Dr. Ebun And David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists

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Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 130 \\ Want to Resolve Conflicts Faster? Be a H.O.T Spouse!Hi friend! Have you ever wondered if there was a way to resolve conflicts or disagreements faster when they show up in marriage? If so, this is an episode you do not want to miss. In this episode, you will discover what it means to be a H.O.T Spouse and how this approach can help you as you navigate those tough conversations in marriage during conflict. Alright, then, tune in to listen to find out more! Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more in...2024-11-1414 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 129 \\ 3 Possible Reasons Why Misunderstandings Have Increased In Your Marriage (And How To Change That!)Hi friend! Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings in your marriage pulling you apart from each other? If so, you're not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 3 possible reasons that could be at play here and what to do to change the narrative in your relationship. Alright, let's dig in! Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more information, pls read description below: Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to...2024-11-0713 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 128 \\ Are you struggling in your marriage? Here is some encouragement for youHi friend! Are you struggling in your marriage? Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your relationship? Do you desire to grow closer as an intimate couple while experiencing more peace, harmony, and unity in your home? If this describes your current experience, you're not alone. This episode was created just for you...to encourage you on your marital journey. I invite you to tune in to listen and grab some encouragement along the way! Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For m...2024-10-3112 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 124 \\ 3 Tried And Tested Ways To Have More Energy (And Time) To Reconnect With Your SpouseHi friend! Have you ever wondered, “How can I have more energy (and time) to spend with my spouse?” In other words, “What are some things I can do to achieve this?" If so, then, this episode for you. In this episode, we are going to reveal 3 tried & tested ways to have more energy (and time) to build connection in your marriage. So, if you desire to spend more quality time together as a couple, reconnect and grow closer together in marriage, then, tune in to listen to find out more! ....................………………………………………................. 📆 Want to work with us? 15 mins Free Consultation: Questions about coaching? Pl...2024-10-0309 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 123 \\ Wish To Increase Intimacy In Your Marriage? Try These 3 Actionable Hacks To Build Connection With Your SpouseHi friend! Intimacy in marriage is important because the more intimate we are, the closer and more connected we feel as a couple. When we feel connected as a couple, it benefits us not only as a couple but as individuals too. For example, we work better together as members of the same team rather than engage in conflicts that sap the little time and energy we have left after a long day. In this episode, we would be sharing three hacks you can use to increase intimacy in your marriage…even if you’re raising kids and have little time...2024-09-2614 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 122 \\ 5 Essential Things To Know For Effective Conflict Management in Marriage Hi friend! We cannot tell you that you will never experience conflict in marriage but what we can tell you is that if you know how to manage conflict or disagreements better, it will benefit your marriage. This will save you more time and energy not just in the present moment but also in the long run. This is why in this episode, I will be sharing 5 essential things to know for better conflict management in marriage so you can enjoy a closer and more connected relationship. So get Ready...Set...Tune in to listen to find out mo...2024-09-1913 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 121 \\ HELP! I Want To Have Sex, My Spouse Wants To Have Deep Conversations. Different needs, Same Goal in Marriage?Hi friend! What do you do when you have different needs in marriage simultaneously? For example, when your spouse wants to engage in a deep conversation with you and you want to have sex...both happening around the same time. How can we navigate this scenario especially when the end goal is to build connection and improve intimacy in marriage? If this sounds like something you've experienced, you're not alone. We've been there too. In this episode, you will learn about our experience and what we did when faced with a similar situation...and be p...2024-09-1211 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 120 \\ Want To Prevent Conflicts From Escalating? Here are 3 Communication Mistakes to Avoid In Your MarriageHi friend, Have you ever wondered or been curious about how to improve communication in your marriage? If so, you're not alone. One of the ways we have strengthened our marriage and grown together as a team has involved communicating better with each other. The way we communicate with our spouses can either strengthen or weaken our connection in marriage or even result in the escalation of conflicts. Communication is such a broad topic to discuss in one episode but today I will be sharing 3 communication blunders or mistakes to avoid for a...2024-09-0512 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 119 \\ This ONE Thing Could Be Hindering You From Building A Stronger Connection In Your Marriage Hi friend! It is no longer news that building a thriving marriage takes hard work. When we think about investing in our marriages, what often