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Compassiviste Dialogues
A Survivor’s Journey from Exploitation to Freedom – Cults Exposed w/Daniella Mestyanek Young
Welcome to Compassiviste Dialogues. I'm Ali, your host, and my mission with this podcast is to shed light on critical social and environmental issues worldwide, exploring avenues for positive change. And today, we’re honored to share the incredible journey of Daniella Mestyanek Young. Raised in the notorious Children of God cult, Daniella escaped and transformed her life, ultimately becoming a U.S. Army captain and intelligence officer on the frontlines in Afghanistan. Her bestselling memoir, praised for its powerful storytelling, has been compared to Educated and The Glass Castle. In this episode, we...
2025-05-01
1h 47
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 36 | Yogaville
In this episode, Scott and Daniella engage with Brianna, who shares her profound journey through the world of yoga and her experiences at Yogaville, a yoga community that turned out to be more complex than it seemed. Brianna discusses her initial attraction to the community, the positive aspects she encountered, and the darker realities that unfolded over time, including manipulation, abuse, and the psychological toll of being involved in a cult-like environment. The conversation emphasizes the importance of trust, intuition, and the need for open discussions about both the good and bad experiences within such organizations. Briana's...
2025-04-29
47 min
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 35 | AA From an Addiction Specialist
In this episode, Scott Loyd and Daniela Mestyanek-Young engage in a deep conversation with Andi Wiseman about the nature of cults, particularly focusing on the military and Alcoholics Anonymous (AA). They explore the harmful aspects of 12-step programs, the intersection of addiction and systemic issues, and the importance of listening to survivors. The discussion highlights personal experiences with cult-like behavior in nonprofits and the need for a broader understanding of recovery beyond traditional frameworks. Andi's Links Website The Book: The Unsubtle Art of Unfucking Your Life Daniella's Links: You...
2025-04-15
58 min
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 34 | Cult of Masculinity
In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mesteneck Young engage in a profound conversation with Jack about the complexities of masculinity, the cultural constructs surrounding gender identity, and the emotional struggles faced by men in contemporary society. Jack shares his personal journey from a troubled upbringing to his work in men's circles, emphasizing the need for vulnerability, community, and a redefinition of masculinity that moves away from harmful stereotypes. The discussion explores the impact of societal expectations, the illusion of male superiority, and the importance of emotional expression and connection among...
2025-04-08
1h 02
The Totally Legitimate Business Podcast
Cult Dynamics | Cult Behavior in Everyday Life w/ Daniella Mestyanek Young | The TLB Pod 111
On Episode 111 of The TLB Podcast, James speaks with Daniella Mestyanek Young, a Military veteran, organizational psychologist, cult survivor, and author and scholar of cults and extreme groups, and the pair discuss the importance of recognizing and addressing the influence of bad groups and leaders in contemporary society, the intricate dynamics cult ideology, community, and the societal structures that lead to coercive control, the role of capitalism in perpetuating cult-like behaviors, and the psychological effects of living in a society operating on cult dynamics. DANIELLA MESTYANEK YOUNG’s LINKSYouTube: @knittingcultladyI...
2025-03-31
1h 32
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 32 | Satanic Panic Debunked
In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, hosts Scott Loyd and Daniela Mesteneck Young engage in a profound conversation with Lydia Knight, who shares her harrowing experiences growing up in a cult. Lydia discusses the complexities of her upbringing, including themes of racism, the satanic panic, and the psychological impact of fear and control within cult dynamics. The conversation delves into the process of healing and deprogramming, the importance of reconnecting with family, and the empowerment that comes from leadership and coaching. Lydia's journey of transformation serves as an inspiring testament to resilience and the power...
2025-03-25
1h 01
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 31 | Cult Situation Report
In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mesteneck Young explore the current political climate in the U.S. and its parallels to cult dynamics. They discuss the rise of cult mentality, the deification of leaders, and the implications of executive power. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community, collective action, and the role of art in resisting oppressive governance. The hosts encourage listeners to engage with their communities and resist fear-driven narratives, highlighting the need for resilience and creativity in challenging times. Daniella's Links: You can read all...
2025-03-18
56 min
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 30 | The DSM as a Weapon
In this conversation, Daniella and Katie Keech explore the intersections of cult dynamics, mental health, and neurodiversity. They discuss the misdiagnosis of mental health disorders in cult survivors, the authoritarian nature of the DSM, and the importance of self-definition and community support. The conversation delves into the complexities of plurality, trauma, and identity, emphasizing the need for a nuanced understanding of these issues in a world that often seeks to categorize and control individuals. Daniella's Links: You can read all about my story in my book, Uncultured-- buy signed copies here. https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured For...
2025-03-04
58 min
Profoundly Pointless
Cult Survivor Daniella Mestyanek Young
Daniella Mestyanek Young spent more than a decade in the infamous “Children of God” religious cult. Now, she’s here to tell her story. We talk why people join cults, the extreme difficulty of leaving a cult and the growing influence of cults in America. Then, it’s Cubans and Reubens vs. Grilled Cheese and Peanut Butter and Jelly as we countdown the Top 5 Sandwiches.Daniella Mestyanek Young (aka Knitting Cult Lady): 01:14Pointless: 46:02Top 5 Sandwiches: 01:09:52Contact the Show
2025-02-26
1h 26
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 29 | Asian American Apostate
In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mesteneck Young engage in a deep conversation with Scott Okamoto, who shares his journey from evangelical Christianity to questioning the very foundations of his beliefs. The discussion touches on themes of identity, race, and the struggles of belonging within high-control groups. They explore the dynamics of critical thinking versus apologetics in Christian education, the impact of the model minority myth, and the role of empathy in Christianity. Scott reflects on his experiences teaching at a Christian university and the challenges he faced while trying...
2025-02-25
1h 02
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 28 | Online Cult
In this episode, Scott Loyd and Daniella Mestyneck Young engage in a deep conversation with Taylor Marie, a mental health therapist and cult survivor. Taylor shares her experiences with an online cult, discussing the similarities between online and in-person cults, the recruitment tactics used, and the psychological manipulation involved. The conversation explores the dynamics of charismatic leadership, the exploitation of belonging and purpose, and the red flags that led to Taylor's eventual departure from the cult. The discussion also touches on the importance of healthy leadership and the potential for spiritual practices to exist without devolving into cult-like behavior...
