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Healing Mothers' Club
The Golden Child and the Scapegoat with Mel Guttman, IFS Therapist
Welcome back to the Healing Mothers’ Club! As part of the mini-series on the effects of narcissistic abuse on motherhood, Danik is joined by Mel Guttman, a licensed IFS therapist who specializes in narcissistic abuse and family estrangement. In today’s episode, we cover:What is self-gaslighting and how to get out of the fog;How IFS Therapy and EMDR Therapy are game-changers for survivors of narcissistic abuse (and how talk therapy can only go so far);Why you may want to maintain a relationship with your narcissistic parent as a mother yourself, even if you logic...
2025-07-14
37 min
Healing Mothers' Club
The Impacts of Narcissistic Abuse on Parenting Skills [Narcissism Series]
If your child’s tantrums trigger a deep sense of overwhelm, fear, or even rage, this episode is for you. As a mom with a history of emotional neglect or narcissistic abuse, you may be parenting from survival mode without even realizing it. In this episode, I explore how unresolved childhood trauma shows up in motherhood and why your nervous system responds to your child’s big emotions as if they’re a threat. Understanding these trauma patterns is the first step in breaking the cycle.In this episode, I talk about:How emotional neglect from a narc...
2025-06-30
16 min
Future Template Parent | EMDR intensive tips for EMDR therapists and Therapist Moms
Breaking Barriers in Therapy: Imposter Syndrome, EMDR Intensives & Accessibility with Danik Bernier MSW [Episode 90]
Send me a text with your biggest takeaway!Welcome back for another episode of the Future Template Parent Podcast! I’m joined by Danik Bernier, MSW, a registered social worker and EMDR consultant-in-training. We dive into the real talk behind building a sustainable therapy practice, including how Danik navigated imposter syndrome, why she shifted to EMDR intensives, and how she approaches private practice in Canada. We also break down the nuances of therapy fees, accessibility, and how the right support and strategy can create long-term success for therapists.Whether you're building your own practice or cu...
2025-03-19
46 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Motherhood after Narcissistic Abuse [Narcissism Series]
Welcome back to another episode of the Healing Mothers’ Club! In today's episode, we kick off a special mini series where we deep dive into what it's like to do motherhood as a narcissistic abuse survivor.As always this episode is meant for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not meant to replace a mental health assessment or psychotherapy provided by a licensed health professional.Key Points Discussed:What narcissism is according to Dr. Ramani;We briefly touch on Danik's experience as the granddaughter of a covert narcissist;How narcissism ab...
2024-09-02
22 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Back-to-School Overstimulation and How to Manage
In this episode of The Healing Mothers' Club, Danik Bernier delves into how moms can best prepare for the (unfortunately inevitable) generalized sense of overstimulation that happens when kids go back to school. She gives you tips and tricks on how you can navigate this tough situation so you feel like your family isn't the odd one out and you have a better idea about what needs to be prioritized. Because attunement to our kids' needs is something that we can build.Connect with Danik! :· Instagram: @danikhelpsmomsDISCLAI...
2024-08-19
10 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Ep 22 - Trying to Keep Our Sanity with Our Overstimulated Kids After School
In this episode of The Healing Mothers' Club, Danik Bernier preps us to manage the overstimulation our kids come back from school with. It's almost that time of year where they come back home and it looks like yelling, trash everywhere, and probably you in the bathroom crying trying to manage our overwhelm. Danik encourages us to focus on co-regulation right away. When our kids get home, instead of demands and asking them questions, we want to be ahead of the game (even if they seem calm). They need time to acclimate to their new rhythm of school, as...
2024-08-19
10 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Becoming an Attuned Mom Despite Emotional Neglect in Childhood
In this episode of The Healing Mothers' Club, Danik Bernier delves into how moms who experienced emotional neglect in childhood can still become attuned and responsive to their children's needs. She explores the reasons behind the challenges these moms face and offers practical tips for developing emotional attunement. Through self-awareness and emotional literacy, Danik provides a compassionate roadmap for mothers to nurture their children with empathy and love, despite their past experiences. Tune in for insights and strategies to help you connect more deeply with your child and yourself.Resources:1. Self-Regulation for Moms masterclass2...
2024-08-05
12 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Overcoming the Overwhelm of Summer Without a Village
Welcome back to another episode of the Healing Mothers’ Club! In today's episode, we explore the often overwhelming experience of summer, especially for those without the support of an extended family. Danik shares insights on dealing with the feelings of isolation and deception that many moms face when summer doesn't meet their idealized expectations. From managing overstimulation and anxiety to finding peace in small moments, this episode provides validation and practical advice for healing moms navigating the summer months.Key Points Discussed:The challenges of summer for moms without a support systemThe emotional impact of going no...
