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DateologyBonus Episode: AI CompanionsCandice explores how mass use of AI chatbots for emotional support can create dependency, contribute to digital addiction, loneliness, and mental health struggles. Listeners are encouraged to self-assess their AI use, prioritize real human, spiritual connections, and to practice in-person social skills.
To watch her full TEDx Talk on YouTube click here: https://youtu.be/jSgmlI82LfQ?si=mvA9tCNvaOPWiTGt
2025-12-0411 min
Worth The Weight PodcastAnd Just Like That Recap: Something Old, Something NewWe’re back with another And Just Like That recap — and honestly? The metaphors are practically screaming this season. Carrie’s still clinging to the idea that Aiden 2.0 is going to magically give her the life she wanted 20 years ago (spoiler: he’s not), Miranda’s still out here collecting emotional chaos like it’s a side hustle, and Charlotte’s entire storyline continues to make zero sense for a woman who used to have an Ivy League admissions binder ready in preschool.We break down the symbolism (rats in the garden, anyone?), the not-so-subtle...
2025-06-1028 minWorth The Weight PodcastA Darker Cinderella Story & Dating After Weight LossLost weight, found savings, still dodging man-babies. 🏃♀️💸👶🙄Enjoy a teaser of this week's Worth The Weight episode. To listen to the full episode, subscribe here on Spotify or go to our Patreon for extra bonus content. This week on Worth The Weight, Sarah and I are covering everything from GLP-1 chaos to the emotional rollercoaster of being noticeably smaller and mildly uncomfortable about people noticing. We're navigating the weird headspace of validation vs. self-worth vs. “am I doing this for me or for other people to say something?”Then we dive into the...
2025-06-0320 minWorth The Weight PodcastAnd Just Like That Recap: New Drama, Same CarrieWe're back, and so are the ladies! In this episode, we break down everything from And Just Like That Season 3, Episode 1 — the moments that worked, the ones that made us cringe (Looking at you, Aidan), and the plotlines we’re already side-eyeing.From Carrie's bizarre acceptance of Aidan's request to put their relationship on pause for five years, to Seema's refusal to settle, to Miranda’s deflowering Sister Mary One Night Stand, and everything in between — we’ve got thoughts.Pour yourself a glass of Chardonnay and join us as we kick off another season of recaps...
2025-06-0232 minWorth The Weight PodcastAnd Just Like That Recap: Different Drama, Same CarrieEnjoy a teaser of our And Just Like That... Season 3, Ep 1 RecapFrom Carrie's bizarre acceptance of Aidan's request to put their relationship on pause for five years, to Seema's refusal to settle, to Miranda’s deflowering Sister Mary One Night Stand, and everything in between — we’ve got thoughts.Pour yourself a glass of Chardonnay and join us as we kick off another season of recaps, hot takes, and plenty of side commentary.TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE, BECOME A SUBSCRIBER. SUBSCRIBE HERE:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/dateologycoach/subscribePlease be...
2025-06-0208 minWorth The Weight PodcastNice Guys, Manipulators & the Feminine Energy CircusIn this episode, Sarah and I dive into the internet backlash aimed at a dating coach who had the audacity to admit she married a “nice nerdy guy” without feeling an instant spark — and she’s happy. Naturally, the internet lost its damn mind.We talk about why the obsession with “zsa zsa zu” is keeping women stuck in toxic patterns, and why the absence of anxiety doesn’t mean the absence of attraction. We also unpack the insidious nature of emotional manipulation, the reality of trauma bonds, and how chaos gets misread as chemistry.And if that’s...
2025-05-2724 minDateologyRedefining Unconscious NarrativesJoin us for an insightful episode where we delve into the hidden narratives that often hinder our confidence in dating. Discover how stories such as "I'm not good enough" or "I'm broken" can unconsciously affect your search for meaningful connections. We explore how to replace these limiting beliefs with empowering ones, shedding light on the beauty inherent in our humanity as believed by Christian faith.
Also, learn about an upcoming in-person event on May 29th at the Dutch Goose, where we invite you to meet new friends, enjoy structured activities, and participate in open socializing. With a...
2025-05-2013 minWorth The Weight PodcastTeaser: Worth The Weight: Body Changes, Brain Glitches & Big FeelsAging, ADHD, and the lie that weight loss fixes everything. Plus: Healing means circling back — this time with more clarity and fewer breakdowns.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE - SUBSCRIBE HERE:https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/dateologycoach/subscribe.This week, Sarah and I dive into the latest on GLP-1s and why women seem to have a different experience with them than men (spoiler: hormones, age, and maybe how you jab yourself). We talk about what’s not being said — like how losing weight doesn’t always come with a confidence boost. Personally, I’ve become a little self-conscious about how much weight I’ve los...
