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The Leader in You49. What’s Breaking Your Company Culture And How to Fix ItBreakups don’t just happen in romantic relationships—they happen in companies, too. In this episode, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina expose the top cause of a culture “breakup”: surprise and emotional disconnection between leaders and their teams.From sudden reorganizations to poor communication, they reveal how these hidden patterns quietly unravel trust—and how to rebuild it using emotional safety, vulnerability, and attachment-based communication. This episode gives you the words, tools, and insights to stop the breakup... and start the reconnection.The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants...2025-06-0538 min

Leadership Launchpad – Team Development, & Performance Improvement for Aerospace & Technology ManagersUnlocking Team Engagement Through Trust with Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina MarianIn this episode, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina Marian from EMC Leaders discuss the impact of relationships and emotional connection within teams and organizations. Drawing on their experience working with technical and creative teams, they highlight how unresolved conflicts and a lack of emotional awareness can lead to disengagement, decreased productivity, and high turnover. The guests introduce their structured approach to building trust, increasing self-awareness, and repairing broken relationships in the workplace. They also share actionable steps for leaders and managers to create emotionally safe environments, emphasizing the value of vulnerability and clear communication. Listeners will gain insights into...2025-06-0333 min

The Leader in You48. It Was Just a Question-Until It Wasn’tIn this eye-opening episode, Dr. Lola and Polina unpack a real-life workplace conflict that began with a simple question — and rippled into a breakdown of emotional safety across an entire team. What seems like a harmless inquiry during a team meeting turns into a deeper exploration of fear, miscommunication, and the hidden impact of emotional disconnection.Discover how leaders and teams can break the attack-defend cycle, rebuild trust through reconnection, and use the power of emotional awareness to transform team dynamics.Plus, a first look at Dr. Lola’s new book, Evolve: How to Lead with...2025-05-2538 min

The Leader in You47. Day 4 - 5 Quick Wins to Better Manage Team ConflictWe're here for our last day at the ATD conference and excited to share the recap of our Authors Chat session this morning on the 5 Quick Wins to Better Manage Team Conflict! Make sure to listen to the end for the opportunity to get the link for a FREE Team Emotional Safety Assessment Tool!The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team. 2025-05-2017 min

The Leader in You46. Day 3 ATD Recap - Therapy is Like Skin CareDay 3 ATD Recap Takeaways: Our perspective and experience on day 3, sharing our favorite takeaways from these speakers, and our participation in a podcast with Matt Gjersten from Leadership LaunchpadSimone Biles Matt GjerstenScott BlanchardThe Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team. CONNECT:WebsiteFacebookTwitterLinkedInYouTube Channel Connect with D...2025-05-1917 min

The Leader in You45. Day 2: Ahhh!! We can't believe this happened!!When we thought we were fully prepared, it turned out we were in the wrong room. Mistakes happen all the time, luckily, we had the process to work with our difficult feelings and keep going anyway!The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team. CONNECT:WebsiteFacebookTwitterLinkedInYouTube Channel ...2025-05-1806 min

The Leader in You44. ATD Conference Day 1: Six Steps to Resolving ConflictsDay 1 at the ATD Conference: Special 4 Series Mini Podcast during our stay in Washington DC and our attendance at the ATD conference!! The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team. CONNECT:WebsiteFacebookTwitterLinkedInYouTube Channel Connect with Dr. Lola Gershfeld: LinkedIn: Dr. Lola GershfeldInstagram: @d...2025-05-1812 min

The Leader in You43. When Family Becomes Business: Tragedy to TriumphWhat happens when unresolved childhood wounds resurface at work? In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Lola and Polina explore the emotional complexity of family-run businesses, the myth of “leaving emotions at the door,” and how emotional connection can rebuild trust and success.⏱️ Episode Highlights:04:00 – Two sisters take over their father's company—and old pain resurfaces08:00 – Why “leave your ego at the door” is a myth that doesn't last13:30 – The limits of cognitive change without emotional healing16:45 – Emotions as the gateway to safety and long-term connection22:30 – Lola’s own story of fami...2025-05-1435 min

The Leader in You42. Undercover EmC: Investigating Team DisconnectionIn this high-energy, insight-packed episode of The Leader in You, Polina and Dr. Lola Gershfeld dive deep into how emotional disconnection acts like a virus in organizations—hijacking collaboration, clarity, and trust. Discover how to diagnose, understand, and heal emotional safety issues using the TESSA assessment. From a playful pitch about “undercover EmC agents” to powerful analogies about health and team dynamics, this episode will change the way you see workplace conflict.⏱️ Timestamps:[00:29] Welcome & Polina’s “Undercover Boss” idea[03:57] What is TESA and how it helps identify emotional safety gaps[07...2025-05-0730 min

The Leader in You41. Calming the Storm: Navigating and De-escalating Customer AggressionIn this episode of The Leader in You Podcast, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina dive deep into an insightful real-world scenario of dealing with an aggressive customer interaction. Polina shares a personal experience in a retail environment, where her skills in emotional awareness, self-regulation, and empathy allowed her to effectively defuse a tense situation. This engaging discussion reveals practical insights on recognizing emotional triggers, managing conflicts constructively, and fostering a psychologically safe workplace environment. Join us to discover actionable steps and emotional tools to transform difficult customer interactions into meaningful connections.Topics Covered (with timestamps):2025-05-0132 min

The Leader in You40. The Ripple Effects of Incivility: Why You Hate Your JobWhy do we lose motivation, dread team meetings, or feel exhausted just walking into work? In this powerful episode of The Leader in You podcast, co-hosts Paulina and Dr. Lola Gershfeld unpack the true cost of workplace incivility—and it goes far beyond what we see on the surface.Inspired by the short film Ripples and a riveting panel at SIOP 2025, this conversation explores how even subtle moments of disrespect or misattuned leadership can create a wave of emotional disconnection, leading to stress, disengagement, and turnover.🎯 You’ll learn:What incivility really looks like (hint: i...2025-04-1631 min

The Leader in You39. Is Lying Getting You Where You Want to Be at Work?This episode of The Leader in You Podcast discusses the vital role of trust in workplace relationships.Dr. Lola Gershfeld, Polina Marian, and Chip Simmons dive deep into how trust is not just about behavior but about authentic emotional connection and how the EmC process transforms the way organizations build and sustain trust. They explore real-life stories, including lessons from Chip's 9,000-person training journey, reducing turnover, and even making layoffs more human and healing. They emphasize that secure relationships drive performance, accountability, and well-being.Tune into the episode to learn how...2025-04-0141 min

