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Building Better Marriages Podcast103 Love On Purpose - After Valentine's DayLove On Purpose - After Valentine’s Day is for those who feel a letdown after the “highlight day” and quietly wonder, “Why do we still feel disconnected?” or “Why did that not go the way I hoped?” If you’re searching for Christian marriage help, how to reconnect after Valentine’s Day, marriage communication tips, or a simple relationship reset, this episode will help you name unmet needs without blame, release pressure and comparison, and rebuild closeness with practical steps you can use right away—whether you’re dating, engaged, or married.
Ready to stop the cycle of silence, tens...
2026-02-1710 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast102 Love On Purpose - Words That HealLove On Purpose — Words That Heal is for the couple who’s tired of the same fight, the same sharp tone, and the same silence that makes you feel alone in your own home. If you’ve been thinking, “We used to be close,” or “Why do our talks turn into tension so fast?” this episode gives you simple, Christ-centered tools to help you slow down, speak with kindness, and rebuild emotional safety—before and after “I do.” You’ll learn how to use a gentle tone (Proverbs 15:1), a quick pause that saves words, and an easy “I feel / I need / can we” script...
2026-02-1010 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast101 Love on Purpose - A heart Tune-up For a Better YearWhat if this year you chose to love on purpose—with intention, grace, and Christ at the center? In this episode of "Building Better Marriages: The I Do, and I Don’t of Everyday Life," Dr. Deborah invites you into a heart tune-up designed to help you reset, refocus, and renew your marriage for the year ahead.
You’ll be encouraged to examine what’s shaping your heart, realign your priorities, and choose love that reflects God’s design—not autopilot living.
If you’re longing for deeper connection, clearer communication, and a stronger Christ-centered foundation, th...
2026-02-0314 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast100 New Year New Heart A Simple Connection Reset Before FebruaryThis is my 100th episode!
Welcome to "New Year, New Heart — A Simple Connection Reset Before February." This is for couples who want a fresh start without pressure—whether you’re dating, engaged, or married. If you’ve been thinking, “We keep having the same fight,” or “I miss feeling close,” this episode gives you a simple, Christ-centered reset you can use right away: pause, invite Jesus in, and choose repair instead of reaction. You’ll learn a practical connection plan (a 10-minute check-in, gentle “I feel / I need / can we” scripts, and a few repair phrases) to rebuild emotional saf...
2026-01-2713 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast099 The Daily Heart ChoiceIn today’s 99th episode, New Year, New Heart: The Daily Heart Choice, we’re talking about the small, powerful decision that can change your relationship: pause, invite Jesus into your next words, and choose repair instead of reacting.
If you’ve been thinking, “I want a fresh start, but I keep responding the same way,” this episode will help you take one simple step toward more peace, trust, and connection—whether you’re dating, engaged, or married.
You’ll learn:
What a “new heart” looks like in everyday moments
A quick heart check be...
2026-01-2112 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast098 A Stronger Marriage Needs Jesus to Heal the Tender PlacesIn “A Stronger Marriage Needs Jesus to Heal the Tender Places,” we talk about what happens when old pain keeps showing up in new conversations. Whether you’re engaged or years into marriage, healing is part of God’s design for love. You’ll learn a simple Healing Check-In, how to stop keeping score, and how to start rebuilding trust, emotional safety, and connection with Jesus at the center.
If you’re ready to heal what hurts and build a Christ-centered marriage that feels safe again, book a 20-minute discovery call with Dr. Deborah. Let’s talk about your nex...
2026-01-0908 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast097 Stepping Into the New Year With a New HeartA new year doesn’t begin with resolutions—it begins with a renewed heart. In this episode, I invite you to pause, reflect, and step forward with hope as you release what no longer serves you and make room for what God wants to restore. Together, we’ll explore how healing, surrender, and faith open the door to real transformation—not by striving harder, but by trusting deeper.
This conversation is for the weary woman who longs for peace, clarity, and a fresh start rooted in Christ. If you’re ready to leave the past where it belongs an...
2026-01-0209 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast096 When the Journey Changes YouAs the year comes to a close, we pause to reflect on how the road we’ve walked has quietly changed us. In this episode, we will look back on The Road to Bethlehem and notice what often goes unseen—that God didn’t just meet us along the way, He reshaped our hearts through the journey. What began with weariness ends with deeper trust, renewed hope, and a quieter strength rooted in Christ.
This is an invitation to look back with gratitude, release what no longer belongs in the new year, and recognize that the journey didn’t...
2025-12-2310 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast095 Joy on the Road to Bethlehem When God Meets Us in the OrdinaryJoy often shows up in quiet, unexpected places. In this episode, we reflect on how God met ordinary people on the road to Bethlehem—and how He still meets us today in the middle of our everyday lives. If your heart feels weary or distracted this season, this conversation will gently remind you that joy is not found in perfection, but in God’s presence with us.
If this episode encouraged you, please like, follow, share, and leave a review—it helps others find hope on their journey.
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2025-12-1710 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast094 Finding Peace on The Road to BethlehemOn this Advent journey, Dr. Deborah invites you to slow down, breathe deep, and discover the peace Jesus offers in the middle of life’s stress and strain. Each episode helps you turn your heart toward Christ through Scripture, simple reflection, and gentle encouragement for your marriage and your everyday walk with God. If your soul feels weary, this is the place to rest, reset, and remember that His peace is still for you.
If this message speaks to you, consider getting the updated book, The Road to Bethlehem: An Advent Journey, on Amazon, and walk through the...
2025-12-1011 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast093 An Advent Journey for a Weary HeartIn this episode, An Advent Journey for a Weary Heart, there is a simple, hope-filled moment this week to pause, breathe, and refocus on Jesus. Dr. Deborah gently guides you through Scripture and reflection to find peace, strength, and renewed joy this season. Listen in and let your heart rest in the One who came close.
The Road to Bethlehem, An Advent Journey
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2025-12-0212 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast092 Having the Mindset of Christ in Marriage: A Conversation with John DeJarnetteIn this powerful and deeply reflective episode, Dr. Deborah sits down with John DeJarnette, a man of wisdom and faith, to talk about what it truly means to have the mindset of Christ in marriage.
Together, they unpack how humility, forgiveness, and servant leadership can transform even the most challenging seasons of marriage. John shares honest insights from his own journey—what it looks like to lead with grace, to love without pride, and to daily renew the mind through God’s Word.
You’ll hear practical steps for shifting your perspective from frustration to faith...
