Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher

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For The Love Of Men Podcast#110: Why She’s Bracing for Disappointment (And How You Can Break the Pattern)When a woman allows herself to be vulnerable with a man who responds with safety and acceptance, it creates a new energetic blueprint in her nervous system of what a healthy connection feels like. In this episode, we break down the top fears women carry into a first date, show you how to reclaim your body’s wisdom, and give men simple, real-world moves to create genuine safety and openness.We talk about how:- Bracing for disappointment creates a contracted energy where women constantly look for signs he'll let them down...2025-06-0749 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#109: What Men are Bracing For When They Start Dating (The Real Reason Men Feel Used)Have you ever walked into a date date already braced for rejection or with that sinking feeling of "What if she thinks I’m not enough?". In this episode, we we flip the script on what men are bracing for in dating—and why it matters for both sides. Prepare to Walk Away Knowing:- Why "I don’t want to waste my time" backfires (and how to reframe dating as skill-building, not a job interview)- The exact energetic shift that makes her lean in (hint: It’s not "try harder")- Ho...2025-05-2353 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#108: We’re Having the Same Conversation - Just Not With Each OtherWhy do men and women keep missing each other in relationships — even when we want the same thing?We’re having the exact same conversations, but in two different camps. He thinks she’s the problem. She thinks he’s not doing the work. But what if both sides are just wounded… and craving connection?In this episode, we finally bring those conversations together. It’s raw, honest, and probably going to shift how you see dating, love, and emotional intimacy — on both sides.What We Talk A...2025-05-0948 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#107: The Sister Wound: What Healthy Female Friendship Looks/Feels Like (And How It Impacts Your Dating Life)If you’ve ever said, “I just get along better with guys,” this one’s for you.In this episode, we’re unpacking the sister wound. That deep, often unspoken discomfort some women feel when it comes to female friendships. This wound often shows up as subtle competition, betrayal, comparison, or that feeling of walking on eggshells with other women, and we’re unpacking all of it! This one’s mainly for the girls, but if you're a guy tuning in, don’t skip it. You'll get a deeper understanding of how women experience connection, why some pull awa...2025-04-261h 02

For The Love Of Men Podcast#106: What Women Wish Men Knew About Bids for ConnectionFor most men, this stuff isn’t obvious. And we get it; you are not a mind reader. When she says something random like “Kiwis are on sale,” you’re not thinking, “Ah yes, a hidden test of my emotional availability.” You’re thinking, “…Cool? Do we need kiwis?” And paying for dates? Yeah, you’ve probably heard a million opinions: “It’s 2024, who cares?” or “Real men always pay.” But here’s the truth: It’s not about the money. It’s about what it does for her.In this episode, we break down:W...2025-04-1236 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#105 Her Love Language? Not Having to AskEvery woman’s love language is not having to ask at all—especially if she’s the kind who’s used to doing everything herself. You know her: the high-achiever, the over-giver, the woman who’d rather silently carry the weight than “burden” someone with her needs. But this isn’t about mind-reading—it’s about attunement. If you’ve ever wanted to make her feel truly seen and safe—without her spelling it out—tune in and learn how to turn “I’ve got you” into a feeling, not just words.We talk about:- Why “not having t...2025-03-2827 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#104 Who Should Pay for Dates?Split or take turns paying? Who should pay on a date? Guys, do you ever feel like a walking ATM? Ladies, do ever wonder if saying “yes” to dinner comes with strings attached? Spoiler alert: It’s not about the money—it’s about the connection. In this episode, we talk about the emotional and energetic layers behind who pays for dates—and why it mattersmore than you think. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:- Why men sometimes feel used when paying for dates.- How women experience pressure and saf...2025-03-1453 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#103 What Do Women Want Men to Know? (And Yes, We’re Talking About Decorative Pillows and Towels!)This series has been blowing up on our show—and for a good reason! In this episode, we spill the tea on what women secretly wish men knew, so you can build stronger connections and earn those bonus points effortlessly.We talk about:- The unspoken rules of decorative pillows (and towels) and what they say about your respect for her space.- What your Instagram posts and profile really tell her (hint: it’s more than you think).- Why simply being in the same space isn’t enou...2025-02-2832 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#102 Entitled Feminine Woman vs Empowered Feminine WomanThe entitled feminine woman often shows up in her wounded masculine energy, and she may not know it. In this episode, we’re breaking down the subtle yet powerful difference between empowered and entitled feminine energy. We want you to know how you can step into your true feminine power without falling into entitlement. We’re speaking to women who are looking to embody their radiant essence, but men are welcome to stay so they can better understand how to show up for the feminine in their lives.We talk about:- Empo...2025-02-1535 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#92 How to Know I'm Being Interdependent When I'm Used to Being CodependentIf empowered energies are key to avoiding dysfunctional dynamics in relationships, how do you start behaving in an interdependent way when all you've known is codependency? In this episode, we explain how integrating and empowering both masculine and feminine energies can create stability, healthy intimacy, and polarity. By highlighting the importance of maintaining individuality while supporting each other, we paint a picture of what a truly empowered partnership looks like. Tune in to learn more! Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Visit ⁠https://linktr.ee/fortheloveofmenpodcast⁠ Exciting Anno...2024-09-2739 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#91 Communication Breakdown (line-by-line examples of how to empower your communication via text)Have you seen the viral TikTok trend #I'mInMyFeminineEra, where traditional gender roles are shifting, causing uncertainty in initial interactions? In this episode, we dissect some of the circulating screenshots from a coaching perspective, so you can see where things went off-kilter and what to do to restore healthy, thriving polarity. We discuss the significance of men taking initiative without the fear of being perceived as controlling and how women can signal openness in a way that invites mutual respect. Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Visit ⁠https://linktr.ee/fortheloveofmenpodcast⁠ 2024-09-141h 04

