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Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL080 – Kitten DeVille Follow Up – part 2
Part two of guest Kitten DeVille’s follow up interview!
2025-01-3019 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL079 – Kitten DeVille Follow Up – part 1
Barbara follows up with Kitten DeVille, our guest reviewer from The Narcissist in Your Life episodes.
2025-01-1524 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL078 – Tong Ring
Vera gets tong-tied while Barbara rings in a whole new her!
2024-11-1415 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL077 – Hallotweens
Twinterlude time!
2024-10-3006 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL076 – Printerview – part 3 “Finale”
The finale of our Printerview – our interview with poly-expert Prix de Beaute – about first satisfying sexyful encounters.
2024-10-0210 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL075 – Printerview – part 2 “Narcissex”
We continue interviewing Prix De Beaute, opening strong with soaking, shrimping and golden showers!
2024-09-1829 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL074 – Printerview – part 1 “Skill Set”
Poly-expert Prix de Beaute returns to chat about first sexual experiences that were actually good!
2024-08-2626 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL073 – Poor Devil
Everything you wanted to know about Martin Luther’s sex life/bowel movements, and more!
2024-08-0426 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL072 – Coffee Break
A twinsightful twinterlude covering heaven, hell, and coffee breaks.
2024-07-0211 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL071 – The Narcissist In Your Life – part 5 “Finale”
The fifth and final episode covering the narcissist in YOUR life with guest reviewer Kitten DeVille.
2024-06-2145 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL070 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 4 “P.T.S.D(ad)”
Kitten reveals a surefire way of knowing if your partner is really into you.
Upcoming shows with us twins!5/29 Lucha VaVOOM6/1 Ron Lynch’s Tomorrow!6/23 Stars in the Backyard w/Jack Black
2024-05-2900 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL069 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 3 “Carousel of Love”
Part 3 of our review, featuring guest reviewer Kitten DeVille – plus, our time hosting the World Famous Burlesque Showcase at Viva Las Vegas 27!
Also – Bibi has a news flash (tattoo) about her last relationship.
2024-05-0932 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL068 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 2 “Playing the Market”
Part 2 of our review, featuring our guest the legendary neo-burlesque queen Kitten DeVille!
2024-03-2722 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL067 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 1 “Just Kitten”
Neo-Burlesque legend KITTEN DEVILLE joins us in reviewing THE NARCISSIST IN YOUR LIFE: RECOGNIZING PATTERNS AND LEARNING TO BREAK FREE. After suddenly losing Shawn, her beloved husband of 36 years, Kitten found herself back in the dating world with unexpected results. (Spolier: this book comes in handy.)
She gave us some photos; we couldn’t pick just one…
2024-03-1427 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL066 – The Five Love Languages – part 4 “Big Happy”
The fourth and final part of our review of THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES, featuring guest reviewer Jaime Sena!
2024-02-2717 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL065 – Bar-Bara
Lucha Va VOOM De La Liz, Moldy Ball of Death, and a very special Valentine’s Day in this week’s Twinterlude!
Bibi, Fifi, Bibi, Fifi, Bibi Fifi BibiFifi – LAS POUBELLES!
2024-02-1608 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL064 – The Five Love Languages part 3 – “Sh*t on Noodles”
Us twins and guest Jaime Sena continue our review, featuring smooth stick, filthy baby, and Joe Manganiello
2024-01-2323 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL063 – The Five Love Languages – part 2 “Seminal Works”
We continue on, with guest Jaime Sena!
2023-12-1826 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL062 – The Five Love Languages – part 1 “Christian Gravy”
We are extremely excited to welcome long-time friend and listener Jaime Sena to help us review 1952’s 1992’s classic relationship tome by Gary Chapman!
2023-12-0125 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL061 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 6 “Sh*tshow of Love”
Behold our TRIUMPHANT RETURN with the BIG FINISH to Florence William’s HEARTBREAK book!
Plus! BIBI updates us on her relationship, and YOU buy tickets to our benefit featuring Paul Feig screening his GHOSTBUSTERS movie — right here!
Also ICYMI – Mike Lindell’s LUMPY PILLOW FREAKOUT:
@officialjaysquared My Pillow – Lump Pillow #mypillow ♬ original sound – J
2023-11-1840 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL060 – Martini Shot
We talk about the Good Deed Corps screening of PRETTY IN PINK, featuring stars Jon Cryer and Annie Potts! Plus, a disconcerting concert.
