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Vanilla with a Side of Kink
126. Renee was Sold A Bill of Goods
Send us a textThe first six days of August bring life-changing events into the household.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-05-26
31 min
From Hollywood...It's Paranormal Tonight!
Renee Lynn: Do Aliens Travel Through the Galaxy Using Sonic Frequency Waves?
In this episode, Dan Harary interviews Renee Lynn, a Hollywood concept illustrator and sound healer, who dives deep into her lifelong encounters with high strangeness, including ghost sightings, UFO experiences, and sound based healing. Renee shares her theories on how aliens might use sonic frequencies for interstellar travel and communication. The conversation blends her professional career in entertainment with esoteric experiences and metaphysical studies.🧠 Topics Discussed:Renee’s childhood in Amish country and early artistic inclinationsFirst experiences with paranormal phenomena (shadow people in Civil War-era dress)Sound frequency healing and its measurable physical effectsUFO sight...
2025-05-20
1h 03
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
125. They Who Fail to Prepare, Prepare to Fail
Send us a textRenee sets the stage for a future event as she and Dan go to a fundraiser for a local dog rescue. Plus the strategic planning takes shape.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-05-19
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
124. Strategic Planning
Send us a textDan and Renee return from the cruise and work to find a new balance in their life. They also make some plans related to All Tied Up San Diego that yield interesting results.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-05-12
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
123. The Sloth in the Suite
Send us a textRenee makes a very important decision that causes her to change her mind about a specific type of adventure!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-05-05
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
122. The Aftermath
Send us a textNow that Renee's parents' memorial services have been completed, she takes on a new role in life.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-04-28
40 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
121. Special Episode: KinkFest
Send us a textThis is episode Dan and Renee report live, or at least Dan does, while Renee sleeps in his lap, from the KinkFest Conference in Portland, OR.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-04-21
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
118. A Loving Sacrifice
Send us a textDaisy makes a sacrifice for Renee. Renee's Dad starts to decline and chaos ensues in Victorville!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-03-31
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
114. Hello Insecurity My Old Friend.
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee's relationship agreements are tested as Renee's insecurities come full force as Dan continues to tie with Liz. Plus, one of the podcast award companies throws a curveball!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-03-03
32 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
113. First Episode & Friends Galor Ring in 2023!
Send us a textIt sounds way more exciting in the title than it was, but hey we published and officially launched the Vanilla with a Side of Kink podcast on January 2nd, 2023! Plus, as Dan continues to tie with Liz, there are lots of opportunities to connect with friends, both old and new. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and A...
2025-02-24
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
112. Recording Starts & Renee Starts Looking!
Send us a textIn this episode, we record the first episode of Vanilla with a Side of Kink in December of 2022! Plus, Renee starts to look for a boyfriend, and Dan continues to tie with the new bottom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-02-17
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
111. Thankful for Friendship
Send us a textTsunamis, Board Games and Bottoms! Remember our heroes explaining how awesome the board game Gloomhaven was during the pandemic? It was the thing that they did to help pass the time. Well, Dan found another epic board game that was getting rave reviews, and in this episode, you will hear all about it! Our heroes also attend a local rope event, and Dan ties with a new bottom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business...
2025-02-10
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
110. Has anyone seen a beach around here?
Send us a textOur intrepid heroes continue their epic vacation in Hawaii and this time cannot find the beach! Imagine that being on an island in the middle of the Pacific Ocean and they cannot find the beach! Well, it happened! Dan's unfailing sense of direction was not working this day.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance.
2025-02-03
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
108. Renee's Crystal Ball Shows Us the Future
Send us a textHave we told you about Renee's voices in her head? Well the voices started talking again and she came up with a whole new idea. Guess what it is?Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-01-20
32 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
107. Renee Really Tried to be Humble
Send us a textOur heroine goes to a conference humble and comes home feeling validated.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-01-15
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
103. Affliction and Relief
Send us a textDan and Renee return safely from Walt Disney World in Florida, but Dan brings a special "something something" with him from WDW. Then there is a new beginning that brings a change in a nick of time.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink...
