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Our Next QuestionWhat Is Betrayal Trauma?Send us a textIn this episode, we’re diving into an important and often misunderstood topic: betrayal trauma. When infidelity, pornography use, or sexual addiction enters a marriage, the pain it causes isn’t just emotional — it’s traumatic. We’ll unpack what betrayal trauma really is, why it affects the betrayed spouse so deeply, and how it can lead to symptoms of complex PTSD (CPTSD).We’ll also talk about what healing actually looks like, why finding the right kind of help matters, and how to know if a therapist truly understands betrayal trauma. If y...
2025-11-1058 min
Our Next QuestionWhat If?Send us a textOur Next Question is What If? What if we started each morning with anticipation, expecting God to show up in our lives? What if we looked at every challenge, not as a burden, but as a gift—an opportunity to grow more like Christ? And what if we ended each day with gratitude and excitement for tomorrow’s growth? In this episode, we ask the powerful “What If?” questions that could reshape the way we live. We’ll explore how Scripture calls us to reframe trials as joy, how psychology supports the power of anticip...
2025-09-2241 min
Our Next QuestionWhat Is Lying?Send us a textOur Next Question is What is Lying? What exactly is lying? Is it simply saying something that isn’t true — or is there more beneath the surface? We’ll talk about the psychological definition of lying, different forms of lying, and the impact of lying.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are t...
2025-09-0842 minOur Next QuestionWhat Helps Men Connect?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Helps Men Connect? In this episode, we dive into an important and often overlooked topic: how men connect. We're joined once again by Steve Rager, who brings his wisdom, life experience, and honest perspective to the table as we explore the unique ways men form relationships — especially through adventure, shared experiences, and doing life side-by-side.Want to help us keep these conversations going? You can donate via Venmo at @OurNextQuestion— your support means the world to us. Let’s keep asking better questions, together.Do us...
2025-08-2533 minOur Next QuestionWhat’s Your Story? With Steve RagerSend us a textOur Next Question is What’s Your Story? With Steve Rager. In this inspiring episode we sit down with Steve Rager, who shares his powerful journey of going back to school at age 50 to pursue what he truly feels called to do. Steve's story is one of courage, faith, and the willingness to start again — no matter your age or stage of life. If you've ever felt like it’s too late to chase a dream, this conversation will challenge that belief and encourage you to take your next step.Want to sup...
2025-08-1149 minOur Next QuestionWhat's On Your Mind?Send us a textOur Next Question is "What’s On Your Mind?" In this episode we throw out the script and dive headfirst into the swirling chaos of our minds. That’s right — this is the episode where some of the random thoughts, questions, and rabbit trails finally get their moment in the spotlight. From the mildly philosophical to the completely ridiculous, we’re talking about everything that’s been bouncing around our brains lately. Well, not quite everything, but we do talk about Dr. Pepper, AI, and the best seat on an airplane.Would you...
2025-07-2832 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Conversation?Send us a textOur Next Question is "What Is Conversation?" In this episode, we explore the deeper purpose and power of conversation. It’s more than exchanging words — it’s about connection, not convincing. We break down the four ways we communicate in conversation: Mental – the thoughts we share, Physical – our tone, body language, and presence, Emotional – the feelings we bring into the space, and Spiritual – the deeper connection and intention beneath the words. Let’s redefine the way we talk, listen, and connect.Would you like to help support Our Next Question and keep episodes co...
2025-07-1444 minOur Next QuestionWhy Do We Need Adventure? Part DeuxSend us a textOur Next Question is Why Do We Need Adventure? Part Deux. Dave Conway is back to continue our conversation about his adventures on the Mississippi River. You don’t want to miss this episode! Connect with Dave Conway on Instagram @_mack.truck_Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these p...
2025-06-2344 minOur Next QuestionWhy Do We Need Adventure? Part DeuxSend us a textOur Next Question is Why Do We Need Adventure? Part Deux. Dave Conway is back to continue our conversation about his adventures on the Mississippi River. You don’t want to miss this episode! Connect with Dave Conway on Instagram @_mac.truck_Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these p...
2025-06-2340 minOur Next QuestionWhy Do We Need Adventure?Send us a textOur Next Question is Why Do We Need Adventure? Remember when Chris went and met Dave Conway on the Mississippi, and we said we were going to have Dave on to tell us his story? Well, today is the day for that! Listen to today’s episode to hear all about Dave’s (and Chris’) time and the Mississippi, and why it’s good to take risks. Connect with Dave Conway on Instagram @_mack.truck_Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on...