2024-07-22
08 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Experiencing Anger as a Mom with Childhood Trauma
Hello and welcome to the Healing Mothers’ Club podcast! I’m your host, Danik Bernier, and today I’m addressing a topic that's been highly requested by listeners and Instagram followers: experiencing anger as a mom with childhood trauma.Listen as I explain why anger is a taboo subject, why moms who are childhood trauma survivors might have a really hard time expressing healthy anger, and what to do about it.If you've enjoyed this episode, it would mean the world to me if you could give it 5 stars and leave a review!
2024-07-15
15 min
Healing Mothers' Club
From Chaos to Calm: Beatrice’s Journey to Self-Regulation
Welcome to The Healing Mothers’ Club! I'm Danik Bernier, mom of two, trauma therapist certified in EMDR, and parenting coach for childhood trauma survivors. In this episode, we explore the transformative power of self-regulation through the story of Beatrice, a fictional mom who mirrors the real struggles and victories of many of my clients. Learn how Beatrice moved from feelings of inadequacy and chaos to a more regulated, connected, and peaceful parenting approach. This episode is part of our 7-day mini-series leading up to the Self-Regulation for Moms Masterclass. Enroll now—doors close July 8th at midnight! The link to r...
2024-07-06
13 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Letter To the Me I was 3 Years Ago
Welcome back to the Healing Mothers' Club. Today we are sharing a very emotional episode, where Danik reads a letter to her past self, as the young mom of a 2 year old in the depths of nervous system dysregulation. The Self-Regulation for Moms masterclass closes on Monday, July 8th at 12:00 AM. Don't miss your chance to take the first step towards trauma-informed parenting!Connect with Danik:Instagram: @danikhelpsmomsDISCLAIMERThis podcast is not meant to replace psychotherapy from a licensed mental health professional, does not give medical advice, and...
2024-07-05
06 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Navigating Toddler Tantrums: What’s Normal and How to Cope
Welcome back to the Healing Mothers’ Club with Danik Bernier! In today's episode, we dive into a topic every mom grapples with: Are my child's tantrums normal? And what should I do if they seem to last longer than expected?As we continue day 5 of our 7-day mini-series on self-regulation for moms, we'll explore:Understanding typical vs. concerning tantrum behavior through a trauma-focused lens.The importance of self-regulation for moms to effectively observe and respond to their child's emotional outbursts.How to differentiate between developmentally appropriate expressions of emotions and signs that your child may need ad...
2024-07-04
08 min
Healing Mothers' Club
The Type of Childhood Trauma That Most Often Leads Moms to Lose It With Their Kids
Today on "Healing Mothers' Club", your host Danik Bernier talks about the type of trauma that most often leads moms to not be able to be completely attuned with their kids and to not be able to provide the co-regulation their kids need when they have big feelings. The goal of this episode is not to say that there is a type of trauma that is worse than others, but to explain the fact that was chronically left out for you as a child shows up in motherhood.I go deeper in this topic in my online...
2024-07-03
12 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Most Parenting Courses Fail Moms with Trauma
Hello and welcome to the Healing Mothers’ Club podcast! I’m your host, Danik Bernier, and today I’m explaining why most parenting courses out there fail moms with trauma. Unfortunately, most moms can perceive that it is THEM failing at implementing what they are learning in the parenting course they bought, but it's not them. It's the prescriptive parenting methods used.Self-Regulation for Moms masterclass is live! Catch it hereConnect with Danik:· Instagram: @danikhelpsmomsDISCLAIMERThis podcast is not meant to replace psychotherapy from a licensed me...
2024-07-02
08 min
Healing Mothers' Club
I Needed Self-Regulation Techniques (Even as a Therapist)
Hello and welcome to the Healing Mothers’ Club podcast! I’m your host, Danik Bernier, and today we're kick starting a mini series to celebrate the launch of my new online masterclass, Self-Regulation for Moms. Click here to get to the course!Today I explain why I would have needed self-regulation techniques as a mom myself (even though I'm a trained therapist) :· I couldn't see my child struggling when I was brushing his teeth, therefore causing chronic discomfort and could see the signs of trauma in him;· I realized that my nervous system was taking me to a...