2025-11-2539 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast091 The Mindset Shift: Renewed in Spirit By Letting God Transform Your Thoughts and Attitudes in Marriage.In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba unpacks the truth of Ephesians 4:22-24 (NLT) — “Throw off your old sinful nature… and let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes.”
Marriage renewal begins in the mind. When we allow the Holy Spirit to reshape our thoughts and attitudes, everything changes—our words become softer, our reactions more patient, and our love more genuine. Dr. Deborah shares how to release old habits that hinder connection and embrace the new nature God has created within us—one filled with grace, humility, and peace.
If your marriage feels stuck in old patterns...
2025-11-1813 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast090 The Mindset Shift: Transforming The Way You ThinkIn this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba delves into 1 Corinthians 2:16 (NLT): “For we have the mind of Christ.” What does it look like to think, love, and respond to your spouse with the same heart and mindset as Jesus?
You’ll discover how renewing your thoughts through the Holy Spirit changes the atmosphere of your marriage—from frustration to faith, from reaction to reflection, and from distance to connection. Dr. Deborah shares how couples can move from striving to surrender, allowing God to restore peace and purpose right where they are.
If you’ve ever longed for transf...
2025-11-1111 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast089 The Mind Shift Seeing Your Marriage Through The Eyes Of ChristIn this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to experience The Mindset Shift: Seeing Your Marriage Through the Eyes of Christ.
Drawing from Philippians 2:5–7 (NLT), she unpacks how humility, love, and servant leadership reshape the way you see your spouse and respond in moments of tension.
Learn how to move from reacting in pride or fear to responding in grace—how to view your marriage not through frustration, but through faith. When you begin to think like Christ, you start to love like Him, and that’s where true transformation begins.
Whether your relationship needs...
2025-11-0611 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast088 A Polygrapher's Perspective on Trust, Truth and Healing in MarriageJoin Dr. Deborah and guest Scott Stone, a polygrapher and man of faith, as they explore how truth, trust, and God’s grace bring healing and restoration to marriage.
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2025-10-2846 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast087 The Power of Truth and Honesty For Restoring MarriagesIn this episode of Building Better Marriages: The “I Do” and “I Don’t” of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba explores how the power of truth transforms relationships and restores emotional and spiritual connection in marriage.
Honesty isn’t just about words—it’s about the heart. When couples choose to walk in truth, they invite the light of Yeshua into their relationship, creating a foundation of trust and intimacy that no secret or silence can shake.
Through Scripture, biblical insight, and practical wisdom, Dr. Deborah shares how speaking truth in love opens the door to healing, free...
2025-10-2209 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast086 The Power of Truth Walking in the Light of Yeshua in MarriageIn this episode of Building Better Marriages: The “I Do” and “I Don’t” of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba dives deep into the heart of truth and its connection to Yeshua—the Way, the Truth, and the Life.
Discover how walking in the truth of Christ brings healing, freedom, and a deeper connection in marriage. Learn why truth is more than honesty—it’s a spiritual posture that invites Yeshua’s presence into your relationship. Dr. Deborah shares biblical insight, practical steps, and a heartfelt prayer to help couples speak truth in love, rebuild trust, and restore intimacy t...
2025-10-1408 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast085 Preparing the Bride with Pastor Lorraine BlumIn this powerful episode of Building Better Marriages: The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah welcomes Pastor Lorraine Blum for a heart-stirring conversation on what it truly means to live ready for the King. Together, they explore the call for the Bride of Christ to prepare—spiritually, emotionally, and relationally—for His return.
Pastor Lorraine shares wisdom on how to build strong, Christ-centered marriages that reflect the purity, devotion, and unity God desires for His people. This episode invites listeners to examine their hearts, renew their covenant love, and align their homes with H...
2025-10-0735 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast084 Preparing For The Coming Of Yeshua- A Call For MarriagesAs we look forward to the return of our Savior, Yeshua, there’s no greater time to reflect on how we’re living, loving, and preparing for His coming. In this powerful episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah discusses the importance of preparing not only spiritually but also within our marriages.
Listen as we explore:
How to stay spiritually awake and ready for the return of Christ.
The role of faith, prayer, and unity in preparing our hearts and marriages.
Practical steps co...
2025-09-3017 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast083 Living As One God's Design For Oneness in MarriageAre you feeling stuck, weighed down by regrets, or unsure if you’re even on the right path in your marriage and life? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah takes you back to the basics — the path God created just for you.
Through biblical truth and practical steps, you’ll learn how to:
Recognize when you’ve drifted from God’s will.
Release the burden of past mistakes and regrets.
Realign your marriage and personal life with God’s purpose.
2025-09-2309 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast082: Our Christ-Centered Love Story – A Conversation with My HusbandEvery marriage has a story — moments of joy, seasons of struggle, and the grace of God holding it all together. In this very special episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah is joined by her husband for an open and heartfelt conversation about their Christ-centered love story.
Together, they share:
How faith shaped their relationship from the beginning.
The challenges they’ve faced and the lessons God taught them along the way.
The role of communication, forgiveness, and prayer in keeping their marriage...
2025-09-1648 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast081 Building Bridges Closing the Gap Between His Needs and Her NeedsEvery couple feels it at some point — the gap between his needs and her needs. Maybe it’s in how you communicate, how you show love and respect, or how you approach intimacy and spiritual leadership. In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah shares biblical truth and practical tools to help you bridge those differences and grow closer as a couple.
Drawing from Ephesians 5:33 (NLT), “each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband,” you’ll learn why husbands and w...
2025-09-0913 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast080 The Power Of Unity and Why Marriage Needs Two Voices Not Just OneMarriage was never meant to be a solo journey. In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah shares why God designed marriage to thrive when both voices are heard, valued, and respected.
Discover how unity in marriage is built not on sameness but on complementing each other’s strengths, perspectives, and God-given design.
Learn how to recognize when one voice is being silenced and restore balance, love, and mutual respect in your relationship.
If you’ve been asking, “How do we communicate better in our mar...
2025-09-0518 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast079a Getting Back To Basics - The Path God Created For YouAre you feeling stuck, weighed down by regrets, or unsure if you’re even on the right path in your marriage and life? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah takes you back to the basics — the path God created just for you.
Through biblical truth and practical steps, you’ll learn how to:
Recognize when you’ve drifted from God’s will.
Release the burden of past mistakes and regrets.
Realign your marriage and personal life with God’s purpose.
Walk in freedom, joy, and peace knowin...
