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Vanilla with a Side of Kink143. Coming Out and Coming to TermsSend us a textIn this episode, Renee shares her kink and polyamorous life with her family. And then confronts someone who should have known better. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2026-02-0228 minVanilla with a Side of Kink142. Watchout for the Ides of March, TooSend us a textIn our last episode, we learned that our hero Dan received life-changing news that now has him and Renee contemplating a new course of action. Plus, Renee's love life starts to heat up!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2026-01-1930 minVanilla with a Side of Kink140. Oh, There You Are.Send us a textAs Renee's relationship with Michael continues to grow a new someone appears. This episode marks the end of Season 7 in our podcast journey. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-09-2930 minVanilla with a Side of Kink137. Renee has Gastric Bypass SurgerySend us a textThe day of Renee's surgery has finally arrived!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-08-1833 minVanilla with a Side of Kink134. Mr. SirKnottyDan Goes to a Sex Party!Send us a textThe first of December brought a couple of first for our heroes and one is Dan goes to his first sex party!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-07-2131 minVanilla with a Side of Kink133. Cooking, Coffee, and Kitchen TablesSend us a textIn this episode Thanksgiving and Friendsgiving take our heroes out to visit family and friends. A coffee date starts something and Dan is going to his first sex party!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-07-1432 minVanilla with a Side of Kink132. Almost At A Breaking Point!Send us a textRenee visits the Urgent Care, the move goes forward, and Dan gets help!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-07-0730 minVanilla with a Side of Kink129. I Love It When A Plan Comes Together!Send us a textRemember that episode when Renee talked about her dog Tranquilo coming back . . .Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-06-1632 minVanilla with a Side of Kink128. Trifecta of Happiness and Sticky Coke HairSend us a textThe trifecta of happiness; our heroes met, All Tied Up San Diego started, and Dan's birthday all happened in September! Plus, Renee delivers on a family member's special day with an extra splash of excitement!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-06-0931 minVanilla with a Side of Kink126. Renee was Sold A Bill of GoodsSend us a textThe first six days of August bring life-changing events into the household.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-05-2631 minVanilla with a Side of Kink125. They Who Fail to Prepare, Prepare to FailSend us a textRenee sets the stage for a future event as she and Dan go to a fundraiser for a local dog rescue. Plus the strategic planning takes shape.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-05-1931 minVanilla with a Side of Kink124. Strategic PlanningSend us a textDan and Renee return from the cruise and work to find a new balance in their life. They also make some plans related to All Tied Up San Diego that yield interesting results.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-05-1229 minVanilla with a Side of Kink123. The Sloth in the SuiteSend us a textRenee makes a very important decision that causes her to change her mind about a specific type of adventure!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-05-0530 minVanilla with a Side of Kink122. The AftermathSend us a textNow that Renee's parents' memorial services have been completed, she takes on a new role in life.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-04-2840 minVanilla with a Side of Kink121. Special Episode: KinkFestSend us a textThis is episode Dan and Renee report live, or at least Dan does, while Renee sleeps in his lap, from the KinkFest Conference in Portland, OR.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-04-2131 minVanilla with a Side of Kink118. A Loving SacrificeSend us a textDaisy makes a sacrifice for Renee. Renee's Dad starts to decline and chaos ensues in Victorville!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-03-3129 minVanilla with a Side of Kink114. Hello Insecurity My Old Friend.Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee's relationship agreements are tested as Renee's insecurities come full force as Dan continues to tie with Liz. Plus, one of the podcast award companies throws a curveball!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-03-0332 minVanilla with a Side of Kink113. First Episode & Friends Galor Ring in 2023!Send us a textIt sounds way more exciting in the title than it was, but hey we published and officially launched the Vanilla with a Side of Kink podcast on January 2nd, 2023! Plus, as Dan continues to tie with Liz, there are lots of opportunities to connect with friends, both old and new. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and A...
2025-02-2429 minVanilla with a Side of Kink112. Recording Starts & Renee Starts Looking!Send us a textIn this episode, we record the first episode of Vanilla with a Side of Kink in December of 2022! Plus, Renee starts to look for a boyfriend, and Dan continues to tie with the new bottom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-02-1730 minVanilla with a Side of Kink111. Thankful for FriendshipSend us a textTsunamis, Board Games and Bottoms! Remember our heroes explaining how awesome the board game Gloomhaven was during the pandemic? It was the thing that they did to help pass the time. Well, Dan found another epic board game that was getting rave reviews, and in this episode, you will hear all about it! Our heroes also attend a local rope event, and Dan ties with a new bottom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business...
