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What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny MomsDEEP DIVE: Dr. Gabor Maté and Dr. Gordon Neufeld on Maintaining Healthy Connection with Our KidsThis week, we're revisiting our interview with Dr. Gabor Maté and Dr. Gordon Neufeld. In the revised edition of their book HOLD ONTO YOUR KIDS, Dr. Maté and Dr. Neufeld explain the crucial importance of remaining attached to our children as they grow.
Dr. Gordon Neufeld is an internationally renowned psychologist and foremost authority on child development, and founder of the Neufeld Institute. Dr. Gabor Maté is a renowned speaker and bestselling author, highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress and childhood development.
Amy, Dr. Maté, and Dr. Neufeld dis...
2025-11-1730 min
Mind ArchitectDr Gordon Neufeld: Your Child NEEDS to Cry | The Science of Attachment, Futility & Emotional HealingDr. Gordon Neufeld is a developmental psychologist with over 50 years of clinical experience and a graduate degree from the University of British Columbia, where he taught psychology for 20 years. He is the author of the international bestseller "Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers", co-authored with Dr. Gabor Maté.His groundbreaking contributions to developmental psychology include the six stages of attachment development, the construct of counterwill, and his revolutionary understanding of how tears and futility drive adaptation and transformation.In this profound talk, Dr. Neufeld explains his attachment framework a...
2025-11-121h 44
Parents of the Year181. How can parents set boundaries without punishment?Parenting expert and therapist Todd Sarner joins Andrew and Caroline to unpack what it really means to guide children without shame or punishment. From his 20+ years of experience, Todd outlines the three pillars of proactive parenting: strengthening attachment and connection, creating a rhythm and environment that supports kids, and teaching natural consequences without shame. Together, they explore how separation anxiety shows up at bedtime, mornings, and school transitions, and why “collect before you direct” can change everything. This episode gives parents practical tools to reduce power struggles, hold boundaries with empathy, and raise resilient, emotionally secure...
2025-10-0153 min
LEARN PodcastsShiftED Podcast #67 • In Conversation with Dr. Gordon Neufeld: The Power of PlayfulnessHave we been approaching education all wrong? In this mind-shifting conversation with renowned developmental psychologist Dr. Gordon Neufeld, we explore the invisible but essential foundation of all learning: relationship.As another school year begins, Dr. Neufeld challenges educators to recognize their primary role as "attachment agents" rather than just instructors. The modern educational system often separates children from their natural "villages of cascading care," creating an environment nature never intended. When this happens, our first responsibility is to help children maintain connections with their primary caregivers while building secure attachments with us as teachers.Most...
2025-09-2330 min
No One Told UsRewind: Bridging Separation at Bedtime with Dr. Gordon NeufeldBridging Separation at Bedtime with Dr. Gordon Neufeld @neufeldinstitute
This week Rachael has a very special guest, Dr. Gordon Neufeld, to discuss the importance of attachment and the challenges parents face when it comes to bedtime and sleep. Dr. Neufeld is a renowned authority on child development and you will learn so much in this powerful episode!
Here’s what they discuss inside this important episode:
How attachment is a fundamental aspect of child development
Learn all about Dr. Neufeld's Model of the Six Stages of Attachment
The crucia...
2025-09-1842 min
Mind ArchitectPărintele perfect NU EXISTĂ. În schimb, iată CE FACE DIFERENȚA. Cu Diana și Bogdan de la ParentEDPrimul episod din seria ParentED te introduce în lumea parentingului conștient, bazat pe cercetările lui Gordon Neufeld, Daniel Siegel și Gabor Maté. Diana și Bogdan Bălan, fondatorii ParentED Fest, dezvăluie cum teoria atașamentului poate transforma relația părinte-copil.DESPRE CE VEI ÎNVĂȚA:Cele 6 etape de atașament ale lui Gordon NeufeldDe ce cortexul prefrontal se maturizează abia la 25 de aniDiferența între a fi răspunsul copilului vs. a avea răspunsuriCum să pui limite sănătoase fără să rupi conexiuneaPrincipiul futilității: de la furie la tristețeSecretul "iubirii ex...
2025-09-092h 05
The FOCUS Podcast with TaraleeEpisode 14: Why Connection Changes Everything- A Conversation with Todd SarnerEpisode 14 – Why Connection Changes Everything: A Conversation with Todd Sarner What if the most effective parenting strategy isn't a strategy at all—but a relationship? In this powerful and heartfelt episode, Taralee sits down with parenting coach and psychotherapist Todd Sarner, founder of Transformative Parenting and former faculty member at the Neufeld Institute, for a conversation that every parent needs to hear. Todd shares his personal journey into parenting work, shaped by his own adolescence and deeply informed by attachment science and the teachings of Dr. Gordon Neufeld (Hold On to Your Kids). Toge...
2025-07-1853 min
Oh Baby!Dr. Gordon Neufeld on Holding on To Your KidsWorld-renowned developmentalist, clinical psychologist, author and attachment authority Dr. Gordon Neufeld explains how we can hold on to our kids.
2025-07-151h 36
Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens220: How to Stay Connected When Teens Pull Away. Guests: Gordon Neufeld, PhD & Gabor Maté, MDAre you struggling to connect with your teenager in the digital age? Dr. Gabor Maté and Dr. Gordon Neufeld join Reena & Dr. Lisa to reveal groundbreaking insights into parent-child relationships, tech addiction, and the secret to maintaining a strong bond during the challenging teen years. Discover the neuroscience of attachment, the dangers of digital devices, and how to create a warm, supportive environment that helps teens thrive. This episode is a must-listen for any parent feeling lost or frustrated in the parenting journey.
We want to hear from you! What's your biggest challenge in connecting with your t...
2025-05-2041 min
make joy normal: cozy homeschoolingHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - an interview with Dr. Gordon Neufeldsend us a text via Fan Mail!Such a pleasure to welcome Dr. Gordon Neufeld, author of the book Hold On to Your Kids of which I have discussed frequently on this podcast and creator of the Neufeld Institute. We discuss the heart of attachment parenting, common misconceptions, and in depth on our need for connection and relationship. 00:40 - Welcome and introduction4:02 - Attachment misconceptions5:45 - Your child's best bet 8:11 - Continuity of connection 10:12 - Grace applied to parenting 12:21 - Facing togetherness not separation 17:43 - Growing pains and healing
2025-04-1157 min
The Motherkind PodcastMOMENT | World leading child psychologist: "THIS is the only parenting skill you really need" - with Dr. Gordon NeufeldMotherkind Moment is your place for calm and connection and a shift in perspective before the week ahead. Today we're joined by world-leading child psychologist Dr. Gordon Neufeld who discusses the essence of parenting. He explains why confidence is key in our relationships with our partners and our children.For more powerful insights from Dr Gordon Neufeld listen to the full episode here: How to raise emotionally healthy childrenClick Here to order your copy of 'Motherkind: A New way to thrive in a w...