2025-06-0940 minOur Next QuestionDo You Know What Irritates Me?Send us a textOur Next Question is Do You Know What Irritates Me? This will be an ongoing series that we will jump into from time to time when we want to discuss something that irritates us. On this episode, Caroline will discuss how she gets irritated when she feels like she has to give a disclaimer before she lays down scripture. It’s sad that in this day and age how everyone knows everything about trauma and healing and “all the stuff” so when you go to lay out some scripture for them you have to pre...
2025-05-2636 minOur Next QuestionCan it Be Solved By Walking?Send us a textOur Next Question is Can it Be Solved By Walking? Solvitur Ambulando. What does it mean? Listen to today’s episode and find out all about walking and what science and the Bible have to say about it.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Carol...
2025-05-1234 minOur Next QuestionWhat Happens After Easter?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Happens After Easter? Victor Aguilera, who Caroline now refers to as “our favorite pod pastor”, is back in the studio with us! We dive into what life looks like after Easter and how there’s still so much more to celebrate and remember after we have put away all the eggs and chocolate.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intr...
2025-04-2857 minOur Next QuestionWhat Do Victims and Persecutors Have in Common?Send us a textOur Next Question is What do Victims and Persecutors Have in Common? Join us on today’s episode as Chris walks us through the commonalities between victims and persecutors and how they can both heal.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline is a dedicated Bibli...
2025-04-1450 minOur Next QuestionDidn't Curiosity Kill the Cat?Send us a textOur Next Question is Didn’t Curiosity Kill the Cat? Believe it or not, it actually didn't. In today’s episode, we discuss the importance of curiosity over control and how when you get curious, you get connected, and when you get controlling, you get chaos.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these p...
2025-03-2440 minOur Next QuestionWhat Are the Stages of Faith?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Are the Stages of Faith? Jumping back into different stages in our lives, today we talk about the stages of faith from James Fowler. You can check out the stages of faith and follow along here: https://www.ngumc.org/files/fileslibrary/james+fowlers+stages+of+faith.pdfDo us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Ov...
2025-03-1046 minOur Next QuestionWhy Is It So Hard to Be Loved?Send us a textOur Next Question is Why Is It So Hard to Be Loved? February is the month of love according to some people. With Valentine’s Day still visible in the rearview mirror, we felt it was a good time to have a little chat about love and why it can be so hard to love and be loved.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet....
2025-02-2448 minOur Next QuestionWhere Have We Been?Send us a textOur Next Question is Where Have We Been? We know, we know, we disappeared, but we are back! On today’s episode, we will let you know where we’ve been and what we’ve been doing. We will also talk about where we are headed with Our Next Question. Listen to this episode to get all the answers.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.In...
2025-02-1047 minOur Next QuestionAdvent: What Is Love? RevisitedSend us a textWe hope that as we walk through the advent season, looking ahead to Christmas, these episodes help you slow down and reflect on the true meaning of this season. This week we look at love!Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and...
2024-12-2337 minOur Next QuestionAdvent: What Is Joy? RevisistedSend us a textWe hope that as we walk through the advent season, looking ahead to Christmas, these episodes help you slow down and reflect on the true meaning of this season. This week we look at joy!Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and...
2024-12-1633 minOur Next QuestionAdvent: What Is Peace? RevisitedSend us a textWe hope that as we walk through the advent season, looking ahead to Christmas, these episodes help you slow down and reflect on the true meaning of this season. This week we look at peace!Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and...
2024-12-0932 minOur Next QuestionAdvent: What Is Hope? RevisistedSend us a textWe hope that as we walk through the advent season, looking ahead to Christmas, these episodes help you slow down and reflect on the true meaning of this season. This week we look at hope!Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and...
2024-12-0232 minOur Next QuestionWhy Does Giving Thanks Matter? RevisitedSend us a textWe're looking back to our much loved Thanksgiving episode where we dive into the elements of giving thanks and how they matter in our daily lives. Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been marr...
2024-11-2547 minOur Next QuestionWhat Did Chris Do Now?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Did Chris Do Now? You’ll have to listen to find out!Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greates...