2024-12-16
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
102. Skyler Sparkles
Send us a textIn this episode, our heroes encounter a technical glitch at the beginning that is thankfully fixed around the 3-minute mark. Sorry about that! Our new normal continues to take shape as Dan keeps looking for a job, we travel to Walt Disney World in Florida and Skyler finally comes home after his epic trip to become a diamond.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our ne...
2024-12-09
34 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
101. Resigning Ourselves to a New Normal
Send us a textWell, the pandemic is over and we are excited to see life returning to . . . WTF! Yeah, life took a turn and now our heroes get to figure out a new normal that is post-pandemic, but also post-Renee's working. Fortunately, there is a bit of a bright side that comes in the form of forgiveness.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things...
2024-12-03
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
99. We Finally Get A Key to the Kinkdom!
Send us a textWelcome to Season Six! Which is irrelevant in episode terms, but helps us know what part of our journey we are talking about! And Season Six is about the time period after the pandemic starting in February 2022. In this episode, numbers explode, life starts to return to the new normal and the renovations start on the house, sending our heroes in all sorts of different directions. Plus a miscommunication leads to Dan and Renee finally getting a key they have wanted for more than five years!Visit our website: w...
2024-11-18
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
98. Rodents Of Unusual Sneakiness (R.O.U.S): Beginning 2022
Send us a textWe take our title from the famous movie the Princess Bride since Renee is definitely a princess and she is my bride! And just like in the movie there are dangers in this world that can come out of nowhere! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side o...
2024-11-11
35 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
97. Renee Goes On A Quest and the End of 2021.
Send us a textWith her newly found freedom, Renee takes the opportunity to hunt down something valuable.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-11-04
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
96. The Dam Breaks!
Send us a textIn this episode the pressure reaches a breaking point, just two months after the wedding???? What did Dan do now? Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-10-28
31 min
PSYCHO THERAPIST
EPISODE 83: DAN
Dan grew up in an abusive household with perfectionist parents who often asked him, "Why can't you be normal?" Not only did Dan feel misunderstood and disconnected at home, but he also struggled in social situations; his childhood was lonely. Now, at 41 years old, Dan has a loving wife, a happy daughter, and a new understanding of his neurodivergence. What he doesn't have is a sense of peace about his parents. That's where Renée comes in. She and Dan sort out his wounds and triggers, and in the process they talk about all sorts of stuff, including online d...
2024-10-09
1h 56
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
91. Oh No You Didn't!
Send us a textRenee's predictive powers from the last episode come true, resulting in a mini-meltdown. Friends come to the rescue to save Renee from herself and from canceling the wedding, even though Dan (for perhaps the first time) did nothing wrong.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of...
2024-09-23
32 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
90. One Ring To Rule Her Heart!
Send us a textRenee finally gets her engagement ring! A wedding venue is selected as we inch closer and closer to the wedding date.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-09-16
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
88. Dan Levels Up to Marriage Material!
Send us a textIn this episode, Renee rewards a friend in a big way. All Tied Up San Diego gets a new logo and holds its first in-person event since March of 2020, and Dan completes the final piece of the marriage puzzle!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of...
2024-09-02
35 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
86. She Called Him "My Everything"
Send us a textThis episode is part one of our discussion of the wonderful celebration of Skyler, who was Renee's dog from before our relationship started. This episode deals with pet loss, so we understand if you need to skip this episode.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of...