2025-04-0710 min
Robot UnicornThe Current Children's Mental Health Crisis with Dr. Gordon NeufeldIn this powerful episode, Jess sits down with renowned developmental psychologist Dr. Gordon Neufeld to unpack the growing mental health crisis among children today. Dr. Neufeld shares how children are losing their ability to feel deeply, struggling to engage in true play, and searching for belonging in all the wrong places. He challenges our desire to raise independent kids, calling it “one of the most ridiculous things,” and instead emphasizes the critical role of connection and attachment. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of why you are the answer to your child’s struggles—and how to step fully...
2025-03-3157 min
The Gifts of TraumaParenting: A Spontaneous Mutual Unfolding of Potential with Dr Gordon Neufeld Hosted by Rosemary Davies-Janes Produced by J'aime Rothbard Join us for this rich, frank conversation that roves from Gordon's own boundless curiosity and shame -free upbringing, to the eternal wisdom of his bestselling book, Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers. In addition to speaking about parenting, grandparenting, and the source of emotional well-being, he touches on his initial encounter with fellow UBC student, Gabor Maté, who, after being one of Gordon's, "best students, ever," collaborated with him on his book. Dr Neufeld's approach to parenting prioritizes e...
2025-02-1351 min
Always Better than Yesterday with Ryan Hartley | A Podcast for Heart Centred LeadersEp 292 Interview Sessions with Dr. Gordon Neufeld | Making Sense of Adolescence - Seven Rites of PassageDr. Gordon Neufeld, founder of The Neufeld Institute and
Best-Selling Author of Hold on to Your Kids – Why Parents Must Matter More than Peers (co-authored with Dr. Gabor Mate) returns to the podcast.
Despite being written more than 20 years ago, Hold on to Your Kids proves to be more relevant than ever. The book was re-released once again in 2024 with an additional chapter on the roots of the current crisis of mental health in our children.
In this conversation we talk about making sense of adolescence and The Neufeld Institute’s upcomi...
2025-01-221h 04
Šala za staršeGordon Neufeld, razvojni psiholog: Brez zdrave navezanosti ni čustveno zdravih otrokGordon Neufeld je eden največjih strokovnjakov na področju vzgoje. Je oče petih otrok, dedek sedmih vnukov. Je razvojni in klinični psiholog, ki piše o dobrobiti navezanosti otroka na starše. Zdrava navezanost namreč otroka opremi za življenje, mu zagotovi orodja, da se zna spopasti z izzivi, poleg tega pa je znak, da ima pri starših vedno trdno oporo in razumevanje, ko to potrebuje. Gordon Neufeld poudarja, da danes živimo v veliki krizi zaupanja v starševstvo in o tem, da družabna omrežja vse bolj krhajo naše odnose z otroki.
2024-12-2819 min
The Book Cast بوك كاستHold On To Your Kids" by Dr. Gordon NeufeldHold On To Your Kids" by Dr. Gordon Neufeld
2024-11-1510 min
Read Book Briefs PodcastThe Importance of Attachment: Understanding and Nurturing Parent-Child RelationshipsWhat are some practical examples Neufeld provides for improving parent-child relationships?
1. Spending more quality time together, such as engaging in activities that both the parent and child enjoy.
2. Encouraging open and honest communication between parent and child.
3. Setting boundaries and limits with love and understanding.
4. Creating a safe and secure attachment with the child by being emotionally available and responsive to their needs.
5. Modeling appropriate behavior and values for the child to follow.
6. Providing consistent and stable routines for the child to feel secure.
7. Empathizing...
2024-09-1214 min
Resúmenes de lectura rápidaThe Power of Parental Influence: Understanding and Implementing the Principles of 'Hold On to Your Kids'
How does Neufeld recommend handling peer pressure in children?
Gordon Neufeld recommends handling peer pressure in children by building a strong parent-child attachment relationship and fostering the child's natural instincts for belonging and loyalty. Parents should prioritize connection, empathy, and emotional support in order to provide children with a sense of security and confidence. Additionally, parents can help children develop a strong sense of self and critical thinking skills so that they are better able to resist negative peer influences. By maintaining open communication and providing guidance and support, parents can help children navigate peer pressure in a...
2024-09-1214 min
Read Book Briefs PodcastUnderstanding the Power of Parental Influence: Hold On to Your KidsWhat is the main argument of "Hold On to Your Kids"?
The main argument of "Hold On to Your Kids" by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté is that in modern society, children are increasingly becoming more influenced and attached to their peers rather than their parents or caregivers. The book argues that the loss of parental attachment is leading to a rise in behavior issues and mental health problems among children, and emphasizes the importance of maintaining strong parent-child bonds to ensure healthy development.
How does Gordon Neufeld define attachment in the context of parenting?
2024-09-1014 min
Reading Recap: Book SummariesThe Importance of Parental Attachment: Insights from 'Hold On to Your Kids' by Gordon NeufeldHow does Neufeld suggest parents can counteract negative peer influence?
Neufeld suggests that parents can counteract negative peer influence by building a strong attachment and connection with their children. This involves spending quality time with them, listening to their thoughts and feelings, and providing guidance and support. By fostering a close relationship with their children, parents can help them develop a strong sense of identity and self-worth, making them less susceptible to negative peer pressure. Additionally, parents can help their children develop critical thinking skills and the ability to stand up for themselves, teaching them how to make good choices...
2024-09-1014 min
the Bestsellers SummaryThe Book Hold On To Your Kids: A Summary Guidehapter 1 What's The Book Hold On To Your Kids
The book "Hold On To Your Kids" by Gordon Neufeld addresses the challenges that parents face in raising children in today's society, which often prioritizes peer relationships over those with parents. Neufeld offers valuable insights and practical strategies for parents to strengthen their bond with their children and regain their influence in their lives. The book emphasizes the importance of attachment and connection between parents and children in fostering healthy development and resilience.
Chapter 2 The Background of The Book Hold On To Your...
2024-08-3014 min
Bestsellers ClubHold On To Your Kids: A Summary and Analysis
Chapter 1 What's Hold On To Your Kids
"Hold On to Your Kids" is a parenting book written by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté. It explores how modern society has weakened the attachment between parents and children, and how this has contributed to a host of problems such as peer orientation, bullying, aggression, and attachment disorders. The book offers insights and advice on how parents can strengthen their bond with their children in order to raise healthy, well-adjusted individuals.
Chapter 2 The Background of Hold On To Your Kids
Hold On to Your Kids was p...
2024-08-3014 min
Bookey En(Book Review and Notes)Book Hold On To Your Kids: A Summary Analysis
Chapter 1 What's Book Hold On To Your Kids
"Hold On To Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers" by Gordon Neufeld explores the impact of peer orientation on children and the crucial role that parents play in helping them develop healthy attachments. The book discusses how modern culture and technology are often undermining the parent-child bond, and provides practical advice for parents on how to strengthen their connection with their children and navigate the challenges of peer pressure. Neufeld argues that when parents prioritize their relationship with their children, they can help them thrive and...
2024-08-3014 min
Bookey SummaryThe Importance of Parental Attachment: A Guide to Holding on to Your KidsChapter 1:Summary of Hold On To Your Kids"Hold On To Your Kids" by Gordon Neufeld is a parenting guide that discusses the importance of attachment in raising children. Neufeld argues that in today's society, many parents have relinquished their natural role as the primary caregivers and influencers in their children's lives, leading to a disconnection between parents and children.The book outlines the negative effects of peer orientation, which occurs when children prioritize their relationships with peers over their relationships with their parents. Neufeld explains the importance of maintaining a strong a...