2025-02-1030 minVanilla with a Side of Kink110. Has anyone seen a beach around here?Send us a textOur intrepid heroes continue their epic vacation in Hawaii and this time cannot find the beach! Imagine that being on an island in the middle of the Pacific Ocean and they cannot find the beach! Well, it happened! Dan's unfailing sense of direction was not working this day.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance.
2025-02-0331 minVanilla with a Side of Kink108. Renee's Crystal Ball Shows Us the FutureSend us a textHave we told you about Renee's voices in her head? Well the voices started talking again and she came up with a whole new idea. Guess what it is?Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-01-2032 minVanilla with a Side of Kink107. Renee Really Tried to be HumbleSend us a textOur heroine goes to a conference humble and comes home feeling validated.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2025-01-1533 minVanilla with a Side of Kink103. Affliction and ReliefSend us a textDan and Renee return safely from Walt Disney World in Florida, but Dan brings a special "something something" with him from WDW. Then there is a new beginning that brings a change in a nick of time.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink...
2024-12-1630 minVanilla with a Side of Kink102. Skyler SparklesSend us a textIn this episode, our heroes encounter a technical glitch at the beginning that is thankfully fixed around the 3-minute mark. Sorry about that! Our new normal continues to take shape as Dan keeps looking for a job, we travel to Walt Disney World in Florida and Skyler finally comes home after his epic trip to become a diamond.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our ne...
2024-12-0934 minVanilla with a Side of Kink101. Resigning Ourselves to a New NormalSend us a textWell, the pandemic is over and we are excited to see life returning to . . . WTF! Yeah, life took a turn and now our heroes get to figure out a new normal that is post-pandemic, but also post-Renee's working. Fortunately, there is a bit of a bright side that comes in the form of forgiveness.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things...
2024-12-0330 minVanilla with a Side of Kink99. We Finally Get A Key to the Kinkdom!Send us a textWelcome to Season Six! Which is irrelevant in episode terms, but helps us know what part of our journey we are talking about! And Season Six is about the time period after the pandemic starting in February 2022. In this episode, numbers explode, life starts to return to the new normal and the renovations start on the house, sending our heroes in all sorts of different directions. Plus a miscommunication leads to Dan and Renee finally getting a key they have wanted for more than five years!Visit our website: w...
2024-11-1830 minVanilla with a Side of Kink98. Rodents Of Unusual Sneakiness (R.O.U.S): Beginning 2022Send us a textWe take our title from the famous movie the Princess Bride since Renee is definitely a princess and she is my bride! And just like in the movie there are dangers in this world that can come out of nowhere! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side o...
2024-11-1135 minVanilla with a Side of Kink97. Renee Goes On A Quest and the End of 2021.Send us a textWith her newly found freedom, Renee takes the opportunity to hunt down something valuable.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-11-0433 minVanilla with a Side of Kink96. The Dam Breaks!Send us a textIn this episode the pressure reaches a breaking point, just two months after the wedding???? What did Dan do now? Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-10-2831 minVanilla with a Side of Kink91. Oh No You Didn't!Send us a textRenee's predictive powers from the last episode come true, resulting in a mini-meltdown. Friends come to the rescue to save Renee from herself and from canceling the wedding, even though Dan (for perhaps the first time) did nothing wrong.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of...
2024-09-2332 minVanilla with a Side of Kink90. One Ring To Rule Her Heart!Send us a textRenee finally gets her engagement ring! A wedding venue is selected as we inch closer and closer to the wedding date.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-09-1633 minVanilla with a Side of Kink88. Dan Levels Up to Marriage Material!Send us a textIn this episode, Renee rewards a friend in a big way. All Tied Up San Diego gets a new logo and holds its first in-person event since March of 2020, and Dan completes the final piece of the marriage puzzle!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of...
2024-09-0235 minVanilla with a Side of Kink86. She Called Him "My Everything"Send us a textThis episode is part one of our discussion of the wonderful celebration of Skyler, who was Renee's dog from before our relationship started. This episode deals with pet loss, so we understand if you need to skip this episode.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of...
