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Thomasville TimesCommunity CalendarThe Clarke County Health Department will celebrate 150 years of the Alabama Department of Public Health with an open house on Friday, May 2, from 1 - 3 p. m. The public is invited to attend. Smith Cemetery in the Chilton community will observe annual decoration May 4 at 2 p. m. Love day will be celebrated in honor of Dr. Jimmy and Lady Frankie Allen’s 35th pastoral anniversary May 4 at 2 p. m. at Thomasville Church of God In Christ. The guest speaker will be Superintend Gregory Stanley of the Victory Tabernacle COGIC in Birmingham. Bashan Baptist Church...Article Link2025-04-3008 min
Just Women Talking ShitUnpacking Relationship Challenges with Dr. Frankie BashanSend us a textRelationships are complex, and understanding them can often feel overwhelming. In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of love, connection, and sexual fluidity with Dr. Frankie Bashan, a clinical psychologist, board-certified sex therapist, and relationship expert with over two decades of experience.Dr. Frankie shares her expert insights into the challenges people face in their partnerships, shedding light on the critical question: when do we fight for love, and when is it time to seek assistance? As the CEO & Founder of LittleGayBook.com and LittleBlackBookMatchmaking.c...2025-03-0446 min
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser#239 Authenticity, Boundaries, and Real Connections: Navigating Dating in the Digital Age (with Dr. Frankie Bashan)Key Points:Dr. Frankie's background and passionDr. Frankie introduced herself as a clinical psychologist, board-certified therapist, and the CEO and founder of Little Gay Book and Little Black Book matchmaking services. She shared that her passion is helping people have healthier, happier relationships with themselves and others, and being a conduit to bring people together.Challenges with dating appsDr. Frankie discussed common themes she sees with her clients using dating apps, including feeling stuck in a "hamster wheel" of swiping without making real connections, misrepresenting themselves...2025-02-071h 00
Honeydew Me199. Tools To Strengthen Your Long Term Relationship + The Common (But Toxic) Mistakes We MakeWe're diving into long term relationships with Dr. Frankie Bashan, a sex therapist and founder of Little Gay Book, an LGBTQIA+ matchmaking service! We cover:
Whether or not long term relationships should feel EASY + other common misconceptions about LTRs
The tools you NEED to build a strong relationship
The common (and toxic) mistakes we're making in our relationships
How to navigate with dreaded "roommate phase"
What being "clingy" actually means and what you can do to address it
Daily + weekly habits you can start incorporating into your life to benefit your relationship
C...2025-01-2955 min
Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast200. The Queer Matchmaking One ft. Dr. Frankie BashanAli & Erica welcome an OG of queer dating coaching & matchmaking onto the pod this week - Dr. Frankie Bashan! You may know her from the sexually fluid season of Are You The One? or from her company Little Gay Book Matchmaking. Dr. Frankie tells us about the specific challenges her queer clients face compared to other daters (and what parallels she sees!) along with giving advice on approaching dating IRL and coming into your own at a later age. We can’t wait for you to hear our conversation!In Updates, Erica has yet an...2024-12-161h 16
Private StorySeason 2, Ep 8- All About Dating & Relationships With Dr. Frankie BashanSend us a textHello and welcome back!!!! In this episode we talk...Navigating modern dating The psychology of dating smarterUnderstanding emotional readiness in relationshipsBoundariesDecoding gaslighting and toxicity in lovePlease keep rating, subscribing and sharing!!! 2024-11-2255 min