For The Love Of Men Podcast#90 Keeping the Connection Empowered Post-DateYou went on a date with her, had an amazing time, and now you’d love to see her again. So, what’s the next move? In this week's episode, we’re diving into the secrets of keeping a strong, exciting dynamic going after a great date. We’ll talk about how to balance your masculine strength with vulnerability, making sure your genuine interest and intentions are clear. Tune in for a fresh approach to early-stage dating that makes love and connection not just possible, but inevitable. Episodes Mentioned: #88 The Mindset to Have the...2024-08-3134 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#89 How to Ask Her Out in an Empowered Masculine WayIn this episode, we dissect what it means to embody empowered masculine energy in dating, offering actionable strategies to ask her out confidently. Tune in to discover how humor can be a powerful tool to demonstrate vulnerability and foster connection, and how aligning your actions with the right energy can help you resonate more authentically when coming from a place of genuinely wanting to make her happy. Episodes Mentioned: #84 Dating in the Feminist Era: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/for-the-love-of-men/episodes/84-Dating-in-the-Feminist-Era-What-You-Stand-to-Gain-by-Co-creating-a-New-Way-Forward-e2kiu5d #85 The Allure of Wounded Masculine...2024-08-1745 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#88 The Mindset to Have the Best Dating Experience (Pre-Date Energy Prep)So, you asked her out and she said yes! Now what? In this episode, we share how you can nurture that special pre-date period and avoid fumbling the bag. The time between asking her out and the actual date is crucial and can determine whether she leans into her connection with you, so don't miss this one! Episode Mentioned: #40 Swipe Right Vibe (The Energetics of an Aligned Masculine Dating Profile): https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/for-the-love-of-men/episodes/40-Swipe-Right-Vibe-The-Energetics-of-an-Aligned-Masculine-Dating-Profile-e1m3m6p Want to work with Bri...2024-08-0352 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#87 Respecting Women vs Being the “Nice Guy” (How to Create Polarity if You’re a Genuinely Nice Guy)In this episode, we are breaking down the archetypes of masculine energy in the dating space and offering a new perspective to the “nice guy” who will set him up as a man with choice. Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Visit ⁠https://linktr.ee/fortheloveofmenpodcast⁠ Exciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthly content is transitioning to our Instagram! 📲 Connect with us at www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast for exclusive insights and transformative conversations! 🌿 Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! Message us for the link!2024-07-2047 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#86 The Allure of the Wounded Feminine and What You Can Expect While You’re DatingThe Wounded Feminine energy can be alluring based on how we were taught to see femininity. “She” can be pleasant, demure, and agreeable annnndd she can have a hard time expressing her emotions in a healthy way that can feel like drama. Shifting this paradigm requires some emotional maturity to connect from a place of honest, grounded, heartfelt authenticity. In this episode, we distinguish between wounded and empowered feminine energy so you can identify a healthy potential partner (or become one- we’ve got you if you want some support). Episodes Mentioned: #5 Unders...2024-07-0653 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#85 The Allure of Wounded Masculine and How to Actually Create Chemistry in DatingAn empowered feminine woman will not be attracted to wounded masculine energy. Today’s episode is based on feedback from our previous discussions on dating in the feminist era. We discuss how embodying king and provider energies can cultivate authentic relationship growth, ensuring mutual respect and fulfillment. This is an invitation for men to join the conversation in a way that brings out the best in all of us. Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Visit ⁠https://linktr.ee/fortheloveofmenpodcast⁠ Exciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthly content is transitio...2024-06-2231 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#84 Dating in the Feminist Era (What You Stand to Gain by Co-creating a New Way Forward)This episode is written with men in mind. The dating landscape has changed. We can all feel the shift and yet it’s our intention with this episode to move the conversation forward collaboratively by offering some perspectives that the Masculine and Feminine both benefit from. This is a unique opportunity for those who want to create a way forward that is mutually beneficial to steer the collective conversations we're having. This is why we wanted to weigh in, as women who love men, on the perspectives we hear from...2024-06-0859 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#83 For the Love of Men: The Things that made us fall in love with the masculineThe way we saw and experienced men shifted when we started seeing and appreciating the differences that exist between us. Join us in celebrating a few of the things we love most about men! Key takeaways about men include: - They remember small details about what makes women happy - They value integrity and honesty, which makes their words more trustworthy - They naturally protect and are aware of their partner’s safety - Their different sense of time and planning helps in organizing and leading, whic...2024-05-2555 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#82 For the Love of (wo)Men: the Things We Love About Women Since Healing Our Feminine EnergyOnce we started shifting our own relationship to Feminine Energy, we both experienced a shift in how we see other women and how we feel about being a woman. Join us in this celebration of what makes women unique, endearing, and powerful. Key takeaways include: - Women's cycles are not something to be ashamed of or hidden, but rather something to be embraced - Sensuality and pleasure are key aspects of self-love, empowerment, and personal growth - Supportive female friendships are essential for emotional well-being and overall happiness...2024-05-1148 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#81 How Masculine Energy May be Showing up on Your Dates (as a Woman)We talked about some signs his Feminine Energy may be leading in dates in Episode #79. This often accompanies her Masculine Energy, creating a flip in polarity. This will show up as the classic interview-style dating, making it “easy” for him (i.e. doing the planning, logistics, and leading the conversation), and not letting yourself “need” him (we see you, we love you hyper-independent woman). In this episode, we dive into why this doesn’t build healthy chemistry so you can understand why embodying more Feminine Energy is key to making dating more fun, “productive” and mutually satisfy...2024-04-2738 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#80 Playfulness, and How to Bring It Out in HerA lot of times, when playfulness is not what she's leading with, she's often protecting a part of herself. It could be because she doesn't feel safe to do so, or perhaps due to societal expectations and self-imposed pressures, causing her to suppress her playful side. In this episode, we are talking about ways to reignite that playful spark by easing the pressure around play and respecting each other's energetic boundaries. Key takeaways include:- Why she’s not playful, and what to do instead to create more playfulness- What it feels like feels lik...2024-04-1237 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#79 Sneaky Ways His Wounded Feminine Energy Shows Up in DatingIf the dynamic isn't feeling alive and electric, there's likely an energy imbalance at play. In this episode, we are talking about the subtleties in a man's energy that block the expression of a woman's feminine energy. We want to bring light to this so you can show up as the Empowered, Masculine partner and allow her to melt in your presence. Key takeaways include: -Why playing it "cool", doesn't make her more attracted to you -How to read her interest so you can confidently create connections