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The Grounded Union PodcastWhen Recovery Work Falls Short: Facing Denial, Objectification, and the Process of ChangeIn this episode of the Grounded Union Podcast, Evan and Kelsey share their raw journey through sex addiction recovery in their first year of marriage. Evan courageously unpacks his 20-year porn addiction history, revealing how denial structures kept him trapped even while attending 12-step meetings. After becoming complacent during their engagement, Evan's "gaslighting himself" about Instagram porn spiraled into deeper patterns—including objectifying his postpartum wife. What makes this conversation remarkable is Evan's radical transparency: he's already dismantling denial structures monthly, admitting to objectifying women everywhere, and facing the most painful truth—he's been judging Kelsey's body. Brandon and Cait...
2025-12-2652 min
The Grounded Union PodcastIs There Hope After My Husband’s 16-Year Porn Addiction? | S3E2In today’s episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, discover how true healing after long-term porn addiction requires going far deeper than behavior change. Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen walk alongside Dave and Katie as they unpack the decades of pain beneath Dave’s 16-year addiction, pain rooted in childhood sexual trauma, religious shame, and a lifelong belief that he was “defective.” The conversation shifts powerfully as Katie reveals that the deepest trauma is no longer the pornography itself, but the cycle of partial honesty, shame spirals, and having to heal alone. Brandon and Caitlyn challenge Dave’s patterns of self-loath...
2025-12-191h 12
The Grounded Union PodcastWhy is my husband STILL lying to me?In this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, Brandon and Caitlyn coach Drew and Chelsea through a three-year journey of porn addiction recovery that's been overshadowed by persistent lying. In this live call-in session, Chelsea vulnerably shares her heartbreak: despite Drew's initial confession and stopping pornography, she has "literally zero trust" as small lies continue to surface. Brandon and Caitlyn trace Drew's compulsive dishonesty back to childhood shame and his first exposure to pornography at age eight, revealing why traditional one-time disclosures fail. They challenge Drew to embrace daily radical transparency, explaining that "silly lies" signal deeper hidden truths...
2025-12-121h 00
The Grounded Union PodcastWhy You Should Stop Everything to Save Your MarriageIn this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen dive deep into why pausing everything else might be the most important decision you ever make for your marriage. They get raw about the hidden costs of busyness, distractions, and avoidance, sharing personal stories from their own journey, including Brandon stepping down from ministry and Caitlyn reclaiming hours in her day, to illustrate how chronic exhaustion and misaligned priorities quietly erode intimacy. This podcast explains why facing pain head-on, regulating your nervous system, and creating space for transformative conversations are essential for rebuilding trust and connection. Packed...
2025-12-0641 min
The Grounded Union PodcastHow We Handle ConflictIn this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, we touched on the fundamental misunderstanding most couples have about conflict - it's not about communication styles, it's about unhealed pain. Brandon and Caitlyn dismantle the myth that arguing stems from everyday disagreements like where to go to dinner, revealing instead how betrayal trauma, broken trust, and prolonged disconnection create explosive emotional reactions. They share their personal transformation from a cycle where Brandon's porn addiction triggered defensive responses and Caitlyn's pain was met with minimization. The breakthrough came when Brandon learned to lean into her pain rather than run from it...
2025-09-2644 min
The Grounded Union PodcastIs Anxiety Plaguing Your Marriage?In today’s episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, discover how anxiety can silently sabotage your marriage and the small daily habits that can set you free. Brandon opens up about his years of crippling anxiety and the coping mechanisms that masked the problem: endless scrolling, gaming, and withdrawing from family life. A breaking point came with a 40-day fast and a panic attack that forced him to face the truth. Caitlyn brings a powerful perspective on why so many couples lack the emotional vocabulary to navigate these struggles, and how that gap fuels disconnection. Together, they share practical st...