2025-05-2009 minWorth The Weight PodcastIs Your Trauma Playing Matchmaker?This week, we’re diving into dating patterns, gut instincts, and the uncomfortable truth that sometimes… it’s your trauma playing matchmaker. We break down a listener letter from someone who thought she finally found a unicorn — until he bailed out of nowhere. Was it anxiety? Or was her intuition picking up on something real?We talk about the difference between anxiety and intuition, why emotionally available partners can feel “off,” and how repetition compulsion makes you chase familiar pain — not because you’re broken, but because your brain is trying to fix the past. Spoiler: it neve...
2025-05-1344 min
Mind MattersWelcome To Fck That Guy PaloozaThis week on F*ck That Guy Palooza 🎉We’re serving up a buffet of walking red flags and emotional immaturity—bring your appetite. First course: a man who’s clearly past his dating app expiration date but still insists he’s entitled to a woman “out of his league” (whatever that means). Next up, a guy who treats his date’s romantic past like it’s a crime scene and somehow thinks he deserves answers. And finally, a man drooling over the idea of a threesome—as long as it’s emotionally convenient and doesn’t threaten his fr...
2025-04-2550 minWorth The Weight PodcastWelcome To Fck That Guy PaloozaThis week on F*ck That Guy Palooza 🎉We’re serving up a buffet of walking red flags and emotional immaturity—bring your appetite. First course: a man who’s clearly past his dating app expiration date but still insists he’s entitled to a woman “out of his league” (whatever that means). Next up, a guy who treats his date’s romantic past like it’s a crime scene and somehow thinks he deserves answers. And finally, a man drooling over the idea of a threesome—as long as it’s emotionally convenient and doesn’t threaten his fragile ego...
2025-04-2550 min
Mind MattersWhen Your Brain Turns Rejection Into Self-HateThis is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit amindmatters.substack.comThis week on Worth the Weight, I’m spilling the tea on a major mistake I made that seriously spiked my appetite—and let’s just say, Sam’s vet unintentionally became my weight loss guru (you’ll see).We get real about our relationship with food: why we feel guilty about wasting it, how we tie meals to comfort, connection, and even shame, and how those habits shape the way we eat today.Then it gets pe...
2025-04-2201 minWorth The Weight PodcastWhen Your Brain Turns Rejection Into Self-HateThis week on Worth the Weight, I open up about an emotional moment with my sister that triggered my Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria and unearthed some deep-rooted feelings of being “too much” or “in the way.”We also talk about how RSD messes with our body image and makes it hard to feel at home in our own bodies—because when you’re constantly bracing for rejection, self-trust goes out the window.It’s vulnerable, it’s reflective, and yeah—it’s a little spicy.LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE...
2025-04-2249 minDateologyThe Addictive Nature of Relationships with Special Guest Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyJoin Lisa and Candice as they dive deep into the complexities of heartbreak recovery. In this insightful episode, psychologist and author Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby shares her wisdom and experience on understanding the physiological and emotional processes involved in breaking up.
Discover the stages of healing after a breakup and the importance of embracing dark emotions as a path to personal growth. Lisa explains her eight-step process to help individuals move beyond pain and grow into stronger, healthier versions of themselves.
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2025-02-1140 minDateologyThe One Arrow EffectGreetings, Dateology! Welcome back for Season 3. Today, we will hear some live audio from our most recent event. Have you ever struggled with how to date in a large group of available men and women? What if there is more than one person of interest? In this episode, we explore getting to know people in a respectful way that makes it possible to date more than one person in a group.
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2025-02-0419 minDateologyThe Space in BetweenWelcome to another captivating episode of Dateology, hosted by Candice Thompson. We're excited to announce that Dateology now has a presence on Instagram (Dateology_events), where you can stay updated about our exciting in-person events, including the upcoming gathering in Menlo Park. Dive into today's episode as Candice shares invaluable insights into building meaningful relationships by focusing on what you create together rather than individual infatuation. Learn why understanding joint values, life rhythms, and personal growth are crucial for relational success, and discover the importance of being interesting rather than simply interested. This episode also explores the delicate balance...
2025-01-1416 min
Branding Your Business30. A Therapist’s Hacks To Be Media Savvy with Candice ThompsonIn this episode, Praise chats with licensed therapist Candice Thompson about the ins and outs of mental health, therapy, and the unique challenges therapists face in the industry. They dive into the importance of digital discernment, the role of social media in shaping mental health conversations, and the evolving landscape of mental health tech companies. Candice opens up about payment models for therapy, why fair compensation for therapists matters, and how finding your niche as a therapist is key to staying authentic. She also shares her passion for working with young adults and highlights the transformative power of therapy...
2024-09-1751 minDateologyUpdates on the UpdatesWelcome back to another quick update! In this episode, Candice shares some exciting news and a few changes about upcoming events in the Dateology community.
First up, the highly anticipated Holy Chemistry Singles Mixer is happening on October 4th in Redwood City. This ticketed event will include a drink ticket, appetizers, and a speaking appearance by Candice. Don't miss this chance to connect with singles in person! For more details and registration, visit
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/single-christian-mixer-tickets-1010214798657?aff=ebdsoporgprofile
Unfortunately, the event with Menlo Church scheduled for September 15th has been...