2024-08-19
28 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
85. A New Routine and Dan Gets Scene
Send us a textAs February, March, and April of 2021 roll around, the pandemic reaches the one-year mark, and things start to change for the better. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-08-12
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
83. Finding a Haven in the Gloom
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee share the game that kept them entertained for hours during the pandemic, Gloomhaven! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-07-29
34 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
82. Life Moves Online
Send us a textDan discovers that the Learning Management System he chose for the courses is not delivering the impact he desired and makes a significant change. And the new 101 Course starts and the fun begins!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-07-22
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
81. . . . or a Lifetime
Send us a textDan and Renee celebrate their sixth anniversary and there is a special twist that comes out of this one!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-07-15
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
80. A Reason, A Season . . .
Send us a textSix months into the pandemic, life has begun to change, much of it for what feels like the negative. In this episode, our heroes discuss the joys of post-video production of the All Tied Up San Diego Shibari training. Plus, Renee shares some very painful experiences with friends.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance.
2024-07-08
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
77. Adding Insult to Injury
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee talk about how the pandemic affected their family interactions, including some rather spectacular acrobatic events by Dan's dad. Listen now to hear some of the craziness that we dealt with from family.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink...
2024-06-17
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
74. Beetlemania and the End of 2019
Send us a textDecember 2019 finds our hero's house infested with small flying creatures! Listen to the near heroic efforts that Renee made to make it through this catastrophe! (Said with all the sacacasm Dan can possibly muster)Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-05-27
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
73. A Bug's Life
Send us a textSomething was bugging Renee, and when they uncovered what it was . . . the floor moved!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-05-20
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
69. These Are A Few Of Her Favorite Things
Send us a textRenee turns 50, and it is party time!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-04-22
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
68. They Came In Hot!
Send us a textThis episode includes a police chase and someone loses their driver's license! Plus Renee demonstrates her miraculous healing powers.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-04-15
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
67. Endings and Beginnings to start of 2019
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan comes to terms with ending something big and makes an important decision about his future. Renee gets drunk, not just drunk, drop-down, vomiting, sleeping on the bathroom floor, drunk, and finding something out.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink...
2024-04-08
34 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
66. Busy, Busy, Boring!
Send us a textIn this episode our heroes fully engaged in their vanilla and kink lives. Renee is overwhelmed by work responsibilities, while Dan travels for work and to meet a friend. Dan's family grows by two. A photoshoot, trip to a Dutch village, a hockey game, and a mission, along with a family member's visit to the hospital, round out this episode. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our n...
2024-04-01
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
65. Renee and the Big Fat White Guy
Send us a textIt is now September of 2018, and our heroes are going to travel to the Mid-West for a bit of R&R, but the Big Fat White Guy might have other plans.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-03-25
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
64. As Fireworks Boom the Relationship Clock Resets, Again!
Send us a textAn error in judgement creates a resetting of the relationship clock, again. Renee must make a life-changing decision and other changes in life.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-03-18
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
63. Birthday Fun and Things Come Undone
Send us a textWe start in May, 2018 which is Renee's birthday month! In this episode, Renee takes two separate trips and we find ourselves stranded outside of our house.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-03-12
32 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
62. Business Travels, Family Hassles, and Neck Crackles
Send us a textVanilla life comes roaring to the forefront as our heroes find Dan is out of town more than 20 days in a 28 day period. Plus, Renee's mom decides to grace them with her presence and Dan finally gets some help for the shoulder issues he was having a year ago.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance.
2024-03-04
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
61. Ethical Logic
Send us a textThis episode marks the beginning of Season Four and starts with Dan going to therapy for lying to Renee. This creates a very powerful change in Renee that makes a special part of their lives very difficult. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - T...
2024-02-26
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
60. 2017 Ends in a Ka-Thunk!
Send us a textIn this episode, we learn about our hero's visit to have their dogs blessed. Then Renee takes a trip to keep Dan company during a business trip break. And to end Season 3's episodes, yet another relationship change, but this one is because of a lie!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife...
2024-02-19
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
58. Leveling Up!
Send us a textWe are now almost three years into the relationship and a couple of significant events give Dan the chance to level up in the relationship game. Plus our heroes go their separate ways for a weekend event and both have fun. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a S...