2025-02-18
1h 00
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 27 | Childhood Torture vs Abuse
Content Warning: This episode includes descriptions of the abuse and torture of young children In this episode of 'Cults and the Culting of America', hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mestyanek Young engage in a profound discussion with Ali Davis about the complexities of childhood torture, the distinction between abuse and torture, and the societal implications of these issues. They explore personal stories of survival, the role of the judicial system, and the cultural influences that perpetuate cycles of violence. The conversation emphasizes the importance of education, recognition of trauma, and the need for societal change to protect...
2025-02-11
1h 00
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 26 | Mediation and Marketing
In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, host Scot Loyd and co-host Daniela Mesteneck Young engage in a deep conversation with Chloe Nwangwu, a brand scientist. They explore the concept of under recognition, the importance of branding in social influence, and the role of conflict mediation in understanding societal dynamics. Chloe shares her journey from conflict resolution to branding, emphasizing the significance of visibility and recognition in creating impactful change. The discussion also touches on the mythical norm, the dangers of echo chambers, and the necessity of diversity in combating misinformation. The episode concludes with insights...
2025-02-04
1h 00
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 25 | Post Traumatic Mistriss Syndrome with Amanda Gross
In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, hosts Scot Loyd and Daniela Mestyanek Young engage in a profound conversation with Amanda Gross about the intersections of race, privilege, and healing. Amanda discusses her book, 'White Women Get Ready,' which explores the concept of Post-Traumatic Mistress Syndrome and the role of white women in anti-racist movements. The conversation delves into personal histories, the current climate of racism, the importance of community, and the challenges of navigating white privilege. They also touch on the impact of cancel culture and the role of arts in fostering healing and...
2025-01-28
58 min
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 24 | IBLP and "Shiny, Happy People"
In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mestyanek Young engage with Tara and Floyd, who share their experiences growing up in the Institute in Basic Life Principles (IBLP) and the Advanced Training Institute (ATI). They discuss the complexities of deconstruction from fundamentalist beliefs, the emotional toll of leaving a cult, and the impact on family relationships. The conversation also touches on the importance of emotional awareness in parenting and the healing journey after leaving high-control groups. Tara and Floyd reflect on their participation in the documentary 'Shiny Happy People' and the...
2025-01-21
57 min
The Cult I Left Behind
70 - A Conversation with Cult Survivor and Author Daniella Mestyanek Young
What happens when you escape a world built on control, fear, and secrecy? How do you begin to heal after a life of indoctrination? This week, we're joined by Daniella Mestyanek Young, author, TEDx speaker, and cult survivor, to dive deep into the harrowing and inspiring journey of leaving a cult—and finding yourself on the other side.Daniella's website: https://uncultureyourself.com/Buy Daniella's book: https://uncultureyourself.com/pages/bookInstagram: @daniellamyoung_Facebook: @Daniella Mestyanek Young_Author YouTube: @KnittingCultLadyX: @daniellamyoungSend us text! Ple...
2025-01-20
1h 04
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 23 | Tia Levings Author of "A Well Trained Wife"
In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella engage with Tia Levings, a New York Times bestselling author and cult survivor. They discuss Tia's journey of writing her memoir, the impact of Christian patriarchy, and the allure of traditionalism in modern society. Tia shares her insights on the dynamics of complementarianism, the consequences of perfectionism, and the importance of storytelling in healing. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness and empowerment among those affected by high-control groups, while also exploring the complexities of societal change and the role of women in shaping...
2025-01-14
57 min
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 22 | Teaching and Public Education
In this conversation, Daniella and Jack explore the parallels between cult dynamics and the education system, particularly focusing on how teaching can exhibit cult-like characteristics. They discuss the impact of masculinity, patriarchy, and the control of children within educational settings. The conversation delves into the degradation ceremonies present in both cults and schools, the role of punishment in hierarchical systems, and the importance of unstructured outdoor time for child development. They also address the exploitation of teachers' labor, the purpose of education in society, and the need for resistance against oppressive structures. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of community...
2025-01-07
1h 10
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 20 | Recovering from Purity Culture
In this conversation, Maddie Jo Cowsert shares her journey from growing up in evangelical purity culture to navigating her identity and sexuality in New York City. She discusses the complexities of deconstruction, the impact of family support, and her reflections on wealth and the behavior of rich people. The dialogue highlights the shared experiences of those who have left high-control groups and the ongoing search for belonging and purpose. Daniella's Links: You can read all about my story in my book, Uncultured-- buy signed copies here. https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured For more info on me: Patreon...
2024-12-10
1h 04
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 19 | Hasidic Judaism
In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, Beatrice Weber shares her profound journey growing up in the Hasidic community, detailing the strict beliefs and practices that shaped her life. She discusses the impact of historical trauma on her community, the role of women, and her experiences with arranged marriage. Beatrice reflects on her decision to leave the community after years of confusion and struggle, and she now focuses on education reform for Jewish children. Her story is one of resilience, courage, and the ongoing quest for personal freedom and identity. Daniella's Links: You...
2024-12-03
59 min
Camille-Sato
Download [PDF] Uncultured: A Memoir BY Daniella Mestyanek Young in Kindle
start Download or Read ebook Uncultured: A Memoir Written by Daniella Mestyanek Young ePub Visit Link Bellow You Can Download or Read Book online for free Visit Book Here 👉 https://opusbooklibs.blogspot.com/id/1250280117 Available versions: EPUB, PDF, MOBI, DOC, Kindle, Audiobook, etc. Summary : In the vein of Educated and The Glass Castle, Daniella Mestyanek Young's Uncultured is more than a memoir about an exceptional upbringing, but about a woman who, no matter the lack of tools given to her, is determined to overcome. Behind the tall, foreboding gates of a commune in Brazil, Daniella Mestyanek Young was raised in t...
2024-11-27
00 min
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 18 | 1 to 1 cults (Narcassistic Abuse)
In this conversation, Dr. Kerry McAvoy discusses her experiences with narcissistic abuse, the psychological implications of narcissism, and the societal impact of charismatic leaders. The discussion delves into the dynamics of cult-like behavior in politics, the challenges of cognitive dissonance, and the importance of personal identity and healing from toxic relationships. Dr. McAvoy shares insights on the spectrum of narcissism, the significance of vulnerability, and offers resources for those seeking to recover from abusive situations. Daniella Mestyanek Young's book: From Bookshop.org Uncultured Autograph: Connect with Daniella on social media ...