Love, Laughs, and LessonsSoulmates, Synchronicities, and Self-Love with Judith CostaDescription: In this episode of Love, Laughs, and Lessons, co-hosts Dr. Frankie Bashan and Denise Rai sit down with Judith Costa, an esteemed coach in self-love and spirituality, for an eye-opening discussion on love’s deeper dimensions. From overcoming self-doubt to embracing self-acceptance, Judith shares transformative insights that touch on the universal longing for connection. With her unique background in psychology, Akashic Records, and past life regression, Judith explores how self-love serves as the foundation for finding meaningful relationships and expanding intimacy. Tune in to gain practical tools for self-awareness and actionable steps toward personal fulfillment in love and life...2024-11-1450 minLove, Laughs, and LessonsDesire to Bravery: April Hirschman on Transforming Sex, Self, and RelationshipsWelcome to another engaging episode of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons," where we delve into the complexities of relationships and the self, fostering a space for honest dialogue and personal growth. In this episode, hosts Dr. Frankie Bashan and Denise Rai invite April Hirschman, a multifaceted sex and relationship coach, to explore the nuances of sexual communication within relationships. April brings a refreshing perspective on integrating sexuality with everyday life, emphasizing the importance of ongoing conversations about desires and boundaries. Whether you're single, dating, or deep into a relationship, this episode offers valuable insights into maintaining sexual connectivity and enhancing...2024-10-0449 min
Rock that Relationship!S7. Episode 1: Differing ExpectationsWhat happens if you find yourself in a relationship where your expectations are different from your partner’s? Tune in for a lively discussion about what being committed to a relationship versus a person means, the notion of transference (and what that has to do with the old and new Becky on Roseanne), and the dangers of silent expectations . . . along with Corey’s grocery shopping habits and Tracy’s dislike of situationships. Whether you want to learn about how compromise and the third solution differ, the importance of relationship goals, or how to use a reassurance statement, this episode is one yo...2024-07-2259 minLove, Laughs, and LessonsFirst Click: Picture Perfect Profiles and the Art of Online AttractionAre you looking to transform your online dating presence? Dive into this episode of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons," where hosts Dr. Frankie Bashan and Denise Rai discuss the transformative power of professional photography with guest Ann Maas, CEO of LookBetterOnline.com. Ann shares over five decades of photography expertise and explores how quality visuals can enhance your dating success. This episode unpacks the critical role of photos in online dating, offers professional wardrobe and posing tips, and emphasizes the importance of an authentic online presence. Tune in to learn how a well-crafted profile picture can open the door to...2024-07-1850 minLove, Laughs, and LessonsBeyond the Binary: Crafting Queer Conscious ConnectionsDescription: This episode is a treasure trove of insights and inspiration, featuring Elise Braunschweiger in the latest installment of "Love, Laughs, and Lessons. Elise, a pioneering force in matchmaking and date coaching for the sapphic and queer community, discusses the significant gaps within the dating app market and the unique challenges faced by non-traditional daters. Join us as we explore the importance of inclusivity and personal authenticity in relationships, navigating personal journeys and the evolution of identity, and the creation of inclusive dating spaces. This conversation is an essential listen for anyone interested in the intersections of love, identity...2024-06-1854 minLove, Laughs, and LessonsRevolutionizing Relationships with Michal, the "Super Connector"Join Dr. Frankie and Denise as they welcome Michal, the Super Connector, to this riveting episode of Love, Laughs, and Lessons. Michal brings her extraordinary talent for transforming stuck energy into dynamic, authentic connections. Specializing in those seeking a transformative upgrade in their dating lives, Michal shares her unique insights on breaking free from frustration and embracing the divine aspect of love. Discover how to shift your mindset, harness the power of personal energy, and navigate the dating landscape with purpose and optimism. Tune in for a fresh, energetic perspective that goes beyond conventional dating advice.
