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Dominance DialoguesChoking on Legal Loopholes: When Kink Goes to Court with Dr Eli SheffWhat happens when BDSM meets the courtroom?Join us Wednesday, March 26th at 9pm EST for a discussion with Dr Eli Sheff.Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. Currently lecturing at the...2025-03-0700 min
Disability RapNo One Is an Island: Disability and PolyamoryIt’s February, and Valentine’s Day is around the corner. We have a tradition here on Disability Rap of doing a show focused on love and relationships at this time of year. We’re continuing that tradition on this show with a roundtable of guests to talk about disability and polyamory.Why do a show about polyamory on Disability Rap? Well, there is actually more overlap than you might think, unless of course you are disabled and polyamorous! Last month, we did a show on neurodivergence, and there’s actually quite a bit of overlap between the neur...2025-02-1245 min
Relationship Diversity PodcastHiatus Week 1:Exploring Relationship Diversity – Playlist on Relationship Models, Breaking Societal Norms, and NovogamySend us a textHiatus Week 1: Exploring Relationship Diversity – Playlist on Relationship Models, Breaking Societal Norms, and Novogamy Even while I'm taking some time off, I wanted to continue showing up for you and pursuing my passion, which is to help people break free from societal norms and rethink everything they know about relationships. I truly believe there's a new paradigm for relationships being birthed, one grounded in the concept and foundations of relationship diversity.So, to keep the conversations alive, I've taken a look back...2025-01-0206 min
Sex and Psychology PodcastSex on Trial: Tales of an Expert WitnessSex educators and researchers are often called upon to serve as expert witnesses in legal proceedings. This is particularly true in cases that center around kink or BDSM, consensual non-monogamy, and sexual or gender minorities. The job of the experts is to help judges and juries better understand the sexual issues at hand. In today’s show, I’m going to interview a colleague who has extensive experience serving as an expert witness. We’re going to talk about the some of the cases she’s been a part of, what the experience is like, and more.
My guest...2024-09-0649 min
Relationship Diversity PodcastEp. 109: The Mono/Poly Relationship: Challenges and Solutions with Dr. Elisabeth SheffSend us a textEpisode 109:The Mono/Poly Relationship: Challenges and Solutions with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff In this episode I speak with my friend, renowned researcher and coach Dr. Elisabeth Sheff returns to discuss the mono-poly relationship dynamic. We explore the challenges, misconceptions, and potential strategies for making such relationships work, emphasizing the importance of meeting partners' needs, effective communication, and mutual understanding. Dr. Sheff shares insights from her research and personal experiences, offering guidance for those navigating relationships where one partner desires monogamy and the other seeks polyamory. 2024-07-2558 min
Loving Without BoundariesEPISODE 248: Podcast Discussion with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Dr. Heath Schechinger, and Dr. Joli HamiltonEPISODE 248: Podcast Discussion with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Dr. Heath Schechinger, and Dr. Joli Hamilton.Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. She is the developer of The Bonding Project, a free quiz to help people understand if they want to bond one-to-one, one-to-many, many-to-many, or solo. With a PhD in Sociology (University of Colorado, Boulder, 2005) and certification as a Sexuality Educator from the AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, 2012), Dr. Sheff specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Dr. Heath Schechinger is a the...2024-07-0359 min
The StoryOpen relationships: The more the merrier or a recipe for disaster?Open relationships are more popular than ever - but what's it like being in one? And what’s the history of non-monogamous, consensual, romantic relationships - from prehistoric times, via the Second World War to the modern internet age?This podcast contains descriptions of sex and sexual acts.This podcast was brought to you thanks to the support of readers of The Times and The Sunday Times. Subscribe today: http://thetimes.co.uk/thestoryGet in touch: thestory@thetimes.co.uk Find out more about our bonus series for Times subscribers: 'In...2024-05-1327 min
The Robin Smith Show#143 Dr. Elisabeth SheffDr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. Dr. Eli has served as faculty at seven universities and currently chairs the CNM Legal Issues Team for the American Psychological Association, Division 44 Committee on CNM. Sheff has published four...2024-03-181h 54
Kennedy Saves the WorldThe Rise of Polyamory: Inside Multiple-Partner RelationshipsMore people have started to consider consensual nonmonogamy. What is that, you ask? Sociologist, Expert Witness, and Coach Dr. Elisabeth Sheff is a Certified Sexuality Educator and is here to explain polyamory and why humans are drawn to having relationships with multiple partners at a time. Dr. Sheff shares that this may not suit all individuals and relationships, and navigating this lifestyle can be very emotionally challenging.Follow Kennedy on Twitter: @KennedyNationKennedy Now Available on YouTube: https://bit.ly/4311mhD. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit...2024-03-0626 min
Soul Food PodcastsEp.310 อะไรจะเกิดขึ้นเมื่อเราให้ด้วยใจกว้างขวาง?คอลัมน์ :”ส ด แ ต่ เ ช้ า” ปี3(310)
อะไรจะเกิดขึ้นเมื่อเราให้ด้วยใจกว้างขวาง?