2025-09-0415 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast079 Getting Back To Your Roots, The Path God Created For YouHave you ever felt weighed down by regrets or restless in your walk with God? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, Dr. Deborah shares how to recognize when you’ve wandered off God’s path and how to return to the one He designed just for you — a path filled with joy, peace, and purpose.
Through Scripture, practical wisdom, and heartfelt encouragement, you’ll discover:
3 signs you may be walking the wrong path
Why regrets are not from God
An “I Do and I Don’t” to help you realign with His calli...
2025-08-2815 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast078 10 Phrases That Harm Your Marriage and What To Say InsteadHave you ever said, “You always…” or “Forget it” in the heat of the moment? Words like these may seem small, but they can quietly tear down intimacy and trust in your marriage. In this episode, Dr. Deborah uncovers 10 common sayings that sabotage communication between husbands and wives—and shares biblical, practical ways to replace them with words that bring healing, respect, and connection.
Through Scripture, Hebrew and Greek word studies, and real-life applications, you’ll discover how to:
Speak truth without condemnation
Replace dismissive words with life-giving ones
Build a safe space for both love and respect to...
2025-08-2020 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast077 The Unspoken Desires of a Wife, What She Really Needs But Rarely Says OutloadIn this episode of Building Better Marriages: The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba turns the conversation toward the heart of a wife. Drawing from Ephesians 5:25, the Greek agapaō (to love with Christ-like commitment), and Proverbs 31:11, the Hebrew batach (to trust with security), Dr. Deborah unpacks three needs many wives carry quietly—emotional safety, affection beyond the bedroom, and spiritual leadership in the home.
Whether you’re a husband seeking to understand your wife better or a wife longing to feel known and valued, this conversation offers biblical truth, practical steps, and a g...
2025-08-1213 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast076 Beyond Happy Wife Happy Life - What Husbands Really NeedWhat if God’s design for marriage is bigger than “happy wife, happy life”? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, Dr. Deborah unpacks Ephesians 5:33 — where husbands are called to love and wives are called to respect — and shows how this mutual exchange creates lasting joy, not just temporary happiness.
You’ll hear biblical wisdom, practical steps to show love and respect this week, and a Hebrew Word Moment exploring simcha (joy) — the holy celebration God desires for every marriage.
Listen in to discover:
Why “happy wife, happy life” misses God’s blueprint for marriage
2025-08-0617 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast075 The Abundant Life For Your MarriageIn this episode of Building Better Marriages: The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba unpacks John 10:10 and the powerful promise Jesus gives couples facing spiritual attacks.
Discover how the enemy works to steal, kill, and destroy marriages — and how Christ offers zoē life, overflowing with love, peace, and purpose.
Learn how to identify the thief, invite Jesus into every part of your relationship, and speak life over your marriage so it not only survives but thrives.
Perfect for couples longing for healing, hope, and a deeper Christ-centered conne...
2025-07-3110 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast073 7 Summer Fun Date NightsIn today’s episode, I’m inviting you to step away from the noise and into the quiet presence of God—to pause, rest, and remember that joy, laughter, and love were always part of His design for marriage. I've compiled seven summer night fun date night ideas to help you get started.
We’ll explore what the Bible says about rest and renewal, and introduce our first Hebrew Word Moment by looking at the word Sheva (שֶׁבַע)—the number seven. More than just a number, it symbolizes completion, covenant, and wholeness. It reminds us that what God starts, He finish...
2025-07-2213 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast072 The Power of Pause - Why Slowing Down is SacredFeeling guilty for resting? You’re not alone. In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba shares why rest is sacred, modeled by God, and essential for soul renewal.
Learn how to practice Sabbath rhythms with practical, grace-filled pauses in your week. Matthew 11:28–30 (NLT)
“Come to me, all of you who are weary…”
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2025-07-1512 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast071 Mid Year Reset By Embracing Grace Over GuiltFeeling behind this year? You're not alone. In this heartfelt mid-year reflection, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to release guilt, receive grace, and reset your heart with God's truth. Discover how to move forward in faith, not frustration, and embrace the rest of this year with peace and purpose.“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!”
—Isaiah 43:18–19 (NLT)
Ready to take the next step? The Heart Reset: A 3-Day Journey from Stuck to Surrendered.
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2025-07-1011 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast070: Embracing Your Story Because God Isn’t Finished YetHave you ever looked back on your life and felt shame, regret, or disappointment?
In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that God doesn’t waste a single chapter of your story. Whether you're navigating marriage struggles, personal growth, or spiritual renewal, this message will help you see your past through the lens of grace, not guilt.
You’ll learn:
Why your story matters
How God can use your testimony to heal others
What Scripture says about letting go of the past
A journaling activity to help...
2025-07-0310 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast068 Are you Influencing or Being Influenced?In this powerful episode, Dr. Deborah dives into Jeremiah 15:19 to explore what it really means to be an influencer for God’s glory in a culture driven by popularity and platform. You’ll learn how godly influence differs from worldly influence and how to stand firm in your faith without being swayed by the noise around you.
Whether you’re mentoring others, building a Christ-centered marriage, or simply showing up online, this episode will help you lead with truth, not trends.
God is calling you to influence others—not be influenced by them.
Let’s Co...
2025-06-2415 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast067 What To Do When The Spark Fades encore PresentationDoes it feel like the love in your marriage has gone cold?
You’re not alone—and there is hope. In this encore presentation of one of our most downloaded episodes, “What Do I Do When the Spark Fades?”, we revisit one of the most common and heartbreaking questions Christian couples ask. If you've ever whispered to yourself, "I still love my spouse, but we feel like strangers", this message is for you.
As a Christian marriage counselor and coach, I know how easy it is for couples to lose their connection in the middle of raising...
2025-06-1716 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast066 Filling Your Cup First - Practical Self-Care Strategies For Busy WomenFeeling stretched thin and spiritually drained? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, Dr. Deborah Skomba offers faith-filled encouragement and practical, biblical strategies to help busy Christian women care for themselves without guilt. Learn what true self-care looks like—far beyond bubble baths—and why Jesus modeled the importance of rest and renewal.
From spiritual habits to healthy boundaries, this episode will guide you in creating a lifestyle that honors your body, your calling, and your relationship with God. It’s time to stop running on empty and start pouring from a full cup.
You’ll disco...
2025-06-1109 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast065 Do You Avoid These 3 Questions To Keep The Peace?Are you staying silent in your marriage to avoid conflict? In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores three powerful questions couples often avoid to " keep the peace.” Discover how silence can harm your connection and how biblical truth and loving communication can lead to healing, trust, and lasting intimacy.
