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Big Sexy Chat PodcastUnsupervised Shenanigans With Merf And AsherleeSend us a textChrystal’s out, which means Merf and Asherlee are left unsupervised—and naturally, chaos ensues. But beneath the laughter, we get real. We talk about fat liberation, therapy fails, the touch-deprivation epidemic, and how cuddle therapy can be healing AF. Plus, Asherlee opens up about launching a fat-friendly medical provider directory in the Pacific Northwest, her journey into cuddle therapy, and her newest adventure: relationship coaching. Spoiler alert: it’s all about connection. Also… pulverized clits? You just gotta listen.In this episode, we discuss:Fat liberation in healthcare spacesHow cuddle t...2025-04-241h 02
Big Sexy Chat PodcastBuilding a Bold, Curvy Empire – Marie Denee Gets RealSend us a textChrystal and Merf welcome the incomparable Marie Denee, founder of The Curvy Fashionista, for a real-talk episode packed with fashion, fire, and fat joy. Marie shares her journey from launching a blog in 2008 to becoming one of the most respected voices in plus-size media. We dive into fashion industry pitfalls, the power of representation (yes, including steamy werewolf smut), and how Marie’s pushing boundaries with her growing digital empire. This one is full of laughs, inspiration, and a whole lot of truth. Plus, find out which sex toy brand has Marie feeling fa...2025-04-041h 04
Big Sexy Chat PodcastFat Con, Kink & Fat LiberationSend us a textChrystal and Merf are back with a bold and juicy new episode diving into Fat Con 2025, kink exploration, and radical fat liberation.💥 Merf shares her journey into kink—including rope classes made for fat bodies, becoming a pleasure Dom, and creating a power exchange dynamic with her husband. 🔥 Chrystal dishes on Fat Con highlights, from powerful rope performances and fat-positive representation to surprise celebrity run-ins and fat joy in full bloom. 🎤 Merf also recounts a powerful, impromptu fat liberation speech she gave to a room full of doctors—and the ripple effe...2025-03-2348 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastFat, Flexible, & Fabulous; Stretching For Better SexSend us a textAre you really old… or do you just need to stretch? 🤔 In this episode, we chat with Vera from Flexibility with Vera, a flexibility trainer who helps folks—yes, including fat folks—move with more ease, less pain, and maybe even spice things up in the bedroom. 💃🔥Vera shares her journey from diet-culture burnout to discovering joyful movement, how stretching helped heal her chronic pain, and why everyone (yes, that means you) can improve their flexibility—without needing to be a yoga-loving pretzel. We also get into sexier topi...2025-02-2249 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastParty in Your Panties – The Hottest Toys with Lovehoney’s Kim CardSend us a text💋 *We’re back, baby!* Season 4 kicks off with a bang—literally—as we dive into the world of pleasure products with the fabulous **Kim Card** from **Lovehoney**! This episode is packed with laughs, lube, and next-level orgasms as we put some of Lovehoney’s hottest toys to the test.🔥 **What’s inside this steamy episode?** - The new *Blend* toy (a.k.a. *Finish Her*), why it's a *game-changer* for blended orgasms, and how it rocked our worlds. - The science behind **Womanizer’s Pleasure Air Technology** and why it’s giving our clit...2025-02-071h 06
Big Sexy Chat PodcastSex, Health, and Fatness: A Look Back at 2024’s Biggest MomentsSend us a textThis episode reflects on the significant milestones and conversations that shaped the fat community in 2024. From exploring the impact of sexual wellness products to discussing the complexities of dating and health, we take a look back at the triumphs and trials that defined our year.• Recap of the year and its highlights • Exploration of sexual wellness and enjoyment • Personal stories about dating in the digital age • Conversations surrounding menopause and health awareness • Celebration of Tigress’ Time Magazine feature • Discussion on medical anti-fatness and healthcare biases • Insight into polyamory...2025-01-0948 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastThe Fat Five Roundtable: Podcasting For ChangeSend us a textIn this special roundtable episode, we welcomed an all-star lineup of fat podcasters to discuss the state of fat liberation, the impact of fat-focused media in 2024, and their bold goals for 2025. Featuring Dr. Krista Nabar and Suzy Hooker from Fat and Fucked and Ronald Young Jr. from Weight for It, this episode is a celebration of fat voices in podcasting and a call to action for a more inclusive future.Join us as we talk about the political power of podcasts, the nuanced challenges of fat liberation, the impact of weight-loss...2025-01-0339 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastKnot Your Average Art: Shibari for Every Body and IdentitySend us a textBec, a non-binary and body-inclusive rope artist, shares their compelling journey with Shibari, challenging misconceptions and celebrating its transformative power. Discover how this age-old Japanese practice transcends mere aesthetics, offering a meditative and empowering experience that embraces all body types and identities. Bec's personal stories weave through themes of fat acceptance and gender identity, revealing how shibari can be a path to self-acceptance and personal growth.Eager to refine your shibari