2024-11-1840 minOur Next QuestionHow Do We Mature Morally?Send us a textOur Next Question is How Do We Mature Morally? There is no growth without pain and when there is pain we have a choice to make. Do we move through the pain and mature or do we run from it and stay stuck? In today’s episode, we take a deeper dive into Keegan’s Stages of Development and how we can move from stage to stage.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to peopl...
2024-11-1154 minOur Next QuestionHow Do We Apply Moral Development?Send us a textOur Next Question is How Do We Apply Moral Development? We continue our discussion on moral development, looking at Kegan and Kohlberg's theories of moral development and starting to look at how we can apply these to our own lives. Link to Kohlberg’s Stages of Moral Development:https://www.simplypsychology.org/kohlberg.htmlDo us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intr...
2024-11-0447 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Moral Development?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Is Moral Development? As we begin our discussion about moral development, we dig into Erickson and Piaget's theories of moral development. How does our system of morality develop over time? Tune in to find out!Link to Erickson’s Stages:https://www.simplypsychology.orgLink to Piaget’s Stages:https://www.simplypsychology.org/piaget.htmlDo us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who...
2024-10-2845 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Masculinity? Part Two RevisitedSend us a textWe are taking it back to the beginning! Well, not quite the beginning, but episode 6 of Our Next Question. We are on break until next week and wanted to share these episodes on masculinity before we move into discussing moral development when we return. Enjoy!Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these peo...
2024-10-2141 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Masculinity? Part One RevisitedSend us a textWe are taking it back to the beginning! Well, not quite the beginning, but episode 5 of Our Next Question. We are on break for the two weeks and wanted to share these episodes on masculinity before we move into discussing moral development when we return. Enjoy!Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are the...
2024-10-1442 minOur Next QuestionHow Are Our Needs Met?Send us a textOur Next Question is How Are Our Needs Met? We move on from the philosophical and into the practical of how our needs can be met.Link to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs:https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.htmlDo us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Carol...
2024-10-0738 minOur Next QuestionWhat Do We Really Need?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Do We Really Need? Today we are talking about Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs and digging into what it is we truly need. Link to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs:https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.htmlDo us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?
2024-09-3043 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Personality? The EnneagramSend us a textOur Next Question is What Is Personality? The Enneagram. We continue today in our series on Personality. In this episode, we dive into the Enneagram. Take the test and dive into your results along with us!Enneagram Test:https://www.moiramccaskill.com/testand how to dive into your results: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptionsDo us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us...
2024-09-2348 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Personality? Five Factor ModelSend us a textOur Next Question is What is Personality? The Five Factor Model. We continue today in our series on Personality. In this episode, we dive into the Five Factor Model assessment. Take the test and listen along as we share our results!Five Factor Model Test:https://psytests.org/big5/ineoBen.html.(Caroline, Chris, and Caleb did the 120-question test)Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t kn...
2024-09-1638 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Personality? DiSC AssessmentSend us a textOur Next Question is What Is Personality? DiSC Assessment. We continue today in our series on Personality. In this episode, we dive into the DiSC assessment. Hear all about our results!DiSC: You have to pay for results or take a survey:https://www.123test.com/disc-personality-test/#its123-testAnchorDo us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by...
2024-09-0942 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Personality?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Is Personality? This is the first of our four-part series on personality. On today’s episode, we dissect what personality is and talk about some of the personality tests we will be going over in the coming episodes. You can find the links below for the three tests we will be diving into. Take the tests before each episode and have some fun with us.Five-Factor Personality Assessment:https://psytests.org/big5/ineoBen.htmlDISC: You have to pay for results or take a...
2024-09-0247 minOur Next QuestionIf You Pull Apart Grief, What Does it Look Like?Send us a textOur Next Question is If You Pull Apart Grief, What Does it Look Like? On today’s episode we take a deep dive into grief and what it really looks like. It’s not linear and it can be messy. Also, grief is not something that just happens when someone dies. Let’s look at all the ways we might need to grieve in our own lives. Caroline’s writings on grief:https://relatablecoaching.com/life-writings?offset=1522843200000Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform...
2024-08-2639 minOur Next QuestionWhy Is It Important to Have Fun?Send us a textOur Next Question is Why Is It Important to Have Fun? That’s right, we are saying fun is important just like paying your taxes is important. Have a listen to todays episode and find out why! Dreaming, Play, and Mind-Wandering: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dreaming-in-the-digital-age/202407/dreaming-play-and-mind-wanderingThe Problem is No Fun: Why Fun and Problems Both Need Space in Our Head:http://chrisoneth.com/blog/the-problem-is-no-fun-why-fun-and-problems-both-need-space-in-our-headDo us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on...