2024-11-26
59 min
Giuliana-Mino
[Read] pdf Uncultured: A Memoir BY Daniella Mestyanek Young in Kindle
start Download or Read ebook Uncultured: A Memoir Written by Daniella Mestyanek Young EPub Visit Link Bellow You Can Download or Read Book online for free Get Book Here 👉 https://opusbooklibs.blogspot.com/id/B09NTK34N7 Available versions: EPUB, PDF, MOBI, DOC, Kindle, Audiobook, etc. Summary : In the vein of Educated and The Glass Castle, Daniella Mestyanek Young's Uncultured is more than a memoir about an exceptional upbringing, but about a woman who, no matter the lack of tools given to her, is determined to overcome. Behind the tall, foreboding gates of a commune in Brazil, Daniella Mestyanek Youn...
2024-11-23
00 min
Esperanza-Kato
[Download] Pdf Uncultured BY Daniella Mestyanek Young in Handbook
start Download or Read ebook Uncultured Written by Daniella Mestyanek Young EPub Visit Link Bellow You Can Download or Read Book online for free Get Book Here 👉 https://opusbooklibs.blogspot.com/id/125083547X Available versions: EPUB, PDF, MOBI, DOC, Kindle, Audiobook, etc. Summary : In the vein of Educated and The Glass Castle , Uncultured is more than a memoir about an exceptional upbringing, but about a woman who, no matter the lack of tools given to her, is determined to overcome.Behind the tall, foreboding gates of a commune in Brazil, Daniella Mestyanek Young was raised in the religious cult the...
2024-11-21
00 min
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 17: Is Alcoholics Anonymous Culty?!?!
Summary In this conversation, the hosts and guest explore the dynamics of cults, particularly focusing on Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and its 12-step program. They discuss the coercive nature of these programs, the sacred status of AA, and the psychological impacts on individuals involved. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing the tactics used by cults, the role of shame and judgment, and the need for personal responsibility and accountability. The emotional toll of leaving such programs and the significance of language in shaping identity and recovery are also examined. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the...
2024-11-19
1h 11
Hey White Women
Episode 16 | What do we do now?
In this episode of 'Hey White Women', the first recorded after the 2024 election, hosts Daniella and Rebecca engage in a deep conversation about the role of white women in dismantling white supremacy. They discuss the importance of acknowledging discomfort, the need for collective action, and the power of community in creating change. The conversation emphasizes the necessity of listening to marginalized voices, the journey of healing, and the complexities involved in challenging ingrained societal norms. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, they encourage listeners to take action and be part of the solution. Connect with Rebecca at:
2024-11-19
1h 25
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 16: Voices Unbound--Cults, White Supremacy, and the Silencing of Women
Summary In this episode, Scot Loyd, Daniella Mestyneck Young, and Ali Henney discuss the intersections of cult dynamics, white supremacy, and the silencing of women, particularly black women. They explore personal experiences within cults, the impact of group behavior, and the role of narcissism in community spaces. The conversation also delves into the concept of misogynoir and the unique challenges faced by black women in various contexts. The importance of using one's voice to advocate for justice and the complexities of identity and intersectionality are emphasized throughout the discussion. Takeaways Ali's book 'I...
2024-11-12
1h 01
Hey White Women
Episode 15 | Human Rights vs Pet Rocks
This unplanned conversation delves into the complexities of anti-racism, personal growth, and the impact of societal norms on individual experiences. The speakers discuss the importance of language, the challenges of navigating discomfort, and the role of community in healing. They also explore the intersection of mental health and racism, emphasizing the need for systemic change and the journey of self-discovery. In this conversation, Haley and Rebecca delve into the complexities of identity, focusing on the intersections of race, gender, and disability. They discuss the unique experiences of black women, the societal norms surrounding gender conversations, and the impact of...
2024-11-05
1h 31
Hey White Women
Episode 14 | Discomfort Isn’t Danger: Rehumanizing Conflict
In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of human nature, the oversimplification of good and evil narratives, and the importance of rehumanization in social discourse. They discuss the role of white women in social justice, the impact of capitalism on group dynamics, and the necessity of discomfort for personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the power of personal narratives, critical thinking, and storytelling in fostering empathy and understanding, while also addressing the limitations of white feminism and the need for preventative measures in societal issues. Connect with Rebecca at: Website Patreon
2024-10-29
1h 13
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 15: Leaving the Cult of MAGA
Summary In this conversation, Scott Loyd and Daniella engage with Haley Griffith, who shares her transformative journey from supporting Donald Trump to embracing liberal values. The discussion delves into the psychological aspects of political allegiance, the complexities surrounding issues like abortion, and the dynamics of cult-like behavior in political movements. Haley reflects on her experiences, the influence of friendships, and the gradual realization of the need for nuanced perspectives in political discourse. In this conversation, the speakers discuss the complexities of voting, particularly in relation to marginalized communities and the binary nature of American politics. They explore...
2024-10-29
1h 00
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 14: Good Cult, Bad Cult
Summary In this conversation, Scot Loyd and Daniella (KnittingCultLady) delve into the complexities of group dynamics, particularly focusing on the duality of groups as both beneficial and potentially harmful. They explore the societal fascination with cults, the nuances of labeling groups as 'good' or 'bad', and the inherent human need for belonging. Daniella shares insights from her experiences and research, emphasizing the importance of questioning group structures and the potential for exploitation within them. The discussion culminates in a list of ten commandments for creating healthy, functional groups that prioritize individual well-being over blind allegiance. ...
2024-10-22
1h 02
Hey White Women
Episode 13 | There Are No Easy Answers
In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the intersections of entertainment, identity, and societal structures. They discuss the role of whiteness in shaping experiences, the burdens of perfectionism and productivity, and the implications of the cult of entrepreneurship. The conversation delves into the dynamics of social media, the weaponization of secrets, and the importance of community versus group dynamics. They also reflect on the impact of capitalism on human value, the complexities of international relations, and the need for transparency in systems. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of individuality and the role of women in society, while advocating for...
2024-10-22
1h 18
Hey White Women
Episode 12 | Education and Total Institutions (Surprise producer appearance)
In this suprise guest episode, the speakers explore the challenges of traditional education, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. They discuss the concept of total institutions and how societal norms can impact personal identity and acceptance. The dialogue shifts to the importance of navigating life beyond conventional paths, embracing change, and redefining expertise. The speakers also touch on the dangers of cult-like structures and apocalyptic thinking in society, emphasizing the need for personal narrative and the evolution of tools in human adaptation. In this conversation, the speakers explore the challenges and opportunities of self-publishing versus traditional publishing, the impact of social...