”โดยผลของการปรนนิบัตินี้ พวกเขาจะสรรเสริญพระเจ้าในเรื่องที่ท่านทั้งหลาย
ยอมเชื่อฟังสมกับที่กล่าวยอมรับข่าวประเสริฐของพระคริสต์ และ
ในเรื่องที่ท่านแบ่งปันกับพวกเขาและทุกคนด้วยใจกว้างขวาง“
~2 โครินธ์ 9:13 THSV11
”Because of the service by which you have proved yourselves,
others will praise God for the obedience that accompanies your confession
of the gospel of Christ, and for your generosity in sharing with them
and with everyone else.“
~2 Corinthians 9:13 NIV
Harold W. Becker กล่าวว่า
“ความใจกว้างคือ ความรักที่แสดงออกมาเป็นการกระทำ!”
( Generosity is love in action.)
โลกต้องการ คนใจกว้างจำนวนมาก!
อาจารย์เปาโลก็ยืนยัน และได้กล่าวถึงผลดีที่จะเกิดขึ้น
จากการให้แก่กันและกันด้วยจิตใจที่กว้างขวาง ดังนี้
1.คนที่หว่านเพียงเล็กน้อยก็จะเก็บเกี่ยวได้เพียงเล็กน้อย
คนที่หว่านมากก็จะเก็บเกี่ยวได้มาก
2.คนที่ให้ตามที่เขาคิดหมายไว้ในใจคือ
1) ไม่ใช่ให้ด้วยความเสียดาย
2).ไม่ใช่ให้ด้วยความจำใจ
พระเจ้าจะแสดงความรักแก่คนนั้น
3.คนที่ให้ ด้วยใจยินดีนั้น
1).พระเจ้าจะประทานพรให้แก่เขาอย่างเหลือล้น เพื่อว่า
ก.เขาจะมีทุกอย่างเพียงพออยู่เสมอ
ข.เขายังจะมีเหลือล้นสำหรับการดีทุกอย่าง
ตามที่เขียนไว้ว่า
“เขาแจกจ่าย เขาให้แก่บรรดาคนยากจน ความชอบธรรมของเขาดำรงอยู่เป็นนิตย์”
2).พระเจ้าจะทรงกระทำสิ่งต่อไปนี้ คือ
ก.จะทรงประทานเมล็ดพืชและอาหารแก่พวกเขา
ข.จะทรงเพิ่มพูนเมล็ดพืชของเขา
ค.จะทรงให้การเก็บเกี่ยวแห่งความชอบธรรมของเขาเจริญขึ้น
ง.จะทรงให้เขาทั้งหลายมั่งคั่งขึ้นในทุกสิ่ง เพื่อพวกเขา
ก).จะบริจาคด้วยใจกว้างขวาง และจัดหาให้กับธรรมิกชนที่ขัดสน และ
ข).จะทำให้เกิดการขอบพระคุณพระเจ้าอย่างมากมายเหลือล้นผ่านการให้พวกเขา
3).พระเจ้าจะทรงทำให้การปรนนิบัติในงานรับใช้ด้วยการให้นี้
ก.ไม่เพียงเป็นการจัดหาให้กับธรรมิกชนที่ขัดสนเท่านั้น
ข.แต่ยังทำให้มีการขอบพระคุณพระเจ้าอย่างมากมายเหลือล้นด้วย เช่นกัน
4.คนที่ให้ด้วยความเชื่อฟังพระเจ้า และปรนนิบัติอย่างเกิดผลดี จะทำให้พวกที่ได้รับนั้น
1).สรรเสริญพระเจ้า
ก.ในเรื่องที่พวกเขาทั้งหลายยอมเชื่อฟังสมกับที่กล่าวยอมรับข่าวประเสริฐของพระคริสต์
ข.ในเรื่องที่พวกเขาแบ่งปันกับทุกคนด้วยใจกว้างขวาง
2).วิงวอนขอเพื่อเขาทั้งหลาย
3).คิดถึงพวกเขา
เพราะเหตุพระคุณของพระเจ้าที่อยู่ในพวกเขาอย่างมากมาย
4).ขอขอบพระคุณพระเจ้า เพราะของประทานที่เกินความคาดคิดซึ่งพระองค์ประทานนั้น“
-2 โครินธ์ 9:6-15 THSV11
สิ่งที่เราแบ่งปันให้แก่
1.กันและกัน และ
2.ผู้อื่น
ด้วยใจกว้างขวาง จะนำมาซึ่ง
1).ความสุข
2).ความยินดี มาให้แก่
ก.ตัวเรา
ข.ทุกคนที่เกี่ยวข้อง และ
ค.โลกนี้
อีกทั้งจะก่อให้เกิดการขอบพระคุณพระเจ้าสำหรับความดีเหล่านั้นที่เราได้กระทำ
Elisabeth Sheff กล่าวสรุปได้ดีว่า
“ โลกนี้ น่าจะเป็นสถานที่ ที่ดีขึ้นทุกๆวินาทีของทุกๆวัน
ถ้าเราเพียงแค่ปรากฏตัวขึ้นมาด้วยทัศนคติ
แห่งความใจกว้าง ความซาบซึ้งกตัญญูและการยอมรับซึ่งกันและกัน!”