that fuel you...2024-03-2940 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#78 Discovering Your New Limits While HealingThis episode is a deep dive into the emotional waves that accompany maintaining our boundaries for the sake of self-nourishment and protection. While asserting oneself is a delicate endeavor fraught with potential for conflict, it is essential to prevent resentment and foster personal growth. Join us as we explore the courage it takes to stand in one's truth, the grace in holding space for disappointment when our needs go unmet, and the empowerment of reassessing our limits as we heal. This episode is not just a discussion but a journey through the heart of personal expansion, offering strategies and...2024-03-1525 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#77 Understanding Your Woman's Cycle & Using It To Deepen Intimacy Pt. 2In this episode, Court and Bri further their discussion on understanding the feminine cycle and its profound impact on relationships. They explore the spring and summer phases, shedding light on the energy shifts and emotional dynamics that accompany these periods. Infused with humor and insight, they offer practical advice for both men and women to gracefully navigate and support each other through these phases. Join us for valuable insights on fostering deeper connections, enhancing intimacy, and embracing the powerful interplay between our biological rhythms and the heart's desires, in all their natural splendor. Exciting...2024-03-0228 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#76 Understanding Your Woman's Cycle & Using It To Deepen Intimacy Pt. 1This episode is a heartfelt discussion on the transformative power of syncing with your partner's menstrual cycle. We delve beyond basic health education, offering men tools to become heroes in their relationships. Exploring each menstrual phase, we provide actionable strategies for support, empathy, and connection, emphasizing the significance of recognizing energy fluctuations and emotional labor. From unraveling the luteal phase to navigating heightened sensitivity, we equip you with the tools to foster clear communication and shared responsibilities, creating a harmonious balance that honors both partners' needs. Exciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthly content is transitioning to o...2024-02-1644 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#75 Reframing the Healing JourneyExciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthly content is transitioning to our Instagram! 📲 Connect with us at www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast for exclusive insights and transformative conversations! 🌿 Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! Message us for the link! 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response...2024-02-0342 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#74 Intentions for the New YearExciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthly content is transitioning to our Instagram! 📲 Connect with us at www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast for exclusive insights and transformative conversations! 🌿 Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! Message us for the link! 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment!2024-01-191h 02

For The Love Of Men Podcast#73 Are You Upholding Your Relationship Boundaries? Pt. 2We all need a boundary audit, especially during the season of the year where we are most likely to encounter disruptions to the routines we’ve been establishing and challenging of the boundaries we’ve been practicing all year. In this episode, Bri and Court discuss the common dynamics that create “rub” (i.e. mother-daughter, partners and housework, etc.) to serve as a reminder of where you may want to get clear on what you need to keep that big beautiful heart open this time of year. We’re cheering for you!🎙️ Exciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthl...2024-01-0633 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#72 Are You Upholding Your Relationship Boundaries? Pt. 1Exciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthly content is transitioning to our Instagram! 📲 Connect with us at www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast for exclusive insights and transformative conversations! 🌿 Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! 🎁 Bonus: Use code PARTNERS to unlock exclusive disco...2023-12-2325 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#71 Do Men and Women Date Differently? TikTok Q&A (pt4)Exciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthly content is transitioning to our Instagram! 📲 Connect with us at www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast for exclusive insights and transformative conversations! Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! ➡️ Join the Masterclass! https://www.courtneyschand.com/ftlom-masterclass-mens 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://www.courtneyschand.com/eq-masterclass-feminine 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Trans...2023-12-0940 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#70 Do Men and Women Date Differently? TikTok Q&A (pt3)Exciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthly content is transitioning to our Instagram! 📲 Connect with us at www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast for exclusive insights and transformative conversations! Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! ➡️ Join the Masterclass! https://www.courtneyschand.com/ftlom-masterclass-mens 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://www.courtneyschand.com/eq-masterclass-feminine 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Trans...2023-11-2532 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#69 An Empowering Reframe on Jealousy (What to Expect with an Empowered Partner) We are excited to be moving our monthly content to our Instagram page! www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast If you want our support, check out our Masterclasses: What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It (https://www.courtneyschand.com/ftlom-masterclass-mens) Creating More Emotional Intimacy (https://www.courtneyschand.com/eq-masterclass-feminine) to help women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner And Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way (https://www.courtneyschand.com/courses/ftlom-empowered-masterclass) Use the code PARTNERS to get ALL THREE classes at a discount! Jealousy. We've all b...2023-11-1127 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#68 Should I Stay or Should I Go?We are excited to be moving our monthly content to our Instagram page! www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast If you want our support, check out our Masterclasses: What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It (https://www.courtneyschand.com/ftlom-masterclass-mens) Creating More Emotional Intimacy (https://www.courtneyschand.com/eq-masterclass-feminine) to help women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner And Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way (https://www.courtneyschand.com/courses/ftlom-empowered-masterclass) Use the code PARTNERS to get ALL THREE classes at a discount! Today's episode is a deep d...2023-10-2836 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#67 LIVE Q&A on Tiktok Part Two (plus the “Roman Empire” trend & more!)🎙️✨ Exciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthly content is transitioning to our Instagram! 📲 Connect with us at www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast for exclusive insights and transformative conversations! 🌿 Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! 👩‍❤️‍👨 ➡️ Join the Masterclass! 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! 