2024-08-1937 minOur Next QuestionWhat’s It Like Having a Special Needs Child?Send us a textOur Next Question is What’s It Like Having a Special Needs Child? Co-host Caroline Howard has a 26-year-old daughter with special needs and on today’s episode she opens up about what that looks like on a daily basis and how it affects their family unit as a whole. Key Ministry: https://www.keyministry.org/about-key-ministryBook: "Being the other one: Growing up with a brother or sister who has special needs” by Kate StrohmDo us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platfor...
2024-08-1247 minOur Next QuestionWhy Ask Why?Send us a textOur Next Question is Why Ask Why? Our kids ask it all the time and we get annoyed. But why? Asking why is important and on today’s episode we will talk about why.The Psychology of Lateness Article:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/hide-and-seek/201406/the-psychology-of-latenessDo us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖ
2024-08-0543 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is a Redemption Story?Send us a textOur next question is What is a Redemption Story? In this episode, we wrap up our summer series by talking about redemption and how that weaves through our stories. God is good and He has written beautiful stories for all of us to show how good He truly is!Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖ
2024-07-2926 minOur Next QuestionWhat’s Your Story? With Steven and Morgan Part 2Send us a textOur next question is What’s Your Story? With Steven and Morgan Part 2. Welcome to our Summer Series, “What’s Your Story?” In this episode, we continue with Steven and Morgan’s story hearing how God redeemed a very difficult and tumultuous situation for his glory. Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?
2024-07-2238 minOur Next QuestionWhat’s Your Story? With Steven and MorganSend us a textOur next question is What’s Your Story? With Steven and Morgan. Welcome to our Summer Series, “What’s Your Story?” In this episode, Steven and Morgan share their amazing story and that’s all we are going to tell you. Trust us, do not miss this one. Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these...
2024-07-1530 minOur Next QuestionWhat’s Your Story? With Elaina AyalaSend us a textOur Next Question is What’s Your Story? With Elaina Ayala. Welcome to our Summer Series, “What’s Your Story?” In this episode we get to hear Elaina’s story of infertility and Jesus! Want to connect with Elaina- check out her website at https://www.heartandlife.org. You can also follow her on Instagram @heartandlife.co and Facebook.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro...
2024-07-0842 minOur Next QuestionWhat’s Your Story? With Erika AguileraSend us a textOur Next Question is What’s Your Story? With Erika Aguilera. Welcome to our Summer Series, “What’s Your Story?” In this episode, we get to hear Erika’s story of her trauma-filled childhood and growing up in a toxic church environment and how that impacted her mental health and walk with Jesus. You won’t want to miss it! Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.In...
2024-07-0147 minOur Next QuestionWhat’s Your Story? With Caleb MeyerSend us a textOur Next Question is What’s Your Story? With Caleb Meyer. Welcome to our Summer Series, “What’s Your Story?” Caleb gets to come out from behind the camera and sit on the couch! You won’t want to miss this episode as Caleb shares his story and some of his life struggles. Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖ
2024-06-2431 minOur Next QuestionWhat’s Your Story? With Chris OnethSend us a textOur Next Question is What’s Your Story? With Chris Oneth. Welcome to our Summer Series, “What’s Your Story?” In this episode, our very own Chris opens up and gets vulnerable. Listen to find out what is underneath his overland and motorcycle exterior. Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Carol...
2024-06-1738 minOur Next QuestionWhat’s Your Story? With Chris OnethOur Next Question is What’s Your Story? With Chris Oneth. Welcome to our Summer Series, “What’s Your Story?” In this episode, our very own Chris opens up and gets vulnerable. Listen to find out what is underneath his overland and motorcycle exterior. Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, rais...
2024-06-1738 minOur Next QuestionWhat’s Your Story? With Caroline HowardSend us a textOur Next Question is What’s Your Story? With Caroline Howard. Welcome to our Summer Series, “What’s Your Story?” In this episode, we get to hear Caroline’s story and how God has used what she has been through to draw he closer to Him.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?