(Earth would be such a better place every second of every day if we could just show up with an attitude of generosity and gratitude, and acceptance for one another.)
ไม่ทราบว่าพี่น้อง
…เห็นด้วยไหมครับ?
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
ธงชัย ประดับชนานุรัตน์
5กุมภาพันธ์2024
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À tes amours01. [Notion] Qu’est-ce que le polyamour ?Le polyamour : définition et idées reçues
Ce premier épisode fait partie d’une série appelée “Notions” dans laquelle nous présentons le polyamour.
Qu’est-ce que le polyamour ? À partir de sa définition dans le dictionnaire, on vous propose de décortiquer ses différentes composantes, par exemple l’intimité, l’aspect consensuel de la relation, ou encore la possibilité d’avoir plusieurs partenaires en parallèle.
Et comme le polyamour sort des normes de relation, sa conception se heurte à des idées reçues : on vous propose donc également de les analyser...2023-10-1723 min
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Modern Anarchy126. Navigating the Risks of Kink and Edge Play with Dr. Elisbeth SheffOn today's episode, we have sociologist Dr. Elisabeth Sheff (She/Her) join us for a harm-reduction and pleasure-enhancement conversation for navigating the risks of kink. Together we talk about the needed for explicit and evolving consent conversations, learning through community best practices, and when kinky sex goes wrong.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ...2023-09-201h 27
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern RelationshipsThe Episode to Share With Your ParentsThis week's episode is for everyone out there who has had a loved one come out to them as non-monogamous. There are a lot of feelings that may come up; you may feel confused, afraid for their wellbeing, or you may have not even heard the term before at all. Listen to this episode where we go back to basics of non-monogamy, some tactics for reacting well to your loved one's journey, and future expectations. Some resources: A fantastic, short book which provides a great jumping off point for those who are new to the concept of...2023-07-2554 min
The Other AutismWhy Are Autistic People More Likely to Be Non-Monogamous?Let's delve into an under-discussed topic — the intersection of autism and non-monogamy. I talk about the differences between polyamory and open relationships, and challenge the stereotype that autistic individuals are incapable of or uninterested in sexual relationships. Drawing from research and personal experiences, I discuss why autistic individuals are more inclined towards non-monogamous relationships.If you'd like to know more about topics discussed in this episode, check out:"Neurodiversity and Relationship Variation: Why Some With Autism or ADHD Are Drawn to Consensual Nonmonogamy and/or BDSM" by Elisabeth A. Sheff"Polyamory vs. an Op...2023-07-0730 minRelationship Diversity PodcastEp. 052: So Much To Listen To! Where to Start? A Mid-Year Review of the Relationship Diversity PodcastSend us a textEpisode 52:A Mid-Year Review of 2023's EpisodesAre you ready to reimagine the possibilities of your most intimate relationships? Join me, in this special mid-year review of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, where we celebrate and explore all aspects of relationship structure diversity. I've had incredible conversations with guests like Naomi Yano, Jada Fire Kalika of the Wolf, Dr. Marie Thouin, Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Laura Zam, Karyn Whitmeyer, and Dr. Joli Hamilton, discussing topics from non-categorical relationships, sensuality, soul-nourishing communication, non-monogamy, to compersion and beyond.Dive...2023-06-1525 min
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Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching PodcastWhat’s killing traditional marriage -Dr. Eli SheffJoin Ezra as he speaks with Professor and researcher Dr. Eli Sheff about topics including: polyamory family study, 70s research into non-monogamy, internet lead to an evolution in poly, kids of polyamorous families were born on third base with special advantages, this includes parents romantic freedom, expansion of childhood and lifespan leads to different partnering dynamics, old folks being sexual much more than in previous history, the impracticality of monogamy in the modern age, Darwin is getting no pussy, sex workers give good data, how children feel about their polyamorous families, “high communication families”, what is the bonding project and...2023-03-081h 04