comes to mind are actionable tips to deepen connection, grow stronger in marriage and stay connected as a couple. But over the years, we’ve realized that sometimes, in order to achieve the deeper connection and intimacy we desire in our marriages, we need to stop doing certain things and one of them will be the topic of discussion today. Want to know more? Al...2024-08-2915 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 118 \\ Ditching the Comparison Trap: How To Stop Comparisonitis For A More Connected Marriage (Part 2)Hi friend! We live in a global village. We don’t have to live in the same neighborhood to know about the life of another person living in another neighborhood on another continent. Enter the world of technology & the internet. A world where you see beautiful pictures and videos of couples and individuals... Depending on the current state of your marriage, subconsciously you may find yourself comparing your spouse or marriage to another person’s spouse or marriage. Then, the "Comparison Trap"...Comparisonitis sets in... "If only my spouse were like this...2024-08-2210 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 117 \\ Wish Your Spouse Were Like Someone Else? Why You Should STOP Engaging In Comparisonitis (Part 1)Hi friend! We live in a global village. We don’t have to live in the same neighborhood to know about the life of another person living in another neighborhood on another continent. Enter the world of technology & the internet. A world where you see beautiful pictures and videos of couples and individuals... Depending on the current state of your marriage, subconsciously you may find yourself comparing your spouse or marriage to another person’s spouse or marriage or even your parents (mum or dad). Then, the "Comparison Trap"...Comparisonitis sets in... "If...2024-08-1516 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 116 \\ STOP Waiting For Your Spouse To Reconnect In Your Marriage! Do THIS Instead.Hi friend! We often hear that it takes two committed individuals to make a marriage work but what if we told you that it takes one courageous spouse willing to make the move towards progress to begin this process. Being a courageous spouse means choosing to partner with God and making courageous moves needed for a more loving & connected marriage…even if your spouse is not currently on board! As individuals who have had to be courageous spouses at different points during our marital journey, we have seen positive results in our marriage as it con...2024-08-0809 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 115 \\ 5 Reasons Why Your Spouse Is Avoiding Having Meaningful Conversations With You (And What To Do About Them)Hi friend! In the early years of marriage, engaging in meaningful conversations with our spouses boosts connection and draws us closer to each other. Over the years, these conversations can begin to fade, especially when most of our communication become centered around the running of the household, activities the kids have to attend and other functional aspects of the relationship. For a deeper connection and intimacy in marriage, it is important to continue to engage in meaningful conversations as a couple, that is, conversations that go deeper. Maybe you truly desire to have deep and meaningful conversations...2024-08-0121 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 114 \\ Is It Your Spouse or Stress? How a Simple Self-care Routine Can Benefit Your Marriage Hi friend! Have you ever been stressed, struggled to concentrate… been less patient with your spouse and your kids? Are you feeling tense, frustrated, and upset at things that would normally not make you feel upset? Then, you may need a particular kind of care: Self-Care. As a couple, and especially parents living abroad, when our schedules are filled up with activities or things to do, the to-do-list continues to increase and there seems to be so much demand for our time and attention, especially in these modern times…with all of these going on, it is so easy to forget...2024-07-2509 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 113 \\ Is It Wrong To Express Myself Or Communicate My Thoughts To My Spouse?Hi friend! Does this sound familiar? You don’t like sweeping things under the carpet. This means that when an issue arises in your marriage, you like to resolve it and settle the issue as quickly as possible. However, you've noticed that when you try to express yourself or communicate your thoughts to your spouse, it seems like your spouse does not get you or reacts differently from what you expect or even gets upset in the process. You really want to settle this issue but you don’t want to sweep things under the carpet. If so, you are not a...2024-07-1811 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 112 \\ How You Can Invest in Yourself To Significantly Impact Your Marriage & Life (Anniversary Giveaway Inside!)Hi friend! **Anniversary Giveaway sign up details below** Guess what! It is our 14th year wedding anniversary week and we are so glad for how far God has seen us through on this journey. You see…to be honest, it has not been all rosy. We’ve faced challenges and transitions over the course of the years and we are happy that we are still here together…and together, we’ve grown as a stronger team. So, in this episode, we will be sharing our personal experience and part of our marriage story as we discuss how we can invest i...2024-07-1115 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 111 \\ My Wife Is Not Taking Our Sex Life Seriously. HELP!Hi friend! Do you love your wife but you’re feeling frustrated about your married sex life? Or perhaps when it comes to sex, it seems to be a major source of conflict in your marriage? You wish to experience more physical connection with your spouse and increase sexual intimacy in your marriage so you can feel closer to your wife but it seems like most times, you hit a