2024-08-1928 minVanilla with a Side of Kink85. A New Routine and Dan Gets SceneSend us a textAs February, March, and April of 2021 roll around, the pandemic reaches the one-year mark, and things start to change for the better. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-08-1230 minVanilla with a Side of Kink83. Finding a Haven in the GloomSend us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee share the game that kept them entertained for hours during the pandemic, Gloomhaven! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-07-2934 minVanilla with a Side of Kink82. Life Moves OnlineSend us a textDan discovers that the Learning Management System he chose for the courses is not delivering the impact he desired and makes a significant change. And the new 101 Course starts and the fun begins!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-07-2230 minVanilla with a Side of Kink81. . . . or a LifetimeSend us a textDan and Renee celebrate their sixth anniversary and there is a special twist that comes out of this one!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-07-1530 minVanilla with a Side of Kink80. A Reason, A Season . . .Send us a textSix months into the pandemic, life has begun to change, much of it for what feels like the negative. In this episode, our heroes discuss the joys of post-video production of the All Tied Up San Diego Shibari training. Plus, Renee shares some very painful experiences with friends.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance.
2024-07-0831 minVanilla with a Side of Kink77. Adding Insult to InjurySend us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee talk about how the pandemic affected their family interactions, including some rather spectacular acrobatic events by Dan's dad. Listen now to hear some of the craziness that we dealt with from family.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink...
2024-06-1733 minVanilla with a Side of Kink74. Beetlemania and the End of 2019Send us a textDecember 2019 finds our hero's house infested with small flying creatures! Listen to the near heroic efforts that Renee made to make it through this catastrophe! (Said with all the sacacasm Dan can possibly muster)Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-05-2729 minVanilla with a Side of Kink73. A Bug's LifeSend us a textSomething was bugging Renee, and when they uncovered what it was . . . the floor moved!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-05-2030 minVanilla with a Side of Kink69. These Are A Few Of Her Favorite ThingsSend us a textRenee turns 50, and it is party time!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-04-2230 minVanilla with a Side of Kink68. They Came In Hot!Send us a textThis episode includes a police chase and someone loses their driver's license! Plus Renee demonstrates her miraculous healing powers.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-04-1530 minVanilla with a Side of Kink67. Endings and Beginnings to start of 2019Send us a textIn this episode, Dan comes to terms with ending something big and makes an important decision about his future. Renee gets drunk, not just drunk, drop-down, vomiting, sleeping on the bathroom floor, drunk, and finding something out.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink...
2024-04-0834 minVanilla with a Side of Kink66. Busy, Busy, Boring!Send us a textIn this episode our heroes fully engaged in their vanilla and kink lives. Renee is overwhelmed by work responsibilities, while Dan travels for work and to meet a friend. Dan's family grows by two. A photoshoot, trip to a Dutch village, a hockey game, and a mission, along with a family member's visit to the hospital, round out this episode. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our n...
2024-04-0130 minVanilla with a Side of Kink65. Renee and the Big Fat White GuySend us a textIt is now September of 2018, and our heroes are going to travel to the Mid-West for a bit of R&R, but the Big Fat White Guy might have other plans.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-03-2531 minVanilla with a Side of Kink64. As Fireworks Boom the Relationship Clock Resets, Again!Send us a textAn error in judgement creates a resetting of the relationship clock, again. Renee must make a life-changing decision and other changes in life.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-03-1833 minVanilla with a Side of Kink63. Birthday Fun and Things Come UndoneSend us a textWe start in May, 2018 which is Renee's birthday month! In this episode, Renee takes two separate trips and we find ourselves stranded outside of our house.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-03-1232 minVanilla with a Side of Kink62. Business Travels, Family Hassles, and Neck CracklesSend us a textVanilla life comes roaring to the forefront as our heroes find Dan is out of town more than 20 days in a 28 day period. Plus, Renee's mom decides to grace them with her presence and Dan finally gets some help for the shoulder issues he was having a year ago.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance.
2024-03-0430 minVanilla with a Side of Kink61. Ethical LogicSend us a textThis episode marks the beginning of Season Four and starts with Dan going to therapy for lying to Renee. This creates a very powerful change in Renee that makes a special part of their lives very difficult. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - T...
2024-02-2631 minVanilla with a Side of Kink60. 2017 Ends in a Ka-Thunk!Send us a textIn this episode, we learn about our hero's visit to have their dogs blessed. Then Renee takes a trip to keep Dan company during a business trip break. And to end Season 3's episodes, yet another relationship change, but this one is because of a lie!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife...