The Leader in You38. We Can't Believe FranklinCovey is Teaching This!This episode of The Leader in You Podcast discusses effective leadership and emotional connection strategies inspired by FranklinCovey's recent conference.Lola and Polina explore delivering feedback effectively, nurturing human connections in remote work environments, and the role of emotional safety in team dynamics. They emphasize that genuine care and vulnerability are essential for effective leadership and team performance.Tune into the episode to learn how to build emotional safety, deliver feedback that strengthens relationships, and maintain genuine connections even while working remotely.In this episode, we talk about:[00:00...2025-03-1828 min

The Leader in You37. We Resolved The Conflict Between President Trump and President Zelensky!In a recent Oval Office meeting, President Trump, Vice President Vance, and President Zelensky found themselves locked in a tense exchange—one that perfectly illustrates the negative cycle that derails communication, fuels mistrust, and blocks collaboration.The conversation quickly spiraled into blame, frustration, and defensiveness, mirroring the destructive pattern known as Find the Bad Guy—where the main move is mutual attack, accusation, or blame.🔴 The problem? When we feel hurt or vulnerable, we instinctively react with self...2025-03-0534 min

The Leader in You36. The Power of Emotional Awareness: Transforming Workplace & Personal RelationshipsThis episode of The Leader in You Podcast explores the power of emotional awareness to foster stronger relationships in the workplace and at home.Dr. Lola Gershfeld, Polina Marian, and Niamh Hannan discuss how the Emotional Connection (EmC) process creates safety for emotional expression, helps identify underlying emotions, and improves professional and personal relationships. They highlight how emotions impact workplace performance, parenting, and overall well-being.Tune into the episode to learn how emotional awareness can transform leadership, enhance connection, and improve communication at work and home.In this episode, we talk about:[00:00] 2025-02-2430 min

The Leader in You35. The Top Communication Mistake in Teams: Not Responding and How to Overcome ItDid you know the most common communication mistake in the workplace is not responding? It leads to disconnection, misunderstanding, and emotional distress.In Episode #35 of The Leader in You Podcast, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and her daughter Polina explore how to uncover emotional triggers, repair relationships, and foster thriving teams.➡️ The Top Communication Mistake: Not Responding (1:48 - 3:22)➡️ Understanding Why People Don’t Respond (5:26 - 8:09)➡️ The Slow Motion Camera Tool (8:25 - 10:39)➡️ Repairing Emotional Injuries in Teams (13:21 - 15:51)➡️ The Role of Trainers and Managers (17:50 - 22:34)2025-01-2424 min

The Leader in You34. Transforming Workplace Culture with EmC CertificationIn this episode, Jenna Wohlwend hosts an engaging conversation with Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Niamh Hannan, a Certified EmC Trainer, exploring the Emotional Connection (EmC) certification process—a proven framework for cultivating emotionally intelligent and connected workplace cultures.Niamh Hannan, a certified EmC trainer, shares her powerful experiences and insights on how EmC has transformed her work in corporate and leadership development.Together, they delve into the importance of emotional connection, revealing how the EmC process equips leaders with practical tools to navigate complex relationships while boosting employee engagement, strengthening team cohesion, and enhancing training ou...2024-11-1948 min

The Leader in You33. Mental Health in the WorkplaceIn this episode, we address the growing importance of mental health at work, especially in the wake of rising post-pandemic stress. Join us as we explore three key areas where leaders can make a difference:The Rising Tide of Workplace Stress (3:05 – 5:42)Workplace stress is surging, with 41% of employees at peak levels. Relational conflicts compound stresses, making emotional well-being a top priority.Emotional Well-being as the Foundation (5:42 – 16:14)Emotional well-being underpins mental health. Disengagement often signals poor mental health, stemming from disconnection with colleagues or managers.The Power of Secure Relationships (19:24 – 31:51)Secure relationships are essent...2024-10-2546 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE54: Empowering Female Leaders with Jenny MitchellOn this episode of the Lead with Heart podcast, I am beyond excited to have Jenny Mitchell as my guest. Jenny is the chief visionary officer and founder of Chavender where she works closely with not-for-profit leaders to change the world one mission at a time.Jenny recently released her book, Embracing Ambition: Empowering Women to Step Out, Be Seen, & Lead, and she is sharing some insights from it with us today. This episode is full of practical advice for women in leadership roles. In this episode:[04:14] The value of an executive coach[08:45...2024-08-2044 min

The Leader in You32. Fostering Healing Connections: Relationship-Based Care® in LeadershipThis episode is dedicated to professionals who strive to create secure relationships within their teams and with their patients. With a very special guest, Mary Koloroutis, we talk about “Fostering Healing Connections: Relationship-Based Care® in Leadership.” Mary is the past CEO of Creative Health Care Management (CHCM), where she facilitated remarkable results, including improved patient engagement, clinician satisfaction, and a more resource-efficient work environment. As a leader at CHCM, Mary excelled in staff and team development and work process improvements.With CHCM, Mary engaged leaders throughout organizations by providing relationship-based consultation services, innovative educati...2024-08-1449 min

ATD Accidental TrainerRepair Disconnected Workplace Relationships with Lola GershfeldLearn how to break up emotional disconnection and repair workplace relationships with organizational psychologist Lola Gershfeld, founder of EMC Leaders. Discover the evergreen importance of emotional intelligence, how to disrupt negative relationship patterns, and practical steps to build stronger connections within your team. We delve into building emotional connection training and explore metrics to measure its effectiveness. Resources: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lolagershfeld EmC Leaders: https://emcleaders.com/ TD Magazine article : https://www.td.org/magazines/td-magazine/together-everyone-achieves-more Emotional Connection Book: https://emcleaders.com/emotional-connection-book 2024-07-1754 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE47: Cultivating Effective Leadership and a Positive Organizational Culture with Executive Coach Steve SmithWelcome back to the Lead with Heart podcast! Today I'm excited to share insights from Steve Smith, Executive Coach and founder of Growth Source Coaching. With over 40 years of business experience, Steve has helped countless leaders improve their skills and build thriving organizations. We discuss the challenges nonprofit leaders face in developing effective leadership and positive cultures. Learn how Steve's coaching approach can help you empower your team and take your impact to the next level.In this episode:[01:34] Steve’s background and how he ended up founding Growth Source Coaching[05:00] Leadership Co...2024-07-0243 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE46: Volunteer Fundraisers: The Key to Strengthening Your Nonprofit with Rob WebbIn today’s episode, guest Rob Webb, a seasoned nonprofit consultant with over 35 years of experience, discusses the sustainability of fundraising efforts through volunteer-led campaigns. By empowering volunteer leaders to spearhead fundraising initiatives, nonprofits can navigate challenges stemming from staff turnover more effectively.Rob discusses defining a culture of philanthropy over charity and the importance of passion for the mission. We discussed key techniques like making the ask comfortable, involving all organization levels, and viewing rejection as an opportunity. In this episode:[7:21] Defining the culture of philanthropy vs charity and the importance of pa...2024-06-1843 min