The Erotic PhilosopherWhat We Want To Know About Kink with Richard Sprott. PhD.Ever wondered what makes a person kinky? How we define it or what does it mean you’re your partner is into kink and perhaps you are not? Today’s guest is Dr Richard Sprott. received his Ph.D. in Developmental Psychology from UC Berkeley in 1994. He is currently directing research projects focused on identity development and health/well-being in people who express alternative sexualities and non-traditional relationships, with a special emphasis on kink/BDSM sexuality, and polyamory or consensual non-monogamy. He is the Past President of the Society for the Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity (APA Divis...2023-01-1746 min
Media StormS2E10 Polyamory: Love and the limits of the law - with Leanne Yau aka Poly PhiliaWarning: Some strong language Imagine getting fired for your relationship status. Imagine a nosy neighbour deciding they knew what was better for your children. This is the reality for polyamorous people across the UK and abroad. Should we be legislating against their discrimination, rather than their perceived ‘deviation’?This week, Media Storm speaks to polyamorous people who are trying to love within the limits of the law. We hears from top experts in the field, including Dr Sheff's 25-year-long study on polyamorous families, and the newly-formed UK Polyamory Association on changing the Equality Act. ...2022-11-1046 min
Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights PodcastDr. Elisabeth Sheff: Attachment Styles, Relationships, and Bonding Preferences | Reloscope #4Are you unhappy because you're in a bad relationship, or are you unhappy because you're in a monogamous one? Monogamy tends to be the default in our society, but it's not the only option, nor is it the best for everyone. Identifying our bonding style helps not only to understand your own needs, but how you fit into a relationship, in choosing the right partner, and in realising that you are worthy of love.
On this episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Aditi Kutty is joined by Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a...2022-11-041h 15
The Erotic PhilosopherHow We Bond, Relationship Satisfaction & Raising Children In Polyamorous HouseholdsWelcome back to Season 4 of The Erotic Philosopher. In this episode we talk with Dr Eli Sheff, one of the world's foremost relationships researchers. Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach and educator. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. Dr. Eli has served as faculty at seve...2022-11-021h 07
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2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional SexSwolly (aka: Swinging With "the Feels")If you and your partner enjoy recreational sex and emotional intimacy, you might be Swolly! Swolly is a form of consensual non-monogamy where a couple is open to both polysexual and polyamorous relationships. Are you Swolly? Tune in to find out. But first, mix up a Tennessee Peach, this episode's sweet and sophisticated cocktail while Ams fan girls over Bridgerton and shares her hot tale of a total mindfuck with a smart and sexy new partner. Next, the Wives explore the difference between swinging and polyamory, including this middle ground of Swolly. Swolly is a...2022-05-041h 23
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Libros recomendados:
📚 “Ética promiscua”- Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
📚 “Más allá de la pareja: Una guía práctica para el poliamor ético.” - Franklin Veaux
📚 “Apuntes sobre poliamor: Una guía para entender a las personas poliamorosas” - Elisabeth Sheff
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Our Better Half132: Polyamory and the Bonding ProjectDr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant specializing in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 20+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. Dr. Sheff co-chairs the Consensual Non Monogamies Legal Issues Team for the American Psychological Association, Division 44. Dr. Eli is also editing a series of books on diverse sexualities, genders, and relationships with Dr. Richard Sprott and the publishers Rowman & Littlefield. If you’re inte...2021-11-0722 min
Making Polyamory WorkThe Holiday MinefieldLibby reviews some of the biggest challenges that can show up around the holiday season when you're non-monogamous and how to navigate them without exploding an already stressful season.