2024-09-1305 minDateologyEvent UpdatesGreetings, Dateology community! This is Candice, your host, with a quick event update. I have exciting news about several upcoming in-person events that I can't wait to share with you all.
The first event is the long-awaited young adults dating event on Sunday, September 15th at 7 p.m. at Menlo Church in Menlo Park, California. This intimate gathering will feature a talk by me, discussion and Q&A time, and an opportunity to connect with the young adults group. Feel free to invite friends and spread the word to other churches across the Bay Area!
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2024-08-0606 minDateologyDating and PoliticsIn this episode, we delve into the complex intersection of dating and politics. With the 2024 presidential election season in full swing, tensions are high, and political discourse is unavoidable. Our goal is to help you navigate these challenging conversations with thoughtfulness and respect, whether you're dating or engaging with others who hold differing views.
We'll explore the importance of self-assessment to understand your political stance and its impact on your relationships. We'll also discuss practical tips for handling political disagreements, maintaining balance in your life, and ensuring your mental well-being during these turbulent times.
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2024-07-2933 minDateologyOnline DatingWelcome back to Dateology with your host, Candice Thompson! In this episode, Candice celebrates six years of the podcast and dives into a topic that surprisingly hasn't been fully covered here before: online dating.
Candice discusses the importance of online dating in today's world, especially for those who may not have many opportunities to meet singles in person. She provides practical tips on how to navigate the online dating world, from choosing the right platform to creating an attractive and honest profile.
She also shares her thoughts on the recent controversial Bumble marketing campaign and...
2024-06-1926 minDateologyBonus: Sexuality Beyond SexGreetings, Dateology community! Candice here. Jumping on to release a bonus episode & to provide you with some updates.
In this episode, I explore the idea that sexuality beyond sex could involve moments of deep connection with God, providing a sense of oneness and fulfillment. This perspective could empower singles to find fulfillment outside of traditional sexual experiences, promoting a holistic understanding of sexuality.
Thank you for joining me on this journey. I'll be back with more fresh content soon. In the meantime, you can connect with me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/candice-thompson-lmft...
2024-06-0511 min
Mind MattersDoes This One Thing Determine If You'll Be Ghosted After Sex?This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit amindmatters.substack.comIn This Episode:* From the Coded Language In Dating Profiles file: What does “open to non-monogamy” mean, and is it a sign of someone looking to cheat or for a hook-up?* Is sociosexuality a thing, and does it determine if you’ll get ghosted after sex?* Why aren’t women getting married anymore?Here’s the letter we answer in this episode:I took the plunge and got on a dating a...
2023-11-1705 min
Mind MattersFamous Female PsychopathsThis is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit amindmatters.substack.com“Everybody goes a little mad sometimes.” - Anthony Perkins, PsychoMy co-host and I discuss the toxic relationship between Travis Alexander and Jodi Arias and the rage involved with Alexander’s brutal murder. We also review some of our favorite female psychopath performances and debate whether Miranda Priestly and Regina George are sociopaths.Do you have a particular performance that gives you chills? Share it in the comments.TW: Graphic talk of sexuality, suicide, and abuse...
2023-11-0604 min
Worth The Weight PodcastOpen Phone Policies, Spicy Peppers & Dating Profile Red FlagsWe discuss our thoughts on having an open phone policy with your partner and why you shouldn’t advertise that policy in a dating profile. Telling a stranger you have an open phone policy is one of the fastest ways to attract someone who is controlling and insecure. Agree or disagree?
Here’s what else is in store for today’s episode:
Why you should never discuss anything related to money or financial stability in your dating profile.
The pros and cons of selecting the spicy pepper icon for sex positivity in your Bumble profile and what it means when men ch...
2023-10-2342 min
Worth The Weight PodcastWhat To Do When You Catch Them LyingLet’s discuss the “Where’d She Go?” approach to dating all women should start implementing ASAP.
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2023-10-1818 min
Worth The Weight PodcastHow Do You De-Center Men When You Crave Romantic Connection?The majority of the episode is based on an article and Tiktok about women’s frustration with situationships and the internal conflict we experience when we want to de-center men but also crave a romantic relationship.
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2023-10-0614 min
Worth The Weight Podcast4 Steps To Break Toxic Dating PatternsThe advice to choose better men is reductive and insulting. It goes much deeper than that.
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2023-10-0318 min
Worth The Weight PodcastZombies, Ghosts & Other Dating Horror StoriesA woman wants to know if she should give a man who abruptly dumped her a second chance. NOPE! No, she should not. Thank you for coming to our Ted Talk.
In The Full Episode:
Tik Tok’s Aba n Preach Editor (abanpreacheditor) show women the appropriate response when someone who ghosted them returns from the dead.
We discuss one sure-fire way to end up dating a low-effort man.
The economics of thinness and how they affect hiring.
How does a man explain his lack of sexual experience to the woman he just started dating?
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2023-09-2912 min
Worth The Weight PodcastHaving Standards Does Not Make You NeedyThis episode is about ensuring you know having certain expectations does not make you needy or demanding. Because f*ck that guy.