2024-06-1035 minOur Next QuestionWhy Is It Important to Tell Our Stories?Send us a textOur Next Question is Why Is It Important to Tell Our Stories? Welcome to our Summer Series, “What’s Your Story?” In the first episode of our Summer Series, we will talk about why it is important to tell our stories. We all have one, but do we tell it? We hope that after today’s episode, you are encouraged and empowered to start telling your story to others. Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to...
2024-06-0329 minOur Next QuestionIs There a Time When We Should Rebel?Send us a textOur Next Question is Is There a Time When We Should Rebel? Teenagers get to rebel so why can’t grown adults? Listen to this episode if you want to find out how to rebel. Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and sti...
2024-05-2545 minOur Next QuestionIs Sex Mandatory in Marriage?Send us a textOur Next Question is Is Sex Mandatory in Marriage? This one is probably not for little ears, so take a listen before blasting it in front of your kids. Upfront, I am sure that men and women would answer this question quite differently. Let’s take a deeper dive into this topic and see if we can come up with an answer.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know abou...
2024-05-2038 minOur Next QuestionCan We Both Be Right?Send us a textOur Next Question is Can We Both Be Right? You’ve heard the old saying, “Agree to disagree”, but what if you are both actually right? It happens, trust us. We will talk all about it on this episode. Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was...
2024-05-1340 minOur Next QuestionA Look Back on What Is Trust?Send us a textWe're on break for a week, but don't worry, next week we'll be back with a big celebration for our 50th episode! Until then, take a listen (or relisten) to our ninth episode on What Is Trust? Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born...
2024-05-1140 minOur Next QuestionHow Do We Cope With Stress?Send us a textOur Next Question is How Do We Cope With Stress? Since stress is a part of life, let’s dive into how we can become friends with it and work with it instead of against it. Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised...
2024-04-2944 minOur Next QuestionCan We Talk About Stress Without Stressing You Out?Send us a textOur Next Question is Can We Talk About Stress Without Stressing You Out? It’s a rhetorical question on today’s episode and we promise to try to not stress you out. Stress is a part of every person’s life, but do we really know what it is?Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are...
2024-04-2243 minOur Next QuestionHow Do We Let Go of Control?Send us a textOur Next Question is How Do We Let Go of Control? It can be tricky finding a happy medium between having too much control and not enough. Is it okay to control some things? Today’s episode will answer those questions and more.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?C...
2024-04-1537 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Control?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Is Control? We all struggle with it whether we know it or not. Everyone seems like a control freak. On this episode, we dissect what control is in all its various forms and manifestations.Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know about us yet.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCar...
2024-04-0844 minOur Next QuestionWhat Does it Mean to Be Known by Others?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Does it Mean to Be Known by Others? Victor Aguilar is here again! And wow do we get some vulnerability in this episode. To be known, like truly known, we must be vulnerable. Take a listen and let us know what you think over on our Instagram @ournextquestionYou can follow Victor on Instagram @_victoraguilera_Do us a favor and leave us a review on whichever platform you listen to us on. This helps us spread our podcast to people who don’t know abo...
2024-04-0141 minOur Next QuestionWhat Does It Mean to Be Known by God?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Does It Mean to Be Known by God? We are so excited to welcome back Victor Aguilera to join our discussion today. You might remember him from the two episodes we did on “What is Worship?”. If you haven’t listened to them yet, we highly recommend that you do. In this episode we get into the importance of being vulnerable with ourselves and how that helps us to cultivate a deeper relationship with God. Take a listen and let us know what you think over on our Instag...
2024-03-2543 minOur Next QuestionWhy Are We So Judgmental?Send us a textOur Next Question is Why Are We So Judgmental? This one hits hard for all of us. We all judge people in one way or another, we might as well admit it. Today’s episode opens up a great conversation on our own insecurities and pride. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in...
2024-03-1845 minOur Next QuestionHow Do We Approach People?Send us a textOur Next Question is How Do We Approach People? How do we best confront someone when we're hurt or feel change is necessary? Using the acronym V.O.I.C.E. we break down how to approach people with humility and love.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to...
2024-03-1139 minOur Next QuestionWhat Are the Five Stages of Acceptance?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Are the Five Stages of Acceptance? Moving from immaturity to growth is a process that can at times be no fun. On today’s episode, we dive into the five stages of accepting growth in ourselves.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is...
2024-03-0450 minOur Next QuestionA Look Back on What Is Worship? Part 2Send us a text Our Next Question is What is Worship? Part 2. The second part of Victor Aguilera’s take on worship. Get ready, because he’s coming back on next month and he’s now a pastor!Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San Francisco and she is a die h...