2023-08-2315 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL059 – Girl Talk
Dinner parties, cyber goths, and a sun-protecting Vickie.
Cool!
2023-07-2516 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL058 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 5 “Flush Tattoo”
We continue with Florence Williams’ Heartbreak book, plus twinsights on naked photos and racist skulls.
2023-07-0621 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL057 – Heels Over Head
We have upcoming shows! Plus, Bibi meets an interesting fellow lady1
Tickets for the LOS SUPER SEVEN / Good Deed Corps benefit here!
AND! Tickets to TIKI-VIEW here!
2023-06-1613 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL056 – It’s A Tap
We talk sharing relationship responsibilities, a revelashe ’bout patriarchy, and the fact that Barbara IS ACTUALLY DATING SOMEONE SHE MET IRL!!!!@!!
Plus! Did you say you were in the market for some ancient filthy stripper shoes (or 3)?? Make Bibi an offer, before it’s too late!
2023-05-2913 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL055 – Afraidy Ladies
We work an event with Weird Al benefitting voting registrations org The Good Deed Corps, get caught in a police stand-off between the LAPD and a minivan, and drive Barbara’s date around town in Vera’s trunk.
Hey, how come we’re the only ones wearing Hawaiian shirts and dorky frames??
In Tip Jar news, thank you to FANG YANG! Stay tuned for a proper shout-out 2023-05-0110 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL054 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 4 “Misery Into Death”
Loneliness is bad – just ask your body. But all is not lost: there are Ministries of Loneliness, Men’s Sheds, EMDRs, and of course kayaking!
And guess what, after this episode we are HALF WAY through the book!
Plus, the meditative RAT : www.remote-associates-test.com
2023-04-1143 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL053 – Lit Gas
The twins talk gaslighting, edging, allergies, and their upcoming show THIS FRIDAY MARCH 3RD! Tickets here!
(Also: Is it fetish? Well is it???)
(Yes.)
2023-02-2816 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL052 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 3 “Don’t Be Heartbroken”
A twinsight about Vera’s cat allergies preludes the next three chapters of HEARTBREAK, covering pair-bonding prairie voles, more head-harem bullshit, and complicated grief. Speaking of, Bibi tells a sad story.
2023-02-2443 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL051 – Breast Deduction
Emergency Twinterlude! It’s nudes to Vera that one of us has gone under the knife, while Barbara breaks down the fax of May/December relationships.
2023-02-0914 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL050 – Misses Romantics
Our upcoming live performance of The Slap Booth, Vera’s hospital husb, and a Reilly great show that un-Hinges Barbara:
My trunk or yours?
And yes, that’s right – we are performing this Saturday, February 4th, as part of Blonde Brunette Productions’s PEEK-A-VIEW. 9pm at Hello Stranger, 320 E. 2nd Street, Los Angeles. Get tickets here!
2023-02-0221 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL049 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 2 “Guita-red Flag”
Bibi tells a diverting story, Vera accepts a helping knee, and Florence Williams loses her Ennis match in the next installment of HEARTBREAK.
When this happens….
… request he hide your ears instead.
Plus, Barbara has a diverting experience!
2023-01-2835 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL048 – Rinkchronicity
Mon-knee for nothing, Bibi’s Rink Report, and a hard candy shell on this week’s Twinterlude episode!
Reminds me of childhood…
Can your roller rink DJ write this?
2023-01-2020 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL047 Twinterlude – 2022 Recap
Missed out on an episode this year? We got you covered! Please enjoy this recap of the last twelve, glorious months. Plus, we rebrand!!
Thank you, dear Frands, for your continued love, support, and listenage. 2023 promises much more book!
2022-12-2906 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL046 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 1
We did it! We reviewed an actual DATING-TYPE BOOK!!! Please enjoy our take on chapters 1-3 of Florence Williams’s kayaklicious-tome.
And also: Krampii!
Two horrific beasts (bottom) with a couple Krampuseses. (photo by Taylor Wong / Brookledge)
Read more about the “rickety bridge experiment” (aka “misattribution of arousal”) here.
2022-12-2434 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL045 – Good Will
Rollerskating, red flags, and THIS:
Which was brought to you by THIS.
And THIS:
2022-12-1300 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL044 – Growments
Listener Jeremy writes in, twinspiring a convo; twins are thankful; and Bibi weighs a possible Hinge suitor.