2025-09-1930 min
The Grounded Union PodcastThe Secrets to a Peaceful and Connected MarriageThis week on The Grounded Union Podcast, hosts Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen expose the myth that dates are the key to a healthy marriage. Through their own story, they reveal that while they went on many dates during the most tumultuous years of their marriage, their deepest connection was forged in the last five years, a period with very few dates. The episode offers a new perspective on what it means to be truly connected, emphasizing that intentionality in everyday moments is far more powerful than a weekly dinner out. Brandon and Caitlyn provide actionable advice, such as confronting...
2025-09-1234 min
Let’s Go for a Walk (And Talk)This is My Life with Brian DoerksenLet’s Go for a Walk (And Talk) is a slow, honest podcast where I walk with people and ask them real questions about life, creativity, presence, and what it means to be human. No scripts, no rush—just thoughtful conversations out in nature. Sometimes we talk about how the beauty of nature can be overwhelming.Join Brian Doerksen on a reflective walk through nature as he shares how the phrase “This is my life, I want no other” shapes his gratitude, creativity, and faith. A heartfelt conversation about acceptance, beauty, and finding peace in the life we’ve be...
2025-09-0839 min
The Grounded Union PodcastWhy Relapse to Addiction Is So CommonIn this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, we dive deep into why addiction relapse is so devastatingly common and how couples can break free from this destructive cycle forever. Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen share their raw journey through five years of repeated relapse before discovering the root-level healing that changed everything. They reveal why surface-level solutions fail and introduce their "roots and rewiring" approach - examining childhood trauma, spiritual beliefs, and life paradigms that keep people trapped. The hosts emphasize getting to the core wounds rather than just managing symptoms, challenging listeners to treat addiction recovery not as...
2025-09-0541 min
The Grounded Union PodcastDoes My Spouse Really Want to Change?In today’s episode of Grounded Union Podcast, discover how to distinguish between surface-level apologies and genuine transformation. Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen tackle one of the hardest questions couples face: “Does my spouse truly want to change?” Through raw personal stories of repeated betrayals, false starts, and painful honesty, they highlight the subtle yet powerful signs of authentic change. From nervous system regulation to the hard work of transparency, this episode sheds light on both red flags and green lights for anyone navigating broken trust.Dates and locations for our 2025 Grounded Union workshops & intensives:🏝️Maui, Hawaii – 3-Day Intensiv...
2025-08-2936 min
The Grounded Union PodcastWhy Christian Disciplines Aren’t Saving Your MarriageThis week on The Grounded Union Podcast, discover how Christian disciplines like prayer, fasting, and Bible reading—despite being foundational practices—sometimes fall short in saving marriages. Hosts Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen bravely share their journey from passionate missionaries with an impeccable "spiritual resume" to facing severe marital struggles, exposing the dangerous gap between spiritual disciplines and emotional maturity. Despite daily Bible reading, prayer, fasting, multiple church services, and even Brandon's 40-day fast, their marriage was crumbling with addiction, betrayal, and disconnection. They reveal how Western Christianity's segmented approach creates fragmented lives where spiritual practices become escape mechanisms rather than...
2025-08-2236 min
The Grounded Union PodcastHealing From Betrayal and Creating SafetyIn this episode of Grounded Union Podcast, Caitlyn and Brandon Doerksen honestly navigate the difficult experience of betrayal and the long journey toward restoring safety and trust in their marriage. Season 2 opens with the couple addressing their most requested topic: how to heal when trust is shattered. Caitlyn shares her vulnerable story as the betrayed spouse, including years of repeated deception and the critical moment she established firm boundaries. Brandon explores the difference between passive and active betrayal and emphasizes that good intentions are not enough without true inner transformation. Together, they explain why wounded partners shouldn’t be ex...
2025-08-1546 min
The Grounded Union PodcastWhat to Do When You're Attracted to Somebody Other Than Your SpouseIn this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, hosts Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen dive deep into a widely debated and often shame-filled topic: being attracted to people other than your spouse. The conversation is sparked by a viral social media post that drew thousands of comments and opposing viewpoints, which the hosts read and respond to throughout the episode. They challenge the common narrative that men are "biologically wired" to be attracted to other people, arguing instead that this is a learned belief system. The discussion gets to the core of why this is such a painful topic for...