Happier At Work®Bonus Episode: Cultivating Self-AwarenessThis is a synopsis of the key points of my conversation with Nia Thomas, Director of a children's charity and host of the "Knowing Self, Knowing Others" podcast.If you haven't listened to that episode yet, go and give it a listen and let me know what you think.The main points throughout this podcast include:The importance of self-awareness and making conscious choices about behavior, especially in the workplace.The challenges of giving and receiving feedback, and provides strategies for delivering tough feedback as a line manager.The constant movement between internal and...2024-06-1008 min

Happier At Work®208: How can you embrace neurodiversity in the workplace?In the latest solo episode of the Happier at Work podcast, I shed light on an important topic that is gaining more recognition in workplaces around the world - neurodiversity.Neurodiversity encompasses a range of neurological differences, including autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and more. These differences are natural variations of the human brain, each bringing unique strengths and challenges to the table.In this episode I delve into the world of neurodiversity, sharing personal insights and discussing how embracing neurodiversity can lead to a more innovative, inclusive, and productive work environment.My own journey...2024-05-3113 min

Happier At Work®Bonus Episode: Gender Equality and Inclusive LeadershipThe main points throughout this podcast include:The crucial role of change management and leadership skills development in driving organisational transformation.Evolving attitudes towards work-life balance, the value of recognition in the workplace, and the impact of diverse leadership perspectives.The importance of engaging male leaders in fostering a culture of vulnerability and empathy.The challenges and opportunities surrounding gender equality.The importance of recognising and addressing gender influences across diverse cultures and backgrounds.Connect with RobertLinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/robert-baker-potentia-talent-consultingTwitter: @robertbkrDo you...2024-05-2711 min

The Leader in You31. The Foundation of the EmC Process - Dedication to Dr. Sue JohnsonEvery now and then, someone comes along who completely transforms the way we understand interactions, relationships, and the conflicts within them. Traditionally dominated by classical behavioral approaches and changing mindsets, Dr. Sue Johnson viewed relationships not as bargains but as bonds.Inspired by John Bowlby, the father of attachment theory, Sue blazed a trail that revolutionized the field of relationships. This transformation began in the 1980s.Today, no relationship model has more robust outcome studies than Sue’s work on emotionally focused therapy (EFT) for couples. Sue has authored many books, including Hold Me Tight an...2024-05-2354 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE44: Unleashing Women's Leadership Potential with Lydia Knight, Founder and CEO of The She CenterLydia Knight is the founder and CEO of The She Center, an internationally recognized eating disorder expert and a pioneer in the field of female empowerment. Lydia discusses applying neuroscience principles to reprogram limiting beliefs around thoughts, emotions, and leadership. We discussed the importance of creating psychologically safe environments where difficult emotions can be faced directly. Our conversation delves into fostering inclusive cultures and unlocking women's leadership potential in nonprofits.Listen now to feel both empowered and inspired.In this episode:[06:26] Thought patterns influence our emotions and physical health[11:45] Getting to the root...2024-05-2147 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE43: Strategies For Reducing Burnout and Turnover in Nonprofits with Patton McDowell, founder of PMA Nonprofit LeadershipToday, on the Lead with Heart podcast, I’m selfishly so excited to have Patton McDowell on the show and to share our conversation with you. We are discussing his path to becoming a leader in the nonprofit sector and the lessons he has learned over his career.Focusing on why nonprofit leaders often face high turnover, we talk about things like unrealistic expectations, generational shifts, and lack of professional development opportunities. We chatted about practical tools and resources nonprofit pros can apply to strengthen their skills and experience – such as building a personal board of directors and p...2024-05-0744 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE42: Empowering Nonprofit Leadership Development and Growth with Kristin Harrington, Partner at Lead StarIn this episode of the Lead with Heart podcast, I’m having a meaningful conversation with leadership and strategy advisor Kristen Harrington. We delve into Kristen's unique journey into nonprofit leadership, the importance of culture and workforce development, and funding strategies for enhancing an organization's impact.Highlighting the challenges faced by nonprofit professionals in leadership roles, our discussion covered themes of innovation, the significance of fostering a culture of safety and belonging, and the crucial role of having a people focused strategy.Tune in for practical advice specially crafted for nonprofit leaders aiming to drive meaningful change – star...2024-04-2342 min

The Leader in You30. Emotional Connection in Leadership: Unleashing Potential and Fostering InnovationThis episode of The Leader in You Podcast marks the third anniversary of the book Emotional Connection: The EmC Strategy. Co-authors Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Ramin Sedehi discuss the profound role emotional connection plays in effective leadership. Ramin reflects on his personal journey to becoming a visionary leader and his partnership with EmC, emphasizing that leadership is more about being in service to others and seeing the unseen rather than acquiring it off the shelf. Lola shares her motivations for co-authoring the book, which arose from her experiences with miscommunication and conflict in the workplace...2024-04-2159 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE41: Reduce CEO Burnout and Boost Board Engagement with Sabrina Hernandez, CEO of Supporting World HopeWelcome back to the Lead with Heart podcast. I’m thrilled to have Sabrina Walker Hernandez on the show today. Sabrina is the president and CEO of Supporting World Hope, a nonprofit and mission-driven consulting agency that specializes in providing strategic planning, leadership development, and board education services to other nonprofits and mission-driven organizations. Sabrina emphasizes that simple steps like building relationships with board members, setting clear expectations, and prioritizing vision and strategy over reactivity can reduce CEO stress and burnout and enhance organizational effectiveness. She believes that nonprofit success depends on supporting leaders both professionally and personally....2024-04-0942 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE40: The “Six Thinking Hats” Approach to Inclusive And Thoughtful Meetings with Author Joshua BerryToday, on the Lead with Heart podcast, we are discussing authentic leadership with my guest Joshua Berry, author of "Dare to Be Naive: How to Find Your True Self in a Noisy World." In this episode, Joshua shares his journey from international business to entrepreneurship, offering insights gained from working with organizations like the Ritz Carlton Hotel Company and Mercedes Benz. Discover how Joshua's experiences shaped his understanding of leadership and culture, and learn practical strategies for nurturing a values-driven workplace. Whether you're a seasoned leader or an aspiring entrepreneur, this conversation is packed with actionable tips...2024-03-2646 min