What You’ll Learn:
✅ The difference between false peace and true peace
✅ 3 hard but necessary questions to bring into your marriage conversations
✅ 3 action steps to rebuild trust and deepen intimacy
✅ A Scripture-based perspective on speaking the truth in love
✅ A heartfelt prayer and practical “I do” and “I don...
2025-06-0315 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast064 3 Keys To Overcoming Obstacles in Marriage- What We Can Learn From NehemiahAre you feeling stuck in your marriage or unsure how to build a strong one before you say “I do”?
In this episode, Dr. Deborah shares 3 biblical keys from Nehemiah to help you overcome obstacles in your relationship through prayer, planning, and protection.
Whether preparing for marriage or restoring what feels broken, you’ll walk away with Christ-centered hope and practical steps.
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2025-05-2809 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast063 What Do I Do When The Spark FadesAre you feeling distant from your spouse even though you’re doing life together? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, I explore what to do when emotional connection fades and conversations stop. Learn practical ways to reconnect, communicate with grace, and restore intimacy in your marriage using biblical truth.
This episode includes:
4 steps to rebuild emotional connection
A prayer to invite God into the space between you
Encouragement to start honest conversations again
A free download: 10 Questions Every Couple Should Ask Before or After the Ring
An i...
2025-05-2116 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast060 What If You are Stronger Than You ThinkIn today’s episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that you are stronger, wiser, and more prepared for love than you realize. Before saying "yes" to the ring, it’s vital to see yourself the way God sees you—strong, chosen, and equipped for His perfect design in marriage.
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2025-05-1515 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast062 Build Trust Through TransparencyIn this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares why trust is the foundation of every Christ-centered marriage—and how transparency keeps it strong. Learn biblical strategies to rebuild trust after it's been broken, open the door to honest conversations, and create a safe space for emotional connection. Plus, Dr. Deborah prays 5 daily prayers to help you and your spouse walk in truth and grace.
Listen in and discover:
• How to communicate with love and honesty
• What to do when trust is broken
• How to start a “Trust Talk” with your spouse
• Five powerful prayers for deeper con...
2025-05-1415 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast061 Healing Begins At The Heart - Letting God Mend What Was BrokenDear One, are you carrying emotional wounds from past relationships, heartbreak, or current struggles in your marriage? In this powerful episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to step into God’s healing presence and discover how lasting love starts with a restored heart.
Drawing from Psalm 147:3 (NLT), "He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds," Dr. Deborah shares practical, faith-filled insight on how to begin healing from the inside out. Whether you're preparing for marriage, trying to save one, or simply longing for peace, this episode offers hope, truth, and a path forward.
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2025-05-0713 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast060 What If You Are Stronger Than You ThinkBefore and After the Ring: What If You’re Stronger Than You Think?
In today’s episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that you are stronger, wiser, and more prepared for love than you realize. Before saying "yes" to the ring, it’s vital to see yourself the way God sees you—strong, chosen, and equipped for His perfect design in marriage.
Ready to go deeper?
CLICK HERE to book a free 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah and get personal guidance for your season of preparation.
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2025-04-2915 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast059 How To Build Your Marriage on What's Already WorkingEveryone talks about red flags—but what if your relationship already holds the key to lasting love?
In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba helps you recognize the spiritual strengths you already have and how to build from them. Perfect for engaged or seriously dating couples who want to build a Christ-centered marriage with purpose and confidence.
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2025-04-2211 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast058 Why Red Flags Matter, But Your Strengths Matter More
Everyone talks about red flags—but what if the greatest insight for your relationship lies in what’s already working? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba helps you shift your focus from fear to faith by identifying the God-given strengths in your relationship and how to build from them.
You’ll learn how to:
Recognize your spiritual assets as a couple
Reinforce healthy patterns before marriage
Build from what’s right, not just react to what’s wrong
Download the free guide: 10 Questions Every Couple Should Ask Before the...
2025-04-1511 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast057 Before the Ring - Red Flags Every Couple Should KnowWelcome back to episode 57 of the Building Better Marriages podcast. I’m so glad you’re here because today, we’re talking about something that can truly change a couple’s life.
We will look at what happens before the ring—before the vows, before the dress, and before the honeymoon. I want to help couples and those who care about them understand the red flags and foundations that really matter when it comes to marriage.
his season is where big decisions are made, but sometimes with little direction. That’s why I’m passionate about equipping...
2025-04-0810 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast056 God's Blueprint For Love - What the Bible Really SaysIn this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba dives deep into the heart of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, showing how God defines love not as a feeling but as action, sacrifice, and commitment. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this message will help you set biblical expectations that lead to deeper trust, healthier intimacy, and stronger Christ-centered relationships.
You’ll learn:
How to recognize real, God-honoring love
Why feelings fade, but commitment lasts
How to apply 1 Corinthians 13 to your daily life and marriage
The difference between worldly love and biblical love
How to pray for and pursue a relationship that re...
2025-04-0116 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast055 Diving into the Deep End of CommitmentWhy are so many people afraid of true commitment—especially when it comes to marriage? In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores the fears that hold us back from diving deep into lasting love and why God’s design for marriage is the only way to truly experience the joy, safety, and purpose of covenant love.
If you’re ready to move past the fear and into a Christ-centered relationship that reflects His heart, this episode is for you.
Resources Mentioned:
God’s Design for Marriage – A biblical guide to building a love that lasts
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2025-03-2607 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast054 The Five Foundations Of An Unshakeable MarriageWhat makes a marriage truly thrive?
In this episode, Dr. Deborah dives into the five essential foundations of an unshakeable marriage—faith, love, trust, communication, and commitment.
She unpacks how these biblical principles create a strong, lasting relationship and share practical ways to build (or rebuild) them in your marriage. Whether you're newly married, years into your journey, or preparing for marriage, this episode will give you the tools to strengthen your relationship and align it with God's design.
Grab your latte, reheat your tea or start to set the pace as you tu...
2025-03-1808 minBuilding Better Marriages PodcastSpring Ahead - Moving Forward in Faith TogetherSpring is here—a season of renewal, fresh beginnings, and new growth. Just like we set our clocks ahead to embrace longer days, our marriages also need refreshing and intentional change moments. Are you making the necessary adjustments in your relationship to move forward in faith and love?
In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares a personal story of how God shifted her path from growing flowers to growing marriages, reminding us that just like gardens need tending, so do our relationships.
Tune in to learn:
How to clear out the weeds—old habits, past...