2024-07-01
17 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Nervous System Regulation vs. Emotional Regulation For Moms
Hello and welcome to the Healing Mothers’ Club podcast! I’m your host, Danik Bernier, and today I’m explaining the difference between nervous system regulation and emotional regulation. This is a tricky one because we hear so much contradicting information out there!The goal with today’s episode is to leave you feeling like:· You understand the main differences between the two strategies;· You understand that it is NOT your fault if you tried one technique and it didn’t help;· You’re empowered to make informed decisions about what works best for your nervous syste...
2024-06-10
14 min
Healing Mothers' Club
When Childhood Trauma Resurfaces in Motherhood
Hello and welcome to the Healing Mothers’ Club podcast! I’m your host, Danik Bernier, and today we’re diving into how childhood trauma can resurface when we become mothers. In previous episodes, I touched on this topic during the postpartum period, but today we'll explore it throughout all stages of motherhood. I’ll be talking about trauma resurfacing in all stages and ways to stick with your plan to become a trauma-informed parent: · From postpartum to early childhood · teenage years, and· becoming or staying a trauma-informed parent as the mom of an adult child.
2024-06-03
20 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Welcome to the Healing Mothers' Club!
Welcome back to the podcast under a brand-new name! I’m so excited to have you here and accompany you in this healing journey in motherhood. My name is Danik Bernier, and I'm a mom of two littles, a social worker, psychotherapist, and parenting coach. I can't tell you how excited I am to bring this podcast to life because I’ve been wanting to break the isolation and validate the experiences of moms with trauma for such a long time. You probably didn’t want to be a part of this club because of all the pain you had to...
2024-05-26
19 min
Tune in With Gab
Navigating Postpartum Depression (PPD) and Postpartum Anxiety (PPA) with Perinatal Therapist Danik Bernier
In this episode, I speak with Danik Bernier, Perinatal Therapist who focuses on helping moms heal their trauma and break generational cycles in their parenting. She shares helpful content around motherhood, being more self compassionate and addressing trauma. In this episode, we discuss:· the signs of PPD and PPA· Birth trauma and how to navigate it· Learning about perinatal therapy · Is therapy right for you?· Working with a therapist vs coach · Childhood trauma effects on fertility, pregnancy and motherhood· The mental struggles she sees moms facing in her practice · ...
2024-02-15
50 min
Healing Mothers' Club
How to Know if You Have Trauma to Heal as a Postpartum Mom
Hello and welcome the Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms podcast. Today, I’m talking about the ways we can figure out for ourselves if we have trauma that needs healing as a postpartum mom. This episode, like every other, is not meant to replace an assessment or therapy provided by a mental health professional, but rather to expose the fact that trauma is subjective, and NO ONE can decide if what we went through was traumatic or not. We can have trauma symptoms even if we do not have PTSD.As postpartum moms, we go through a lo...
2023-07-10
08 min
Trauma Healing For Postpartum Moms
How to Know if You Have Trauma to Heal as a Postpartum Mom
Hello and welcome the Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms podcast. Today, I’m talking about the ways we can figure out for ourselves if we have trauma that needs healing as a postpartum mom. This episode, like every other, is not meant to replace an assessment or therapy provided by a mental health professional, but rather to expose the fact that trauma is subjective, and NO ONE can decide if what we went through was traumatic or not. We can have trauma symptoms even if we do not have PTSD.As postpartum moms, we go through a lo...
2023-07-10
08 min
Healing Mothers' Club
The Link Between Childhood Trauma and Postpartum Depression and Anxiety
Hello and welcome back to the Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms podcast! I’m so glad to be back after this short (but needed) break. If it’s your first time here, hi! My name is Danik Bernier, and I'm a mom of two littles, a social worker, and a psychotherapist. I’m so glad to have you here, where you’ll get the validation you most likely need: entering motherhood is not always easy, especially when there are layers of trauma into the mix. Spoiler: they OFTEN have something to do with your postpartum depression and anxiety symptoms.TRI...
2023-06-23
24 min
Trauma Healing For Postpartum Moms
The Link Between Childhood Trauma and Postpartum Depression and Anxiety
Hello and welcome back to the Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms podcast! I’m so glad to be back after this short (but needed) break. If it’s your first time here, hi! My name is Danik Bernier, and I'm a mom of two littles, a social worker, and a psychotherapist. I’m so glad to have you here, where you’ll get the validation you most likely need: entering motherhood is not always easy, especially when there are layers of trauma into the mix. Spoiler: they OFTEN have something to do with your postpartum depression and anxiety symptoms.TRI...