roadblock in this area. If this sounds familiar, you are not alone. In this episode, come prepared to discover 4 possible reasons why this may be happening and th...2024-07-0413 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 110 \\ 3 Simple "Easily Overlooked" Ways To Grow Closer In Your Marriage This Summer...Without Waiting For A Couples Getaway!Hi friend! Summer is here and people are camping, getting away to exotic places, traveling and so on. Maybe you've discovered that going on a couples getaway is not one of your plans this summer but you also want to strengthen the bond and connection in your marriage. Guess what! You don't necessarily need to get away to achieve the deeper connection and intimacy you truly desire in your marriage. This is why we will be sharing 3 simple and powerful ways to grow closer as a couple this summer...without waiting for a romantic couples getaway. 2024-06-2718 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 109 \\ How To Get Your Spouse To Pay Attention To You Without Starting An ArgumentHi friend! As spouses and individuals, we want to feel seen in our marriages. When it seems like our spouses are not paying attention to us the way we desire, or feel like we’re being taken for granted, disconnection and loneliness could begin to build up in marriage. The reality is that you may be doing things together and running a household but you feel this disconnect between you and your spouse. If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. We find that it is so easy for couples to fall into this lifestyle especially while...2024-06-2017 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 108 \\ Feeling disappointed? How to deal with unmet expectations in marriage..even if it's not the first time!Hi friend! When we get married and over the years, we have certain expectations in marriage. However, when these expectations are not met in marriage or our spouses do not meet these expectations, we can feel disappointed. We've come to realize that the way we deal with unmet expectations in our marriages can either draw us farther apart from our partners or result in strengthening our connection in marriage. If the latter is what you desire, then get ready to listen to discover practical ways to deal with unmet expectations in marriage…even if it’s not the...2024-06-1311 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 107 \\ Spouse Not Listening? 2 Mistakes You May Be Making While Communicating In Your Marriage!Hi friend! Over the years, we've come to realize that though we love each other, when conflict occurs or when we want to express ourselves to our partners, we may end up creating more distance between us instead of feeling heard in the process. One reason for this could be as a result of how we communicate our concerns or express our frustrations with our spouses. Maybe you are trying to get your spouse to listen to you but it seems like you can't get through to your spouse. We know how frustrating this can be especially...2024-06-0611 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 106 \\ Struggling With Your Mental Health? Here Is A Special Letter & Message For You Hi friend! Are you struggling with your mental health during this season of your life? Are you feeling overwhelmed by mental health challenges at this point in time? Does this sound familiar? You find yourself in a place you really don’t want to be… It feels like a battle is taking place… Not around you… not on the outside… but right on the inside... The battle of the mind. It feels like you are in a prison not a physical one but in this case…a prison of your thoughts… a prison you so badly want to get out of… Friend, if this...2024-05-3010 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 105 \\ Staying connected as a couple while dealing with the challenges in lifeHi friend! When we look at the state of the economy, rising interest rates, high cost of living, or when we encounter personal challenges like job loss or health issues...the list can go on and on, discouragement could begin to set in and cause a disconnect in marriages. How we respond to these challenges can either strengthen our marriages or result in us drifting apart from each other. Here is the reality: Challenges of life don’t stop when one gets married…but we can choose to stay as a united team instead of a divided team...2024-05-2309 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 104 \\ Building a Thriving Marriage While Caring for Children With Disabilities with Kristin & Todd EvansHi friend! Building a strong and thriving marriage takes hard work. Now, adding a child makes it feel even more challenging. For married couples caring for a child or children with disabilities, a thriving marriage can seem impossible. Research has shown that these couples face unique and intense stressors and are at increased risk for divorce. The additional challenges, responsibilities, and grief can take a toll. In this enlightening episode, our special guests, Kristin and Todd Evans will be taking us on a journey as they share their knowledge, experience, and story as it relates t...2024-05-1634 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 103 \\ Are Parents Causing Disconnection In Your Marriage? 