2025-03-1107 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast052 God is in the Testing - Trusting Him to Show the WayLife doesn’t always go as planned. Sometimes, we step out in faith, pour our hearts into something, and the response isn’t what we expected. In those moments, doubt creeps in, and we wonder if we misheard God.
But what if the testing is part of His plan?
What if He’s refining us, redirecting us, and preparing us for something greater?
In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares her own experience of stepping out in faith, facing unexpected challenges, and learning to trust that God is in the testing. Through scripture, person...
2025-03-0508 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast051 Are You Worth the Investment?"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." Matthew 6:21 (NIV)
How often do you think about treating yourself—a massage, a facial, a weekend getaway, or even just dinner with a friend—only to stop yourself with the thought, "That’s a lot of money."
You might even search for a payment plan or a discount, but deep down, it was never really about the money. The real issue? Believing YOU are worth the investment.
In today’s episode, we’re diving into why so many women struggle to invest in themsel...
2025-02-2513 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast050 You Were Not Meant To Do Life AloneHave you ever found yourself saying, “I don’t need anyone. I can handle it alone”? Maybe you’ve convinced yourself that asking for help is a sign of weakness or that no one would understand your struggles. But here’s the truth—God never intended for you to walk this journey alone.
In this episode, we’ll dive into why so many women feel they must carry everything by themselves, the biblical truth about community and support, and how stepping out of isolation leads to healing and transformation. You are not meant to do this alone, and you don’t...
2025-02-1812 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast049 The Power of Commitment When Love Gets Tough"Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves." — Romans 12:10
In Episode 049, "The Power of Commitment: When Love Gets Tough," Dr. Deborah explores the real meaning of commitment beyond the honeymoon phase. Discover how to navigate difficult seasons in your relationship, why feelings aren't enough to sustain commitment, and how God's blueprint for love can strengthen your marriage. Whether you're waiting on commitment, preparing for it, or facing tough times in your relationship, this episode offers biblical wisdom, practical tips, and heartfelt encouragement.
Key Takeaways:
Debunking the myths of commitment...
2025-02-0512 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast048 Discovering Your Heart's Song A Journey of Renewal and PurposeAre you feeling stuck, uncertain, or longing for more in your life and marriage?
In this powerful episode, we’re diving deep into what it means to discover your heart’s song—that unique, God-given purpose that brings clarity, confidence, and joy.
Using Isaiah 43:18-19 as our foundation, we’ll explore how to release the weight of the past, embrace the fullness of who God created you to be, and step boldly into your next season. Your story—the good, the bad, and the challenging—matters, and when you embrace it, you step into the renewal and...
2025-01-2824 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast047 Reflecting on the Past to Embrace God's Grace NowAs we step into the new year, it’s easy to look back on our past—our victories, mistakes, and moments of regret. But what if, instead of holding onto guilt, we embraced God’s grace fully? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah dives into the power of grace and how it frees us from shame, renews our spirit, and allows us to walk confidently into God’s plan.
📖 Key Takeaways:
✨ The difference between reflecting and dwelling on the past
✨ Three truths about embracing God...
2025-01-2116 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast046 How to Take Baby Steps For a Fresh Start With a Faithful GodAre you ready to start fresh and take control of your spiritual journey? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba shares how small, faith-filled steps can lead to meaningful change in your relationship with God and your spouse. With insights from Zechariah 4:10, you'll learn how to trust God’s timing, let go of perfectionism, and embrace progress in your everyday life.
What You’ll Discover:
Practical, faith-based habits to build a stronger relationship with God.
Encouragement to prioritize your marriage through simple daily actions.
How God rejoices in your small, intentional beginnings.
Don’t miss this episod...
2025-01-1410 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast045 A Fresh Start in 2025 - Baby Steps Toward Your Best Year YetIn this inspiring episode, we’ll explore how to embrace the new year with a fresh perspective and renewed faith. Whether you're setting big goals or focusing on small, meaningful changes, we’ll discuss how taking baby steps can lead to lasting transformation.
Grounded in Scripture and practical tips, this episode will encourage you to trust God’s plan as you move forward, one step at a time, toward your best year yet. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about hope, grace, and creating a Christ-centered 2025!
2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit: “New Beginnings – Embracing Your Story t...
2025-01-0813 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast044 From Empty to Empowered - Trusting God When You Have Nothing Left To GiveThis listener favorite originally aired September 3, 2024, and we’re bringing it back because it’s just as powerful today as it was then! If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burned out, or like you have nothing left to give, this episode is for you. Dr. Deborah Skomba shares timeless biblical truths and practical steps to help you trust God in your emptiest moments and find strength in His promises.
✨ Join Me at the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit! ✨
This March, we’ll gather to embrace our stories and rediscover the heart song God has placed in us. Reserve...
2024-12-3113 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast043 Love Is At The Heart of ChristmasIn this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah reflects on the transformative power of love, the central theme of the fourth week of Advent. Drawing from 1 John 4:9—“This is how God showed His love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him”—she shares how God’s love can renew and strengthen your relationships, even during life’s most challenging seasons.
Discover how to reflect Christ’s love in your marriage and family with practical tips, biblical insights, and a powerful prayer. Dr. Deborah also shares an exciting announcement about the 2025...
2024-12-2508 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast042 The Joy of Christmas – Finding Strength and Healing in Your MarriageThis is such an exciting time!
Joy is the heartbeat of Christmas. As the angels proclaimed in Luke 2:14, the birth of Jesus brings glory to God and peace to our hearts. This joy is not dependent on how perfect our plans are or how much we accomplish—it’s rooted in the good news of our Savior’s arrival, a gift for all humanity.
This season invites us to pause and reflect on the true source of joy: God’s love for us, shown through the birth of Jesus. Amid the busyness of preparing for Christma...
2024-12-1713 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast041 Discovering Peace In Advent Discovering Peace in Advent
Are you longing for peace amidst the chaos of the holiday season? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, the "I do's" and "I don'ts of everyday life," we discuss peace in Advent, exploring how God's promises calm our hearts and guide us to rest in His presence. From the miracle of Jesus' birth to His name, Immanuel ("God with us"), and the deep assurance of His salvation, you'll discover how to embrace true peace in your heart and home this season.
Join us as we reflect on key scriptures like J...
2024-12-1011 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast040 The Hope of a Savior For Your MarriageIn this episode, Dr. Deborah explores how the hope of Jesus’ birth can transform your marriage. Drawing from Isaiah 9:6, she unpacks what it means to invite the Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace into your relationship. Learn practical ways to lean on Christ’s promises during challenging seasons and discover how His love and sacrifice model the path to a stronger, Christ-centered marriage.