The Leader in You29. Avoiding the Negative Cycle on a Nonprofit TeamIn this insightful podcast episode, Jenna Wohlwend and Lola Gershfeld are joined by Haley Cooper, CEO of Savvy Fundraiser, to explore the unique challenges faced by nonprofit organizations. Through engaging in conversation, they delve into the importance of emotional connection, effective communication, and conflict resolution within nonprofit teams. Drawing from their experiences, they share valuable strategies for fostering collaboration, advocating for professional development, and driving organizational success. Tune into the episode to learn the transformative power of building authentic relationships, fostering emotional connection, and prioritizing personal growth within nonprofit organizations.In thi...2024-03-2534 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE38: Navigating Anxiety as a Nonprofit Leader with Dr. Robyn GrahamWelcome back to the Lead with Heart podcast. I am so honored to have Dr. Robyn Graham on the podcast today to talk about anxiety and leadership. Robyn is a marketing and lead generation strategist, host of a globally acclaimed podcast, and best-selling author.Many of you will know that anxiety is something I have been dealing with personally eight months postpartum. So selfishly, I'm really excited to have this conversation to pick Dr. Robyn’s brain but also to provide some insight into navigating anxiety as a nonprofit leader.In this episode:...2024-02-2748 min

The Leader in You28. Intensive Team SessionsThis episode of The Leader in You Podcast discusses the benefits of intensive team sessions to improve productivity and trust. Dr. Gershfeld explains that when toxicity or finger-pointing occurs, addressing the underlying relationship disconnect is key to repairing those relationships and changing negative patterns that the company may be stuck in.In this episode, we talk about:[01:47] What are intensive team sessions?[04:55] How is it different from regular conflict resolution training?[09:40] What is the benefit of using intensive?[21:43] Key takeawayThe Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone w...2024-02-2623 min

The Leader in You27. Not Feeling Great at Work? Understanding Emotions and Relationships.In this podcast episode 27, titled "Not Feeling Great at Work? Understanding Emotions and Relationships," Jenna and Dr. Lola explored the profound impact of emotions and relationships on individuals' well-being and productivity in the workplace. They discussed why some people may not feel great at work, touching on feelings of unappreciation, rejection, undervaluation, and being underestimated.In this episode, we talk about:[01:55]The role of emotions at work.[04:09]Attachment theory and emotions.[19:10]Empathy and positive affect[26:50]Three Phrases for LeadersThe Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to...2024-02-0129 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE36: Creating an Inclusive Work Environment in Your Nonprofit with Carmita Semaan, founder and CEO of the Surge InstituteWelcome back to the Lead with Heart podcast. Today, I have Carmita Semaan, founder and CEO of the Surge Institute, on the podcast. The Surge Institute focuses on educating and developing leaders of color – who can then create transformative change for young people, their families, and our broader communities.We talk about empowering leaders of color, creating a safe space for people to share their stories, uncovering inclusivity gaps in your organization, and more.In this episode:[01:21] Carmita’s path to nonprofit leadership and why she founded the Surge Institute[06:03] Empowering leaders of c...2024-01-3044 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE35: What's a Fractional Executive or Fractional Fundraiser? With Cindy Wagman, founder of The Fractional Fundraising MovementWelcome back to the Lead with Heart podcast. I’m so excited to have Cindy Wagman as my guest today. Cindy serves nonprofits and nonprofit consultants and she's the founder of the Fractional Fundraising Movement that connects small nonprofits to the fractional fundraisers that serve them. And that's what we're going to be talking about today.We cover what a fractional fundraiser is, how they can contribute to organizational growth and transformation, the challenges they may face, and more.In this episode:[01:27] Cindy’s background in the nonprofit space[04:38] What is a frac...2024-01-1642 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE34: Cultivating Courageous Leadership in Nonprofit Fundraising with Major Gift Strategist Julie OrdoñezWelcome back to the Lead with Heart podcast. My guest today is Julie Ordoñez, the founder of Courage Lab. Julie is a major gifts strategist and expert advisor who helps nonprofit leaders learn the strategies and practice the habits to overcome their fear of asking for more and raise major gifts.We talk about major gift fundraising leadership, the essential qualities needed for nonprofit leaders to succeed, how to form 'mission-rooted friendships' with donors, and so much more.In this episode:[01:13] Julie’s path to fundraising[06:37] Key principles of major gift fun...2024-01-0246 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE33: Expanding Your Board’s Fundraising through Connection with Best-Selling Author & Fundraiser Darian R. HeymanWelcome back to the Lead with Heart podcast. I'm having a total pinch-me moment because I have Darian Rodriguez Heyman on the podcast today. A lot of his work has been foundational in my career.Darian is an accomplished fundraiser, social entrepreneur, and best-selling author. He has co-founded several social impact conference series, is an in-demand fundraising consultant, and is a frequent keynote speaker at social impact events around the globe.We talk about how valuable strong leadership is in a nonprofit, navigating effective meetings, how to manage stress while facilitating an organization that can...2023-12-1944 min

The Leader in You26. Am I Being Childish?In this episode of the "Leader in You" podcast, Jenna and Dr. Lola explore the impact of childhood behaviors in the workplace and challenge the notion that emotions should be suppressed professionally. They discuss the importance of understanding and embracing emotions, shedding light on the negative effects of demeaning comments and the need for a balanced approach to emotional expression. The podcast emphasizes the role of co-regulation, creating a safe space for emotional communication, and the transformative potential of acknowledging and valuing emotions in the workplace. In this episode, we talk about:[01:16]Childhood behaviors in...2023-12-0527 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE32: Co-Creation and Connection with The CEO of Thrive Impact Tucker WannamakerWelcome back to the Lead with Heart podcast! Today, I have Tucker Wannamaker on the podcast with me and I'm so excited because we have a lot in common – so this will be a good conversation.Tucker is the CEO of Thrive Impact, and he is working to right the injustices happening against nonprofit leaders and solve nonprofit leader burnout for those in some of the toughest leadership conditions. He believes that burnout is the enemy of creating positive change. We talk about the injustices that are happening against nonprofit leaders, how nonprofits can embody their mission in...2023-12-0553 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE31: Navigating Disagreements And Making Unlikely Allies in a Polarized Society with The CEO of dream.org Nisha AnandHello everyone and welcome back to the Lead with Heart Podcast. Today, I am so honored to have Nisha Anand, CEO of dream.org with me. Nisha is an Indian American activist and is known as a leader in cultivating unlikely and unconventional partnerships to create change. We talk about the beauty of disagreement, finding common ground to create change, and the leadership lessons Nisha has learned along her journey from a grassroots activist to the leader of an organization that creates system-level change. In this episode:[01:50] Nisha’s background: Identity, activism, an...2023-11-2144 min

Happier At Work®181: Exploring Leading Indicators for Happier Workplaces with Zach MercurioHow do you create more significance in your work? In this episode of Happier at Work, host Aoife O'Brien welcomes Zach Mercurio, a renowned expert in organisational purpose, meaningful work, and leadership. Zach shares his deep insights on how to find purpose and meaning in the workplace and create a work environment that brings out the best in everyone.Zach's passion for values-driven leadership shines through as he highlights the importance of optimising interactions and equipping leaders to create meaningfulness, safety, availability, and support. He encourages us to shift our focus from short-term solutions like signing bonuses...2023-11-1051 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE30: Creating Clarity Internally at Your Nonprofit with Jordana Merkin from Voice for GoodHello everyone and welcome back to the Lead with Heart podcast. I am so excited and honored to have Jordana Merkin from Voice for Good with me today. We’re talking all about creating internal clarity at your nonprofit to improve the effectiveness of your external marketing. After a decade of in-house nonprofit marketing, Jordana founded Voice for Good to bring her insider knowledge and outsider perspective to help growing nonprofits clarify their messaging to connect to those who matter most to achieving their mission. In this episode:[01:55] Jordana’s career history[04:46] How inte...2023-11-0742 min

