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Sexy Marriage Radio
Willingness vs Intent #736
In this episode, we answer a listeners question about how to address an issue that has come up now that his wife has had a partial hysterectomy and gets too wet so there is a loss of friction. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We explore the difference between a willingness vs intent to have sex. Only this segment is one where Pam and I are not on the same page and it goes a completely different way than Corey was thinking it would beforehand. Sponsors … Academy: Join the A...
2025-07-09
25 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Masturbation and Marriage #715
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I dive into the complex topic of masturbation within marriage. Our conversation explores initial reactions, societal misinformation, the benefits of self-discovery, as well as a biblical perspectives on the subject. Dr. Corey emphasizes the importance of open communication and understanding the dynamics of relationships when discussing masturbation, highlighting that it can be both permissible and beneficial, but also potentially harmful if kept secret or misused. The episode encourages the Nation to engage in self-examination and foster intimacy through honest conversations about their beliefs and...
2025-02-12
33 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Let’s Talk 69 #709
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities oral sex and the impact of past trauma. A listener emails about the challenges faced in their sexual relationship, including feelings of resentment and the influence of past experiences. Which sets the stage for a conversation about the importance of communication, the significance of the 69 position, and the potential for personal growth and healing through intimacy. Ultimately - we all need to face our issues head-on in order to explore new avenues of connection and pleasure. On the Xtended Version ...
2025-01-01
32 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Marriage Is Pressure #707
In this episode Pam and I discuss the complexities of pressure in marriage, focusing on the nuances of desire dynamics and the importance of collaboration. We explore the challenges faced by higher desire spouses, the role of pressure in relationships, and the significance of maturity and growth in navigating these dynamics. Our conversation emphasizes the need for open communication, understanding, and a commitment to learning from each other to foster a vibrant and fulfilling marriage. On the Xtended Version ... As we head into 2025, there are several truisms we look at that...
2024-12-18
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
I Like Naked People #706
In this episode Pam and I discuss the complexities of sexual desires within marriage, particularly focusing on the impact of pornography. We explore the nuances of attraction, the importance of communication in relationships, and the need for maturity in handling desires. Our conversation emphasizes the significance of honoring one's character and the choices made in the context of marriage, while also addressing the challenges posed by societal norms and personal desires. On the Xtended Version ... There is a difference between cutting someone off in family relationships vs walking away from them.
2024-12-11
32 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Oral Sex and Trauma #703
This week Pam and I discuss the complexities of intimacy, particularly focusing on oral sex and the impact of past trauma on current relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding, and presence in sexual encounters, while also addressing the challenges faced by individuals with traumatic histories. We hope to encourage listeners to navigate their sexual relationships with empathy and openness, highlighting the journey of healing and connection between spouses. Takeaways Relationships are constantly evolving and require adaptation. Communication is key in navigating sexual intimacy. Past trauma can...
2024-11-20
30 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Intimate Desire | Alex and Kadi Dutton #702
In this episode, I'm joined by Alex and Kadi Dutton, founders of EveryLove Intimates. We talk about their journey in creating their company aimed at enhancing intimacy in marriages. They discuss the challenges couples face in maintaining intimacy, the importance of variety and exploration in relationships, and how their products provide couples with the tools and permission to try new things together. We emphasize the significance of communication and intentionality in nurturing a healthy marriage. Take advantage of their special offer to the SMR Nation by getting $20 off each Date Night Box with o...
2024-11-13
29 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Navigating The Depths | Dr Dave Jenkins #699
In this conversation, I'm joined by a colleague and friend Dr. Dave Jenkins as we dive deep into the concept of regression, particularly in the context of emotional states and relationships. We discuss how regression manifests as a brain state, the contagious nature of it in interpersonal dynamics, and the metaphor of the Mariana Trench to illustrate the depths of emotional regression. Our conversation also goes through strategies for recognizing and managing regression, the impact of intimacy on emotional states, and the importance of self-soothing and increasing one's buoyancy to navigate life's challenges effectively.
2024-10-23
37 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Power Moves #695
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr. Corey and Pam discuss the dynamics of power in marriage, exploring how couples navigate desires and tensions. Our conversation highlights the complexity of perception in relationships, particularly in high meaning situations, and the impact of family dynamics. We stress the importance of making effective moves in conversations and understanding each partner's actions. The conversation concludes with insights on the nature of alliances in marriage and how to respond to patterns in marriage. Takeaways Understanding power dynamics is crucial in marriage. Couples often...
