencing significant growth and gaining valuable insights, they're back to share more about their journeys and the evolving world of foster care and adoption.In "Hi! We're the Foster Fathers Podcast" Kyle and Chris reflect on how far they've come since the inception of the podcast. They dive into their personal stories, detailing their experiences as foster and adoptive dads, and discuss the...2024-06-0826 minFoster FathersIs Foster Care & Adoption Good or Bad?In this thought-provoking episode of Foster Fathers, Kyle and Chris tackle the complex and often debated question: "Is foster care and adoption good or bad?" With candid discussions and diverse perspectives, they aim to shed light on the multifaceted nature of these life-changing experiences.Kyle and Chris dive into the pros and cons of foster care and adoption, sharing both personal stories and insights from experts in the field. They explore the profound impact these systems can have on children and families, addressing common misconceptions and highlighting the transformative power of providing a loving home....2024-06-0126 minFoster FathersHow to Be A Better Dad: Lessons Learned in Foster Care + AdoptionIn this insightful episode of Foster Fathers, Kyle and Chris reflect on the valuable lessons they've learned throughout their journeys as foster and adoptive dads. Join them as they share personal stories, hard-earned wisdom, and practical tips aimed at helping fathers everywhere become the best dads they can be.Kyle and Chris discuss the challenges and triumphs they've faced, from navigating the emotional complexities of foster care to balancing the demands of adoption and fatherhood. They delve into the key lessons that have shaped their parenting styles, emphasizing the importance of patience, empathy, and adaptability....2024-05-2640 minFoster FathersWe All Need Somebody To Lean OnIn this heartfelt episode of Foster Fathers, Kyle and Chris explore the vital role of community and relationships in the fostering journey. Tune in as they discuss the importance of having a strong support system and the profound impact that leaning on others can have on both foster parents and children.Kyle and Chris share their personal experiences of relying on friends, family, fellow foster parents, and support groups to navigate the highs and lows of fostering. They emphasize that no one should go through this journey alone and highlight the various ways a supportive community can...2024-05-1725 minFoster FathersYou're Capable of More Than You Think!In this empowering episode of Foster Fathers, Kyle and Chris dive deep into the theme of self-discovery and personal growth. Join them as they share inspiring stories, practical insights, and uplifting encouragement to remind foster fathers everywhere of their resilience, strength, and limitless potential.Kyle and Chris kick off the episode by reflecting on their own journeys as foster fathers, highlighting moments where they surprised themselves with their capabilities. From navigating challenging situations to overcoming self-doubt, they offer relatable anecdotes and heartfelt advice to empower listeners to embrace their own capacity for greatness.With authenticity...2024-05-1224 minFoster FathersBiological Parents, We All Got 'EmIn this insightful episode of Foster Fathers, Kyle and Chris delve into the delicate dance of interacting with biological parents as foster parents. Join them as they share their experiences, challenges, and invaluable lessons learned from fostering meaningful connections in the midst of complex family dynamics.Kyle and Chris open up about the importance of empathy, understanding, and open communication when building relationships with biological parents. From initial meetings to ongoing collaboration, they offer practical tips and heartfelt anecdotes to guide foster fathers through the ups and downs of navigating these unique relationships.With humor...2024-05-0332 minFoster FathersMoments That Make It All Worth ItIn this special episode of Foster Fathers, Kyle and Chris reflect on the heartwarming and unforgettable experiences that make fostering truly rewarding. Get ready for a journey filled with laughter, tears, and plenty of feel-good moments as they share their favorite stories from the trenches of parenthood.Join Kyle and Chris as they reminisce about the moments that have touched their hearts and reaffirmed their dedication to fostering. From milestone achievements to simple acts of kindness, they'll shine a spotlight on the small miracles that remind them why they became foster fathers in the first place.2024-04-2026 minFoster FathersSupporting a Case Plan You Don't Fully Agree WithIn this episode of Foster Fathers, Kyle and Chris tackle a tough topic that many foster parents face: "Supporting a Plan You Don't Agree With." Strap in for an honest and heartfelt conversation as they navigate the complexities of this challenging situation.Join Kyle and Chris as they share their experiences and discuss the conflicting emotions that arise when foster parents find themselves disagreeing with the plans set forth by the system. From reunification efforts to placement decisions, they'll delve into the reasons why disagreements may occur and the importance of maintaining support for the children involved.2024-04-1330 minFoster FathersWhat I Wish I Knew A Year AgoWelcome back to Foster Fathers, the podcast where Chris and Kyle share their insights, experiences, and stories about navigating the world of foster care and adoption. In this special episode, titled "What I Wish I Knew A Year Ago," Chris and Kyle sit down to reflect on the transformative journey they've embarked upon and the invaluable lessons they've learned along the way.Chris and Kyle delve into the heart of the matter, discussing the joys, challenges, and