2024-05-2344 minLove, Laughs, and LessonsThe Spark Behind Connectricity: Trenia's StoryIn this episode join Dr. Frankie Bashan and Denise Rai as they welcome special guest Trenia Norford-Johnson, a dynamic force in the matchmaking world with a heartfelt commitment to the power of love. This episode takes a deep dive into Trenia's inspiring journey from the world of marketing and sales to becoming a celebrated professional matchmaker. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of following one's passion and the impact of genuine connections. This episode explores the critical importance of self-awareness, the challenges and triumphs of long-distance relationships, and the nuanced strategies behind successful matchmaking. Trenia's unique...2024-03-0740 min
Love on the GoSexual Fluidity with Dr. Frankie Bashan This week, Laurie speaks with renowned relationship coach and dating expert, Dr. Frankie Bashan! Dr. Frankie Bashan is a licensed clinical psychologist with over two decades of experience working with couples and individuals and specialized training in the field of trauma. She also received her board certification in sex therapy in 2022. She possesses a unique combination of formal training, innate emotional intelligence, and communication skills that allow her to help couples struggling with relationship issues of all kinds. Dr. Frankie is the CEO & Founder of LittleGayBook.com, which focuses on...2024-01-1735 minLove, Laughs, and LessonsLove In Full BloomIn this inspiring episode of 'Love, Laughs & Lessons,' hosts Denise Rai and Dr. Frankie Bashan invite you into the world of Paula Pardel, the innovative founder of Bloom Matchmaking. Paula takes us on her transformative journey, evolving from a successful real estate career to becoming a passionate architect of romance. She shares the story of how her flair for connecting people and her entrepreneurial spirit led her to the world of matchmaking. Paula reveals the secrets behind her unique method of fostering connections, blending her innate intuition with cutting-edge technology. In this conversation, she delves deep into the...2023-12-2141 minLove, Laughs, and LessonsCelebrating Love's MosaicStep into the world of love and connection with the dynamic duo, Denise Rai and Dr. Frankie Bashan, as they welcome the insightful May Bugenhagen in the latest episode of Love, Laughs, and Lessons. May, a seasoned matchmaker, specializes in creating meaningful connections for men seeking to date Asian women.In this episode, May skips the business talk and gets straight to the heart of what her clients want—genuine connections. With a no-nonsense approach, May shares practical tips and invaluable insights for men navigating the unique landscape of dating in search of authentic relationships with Asian partners.2023-11-2143 minRock that Relationship!S5. Episode 2: The Flow and Pace of a New RelationshipExclusivity, situationships, playing the field…Listen as Corey and Tracy discuss the many factors that go into figuring out the flow and pace of a new relationship. While both aspire to channel Dr. Frankie’s advice to explore options and take it slow before committing, Corey and Tracy share their visceral reaction to any dating or relationship activity that does not involve settling down right out of the gate. Tracy sums it up for the two of them: Move quickly from the apps, “take it live,” and establish an exclusive relationship right away. However, there are many ways to go about de...2023-11-1849 minLove, Laughs, and LessonsTime to Meet CupidIn this fifth episode of the "Love Laughs & Lessons" podcast series, join hosts Denise Rai and Dr. Frankie Bashan as they introduce you to the world of LGBTQ matchmaking with Tony Smith, also known as Denver's Cupid. Tony is one of the few LGBTQIA matchmakers in the United States, and he brings a wealth of experience and expertise to the table.
Discover the story behind Denver's Cupid, a matchmaking company specializing in executive matchmaking for exceptional LGBTQ singles. Tony's journey into matchmaking was inspired by a lifetime of connecting people, including his mother's Filipino Disco Parties...2023-11-1439 minLove, Laughs, and LessonsAt the Heart Of It AllIn this episode of Love Laughs and Lessons, join us as we dive deep into the art of matchmaking with Tammy Shaklee, a leading LGBTQ Relationship Expert and the President of H4M Matchmaking. Tammy's expertise in LGBTQ matchmaking has successfully brought together thousands of clients seeking long-term, committed relationships. With a background in broadcast journalism, Tammy's keen instincts and same-sex proprietary methodology form the bedrock for identifying true compatibility.Discover the challenges faced by singles in their quest for the perfect partner and how Tammy's own journey, meeting her husband through a matchmaking service, inspires her work...2023-10-1950 minLove, Laughs, and LessonsCrafting Lasting ConnectionsWelcome to the second episode of the Love Laughs & Lessons series, where co-hosts Denise Rai and Dr. Frankie Bashan continue their journey to decode the intricate world of love and relationships. We are thrilled to introduce our distinguished guest, Jaida Pervis, the CEO of Flirting with Forever.Jaida Pervis, a Certified Matchmaker and Relationship Expert with over a decade of experience, is renowned for her extraordinary ability to cultivate enduring, harmonious relationships. Her professional advice has been sought after and featured in esteemed publications such as Good Day D.C., Cosmopolitan, UpJourney, Yahoo News, Voyage Denver, and many...2023-10-1944 min
Women Wanting WomenThe First Time I Ignored A Red Flag In A Lesbian Relationship
Have you ever ignored a red flag?
I have, and in this episode of Women Wanting Women, I share the story of how my first lesbian relationship started, and how I first saw a red flag and ignored it.