2022-12-0216 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL043 – Skatey Ladies
Remember when Barbara was hurting over Hinge, and Vera said let’s go roller skating instead? A lot has happened since. Listen in on the update! Plus, we attempt to talk about the Five Love Languages, a book we have not read – yet (?)
2022-11-1215 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL042 Twinterlude – Shards
Barbara has a new dating strategy, but Vera rolls with other plans.
Also: ‘member this hottie?
Likes: Pizazz temporary hair colorDislikes: crypto-fascist metaphors for nuclear war
Class dismissed!
2022-10-1813 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL041 Twinterlude – Otta Know Best
The twins are back from the Ottawa International Animation Festival with tales to tell!
Check out Fran Krause’s Deep Dark Fears!
2022-10-1120 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL040 Twinterlude – Otta Know Better
The twins are headed back to the Ottawa International Animation festival, pumpkin carving contest and all – but first, Bibi elaborates on last episode’s tale of unfulfilling sexy time.
2022-09-2820 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL039 Twinterlude – Key Party
The twins plan a swingin’ gathering for their 47th birthday!
2022-09-2000 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL038 Twinterlude – DIY
The twins talk jerking ON, plus Bibi shares a relationship goals revelashe and Vera gets TWO new Instagram followers!
Check out Bad Bitch Big Sis here!
2022-08-2322 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL037 Twinterlude – Mission Twinn
Join us at the historic Mission Inn and Spa in beautiful downtown Riverside, California, where we talk about app dating, Surrealist balls, and why our hotel room door is barricaded with a chair!
2022-08-1517 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL036 – The Snow Ball
This podcast about books and dating makes it’s long-awaited return to books and dating! Vera shares her insight into Brigid Brophy’s 1964 masterpiece of fiction about Mozart, sex, and death. It’s got everything: a lavish 18th century-themed New Years Eve gala, a mysterious masked man make-out, a kick in the balls.
Plus, Barbara continues her thoughts on incels, and Vera talks faux empty nesting.
2022-08-0109 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL035 Twinterlude – Twincels
Incels, autoerotic asphyxiation, and thriving in chaos, plus Bibi examines some recent dates!
2022-07-2014 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL034 Twinterlude – Snow Ballin’
An episode that ranges from Victorian morality to “snowballs.” Yeah, you’ve been warned.
2022-07-1427 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL033 Office Hours – Ask Prix About Poly
We twins and our resident expert on alternative relationships, Prix de Beaute, take a newly-single listener’s question about keeping her relationship status “open” in this audio edit from our Instagram Live chat.
Plus a brief guide to reaching your US government representative!
“Interesting”
Small Dick Energy
2022-06-2752 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL032 Twinterlude – Make It Rain
Barbara fondly recounts a pants-on lady-time, and the twins get all Emo.
2022-06-2111 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL031 Twinterlude – Brown Flags
Women’s Rights, comedy racism, inclusive television shows, and oh yeah, dating! Barbara talks more about last episode’s New York dork, and Vera breaks down dating in rose-colored glasses.
2022-05-2217 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL030 Twinterlude – The Big Crapple
Barbara does not let a fantasy fill in her blank, and Vera makes a definitive rule re: ghosting.
Also Listeners, please weigh in on several subjects, TY!
2022-04-2719 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL029 Office Hours – Three Amigos
We did something totally new – live-streamed on Instagram and invited listeners to join us! We call it Office Hours, and it was weird and fun and we’ll definitely do it again. Meet us yourself on our next broadcast – and make sure to follow us on @DateyLadies so you don’t miss it!
More about the dear listeners (all dudes!) who spoke with us…
Jason’s website!Ciro’s Outschool virtual art classes for ages 6-12, including Pokemon and Super Heroes, and his Instagram!Jeremy’s professional cuddler, Samantha Hess of Cuddle Up To Me!
https://youtube.com/watc...2022-04-0415 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL028 Twinterlude – K-Hole Filler
Barbara admits to a killing, Cosby admits to being a monster, and Putin admits to nothing — but we know his secret and we’re sharing with you. Not every day can be a rave at an ostrich farm, but we’re searching for glimmers of serotonin. Join us.