2025-08-0858 min
The Grounded Union PodcastHow to Get Your Husband to ChangeIn this episode of Grounded Union Podcast, we dive deep into the real story behind how lasting change happens in marriage—and why you can’t force your husband to change. Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen share raw, vulnerable insights from the darkest seasons of their relationship, when betrayal, denial, and disconnection ruled their home. Caitlyn unpacks the painful truth that no ultimatum or strategy could transform Brandon—he had to choose healing for himself. Together, they explore how patterns of shame, hidden behaviors, and avoidance sabotage intimacy and what it really takes for a man to reclaim emotional presence, empath...
2025-05-0238 min
The Grounded Union PodcastWhy Your Relationship Feels Flat and DisconnectedIn this episode of Grounded Union Podcast, we dive deep into why your relationship might feel emotionally dry, disconnected, or just… flat. Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen unpack the hidden layers behind emotional distance in marriage, including avoidance, passivity, self-protection, and performance. They get vulnerable about the moments their own relationship hit rock bottom—and what it took to rebuild true connection. From understanding the impact of unresolved stress to small, intentional steps like eye contact and getting out into nature, they offer practical shifts that can reignite emotional presence and intimacy. With powerful personal insights and grounded, relatable guidance, this...
2025-04-2547 min
The Practice Brave Podcast190: Coaching Through the Seasons: Community, Confidence, and Creating Impact with P&PA Coaches Katie Doerksen & Julie ChutterIn this powerful and heartwarming episode, I sit down with two incredible P&PA (Pregnancy and Postpartum Athleticism) coaches — Katie Doerksen and Julie Chutter — to highlight how they've each built meaningful coaching practices while honoring their roles as mothers and leaders in their communities. Katie, a mom of three from rural Alberta, opens up about her transition from kindergarten teacher to strength coach and co-founder of Girls Who Lead — a program blending leadership development and physical literacy for young girls. She shares how she's helping the next generation understand their bodies and embrace movement in a way t...
2025-04-231h 11
The Grounded Union PodcastThe Shortcut to Healing Your RelationshipIn this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, we dive deep into the often-overlooked but truly transformative shortcut to healing your relationship: your emotions. Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen share how tapping into your emotional world—through bodily awareness, movement, and vulnerability—can radically accelerate trust, connection, and intimacy. They dismantle the idea that men are “wired” to be emotionally detached and instead show how emotional numbness is learned (and can be unlearned). With personal stories, practical guidance, and gentle truth-telling, they walk you through what it looks like to feel again, on purpose. If you're tired of repeating the same pat...
2025-04-1857 min
The Grounded Union PodcastNavigating Sexual Brokenness in Your Relationship (Part Two)In this episode of the Grounded Union Podcast, we dive deep into part two of Navigating Sexual Brokenness in Your Relationship, where Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen explore how to move beyond surface-level struggles toward true healing and intimacy. From overcoming shame and addiction to rebuilding trust and emotional connection, this episode is packed with raw truths and hard-earned insights. The Doerksens challenge common narratives around sexuality, break down where addictive behaviors come from, and share how they rewired their relationship from the inside out. Whether you're in the thick of healing or ready to take your relationship to the...
2025-04-1252 min
The Grounded Union PodcastNavigating Sexual Brokenness in Your Relationship (Part One)In this episode of the Grounded Union Podcast, we dive deep into navigating sexual brokenness in your relationship. Hosts Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen openly discuss their personal journey from sexual brokenness and hidden struggles to complete freedom and intimacy. They challenge common narratives about sexuality—particularly the idea that attraction outside marriage is inevitable—and share how rewiring the brain through honest communication and intentional practices can lead to profound healing. Brandon reveals the surprising clarity he's found after overcoming his compulsions, while Caitlyn provides powerful encouragement and practical advice for navigating pain and finding deeper connection. Listen in for...