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2023-09-2522 min
Worth The Weight PodcastF*ck That Guy : Men Are Trash EditionA man cancels a date at the last minute, claiming he’s sick. His date gets understandably upset. Even though he showed poor manners, she’s attacked because OF COURSE.
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2023-09-2012 min
Mind MattersSetting Boundaries, Stripper Dating Problems & Being The Single FriendThis is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit amindmatters.substack.comPhoto credit - Craig Blankenhorn/MaxListen To Full EpisodeJoin the fun! Become a paid subscriber for $4 a month and get two weekly Nuggets of Dating Advice podcast episodes and one weekly full-length Dateology Coach podcast episode that includes an analysis of dating-related content and other pop culture media.Join Our Private Online CommunityBecome a member of the Dateology Coach Mighty Network. Being single allows us to keep our...
2023-08-0412 min
Worth The Weight PodcastBeing Chronically Single Doesn't Mean You're BrokenIn This Episode:
Let's talk about the idea that being chronically single is bad and results from being “too broken.”
Also in this episode:
A woman’s crush on her therapist inspires a conversation about the connection between trauma and limerance.
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2023-07-3026 min
Worth The Weight PodcastIs He Manipulative Or Just Weird?LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE:
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In This Episode:
We discuss a listener-submitted letter about a dehumanizing experience with a man on a dating app.
How some men disguise their sexual dysfunction by not showing interest in physical intimacy and by “being respectful.”
We review an article stating that the lack of quality potential partners is compelling many women to freeze their eggs.
We recap And Just Like That Ep 7 and our favorite masochists, Carrie and Aidan’s reunion.
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2023-07-2810 min
Mind MattersWomen Are Freezing Their Eggs Because Of A Few Rotten OnesThis is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit amindmatters.substack.comListen To Full EpisodeJoin the fun! Become a paid subscriber for $4 a month and get two weekly Nuggets of Dating Advice podcast episodes and one weekly full-length Dateology Coach podcast episode that includes an analysis of dating-related content and other pop culture media.In This Episode:* We discuss a listener-submitted letter about a dehumanizing exp…
2023-07-2810 min
Mind MattersMen Using Manipulative Therapy-Speak, Negging & SnoopingThis is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit amindmatters.substack.comIn This Episode:* How straight men like Jonah Hill have weaponized therapy-speak to be controlling and manipulative.* A woman wants to know if she’s an asshole for snooping through her situationship’s journal if, when she did, she found if he was leading her on?* Are men on dating apps negging her because they’re intimidated or insecure?* We recap And Just Like That Episode 5 and decide Carrie is still socially inappropriate, Che is...
2023-07-1431 min
Mind MattersSketchy Married Men & Men Are Hunters Myth BustingThis is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit amindmatters.substack.comIn This Episode:* A woman fears a man will reject her if her appearance changes.* Is your partner obligated to stay in shape and maintain their appearance throughout the relationship?* Are all men that don’t wear wedding rings sketchy?* We blow the doors off the “men are hunters” myth* Analysis of And Just Like That Episode 4. Spoiler alert: Che still sucks.Listen To Full EpisodeTo l...
2023-07-0711 min
Mind MattersIs Being Single By Choice The Same As Giving Up?This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit amindmatters.substack.comIn This Episode:* Why a malignant narcissist is so dangerous.* If you don’t prioritize dating or stop altogether, does that mean you’ve given up?* Why are so many people bothered by plus-sized women’s confidence?* Should you date when you’re in debt?* A woman wonders is she should remove her impressive careers from her profile to avoid matching with creeps.* Should a woman pursue a relationship with a m...
2023-06-3010 min
DateologyUpdate + sneak peek!Candice & Matt pop in for quick updates on what we're up to and how we want to continue to serve you!
Including a glimpse of Matt's new podcast (with his wife Lindsay) "Homelife for Extraordinary Impact." We (Matt & Lindsay) hope you'll join us!
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2023-04-1336 min
Worth The Weight PodcastThe Curious Case of Coco Briscoe - Fitting The NarrativeThis isn't your typical Dateology Coach Podcast. For the past year, Tik Tok influencer Coco Briscoe has been building her platform on a story about being arrested for making Tik Toks and harassed by bartenders in her neighborhood. She's alleged police corruption, stalking, and online harassment by a group of bartenders in her neighborhood. This 15-month campaign has resulted in multiple women being harassed online, physical assault, and what could have been a devastating loss of business for two bars.
In this episode, we talk about how large creators like Coco prey on follower's vulnerabilities.
2022-09-1623 min
Worth The Weight PodcastThe Curious Case of Coco Briscoe Pt 3: CharlotteThis isn't your typical Dateology Coach Podcast. For the past year, Tik Tok influencer Coco Briscoe has been building her platform on a story about being arrested for making Tik Toks and harassed by bartenders in her neighborhood. She's alleged police corruption, stalking, and online harassment by a group of bartenders in her neighborhood. This 15-month campaign has resulted in multiple women being harassed online, physical assault, and what could have been a devastating loss of business for two bars.