3rd from right: Jaime “50 Shades of Grape” Dornan
One of these has gotta still be called Ecstasy
“Refreshed”
2022-03-1014 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL027 Twinterlude – Forg-edit-bout It
What does heartbreak, pole dancing, Bill Cosby and the GAME OF THRONES Starbucks cup have in common? The DATEY LADIES podcast of course!
Plus, shout out to costume designer and friend Rebecca Seven!
Rebecca Seven’s ghosty maids dresses!
Rebecca Seven’s bridesmaid / bride dresses (Photo: Dave Naz)
Rebecca Seven’s nurse costumes on Poubelle Twins, featuring Rebecca Seven!
2022-02-2210 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL026 Twinterlude – Freeways ‘n’ Threeways
Happy Valentine’s Day, Bae! Vera takes a closer look at three of our authors (and her own self), while Bibi takes a pot-hole shot at the van-banger from our ALL THE FUCKING MISTAKES episodes (DL006 Acts 1-3).
2022-02-1410 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL025 – The Ethical Slut featuring Prix de Beaute – part 2
We conclude our amazing interview with Prix de Beaute, covering THE ETHICAL SLUT, sex parties, clothed-nude modeling, and everything in between!
2022-02-0449 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL024 – The Ethical Slut featuring Prix de Beaute – part 1
Real-life alternative-relationship-haver PRIX DE BEAUTE helps us finally grasp THE ETHICAL SLUT, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy! Hear part 1 of her fascinating history of sex, romance, heartache, and jealousy as she searched for the perfect balance of partners in life and love.See more of Prix on Instagram!
Prix de Beaute performing burlesque at club Planet Queer to “celebrate” her Mormon polygamist heritage.Prix at a Werewolf Orgy as part of Dave Lebow’s MONSTER GIRLS series.Prix challenging gender binaries and monosexuality with her partner, for Ginger Liu Photography.Prix with her rainbow hair-do!
2022-01-2733 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL023 Twinterlude – You Down With I.I.P.?
Barbara updates us on her dating life, the twins talks TV, and Vera clears up a massive mystery regarding last week’s Vampire Orgy story.
Also: MELANIE LYNSKEY! The YELLOWJACKETS and HEAVENLY CREATURES actress’s name is MELANIE LYNSKEY!!!
2022-01-1909 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL022 Twinterlude – Orgy Story
The twins disagree on what exactly constitutes a Vampire Orgy. Plus! Listener Prix De Beaute shares her swingin’ How We Met story! And we thank some big tippers 2022-01-1219 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL021 Twinterlude – 2021 Recap
We recap what we’ve learned over 2021 through our book selections, twinterviews, and life in general.
Some links!
Natasha Estrada’s podcast Fearless and Braless
Laura Richards’ podcast Crime Analyst – look out for the “Forgotten Victims” episodes
Email dateyladies at gmail dot com for your own Poubelle Twins Holiday card!
HAPPY 2022, DATEY LADIES LISTENERS!
2021-12-3040 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL020 Twinterlude – Thigh Guy
The Rock Block of crappy job experiences continues with code-switching, sexual Harrisons, and more tales from the Animation Industry.
2021-11-2215 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL019 Twinterlude – Stick It To The Man
We discuss Barbara’s highchair-wielding Boss Baby and her adventures in Personing while not Feelding so great.
No really, it’s tiny.
2021-11-0317 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL018 How We Met – Katie M.
Listener Katie M. shares her serendipitous meeting with her future husband (which we thoroughly dissect), plus Barbara updates us on how app-y she’s Feelding.
Darn straight, lady.
Regarding the (currently averted) IATSE strike – which is ALL THE FILM UNIONS – check out @IA_Stories on Instagram.
2021-10-2009 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL017 Twinterlude – F Buddy
Vera talks Barbara into signing up with Feeld, a “dating app for couples and singles” she discovered through Lisa (Ep. 005A). Not a paid promotion (But it could be! You hearing us Feeld? You need our Venmo or?)
2021-10-0700 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL016 Twinterlude – Vampirical Gangster
Barbara reveals the shocking twist of last episode’s dating disaster, and Vera doth protests her undead love. Plus, vintage hip-hip and modern-day cat calling!
Twin art by Ciro Casanova @TheArtofCiro
2021-09-2209 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL015 Twinterview – Erin Tillman
We were so lucky to speak with the author of THE CONSENT GUIDEBOOK herself! Erin Tillman is a Dating Coach, Intimacy Co-ordinator, and Executive Director of Sex Positive LA.