2024-08-3014 min
MIRÁNDONOSEP2 | Cómo construir vínculos seguros en un mundo moderno con Marcela Escalera.Marcela Escalera es la directora del reconocido Instituto Neufeld en México y una de las voces más importantes en el campo de la crianza y relaciones humanas. Marcela conversa con Marco acerca de cómo los vínculos seguros son la base de nuestra salud mental y como hoy en día, necesitamos mirar como algunos de los "trends" nos impiden criar a niños independientes y resilientes y sostener, entre adultos, vínculos de amor que nos hagan sentir a salvo y entonces listos para enfrentar el mundo con valentía y fortaleza.
Notas:
Gabor Mate And Gord...
2024-08-161h 08
The Baby Sleep Connection: Holistic help for tired, responsive parents who don't want to sleep trainEp 17: 3 Ways to Connect With Your Baby for Better Sleep and Easier ParentingHeather Boyd, Occupational Therapist, mom of 3, and certified Infant and Family Sleep Specialist, talks about the value of connection and self-regulation in helping make transitions (including bedtime) easier.
Parenting is hard. Let’s find ways to use connection to ease the load.
Have a listen to hear about:
How Gordon Neufeld’s approach to attachment supports cooperation
Keeping your dignity intact through parenting challenges
“Leading the Dance” through attachment
3 ways to use connection: Physical connection, Silliness, and Stories
2 ways to ramp up connection...
2024-08-0127 min
School to Homeschool54. Technology: Interview with Tamara Strijack--Clinical CounselorLet's talk technology and kids! Join me as I welcome back, Tamara Strijack, Author, Clinical Counselor, Academic Dean of the Neufeld Institute, and daughter of world renowned attachment psychologist, Dr. Gordon Neufeld (author of Hold Onto Your Kids). In this, Tamara discusses technology and kids...what do we do??!! Hold Onto Your Kids on Audible Hold Onto Your Kids Paperback Reclaiming Our Students by Tamara Strijack Learn More about the Work of Tamara Strijack Learn More about The Neufeld Institute Resources for Parents from The Neufeld Institute: Hom...
2024-07-0151 minNo One Told UsEpisode 45: Bridging Separation at Bedtime with Dr. Gordon NeufeldEpisode 45: Bridging Separation at Bedtime with Dr. Gordon Neufeld @neufeldinstituteThis week Rachael has a very special guest, Dr. Gordon Neufeld, to discuss the importance of attachment and the challenges parents face when it comes to bedtime and sleep. Dr. Neufeld is a renowned authority on child development and you will learn so much in this powerful episode!Here’s what they discuss inside this important episode:
How attachment is a fundamental aspect of child development
Learn all about Dr. Neufeld's Model of the Six Stages of Attachment
Th...
2024-06-2742 min
Homespun: Create the Life You Crave033 | It All Starts With Me, Awakening You True Self with Deb BlumDeb Blum is a wife, a mama and a women's transformational, empowerment coach. Deb saw, through her own journey in motherhood and as a wife, a need for women to awaken their entire being and honour their path to themselves. Deb's program, The Whole Soul Way™ a guides women on a journey home to themselves so they can experience the deep fulfillment and inner peace they long for, become even more of a powerhouse than they were before by living their lives true to themselves.
In this episode Deb shares her journey of self discovery, healing work sh...
2024-06-2455 min
La nature de l'enfance#29 - Les racines de l’attachement : comprendre ce qui fait grandir inspiré de Dr Gordon Neufeld🎙️ Introduction aux racines de l'attachement : comprendre ce qui importe le plus, avec Dr Gordon NeufeldSelon les Dr Gabor Maté et Gordon Neufeld, auteurs de Hold on to Your Kids , la conscience de l'attachement est probablement le savoir le plus précieux que les parents pourraient posséder. L'attachement est la base de tout : c'est à travers lui que nous transmettons l'amour, la guidance, le repos et la connexion .Dans cet épisode solo, je vous propose une introduction aux 6 racines de l'attachement développées par le Dr Gordon Neufe...
2024-06-1313 min
Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & MoreKeeping a Secure Attachment - Dr. Gorden Neufeld [473]There’s no more important factor in parenting than attachment. Learn all about attachment and the six stages of attachment that our children go through, as well as the problem of “peer orientation.” Hunter talks to a foremost authority on child development, Dr. Gordon Neufeld about why we need to hold on to our kids.ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is the host Mindful Parenting Podcast (Top 0.5% podcast ), global speaker, number 1 bestselling author of “Raising Good Humans” and “Raising Good Humans Every Day,” Mindfulness Meditation teacher and creator of the Mindful Parenting Course and Teacher Traini...
2024-05-141h 03
60 Mindful Minutes"Hold On To Your Kids" with Andee MartineauAuthor Andee Martineu joins us to discuss one of her favorite books, Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté. Guest Bio Andee Martineau is a parenting coach and mom of six who specializes in helping parents all over the world raise their kids without yelling, ultimatums or bribes. Using her Connect Method Parenting techniques, she has taught thousands of moms to feel more in control of family life, stress less, get their kids to listen, and more. Andee is a former registered n...
2024-04-1647 min60 Mindful Minutes"Hold On To Your Kids" with Andee MartineauAuthor Andee Martineu joins us to discuss one of her favorite books, Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté. Guest Bio Andee Martineau is a parenting coach and mom of six who specializes in helping parents all over the world raise their kids without yelling, ultimatums or bribes. Using her Connect Method Parenting techniques, she has taught thousands of moms to feel more in control of family life, stress less, get their kids to listen, and more. Andee is a former registered n...
2024-04-1647 min
Between The LinesEp 17: Hold On To Your KidsEpisode Title: Strengthening Parent-Child Connections with "Hold On to Your Kids" Podcast: Between The Lines Hosts: Leanne Tran and Chelle Griffin Episode Summary: In this episode of "Between The Lines," hosts Leanne Tran and Chelle Griffin discuss "Hold On to Your Kids" by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Mate. The book emphasizes the importance of parental influence over peer influence in children's lives, highlighting its relevance today with a new section on responding to screens. The hosts reflect on the book's textbook-like nature and its impact on their parenting practices, including the...
2024-04-0751 min
Self DirectedDr. Gordon Neufeld | Hold On To Your Kids: Unveiling the Power of Parental AttachmentWe celebrate the 20th anniversary of Dr. Gordon Neufeld's seminal book, "Hold On To Your Kids: Why Parents Matter More Than Peers," which he co-wrote with Dr. Gabor Maté. Gordon's work has transformed our understanding of child development through the lens of parental attachment. In this episode, Gordon shares the critical importance of maintaining strong, nurturing connections between parents and children. His insights delve into the complex dynamics of family and educational systems, advocating for a balance between togetherness and individuality and challenging prevailing attitudes toward parenting and education.Throughout our discussion, Dr. Neufeld emphasizes the...