surprises that come with being foster fathers. Through candid conversations and heartfelt anecdotes, they offer listeners a glimpse into the...2024-04-0528 minFoster FathersWorking With the Foster Care SystemGet ready to dive into the nitty-gritty of fostering as Kyle and Chris take on the topic of "Working with the Foster Care System" in this episode of Foster Fathers. They're your hosts, your buddies, and they've got some stories to share!Join Kyle and Chris as they spill the beans on what it's really like to interact with the Department of Health and Welfare. From dealing with social workers to chatting with case workers, they're laying it all out on the table.Expect laughs, maybe a few frustrations, but definitely some solid advice on...2024-03-2333 minFoster Fathers"I Could Never Give A Kid Back"In this episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, we tackle head-on one of the most common refrains heard in foster care circles: "I could never give a kid back." As foster fathers who have navigated the complexities and joys of fostering, we understand the sentiment behind this statement. But we also know that it's not the full story.Join us as we delve into the reality of fostering and challenge this myth. We'll share our own experiences of love, loss, and resilience in foster care, highlighting the profound impact that foster parents can have on the lives...2024-03-1625 minFoster FathersPrioritizing Your Spouse in Foster Care + AdoptionWelcome to another heart-to-heart episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast! In this installment titled "Prioritizing Your Spouse in Foster Care + Adoption," we're diving deep into the importance of nurturing and prioritizing your relationship amidst the whirlwind of foster care and adoption. Hosted by your go-to foster dads, Chris and Kyle, get ready for some candid conversations and invaluable insights on how to keep the spark alive while navigating the highs and lows of parenting in the foster care system.Join us as we explore practical strategies for maintaining a strong connection with your spouse, even when faced...2024-03-1137 minFoster Fathers3 Things Foster Care & Adoption ISN'T...Welcome to another episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast, where we're here to bust some myths and set the record straight! In this episode, titled "3 Things Foster Care and Adoption ISN'T," we're diving headfirst into some common misconceptions about foster care and adoption. Hosted by your favorite foster dads, Chris and Kyle, get ready to challenge the stereotypes and uncover the truth behind these misunderstood topics.Join us as we debunk three myths surrounding foster care and adoption with humor, heart, and a healthy dose of dad wisdom. From dispelling the notion that foster care is only...2024-03-0131 minFoster FathersYour First 72 Hours with a Foster Care PlacementWelcome to the Foster Fathers Podcast with your hosts, Chris and Kyle! In this insightful episode titled "Your First 72 Hours with a Foster Care Placement," Chris and Kyle draw from their collective experience as Foster Fathers to provide listeners with practical guidance and emotional support during this pivotal period. With humor and empathy, they navigate through the unique challenges and joys that come with welcoming a new child into one's home.Join us as they we personal stories, expert advice, and valuable tips to help Foster Families navigate the initial 72 hours with a foster care placement. From...2024-02-2331 minFoster Fathers3 Things Foster Care & Adoption IS....Welcome to another episode of the Foster Fathers Podcast! Today, kick back and join hosts Kyle and Chris as we dive deep into the world of foster care and adoption.In this episode, we're keeping it real and breaking down the essence of foster care and adoption. Through personal stories, chats with experts, and some good ol' fashioned banter, we're here to set the record straight on three key aspects of foster care and adoption. It's not always easy, but it's definitely worth it.Whether you're a seasoned foster parent, considering adoption, or just curious...2024-02-1626 minFoster Fathers0 to 4 Kids in a Year! Trauma, Courage & Sibling Sets | Kyle's StoryIn this episode, we delve into Kyle's remarkable journey towards parenthood through adoption, a path that has seen him touch the lives of eight children and counting. From his initial encounter with fostering to the present, Kyle has opened his home to a total of eight children, ultimately providing a permanent family for four siblings. His story is one of unwavering courage, navigating through uncertainties, and discovering the resilience needed to persevere in the face of challenges. Join us as we explore this inspiring tale of love, determination, and the transformative power of family.2024-02-0637 minFoster FathersReunification, Adoption & The Unexpected | Chris' StoryIn this episode we talk through Chris' unique Foster Care & Adoptive journey. Filled with the uncertainty of parenthood, the pain of loss, birth parents, court hearings and so on, he's pretty much run the gauntlet of Foster Care & Adoption. Enjoy!2024-02-0335 minFoster FathersOur Heart for Foster FathersWelcome to the "Foster Fathers Podcast," a heartfelt journey into the world of foster care and adoption, specially crafted for dads navigating this remarkable path. Join us as we explore the triumphs, challenges, and joyous moments that come with being a foster or adoptive father.In each episode, we dive deep into the experiences of fathers who have embarked on the transformative journey of fostering or adopting children. From sharing personal stories to expert interviews, we cover a range of topics that resonate with foster dads, offering insights, support, and a sense of community.Whether...2024-02-0213 min