2023-06-23
24 min
Healing Mothers' Club
The Difference Between Postpartum Trauma and Anxiety
Hey postpartum moms, welcome to episode 7 of Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms. Trauma and anxiety symptoms often overlap, so today I'm breaking down the difference between the two and how they can both show up in this new stage of motherhood. After listening to this episode, you will know how to spot anxiety and how to spot trauma (without diagnosing yourself, of course, get a better sense of what is going on for you as you navigate motherhood and what you can do about releasing the trauma that shows up as anxiety in your everyday life. Your...
2023-05-20
15 min
Trauma Healing For Postpartum Moms
The Difference Between Postpartum Trauma and Anxiety
Hey postpartum moms, welcome to episode 7 of Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms. Trauma and anxiety symptoms often overlap, so today I'm breaking down the difference between the two and how they can both show up in this new stage of motherhood. After listening to this episode, you will know how to spot anxiety and how to spot trauma (without diagnosing yourself, of course, get a better sense of what is going on for you as you navigate motherhood and what you can do about releasing the trauma that shows up as anxiety in your everyday life. Your...
2023-05-20
15 min
Healing Mothers' Club
EMDR Intensives for Postpartum Moms
Welcome to this 6th episode of the Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms podcast. This episode is all about my specialty: EMDR Intensives for Postpartum Moms. You've realized that your childhood stuff mixed with birth experience stuff and baby blues sticking longer than it should have to be addressed. But seeking therapy for 1 hour weekly seems sooo rough. We're often way too busy!Enter EMDR Intensives. This safe and effective method of providing therapy is exactly what busy postpartum moms need. Tune in as I explain:What you can expect in an EMDR IntensiveWhy they work so...
2023-05-13
10 min
Trauma Healing For Postpartum Moms
EMDR Intensives for Postpartum Moms
Welcome to this 6th episode of the Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms podcast. This episode is all about my specialty: EMDR Intensives for Postpartum Moms. You've realized that your childhood stuff mixed with birth experience stuff and baby blues sticking longer than it should have to be addressed. But seeking therapy for 1 hour weekly seems sooo rough. We're often way too busy!Enter EMDR Intensives. This safe and effective method of providing therapy is exactly what busy postpartum moms need. Tune in as I explain:What you can expect in an EMDR IntensiveWhy they work so...
2023-05-13
10 min
Trauma Healing For Postpartum Moms
The Trauma of Being Told "Your Baby Has a Disability"
Hello and welcome to episode 5 of Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms. This episode brings me back to my hospital social worker days where I worked with parents who received the news that their baby or toddler had Down Syndrome, Cerebral Palsy, a genetic syndrome, Autism, and/or a Developmental Delay, to name a few. I loved my work with these incredible parents, but it was heart crushing to see the pain in their eyes. Lucky for me, I often got to see the pain turn into hope and joy as they released the trauma they experienced (with the years...
2023-05-05
22 min
Healing Mothers' Club
The Trauma of Being Told "Your Baby Has a Disability"
Hello and welcome to episode 5 of Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms. This episode brings me back to my hospital social worker days where I worked with parents who received the news that their baby or toddler had Down Syndrome, Cerebral Palsy, a genetic syndrome, Autism, and/or a Developmental Delay, to name a few. I loved my work with these incredible parents, but it was heart crushing to see the pain in their eyes. Lucky for me, I often got to see the pain turn into hope and joy as they released the trauma they experienced (with the years...
2023-05-05
22 min
Trauma Healing For Postpartum Moms
How Trauma from Sexual Abuse can Impact your Birthing Experience on a Psychological Level
Why is it important for soon-to-be moms and veteran moms to recognize sexual trauma? It all has to do with what you can do to prevent birth trauma. When we are pregnant and we go into labour and delivery, without recognizing that our body holds trauma, we are at higher risk for birth trauma. There are some physical sensations that can be really intense, which can trigger the trauma that is stored in your body as a survivor of sexual abuse. If we recognize and not minimize our story, then we know what to expect when it’s time to...
2023-04-28
30 min
Healing Mothers' Club
How Trauma from Sexual Abuse can Impact your Birthing Experience on a Psychological Level
Why is it important for soon-to-be moms and veteran moms to recognize sexual trauma? It all has to do with what you can do to prevent birth trauma. When we are pregnant and we go into labour and delivery, without recognizing that our body holds trauma, we are at higher risk for birth trauma. There are some physical sensations that can be really intense, which can trigger the trauma that is stored in your body as a survivor of sexual abuse. If we recognize and not minimize our story, then we know what to expect when it’s time to...