2024-04-0456 min
What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny MomsFresh Take: Dr. Gabor Maté and Dr. Gordon Neufeld on Maintaining Healthy Connection with Our KidsHow can we maintain a strong attachment to our kids as they begin to look to their peers for approval instead of their parents? Dr. Gabor Maté and Dr. Gordon Neufeld explain the crucial importance of remaining attached to our children as they grow in their new and revised edition of their book HOLD ONTO YOUR KIDS.Dr. Gordon Neufeld is an internationally renowned psychologist and foremost authority on child development, and founder of the Neufeld Institute. Dr. Gabor Maté is a renowned speaker and bestselling author, highly sought after for his expertise on a range of to...
2024-03-2930 min
Parenting with ImpactEp 152: Adapting as a Parent: How to Hold On While Letting GoDeborah MacNamara, a highly experienced developmentalist, brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to the field of parenting and child development. With a PhD and years of working alongside renowned author Gordon Neufeld, she has dedicated her career to understanding how children grow and thrive. Deborah's extensive background in academia, counseling, and teaching has allowed her to deeply immerse herself in the study of human development for nearly two decades. As a faculty member at the esteemed Neufeld Institute, she continues to contribute to the field through her research, writing, and online presence. Drawing from her personal experiences with highly...
2024-03-0629 min
la psychoed079 | Charles Lefebvre, ps.éd. Un parcours sous le signe de la rencontre entre la psychoéducation et l’approche du Dr Gordon Neufeld.Cette semaine sur le podcast, je m'entretiens avec Charles Lefebvre, psychoéducateur et personne ressource aux services régionaux de soutien et d’expertise en trouble du comportement dans la région du Lac St-Jean. En abordant son parcours professionnel, il nous partage des éléments, entre autres, sur les codes de vies, les conséquences éducatives, les centres de soutien bienveillant et l'approche de Gordon Neufeld. On y fait aussi une incursion sur l'importance de prendre soin des gens qui prennent soin et comment cela est une responsabilité collective et non pas individuelle. Bonne écoute !
2024-02-271h 26School to Homeschool35. Getting Their Hearts Back! Tamara Strijack, Clinical Counselor, InterviewHave you lost your child's heart, but you desperately want it back?! Join me as I interview Tamara Strijack, Author, Clinical Counselor, Academic Dean of the Neufeld Institute, and daughter of world renowned attachment psychologist, Dr. Gordon Neufeld (author of Hold Onto Your Kids). In this, Tamara discusses attachement and shares personal experience as a mother coupled with decades of experience as a therapist to help parents get the hearts of their children back! Hold Onto Your Kids on Audible Hold Onto Your Kids Paperback Car Radio/MTV Unplugged Live Version by 21 Pilots
2024-02-191h 06
The Biology of Trauma® With Dr. AimieParenting in a Traumatizing World: The answer Our Children Need with Dr. Gordon NeufeldWhat is the best protection we can give our children as we raise them in a traumatizing world? In this episode, we will be talking about parenting and the crisis of confidence so many parents face when it comes to knowing what our children need. As parents who do not want to pass along their own traumas to their children, we want to set them up to be happy and know inside themselves that the opinions and powers of others aren't what dictates their worth. Dr. Gordon Neufeld is a developmental psychologist known for his w...
2024-01-2633 min
Julie in Conversation'Nourished: Connection, Food, And Caring For Our Kids (and everyone else we love) with Deborah MacNamara, PhD."Just because you eat food doesn't mean you're nourished." Deborah MacNamara returns to the podcast with podcast host Julie Cusmariu to discuss her groundbreaking new book, 'Nourished: Connection, Food, And Caring For Our Kids (and everyone else we love). Deborah MacNamara takes us on a deep and insightful journey through storytelling, a fantastic riddle (the answer to which is revealed in this podcast at the end), provocative questions, developmental science and robust research to help us make sense of our relationship to food and to reclaim nourishment. I couldn't agree more with...
2024-01-241h 23
Bookey SummaryParenting in the Digital Age: Nurturing Strong Bonds with Your ChildrenChapter 1:what is Hold On To Your Kids book about"Hold On To Your Kids" by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté is a book that discusses the importance of attachment between parents and their children. The authors argue that in today's society, children are increasingly detached from their parents and are influenced more by their peers and popular culture. This detachment can lead to various problems such as aggression, addiction, and apathy.The book emphasizes that to raise emotionally healthy and resilient children, parents need to establish a strong bond with t...
2024-01-1514 min
the Bestsellers SummaryBuilding Stronger Parent-Child Bonds: Exploring Hold On To Your KidsChapter 1:what is Hold On To Your Kids book about
"Hold On To Your Kids" by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté is a book that explores the importance of parents and caregivers "holding on" to their children in an increasingly detached and distracted world. The authors argue that the natural attachment between parents and their children is being undermined by societal factors such as peer orientation, technology, and overexposure to adult-like experiences.
The book emphasizes the significance of maintaining strong bonds with children in order to foster healthy development and emotional well-being. Neu...
2024-01-1514 min
Teach Your KidsDr. Leonard Sax on Understanding the Academic Achievement Gap Between Boys and GirlsSELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: LinkedIn | Website | X | Instagram | Substack | Facebook | TikTokManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookLeonard Sax: Website | Email Join our premium community for expert support and advice on homeschoolingTeach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesDr. Gordon Neufeld on Redefining Parental Power & ConnectionBooks, Articles, and PublicationsThe Collapse of Parenting: How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them Like Grown-Ups - Leonard SaxBoys Adrift - Leonard SaxGirls on the Edge: Why So Many Girls Are Anxious, Wired, and Obsessed--And W...
2023-12-0659 min
Bookey App 30 mins Book Summaries Knowledge Notes and MoreHold On to Your Kids Book: A Powerful Guide to Parental InfluenceChapter 1 Reveal the true moral of the Hold On to Your Kids bookHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers is a book written by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté. In this book, Neufeld and Maté explore the challenges parents face in modern society, where the influence of peers can sometimes outweigh the influence of parents. They delve into the importance of attachment between parents and children, and how to strengthen that bond to ensure children can navigate the world confidently and securely. The authors provide insight and guidance on va...
2023-12-0414 min
Always Better than Yesterday with Ryan Hartley | A Podcast for Heart Centred LeadersEp 245 Interview Sessions with Dr. Deborah MacNamara | Nourished: Connection, Food and Caring for our KidsOn episode 245 I welcome Dr. Deboarah MacNamara to the podcast.
Dr. Deborah is a counsellor and scientist; storyteller and teacher; guide and Mother. Deborah makes sense of kids for adults who care for them believing this to be the path for transforming families and communities, society, our world as a whole.
Deborah serves as a leading international expert who provides counselling and educational services to support parents, professionals, and educators. She is also a professional speaker who has presented to the United Nations and The Dalai Lama Centre for...
2023-11-221h 04Teach Your KidsLesley Grossblatt: Unschooling With Two Full-Time JobsSELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: LinkedIn | Website | X | Instagram | Substack | Facebook | TikTokManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookLesley Grossblatt: LinkedIn | Medium | XJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceSparking Independent Learning with Strewing | Modulo - Lesley GrossblattTeach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesRaising Gifted Learners With Megan Cannella: Insights From a Gifted Learning Specialist About Identifying and Supporting Gifted KidsDr. Gordon Neufeld on Redefining Parental Power & ConnectionBut what about socialization?Teach Your Kids Blog PostsBut what about...