The Leader in You25. How to Navigate Trauma in the Workplace.During Episode 25 of the Leader in You Podcast, Jenna and Dr. Lola discuss the difficult yet relevant topic of trauma and how we process it in life and the workplace. They talked in depth about how we navigate this territory both personally, biologically, and at work and what companies and leaders can do to support their teams going through it. Whether it’s world news trauma or personal experience trauma, it shapes our emotions, and recognizing it and learning how to tackle it is crucial for healthy people and healthy relationships.In this epis...2023-11-0124 min

The Leader in You24. Feeling Angry at Work? How to Use Attachment Theory to Build Trust and Combat Toxic Work Environments.This episode of The Leader in You Podcast discusses success and failure in the workplace. Lola and Jenna talk about attachment theory and how having secure relationships with managers and coworkers allows employees to feel supported and thrive in their roles. On the other hand, insecure relationships can lead to feelings of failure or anger when disagreements and problems arise.Dr. Gershfeld explains that when toxicity or finger-pointing occurs, addressing the underlying relationship disconnect is key to repairing those relationships and changing negative patterns that the company may be stuck in.In this episode, we...2023-10-2428 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE29: Emotional Intelligence and Leadership with Sonya Perez-Lauterbach, Creator of Leadership AtlasWelcome back to the Lead with Heart Podcast. Today I have Sonya Perez-Lauterbach with me and I am so excited to share this conversation with you because she’s an expert in emotions and leadership. She’s sharing how you can use your emotions to make yourself a better leader.Sonya is the creator of Leadership Atlas, a holistic approach to leadership development that integrates the mental, emotional, and embody aspects of leading. She empowers motivated change agents to move from burnout and self-doubt to leading with competence and clarity.In this episode:[02:58] The...2023-10-2444 min

The Leader in You23. Becoming A Better Coach or Mentor by Understanding Attachment & Emotional ConnectionThis episode of The Leader in You Podcast discusses the importance of emotional connection in the workplace and coaching. Understanding the concepts of attachment and emotional connection can help you become a better coach or mentor.Lola and Gary explore these concepts and some specific techniques for repairing a damaged relationship. They also emphasize how focusing on emotional connection can improve teamwork, reduce conflicts, and build a better organizational culture.By slowing down conversations and exploring each person's emotions, needs, and perspectives, we can nurture our relationships and find new positive ways of engaging with...2023-10-1145 min

Happier At Work®176: Practical Tips for Positive Work Relationships with Aoife O’BrienDo you want to build better relationships at work and have a positive team culture?Link to survey: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/9RLXFY7 In our latest solo episode, host Aoife O'Brien dives into the topic of relationships at work and their significance in shaping our workplace satisfaction. She explores how positive relationships can lead to better teamwork, increased productivity, and reduced stress levels.Aoife emphasises the importance of identifying a person with whom you'd like to improve your relationship at work. It could be a colleague, boss, or senior leader...2023-10-0616 min

The Leader in You22. Are Surface Emotions Really Representative of a Person's Personality?This episode of The Leader in You Podcast discusses emotions in the workplace. Dr. Lola explains that emotions drive our interactions and connections with others. She discusses how understanding primary emotions like fear, sadness, and shame can help people better understand what they're feeling and communicate more effectively. She also talks about surface emotions versus deeper softer emotions, and how slowing down to identify emotions can help people feel less overwhelmed. Tune into this episode to learn how developing emotional intelligence can make teams more productive and collaborative, as well as help people feel happier and grow i...2023-10-0337 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE27: Narrow Down Your Nonprofit's Mission And Purpose with Danielle Judd, founder of 501c3 nonprofit organization FarmHouse RescueOn today’s episode of the Lead with Heart Podcast, I am speaking with the driving force behind FarmHouse Rescue, Danielle Judd. Her remarkable abilities have propelled the organization to new heights, enabling it to make a meaningful impact in the lives of those it serves, and she is going to share just how she does that with us today. We talk about just how important it is to define your nonprofit’s mission and purpose and how to keep that at the forefront of all your decisions.In this episode:[0...2023-09-2645 min

Happier At Work®174: The Role of Emotions in Workplace Dynamics with Dr Lola GershfeldHave you ever been hijacked by your emotions at work? Or stopped to consider the importance of how our emotions shape our experience at work? In this week's episode of the Happier at Work® podcast, my guest is Dr Lola Gershfeld, founder of EmC Leaders, sheds light on the importance of understanding our emotions and attachment styles, and their impact on our workplace relationships. Her unique process helps teams build cohesive interactions, culture, and relationships in the workplace. By teaching techniques such as bonding conversations, sharing emotions, and identifying automatic thoughts, we can restructure our i...2023-09-2255 min

The Leader in You21. New Job? New Boss? Why Millenials Experience Fear in The Workplace And How We Can Handle That BetterThis episode of The Leader in You Podcast discusses how millennials experience fear in the workplace – and how building emotional connection and establishing trust and safety through vulnerability can help minimize that fear.Lola and Nadia explore how fear physically manifests and impacts behaviors. They also emphasize that both employees and managers have roles to play in cultivating relationships where people feel comfortable and safe expressing their emotions.Tune into the episode to learn how to create security, connection, and, ultimately, more productivity and collaboration in your team.In this episode, we ta...2023-09-0628 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE25: Building a Culture of Philanthropy with Chris BaiocchiI have Chris Baiocchi on the podcast with me today and I have known him probably my whole career in fundraising. Early on in my career when I didn't really know what I was doing, he offered to meet with me for coffee and it's been a joy to learn from him. Chris has worked in the nonprofit space for more than 22 years as a communicator, fundraiser, and leader. He is the founder and CEO of Resolute Philanthropy, a consulting firm that provides nonprofit leaders with the tools and resources they need to thrive because a kinder, safer...2023-08-3048 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE22: Using Introspection as A Tool to Create The Life You Want with Brian Ford, host of the Self Improvement Daily PodcastIn this episode, I have Brian Ford, the host of the Self Improvement Daily Podcast – with 17+ million downloads to date. He is on a mission to help convert human intention into action and has been actively working on personal development for over a decade.There’s so much content out there about self-improvement. We talk about it, we think about it, but when it comes down to it we don’t actually do it. Today, Brian is sharing with us some really tangible and tactical tips and processes that will help you finally implement self-improvement practices in your li...2023-07-1550 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE21: Fundraising Strategies That Work with Amy Varga, fundraising expert and founder of The Varga GroupIn this episode of Lead with Heart, I have Amy Varga, the founder of The Varga Group, as my guest. She is a fundraising expert and leadership coach who is dedicated to raising the standards of her profession, and I'm so excited to explore all things leadership, philanthropy, and fundraising together.Amy shares some incredible fundraising tips and tricks. She provides many good insights into what it means to be a fundraiser and much more, as well as some actionable ways to engage with our board, our donors, and our organizations and build a culture of philanthropy that...2023-06-3052 min