2024-10-15
1h 23
Hey White Women
Episode 11 | The Popular Girls Aren't Happy
This conversation explores the complexities of ageism, objectivity, and bias, particularly in relation to race and gender. The speakers discuss the societal perceptions of age, the historical context of bias, and the reinterpretation of myths through feminist lenses. They delve into the impact of gender in combat and leadership roles, the illusion of popularity and happiness, and the flaws of objectivity in society. The discussion also touches on cognitive dissonance, indoctrination, and the intersection of whiteness and objectivity, emphasizing the dangers of extremism and the importance of nuanced conversations in challenging societal norms. Connect with Rebecca at:
2024-10-08
1h 13
Hey White Women
Episode 10 | Sunk Cost Fallacy
In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore the complexities of content creation, the importance of flexibility, and the challenges of navigating societal expectations. They discuss the value of redefining success, the impact of branding on perception, and the role of secrecy in both corporate and cult environments. The conversation also delves into the sunk cost fallacy, the dangers of objectivity in data interpretation, and the intersection of gender and power dynamics, ultimately highlighting how cults can appeal to individuals during times of social turmoil. In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of identity, societal structures, and personal...
2024-09-24
1h 24
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 10: Nobody Wants to Work Hard Anymore (Exploitation of Labor)
Summary The conversation explores the exploitation of labor in cults and its impact on individuals. It delves into the reasons why labor is at the center of cults, including the pursuit of power, financial gain, and the whitewashing of cult activities. The discussion also highlights the role of labor in high control religious groups and the manipulation of children to represent the group's ideals. The conversation expands to include the exploitation of labor in corporations and the systemic nature of labor exploitation in the United States. It concludes by examining the long-lasting effects of labor exploitation on...
2024-09-17
1h 01
Hey White Women
Episode 9 | Language of White Supremacy
In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the intersections of cult dynamics, whiteness, and gender, discussing how personal experiences shape broader societal issues. They delve into the importance of language, the exit costs of leaving cults, and the power of storytelling. The discussion emphasizes the need for community support, the role of silence in conversations, and the challenges of navigating identity and intersectionality. They also reflect on the impact of personal narratives on societal change and the importance of inclusivity and representation in various spaces. Books: Caste by Isabel Wilkerson Connect with Rebecca...
2024-09-17
1h 18
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 9: We Are the Best, Down with All the Rest (Us versus Them Mentality
Summary In this conversation, Daniella and Scot discuss various topics including Daniella's recent trip to Portugal, the us versus them mentality, and the experience of visiting a nude beach. They explore the influence of group norms and how they shape our behavior and perceptions. They also touch on the binary thinking prevalent in American culture and the need for more nuance. The conversation highlights the importance of representation and diversity in leadership roles and challenges the traditional gender roles and expectations. The conversation explores the themes of us versus them mentality, appearance control, and the use of...
2024-09-10
1h 08
Hey White Women
Episode 8 | White Supremacy in the Cult of Corporate America
The conversation explores the themes of color, PowerPoint culture, repetitiveness of work, cult-like aspects of organizations, the need for individuality, the impact of white supremacy, and the power of democratized knowledge. In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella discuss the loaded language around the word 'racist' and the fragility and volatility that white people often exhibit when confronted with accusations of racism. They emphasize the importance of deconstructing belief systems and actively working to dismantle white supremacy. They also explore the concept of traumalages, the blending of personal traumas and privileges that shape individual perspectives and abilities. The conversation touches...
2024-09-10
1h 17
Hello Deconstructionists
S2 E4: UnCULTured with Daniella Mestyanek Young
Daniella Mestyanek (she/her) Young, scholar of cults, extreme groups and extremely bad leadership. Daniella is the author of Uncultured, a critically acclaimed memoir of growing up in the children of god cult and then going into the cult of US Army. Daniella holds a masters in organizational psychology from Harvard, and is working on a second book called The Culting of America In this episode we talk about: Children of God Cult Joining and leaving the US Army Control, sexual assault, and preparation for the apocalypse Wearing wacky clothes as a form o...
2024-09-10
1h 36
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 8: Cult Speak and Clichés; Unpacking the Language of Control
Summary In this conversation, Daniella and Scot discuss the use of specialized language or vernacular in cults and high control groups. They explore how cults develop their own language to create a sense of belonging and isolation from the outside world. They also discuss the impact of language on communication and the difficulty of finding community after leaving a cult. The conversation highlights the manipulation of language by cult leaders to disguise abuse and control. They emphasize the importance of critically evaluating loaded language and cliches to uncover their true meaning. In this conversation, Daniella Mestyanek Young...
2024-09-03
1h 02
Hey White Women
Episode 7 | The Undergarments of Control
The conversation explores the topic of underwear and its role in control and oppression. It delves into the societal expectations and policing of women's bodies, the arbitrary nature of professionalism, and the intersection of underwear with race and gender. The discussion also touches on the history of underwear, the influence of capitalism and consumerism, and the connection between underwear and abuse in cults. Overall, the conversation highlights the ways in which underwear is used as a tool for control and the need to challenge societal norms and expectations. The conversation explores various topics related to identity, race, a...
2024-09-03
1h 31
Hey White Women
Episode 6 | Body Coverage
In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella discuss the concept of body coverage as a form of appearance control in cults and white supremacy. They explore the loaded language and thought-stopping cliches used to enforce modesty and control women's bodies. They also touch on the intersection of race and body coverage, highlighting the policing of black women's bodies and the privileging of white beauty standards. The conversation delves into the influence of cult language and the importance of challenging and deconstructing these harmful ideologies. The conversation explores the limitations placed on professional women in terms of appearance, the power of...
2024-08-27
1h 16
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 7: Isolation--The Silent Tool of Control in Cults and Beyond
In this episode, Scot Loyd and Daniella Mestyanek Young discuss the role of isolation in high control groups and cults. They explore how isolation is used to indoctrinate and control members, as well as the ways in which it can be subtle and pervasive in various organizations and institutions. They also touch on the dangers of echo chambers and the impact of social media algorithms on isolation and group dynamics. Autographed book: https://uncultureyourself.com/pages/uncultured-autographed From Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/104058/9781250280114 Daniella’s Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@daniellamestyanekyoung Youtube: htt...