2024-09-25
28 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Highly Sensitive People | Irene Fehr #691
This week, Dr. Corey and Irene Fehr discuss the concept of highly sensitive people (HSPs) and how it relates to sexual desire in long-term relationships. We explore the different types of sexual desire models, with most women being highly responsive. And we also delve into the characteristics of HSPs, including sensory sensitivity, emotional sensitivity, energetic sensitivity, and introspection. Irene explains the importance of acknowledging and managing overstimulation for HSPs, as well as the need for emotional de-armoring and a slow, spacious progression in physical intimacy. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of self-care and...
2024-08-28
28 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Sensuality vs Sex | Sam Jolman #689
This week, Dr. Corey chats with Sam Jolman, a fellow counselor and the author of The Sex Talk You Never Got. We talk about the importance of sensuality and play in sex and relationships. We emphasize the need for men to slow down, savor the moment, and engage their senses in order to fully experience pleasure and intimacy. And we also highlight the role of playfulness in sex, suggesting that couples should approach it as a form of play rather than a task. By cultivating a sense of awe and prioritizing pleasure, couples can create a...
2024-08-14
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Discovery Of A Spouse’s Betrayal | Tyler and Brannon Patrick #679
In this conversation, Dr Corey is joined by Tyler and Brannon Patrick, also known as The Therapy Brothers, as they discuss the topic of betrayal, trauma, addiction, and infidelity in marriages. They emphasize the importance of addressing the underlying issues and not just focusing on the specific behavior, such as pornography usage. There is a need for honesty, accountability, transparency, and living in alignment with personal values. Plus we also discuss the role of individual healing and growth in the context of a relationship. There is a challenge in navigating sexuality and an importance in c...
2024-06-05
00 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Love Languages and Sexual Attraction #677
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr Corey and Pam discuss the importance of flexibility in marriage and how it relates to facing and dealing with reality. We explore the concept of love languages and how they may not always lead to more desire or passion in a relationship. What is the difference between being a good companion and being a good lover? And what's the role of presence and initiation in igniting sexual attraction? Takeaways Flexibility is crucial in marriage as it allows couples to face and adjust to...
2024-05-22
00 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Minimalism and Marriage | Joshua Becker #673
On the Regular Version ... In this conversation, and old blogging friend, Joshua Becker, joins me to discuss the journey and benefits of minimalism. We talk about his personal experience with minimalism and how it has positively impacted his life, relationships, and finances. We also explore strategies for dealing with a spouse's resistance to minimalism and the importance of the master bedroom as a sanctuary. Joshua also emphasizes the need for love, patience, and humility when approaching minimalism as a couple. Learn more about Joshua here https://www.becomingminimalist.com/ T...
2024-04-24
30 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Jealousy and Insecurity | Shanenn Bryant #670
This week let's talk about jealousy. Shanenn Bryant joins me for a conversation about overcoming jealousy in relationships. Shanenn shares her personal journey with jealousy and how she discovered that she was not alone in experiencing these feelings. She explains that jealousy is often rooted in past experiences and a lack of self-worth. The conversation provides practical steps for moving forward and overcoming jealousy, including identifying and changing insecure habits. We also discuss the difference between fear and intuition. Learn more about Shanenn here https://www.topselfpodcast.com/ Takeaways J...
2024-04-03
38 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
The Search For Intimacy #657
In this episode, we address some of the feedback from last week's episode about a husband losing attraction to his wife. We explore the impact of such revelations on men and women - is there a difference in how it impacts each gender - and we explore the concept of facing dilemmas and making choices in relationships. The key here is the importance of self-validation and differentiation in personal growth. That is the best way to achieve relational growth as well. Takeaways Accept and love family members despite their flaws. Revelations about l...
2024-01-03
34 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
What Money Means | Bill Nelson #650
The 2024 Passionately Married Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. On the Regular Version ... I'm joined by Bill Nelson, a Certified Financial Planner and Certified Financial Therapist. We dive into the world of money and marriage and meanings. Learn more about Bill here - https://pacesetterplanning.com/ On the Xtended Version ... Pam and I discuss our take our takeaways from the conversation with Bill. It's all about the meanings of things - not the things. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Factor: Get fresh, flav...
2023-11-15
35 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Connection Codes | Dr Glenn and Phyllis Hill #649
Come join the conversations in the SMRNation Community at my.smr.fm The 2024 Passionately Married Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. On the Regular Version ... I'm joined my Dr Glenn and Phyllis Hill as we walk through their marriage tool for deeper connection and conversation. You can learn more about the Connection Codes and pick up the 4 Minute Tool here - https://connectioncodes.co/passionatelymarried On the Xtended Version ... Pam and I discuss our take on the Connection Codes tool. Is it good for everyone? Are there thin...