2025-04-051h 01
The Danville Discussion - A Dwampyverse Podcast21. Hamster & Gretel Ep.10 - "U.F. UH-OH!" + Phineas & Ferb REVIVAL NEWS!Viva the Vegas! Don't be confused, "las" means "the" in Spanish. It's one of Hamster & Gretel's biggest adventures yet as Caleb talks about the 10th episode (and the first double-length episode) of the show, right here on The Danville Discussion! "U.F. UH-OH!": During a trip to Las Vegas, Gretel and Kevin are on the search for the aliens who gave Hamster and Gretel their powers yet didn't give Kevin his. However, the U.F.O. begins attacking and Gretel gets abducted by what turns out to be two familiar sibling foes who stole that spacecraft...
2025-03-2954 min
The Grounded Union PodcastHow Spiritual Bypassing Is Ruining Your MarriageIn this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, Brandon and Caitlyn dive into a topic that many couples struggle with but rarely talk about—spiritual bypassing. They break down how faith can sometimes be used as a shield to avoid addressing deeper relationship problems, leading to emotional disconnection and unresolved conflicts. They share personal stories of navigating addiction, faith, and marital struggles, offering both hard-earned lessons and practical steps for couples looking to build a stronger foundation. If you've ever been told to "just pray about it" when facing real relationship challenges, this episode is a must-listen. Ou...
2025-03-2952 min
The Grounded Union PodcastYou Didn’t Marry Your MomIn this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, Brandon and Caitlyn dive into a conversation most couples never have—but desperately need to: how childhood patterns shape adult relationships—often in ways we don’t even realize. They explore how men unconsciously expect their wives to "mother" them, how women often feel emotionally exhausted in their relationships, and why unspoken family patterns continue to shape marriages years later. Brandon shares his own wake-up call, and Caitlyn explains the boundaries that helped break free from unhealthy cycles. They also provide deep conversation prompts to help couples unpack their past, understand each o...
2025-03-2244 min
The Grounded Union PodcastGetting Kicked Out of Our Counselor’s OfficeIn this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, we dive deep into the moment we realized traditional marriage advice wasn’t cutting it—like, literally getting booted from a counselor's office kind of not cutting it. What do you do when the experts tell you to settle for “good enough” healing? Spoiler: You don’t settle.We share the wild stories of counselors who downplayed our marriage struggles, labeled Caitlyn as “too demanding,” and insisted that lifelong sexual brokenness was just... normal.We unpack how denial sneaks in, why radical honesty is the only way to real intima...
2025-03-0747 min
The Grounded Union PodcastOur Marriage BreakdownIn this episode of Grounded Union Podcast, hosts Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen pull back the curtain on the painful and transformative journey of their marriage. From youthful naivety to a devastating breakdown in 2019, they reveal how hidden struggles, denial structures, and deep-seated beliefs about love and sexuality nearly tore them apart. Brandon's years of deception—justified by religious paradigms—led to a cycle of betrayal and broken trust, while Caitlyn stood firm in her standards for intimacy and transparency. Together, they share how they dismantled toxic cycles, faced their deepest wounds, and rebuilt a marriage based on radical honesty and...
2025-02-2047 min
Productive JoyBe a Light To Those Around You & More with Dan DoerksenToday Dr. Christie reflects on yesterday's interview with Dan Doerksen. She explores the idea that the work we do is often initially productive and enjoyable but over time, it is reduced to merely a 'job', losing its potential to be fulfilling and fun. She encourages you to find people who shine their light on others and rethink your approach to work and seek ways to make it enjoyable and satisfying again.
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2024-11-2007 minProductive JoyWork Life Matters with Dan DoerksenIn this episode of Productive Joy, Dr. Christie welcomes Dan Doerksen, an expert in psychological safety and organizational development. They discuss how to make work environments enjoyable and productive, highlighting the crucial role of managers in employee engagement. Dan shares his story, from an aspiring pilot to organizational designer, emphasizing that work doesn't inherently suck; it's about removing the obstacles that make it unpleasant. He and Dr. Christie dig into the importance of leadership, the impact of managers on work culture, and practical tips for creating a positive work environment.