3 Questions To Ask To Find Out (And What To Do About It)Hi friend! Disconnection in marriage can occur for various reasons. One of them could be as a result of our other important or close relationships. What if there was one relationship that could be hurting your marriage and affecting your connection with your spouse? What if this involved the relationship with your parents? Want to know more? In this episode, you will discover 3 questions to ask to find out if your parents are really causing a disconnect between you and your spouse...and what to do about it. Alright, ready, set, tune in to listen t...2024-05-0917 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 102 \\ STOP Avoiding Conflict In Your Marriage. Try These 3 Hacks Instead! (Part 2)Hi friend! Are you tired of avoiding conflict or engaging in conflict avoidance in your marriage, an action that further creates distance between you and your spouse? Are you struggling to have that difficult conversation with your spouse? If so, this episode is for you. Get ready to discover 3 hacks to try instead of avoiding conflict in your marriage. These are actionable strategies that could bring you closer as a couple and strengthen your connection in marriage. Curious to find out? Alright, tune in to listen to find out more! Re...2024-05-0214 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 101 \\ STOP Avoiding Conflict In Your Marriage. Here Are 3 Reasons Why (Part 1)Hi friend! Are you avoiding a difficult conversation with your spouse because you want to avoid conflict? Maybe you don’t like conflicts and would rather zone out or tune off or walk away or avoid that difficult conversation. Facing conflicts may feel uncomfortable, so engaging in conflict avoidance may seem like the safer route to take or is it? When we choose to avoid difficult conversations in our marriages, it may seem harmless but it affects marriages. If you’re wondering how, then tune in to listen to discover 3 reasons why you need to stop avoiding difficult conversations or engag...2024-04-2514 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 100 \\ Starting a Marriage Podcast and The Journey To The 100th Episode + GIVEAWAY!!!Hi friend! Guess what? You are about to listen to the 100th Episode on the show! It has been a journey, and we can't wait to share about how it all began...starting a marriage podcast, the journey to the 100th episode and one more thing. In celebration of our 100th episode anniversary, you have a chance to win one of 5 giveaways! Curious to know more? Alright, tune in to listen to find out more! >>>To enter for a chance to win our 100th Episode Anniversary GIVEAWAY, please fill out...2024-04-1812 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 99 \\ Going Through A Rough Season In Life? Don't Give Up!Hi friend! We are in a broken world, a world that is filled with challenges and sufferings. We have come to realize that we all need each other and we need to encourage one another. If you feel like you're going through a tough or difficult season in your life and marriage and you feel like almost giving up, we hope this episode encourages you. Sending prayers your way! ............................................................................................................. For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/ 2024-04-1109 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 98 \\ Want to Improve Your Connection With Your Wife? Embrace these 3 Leadership Types Hi friend! If you’re a husband who desires to enjoy a deeper connection with his wife while also honouring God in your marriage, then this episode is for you. In this episode, I will be talking about leadership in the home, a debated topic in these modern times. Get ready to discover 3 types of leadership to embrace as a husband to improve the connection with your wife in marriage. Curious to find out? Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more! ............................................................................................................. For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com The Happy Married Family Online...2024-04-0414 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 97 \\ Married Men & Women Raising A Family Abroad! We Want To Hear From YouHi friend! We want to hear from you (email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com ). If you are a Christian man or woman who is married and has been raising a family abroad for years, or have just relocated to a new country or province with your family, we would love to get on a quick 10-15 mins zoom call over the next few days to learn more about your experience and needs so we can better serve you on your marital journey. We want to learn more about your worries, concerns and wishes as it relates to your marriage. This will help us c...2024-03-2804 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 96 \\ Here is one FIVE-LETTER word that can save your marriage!Hi friend! Are you in a tough season in your marriage where it seems like you are struggling to get through to your spouse? Do you desire to reconnect with your spouse? In this episode, you will discover one five-letter word that has benefited our marriage in amazing ways. For example, it has helped prevent conflicts from escalating & unnecessary conflicts from taking place and as a result, we enjoy a stronger connection in marriage. So, if you desire to go from surviving to thriving in marriage, then, get ready to learn more about...2024-03-2113 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 95 \\ I am feeling unappreciated in my marriage. HELP!Hi friend! Are you in a season in your marriage when you're not feeling appreciated in your relationship? If you are currently thinking: “I feel unappreciated in my marriage” and you’re wondering what to do, you’re not alone. In this episode, I will share some possible reasons why this may be happening and some actions you can take or tips to try that could bring about positive results in your marriage. Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general...2024-03-1413 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 94 \\ 4 Ways To Earn Respect From Your Wife Without Demanding ItHi Friend! When I talk to men, most of the time, a common concern in marriage is usually along the lines of “my wife does not give me the respect that I deserve.” If this sounds like you, and you’ve been wondering, "How can I gain respect from my wife?" or silently asking the question “How can I get my wife to respect me?”, in this episode, you will discover 4 ways to earn respect from your wife without demanding it. Yes, demanding respect is a no-no. These actionable ways will not only improve your marriage in the long run, they will m...2024-03-0717 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 93 \\ 3 Communication Hacks for a Stronger Connection in MarriageHi friend! Let’s talk about communication in marriage! We often hear that communication is important in marriage. How important is it to improve your communication skills in marriage? Well, here is one thing we can tell you: When we got better at communicating with each other as a couple, our bond grew stronger and our marriage improved. So, if you desire to strengthen your connection in marriage, then tune in to listen to this episode to discover 3 communication hacks you can begin to practice for a stronger connection in marriage. ............................................................................................................. For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com The Happy Ma...2024-02-2909 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 92 \\ How to build connection, communicate with & provide clarity for your child today with Nellie HardenHi friend! In honor of Family Day, we will be airing this episode that is centered around family life & parenting especially in our modern world filled with so many distractions - How to build connection, communicate with & provide clarity for your child today. During this interesting and insightful interview, our Special Guest will be taking us on a journey by sharing her knowledge, experience, and story as it relates to the topic of today. Our Special Guest is Nellie Harden and we are pleased to have her on the show. Nellie is a wife, m...2024-02-2240 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 91 \\ How to Love Courageously in Marriage...Even If You're Not Feeling Loved (Part 2)Hi friend! *This is Part 2 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to...2024-02-1517 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 90 \\ How To Love Courageously in Marriage...Even If You're Not Feeling Loved (Part 1)Hi friend! *This is Part 1 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to...2024-02-0814 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 89 \\ How Intimacy With God Transforms Your MarriageHi friend! It is no news that we believe that God is the Source of marriage. He created marriage and a relationship with Him will have an effect on the way you do marriage. What does it mean to have an intimate relationship with God? How does building intimacy with God transform a marriage? At times we want to go through marriage with our limited view and experience and this just keeps us frustrated. This is why in this episode, you will discover what it means to have an intimate relationship with God and how intimacy with...2024-02-0119 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 88 \\ Are You Taking Your Spouse for Granted in Marriage?Hi friend! We have realized that after being married for years and after the honeymoon phase, and the demands of work, life and responsibilities increase, it is easy for us to get into an autopilot mode. The downside of this is that we could begin to take our spouses for granted. The truth is that we cannot invest in our marriages passively or put our marriage investment on autopilot, we need to do so actively. So, as you tune in to listen to this episode, we encourage you to reflect as you think about this question: "Are...2024-01-2509 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 87 \\ Navigating Financial Challenges & Stress in Our Marriage with Casey and Meygan CastonHi friend! In this episode, we will be talking about marriage and money matters. During this interesting and insightful interview, our Special Guests will be taking us on a journey by sharing their story and experience about navigating financial challenges and stress in their marriage. Our Special Guests are Casey and Meygan Caston and we are pleased to have them on the show. Casey and Meygan Caston are a married couple, relationship experts, and best selling authors and founders of Marriage365, an online platform serving over 20,000 members that offers tools, resources, and courses that touch upon real issues couples face - f...2024-01-1843 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 86 \\ Why You Need a Vision For Your MarriageHi friend! At the start of the new year, you may have set goals for the year including marriage goals. But have you thought of creating a marital vision? In other words, having a vision for your marriage? Even though some may think that creating a vision is just for companies and businesses, however, our marriages are not excluded from this process. Now, if you’re wondering, “Why do we need to create a vision for our marriage?”, then, tune in to listen to this episode and get ready to discover the importance and benefits of having a marital vision. 2024-01-1113 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 85 \\ Partnering with God and Making Courageous Moves For a More Connected MarriageHi friend! Happy New Year!!! The New Year for some, marks the beginning of a new season or phase in their lives. For you, this may mean stepping into the next phase of your marriage. If you’ve been married for some time now, you would realize that staying connected as a couple while raising a family goes beyond paying the bills and running a household. And yes, these are important. If your dream is to get to the next phase of your marriage…achieve a deeper level of connection and intimacy in marriage and enjoy marital bliss this year and b...2024-01-0415 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 84 \\ Want a Stronger & Happier Marriage in The New Year? Here is a Simple Framework For Evaluating & Reviewing Your Marriage Today!Hi friend! Today, we will be talking about a practice that will benefit your marriage. The