Annie Lalla once shared with me the idea that intuition is your future self, reaching back, whispering in your ear, and telling you what to do. What if that’s true? Are you going to ignore your future self?
I’ve now ignored enough red flags in my life that I know that...2023-10-1415 min
Women Wanting WomenThe First Time I Ignored A Red Flag In A Lesbian Relationship
Jordana Michelle tells the story of the first time she ignored a red flag in a lesbian relationship and explains what happened.
Have you ever ignored a red flag?
I have, and in this episode of Women Wanting Women, I share the story of how my first lesbian relationship started, and how I first saw a red flag and ignored it.
Annie Lalla once shared with me the idea that intuition is your future self, reaching back, whispering in your ear, and telling you what to do. What if...2023-10-1415 minRock that Relationship!S4. Episode 8: Speed Dating and Matchmaking with Matchmaker, Dr. Frankie BashanWhile shows like Indian Matchmaking and The Millionaire Matchmaker have brought attention to facilitated dating, Dr. Frankie Bashan, lesbian and bisexual matchmaker, offers behind-the-scenes details on how both matchmaking and speed dating work. Tune in as she talks about how she entered into the world of matchmaking and how her background as a psychologist helps clients “stay optimistic” through the dating process. No episode would be complete without Corey and Tracy sharing their own experiences, like how speed dating made Corey a better dater by giving her a place to practice flirty comments and how it connected Tracy with even more...2023-07-1859 min
I4L, Tips to Greatness: Navigating Life with Insightful Information (T2G Series)Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy - Clearing Boundaries, Agreements, and Rules for Respectful RelationshipsThis episode is about ethical non-monogamy and the importance of clear boundaries, agreements, and rules in relationships. The host distinguishes the three concepts and explains how they serve different purposes in ensuring mutual respect and security in all parties involved. The importance of open and honest communication is highlighted, as well as the need for negotiation when a third party is involved. Punishing partners for past mistakes is discouraged as it does not contribute to building healthy relationships. Finally, the host cautions against using rules, which can create power imbalances and restrict behavior.References used for this...2023-04-1109 minWomen Wanting WomenJealousy, Envy and Insecurity in Lesbian Dating, with Ali Hendry
Ali Hendry wants to teach you how to love more and fear less in the face of jealousy.
Ali Hendry is a certified holistic relationship coach for queer women, and on this episode of Women Wanting Women we dive deep into her favorite tools for helping women create the life they want.
Have you ever been jealous in a relationship before?
Ali Hendry is passionate about helping women unpack jealousy and reform it in a helpful, healthy way.
She’s done so much work around jealousy that sh...2023-02-181h 00Women Wanting WomenLesbian Love Addiction with Dr. Lauren Costine
Meet Dr. Lauren Costine: a lesbian psychologist, relationship coach, consultant, author, educator, activist, and international speaker.
Dr. Lauren gets it, because she herself is a lesbian….
I love talking to lesbian therapists like Dr. Lauren, because they have both the professional experience and the lived experience to deeply understand lesbian lifestyles and relationships.
How are lesbian lifestyles and relationships different from straight ones?
Could it be true that there’s a scientific reason why lesbian intimacy can feel more intense in the early stages of relationships than it f...2022-11-091h 19Women Wanting WomenLesbian Love Addiction with Dr. Lauren Costine
Meet Dr. Lauren Costine: a lesbian psychologist, relationship coach, consultant, author, educator, activist, and international speaker.
Dr. Lauren gets it, because she herself is a lesbian….
I love talking to lesbian therapists like Dr. Lauren, because they have both the professional experience and the lived experience to deeply understand lesbian lifestyles and relationships.
How are lesbian lifestyles and relationships different from straight ones?
Could it be true that there’s a scientific reason why lesbian intimacy can feel more intense in the early stag...2022-11-091h 19
Behind The BiteEp 83 - Dating Post-Covid: Practice Authenticity in New Relationships with Dating Expert, Dr Frankie BashanAre you currently in the dating scene? How does one form genuine connections with new people? Why must you always start with honesty and authenticity on a dating app?In this podcast episode, I speak with Dr. Frankie about dating post-covid and how to practice authenticity in new relationships. We reflect on how to leave your comfort zone, meet new people, and take a positive first step in your relationships.Sign up for the FREE e-course to understand your eating disorder and embark on the road to recovery.SHOW NOTES: Click here2022-05-1252 minWomen Wanting WomenLesbian Adventures with Cassandra Vnook, Founder of LetzB
Want to hear Cassandra Vnook, Founder of LetzB, sharing her best lesbian stories?