2024-02-1930 minVanilla with a Side of Kink58. Leveling Up!Send us a textWe are now almost three years into the relationship and a couple of significant events give Dan the chance to level up in the relationship game. Plus our heroes go their separate ways for a weekend event and both have fun. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a S...
2024-02-0533 minVanilla with a Side of Kink57. Bringing Flight Lessons to San DiegoSend us a textDan learns more valuable lessons about the intentionality of rope bondage as he and Renee bring a top instructor to teach those in San Diego how to fly! Plus, how being put on a pedestal and being very good at what you do can cost you everything.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. ...
2024-01-2926 minVanilla with a Side of Kink55. The Adventures of FlirtymanSend us a textRenee gives Dan a new nickname as he learns more about how his actions need to change if he is going to win Renee's heart!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-01-1529 minVanilla with a Side of Kink54. LucygateSend us a textDan continues to learn some difficult lessons about his responsibility as a Top and how his actions affect Renee and others.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-01-0832 minVanilla with a Side of Kink53. Learning to Fly in PhoenixSend us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee travel to another state to learn more. Dan learns about traffic cameras and how to modify ties to help Renee get in the air successfully.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2024-01-0136 minVanilla with a Side of Kink51. There's No Need to Fear, Super Social Worker is Here!Send us a textIn this episode, someone breaks Rule 13 and experiences the full fury of a pissed off Renee . . . for a very good reason. Plus our heroes share some of the vanilla aspects of their trip to Vegas.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-12-1831 minVanilla with a Side of Kink49. Starting 2017, Ginger and Olivia Enter the Scene!Send us a textAs we begin 2017, Dan and Renee decide to make one of their first large purchases together, and they become "that" couple. Plus, national events lead to a discussion about privilege. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-12-0426 minVanilla with a Side of Kink48. The Daddy, The Officer, The Dog, and The Slave . . .Send us a textThis episode concludes the three-part interview with the amazing Poly-Leather Family. And Frank and Dan share some special moments and realizations.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-11-2729 minVanilla with a Side of Kink45. Bellweather Moments and Watershed EventsSend us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee go back to June of 2016 to share more of the vanilla happenings in their incredibly crazy year. This includes Dan's divorce and the consequences of that action on his parents and on the house he now lives in.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group...
2023-11-0629 minVanilla with a Side of Kink44. Pivot from Local to NationalSend us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee share about their 3rd anniversary together! Also, they share about going to a national event with leading Shibari organizers and instructors from around the country. There they discussed how to remove the stigmatism attached to Shibari and grow community.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com...
2023-10-3033 minVanilla with a Side of Kink42. Flies, Tents, and IntentionsSend us a textHave we mentioned that we have been traveling in July of 2016, well here is the fourth weekend in a row and Renee was about done. Dan learns a powerful lesson from some friends. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-10-1628 minVanilla with a Side of Kink41. Pride and Joy in San DiegoSend us a textDid we mention that we had been out of town for two straight weekends in July? Well, here comes another weekend away in three weeks and Dan almost loses a finger because of it! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-10-0928 minVanilla with a Side of Kink40. The Unconventional ConventionSend us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee travel to LA for a new type of conference that is sure to have Renee seeking the introvert's corner!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-10-0227 minVanilla with a Side of Kink39. Learning How Not to DieSend us a textDan and Renee get some much-needed and appreciated education from experts in the field of Shibari Rope Bondage. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-09-2530 minVanilla with a Side of Kink38. What You Don't Know Can Kill YouSend us a textOur Dan and Renee come to some startling realizations about how much they didn't know back in 2016. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-09-1828 minVanilla with a Side of Kink37. Bombers and BombshellsSend us a textIn this episode, our heroes attend a high-protocol play party, and Dan learns how to do fire play with Renee. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-09-1130 minVanilla with a Side of Kink35. Herding Kittens and Shoveling SmokeSend us a textThe essence of Shibari is so much more than tying a pattern. In this episode, Renee and Dan bring a charismatic and charming instructor in to teach Shibari at a level higher than they could teach at the time. This was the first time they went outside San Diego to bring quality rope instruction to the community.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the...