2023-11-151h 07
Herzensbildung - der Podcast für Lehrkräfte und Eltern3# Die Grundlagen der Bindungs- und Bedürfnisorientierung - Bindung im Klassenraum-SchülermotivationIn dieser inspirierenden Podcastfolge tauchen wir tief in die Grundlagen der Bindungs- und Bedürfnisorientierung ein, basierend auf den Erkenntnissen von Gordon Neufeld. Erfahre mehr über die verschiedenen Bindungsebenen und entdecke, wie eine kraftvolle Verbindung im Klassenzimmer aufgebaut werden kann. Diese Episode bietet dir nicht nur einen Überblick, sondern auch konkrete Einblicke, wie du eine starke Bindung in der Schulgemeinschaft fördern kannst. Lass dich von den Möglichkeiten inspirieren! Podcastempfehlung: https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/inbindung-der-christliche-podcast-f%C3%BCr-bindungs-und/id1530085685 Bücherempfehlung: Unsere Kinder brauchen uns (von Dr. Gordon Neufeld) und Vertrauen, Spielen , wachsen ( von Debora MacNamaara)
2023-11-1428 min
La nature de l'enfance#15 - Le repos émotionnel : un besoin essentiel pour la sécurité intérieure des enfants🎙️ Le besoin de repos émotionnels : offrir à nos enfants la sécurité dont ils ont besoinDans cet épisode, je vous parle d'un concept essentiel : le besoin de repos émotionnels , un des trois besoins irréductibles selon le psychologue de renom Gordon Neufeld , fondateur de l'Institut Neufeld.Le repos émotionnel est directement lié au besoin d'attachement . Nos enfants sont en quête constante d'un lien sécurisant avec leurs adultes de référence, et c'est à nous, parents ou éducateurs, de leur offrir les conditions nécessaires pour qu'ils puisse...
2023-11-0916 minTeach Your KidsDr. Gordon Neufeld on Redefining Parental Power & ConnectionSELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: Website | LinkedIn | X | Instagram | Substack | FacebookManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookNeufeld Institute: Website | Facebook | YouTubeJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceTeach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesHomeschooling a Quantum Innovator: Meet 15-Year-Old JasmineTeach Your Kids Blog PostsBut what about "Socialization"?BooksHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - Gordon Neufeld Posts Parenting in Stressful Time Part I: How to be Your Ch...
2023-10-1151 min
Conscious Fertility50: How to Hold on to Your Kids with Dr. Gordon Neufeld In this episode, we are honored to host Dr. Gordon Neufeld, an internationally renowned expert in child development and attachment theory. Dr. Neufeld takes us on a profound journey into the realm of attachment, emphasizing its pivotal role in shaping children's lives. He elucidates attachment's essence as the bedrock of human relationships and growth, highlighting its influence on emotional, psychological, and social dimensions of development. Throughout the discussion, we emphasize the crucial role parents hold in nurturing these connections, underscoring the essential components for their thriving – encompassing love, warmth, and an unwavering sense of belonging. Dr. Neufeld al...
2023-10-0359 min
The Gavin Sisters Wellness ShowHold On To Your Kids- Dr Gordon NeufeldGordon Neufeld is a developmental psychologist from Vancouver. He is the author of the book Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers (co-authored with Gabor Mate). Neufeld is founder of the Neufeld Institute based in Vancouver, which provides education and training for parents and professionals based on Neufeld's attachment theories. https://neufeldinstitute.org/ CTA links: Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE or FOLLOW so you don't miss any new episodes, follow us on the links below for more and please review us, even one line helps!!
2023-09-071h 04
Voices of Your Village237 - Why parents need to matter more than peers with Gordon NeufeldWelcome back to Voices of Your Village. Today we get to chat about the difference between the peer relationship and the parent or caregiver relationship. We get a lot of questions about this and really what comes up there's and really looking at how do we separate that relationship? What's different about the relationship with peers or other humans in the world than our parents or caregivers? How does it show up? How does it affect us as humans, and how does that matter? What is our job as parents or caregivers in showing up for our tiny humans...
2023-06-231h 05
Gender: A Wider Lens109 — What If We Are All Wrong: A Mother’s Regret with RoseThis episode is a powerful and important conversation exposing the increasingly devastating impact of the conflation between gender identity theory and the experience of living with gender dysphoria.In this episode, Sasha & Stella speak with Rose who wishes to remain anonymous. Rose is the mother of two young sons and lives in the United States. In August of 2022, she published the piece “True Believer” on the Parents with Inconvenient Truths around Trans (PITT) Substack. She wrote “True Believer” to share her story and help other parents and concerned adults who are struggling to understand the dynamics underneath the curr...
2023-04-071h 25
ericmckay4 's Listen LaterEp 197 Interview Sessions with Dr. Gordon Neufeld | Hold On To Your Kids Podcast: Always Better than Yesterday with Ryan Hartley | A Podcast for Heart Centred Leaders (LS 35 · TOP 3% what is this?)Episode: Ep 197 Interview Sessions with Dr. Gordon Neufeld | Hold On To Your KidsPub date: 2022-11-02Get Podcast Transcript →powered by Listen411 - fast audio-to-text and summarizationJoin our mail list here for exclusive content here.
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On episode 197 I am joined by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, author of the best selling book Hold on to Your Kids, co-authored wit...
2023-03-051h 04
Always Better than Yesterday with Ryan Hartley | A Podcast for Heart Centred LeadersInterview Sessions 2022 Highlights | Featuring Dr. Bruce Lipton, Dr. Gordon Neufeld and other incredible heart-centred leadersJoin our mail list here for exclusive content here.
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On this episode we reflect on the 2022 Interview Sessions and revisit some incredible guests who have joined us throughout the year. It really is a blessing to be able to share time and space both with yourselves and our world class guests.
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2022-12-211h 07
Always Better than Yesterday with Ryan Hartley | A Podcast for Heart Centred LeadersEp 197 Interview Sessions with Dr. Gordon Neufeld | Hold On To Your KidsJoin our mail list here for exclusive content here.
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On episode 197 I am joined by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, author of the best selling book Hold on to Your Kids, co-authored with Dr. Gabor Maté.
Before he retired, Dr. Gordon Neufeld had accumulated more than 40 years of experience as a clinical psychologist with children and youth and those responsible for them. A foremost authority on child development, Dr. Neufeld continues to be an international speaker, a best-selling author (Hold On to Your Kids) and a leading interpreter o...
2022-11-021h 04
De kracht van RelatieWe horen bij elkaar Deel 2In het 2e deel van het gesprek met Akky en Jovia spreekt Jovia hoe onbegrepen ze zich voelde door haar adoptieouders. Ze voelde zich na haar adoptie en 10 jaar als gezin samen in Uganda te hebben gewoond, vervreemd in een nieuwe (westerse) cultuur.Ze worstelde met de buitenwereld, zich afvragende waar ze nu echt hoorde en ze voelde zich eenzaam.