reason is that engaging in this practice supports your marital growth, resulting in a stronger and happier relationship over the years. What are we referring to? Evaluating or reviewing your marriage. I know this may sound so serious, intense or unexciting but it doesn’t have to. It can be done in a casual and relaxing setting over dinner. So, if you're wondering how to get started with your marriage review or evaluation practice:), then tune in to listen to this ep...2023-12-2812 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 83 \\ Practicing Gratitude in Life & Marriage...Even in Tough TimesHi friend! As we get closer to Christmas and the end of the year, you may have spent some time reflecting on how the year 2023 has been so far. Maybe, you’ve had some wonderful experiences over the past months and maybe you’ve had challenging or even painful experiences. No matter what you discover, there is one thing I find that could help while facing challenging times. I am referring to a habit that can transform your life in different ways…including your marriage- The Habit of Gratitude. This is why in this episode, I will be talking about what pra...2023-12-2110 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 82 \\ Breaking the ”Broke” Cycle: Building Generational Wealth as a Couple Raising a Family Abroad with Dr. Hans BoatengHi friend! It is no longer news that one of the leading causes of conflicts or fights in marriage has to do with money. In this guest episode on the show, we will be talking about money matters and discussing an important topic: Breaking the ”Broke” Cycle: Building Generational Wealth as a Couple Raising a Family Abroad. During this interesting and insightful interview, our Special Guest will be taking us on a journey by sharing his knowledge, experience, and story as it relates to building generational wealth as an immigrant. Our Special Guest is Dr...2023-12-1457 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 81 \\ 3 Excuses You Need to Stop Making if You Want to Truly Enjoy Your Marriage While Raising KidsHi friend! We know that building a stronger marriage while raising a family in modern times is not necessarily easy as you have other things begging for your attention. We also know your desire is to enjoy your marriage…even as parents. This is why we feel this is an important topic to discuss so you can start taking baby steps to improve your marriage and build that dream marriage you truly desire. So, in this episode, we will be talking about 3 excuses that could be preventing you from truly enjoying your marriage while raising your children so you can add...2023-12-0712 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 80 \\ Want more focused time & connection with your spouse while raising a family? Try doing this!Hi friend! Living abroad and raising kids (especially when you live far away from your support system) can be so tough…we get it. But your marriage doesn't have to suffer in the process. There are some habits and hacks/tips that can help you as you navigate this life transition as a couple raising a family...even if you're living far away from family. You can find one of such hacks in this episode. So, if your desire is to have more focused time & connection with your spouse while raising a family abroad with little to no...2023-11-3004 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 79 \\ Long Distance Marriage? How to Stay Connected and Grow Together Even if You’re Currently Living ApartHi friend! With the world becoming more accessible, people have had reasons to migrate to a different state or country for various reasons, including a better life, and education, to mention a few. As a result of relocation, some spouses have had to be separated for a season, some for weeks, some for months, and some for years. Some of you are in that situation or probably know someone in that situation. That is why we would be discussing how to stay connected in a long-distance relationship specifically marriage. So, if you're ready to grab some valuable marital tips and di...2023-11-2313 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 78 \\ Our #1 favorite hack or way to connect as a couple & family in a busy modern world without having to wait for a big family vacationHi friend, The holiday season is fast approaching and travel plans are on the way. Is going on a big family vacation one of your plans before the end of the year? Or maybe no plans as of yet? Regardless of where you are, what is more important is to stay connected as a couple and family, especially in these modern times. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about our #1 favorite hack or way to connect as a couple & family in a busy modern world. Ready? Set? A...2023-11-1605 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 77 \\ 3 ”easily overlooked” barriers to having the strong connection you desire in marriageHi friend, In the absence of the “big” marital issues we come across in the media that sometimes result in divorce, we discovered 3 “easily overlooked” barriers to having a strong connection in marriage. We’ve been guilty of at least one of these barriers we are going to share, so if you find that you are guilty of one or more of these, don’t let that discourage you. Be willing to take steps forward so you can enjoy a more exciting & satisfying marriage. So, if you’re ready to discover & crush these 3 “easily overlooked” barriers that could be holding you back from having...2023-11-0909 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 76 \\ Vasectomy- A method of contraception that is not often discussed in marriages with Dr. Adam MildenbergerHi friend! “What do you think about vasectomy?” This was a question posted in some WhatsApp groups some months ago and guess what…the responses were very few. Alright, that aside…In case this is your first time hearing about vasectomy or you’ve been wondering what vasectomy