The Leader in You20. 5 Things That Sabotage Team ProductivityIf you are interested and you are serious about being a better leader and a better human, today’s episode will help you on your path as we explore the importance of team dynamics that will help you tap into the emotional connection to bond with people and create a stronger team culture. In this episode, we talk about: The A.R.E. Relationship: how accessibility, responsiveness, and engagement drive emotional state and productivity.Overcoming sabotaging factors: 5 things that sabotage team productivity.Strategies for success: recognizing patterns, effective communication, embracing vulnerability, and fostering support.The...2023-06-2428 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE20: The Role of Executive Coaching in Leadership Development with Janet IoliIn this episode, we dive deep into the world of executive coaching and leadership development with Janet Ioli, a former leader in Fortune 200 Companies. Janet has earned a reputation as an extraordinarily talented, results-oriented, and sought-after executive coach, leadership coach, change strategist, speaker, and organizational advisor. In this conversation, we talk about developing self-awareness, self-reflection, and self-leadership to show up as a better leader in your organization and build stronger relationships with your team, donors, and collaborators.In this episode, you’ll learn:[07:26] The number one challenge people face when they reach the leadership lev...2023-06-1547 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE19: Driving Change Through Marketing: Strategies, Donors, and Mompreneur Life with Katelyn BaughanIn this episode, we dive into the world of marketing and donor engagement strategies with Katelyn Baughan, a nonprofit marketing consultant with a passion for making a difference. Katelyn will share the significance of data analysis and testing to refine strategies, drawing inspiration from successful organizations. Additionally, she opens up about the challenges of vulnerability and the power of showing personality to foster deeper connections.In this episode, you’ll learn:[08:51] Donor engagement strategies and marketing[13:01] Data analysis reveals key metrics and areas needing attention[22:28] How to build a community on LinkedIn[29:29] Em...2023-05-3144 min

The Leader in You19. 5 Quick Wins To Better Bond Your TeamWe understand the difficulties that arise as a team leader. Take your team to the next level by creating a deeper connection! Focus on building a bond within the team by centering emotions. In this episode, Dr. Lola Gershfeld shared some wonderful insights in her presentation, including:Making space for emotions Offering impact vs. feedback Setting the stage for safe conversations Validating emotions Making the most of weekly check-insThe Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Env...2023-05-1545 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE18: Fostering Creativity And Creating a Safe Environment for Employees to Share Thoughts And Emotions with Christine BaroneWelcome to this episode of the Lead with Heart podcast. We have Christine Barone with me today and we will explore the transformative power of creativity. Christine will discuss various aspects of creativity and its impact on personal and professional growth. Learn how to reflect on childhood interests and activities as potential sources of inspiration. Discover how tapping into our inner child and exploring our creative roots can unlock hidden potential and bring a sense of joy and fulfillment.Christine Barone is the founder of Paint Your Own Heart, who specializes in facilitating creative expression...2023-05-1547 min

Super Mom SocietyEpisode 14: Day 5/31 **SPECIAL GUEST** daily habits & intermittent fastingIn this episode, my amazing mom, Dr. Lola Gershfeld joins me sharing all of her favorite daily habits to keep her feeling and looking young at 59 years old! Plus she shares how intermittent fasting changed her life. 🤩2023-05-0721 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE17: Empowering Nonprofits through Data Equity and Communication Strategies with Meenakshi DasIn this episode of Lead with Heart, I have Meenakshi Das, a data equity speaker, consultant and trainer for nonprofits and agencies. She will share valuable insights on how nonprofits can effectively use data to make better-informed decisions and build trust with their community. We will discuss important topics such as communication strategies, intentional commitment, unconscious biases in data collection, and the importance of ongoing conversations on data in nonprofits. Meenakshi emphasizes the role of data equity in informing decision-making and creating a more inclusive and equitable organization. Her experience and expertise make this a must-listen for...2023-04-3044 min

The Leader in You18. The Role of Emotions in Employee EngementIf you are serious about being a better leader and a better human, today’s episode will help you on your path to explore the importance of emotions that will help you tap into key components to bond with people and create a stronger team culture. In this episode, we talk about:power of emotions in creating positive interactionsimpact of ineffective ways of getting our needs met in our team relationshipsimportance of recognizing triggers that create workplace conflictthe value of acknowledging bodily sensations to de-escalate responsesstep-by-step process for communicating effectively with othersand more!The Leade...2023-04-1128 min

The Leader in You17. How To Improve Team DynamicsWelcome to our podcast, The Leader in You. Taking care of the teams you care about.Today’s episode will help you explore the importance of team dynamics, tap into the emotional connection, bond with people, and create a stronger team culture.In this episode, we talk about:The importance of team dynamics in building strong relationships within the workplace.Strategies to improve work interactions include having healthy and positive relationships with team members and expressing emotions constructively.Adopting a solution-focused approach when addressing mistakes or mishaps is emphasized.The importance of on...2023-04-1031 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE15: From Scarcity to Abundance: How to Shift Your Fundraising Mindset with Rhea WongIn this episode, I'm joined by our special guest Rhea Wong, a former executive director turned entrepreneur and the host of the Nonprofit Lowdown Podcast. Join our discussion today to learn more about Rhea's journey in the nonprofit space, various aspects of successful fundraising, and how to shift your fundraising mindset.In this episode, you’ll learn:[4:39] Fundraising is not about money[10:04] The scarcity mindset: What it looks like and how an organization can shift to an abundance mindset[14:03] How to utilize the art of st...2023-03-3143 min

The Leader in You16. Avoid Workplace Conflict by Centering on EmotionsConflicts arising in the workplace is inevitable. With people with all different mindsets coming together, it is important to remember what bonds us: emotions. Join us, Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Nadia Garcia, in our discussion to learn about the importance of emotions. The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team. CONNECT:WebsiteFacebookTwitter 2023-03-2826 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE14: Embracing a Culture of Philanthropy with Elizabeth AbelIn this episode of Lead with Heart, I have Elizabeth Abel as my guest. She is a Senior Vice President at CCS Fundraising, a global fundraising consulting firm to nonprofits.In this episode, we will get to know Elizabeth's background, what led her to nonprofit work and how she started, what philanthropy is, and how to embrace it in your daily life, leadership, and so much more! In this episode, you’ll learn:[05:06] What philanthropy is and how to embrace it in your daily life.[10:16] The power of 1 VS 1000.[12:42] How leaders can be...2023-03-1543 min