Whether you're facing struggles or seeking to deepen your connection, this episode will encourage you to anchor your marriage in the unshakable hope of a Savior. Tune in for biblical insi...
2024-12-0308 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast039 Reflecting on the Blessings and Challenges of the YearAs the year comes to a close, it’s the perfect time to pause and reflect on both the blessings and challenges we’ve experienced. In this heartfelt episode of Reflecting on the Blessings and Challenges of the Year", we explore how looking back on the year with gratitude can reveal God’s hand in every high and low.
Using Romans 8:28 as our guide—'And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose'—we’ll uncover how God’s faithfulness has been woven thro...
2024-11-2612 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast038 Find Peace This Holiday Season With This Guide To Staying CenteredAre the holidays feeling more hectic than holy?
I share a heartfelt guide to finding peace this holiday season in this episode.
Grab your latte, warm up your tea, and find a cozy spot or set your pace to discover practical, faith-based tips for reducing stress, simplifying your schedule, and focusing on what truly matters: celebrating Christ, strengthening family bonds, and creating meaningful memories.
Whether you’re overwhelmed by busyness or longing for a deeper connection this season, this episode will inspire you to embrace God’s peace and make this holiday your most...
2024-11-1909 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast037 A Heart of Thanksgiving Embracing Gratitude DailyIn this episode of Building Better Marriages, join Dr. Deborah as we dive into the heart of Thanksgiving, discovering the power of gratitude in everyday life. Together, we’ll explore simple yet impactful ways to embrace a daily gratitude practice that strengthens faith, deepens family bonds, and builds a stronger marriage.
Learn how choosing gratitude can transform your outlook, bring peace to your home, and draw you closer to God’s love.
This Thanksgiving, let’s go beyond the holiday and make gratitude a lasting part of our lives. Tune in for practical tips, scriptural encour...
2024-11-1209 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast036 It's Election Day: Time to Walk in Faith and UnityIn today’s episode of Heart to Heart with Dr. Deborah, we discuss how Christian couples can navigate Election Day with faith, prayer, and unity. As believers, Election Day can stir up anxiety and division, but God calls us to walk through these moments together in love and trust. Tune in as I share tips on how to pray with your spouse, choose unity over division, and trust God’s sovereignty, regardless of the political outcome.
PLUS, don’t miss out on my exclusive Black Friday offer! Starting this Black Friday, you can get my new book The Ro...
2024-11-0509 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast035 Balance Care for Aging Parents While Keeping Your Marriage StrongIn this episode, "Balance Care for Aging Parents While Keeping Your Marriage Strong," we tackle the delicate balance of caring for aging parents while maintaining a healthy, Christ-centered marriage. As life’s responsibilities increase, it can feel overwhelming to juggle both family caregiving and nurturing your relationship. We’ll explore practical ways to manage these roles with grace, communicate openly with your spouse, and rely on God’s strength to guide you through this season.
If you're navigating this balancing act, tune in for encouragement, helpful tips, and faith-filled insights. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a revi...
2024-10-2908 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast034 Life After Loss- Finding Hope and Purpose in God's HealingLet's explore the journey of grief and how to find comfort and restoration through God’s love. Whether you're grieving the loss of a loved one, a relationship, or a dream, this episode offers encouragement and practical steps to help you heal. With a focus on God’s promises, we’ll discuss how to embrace your emotions, lean on your faith, and rediscover purpose even in the midst of pain.
This episode is for you if you’re seeking hope and healing after loss. Be sure to listen, like, subscribe, and leave a review to share this message...
2024-10-2210 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast033 Balancing Life and Love - How to Lead at Work and HomeIn this episode, "Balancing Leadership and Love," Dr Deborah discusses how to lead in life and love, exploring the challenges of being a leader at work while maintaining a thriving, Christ-centered marriage at home.
Finding balance is key, whether juggling professional responsibilities or nurturing your relationship. We’ll discuss practical strategies for leading with love in both areas, building strong communication, and relying on God’s wisdom to manage the demands of leadership and marriage.
If you want to strengthen your marriage through faith and intentional prayer, "A Better Marriage Prayer Journal" is the perfect tool...
2024-10-1511 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast032 When Life Changes; Navigating Transitions and Finding PeaceIn this episode, "When Life Changes: Navigating Transitions and Finding Peace," we dive into how to handle life's unexpected changes with grace and faith. Whether you're facing a career shift, family transitions, or personal challenges, this episode will guide you through practical steps to trust God’s plan and find peace in the midst of uncertainty. We explore the power of leaning into God’s promises and seeking His strength during life’s most difficult seasons.
Also, don’t forget to check out my new "A Better Marriage Prayer Journal" now available on Amazon! This 31-day guide is desig...
2024-10-0815 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast031 Embracing Your Authentic Self To Fuel Personal GrowthIn this episode, "Embracing Your Authentic Self: How Authenticity Fuels Personal Growth," we explore what it truly means to live authentically and how embracing your God-given identity can lead to deeper connections, personal growth, and transformation in your relationships.
We'll discuss 3 key concepts on how to let go of expectations, align your life with God’s truth, and become a catalyst for change in your family and marriage.
What is authenticity?
Authenticity is the quality of being genuine, true, and honest about who you are, without pretending to be something you're not. It in...
2024-10-0110 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast030 Faith in Letting Go and Leaning Into God's PromisesAre you facing an uncertain season in life, where the path ahead seems unclear? It’s natural to want control, but God invites us to let go and trust His promises, even in the unknown. In this episode, Dr. Deborah shares how to release your need for control and lean into God’s perfect plan, reminding you that His promises never fail, even when the future feels uncertain. You’ll learn practical ways to build your faith in challenging times and discover the peace that comes from surrendering to His will.
What you’ll walk away with:
A dee...
2024-09-2411 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast029 How To Trust God's Plan When Life Feels StalledAre you in a season of waiting, feeling like life is on hold and you’re not sure what’s next?
Whether you’re waiting for a breakthrough in your marriage, clarity in your career, or answers to deep prayers, it’s easy to feel frustrated and disheartened when things don’t move as quickly as you’d like.
The truth is that waiting can be one of the most challenging experiences we face—but it’s also one of the most powerful times for spiritual growth.
In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores the often-overlo...
2024-09-1713 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast028 Unseen and Uncelebrated- Finding Your True Worth Beyond the Social Media HighlightsIn a world where worth seems to be measured by likes, followers, and social media highlights, it’s easy to feel overlooked and unseen. But here’s the truth: your value isn’t defined by others’ recognition or the image you project online. You are God’s masterpiece, fully known and deeply loved, even when no one else is watching.