In this episode, we talk to Charlotte, the bartender at the center of this controversy.
2022-09-1423 min
Worth The Weight PodcastThe Curious Case of Coco Briscoe Pt 2: CharlotteThis isn't your typical Dateology Coach Podcast. For the past year, Tik Tok influencer Coco Briscoe has been building her platform on a story about being arrested for making Tik Toks and harassed by bartenders in her neighborhood. She's alleged police corruption, stalking, and online harassment by a group of bartenders in her neighborhood. This 15-month campaign has resulted in multiple women being harassed online, physical assault, and what could have been a devastating loss of business for two bars.
In this episode, we talk to Charlotte, the bartender at the center of this controversy.
2022-09-1422 min
Worth The Weight PodcastThe Curious Case of Coco Briscoe Pt 1: The Alleged AssaultThis isn't your typical Dateology Coach Podcast. For the past year, Tik Tok influencer Coco Briscoe has been building her platform on a story about being arrested for making Tik Toks and harassed by bartenders in her neighborhood. She's alleged police corruption, stalking, and online harassment by a group of bartenders in her neighborhood. This 15-month campaign has resulted in multiple women being harassed online, physical assault, and what could have been a devastating loss of business for two bars.
In this first episode, we're talking to Coco's former roommate from California. Briscoe has claimed her roommate was the aggressor...
2022-09-1334 min
The Radical Sex WitchesThe Dateology Coach ~ An Interview with Christan MarashioWow - do we ever have a great interview for you in this RSW episode! Our special guest is Christan Marashio, a certified and trauma-informed dating coach or as she's known online ... THE Dateology Coach.With ten+ years of coaching and dispensing dating advice under her belt, Christan has worked with single women ages 25-65 from all across the globe to help them attract healthy and emotionally available people. Her goal is to dismantle misogynistic "Bro Science" theories regarding mating rituals and sexuality and to de-center men from the dating experience. We talk about the...
2022-06-1154 min
2022-05-2709 min
Worth The Weight PodcastFatal Attractions, De-Centering Men & Deleting Dating AppsSUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON FOR THIS WEEK'S BONUS EPISODE
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IN THIS WEEK’S FREE EPISODE:
We cover the Chelsea Hart/ Modern Warrior Tik Tok scandal, the ensuing discourse, and why this love triangle was so triggering for people of color.
Men who lie to get sex and the slippery-slope of informed consent (Subscribe to The Dateology Coach Substack to listen to part 2 of this discussion. https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/trauma-bonds-toxic-exes-and-men-lying?s=w)
The Fatal Attraction trope and how it’s damaging to women and mental illness
Why de-centering men will make your dating life expo...
2022-03-0736 min
Mind MattersHe Ghosted Her After Hooking Up On NYEHappy 2022! Remember - This is the busiest time of year for online daters! Make sure you’ve got a profile that attracts emotionally available matches and know how to avoid the time-wasters. Get my Master Online Dating online courses.We just posted our first of the month free episode on our Patreon. Make sure to check it out.We also just posted our latest Dateology Coach Substack Podcast Episode: How Men Are Like Dinosaurs & Duffel Bags. You can listen to the teaser for the episode below.To listen to th...
2022-01-0308 min
Mind MattersRed Flags Never To Ignore & Why It's Hard To Get Over Toxic PeopleEnjoy our free first of the month full-length Patreon episode.FOLLOW US ON PATREON FOR MORE WEEKLY FULL-LENGTH EPISODES - These episodes are different than the ones posted to Substack. We publish 2 separate/different podcast episodes per week. www.patreon.com/dateologypodSubscribe to the Dateology Coach Substack Podcast here:IN THIS FIRST OF THE MONTH FREE EPISODE:Why men are so bad at making conversation and don't ask questions on first dates.How should you react when they tell you they're dating other people?...
2021-11-011h 11
Mind MattersWhy Men Lose Interest After SexSPOT EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MATCHES BEFORE YOU SWIPEDon’t forget - Tuesday Aug 24th - Master Online Dating Zoom Workshop. This is for relationship-focused singles only. We’re going to talk about how to spot emotionally unavailable matches, messaging techniques, common red flags and more. Ugh. For the fourth time in a month I’ve been banned from posting on Tik Tok. Here’s the video that violated Community Guidelines. It discusses a new red flag men and women should look out for to help determine if their match is married or in a relationship. I t...
2021-08-1917 min
Mind MattersBitchy Dating Profiles & Dick PicsAUG 17 - AVOID SCAMMERS, FLAKES & GUYS JUST LOOKING TO HOOK-UP ZOOM CLASSIt's our first of the month free episode!Unsolicited Dick Pics. Why? In addition to deconstructing that mystery of The Universe in this episode we talk about:*Bitchy dating profiles*Questions to ask your matches to see if they're toxic or just looking for sex*Our suspicion that liberal women are being targeted on dating apps*How long does it take for someone to know if they want to commit?Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write...