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2024-11-1939 min
The Soul Star PodcastEp. 128 Navigating Mediumship & Spiritual Awakening with Debra Doerksen | Author of A Turn of AttentionIn this episode of The Soul Star Podcast, hosts Mandy and Allison welcome Victoria, BC’s own spiritual medium, Debra Doerksen. Debra is the author of the upcoming book A Turn of Attention, and she shares her incredible journey into mediumship, revealing how her life transformed when she suddenly began hearing voices and seeing spirits.
Join us for a heartfelt conversation on the spiritual path, grief, and the power of connecting with the other side.
Key Topics Discussed:
Debra Doerksen’s journey to becoming a medium and navigating her sudden spiritual awakening
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2024-10-241h 26
Faith City Outreach on Global Gospel Worship RadioRE: Brian Doerksen and Marika Siewert, 30th Anniversary album, Father to SonBrian Doerksen BiographyBrian Doerksen’s songs (‘Come, Now Is The Time To Worship’ ‘Refiner’s Fire’ ‘Faithful One’) are sung in faith communities around the world. He has 3 JUNO album nominations (2008, 2019 & 2020) winning it for ‘Holy God’ (Contemporary Christian/Gospel Album of the year) in 2008. In 2014 at the Covenant Awards he received a ‘Lifetime Achievement Award’ from the Gospel Music Association of Canada. In December 2020, Brian, family and team broadcast the Christmas special ‘Christmas At Our House with Brian Doerksen & Friends’ which won a coveted LEO award in spring 2021 for excellence in TV & Film in British Columbia.In 2021 Brian’s release...
2024-10-0730 minThe Danville Discussion - A Dwampyverse Podcast20a. Phineas and Ferb SEASON 5 + Hamster & Gretel SEASON 2 Summer News LIVE!This live news episode of The Danville Discussion was a not-so-easy, but lots-of-fun episode covering all the news of Phineas and Ferb and Hamster & Gretel that happened throughout the summer of 2024!
News stories presented in this special episode include:
Disney Channel released the trailer and promotional comic for Season 2 of Hamster & Gretel
Dr. Doofenshmirtz comes to Oogie Boogie Bash at Disneyland/Disney California Adventure
More details revealed about the Phineas and Ferb revival at the Annecy International Animation Film Festival
CALEB'S CATCH OF THE WEEK: D23 2024 Expo presents "Behind the Summer Shenanigans with the Phineas and...
2024-09-111h 19
We Are VineyardA Story of the Vineyard in Song – Brian Doerksen
A Story of the Vineyard in Song – Brian DoerksenShow Podcast InformationIn this episode of We Are Vineyard, we continue our mini-series on the Vineyard USA National Conference session: A Story Of The Vineyard in Song. This week, Adam and Nicole Dill talk with Brian Doerksen about his first encounter with the Vineyard and the doors it opened for him to pursue the faith his heart longed for. Brian shares the history behind the album “Changed By Your Glory” and the stories of how some of his most well-known songs came to be. They also discuss how he discerns his so...
2024-09-1152 minThe Danville Discussion - A Dwampyverse Podcast20. Hamster & Gretel Ep.9 - "The Nightmarionette" & "Abuelita's World"Don't be scared, it's The Danville Discussion! And this review is about Episode 9 of Hamster & Gretel, featuring a "puppet" who gives people nightmares, a very strict abuela, and a giant baby!
Segments that are talked about include:
"The Nightmarionette": Hamster and Gretel must face their fears if they are to battle the Nightmarionette, a villain who projects realistic holograms of people's fears.
"Abuelita's World": While dealing with their excessively strict Abuelita, Gretel, Kevin, and Hamster learn about a giant baby causing destruction in the city.