2024-02-05
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
57. Bringing Flight Lessons to San Diego
Send us a textDan learns more valuable lessons about the intentionality of rope bondage as he and Renee bring a top instructor to teach those in San Diego how to fly! Plus, how being put on a pedestal and being very good at what you do can cost you everything.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. ...
2024-01-29
26 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
55. The Adventures of Flirtyman
Send us a textRenee gives Dan a new nickname as he learns more about how his actions need to change if he is going to win Renee's heart!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-01-15
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
54. Lucygate
Send us a textDan continues to learn some difficult lessons about his responsibility as a Top and how his actions affect Renee and others.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-01-08
32 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
53. Learning to Fly in Phoenix
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee travel to another state to learn more. Dan learns about traffic cameras and how to modify ties to help Renee get in the air successfully.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-01-01
36 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
51. There's No Need to Fear, Super Social Worker is Here!
Send us a textIn this episode, someone breaks Rule 13 and experiences the full fury of a pissed off Renee . . . for a very good reason. Plus our heroes share some of the vanilla aspects of their trip to Vegas.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-12-18
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
49. Starting 2017, Ginger and Olivia Enter the Scene!
Send us a textAs we begin 2017, Dan and Renee decide to make one of their first large purchases together, and they become "that" couple. Plus, national events lead to a discussion about privilege. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-12-04
26 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
48. The Daddy, The Officer, The Dog, and The Slave . . .
Send us a textThis episode concludes the three-part interview with the amazing Poly-Leather Family. And Frank and Dan share some special moments and realizations.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-11-27
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
45. Bellweather Moments and Watershed Events
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee go back to June of 2016 to share more of the vanilla happenings in their incredibly crazy year. This includes Dan's divorce and the consequences of that action on his parents and on the house he now lives in.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group...
2023-11-06
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
44. Pivot from Local to National
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee share about their 3rd anniversary together! Also, they share about going to a national event with leading Shibari organizers and instructors from around the country. There they discussed how to remove the stigmatism attached to Shibari and grow community.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com...
2023-10-30
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
42. Flies, Tents, and Intentions
Send us a textHave we mentioned that we have been traveling in July of 2016, well here is the fourth weekend in a row and Renee was about done. Dan learns a powerful lesson from some friends. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-10-16
28 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
41. Pride and Joy in San Diego
Send us a textDid we mention that we had been out of town for two straight weekends in July? Well, here comes another weekend away in three weeks and Dan almost loses a finger because of it! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-10-09
28 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
40. The Unconventional Convention
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee travel to LA for a new type of conference that is sure to have Renee seeking the introvert's corner!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-10-02
27 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
39. Learning How Not to Die
Send us a textDan and Renee get some much-needed and appreciated education from experts in the field of Shibari Rope Bondage. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-09-25
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
38. What You Don't Know Can Kill You
Send us a textOur Dan and Renee come to some startling realizations about how much they didn't know back in 2016. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-09-18
28 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
37. Bombers and Bombshells
Send us a textIn this episode, our heroes attend a high-protocol play party, and Dan learns how to do fire play with Renee. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-09-11
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
35. Herding Kittens and Shoveling Smoke
Send us a textThe essence of Shibari is so much more than tying a pattern. In this episode, Renee and Dan bring a charismatic and charming instructor in to teach Shibari at a level higher than they could teach at the time. This was the first time they went outside San Diego to bring quality rope instruction to the community.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the...
2023-08-28
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
34. Danke Schoen, Wayne Newton
Send us a textMuch more about our vacation in Las Vegas. Renee could really have her own podcast on how to plan and execute a vacation! Plus an event completely derails that last day of our vacation.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-08-21
32 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
31. Flying into 2016 - Renee Joins the Rebellion!
Send us a textIn this episode, we complete November and December of 2015 and move into January 2016. We explored some classes we took on hypnosis, sexual health, lightning in our hands, and getting started in the Kinkdom. Additionally, we traveled by boat, while Dan had plans to bring Renee into the Rebellion!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance.