Find everything you need to know at Erin at TheDatingAdviceGirl.com
Regarding the Twinsight:
(A) Share your “How-I-Met-My-Partner” personal story with us! We would like to play your 15-30 second story on Datey Ladies. Please include your name (or pseudonym) and city/country.
Email: record your story through your phone’s voice memo app. On iPhone, record on the Voice...2021-09-1647 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL014 – The Consent Guidebook
The twins discuss Erin Tillman’s fantastic guide to enthusiastic consent, plus talk mom-dates, boundaries, and Barbara’s dream date/new roommate!
Erin Tillman
Follow Erin on Instagram @datingadvicegrl and @sexposla !
2021-09-0842 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL013 Twinterlude – Me Three
Trigger warning : Barbara continues her recollections of teenage assault.
Plus letters from abroad, Worzel Gummidge, a leather onesie, and facing social anxiety in real time.
Worzel and Sally, a FarmersOnly.com success story.
2021-08-2614 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL012 Twinterlude – Virgin Gigolos
Hold onto your hat, it’s a twinterlude/twinsight two-fer! Vera reveals her new degree, while Barbara examines some perplexing encounters of the virginal kind.
Plus, the twins revisit last episode’s discussion of assault, and how not to be an a-hole over someone else’s trauma (TW, dear listeners).
And now for a very special presentation of Barbara’s oeuvre de film, ENTER THE DIVA!
2021-08-1815 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL011 – Getting To I Do
The twins explore the work of one Dr. Patricia Allen, including her weekly call-in show on LA Talk Radio (tl;dl? Skip to 32:30!) Trigger warning: this episode contains discussion of sexual assault.
But first, a tribute to their departed friend, artist Albert Cuellar. Please visit his Instagram @ArtSpecter1 to see his work with Tim Burton, Slayer, and much more.
Albert, Blaine, and Vera at an art show, 2003
2021-08-0536 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL010 Twinterview – Natasha Estrada
If synchronicity – or twinchronicity – were an interview, this would be it. Natasha first came to our attention as La Cholita, the crowned-queen of the 2007 Viva Las Vegas festival, and fellow performer in the Velvet Hammer burlesque revue and Lucha Va VOOM. After years touring the world with a psycho billy band and Dita Von Teese, she pivoted to acting, singing, comedy, raising her little boy, and filming the occasional Informercial.
One of those Informercials? Shapermint.
Join us for a romp through the delightful world that is Natasha Estrada’s, discussing dating as a single mom, FUPA l...2021-06-3043 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL009 Act 5 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships
The final act is here! Will the triplets ever accept their birthday books about Presidents? Have you won an award for faking it? And what’s YOUR favorite Glory Hole – we got ours! Thanks for following us on this epic journey through Dr. Emma Goodall’s guide to life and love.
2021-05-1129 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL009 Act 4 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships
What happens when your ex’s bud tries to kiss you at a pumpkin carving contest?
2021-04-2725 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL009 Act 3 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships
More Dr. Emma Goodall!
2021-04-1421 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL009 Act 2 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships2021-04-0832 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL009 Act 1 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships
Act 1 of so many Acts!!
April 2nd is World Autism Awareness Day! Learn more at Autistic Self Advocacy Network autisticadvocacy.org & autismacceptance.com
2021-03-2628 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL009d Twinterlude – Ready2RumBall
Barbara updates us on her dating app trolling experience and talks bullies, while Vera talks balls of boozy breakfast!
Very sweet.Decidedly less so.
2021-03-1312 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL009C Twinterview – Sheila
This is Sheila. Let’s just say…she sure knows how to app date during Covid. Find out the story behind this photo and why we love her and also why you will love her on this podcast episode!
Sheila, Mistress of the Dick Pic
PLUS BIBI GOT TROLLED! And Fifi has a million dollar idea for compulsive public masturbators on lockdown.
2021-02-2636 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL009b Twinterlude – Amie & Friends
Missing our friend on the year anniversary of her passing.
Plus Vera’s close encounters with celebrities, and Barbara’s app dating adventures.
2021-02-1620 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL009a Twinterlude – Hamm on Cry
We chat about Barbara’s continued adventures in app dating, plus the tasty hunk (below) who’s ensorcelled Vera, Barbara, AND Barbara’s friend Melissa!