Cassandra Vnook conceived of LetzB because she wanted more for the queer community.
But she wanted more than just “the same dive bar every night.”
The idea of LetzB is to offer different experiences with a different crowd.
Cassandra conceived of LetzB to offer the queer community something more fashionable. She says her inspiration was to build something like what the L word represents.
She’s a friend of mine, so I invite...2022-01-1956 minWomen Wanting WomenFinding Love With Lesbian Matchmaker Dr. Frankie Bashan
Talking about lesbian love and dating with Dr. Frankie Bashan…
Dr. Frankie Bashan is a lesbian matchmaker, relationship expert, tv personality, event planner and doctor of clinical psychology specializing in serving the LGBT community.
Dr. Frankie is the founder and CEO of Little Gay Book: the premiere lesbian matchmaking service in the United States, bridging connections between women who have everything – except for someone to share it with.
Connecting women all over the country…
When we’re not in the middle of a global p...2021-02-091h 10Behind The BiteEp 21 - Friends With Benefits: What Happens When 2 Life-long Friends Bring Their Professional PerspectivesHow do you adopt a glowing body image that is healthy and sustainable? What power lies in the influences that enter your life from your surroundings? Can boundaries help you reach your ideal self?In this podcast episode, I speak with Marisa Abzug Callender and Dr. Frankie Bashan about all things body image, confidence, and self-worth!Sign up for the FREE e-course to understanding your eating disorder and embarking on the road to recovery. SHOW NOTES: Click hereFollow me on Instagram @behind_the_bite_podcastVisit the website: w...2021-02-0439 min
Going Deep: A Gay Guide to RealityExploring Celebration with Sister Unity!Hello GerleMen listeners.She is hilarious. She is irreverent. She is devastating in her academic acumen and her theatrical talent.And, although we may be laughing, her messages are packed with wisdom and insights many listeners will find life-affirming.While we pause our regular episodes and prepare a spectacular Season 2 of the GerleMen Podcast, we’d like you to enjoy some short, bonus episodes, co-hosted by my dear friend and rambunctious orange Nun, Sister Unity of the Los Angeles House of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence....2020-08-2108 min
Going Deep: A Gay Guide to RealityIntuition is Everything with Dr. Frankie BashanToday I talk with Dr. Frankie Bashan, renowned relationship coach and dating expert. Dr. Frankie Bashan (or, just Dr. Frankie) is the founder of Little Gay Book, the most successful exclusively lesbian (and bisexual women) matchmaking agency in the United States. I wanted to interview Dr. Frankie Bashan because of her authenticity, her dignity, and her courage to serve her community. She leads by example. If I am reincarnated as a lesbian, I hope to be exactly like Dr. Frankie Bashan. Dr. Frankie launched “Little Gay Book” and quickly became the premiere lesbian matc...2020-05-0156 min
The Coaching ShowThe Queer Kid Creative & Happily Ever AfterGuest 1: Lindsay AmerSummary:Talking to kids about gender and sexuality can seem daunting, but it is incredibly important! Lindz will talk about why it’s important and how to get past some of the roadblocks in the way of having these conversations. They’ll go over a little gender and sexualities 101 and talk about some tools to help kids understand gender and sexuality too like bringing diverse picture books into your home library, talking about pronouns and diverse family structures, and using Lindz’s web series, Queer Kid Stuff!Show N...2020-04-021h 01
Life Can Change In A MomentModern Dating With Dr. Frankie Bashan PsyDFor Dr Frankie, our PsyD professional matchmaker starts by sharing the moment her mother attempted suicide and was in a mental hospital for bipolar. As we are frequently seeing on this show, the midst of life turmoil often leads to our biggest moments—her first of what would become a career of matchmaking and making people happy—none other than her very own father! This one is worth listening to. Dr. Frankie Bashan is a renowned relationship coach and dating expert. She is a licensed clinical psychologist with over a decade of experience working with couples an...2019-11-2600 min
The Upgrade by LifehackerHow to Find Love, With Matchmaker Dr. Frankie Bashan (RECAST)How do we even begin to find true love in a messy world of online dating, ghosting, and benching? Matchmaker Dr. Frankie Bashan tells us why people are using real-live intermediaries like herself to get dates. Etiquette expert Daniel Post Senning takes on the intricacies of Tinder etiquette. And Lifehacker’s food editor Claire Lower mixes up a very sexy three-ingredient cocktail.If you love this episode, please rate and review us on Apple Podcasts because our love language is “service” and we need you to do things for us before we truly feel the depth of your ard...2019-11-1853 min
The Nosh PodcastDating & Deadlifting with Dr. Frankie BashanIn this episode, we are so honored to interview the one and only Dr. Frankie Bashan!