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2024-09-0840 min
Beyond Sunday Worship Leader Podcast#321: Brian Doerksen on The Creative Process, Local Church Songwriting, & Early Vineyard Music Stories
Topics Covered:
Brian’s upcoming new project of love songs
Consistency in songwriting
Growing in creativity later in life
Reflecting on the 90s Vineyard movement
How to lead young creatives
Developing songwriters
Why local churches should write their own songs
Resources Mentioned:
Show Sponsor: Beyond Sunday Backstage
Show Sponsor: Planning Center
Unlocking Your Songs by Brian Doerksen
Hymns for Life by Brian Doerksen
Brian Doerksen website
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2024-07-0158 min
Beyond Sunday Worship Leader PodcastBrian Doerksen on The Creative Process, Local Church Songwriting, & Early Vineyard Music StoriesThis week's podcast is with Vineyard Music legend and worship music pioneer, Brian Doerksen. Brian has written so many beloved songs like Come Now is the Time to Worship, Refiners Fire, Faithful One, Light the Fire Again, and so many others. Topics Covered: Brian's upcoming new project of love songs Consistency in songwriting Growing in creativity later in life Reflecting on the 90s Vineyard movement How to lead young creatives Developing songwriters Why local churches should write their own songs Resources Mentioned: Show Sponsor: Beyond Sunday Backstage Show Sponsor: Planning Center Unlocking Your Songs by Brian Doerksen Hymns for Life...
2024-07-0158 minThe Danville Discussion - A Dwampyverse Podcast19a. The FIVE NEWEST Phineas and Ferb Chibi Tiny Tales ShortsIn this special episode, Caleb talks about not one, not two, not three, not four, but FIVE of the latest Chibi Tiny Tales shorts based on Phineas and Ferb, as well as Milo Murphy's Law and Hamster & Gretel!
This episode talks about these shorts:
"Life with Linda": Just what you'd expect -- a day in the life of Phineas, Ferb, and Candace's mother, Linda Flynn-Fletcher, working at the antique shop! Also features characters from Milo Murphy's Law and Hamster & Gretel.
"Space Mountain Mayhem": Phineas and Ferb take off to Space Mountain, only to run into the...
2024-06-1528 minThe Danville Discussion - A Dwampyverse Podcast19. Hamster & Gretel Ep.8 - "I'm Bored" & "Cutie and the Beast"Are you bored? Let's fix that, shall we? Hopefully a Danville Discussion review of Hamster & Gretel's eighth episode should make you less bored! The episode has cyborg rats and a giant sea otter too!
Segments that are talked about include:
"I'm Bored": When Gretel gets bored, her mother hears it and tasks her with some chores while Kevin and Hamster take off to thwart a mysterious cyborg and his army of robotic rats.
"Cutie and the Beast": Hamster and Gretel fly off to take down a giant sea otter when it starts attacking the city, but...
2024-03-0247 min
Baby-Led Weaning with Katie FerraroLifeVac: Do Choking Rescue Devices Work? with Brandon Doerksen#398: If your baby is choking on food will one of those choking rescue devices actually work? In this episode I’m interviewing certified CPR instructor Brandon Doerksen about whether a choking device replaces CPR for choking rescue or is used as an adjunct. Listen to learn how the choking devices work to dechoke your baby (or not) and the one thing that all parents and caregivers should do before their baby starts solid food.Get Brandon’s online CPR course for free when you register for the Choking Prevention and Response Course that we co-t...
2024-01-0418 minThe Danville Discussion - A Dwampyverse Podcast18b. Chibiverse Ep.5 - "The Chibi Quiz Challenge" with 2 NEW Exclusive Dwampyverse Chibi Shorts!The Chibiverse is BACK on The Danville Discussion as Caleb talks about not only a whole game show-themed episode, but also the FIRST-EVER "exclusive" Chibi Tiny Tales shorts for a Chibiverse episode, including a Chibi-style retelling of Phineas and Ferb The Movie: Candace Against the Universe, and a triple-crossover of Phineas and Ferb/Milo Murphy's Law/Hamster & Gretel!
Chibiverse - "The Chibi Quiz Challenge": Kiff Chatterley hosts a special game show where contestants compete to win prizes including $1,000,000 Chibi coins. The contestants include Launchpad McQuack (originally Flintheart Glomgold) from DuckTales, Marcy Wu from Amphibia, and Suga Mama...
2023-12-1248 min