In this episode, Dr. Deborah helps you break free from the comparison trap that social media so often creates. She’ll guide you to discover your true worth, not in the fleeting approval of others, but in God's everla...
2024-09-1012 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast027 From Empty to Empowered Trusting God When You Have Nothing Left To GiveDo you ever feel like you’re running on empty, with nothing left to give? Life can be overwhelming—balancing family, career, and personal challenges can leave you feeling drained and depleted. But even in your weakest moments, God’s strength is made perfect.
In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores what it means to go from feeling empty to being empowered by God’s unfailing grace.
Join us as we dive into the heart of what it means to trust God when you’ve hit your limit. Dr. Deborah will share powerful scriptures and practical steps to h...
2024-09-0413 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast026 Transforming the Ugly By Turning Pain into PurposeIn Episode 026, Dr. Deborah dives into the transformative power of turning life's painful moments into purpose. Whether it’s personal hurt, relationship struggles, or deep emotional wounds, this episode provides a faith-based perspective on how to use creative expression—through art or writing—to process pain and discover new meaning.
Inspired by God's grace, Dr. Deborah guides listeners in how to embrace their story, even the ugly parts, and turn them into something beautiful and purposeful.
Drawing from personal experience and biblical wisdom, she shares practical insights on how to channel your emotions into creative outlet...
2024-08-2714 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast025 Confronting the Bad- Addressing Challenges and Setbacks in Your RelationshipAre unresolved conflicts, broken trust, and communication breakdowns holding your relationship back?
In this episode, Dr. Deborah shares practical wisdom on confronting the most challenging relationship issues. Learn how to turn trials into opportunities for growth, healing, and deeper connection. Don't miss the relationship's breakthrough, which could be one conversation away!
James 1:2-4" (NIV): "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."
2024-08-2011 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast024 Embracing the Good - Celebrating Your Achievements and StrengthsThis week, we’re shifting our focus to the positive aspects of our lives by "Embracing the Good: Celebrating Your Achievements and Strengths." In a world that often highlights what we lack or need to improve, it's essential to take time to recognize and celebrate our successes and the strengths God has given us.
Why Celebrating Achievements and Strengths is Important:
Encouragement: Recognizing and celebrating your achievements can boost your confidence and motivate you to continue striving for your goals.
Gratitude: Celebrating your strengths and successes fosters gratitude, helping you appreciate the blessings in your life.
Positive Mindset: Fo...
2024-08-1312 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast023 Understanding Your Narrative with The Story of YouIn this episode, Dr. Deborah explores the importance of understanding and mapping your personal narrative. Your story, shaped by your experiences, choices, and God’s hand, is unique and powerful. Join us as we explore how reflecting on your personal journey can clarify your identity, purpose, and direction in life.
"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." Psalm 139:13-14 NIV
Discover the power of your story and how your p...
2024-08-0615 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast022 Romancing Your Future TogetherIn this episode, 022, I share inspiring and practical advice on how to romance your future together and build a marriage filled with love, joy, and deep connection. Gain some insight on reigniting the spark in your relationship and creating a vision for your future that you and your spouse are excited about.
This episode offers Christ-centered insights and actionable tips to help you and your spouse grow closer, strengthen your bond, and build a lasting foundation for your marriage. Learn how to prioritize your relationship, set shared goals, and create meaningful experiences that will bring you closer...
2024-07-3013 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast021 How To G.R.O.W. Your Marriage For a Lifetime Of HappinessWe are going to chat about how to invest in your marriage this summer to create a lifetime of happiness. Summer is the perfect season to rekindle your romance and strengthen your bond with your spouse. This episode is filled with Christ-centered insights and practical tips to help you build a fulfilling and joyful marriage.
Discover how to make the most of this summer by focusing on key areas that will enhance your relationship and create lasting memories together. From planning meaningful activities to improving communication and deepening your spiritual connection, you'll learn how to prioritize your...
2024-07-2414 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast020 Secret Sauce For Resolving ConflictsIn Episode 020, I reveal the secret recipe for resolving conflicts in your marriage by focusing on two powerful ingredients: communication and forgiveness. Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, but how you handle it can make all the difference in building a stronger, more loving marriage.
"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." – Ephesians 4:29 (NIV)
Join me as we explore practical, Christ-centered strategies to improve communication and practice forgiveness, transforming how you ha...
2024-07-1715 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast019 Cherish Every Moment With Your Spouse"Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom."
Psalm 90:12
With its longer days and relaxed vibe, summer offers a perfect opportunity to slow down and reconnect with your spouse. Whether through a shared hobby, a weekend getaway, or simply enjoying a quiet evening together, these moments of connection are crucial.
Remember the love that brought you together, and be mindful of reinforcing the emotional intimacy that is the foundation of a strong marriage.
Here are the 5 reasons why it’s so important:
1. Reconnecting in...
2024-07-0909 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast018 Make This Summer The Season Of LoveIn this inspiring episode of Making This Summer The Season Of Love, we explore how to make this summer the season of love by building a better marriage together. Discover practical, Christ-centered strategies to strengthen your bond, improve communication, and reignite the romance in your relationship. Summer is a time of renewal and growth, making it the perfect season to invest in your marriage and create lasting memories with your spouse.
Join us as we explore key principles that can transform your relationship, including spending quality time together, embracing new adventures, and fostering deeper emotional and spiritual...
2024-07-0212 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast017 Nurturing Laughter and Play In Your MarriageWhen was the last time you laughed together? If it's been a while, you must know how to bring joy to your day.
Today, we're diving into the playful world of laughter and how it can transform your relationship. Isn't it wonderful how a simple laugh can lighten the mood and bring you closer together?
We'll explore heartwarming strategies for getting more giggles into your daily life together. Discover why laughter is fun and essential in keeping your relationship fresh and vibrant.
We'll talk about "creating joyful experiences," "benefits of laughter in marriage,"...
2024-06-2513 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast016 Keep the Spark Alive In Every Season Of LifeHow do you maintain the excitement and intimacy in your relationship as you transition through life's different stages? In "016: Keep the Spark Alive In Every Season," we explore actionable strategies and heartfelt advice for sustaining romantic connection from the honeymoon phase to the golden years.
Dive into topics like "rekindling romance after kids," "maintaining intimacy during midlife," and "romantic tips for retirees." This episode provides you with practical tips on "enhancing emotional connection," "creative date ideas," and "navigating relationship challenges" to ensure that their love not only endures but thrives through every season of life.