She tells us how she got into matchmaking as a young teenager, how she serendipitously got on the show, and gave us insight into the matchmaking process on MTV's Are You The One?!
We talk about polyamory and open relationships vs. monogamy, why dating apps aren't working anymore, and how to develop a greater sense of self worth.
We end the conversation, as always, with Dr. Frankie awards--this time given out by Dr. Frankie herself!
To find out more about Dr. Frankie, you can...2019-10-2100 min
The Hitched Podcast: Perfecting Your MarriageEpisode 540: Why Do People Maintain Their Car Better Than Their Relationships?Dr. Frankie Bashan joins the podcast to explore how the metaphor of taking care of your car translates to your relationship... and some people actually do take better care of their car.2019-08-3024 min
Good Morning LaLa LandDr. Frankie BashanDr. Frankie Bashan by Good Morning LaLa Land2019-08-2107 min
It's ComplicatedAre You The One, with Dr. Frankie BashanDating and relationship expert and matchmaking extraordinaire Dr. Frankie Bashan joins us to discuss how to meet your match, why dating is so difficult right now, the dilemma of being an oversharer, how to tell if someone might be a commitment phobe, why you should always have some similarities AND differences, whether you’re being roached, zombied, or kittenfished and more in the latest in bad dating trends! Find The One with Dr. Frankie: @drfrankiebashan https://drfrankie.com/ Keep Up with Jen & NotJen: @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @comp...2019-07-1738 min
The Art of AuthenticityDr. Frankie Bashan: How to Find Authentic LoveOn the show today we are joined by Dr. Frankie Bashan, psychologist, matchmaker and relationship guru! She has over 20 years of experience working with couples and individuals and has managed to find her calling and passion in a life devoted to helping others to find love. Her company, Little Gay Book, serves the lesbian and bisexual community but you better believe that the ideas she shares on the show are applicable to everyone! Dr. Frankie is so honest and hilarious as she tells us about her early pull towards matchmaking and how she found her father a new partner...2019-03-1445 minThe Upgrade by LifehackerHow to Find Love, With Matchmaker Dr. Frankie BashanHow do we even begin to find true love in a messy world of online dating, ghosting, and benching? Matchmaker Dr. Frankie Bashan tells us why people are using real-live intermediaries like herself to get dates. Etiquette expert Daniel Post Senning takes on the intricacies of Tinder etiquette. And Lifehacker’s food editor Claire Lower mixes up a very sexy three-ingredient cocktail.If you love this episode, please rate and review us on Apple Podcasts because our love language is “service” and we need you to do things for us before we truly feel the depth of your ar...2018-12-1053 min
Question Reality RadioOctober 9, 2011PSYCHOLOGIST | RELATIONSHIP EXPERT - This week our guest is Dr. Frankie Bashan. She
completed her undergraduate work at Northeastern University in Boston, MA with a dual degree in Business and
Communications. She ventured west and attended the Wright Institute in Berkeley, CA and received her Masters
and Doctorate (PsyD) in Clinical Psychology. Professional Areas of Expertise: Depression, Anxiety,
Post-Partum Depression, Parenting Multiples, Relationship Issues, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Career
Issues
DR. FRANKIE BASHAN WEBSITE:
drfrankiebashan.com
littlegaybook.com2011-10-1055 min