2024-08-20
57 min
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 6: Take One for the Team (Self-Sacrifice of Members
In this episode of *Cults and the Culting of America*, hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mestyanek Young delve into the complex dynamics of self-sacrifice within cults and high-control groups. Drawing from their personal experiences and extensive research, they explore how cults exploit their members’ labor under the guise of a transcendent mission, enforce conformity through appearance and attitude control, and manipulate emotions to maintain control. The conversation also touches on the parallels between cult behavior and practices in organizations like the military and corporate America, offering insights into the pervasive influence of cult-like tactics in various aspects of society....
2024-08-13
1h 09
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 5: The Transcendent Mission
### Summary of Cults and the Culting of America Podcast - Episode on Transcendent Mission In this episode of "Cults and the Culting of America," hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mestyanek Young delve into the concept of the transcendent mission within cults and high-control groups. They discuss how cult leaders use vague, life-and-death missions to manipulate and retain followers. These missions often promise fulfillment in an unprovable future, making followers feel unique and superior, thus willing to self-sacrifice and endure hardships. Daniella differentiates the transcendent mission from the sacred assumption, explaining that while the sacred assumption...
2024-08-06
1h 01
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode 4: The Sacred Assumption
In this episode of the Cults and the Culting of America podcast, hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mestyanek Young dive into the concept of the "sacred assumption," a core belief that underpins a cult's worldview. Daniella explains how cult leaders create and manipulate these worldviews to control their followers, emphasizing that these assumptions don't have to be religious but can revolve around power, status, or other ideals. The discussion touches on the similarities and differences between cults and religions, the manipulation tactics used by cult leaders, and the challenges of deconstructing these beliefs after leaving a cult...
2024-07-30
58 min
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode Three: The Skinny White Woman
Daniella Mestyanek Young's book: · From Bookshop.org Uncultured Autograph: Connect with Daniella on social media TikTok, Patreon, Instagram Youtube Connect with Scot Loyd's social media (TikTok) Daniella's other podcast: Hey White Women Episode Summary: Cults and the Culting of America - Episode on The Skinny White Woman in Cults **Episode Title:** The Skinny White Woman in Cults **Hosts:** - **Daniella Mestyanek Young** (Group Behavior Gal) - Scholar of cults, extreme groups, and extremely bad leadership. - **Scot Loyd** - Co-host and commentator. **Introduction:** In this episode, Daniella and Scot dive...
2024-07-23
58 min
Hey White Women
Episode 3 | Oops, I Married a White Supremacist
In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca discuss the impact of white supremacy and cult-like behavior on their lives. Daniella shares her personal experience of being married to a white supremacist and how it made her reflect on her own identity and choices. They explore the pressure to conform to societal expectations and the importance of embracing individuality. They also discuss the power of self-expression and the need to challenge the norms imposed by white supremacy. The conversation explores the themes of freedom, perfectionism, chasing success, self-sacrifice, and the cult-like nature of societal systems. It emphasizes the importance of individuality...
2024-07-23
1h 11
Hey White Women
The Myth of White Supremacy and the Process of Deprogramming
In this conversation, Daniella Mestyanek Young and Rebecca discuss their experiences with cults and the deconstruction of white supremacy. They explore the stages of leaving a cult and the process of deprogramming from the myth of white supremacy. They also touch on topics such as privilege, racism, and the impact of cult dynamics on society. The conversation highlights the need for self-reflection, questioning societal norms, and working towards equality. In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca discuss the importance of self-reflection and deconstructing the systems of white supremacy and patriarchy. They emphasize the need for white women to recognize their privilege...
2024-07-23
1h 01
Cults and the Culting of America
Episode Two: From Charisma to Control: Understanding Cult Leaders
In this episode of "Cults and the Culting of America," hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mestyanek Young delve into the concept of charismatic leadership within cults. They begin by discussing how the idea of a charismatic leader is often associated with cults, highlighting that many of these leaders are typically perceived as white males. Daniella explains that while cults have been largely defined by white western academics, the underlying structure of patriarchy predates even white supremacy and capitalism, making it a fundamental aspect of coercive control in cults. The conversation touches on notable examples of charismatic leaders...
2024-07-16
1h 02
Cults and the Culting of America
Patriot Pains: I Joined the Army, and All I Got Was This Lousy Trauma
Summary: In this inaugural episode of "Cults and the Culting of America," hosts Daniella Mestyanek Young and Scott Loyd introduce the podcast, discussing their experiences with high-control groups and how these experiences shape their understanding of cult-like behaviors in various organizations. Daniella, a scholar of cults and author of the memoir "Uncultured," shares her journey from growing up in the notorious Children of God cult to serving in the U.S. Army. Scott, who grew up in a small Pentecostal cult, provides insights into his own deconstruction journey. The hosts dive into the definition of a...
2024-07-09
1h 05
Cults and the Culting of America
Who We Are, and Why We Talk About Cults So Much
Welcome to the inaugural episode of "Cults and the Culting of America" podcast! Join hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mestyanek Young as they dive into the fascinating world of cults, extreme groups, and toxic leadership. In this episode, Daniella shares her journey from growing up in the notorious Children of God cult to joining the U.S. Army and becoming a scholar of cult dynamics. Discover the psychological tactics used by cults to control and manipulate followers, and learn how these methods appear in everyday groups and systems. Scot and Daniella discuss why cults are a hot topic today...
2024-07-04
23 min
Cult Chronicles
Cults with Daniella Mestyanek Young
DANIELLA MESTYANEK YOUNG is a scholar of cults and extreme groups, and extremelybad leadership, and the author of the critically acclaimed memoir UNCULTURED. Daniella wasraised in the religious sex cult, The Children of God. She later served as an intelligence officerfor the US Army, making the rank of Captain, and became one of the first women in US Armyhistory to conduct deliberate ground combat operations when she volunteered to serve on aFemale Engagement Team, and received the Presidential Volunteer Service Award.
2024-06-10
1h 12
The Empowered Millennials Podcast
Is it a Cult? with Expert, Daniella Mestyanek Young
Daniella Mestyanek Young who is a scholar of cults and extreme groups, and extremely bad leadership, and the author of the critically acclaimed memoir UNCULTURED. Daniella was raised in the religious sex cult, The Children of God. She later served as an intelligence officer for the US Army, making the rank of Captain, and became one of the first women in US Army history to conduct deliberate ground combat operations when she volunteered to serve on a Female Engagement Team, and received the Presidential Volunteer Service Award. Daniella lives with her husband and daughter in Maryland, and...