Akky was zoekende hoe ze haar steeds meer terugtrekkende dochter kon bereiken. Ze begonnen samen functioneel familie therapie te volgen en later kwam ze in aanraking met het werk van Gordon Neufeld.
Via het Neufeld Instituut l...
2022-06-3033 min
MOR RevolutionenInterview med Gordon Neufeld: Tilknytning (del 3)Her får I MOR Revolutionens tredje og sidste interview med Canadiske psykolog Dr. Gordon Neufeld, forfatter til bogen "Dit barn har brug for DIG" og ekspert i tilknytning. Her får du viden hvordan du kan gøre forældreskabet lettere, om at forældreskab ikke er noget vi lærer oppe i vores hoveder. Vi spørger Gordon Neufeld om børn kan blive FOR tilknyttede, om børn ville have bedre af ikke at gå i skole og vi taler ind i hvordan tryghed tilknytningen - relationen - til forældrene, er en tryghed og et skjold børn tager m...
2022-06-1250 minMOR RevolutionenInterview med Gordon Neufeld: Tilknytning (del 2)Her får du MOR Revolutionens andet interview med Canadiske psykolog Dr. Gordon Neufeld, forfatter til bogen "Dit barn har brug for DIG" og ekspert i tilknytning. Vi taler blandt andet ind i "Invitationen til at eksistere i vores nærvær" og det Dr. Neufeld kalder "Collect before you direct."Lyt med når Familie- og Selvværdscoach Cindy Nilsson og Familie- og IFS psykoterapeut Anna Vincentz MPF dykker ned i tilknytning. Du kan lære meget mere af Gordon Neufeld på www.neufeldkurser.dk
2022-03-2959 min
PG-ishHold their heart to capture their mind, featuring Dr. Gordon NeufeldSometimes it seems like as parents we work so hard to find the best way to parent our kiddos, only to miss the mark. Parenting strategies can be helpful, but if we're not paying attention to the big picture of building real connection, we lose sight of what matters. Dr. Gordon Neufeld is a developmental psychologist and author, whose ideas are based on the attachment theory of parenting. The way he dissects his thoughts today is almost poetic, as he explains why relationship and connection matter more than anything else we could possibly try to do....
2022-03-1514 min
Rodičovská posilovna44 - O rodičovství hrou a přístupu Gordon Neufelda - Ksienia Majznerová a Lina Vizelman, 1. díl - Host Rodičovské posilovnyVítejte u dalšího dílu podcastu Rodičovská posilovna, tentokrát mé pozvání přijaly Lina Vizelman a Ksienia Majznerová. Obě jsou psycholožky a psychoterapeutky a potkaly se při studiu vývojové teorie podle přístupu Gordon Neufelda. Řeč bude o rodičovství hrou, přístupu Gordona Neufelda, ale i o frustraci a hře v přírodě. Rozhovor s nimi vedl Honza Vávra.
Více na www.rodicovstvihrou.cz, případně na podpůrné facebookové skupině Rodičovství hrou – Vývojový přístup Gordona Neufelda, ale i v knihách
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2022-02-2426 minMOR RevolutionenInterview med Gordon Neufeld: Tilknytning (del 1)MOR Revolutionen talte med Canadiske psykolog Gordon Neufeld, som er ekspert i tilknytning, da han i 2018 var i Danmark. Her i del 1 taler vi ind i hvad forældre i dag har brug for at vide om tilknytning, hvordan vi skaber en tryg relation til vores børn, hvad et utrygt miljø er og hvad det gør ved vores børn, hvordan vi som forældre kan skabe et trygt miljø på trods af vores egne rigide mønstre, og hvilke redskaber vi allerede har for at vores børn kan mærke tryghed selv når vi ikke er sammen. Ly...
2022-02-121h 02
The Being Human Podcast with Richard Atherton#202 Hold on to Your Kids – with Dr. Gordon Neufeld> Sign Up For Our Newsletter: http://www.firsthuman.com/being-human-newsletter/
For any parents out there, our guest this week is Dr. Gordon Neufeld, author of Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers.
He speaks about the perils of peer attachment in our children and what we can do to win them back. I'm joined by a colleague in my co-working space, Suzanne, who is facing this right now, and Gordon provides Suzanne with some real-time advice, including sharing how he rescued his relationship with his own daughter.
We...
2022-02-111h 23
Confident Homeschool Mom PodcastHow Gordon Neufeld Informs my HomeschoolHow can you find community & connection & spend time considering how you can show up on purpose in your homeschool?
All you need is time and a bunch of books to prep for your homeschool.
Or you can join the Homeschool Mama Book Club and I’ll read it FOR you!
Last month, we discussed Gordon Neufeld’s book, Hold onto Your Kids. This month, we’ll discuss Marshall Rosenberg’s book, Nonviolent Communication.
We’ll discuss the principles behind different author’s influence can be in our homeschools.
This is how Gordo...
2022-01-2008 min
The Motherkind PodcastMOMENT | Why we all need this powerful mindset shift with Dr. Gordon NeufeldWelcome back to Moment. Moment is your place for calm and connection and maybe even a shift in perspective before the week ahead.I have a treat for you today. This clip is from my episode with Dr. Gordon Neufeld. He co-authored a parenting book with my all-time favourite Dr. Gabor Mate. He is one of the world’s leading child psychologists and has been for over 40 years.This clip is like a motivational speech. I have listened to it so many times, and sometimes I listen to the bit in this clip when I’m fe...
2022-01-1012 min
enVínculo7.1. Rabietas o ataques de ira - como un niño aprende a aceptar límitesEl enfado es una de las cosas más estresantes de la vida cotidiana, tanto el del niño como el nuestro como padres. Este episodio analiza por qué reaccionamos a los límites con frustración y el proceso que debe tener lugar en el cerebro para aceptar estos límites o "futilidades de la vida" desde dentro. La adaptación, según Gordon Neufeld, es uno de los tres procesos de maduración. Es lo que nos hace a los seres humanos adaptables.Referencias: Gordon Neufeld: Curso intensivo I Deborah Macnamara...
2021-11-2124 min
The Motherkind PodcastMOMENT | How to heal your deepest wounds with Gabor MatéWelcome back to the second ever Moment. Thank you for taking this moment for yourself to help you feel calmer, lighter and perhaps even shift your perspective a little before the busy week ahead.This week’s Moment is with Dr. Gabor Maté. I am sure you know of him. He is a renowned addiction expert, speaker and author and sought after for his expertise on trauma, addiction, stress and childhood development.This is one of the most powerful conversations I have ever had on the podcast. It is still the most downloaded ever to dat...
2021-11-0814 min
MOR RevolutionenGordon Neufeld’s 6 tilknytningstrinI dette afsnit i serien om tilknytning taler vi ind i Gordon Neufelds 6 tilknytningstrin. Tilknytning er ikke bare noget der handler om den tidlige del af livet og en tryg tilknytning er ikke bare noget vi har eller ikke har. Det er en process der varer hele livet og det er noget vi altid kan arbejde med og være nysgerrige på i os selv og i vores børn. Ifølge canadiske psykolog Gordon Neufeld, phd, som er forfatter til bogen "Hold on to you Kids" former tilknytningen sig i faser, der kan deles op i (1) sanser, (2) at være so...