🌿 ➡️ Dive in Now! 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! 🌟 ➡️ Start the Journey! 🎁 Bonus: Use code PARTNERS @PodcastHandleto unlock exclus...2023-10-1427 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#66 LIVE Q&A on Tiktok (+ the female equivalent of the “Roman Empire” trend) Part OneExciting Announcement! 🌟 Our beloved monthly content is transitioning to our Instagram! 📲 Connect with us at www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast for exclusive insights and transformative conversations! 🌿 Looking for deeper support? Discover our empowering Masterclasses to revolutionize your relationships and personal growth! 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! 👩‍❤️‍👨 ➡️ Join the Masterclass! 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! 🌿 ➡️ Dive in Now! 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! 🌟 ➡️ Start the Journey! 🎁 Bonus: Use code PARTNERS to unlock exclusive disc...2023-09-3033 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#65 Embodying More Pleasure as You Heal Your Feminine EnergyWe are excited to be moving our monthly content to our Instagram page! www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast If you want our support, check out our Masterclasses: What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It (https://www.courtneyschand.com/ftlom-masterclass-mens) Creating More Emotional Intimacy (https://www.courtneyschand.com/eq-masterclass-feminine) to help women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner And Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way (https://www.courtneyschand.com/courses/ftlom-empowered-masterclass) Use the code PARTNERS to get ALL THREE classes at a discount! 2023-09-1642 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#64 What you thought you knew about sex (vs. what you ACTUALLY need to know)We are excited to be moving our monthly content to our Instagram page! www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast If you want our support, check out our Masterclasses: What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It (https://www.courtneyschand.com/ftlom-masterclass-mens)Creating More Emotional Intimacy (https://www.courtneyschand.com/eq-masterclass-feminine) to help women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner And Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way (https://www.courtneyschand.com/courses/ftlom-empowered-masterclass) Use the code PARTNERS to get ALL THREE classes at a discount! In this episode, we de...2023-08-2647 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#63 Let's Talk About Sex (and boundaries & desires) BabyWe are excited to be moving our monthly content to our Instagram page! www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast If you want our support, check out our Masterclasses: What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It (https://www.courtneyschand.com/ftlom-masterclass-mens)Creating More Emotional Intimacy (https://www.courtneyschand.com/eq-masterclass-feminine) to help women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner And Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way (https://www.courtneyschand.com/courses/ftlom-empowered-masterclass) Use the code PARTNERS to get ALL THREE classes at a discount! Sexuality is...2023-08-1256 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#62 The Most Impactful Concepts We Learned in Therapy We are excited to be moving our monthly content to our Instagram page! www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast If you want our support, check out our Masterclasses: What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It (https://www.courtneyschand.com/ftlom-...) Creating More Emotional Intimacy (https://www.courtneyschand.com/eq-mas...) to help women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner And Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way (https://www.courtneyschand.com/course...) Use the code PARTNERS to get ALL THREE classes at a discount! We celebrate taking care of your mental health and growing your emotional skill set. In...2023-07-2953 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#61 Seeing (and Celebrating) Good MenWe are excited to be moving our monthly content to our Instagram page! www.instagram.com/@Thefortheloveofmenpodcast If you want our support, check out our Masterclasses: What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It (https://www.courtneyschand.com/ftlom-masterclass-mens)Creating More Emotional Intimacy (https://www.courtneyschand.com/eq-masterclass-feminine) to help women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner And Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way (https://www.courtneyschand.com/courses/ftlom-empowered-masterclass) Use the code PARTNERS to get ALL THREE classes at a discount! We started the show to...2023-07-1539 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#60 Empowering How You See Your BodyWe are excited to be moving our monthly content to our Instagram page! Feel free to follow us so we can deliver monthly challenges your way! @thefortheloveofmenpodcast If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code PARTNERS to get BOTH classes at a discount! We all grow up with an idea of our body is “supposed” to look/feel/smell/be like. And...2023-06-2051 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#59 Emotional Labor and Money (the conversations we all need to be having to prevent resentment)We are excited to be moving our monthly content to our Instagram page! Feel free to follow us so we can deliver monthly challenges your way! @THEfortheloveofmenpodcast If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code PARTNERS to get BOTH classes at a discount! Money is a subject that comes up a lot in our comments, especially in the episodes about dating s...2023-06-0329 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#58 Emotional Labor: what is it and how to be fair about itWe are excited to be moving our monthly content to our Instagram page! Feel free to follow us so we can deliver monthly challenges your way! @THEfortheloveofmenpodcast If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code PARTNERS to get BOTH classes at a discount! Want more from Courtney? Set Boundaries like a Queen- get module 1 of her n...2023-05-2042 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#57 Bri’s StoryIf you want customized content we only share with our community, enroll in our newsletter to stay connected- we’d love to have you! If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code PARTNERS to get BOTH classes at a discount! This week Bri shares about the experiences that shape her expertise- from leaving a toxic relationship to becoming a certified sex, lov...2023-05-061h 10

For The Love Of Men Podcast#56 Courtney’s StoryIf you want customized content we only share with our community, enroll in our newsletter to stay connected- we’d love to have you! If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code PARTNERS to get BOTH classes at a discount! This week Courtney is in the hot seat. She shares her experiences and how they’ve shaped her as a part...2023-04-221h 09