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Kathy Labriola on Polyam Holidays: https://www.kathylabriola.com/articles/poly-holiday-tips
Elisabeth Sheff on not coming out during the holidays: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201612/poly-the-holidays
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The Relational Nonmonogamy Circle: https://libbysinback.com/rnmc
Find Libby on the web: https://libbysinback.com
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Rebel LoveThe Findings From a Study About Children Growing Up In Polyamorous FamiliMeet Dr. Elisabeth (Eli) Sheff, a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a Ph.D. in sociology and certification as a sexuality educator, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Today she shares her findings of a 20+ year polyamorous family study she is involved in which is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. If you are curious about the effects on children living in polyamorous families, the legalities of multi-parent situations, and the overall family dynamic, then you don’t want to miss this ep...2021-09-281h 00
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There are three missions I’m focused on while here on Mother Earth :
1. help humans become happy and whole
2. help eradicate lifestyle diseases
3. help ethical non monogamy and middle sexuality become inclusive
If any of these resonate with...2021-06-2918 min
The Pleasure Positive PodcastEP165 Children of Poly Families with Dr. Elisabeth SheffConfidence Under The Covers Workshop: 3 Shortcuts to Eliminate Self-sabotage, Revive Your Deepest Desires and Supercharge Your Pleasure. Sign Up for FREE! | https://bit.ly/confidenceunderthecovers | Join our Patreon: Clit Talk Confidential | https://www.patreon.com/ClitTalkConfidential | Discounts | https://clittalkshow.com/discounts | Show Notes | https://clittalkshow.com/new-blog/ep165 | Follow Dr. Eli Sheff | https://www.instagram.com/bondingproject_/?hl=en Support the showDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual Intimacy 💦On our top-rated sexuality podcast, Pleasure Positive, we’ve synthesized 200+ episodes with the best sex, intimacy, and mas...2021-06-1540 min
Jacob Hawley: On Love‘Come for the threesomes, stay for the admin’ - PolyamoryComedian Jacob Hawley explores the world of love, sex and intimacy - and the people that make money from it.
This week he hears about polyamory - the act of having intimate relationships with more than one partner at a time. He sits down with his friends Stuart and Phoebe who have been experimenting with ethical non-monogamy, journalist Franki Cookney about her writing and life experience, polyamory expert Dr Elisabeth ‘Eli’ Sheff, and Ana Kirova, the CEO of dating app Feeld.
Producer - Nick Coupe
Executive Producer - Pete Strauss
Researcher - Miranda Slade
Sound Design - Chris Maclean
Musi...2021-04-1430 min
Practicing Polyamory PodcastE.28 - The Polyamorists Next Door & The Bonding Project with Dr. Elisabeth SheffI don't have the words to express how excited I was to have Dr. Eli Sheff join me on the show! We talked about her personal story of why she was inspired to study polyamorous families, her academic work and publishing her books, and of course her newest project (The Bonding Project) and how it is impacting the relational landscape for people in all manner of relationship styles. We had a ton of fun and you will, too! Tune in, and find out more at www.elisabethsheff.com and www.bondingproject.com !
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Melinda ChatsTalking about Polyamory with Dr. Eli SheffDr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology (University of Colorado, Boulder, 2005) and certification as a Sexuality Educator from the AASECT (the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, 2012), Dr. Sheff specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 20+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. Currently lecturing at the University of Tennessee in Chattanooga, Sheff has also taught at the Univ...2021-02-1257 min
Polyamory WeeklyHow do you like to bond?Dr. Eli Sheff joins today to share her new project, The Bonding Project, in which she seeks to help people understand how they bond. 0:00 Introduction and host chat If you’re under 18, visit scarleteen.com Minx was down for a week with horrible symptoms of menopause, but feeling better now. Hoping to get Heather Corinna, author of What Fresh Hell Is This: Perimenopause, Menopause, Other Indignities, and You, soon! 3:45 Poly in the news Chris Smith and Ben Schenker's have proposed legislation to the Washington, DC, City Council to expand domestic partnership and anti-discrimination laws to include multi-partnered relationships. Mo...2021-02-1030 min
Sex Out Loud with Tristan TaorminoChildren in Polyamorous Families with Dr. Eli SheffDr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff joins Tristan Taormino to talk about her latest book Children in Polyamorous Families, which is based on her groundbreaking 20+ year Polyamorous Family Study, which is the only longitudinal study of polyamorous families with children to date. She talks about the advantages for children raised with polyamorous parents as well as the unique challenges they face. Plus: how does growing up in a polyamorous household affect their attitudes about communication, relationships, and love? Eli works with the team that developed the Bonding Project, an app that can help people figure out what kind of relationship style works...2021-02-0152 min
DTF: Darryl & Timaree Fun Hour"Growing Up in a Polyamorous Family" ft. Dr Elisabeth Sheff & ColbyDTF is Darryl Charles & Dr. Timaree
This week's guests: Dr. Elisabeth "Eli" Sheff and Colby2021-01-3055 min
Sex and Psychology PodcastPolyamory Fact Versus FictionInterest in polyamory is on the rise. Google trends reveal that searches related to polyamory have increased significantly over the last decade. Although interest is climbing, myths and misconceptions about polyamory abound, including the idea that it’s all about sex and that people who are polyamorous “just can’t commit.” It’s time to set the record straight.