2023-08-2829 minVanilla with a Side of Kink34. Danke Schoen, Wayne NewtonSend us a textMuch more about our vacation in Las Vegas. Renee could really have her own podcast on how to plan and execute a vacation! Plus an event completely derails that last day of our vacation.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-08-2132 minVanilla with a Side of Kink31. Flying into 2016 - Renee Joins the Rebellion!Send us a textIn this episode, we complete November and December of 2015 and move into January 2016. We explored some classes we took on hypnosis, sexual health, lightning in our hands, and getting started in the Kinkdom. Additionally, we traveled by boat, while Dan had plans to bring Renee into the Rebellion!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance.
2023-07-3130 minVanilla with a Side of Kink30. Dan and Renee Seek the Wiseman!Send us a textIn this episode, we find our heroes heading up to Los Angeles to visit friends and seek wisdom for the Wiseman of BDSM play. Plus, Renee finally reveals the big thing that happened in October! And October is also their one-year anniversary. At this rate you will be hearing their tale until they are 90!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things...
2023-07-2426 minVanilla with a Side of Kink29.5 But Wait!Renee made a mistake, and we are documenting it for historical purposes!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comFetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-07-1902 minVanilla with a Side of Kink29. Dan FINALLY Finds A Use For PeasSend us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee recount events in both the Kinkdom and Vanillaland during the month of September and October of 2023. They reflect on how much they had happening in all aspects of their life, and you'll just have to listen to understand the title.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife...
2023-07-1727 minVanilla with a Side of Kink28. Lessons Learned, Lessons TaughtSend us a textDan and Renee talk about all the many lessons they learned and the many lessons they taught back in the early days of All Tied Up San Diego. Much of their curriculum shook up the status quo and ruffled a few feathers.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with...
2023-07-1032 minVanilla with a Side of Kink26. Who Let The Dogs Out? Who? Who? Who? Who? Who?Send us a textWho you asked? Take a guess . . . Ka-Thunk! In this episode, Dan's actions show his commitment as he moves himself into Renee's house. However, they both discover how different they are from one another and how many things need to change for Dan to stay. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: V...
2023-06-2629 minVanilla with a Side of Kink25. Deflating Mattress, Coin-Op Shower, and a Whip CircleSend us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee go Kinky Camping!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-06-1931 minVanilla with a Side of Kink24. Pride and Injured PrideSend us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee recount their first experience volunteering at the San Diego Leather Realm at the San Diego Pride Festival in July of 2015. Then they share life & relationship-defining moment in their journey.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-06-1231 minVanilla with a Side of Kink23. Heeere's Primal Panic!Send us a textIn this episode, Renee explains her mind-blowing realizations about her struggle with polyamory. And they have yet again, another relationship change!Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy.
2023-06-0535 minVanilla with a Side of Kink22. Holy Ethical Complications, Batman!Send us a textDan and Renee take a deeper dive into Consensual Nonmonogamy (CNM) as they look at how their relationship works and how it wouldn't.Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and...
2023-05-2933 minVanilla with a Side of Kink21. Remove Those Rose-Tinted GlassesSend us a textWith Dan's change in behavior, Renee starts touring him around, including meeting the parents. They learn about anchors and knowing the reasons why.Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.polysecure. Attachment, Trauma, and C...
2023-05-2229 minVanilla with a Side of Kink20. Dan Goes to the DogsSend us a textIn this episode, we find our hero (Dan) trying to accept many changes and not handling them as well as expected. Renee has to make a decision that might send a mixed message. And the bus ride continues that has Dan earning his lumps.Book References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your Guide to OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life.
2023-05-1530 minVanilla with a Side of Kink19. Ka-Thunk, Ka-Thunk, the Bus Ride Begins!Send us a textAs Dan and Renee explore life as Friends with Benefits, the friends side takes a twist, and Renee goes into protective mode! The wheels on the bus start running over Dan as he navigates a new relationship poorly.Books References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your GuideTo OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex and...
2023-05-0831 minVanilla with a Side of Kink18. Friends with BenefitsSend us a textDan and Renee are now broken up (well, Renee broke up with Dan), and now they start to navigate life as Friends with Benefits! This change has a profound and dramatic effect on both of them.Books References:The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-monogamy. Your GuideTo OpenRelationships, Polyamory, And Letting Go. By Lola Phoenix.A Happy Life in an Open Relationship. The Essential Guide to a Healthyand Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life. By Susan Wenzel, sex andrelationship therapist.