For The Love Of Men Podcast#55 The Cheat Codes for Men: the things women wish men knewIf you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code PARTNERS to get BOTH classes at a discount! We have each worked with women (for years) and these are some of the most common topics women wi...2023-04-0848 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#54 Narcissism, Part 2: How to Identify Emotional Abuse Tactics Commonly Used in Narcissistic DynamicsIf you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code PARTNERS to get BOTH classes at a discount! Narcissism is a diagnosable personality disorder that we identify as being on the extreme end of the wounded ma...2023-03-2557 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#53 Narcissism | Part 1: what it is (and how to distinguish it from wounded masculine energy)If you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code PARTNERS to get BOTH classes at a discount! Narcissism is a diagnosable personality disorder that we identify as being on the extreme end of the wounded ma...2023-03-1142 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#52 Codependency: what it is, what it feels like, and how to begin unwinding itIf you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code PARTNERS to get BOTH classes at a discount! Codependency is a relational dynamic that has gained a lot of mainstream popularity in the last few years....2023-02-2650 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#51 What Wounded Masculine Energy Looks/Feels Like in RelationshipIf you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We will have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code THANKYOU50 for 50% off BOTH classes! “The wounded masculine is “masking” painful feelings”- Bri Just like we all have masculine and feminine energy, each energ...2023-02-0443 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#50 The Wounded Feminine Experience, What it Looks/Feels LikeIf you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We will have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code THANKYOU50 for 50% off BOTH classes! When feminine energy is wounded it will slow down how quickly you are able/willing to respond to life. Because th...2023-01-2136 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#49 Polarity 201: Deeper integration leads to the healthiest (most magnetic) version of yourself.Welcome to Season 2 of For The Love of Men Podcast🥳 If you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It. We will have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner)- use the code THANKYOU50 for 50% off BOTH classes! Polarity is chemistry in the dating world. It creat...2023-01-0742 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#48 Are You Compatible with Your (Potential) Partner? PT. 2“It’s a compatibility issue, not a worthiness issue”- Bri -Does this person- or you- have the skills to love you well and create the type of relationship/depth of intimacy you desire? -What type of dynamic/environment do you want to be co-creating? -What type of goals/lifestyle are you working toward? -How aware of your own upbringing are you? (i.e. Are your expectations conscious/similar or can you hold space to explore an alternative reality with your partner?) Don’t forget to get the partner mastercl...2022-12-0925 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#47 Are You Compatible with Your (Potential) Partner? PT. 1If you want our support, check out our Masterclass, What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It use the code THANKYOU50 for 50% off BOTH classes! We will have a comparable class about Creating More Emotional Intimacy (helping women create emotional safety for their Masculine partner) use the code THANKYOU50 for 50% off BOTH classes! If you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! Bri always says, “it’s a compatibility issue, not a...2022-11-2626 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#46 Bad Dating Advice Made Right, pt 3There is some dating advice still in circulation that is quite disempowering. We shine some light on our favs (by “favs”, we the ones that have got to go!) Let us know what you think, what dating advice have you heard (or still hear) that isn’t actually helpful or empowering? Free Masterclass: Speak so he can hear you (www.courtneyschand.com/programs Free sample from the Nourished Library- Are you in a toxic relationship... with the scale? — Courtney Schand Instagram: @Courtney_Schand Website: CourtneySchand.com Re...2022-11-1235 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#45 Bad Dating Advice Made Right, pt. 2There is some dating advice still in circulation that is quite disempowering. We shine some light on our favs (by “favs”, we the ones that have got to go!) Let us know what you think, what dating advice have you heard (or still hear) that isn’t actually helpful or empowering? Want more from Courtney? Free Masterclass: How to Speak So Men Can Hear You; Sign up here www.courtneyschand.com/programs Free sample from the Nourished library- www.courtneyschand.com/blog/relationship-with-the-scale What you need to kno...2022-10-2928 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#44 What You Need to Know to Deepen Emotional Intimacy with Your PartnerWe were overwhelmed by the feedback men shared to our request for insight into what helps them feel safe to open up emotionally. In this episode, we shared some themes of what we heard from them to shed some light on the underlying wounds of Masculine partners. We also shared some underlying wounds that may be activated when expressing Feminine energy so we can begin opening up dialogs to increase intimacy (revealing more of our Feminine energy, whether you’re naturally more Masculine or Feminine). This has a lot to do with how we...2022-10-1544 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#43 In App Online Dating Tips and Shifts for the FeminineIf online dating feels difficult here are some times for you, Queen! -Be engaged in the app Keep it light, playful and in your power. When you're logged in, be present and available to connect. Receiving energy feels good and how/how much to reciprocate (and still "be in the feminine energy") is often a question women have. Apps can be a great space to practice receiving AND if you feel inspired to ask questions or follow up without delay, trust that *that* is also coming from your Feminine energy. The difference is...2022-09-2437 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#42 In-app Dating Tips for MenYour leadership sets the tone for polarity. You start leading in the earliest conversations. This doesn’t mean you have to have a Rolodex of questions, but can simply mean asking follow-up questions to deepen the understanding and level of connection. Energetically, this sets the tone for the relationship to unfold because you are demonstrating attunement to her and responding to her (super EM qualities). Create safety in each stage. Dating apps can be a great opportunity to practice creating safety- not only in the type, consistency, and depth of conversation bu...2022-09-1050 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#41 Wifey Swipey Vibe (The Energetics of an Aligned Feminine Dating Profile)Energy comes first. If you are a feminine energy woman, there is no amount of strategy (masculine energy) that will make up for misaligned energy. This is why we focus on the energetics first. When we do the inner work, the strategies naturally become clear. Get clear on how you want to feel in your dream relationship experience. Practice feeling this way and then write the profile. This will naturally allow men to feel your essence through your words and self-select as they are inspired to step toward you. Own who...2022-08-2746 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#40 Swipe Right Vibe (The Energetics of an Aligned Masculine Dating Profile)Clarity is a masculine gift that will serve you well in dating. Take time to clarify what you want to experience in dating so you can arrange your actions to create that (i.e. if you want casual, own it). Your behaviors naturally flow from what you are wanting to build. Think about your ideal partner and write to “her”. Given the clarity you have about yourself, use (all) the space on your profile to reflect what’s most important to you that “she” would like to know on the front end. Instead of a one-w...2022-08-1347 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#39 The