2023-11-08
35 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Fooling Yourself #644
Unlock the Power of Intimacy - https://smr.fm/unlock In this week's episode Pam and I answer a listener's email about his trouble coming to terms with his spouse's past, as well as some of their present. On the Xtended Version ... Is it possible that our spouse knows us better than we know ourselves? Yes - and we will go through all the ways we fool ourselves. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... HoneyLove: Get 20% OFF @honeylove + Free Shipping at https://honeylove.com/passion #honeylovepod
2023-10-04
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Marriage Warning Signs #640
The 2024 Passionately Married Getaway is June 13-15, 2024. Register now. On the Regular Version ... In this week's episode Pam and I discuss warning signs of problems in marriage, and any relationships for that matter. What are the various signs to watch out for in a relationship? What if I see many of these in my marriage or life? On the Xtended Version ... We answer the question of what to do if some of the warning signs are visible in y life or marriage. Enjoy the show!
2023-09-06
29 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Over-Reaction To My Spouse’s Over-Reaction #630
Pam and I get into a conversation about how we as married people can so often find ourselves over-reacting to our spouse's over-reaction. Why does this happen? What can we do to stop it? On the Xtended Version ... Author and modern-day monk, Jay Shetty has a 4 E formula for better relationships. We discuss what they are and if we agree with him. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Join Relay: Learn more about the pornography recovery group program Chandler created, the Relay app: bit.ly/passionately-married-relay
2023-06-28
34 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Divorce Is Not An Option, Or Is It? #628
Pam and I use an email from a wife who is in a sexless marriage, going on 20 years now, and she wants to know if there is anything she can do, but divorce is not an option. We answer her questions, then expand into some different topics that are at play in every marriage. On the Xtended Version ... We do a deeper look at the dynamic of over-functioning and under-functioning. Which one are you? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... HoneyLove: Get 20% OFF @honeylove + Free Shipping with...
2023-06-14
33 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
You Need A Tribe | Chandler and Jade Rogers #626
Chandler and Jade Rogers join the show today as they share their story of pornography struggle, its impact on their relationship and their journey towards healing. Check out the app Chandler created to help others on this journey as well - Relay On the Xtended Version ... Pam and I share our story and journey with the struggle and impact of pornography on our marriage and life. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Join Relay: Learn more about the pornography recovery group program Chandler created, the Relay app: bit.ly/p...
2023-05-31
39 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Takeaways From 30 Years Of Marriage #625
This week Pam and I are looking back at what we've learned after 30 years of marriage. Come look back with us. On the Xtended Version ... A surprisingly high number of people will admit to snooping on their spouse's phone or devices. So what's the motivation and results of this path? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... HoneyLove: Get 20% OFF @honeylove + Free Shipping with our promo code Passion at https://www.honeylove.com/passion #honeylovepod Academy: Join the Academy on any monthly level and get your...
2023-05-24
28 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Lessons In The Sandwich Generation #621
This week we are trying something different - this is a conversation from Pam and I while we were driving back from moving a parent into an independent living complex. What are we learning while we deal with issues surrounding aging parents - and teenagers? Listen to find out. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Adventure Challenge Mini Dates: Our friends at The Adventure Challenge have a new resource, Mini Dates! Get 20% off when you use our code PM20 at https://www.theadventurechallenge.com The post Lessons In The San...
2023-04-26
34 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Sexual Styles #614
A husband has emailed us with feedback and his thoughts about Episodes #610 and #611. We go through his ideas point by point, and then land on a conversation about the win-win situations in marriage. Or, to put it another way, do they really exist? On the Extended Version ... Pam and I discuss the three different sexual styles according the Dr Schnarch. Which style is yours? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better Help: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com...
2023-03-08
29 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Q&A Potpourri: Consent, Oral Sex, Waiting #574
Pam and I work through a potpourri of questions today .... A husband is struggling with the idea of consent in marriage, even when his wife has given it in some areas. Wife regularly gives her husband a "hand" yet it's feeling too transactional now. A husband told his wife she was great at blow jobs early on in their marriage, yet she's not. Now what should he do? A wife has a husband who has lost lots of weight yet still has more to go and lots of loose skin now.