2021-08-021h 13
Worth The Weight PodcastTeaser - Toxic Dating Patterns, Trust Issues & Using Sex To Get ExclusivityHere's the teaser for this week's episode.
We're talking why some men choose porn over having sex with their partners; why you shouldn't Google your dates if you have trust issues; how to break toxic dating patterns; and how you recover when that guy you met online dies.
Yes. Actually dies.
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2021-03-1908 min
Worth The Weight PodcastToxic Dating Rules That Need To Die In A FireEnjoy the teaser to this week's full-length Patrons only episode. We're talking about toxic dating rules and why they all need to die in a fire.
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2021-03-1215 min
Mind MattersToxic Dating Rules That Need To Die In A FireEnjoy the teaser to this week's full-length Patrons only podcast episode. We're talking about toxic dating rules and why they all need to die in a fire.Become a Patron for $5 a month and get 3 full-length episodes every Thursday night, a free subscription to The Dateology Coach Dating Advice Newsletter and bonus mini-episodes.Become a Patron here: www.patreon.com/dateologypod This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit amindmatters.substack.com
2021-03-1215 min
Worth The Weight PodcastBody Shamers, Dating With Anxious Attachment & Confusing BreakupsWhat would you do if you went home with someone after a date and saw two empty condom wrappers in their waste basket? That happened to one man and we talk about it in this episode. Also covered:
*The struggle of dating with an anxious attachment style
*One woman's refusal to post full-body shots to her profile & why that could lead to a very uncomfortable first date.
*How some people think they want a relationship but really don't
Was he always going to break up with her?
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2021-03-0553 minDateologyThe FinaleWhat a good ol' fun time it's been, and now we're at the season 2 finale! On it, we do a total recap of some of our favorite moments on the show. Think of it like our greatest hits!
This marks the end of Matt's consistent involvement with the project, but he might pop in from time to time. And Candice plans on continuing to deliver some sweet, sweet nuggets!
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2020-12-111h 10Dateology2020 ReflectionsThis is a very timestamped episode on the weirdest year of our lives: 2020! Matt and Candice are back to discuss what it looks like to date digitally and safely in a pandemic—including how there might be lots of room for creativity!
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2020-11-0159 min
Worth The Weight PodcastDateology - Dating, Disclosure & DisabilitiesWhether it's a physical impairment or invisible illness, dating with a disability is a conversation we don't have often enough. In this episode, we discuss how and when to disclose a disability and the awkward conversations that arise; what should be included in a dating profile; and why able-bodied singles need to educate themselves about how people with disabilities navigate day-to-day life.
On Aug 26th, join us for a free online zoom session where we discuss dating with mental illness & disabilities. RSVP Here:
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2020-08-1226 min
Worth The Weight PodcastDateology: Awkward First Dates, Aging & Dating Younger MenWhy do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date moments. Also listen in as we discuss older women/younger men relationships and why so many women take to the internet with their stories.
AWKWARD FIRST DATE TIPS
https://www.christanmarashio.com/post/let-s-talk-awkward-zoom-dates
A BEGINNER'S GUIDE FOR THE YOUNGER MAN WHO WANTS TO DATE OLDER WOMEN
https://psiloveyou.xyz/a-beginners-guide-for-the-younger-man-wanting-to-date-an-older-woman-4306931b1690
2020-08-0534 min
Worth The Weight PodcastDateology - Sex & The City: COVID EditionSafe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo until 2021?
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Sex & The City: COVID Edition
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Ready To Social Distance Date? Add This To Your Dating Profile ASAP
https://www.christanmarashio.com/post/ready-to-socially-distance-date-update-your-dating-profile
2020-07-3030 min
Worth The Weight PodcastDateology - It's Not YouIn our first ever Dateology episode, we give tips to help you avoid common online dating pitfalls, make more matches and meet fewer flakes.
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2020-07-1537 min
DateologyThe Valentine's OneIs Valentine's really just for lovers? We think not. On the market, off the market or somewhere in between, Valentine's day can be enjoyed by all. How? We are glad you asked...
-Happy Valentines Day from all of us at Dateology.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2020-02-1436 minDateologyThe Holiday SpecialHoliday season is upon us, and the office parties, trips home to family, and New Year's preparations are in full swing. In this season, dating seems to get extra amplified with each new Christmas romcom. What's God's message of empowerment and grace for dating couples and singles this time of year? Join Matt and Candice as they talk it through, share stories, and toss out some ideas and opinions about dating around the holidays.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2019-12-1054 minDateologyDating & FaithIn some ways, all Candice and Matt do is talk about dating and faith on this show. But let's dive deeper into the number one question people have for us about dating: what do you think about Christians dating non-Christians? Join us as we seek out wisdom from the stories we've gathered and open the Bible to guide our path.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Audio engineered by Joey!