2024-04-06
1h 10
EarthXperiences
Daniella Mestyanek Young: Children of God and the Wider Reach of Cult Influence
"Earth Xperiences: Breaking Free from Cult Control with Daniella Mestyanek Young" — In this insightful episode, join Daniella Mestyanek Young, author of "Uncultured," as she recounts her life in and escape from the Children of God cult. Daniella shares her intense and enlightening experiences, providing an inside look at the operations and psychological impact of living within a cult. This episode delves into the themes of manipulation, indoctrination, and the courageous journey to reclaim one's freedom and identity. For those interested in understanding more about cult dynamics or seeking guidance on recovery, visit Daniella at www.uncultureyourself.com. Ep...
2024-04-04
50 min
The Gabriela Houston Project: Storytelling in all its forms
The Gabriela Houston Project Ep 9: Interview with Cult expert and veteran Daniella Mestyanek Young
Hi, I’m Gabriela Houston! Welcome to my channel where we discuss storytelling in all its forms! It’s my belief that storytelling is an intrinsic part of everyday life as well as an important part of many professions. On the show I talk to writers, artists, journalists, researchers and more about they use storytelling in their jobs and life.Every week there’s something different, so click like and subscribe for more! It really helps the channel!Today’s guest is Daniella Mestyanek Young: an Author, a TEDx Spe...
2024-03-13
1h 11
The Cult Vault
Ep. 304 The Children of God with Daniella Mestyanek Young - Episode 110 Remastered
In this episode I talk with Daniella about her experiences growing up in the armageddonist movement The Children of God - now known as The Family International. This movement has been exposed in various ways to the public but it remained hidden in the shadows around the world for many years whilst children and members were subjected to some of the worst abuse imaginable. Daniella tells us of her escape and arrival into another high demand group - the US military.Daniella's Book "UNCULTURED" - Uncultured: A Memoir eBook : Young, Daniella Mestyanek: Amazon.co.uk: BooksDaniella's...
2024-03-02
1h 53
Cult Conversations: The Influence Continuum with Dr. Steve Hassan
The Convergence of Cult Experience and Military Indoctrination with Former Army Captain Daniella Mestyanek Young
Ever wonder about basic training in the military? What about how the BITE Model of Authoritarian Control applies to military personnel? With so many veterans who have returned to society, many do not seem to have been given the necessary psychological support to integrate and thrive. There is large amounts of active trauma as well as a high suicide rate. In 2022, Daniella Mestyanek Young acclaimed memoir Uncultured was published. It delved into being born into the Children of God sex cult, escaping, enlisting in officer’s training and her experiences as one of the first women to be in ac...
2023-12-25
1h 08
Cults to Consciousness
Escaping CHILDREN OF GOD, the Aftermath (ft. Daniella Mestyanek Young)
Growing up abroad in the COG cult meant that Daniella Mestyanek Young was isolated from birth to be a subservient, s*x item for the men in the group. At 15, a few months before she was about to be "on the menu" she realized she needed to get out. We talk about how difficult it can be when leaving a cult and rediscovering one's identity along with learning how the world works. Daniella Mestyanek Young is an Author, a TEDx Speaker, a s*x-cult survivor, a US Army Combat Veteran, an extremely adv... Learn more about your...
2023-12-23
1h 26
Dark House
Waco Siege Part 2: Feat. Cult Scholar Daniella Mestyanek Young
Following their investigation into New Mount Carmel Center, Hadley and Alyssa resume their discussion of the infamous 1993 Waco siege. Hoping to better understand the actions of those embroiled in the conflict, they’re joined by author and cult scholar Daniella Mestyanek Young, who, as a cult survivor and Army veteran with a Masters in Organizational Psychology, provides valuable insight into the perspectives of each side. Speaking to her own experiences, Daniella talks about growing up in the Children of God cult as well as her time serving in the Army, and the parallels she’s noticed between those two chap...
2023-11-15
1h 09
Clearer Thinking with Spencer Greenberg
Escaping a cult: physically, mentally, and emotionally (with Daniella Mestyanek Young)
Read the full transcript here. How do the experiences of children born into cults differ from members who join as adults? Why do some cults that grow out of western evangelical Christianity — which is notoriously obsessed with purity culture — often flip the script about sex and turn promiscuity into a virtue? How does age affect the ease with which one internalizes cult programming? To what extent do cult members approve of sexual abuses committed the name of religion? What sort of tactics do cult leaders employ to keep members from leaving? In what ways are militaries like cult...
2023-11-09
1h 17
Trust Me: Cults, Extreme Belief, and Manipulation
Daniella Mestyanek Young, Part 2 - Military Life & Parallels to The Children of God
In part two of her interview with Lola & Meagan, Children of God survivor and military veteran, Daniella Mestyanek Young, talks about joining the military after high school, being a woman in a hyper masculine culture, and unsettling parallels between what she saw in the military and the Children of God. Check out our great sponsors!! Shopify: Run your own business? Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/trustme ZocDoc: Need a doctor? Go to Zocdoc.com/trustme and download the Zocdoc app for F...
2023-10-04
1h 11
Trust Me: Cults, Extreme Belief, and Manipulation
Daniella Mestyanek Young, Part 1 - Children of God, 9/11, & Escaping the Cult
In part one of her interview with Lola & Meagan, Children of God survivor and military veteran, Daniella Mestyanek Young, discusses being raised in the Children of God, the various forms of punishment she and the other children experienced, how child sexual abuse was not only encouraged but part of the belief system, how the youth were taught to practice for raids and lie to protect the group, why 9/11 was a turning point in her beliefs, and how she finally left the cult. Trust Me is brought to you by Prose! Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and...