skills or just starting your journey? Our conversation takes you through the ropes—literally. With practical advice on selecting the ri...2024-12-1543 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastHealthcare Havoc: Breaking Bias for Size-Inclusive CareSend us a textRegan Chastain, a powerhouse advocate for fat liberation, joins us to tackle the insidious nature of medical weight bias and the challenges it presents in everyday scenarios, from healthcare settings to holiday gatherings with family. Discover strategies to combat unwelcome comments about your body, especially during Thanksgiving, and learn witty comebacks and boundary-setting techniques that empower you to manage those awkward family moments with confidence.Our conversation shines a light on the alarming impact of weight bias in healthcare, where corporate interests have influenced perceptions and practices that disadvantage higher-weight individuals...2024-12-041h 06
Big Sexy Chat PodcastFat And Fabulous: From Influencers To TV Show TakedownsSend us a textAre societal stereotypes about body image and size finally being dismantled in pop culture? Join us on Big Sexy Chat as we celebrate both the triumphs and setbacks of fat representation in media. We kick off with an enthusiastic spotlight on Michelle Buteau’s "Survival of the Thickest," applauding its clever writing and diverse cast, while lamenting the loss of "Somebody Somewhere," a gem in queer culture representation. Our conversation turns somber as we dissect Ryan Murphy's "Grotesquery," critiquing its harmful depiction of fat characters through outdated stereotypes.Shifting gears, we tackle th...2024-10-2652 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastClitoracy: A Journey Through Pleasure’s Hidden HistorySend us a textDiscover the secrets and mysteries of female anatomy that will make you question everything you thought you knew. Prepare for a mix of humor and enlightenment as we kick off with a bizarre tale of a book club member with two vaginas, leading us into a fascinating discussion about the clitoris and its complex history. From Matteo Columbo’s supposed "discovery" in 1559 to the ancient understanding of this unique organ, we unravel the misconceptions and the ongoing societal struggle to properly recognize female pleasure. You'll laugh, you'll learn, and you might just find yourself am...2024-10-0542 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastPsychic, Spicy, Fierce Fatty: A Grim GuideSend us a textEver wondered how reclaiming the word "fat" can become a badge of pride and empowerment? Our latest episode of Big Sexy Chat welcomes Grim, a multifaceted powerhouse and celebrated figure in the fat-positive community. Join us as Grim takes us through her eclectic journey from retail management to becoming a spicy model, psychic death doula, and burlesque performer. Discover how she built a significant following on platforms like OnlyFans and created a welcoming community with her weekly $10 tarot readings that celebrate fierce fat positivity and diversity.Grim opens up about her transition...2024-09-1249 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastScale Fail: How Medical Fatphobia is Weighing Us DownSend us a textWhat if your weight didn't define your healthcare? In this eye-opening episode of Big Sexy Chat, we're joined by the empathetic and brilliant Dr. Robert, a board-certified family physician committed to eradicating medical fat phobia. He shares his journey of creating a practice where patients of all sizes feel heard and respected, revealing the profound impact of not attributing every health issue to weight. You'll hear the touching story of Asherlee, who found solace in Dr. Robert's unique approach, and discover why finding a doctor like him is a rare treasure....2024-08-301h 10
Big Sexy Chat PodcastPoly Want A Throuple? Myths, Love, and All the FeelsSend us a textWhat if the love you sought could be found in multiples? Join Merf and Asherlee, our phenomenal producer and editor, as she unravels the complexities of polyamory. Asherlee, who steps in for Chrystal in this episode, shares her personal journey into polyamory, distinguishing it from swinging and revealing the dynamics of her own relationships, including her unique satellite connections. From the importance of responsible relationship management to the necessity of open, honest communication, this discussion offers a wealth of practical insights for anyone curious about or involved in polyamorous relationships.Have...2024-08-1858 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastSquirt Talk: Female Ejaculation Demystified with Kim Airs, Sex Industry IconSend us a textEver wondered about the hidden secrets of female ejaculation? Join us on Big Sexy Chat as we welcome the passionate and knowledgeable Kim Airs, who takes us on a journey from her mundane marriage to becoming a sex industry veteran. Kim shares her captivating experiences from the late '80s involving public sex, sex toys, and porn, leading to the opening of her own store, Grand Opening. Discover her adventures in California and her extensive work with major sex toy manufacturers, all while riding her motorcycle and living out her dreams....2024-08-0552 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastDearest Gentle Listeners: From Bridgerton To Diverse SexualitiesSend us a textEver wondered how TV shows like Bridgerton are reshaping our perceptions of body positivity and