2024-02-2655 minOur Next QuestionA Look Back on What Is Worship?Send us a textOur Next Question is - an oldie but a goodie! What is Worship? You all loved it when we had Victor Aguilera to talk about worship so we are airing it again in preparation for his return to the pod next month!Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to b...
2024-02-1947 minOur Next QuestionHow Do You Care for Your Soul?Send us a textOur Next Question is How Do You Care for Your Soul? Pastor Bob Irwin is back to continue our discussion on the importance of soul care.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San Francisco and she is a die hard SF Giants fan. Caroline is a...
2024-02-1249 minOur Next QuestionHow's Your Soul?Send us a textOur Next Question is How’s Your Soul? Today we are joined by our special guest, Bob Irwin. Bob is the Congregational Care Pastor and oversees the family and senior ministries at Shelter Cove Community Church. He brings us insight on the importance of caring for our souls. Trust us, this is an episode that you do not want to miss!Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been ma...
2024-02-0543 minOur Next QuestionWhat Does It Mean to Fall and Rise?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Does It Mean to Fall and Rise? Our special guest today is published author Christa Niedermann! We get to hear some of her story and dive into her new book, “Fall and Rise- Fall into your emotions and rise with the One that is chosen”. Follow Christa on Instagram @glowingingrace33 and you can purchase your own copy of Christa’s book here:https://www.amazon.com/Fall-Rise-into-emotions-chosen/dp/B0CJL27B6N/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.aURWvLoRiz1U_fDRWFJgYLJBWwYSb7vml6nwRMk2SA4BZzFEdmP9ABxWARU9NbuVCwydrGy5pewTqmC...
2024-01-2942 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is "The Easy Way"?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Is "The Easy Way"? Wouldn’t we all love the answer to this question?! Listen to today's episode and find out what the answer is. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San Francisco and she is a die hard SF Gian...
2024-01-2243 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is the Problem with Planning?Send us a textOur Next Question is What is the Problem with Planning? Are you a planner? Are you not a planner? Planning can be a good thing until it’s not. Today we talk about the pros and cons of planning and the importance of holding our plans loosely.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one aweso...
2024-01-1539 minOur Next QuestionTo Resolve or Not to Resolve?Send us a textOur Next Question is To Resolve or Not to Resolve? That is the question. Happy New Year everyone! With each new year comes the obligatory resolutions. Are they really necessary? Is it worth it? Have a listen to this episode and hopefully you’ll get some of the answers to your New Year’s questions.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of th...
2024-01-0840 minOur Next QuestionA Look Back on How Are We Made?Send us a textOur Next Question is a repeat: How are we made? Happy New Year! We will be back next week to kick off the New Year with you all. While you wait get caught up on past episodes and enjoy this oldie but goodie where we talk all about the four parts of self.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the w...
2024-01-0250 minOur Next QuestionAdvent: What Is Love?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Is Love? The fourth and final week of advent is all about love. 1 John 4:9, “This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him”. Merry Christmas to each and every one of you!Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’...
2023-12-2437 minOur Next QuestionAdvent: What Is Joy?Send us a textOur Next Question is What is Joy? The third week of Advent is all about joy. It is a small word that packs a big punch! Biblical joy is a state of being that finds its source in God. May His joy abound in you and through you this week.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kid...
2023-12-1733 minOur Next QuestionAdvent: What Is Peace?Send us a textOur Next Question is What is Peace? The second week of Advent is all about Peace. 2 Thessalonians 3:16, “Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times in every way. The Lord be with you all”. May you find time to bask in the peace of Christ this week as we reflect on His promises.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years...
2023-12-1032 minOur Next QuestionAdvent: What Is Hope?Send us a textOur Next Question is What is Hope? Today we introduce the first theme of Advent: hope. Hope is the expectation felt in anticipation of the coming Messiah. Sit for a moment with us as we talk about the hope we have in Jesus and how we can live with this hope everyday.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s grea...
2023-12-0332 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Advent?Send us a textOur Next Question is What Is Advent? We are excited to be doing an Advent series during this Christmas season! On today’s episode we talk about our favorite holiday memories and traditions and then jump into Advent. What does Advent look like for us? Why is it important? How can I incorporate Advent into my Christmas season? You won’t want to miss this kick off into the most wonderful time of the year.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline Howard...