The Leader in You15. Types of Negative Interactions and How to Shift Workplace ConflictsAre you experiencing negative cycles in your work relationship? Do you know that this pattern that you get stuck in can be restructured?In the podcast, we discuss the emergence of automatic thoughts and protective behaviors that trigger the negative cycle and what steps can you take to change the pattern for better and more cohesive interactions. The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in s...2023-03-0823 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE13: Practical Ways to Support Staff And Creating More Equity and Belonging with Alison EdwardsI’m so honored to have Alison Edwards as my guest in this episode of Lead with Heart. She is a local nonprofit leader and the CEO of Orange County Human Relations.At OC Human Relations, they truly embody their mission not only when it comes to being the changemakers in their community, but when it comes to creating a good workplace for their staff with diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging (DEIB).Tune in to discover how Alison and the people in the organization are co-creating this workspace, including their current goal of pr...2023-02-2848 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE12: Learning to Take Care of Yourself First with Alana WeinrothIn this episode, I’m talking to Alana Weinroth. She is the Director of Development and Communications at Covenant House California, a Certified Life & Mindset Coach, and a 200-hour Registered Yoga Instructor.After experiencing bouts of severe burnout and vicarious trauma, Alana reconnected with herself, established a healthy self-care routine, and started the Give a Damn Community to help others do the same and take care of themselves.Join us today as we dive deeper into burnout, vicarious trauma, self-care, and life and mindset coaching. Alana shares some practical advice as well as some tools to...2023-02-1543 min

The Leader in You14. Having The Same Repetitive Conflicts at Work? Create a Positive Shift in Your InteractionsHave you ever felt that you were continuing to have the same repetitive conflicts at work? EmC is an effective and necessary tool to reduce conflict and create a healthy, productive environment. Join us for our podcast, Dr. Lola Gershfeld, Nadia Garcia, and special guest Polina Marian, to learn how to avoid negativity and create more positive interactions with your team. The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future where you are more gr...2023-01-1855 min

Super Mom SocietyEpisode 4: Science of Emotions with Dr. LolaExcited to have my mom, Dr. Lola Gershfeld on this episode where we talk about the Science of Emotions!! We also give a few tips on identifying your emotions and exact feeling words you can use to specify your experience. Grab a pen and paper!!2023-01-1622 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE10: Leading with Empathy with Dawn ReeseIn this episode of Lead with Heart, I have Dawn Reese, the Chief Executive Officer of The Wooden Floor, as my guest. She is a social innovator who leverages her unique blend of experience in business, technology, education, and the arts to propel young people forward.Tune in to discover ways to become a better nonprofit leader, as Dawn shares with us all about the power of leading with empathy through servant leadership, how to be proactive when it comes to fundraising, planning the way to achieve your vision for the organization, building an authentic and engaging...2023-01-1548 min

The Leader in You13. Why EmC is Key to Creating Healthy Team Dynamics and a Positive CultureEmC is based on the new science of attachment and emotional connection. It has been studied for over 30 years, and now we have a substantial map to how to create strong and connected relationships at work.Listen to this podcast to learn how you can create a healthy culture in your team and organization. The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in s...2023-01-0938 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE9: What Nonprofit Leaders Should Focus on And How Data Can Support That with Traci ShirachiIn this episode of Lead with Heart, I’m talking to Traci Shirachi. She is the CEO and President of The Mark USA, Inc., an applied research and evaluation firm that serves organizations and programs focused on transforming underserved individuals and communities and helps them demonstrate their social impact.When people hear the word data they tend to run the other way, but please don’t run!Join us today to discover how data can help nonprofit organizations thrive, protect their people and create more impact, especially at a time when most organizations are...2022-12-1545 min

The Leader in You12. Trust Issues at The Workplace? What We Can Do to Increase Trustworthy Behaviors at WorkWhat can we do to engage our employees more? How can we build more trust?In this podcast, Nadia and Lola discuss the neuroscience behind trust and what we can do to increase trustworthy behaviors at work.The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team. CONNECT:WebsiteFacebookTwitterLinkedInYouTube Channel 2022-12-1431 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE8: Create The Transformation You Seek in Your Life & Relationships with Stephanie CourtillierToday’s episode of Lead With Heart is a super powerful one that is packed full with the wise words of my guest, Stephanie Courtillier. She is the founder and CEO of Integrous Women and is paving the way for the next generation of conscious leaders. By living through heart-space versus head-space, she continues to inspire and educate audiences wherever she goes, creating and implementing social impact models, and the power of overcoming limiting beliefs in order to turn our dreams into a reality.Tune into this beautiful and inspiring conversation to discover ho...2022-11-1548 min

The Leader in You11. The Importance of Emotional Connection Within an Organization to Boost Performance“When we feel safe and secure and we feel we matter to others we work better together, our potential and our resources come out. ” — Dr. Lola GershfeldHaley Cooper is a host of the Lead with Heart podcast and a founder of The Savvy Fundraiser. She inspires nonprofit leaders to take care of themselves FIRST (to make an even greater social impact). She offers strategic philanthropic solutions to help organizations maximize their resources and achieve their mission.In this podcast, Haley interviews Dr. Lola about how th...2022-10-2743 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE7: Focusing on Emotional Connection to Boost Performance in Your Organization with Lola GershfeldThe guest for today's podcast is Lola Gershfeld, an expert in Corporate Emotional Connection. We have discussed the importance of emotional connection and how it can help to create strong relationships within a non-profit or a corporation. Lola explained her EmC process and how it has benefited the organizations she worked with.In this episode, you’ll learn:[01:58] How Lola Gershfeld got started with the EmC process[05:27] What science of attachment is and why building connection is so important[09:00] Ways to use EMC strategy in nonprofits and organizations where leadership is...2022-10-1546 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE6: Collective Liberation and Healing with Bekah GiacomantonioI’m so excited to have Bekah Giacomantonio as my guest in this episode of Lead with Heart. She is a nonprofit dropout and the founder, host, and keeper of the Interdependence Incubator, a community for white women who crave healing and a space for us to practice freedom.The time is NOW to start healing and making a collective change.Join us today as we talk about healing and change at the personal, interpersonal, and systemic levels.In this episode, you’ll learn:2022-09-1541 min