2023-09-27
57 min
No Culty Vibes
Daniella Mestyanek Young and The Cult of Business Coaching
Cassie and Daniella went live on TikTok to chat about their shared experience of cult like business coaches. They also discuss Daniella's "Guru Gotcha Checklist" and examples of similar traits of cult like leaders. Did you know I have art available? https://thecassiemarie.gumroad.com Follow Cassie on TikTok- www.TikTok.com/@the.cassiemarie Instagram- www.instagram.com/the.cassiemarie YouTube- @nocultyvibes Follow Daniella on TikTok- www.TikTok.com/@daniellamestyanekyoung Instagram- www.instagram.com/daniellamyoung_ Buy Daniella's book Uncultured https://www.amazon.com/Uncultured-Memoir-Daniella-Mestyanek-Young/dp/1250280117/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=uncultured&qid=1695419636&sr=8-1
2023-09-23
1h 19
Julian Wauters
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2023-09-16
00 min
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2023-09-07
00 min
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2023-09-07
00 min
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2023-08-08
00 min
Wetwired
Premium Episode 20: Growing Up in the Children of God Cult feat Daniella Mestyanek Young (Sample)
This is a sample of a premium episode. To listen to the entire episode and hear our other premium only content, subscribe at patreon.com/wetwired. In this episode, we’re joined by Daniella Mestyanek Young, the author of Uncultured. She was born a third generation member of an influential family, within The Family International, better known as the Children of God cult. She escaped at fifteen, put herself through school, and graduated from college as valedictorian. Daniella joined the Army, became Captain, and she received the Presidential Volunteer Service Award. She was an Intelligence Officer in one of the Ar...
2023-07-14
06 min
Speaking Up: Surviving Religions and Cults
From the Children of God to the Military - Daniella Mestyanek Young - S2E20
DANIELLA MESTYANEK YOUNG is an American author and speaker who was raised in the religious cult, Children of God. She later served as an intelligence officer for the US Army for over six years, making the rank of Captain, and became one of the first women in US Army history to conduct deliberate ground combat operations when she volunteered to serve on a Female Engagement Team and received the Presidential Volunteer Service Award. Daniella lives with her husband and daughter in Maryland and holds a Master’s degree in Industrial and Organizational Psychology from the Harvard Extension School.
2023-06-05
1h 06
Cults to Consciousness
From the Children of God Sex Cult to the US Military ft. Daniella Mestyanek Young
**Content Warning: Brief mentions of Suic*de Ideation and R*pe**Daniella Mestyanek Young finally escaped the Children of God sex cult at age 15 desperately trying to acclimate to life in the US and starting school for the first time. Her accolades and honors would land her in the US military which not only compounded upon her growing mound of trauma, but eventually leading her to an impossible breaking point. Click here to watch on YouTubeClick here to watch the previous video with Daniella(c... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
2023-05-25
1h 23
Cults to Consciousness
Her Horrific Childhood in the Children of God Sex Cult ft. Daniella Mestyanek Young
***CONTENT WARNING: Mentions of child sexual assault/physical abuse, child trafficking and sex***Please listen with care. This episode is very heavy and potentially triggering. This is, however, an important story to tell. Daniella Mestyanek Young was born and raised in the Children of God sex cult, who's goal was to raise sexually liberated children with little to no secular education. This is the story of her childhood behind the walls of the compounds all over the world. The next episode, ... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
2023-05-24
1h 13
A Little Bit Culty
‘Uncultured:’ Daniella Mestyanek Young on COG and the US Military (Pt. 2)
Today’s episode is Sponsored by BetterHelp. We’re back for part 2 of our interview with Daniella Mestyanek Young, the badass author of Uncultured: a Memoir. In her book, Young gets into the nitty gritty of growing up in the Children of God cult, now known as “The Family International,” with their horrifying pedophilic practice called “Law of Love.” In part 2, we dive deeper into Young’s time as a Captain in the US Army—a role that threw Young back into the trenches of misogynist and coercive abuse resembling the neglect she survived in her childhood. How...
2023-05-08
1h 05
A Little Bit Culty
‘Uncultured:’ Daniella Mestyanek Young on COG and the US Military (Pt. 1)
Today’s episode is Sponsored by BetterHelp. If hell is real, there is perhaps no circle of it as harrowing nor vile as the experience of growing up in the Children of God cult. Still active under the name “The Family International,” the group is known for being a real-life manifestation of the shittiest of shitty macabre practices, such as child sexual abuse involving their “Law of Love,”—a mandate for females of all ages to show Jesus their love by letting men straight up rape them. One would hope that gro...
2023-05-01
46 min
The Divorcing Religion Podcast
Daniella Mestyanek Young - Sex Cult Survivor
Daniella Mestyanek Young - Sex Cult SurvivorDivorced: The Children of God cultTW: Discussion of CSA and military sexual assaultDANIELLA MESTYANEK YOUNG is an American author and speaker who was raised in the religious cult, Children of God.She later served as an intelligence officer for the US Army for over 6 years, making the rank of Captain, and became one of the first women in US Army history to conduct deliberate ground combat operations when she volunteered to serve on a Female Engagement Team, and received the Presidential Volunteer...
2023-04-19
59 min
IndoctriNation
BONUS EPISODE PREVIEW: Cult Dynamics in the U.S. Military w/Daniella Mestyanek Young
This is just a preview of our exclusive Patreon bonus episode. You can hear the full episode by becoming a supporter at: www.patreon.com/indoctrination Daniella Mestyanek Young is the author of UNCULTURED: A Memoir of Cults, War and Belonging which The New York Times calls “A painful and propulsive memoir delivered in the honest tones of a woman who didn’t always think she’d live to tell her story” She was born a third-generation member of the infamous Children of God religious cult and grew up being trafficked around the world, before escaping that life and moving to Ameri...
2023-04-14
13 min
The Jordan Harbinger Show
823: Daniella Mestyanek Young | How to Disengage from a Lifelong Cult
Daniella Mestyanek Young (@daniellamyoung) is a survivor of the religious Children of God cult, a US Army combat veteran, an extremely advanced knitter, and the author of Uncultured: A Memoir. What We Discuss with Daniella Mestyanek Young: How the seemingly wholesome Children of God (later known by variations of "The Family") religious group centered around love, faith, and Jesus — and packaged to appeal to impressionable countercultural hippie types of the day — veered into true cult territory under the direction of its leader, David Berg. How female followers of Children of God were encouraged to use their bodi...
2023-04-11
1h 42
AuthorTopia
Daniella Mestyanek Young: Life Lessons from a Religious Sex Cult
DANIELLA MESTYANEK YOUNG is the author of “UNCULTURED: A Memoir”. She tells a harrowing story about growing up among pedophiles in the notorious Children of God sex cult, escaping at the age of 15, and eventually joining the US Army. Daniella talks to former news producer Frank Silverstein about being completely unprepared for life in an American public high school where she panicked over the simplest things, such as naming her favorite rock star. On the other hand she tells about having no trouble with basic training where the physical endurance requirements hobbled many of the other recruits. These are remarkable stories...