For this episode of the podcast, I interviewed Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, a sociologist and certified sexuality educator who teaches at the University of Tennessee in Chattanooga. Dr. Sheff’s research focuses on gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy...2021-01-1352 min
Sexual HeroesS2E7 Richard Sprott PhD: Research on the BDSM / Kink CommunitySend us a textAdult content.This special edition of Sexual Heroes is available in the library at:Endorphin High - School of BDSM (EndorphinHigh.org) GUEST BIO and LINKSRichard Sprott entered the San Francisco leather scene in 1990, and after a few years joined the Defenders/SF. That led to involvement in the SF Leathermen’s Discussion Group, serving on the Board between 1999 until 2006, and he currently runs the LDG Mentoring Program which he started in 2012. He was chosen to hold the title of SF Leather Daddy XXII...2020-12-0438 min
Homework is stupidPolyamorous Families: Real Life FactsLauren Buongiovanni and Dr. Elisabeth Sheff discuss the myths and facts about polyamorous families and their children.2020-08-0351 min
What's Your Safe Word?19 - I am a Living, Breathing Unicorn w/ SHELLEENA, CHRIS, and MATTHEWLike many other podcasts, we’ve had to change our format due to the continued physical distancing procedures that are in place to combat COVID-19. This week, our co-hosts and producer meet once again, but over a Zoom video call, to check-in and chat with our amazing guests! After touching base about the various ways in which we are all experiencing the effects of the pandemic, Nneka shares some crucial information about the impacts physical distancing has had on survivors, and their families, who are experiencing male-perpetuated violence. To learn more, please check out her latest blog post.
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Polyamory WeeklyLove in the time of coronavirusHow do we practice poly responsibly during a pandemic? Is it OK to move my metamour in with me rather than not see her for the duration of enforced social isolation? 0:00 Introduction and host chat If you’re under 18, visit scarleteen.com Found a new poly podcast, Pod Pod Cvlt Cast, with 34 long episodes! We’ve got a new puppy to keep us company during #stayathome! 3:00 Poly in the news Elisabeth Sheff’s four-part series on monogamy in Psychology Today: CNM is not a good choice as a method to fix a relationship that is broken, Four tips for he...2020-03-2429 min
ConsentencesEpisode 004: Dr. Elisabeth "Eli" SheffDo you have questions about poly, family impact, and more? In this episode, we talk with Dr. Elisabeth "Eli" Sheff to learn more about it all and debunk many of the myths and stigma related to this unique lifestyle. Eli is also a lecture contributor to the Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) and will be at upcoming events in Austin!http://elisabethsheff.comhttps:/www.sexualhealthalliance.com2020-03-101h 19
ready for love radio Archives - My Love Coaching JourneyPolyamorous Families and Children with Dr Elisabeth SheffI have had a number of shows about polyamory and other consensual non-monogamy relationship options. I’ve always wondered how these options affect the children of the parents who are involved… The post Polyamorous Families and Children with Dr Elisabeth Sheff appeared first on My Love Coaching Journey.2019-10-2000 min
Poly PagesBONUS - Poly-Hegemonic MasculinitiesIn this freestanding bonus episode, Claire and Sebastian are joined by special guest co-host Michael Greer to discuss how masculinity is defined and challenged in non-monogamous spaces. In her 2006 article, Sheff explores the ways that polyamorous men, through their emotional expressions and management, are complicit with, subordinate to, and resistant of hegemonic codes of masculinity.
But what elements of the hegemonic masculinity complex are carried into poly spaces? Is emotional labour more egalitarian in non-mono spaces? How does the alpha male work when sexual monogamy is abandoned? Are men more 'woke' if they are poly? And what d...2019-09-221h 02
The Strong Mom PodcastVanessa Gayle-Pretty Strong LifeOn this weeks episode I sit down with powerlifter, mom, and chiropractor
Vanessa Gale. We talk about:
Her PL Journey
Becoming a mom
Becoming a chiropractor and benefits that has for lifters
Family life and coming out about polyamory to her family, friends and also the PL community
Books Discussed in this episode:
1. Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD
2. The Polyamorists Next Door by Elisabeth Sheff
Find Vanessa here:
Business IG: @beyondchiroatl
Personal IG: @prettystronglife2019-06-2746 min
Probably PolyFirst Responces from FV "Accountability Pod"(if unclear: meme meant ironically)
In the last few weeks the first two responses from Franklin Veaux’s “accountability pod” and a veritable cornucopia of new material from Polyamory’s #metoo Survivor Pod has been released. Join us as we take a look.