2021-02-1021 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL008 Act 4 – The Upward Spiral
‘This is the most coolest show, and we worked hard on it, and the reason it is really cool is because we worked more than before.’ – Vera’s 7 year old son
Also, an interview with author Dr. Alex Korb! Buy his books now at Harriett’s Bookshop and Moon Palace Books.
Dr. Alex KorbTwinterviewers
2021-02-0152 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL008 Act 3 – The Upward Spiral
Up, up, and away! In Act 3 of Alex Korb’s THE UPWARD SPIRAL, we talk fear, insecurity, drunk-biking, little Vikings, guru nonsense, and announce our upcoming author interview!
2021-01-1329 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL008 Act 2 – The Upward Spiral
Onwards and upwards! In Act 2 of Alex Korb’s THE UPWARD SPIRAL, we explore the brain-benefits of Lucha Libre, rude Brits, how to be an astronaut, and one very special rug.
Misterioso, our trainer!Name this garment!
2021-01-0731 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL008 Act 1 – The Upward Spiral
If you’re reading this, you’ve made it through 2020. What better way to celebrate than with a couple of books about DEPRESSION! Dr. Alex Korb PhD guides us through “using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time.” Yippee!
Upward Spirals
And something else to celebrate – it’s the ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY of our first episode. Thank you to everyone who’s joined us over the months. Here’s to many more!
2020-12-3132 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL008a Twinterlude – Happy Holidays 2020
Well, we didn’t it! No new episode just yet, but we miss you so! Please accept this, our new featurette — the Twinterlude — while we gather our thoughts on our next book(s) THE UPWARD SPIRAL and THE UPWARD SPIRAL WORKBOOK.
Also…
We still have some HOLIDAY POSTCARDS left, and would be delighted to send them your way if you provide a mailing address to DateyLadies (at) gmail.com
We also mentioned our brand-new PO BOX! That address is this:DuffyPO Box 121North Hollywood, CA 91603United States
COOL L...2020-12-2424 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL007 Act 3 – The Art of Seduction
We finish our li’l chit-chat about Robert Greene’s classic book with a very special surprise – an interview with the man himself!
Robert gives his Emmy-award winning podcast twinterview!
But first, Vera introduces our dear listeners to the very special world of Vicercising. Name It to Lame It ™!
Also, the tragic story of Vera’s first crush!
And finally -Barbara’s monkey butts and cherry juice !
2020-10-2138 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL007 Act 2 – The Art of Seduction
More of Robert Greene’s wildly popular seduction book! Plus, in Twinsights, Barbara’s attack-twin address her former boyfriend.
Check out the Lord Bryon hair auctions, 1992 & 2020!
Barbara gets flustered with Mr. Charming.
2020-10-0832 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL007 Act 1 – The Art of Seduction
We twins revisit one of our favorite bored-person books, THE ART OF SEDUCTION by Robert Greene. Are you a Seducer or Victim? And which type? Join us for a thrilling jaunt through history, literature, and love.
Plus, Vera dishes on our star-turn in season 7 of RENO 911! (now on Quibi) and the power of negative thought.
ALSO… please check out our vintage twinterview with ROBERT GREENE on our former podcast The Slap Booth Show, all the way back in 2012!
2020-09-2833 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL006 Act 3 – All The Fucking Mistakes
And now, the thrilling conclusion!
2020-08-1934 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL006 Act 2 – All The Fucking Mistakes
The fun continues with our second act! Herpes vs. computer; which virus is easier to catch? And also – porn! Plus, Vera explores her “place of lac” as the mystery of Toluca Lake lake deepens.
Please enjoy this commercial for the Odyssey Video store, home to Barbara Ann Duffy, Vera Duffy, and Ron Jeremy.
2020-08-1329 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL006 Act 1 – All The Fucking Mistakes
Our review of Gigi Engle’s ALL THE FUCKING MISTAKES is so astounding it can only be a multi-act production! Join us now for Act 1, where we discuss cat-calling street pervs, secret urethras, and stigma that’s silly as fudge.
Bur first, our call to the public for naughty words. There’s still time to email yours in! Do it, Booty Chicken!
2020-08-0631 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL005B – Twinterview
Does Love in the Time of COVID-19 deliver a chance to refocus on emotional connection, or creative new ways to bang? “It’s both,” reports JAIME, a seasoned pro at online dating.