2022-06-01
42 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Best Of SMR: Awaken Female Desire #573
A best of SMR episode with an email from a higher desire wife that's in a catch 22. An interview with Pam Costa about her journey and research into female desire. How her experience of talking about the topic, taboos, and hesitancies with other women dramatically improved her desire levels. On the Xtended version … I continue the conversation with Pam Costa about the research project she created to study female desire levels and the practical steps everyone can talk to help themselves in this area of life. Enjoy the show! Sp...
2022-05-25
38 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Feelings and Meanings #571
A followup voicemail regarding episode #569 - what are some better questions and conversations starters to address difficult issues in marriage? An email from a husband who's wife experiences pain during sex, and while it's better, how do they change things up a bit when there's anxiety about possible pain? On the Xtended version … Pam and I discuss an email from a listener and their framework of where feelings come from. Which leads to the question, which comes first, the chicken or the egg? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Th...
2022-05-11
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Break Out Of A Sexual Rut #551
Pam goes through a Sex Ed Quiz again. Follow along to see how you do. A wife wants to know how to best co-parent with her step-kids mom, who is now in a same-sex relationship. A husband wants to know how to break out of the sexual rut he and his wife are in currently. How do you address times when there's an agreement for a sexual encounter yet it doesn't happen? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful...
2021-12-22
41 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Arousal vs Attraction #548
An email from a wife who wants to know if asking questions to her husband about his past struggle with porn will increase the temptation. A voicemail from a wife wanting help understanding arousal and attraction. On the Xtended version … Pam and I work through a gridlock script from a member of the SMR Nation. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union The post Arousal vs Attraction #548 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Rad...
2021-12-01
30 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Touch and Massage #523
A conversation with Denis Merkas of MELT: Couples Massage about how touch is so important in life and marriage. Take advantage of the first sale in 2 years here - Get MELT for Father's Day On the Xtended version ... A behind the scenes conversation with Denis about how MELT has impacted his life and what he's learned. Plus he turns the table on Dr Allan. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Songfinch: Use our code SMR for a total of $70 off the perfect Father's Day gift, this week only. Thrive...
2021-06-09
32 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Telehealth Help and Desire Differences #518
How do you find a therapist or marriage coach in the age of telehealth? You can work with Dr Allan - for more info click here. Guides mentioned in the show - Part 1, Part 2. A lower desire wife emails wanting help getting her husband to understand her interest in her experiencing an orgasm during sex as well, not just him. A wife in a sexless marriage wants to know how to get her husband interested in sex. On the Xtended version ... The benefits of boredom and routine and the...
2021-05-05
27 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Snoring #512
A peek behind the curtain into how Pam and I address the issue of snoring, and the messages built into our moves. An email from a husband who is the higher desire for sex but the lower desire for romance. Is that odd? On the Xtended version ... A recording of a talk Corey gave at church about how do I see myself and how does God see me? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/u...
2021-03-24
26 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Next Wisest Step #507
Please check out the SMRNation Community at my.smr.fm Pam and I have a coffee shop conversation about when you're faced with choices where there really isn't right or wrong yet, what's the best wise step? An email from a listener asking about ideas to help address issues when there are size differences between spouses. On the Xtended version ... A great quote from Charles Cooley - "I am not who you think I am, I am not who I think I am, I am who I think you think I...
2021-02-17
26 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Let’s Celebrate 500 Episodes #500
Several members of the SMR Nation join Pam and I as we celebrate 500 episodes. Come enjoy the party! On the Xtended version ... What have we learned from hosting over 500 episodes of hosting SMR? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Visit HelloFresh.com/smr10 and use code smr10 for 10 free meals, including free shipping! The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union The post Let’s Celebrate 500 Episodes #500 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2020-12-30
41 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Complaint or Request #496
Pam and I have a Coffee Shop Conversation about the question: How often are complaints by your spouse heard as a request? An email from a husband who repeatedly is looking for ways to get his wife interested in sex, yet is met with phrases like "All you ever think about is sex" or "Quit looking at me like a piece of meat." On the Xtended version ... What is it that makes us so afraid of being alone? Does the idea of sitting alone in a room with no distractions terrify you?
2020-12-02
27 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
The Dad Edge #493
Larry Hagner from Dad Edge Podcast joins me to discuss to role and importance men play in fatherhood, marriage and the world. Hear more from Larry here https://gooddadproject.com/podcast/ On the Xtended version ... Pam gives me her take on Larry and I's conversation about men. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... AcornTV: Escape to Britain and beyond without leaving your seat. Try Acorn TV free for 30 days, by going to https://acorn.tv and use our promo code smr. The State Of Our Union: Weekly...