Energy of the PlayerThe Player Vibe. This one can be tricky because it will present a lot of Masculine energy: he is in his body, present, and able to respond to the body language of the person in front of him and create the feeling of being seen (one of the core needs of the Feminine). He is highly charismatic and outgoing and is therefore very attractive to Feminine energy at many different levels of development because she will interpret him as emotionally available and then realize they are not aligned on what they want- which can be...2022-08-0624 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#38 How the Feminine Experiences Perpetrator EnergyIf you want our support, check out our group coaching calls, August 25th and September 29th at 6pm CST If you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! Many people have experienced wounding from the Masculine, we aren’t here to deny that. But it has been our experience that healing from relational wounds opens up a new paradigm in which to create healthier experiences with all masculine energy. The more clarity you have of your...2022-07-3043 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#37 The Nice Guy Dynamic (What’s Happening Energetically with a “Nice Guy”)If you want our support, check out our group coaching call, July 28th at 6pm CST If you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! Often “nice guys finish last” only because they don’t understand healthy polarity and therefore, will resist leading the relationship in that way. They often display a lot of qualities that make for a great partner and yet have experiences of the women they express interest in being attracted to someone else, usually...2022-07-2332 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#36 Polarity of Masculine & Feminine Energy: the Magic Behind Chemistry.We love talking about creating/understanding healthy polarity and shockingly haven’t made an episode about it- so this one is for you! Polarity is simply the natural pull that is created by opposite magnetic cores… it’s no different in people. Energetic polarity requires a Masculine and Feminine energy and the tension that results in the middle is what is experienced as sexual tension or chemistry. To create polarity, we have to commit to embodying more of the energy that feels most authentic to us. Understanding the energetics of polarity will help you id...2022-07-1624 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#35 Safety v. Non-threatening: the Feminine Experience of Integrated v. Un(der)integrated Masculine Energy (pt 1)If you want our support, check out our July group coaching call If you want to enroll in our newsletter to stay connected (and get juicy content that we reserve for our community), we’d love to have you! This is a hot topic! Based on our interactions with men on tiktok, “safety” and “non-threatening” seem to be used synonymously- but, as the Feminine partner, they feel totally different. Men, we want to preface this- it isn’t intended to shame a man in any stage of his development, but rather to shine a ligh...2022-07-0926 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#34 Part 2: Qualities of Women That Impress Men - Feedback from Male ListenersIn this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: Qualities Men Love About Women Respect is a deep admiration of a person’s beliefs, contribution, and choices. To facilitate more experience of Respect, practice verbalizing appreciation of your partner. This will increase your sense of admiration and trust in their abilities even if they differ from yours. Loyalty- this can look many different ways, often men will experience loyalty as a form of support; a backing of their character and a sense of pride in who they are as a person and a pa...2022-07-0254 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#33 Qualities of Women That Impress Men- Feedback from Male ListenersIf you want our support, check out our group coaching call, June 30th at 6pm CST In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: Qualities Men Love About Women Respect is a deep admiration of a person’s beliefs, contribution, and choices. To facilitate more experience of Respect, practice verbalizing appreciation of your partner. This will increase your sense of admiration and trust in their abilities even if they differ from yours. Loyalty- this can look many different ways, often men will experience loyalty as a form of support; a ba...2022-06-251h 00

For The Love Of Men Podcast#32 Celebrating the POWERFUL Impact of DadsIf you want our support with all things relationships & dating, check out our group coaching call, June 30th at 6pm CST The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: Dads. (Especially girl dads) Men are so important- dare we say, critical- to creating healthier relationships. With this week being Fathers Day in the U.S. we wanted to take some time to...2022-06-1845 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#31 Qualities of Men That Impress Us- Feedback from Female ListenersIf you want our support, check out our group coaching call, June 30th at 6pm CST The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: Being able to explore deeper emotions with you than you can on your own, he’s willing to share in the emotional labor of conscious relationships. Executing a plan with excellence, being accountable for the whole process and leading the way. When men ar...2022-06-1142 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#30 What You Need to Understand if Your Feminine Energy Partner is Closed (The Support She May Not Have the Words to Ask For)In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: BEing is a very Feminine Energy quality. This can only occur when you are also experiencing safety. In a healthy dynamic, your Feminine Energy will naturally open when you sense the opposite energy in your partner (we all have Masculine/Feminine energies and being able to trust the other person’s Masculine energy is what will create more emotional safety, regardless of gender). Many women come to the table with unconscious wounds, distrust, and resentment toward the collective Masculine. This isn’t your job to heal for...2022-06-0440 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#29 Thriving in a Single SeasonIf you want our support, check out our group coaching call, May 19th at 6pm CST The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: Since we don’t know how long before your ‘person’ comes along, it is a gift to learn how to be with different aspects of yourself. Focal Point: What would feel different about Personal Development if you had permission to stop looking for reason...2022-05-2145 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#27 Listener Q: What to Do When He’s Not Making the Connection Exclusive?If you want our support, check out our group coaching call, May 19th at 6pm CST (sign up here) The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: Where are you feeling unstable? This is where you need your own masculine energy to help you feel secure and worthy of your desires. Have the conversation. Boundaries are most effective when they are communicated. When you want more...2022-05-0718 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#26 Green Flags When Dating an Empowered Feminine PersonIf you want our support, check out our group coaching call, May 19th at 6pm CST (sign up here) In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: So much of the dating advice space is about spotting red flags (we both have programs about this) but there is something so empowering to be able to identify green flags. Is she grounded? An empowered feminine woman will be able to experience a wide array of emotions and stay present in her body. Because she is able to be...2022-04-3023 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#25 Embracing More of Your Feminine EnergyJoin Courtney and Bri's monthly group coaching call, Thursday May 19th at 6pm CST! 20 person max, first come first serve. 