2021-10-191h 21
Rogue LearnerPersonal Finance and Unschooling? Join me on the Show! Show Notes Hello Everyone and welcome to the Rogue Learner podcast. My name is Jenna Reich and I am the host of this show. Today is going to be a quick episode where I may ramble. I’ll try to keep it relevant to SDE, but with no promises! The first thing I want to share is a bit about my daughter’s experience so far going back to the school system and my son’s new opportunities after moving Stateside. And since I’m doing a solo sho...
2021-09-1523 min
Family 360 PodcastDr. Gordon Neufeld - True Play & The Six Stages Of AttachmentThis episode is a popular repeat from season one of family360 and our first interview (of two so far) with Dr. Gordon Neufeld. In this episode, he identifies the six stages of attachment upon which a child builds their ongoing capacity for caring and for relationships. Dr. Neufeld is a world leader in child growth and development and attachment theory. He is also the author of the international best-selling book, Hold Onto Your Kids.
2021-08-0353 min
The Motherkind PodcastHow to raise emotionally healthy children with Dr. Gordon NeufeldDr. Gordon Neufeld is one of the world’s leading child psychologists. I discovered his work because he co-authored a book with Gabor Mate. Who, as you know if you have been a long-time listener, has been on the podcast and has had a huge impact on me. That episode is still one of the most downloaded that we have ever had on the podcast. Gordon co-authored a book with Gabor called Hold on To Your Kids.Scheduling this episode has been 2 years in the making. I really want to speak with the leading authorities in their fi...
2021-07-0856 min
Family 360 PodcastDr. Gord Neufeld - The Essential Nature of Play In this episode, author and developmental theorist, Dr. Gordon Neufeld, describes the 7 properties of true play. He identifies play as a basic human drive that starts at birth and remains essential throughout all of life. Globally, psychologists pinpoint loss of play as central to the rise in anxiety, depression, and mental suffering in children and adults. “True play,” says Dr. Neufeld, “takes care of our emotions, opens the door to our potential, and is nature's way of taking care of us.” For more see https://www.family360podcast.com
2021-02-0253 minFamily 360 PodcastDr. Gordon Neufeld - The Essential Nature Of PlayIn this episode, author and developmental theorist, Dr. Gordon Neufeld, describes the 7 properties of true play. He identifies play as a basic human drive that starts at birth and remains essential throughout all of life. Globally, psychologists pinpoint loss of play as central to the rise in anxiety, depression and mental suffering in children and adults.
“True play,” says Dr Neufeld, “takes care of our emotions, opens the door to our potential, and is nature’s way of taking care of us.”
2021-02-0253 min
Keep Calm Mother On! with Christy ThomasPlayfulness & Emotional Health: Check Yourself (Best of the Show)The best gift of all is time. For the next two Friday's I'm picking from the archives so I can enjoy more quality family time. Merry Christmas! Happy Holidays! Happy New Year! Christy "Playfulness is a huge indicator of our emotional health." Dr. Gordon Neufeld Episode 62 Want to read more about play? Dr. Stuart Brown and Dr. Gordon Neufeld both have great books and talks on YouTube. Write this on a post-it—Saying yes to play daily is living...
2020-12-2511 min
The Mental Health Boot Camp PodcastEpisode 11: AttachmentWhat is attachment theory, and what do early childhood relationships have to do with adult relationships? If we had challenges with bonding as a kid, how can we address this as an adult? These listener questions are addressed today, as well as an overview of the Canadian governmental system and presidential debates in the US. And fashion.
Also, we announce our new YouTube channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuKgXHRmkAb8i9ZbHOBpWVw
Contact us: info@mentalhealthbootcamp.com
Attachment theory: https://www.simplypsychology.org/attachment.html
John Bowlby: https://www.simplypsychology.org/b...
2020-10-0240 min
Family 360 PodcastDr Gordon Neufeld True Play - Part 2 In this episode, Child Psychologist, Author, and Developmental Theorist, Dr. Neufeld describes play as the “elixir” to healthy growth and development in all relationships including marriage. He explains The Pyramid of Potential; describing potential as a reality, fostered through attachment, emotional expression, rest and play. Dr. Neufeld calls this, ‘the irreducible needs of a child’.
For more see https://www.family360podcast.com
2020-02-0532 minFamily 360 PodcastEp. 6 | Dr. Gordon Neufeld | True Play Part 2In this episode, Child Psychologist, Author and Developmental Theorist, Dr Neufeld describes play as the “elixir” to healthy growth and development in all relationships including marriage. He explains The Pyramid of Potential; describing potential as a reality, fostered through attachment, emotional expression, rest and play. Dr Neufeld calls this, ‘the irreducible needs of a child’.
2020-02-0432 minKeep Calm Mother On! with Christy ThomasPlayfulness & Emotional Health: Check Yourself."Playfulness is a huge indicator of our emotional health." Dr. Gordon Neufeld Episode 62 Want to read more about play? Dr. Stuart Brown and Dr. Gordon Neufeld both have great books and talks on YouTube. Write this on a post it—Saying yes to play daily is living rest. Self-Care: Make a list of 10 play ideas for YOU that take less than 5 minutes. Play Idea: Practice saying the word "Bubbles" in an ANGRY voice. Try it. I promise it is harder than it sound...
2020-01-2410 minFamily 360 PodcastEp. 5 | Dr. Gordon Neufeld | True Play Part 1In this episode, Child Psychologist, Author, and Developmental Theorist, Dr. Gordon Neufeld, outlines 6 stages of growth and development for building ‘capacity for relationship’ within ourselves and with others. He describes ‘togetherness’ as a human instinct, paramount to even survival instinct, augmenting current scientific discovery on the necessity of enduring attachment, in both children and adults.
2020-01-2135 minPG-ishBe the center of their universe, featuring Gordon NeufeldGordon Neufeld talks about how kids need us, their parents, more than they need their peers. Our children need friends, but their peer group is on their same level. They need true leaders to expand their possibilities. Friends should not replace the role of the parent. You can find the full clip here: https://youtu.be/UlMkWJY5T_w Learn more about Gordon Neufeld and the Neufeld Institute here: https://neufeldinstitute.org/ Hold On to Your Kids (book): https://amzn.to/2FbbTOF We'd love to know what you t...
2020-01-0711 min
The Parenting 3.0 Show - Raising Emotionally Healthy KidsAttachment Theory - Part 2: The Strange Situation and BeyondThis week, Jai and Deb continue their exploration of Attachment Theory, beginning with a deep dive into the now famous set of experiments known as the Strange Situation in which early attachment researchers observed what happens when mothers and their babies are introduced to strangers. This research is where the idea that people have either secure or insecure attachment styles originated.
In the second half of the show, Jai and Deb go beyond the Strange Situation to discuss a more current, and more nuanced, version of Attachment Theory, based on the pioneering work of Dr. Gordon Neufeld, wh...
2019-10-2251 min
Parenting Human BeingsEpisode 5: Into the Heart of SuicideThe Parenting Human Beings Podcast was humbled and privileged to host and create the Into the Heart of Trauma Conference in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada from April 8-10, 2019 which featured Dr. Gordon Neufeld and 9 other presenters over the 3 days. In this podcast episode I release a lecture that I did at the conference on April 10, 2019 entitled Into the Heart of Suicide where I presented on the topic of suicide primarily through the lens of Dr. Neufeld’s attachment based developmental paradigm while weaving my personal journey and insights throughout and sharing how I have been touched by suicide and domestic vi...