2019-11-1838 minDateologyFriendship & DatingWhat about when your friend starts to seem oh so dateable? Join Candice and Matt as they discuss friendship and dating. Maybe the friend zone has more to it than first meets the eye. What if your next date might be with a friend from the past?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2019-09-231h 04DateologyAttachment, Part 2Back for part two of the conversation on Attachment Theory, Candice and Matt ask the important questions about attachment in dating: How would it actually if people who were psychologically secure dated one another? And how does the security of God help bring us into the freedom of more secure relationships?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2019-08-171h 07DateologyAttachment, Part 1How do our early established patterns of relating affect how we date? Listen as Candice expertly teaches about the psychology of attachment. And listen as Matt tries to keep pace with her psychological wisdom!
Referenced:
How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2019-07-2744 minDateologyNugget: BoundariesSharing a quick nugget of wisdom (ain't it so Christian to refer to bits of wisdom as "nuggets??"), Candice speaks from her psychological expertise about boundaries. What are appropriate emotional boundaries to keep in relationships? When is self-disclosure a good idea, and when it is right to hold some vulnerable parts of your story for another time?
Plus, Candice announces our need for a sound engineer and the upcoming Happy Hour event in San Francisco on Thursday 6/27/19
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2019-06-2115 minDateologyExclusivityHow do you know when to get exclusive and when to keep it casual? Candice and Matt explore what goes into the conversation: "I want to be exclusive. How about you?" Plus, why not talk about Saved by the Bell and the Archie comics?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2019-06-0157 minDateologySinglenessTaking a slight detour from a show all about Christian dating, Candice and Matt discuss singleness. What makes it so difficult? Why's it so beautiful? And hold on a sec... Jesus was single. That's a game changer.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2019-02-2259 minDateologyRejectionCandice and Matt chat about the reality of rejection and its foreboding presence in dating. What does it look like to let someone down easily, and how can connecting with Jesus help us handle the pain of rejection?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2019-02-0856 minDateologyMeeting the FamilyCandice and Matt discuss all that is amusing, strange, illuminating, and sometimes painful about meeting your partner’s family. And ultimately, they discover how as followers of Jesus, there is great opportunity for honor, redemption and writing a new story.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2019-01-2246 minDateologyComplexities of City Life: A Conversation with Author Mark ScandretteCandice and Matt talk with Mark Scandrette about the many complexities of city life and how they can make dating relationships challenging — but not impossible! Mark has been doing Christian ministry in San Francisco for 22 years, so this an episode full of wisdom and opportunities for reflection.
Mark Scandrette is an author, teacher, activist, and coach, and you can find all his books and other resources at https://www.markscandrette.com.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2019-01-0859 minDateologyWhere Are You?Candice and Matt return for the first episode of season 2! This episode is all about where to meet people. And the question they spend a good amount of time on is... where are YOU?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-12-2542 minDateologySeason One FinaleHow about we reflect on and celebrate some of what we’ve learned in a season 1 culmination? Join Candice and Matt as they enjoy a fun retrospective. Plus, they have a special word of blessing and gratitude for all their listeners.
And... they announce a new website where you can reach out! To meet, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-08-3036 min
DateologyThe CulminationHow about we reflect on and celebrate some of what we’ve learned in a season 1 culmination? Join Candice and Matt as they enjoy a fun retrospective. Plus, they have a special word of blessing and gratitude for all their listeners.
And... they announce a new website where you can reach out! To meet, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-08-3036 minDateologyDating & Race: A Conversation with SteveHow do race, ethnicity, dating, and the Gospel all come together? Race is a complicated thing to talk about, and Candice, Matt, and their guest Steve discuss it all in this vulnerable and thoughtful conversation.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-08-1438 minDateologyThe Conversation with Steve: Dating & RaceHow do race, ethnicity, dating, and the Gospel all come together? Race is a complicated thing to talk about, and Candice, Matt, and their guest Steve discuss it all in this vulnerable and thoughtful conversation.
To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-08-1438 minDateologyThe Serious RelationshipSo the relationship is progressing… what happens now? In this episode, Candice and Matt talk about serious relationships and how they can trigger fears of intimacy and commitment. Plus, the team chats about how great it is to pray for God's guidance as a relationship becomes more serious.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-07-2844 minDateologyThe Serious RelationshipSo the relationship is progressing… what happens now? In this episode, Candice and Matt talk about serious relationships and how they can trigger fears of intimacy and commitment. Plus, the team chats about how great it is to pray for God's guidance as a relationship becomes more serious.
To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-07-2844 minDateologyThe AttractionWhy are people drawn to one another? Join Candice and Matt as they talk about what tend to be attractive qualities and what theories explain attraction. Plus, they'll consider how living according to a God-given calling might be one of the most attractive things of all.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-07-161h 02DateologyThe AttractionWhy are people drawn to one another? Join Candice and Matt as they talk about what tend to be attractive qualities and what theories explain attraction. Plus, they'll consider how living according to a God-given calling might be one of the most attractive things of all.