2023-05-0133 minVanilla with a Side of Kink17. Season Finale - Renees ConclusionSend us a textThis episode concludes Renee's origin story, including explaining how she came to meet Dan at the comic book store those many years ago. And brings us to the end of Season One of Vanilla with a Side of Kink!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of...
2023-04-2433 minVanilla with a Side of Kink16. Renee's Origin Part 1Send us a textThis episode will give you unique insight into Renee's family life and the years leading to meeting Dan. She reveals things she has not typically shared with even our closest friends. I (Dan) am very proud of her for being so transparent and approachable with the telling of this story. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Ac...
2023-04-1736 minVanilla with a Side of Kink15. Canes, Brains, Pains, and DrainsSend us a textRenee has so much fun that she cannot move! Dan learns how to use a Cane on Renee effectively. This is an extraordinary skill of sensation. Renee explains some of the levels of play related to BDSM. We go to our first play event at someone's private home. We start teaching our very first rope class. Renee learns a critical lesson about impact play.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.A...
2023-04-1035 minVanilla with a Side of Kink14. You've Got to be F'ing Kidding Me!Send us a textDid you know Dan is the nice one? Don't break rule 13. Dan seeks help for his Daddy skills. Dan gets asked a question that creates a change in Dan & Renee's relationship. And Dan has some important revelations about how his actions were different than his words. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance.
2023-04-0331 minVanilla with a Side of Kink13. Renee's First Play PartySend us a textMELTDOWN of EPIC PROPORTIONS! Listen as Renee shares what was happening with her as she prepares to go to her very first play party.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-03-2733 minVanilla with a Side of Kink11. Vanilla is Tasty TooSend us a textDan describes some of the kinky events he attended separately from Renee, and we reveal a bit more about the vanilla side of our lives.Book References: Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich, Published 2023 by RoutledgeVisit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity...
2023-03-1326 minVanilla with a Side of Kink10. New Year, New Everything, and the Top Comes OffSend us a textGoing back in time, a couple of months from our last episode, we look at a different side of our Dom/sub relationship and what that meant to us going to events. And hear the story of the first time Renee gets naked in public!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com...
2023-03-0634 minVanilla with a Side of Kink9. It's NOT Official Anymore! Ending Dom/Sub Relationship.Send us a textIn this episode Dan and Renee experience a significant change and each reflects on how this change will affect their life going forward.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-02-2725 minVanilla with a Side of Kink8. It's Official! Entering a Dom/Sub Relationship Part 2Send us a textIn this episode Dan and Renee share some of the joys and hardships of being in a Dominant/Submissive relationship and Dan learns there is a cost to having what he wants.Book References: Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich, Published 2023 by RoutledgeUnequal by Design: Counseling Power Dynamic Relationships by Sabrina Popp M.D and Raven Kaldera, published 2014 by Alfred PressVisit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you...
2023-02-2030 minVanilla with a Side of Kink7. It's Official! Entering a Dom/Sub Relationship Part 1Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee talk about officially entering into a Dominant/Submissive relationship. They talk about some of the important aspects of this and other types of BDSM relationships and some of the misconceptions that society has about them.Book References: Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich, Published 2023 by RoutledgeUnequal by Design: Counseling Power Dynamic Relationships by Sabrina Popp M.D and Raven Kaldera, published 2014 by Alfred PressVisit our website: w...
2023-02-1341 minVanilla with a Side of Kink6. The Education StartsSend us a textIn this episode Dan and Renee start attending kinky events together and start learning many things about the kinkdom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-02-0629 minVanilla with a Side of Kink5. Dan's Origin Story - How He Found Kink - Part 2Send us a textIn this episode Dan talks about finding and attending his first kinky event. He shares some of the thoughts he had as he entered the kinkdom. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-01-3023 minVanilla with a Side of Kink4. Dan's Origin Story - How He Found Kink - Part 1Send us a textIn this episode Dan will share a bit about his life, his early years, his first time seeing a woman naked, and how he learned about the Kinkdom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-01-2335 minVanilla with a Side of Kink3. The Eight Days of KinkmasSend us a textIn this episode Dan and Renee talk about what happened during the eight days immediately after their pseudo non-date date.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
2023-01-1632 minVanilla with a Side of Kink2. First of FirstsSend us a textIn this episode Dan and Renee talk about how they met and what their first pseudo non-date date looked like. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast
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