2023-07-31
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
30. Dan and Renee Seek the Wiseman!
Send us a textIn this episode, we find our heroes heading up to Los Angeles to visit friends and seek wisdom for the Wiseman of BDSM play. Plus, Renee finally reveals the big thing that happened in October! And October is also their one-year anniversary. At this rate you will be hearing their tale until they are 90!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things...
2023-07-24
26 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
29.5 But Wait!
Renee made a mistake, and we are documenting it for historical purposes!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-07-19
02 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
29. Dan FINALLY Finds A Use For Peas
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee recount events in both the Kinkdom and Vanillaland during the month of September and October of 2023. They reflect on how much they had happening in all aspects of their life, and you'll just have to listen to understand the title.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife...
2023-07-17
27 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
28. Lessons Learned, Lessons Taught
Send us a textDan and Renee talk about all the many lessons they learned and the many lessons they taught back in the early days of All Tied Up San Diego. Much of their curriculum shook up the status quo and ruffled a few feathers.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with...
2023-07-10
32 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
26. Who Let The Dogs Out? Who? Who? Who? Who? Who?
Send us a textWho you asked? Take a guess . . . Ka-Thunk! In this episode, Dan's actions show his commitment as he moves himself into Renee's house. However, they both discover how different they are from one another and how many things need to change for Dan to stay. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: V...
2023-06-26
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
25. Deflating Mattress, Coin-Op Shower, and a Whip Circle
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee go Kinky Camping!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-06-19
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
24. Pride and Injured Pride
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee recount their first experience volunteering at the San Diego Leather Realm at the San Diego Pride Festival in July of 2015. Then they share life & relationship-defining moment in their journey.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-06-12
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
23. Heeere's Primal Panic!
Send us a textIn this episode, Renee explains her mind-blowing realizations about her struggle with polyamory. And they have yet again, another relationship change!Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy.
2023-06-05
35 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
22. Holy Ethical Complications, Batman!
Send us a textDan and Renee take a deeper dive into Consensual Nonmonogamy (CNM) as they look at how their relationship works and how it wouldn't.Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and...
2023-05-29
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
21. Remove Those Rose-Tinted Glasses
Send us a textWith Dan's change in behavior, Renee starts touring him around, including meeting the parents. They learn about anchors and knowing the reasons why.Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and C...
2023-05-22
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
20. Dan Goes to the Dogs
Send us a textIn this episode, we find our hero (Dan) trying to accept many changes and not handling them as well as expected. Renee has to make a decision that might send a mixed message. And the bus ride continues that has Dan earning his lumps.Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life.
2023-05-15
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
19. Ka-Thunk, Ka-Thunk, the Bus Ride Begins!
Send us a textAs Dan and Renee explore life as Friends with Benefits, the friends side takes a twist, and Renee goes into protective mode! The wheels on the bus start running over Dan as he navigates a new relationship poorly.Books References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your GuideTo OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex and...
2023-05-08
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
18. Friends with Benefits
Send us a textDan and Renee are now broken up (well, Renee broke up with Dan), and now they start to navigate life as Friends with Benefits! This change has a profound and dramatic effect on both of them.Books References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your GuideTo OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.
2023-05-01
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
17. Season Finale - Renees Conclusion
Send us a textThis episode concludes Renee's origin story, including explaining how she came to meet Dan at the comic book store those many years ago. And brings us to the end of Season One of Vanilla with a Side of Kink!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of...
2023-04-24
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
16. Renee's Origin Part 1
Send us a textThis episode will give you unique insight into Renee's family life and the years leading to meeting Dan. She reveals things she has not typically shared with even our closest friends. I (Dan) am very proud of her for being so transparent and approachable with the telling of this story. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Ac...