sexuality? Join us as we uncover Nicola Coughlin's empowering stance on body image and her witty response to the press, all while debating Hollywood's narrow definition of plus size. We also tackle the evolving portrayal of sex scenes in Bridgerton, noting the community's mixed reactions to the shift away from explicit content. Our admiration for Nicola shines through as we advocate for more diverse body representations on the small screen.Shifting gears, we celebrate Nicola Coughlin...2024-07-0653 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastTigress Roars: From Time Magazine's Health 100 to Fat LiberationSend us a textEver wondered what it takes to challenge societal norms and gain recognition for advocating fat acceptance? Meet Tigress Osborn, the Executive Director of NAAFA, who has recently made it to Time Magazine's prestigious Health 100 list. Join us for an invigorating conversation as Tigress shares her personal journey in combating size discrimination, the thrill of being spotlighted in Time, and the vital role of fat-positive language in mainstream media.Our deep dive into the pervasive impact of size discrimination uncovers heartfelt anecdotes from Tigress and other fat activists. From microaggressions in everyday...2024-06-151h 00
Big Sexy Chat PodcastJoyful Inclusive Movement: Wendy's Journey to Fat-Positive FitnessSend us a textEmbark on an enlightening journey with Wendy, the visionary behind Joyful Inclusive Movement, as she opens up about her path to becoming a fat-positive personal trainer and beacon for body liberation. This episode isn't just a chat; it's a heartfelt exploration of Wendy's transformation from struggling with an eating disorder to empowering others to find joy in movement, regardless of body size. Through her candid recount of overcoming workplace toxicity and her battle with ADHD, Wendy inspires a shift in the fitness narrative, advocating for a world where every type of body is...2024-05-0557 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastGlitz, Glam, and Community Impact: What's New For The Full Figured Industry AwardsSend us a textStep into the glimmering world of the Full Figured Industry Awards, where Tawana Blassingame, the founder and force of nature behind the event, joins us to share the sparkle and substance of the latest celebration. As we unpack the 2023 awards, the conversation glides from the heartfelt acceptance speeches to the meticulous process that ensures each nominee is duly recognized. Our own encounter with the nomination system takes center stage, revealing how adjustments in the process have elevated the fairness and prestige of these accolades.Surprises are the heartbeat of any awards...2024-04-1038 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastNacho Everyday Pick-Up Line: Dating While FatSend us a textHave you ever swiped right and felt a world of judgment staring back at you? Victoria Nachos joins us on Big Sexy Chat to candidly unfold the plus-size dating diaries with humor and bold truth that will leave you both roaring with laughter and nodding in solidarity. From her anonymous blogging roots to authoring books on sex and dating, Victoria brings to light the thrills and spills of seeking love online while embracing every gorgeous curve.This episode isn't just about anecdotes; it's an exploration of the digital dating landscape that...2024-03-311h 00
Big Sexy Chat PodcastUnapologetically Fatastic: Stories of Empowerment From Fat ConSend us a textOur first treasure trove of conversations from Fat Con is kicking off with Briq House, a Seattle-based erotic entrepreneur whose mission is to celebrate sexuality and foster sexual healing in black and brown communities. From the pulse-racing finale of Fat Con's fashion show to the critical discussions around safe, sex-positive spaces, we navigate the intersections of fat positivity, identity, and community empowerment with our guests, leading us through a series of transformative and heartening insights.This episode isn't just about the defiance it represents; it's about the local ripples of impact...2024-03-2053 min
Big Sexy Chat PodcastMidlife Mayhem: Embracing the Chaos of Perimenopause & BeyondSend us a textAs we traverse the shifting sands of perimenopause and menopause, it can often feel like uncharted territory. That's why we invited Karelin, a licensed marriage and family therapist and menopause coach, to walk us through this landscape with humor, empathy, and a treasure trove of expertise. Her voice joins ours in a chorus that sings of the complexities, the emotional rollercoaster, and the surprisingly sparse map of information that leaves so many women feeling lost. We're here to place more markers on that map, to share anecdotes that echo your own, and to...2024-02-161h 02
Big Sexy Chat PodcastUnwrapping Pleasure: 3 Fatties, 4 ToysSend us a textEver wondered if those high-end sex toys are really the key to unlocking uncharted territories of pleasure? Well, buckle up, because we've got the lowdown on the latest gadgets from We-Vibe and Womanizer that might just revolutionize your Valentine's Day—and every steamy session thereafter. Your favorite trio, Chrystal, Merf, and the ever-efficient Asherlee, bring you unfiltered insights and hearty laughs as we dissect everything from the "USS Orgasm" to app-controlled titillators that could make even the most stoic of us blush.This episode isn't just about getting off; it's a tr...2024-02-071h 05