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2024-06-1815 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast015 Building Trust Beyond BetrayalIn this compelling episode, we explore the challenges of “rebuilding trust after betrayal” in intimate relationships. We explore the critical steps necessary for “healing after infidelity” and how to “forgive and rebuild” in the aftermath of deceit.
Whether you're dealing with a betrayal from a spouse, a close friend, or a business partner, understanding the dynamics of trust restoration is essential.
Join me as we discuss effective communication strategies, the importance of transparency, and the role of patience and consistency in the healing process.
Learn about “restoring honesty” and “rebuilding a marriage” or any relationship wit...
2024-06-1117 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast014 Making Every Moment CountIn Episode 023, "Making Every Moment Count In A Busy World," Dr. Deborah offers valuable insights on how to make every moment count with your spouse, even in the midst of a busy world.
With the demands of work, family, and daily responsibilities, it can be challenging to prioritize your relationship. This episode provides Christ-centered strategies to help you and your spouse stay connected and nurture your marriage, no matter how hectic life gets.
Discover practical tips for carving out quality time, improving communication, and creating meaningful moments that strengthen your bond. Learn how to balance...
2024-06-0415 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast013 Embracing VulnerabilityWelcome to the "Building Better Marriages" Podcast, where we explore the transformative power of authenticity in relationships. In this episode, we examine the courage it takes to embrace vulnerability and how it can lead to deeper connections and greater fulfillment in life.
In a world that celebrates strength and resilience, vulnerability is often misunderstood or seen as a weakness. However, what if I told you that embracing vulnerability could be the key to not just fostering deeper connections in your relationships, but also to experiencing greater personal fulfillment?
That's right – vulnerability is not a sign of...
2024-05-2814 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast012 Balancing Independence and Togetherness In MarriageWe dive deep into the heart of relationships, exploring the complexities and triumphs of building a life together when we learn to balance independence and togetherness in marriage.
Yes, your marriage!
We're discussing a topic that touches every couple: Balancing Independence and Togetherness in Marriage and answering these questions:
How do we maintain our personal identities while growing as a unit?
How do we support our partner’s independence without feeling disconnected?
These are vital questions, and I have some insights that will help you.
In today's ep...
2024-05-2218 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast011 Embracing Gratitude and Kindness Beyond Mother's DayWelcome to "Building Better Marriages, the "I do" and "I don't" of everyday life." podcast! In this special episode, we explore how to cultivate a heart of gratitude and spread kindness beyond the confines of Mother's Day.
Join us as we dive into Christ-centered biblical, practical strategies for welcoming gratitude into our daily lives and extending acts of kindness to those around us. From simple gestures to profound moments of appreciation, discover how embracing gratitude and kindness can enrich your life and deepen your connections with others.
Infuse your days with gratitude and kindness, and a...
2024-05-1416 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast010 The Art Of An Apology"The Art Of An Apology" explores the transformative power of forgiveness and reconciliation in marriage. In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of offering sincere apologies, restoring trust, and healing relational wounds.
Drawing inspiration from Ephesians 4:32, which encourages us to "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you," we'll uncover the biblical principles behind extending grace and seeking reconciliation in our marriages.
Whether you're struggling to mend a recent disagreement or seeking guidance on how to navigate past hurts, this episode offers practical insights and actionable...
2024-05-0718 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast009 Rediscovering Shared DreamsWelcome to where we dive deep into the heart of marriage and explore the journey of rediscovering shared dreams. In today's episode, we'll uncover the power of dreaming together as a couple, reigniting passion, and building a vision for the future. Whether you're seeking to realign your goals, reignite your spark, or simply find renewed inspiration, this episode is for you.
But before we dive in, I want to invite you to check out our "We Still Do" self-paced workshop. Designed to help you create a vision for your marriage and strengthen your bond, it offers practical...
2024-04-3012 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast008 Searching For Intimacy Beyond The PhysicalDiscover deeper connections and spiritual closeness in a Christ-centered marriage. Explore the profound depths of intimacy beyond the physical, offering insight, inspiration, and tips for cultivating a richer and more fulfilling relationship with your spouse.
Drawing inspiration from 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, we'll talk about the essence of love – patient, kind, and always persevering. Explore how to nurture emotional intimacy, spiritual connection, and soul-deep understanding with your spouse, developing a bond that withstands the test of time.
Whether you yearn for intimate conversations, heartfelt connections, or shared moments with your spouse, this episode provides valuable insights and pr...
2024-04-2314 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast007 Navigating Differences For A Christ-Centered MarriageDrawing wisdom from Ephesians 4:2-3, we'll uncover how to "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace." Discover how humility, patience, and love can bridge the gap between differing perspectives and strengthen the bond between you and your spouse.
Whether you're facing disagreements in communication, finances, or lifestyle choices, this episode will equip you with the tools and mindset needed to navigate differences with grace and understanding. Learn how to embrace your unique qualities as individuals while...
2024-04-1617 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast006 Rekindling Romance in RoutineAre you ready for some "Rekindling Romance in Routine?" we're diving into the timeless art of igniting passion in the midst of everyday life.
Join us as we explore practical tips and biblical wisdom on revitalizing romance and deepening intimacy in your marriage, even amidst the routine.
Drawing inspiration from 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, we'll uncover how love is patient, kind, and always perseveres, even in the mundane moments of life. Discover how small gestures, intentional communication, and quality time can breathe new life into your relationship, fostering a deeper connection and reigniting the flame of romance.
2024-04-0911 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast005 Embracing Change TogetherDon't want to live in fear, wondering if you have what it takes to have the marriage you've always dreamed of having?
You can do this together even if your spouse is not on the same page yet.
We’re jumping into the beauty of embracing change as a couple, drawing inspiration from timeless wisdom and practical tips. Stay tuned to discover how you can journey together through change and emerge stronger than ever.
Learn how you can take your marriage to the next level: https://tinyurl.com/h2hmarriagemanifesto
2024-04-0215 minBuilding Better Marriages Podcast004 Prioritizing Your Spouse One Choice At A TimeWhen you have so much going on in your daily life, it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters most—your relationships, especially your marriage.
I believe in strong, thriving marriages, the importance of prioritizing your spouse, and the importance of investing in the health and happiness of your connection.
Let's explore together why prioritizing your spouse is essential for building a strong marriage and practical ways to prioritize your relationship in your life.
I'm Deborah Skomba, and I'm all about "Healthy Strong Marriages - Before and After the "I Do"...
2024-03-2612 min