2023-04-17
36 min
Keeping It Real-Estate Show
Becoming a Master Communicator with Renée Marino
In this episode of Keeping it Real Estate, host Dan Brisse interviews Renée Marino, a professional communication coach, TEDx speaker, and best-selling author. Renée has helped countless business professionals communicate with confidence through simple and effective tools, and her best-selling book, "Becoming a Master Communicator," has received glowing endorsements from industry leaders. Listen in as Renée shares her insights on the power of authentic communication, and how mastering this skill can transform your personal and professional life. Whether you're a seasoned entrepreneur or just starting out, Renée's practical advice will help you unlock your...
2023-04-11
47 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
15. Canes, Brains, Pains, and Drains
Send us a textRenee has so much fun that she cannot move! Dan learns how to use a Cane on Renee effectively. This is an extraordinary skill of sensation. Renee explains some of the levels of play related to BDSM. We go to our first play event at someone's private home. We start teaching our very first rope class. Renee learns a critical lesson about impact play.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.A...
2023-04-10
35 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
14. You've Got to be F'ing Kidding Me!
Send us a textDid you know Dan is the nice one? Don't break rule 13. Dan seeks help for his Daddy skills. Dan gets asked a question that creates a change in Dan & Renee's relationship. And Dan has some important revelations about how his actions were different than his words. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance.
2023-04-03
31 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
13. Renee's First Play Party
Send us a textMELTDOWN of EPIC PROPORTIONS! Listen as Renee shares what was happening with her as she prepares to go to her very first play party.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-03-27
33 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
11. Vanilla is Tasty Too
Send us a textDan describes some of the kinky events he attended separately from Renee, and we reveal a bit more about the vanilla side of our lives.Book References: Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich, Published 2023 by RoutledgeVisit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity...
2023-03-13
26 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
10. New Year, New Everything, and the Top Comes Off
Send us a textGoing back in time, a couple of months from our last episode, we look at a different side of our Dom/sub relationship and what that meant to us going to events. And hear the story of the first time Renee gets naked in public!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com...
2023-03-06
34 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
9. It's NOT Official Anymore! Ending Dom/Sub Relationship.
Send us a textIn this episode Dan and Renee experience a significant change and each reflects on how this change will affect their life going forward.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-02-27
25 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
8. It's Official! Entering a Dom/Sub Relationship Part 2
Send us a textIn this episode Dan and Renee share some of the joys and hardships of being in a Dominant/Submissive relationship and Dan learns there is a cost to having what he wants.Book References: Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich, Published 2023 by RoutledgeUnequal by Design: Counseling Power Dynamic Relationships by Sabrina Popp M.D and Raven Kaldera, published 2014 by Alfred PressVisit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you...
2023-02-20
30 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
7. It's Official! Entering a Dom/Sub Relationship Part 1
Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee talk about officially entering into a Dominant/Submissive relationship. They talk about some of the important aspects of this and other types of BDSM relationships and some of the misconceptions that society has about them.Book References: Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich, Published 2023 by RoutledgeUnequal by Design: Counseling Power Dynamic Relationships by Sabrina Popp M.D and Raven Kaldera, published 2014 by Alfred PressVisit our website: w...
2023-02-13
41 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
6. The Education Starts
Send us a textIn this episode Dan and Renee start attending kinky events together and start learning many things about the kinkdom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-02-06
29 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
5. Dan's Origin Story - How He Found Kink - Part 2
Send us a textIn this episode Dan talks about finding and attending his first kinky event. He shares some of the thoughts he had as he entered the kinkdom. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-01-30
23 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
4. Dan's Origin Story - How He Found Kink - Part 1
Send us a textIn this episode Dan will share a bit about his life, his early years, his first time seeing a woman naked, and how he learned about the Kinkdom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-01-23
35 min
Into The Wild
145. How to Buy Back Your Time as an Entrepreneur with Dan Martell
If there is one thing money can’t buy, it’s time. Turns out, my husband, Dan Martell, figured out a way to buy back time so that you can do the work that lights you up. Not the mundane crap that keeps you busy but not productive. I am talking about sustainable ways to delegate, including procedures that teach you how to quickly and efficiently onboard contractors or employees. These rules even apply to family life. In this episode, Dan and I discuss how we hired a night nanny when our kids were young and even out...