2020-11-11
40 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Intimacy With Ease #489
On the Regular version of today's show ... Jessa Zimmerman joins me today to let the SMRNation know about our free webinar - How To Help Your Partner Want More Sex WITHOUT Feeling Pressure or Obligation - on Tuesday, October 20, 2020 at 7 PM Central Time. Register for free by clicking here. Jessa also sticks around to answer some questions from the Nation. On the Xtended version (which is available to all today) ... Pam and I talk about the impact Dr David Schnarch has had our our marriage and my profession. Enjoy t...
2020-10-14
1h 02
Sexy Marriage Radio
Intimately Us #480
We are excited to announce a brand new resource aimed to help make your marriage fun and sexy ... Intimately Us You can find the App in the App Stores for both Apple and Android, or read more about it here https://intimately.us/ Today we talk with the man who helped us create this app, Dan Purcell. Learn more about Dan at https://getyourmarriageon.com/ On the Xtended version ... Pam and I have a conversation about the importance of novelty in marriage - and some ways you can add novelty that...
2020-08-12
28 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Simultaneous Orgasms #471
On the regular version ... An email from a husband whose wife believes if they can't orgasm together at the same time then there must be something wrong. A husband seeks our thoughts on how he can reestablish connection with his wife sexually and emotionally when she doesn't really like him currently. On the Xtended version ... Pam and I talk through the concepts of desire and how it's part of our process of growth in life and marriage. Today's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Beach Body On Demand. Over 1300...
2020-06-10
25 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Reading List #443
A sex ed quiz for my wife and co-host, Pam. An email from a listener asking for a reading list to help him not only in the counseling world but also in marriage. The post Reading List #443 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2019-11-27
26 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Abuse In Marriage #435
On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Steven Stosny as we discuss how abuse happens in marriage and relationships – and how compassion is the key to breaking the patterns. Learn more about Dr Stosny at his site https://www.compassionpower.com/ On the Xtended version … Pam and I have a conversation […] The post Abuse In Marriage #435 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2019-10-02
26 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Arousal and Desire #433
On today’s regular version of the show … My wife Pam is tested on her knowledge with a 10 Question Sex Quiz And an email from a husband looking for our thoughts about helping his marriage and their struggles with weight, desire, infertility and adoption. On the Xtended version … What’s the difference between arousal […] The post Arousal and Desire #433 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2019-09-18
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Clitoral Orgasms #393
Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … We address some feedback we’ve received from the SM Nation regarding last week’s show with Pam Costa. An email from a wife who can only achieve orgasm via clitoral […] The post Clitoral Orgasms #393 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2018-12-12
25 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Awaken Female Desire #392
Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is now open! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a higher desire wife who’s in a catch-22. Plus a conversation with Pam Costa on her journey and work about reclaiming female sexual desire. On the […] The post Awaken Female Desire #392 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2018-12-05
38 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Marriage Grows You Up With Dr Corey Allan #383
Marriage is mostly on the job training. And there’s a purpose for the relationship that not enough people are talking about. Marriage is designed to help you grow up. Period. Today I’m a guest on my own show as we discuss the journey of Sexy Marriage Radio and its message. Enjoy the show! __________ Got […] The post Marriage Grows You Up With Dr Corey Allan #383 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2018-10-04
29 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Our Journey Of 25 Years #348
We celebrated 25 years of marriage last week! Join us as Pam and I discuss some of how our 25 years of marriage together have impacted us, and how Sexy Marriage Radio has impacted us as well. Enjoy the show. Or, watch the show here on YouTube! __________ Sponsor: Man Of His Word Mastermind Groups […] The post Our Journey Of 25 Years #348 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2018-06-04
27 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Masturbation In Married Life #346
Today my wife Pam and I follow from last week’s episode on sex toys in marriage. This time we discuss more about the use of toys but land more in the area of masturbation and married life. Enjoy the show! Or, watch the show here on YouTube! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked […] The post Masturbation In Married Life #346 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2018-05-28
29 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
When Sex Toys Feel Like A Threat #344
Sex toys are great! Or they’re a threat! Join us as Pam and I discuss the history of vibrators and answer a couple of emails about confidence and sex toys. Enjoy the show. Or, watch the show here on YouTube! __________ Sponsor: Dr. Allan’s book: Naked Marriage: Uncovering Who You Are And Who You Can […] The post When Sex Toys Feel Like A Threat #344 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2018-05-21
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
Marriage Roundtable: Best and Worst Marriage Advice #343
Our first ever Marriage Roundtable! Today Pam and I are joined by Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele of Only You Forever and Seth and Melanie Studley of The Anatomy of Marriage. In this episode we discuss the best and the worst marriage advice we’ve heard in our lives and our practices. You can find more about […] The post Marriage Roundtable: Best and Worst Marriage Advice #343 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2018-05-17
35 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#333: The Energy Differences Can Create