(new minute markers)
00:00 - introduction
00:18 - notes and corrections
04:35 - main story
33:29 - outré / next time on
Links:
Most Recent Update from the survivor pod: https://medium.com/@fv.survivor.pod/survivor-stories-from-the-game-changer-and-other-updates-for-may-68058dc3065b
Franklin’s “accountability pod’s” first post: https://www.quora.com/What-progress-has-Franklin-Veaux-made-with-his-accountability-pod-following-the-Polyamorys-metoo-allegations
Aida Manduley’s twitter responce: https://mobile.twitter.com/neuronbomb/status/1131628523326590976?s=21&fbclid=IwAR2Sc...2019-06-1536 min
Marriage and Martinis60. Conversation with Polyamory expert Dr. Elisabeth SheffAfter reading the book, The Polyamorists Next Door, Danielle was so interested in the topic that she asked the author and polyamory expert, Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, to come on the podcast to teach them about a lifestyle which they knew very little. Not to be confused with Polygamy, Polyamory is the act of being open to having more than one consenting relationship, and any gender can partake in having multiple partners. As the book title suggests, Polyamorists truly are living around us, but they are often too frightened to reveal their preferences because of all the stigmas attached to...2019-05-2057 min
The Breakup Monologues with Rosie WilbyBonus Episode with Dr Elisabeth SheffIn this season 2 bonus episode, Rosie meets with speaker and writer Dr Elisabeth Sheff to discuss the intersection of monogamy, polyamory and breakups. Elisabeth is the author of the Pyschology Today blog The Polyamorists Next Door and this chat was recorded while she was visiting London in December 2018. You can now follow The Breakup Monologues on Instagram @breakupmonologues The next live Breakup Monologues recording is at Kings Place on March 15. Get tickets here: https://www.kingsplace.co.uk/whats-on/comedy/the-breakup-monologues-2/2019-03-0835 min
KinkyCastDr. Elisabeth Sheff - The Polyamorists Next DoorDr. Elisabeth Sheff is one of a handful of global academic experts on polyamory, and the foremost academic expert on children in polyamorous families. Specializing in diversity and underserved populations, Sheff is an expert witness, relationship consultant, public speaker, and author. Her first book, The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and Families (2014 hardback and ebook, 2015 paperback and audiobook), details Sheff’s findings from the first 15 years of the Polyamorous Families Study. Stories from the Polycule: Real Life in Polyamorous Families (2015), Sheff’s second book, is an edited collection of stories from people in polyamorous families. Sheff’s third book...2017-11-1738 min
Sex Spoken Here004 Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and Dr Meg-John Barker: Non-Monogamies Part 1 -What is Non-Monogamy or Polyamory?Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Today we are beginning our discussion about non-monogamy. Joining me to explore this is Dr Meg-John Barker is a writer, therapist, and activist-academic specialising in sex, gender and relationships. Meg-John is a senior lecturer in psychology at the Open University and a UKCP accredited psychotherapist, and has over a decade of experience researching and publishing on these topics including the popular books Rewriting the Rules, The Secrets of Enduring Love and Queer: A Graphic History. Welcome to the show. Le...2017-04-0544 min
MyNDTALK with Dr. Pamela BrewerMyNDTALK - The Polyamorists Next Door - Elisabeth SheffMyNDTALK - The Polyamorists Next Door - Dr. Elisabeth SheffMarriage and monogamy are not what they used to be. Many couplesare opting to start families before getting married, or deciding notto get married at all. At the same time, gay couples in states thatrecognize same-sex marriage are getting married in droves. Somepeople prefer non-monogamy and have relationships that includeswinging and polyamory. The landscape of American marriage andrelationships is changing, and a variety of family systems aredeveloping and becoming more common."Dr...2016-08-0400 min
The Bayesian Conspiracy10 – Polyamory (part 2)The second half of our conversation on polyamory, because we talked and talked and the episode went long. As with Part 1, positions of other parties, including current and former partners, are very likely misrepresented in this episode.
Links:
More Than Two – An excellent online resource to ethical non-monogamy. It is also the title of a book by the creator of the website, Franklin Veaux along with Eve Rickert.