2023-11-2634 minOur Next QuestionWhy Does Giving Thanks Matter?Send us a textOur Next Question is Why Does Giving Thanks Matter? On our Thanksgiving episode we dive into the elements of giving thanks and how they matter in our daily lives. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San Francisco and she is a die hard SF Giant...
2023-11-2047 minOur Next QuestionWhy Should I Pray Without Ceasing?Send us a textOur Next Question is Why Should I Pray Without Ceasing? On this episode we jump into what the Bible says about praying and what prayer looks like practically. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San Francisco and she is a die hard SF Giants fan...
2023-11-1348 minOur Next QuestionWhat About Mary?Send us a textOur Next Question is What About Mary? We have two great guests on this episode: Gricelda Juarez, APCC and Veronica Valencia, AMFT, both from Downey Park Counseling Associates. We get to hear their perspective on who Mary was as we listen to the song Mary by Patty Griffin.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one...
2023-11-0652 minOur Next QuestionWhy Does Friendship Matter?Send us a textOur Next Question is Why Does Friendship Matter? We cut loose on this one and dig into what friendships look like for men and for women. Also is it enough to just have friends online or do we need the in-person connection as well?Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favor...
2023-10-3052 minOur Next QuestionWhat Are Boundaries?Send us a textOur Next Question is What are Boundaries? On this episode we dive into boundaries. Chris talks about boundaries in relationships both to ourselves and others. Caroline gets into laying down boundaries to be healthy. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San Francisco and she is a...
2023-10-2351 minOur Next QuestionWhat Are Feelings?Send us a textOur Next Question is What are Feelings? Are they biblical? Are they okay to have? Are there good feelings and bad feelings? We answer these questions and so much more on this episode all about feelings. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San Francisco and she...
2023-10-1650 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Instagram Psychology/Christianity?Send us a textOur Next Question is What is Instagram Psychology/Christianity? Can I really diagnose a family member (or myself) from what I read on Instagram? Is scrolling through social media and reading all the Christian quotes equivalent to a Bible study? We answer these questions and more on today’s episode. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and...
2023-10-0944 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Safe?Send us a textOur Next Question is What is Safe? On this episode we dive into what it means to be safe relationally, personally, and externally.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San Francisco and she is a die hard SF Giants fan. Caroline is a Biblical Cou...
2023-10-0248 minOur Next QuestionHow Do We Change? Part TwoSend us a textOur Next Question is, How do we Change? Part 2. In this episode we continue discussing change and the three hurdles to change and how they need to apply to the four parts of self (emotional, spiritual, mental, physical)Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San...
2023-09-2543 minOur Next QuestionHow Do We Change?Send us a textOur Next Question is, How do we Change? On this episode we discuss change and how change happens in us, in relationships and in our environments. We will also dig into the difference between behavior modification and heart transformation when it comes to change. Links from the show:Allegory of the Cave- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allegory_of_the_caveIntro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Mod...
2023-09-1846 minOur Next QuestionA Look Back on Are You Your Diagnosis?Send us a textOur Next Question is a repeat, Are You Your Diagnosis? Sometimes we got to know when to take a break and then actually take that break. That is exactly what we're doing. But don’t worry, we are giving you another oldie but a goodie to listen to again and feel free to go back and catch up any other episodes you might have missed. Or listen again to some that have really impacted your life. We will be back in the middle of September. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖ
2023-09-1152 minOur Next QuestionA Look Back on What Is Identity?Send us a textOur Next Question is a repeat, What is Identity? Sometimes we got to know when to take a break and then actually take that break. That is exactly what we will be doing for this and next week. But don’t worry, we are giving you two oldies but goodies to listen to again and feel free to go back and catch up any other episodes you might have missed. Or listen again to some that have really impacted your life. We will be back in the middle of September. Intro & Outro...
2023-09-0443 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Worship? Part TwoSend us a textOur Next Question is What is Worship? Part 2. We had so much good stuff to chat about with our guest Victor Aguilera that we had to do another episode. And honestly, we probably could have done about 5 episodes but we restrained ourselves. Links for things we mentioned on the episode:Chris’ article he wrote on awe and worship- http://chrisoneth.com/blog/beyond-me-what-awe-gratitude-and-worship-have-in-commonTo purchase the awesome shirt Caroline was wearing that guest Victor helped design- https://www.etsy.com/shop/CrystalsEssentials21?load_webview=1&bid=XJMJodyN7s67wuBI8...