There are many differences between spouses in marriage. Higher vs Lower Desire. Initiating vs Responding. Connecting to be interested in sex vs sex to feel connected. Today my wife Pam and I discuss how these differences can actually create energy for each of you. Enjoy the show. __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by The […] The post SMR#333: The Energy Differences Can Create first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2018-03-21
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#332: Initiate, Responding and Triggers
Today my wife Pam and I cover a couple of related topics … What does a husband do when his wife doesn’t initiate sex? And an email from a listener asking for more information about bringing triggers out in the open in the marriage. Enjoy the show! __________ Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Naked […] The post SMR#332: Initiate, Responding and Triggers first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2018-03-14
34 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#320: Longing vs Lusting, Holiday Sex
Voicemail and email from listeners today … What is the difference between longing vs lusting? (@ 2:30 mark) Tips for sex over the Holidays, especially when traveling with family. (@ 27:33 mark) My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show. __________ This episode is sponsored by The Sexy Marriage Radio Academy. […] The post SMR#320: Longing vs Lusting, Holiday Sex first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2017-12-20
33 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#319: Rebuilding and Keeping A Deeper Connection
Voicemails from listeners today … What can you do to establish a deeper connection after discovery of pornography use? And a caller who is interested in how to keep a deeper connection with his wife during sex. My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show. __________ This episode is sponsored by […] The post SMR#319: Rebuilding and Keeping A Deeper Connection first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2017-12-13
38 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#318: Sex After Pregnancy and Being The Higher Desire
Voicemails from a couple of listeners today … How do you get back to normal sex after pregnancy? How do you deal with being the higher desire when your spouse responds to your levels with “But we have sex the normal amount of time.” My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the […] The post SMR#318: Sex After Pregnancy and Being The Higher Desire first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2017-12-06
35 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#317: Great Married Sex, Feeling Cherished, Intergenerational Nice Guy
Today we tackle several emails from our listeners … What makes married sex so great? How to feel cherished and loved. Breaking the intergenerational Nice Guy trait. My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage […] The post SMR#317: Great Married Sex, Feeling Cherished, Intergenerational Nice Guy first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2017-11-29
34 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#316: Animals in bed, No kissing, Accepting compliments
Today we tackle several emails from our listeners … Animals in bed. No kissing in the marriage, even during sex. My spouse will not accept my compliments. My wife Pam joins me on this episode again. Enjoy the show. __________ Take our brief survey – https://s.surveyplanet.com/rJPdn-jJM __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email […] The post SMR#316: Animals in bed, No kissing, Accepting compliments first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2017-11-22
33 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#315: After The Discovery of Spouse’s Porn Usage
We’ve covered the topic of pornography on several past shows, but not quite in this way. What do you do after you discover your spouse’s porn usage? My wife Pam joins me on this episode to unpack this struggle and the path towards growth. Enjoy the show. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. […] The post SMR#315: After The Discovery of Spouse’s Porn Usage first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2017-11-15
34 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#313: Marriage Maintenance
Maintenance is a known requirement when it comes to our cars, homes, and other things we own. But what about our relationships? Especially our marriage? What are the ways we can practice maintenance in our marriage? My wife Pam joins me on this episode. Enjoy the show. __________ A couple of the links mentioned on […] The post SMR#313: Marriage Maintenance first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2017-11-01
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#221: Melt Your Spouse With Your Hands
Who doesn’t like the idea of your spouse melting in your hands? There’s a great way to help make this happen, and that’s through massage. Today Shannon and Corey are joined by Denis Merkas of Couples Massage Courses. Check out the course here. It’s worth the time and investment. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. […] The post SMR#221: Melt Your Spouse With Your Hands first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2016-01-27
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#220: Relationships Are Co-Created
A foundational belief I have is that everything that happens in relationships is co-created. This doesn’t mean causality – but each person plays a role in what happens in married life. Not sure what I mean? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below […] The post SMR#220: Relationships Are Co-Created first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2016-01-20
34 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#219: Rituals vs Ruts
Rituals play a role in most everything we do as people. It’s what helps create the comfort of life we strive for. But what happens when these rituals become ruts? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#219: Rituals vs Ruts first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2016-01-13
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#218: Sex 101
It may seem odd that 218 shows into Sexy Marriage Radio we are airing Sex 101. But there’s a good reason. To hear it, listen to this week’s show. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#218: Sex 101 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2016-01-06
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#217: A Look Back at 2015
Every year around this time we reflect on the shows that happened. The good, the bad, the ugly. So what stood out to us? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#217: A Look Back at 2015 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-12-30