2019-05-2000 min
Catching FoxesHold On!!!We talk breakdown of the West, the terribleness of politics, why the Extremists are running the centrists off, and Hold On to Your Kids! I want to give a special thanks to our sponsors, "The Five Ways of St. Thomas Aquinas" on Kickstarter and Strive21 (https://www.cardinalstudios.org/a/13029/T4BdJv2Q).Sponsored By:The Five Ways of St. Thomas Aquinas: Support Matt Fradd's beautiful new book on Kickstarter today!Strive21 Break Free from Porn: Don't have this year be just like last year. Kick porn to the curb with Strive 21!Support Catching Foxes
2019-03-221h 34
The Mind Renewed with Julian CharlesTMR 215 : K. Gordon Neufeld : Stories of Extreme BeliefsWe welcome once again the author K. Gordon Neufeld, one-time member of the so-called Unification Church of Sun Myung Moon, who joined us in 2014 to speak about the history, beliefs and practices of the Moonies, and to share with us from his experiences of joining, serving and eventually leaving that organisation. This time he joins us to speak about his new book, Prophet and Loss : Stories of Extreme Beliefs, a collection of short fiction that effectively illustrates the painful dilemmas and heart-rending sacrifices of people who adopt extreme beliefs, and of those who know and love them. For show notes...
2019-01-181h 00
The Mind Renewed : Thinking Christianly in a New World OrderTMR 215 : K. Gordon Neufeld : Stories of Extreme BeliefsWe welcome once again the author K. Gordon Neufeld, one-time member of the so-called Unification Church of Sun Myung Moon, who joined us in 2014 to speak about the history, beliefs and practices of the Moonies, and to share with us from his experiences of joining, serving and eventually leaving that organisation.
This time he joins us to speak about his new book, Prophet and Loss : Stories of Extreme Beliefs, a collection of short fiction that effectively illustrates the painful dilemmas and heart-rending sacrifices of people who adopt extreme beliefs, and of those who know and love them.
For show notes...
2019-01-181h 00The Mind Renewed with Julian CharlesTMR 215 : K. Gordon Neufeld : Stories of Extreme BeliefsWe welcome once again the author K. Gordon Neufeld, one-time member of the so-called Unification Church of Sun Myung Moon, who joined us in 2014 to speak about the history, beliefs and practices of the Moonies, and to share with us from his experiences of joining, serving and eventually leaving that organisation.This time he joins us to speak about his new book, Prophet and Loss : Stories of Extreme Beliefs, a collection of short fiction that effectively illustrates the painful dilemmas and heart-rending sacrifices of people who adopt extreme beliefs, and of those who know and love them.
2019-01-181h 00
Conversation With Alanis MorissetteGordon NeufeldIn this episode, Alanis talks with Gordon Neufeld about developmental psychology, the power to parent, and the value in staying connected with our children as they get older. Below is a book by Gordon Neufeld: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers
2018-09-111h 13
Projeto do CoraçãoCrie a Sua Comunidade – Taritha Gomes #23Comunidade
Você tem uma boa comunidade ao seu redor? Não estou perguntando se você tem muitos amigos, ou conhece muita gente... Estou perguntando se a sua família está inserida em relacionamentos transparentes, vulneráveis e intencionais, onde não é necessário usar nenhuma máscara. Comunidade... todos nós precisamos e desejamos, mas poucos temos.
Antigamente, isso acontecia com mais naturalidade. Uma vizinha ficava de olho nos filhos da outra quando estavam na rua... quando uma mãe ficava doente a amiga vinha ajudar... quando quebrava o carro os vizinhos empurravam o carro... A realidade que vivemos hoje é de uma socied...
2018-07-271h 01
Tune In To The Most Ground-Breaking Full Audiobook Today!Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gabor Maté, Gordon NeufeldPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/356196to listen full audiobooks.
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Length: 14 hours 12 minutes
Release date: July 24, 2018
Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.88 of Total 25
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Genres: Mental Health & Psychology
Publisher's Summary:
This parenting classic on one of the most disturbing and misunderstood trends of our time--peers replacing parents in the lives of children--is now more relevant than ever. The latest edition includes new material on how social media and video game culture are af...
2018-07-242h 12Escape To Into A Life-Enhancing Full Audiobook Right Now.Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gabor Maté, Gordon NeufeldPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/356196to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers
Author: Gabor Maté, Gordon Neufeld
Narrator: Daniel Maté
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 14 hours 12 minutes
Release date: July 24, 2018
Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.88 of Total 25
Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 9
Genres: Relationships & Intimacy
Publisher's Summary:
This parenting classic on one of the most disturbing and misunderstood trends of our time--peers replacing parents in the lives of children--is now more relevant than ever. The latest edition includes new material on how social media and video game culture are affecting ou...
2018-07-242h 12
Immerse Yourself In Into A Best-Selling Full Audiobook Between Meetings.Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld, Gabor Maté MDPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/171944to listen full audiobooks.
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Length: 14 hrs and 12 mins
Release date: 07-24-18
Ratings: 5 out of 5 stars, 1,041 ratings
Genres: Teenagers
Publisher's Summary:
Dr. Neufeld and Dr. Maté explore the phenomenon of peer orientation: the troubling tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction—for a sense of right and wrong, for values, identity and codes of behavior. But peer orientation undermines family cohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters an aggressively hostil...
2018-07-242h 12Get Top Full Audiobooks in Health & Wellness, Relationships & IntimacyHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gabor Maté, Gordon NeufeldPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/356196to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers
Author: Gabor Maté, Gordon Neufeld
Narrator: Daniel Maté
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 14 hours 12 minutes
Release date: July 24, 2018
Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.88 of Total 25
Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 9
Genres: Relationships & Intimacy
Publisher's Summary:
This parenting classic on one of the most disturbing and misunderstood trends of our time--peers replacing parents in the lives of children--is now more relevant than ever. The latest edition includes new material on how social media and video game culture are affecting ou...
2018-07-242h 12
Julie in ConversationDr. Gordon Neufeld, developmental psychologist and best-selling author helps us make sense of our kids.Dr. Gordon Neufeld joins the conversation to help us make sense of our kids, empower our parenting and re-connect us to our natural intuition as parents, educators, guides, mentors, and human beings responsible for the children we care for and love.
2018-03-1452 minThe Mind Renewed : Thinking Christianly in a New World OrderTMR 090 : K. Gordon Neufeld : One Writer's Creative Journey Through an Extreme ReligionOur guest this week is once again the author K. Gordon Neufeld, one-time member of the so-called Unification Church of Sun Myung Moon, who joined us earlier this year to speak about the history, beliefs and practices of the Moonies, and to share with us from his experiences of joining, serving and eventually leaving that organisation. This time he joins us for a frank and deeply personal discussion of the more psychological aspects of his experience, with reference to his creative writing over the years as contained in his new book, Cult Fiction : One Writer's Creative Journey Through an Extreme...
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