2023-08-2855 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Worship?Send us a textOur Next Question is What is Worship? Our guest today is Victor Aguilera. Victor is the Worship Minister at Shelter Cove Community Church in Modesto, California. On this episode we dive into worship. Not just the La La La singing worship, but what worship is in all forms and aspects. We even get to have a time of worship with Victor and his guitar! Trust us, you do not want to miss this episode!Links for things we mentioned on the episode:Great coffee!- https://reviveroastersca.comCh...
2023-08-2147 minOur Next QuestionIs It Okay To Be Single? Part TwoSend us a textOur Next Question is “Is It Okay To Be Single?” Part 2. We just had to continue our conversation on singleness with Monika Farhadi and Producer Caleb. After listening to this episode you will have such a huge desire to dig deeper into your relationship with the Lord. Whether you’re single or married this episode is a must!Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and...
2023-08-1441 minOur Next QuestionIs It Okay To Be Single?Send us a textOur Next Question is “Is It Okay To Be single?” We are celebrating our tenth episode by bringing on our first guest! Associate marriage and family counselor Monika Farhadi is in the studio with us today talking about what it is like to be single in the world today. This episode is not just for all the single people out there. If you’re married you will want to listen as well to learn about how we can be better at being there for single people. You won’t want to miss this great episo...
2023-08-0734 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Trust?Send us a textOur Next Question is: What Is Trust? Getting deep into some scriptures on this one. Caroline talks about learning who to trust after betrayal and what trust should really look like in our life. Chris gives us the definition of trust. If you’ve ever struggled with trusting yourself or others then take a listen to this episode and hopefully you will find some answers. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto...
2023-07-3140 minOur Next QuestionAre You Your Diagnosis?Send us a textOur Next Question is: Are You Your Diagnosis? Seems like everyone has a diagnosis of some sort these days. Is that what defines you? On this episode we get into how allowing your diagnosis to dictate who you are and keep you from healing. We also talk about the good and the bad of the DSM 5. Chris is back from his trip to Vietnam and we get to hear all about it! You don’t want to miss this one. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these...
2023-07-2452 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Masculinity? Part TwoSend us a textOur Next Question is: What Is Masculinity? Part 2. We continue our deep dive into masculinity. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San Francisco and she is a die hard SF Giants fan. Caroline is a Biblical Counselor and Certified Life Breakthrough Coach. Her heart's desir...
2023-07-1041 minOur Next QuestionWhat Is Masculinity? Part OneSend us a textOur Next Question is: What Is Masculinity? We break down the definition and get into some deep discussions on what society and the Bible have to say about it. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be is in San Francisco and she is a die hard SF Giants...
2023-07-0342 minOur Next QuestionWhat Are Forgiveness and Repentance?Send us a textOur Next Question is: What Are Forgiveness and Repentance? This is one you will not want to miss! We discuss the emotions that are connected with repentance and then get ready for the mike drop as we talk about the emotions connected with forgiveness. Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favo...
2023-06-2658 minOur Next QuestionHow Are We Made?Send us a textOur Next Question is: How Are We Made? We discuss the four parts of yourself and how they connect to what the Bible tells us in Matthew 23:37, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind and all your strength.” Episode of “There We Said It” where Chris and Caroline discuss Healthy Communication- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/there-we-said-it/id1667131974?i=1000598245821Book about pain that was discussed on today’s episode: The Gift of Pain by Paul Brand.Intro & Outro Music: Starti...
2023-06-1950 minOur Next QuestionHow Do We Reconcile Activism and Christianity?Send us a textOur next question is "how do we reconcile activism and Christianity?". Get ready for this roller coaster ride and Caroline and Chris talk about the recent boycotts that are going on and what they believe the Bible has to say about it all.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite pla...
2023-06-1240 minOur Next QuestionWho Are We and What Are We Doing?Send us a textOur very first question on “Our Next Question” is Who are we and what are we doing? Caroline and Chris will get you up to speed on what this podcast is all about and who they really are.Intro & Outro Music: Starting Over by LNDÖWho are these people?Caroline HowardCaroline was born, raised and still lives in Modesto, California. She has been married for 26 years and has 3 of the world’s greatest kids and one awesome son-in-law. Her favorite place to be i...
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