Meanwhile, MATT rekindled his sixteen year on-again/off-again, long distance romance right before quarantine struck. Find out why Dr. Amie’s episode on ATTACHED changed everything for him.
Plus Barbara talks Pride, and Vera shares some grave mistakes from episode 005.
Jaime Sena is a program manager at a tech company in San Francisco who has been married, divorced, done long-distance relationships and lots...2020-06-2628 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL005 – Love in the Time of Cholera
WE DID IT! WE FINISHED THE BOOK! Discover why it took us so long, and Vera’s explanation of why a damn parrot’s on the book cover. And then….
“Winner” needs to be waaaaay more specific.
…as promised in our intro, a very specific list of ways to support the #BlackLivesMatter movement:
1. Order from a BLACK-OWNED RESTAURANTYou can find one near you on this list of lists.
2. DONATE to a causeHere is another list of lists, but if you want us to choose for you, consider Black Lives Matter, Recl...2020-06-0927 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL005A – Twinterview
LISA and her long-term boyfriend chose to isolate separately, and haven’t been together in two months. Meanwhile, KANDICE moved her brand-new boyfriend into her one-room apartment, and they haven’t been apart. Plus, Barbara shares some dating-app dramas! Please enjoys our newest Datey Ladies feature – the TWINTERVIEW – with real-life stories of Love in the Time of COVID-19!
Twins & LisaDrew & KandiceOur new hero
Lisa Jones is a mother, animation producer, rider of bikes, lover of music, cartoons, books and cats. Official motto: “When in doubt, add more glitter.”
Kandice Martellaro is a writer (STAN AGAINST...2020-05-1929 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL004.5 – 8 1/2
Mixin’ it up with a movie! For this bonus episode, we explore Federico Fellini’s 1963 masterpiece 8 1/2. Follow Guido, our handsome hero/literal man-baby, as he navigates director’s block, Catholic guilt, rumba-dancing angels, and the revolt of his personal Head Harem.
DON’T LOOK BEHIND YOU IT’S CATHOLICISMWhen your wife and side-piece are BFFsNewest addition to Head Harem
Also… if you haven’t yet, please take a moment to sign Dr. Amie’s petition at Justice4Amie.com. We are currently at 238,792 signatures. A million would be nice.
2020-04-2334 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL004 – Everything I Need to Know I Learned from Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood
In this brave new world, we’re phoning it in. Join us, neighbor, for a gentle episode where we remember our friends and look for the helpers.
Photo by Susan Anderson
As promised in the opening, more about Amie…LA WeeklyRolling StoneJustice4Amie petition
Jean Kilbourne’s KILLING US SOFTLY (1979) and the others in the series are available free on Kanopy, but her TED Talk is here.And the story of our teenage lives, featuring Amie’s friend Dave Navarro…
2020-03-1837 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL003 – Attached
Join our very first guest Doctor Amie Harwick, PhD, MFT, as we discuss her book selection ATTACHED. Are you Anxious, Secure, or Avoidant? How do you feel about airborne popsicles and butt-hole tattoos? And how many nun costumes is *too* many nun costumes? All these questions and more are answered on this, our third episode, of Datey Ladies!Follow Dr. Amie here!www.dramieharwick.comIG: @dramieharwick
Dr. Amie HarwickAttached x 3B’s Shapermint ad, only on IG @dateyladies!
2020-02-0557 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL002 – It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken
The twins examine Shapermint ads, a 1970s sex-spa, and their own bad behavior while reviewing Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt’s best-selling follow-up to HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.
Vera’s BookThe Breakup Box
2020-01-0951 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL001 – Why Men Love Bitches
Presenting our first selection, WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES. Who is author Sherry Argov? Why is this book? No spoilers – enjoy as much as we did!
AKA How Low Can You Go?
The BookThe AuthorThe Bookcase
2019-12-3034 minDatey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera DuffyDL000 – Teaser Episode
Welcome to DATEY LADIES, the Book Club of Love! We are Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy, identical twin sisters who hate talking “sexy stuff” with each other but are darn-well gonna as we dissect a bevy of relationship books. TaaAAAAlkward!*
One’s been with the same feller for two decades; one’s twice divorced. And did we mention we’re Mexican wrestlers? Now you can’t not listen. So please, join us as we dive right in with the “national bestseller” WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES!
*We’ll never say this again, swear.
2019-12-0106 min