To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-07-161h 02DateologyWhen Friendship Turns to More: A Conversation with EmilyEver had a crush on a friend? Or had a friend say they have a crush on you? Candice and Matt interview Emily, who shares her experience dating a longtime pal.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-06-3040 minDateologyThe Conversation with EmilyEver had a crush on a friend? Or had a friend say they have a crush on you? Candice and Matt interview Emily, who shares her experience dating a longtime pal.
To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-06-2940 minDateologyEnding Relationships: A Conversation with CaleWhat can we learn from Cale’s reflections on the end of a relationship? Join Matt and Candice as they chat with Cale about our tendencies toward selfishness in dating. Plus, what about that one wild date with the woman who enjoyed dining with the dead?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-06-1647 minDateologyThe Conversation with CaleWhat can we learn from Cale’s reflections on the end of a relationship? Join Matt and Candice as they chat with Cale about our tendencies toward selfishness in dating. Plus, what about that one wild date with the woman who enjoyed dining with the dead?
To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-06-1647 minDateologyThe First One About SexWhen it comes to sex, what are the dynamics at play in Christian dating? Candice and Matt discuss sex from a few different angles — from intimacy to porn to celibacy and more. Also, as promised in the show, here are a few links to resources Candice and Matt have found helpful in understanding the Bible’s teachings about sex.
Sermons:
The Story of Sex: Essence - http://bit.ly/2J5hvKu
The Story of Sex: Ethics - http://bit.ly/2kFZMPy
The Exclusive Paul - http://bit.ly/2suLynX
Book:
Loveology by J...
2018-06-0151 minDateologyThe BreakupWhen the breakup happens, where do we go next? Candice and Matt talk about breakups — in the midst of the conversation and in the aftermath. There's hope in knowing that God is always near to the brokenhearted.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-05-1751 minDateologyThe BreakupWhen the breakup happens, where do we go next? Candice and Matt talk about breakups — in the midst of the conversation and in the aftermath. There's hope in knowing that God is always near to the brokenhearted.
To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-05-1751 minDateologyThe MessWhat do you do when messy, broken stuff comes up in a dating relationship? Is it worth it to keep going? Candice and Matt talk about the brokenness that inevitably surfaces in every relationship, and how the good news of Jesus empowers us to persevere and grow through it all.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-04-1932 minDateologyThe MessWhat do you do when messy, broken stuff comes up in a dating relationship? Is it worth it to keep going? Candice and Matt talk about the brokenness that inevitably surfaces in every relationship, and how the good news of Jesus empowers us to persevere and grow through it all.
To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-04-1932 minDateologyThe ListWhat's on your list for the person you're looking for? What's a core item, what's a preference, and how can you know the difference? Candice and Matt talk about ways that lists can be helpful (or unhelpful) and also the Gospel truths that empower us to make wise, healthy choices.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-04-1334 minDateologyThe ListWhat's on your list for the person you're looking for? What's a core item, what's a preference, and how can you know the difference? Candice and Matt talk about ways that lists can be helpful (or unhelpful) and also the Gospel truths that empower us to make wise, healthy choices.
To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-04-1334 minDateologyThe DreamGrowing up, did you have a dream about marriage? Candice and Matt discuss the various ideas we gather about romance and how they impact our approach to dating. What do we do when our dreams aren't fulfilled? And what does it look like to audaciously hold on to a dream anyway?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-04-0533 minDateologyThe DreamGrowing up, did you have a dream about marriage? Candice and Matt discuss the various ideas we gather about romance and how they impact our approach to dating. What do we do when our dreams aren't fulfilled? And what does it look like to audaciously hold on to a dream anyway?
To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-04-0533 minDateologyThe AskWhat are the best ways ask someone out, and when is the right time? Candice and Matt discuss their experiences and also some important factors to consider when asking someone out (or saying yes). What might it be like if we all had the courage and freedom to just make the ask?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-03-3026 minDateologyThe AskWhat are the best ways ask someone out, and when is the right time? Candice and Matt discuss their experiences and also some important factors to consider when asking someone out (or saying yes). What might it be like if we all had the courage and freedom to just make the ask?
To learn more about Dateology and the hosts, visit https://www.dateology.org/
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2018-03-2926 minDateologyThe PursuitWhat does it mean to pursue someone, and what's it like to be pursued? Candice and Matt share their experiences and thoughts on the kind of power dynamic that the pursuer/pursuee framework creates. Is there a different way that leads to deeper freedom, love, and companionship?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-03-2225 minDateologyThe PursuitWhat does it mean to pursue someone, and what's it like to be pursued? Candice and Matt share their experiences and thoughts on the kind of power dynamic that the pursuer/pursuee framework creates. Is there a different way that leads to deeper freedom, love, and companionship?
To learn more about Dateology and the hosts, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-03-2225 minDateologyThe IntroGlad to have you! Get a glimpse of what the show will be like, topics we'll cover, and learn about the hosts, Candice and Matt.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
2018-03-1618 minDateologyThe IntroGlad to have you! Get a glimpse of what the show will be like, topics we'll cover, and learn about the hosts, Candice and Matt.
To hear more about the show and the hosts, visit https://www.dateology.org/
2018-03-1619 min