90 mins- 2 hours. Sign up and claim your spot here >> (For The Love of Men Group Call - Brianna Mosher (buildingbri.com)) The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: Characteristics of Feminine energy: playfulness, being in the moment, expressiveness, sensuality, pleasure...2022-04-2347 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#24 Why Women Wear the Masculine Mask (The Boss Babe Archetype)The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: Women will use their masculine energy as a shield when they instinctively do not trust masculine energy. This can come from a history of trauma, early family dynamics where emotions were not welcomed/safe/seen, or abandoment/emotional unavailability, etc. Because her felt-experience of being in her Feminine Energy (in relation to another person) was not one of safety, security...2022-04-1641 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#23 How the Masculine can Create Safety for the Feminine in Early Stages of Dating (Pre-commitment)The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men Podcast we discuss: Planning. When the masculine partner takes the role of planner, the feminine gets to relax and trust your ability to lead. This can be really simple but knowing what to expect feels calming to the feminine (it creates contrast to the ever-changing experience of the feminine) and she will be more open to receive your efforts. 2. Consistency. Ov...2022-04-0953 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#22 The Stages of CommitmentIn this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: The Open Dating Phase can create a lot of anxiety for women because our idea of safety is usually (if you’re looking for a relationship) in a relational context. This gets to be an empowering opportunity for you to clarify your boundaries- which is how you create a feeling of safety for yourself without needing to control the situation. Focal Point: As you’re going on dates, make note- either written or mentally- when you experience safety and what works for you. THESE are your boundaries and...2022-04-0233 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#21 Disempowering Dating Advice Made RightIn this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: “Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free”. This phrase is disempowering to both men and women because it reduces them to their sexual value as currency. Action Item: this is can be an empowering exercise to get clear on what you want out of a relationship experience so you can lead with *those* boundaries (and increase the chances of getting what you most need) vs bargaining for it with sex. The person that “cares” the least has the most power. If you act out of t...2022-03-2550 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#20 What You Need to Know If Your Woman Is Struggling to ReceiveIn this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: Receiving. Women are natural receivers. When it’s not coming naturally, there are often some experiences from her past that are causing her to interpret the world in a way that actually closes her off from her feminine energy (natural receiving capability). In this paradigm, receiving feels VULNERABLE and she will (often unknowingly) resist voluntarily being in this role. There are many reasons women struggle with receiving, here are a few: Emotional. Many women have an experience where operating in a masculine paradigm th...2022-03-1833 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#19 The Mindset Shifts to Receive Powerfully From The MasculineIn this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: Many women believe that in order to feel safe receiving, she needs to have an equal payment available just in case the favor is “called in”. This actually keeps women from being fully present to the experience (that she most desires) and so the gift isn’t allowed to be absorbed before giving back. To flip this, so receiving becomes a nourishing exchange, you have to understand that men give because they want to and begin to trust that. The masculine longs to be received. The “repayment” of a man’s...2022-03-1242 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#18 The Phrases Women Crave to HearThe phrases that make our whole body melt come from understanding these concepts: Being in/building an intimate relationship with a woman will allow you to see sides of her that many people don’t. Many women have wounding around being seen as “too ________” so when you see the vulnerable parts no one else gets to see, it is a treat. It is a corrective experience for her to feel seen- and even attractive- when she’s not “put together”. Many women struggle to take up “space”, when you open space specifically for her to express herself, she will feel seen a...2022-03-0548 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#17 The Ways Men (Naturally) Show Up that Impress Women the MostThe intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: The qualities that men display that grow the connection, provide a deep sense of safety, and give us heart eyes! Hold space- so many women have the experience of struggling to speak up because they feel unsafe “rocking the boat”. Action Item: Practice pausing before you problem solve, guess how she’s feeling and stay curious about the experience she’s trying...2022-02-2635 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#16 Listener’s Q: What if I let him go & he thinks I’m not interested? Your Intuition is a sign that your Empowered Feminine Energy is online. If you’re finding yourself deep in self-doubt, it will activate your masculine energy. Often, this will look like the need to move toward a man (asking questions like “what do I need to do to get more from him?”). Trust that it is coming online to support you and redirect that attention inward and receive the inner support. One of the hardest parts of dating is learning to trust that a man knows what he is capable of giving. His availability to meet your needs is not a refl...2022-02-1827 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#15 How Men Can Provide Support When Their Woman is on Her Period to Deepen IntimacyThe intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss What actually happens in her body? The body fluctuates estrogen and progesterone levels throughout the month, ending in a release of the preparations her body has been making all month to support a possible biological pregnancy. The week of the cycle where her body is shedding was historically seen as a sacred time because of the increased sensitivity but often the way...2022-02-1026 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#14 How to Win on Valentine’s Day How do you want to celebrate Valentine’s Day? Take some pressure off, and make it a collaborative process to plan this day in a way that really meets both your needs. Conversation: “Is there anything that would make V-day extra special to you?” The wounded feminine (in both of men and women) can be activated around V-day and will play out in hiding her desires, making it hard to win. Ladies, it is HOT when you can put into words what would please you most. Conversation: “What would you do if you had it all your way? Understanding your love lan...2022-02-0633 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#13 Ways Men Can Win with Women Pt. 2The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: Integrity is sexy because it feels safe to the Feminine. A man that knows himself and what he is looking for will behave in a way that is in line with the outcome he is building. This allows him to be honest about what he is looking for (casual, long term