2023-01-17
49 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
3. The Eight Days of Kinkmas
Send us a textIn this episode Dan and Renee talk about what happened during the eight days immediately after their pseudo non-date date.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-01-16
32 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
2. First of Firsts
Send us a textIn this episode Dan and Renee talk about how they met and what their first pseudo non-date date looked like. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-01-09
26 min
Vanilla with a Side of Kink
1. Vanilla with a Side of Kink, a Primer
Send us a textIn this episode you meet Dan and Renee, the hosts of Vanilla with a Side of Kink, as they launch the first episode and share the story of Renee going to her first kinky event. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-01-01
28 min
(UN)Conventional Wealth
EP 20: Getting Back to Our Natural State With Renee Metty
What’s running your current operating system? Most of us, consciously or not, are still operating on conditioning we received as kids or on pressure we’re feeling from our peers. If you could cut out all that noise and stress, what would it mean in your life and the lives of your loved ones?Renee Metty is devoted to helping humans live their lives with more ease. From helping preschoolers build strong foundations for a mindful life to coaching adults through life and leadership without harmful conditioning, Renee guides her students in getting out of their own...
2022-10-07
26 min
ICONIC HOUR
Dan Warnshuis | Building a Vintner’s Paradise, Utopia Wines
After graduating college in 1978, Dan Warnshuis relocated to Silicon Valley and began what would be a successful career in the technology sector. However, it was living in the Napa Valley wine country that made him quickly realize his passion for great food and wine. Once the wine bug bit him, he could not help but dream of creating his own wine label. Ultimately, his love for Oregon Pinot Noir revealed to him his path forward. Dan, founder, owner, and winemaker at Utopia, strives to produce world-class wine that will make Utopia one of the best wineries in the world...
2022-07-28
29 min
Happiness Journey with Dr Dan: Where every journey is worth living.
Happiness journey with Dr Dan podcast: Season 7 Ep7: Special guest and CEO of Isuccess Consulting T Renee Smith
T. Reneé Smith, CEO of iSuccess Consulting, Inc. is known as the “Business Scalability Strategist.” She is dedicated to empowering 1 million CEOs globally to build a holistic life and business. More than two decades ago, T. Renee began her first business at age nineteen, on credit, with no experience, or even a business plan. As a result, she was forced to file bankruptcy, was imprisoned and had to rebuild both her life and company from scratch. Using these experiences as guideposts, T. Renee translates the tough lessons of her own business failures and successes in her best-selling book...
2022-03-04
26 min
Into The Wild
100. Love and Entrepreneurship: How to Live Your Best Integrated Life with Dan Martell
Hey you wild women! My next guest is an award-winning Canadian entrepreneur, investor, athlete, and coach to over 600+ SaaS founders. And he just happens to also be my husband. Dan Martell started his first company at 24 years old and has since built and exited three companies. He is now a SaaS coach to everyone who is anyone in the software business. This is the 100th episode of the Into The Wild Podcast and I am so proud to welcome Dan as my first (and maybe my only) male guest on the show. I...
2021-12-27
49 min
Listen 2 Me
E32 · Dan Snow : Making Your Own Way
Dan Snow (he/him) never considered himself a "creative", but his vision and drive are what brought SNOW Collective, a consortium of entrepreneurial professionals from vision to reality. Dan joins Gio and Renée to discuss the real burnout of working for large corporations, why authenticity is so valuable in work as well as life, and how his involvement with the CGLCC, Canada's LGBT+ Chamber of Commerce, changed his life and his business. Other topics include the perils of crying in your car at work, keeping busy during COVID, the advantages and disadvantages of working from home and t...
2020-12-02
00 min