is really all about, you may find out that you are not alone. No matter which group you find yourself in, get ready to have most of your questions answered. This is why we have a Special Guest today on the show to answer some questions about vasectomy, a method of contraception that is not...2023-11-0228 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 75 \\ Here Is One Question To Ask Your Spouse Today Hi friend! One way to connect with your spouse is by being honest with them about how you’re feeling and how you’re really doing. This could begin with answering one question. So, as you tune in to listen to this episode, I want to encourage you to ask your spouse this ONE question today (and actually mean it) because this question may go a very long way to make a difference in your marriage…and deepen your connection. Want to know more? Then, tune in to listen to find out more! ............................................................................................................ For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com The H...2023-10-2609 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 74 \\ Your Marriage and Mental Health : Prioritizing Your Mental Health and Support for Spouses with Dr. Adeola Adeyemi (Part 2) Hi friend, Today, we continue our conversation from last week on the following topic: Prioritizing our mental health and offering support to spouses in marriage. Our Special Guest, Dr. Adeola will continue to take us on a journey as she addresses some other areas as it relates to mental health: Some signs and symptoms to look out for, when to seek help and more! So, stay tuned and get ready to be enlightened as we continue this interesting conversation from last week! You can connect with Dr. Adeola Adeyemi on: 2023-10-1927 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 73 \\ Your Marriage and Mental Health : Prioritizing Your Mental Health and Support for Spouses with Dr. Adeola Adeyemi (Part 1)Hi friend! Today, we will be digging deep into an important topic that affects us all as well as our marriages, families, communities and the whole world - Mental Health. We cannot ignore the importance and role of our mental health and well-being in our daily lives and functioning. In this episode, we will be listening to Part 1 of a two-part interview as we discuss the following topic: Prioritizing our mental health and offering support to spouses in marriage. During this interesting and insightful interview, our Special Guest will be taking us on a journey...2023-10-1232 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 72 \\ 5 Marriage Myths You Should Stop Believing TodayHi friend! Some persons get into marriage with certain expectations and because these expectations do not hold true, they bring about frustrations. This can impact a marriage negatively if not addressed. In this episode, you will discover 5 marriage myths that could hurt the relationship between spouses if these beliefs continue to be embraced. Want to know more? Then, tune in to listen to find out more! ............................................................................................................. For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/ 2023-10-0516 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 71 \\ Changing your perspective for a better marriage & stronger relationship Hi friend, We all know too well that when we have done something for so long we can become bored with it that we begin to take it for granted. Interestingly, we treat our marriages and relationships this way. But what happens if your spouse refuses to upgrade? Or when you feel they are not meeting your expectations? Is there another approach you could use? What about having a different perspective? In this episode, I share what it means to change your perspective in marriage. Want to know more? So get ready, set, and tune in to listen to fi...2023-09-2807 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 70 \\ HELP! My spouse wants some alone time. Is this normal?Hi friend! This episode addresses a question or concern that was raised during a discussion session with other men and women. It has to do with spending some time alone as spouses in marriage, for instance, "When a spouse wants/requests some alone time in a marriage, is this normal?" Ready to find out more? Then, tune in to listen to this enlightening episode! ............................................................................................................. For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/ 2023-09-2108 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 69 \\ Wills & Estate Planning: What Couples Need to Know with Amy Murphy (Part 2 of 2)Hi friend! Today we will continue our discussion from last week: What couples need to know about Wills and Estate Planning. Our special guest, Amy Murphy, will enlighten us and tell us more about Wills and Estate Planning as we conclude this series. What is Grant of Probate? When is the best time to make a will? Can I use an online kit for my will and estate planning? These and more will be answered. Alright, let’s dive right into the conversation. Listen & get ready to take some notes:) About Amy Murphy: Amy K. Murphy, B.A., L.L.B., Barr...2023-09-1419 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 68 \\ Wills & Estate Planning: What Couples Need to Know with Amy Murphy (Part 1 of 2)Hi friend! In this episode, we discuss an important topic for couples. We know that some couples tend to avoid having this conversation but we are here to let you know the importance and why you need to have the conversation and more importantly, to sign these documents. What am I referring to? Wills & Estate Planning. This is Part 1 of a two-part interview with our Special Guest Amy Murphy and we are pleased to have her on the show. Amy K. Murphy, B.A., L.L.B., Barrister & Solicitor, has over 30 years in the practice