relationship, etc) and the Feminine can then discern how she wants...2022-02-0430 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#12 Boundaries: The Nuances That Help You Show Up As The Most Integrous WomanThe intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: What does integrity look like for the Feminine (i.e. is it people pleasing or keeping your word?) Integrity to the Feminine is a moment-by-moment revealing of your inner experience, for the Masculine integrity means doing what you say. Focal Point: Notice what situations you have a hard time saying “no” to and formulate a plan to create space when the pressure feel...2022-01-2931 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#11 Listener Q: How to Deal with an Anxious Attachment That Shows up as Jealousy in Relationships? Attachment theory categorizes 4 main “styles”- Anxious, Fearful Avoidant, Avoidant, Secure- of attaching in intimate relationships based on innate personality traits and experiences in relationships over time. Understand that this goes deeper than thoughts, this reaction will trigger your whole nervous system and is able to shift using somatic (body-based) tools. Focal Point: Notice where your body “holds” this story so you can soften and breathe into that spot with compassionate awareness. Sometimes it’s not you. What if you were to trust your gut more in this experience- what would you need more of if you believe your body’s response t...2022-01-2236 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#10 Listener Q: How to know when to leave a connection and how to trust your intuition more in the process? Dating is a two-fold learning process: learning what- and how to ask for- you need/want and learning what the healthiest partner for you looks like (it may surprise you). When you notice what you tolerate in relationships (i.e. what do you complain to your girlfriends about) see it as an energetic boundary moving forward to open space for more of what you want. It’s much easier to not take it personally when you can hear what people are actually saying without making it about you. Focal Point: This is where you have to focus on what you wa...2022-01-1452 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#9 How Men Can Help Women Open Around Them (Understanding What She Needs to Reveal More of Herself)The three needs of the Feminine are to be Heard, Seen, and Safe. Action Item: when these needs are not met, she will present as guarded. Come from a vantage point of “she wants to be open with me” and see what actions you naturally are drawn to take. This will shift you into a confident expression of your authentic masculinity (no need to pose as “more masculine” to make her feel safe). Safety is individual and primary. Breathing together can be a really powerful way to co-regulate. Touch can be very grounding if you agree to that or...2021-12-1746 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#8 Why Dating Strategies Don’t Work1. Dating strategies (aka attraction psychology) are designed to increase desire by playing on insecurity. Focal Point: When you’re not “getting what you want” from a potential partner, consider it a red flag, not an opportunity to “inspire” them. 2. Secure partners are attracted to people who see them in their personal power (authenticity) *and* are drawn to it. Focal Point: Long-term attraction is built when you can see someone as equally powerful. 3. Dating is about learning to trust yourself and develop discernment about what you need to feel open and expansive. This means you practice asking for...2021-12-1028 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#7 How to Not Lose Yourself in a RelationshipAsk yourself, “When did I notice I was no longer feeling like myself and what did I notice?” take inventory of what boundaries needed to have been in place so you can place them sooner next time or pivot as you move forward. It’s ok to be different than your partner AND to grow with them, you don’t have to like all the same things to be attractive Focal Point: If you feel the need to hide your quirky interests/disinterests to stay in a connection, it’s a red flag (for you) to bring more of your empow...2021-12-041h 00

For The Love Of Men Podcast#6 Healthy Female FriendshipsThe intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores to create healthy, polarized relationships. What makes friendships work? Friendship, like any other relationship, is the space for more authenticity. This requires a willingness to step in and see someone else’s authentic self as well as offering your truth in return. Focal Point: What makes friendship valuable to you? (your friendships may require something specific to be satisfying and they won’t know unless you ask for it, so go for it) What do they...2021-11-2652 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#5 Understanding Wounded Feminine Energy VS Healthy Feminine Energy What is “wounded” feminine energy? When the feminine energy is wounded, it will express in one of two ways- having unclear boundaries (people have a hard time seeing you/people-pleasing) or difficulty recognizing what is “yours” and “theirs” (over-functioning in relationships) How does it happen? The feminine wound tends to happen over time. It can be modeled from society or previous generations and can be expressed in men or women. But ultimately, when masculine energy is unintegrated or disempowered (not trusted/wounded), the feminine will be more at risk of experiencing injury because she will struggle to have/hold bo...2021-11-201h 19

For The Love Of Men Podcast#4 Understanding Wounded Masculine Energy VS Healthy Masculine EnergyThe intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores to create healthy, polarized relationships. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: What is “wounded” masculine energy? When the masculine energy experiences injury, the protective aggression is more active (from snarky comments all the way to narcissistic behaviors) than a feeling of stable, grounded experience. How does it happen? From the best we can tell, the masculine energy is actually overcompensating for an injury (or unintegrated) to t...2021-11-1347 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#3 The Subtle Ways Women Try to Lead the RelationshipThe intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores to create healthy, polarized relationships. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: The underlying belief pattern of women that feel compelled to lead: the need to create safety in feeling chosen (not understanding our own worthiness) or the need to create safety by controlling how men show up (not understanding how the masculine operates). When we see this as an attempt to create safety, she can judge herself...2021-11-0257 min

For The Love Of Men Podcast#2 Setting Men Up To WinThe intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores for healthy, thriving polarized relationships. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: Empowered Men want to win. They are wired to compete and he wants to win with you (i.e. making you smile= green flag to healthy men) Focal Point: be honest about what makes you happy (not to get something from him). When he makes you happy, it feels vulnerable to let him see...2021-10-221h 04

For The Love Of Men Podcast#1 Ways Men Can Win With WomenThe intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores for those who desire a polarized relationship. In this episode of For the Love of Men we discuss: Communication creates the structure for the Feminine to feel safe to surrender (and play!). Action Item: Take the lead and let us know the game plan Planning ahead of time allows a woman to transition from her Masculine energy (work mode) into her Feminine energy (the most refreshing version of her) and create the most...2021-10-1539 min