2023-04-09
27 min
AuthorTopia
Daniella Mestyanek Young: Life Lessons from a Religious Sex Cult
DANIELLA MESTYANEK YOUNG is the author of “UNCULTURED: A Memoir”. She tells a harrowing story about growing up among pedophiles in the notorious Children of God sex cult, escaping at the age of 15, and eventually joining the US Army. Daniella talks to former news producer Frank Silverstein about being completely unprepared for life in an American public high school where she panicked over the simplest things, such as naming her favorite rock star. On the other hand she tells about having no trouble with basic training where the physical endurance requirements hobbled many of the other recruits. These are remarkable stories...
2023-04-09
27 min
Women and Crime
Daniella Mestyanek Young - part 2
Ep 119: (part 2) Raised in one of the most notorious sex cults, one woman’s memoir brings their atrocities out of the shadows and into the light.This is the Daniella Mestyanek Young story - part 2.For more information about Daniella's work, or to learn about her book, Uncultured; visit her website: https://www.uncultureyourself.comSources for Today's Episode: Uncultured: A Memoir of Cults, War and Belonging by Daniella Mestyanek Young Interview with Daniella Mestyanek Young Davidberg.org Childrenofgod.com Sponsors:(thanks for us...
2023-03-21
45 min
Outlook on Radio Western
Outlook 2023-03-13 - Us and Them with Writer and Scholar Daniella Mestyanek Young
We decided to call this special International Women’s Day/Women’s History Month episode of Outlook “Us and Them”, a slight altering from the term us vs them, relating to a chapter in the memoir we’re featuring with this interview Kerry did for a gender studies course she recently took. “Uncultured” is a book by Daniella Mestyanek Young, a writer and scholar who’s studied organizational psychology and group dynamics, specializing in extreme groups. We wanted to put out this show to show that Outlook is about disability, but that it’s bigger than this one single intersectionality we share about and...
2023-03-15
56 min
Women and Crime
Daniella Mestyanek Young - Part 1
Ep 118: (Part 1) Raised in one of the most notorious sex cults, one woman’s memoir brings their atrocities out of the shadows and into the light.This is the Daniella Mestyanek Young story - part 1.For more information about Daniella's work, or to learn about her book, Uncultured; visit her website: https://www.uncultureyourself.comSources for Today's Episode: Uncultured: A Memoir of Cults, War and Belonging by Daniella Mestyanek Young Interview with Daniella Mestyanek Young Davidberg.org Childrenofgod.com Sponsors:(thanks for us...
2023-03-14
43 min
Cult Hackers
From the Children of God to the Army: Uncultured with Daniella Mestyanek Young
In her memoir, 'Uncultured' Daniella Mestyanek Young tells her story of being raised in the Children of God, her escape at just 15, finding herself in a world she didn't understand, getting an education and then joining the US army and becoming an intelligence officer. It's a compelling story and Daniella talks about her book, her life and her research into both healthy organizations and toxic ones as well as her reflections on effective leadership. Daniella's Website https://www.uncultureyourself.com/ Become a Cult Hacker Patron for just $1.50 per month https://www.p...
2023-01-14
1h 07
The Truth that Heals
#19- Uncultured: interview with Daniella M Young
Today on the Truth that Heals Podcast we listen to author Daniella M Young as she shares with us about her bestselling memoir titled Uncultured. She was raised in the religious cult Children of God and later found herself joining the US Army. She shares with us her story of not only survival but also of finding the courage to share her story by writing her memoir. (NOTE: This episode will be discussing sexual abuse) You can find her book at all major book stores or you can buy it on amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Uncultured-Memoir-Daniella-Mestyanek-Young-ebook/dp/B09NTK34N7...
2022-12-24
1h 17
Let's Talk About Sects
Interview Episode: Uncultured with Daniella Mestyanek Young
Daniella Mestyanek Young was born into the Children of God, as was her mother before her. She left as a teenager and put herself through school and university, then decided to join the military. Her fantastic book Uncultured explores many of the parallels between the cult and the armed forces. The New York Times called it, “A painful and propulsive memoir delivered in the honest tones of a woman who didn’t always think she’d live to tell her story."You can support us on Patreon or Acast+, with a one-off donation, or grab s...
2022-11-29
59 min
Retaliation with Julie Roginsky
Daniella Mestyanek Young (Former Children of God Member and US Army Intelligence Officer)
"For 243 years the military just accepted that women were not good enough to do this, and there was no argument you could make to get them to change their mind."Daniella Mestyanek Young was born into the third generation of the religious sex cult, the Children of God. She later served as an intelligence officer for the US Army for over six years, making the rank of Captain, and observed the same misogyny she had thought she escaped when she left the cult. Daniella is the author of "Uncultured: A Memoir."Check out Daniella's book here...
2022-10-20
54 min
The Cult Vault
#205 UNCULTURED - Interview with Author Daniella Mestyanek Young
In this episode with author Daniella Mestyanek Young, we discuss her childhood being born and raised in David Berg's Children of God - known today as The Family International. We then compare the coercion and abuses inflicted upon Daniella and others in the CoG to the US Army - of which Daniella served as an intelligence officer after leaving the CoG.TW - we discuss the sexual abuse of children and the rape culture of several environments still in existence and still abusing men, women and children today.GRAB A COPY OF UNCULTURED TODAY! - https://www.amazon.com/Daniella-Mestyanek-Young...
2022-10-07
1h 53
Escape Reality, Immerse in Imagination With Full Audiobook Wonder
Uncultured: A Memoir Audiobook by Daniella Mestyanek Young
Listen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 564681 Title: Uncultured: A Memoir Author: Daniella Mestyanek Young Narrator: Daniella Mestyanek Young Format: Unabridged Length: 13:49:04 Language: English Release date: 09-20-22 Publisher: Macmillan Audio Genres: Religion & Spirituality, Biography & Memoir, Non-Fiction, World Religions, Social Science, Women Summary: 'Its a dark story that forced me to think more expansively about what constitutes a cult.' The New York Times' Ernesto Londoño 'Although this is Mestyanek Youngs first time narrating, listeners will appreciate hearing this deeply personal story told by the author herself. Share with fans of Tara Westovers Educated a...
2022-09-20
1h 49