30 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#216: Last Minute Gift Ideas
Christmas is in a couple of days. If this is news to you, then you’ll like our last minute gift ideas. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Right click on the image below to save the certificate we mention in the show: __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below […] The post SMR#216: Last Minute Gift Ideas first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-12-23
30 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#215: Attachment Parenting Can Ruin Sex
We live in a child-centric society. And raising a child can disrupt married life, which isn’t a shocking statement. But what if a parenting style can actual be harmful to the marriage, specifically sex? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#215: Attachment Parenting Can Ruin Sex first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-12-16
32 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#214: Talking to Kids About Masturbation
Last week we discussed the importance of disconnecting the subjects of porn and masturbation. We received several emails asking about how to discuss this subject with your kids. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#214: Talking to Kids About Masturbation first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-12-09
30 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#213: Porn and Masturbation
We’ve done a couple of shows thus far on pornography (here, here, and here). What about the connection between porn and masturbation? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … (photo source) The post SMR#213: Porn and Masturbation first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-12-02
32 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#212: Being Thankful For Your Marriage
Happy Thanksgiving! How are you thankful for your marriage? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#212: Being Thankful For Your Marriage first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-11-25
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#211: Is Sadness Affecting Your Sex Life?
Sadness and sex may seem like they don’t mix. And for many people they don’t … but why? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#211: Is Sadness Affecting Your Sex Life? first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-11-18
29 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#210: Is Anger Affecting Your Sex Life?
Anger is one of societies understood emotions. This doesn’t mean it’s right, but most everyone understands that anger is part of life. But does it affect your sex life? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … Photo source The post SMR#210: Is Anger Affecting Your Sex Life? first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-11-11
33 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#209: The Controlling Sex Partner
Last week’s episode what about fear. This week we shift to another fear, being out of control. Have you thought about how fear can impact your sex life? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … Photo source The post SMR#209: The Controlling Sex Partner first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-11-04
32 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#208: What Do You Fear?
Fear can affect people in all areas of life. Have you thought about how fear can impact your sex life? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … Photo source The post SMR#208: What Do You Fear? first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-10-28
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#207: Dealing with Porn in Marriage, Part 2
In episode 202 we tackled this touchy subject. Based on some feedback from our listeners, we’re addressing it again. Only this time, we go a little deeper. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … Photo by Magdalena Rehova/Alamy The post SMR#207: Dealing with Porn in Marriage, Part 2 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-10-21
33 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#206: The Bed-Buddy Club
There are many listeners of Sexy Marriage Radio who have asked for help in how to share our message and show with others. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Plus, we unveil a new way for our loyal listeners to help us keep expanded the show to reach even more married couples. The Bed Buddy […] The post SMR#206: The Bed-Buddy Club first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-10-16
35 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#205: The Moral High Ground
Perhaps you have heard about the idea of the moral high ground. Maybe not. Allow us to explain. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#205: The Moral High Ground first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-10-07
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#204: Budget For Marital Success
Money is often a major source of stress for many couples. It can impact every aspect of family life and marriage. But what about dedicating some of your money specifically for your marriage? Allow us to explain. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below […] The post SMR#204: Budget For Marital Success first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-09-30
35 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#203: Daily Connection Challenges
In a previous episode of Sexy Marriage Radio we made a comment about not being totally in favor of the daily sex challenges that are proposed by churches, books, and some other podcasts. Allow us to explain. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage […] The post SMR#203: Daily Connection Challenges first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-09-23
30 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#202: Dealing with porn
This is often a touchy subject. It can also be an extremely destructive one. But it’s an issue that impacts lots of marriages – porn. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#202: Dealing with porn first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-09-16
33 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#201: How Big is Your But?
Seriously? How big is it? Not sure what we’re talking about? Listen to find out what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#201: How Big is Your But? first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-09-09
26 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#200: Celebrating 200 Episodes!!