The Leader in You10. Talent Retention Starts with Emotional ConnectionIf the true goal is talent management and talent development, then we need to recognize that people have talent, and we need to put the effort into understanding what is it that we can do to provide a safe environment for people to use that talent. Listen to this podcast to get some insight into how emotional connection can help you with talent retention.The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future where y...2022-06-2941 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE3: One Step You Can Take toward Better Mental Health with Shivani Hiralal, Social Impact Leader & Wellness CoachIn this episode of Lead with Heart, I’m talking to Shivani Hiralal about burnout, mental health, mindfulness, and self-care in the social impact space. Shivani is a social impact leader, marketer, yoga and mindfulness instructor, and wellness coach. Her life's mission is to spread awareness about mental health and reduce the stigma around mental health conversations.In this episode, you’ll learn:[03:01] Shivani’s career path and how she got into Social Impact[07:58] What burnout was for Shivani[13:42] Moving from burnout...2022-06-1548 min

Lead with Heart | Philanthropy, Nonprofit Leadership, Nonprofit Management & FundraisingE1. Strengthening Nonprofit Leadership and Board Development | Insights from Victoria TorresI'm so excited today because I have Victoria Torres as my first guest on the Lead with Heart Podcast. Victoria serves as the Director of Community Impact at The Samueli Foundation overseeing the Foundation's work as it relates to the City of Anaheim, including capacity building community relations, project management, evaluation, and reporting. In this episode:Victoria’s nonprofit experience and how it all started in High SchoolThe difference between mentorship and coaching according to VictoriaCreating a welcoming experience for staff and board membersProviding opportunities for growth within non...2022-06-1544 min

The Leader in You9. Building a Connected Organizational Culture with Alejandro Tocigl, CEO of MiroculusIn this interview, Ramin Sedehi, CSA of EmC Leaders, and Alejandro Tocigl, Co-founder and CEO of Miroculus, share how the Emotional Connection strategy (EmC) has transformed the organizational culture at Miroculus.Miroculus is a growing biotech company building Miro Technology to meet the full challenge of biotechnology research and development – from NGS sample preparation to small molecule chemistry to synthetic biology. Their mission is to advance science and improve lives faster, together. Their vision is to make the most complex protocols easy and accessible to scientists everywhere.For teams to accomplish their mission and stay fo...2021-12-1734 min

The Leader in You8. A Roadmap to Transformation And Fulfillment with Rocky BandzeladzeLeadership in organizations emanates out of courage to meet the challenges while caring for people and giving them a chance to thrive in their quest to meet business and social objectives.Rocky Bandzeladze has over two decades of leadership experience in driving large-scale growth in financial organizations. He is an Executive Vice President and the Head of Business Banking at Banc of California and currently is pursuing a Doctorate in Organizational Leadership at Pepperdine University.Three years ago, Mr. Bandzeladze started on his Emotional Connection (EmC) journey asking, "What can I do better to create...2021-07-1829 min

The Leader in You7. Putting People First, Emotional Connection as your Talent Management StrategyIn this podcast, we focus on the critical shortage of talent and the importance of creating and fostering human-centered organizations. A talent management strategy, enhanced by the power of emotional connection, can create a positive and productive environment. In addition, emotionally balanced employees engage more deeply, supporting each other and the leadership.Emotional connection paves the way for people to bring their whole selves to work and have the safety and vulnerability necessary for full inclusion and diversity.The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants t...2021-07-0331 min

The Leader in You6. About the Book: Emotional Connection, The EmC StrategyDrawing on cutting-edge research on adult attachment--and providing an innovative roadmap for effective leadership--Dr. Lola Gershfeld argues that leadership is most effective when it focuses on harnessing the power of emotional connection. The primary developer of the attachment-based Emotional Connection, EmC Strategy for individuals, teams, and organizations. The book Emotional Connection, The EmC Strategy, shows how effective leadership aligns perfectly with attachment theory as it provides proven techniques for unleashing human potential, building resilient teams, and nurturing thriving cultures. The book respectively introduces key concepts and presents an in-depth case example. Special features include end-of-chapter summaries and reflection questions. 2021-05-1301 min

The Leader in You5. Organizational Development and Cultural Transformation with Dawn Reese, CEO of The Wooden FloorWe are excited to talk to you about Organizational Development and how it can translate into cultural transformation in your company or entity. Our goal today is for us to discuss the other side of the organization and its capacity. The building, fostering, and developing of such critical facets as trust, curiosity, compassion, resilience, and creativity occupy the realm of leadership. Our guest today, Dawn Reese, is the CEO of the Wooden Floor. Dawn has a remarkable leadership background in both corporate and non-profit organizations. She has worked in va...2021-05-0748 min

The Leader in You4. How to Let Your Inner Leader EmergeListen to this special podcast as we explore the leadership journey of our invited guests, Louis Simmons "Chip" and Lola Gershfeld, and understand how they have been able to put their passion into action to make a difference on issues that matter to them the most.We explore the importance of emotional connection in the leadership journey and the leader’s ability to build trust, increase resilience, and nurture innovation and creativity. In a lively discussion, we provide you with advice and thoughts to encourage the inner leader in you to emerge and flourish.Th...2021-03-3156 min

The Leader in You3. Psychological Safety: What is it and how can you develop it in your organization?What is psychological safety? How does it relate to fields such as leadership, management, organizational development, strategy and vision, entrepreneurship? What does psychological safety look like? What is the relationship between psychological safety and wellness, and which is the precursor to the other?How can we develop and practice psychological safety? What is involved with developing a psychologically safe environment? What is the role of emotions and attachment in developing psychological safety? How does the "self" play into this (what is the individual's responsibility as part of building a psychologically safe environment)? What ca...2021-03-0851 min

The Leader in You2. Fear of FailureWe all have our share of failure. It is difficult. It is real. It creates anxiety and stress. But what is the underlying driver of fear of failure and how can we get comfortable with it?Today, we are going to explore the realm of Failure and the fear and anxiety surrounding it.With Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Dr. Kerri Cissna, we will explore their own remarkable journeys of courage, passion, drive, and, of course, failures.The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create...2021-03-0539 min

The Leader in You1. Emotional Connection: Why it MattersIn this episode, we explore the importance of emotional connection and why it matters.Subscribe on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4DanDP1BR4EMYQ9epelJuzCONNECT:Website: https://www.emcleaders.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/emcleaders/Twitter: https://twitter.com/emcleadersLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/emcleaders/Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4DanDP1BR4EMYQ9epelJuzThe Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive. Envision a future...2021-02-2030 min

From The Hart Podcast, Presented by Orange Kiwi Consulting33: Dr. Lola Gershfeld | Maintaining Emotional Connection During This Time of IsolationWe are living in times of heightened emotion. Unlike any time in our lives, the next day is as unpredictable as ever before. Companies are closing, jobs have been lost, schools are still closed in most places, and families are still trying to figure out how to balance their new work/family/school/personal lives. Dr. Lola Gershfeld and I had a wonderful conversation about how to keep our emotions, and those of our loved ones and those over whom we have stewardship, under control and how to effectively communicate with one another. You will gain tremendous tools and insig...2020-09-1757 min