Researcher Elisabeth Sheff has written several books on polyamory and has an ongoing blog on Psychology Today. Along with More Than Two, this is a gr...2016-06-081h 19MyNDTALK with Dr. Pamela BrewerMyNDTALK - Stories from the Polycule - Dr. Elisabeth SheffStories from the Polycule: Dr. Elisabeth SheffWelcome to the polycule: the network created by the interconnections of polyamorous relationships. Just like the molecules that make up all living things, polycules come in diverse forms: large, small, tightly bound, loosely connected, static, ever-changing. How do polycules form, what do they look like, how do they transform through time, and how do they, sometimes, end? Dr. Brewer and her guest, Dr. Elisabeth Sheff.2016-03-101h 00
Polyamory WeeklyPW 456: Stories from the PolyculeA chat with Stories from the Polycule anthology editor, author and expert witness Dr. Elisabeth Sheff. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or www.facebook.com/polyweekly2015-11-3038 min
DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast)101| Successful Polyamory Strategies (that Can Make Monagamy Better Too) - Elisabeth SheffIn this Episode we talk to guest Elisabeth Sheff101| Successful Polyamory Strategies (that Can Make Monagamy Better Too) - Elisabeth Sheff.Link: https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-101-successful-polyamory-strategies-elisabeth-sheff/2015-09-2300 minDSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast)101| Successful Polyamory Strategies (that Can Make Monagamy Better Too) - Elisabeth SheffIn this Episode we talk to guest Elisabeth Sheff101| Successful Polyamory Strategies (that Can Make Monagamy Better Too) - Elisabeth Sheff.Link: https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-101-successful-polyamory-strategies-elisabeth-sheff/2015-09-2300 min
DSR: Become a Better Man by Mastering Dating, Sex and Relationships (formerly Dating Skills Podcast)101| Successful Polyamory Strategies (that Can Make Monagamy Better Too) - Elisabeth SheffIn this episode Elisabeth Sheff gives advice on:
- Elisabeth's perspective on her academic work of polyamorous families (07:10)
- Configurations of a polyamorous family (10:03)
- How married couples get into polyamory, and open relationships (13:58)
- Crossover between sexual communities (e.g. BDSM, polyamory, swinging, etc.) (16:05)
- The organization and complexity of maintaining multiple relationships (20:15)
- What is more suitable for you: from monogamy to deciding to be polyamorous versus swinging (23:05)
- Areas where polyamory works better for some people than monogamy (28:00)
- Maintaining "quality" in a polyamorous relationship (31:40)
- Other polyamorous...2015-09-231h 04
How to Stream Audiobook in Self Development, RelationshipsThe Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and Families by Elisabeth Sheff | Free AudiobookListen to full audiobooks for free on :https://hotaudiobook.com/freeTitle: The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and Families
Author: Elisabeth Sheff
Narrator: Johanna Oosterwyk
Format: Unabridged
Length: 10 hrs and 26 mins
Language: English
Release date: 09-08-15
Publisher: University Press Audiobooks
Genres: Self Development, Relationships
Summary:
Marriage and monogamy are not what they used to be, and today many couples are opting to start families before getting married, or deciding not to get married at all. At the same time, gay couples in states that recognize same-sex marriage are getting married in droves. Some people prefer non-monogamy and have...2015-09-0910h 26
Lets Face It w/ Wil Strayhorn & FriendsPolyamory: Love without Limits (when one partner is just not enough)Could polyamory be the answer to decrease divorce and increase the strength of a relationship? Which is better in terms of relationship longevity, happiness, health, sexual satisfaction, or emotional intimacy: monogamy or polyamory? Do children raised in non-monogamous families do as well in health and achievement as children in monogamous families?
Dr. Deborah Taj Anapol is known as an explorer of the spaces where love, sex, spirit, and sustainability meet. She is also recognized as the moving force behind the modern Polyamory Movement which was launched with the 1992 publication of her book Love Without Limits.
Dr. Elisabeth Sheff is the a...2015-06-221h 43
Lets Face It w/ Wil Strayhorn & FriendsPolyamory: Love without Limits (when one partner is just not enough)Could polyamory be the answer to decrease divorce and increase the strength of a relationship? Which is better in terms of relationship longevity, happiness, health, sexual satisfaction, or emotional intimacy: monogamy or polyamory? Do children raised in non-monogamous families do as well in health and achievement as children in monogamous families?
Dr. Deborah Taj Anapol is known as an explorer of the spaces where love, sex, spirit, and sustainability meet. She is also recognized as the moving force behind the modern Polyamory Movement which was launched with the 1992 publication of her book Love Without Limits.
Dr. Elisabeth Sheff is the a...2015-06-221h 42
Polyamory WeeklyPW 268: Sociology of Poly FamiliesNew research into poly families with sociologist Elisabeth Sheff. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or @cunningminx or visit www.polyweekly.com2011-04-1243 min