200 EPISODES!!!!! It’s time to celebrate. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#200: Celebrating 200 Episodes!! first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-09-02
27 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#199: Same Sex Fantasy
There are some listeners who’ve emailed curious about a same-sex fantasy. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#199: Same Sex Fantasy first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-08-26
29 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#198: No Libido
Should humans have a sexual libido? What if you have no (or a very low) libido? Does this mean there’s something wrong? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#198: No Libido first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-08-19
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#197: Listener Emails
We receive quite a few emails every week, which we love! In this episode Shannon and Corey answer several emails from our listeners. What we cover: Sleeping in separate rooms No sex happening in the marriage Orgasm takes too long for husband Self consciousness during sex ### Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. Click […] The post SMR#197: Listener Emails first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-08-12
33 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#196: Unplugged Sex
There is tremendous benefit to getting away and unplugging from life together. You have the chance to unplug and get away – come join us on the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. In this episode Shannon and Corey talk about what is going to happen and what we’ll talk about in the sessions on the Getaway. Click here to […] The post SMR#196: Unplugged Sex first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-08-05
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#195: Talking vs. Arguing About Sex
There are many couples who believe they talk about sex, but what if they actually argue about sex more than talk about it? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#195: Talking vs. Arguing About Sex first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-07-29
30 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#194: Asking For What You Want, Then Getting It
Many times in the past we’ve encouraged listeners to “Ask for what you want in your life.” While this remains good advice, what happens when you actually get what you ask for? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Head’s up! Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. __________ Got a […] The post SMR#194: Asking For What You Want, Then Getting It first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-07-22
29 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#193: When Does Fantasy Cross The Line?
There are many episodes of Sexy Marriage Radio where we talk about fantasies. Shannon’s even written a book about it! But what happens when fantasy crosses the line? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen […] The post SMR#193: When Does Fantasy Cross The Line? first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-07-15
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#192: Selfishness
Selfishness gets a bad rap. Or does it? Sure we want our own way with things, but there is also other people wanting their own way as well. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Head’s up! Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. __________ Got a question? Email us at […] The post SMR#192: Selfishness first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-07-08
32 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#191: Sex Every Day
There are some couples who state they have sex every day. Ok. But what is the level of sex they’re having? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#191: Sex Every Day first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-07-01
31 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#190: Wedding Night Tips
While we have covered this topic before, we haven’t taken it this far. The beginning of a marriage can be filled with all sorts of emotions and excitement. But it can also have lots of anxiety and fear. Either way, you’re launching into a great part of life together. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this […] The post SMR#190: Wedding Night Tips first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-06-24
32 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#189: Old Sex v. New Sex
Some things in life get better with age. Drinks, books, style, conversation. What about sex? We believe sex can definitely get better with age. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### Head’s up! Join us for the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway, Sept 17-20, 2015. Join right away before the Early Bird Discount goes away July […] The post SMR#189: Old Sex v. New Sex first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-06-17
28 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#187: Guilt and Shame and True Love Waits
True Love Waits is a movement aimed at helping teenagers and young adults save sex for marriage. An idea we whole-heartedly agree with. But has this movement also brought with it an increase in the guilt and shame many people may feel because they didn’t wait? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. ### If […] The post SMR#187: Guilt and Shame and True Love Waits first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-06-03
30 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#184: Work Sex vs. Play Sex, Part One
There are several different types of sex. But they can often be boiled down to two categories … work sex and play sex. In this episode Shannon and Corey talk the two main ways you can view sex, and more importantly, how to possibly have more play than work. __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen […] The post SMR#184: Work Sex vs. Play Sex, Part One first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-05-13
29 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#183: Marriage is About Growing Up
What if our marriage and our sex life was actually part of a process designed to help us grow up? In this episode Shannon and Corey talk more about the idea that marriage is part of a larger process. It’s not just about “Happily Ever After.” Also worth checking out are Dr. David Schnarch’s books, Intimacy and Desire […] The post SMR#183: Marriage is About Growing Up first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-05-06
33 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#182: Tearing Down Walls
There can be many barriers and walls in our lives and relationships. Especially when it comes to our sex life. Hear Shannon and Corey talk about how one person really confronted their barriers and broke through to a better sex life and marriage. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#182: Tearing Down Walls first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-04-29
27 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#181: Sexual Addiction, Part Two
We continue our conversation with Richard Blankenship about dealing with sexual addiction in marriage. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#181: Sexual Addiction, Part Two first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-04-22
30 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#180: Sexual Addiction, Part One
There are many people who struggle with issues around sex. Some go so far as being controlled by it. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#180: Sexual Addiction, Part One first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2015-04-22
32 min
Sexy Marriage Radio
SMR#131: Rejection Anxiety, Revisited
In Episode #77, Gina and Corey talked about how you can handle rejection better. But what’s Shannon’s take on this topic? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post SMR#131: Rejection Anxiety, Revisited first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
2014-04-30
31 min