2023-04-28
30 min
Healing Mothers' Club
The Link Between Unrealistic Expectations of Being the Perfect Mom & Trauma
Have you ever felt like you're never quite measuring up to the expectations of being the perfect mom? If so, you're not alone. As mothers, we often put a huge amount of pressure on ourselves to provide our children with the best possible childhood, and it is no surprise that we struggle to live up to the ideal. But have you ever considered where this pressure of being the perfect mom comes from? In today's podcast episode, I dive deep into the link between the unrealistic expectations of motherhood that society puts on us and our childhood trauma.
2023-04-21
26 min
Trauma Healing For Postpartum Moms
The Link Between Unrealistic Expectations of Being the Perfect Mom & Trauma
Have you ever felt like you're never quite measuring up to the expectations of being the perfect mom? If so, you're not alone. As mothers, we often put a huge amount of pressure on ourselves to provide our children with the best possible childhood, and it is no surprise that we struggle to live up to the ideal. But have you ever considered where this pressure of being the perfect mom comes from? In today's podcast episode, I dive deep into the link between the unrealistic expectations of motherhood that society puts on us and our childhood trauma.
2023-04-21
26 min
Healing Mothers' Club
Birth Trauma: What it is, How to Recognize it & How to Heal
Can you experience birth trauma even if the birth went well, medically speaking? I get asked this question a lot. If you've given birth or witnessed someone giving birth, you know that no matter how prepared you are, things might go sideways — and not only in the medical sense (such as fearing for the mom's or child's life). That's why in today's podcast episode, I want to dive deeper into the topic of birth trauma, demystify the reasons why you can experience birth trauma even if the birth went well, explain the symptoms of birth trauma, and much more....
2023-04-21
15 min
Trauma Healing For Postpartum Moms
Birth Trauma: What it is, How to Recognize it & How to Heal
Can you experience birth trauma even if the birth went well, medically speaking? I get asked this question a lot. If you've given birth or witnessed someone giving birth, you know that no matter how prepared you are, things might go sideways — and not only in the medical sense (such as fearing for the mom's or child's life). That's why in today's podcast episode, I want to dive deeper into the topic of birth trauma, demystify the reasons why you can experience birth trauma even if the birth went well, explain the symptoms of birth trauma, and much more....
2023-04-21
15 min
Healing Mothers' Club
How to Heal Intergenerational Trauma for Postpartum Moms
Hello and welcome to the very first episode of Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms. My name is Danik Bernier, and I'm a mom of two littles, a social worker, and a psychotherapist. I can't tell you how excited I am to bring this podcast to life because I've experienced postpartum anxiety and depression symptoms during pregnancy myself. Like most moms, I believed that feeling mentally drained was a normal part of motherhood and that I should just get over it or else I'd be failing my son.But after going through the experience and talking to hundreds...
2023-04-21
14 min
Trauma Healing For Postpartum Moms
How to Heal Intergenerational Trauma for Postpartum Moms
Hello and welcome to the very first episode of Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms. My name is Danik Bernier, and I'm a mom of two littles, a social worker, and a psychotherapist. I can't tell you how excited I am to bring this podcast to life because I've experienced postpartum anxiety and depression symptoms during pregnancy myself. Like most moms, I believed that feeling mentally drained was a normal part of motherhood and that I should just get over it or else I'd be failing my son.But after going through the experience and talking to hundreds...
2023-04-21
14 min
Trauma Healing For Postpartum Moms
Trailer - Introducing The Healing Trauma For Postpartum Moms Podcast
Hey postpartum mom! Whether the birth of your baby didn't go as planned or traumatic stuff from your childhood is slapped you in the face as you became a mom, you are not alone and you're in the right place. This is the Trauma Healing for Postpartum Moms podcast, a safe and supportive space for postpartum moms who are experiencing trauma. Your host, Danik Bernier, is a mom, a social worker and psychotherapist in Ontario, Canada and she is on a mission to let incredible moms, like YOU, know that there is something you can do...
2023-04-06
01 min
Fearless Practice
When Should I Hire a VA for My Canadian Private Practice? Live Consultation With Danik Bernier | Ep 54
Are you at a crossroads in your Canadian private practice? What does your practice need to help it grow? What do you need help with to do your best work? Regardless of the level that you are at within your private practice, or however seasoned you are as a therapist, things like impostor syndrome can trip anyone up. However, it doesn’t have to stay this way. Whether it’s about raising your rates or hiring a virtual assistant, these limiting beliefs can keep you stuck until you rise to meet and overcome them. In this po...
2023-01-04
42 min