of law, and is the owne...2023-09-0719 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 67 \\ 5 important things to know for better conflict management in marriage Hi friend! We cannot tell you that you will never experience conflict in marriage but what we can tell you is that if you know how to manage conflict better, it will benefit your marriage. This will save you more time and energy not just in the present moment but also in the long run. This is why in this episode, I will be sharing 5 important things for better conflict management in marriage that have benefited our marriage. So get Ready...Set...Tune in to listen to find out more! Links mentioned in this episode Understanding Conflict - Mean...2023-08-3113 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 66 \\ 3 Amazing Benefits You’re Missing Out On When You Stop Investing in Your Marriage After Having Kids Hi friend! When we invest our time & resources in our marriages, our goal is to improve our connection in marriage. We know that it is easy to stop investing in our marriages when life gets busier and busier...especially as parents raising a family abroad. However, when we stop investing in our marriages after having kids, we miss out on some pretty cool benefits. This is why this episode is important. Want to know more? Then, tune in to listen as we share 3 amazing benefits of having a strong & connected marriage…that cannot be ignored. This is what we currently enj...2023-08-2406 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 65 \\ 5 Powerful Ways to Invest in Your Marriage That Will Bring about Significant ResultsHi friend! We often hear the words “invest in your marriage"…but what does it really mean to invest in our marriages? What does this entail? In this episode, I share 5 ways to invest in your marriage so you can experience significant results in your relationship. Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more! ............................................................................................................. For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/ 2023-08-1709 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 64 \\ 3 ways to have more energy for a better connection with your spouse…even if you’re raising kidsHi friend! Have you ever wondered, “How can I have more time and energy to spend with my spouse?” In other words, “What are some things I can do to achieve this? If you’ve ever asked yourself the first question above or you are asking yourself this question right now, then, this is the episode for you. In this episode, we are going to reveal 3 tried & tested ways to have more energy for a better connection with your spouse…even if you’re raising kids. Ready to know more? Then, tune in to listen to find out more! ............................................................................................................. For questions/inquiri...2023-08-1009 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 63 \\ HELP! My spouse wants to talk, I want to have sex and we don’t have much time. Different needs simultaneously in marriage? What to do about itHi friend! What do you do when you have different needs simultaneously in marriage? For example, when your spouse wants to engage in a deeper conversation with you and you want to have sex...both happening around the same time? If that sounds like something you've experienced, you're not alone. We've been there too. In this episode, you will learn about our experience and what we did when faced with a similar situation...and be prepared to also grab some valuable marital tips along the way! Alright, tune in to listen to...2023-08-0311 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 62 \\ Want to have more marriage sex after kids? These 5 tips could help!Hi friend! When parenthood begins, it becomes easier to put sex at the bottom of the priority list. Depending on the season of parenting and responsibilities, time & energy level during the day, it is easy for the sex life of married couples raising families to become almost non-existent. Sex is important in marriage and this is why we will be sharing some tips that can help increase sex frequency and boost sex life in marriage…especially as parents raising children in modern times. Ready to find out more? Alright then... Tune in to listen to find out more! Links mentioned in thi...2023-07-2711 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 61 \\ Staying connected as a couple during tough or challenging times in marriageHi friend! With the ongoing talk about the economy, inflation, rising interest rates, high cost of living, raging fires and lots more, discouragement could begin to set in and cause a disconnect in marriages. How we respond when we face challenges can either strengthen our marriages or result in us drifting apart from each other. Though the reality is that the challenges of life don’t stop when one gets married…we can choose to stay as a united team instead of a divided team in marriage despite the challenges we come across in life. This is why w...2023-07-2008 min

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving ConflictsEP 60 \\ 13 Marital Nuggets for a Stronger and Happier MarriageHi friend, Our marriage is now a teenager! 13 years of marriage :) It has been an interesting adventure and a journey of growth for sure. In this anniversary episode, we will share some marital nuggets for a stronger and happier marriage after 13 years! We will be sharing 13 nuggets since it’s our 13th wedding anniversary. You can find more nuggets in our previous podcast episodes. So, go ahead and binge-listen :) Now, are you ready to join us as we share 13 marital nuggets for a stronger and happier marriage? Alright, tune in to listen to find out more! ............................................................................................................. For questions/inquiries...2023-07-1308 min